Been There Got Out Podcast

Navigating the tangled web of divorce law requires more than just a sharp legal mind; it demands a heart attuned to the emotional whirlwinds faced by those in the throes of marital dissolution. In our latest episode, we're joined by New York matrimonial attorney Ian Steinberg, who shares his insightful journey from real estate to family law, highlighting the profound ways empathy and communication shape his practice. With a ca...

Facing the stormy seas of legal disputes can be a daunting voyage, especially when domestic abuse and financial strains are at the helm. Brittany Blaney of Elm Law and Divorce Buddy joins us to navigate through these turbulent waters, offering her seasoned perspectives on legal abuse in the family law realm. Our conversation charts a course through the complexities of combatting such abuse within the judicial system, where Brittany...

Navigating the labyrinth of family court is daunting enough, but when you're contending with a disability, the stakes and stress can multiply. That's where Donna Drumm steps in – a New York attorney and certified advocate for Americans with Disabilities who joins us to shed light on the less-discussed accommodations in family court. Donna's expertise offers a lifeline to those feeling overwhelmed, providing key insig...

Unlock the secrets to successfully selling your home during the emotional maelstrom of a divorce with help from Jen Purzycki of Purzycki. As a certified real estate divorce specialist, Jen brings a compassionate yet strategic approach to navigating the choppy waters of property sales amidst separation. Together, we explore the nooks and crannies of splitting assets and addressing the unique challenges of high-conflict resolution, o...

Navigating the turbulent waters of co-parenting after a high-conflict divorce can be an emotional rollercoaster for everyone involved. We're fortunate to have Asia Scarlett-Jones, a seasoned family law attorney from New York City, join us to explore the complexities and emotional impact of custody disputes. Her insights are poignant, highlighting the importance of prioritizing children's welfare above all and addressing t...

Join us for a captivating discussion with the wonderful Chelsey Brooke Cole, a narcissistic abuse recovery therapist and author, as we eagerly await the launch of her insightful book, "If I'd Only Known." In our conversation, we navigate the complexities of narcissism and the journey towards healing from relational trauma. Chelsey expertly dissects her book's three-part structure: unraveling the intricacies of n...

Unlock the secrets of navigating financial turmoil during divorce with Rhonda Noordyk, the visionary behind the Women's Financial Wellness Center. Our conversation is an expedition through the landscape of trauma-informed financial guidance, where emotional intelligence is as crucial as the numbers themselves. Rhonda's transformation from academic to champion of women's financial literacy lays the groundwork for our ...

Unlock the secrets to transforming parenthood's toughest moments with Dr. Wayne Benenson, our guiding light through the tumult of raising children with behavioral challenges. This episode is a treasure trove for any parent facing the daunting task of addressing violent behavior in their little ones. Dr. Wayne brings clarity to the storm, helping us understand the nuances between oppositional defiance and conditions like ADHD t...

Unlock the secrets to navigating high-conflict divorces with the expertise of our friend Joy Rosenthal, a divorce mediator and law professor with a deep understanding of child representation. In this episode, Joy illuminates the often overlooked emotional needs of children during familial discord, offering profound insights into prioritizing their well-being. We embark on a journey through the shortcomings of the legal system and t...

Unlock the secrets of safeguarding your digital life as we welcome back Vance Long, a renowned privacy and cybersecurity expert, to illuminate the dark corners of digital surveillance. Our journey through the unsettling themes of Dave Eggers' novel "The Every" reveals how the surveillance industry has evolved into a lucrative business. Vance adeptly navigates the complexities of protecting both our physical and digit...

Unlock the secrets of nurturing your child's resilience, even during the most turbulent of life's transitions. With Dr. Alina Boie, a veteran child psychologist, by our side, we traverse the complex emotional landscape that children must navigate when faced with changes such as parental separation or divorce. Dr. Boie brings to light the incredible adaptability of young minds and the significant influence parents have as ...

When Caroline Strawson walked away from her career in podiatry, she stepped into a world where healing takes on an entirely different meaning. Her journey through the shadowy valleys of narcissistic abuse has not only reshaped her life but also forged her into a beacon of hope for others battling similar demons. Our latest conversation with Caroline, a trauma therapist and coach, dissects the harrowing impact of trauma on individua...

It's one thing to navigate the choppy waters of divorce, but quite another to emerge with familial bonds intact. In a heart-to-heart with seasoned mediator and CUNY Law professor Joy Rosenthal, we peel back the layers of family law mediation, uncovering the delicate art of maintaining connections in the wake of separation. Our conversation is a deep dive into the dynamics of difficult personalities and the pivotal role mediato...

Growing up under the shadow of a narcissistic parent can shape your world in unimaginable ways, and that's a reality Adrienne knows all too well. Her story, which she graciously shares with us, isn't just about the struggles and the scars — it's also about the resilience and personal triumph that can emerge from such adversity. She digs deep into her past to unravel the complexities of a strained mother-daughter rela...

The sting of betrayal and the weight of false accusations can leave scars that are both unseen and deeply felt. That's the heart of our latest conversation with Tracy Malone, a renowned expert on narcissistic abuse. Tracy doesn't just recount her story; she paints a vivid picture of manipulation and the legal entanglements that can ensnare the most unsuspecting of victims. Her insight into the complexities of domestic inc...

Discover the keys to guiding your children with compassion through the seismic shifts of divorce, as we converse with the distinguished team of Dr. Wayne and Dr. Barb. Our discussion sheds light on how parents can tend to their emotional landscape even as they steward their children through these trying times. Dr. Wayne, harnessing his extensive background in teaching and mindfulness, offers profound insights on softening the harsh...

Unlock the complexities of reproductive rights and IVF in the context of custody cases as we join forces with Jacob Schuman, an expert embryologist whose mastery of the field guides us through the maze of embryo disputes when couples part ways. Our candid conversation sheds light on what happens to those tiny potential lives amidst the turmoil of divorce, underlining the monumental significance of consent forms that foresee the mos...

Unlock the complexities of family law as we navigate the sensitive terrain of parenting plans for newborns and infants with California's seasoned family law attorney, Brian Pakpour. Delve into the seismic shifts affecting pregnant women contemplating separation, including the constitutional implications of the Roe v. Wade overturn and the intricate balance between a child's right to dual parental relationships and the pra...

Steer your divorce towards a resolution without draining your wallet OR your well-being, as veteran Chicago area family lawyer Raiford Palmer joins us. Raiford brings his extensive knowledge to the forefront, dissecting the common blunders that often drag out the divorce process. We explore the dangers of enlisting overly combative legal representation, the pitfalls of poor communication, and the financial gamble of letting emotion...