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One year ago today, Charlie Kirk was shot and killed while speaking at Utah Valley University. He was thirty-one years old.

Before his death, when asked what he wanted to be remembered for, his answer was immediate and unambiguous: I want to be remembered for courage for my faith.

In this deeply personal episode, Tanya Engesether reflects on that answer — and on what it has stirred in her own wrestling with the legacy questio...

Why do certain stories break us open in ways we cannot fully explain?

Why does the sacrifice of a fictional lion make a grown adult cry? Why does a humble gardener carrying his friend through darkness produce that catch in the throat that feels like something more than sentiment? Why does a wrongly imprisoned man emerging into the rain with his arms outstretched feel less like a plot point and more like a moment of genuine liberati...

Everyone is talking about burnout.

But Tanya believes the conversation is incomplete — and that the missing pieces are actually the most empowering ones.

In this evidence-rich, countercultural, and deeply personal episode, Tanya goes beyond the surface conversation about burnout to address what the research actually shows, what is happening physiologically in a burned-out body, and why the most powerful levers for recovery ma...

Have you ever been in a conversation where someone said something about Christianity that you knew was not right — but you struggled to articulate exactly why?

That is the conversation that prompted this episode.

In this honest and grace-filled exploration of Christian apologetics, Tanya Engesether shares a personal interaction that left her convicted — not of wrongdoing, but of the need to go deeper into the foundation...

In the series finale of The Weight of the Chair, Tanya Engesether casts a clear, specific, and deeply honest picture of what changes when a leader has done the inner work — the honest, countercultural, body-and-soul-and-spirit work of tending to herself that this series has been describing.

Not theory. Not aspiration. What actually becomes different.

The presence that comes when the nervous system is no longer running a conti...

In Episode 4 of The Weight of the Chair series, Tanya shares the real story of the season she almost quit leadership — not as a distant, safely processed memory, but as a wound that cost real things and changed real aspects of how she leads.

She describes leading her team through one of the hardest seasons any leader has navigated in recent history — implementing decisions that caused pain, being the face of circumstanc...

There is a specific kind of weight that no leadership book prepares you for.

Not the weight of hard decisions, though those are real. Not the weight of difficult people, though those exist too.

The weight of what you cannot say.

The personnel decision in process. The organizational uncertainty not yet public. The confidence placed in you by someone who trusted you with something significant. Your own private fear that you might not...

Every leader feels it.

The 3am spiral. The Sunday night dread. The tight chest before a hard conversation. The mind that never fully stops — replaying, rehearsing, anticipating, calculating — even when you have physically left the building.

That anxiety is not a sign that something is wrong with you.

In Episode 2 of The Weight of the Chair series, certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Christian Life...

Nobody told you it would feel like this.

You prepared for the hard decisions, the difficult conversations, the long hours. You read the books, completed the training, built the skills. You knew leadership would be challenging.

What nobody told you was how lonely it would be.

In the first episode of The Weight of the Chair series, Tanya Engesether opens a conversation that most leadership podcasts never have — the specific, co...

You've named the pattern. You've asked the identity question. Now it's time to look at what people-pleasing is actually doing in your body — specifically, recognizably, and honestly.

In the final episode of The Dying to Please Series, certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Christian Life Coach, Tanya Engesether, walks through five specific signs that your nervous system has been running in chronic fawn mod...

The hardest part of recognizing a people-pleasing pattern isn't the recognition itself.

It's the quiet, unsettling question that surfaces right after:

But if I stop... who am I?

In Part 2 of The Dying to Please Series, Tanya Engesether goes beneath the surface of the people-pleasing pattern to the identity question at its core — because for many high-capacity women, people-pleasing isn't just something they do. It is who they...

What if the root of your hormonal disruption, your chronic fatigue, your gut issues, and your anxiety isn't what your doctor has been looking for?

What if it's people-pleasing?

In this episode of Aligned Vitality, certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Christian Life Coach Tanya Engesether makes the clinical and spiritual case that people-pleasing is not just an emotional pattern — it is a chronic stress s...

When a clip of comedian and podcast host Theo Von went viral for his raw, unfiltered reflection on healing, identity, and addiction recovery, something in it resonated far beyond the recovery community.

In the clip, Theo references the story of the crippled man at the Pool of Bethesda in John 5 — and pauses on the question Jesus asked: "Do you want to be healed?" He reflects that being healed means a new story, a different id...

What do you do when you know something is wrong… but there is no clear diagnosis, no obvious treatment plan, and no quick fix?

In this episode of Aligned Vitality, Tanya shares a personal reflection after a recent visit to the Mayo Clinic with her husband, who has been dealing with chronic lung and sinus issues, ongoing inflammation, anxiety around his symptoms, and years of frustration searching for answers.

While the visit...

If you've ever stood in a supplement aisle feeling equal parts hopeful and overwhelmed — or found yourself wondering why you're still exhausted despite taking all the "right" things — this episode is for you.

In this episode of Aligned Vitality, certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Christian Life Coach Tanya Engesether brings a grounded, grace-filled perspective to one of the most common questions ...

If stress feels heavier in midlife than it used to, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Aligned Vitality, Tanya explores why stress is more than a busy schedule or a long to-do list. From a functional health perspective, stress is anything the body perceives as a demand — whether physical, emotional, mental, or environmental.

This episode explains how chronic stress affects hormones, digestion, blood sugar, sleep, moo...

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If you’ve been feeling stiff, sluggish, tired, or mentally foggy in midlife, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Aligned Vitality, Tanya explores why movement matters so much in this season of life — not just for weight or fitness, but for energy, hormone balance, blood sugar stability, mental clarity, stress resilience, and nervous system support.

From a functi...

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From a functional health perspective, rest is where the body repairs, regulates hormones, supports the nervous system, and restores energy. Without it, healing becomes difficult — even when nutrition and lifestyle habits are in place.

But rest is not just physical.

Many women find themselves tired but unable to relax, lying down but unable to settle, or sleeping but still wak...

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We often think about nourishment in terms of food — what we eat, how we fuel our bodies, and how that impacts our energy, hormones, and overall health.

But what about the nourishment your soul needs?

In this episode of Aligned Vitality, Tanya begins a new series exploring the connection between functional health and spiritual alignment — starting with one of the most fo...