Your Loving Kick in the Pants

In this episode, I dive into imposter syndrome, and why I no longer believe in it. Inspired by a viral clip of Olympic rugby player Ilona Maher, I share how building confidence through honesty and growth makes the idea of being a fraud feel irrelevant. I also reflect on a personal story involving my dad and learning the difference between humility and self-belief.

I break down what imposter syndrome is, why it sticks around, and how...

I’m so excited to share that Becoming Bossminded is officially out on Amazon, and it even hit bestseller status! This book is for anyone who wants to build a business that works with their life, not against it. It’s full of real stories, practical tools, and lessons I’ve learned the hard way to help you avoid common mistakes and feel less alone on your journey.

Writing this reminded me why I started: to create something real and hel...

In this episode, I shared some exciting news, my new book Becoming Boss Minded is releasing on May 22nd, and I need your help to reach bestseller status! Even though I'm losing my voice, I had to jump on to tell you about all the bonuses you can get if you buy the book during the special release window. The book is all about helping you take control of your life and business using the Boss Minded framework, which I created from...

In this episode of Your Loving Kick In the Pants, I shared two stories, one about a woman who gave up on her business, and another who was pitching the wrong way. Both reminded me how easy it is to lose focus in business. That’s why I created the Becoming Boss Minded framework, to help women move forward with clarity and purpose.

I walked through five steps: desire more, define the cost, find your edge, create your version of succes...

In this episode, I share my excitement about recording the audiobook for Becoming Boss Minded and the journey it took to get there. I reflect on the mistakes and lessons I’ve learned in business, from managing a team to learning how to pay myself properly. I talk about the power of being direct, both in my coaching style and in how I’ve helped others grow. I also open up about personal struggles, like dealing with COVID and family ...

In this episode, I talked about the sixth step of the Accountability Code—feedback, which is all about using past experiences to make better choices moving forward. I shared a personal story from my upcoming book Becoming Boss Minded called The Art of Saying No, where I learned the hard way that helping too much can lead to burnout. I explained how saying yes too often, even with good intentions, can hurt your mental health and rel...

In this episode, I talked about the fifth step of the accountability code, commitment—and how it’s different from just taking action or implementing ideas. Implementing is when you practice or try something, like brainstorming or writing, but commitment is when you actually finish the task and can prove it’s done. I shared how one of my clients struggled with staying consistent on social media after a group challenge ended, and we ...

In this episode, I talked about implementing, the fourth step of the Accountability Code. It comes after reflection, humility, and planning. Implementing means taking action on what matters to you, even if it's not perfect. Many people make plans but never follow through, so I reminded everyone to just start, even if it’s messy.

I also shared a personal story about learning to share responsibilities at home. I couldn’t do it all...

In this episode, I talked about planning as the third step in the Accountability Code, right after reflection and humility. Planning isn’t just writing stuff down, it’s about creating a meaningful roadmap that actually helps you succeed. I shared how putting “tennis friends” on my vision board led to real friendships just by showing up and being open.

I also broke down different types of planning, yearly, quarterly, monthly, weekly,...

In this podcast, Elora Hill reflects on her journey with humility, sharing how negative past experiences at a toxic workplace made her initially resistant to feedback. The Accountability Accelerator program helped her shift her mindset, viewing humility as honest self-awareness rather than weakness. Now, as a mom, Elora focuses on what she can do within her limited time, reducing stress and working with more intention. This transfo...

In this episode, I talk about the role of reflection in the accountability code, sharing a personal story from my book, Doubt Yourself No More. I reflect on trying out for cheerleading in high school, initially to prove a point, but later realizing how reflection evolves when you take action. I explain that reflection is about thinking through your goals, values, and challenges, and as you act on them, your reflection changes, help...

In this episode, I share how to set a clear eight-week goal using the Accountability Code, a framework designed to help you take action. Many people struggle with defining their focus, so I walk through six key steps: reflection (identifying your goal), humility (recognizing what’s holding you back), planning (creating a roadmap), implementing (taking action), commitment (declaring your goal), and feedback (evaluating progress). Th...

In this episode, I talked about accountability and why traditional plans don’t always work. I shared personal experiences, like writing my book and learning to adjust plans to fit my own needs. I also highlighted stories from my clients, like Kim, who successfully hosted events by adapting the accountability code, and Susan, who realized she needed to trust herself more to improve her business. The key takeaway is that being accoun...

Hey guys! This is a bonus episode because I forgot to plan for my free webinar on March 11th at noon Eastern Time, and I don’t want you to miss it! It’s all about accountability—why it’s the key to success and how to make it work for you. I share a client story about how small tweaks in her approach made a huge difference and explain why traditional goal-setting often fails. The truth is, accountability isn’t just about willpower—i...

In this episode, I talk about the downside of "waking up too much"—overthinking, overanalyzing, and consuming too much information without taking action. Just like showing up too much can be unbalanced, constantly planning and reflecting without implementing can keep us stuck. I share examples of how this happens and explain that real growth comes when we take action, even if it’s imperfect.

I also emphasize the importance...

In this episode of Your Loving Kick in the Pants, I dive into the difference between waking up and showing up. Lately, I’ve been networking and seeing firsthand how people take action when they truly understand accountability. But I’ve also noticed that many people overdo one side—either constantly staying busy and overwhelmed or spending too much time thinking without acting. If you’re exhausted and struggling to keep up, you migh...

In this episode, I talk about the importance of honesty in the accountability code. Without honesty, real change and growth aren’t possible. I share personal stories about how dishonesty can show up in small ways, like making excuses or setting unrealistic goals. Being truthful with yourself brings clarity, peace, and happiness.

I break down key steps, including self-reflection, dropping the ego, setting realistic goals, taking acti...

In this episode, I talk about the mix of nervousness and excitement that comes with growth, especially in business. As I prepare for a big speaking event, I reflect on how these feelings are a sign of change and progress. I encourage my listeners to embrace them rather than avoid them. Through my Accountability Accelerator, I help people push past fear by setting goals and having someone hold them accountable, which can be both sca...

I just got back from an amazing retreat where a group of women came together to support each other, grow their businesses, and build real friendships. We planned content, shared our journeys, and celebrated big wins. Many talked about how this community has helped them gain confidence, find success, and connect with like-minded people.

This retreat wasn’t just about business—it was about encouragement, breakthroughs, and having fun...