The Conscious Love Show

The Conscious Love Show

Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane Kohler

Episodes

July 2, 2025 67 mins
You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?  

In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that ...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity.

I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly mea...

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You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.

And then… it happens again.

You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming.

But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shri...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive into a thought-provoking question: Is my independence keeping me single? If you’ve ever wondered whether your strong sense of independence is making it harder to attract or maintain a relationship, this episode will help you explore that dynamic.

I’ll discuss the balance between maintaining your autonomy and being open to partnership, how to navigate the fear of losing your ind...

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Why do some men pull away even when love is present?

In this episode, we break down one of the most confusing dynamics in modern dating: when emotional connection exists, but commitment never fully arrives. 

I’ll unpack the deeper fears, unspoken blocks, and hidden conflicts that cause men to hesitate—even when they genuinely care. You’ll learn how to recognize these patterns early, avoid getting trapped in limbo, and position your...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a complex question: What if someone aligns with what I want but I'm not physically attracted to them? If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where a person seems perfect on paper but the physical attraction just isn’t there, this episode will offer guidance on how to navigate this challenge.

We’ll explor...

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You say you’re happy and single — and maybe you are. But what if that happiness is secretly a barrier? A quiet defense against the love you crave. In this episode, we explore the seven subtle beliefs that often hide beneath independence and self-sufficiency — the ones that sound like empowerment, but may actually be keeping you from the deep connection your heart...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a powerful question: How can I want love and still be happy without it? If you’ve ever felt torn between desiring a romantic relationship and learning how to find contentment in your own company, this episode is for you.

I’ll share insights on how to cultivate self-love, personal fulfillment, and inner happiness while still holding space for the desire for love. We’ll discus...

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You want love—but are you turning your life into a self-imposed prison because you haven’t found it yet?

In this episode, we unpack the quiet ways people punish themselves for being single, stuck, or in love-limbo. From numbing your joy to turning dating into a full-time emotional job, we explore how romantic longing can morph into identity and self-worth issues.

You’ll learn how to stop chasing love like a cure and start showing u...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a vulnerable and important question: How do I share body insecurity with a partner? If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable opening up about your body insecurities, or worried about how your partner might respond, this episode will guide you through the process of sharing in a healthy, supportive way.

Join me, as we explore how to communicate your feelings with honesty and vulnera...

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You’ve read the books. You’ve done the mindset work.

So why do you still feel uncomfortable in your skin?

In this episode, we’re unpacking the deeper layers of body shame—where it actually comes from, why it lingers even after years of healing, and what it really takes to feel confident, grounded, and beautiful in your body again.

This isn’t about changing how you look.

It’s about changing how you relate to the vessel that holds yo...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a common relationship question: Is being busy a valid reason for distance? If you’ve ever felt pushed away by a partner who claims to be too busy to connect, or found yourself justifying emotional distance with the busyness of life, this episode will provide insight into this dynamic.

We’ll explore how busyness can sometimes be a genuine reason for lack of connection, but als...

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He’s pulling away. You feel it in your chest, in the lag between messages, in the subtle silence that suddenly feels heavy. And now you’re frozen—wondering if reaching out makes you brave… or makes you look desperate.

In this episode, we unpack the confusing space between self-respect and self-abandonment, and why “matching his energy” might just be your nervous system’s way of protecting you from deeper vulnerability.

If you’ve ev...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a fascinating question: Why does safe masculine energy feel so boring? If you’ve ever felt disconnected or even restless in the presence of a man who embodies calm, steady, and secure energy, you’re not alone, and this episode will shed light on why this happens.

We’ll dive into the difference between safet...

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You’ve read the books. You’ve journaled the patterns. You’ve cried on the therapy couch, tracked your triggers, and rewritten t...

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In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a complex and often painful question: What if he wants me sexually—but not emotionally? If you’ve found yourself in a situation where physical attraction is strong, but emotional connection feels lacking, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on.

We’ll explore the dynamics of emotional vs. phys...

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You’ve heard the words: “embodied,” “soft,” “surrendered,” “in your feminine.”

But what does that actually mean when your nervous system is wired for control… and the world rewards you for it?

In this episode, we’re cutting through the fluff.

You’ll learn what feminine energy really is—and why so many powerful women feel both drawn to it and terrified by it.

We’ll na...

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If you’ve ever found yourself emotionally tied to someone who isn’t fully committing, or you’re struggling to let go of someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, this episode of The Conscious Love Show is for you. Listen in as I explore the heart-wrenching question: Why can’t I leave someone who won’t choose me?

We’ll uncover the deep emotional and psychological factors that keep us attached to unavailable partners, from fear ...

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Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have! 

Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.

It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relatio...

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In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a powerful question: Can you ever really let go of a trauma bond? If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that feels magnetic yet unhealthy, this episode will provide you with the clarity and tools you need to break free from the grip of a trauma bond.

We’ll explore what trauma bonds are, how they develop, and why they can feel so hard to release. I’ll also share ...

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