Bless Your Heart I'm Talking

This week’s episode is all about change—the little things that used to be part of everyday life that cell phones and modern living have replaced. From answering machines and home phones to paper maps and even certain foods we don’t see anymore, I take a trip down memory lane to see what’s disappeared. I wrap up with a reminder that while technology keeps moving forward, we still need to pause, unplug, and choose kindness in a world...

This week on Bless Your Heart I’m Talking, I’m sharing the cabin sister sleepover—full of late-night deep talks, belly laughs, is the Cabin a Squash Farm? And a few family secrets that probably should’ve stayed at the cabin. Get your pen and paper out to start drawing a family tree.  But there’s also something heavy on my heart: a missing limb to our family tree. We learned about 10 years ago about a stepbrother who was put up for ...

In this episode of Bless Your Heart, I’m Talking, we dive into the power of saying no to boxes others try to put us in. I share why it’s so important to stop trying to please everyone and start honoring who you really are. From setting boundaries to making yourself a priority, this one’s all about living unapologetically as you.

Plus, we start the episode with some  fun bonus chat catching up with my daughter, Zaley—becaus...

In this final installment of my three-part cowboy poetry series, I tell a tall tale about the current residents of McMilan Cemetery.  The poem is set in McMilan Settlement, San Saba County Texas. 
Meet Hosea Lawless and his loyal horse, Catdaddy, as their tragic tale unfolds among the graves of ancestors I never knew. Murdered by horse thieves, Hosea’s spirit rides through history, weaving together family roots and western lege...

In this episode, I’m opening up about living with ADHD and what it’s like when your brain refuses to slow down. Picture six thoughts running at once — all loud, all important, all tangled together. I talk about the funny side of it, the frustrating side of it, and how I try to find some peace in the middle of the mental traffic jam. If your mind ever feels like it’s on overdrive, this one’s for you.

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In this special bonus episode, I’m bringing you more of my original poetry — a mix of cowboy grit, hippie soul, and Cajun rhythm. These poems tell stories of family, roots, and wide-open spaces, all wrapped in a voice that’s both tender and tough. If you loved the first poetry bonus, you’ll want to settle in for this one too. It’s heartfelt, a little wild, and full of that down-to-earth spirit that keeps us connected.

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This week on Bless Your Heart, I’m Talking, we’re digging into what it means to be rooted in your community. From the people who show up when you need them most to the traditions that tie us together, community is more than just where you live—it’s where you belong. Join me as I share stories, reflections, and a little southern heart about why staying grounded in the place and people around you matters more than ever.

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🌙 Bonus Episode: Cowboy Boots & Hippie Dreams 🌙
In this special bonus episode of Bless Your Heart, I’m Talking, I step away from the usual rhythm of the show to share something deeply personal—my poetry. These poems tell the story of my brother and me, written in a voice that drifts somewhere between cowboy grit and hippie soul. It’s about family, memory, love, and the ties that never break.

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Zada kicks things off with a rant about Rick being louder than a freight train during recording (again). Then we spiral into the scandalous world of tablescaping, uncover a long-lost photo of Zada’s great-grandmother (spoiler: it’s a moment), and wrap it all up with a soapbox moment on why chasing big dreams doesn’t make you “too much”—it makes you unapologetic. Basically, it's a rollercoaster. Buckle up Buttercup this loud ov...

In this episode, I sit down with a natural-born storyteller whose roots run deep in  Texas. From dusty backroads to front porch wisdom, they share tales that are rich with history, humor, and heart. It’s a conversation about where we come from, why stories matter, and how the past shapes the people we become. We also get a good laugh over how he met my stepdad. Join me welcoming Jeremy Plumley to the show. 

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This week’s podcast episode "Wrinkle Me This" dives into all the weird, wild, and hilarious parts of getting older. We’re talking hot flashes, brain fog, and why my knee has a mind of it's own. Come laugh with me — because if we don’t laugh, we might cry… or pee a little.  Bless my heart my hair looks like a beginner witch and my eyes have a permanent RBF.  Settle in and laugh at my bullsh*t this week.  

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In this episode, I talk about two things we all avoid: saying “I’m sorry” and putting our phones down. (Both equally painful, let’s be honest.)

From awkward apologies to rage-scrolling through nonsense, we’re diving into what it means to admit when you’re wrong and protect your peace — even if it means muting your cousin, logging off, or apologizing to your dog for overreacting.

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This week we have not one but two special guests! Zoe joins to talk about our crazy family reunion, and one of our listeners (Courtney) joins us to tell a story so good our #1 fan Reviewert_ would flip a table! Does Zoe find Jesus on the Colorado River? Does Zada find a spot in the water? Is that Johnny Cashs house Zada and Courtney spotted? Are we Tyler Childers biggest fans?  Join me and find out! 

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 This week, I’m reading the review. You know the one — the kind that makes you laugh, squint, and then wonder if your personality is a federal offense. Apparently, I’m too Southern, too opinionated, and just a little too much. And to that I say: thank you.In this episode, I break down the review, laugh through the nonsense, and talk about why women — especially Southern, middle-aged, don’t-give-a-damn women — ruffle feathers just b...

Ep: A Southern Goodbye
Zada tells us about Southern goodbyes—because if you haven't said bye at least five times, did you even leave? Or if you don't talk about everything or nothing was it really a goodbye? She also vents about a few things that’ve been getting on her nerves and shares highlights from a wild and wonderful cabin weekend. Porch talk, real talk, and a whole lotta laughs. 

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Episode 1: The Rebrand – Fillin’ Your Own Cup (and Soul)
Welcome to the very first episode of  Bless My Heart, I’m Talking! New name, new logo but same Zada! 
Today, we’re kickin' things off with a rebrand, a fresh start, and a little talk about what it means to really fill your own cup. (No, not with sweet tea — though that never hurts.) We're diving into how to pour into yourself when life, motherhood, and menop...