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benny blanco Made a 'List' for Future Wife with Therapist Before Selena

By On Air With Ryan Seacrest

April 1, 2025

Did benny blanco manifest his engagement with Selena Gomez? The producer made a list of everything he wanted in the perfect partner with his therapist before the duo got engaged. Tanya Rad shared on-air this is essentially what she did with her "Calling In the One" workbook.

During a chat with Jay Shetty the music producer revealed that he made a list of "all the things I want" in a woman before he met Selena.

"Before I met her, I was a guy in L.A. trying to find the one for me and I was having some trouble. I think I was maybe not looking in all the right places," Blanco, 37, said. "I was like okay — it’s time to be a grown up, I want to start a life, I want to have a family, I want to find a person that is like my other half that makes me feel better and I make them feel better. It’s a give and take, the perfect yin and yang, so I wrote down a list."

benny went on to give some details on his list:

*age appropriate (which to him was 30 plus)

*someone who is kind, compassionate and caring

"I was like, 'That’s really three-in-one but I need someone who is nice. A genuine nice person.'"

Would you do this?? If so, check out Tanya's workbook she swears by here.

This story originally appeared in On Air With Ryan Seacrest

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