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On today’s MKD, we begin with the story of a woman who sat in human feces on a NYC subway and then returned the jeans she was wearing. 

In celebrity news, we get into Jamie Foxx's stroke and Brandi Glanville's parasite claim. 

Shifting to freak accidents and true crime, we cover a woman blinded by a Dior bag, an 11-year-old who survived a shipwreck, a woman killed by her mattress, an update about the kayaker dad who faked his death, and daycare workers arrested after children ate water beads. 

Finally, in medical and other death news, we explore a 23-pound breast tumor, making animal sounds to help you poop, hole injections, and the story behind Rockefeller Center's 2024 Christmas tree. 

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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi.
Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. Let's get started with
the story.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
Of the day.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
So this shit goes on TikTok recently and explained that
one day she's taking the train in New York and
she sits down and immediately realizes something is wrong. Well,
what was wrong was that she sat in some human feces.
Oh my god, I can't imagine. Like I hear horror
stories of taking the subway, especially in New York. Like
I used to take the train in Philly all the

(00:47):
time and I never ever encountered any kind of.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
Situation like this.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
But I just saw a video on Instagram recently of
this guy laying across the train seats and just peeing,
like in his pants and it was dripping all over
the floor. And you're just like, this is just people's
every day commute. It's just insane.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
I guess when I was interning there, I guess that
what was that ten years ago?

Speaker 2 (01:12):
Now, that's insane to think about.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
The worst thing I ever experienced was a man sitting
next to me was watching poorn on his phone, which
I just got up and walked away, and you had,
you know, your infamous airplane story with Andrea and the
guy touching himself next but the guys. Yeah, but anyway,
in this story, so she realizes that she sits in
this human feces, and then she goes on to share
that she was wearing jeans that she rented from the

(01:37):
company Newly and she ended up returning them back to
the company. Okay, I have so many questions. First, no
one saw the shit or saw her about to walk
into the train and sit there, Like the whole train
car probably smelt if someone pooped in there, right, because
think about it, it's just like a small contained area. Yeah,

(01:57):
so she probably could see how it could happen by accident,
because there's been plenty of times where I was running
to the train and just like ran in and threw
myself in.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
It's whatever available seat was there, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
But I don't even want to say that exclusively New
York people are just jerks and don't care about what
anybody else is doing. I think it's just a Northeastern
thing because you know, when we go to Tennessee and
everybody's so nice down there, and you're like, you're what's
your angle? Yeah, Like you'll just be out, walk into
your car or something and someone will say, Hardy, how's

(02:32):
your day, and.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
You're like, what the fuck are you looking at? Why
are you talking to me? Exactly?

Speaker 1 (02:37):
So I think we're used to that because we grew
up in this area and we're used to that attitude.
But I'm gonna say it's probably that that everybody sees
this poop, but nobody's nice enough to be like, hey,
don't sit there. Okay, So as soon as she sits
down in the poops, how did she realize it right away?
I mean she obviously like it smelled really strong, but
how did she realize that she was sitting in it?

Speaker 2 (02:57):
I mean, I.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Guess you just look around right and then you see
that you have like a brown substance spared on your
back and it smells horrible. Okay, So so then what
happened next?

Speaker 2 (03:07):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (03:08):
So basically she realize that she has the poop on
the jeans, and then she gets off the train, it
goes to Lululemon and is able to buy leggings and
change into them at the store, which I would argue,
don't you think that the feces would secrete through the genes,
so it would be on your legs anyway.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Oh yeah, I mean like putting a brand new pair
of pants on.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
But what are you gonna do otherwise, Like you're in
the city or nowhere near your house, Like I would
have done the same thing. At least, yes, it's on
your legs, but still like, at least you're getting the
majority of it off of you, because what what are
you gonna do, like strip naked in the middle of
the street and ask somebody that works at a flower
shop to like hose you down or something. I mean, like,
what are the alternatives? At this point, there definitely are,

(03:51):
But apparently it seems like the Lululemon employees had some
sympathy and gave her a discount on the pants after
she explained what happened and kept reiterating that it was
not her own poop on her pants, So then she
goes home. She said she washed the jeans a couple
of times, and then she did return them to Newly.
This appears to have happened a year ago, and she

(04:12):
just posted this TikTok recently, and then Newly just became
aware of this. Recently, and they're assuring everybody that they
double wash fully sanitize any clothing that's being rented out,
even if the person claims they washed it before sending
it back. And you know, I think they were making
light of the situation, which is funny for a company
to be, and they assured that these genes have been

(04:34):
taking it out of rotation. But in all honesty, though,
if this happened to you, like I would go to
Lululemon and throw those pants in the fucking trash, like,
I don't care whose they are, how much they cost.
I just would be like sorry, like I'm throwing these
out because think about this. Then she like folded up

(04:56):
the pants with the shit in it, right, put it
in a bag, went back on the train with a
bag full of shitty pants. Now the shit's been sitting
out for hours, right, and then went home and put
it in her own washing machine, like I'm sorry, and
I'm wondering, like if she actually contacted the company and
told them what happened, how they would have handled it.

(05:17):
But how much could these genes have cost? Really, I'm
just curious. Didn't say what brand they were, It didn't
But Newly is you know, there's rent the runway, which
is higher end clothing, and then Newly is kind of
the next step down. So by saying that, I don't
want to say they don't have expensive stuff, but it's
more along the lines of brands like Lululemon, Anthropology, stuff

(05:39):
like that, stuff that's a couple hundred dollars, but not
jeans that are one thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
So and they're used. So why exactly?

Speaker 1 (05:47):
And it's funny because she said, oh, she really liked
the pants, so she rented them again or something in
the article, and I'm just reading why don't you just buy?
Why didn't you just buy the pants? I don't know,
I because how much could you rent them for that?
Getting them mouple times? Just want and pay off to
just buy a pair. I'm pretty sure how it works
with them is you pay a monthly subscription fee and
then you get like five items in that fee. But

(06:10):
the advantage of that is if you do really like
an item, you can buy them at a discounted price
because obviously other people have worn them, they're preloved whatever. Right.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
So I don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
If I ship myself in my own genes, I would
not keep them and put them in the wash.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
No, come on, Like, who does that really? I definitely
would not.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
I think you know, she's getting a lot of backlash
for sending them back, and it's like, well, nobody in
the world would have known this if you didn't make
a public information. So there's something you think that there's
a possibility that this entire story just like isn't true.
I mean it could be possible for viral clicks and stuff.
I don't know, just because I'm just thinking from a

(06:53):
normal perspective. Plus, let's not take let's think about this though.
Human shit carries disease. Yeah, and so you sit on it,
and the chance of her possibly touching it by accident
are really really high, especially with all that she did
with sitting down, realizing it, going to the store, taking

(07:14):
the pants off, folding the pants off, put them in
a bag, put them in their washero machine. Like, she
could have easily gotten a drop on her hand. And
then if you have a fecal oral contamination, you could
get all sorts of different things like viral hepatitis or
any kind of gi like food poisoning type of bog.
It's just kind of like, dude, like that's that's a biohazard,

(07:38):
especially from a stranger like that. You know, like she
really should have not done that. If this really happened.
I don't think a lot of people realize that how
dangerous poop is. Like I'm being serious. I really don't
think people realize how much bacteria and problems it could cause.
I think they just think it's this really disgusting thing
that happened to them. And I agree she should have

(08:01):
just thrown him in the trash, because how are you
coming back from that? I'm sorry, even if the jeans
are a thousand dollars, I would have called Newly immediately
and been like, listen, I live in New York City.

Speaker 2 (08:10):
I just sat in some random person. Shit.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
I don't feel comfortable sending these back because I don't
know what was in the poop. I already had to
deal with this, suffer from this, so like, let's just
end it there.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
But yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
Just a part of me like almost is like did
this really happen? I think it's so outrageous that it
did happen, and I could very easy. I see, I
believe that it could happen. I'm just saying, like, if
you surveyed any right one right now that's listening to this,
they would all be like, yeah, it's like I literally
left Lululemon and threw them in the trash out front

(08:45):
of the store, Like that's what any person in the
world would do. Anyway, we're talking about this too much.
Let's get into celebrity news. So last year, Jamie Fox
had this mystery illness and was out of commission for
a while. He was in the middle of filming a
movie and just you know, or it's started coming out
that he had this medical event and nobody really knew
what happened. So now he's released this new Netflix special

(09:06):
and he's explaining basically that he had a brain bleed
that led to a stroke which put him in a
coma for twenty days. So what happened was I guess
it started off as him getting this immediate sudden headache.
And when I was in school, I remember learning when
we were learning about brain bleeds that they said that
it would be the worst headache of your life. So

(09:28):
if that ever happens to anyone and they just have
a headache, that just seems so bad that no.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
Matter what you do, it's just that bad.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
You should go to the hospital right away because this
could definitely be a sign of it. Other signs could
be nausea, dizziness and stuff like that. But a lot
of people that have this describe having this intense headache
that just comes on really really fast. Not like it
I would say, it's probably not like a migraine. It's
more like a stabbing like ugh pain. Right. So before

(09:57):
his I guess he asked one of his kids to
get him til or something, and before that could even happen,
he he just doesn't even remember anything. He was unconscious
and when he went in they said that he had
a brain bleed, which is a hemorrhagic stroke. So there's
two different kinds of strokes you could have. You could
have an a schemic stroke or you could have a

(10:17):
hemorrhagic stroke. So whenever you hear someone as a stroke,
they kind of usually lump them all in together. And
a schemic stroke is usually due to like a blockage
or something in the coronary artery that prevents oxygen oxygenated
blood from getting to the brain. So is schemic just
means a lack of oxygen, but a hemorrhagic stroke is different,

(10:37):
and that's when something bleeds, and it could be caused
by a lot of different things. And he's saying they're
saying he doesn't know why he got it, but you
could have an aneurysm that burst that causes it. You
can get it from high blood pressure or whatever. I mean,
he's young, fifty six years old, so I'm sure they'll
investigate to see why this happened. But the good news
is with hemorrhagic stroke is that they they don't really

(11:00):
happened anywhere near as frequent as the schemic strokes, but
they are way more deadly than in a schemex stroke.
So if you have a hemorrhagic stroke, the chance of
you dying from it is is really really high.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
It's just really scary.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
I thought he was, you know, it was interesting he
was able to make light of it, saying that when
he came to he was really confused about what happened,
and they were like, you had a stroke, and he said,
jimby fucks, don't get strokes.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
I love that.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
Well, you know, like half of people that have hemorrhagic
strokes die and then the ones that survive, almost all
of them have some kind of long term effects that
they say that they're not the same as they were.
So it's I mean, it's it's really really dangerous, and
it's kind of amazing that that he was able to
survive this, and he seems like he's I mean, he's
still kind of making jokes and stuff, so he seems

(11:51):
all right. But when he first came out of it,
he had to go to a rehab center and stuff
because he couldn't walk. He was having all this difficulty,
and it took them a long time to what this
happened in April, right, I think that's happened in April
twenty three. Yees, So it's been a while and he
hasn't even talked about it this whole time he's been.
I mean, it obviously scared the shit.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
Out of him, you know.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
So so he was only like, yeah, fifty four fifty
five when it happened. Yeah, he's very young, so and
I would consider him to probably be a really healthy
person too, So this is probably just a shock that
something like this happened in general, and then being in
a coma for twenty days must be incredibly scary and
must have been really scary for his family. But at

(12:33):
least it seems like he's on some road to recovery
and is doing somewhat well. Yeah, all right, let's move
on to this story about Brandy Glenville. So she's a
former Real Housewife of Beverly Hills. Over the weekend, she
posted this unrecognizable photo of her on X with a
caption called that just said sick it. So it made
everybody really concerned because she looks very different than she

(12:56):
did even a couple months ago from public appearances. So
now she's explaining that she believes she got a parasite
while filming The Real Housewives Ultimate Girl's Trip in Morocco
and that it has been eating away at her face.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
I so I've seen her in that show. What was
she in the Beverly Hills, really Hills?

Speaker 1 (13:15):
But that was like when I watched that when I
first started, that was like over ten years over ten
years ago, and I thought she was really really dutiful
and stuff, And now her face looks it just looks
like she's having some major issues. She said that she's
spent seventy thousand dollars trying to figure out what's wrong
with her face, with all this blood work and everything.

(13:38):
And the doctors are saying they don't know what it is.
And also she said that they said that she might
have some kind of parasite that they don't know about yet. Well,
I find it interesting she would immediately say she got
it in Morocco, because there's a lot of drama with
this Ultimate Girl's Trip that they filmed, and I don't

(13:59):
think is going to end up releasing it because Brandy
Glanville allegedly sexually harassed another housewife and then that housewife
sued Bravo for it, and it's been this whole thing,
and Mark Arragos was representing Brandy Glanville and then just
recently dropped her and said she didn't have a case anymore.
So there's a lot of stress going on, and I

(14:21):
think a lot of people at first were thinking, you know,
her appearance was due to the stress she must have
from this lawsuit that's been going on for it must
be over a year this lawsuit's.

Speaker 2 (14:30):
Been going on.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
She's also probably not getting paid the full amount because
I believe they get half up front for the filming
and then they get half after it airs. And everybody
believes this thing's not airing at this point because of
the lawsuit involved. So I think at first everybody was
assuming it was related to stress from you know, not
getting paid or having this lawsuit even come up, or

(14:52):
that you know, she has very openly gotten a lot
of procedures done to her face as far as getting
botox and fillers and everything, and I think think a
lot of people think she went overboard with.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
Yeah, So this is what I was going to say.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
And I'm curious about her work up because when the
first thing that I saw when I looked at it
was and I didn't even read the.

Speaker 2 (15:11):
Story when I first saw the picture.

Speaker 1 (15:13):
I don't see any evidence that she has some kind
of subcutaneous parasite, because there are parasites that you could
get under your skin, that you could see crawling underneath
of your skin, but they most of them have a
specific look, very like worm like, skinny little worm like things,
along with redness, itching, irritation like her skin. Has no

(15:34):
evidence that she that of any kind of reaction as
far as that goes, not to say, I guess it
couldn't be something that's never been diagnosed before, because she
claims that she sees things moving under her face, but
is there video of that I'd like to see that personally.
My first opinion was that she's having a reaction to fillers,

(15:55):
like granuloma infection or inflammation that's causing her to have
these inflammatory nodules that are underneath of the skin that
are reacting to the filler or whatever is. I mean,
I would assume that someone on her level wouldn't get
some kind of illegal injections of silicone or something like that,

(16:17):
because then that would one hundred percent confirm to me that.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
Is what it is.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
But people could have reactions to fillers too, so I
don't know. Like I would think that they could simply
figure out what it is if they biopsied her, her
skin and her subcutaneous tissue, they would be able to
easily figure out what was going on.

Speaker 2 (16:36):
But I don't know what they're doing.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
Did you also see that she lost like five teeth
two related to this?

Speaker 2 (16:43):
No, I just don't. I don't.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
I don't know, like I like I said, like, I'm
not taking care of her. I don't know what workup
they did and stuff. It just doesn't scream parasitic infection
to me. Yeah, they said she lost five teeth, which
started from a bout of stress. Induced to angioedema. Okay,
so I just thought that was unusual, like people just
don't normally lose teeth.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
I feel, Yeah, I don't. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
I'm just curious if she and and also I mean
she could even if this has nothing to do with fillers,
like she could just be having a medical like an
autoimmune thing or something like. I just I'm not sure
they're doing one hundred percent the proper workup on her.
But whatever, I mean, it sucks because when it's your face,
you know what I mean, Like, yeah, absolutely, so, I

(17:30):
mean it's brave of hurts for any reason to post
it like that, because it doesn't I think that most
people would say it doesn't look good, you know what
I mean, Like, it's not like she's she's trying to
bring awareness to something.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
I guess.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
Yeah, I mean, I think I think a lot of
times two people post online because they're seeking medical treatment
and they can't get answers, so they're hoping somebody that
sees it online will help them out. Yeah, So, okay,
freak accidents, all right. So a couple of years ago,
these two friends in early twenties were hanging out when
the one girl just you know, casually swung her purse

(18:04):
over her shoulder, as we all do, and her metal
strap hit the friend in the face, which caused a
tear in her left eye.

Speaker 2 (18:11):
Yeah, so she ended up.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
She didn't really get treatment at first, I mean she did,
I guess she went to the doctor that didn't think
it was that bad, and they patched it up and everything.
But then over the course of the next couple of
days and weeks, she started noticing that she was having
floaters and black spots in her eyes. And she was
only twenty two when it happened, so she just kept
blowing it off and stuff, and then finally she just
lost vision in her eye. And she went to the

(18:35):
doctor finally, and they were like, your retina is almost
completely detached, and we have to fix this right now.
So for any of you listening, if you ever, you
don't even have to have an injury, because this just
happened to my neighbor across the street. If you are
having any kind of vision changes like that, like getting

(18:55):
floaters or spots, you really should go because if your
retina become detached, you could just become permanently blind. It's
considered an eye emergency, you should go. They want to
do surgery very fast. With my neighbor across the street,
she just told us like, oh, I have to go tomorrow,
tomorrow and get the surgery, like it was that, you know,
quick that they scheduled her. So what happens is the

(19:18):
retinal cells behind the eye they detach from the blood supply,
and if it doesn't get proper oxygen, you can go
completely blind. So it's definitely serious. And now she's had
to have all of these surgeries. I think she said
she's had nine surgeries now and it's still not fixed.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
Yeah, So as of September twenty twenty four, so just
a couple of months ago, this said her retina is
completely detached. So it's at the point where she's only
able to make out shadows and colors, which just want
it must be devastating to have, you know, this freak
thing happened to you and then this is the final result.

Speaker 2 (19:52):
Yeah, it is.

Speaker 1 (19:53):
And just like you think about like hanging out with
your friend and just getting whipped in the face by
purse by accident. I mean, it was really reminded me
of the time that you had your really long talon fingernails,
and you went go get the keys and pointed and
then stabbed me right in my eyeball.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
I was only ten.

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Years old, and that hurt really bad, and nothing happened,
so I can't imagine something worse. Well, I think that
in good faith, door should make her like a bedazzled
eye patch.

Speaker 2 (20:20):
At least they should do that for her.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Yeah, I mean that would be superballer to have a
d or eyepatch, so they should consider it, all right.
Last week in Italy, this boat carrying forty five people
got caught up in a bad storm, which caused it
to sink. Coincidentally, three days later, this rescue company was
conducting another search mission in the water and heard this
child screaming from a distance. It was three point thirty

(20:43):
in the morning, so and they could not believe they
heard her over you know, all the engines running and everything.
So somehow this eleven year old that was on the
boat with forty five people was able to maneuver and
improvise these life rings made from air filled inner tubes.
She also had a life jacket on and she just
flowed in the water for three days until she was rescued.

Speaker 2 (21:03):
I feel so terrible. It's why was she in a
boat with forty five people? Do you know?

Speaker 1 (21:12):
I mean, it seemed like the boat started in Tunisia
and was just off the coast of Italy. I don't
really know, Like there was speculation that they were like
on this boat and they shouldn't have been, and maybe
it wasn't up Dakota or something. So I'm not really sure.
But they believe everybody else on the boat is dead,
So I don't think they're gonna have clear answers because

(21:35):
she's eleven, What does she really know?

Speaker 2 (21:37):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
I think like what I was reading was it seemed
like there's there's some kind of a situation there that
there's it's like a migration route, that this is common
that people are going from these areas and these boats
that are kind of, you know, janky, and this situation's
happening often, which is why they were there looking for another.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
Boat that that cap sized. I guess.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
So I'm curious, Like they didn't really say anything if
she was with her parents, she lost her parents, her siblings,
whatever there was. I guess there were two other survivors.
She said that they couldn't find those people either, But
I don't know what the temperatures of the waters were
or anything. But it did say that she hadn't had
anything to drink or eat in a couple of days,
and also that she had hypothermia. I just find it

(22:23):
interesting that even though nobody survived accept her, and maybe
there's a question if they were like on an illegal
route or something, how nobody has sonar in the water
and didn't realize there was a boat and then suddenly
there was it. I just find that really interesting. Well, wait,
who do you mean, just like nobody's monitoring the water

(22:45):
in that area to realize that there's anything in the water.
And then it said, I don't know, I don't think
that that's even a possibility with the size of the ocean. Like,
think about this right now, what's happening in New Jersey.
There's like the drone situation, right which is just this
huge mystery of all these things that are flying over
our house.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
Did you see any of them?

Speaker 1 (23:04):
Actually, I wanted to say to you when we were
driving to New York the other day, I didn't know
about this at all till like yesterday morning, Coach. I
don't even know how, but yesterday or two days ago
when we were driving to New York, it was really
foggy out and I saw weird lights and I was
just like, Oh, it must be a helicopter or an
airplane or some funny. But then when we got closer

(23:25):
to the city, I was like, Oh, we're actually nowhere
near the airport, and I just didn't really think about
it again. And then when I saw a picture of
one in the sky, I was like, oh, my god,
it was the same lights.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Yeah, so I don't want to say for sure, but
I believe I saw one on Tuesday night.

Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah, they they've definitely been in our neighborhood, Like people
are posting about it on Facebook all over the place
and everything. But anyway, everybody probably knows about this because
now it's on like Nation High News and everything. But
they're coming from the ocean, so clearly there's something out
there that like they're landing on, because they just can't
live in the middle of the ocean from the water.

(24:00):
They could if they're UFOs or whatever. I don't know
what they are, but my whole point is is that
they keep saying they don't know where they're coming from, right,
so they're they're not able to monitor everything. Right, if
there was some kind of a landing thing out there,
they would be able to figure out that it was
out there and know it.

Speaker 2 (24:19):
Right. I understand what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
I just refuse to accept in twenty twenty four that
all the militaries in the world don't have some type
of radar sonar underwater where they're like loosely monitoring stuff
but they listen. Like according to authorities, all of these
drones are in the sky like so many about the shipwreck,
not the drift. But what's the difference, Like they there's

(24:41):
all these things that they're like you can't shoot them
down because they're they're FA regulated and all this stuff,
but nobody knows exactly like where they're coming from, who
they are, what they're doing. It should be the same
theory in the air or the water, right, But like
it's just it's not.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
What happens, and everything's getting worked up. It's like an
alien abduction said you.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
I'm like, well, if it's happening, it's happening, so you know,
you should be worked up about it.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
There's you should be worked up about it, because I'm
worked up about it, But not that it's an alien
of it.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
It's just more it's just more annoying that, Like I'm
more worked up about it because I'm just like, all right,
you people are either lying or you're completely incompetent, like
either one of it is just driving me nuts. But
but you should worry that because like they're driving, they're
going over my backyard, and like I just don't really
want people like videotaping my entire property and shit, Like

(25:32):
you should be worried about that. I'm not saying I'm
not worried about the drones. I said I was not
worried it was an alien abduction. All right, Well some
people are anyway. Yeah, So this girl is hopefully, you know,
she ends up living a good life after this and
someone can adopt her or something, or they could find
her family if she wasn't with her family. I mean,

(25:52):
she's the same age as Lilian. It's just so sad
to think of like a little kid going through something
like that, you know, I mean it must be incredibly
I feel like this is like, you know, a book
or movie worthy experience that she was able to even
if an adult helped her, you know, improvise these life
refs or whatever that she was on. That she survived this,

(26:14):
it must have been horrifying. I can't believe she didn't
have a threat from like a predator in the water
or something. So it's it's really unfortunate and tragic that
she had to go through this, But it could be
a cool story that maybe in her adulthood could help
other people. Yeah, this elderly woman had this sleep number
bed and she had it in the raised position. Do

(26:34):
you know MoMA and pop Up actually just bought a
bed like this. I don't even mind out they used
to have. They used to have the sleep number bed, right,
they had the sleep number bed, but the one that
just sank up and down. Yeah, so remember when you so,
when Maria and my niece were little kids. For you
guys that aren't familiar with it, it's like some kind
of bed that you know, did the boomers get on

(26:57):
QBC and pay fifteen thousand dollars for it with monthly
payments of ninety nine dollars for their entire life? Right,
So this is like a typical thing at anyone my
age probably is like, yeah, my parents had that too. Whatever,
So when the kids were little, So this bed has
adjustments on either side, and I guess it has like
these inflatable things in it, so you can make it

(27:19):
like really really hard or really soft. Well when you
make when you put it like all the way down
to zero, you can make it so soft that it
puts like a huge indent like you're you're basically like
laying inside of this this like coffin inside of the bed.
You know, like it's like you're inside the bed. And
when the kids were little, we used to put them

(27:40):
like it put it on zero and put it underneath
it there, and then we would like make the bed
over top of them and then say to my mom like.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
I can't find the kids, where are they? You know,
like stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
We used to do it with you and Deeedee and
Louie because you guys fit in there and if you
made the bed, you wouldn't even see a person was laying.

Speaker 2 (27:57):
And it was like so funny.

Speaker 1 (27:59):
But anyway, the out of them, Yeah, anyway this but
now they make my guests so it goes Elderly people
can like lift up and stuffy. So this woman has
this one that raises up and she went to go walk.
I guess between the raised part of the bed and
her wall, and then something at that exact moment triggered

(28:20):
to bed to go down to the flat position, and
it ended up trapping this poor old lady in between
the mattress and the wall, and she was stuck there
for two days. So I have questions because I thought
that I read in the article that there was some
kind of a timer she had set on it or
something for it to do that at a certain time.

Speaker 2 (28:41):
Is that when it went off?

Speaker 1 (28:42):
So that article, I guess this is quoted from the
lawsuit that we'll get into in a minute, but it
said the bed reportedly operated on a timer and without
a manuel override that would have made it possible for
the woman to free herself from being trapped. They also
cited that there was a lack of an audible worn
that the head of the bed was going to lower itself.
So I don't know if they're saying that these mattresses

(29:05):
should have some type of like beeping mechanism or something
to let you know that they're moving.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Yeah, I mean.

Speaker 1 (29:12):
Even that, though I understand what it's saying. Now, I
think that this is valid. If it goes in a
certain position, you should be able to like nudge it
and then go back up, you know what I mean. Like,
for example, when you go into an elevator and it starts,
the door start closing on you, if you nudge it
with your arm, it's like a person's there, and then

(29:34):
the doors go back in, you know what I mean. Like, Yeah,
that's some kind of sensor. That's what my old trunk
used to do that you hated with the automatic push button.
If it like started lowering but it like felt something
was there or it'd said something was there, it would
stop and go back up.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
I'm actually kind of surprised that it doesn't have something
like that because you would have thought that this would
have happened before with a kid or anything like that. So,
and I mean, it sucks that the lady was stuck
there for couple of days. I guess no one was
checking on her or something like, I don't, I don't know. Well,
after she was discovered, they brought her to the hospital.
She was then transferred to a rehab and then she

(30:10):
was eventually put on hospital still alive. She was still alive,
but she sustained serious injuries from it, and she suffered
for about a month and then eventually died.

Speaker 2 (30:19):
Yeah that sucks.

Speaker 1 (30:20):
So the family's suing the company now with the reasons
we quoted earlier, saying that the BedHead of failure in
its system.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
Yeah, I think this is really sad and horrible and
I can't imagine something this horrific.

Speaker 2 (30:35):
I'm really shocked.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
This is the first time we're here into this, honestly,
no mean should we should tell my mom and pop up?
I guess if they just got the one that bends
up now, Yeah, and you know sleep number of is
of course saying that they weren't aware of this situation
until they got the lawsuit, even though it happened last year.
So I guess we'll try to just keep eyes on
it and see where it lands. Yeah, guys, guess what

(31:05):
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Speaker 2 (32:01):
Okay. True crime, all right? Update about Ryan Borgwart.

Speaker 1 (32:06):
The dead that faked his own death so he could
allegedly go to use Beekistan. So he got back into
the US earlier this week. He's now in custody in Wisconsin.
Officials did not reveal where he came from, but they
believed that he was in Georgia, which is really confusing.
In the country of Georgia, not the state of Georgia.

(32:26):
And that's really confusing to me because that's quite a
hike between Georgia and Uzbekistan.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
So how did the two get mixed up.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
I don't know, but I'm surprised because I thought from
all the law and broforcement people that we heard from
that he really wasn't going to get in trouble for
this because he didn't break any laws.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
That's what they were saying, because like he.

Speaker 1 (32:48):
Got off with not that his charge is not that severe,
but but like they're saying, he led authorities to believe
that he went missing k acting all this stuff. And
I guess you could say that, but like, how could
you really prove that that's what he did, Like he
left his wife, he didn't do anything to ask for

(33:10):
that search, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
I don't know. It's just kind of weird.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
Well, I mean, I take you with Kirk, but yeah,
I just I'm curious about that, my all right. I
have many questions, one of which being if you're wanted
for a crime or something like they he did end
up getting charged, so there was crime a crime involved.
If you're wanted for a crime in the United States,
how are you allowed to just freely fly around like

(33:33):
he flew home himself. It seems like not escorted by police. Well,
that's why people escape to other countries when they do
crimes because they're it's like a pain, and they asked
to get them back here. Also, apparently he was looking
into the coverage pertaining to his disappearance, but he said
he used a VPN because I guess in the country
of Georgia they're allowed to extradite people to the United States,

(33:54):
so he didn't want to tip anybody off that he
was there. I'm very confused on all levels about this. Yeah,
I am too, but whatever he's I'm just like, I
wonder if he went there and he did get like
catfished and it just didn't work out, and he was like, well,
you know what, I better just come home, and like
then they asked him why he came back and he said,
my family. I guess husband of the year think you.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (34:18):
So he's been charged with obstructing an officer, which he
just made his first court appearance on Wednesday about and
he faces up to a ten thousand dollars fine in
nine months in prison. She's like, technically still married to
that dude, right they were married? Yeah, I wonder are
you allowed to get like an emergency divorce in situations
like this with sort of override.

Speaker 2 (34:37):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
I'm very fascinated by it. Yeah, they're still technically married.
I guess this is the only thing they could charge
him with because, like you're saying, there is this loophole
of he technically didn't waste any police resources because he
didn't make the call. This is just a weird case
because that that whole video with the chick with the
that girl that was interviewing people, and that got saying

(35:00):
that he was going to like he was married and
wanted to go to use Beekistan and stuff.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
The whole thing was just so weird about this whole thing.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
Do you think this guy saw that video and got
inspired by it so therefore made his searches seem like
he was going to use Bekistan? Probably he's and where
is that person at? I don't know, there's probably like
a whole you know how there's like these these creddits
for like all kinds of groups of people, you know, like, yeah,
it's probably just one of those situations.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
But he was given a bond of five hundred dollars
and they asked if he wanted to pay. He said
he only had twenty dollars left to his name, so
I think this is an epic failure on all parts,
and nice going his wife, bid go visit home and
hold five hundred dollars right outside the cell and just
be like, hey, look what I have? Yeah, exactly total.

(35:48):
Do you enjoy yourself in there? All? Right? This next
story is out of Louisiana. So back in July, two
children out of daycare had consumed water beads, and now
two of the daycare workers have been arrested. So we
were saying last episode that back in twenty twenty three
in the Grosser Room, we wrote this whole entire article
about toys that can injure you for the holidays coming up,

(36:11):
and we're going to talk about that more next week too,
because there's a lot of different toys that can injure
you unfortunately, but these particular ones are called water beads,
or they go by the brand name ORBS sometimes.

Speaker 2 (36:24):
Did you ever see them.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
Maria, Well, I'm most familiar with them because we've covered them,
I feel like so much in the grocerroom because they
are so dangerous, but I don't think I've ever encountered
them in real life, so they're almost they almost if
you think about like a pearl, like a pearl necklace.
They're these little tiny hard balls and when you put
them in water, they swell up and they turn into
these gelatinous balls. But they get they get like so

(36:48):
much bigger than their normal size when once they're inflated
with water. And they used to sell them at I mean,
like when the kids were younger and stuff.

Speaker 2 (36:58):
I saw that they would sell them at tar.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
And you know, I did get them once when they
were you know, a couple of years ago.

Speaker 2 (37:04):
I got them for them.

Speaker 1 (37:05):
And what they do is they put these beads in
the water and then they get all swollen and they
could like play with them. It's like a censory thing,
and I mean they're kind of satisfying to like play with.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
They feel like like like a like a gummy kind
of a ball. Right.

Speaker 1 (37:19):
So the danger is is that and you're never ever
supposed to have these around little little kids that put
shit in their mouth, because the danger is is that
kids pick up these things and they put them in
their mouth and then all of a sudden, when it's
inside of their body, it gets fluid, and then they
get huge and this thing that turns out to be
a little tiny pearl is now like the size of
a ping pong ball inside of your kids intestine, causing

(37:42):
a blockage, and it could cause a perforation and death
in kids.

Speaker 2 (37:45):
It has caused death in kids.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
So yeah, you know why the daycare workers should get
charged because I don't even understand, Like how old are
kids that go to daycare before kindergarten five? Like they
probably there's not a kid there that should even be
playing with these things at all, honestly, no, and they
definitely need to be supervised. I mean, they shouldn't be
playing with anything that they could fit in their mouths
so easily like that with nobody watching. Yeah, Like I

(38:08):
mean a five year old. Five year olds usually don't
put stuff like that in their mouth. That's usually like
four and under his most common. But like you don't
have something like that in the room where any baby
especially can get a hold of it because they're bright
colors and they just look intriguing the little kids. And
so in that particular post I was talking about in
the grosser room, it's like you see the surgery of

(38:29):
this little kid that has it done, and then you
could really see the size of their intestines. They're just
so small and then this water bead is lodged in
their intestine, and it's just so sad that like this
is this is like a common thing that's happening that
they put out recalls for it. You know, they don't
even really want people to have it in your kids
and it'll say like four and over or whatever on

(38:50):
the packaging, but like people, so they might let their
four year old kid play with it at the house
or above, but then they also have a baby in
the house, Like you just shouldn't even bring that shit
in your house or like a daycare center.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
I'm just surprised they're not fully banned at this point.
They've been proved becausing a lot. That's another thing on
that list, those those magnets, you know, those magnetic.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
Beads and stuff like that, and remember they got banned
for a while, but now they're back and they're all
over again. It's like, yeah, it's it's very hard to
monitor things on Amazon because they're coming from other countries
and things aren't banned there where they are here, and
but they they end in disaster a lot. You know, yeah, okay,
medical news, all right, So in India, this woman went

(39:32):
to the emergency room, and doctors were shocked to find
that she had this incredibly large mass on her chest.
Apparently she had this tumor that began about the size
of a lemon twelve years ago and now it is
the size of a basketball. Yeah, it's it's so huge,
it's even bigger than a basketball. So she has this
tumor growing on her breast. And when you look at

(39:52):
this photograph, so we did post in the grosser room
about this yesterday called twelve Years of Agony, and she
when you look at this woman, she's she's actually hunched over,
permanently hunched over because of the weight of this tumor
is so big hanging off of her just like pengously
hanging off of her chest, and that it caused her

(40:16):
backbone to permanently bend with the growth of this tumor,
and surgeons ended up removing it and it was twenty
three pounds. So imagine just having this extra heavy you know,
I think of it as you ever see those balls,
those like weight balls at the gym that feel like
a basketball but they're really heavy.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
Yeah, usually those are.

Speaker 1 (40:37):
Only ten pounds, Like, think about one of those double
the heaviness, but around that size, like hanging off of
your body like that.

Speaker 2 (40:44):
It's you know, her back just must have hurt so terribly.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
So they've removed it, and they diagnosed it as a
tumor called a filoid's tumor, which is a very rare
percent of rest tumors. But they're and they're usually benign,
and in this case, hers was benign too. But the
thing is is that whenever you hear that a tumor's benign,
you automatically are like, oh, thank god, it's not cancer.
But like, this is a really good example to show

(41:09):
you that just because someone doesn't have cancer, it could
totally ruin their life still, like you know what I mean, Yeah, absolutely,
So luckily it's benign. She gets it cut off and
she's healed, but like her back is going to be
permanently jammed up from this, you know what I mean. Yeah,
all right, So this doctor went on TikTok to give
tips on how to poop if you are feeling constipated

(41:30):
or having a hard time. So most of the tips
involve certain breathing techniques, but apparently making a certain animal
sound while all.

Speaker 2 (41:37):
In the toilet.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
Well, we'll quote do the trick so there's this thing
called a valsalva maneuver, and that's too. What you're basically
trying to do is to just shut off any air
coming in and out of your body, so you can
just increase inter adominal chest and chest pressure and abdominal pressure,
and that is supposed to push down on the vegas

(41:59):
nerve and help like stimulate your colon to make you
go to the bathroom. But people like so they'll say, like, Okay,
hold your nose and hold your mouth and just like
blow as hard as you can write. But I guess
in this article the guy saying, or there's there's an
easier way you could do it. You could move on
the toilet like a horny cow, and then that will

(42:20):
that will trigger this maneuver easier. So I want to know,
like what a horny cow sounds like, Like, is that
why they move in the first place, because they're Is
that like a mating call or something.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
I've never heard of a horny cow per se.

Speaker 1 (42:35):
I also found it funny that this doctor said he
didn't understand why this wasn't common knowledge. I've never heard
of any of this before, any of the breathing techniques
I've certainly never heard of making animal sounds, and the
comments were hilarious.

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
Well, and some of the people like, or you could
just like pretend you're blowing out a birthday candle with
your nose shut like or something like that, Like that
would make more sense. And could you imagine just like
if you're sitting here, you know, Gabes in the bathroom
and then I hear him moving out of the bathroom,
I'm gonna be like, what is happening in there right now?

Speaker 2 (43:06):
You know I can't do that at work.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
I think in your private residence it's a little more accessible,
but I can't imagine, you know, holding it together. If
we're in the bathroom somewhere out in public, imagine being
in like the pooping paradise. I'm gonna do that like next,
Like remember the other day when we went out to
dinner and we were in New York and we were
in the bathroom with Misty Vashida and know, like we
know she was in there, but she didn't know that we.

Speaker 2 (43:28):
Were in there.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
I should have I should have just started doing it
just to see like what her reaction would be.

Speaker 2 (43:34):
That would be hilarious.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
Well, let's say you go to one of the bathroom mechas,
which is arguably Michael's Home Goods or Target, right, and
then you just you're already in there because of colon blow,
and then you could be having a hard time and
then you just start mooing. So I think it's really
usually those stores if you want to do some kind
of a survey, like most people that are shopping in

(43:55):
stores with bright white are like not having any problem
getting poop out. No, which is interesting because you're like,
I want like the people that work at those places,
those bathrooms just have to be like more dirty than
any other place, just because more people are sitting there.
I just think it's definitely like a common thing. Well,

(44:15):
us constipated girlies just need to keep going to these stores.
I think it's a great excuse to go shopping. Nobody
can bit you out. You just have to be like, listen,
I'm really backed up and I gotta go to Target.

Speaker 2 (44:26):
So it's just how can you try to make this sound? Please?
I'm not making this sound. You get make this sound?

Speaker 1 (44:34):
No, I'll do it later, all right, I'm gonna try
it later, see if it works. I'll report back to
you guys.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
So I don't want to.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
Say this next story is necessarily a new cosmetic trend,
but it's a new injectable trend. So there's these things
that are really changing people's lives, which are called G shots,
and then there's also whole talks, So can you can
you explain what both of these things are?

Speaker 2 (44:58):
So a G shot is is getting exactly what it says.

Speaker 1 (45:01):
You're getting a shot in your G spot, which is
the anterior or the front of your vagina almost all
the way to the top end. We talk about that
that that's where the G spot is, and I guess
it's kind of tucked back. So what they're saying is
if they inject hyaluronic acid or filler into the G
spot area, it will make it more engorged and prominent,

(45:23):
that the penis will be able to touch it easier
and create better sex lives for people.

Speaker 2 (45:30):
All Right.

Speaker 1 (45:30):
So honestly, very few stories really make me cringe writing
the notes, and the thought of getting a shot in
an injectable in that area makes me want to vomit everywhere.
So and also it's really expensive. It's it said that
it was twelve hundred pound rows, which is about now.
It wasn't your it was pound, So it was like
fifteen hundred dollars, right, Like that's a lot of money

(45:54):
because apparently it only lasts six to nine months. But
the people that are getting it are like saying it
changed their life, so maybe it's worth it all right,
So what about Whole Talks. Whole Talks is getting botox
injections into your anal sphincter to relax the muscles so
you could have more pleasurable anal sex, now, which I'm

(46:15):
all for, except if it's relaxing those muscles are what
are the side effects of that? Like pooping your pants?
Like I need to know if you're having a harder
time holding in your poop.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
Maybe that's what happened to the person on the New
York City subway. Oh they had Whole Talks. Yeah, that
had to be it.

Speaker 1 (46:33):
And anytimes someone shits their pants now it's just like, oh,
they had Whole Talks. Yeah, so apparently it's it's for
gay men and it's also for women that want to
have anal sex too, just like it makes your anus
like relax a little bit more and take it.

Speaker 2 (46:47):
A little bit easier.

Speaker 1 (46:48):
Yeah, So I mean, I don't think I'll be participating
in this. I don't really want a needle in my
asshole either, honestly, Like, no, thanks, No. But it's crazy
because they're saying this firm or this clinic that they
interviewed said they had a two hundred percent increase in
inquiries for whole talks in the last year alone, and
for the g shots at a thirty to fifty percent
increase in inquiry. Yeah, I mean I could I could see, like,

(47:11):
if you're having issues with this and this is like
affecting your life and your sex life, then like I'm
all for it. I think it's a minimally invasive thing.
I don't know how I feel about relaxing the sphincter
muscles around the anus, but just because they do have
a function, and that's a very important function in my opinion.

Speaker 2 (47:30):
So yeah, okay, other death news.

Speaker 1 (47:35):
All right, So back in nineteen sixty seven, this newly
WHT couple planted this spruce tree in their front yard.
So over all these years it's grown to be seventy
four feet tall. In twenty twenty, the wife ended up
dying she was seventy eight years old, and then quit
said Italy two years later, the head of gardening at
Rockefeller Center just happened to drive by and see this tree,
which was in Massachusetts, and then they knocked on the

(47:59):
door and asked the family if they'd I guess. I
don't know if they bought it or they donated it
to be the Rockefeller Center Iconic Christmas Tree, but as
of this year, it is the tree.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
So you're like pissy about this, Listen, I I understand.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
I understand the family thought it was a sign that
she had just passed away and that she was obsessed
with Christmas, and they thought it would be this great
honor to have this tree on display. But I just
think it's kind of messed up because I read that this.
You know, the husband would look out the window every
day and just admire it and be reminded of his
lovely wife that passed away. And I just think, you know,

(48:39):
they're just gonna throw it out after this Christmas season,
and it bums me out. I understand the honor of being,
you know, this Christmas obsessed person in your tree being
the tree that's at Rockefeller Center, but it's not permanently there.

Speaker 2 (48:53):
They're just dumping it afterwards. And that's what bums me
out about it.

Speaker 1 (48:57):
Did you want them to like dig out the roots
and then try to replant it?

Speaker 2 (49:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (49:02):
I mean, I'm telling you, I'm sure they got paid
a handsome sum for that tree. I'm also I'm aware
I'm in the complete minority of people that feel this way. Also,
like come on, like that's like the coolest thing ever,
Like you wouldn't want a tree on your property to
be the tree that everyone goes and.

Speaker 2 (49:19):
Sees for a whole entire year.

Speaker 1 (49:20):
I'm a romantic and I just feel like this is
really sad for me to look out the window and
see the tree. They can cremate the tree and put
it in an urn for the guy.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
I think they should.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
You're really, yeah, I don't think that's that ridiculous, Like
you're acting like they like they like stole it from
the dude like they first. I don't believe that they
just so happen to see it they've been stalking that
ship for years or like that tree is good, like
cause you know, I was driving around the other day
and I'm like, there's not really that many trees that
are that big that look like perfect Christmas trees like

(49:53):
around here and we have a lot of trees around here,
you know, so it's not like they're easy to come by.
I don't think they just went to the property and
cut it down and said, like your beat, But I
I don't who's gonna say no to Rakafeller Center. It's
the icon of Christmas tree. And think that they took
advantage of of a of a widower. I'm not saying

(50:13):
they intentionally did. I just think that he was going
to continue enjoying looking at this tree that reminded him
of his wife in his front yard until the end
of his life.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Yeah guess what. And now it bumps me out.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
That there's gonna throw thousand dollars or whatever he got
for it, and the tree and a picture frame on
the wall is the same thing. I don't know if
people get paid for those I am kid one hundred
percent do because they monetize off of it, right technically,
Like I guess you don't have to pay to go
look at it, but like you're going to that area
and spending money because of the tree. If the family

(50:46):
genuinely thinks it's this awesome way to honor their mother,
that's great. I just got upset when I read, and
that's my problem to deal you get upset over Kleenex commercials, Like,
what are you talking about right now?

Speaker 2 (51:00):
Never mind?

Speaker 1 (51:00):
I was just gonna talk about this appletal, but I can.
She's literally tearing up right now. Her face just got
in Gorge gets all right, and she's about to like spill.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
All right, I can't talk. What is it? It's I
really can't talk about it. It's an apple.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
It's like it's like a it's about a grandparent that died.
It's like, really said, she's literally crying. I can't now, guys,
time I think about it, because they replay it every Christmas,
it's so messed up.

Speaker 2 (51:27):
All right, Let's take a lot of questions of the day.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
Every Friday a mother Day, matches the background, whatever it's,
you know, it's there's no dad to be emotional about things.

Speaker 2 (51:39):
It's okay, all right, every fredat that mother does that Instagram.

Speaker 1 (51:43):
Yeah, we put a story up and you guys could
ask whatever question you want first. Who fills out an
autopsy report? Is it you, an assistant or a group effort?

Speaker 2 (51:53):
It could kind of be all three. It just depends
on what place you're working at.

Speaker 1 (51:57):
So typically if you work in an educational institute, like
I did the majority of my career, then you would
you like, I would do the autopsy and give them
the weights and the measurements and certain things, and then
the resident was really the one that was responsible for
writing up the autopsy report because they were going to go,
you know, they're learning how to be pathologists and everything,

(52:20):
so that's important for them to do all of those
and then they would look at the slides and everything
with the with the pathologists who would then oversee it
and then just make sure everything was written correctly and
then they would.

Speaker 2 (52:32):
Sign it up.

Speaker 1 (52:33):
Then I also worked at a smaller community hospital where
I would write up the autopsy report just because we
didn't have residents, and that would be what I would do,
so I'd still do the same exact job. I also
did have an assistant helping me do the eviscerations sometimes,
which is an older position called a dealer, which is
someone that like helps do some of the stuff in
the morgue that I used to do at the at

(52:57):
the teaching institution, so I had more time to sit
and write the reports out and everything. But ultimately, no
matter where you work, the pathologists, the doctor that's in
charge of that particular case has to oversee it and
look at it. So if something's like wrong on it,
who's responsible for that? The pearlgists. That's why. That's why,

(53:18):
like they signed their name to it, Like all of
the names that were involved with the autopsy will be
at least their initials or something will be on the report.

Speaker 2 (53:26):
But ultimately, if anything goes.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
Wrong with it, the pathologists is the one that can
get in trouble if something's wrong. Interesting, So that's why
they should. I'm not saying they all do, because there's
been many times. If they like, you know, they trust you,
they don't look at it whatever, but they should if
they want to cover their ass.

Speaker 2 (53:43):
You know, all right, what are some baby names you love?
But didn't use?

Speaker 1 (53:48):
Santino obviously because I'm a boy and I liked Stella.
That was. But you know, when I was having Lucia,
I asked Gabe and Maria were the only ones that
really had a decision on what the kid's name was
going to be, and they shot that down.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
So I don't know the problem with that name.

Speaker 1 (54:06):
But because Lula is like a little fur ball, and
she's that kind of a little raspy voice.

Speaker 2 (54:10):
I think it would have just been so harsh. Well,
you didn't know that was how.

Speaker 1 (54:15):
She was gonna be, I don't know, like a visionary genius.
I think her name's perfect for her. But Stella would
have been cute too.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
I mean, I don't care.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
I'm not like devastated that I couldn't use it because
I because Lucea was also like I had a list
of like five different names that I gave you and
gave and just was like, which one do you like?
And you you both said Lucea.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
So like, I don't care. I was I picked it?
You know, did you have any other names for me? No,
that's interesting. Do you know what my mom almost named you?

Speaker 1 (54:45):
Yeah, a fucking Ariel. It was before The Little Mermaid.
It was like some Shakespeare book. Yeah, well guess what,
Like it wouldn't have been a fun life growing up, like,
trust me, because that movie came out when I was
like eight or nine or something or ten, I don't know.
I think it came out in like eighty nine, right
like I was ten.

Speaker 2 (55:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:05):
No, yeah, I mean, especially like being with my personality
at all. No, it's really not I think your name
to too well. But yeah, it's it's it's all right.
I don't feel any kind of way about it. I
don't think it's like the best thing ever a boy.
Also don't think it's like it's just there. Well, it's
part of my name too, So what and what names

(55:26):
do you like? Are you? I'm not cheriol ever, because
one time I had a friend that was pregnant and
she said that she was gonna name her kids something
the whole time, like even got things made up with
the name on it, and then I told her what
I was gonna name, what I wanted to name my
future daughter, and then like two months later, she was like,

(55:46):
I think I'm gonna change.

Speaker 2 (55:47):
It to this who is that? I'm not naming names
out here, but I'm just saying like She didn't end
up going with that, but it really pissed me off,
and I thought I was safe in the safe zone
to share that information.

Speaker 1 (56:00):
And now didn't this happen to Charlotte in an episode
of Sex and the City. It did, And now I'm
like so turned off by the name that I'm never
gonna use it.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
So I guess I'll say that.

Speaker 1 (56:09):
It actually does it actually does happen. I've I've heard
that happen to a couple of people. Honestly, I feel
like that happened to one of my friends too, Like
it's it's just oh, I do it did happen to
one of my friends, but it was it was an
intra family situation that someone in the family used the
name that she said she was going to use, Like

(56:29):
I have no problem telling you obviously, or like I
think we told Louis, like what name we would use
if we had a son, but like, I'm not telling
friends anymore because that made me really like turned off
to the whole idea of sharing it with people, especially if.

Speaker 2 (56:46):
You have a name for years and years and years
that you really love, that's fucked up. Yeah, I could,
I can understand that, all right. Last, can Maria talk
about her art collection?

Speaker 1 (56:58):
So if you follow my Instagram, I guess I share
a lot of the art I have, which is half
of Gabe's art really, but when it doesn't go with
our house, so I'm like, get this out of here.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
It doesn't go with your house anymore.

Speaker 1 (57:11):
But I guess my interest in collecting art started because
when I was seventeen, Gabe took me to meet a
couple artists in Philly and we all hung out one night,
and one of those artists with Martha Rich and I
absolutely became obsessed with her artwork. It's most of the
artwork that is in my living room, which are these
speech bubbles that just say funny sayings and really colorful,

(57:32):
vibrant art. So I really started loving art in that
sense around the time I was seventeen and I had
bought one of those speech bubbles, and then from there,
because of going to art school and then just meeting
other artists from living in the city, I just was like,
I want to collect artwork. I just think it's cool
to have. I have probably hundreds of prints I don't

(57:55):
even have framed yet because it's we cost a bajillion
dollars to frame all the pieces I've fought over time.
But I'm hoping in the next couple of years I
could get a lot of the good pieces framed and
up in my house. But a lot of the art
I have in my living room is from Gabe, which
I inherited thankfully when you got your house redone, So

(58:16):
that's good for me. Well, I'm more like I just
I just personally in my house like I want it
to be like my, my art and my stuff, like
I don't like, that's not your husband's are And no, no,
I don't mean mine. I mean like my own creations,
like my it's my style, Like it's my own stuff
that I'm hanging up on, not hanging up like someone

(58:36):
else's stuff. We have some art in the house, yeah
it's not And I don't mean Gabes like we have
Gabe stuff. We're actually getting ready to decorate the whole
entire uh downstairs bathroom with Gabe stuff, which is gonna
because it'll be really interesting to look at when you're
sitting on the toilet, you know, making your miwing sounds.

Speaker 2 (58:56):
Well, I saw that bowl with the crystals in there
the other day and I wont how you allowed that. No,
it's that's not happening.

Speaker 1 (59:02):
That's just that that's just like on on its way
out the door. You know. Yeah, he was like put
he puts, he puts like stuff in the bathroom, and
I'm just like, no, he hates me. Like today he was,
you know how we have this like Christmas wrapping paper
that has two different prints on two different sides, and

(59:22):
he was wrapping presents this morning and I went in
and he was wrapping it on the wrong side and
I was like, you can't wrap the presents like that,
and he's like, what are you talking about? And I
was like, I don't want that print under the tree.
I only want to and he's looking at me and
I was like, listen, like you know, I have like
a little bit of a crazy person problem with this.

Speaker 2 (59:39):
Could you just please well, you're gonna hate when I
bring my presence for you guys over because it's like
bright red pig.

Speaker 1 (59:46):
Don't you could bring them over on Christmas Day morning.
I don't want them in my house bringing them next
I'm bringing them on purpose to throw your You could
keep them on the porch or not staying in my house.
Somebody had asked also asked if I was regifting the
towel warmer, and I will be so we will document
the jerk.

Speaker 2 (01:00:06):
Yeah, we'll make it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
We'll make a video of it and post it on
like our story or something like that, because yeah, we
need to do that. And if you haven't been around
to know the history of the towel warmer, basically, my
husband got gave for Pollyanna last year. I thought I
gave it to him, but Ricky told me last night
he gave it to him.

Speaker 2 (01:00:24):
Anyway, We gifted.

Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
Gave this towel warmer, and he literally has not even
touched it. So we're going to regift it this year
and see if he even notices.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
He won't notice, Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
I'm telling you, it's like behind the tub in the corner,
like he just won't even notice that it's missing.

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
It still has.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
You know, when you get like an electronic and it's
all wrapped up with like the cord and and all
that stuff. It's just like still wrapped up like it
hasn't even been plugged in or anything yet. I feel
like I should get like, you know, how they make
solid cell a fane wrap. I should get something so
obnoxious and redo it with like a big bow and everything.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
I just I think I'm gonna do something like that.
Oh my god.

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