The Art of Love Podcast

The Art of Love Podcast

Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!

Episodes

April 22, 2025 9 mins

Is your breakup permanent or is it just a temporary detour on the path to forever?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 8 signs you and your ex may get back together.


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By refusing to engage in your ex's breadcrumbs, you show self respect, deny your ex validation and force them to confront their true intentions.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down why ignoring insignificant messages is a silent power move that puts you back in control.

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There are 2 parts to getting an ex back - no contact and after no contact.  If you mess up once you're back in touch with your ex, you'll lower your chances of getting them back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do once you hear from your ex.

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If your ex is an avoidant, there's a good chance you're anxious.  If you let your anxiety take over when you're trying to get your ex back, your chances of success are very low.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you absolutely must do if you want your avoidant ex back.

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Exes come back because they miss you and they realized what they lost when they broke up with you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares how to motivate your ex to change their mind about the breakup and reach out.

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Believe it or not, even though your ex broke up with you, they do want to talk with you, even if weeks or months have gone by.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why your ex wants to talk, even if they haven't reached out yet.

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There's a quote that says, "Dumper: Laugh Now, Cry Later.  Dumpee:  Cry Now, Laugh Later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why eventually your ex will feel worse and you will feel better.

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The no contact phase of a breakup is simple, but not easy. Where people make the most mistakes is AFTER no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 3 biggest mistakes that will ruin your chances of getting your ex back.

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Your mind is not your friend during no contact.  It wants a dopamine hit and will lie to you to get you to break no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the biggest lies your mind tells you after a breakup.

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Is your ex in pain, even though they dumped you?  If so, what are some signs that they're suffering as much, if not more, than you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about whether your ex is in pain and the signs to look for.

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Are you tempted to break no contact out of curiosity, just to see if your ex might still be interested?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you're asking to be rejected twice when you break no contact.

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What happens when your ex finally feels your loss after dumping you?  Will they immediately contact you and say they want you back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what to expect after you've been dumped and you go into no contact.

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What happens when you simply disappear after being dumped?  What will your ex be feeling?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares exactly how your ex will feel when you go into no contact and stay there.

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It may be hard to believe that your ex is still thinking about you, especially if they're an avoidant.  However, they probably are.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 4 reasons why your ex is still thinking about you.

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If an avoidant ex misses you, they'll rarely let you know directly.  However, there will always be signs.  In this video dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the signs that your avoidant ex misses you.

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Avoidants are love being independent and autonomous.  Is it possible to make them miss you if they're broken up with you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares her secrets on how to get an avoidant ex to miss you

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Did your ex ever care about you or were you gaslighting yourself into thinking they did?  If you've been dumped, realizing they didn't care may help you to move on.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 12 signs your ex never cared about you.

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In order for your ex to break up with you, their interest level had to go below 50%.  However, that doesn't mean it won't go back up after the breakup.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why even though you ex doesn't care about you now, they will care later.

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December 16, 2024 12 mins

Before your ex can change their mind and decide they made a mistake and want you back, they need to feel as if they have truly lost you.  Dating'/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do in order for your ex to feel the loss and start to reconsider their decision.

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Mark as Played

If you want your ex back, there's something you shouldn't ask them, once you're in contact with them again.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you should never ask your ex after no contact.

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