Difficult Conversations

Navigating the ebbs and flows of romance can be enough of a challenge, but throw money into the mix, and you've got yourself a complex dance that many of us find ourselves tripping over. 

Join us as we traverse the emotional landscape of money management, where tales of self-indulgence, financial guilt, and the fear of a dwindling bank balance become points of connection rather than contention. 

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Navigating the minefield of marriage requires more than just mutual affection—it demands respect, trust, and understanding the psychological dance of ego and validation. This episode doesn't just skim the surface; we dig into the reasons why some partners may seek approval from outside their union, and how this pursuit can erode the foundations of a once-solid relationship. Our discussion also casts a critical eye over the pit...

As we navigate the bustling currents of adulthood, we uncover the significance of shared interests and values in the friendships that flourish, and acknowledge the sometimes necessary, heart-wrenching goodbyes that come with life's inevitable changes.

This episode delves into the complexities of sharing our innermost thoughts, the cultural obstacles that can deter us, and the double-edged sword of seeking solace in ot...

Have you ever felt like a chameleon, blending into the background of different cultures and communities? That's a reality for many within the Oromo culture, as we unpack in this episode. 

Childhood experiences can be like invisible threads, guiding our adult relationships and self-perceptions in ways we often don't realize. We explore these profound influences in this episode, delving into how memories of inclusi...

Ever find yourself climbing a ladder only to realize you're the one shaking it? Our latest heart-to-heart tackles that very conundrum, unraveling the perplexities of self-sabotage that often hold us back from seizing the life we yearn for. 

We highlight the transformative power of therapy and a robust support network. We're passionate about the strength gained from shared experiences and the wisdom we share in th...

Family dynamics are like fingerprints—unique and sometimes, complex beyond words. Join us as we talk about forgiveness and how it can sometimes be hard to navigate with people closest to us. 

We'll explore practical strategies for dealing with challenging interpersonal dynamics, and reveal how forgiveness, can be a vehicle for profound change. Drawing on personal experiences and the wisdom gleaned from cultural unders...

Ramadan is here! What have you prepared for it?

 We extend our thoughts to those who may find the month challenging, such as new Muslims and individuals without Muslim family members, emphasizing the importance of inclusion and support within our community. As we highlight the value of charitable acts and community integration during the last ten days, we also ponder the exceptional nature of this time for spiritual and co...

As the world spun on its axis, grappling with the chaos of the first three months of 2024 Abshiro, Bonni, and Dahabe – sat down to untangle the year's most complex threads. 

Embracing the precipice of a new year, we share our collective aspirations, recognizing the need to step beyond well-worn paths and into spaces where dialogue and discomfort nurture growth. We champion the pursuit of diverse perspectives, the call...

As we wrap-up season two, we talk about what we have learned from our interviews with young men, young women, a married women, a married man, and our discussion on parenting. 

We tackle the glaring disparity of expectations between genders, examining how societal norms and cultural influences often lead to the marginalization of single women. We also emphasize the desperate need for resources and constructive dialogues to ...

Have you ever wondered how Montessori principles can transform not just your child's learning but your entire approach to parenting? Join us as we sit down with Asiya, a devoted Montessorian and mother of two, who has embraced this revolutionary methodology in her home. Asiya’s insightful journey into Montessori parenting began after the birth of her first child and has profoundly impacted her family dynamics, making parenting...

You've heard the saying 'love knows no boundaries,' but what happens when love crosses cultural lines? Discover the fascinating journey of our multilingual guest, who not only works as a senior constituent advocate in US Senator Amy Klobuchar's office but also navigates a vibrant marriage. From his early days of marriage, through the maze of family expectations, to the joys of building a shared life, he will tak...

Imagine walking down the aisle at a young age with no real expectations for your future marriage. This is the reality for our guest, Jarai, who joins us to share her 16-year journey through love, compromise, and patience. From learning to understand her partner's background and values, to navigating societal pressures and discovering her non-negotiables, Jarai gives us an intimate look into her experiences.

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Tune in as we give our insights on our interview with three young women (Iman, Darartu, and Layla) and their perspective on love and marriage. 

In the quest for love and companionship, understanding each other's expectations is paramount. Do men and women really want different things? We dissect the disconnect between what men and women expect from each other, leading to some mind-boggling revelations. We also explore...

Have you ever considered how ingrained gender roles are in your relationship? Let's discuss and dissect this topic with our wonderful guests - Iman, Darartu, and Layla - who will share insights from their personal lives, how they navigate family expectations, academic pursuits, work, and the often complex world of dating. This episode will have you re-evaluating how you perceive and interact within your romantic relationships....

We learned a lot from our interviews with the college and post-college guys about their experiences with dating and courting. From discussing gender disparities in relationships, to shedding light on how family, religion, and culture shape our thoughts about love and companionship, we’ve got it all covered. 

We also touch upon the double standards surrounding secrecy and judgment in relationships, a topic that needs to be ...

In this episode, we explore the lessons learned from past relationships and the significance of maintaining loyalty to Allah within them. The complexities of young dating are laid bare, and we grapple with the challenges they present, never shying away from the tough questions. How do shifts in environment, commitment levels, and life experiences impact the growth of relationships? Is it possible to meet the right person at the wro...

Ever wondered how an educator's cultural background influences their approach in the classroom? Tune in to join us and our guests, Ahmed and Mohamed, as we traverse the intricate layers of singlehood, career in education, and the profound impact of our diverse cultural roots on our lives. 

Drawn from our personal narratives, we engage in a candid conversation about the dynamics of friendships, relationships, and famil...

How do we navigate the complexities of culture, relationships, and personal growth in the Oromo diaspora? Join us as we tackle the often unspoken topic of courting, discussing the lack of conversation around relationships in families and how parents often turn a blind eye to the realities of hormones and peer pressure affecting their children.

We also explore the power of group dynamics among youth, and the potential benef...

What if we told you that the story of two couples with different backgrounds could provide valuable lessons on love and relationships? Join us for a captivating conversation as we explore the profound impact of culture, family, and upbringing on our views of love, partners, and relationships. We uncover the importance of focusing on a potential partner's goals and mindset, rather than their current wealth, and we discuss how t...