The Day We Got Relationship Advice

Matthew Hussey joins us to help us get the guy, we argue if brunch can be a date, and we find out why you're happy today!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:04):
I think Elvis is hilarious on the spot. He always
has something funny to say. Oh my god, hysterical, so funny,
they will make me smile, so confusing. Oh my gosh, Elvis,
I'm so excited to be on the phone with you
right now. No, no, no, no, all the excitement is out.
I'm leaving. I'm walking away. I like to hear that

(00:29):
other people have issues too. I love this feeling of
a cute tip in my ear. Hysterical, hysterical. I love it.
Stick that in your pipe and sell it. Sylvie Story
in the morning Show, Tell you last night. Another example
of Hey, there'll be time to sleep when we're day.
Do you know what. I live in New York City, Yeah,

(00:51):
and I'm still single for another month, right, so I'm
out with friends, heaving fun. We went to Faroce for dinner.
We were out late, this party in celebrating a friend's
birth day, and I looked up and went, oh, I
gotta go to bed, And they're like, wow, I have
one more. Okay. I mean we didn't drink a lot,
but it was one of those nights where I should
have been at home, like just getting ready for sleep. Yeah,
you know what, the last two nights you went to
bed at eight, so you kind of made up for

(01:14):
I live in New York City. Yeah, if I lived
somewhere else that was a little quieter, that rolled up
the carpet a little earlier, it'd be different. But no, Yeah, York.
Blame the city. The city. Like I said, I'm single
for one more month, exactly a month from today. Yeah,
one month from today, I'm getting married. So we got
to talk about that. What can I cannot do in
the next month. Well, there's some things you can't do.

(01:39):
I mean, okay, so who said that? Froggy Tallex. Maybe
let's move on and let's play some music. I can't
read your mind. Gotta stay this. Should I take a little?
Should I take that? I got a whole lot of
acting because you know, I'm a high girls that you
know she could start it is what it is. She

(02:02):
a big golf beet. Am I a girl? Here you go?
No one's loving it more than a diamond. You were
going crazy microphones over here. Look come on, now, come on,
come on, come on, I'm here, I'm ready. We're gonna

(02:25):
play you some ratchet, ratchet music at my wedding. I
want to Oh it's going down. You don't understand. I
know it's gonna be a crazy night, you know. Okay, Diamond, Look,
you're the youngest one in the room. I have one
month until I get married. Should I go ahead and
just have some fun? And? Yeah? So so what are
the boundaries? That's the question? Are there any now? There
should be? Okay? Fine, I know, but you know what,

(02:47):
So what will change when I get married? I got
I gotta figure that out. But you're supposed to live
when you're married too. Yeah, so you know, do you Okay?
I would say I have enough fun, but don't cheat.
I think Diamond gave us the answer. When you get married,
have to do you because because no one else will
do myself, well, welcome to the day. It is Wednesday,

(03:09):
August fourteenth. Our friend Matthew Hussey is here a little
bit later. We haven't seen him so long, and for
whatever reason, we'll see him a little bit. Also, we've
got the typical bs that we bring your way. Daniel's
already shopping online now, but I'm actually looking up a
story about jay Z and rock Nation. What's going on there? Oh,
they're doing a whole bunch of really cool things. For activism,
and they're getting together with the NFL, so they're doing

(03:30):
a lot of good stuff. Very cool. What are you
working on over there, Gandhi? I had LUNs three things
you need to know. Okay, we'll get into those in
a second. H Max the dog, Max the dog is
shaking it out under. I gotta tell you. I walked
Max out the front door of my apartment this morning,
and it took us twenty minutes. What is that noise?
It took it took twenty minutes to get off my blocking.

(03:51):
He had to sniff and pee on everything. Why do
they do that? Because they do you know that. You
know what they do? They sniff other dogs p That's
how they kind of they have a log of who's
been there on the same spot as another dog. Or
do they go to a different territory? No, no no, no, no,
that's the thing. No, if that's the thing. If a
dog peas, there's a good chance another dog's and a

(04:12):
pet in the same exact place. Okay, kind of kinky.
We do the same thing in toilet, ye, I don't
sniff it first. Good. Maybe we should talk to our
first caller of the day. It's Jerry. How you doing Jerry. Hey,
I'm doing well. Hello lady, Hello lady. So Jerry is
deployed to Japan tomorrow. Yes, you know. I have you

(04:33):
been to Japan before moving out there? I actually lived
there in about a couple of years ago. And sinthing
with the military will will be out there. So been
listening to you guys soon as the Pajama Parties Day
with Danielle back in the Nightties a long time ago.
So you know our our producer Sam just got back
from Japan. I mean, can he listen to us in Japan? Yeah? Absolutely,

(04:56):
just have an app with you listening through the app.
But it's kind of like listening on the future. I'll
be listening on Monday shows on Tuesday. Okay, all right,
all right, it's okay. But Japan fantastic. Now we're in Japan,
are you are you going to be living I'm going
to a town south in Okinawa, so not Tokyo where
Sam was. But and do you speak the language? Good

(05:16):
island wider a little bit enough to get through, but
not doing it at all. This is why you know,
all of us ego blasted Americans were so excited to
go anywhere in the world, and they usually speak English
for us. Yeah, you know, it's all good. But Jerry,
thank you for serving our country, thank you for serving
our world. We love you, and we're gonna we're gonna
send you an Elvis Dran shirt. I don't know what
we're gonna get it to you, but we're gonna try. Okay,

(05:38):
please ruin it for me. We will. We're gonna ruin
it for you and have a beautiful time in Japan.
Thank you so much. Now, how long you're gonna be there? Um?
Probably a two three years. Life is an adventure. Thank you. Jay.
There you go. Our first caller of the day leaves
for Japan tomorrow. That's awesome. What are we doing tomorrow?
We'll stay home. Yea. Let's go round the room, Danielle.
What's on your mind today? So? I have one of

(05:59):
those voices like sounds like Elmo a lot of the time.
But when hey, but when I have a cold, which
I'm battling right now, it sounds better. So I feel
like I should have a cold all the time because
I feel like my voice gets down, goes down an octave, yeah,
and it gets a little bit lower and it sounds
normal when that's a goal. Yeah, so you're at your

(06:21):
usual masculine there's some guy over there. It's not a guy,
that's Danielle. What's up with you? Well? I think I
may need some help at this point, because I almost
risked missing the start of the show by standing in
line for Starbucks because I refused to take the regular

(06:41):
hole being coffee because I wanted them to go look
in the back for an organic version. And now I'm wondering,
is it really that worth it? Am I really doing
anything different? No, you'll come here and don't eat organic? Ever,
the first one to not eat organic? Do we all
vote that Scary is the most bougiest person we've ever man,
the guy who would spend an extra two dollars just

(07:02):
to prove to himself that he can have a problem
though I go to Duncan you do anyway? What's up
with you? Today? My one and only Gandhi? Hello, I too.
I went out last night. I was out pretty late
because I went to Tutsi on Broadway and I loved it.
It was really cute. It's a fun show. It was fun.
I laughed a lot more than I thought I would.

(07:23):
The seats were great. If you have a chance to
go see TUTSI you should. It was awesome, Okay, good,
Thank you for supporting our Broadway. Thank you for allowing
me to go to these things. And you know, wake
up so early in the morning. You know you live
in New York City. You stay up late with friends
and go out at these beautiful restaurants and bars where
you can go see a show. This place is okay,
it smells like pee and pot, right, but it's a
great place. New smell every block, Yes, there's a new

(07:44):
smell every block? All right? Producer Sam, who you doing
horse coops? I'd love to do with Gandhikay, Thanks Carl.
If you're celebrating your birthday today, you celebrate with Mila
Kunis who is thirty six, Halle Berry who's fifty three,
and Spencer Pratt, also thirty six. Capricorn. You may discover
a new hidden talent. Take the time to help this flourish.
It may open some new doors. Your day is a

(08:04):
nine Aquarius. You may feel on the edge and have
no idea why you aren't going crazy. Relieve the stress
by exercising or reading. Your day's an eight Pisces. Step
the unnecessary worrying. If you push yourself too hard, you're
gonna drive yourself crazy. Go with the flow. Your day
is a seven aries. You are so close to attaining
a goal. Give it that last little sprint of energy

(08:26):
to complete it. You got this your days of nine Taurus.
Things are great, but you can't help by get trapped
by getting trapped in your own thoughts. Take each moment
as it comes. Don't overthink. Your day isn't eight Gemini.
If you're bored with the everyday routine, it might be
time to get away for a while. Book a trip,
spice things up your days of nine cancer. Don't take
your stress out on those closest to you. They're only

(08:48):
here to help. Allow them to do that. Your day
is a nine Leo. Remember that your actions can make
a positive difference. Use this power to help those less
fortunate than you. Your days of ten Virgo, make time
in your busy schedule to relax self. Health is more
important than your tasks. Don't forget that your day is
a nine Libra. Someone new and exciting will come into
your life, whether it's romantic or not. Cherish this new bond.

(09:12):
Your day's at ten Scorpio. You won't accomplish anything if
you work yourself into a panic, So stop your mind
from going in different directions. Your day is an ape
and Sagittarius. You have important decisions to make. Take a
step back and wait your options. Do what's best for you.
Your day is at ten, and those are your Wednesday
morning horiscope, Pervetto. Let's get into the three things you

(09:33):
need to know. What are they? Gandhi? Well, the Manhattan
Federal Detention Center staffers who are assigned to watch Jeffrey
Epstein reportedly slept for most of the time they were
supposed to be yeah, checking in on them every thirty minutes.
Apparently they fell asleep for hours for sleep ye, yeah,
three hours. I can see all of us doing that,
and that is why we are not in positions of
power to be watching people. All right, Remember those stories.

(09:55):
There were a couple last week about pilots being drunk
on the way out and people, yeah, you're drunk. Well.
United Airlines is implementing a new rule. It's called bottle
to throttle. That's what they call it in the industry.
How long you can drink before you get on the plane.
It used to be eight hours. Now they're making it twelve.
They're calling bottle to throttle. Well, that's what they've always
called it, the bottle to throttle ratio. I think we
don't have that in radio. You would never be allowed

(10:16):
in the cudio. Hello. Yeah, here we had bottle to
bottle exactly, bottle to wattle. And finally, Snapchat's parent company
coming out with some new smart sunglasses. I don't know
if you guys saw this. They're called the Spectacles three
and they have video recording abilities and three D effects.
They're going to be really expensive though, about three hundred
and eighty bucks, which is more than twice the price

(10:36):
of the current Snapchat sunglasses. So remind me not to
get those. Don't get them? You guys ready for Wednesday? Yeah?
What's happened? Demi Lavano? Okay, this is Alicia Keys. It's
Camilabo Elvis Duran in the Morning showing Charing brought to
you by Blinded by the Light for anyone who's ever
had a dream You're not alone. From the director of
Bendett like Beckham, Grinder Chada, inspired by a true story

(10:58):
and the music and lyrics Ruce Springsteen in theaters Friday.
I'm looking down the list of what it is today
Today's National vjay Day, Today's National cream sickle Day. Oh,
today's National Social Security Day. Okay, but it's National tattoo

(11:19):
Removal Day. Sign me up. You know what you mean? Gandhi?
Do you have a tattoo you wan't removed? I do?
Or I either need to get it removed or I
need to get it vastly improved. What is it? What
is it? So my boyfriend who passed away, I got
his nickname tattooed on me a long time ago. But
it was like, it's like a jailhouse tattoo. It's so ugly.
The script is terrible. It's like bled over the years.

(11:42):
It's kind of like expanded. It's just it's can get
it fixed? Yeah? I should completely, you know. I think
if you're desperate, you can just gnaw it off with
your teeth. I thought about that a couple of times. Well,
where is it. It's on my hip here, let's show
it to us. Oh god, it's so bad. I'm going
to see you take your pants off. Yeah. I kind
of have to you a little bit, all right, you
see it? Can you see it? Yeah? Don't take that off?

(12:04):
You know what, here's the thing if a tattoo is
as long as it's not overwhelmingly massive. If a tattoo
is a piece of your history, whether you think it's
artistic or whatever or not, it's a part of your life. Yeah,
I've thought about that. So that's why sometimes I think
maybe I'll just get it changed into something new, because
I feel like I've changed into something new over the years,

(12:26):
So maybe I can still have a little bit of
a tribute to him without it being that ratchet jailhouse
green whatever it is. Yeah, it's so bad, well, I know,
but still, once you get a tattoo, you know you're signing.
You're signing on the dotted line for something very permanent.
I know. I know you can change it. I know
you can remove it. I see. I love my only

(12:47):
of two and I love mine. I love my little
hearts that I have on my wrist, but I want
to get them colored in because they're just black. So
my husband says, you know what those look like. It
looks like someone took your arm in the jail and
fought to get that tattoo. Wrist said. I love it.
I think it's mode. It's like, no, it's not so cute.
I'm just waiting for the day I'll get the focus

(13:08):
to come up with a tattoo for my body. Anyway,
I'm not afraid to get a tattoo. I'm just I'm
afraid of commitment. Yeah, yeah, understandably the guy who's getting
married in one month. Yeah, that tattoo is there every morning,
staring you in the face. It is, so I want
to make sure it's great, and so in doing so,
I just can't land on what should be permanently on

(13:28):
my body. Okay, it's a tough decision. I recommend getting
it somewhere where you don't look at it every day,
so you can't get sick of it. That's what I've
done with all Okay, yeah, I would put it right
there next to my anus. Yes, no, wait, I'll look
at that every day. I straddled my mirror. You're so flexible.
What's wrong? Sometimes you need to be aware of your body.

(13:49):
If you have a mole down there that you don't
know about, theologists can tell me all about it. What if?
What if I had a tick down there? But every
day you have to look for ticks. You don't even
the city half the time. Yes, I do, and we
have ticks in the city. We do, Yes, we do, okay, everywhere?
Look up Ticks in the City. That was one of
my favorite shows on HBO, Ticks in the City. So

(14:13):
if that's the case, wouldn't it be easy to put
a mirror on your floor? So I don't want to
always look up there. The floor is far. It needs
to be close. You need you need to close. If
this is the weirdest conversation, you need the handheld mirror
to find You're asking what National VJ Day is. I
do believe that stands for Victory over Japan if I'm
not mistaken, right, Oh all right, Okay, there you go.

(14:35):
There's that. Uh what else do we need to get
out of the way, Froggy? Any business we need to
take care of before we move forward? No, no, I'm
all good. I'm ready for the day. I'm not convinced
we're gonna go anyway, but I'm sure you'll slow us down.
Oh oh yeah, turn it, yes, Greg t you guys
want to breakfast? I'm starving, Yes we are. We're ordering

(14:56):
from a restaurant and one of the dishes, scary noticed
on the menu is called the cock robin. Really is
you know what his girlfriend's name is Robin Yees. So
I made a rude comment. Yes you did him come
in here and look at them and you okay, okay, great,
it's fantastic. All right, thank you. Let's get into the
things that make us feel good. Yes, producer Sam, Have

(15:19):
I ever told you guys that I have a lifelong
dream of adopting a child? No? No, I think that's awesome.
It's gonna happen. It will be expensive, but it's going
to happen. And thanks to an email from Rachel Kellner
about two of her friends, I now have new role models.
Steve Anderson McLean and his husband Rob recently adopted six
brothers and sisters who These siblings have been in foster

(15:40):
care for five years, which is kind of amazing because
siblings are split up all the time, like they don't
really usually don't get fostered together, never mind adopted. So
it's so great that they were together for Steve and
Rob to scoop up. They knew they wanted a family,
and thankfully fate brought them together. And now I have
something to look forward to. Nice. I gotta start saving
up now, guy. Yeah, it's gonna be a lot. But Steven,

(16:01):
Rob you two are amazing. I'm so glad that you
have a new family. And if you have a story
that deserves to be featured, email me Sam at Elvis
dan dot com, subject mine feel good. Thanks Sam. Every
single morning, I absolutely Elvis Duran in the morning show
you one. Here's the thing, you know, it's still summertime,
and of course Tate's Bake Shop reminds you while it's

(16:23):
still summertime, Let's do summertime things, yes, please, you know,
like visiting friends, going on road trips on the weekend, whatever,
wherever you go, no matter what you do, you have
room in your picnic basket or your big, you know,
ratchety paper bag. You have your backpack. You have room
for Tates cookies. You always do. You know what, if

(16:44):
you live here in New York or this this area
in the Northeast, you can drive to the close to
the tip of Long Island. You know that that appendage
that's erected pointing toward London, that stings out right out
there in Southampton is the original little bake shop, the
one I used to go to. And I was young,
believe it or not. Believe it or not, I was young. Absolutely,
you used to spend summers in the Hamptons, and so

(17:06):
you can have that summers in the Hampton's feeling, no
matter where you live on this great planet of ours,
with a bag of Tate's cookies. They have the original
chocolate chip, but also they have the summertime flavors. They
have all sorts of flavors they have. They have the
white bags for people who are going gluten free, they
get one of each ship. You're right. Also, these baskets,
these delicious, wonderful gifts, these gift baskets full of brownies

(17:28):
and cakes and muffins and of course cookies. Order them
now at tates bakeshop dot com. When you use the
promo code Elvis, you get twenty percent off your purchase.
That's a lot. That's Tates Bakeshop dot com is Elvis
in the Morning Show. So yeah. One of the bad

(17:51):
parts about commuting every day is the other people you're
commuting around, like ask Bob, Hi, Bob, Hey, good morning
you guys, Good morning, Bob. I can't believe you. You
asked us to whip out the diarrhea. Oh, we haven't
done that in a long now. We haven't done that
in a long time. You must be a long time listener, Bob,
I am, and I was wondering if you guys would

(18:12):
still do this? Yes, who do you want us to
wish diarrhea on today? Oh? I started night week off
really badly. Real deadbeat of a driver with no license
and no insurance decided to total my car on Monday. Okay,
so Monday someone totaled your car and they had no

(18:34):
insurance whatsoever. Oh that's terrible. So what's gonna happen now? Bob?
So I was forced to dip into our vacation fund
in order to get a new ride, just so I
can get back and forth to work. So you had
money set aside for your vacation and you had to
use that money because this this deadbeat didn't have insurance.

(18:54):
Not cool? Yeah, basically Okay, So if you total someone's
car and you don't have insurre? What does the price
they have to pay? Do they do they go to jail? What?
I mean, what what price do they pay? I wish
I knew. I was wondering, um, because I mean, I'd
like to be a fly on the wall when I
find out what happens to this guy. But I really

(19:16):
have no blue well, I know what price is gonna pay.
This pay. This guy's gonna pay a price. He totaled
your car and you didn't have an insurance. We wish
diarrhea upon him. We wish diarrhea upon your Seriously, the

(19:40):
other day, Bob, go to that. I mean, Bob, hold on,
do we have that guy's a dress that totaled your
car with no insurance. We're gonna send Nate over there. Nate,
I aim, aim and shoot. Okay, so I'm reading online
right here, it says, depending on where you live, you
could face fines, lose your driver's license, or even spend
time behind bars. Driving with an insurance is illegal in

(20:02):
most states, as it should be. You can face penalties
and fines and loss of your driver's license. You know what, though, Bob,
we read in the paper here all the time where
people are arrested on DUI and driving without a license
and whatever, and they have like fifty five tickets. Yeah,
and they're still out their drive right these people? You

(20:23):
know the thing that makes me mad. I'm not trying
to be the crotch of the old mean man to
get off my lawn man. But I pay, I pay
my insurance, right, I know it's expensive. It's just what
you have to do. Don't drive a car laship insurance
right too. Yeah, all right, Bob, sorry about that, and
thank you. And I think the most spinning punishment just
hat in this morning. Yeah, we wished diarrhea upon them. Yes,

(20:46):
all right, thank you, have a great day. You know,
the power of diarrhea something kind of something. Yeah, what's that?
What's I was thinking about that? Maybe I did something
to someone and they wished diarrhea upon me, and that's
why I had it everything about that I've done something
bad to someone that maybe unintentionally, maybe I cut somebody
off in traffic, and they said, I hope he gets

(21:06):
you know, the squirts. And here we are, Nate, Nate, Sorry,
I have an idea. Let's talk about some solid things
like this table. It's very sorry table, solid table. It'd
be difficult to pass. I need some fiber ione to

(21:29):
go out and eat a tree. We did a poll
on Twitter on the craziest thing that happened at the
Elves de Rancial party, and you saw what one of
all the things that happened, you know, with Greg t
dropping the croc, it was it was a Nate's bathroom problem.
Yeah all right, I really want to change the subject. Okay, okay, next, next, next,

(21:50):
what do you have coming up in your your report? Dane.
I'm so excited the Haunting of Hill House season two. Okay,
let's get into it. I don't I don't want to wait,
I don't way. It's not going to be called the Hillhouse.
There's it's a different house this time. Season two is
actually the Hillhouse burned down or something. It didn't I
forgot how it ended. Spoiler alert, Yeah, yeah, let's not.

(22:11):
I don't want I'm asking that's a spoiler question. I
don't remember. But that was so good. So season two
is actually the anthology of the Haunting of blithe Manner,
based on Henry James's eighteen ninety eight novella The Turn
of the Screw. It's very dark. They're saying that it
is going to be scarier and more uncomfortable than the

(22:32):
Haunting of Hillhouse. So if you're ready to get the
pants scared off of you, it's going to be what
we want to watch. I know, I cannot wait, but
this Why did this not surprise me? And I think
I may have gone more than Britney Spears According to
Paint six, Britney Spears made eighty trips to Target last year.
That's not a lot. That's nothing compared to you thinking
like okay. She also likes a shop at Home Depot

(22:54):
and Ralph's. This is according to her Conservative Ship documents.
Ralph's is a grocery store. Yeah, so, I mean I
go to the grocer store at three times a week
sometimes to get things. What's she doing at home Depot?
Maybe fixing stuff in her house. I help Home Depot too.
I just don't know what Britney Spears is doing. Um.
Jay Z and Rock Nation are partnering with the NFL
for events and activism. The NFL said that they are

(23:16):
going to consult with jay Z's Rock Nation on its
entertainment presentations. Huh. That includes a Super Bowl halftime show.
Jay Z is not performing in the halftime show, although
maybe in the future he will. They also will work
together to strengthen community through music and NFL's inspired change initiatives.
So that's pretty cool to doing some good stuff. So
season thirteen's Bachelorette Rachel She says she slept with two

(23:38):
of the three finalists in the fantasy suite. She won't
say which ones, but she says that her final choice
knows about it and it is totally cool, Like you
slept with other guys, no problem. It's so ridiculous and
we thought it would happen, but it didn't. Harry Styles
will not be Prince Eric in The Little Mermaid Were
You was well? He respected? He respectfully declined, why I know,

(24:03):
I know what you told us. He was doing it? Well,
can you just be quiet over there? We thought he
was gonna do it. It It looked like he was doing it.
He's not doing it. By the way, BTS's agency says
that they're not done. They're going on a little hiatus.
If you look at their website, they're actually scheduled to
perform in Saudi Arabia on places like that in October,
so they're taking a vacation. This is their first vacation.

(24:25):
But a lot of people are panicking that they're done.
According to their agency, they're not done. So we'll see
what happens there. America's Got Talent is on tonight. It
is a live result show to see who made it
to the semifinals. Song Land will be Cool because McLamore
will select this week's winning song, and it is the
third season finale of The Handmaid's Tale over on Hulu.

(24:45):
So I'm online trying to figure out where Jonas Brothers
played last night, so I know where. I know on
the fifteenth, they're going to be in Washington, DC, So
I think they're off tonight. Maybe, so maybe we should
stop by and say hi. Break couple days there will
be em Boston coming up in Philly. What's today's day?
Today is the fourteen? It is? Yeah, so tomorrow there?

(25:06):
How did we get to August fourteenth? Please? I don't know.
I've been trying to stop the time. It's not working. No,
can we just stop? Time? Tried? Someone has a way? Please?
Last night tonight they're in Raleigh, North Carolina. Oh nice?
And wait and okay, okay, anyway I want to go
see them. Here's the thing. They're supposed to play the
Garden at the end of this month, but we're gone. No.

(25:29):
August twenty, ninth and thirtieth, they're at the Garden. If
you have a way August eighteenth in Philly. Yeah, oh,
we can do that. Let's drive down. Here's the thing.
If you see any show this year, and even if
you're not a huge Jonas Brothers fan. You've got to
see this show because the story behind this show, the
story behind these guys, the story behind them getting back together.
It's just there's an electricity in that room that is

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just unbelievable. You can see them there. We will be
back in November twenty second. They're at Prudential Center November
twenty three, there at the Barclays. Oh perfect, so you
can't see them, Okay, Hey, So who's in a good
mood today? Gandhi? What what one thing can you just
spew out right now and tell me that you're in
a good mood because of that? Go? Oh, because I

(26:11):
have such a crush on my boyfriend talk about that corning. No,
it's not at all. No, that's a great reason to
be happy. That makes me happy. Every day when I
wake up, I'm like, oh, b that's it. Yeah, I
mean I don't I don't know what else to say.
I feel like a little kid. It's so cute. I
love that. So it does really make me happy, Like
every day and wake up and I'm in a great mood.
When do you see him next? Um on the twenty second?

(26:33):
Good for you? Yeah, I'm happy for you. Me too,
And I'm glad that you guys like him and you
met him and it was great. No, I didn't say
I like him. You did say I'm just happy for
you said him. He's a great guy. Danielle. Why are you?
Why are you happy? Today? My mommy is coming down
to spend the day to day and I can't wait. Yeah,
she's she's coming down and we're gonna do some mommy
and Danielle things. That's cool. Yeah, where are you happy?

(26:56):
Because I'm packing for a cruise. I'm going on a
cruise Friday. It's a short listener cruise. Right, it's a
short listener cruise. I'm packing for my cruise. I'm so excited,
cannot wait. Why are you happy? Okay, here's why I'm
asking you. That's scary. Why are you happy? Because my
shirt fits me very well? Oh my god, that's good.

(27:16):
That's totally fine. That makes me feel good. Your happy? Name?
Why you are? Why are you happy? I'm seeing a
friend for lunch. I haven't seen him in a long
time and we're gonna catch up. It's gonna be great.
Who's that He's coming in on the show today, Matthew Hussey. Yeah,
I'm happy to see him too. Yeah, I'll tell you why.
I'm asking because I woke up this morning really happy,

(27:37):
and I can't figure out what it is the best.
Maybe it's maybe it's a mixture of lots of things.
Maybe it's a countdown because you know your weddings a
month away. I'm excited about that. Could be that, I
don't know. I went out with friends last night. We
had a late night, went to a great New York
City restaurant, and we partied and celebrated a friend's birthday.
And I don't know. And even though I I'm looking

(28:00):
for reasons to be to be bogged down, I'm looking
looking for reasons to be frustrated. Can't find them. That's awesome.
That's good because you know what. You look at the
calendar and you see a thousand things that you need
to get done. I have a million things that need
to get done. I've got lists, list and more lists
and lists that have lists on them, and I just
but I'm just happy. I don't know. I think that

(28:23):
if you feel all, if you feel, it's okay to
be happy and not know why, bright totally fine. That
was awesome. So it's a weird thing. Happiness you know,
and sadness can do it, you know, to to you

(28:43):
just as fast. So let happiness beat sadness. Do you
all agree on that one. Yeah. Walkers and Talkers a
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dot com, slash Elvis, Hello, sprinting Dome. There he comes, Cordy,
you got it, You got it. Place for Big Daddy,
for Big Daddy. First place. I think you're doing this show.

(29:47):
It's all live. I was done in my office printing
up some things to talk about. All right, let me
let me huh, let me catch your breath, let me
get them all organized. Cool. Can we talk about whether
it's appropriate or not to call you Big Daddy, because
I just felt harassed by that. You know, it used
to offend me. Now I don't care. Okay, I'm gonna

(30:09):
tell you. I'm got to tell you right now. Let's
full transparency. Huh. I've talked about this before and I
just just just scaled my dog. It makes me so mad.
I'm gonna tell you anyway. Okay. You know, in this
world we live in, in this with iHeartMedia, we have
what's called research. H We have some of the smartest
people in the world going out and talking to huge

(30:29):
groups of people to ask them what they want to
hear and what they don't want to hear in a show. Right.
They actually went to several of our markets and they
sat down with a lot of people in these quote
unquote focus groups to ask them what they like about
the show, what's getting better about the show, what's not
as good about the show, you know what? Whatever? Most
of all, I mean, people like our show a lot. Yeah.
And then someone sowhere asked the question, hey, Elvis, does

(30:51):
he seem too old to listen to in the morning,
And like one or two people said, you know, sometimes
he talks about things that maybe aren't extremely relate to
me because I'm a twenty one year old girl or whatever.
And so they told him, and Nate's part of the problem.
What Nate's like, you know, you really shouldn't talk about
things that you aren't interesting to younger people. And I said,

(31:17):
you know what, then effort. I'll go work somewhere else. Right,
I'm not going to come in here and like, okay,
let me tell you about how much I like to
twerk on the weekends. Yeah, I think it's not real.
If you come in and you're not yourself, it's not
So they said we should eliminate things like, you know,
calling you big Daddy and the other day you said,
hey tell uncle Elvis blah blah blah. The twenty one

(31:38):
year old girl doesn't want to hear that. So maybe
we should squelch that from our show and we'll have
big rating results. Big. I don't think so, And I said.
And one day we were doing something and I said
we should talk about I forgot what it was, and
Nate went, I don't think we should talk about that
because that's something like a twenty eight year old would
talk about. That's way too old. And I looked at Nate.

(31:58):
I wanted to rip his face. I don't remember this.
I remember this day and I said, you know what,
I'm not going to work on a show or I
have to pretend to be someone. Oh, I remember that.
You got very mad. He Rexa posted about this yesterday
because somebody told her she's too old at twenty nine
to post certain pictures of herself exactly like, dude, I'm
twenty I mean, so ridiculous. And then Scary comes in here,

(32:19):
and of course he tries to put up this facade
that he is someone he's not. It's not. No, it
is true, and you know it. You all know what
I'm talking about. To a point, Scarce, to a point,
you do try to immerse into a world that you
seem a little awkward, a different lifestyle though, And it's
I think it's really good that we have everybody from

(32:40):
so many different walks of life, because doesn't that then
appeal to everybody from different walks of life versus just
a twenty eight year old female. That's what I'm thinking. Yeah,
So in your question and asking me, should we or
should we not call you Big Daddy? You can call
me whatever you want, just call me. I was just
uncomfortable with like the sessuality of it, what the sexuality
of it, Big Daddy. It sounded very sexual the way

(33:02):
he said it was like Daddy, and then I felt weird.
I don't find that sexy at all, Big Daddy. So anyway,
so here's them. Here's my question. Is it okay for
us just to be ourselves or do we need to
be something that the research department has told us we
need to be. I think we ourselves? Yeah, sorry, research,

(33:22):
Yeah sorry. If we're not ourselves, it's not truthful and
it doesn't come across right. Don't you think people can
sniff out alive from like so far away if you're
not being genuine about something. I know it, You know it,
our listeners know it. Yet I don't want to. I
can't come in here and be someone I'm not smart. Hey,
what was the story that came out yesterday about a
guy excuse me an overprotective boyfriend who gave his girlfriend

(33:44):
a list of rules for her girls' night out. I
saw the list and I was dying, I have it
in here, So it is h I have it in here.
So I just remember one of the rules was like
at the end of the night. Please send me a
picture of your bed so that I know you're in
it alone. Oh, shut up, get out of here, dude. Yeah,
jealous much a woman's bow. Look, I'm old. I don't

(34:07):
even use the word. Bob sends her don't list for girls'
night out and remind me, I want to talk about
what you like in a butt that's coming up directions. Yeah,
I'm gonna tell you as far as butts go, I
like it just to be nice and curvy, a little simple,
curvy butt. Okay, all right. Anyway, so she wanted to

(34:30):
go out with her girlfriends for a girl's night out. Great,
she deserves that. Yeah, she's she's she is, she is
who she is. Let leave her be. But anyway, her
boyfriend says, number one, don't don't dance like a slag.
This must be British. Don't get too drunk. No boys.
And if anyone comes up to you and talks to you,

(34:50):
you tell them you have a boyfriend. Oh my gosh,
look after your drink at all times to make sure
no one puts anything in it. Well, that's that's very everybody.
That's a good one. That's a good one. Anyway, So
he has this list of dudes and don't for the
girls night out? An don't date this guy? Yeah, I
don't wait a second, yeah, froggy talk. What if maybe

(35:12):
there's a chance, maybe there's a past of her getting
a little out of control or things going south on
a girls' night out and he's trying to keep that
from happening again. Okay, Okay, I see that, But do
you want to live like that? No? I do not.
But I'm saying maybe that's why. Maybe there's been a
press then set and maybe that's why he has to
do this. We don't know the whole story. I agree that. Yes,

(35:33):
just looking at it from over the top, it looks
like an overprotective guy who needs to chill out. But
there could be a reason. But you're that worried about it.
Just maybe you guys shouldn't date because there's a little
too much going on, right. I couldn't imagine being in
a relationship where you worry about everything like the nope, no,
there's your rules for the night o'babies. You know, we
only have so much real estate in your head. You
only have so much square footage of things to think
about and worry about. You know, sometimes if you have

(35:56):
too much to think and worry about, you don't have
enough room to enjoy someone right, You really don't. That's
why I think about two like couples who go through
each other's phones. The second I felt the need to
go through a phone, I would feel like the relationship
was over because obviously I don't trust you and there's
something wrong. I've never gone through a phone in my life.
I plan on never doing that, although I do have
a girlfriend who thought she could trust her husband and

(36:17):
then accidentally stumbled upon something on his phone found out
he was sleeping with. Okay, okay, that's prostitutes happen. Okay, okay, okay,
hold on, things happen. Sometimes. Not all relationships are perfect,
but even you could be screwing up a perfect relationship
by smothering someone. Number nine on this list. Always send

(36:38):
me photos a front and back of what you're wearing
so I can approve and say whether or not I
think you should wear it. That's too much, get out
of her. Even when I'm asleep. Text me to tell
me things so I can see them in the morning.
That's kind of okay, I think, No, note I can
see text me when you get home. Yeah, but don't
text me all night to tell me what you're can No,

(37:00):
not like a play by play, but if something cool happens,
I would want maybe somebody to wake up to that
number twelve on the list of things. Number twelve on
the list of things. He tells his girlfriend about going
out with her friends. If you can, if you can
send a video of the room before you sleep to
prove no one else is there, whats goodbye? Oh, I'd

(37:20):
be like, okay, never mind, I back off my stage. Yeah,
this guy's a jackass. Yeah, let me know everything that
happens and be ready to explain stories. Oh jeezus, hey,
I took a dump at three pm and then I
explained myself. Okay, thank you, Danielle. I mean, but what
do they want? Play by play too much? So if

(37:44):
you are earn a relationship, we are that you're that nervous.
Oh my gosh, what kind of life are you giving yourself?
I'm worried. I'm just as worried about him as I
as I am hurt. Oh yeah, something about that little
relationship right there makes me think they share an Instagram
account speaking of it. You know, we were earlier, earlier,

(38:06):
we're talking about how it takes me an hour to
walk Max to work when I bring him in because
he has to stop and sniff and pee on everything.
And you ask me, Daniel, what do they pee on?
Other dogs? Pee? They do? Urine sniffing urine for dogs.
It's like their social media. It is. It's like it's
like their Instagram. It's their vast. It's more Twitter. Oh yes,
because they can smell, you're the dogs urine. They can

(38:26):
smell a lot about that dog and what that dog's
going through health wise. I mean they they smell things
weak and even fathom them smelling. So it's their social media.
All right, look cool? That is kind. Aren't you glad
we don't have that? Yes? O, wait, we do. We do.
It's called we do have it. It's called social media. Okay,
partly I have to go on my phone and check
the peak. Dogs sniff each other's butts. I'm glad we

(38:47):
don't do that. When we meet new people. You don't
need to sniff butts. You've got Instagram. If you get
to a bar and you sniff someone's butt, do like them?
Yeah I can. That's gross, all right, Gandhi. The three
things we need to know are what planes are flying
in and out again from Hong Kong International Airport. There
have been two days of pro democracy protests there, forcing
the cancelations of lots and lots of flights. I don't

(39:09):
know if you guys have seen any of the video
or the photos, but it is crazy over there right now.
The airport has been seeing lots of clashes and there
have been ten weeks of protests throughout the city there.
Just in general, some super sad news about the NYPD.
Another officer has taken his own life. This is the
eighth suicide in the year with the NYPD. Yes, of course,

(39:31):
officials saying if you have a problem, please seek out help.
They're always there for you, and they haven't released the
name of this officer just yet, but he was thirty
five years old and a seven year veteran. I hear
these stories, they make me so so sad. And finally,
speaking of social media, like you just did. Social media
apparently linked to depression, particularly within teenage girls. Specialists are

(39:52):
saying that it takes away from health positive activities like
sleep and exercise. It also has an impact on boys,
but not nearly as badly, they say. At that age,
a lot of girls are comparing themselves to other people
and it's just not right, not go way. Social media
makes you think the world is Thank you very much, Gotty,
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How many would you like to order today? Sir? What
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Now great tea. Got all hockey walking in here. As
you know, our friend Matthew Hussey is on the way. Yeah,
he's got great advice, just great advice for dating and whatever.
Lifestyle lifestyle, your lifestyle advice guy, and uh he walks in, goes, well,
who do you think he is when you have me
here every day? Yeah? Who says? Who says that he's

(50:19):
an expert? I don't get it because he sells. He
sells out conventions, and that's because he's on our show.
We prop them up and make it. You know. Oh
my god, you're saying that you have just as much,
or if not more, better advice than Matthew Hussey when

(50:39):
it comes to relationship. Yeah, I think that I give
like real life you know answers. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it.
I'm gonna tell people I don't I don't feel I
don't feel Matthew sugar coach anything at all. I think
he actually he actually scold it, scolds us. My resume
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You have done nothing, done nothing. I have dated Trish
for five years. I'm married for sixteen. I have two daughters.
I was a school crossing guard. I was vice president
of school of student government. I was the president of
my fraternity. My resume is huge. You tell us all
the time how miserable you are in life, how you
don't like your family, and how you want to cheat.

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So those are great qualities for yeah, for a relationship.
What's that? Gandhi? Uh t? You actually had a conversation
with me about the importance of things that I need
to do to keep a man. And I'm gonna say,
you were so off base. Okay, okay, what did he
tell you? What did he tell you you needed to
do to keep a man? There were certain by the way,

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question who wants to quote unquote keep a man? Thank you?
And I didn't even bring it up. He just like
spun around in his chair. One day. I was like,
let me tell you something. Yeah, you want to get
a man and keep a man. This is what you
need to do. That's what he told me. How I
got my husband? Yeah, he told me. You went on
to say that by the time I turned thirty, or
I'm a man turns thirty, everything's gonna go downhill and

(52:03):
we're all just gonna hate each other. So there's certain
acts that need to be performed, neat to happen. Now,
that's right, that's okay. Okay, I'm telling you right now,
bad advice. But okay, I have someone on the phone.
I believe her name is Bea Becca. Hi, Hi, Becka,
thanks for listening today. I know I know you were
calling for another reason and we kind of detoured you
off to this. Do you have a question. Do you

(52:24):
have relationship advice questions for Greg T the expert? Yeah,
test out my skills. Okay, go ahead, Becka. So I
go to school in California, UM, and I was seeing
someone in the fall semester UM, but it wasn't ever
long enough to make it official. And then the guy
I was seeing went to study abroad. UM. And then

(52:47):
we've both been on the East Coast for the summer. UM.
He's been in DC and I've been in New York, Um.
But we haven't seen each other. So when I get
back to school, should I assume a worse still together?
Or do I owe him a phone call? Yeah? Where
are they in this relationship? This is seriously such a problem.

(53:09):
I mean, listen, here's my advice to you, Becca. I
need you to look into a mirror and talk to
yourself and tell yourself everything you just told me. And
here's the answer you're gonna get. No, it's over to
simply put, he has moved on. You have moved on.
You haven't even seen him all summer. I don't think
you owe him a conversation, and he doesn't owe you anything.

(53:31):
I think you guys are two young adults that are
mature enough to figure out this relationship is going nowhere. Well,
there isn't. It's on hold. I mean, this is the problem.
See what you've done. You see what you just did.
You just eliminated the possibility of a relationship here. But
there is no possibility there. If for some reason, if

(53:52):
you go back to college and if you see him
in college and you guys are chit chatting like in
this school union building or something, you know, then maybe
something sparks. But as of right now, there's nothing. She
asked you if she should reach out and maybe like
see if there's anything still there. No way, Becca, you're
too good for this. It's over all right, Danielle. Yeah, yeah,

(54:15):
what's your advice? I do think that she should reach out?
Why not? Why not? Don't you understand this is the
problem here, ladies, there's no problem. Ladies have the hand
in every relationship if they just realize that they have
hand and that they're stronger than the man they hand.
They do they do? You know what you have? Thank
God you have hand. You never have sex every every

(54:36):
Friday gone. You thought about Great Tea's advice. I think
you're wrong about the advice. I think that Danielle's more
on the right track, Like let's wait and see. Maybe
they want to talk when they get back together. Maybe
they just had a fun summer apart, and she should
realized they miss each other. You should, Becca, You should
be on social media right now, swipe and left, right
all over the place. Stopped. I'm telling you, she's sitting

(54:56):
there holding on to something that's been gone the problem. Becca,
Do you think his advice is any good or do
you is a part of your thing. I'm gonna call
him and just see what happens. If something happens great,
If not, whatever, I think I'll call him. Why not
have to lose. Let me tell you one last thing, Becca, Honestly,
if the sex was good, he would have called you back. God,

(55:17):
how stupid ro you lose? You get nothing? Roy's fine, sir, exactly,
That's how men think about Okay, Becca, thank you for
listening and my advice, our advice other than great tea

(55:38):
is you know, just reach out to say hi, and
if something's there, you pick it up from there. I
think that's the best idea. You have nothing to lose scenario.
Thank you, Becca, You're exactly where you are in the
expert Matthew Hussey see what he wants to say. Okay.
By the way, yes, the texts all agree with Greg Tea.
I see no get out of here, get out of here.

(56:08):
I mean he didn't make a couple of valid points,
but he's not an expert. I think he had one
valid point where if the sex was that fire, maybe
he would have called back beside and beside that you
don't have a British accent. You'll never you'll never be
better than Okay, the doors there, let's find it jas

(56:30):
on the way out. Which wrong, We're like, okay, we
haven't been together. I'll just give him a call, see
what happens. What's wrong with that? I don't see anything
wrong with that rule schmools. Yeah, all right, great teeth.
Great Teeth's career as relationship expert has ended. I love
it done. Which Matthew coming on? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Matthew
Husty come coming up next call now if you want advice. Also,

(56:50):
the Danielle Report coming up probably within the next twenty
or thirty minutes. I don't know what this is. Justin
timber Lake, Hey there sex and you're listening to was
Duran Elvis Durand in the morning show sh Hey, guy's
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Kids melotonin gummies to help her fall asleep. Naturally find
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Oh my god, hysterical, so funny. It'll make me smile
so confusing. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited to be

(57:36):
on the phone with you right now. No, no, no,
all the excitement is out. I'm leaving. I'm walking away.
I like to hear that other people have issues too.
I love the feeling of a cute tip in my ear, hysterical, hysterically,
I love it. Stick that in your pipe and stop it, Sylvis,

(57:59):
do show you know. The great thing one of the
many great things about our friend Matthew Hussey is he
always has an invitation to be in this room because
he's a member of our family. Yeah, always has been,
always will be. And so he walks in and says, well,
you haven't invited me in a while. We don't invite
our family now. I feel very honor to be considered
part of the family, please. I have for a long time,

(58:20):
which is why, you know, sometimes it's just, you know,
you like to be told we still love you, Okay,
we still love you. We always will. You know a
lot of people don't know that. You know, we've had
our own private Elvis dur In morning show meetings and
uh little conventions and just for us, and Matthew's a
part of that, and he's you're you're a very important

(58:41):
part of our family. So thank you. So stop it. Hey,
you know, as far as relationships go, and let's start
with commitment, there's a spectrum relationships. It all starts with
eye to eye contact with a stranger across the room,
turns to flirtation, turns to getting to know each other,
and it always at the opposite end of the spectrum
is total momitment, marriage, future, whatever. And Matthew is going

(59:03):
to be at the wedding in one month. I never
thought a million years and even at fifty four years old,
I'm committing my life to someone. How does it feel?
It feels, you know, it's fun, it's great. I love him,
I'm in love with him, and he takes good care
of me and I need him in my life as
I know he needs me in his life. So there's
definitely that back to back in the woods protecting each
other thing. But we're talking earlier, Matthew about commitment, and

(59:25):
we're talking about commitment as far as tattoos go, So
one said, hey, you keep saying you want a tattoo.
You never get a tattoo, And I said, out loud,
without thinking about Oh, that's such a commitment to tattoo,
and I'm like, oh my god, I'm getting married. Yes, commitment.
You know, I had a conversation with someone about their
tattoos recently because I've always said the same thing, they

(59:47):
terrify me. I don't dislike tattoos. I actually like them
on other people. Just the idea of me. Like the
comparison I've always made is I've never bought a piece
of clothing. I've liked my whole life, right Ever, so
why would I think there's something I'm going to put
on my body I'll like my whole life. And then
someone who who has a lot of them said to me, Yeah,

(01:00:10):
but one of the things that's important to me is
I don't feel committed to the same meaning of my
tattoo my whole life. Right. So I have the tattoo,
but it might I might have a different symbolic meaning
to me this year than it did last year. I
constantly reinvent the meanings, and that to me is actually

(01:00:30):
the key to commitment. Whether it's a job or a
relationship or whatever. It's the people that truly stay committed
to things are the people that don't just rely on
the old meanings. Ah, but you see, a tattoo is
a permanent looking thing. It is what it is, and
you can change the meaning in your mind. But people,

(01:00:52):
you're talking about a relationship between two people. You're talking
about two people in two different lanes who are experiencing
life at different speeds. You may be committed to a
relationship for one minute and the next minute it's like, well,
wait a minute, it's not what it used to be.
And there's nothing wrong with that. That's just the way
it is. You should never feel like a fail you're
getting out of a relationship. That's why when relationships end

(01:01:15):
or like im mine have I've done everything I can
to say, hey, you know what, we hate each other
right now, but let's think about all the good things
we learn from each other in this relationship. And it
always landed on a softer, a softer bed. But don't
you think it's don't you think even in marriage it's
people have to kind of wake up and say, what's
my wife for being in this relationship today? Like we
can't rely on the same reason we started it being

(01:01:38):
the reason that's relevant to me now, it's got to be.
It's like anything, it's what's my where's the meaning coming
from right now? But I agree with you, there's too
many people that have lost any reason to be in
a relationship and there's still in that relationship. Your collar
is bothering me? Fix my collar anytime you want fixed?

(01:02:00):
His caller all right. So, Matthew has been a part
of our show for so many years, and it seems
like there's always a new headline every year about where
relationships are going. I don't want to say there's a
new trend in relationships, but what are you seeing now?
When you do your incredible Matthew Hussey get togethers with
people and you sell them out, what is like the
biggest question trending right now or thought that you're tackling.

(01:02:22):
There's okay, there's a couple. Firstly, for anyone out there
who doesn't know me, there's like a quick story that
I've realized tells the story of the last ten years
of what I've done. The first is when I got
into this, my kind of blunt approach as a guide
to helping women in their dating lives, which is what
I've done for a decade now, was women need to

(01:02:43):
create more options because when you don't have options, you
make poor choices. So then I would say, Okay, to
create more options, you've got to make the move. Women
would say to me, I don't feel like I should
make the move. I feel like he should make the
move because I'm old fashioned. I then say, then you
have no idea what old fashioned really is, because old
fashioned was one hundred years ago. A guy standing there

(01:03:03):
that you liked, a woman walking past him, seeing that
she was attracted, and then dropping her handkerchief. She would
keep walking. The guy would see the handkerchief, he'd pick
it up and think, this is an extraordinary opportunity to
be a man. He'd walk the handkerchief over and he'd say, madam,
you dropped this, and she'd say did I? And they'd
now have a conversation, a conversation that he thought was

(01:03:26):
his idea, But it wasn't his idea. She chose him.
So when I started this ten years ago, I said
to women, I'm not asking you to go and do
all of the work for the guy. I'm just asking
you to learn how to drop the handkerchief. Right, you
can still allow him to think it was his idea,
but you got to drop the handkerchief. So I started
giving women ways to drop the handkerchief, and one of

(01:03:48):
the most important ways to drop the handkerchief is just
to be warmer. I think there's a genuine lack of
warmth in so many people when they're out and about.
So I would get people to Okay, first, go out,
we're atoms. Just need to collide, right. Go out to
places where atoms can collide. Stand in high traffic areas
of that place. Don't go to the table in the
corner of the room. Go somewhere where everyone has to

(01:04:09):
pass by you to get to the bathroom ten times
in a night, and work up the courage, and then finally,
on their fifth go around, they can speak to you.
And lastly, make a lot of eye contact and smile
a lot, because often that eye contact, that extra smile
is the thing that makes the difference between someone being
brave enough to do something and not. Now, that was
phase one of my company. Here's why I realized people

(01:04:30):
would do this. They would start to get more attention
than they had before. But then the very dangerous thing
that started happening was they would overvalue the attention they got.
And this brings us to your question, because where we
are today right now is too many people getting some
attention and then mistaking attention for investment. So they're going

(01:04:53):
too fast, they're going to they're giving too much too
fast because they're basing how much they give someone on
how much they like them. They're basing it on an infatuation.
Give us an example, Well, I think we all build
stories in our minds. So we go out and we
feel something. On a date, we feel a greater level

(01:05:13):
of like the narrative in our mind is we go
home and we go They're the first person in a
long time who That is a dangerous sentence because that
sentence is based on feeling, not fact. Right, they're the
first person who's made me feel excited. Okay, that's great,
but that's a feeling. The fact is you just had
a date. It doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean this

(01:05:36):
person is going to now try and there are too
many people. One of the great issues of dating right
now is people who want to be in a serious
relationship who are stuck in a casual relationship and these
people that they're dating aren't giving them what they want,
but they're not paying attention to that because they're just
so engrossed in the feeling that they get from it.

(01:05:59):
And what I've been saying to people is, does here's
good a good one? Does your relationship work on mute?
So imagine that you and the person you're dating right
now are two characters on a screen. You're in a movie, okay, now,
when the music's turned up and you hear the beautiful
romantic soundtrack and you hear the words that they say

(01:06:19):
to each other, and he's saying, you know, I miss
you so much and thinking of you, what are you
doing right now? Blah blah blah. When you hear all
of this with the music, it all sounds romantic. But
if everyone out there right now imagines the relationship they're
in or the casual situation they're in, and now you
mute the TV and you don't hear the romantic music

(01:06:40):
and you don't hear the words they're saying to each other,
and all you see is these two actors. Is it
still romantic to watch now? Or is it just two
people who don't see each other that much or aren't
try or one of them's not trying that hard, one
of them's pining the other, one's just off doing their
own thing. Is it's still romantic on mute. And the
reason I say that is too many people are being

(01:07:01):
seduced by people's words and completely ignoring their actions. Wow.
Interesting because you could be on date number five with
someone and you have this feeling that you so are
into them and you would just do anything to get
down with them and get funky with them whatever and uh,
and you rate them at like number ten on like

(01:07:22):
at a tan and but you never really listen to
what they say. It's all about what you're thinking and
feeling inside you exactly. It's a two way thing. Relationships
are tough, they're rough. I had I had someone right
to me literally just yesterday on Instagram to say, there's
this guy I really like. He wants me to go
to his house for a date. I I like him

(01:07:46):
a lot, but I want something serious. And I asked him,
I said I want something serious, and he said I
just want friendship and fun, which we know what that means.
And she then she said, should I go to his house? No? Why?
How is that even a question. But here's the problem
is that when we see things from the outside, the
answer is obvious. When we're close to it, we go crazy,

(01:08:10):
we start we're drunk like and that this is the
story of relationships all over is people are drunk in
this relationship and you lose any sense of what you
really should do and how you should uphold your standards. Hey, Kristen, Yes,
you're first up to bat with Matthew Hussey. H don't don't,

(01:08:34):
don't freak out. Okay, go ahead, freak out. So online dating,
all right, Yes, we're living in the world of online dating.
We have been for many years now. You think things
go great online and then you meet them in person,
in person, and then then it all just kind of
evaporates right for you anyway, Yeah, that in the sense
or even we'll meet somebody online, I'll talk to them,
you know, weeks, two weeks, you make plans to hang

(01:08:56):
out and then all of a sudden you speak Kristen,
are you speaking to them on the phone? Um? Yes,
speaking to my own phone, facetiming, text messages, the whole everything,
and then all of a sudden it's just like we
have planned. Oh sorry, something came up, and then you
never hear from them again. Okay. So firstly, I like
the fact that you're doing phone and FaceTime as well,
because a lot of people aren't doing that. And I

(01:09:16):
really believe most people. I think most of the time
we should not go on a date in person with
someone if we haven't had a phone call or FaceTime.
But let's say he does, he goes to you at
the last minute, or he flakes, what do you do?
Then I'm curious. So generally, if they can't, you know,
a day later, apologize, I'll give the second chance. The

(01:09:37):
second chance is it though? That's as far as I go.
But generally it hasn't even gone to that point because
I will interest that right. But wait when you say that,
But it's unfortunate because I gave at interest I found
about waking for this person, and then all of a sudden,
it's just it's gone. Yeah, it's hurtful, and it's it's
very disappointing. I understand that. But when he ghosts you,

(01:10:00):
did he literally just not show up to the date,
or he told you twenty minutes before the date, I
can't make it twenty minutes before the date, I can't
make it. And what did you say in that moment?
I was like, um, okay, have a great night, Okay,
because it's not worth the argument. Okay, but what if
you were just more honest and authentic than that. What

(01:10:22):
if instead of saying okay, have a great night, which
doesn't communic communicates a kind of some feelings and a
slight passive aggression. But what if instead you said, uh,
you know, that's a shame. I was excited to see you. Um,
you know, I don't know, you know, there was a

(01:10:42):
shame I was. I was excited to see and it's like,
oh my god, I'm so sorry. It wasn't untentional. Something
came up last me. And then I'll be like, okay,
well at least thanks for letting me know, and then
I just want ever hear from them again. Why would
you fold angles? I've been on my dating for a
long time unfortunately, point, why would you even want to
carry it any further? If he just said screw you

(01:11:03):
twenty minutes before the date happened, why would you even
want to deal with him anymore? There are degrees, right,
So the answer to that one is, yeah, why would you?
But let's say there's a very common scenario where a
guy is he asks you out. Let's say this Saturday.
It gets to Saturday and he's your It gets to
midday and he hasn't texted you. You then text and say, hey,

(01:11:25):
are we still good for tonight? What's going on? And
he sends a message and says, yeah, we're on for tonight.
I'm going to let you know because I'm just figuring
out a thing, and then I'm gonna tell you what
time and blah blah blah. It's kind of a flaky response. Yes,
the date's on, but there's a flakiness to it, very flaky, right,
And that's the response that generally always happened. I really
believe that we should be much more honest with people

(01:11:46):
in general and say to them. You know, it gets
to six o'clock and you say to that person proactively, hey,
I was excited about tonight, but I don't really know
what's going on because you haven't really made it doesn't
seem like you've got a plan, and I don't have
a time, so I'm a little confused. That's it now.
The nice thing about that is he can either come
back and be just as flaky, at which point you say,

(01:12:09):
you know, let's do this another time, or you know,
I'll see you another time because I'm not feeling it
anymore tonight, or he's going to come back and be like,
oh my god, you're so right. I'm sorry, I'll see you.
I'm going to pick you up at eight, and he
gets better. I think so many of us are being
so guarded with our feelings that we're not even show
we're not even shining a light on the elephant in

(01:12:30):
the room, which is that you're being difficult, you're being flaky,
you're not showing up for this or whatever. And we
do far better if we had an authentic approach to
how we actually feel. The problem is people think authenticity
is weak, like, oh, if I tell him I was
excited about tonight or whatever, that's vulnerable. And vulnerable means
he now knows that I like him as much as
I do. No, it doesn't. All that means is I
was excited about tonight. You can rapidly become unexcited about

(01:12:54):
someone based on what they do next. So authenticity and
by the way, meet people out there in the rail world. Two,
why are you just online? Day? And would be my question, Wow,
we gotta take a break coming up. Pam is at
a crossroads, move in or break up. Plus, let's talk
about love myths. We think we know it all. No,

(01:13:16):
we don't. Okay, this is Harry Riah, Harry, what's up?
This is Pink and you're listening to Elvis Duran Elvis
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You know, our buddy Matthew Hussey hasn't been hearing quite
some time. But you wouldn't know that because we have, uh,
my assistant Andrew, My assistant Andrew, who does the best

(01:13:57):
Matthew Hussey impersonation. Not true to you, No, no here,
oh Matthew Andrew. It's like it's like an English Michael Jackson.
It's very strange. Okay, so Matthew, just give me like
a ten seconds of the butterfly go Well. I have

(01:14:19):
this theory that real love is the idea that when
a butterfly lands in your hand, you don't try and
suffocate it. You don't try and hold onto it for
dear life. That instead, you put one hand up to
shield it from the wind, and the butterfly stays in
your hand, not because it has to, but because it

(01:14:40):
sees the value in staying. That's a true relationship and
it's a beautiful thought. You made me cry the first
time you told that story, and since you haven't been
in a while, we had Andrew, Andrew tell me about
the butterfly. You know, I often think the same thing.
It's important to shield your love like a butterfly and
really trying convey that love, open it up to the

(01:15:02):
wind and let it fly away. It's extraordinary, do I. Firstly,
sometimes I pronounced teas not true, so in your absence,
Andrew has been. Of course, he knows nothing about love. No,

(01:15:22):
I actually am lonely and single, So thank you person. Ever, No,
don't make me feel sorry for you after you've just
mocked me. Mocking Matthew. There's my name pronounced with two f's, Matthew, Matthew.

(01:15:44):
I love you, Andrew, thank you, it's Andrew, Thank you, Matthew, Andrew.
Line seven is Pam. I've been dying to get to
this call Pam. Oh my god, Hello, she's on an airplane. Pam,
thank you for holding for so long. Yep, you are
fourteen years older than your boyfriend, right, yep, and you're

(01:16:07):
ready to take some next step? But what does that
mean for you? Next step? So? Um? I feel like
life is short? So why? I mean, we've been together
for four years, took a break for about a year,
year and a half, but state friends and he's he's
still to say, one of my best friends. And everything

(01:16:29):
has gotten better. Communication, sex, everything is better. But he's superguarded.
So if a stranger walks by with the dog, he
immediately is like, oh my god, I love you, I
love you, love you to this dog. And yet after
four years he finally can say it to me. Right, So,
I you know, I'm at the point now where it's like, okay,

(01:16:50):
should we I think we should move in together? And
at least, what's the harm, there's nothing to lose. What
does he What does he say back to you when
you say, hey, next step, natural progression of things, let's
move in with each other? What does he say? How
does he respond? He's scared, He's like, I don't know
if I'm ready for that. But yet he's not happy
where he is, so he's just really scared. So have

(01:17:16):
you said to him, well, at what point do you
think that will change for you? Do you have an
idea of what timeline you're interested in moving in together?
Because that's something that's important to me in a long
term relationship. I didn't say it quite like that. I
kind of said, I'm not going to ask you again,

(01:17:37):
but I also don't want to wait another year and
then and then what hong? When was the last time
you said that? Saturday? Okay, So look, here's one of
the common misconceptions that really gets people hurt is that

(01:17:57):
it's not enough for two people to enjoy each other's
company or to think that each other are amazing. You
also have to have lives that are in sync on
some level. You have to have goals that that synergize,
you know, you have to want the same things on
a you know, on one level. So for you to

(01:18:18):
be wanting to move in with this person and he
doesn't might make him wrong for you. Like it, just
because you have a great connection with this guy, it
doesn't make him right for you if his goals are different,
he's a different stage of life. Or he's too scared
to actually go to the next stage. It doesn't make
him right for you. And all over the world there
are people who think that the person they're connected to

(01:18:42):
is right for them simply because they have a great connection.
But that's not true. Do you see what I'm saying? Sure,
so it's extraordinary in this why Pam and in Matthew,
I must assume this is why people stay in relationships
for fifteen twenty year year is still waiting for something
to happen. All they're going to change and the next

(01:19:04):
thing you do is wake up and it's a dozen
years later. Yeah, but you have to never make the
mistake that someone you're with, no matter how much they
love you, cares about your time as much as you do.
Because they've barely even grasped the importance of their own time,
they certainly aren't thinking about your Say that again, what
you just said. Never assume what? Never assume that the

(01:19:25):
person you're with, no matter how much they love and
care about you, cares about your time as much as
you do. Wow, Yeah, because they will. I promise you,
Even people that care about you will inadvertently waste a
decade of your life if you let them, and they
will still care about you, and they'll still say they

(01:19:47):
love you, and they'll still feel guilty about it afterwards,
but it won't stop them doing it, because people do
what's comfortable for them, not what's right for you. Right,
So you've got to find someone who's actually got the
same goals as you. It doesn't matter that you have
a connec with this guy. There's plenty of plea people
in the world you can have a connection with. Now
go find one who you have a connection with, who
actually shares your goals, who's in the same place as you.

(01:20:11):
And in terms of age, I generally date younger. Is
that something I should try to stay away from. Look,
I don't have a problem with age gaps, but you
have to have someone who's mentally, emotionally in the same
phases of life as you. So if dating a different
age group means that you're consistently meeting people who have

(01:20:34):
different goals than you, then that's something you want to reevaluate.
Does it mean that you can't find someone who's younger
who's got the same goals? Of course not right. There
are exceptions, but you have to be honest about where
someone actually is and by the way, this guy is
telling you where he is, but you're not listening right now,
and I need you to listen, because I promise you, Pam,

(01:20:54):
I've done this every day of my life for the
last ten years. I get I don't just get to
coach you. I get to coach you five years from now,
and ten years from now and twenty years from now.
I see into the future, because right now today I'm
coaching a version of you in the future. And she's
distraught that she wasted another five or ten years with

(01:21:16):
a guy who told her what she needed to hear
ten years ago. There you go. Thank you for your call, Pam. Wow,
there you have it. Something to think about. Yeah, Nate says,
we'll ask her what she's going to do now. I
would never put someone on the spot like that. Yeah,
each your food and digest it. Something something you didn't
do well the other day. Hey, thank you. Hold on

(01:21:37):
before we take another call, I'm going to talk about
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(01:21:57):
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(01:22:40):
gives you. You can actually use this advice when you're
in a relationship already. That's true. Like I can go
and I was reading this morning about how you're in
a relationship for several years or whatever, and it turns
into routine or it turns into like, oh oh god,
I totally forgot the exist you know whatever, Go home
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(01:23:02):
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(01:23:23):
you can text or say in person to the guy
that you like. Hey, so our friend Ali is in here.
I hate to put you on the spot, Ali Ali
Gold Ali uh Gandhi was saying that you were just
back here talking to yourself, mumbling to yourself, like like
when Matthew would make a statement or make it come
up with an idea, you would go, oh, I don't know,

(01:23:44):
it's not going to work for me. Yeah, I was
just I was making noises. Definitely. What did you hear
her saying? So one of the things he was talking
about was dropping the handkerchief and she's like, yeah, I
need to figure out how to do that. And then
another thing was dating, and you know, maybe a first
date means something, and she said after every first date,
she's like, this is the one. She knows it so well.
I tell someone so that at my wedding they'll be like, oh, well,

(01:24:05):
she knew he was the one the date Actually with
the handkerchief. I feel like all my relationships in the
past have been someone I was friends with that blossomed
into a relationship, and now I'm really cutting that out
and trying to meet new people. So how do you
drop the handkerchief for someone you just met at a
bar or someone you've been on one date with. Well,

(01:24:27):
if you're on a date, then you already dropped the handkerchief.
I guess that's true. You already got you already got
to that point. But listen, you've got to do the
obvious thing that everyone's trying to find something really clever.
We're all trying to be too clever. Instead, we need
to go out, look up from our phones, and I
make far more eye contact than we normally do, because

(01:24:48):
at any time a woman looks at a guy for
two seconds and looks back at her friends and she's like,
he knows, he doesn't know, he has no idea, And
you know what, you don't consist instantly. People underestimate, They
overestimate how hard it is for them to do something,
and they underestimate how difficult it is for someone else

(01:25:08):
to do something. So you'll have a table of girls
on a night out and they're all sitting around together,
and she may be making a ton of eye contact
with a guy. But think for a moment how hard
it is for a guy to take that eye contact
and then to say, now, I'm going to walk across
the room and approach a table of women to say

(01:25:33):
to one of them in particular, I'm attracted to you.
Never so difficult, right, So what we have to do
is just make everyone's job easier. Right. I need to
points get away from my group so that someone can
say something to me. I need to get proximity to
someone so that they don't have to go across the

(01:25:55):
room to take a risk, but they can literally turn
their head and say something to me easily. I need
to ask a quick favor. There's a wonderful study on
favors which showed a contrary to what you'd think it
would show, which is if I do you a favor,
you'll like me more what the studied. What the study
actually showed was if I do you a favor, I

(01:26:15):
like you more. So. The way this can work in
attraction is if you want to get someone speaking to you,
just ask them for a favor. So if you're in
a let's say a bar or whatever, and you say
to a guy, could you hold my jacket for two seconds?
I need to give my drinks to my friends. I
don't have enough hands. He holds your jacket, You give
your drinks to your friends, You come back, you say

(01:26:37):
thank you so much, you're a gentleman, and you take
your jacket back. You say how's your night going? Anyway,
he's now done a small favor for you that when
you say how's your night going to him, it just
feels like, oh, she's just being nice because I did
something for her. It saves you from having to walk
up to someone and go I think you have really
nice eyes, and now you're in conversation with him and again,

(01:27:00):
and it's like dropping the handkerchief. He feels like it
was his idea in the first place, right, So just
the one of the greatest ways to drop the handkerchief
is just ask for a favor. Okay, I'm going to
use that. I want to know how this goes. Yes, yeah,
I haven't asking. Let me ask a favor of you.
Oh yes, will you do me? Now? The one thing

(01:27:23):
the study did say is the favor can't be too onerous. Hey,
I was just looking our stuff online. When dating a
partner and they are hesitant to put a title on
it because of past hurt and trauma, how do you
bring up the what are we conversation without being smothering
or pressuring. Okay, firstly, let's all roll our eyes at
the first part of that sentence. What was it dating

(01:27:45):
a partner and they are hesitant to put a title
on it because of past hurt and trauma? What a
wonderful escape. Now I get to be the victim, even
though it's me not giving you what you want. Isn't
that wonderful? That's, by the way, that is some of
the most clever stuff guys are told. We were told
guys or idiots. They're not idiots. They say things that
get them off the hook. So when I say I've

(01:28:07):
been I've just been hurt, really badly in the past,
and I just don't know if I can do this again.
It's I get to be a victim and keep having
it both ways. Give me a break, then don't then
stop going home with that person. If that's really the problem,
stop going home with that person. Give yourself real space.
So this is this? Is it? Right? People have to

(01:28:28):
be really self aware and say what is it I
really want. If I want a relationship and I've been
seeing this guy now for a few weeks or months,
I need to be able to say to him, listen,
I like you and I'm having a great time, but
I know I wouldn't be continuing to do this if
we were still seeing other people. So what do you think?
Where is your head at? You've got to be willing
to willing to have that conversation. Now. If he comes

(01:28:50):
back and he says, wow, I just you know, I'm
not sure, and you know I've been thinking about and
he points to like some graphs and some stats and
is like, I just you know, I'm confused about this
whole thing. If there aren't so it takes longer than
ten seconds, you know the answer, Yeah, The answer is
he's not ready for a relationship, at which point you say,
that's great. I respect it. I want you to be happy.
I want you to do what's gonna make you happy.

(01:29:11):
I also know what's going to make me happy, and
it's going to be going out there and finding someone
who's in the same place as me. There you go,
listen to Nikita. I love this question from you, Nikita,
because it seems so simple, but it really isn't It
really is very complex. Go right ahead him. So I
went on a date with the Sky in January. One
date kind of fell apart, didn't really talk. We met him.

(01:29:33):
I'm not a mutual friend of his in July who
kind of reheated things up between us. And now he
keeps asking me out to breakfast meet me for breakfast?
So what's wrong with that? Yeah, I don't know. I
think that that's weird. That's like a first date or
like a second date. So you're saying a date must
be a date, must be in a restaurant, or it
must be it must be something else other than breakfast,

(01:29:55):
is what you're saying. I feel like you're setting the
precedent of like what you expect, and like like to
instill that I expect more than that's three ninety nine breakfast.
I don't know that mean being difficult. If he asked
you to come to his house at eleven o'clock at night,
you'd be yelling at him because he's doing the whole
booty cool thing. So this is a respectable hour to
be seeing someone. You know, he's not trying to sleep

(01:30:17):
with you. But wait, I have a question. We don't
know that yet. My question is, what if he's in
another relationship and the only time he has free is
breakfast because his significant other goal is going to work
or whatever. Danielle's right in the whole part or well,
that's a good question. What if he's leaving it open
to you. Guys, have a great breakfast and you can
hang out all day. Here's my question, why? Why? Why

(01:30:42):
does everyone have to make such a big deal out
of it? He wants he wants to see her go
to breakfast. Yeah, I mean, maybe it likes waffles. We
don't know. I don't know. I mean, the fact is
is he's not Matthew. Seriously, Danielle, reality, Yeah, It's not
like he's saying I hate you, so therefore I'm only
going to give you breakfast time. He wants to hang
out with her and say Hi, how many times does

(01:31:03):
he ask you to breakfast? Well, he asked me like
a week ahead of time to go to a breakfast
on a specific day, and he's asked me twice. Okay,
so you're the difficult one here. Yeah, he's planned. Firstly,
he's doing every This is what makes day so confusing.
He's asking you in advance. You know how many women
come to me and say I wish a guy would

(01:31:24):
make plans. Instead of asking me at the last minute
to do something. He's asking you in advance. He's giving
you a specific day. He's asking you at an hour
where it's clear that he's not trying to take you
home at that hour, because what people guys do when
they want to take you home is they take you
out as late as possible and as close to their
house as possible with alcohol, right with alcohol. So he's

(01:31:44):
not trying to do that at least straight after breakfast.
He's just trying to see you. Now. The only caveat
to that is what Danielle said, which is if that
is the time that he's picking because he's got something
else going on, then that's a big caveat and that's
a problem. But there's nothing wrong with a guy asking
you out to breakfast. I actually think that's a romantic

(01:32:05):
I think that's a cool date manner, A right, Nikita.
I know, Look, if he's asking you just to hang out,
I mean, a date is a date is a date.
I mean, why do we have to have these restrictions.
It's not a jade unless it's these things. Well, it
just maybe it'll turn into that if it's interesting, see

(01:32:27):
what happens. You know what's kind of great about a breakfast.
It's so simple and so fast. You can get in there,
spend time with him, and you may be the one
that says, no, I don't want to another moment with
this guy. But I got you know, waffles, and then
you saw the rest of your day to do whatever
you want. Go do it. No, you hate it. See,

(01:32:47):
you're you're expecting this guy to like to want to
like take you out and be your your full time
committed boyfriend and just go ahead and get to know him.
What's wrong with that? Why are you in such a hurry?
I don't know answer to the question. Just you know,
what are you? Are? You sort of interested him on
the surface interested in him, like just on the surface,
yes or no? Um, I don't. I don't think so.

(01:33:10):
I think that like going on a date in January
and then kind of ghosting me and now coming back
because we have a mutual friends, Then why are you
even thinking about him? Move on? All right, you're waffling.
By the way, the number one reason that people focus
too much on one person is they're not creating options elsewhere.
So you gotta go create some more options. Nikita, you

(01:33:31):
deserve better than that good advice. Go get it. Yea,
it is great advice. That's why he's Matthew hushing. What's scary, Matthew.
I've loved everything you said up until this point. I
think that this guy is not going full throttle here.
He's investing time but not money. He's gotta go. He's
got to show her good a good dinner. You can't
just do Why are you guys rushing? Everything isn't even

(01:33:54):
by the way Peter would think, if this guy took
her out and spent a ton of money on her
to impress her early on, people would think that was gross.
And time is more valuable than money. You don't get
time back. You can get money back. Right. Look, in
this day and age where time is so important and
so we don't have it right, you go, Look, you
know what I'm it's early in the morning and my

(01:34:15):
day hasn't started yet. I could just go ahead breakfast weather,
just to say hi and get to know each other.
What is wrong with that? She's not showing me value
of our tricking our to ourn expressive garner. No, you
even know you guys are rushing into this. It's like
you know what you were talking about this earlier, Matthew.

(01:34:36):
We build these scenarios and these stories in our head.
It's just sometimes it's difficult just to hop in the
river and let the lazy river take us where it
wants to take us. Yes, just go and if it
works out, great. If it doesn't, oh, oh, this is
the first relationship that didn't work out. Look, we're all
in great relationships one minute and not the next, or
sometimes we're in a great relationship forever. That's just the

(01:34:58):
way of life. It's just the way it is. Damn
it scary. But of course, of course, cheap bastard Rodium here,
what if he's got a Coupon's good? But there is
money anyway, So I want you to do me a favor.

(01:35:18):
I want you to go to get the Free Chapter
dot com and uh check out what Matthews are giving
you for free. Then he lures you in. You really
are fantastic at what you do. People really should do that,
because that last caller was a prime example of why
people need to create more opportunities it. You know, all

(01:35:38):
over the world there are people who are just obsessed
with this one person, and if someone better came along tomorrow,
they wouldn't be But the reason they don't have someone
else is because they're not actually out there being proactive.
So this gives people specific ways to do that. The
free chapter huh, it's complimentary. The word free is so
cheap and tawdry. Yeah, anyway, so get the free chapter

(01:36:02):
dot com. I want you to check out now. It's
so important and having you back in the saddle with
us is kind of fantastic. It's I said this during
the break. It's never long enough. I always feel like
we need more time. Have we run out of time?
Is that it with me? No? No, no, you can
stay until the cows come home, as they say. Anyway,

(01:36:22):
we love you, Matthew. I love you everything. Matthew Hussey.
We're all about and we'll see you at the wedding.
I can't wait. Every The good thing about you at
my wedding is if Alex dumps me, it's you, baby,
your next understanding. I'll make you not to bring anyone.
You're the understanding. Don't take sand of the beach. I'll
come alone. No, no, no, I don't know whoever it is.

(01:36:45):
We'll take care of them anyway. Thank you, locked in
the closet like I've done all the others. Matthew Hussey.
Thank your show. Oh my god, how thank you again

(01:37:06):
to Matthew Hussey for coming in. I always love to
see our family coming coming back to the table. Yeah, hey,
so asap Rocky news. Yeah yeah, Garrett, what'd you hear?
He was found guilty in Sweden. But here's the thing.
He's not in Sweden anymore, so he's never going back
to Sweden. But he doesn't have to serve jail time.
They've said that what he served is going to be enough. Yeah,
well they couldn't if he needed to serve more jail time.

(01:37:27):
They couldn't force him to go back. Well, there have
been known to be extradition proceeds. Something tells me I
think he's saved. Yeah. Well, how would you feel if
one country on the planet has said no, you can't
go there? Yeah? I love that. I would talk about
it all the time. Forgot her name, but remember it.
If a very famous case from Italy were the student
was accused of murdering her roommate. Oh yeah, man, oh yes,

(01:37:50):
that's right. And she's like one day she's like, oh,
I'm going back to Italy. I'm like, would you do it? Girls,
stay out of Italy. Stop rolling the dice. Come on, yeah,
go to little Italy. Yeah. I can't go to Epcot
anymore in Canada. In Epcot, I got too drunk and
they wouldn't serve me and asked me not to come back.
So you can't go to Canada in Epcot, Yes, but
you go to all the other count can go to

(01:38:11):
all the other countries, I don't know. But I can
only get to the border of Epcot and then have
to turn around. Technically, I'm not allowed in certain countries
because I have an Israeli stamp in my passport. So
there are other countries who won't let you in. But
once I get yeah, and they tell you that before
you get this one, did you do something as simple
and great as visiting Israel? You're not allowed in another country. Yes,

(01:38:31):
let's get into the sound with Grett. Garrett, well you
have all right? So remember last week we played the
sound from Bachelor in Paradise. Danielle threw up from the
guy JPJ who ate tacos. Well, this week he's not
doing that. He's actually trying poetry. This guy should just
stop um for what lady, is it that enriches the
hand of yonder Knight? For dis knee that teaches the

(01:38:52):
torches to burn so bright? I'll watch the take thy
place of stand? All right, I'm turned off. All right,
there's a girl. Uh there's a singing competition in China
called sing and two little girls have a death metal band. Now,
one of these little girls sounds like a little girl
and the other sounds like a forty year old man. Okay,

(01:39:33):
imagine growing up with that voice. All right. Mike Tyson
has a podcast. It's called Hot Boxing. Yeah. Now, if
let's play a quick game, how much do you think
Mike Tyson spends on weed a month? Oh god, I
would say, you know me, I'm gonna go too high,
because I'm sure he gets great weed. I think a
thousand bucks. Thousand bucks, I would say, more, what do

(01:39:54):
we smoke him? What? They ten tons of weed at
the ranch a month. That's way too much, even great weed. Yeah, hustled. Well,
he also has uh he also sells to out in
Nevada and Los Angeles, so he makes a lot of
money too. But you don't. You don't smoke your own

(01:40:16):
product from what I've heard. But whatever, all right, So
the Ron Burgundy podcast, it's one of the best podcasts
on iHeartRadio number one, as I've been told. And uh,
you know, Ron Burgundy reads off a teleprompter when he
does the news, and he reads whatever is in front
of him. And in radio, when you get a commercial,
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you Karrot. Today's was the strangest sound segment we've ever had.

(01:41:27):
I smoked Mike Tyson stuff. Yeah. Um. We were talking
to Matthew Hussey earlier about going out for breakfast? Is
that a date or not? And I was like, well,
if you don't think it is fine, it would if
you want to believe that. Great. So one of our
gay listeners in Philly said, well, wait, guys like gay
guys love to go on brunch dates. But when women

(01:41:51):
are the straight women are there that it's usually just
a bunch of straight girls together. It's not a date.
Do people go on? Can anyone stop eating for just
a minute? Can you just stop please? So my question
is this is a brunch a date or is it
as a brunch a party? To me, brunch can't be
a date really, I think it can be whatever you

(01:42:13):
make it. Yeah, a bunch date, a brunch date, yeah,
because I don't want to go on a brunch with
one person. To me, a brunch is like twenty five people.
Oh well, no, but I could see that. I could
see you going on a date. But brunch, I can
brunch with a person if you go to If you
go on a brunch date, you're gonna get smashed probably,
and you know what happens after you get smashed, Yes,

(01:42:35):
you get smashed. This is true. All right, Well, okay,
open minded me. I'm gonna open it a little wider
and say, yes, you can go on a brunch date. Yes,
and hopefully you'll have friends like across the room. You
know what I'm saying. His name is the morning show Audible.

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I love it. What's that scary? It's z E M
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Thank you for the gift, the gift of me looking
like TUTSI. I've never felt sex here. He did, Santino,
he voiced Hans and frozen. He didn't know that. Oh wow, Nate,

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you just teaching me all thoughts off from Zenny Optical. Really,
I do need new glasses. Maybe all well, they're not
my prescription, but you know I feel I feel handsome
in these. Someone just send a text Tutsie was fantastic.
I'm so glad I got to see it, and the
Tony win was well deserved. It was I'm telling you,

(01:47:03):
thank you, Zenni. It was the glasses that one that
it was amazing. Well he's supposed to yeah anyway, so
we got that going for us. So thank you to
Zenny Optical, ze n n I Optical. Go get your
tutsie glasses. I want everyone, I don't want one person
to not have a pair of tutties. Everyone's walking around
with the tutti glasses. You know. I was noticing yesterday

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everyone's walking around looking at their phones. How come they
all can't be looking at the phones through tutsie glasses?
Oh they can't. Why not? It's a very serious thing.
Bless you, Thank you. Let's get into the three things
you need to know from Gandhi. Also today's way back Wednesday,
phone tap from Scarry is on the way. What do
you have going on? All? Right? Planes flying again in
and out of Hong Kong International Airport. There have been
ten weeks of protests, but two really intense days where

(01:47:47):
the airport got shut down. So it's open again. The
protests continue. Something really interesting happened in the middle of
the galaxy. I don't know if any of you guys
saw this report, but there's a giant black hole and
it has lit up four days this year, and scientists
want to know why. They say that that means something
is happening within the black hole. We need answers. You
need to look into that. If your black hole starts

(01:48:07):
lighting up, yest some worry. I would love to go
check that out myself, but o't. And finally we talked
about this, but really quickly asap Rocky was found guilty
of assault following that street fight in June in Sweden.
He's not going to have to serve any more time.
They say it's a month that he did in the
detention center. It's going to be time served. But they
do say that he used excessive force. And don't forget
President Trump did get involved with this, and you know,

(01:48:29):
people are saying he was treated really horribly while he
was there and it was just self defense. But he
was found guilty, and I have a question if he
wasn't found guilty, would how would they have given him
that month back? They give you time back, right, Yeah, no,
you're done. All right, let's take a break your phone
tap up next? Oh girl, that has happened to me?

(01:48:50):
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dot com. Slash Elvis, Elvis durand phone tap All right, scary?
What's your phone tap all about? Today? Well, we got
a call from Cindy who said that her dad, Curtis,
hates telephone telemarketers. He just gets completely crazy when he
encounters them. So we figured we'd put it to the
test and I would call as mister Michael Oppenheimer selling

(01:49:33):
him something crazy. All right, let's see what happens A
call from mister Michael Oppenheimer. Oh, yes, good afternoon. This
is mister Michael Oppenheimer with black Bush Irish whiskey. How
are you doing today, sir? And find yourself. Black Bush
Irish whiskey has a viscous and rounded, medium to full

(01:49:54):
bodied taste. YEA a roma is reminiscent of fresh sea air,
are accompanied by rich flavors of molasses and chocolate. Are
you going to what's going on here? Three for one
hundred and twenty four dollars and sixty eight cents today,
three bottles or three cases. I have three bottles here
for just one hundred twenty four dollars and sixty eight

(01:50:15):
cents of black Bush Irish whiskey, and say it's got
viscus chocolate. What's this? It's a single malt whiskey and
it's married with a single green whiskey. Not interested? Oh?
Ask anthnon? This is mister Michael Oppenheimer with black whis
I told you I'm not interested. Thanks by, I didn't

(01:50:36):
get to tell you that it was developed in nineteen
thirty four. Speaking. This is mister Michael Oppenheimer with you're
gonna call me? I didn't get to tell you that
Black Bush Irish told me all about the viscus smell.
That cut the script. How many would you like to
order today? Sir? What the hell are you trying to
do here? I do not need you selling me whiskey?

(01:50:59):
All right? You're just want to suit me back anymore? Sir?
Just think I'm hearing your book, sir. Just one you
didn't let me finish. Oh, please continue, Just one sip
and you'll be hooked on the taste of black bush.
Do you know they got robots that do your job

(01:51:20):
much better? Black Bush Irish whiskey is aged in a
sherry oak cask for nine to eleven years for that distinctive,
full bodied flavor. Why don't you go and take your
black bush and sell it to your mother? About swirling
some black push around in your mouth? I told you
I'm in. I have been cleaning sober now for three years.

(01:51:41):
I do not need any more black bush. Do you
understand me? I don't think you're understanding. It's bottled at
eighty proof and it's deleting super down there show so
much black bush down your boat, you're gonna be dagging
on it from bas Oh buy it Christ to do
with you, Juliet? It's black bush? Are you? Are you

(01:52:05):
wasting on me? You could have been a hammering black
bush and throw any drunk you sign at the bar. Sir,
my name is mister Michael Oppenheimer, and this is the
Superior Premium Irish Whiskey and her Black Bush Irish whiskey
might be good for your mom. She doesn't drink either.
Would your mother like black bush? You drinks water? What

(01:52:26):
about for your wife? My wife doesn't need any black Bush,
or your wines, or your ship pans, or your beverages
or your carbinated alcohol at this that you and your
wife would just love the subtle sherry sweetness of black Bush.
It's so smooth. Hello, this is mister Michael Oppenheimer. With sir,

(01:52:48):
you're very angry. You could definitely use some of this
whiskey to calm you down just a little. A man
with a handful of black Bush is a very happy down.
I'll dach sure we're running a sale today if you
buy three bottles of black Bitch I get I'm a friend.

(01:53:12):
I got this guy calling me and a friend. I
don't know what it is. Are you still there? You
obviously don't know anyone with black bush, otherwise you'd be
ordering this. I don't know anybody with black Bush, buddy, answer,
what quitted card would you like to use today? I
don't have any credit card, I don't have any wallet.
I leave in a cardboard box, but not a fact.

(01:53:36):
I stole this phone. So if you call back you're
gonna be arrested as an access to let me on
before you go. I think I should tell you you've
been phone tapped yourself. Hey, Curtis, this is Scary Jones
from Elvis to Rand in the Morning Show. And your
daughter Sindy's playing a phone tap on you. What is
this again? It's a radio prank. Put Sindy on the phone.

(01:54:00):
She had to go into a meeting, but she I'm down.
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(01:54:24):
Something I've been thinking about, not only because Matthew Hussey
mentioned it earlier, about when you're out and about and
you see someone you want to connect with, but also
just in real life experience, if you want to appear
more confident. Yeah, eye contact, Oh yeah, totally. You know what.
It's so easy to go through your day without really
truly looking anyone in the eye. Yes, and you can.

(01:54:46):
You can actually get along successfully and be just fine
in life without looking people in the eye. Yeah, but
eye contact is something you have to constantly work on.
I really notice it. I do too, Yeah, and I
notice when people are not giving it to me, and
I think, huh, am I you or are you just shy?
What is going on? Maybe a little of everything? Maybe,
But yeah, I tell you this, there is a perceived
confidence in someone if they have the ability to look

(01:55:08):
you in the eye, and I'll just kind of gloss
over you. How many times if you've hat someone at
a party and they not only do they not only
not look you in the eye, but they're actually looking
behind you to see what else is going on, that's
the worst. Or their eyes are on their phone also
the worst. So great tea. Yes, more eye contact today,
you and all of us. I have difficulties with it.

(01:55:29):
You do, I do well for two reasons. Okay, So
for one, because you're looking at me in the eye
now and you're having no problem with it. Well, because
that's because you've trained me. You told me look me
in the eyes. So I try to do the best
I can, but it really bothers me. I don't know
what you're thinking back at me by looking in your eyes,
so then I try to look at your mouth maybe
in that area. And then also when the job that

(01:55:51):
I have here for so many years, I always spoke
to all of you on the show through the phone,
so I never had to look at your face, see,
and that was a problem. But now you're looking at
me in the eye right now, I feel like we're
actually having a conversation with each other. And it's a
good thing. Scary for he doesn't even open his eye. Yeah. No,
I close my eyes when I talk, like he's doing
it right now. He closes his eyes when he talks.

(01:56:11):
It's the strangest things. I don't know if it's a
I don't know. I don't know. It's hard, but it is.
It's a challenge. But I'm telling you right now, if
you from from now until the rest of the day,
if you can make it your number one effort to
look people in the eye when you speak with him, Yeah,
and I'll just answer them and walk away. I think
you'll be surprised at how it'll change everything. You know

(01:56:34):
what I'm saying. Yeah, I just wonder what you're thinking
of me when I'm looking right now, you stop that,
you need to stop that. It's okay, don't worry about that.
Don't worry about about what I'm thinking. Might stop worrying
about what other people are thinking, all right, Danielle, One
more look at whatever you're looking at. You give me
your favorite two stories, all right, So let's talk about

(01:56:55):
the Haunting of Hill House season two. It's actually called
the Haunting of Bligh Manner this time around. It's based
on a novella actually, and it's ghost stories. It's gonna
be fantastic. It's supposed to be scarier than the last.
I don't know when it's coming, but it's coming soon.
That's all you know is it's coming soon. It's coming soon. Uh.
And jay Z and Rock Nation are partnering with the

(01:57:15):
NFL for events and activism. This is actually pretty cool.
The NFL said they're going to consult with jay Z's
Rock Nation on its entertainment presentations, even super Bowl halftime show.
But he's not going to perform at the halftime show.
Maybe he will eventually, so we'll see what happens. You
can produce it. Yeah, he's got the juicy does the

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