The Conscious Love Show

The Conscious Love Show

Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane Kohler

Episodes

December 24, 2025 93 mins

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Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have! 

Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.

It's not about judging these relationships or yourself f...

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If the love you were seeking didn’t arrive this year, this episode is for you.

Not to explain why.

Not to tell you what you did wrong.

Not to convince you that “everything happens for a reason.”

Just to remind you of something most people forget when things don’t unfold the way they hoped.

If ...

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What if the thing you’ve been calling “love” your whole life… wasn’t actually love at all?

What if the intensity, the longing, the fear of losing someone, the obsession with being “enough,” the way your entire body lights up when a man chooses you — and collapses when he doesn’t — wasn’t about love…

…but about something far older, d...

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If you've ever wondered exactly what it is that calls for a man's devotion, respect, commitment, and trust, the answer is in this episode. 

There is a lot of information in the mainstream culture right now and most of it is honestly very disempowering for women in their relationships with men. In this episode, we'll debunk the common myths that are perpetuated ...

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Most people know my work.

Very few know the worldview underneath it.

In this episode, I’m opening the door to the part of my life I rarely talk about — the part that shaped everything I teach, everything I love, and everything I’ve built.

I’m sharing the real spiritual journey behind my work… the revelati...

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Women everywhere swear men have lied to them.

But what if that’s not what actually happened?

In this episode, I'm breaking down the 10 statements men use most often that leave women overthinking, spiraling, or holding onto hope… and revealing the real meaning beneath them.

Not the feminine interpretation.

Not the emotional projection.

The actual mal...

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We’ve entered an era where men have stopped approaching women—and not because they’ve lost interest. They’ve been taught to stay quiet, to avoid being “creepy,” to hide their attraction in the name of respect.

The result? A generation of people starving for real connection while pretending they don’t care.

In this episode, we breaks down why modern dating feels so disconnected—and how you c...

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Many women believe that if a man doesn’t know how to love her, he isn’t the one.

But what if that’s exactly why so many women end up with men who stop showing up—who pull away, disconnect, or go emotionally flat after the spark fades?

This episode isn’t about control. It’s about awakening the part of a man that wants to rise for you… and the part of you that knows how to call it forward.

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Modern culture tells men to be softer, safer, and more sensitive—until we lose respect for the very men who listen.

In this episode of Shane’s Diary, I share my personal journey of reclaiming my masculinity after years of suppressing it to be “good.”

From growing up under the shadow of a hyper-religious mother who called every masculine impulse sinful, to living with a father who embodied i...

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Every woman wants to know if the man she’s falling for is ready for something real.

But what if the signs you’ve been taught to look for are wrong?

In this episode, we deep dive on what readiness for commitment actually looks like in a man—why he can love you deeply and still not choose you, and what shifts everything when he finally does.

This one might challenge what you thi...

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Everyone talks about feminine energy — but few truly understand what draws a powerful man toward a powerful woman.

You’ve heard that men want softness, that women should “stay in their feminine,” that polarity is the key to love.

But what if that’s not the whole truth?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the deeper dynamics between masculine and feminine energy — the ...

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From the moment a man meets you, he is reading your energy. Often within minutes, he knows whether you’re partner energy or pleasure energy… and what he senses has nothing to do with your looks or achievements.

In this episode, we explore the real reason men stop seeing a woman as “high value” — even when she is. You’ll learn how a man’s subconscious conditioning shapes the way he engages, why he’ll ente...

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In this episode I share my personal story coming from a broken home, no model for healthy relationships, and devastating heartbreak, to a long healing journey that led to creating the loving, conscious relationship I have with my wife today.

Each month I'm dropping another entry of Shane's Diary where I share personal insights into the man behind t...

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If you've ever felt that Attachment Theory doesn't quite explain everything, then you're intuitively tuning into something that most people are ignoring.

We as individuals are so much more complex than the label of "anxious" or "avoidant."

Underneath every anxious woman is someone who secretly avoids love through pushing, pursuing , and proving. And underneath ...

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Why are so many women drawn to the very kind of men who leave her feeling unseen, unsettled, and unsatisfied?

She knows he’s pulling away.

She knows it’s costing her peace.

And yet—something inside her keeps reaching for him.

 

In this episode, we go into the hidden magnet behind that attraction. Not in the way you’ve heard a hundred times before, b...

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September 10, 2025 70 mins

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We all know the ache of attachment—the deep longing for connection, the fear of losing it, the emptiness that follows when it slips away.

But what if there’s more to it than just childhood wounds or relationship patterns?

What if attachment itself is pointing to something far deeper?

 

In this episode, I ...

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I'm back with my second diary entry.

In this episode I share about my journey of living with a repressed shadow and how I learned to integrate it in a healthy way. From the extreme religious repression of my mother to the unchecked ego of my father, I share how I internalized the idea that I was unworthy of God's love from a young age.

I was broken open by my experiences t...

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It’s one of the deepest cries of the human heart: “How could you leave me?”

We’ve all felt it—the shock, the grief, the ache of not being chosen.

 

But here’s the truth most people never consider: real love would never ask that question.

 

In this episode, I’m pul...

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It’s almost universal.

The wound of needing to be chosen runs deep in the hearts of women everywhere—showing up in ways most don’t even realize.

 

In this episode, we break it down.

Why this wound exists.

Where it begins.

How it silently shapes the way you love, trust, and show...

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August 13, 2025 67 mins

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You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind.

But what if that’s not the whole truth?

 

In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so...

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