We Do Whatever It Takes

We Do Whatever It Takes

We are a Magician & an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and we do whatever it takes to have a thriving marriage. We have tips and tricks to help you do the same! (Disclaimer: this is not therapy and Kimberly is not acting as your therapist on this podcast. If you need therapy, please seek professional help from your mental health provider).

Episodes

March 20, 2024 31 mins

Celebrate a milestone with us as we mark our 51st episode by engaging in some of the most transformative questions that can solidify and direct the dreams shared within a marriage. Our conversation unveils how setting aside "dream days" is a crucial strategy for fostering mutual understanding and triumph in each other's aspirations. However, it's not all smooth sailing—I confess to being a "dream crusher&qu...

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Have you ever marveled at the magic of a well-crafted illusion and wondered if that same sense of awe could be infused into your daily life? My partner in crime, Kimberly, and I, Danny Ray, are beyond excited to bring you a very special 50th episode where we reveal the enchanting parallels between the art of magic and the heart-filled journey of marriage. Together, we share insights and playful strategies to bring the wonder b...
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Have you ever been captivated by the seamless execution of a magic trick, wondering how such a perfect performance came to be? That's the magic of practice and refinement, and my wife Kimberly and I, Danny Ray, are here to reveal how these principles are just as essential in the world of marriage. Join us on a journey through the artistry of trust and forgiveness, as we compare the meticulous practice of a magician to the deli...

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Imagine finding joy in the smallest things—like the unexpected gift of rhino socks—just because someone remembered you mentioned rhinos once. That's the kind of magic we, Danny Ray, a magician and pastor, and Kimberly, an associate marriage and family therapist, unwrap in our latest chat. We delve not only into the wonders of magic shows but also into the intimate dance of creating those unforgettable moments in relationships....

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Waking up groggy and famished, we didn't let our late start stop us from diving into a heart-to-heart about the transformative power of morning rituals in marriage. If crafting the ideal beginning of each day sounds like a puzzle, we're here to help piece it together, sharing how these precious moments can set a harmonious tone for your relationship. Imagine your life as a carefully orchestrated magic show, where the gran...

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Embark on a transformative journey with us as we tackle the enchanting quest of creating magic in our marriages. Imagine a year where every day begins with a shared laugh, a prayer, or a moment that binds; that's the heart of our third season, guiding couples to turn the everyday into extraordinary. We're pulling back the curtain to reveal how intentional goal-setting can lead to profound intimacy and a thriving partnersh...

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Do you feel a twinge of stress creeping up on you as the holidays approach? We've got your back! Our conversation today is all about managing holiday stress and evolving family dynamics. We share personal experiences and practical tips on how to re-energize old traditions and manifest new ones that reflect the values of your modern family. We also delve into the power of forgiveness and maintaining peace with challenging famil...

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Struggling to keep the joy and peace in your Christmas celebrations amidst all the bustle? We promise to help you navigate the holiday season with tips that will manage stress and expectations. This episode takes you through a journey of 10 significant ideas. We lay emphasis on financial planning, contentment, and joyful giving, not out of obligation, to keep Jesus at the heart of Christmas. 

With the holiday hustle in tow...

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Christmas is the season of joy, love, and...drama? Let’s face it, the holidays can sometimes bring out the worst in our families. We've all been there - from Uncle Larry's incessant political ramblings to the simmering tension between your sister and her spouse. But what if we told you that you could take control of these situations, navigate tricky family dynamics, and truly enjoy your holiday? That's what our lates...

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Imagine finding yourself at the crossroads of life, unsure which path to take. Whether it's launching a new ministry or navigating choppy waters in relationships, we've all been there. In this heartfelt exchange, we share our personal experiences of venturing into the unknown, leaning on the wisdom of mentors, and the transformative power of seeking guidance through prayer. Listen in as we explore the courage it takes to ...

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Have you ever wondered why fights and arguments often precede the most momentous events in our lives? Remember the time when we recently flew to Colorado for a Focus On The Family staff marriage retreat? The anticipation was high, and so were our anxieties. For us, it was an eye-opener to understand that almost all conflicts have their roots in unfulfilled or unvoiced expectations.

This episode aims to shed light on how to...

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What happens when the blissful journey of marriage collides with the unexpected thorny path of mental health, particularly depression? In our podcast, we unravel our personal experiences, discussing how depression unexpectedly sneaked into our early years of wedded bliss, casting its shadows on our relationship. We journey back to the time postpartum depression first introduced itself, and how the sheer lack of awareness combined w...

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Are you yearning for a deeper connection with your partner? Craving a relationship built on authentic trust, understanding, and commitment? Join us on a transformative journey as we dive into the heart of genuine relationships. We shed light on the art of active listening, the power of empathy, and the significance of being fully present. Let's unpack the role of 'eyeball time' - complete focus on your partner, a sil...

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How often do we sidestep honesty with little white lies or half-truths? In reality, trust, the backbone of every relationship, rests on the bedrock of honesty, integrity, and effective communication. Join us, Danny Ray and Kimberly, as we embark on an in-depth exploration of the ten principles of trust in relationships. From the simplicity of recording a podcast to the myriad complexities within a marriage, we touch upon how honest...

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Are you and your spouse continually striving for true north in your relationship, or feel like you're adjusting an old scale trying to find balance? Tune in as we, Danny Ray and Kimberly, humorously explore the concept of recalibration in marriage, leaning on our own personal experiences and drawing parallels to routine adjustments we make in life. We'll also introduce you to an evaluation tool from renowned relationship ...

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 In this episode, we explore the theme of suffering, gratitude, and choosing a positive attitude even in the midst of pain.

"Embracing Suffering"
Even in the darkest moments, there's room for gratitude. It's about shifting our focus.

 "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness." - James ...

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5 visual metaphors that will strengthen your relationship.

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Getting Unstuck and Moving Forward is hard but necessary for great relationships. Today we are going to give you strategies for getting unstuck.

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Secrets kill. Learning to share your struggles builds trust and oneness.

Transparency builds trust

Sharing creates connections

Vulnerability is a strength

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Difficult conversations can be challenging for many reasons. One of the biggest challenges is that people often avoid having these conversations altogether. They may be afraid of hurting someone's feelings, causing conflict, or damaging a relationship. But avoiding these conversations can actually make the situation worse in the long run. Make the decision today to stay on the same page and create a better marriage.

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