Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith

When children push back, a parent's natural instinct is often to tighten the screws and enforce more rules—but this usually just fuels the fire. In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explains why this happens using a simple concept called "relationship math": Rules + Regulation - Relationship = Resentment and Rebellion.

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In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles a vital life skill: learning to genuinely connect with others. While children often default to interacting strictly with their peers, the reality is that much of their lives will be spent communicating with adults and people outside their age group. The good news? Connection is a highly teachable skill.

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In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks an important question: What kind of tools do you use to train your children? The answer might be found in your local community. Youth development organizations—like 4-H, scouting, sports, or community theater—are not just ways to pass the time; they are powerful, practical tools for teaching communication, leadership, and life skills. In fact, Dr. Roger Smit...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks a question we all consider: Could your child be more thoughtful? Thoughtfulness—the practice of prioritizing the needs and feelings of others—is a highly desirable character trait, and fortunately, it is one that parents can actively cultivate. Dr. Roger Smith shares two simple, practical exercises to train your child to think outside themselves and build li...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks a fundamental question: Are you training your children to make decisions? Decisiveness is not just an innate ability; it is a character trait that must be developed through practice. While it is tempting to make choices for our kids or rescue them when they make a poor one, letting them navigate options and endure natural consequences is how they truly learn.

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In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith answers a pivotal question: Does your child need to know logic? The answer is yes, and they will naturally develop it as they transition into their tween and teen years. While young children learn primarily through simple obedience and boundaries, older children develop a renewed cognitive capacity to compare old truths with new information. Join Dr. Roger Smith to discover ...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles a familiar moment of parental frustration: defaulting to the phrase, "because I told you so." But is there ever an appropriate time to use it? Yes! Dr. Roger Smith explains that during a child's early developmental years, logic is still underdeveloped, and they learn primarily through obedience, rules, and modeling. Often, a young child's endless stream of "whys" is ...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the profound impact of music and why making it a shared family experience is so important. Combining the meticulous wording of poetry with moving rhythms, songs have a unique ability to soothe the soul, offer comfort during difficult times, and create lasting family bonds. Whether you are singing hymns, belting out show tunes, or just letting your kids drum on a pie...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks a vital question: Have you blessed your children lately? A true blessing goes far beyond a quick "bless you" or a cliché phrase—it is about ensuring your children feel deeply adored through specific, intentional words. Through an inspiring story of a father who wrote personalized songs for his eight children, Dr. Roger Smith illustrates how intentional blessings c...

Habits often get a bad rap, but what if we viewed them as a powerful parenting tool? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explains that children will form habits no matter what—it is up to us whether those habits are good or bad. Instead of complaining about messy rooms or forgotten chores, learn how to proactively train your kids using repetition and "muscle memory." Discover how investing time in hands-...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith discusses the essential reasons for teaching children how to swim. Beyond the critical aspect of safety, learning to swim opens up a world of opportunities and can even shape a child's life purpose. Dr. Roger Smith shares practical advice on how to start small, overcome personal fears of water, and utilize the help of friends, relatives, or professionals to ensure your child...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles a highly debated and controversial topic: corporal punishment. Answering the age-old question of what to think about spanking, Dr. Smith frames it as a "language of pain" meant to induce behavioral change—much like a speeding ticket or a late fee does for adults. He explains how to properly view physical discipline as a temporary tool rather than an emotional r...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the hidden role fear plays in our children's objectionable behavior. Instead of immediately correcting the action, Dr. Smith encourages parents to look deeper at the insecurities driving their child's fear of rejection. Learn how maintaining your own emotional stability can help you comfort and guide your child through their anxieties.

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