The Sober and Happy Podcast

In this episode, we dig into one of the most frustrating parts of early sobriety: when you’re doing everything right but still don’t feel better.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your progress “counts” because you don’t feel different yet, this conversation is for you.

You’ll learn why early recovery often makes emotions feel stronger — not because you’re failing, but because your brain and body are finally waking back up. We talk abo...

Sometimes in recovery, it feels like nothing’s changing. You’re doing the work — staying sober, showing up, trying to grow — but it still feels like you’re stuck in the same place.

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

We’ll talk about why growth doesn’t always feel good while it’s happening, how to recognize the quiet progress you’ve been missing, and why the moments that feel hardest are often proof that you’re becoming...

In sobriety, we spend so much time trying to stay humble that we forget the importance of feeling proud of who we’re becoming.

In this episode, Tim explores how healthy pride — the kind built on honesty, consistency, and integrity — can help heal guilt, rebuild self-trust, and give real meaning to recovery. He shares personal stories about losing himself to false pride during addiction, and how quiet moments of growth in sobriety he...

One of the hardest parts about getting sober isn’t putting down the drink — it’s learning how to believe in yourself again.

In this episode, Tim shares a raw and honest look at what it really means to rebuild self-trust in sobriety. From a story about going all-in on fitness while in rehab to recognizing the quiet ways we keep breaking promises to ourselves, this conversation digs deep into how trust is lost — and how we get it back...

You quit drinking — you did the hard thing — but life still doesn’t feel the way you thought it would.

Why does peace feel so uncomfortable? Why does it seem like, even in sobriety, you’re still trying to escape something?

In this episode, Tim digs into one of the hardest — and most important — lessons in recovery: learning how to build a life that actually feels worth staying for.

He shares how even years into sobriety, he found hims...

In this episode, I unpack a hard truth: you can’t solve a problem you don’t understand. 

We look beneath the surface of drinking to the real drivers—pain, fear, loneliness, and the beliefs we quietly adopt like “alcohol gives me confidence” or “I’m boring sober.” 

I share the story of my first real attempt to quit at twenty (and why I relapsed 30 days later), break down the “breadcrumb trail” that leads to relapse long before the fir...

I’m back! After taking some time off from the podcast, I want to share openly about where I’ve been, what I learned, and what you can expect going forward.

First off — no, I didn’t relapse. That’s often the first question when someone in recovery goes quiet, but alcohol hasn’t been part of my life for a long time now. 

What actually happened was burnout — so much stress that my body started showing symptoms that looked like a stroke.

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After months of very hard reflection, I have made the tough decision that I need to take a break to breathe and refocus. 

This wasn't an easy decision—I've poured my heart into creating content that helps others navigate sobriety while discovering joy in everyday moments. 

But sometimes, we need to follow our own advice about balance and self-care. 

Thank you for being part of this journey and for understanding this break is...

Does the idea of "never drinking again" feel overwhelming or even terrifying? 

In this episode, we unpack why thinking about sobriety as a "forever" commitment creates anxiety, perfectionism, and fear—and how reframing your mindset can set you free. 

Learn practical techniques like time-chunking, shifting your language, and focusing on today rather than forever. 

You'll walk away feeling empowered, not trapped...

Are you focused only on how many days you've been sober? There's so much more to celebrate in recovery!

In this episode, we explore why counting days is just the beginning of measuring your growth. Learn about the meaningful milestones that don't come with chips or coins – from rebuilding relationships to finding inner peace.

Discover how celebrating these "invisible victories" can strengthen your recovery jo...

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the power of identity and how the way you see yourself shapes your recovery. 

We’ll talk about why continuing to call yourself an alcoholic may be reinforcing the very struggles you’re trying to escape. 

I’ll share insights from my own journey, including a life-changing realization I had at a Tony Robbins event, and why shifting your identity from "I am an alcoholic" to "I am som...

Ever feel like you're white-knuckling your way through sobriety? 

In this powerful episode, we explore how mindfulness can transform your recovery journey from a daily struggle into a sustainable path forward. 

You'll discover why fighting cravings often backfires, how mindfulness actually rewires your brain to support recovery, and practical techniques you can start using today - even if meditation isn't your thing. 

W...

Addiction destroys our self-trust, making us believe we’re weak, incapable, and unable to handle life without substances. And even after we quit, those thoughts don’t just disappear.

In this episode, we’re breaking down how addiction wrecks confidence, why waiting to ‘feel ready’ is a trap, and the real way to rebuild self-trust in recovery. 

Plus, we’ll talk about the dangers of trying to force confidence too soon—and how to do it t...

Relapse can feel like the ultimate failure—but it’s not. What matters most isn’t that you slipped, but what you do next. 

In this episode, we’re taking a deep dive into what led up to the relapse, rather than just focusing on the final moment of picking up a drink. 

We’ll break down the warning signs, talk about how to shift back into sobriety without falling into a long relapse cycle, and discuss how to have thos...

Do you really need to hit “rock bottom” to get sober? 

This week, we’re breaking down one of the biggest myths in recovery—the idea that you have to lose everything before you can make a change.

I’ll share my own story, explain why waiting for rock bottom is dangerous, and discuss how finding your “why” is far more important than reaching some catastrophic low. 

If you’ve ever questioned whether your struggles are ...

In this episode of The Sober and Happy Podcast, we’re tackling the fear, challenges, and liberation tied to the decision to stop being anonymous in recovery. 

For years, I hid my story, worried about judgment, rejection, and missed opportunities. But living in secrecy only fueled shame and kept me stuck.

Today, I’m sharing why I chose to stop hiding, how it transformed my relationships and self-worth, and the powerful impac...

Burnout can sneak into our lives, especially in recovery, where we’re navigating so much change and growth. 

In this episode, we break down what burnout really is, how it differs from everyday stress, and why it can be so dangerous for our sobriety. 

We’ll explore how overcommitting, ignoring warning signs, and neglecting self-care can set us up for exhaustion and even relapse. 

Most importantly, we’ll sh...

In this New Year’s episode of The Sober and Happy Podcast, we’re diving into the popular trend of Dry January. 

Is it a step toward meaningful change or just a temporary break? 

Join me as we explore the pros, the pitfalls, and how to make the most of this 31-day alcohol-free challenge.

We will discuss practical tips for evaluating your relationship with alcohol, challenging limiting beliefs, and building a foundat...

As 2024 comes to a close, many of us are focused on setting resolutions for the new year. But how often do we pause to reflect on the lessons from the past year—both the wins and the challenges? 

In this episode, I’m sharing the top 5 lessons I’ve learned in 2024 that have shaped my journey in sobriety, personal growth, and authenticity. 

From overcoming burnout to embracing your authentic self, we’ll explore how ...