Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.

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August 2, 2025 37 mins

Tired of endless bad dates with the same old "type"? This episode dives into why your usual dating patterns might be holding you back and how breaking free can lead to better relationships. Discover why your "picker" might be broken and learn actionable steps to find a truly compatible partner.

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Still single and wondering why love hasn’t clicked yet? This video uncovers four sneaky beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life—without you even realizing it. From rejecting your feminine energy to waiting until you're “100% ready,” find out what’s really holding you back and how to finally open the door to the relationship you deserve.

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Discover 11 game-changing strategies to date with confidence in our latest podcast, "Ditching the Doormat."

Learn how to set boundaries, embrace your worth, and find genuine connections without compromising your true self. Say goodbye to dating pitfalls and hello to empowered love.

Originally Aired: Aug 17, 2024

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Are you constantly swiping left and wondering why dating feels so broken? In this no-holds-barred episode, we're tackling the elephant in the room: who's more delusional in dating – men or women? Tune in to uncover the surprising truths about what both sexes get wrong and why our expectations are completely out of control.

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What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, without playing games, pretending to be someone you’re not, or obsessing over the “perfect” dating profile. Watch now to unlock your magnetic edge.

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If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss the science of breakups and how to turn a breakup into a positive experience.

Originally Aired: Dec. 28, 2022

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Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to identify your true attachment patterns and gain actionable strategies to cultivate a more secure and fulfilling love life.

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Struggling to get the affection you desire from men? The good news is, you can have the love you desire, without chasing it. In this video, you'll discover 5 powerful (and subtle) ways to inspire more affection from men, without losing yourself or playing mind games. From celebrating his masculinity to creating emotional safety, you’ll learn how to foster the connection and warmth you deserve.

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Breaking up can feel like an end to your world as you know it. Everything around you – from the music you hear to the shows you watch – reminds you of your ex. It's a challenge even to recognize who you are without them. But what if there's a better way to heal and move on?

Originally Aired: Jan. 16, 2024


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Do you prefer real-life sparks but find dating apps have tainted your approach? This episode unpacks the hidden ways online dating creates bad habits, from superficial evaluations to the 'What's In It For Me?' mindset. Learn how to break free and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling way to date

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Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I’m revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you’ll be in the driver’s seat of your love life.

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In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you.

And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change how you view everything, emphasizing growth and change.

So, don't give up on love just yet. Join us as we delve into this easy but powerful approach. Remember, you&a...

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Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally find the healthy relationship you deserve.

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Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decode the trends, avoid the traps, and date with more clarity (and fun) than ever before.




















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Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns.

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Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).

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Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate superpower. Get ready to change your dating game and waste less time as you find the love you deserve.

Originally Aired: Aug. 13, 2023

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That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic approach and the crucial questions you need to answer to decide if this blast from the past deserves a second chance, or a firm block.

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Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love.

And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it.

The truth? It is, but only if you're protecting your time and heart.

Let’s dive into five ways to quickly tell if ...

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June 16, 2025 51 mins

In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb, we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic, and the secret power of being still.

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