Ep. 28 "Emergency Triage"

Becca and Tanya get caught up on how they spent their Easter Sunday, before clearing the air on some sightings of Robert and Becca at a concert together. After a discussion on the latest episode of Grey’s, a patient calls in with a story of running into Ellen Pompeo. Then, they take some questions from the growing Scrubbing In Facebook group, like is it okay to ask a guy out, and how to deal with a bad kisser.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Kanya Mike check check check check check back a mic check.
Is everybody ready scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and I
Heart Radio Podcast. Hello everybody, it's a Monday. It feels
like a Monday. I'm not gonna lie. Does it feel
like a Monday to everybody else? Very Monday? How I

(00:22):
cannot just skip over the fact that Mark is bad.
I'm so glad to be back. We're so happy to
have you apologize for the two weeks I was roaming. Yeah,
you were just an m I a two weeks ago
Brooklyn at a performance at a school. She did a
women in history performance, and then that was great. They
saluted someone who named Bacca, Judith Bacca, who does murals
in Los Angeles and around the world. And then last

(00:45):
week I was in Seattle of visiting my sister and
meeting my new nephew who's seven weeks old. His name
is Noah. So that was funbreak, little spring break. Yeah,
all right, Easton took over read the email I heard, job. Yeah,
did I make you proud of? You made me very proud.
Now I have to announce I'm leaving the show. No,

(01:05):
it's a team effort. We need everyone here. Um yeah,
I feel like a lot. Yesterday was Easter. Yesterday was Easter.
What did you do? I went to church and had lunch.
I had like a long brunch lunch, and then that's
about it. What did you do? I was, I feel
like I've been battling this cough, but it's not become
more than a cough. So it's just like this annoying thing.

(01:27):
But I feel like when I start coughing people around
me or like like my uber I was, do you
know what's so sad? As I invited back at the
church to come with me, but I was in the
back of my head, I was like, she coughs on me,
I'm gonna be so good. That's sick. Yeah, And I
don't like being the person that makes people feel that way.
So um. I just woke up and Hannah and I
watched a movie. It was called Son of God and

(01:49):
it's like a basically a telling the story of Jesus
and like the um like him dying on the cross
and rising again. But um, and then we just hung out.
It was pretty low key. What did y'all do? Mark
family stuff? We went to church and our neighbors always
have a big Easter party every year and they have
maybe the Easter Bunny, then an Easter Bunny costume, like

(02:12):
I'm not sure who has one of those, but they
do in a big bin. And so I sneak off
and on the costume. Then I run around and I
throw eggs at all the kids. And then so they
actually had like a full on like Easter um like
photo set up at my church. It was so uny.
It's like, yeah, like a chair and like a happy Easter.

(02:33):
You have to have a photo opportunity everywhere you go everywhere,
especially now. I mean it's like if there's a party
and there's not somewhere that I could go on Instagram,
my father going, yeah, but this is church like this
I love. I love my church. Yeah you do love
your shout out. He brought fire message yesterday, got heated

(02:54):
from it. I was like, yes, and Becca had a
rough weekend. I know she got broken into and yeah,
you know, I actually am never I've never done anything
like super crazy for April Fool's Day because I don't
like for anyone to be and I never take it
too far. I mean, maybe it lasts for like three
minutes and then I'll, you know, come clean. But last night,

(03:17):
the day was coming to an end, and I was like,
I have to I have to do something, And so
I was on my Instagram and I saw this this
girl posted a story and like she had texted her
friend and said that she had gotten to her house
and her door was open and they like had stolen stuff.
I was like, I'm just gonna do that, So I

(03:38):
text Tanya. I don't know, I Tanya is just way
more fun than anyone to do this stuff too. But
I was like, oh my gosh, my house got broken into.
They took my laptop, my purse, passport, passport, and she's like,
oh my gosh, no, what do you need to come
over here? Are you good? What's going on? I was like,

(03:59):
do you have cameras in your when I FaceTime her,
because I'm like facetimes, like if that were a real situation,
Like I'm just going to answer my face because I
wanted to make sure you're okay, because my mind went
to the dark place because you have had like packages
stolen from your house, so like it didn't seem that
far off. And she got burglarized, so I like was panicked,
and then I thought, if my house got broken into
I wouldn't want to be at my house. I wouldn't

(04:20):
want to sleep at my house. I'd be so scared.
So then I started mentally being like, okay, well Becca,
you can say here, and then probably one of yourself
just can sleep on the couch and maybe one can
go stas Like. I literally was going through all of
these things and in a matter of minutes and she
text me April fools I was like, yeah, I mean
it didn't It lasted maybe two minutes. It was a
very short lived, but you know that. I also don't have,

(04:40):
like I have zero to a hundred my stress, and
so my stress went really high up. But I did
not need, did not need that stress. On a Sunday night,
and Tania posted on Twitter, anyone else think we should
discontinue April fools Day? There was ten hours left in
the poll, but sixty say yes, bye bye April fools Day.
Thank you for that. Sixty four. You're sixty four people
that follow you and voted for that. Though, are the

(05:02):
people who on Facebook like complain and want to just
make everything like boring and not so fun And I
hate the new algorithm. Yeah, I just hate everything. I
got to complain about something. There's something that I have
to complain about, and I'm going to post it on face.
It's not complaining, I hate, It's just what about April
Fools is cool? Nothing funny? If you do it to

(05:24):
other people, like, maybe you should just do it to
someone you can experience the rush? Yeah, what rush? Did
you get a rush? When I was like, kind of,
I was laughing. I was like showing it to my
sisters and we were all laughing. And then I also
did it to Ali, so you weren't alone stating. But
then she just responded, was like your troll so um yeah,

(05:46):
I mean fools everybody. Yeah. So I'm going to continue
doing April Fools even if everyone else discontinues it, because
I personally feel like we take everything so serious. No
one can play even April Fool's jokes. People take so
seriously like no one can do anything. So take advantage
of it while it's here. It's gone. Now, maybe I'll
do another. Maybe I'll do every Day Fools. Start pranking Eve.

(06:10):
Every Fools could work any day in April real true
coming so much. You know that always fuels my fire,
And I know Becca. The Facebook group was a buzz
buzz buzz, and regarding you and Robert going to a concert,
they thought together, Yeah, um, okay, so what happened? Tony

(06:33):
and I had made plans to go to the James
Bay concert. This is what day was that Wednesday? Wednesday?
And as I'm getting ready, as I'm walking out the door,
pretty much, I sometimes still look on Robert's stories and
see what he's up to which and I saw that
he was heading to the James Bay Concert and I

(06:54):
was like, like, okay, a concert. There's a lot of
people there to I mean's a chance I'll run into him.
There's a chance I don't even see him. Not to mention,
I had a shirt that said my shirt that I
had on and said no time for Romance Relief. Yeah,
but under it says like self love society. It was

(07:14):
like like empowering whatever. But um, so we get there
and I text Tanny and I'm like, Robertson is like
Robertson's way to the show, and she was. But I
didn't even think anything of it because I'm like, there's
a lot of people to go to concerts, you know
what I mean, Like it's a big venue. It's not
a big venue. That's the thing. It was like a theater,
so it wasn't hundreds of people. Yeah, the chances someone

(07:37):
is like one in one. Okay, So we walk in,
we walk in, we go to the restroom first, and
then as we're walking back into the theater from the restroom,
Tony's like, oh no, no, no no, and I'm like
I'm not ready. I'm not ready because I haven't talked
to him and i haven't seen him in like three months.

(07:59):
So and right off the bat, like we really just
gone to the bathroom and walk right out and boom,
it's happening. So and it was like okay, well, okay,
just go be normal. So it was actually fine, like
we saw them that kind of. Tanya and Robert talked
to each other more than I was talking to his friend,
like catching up with him. So um, I didn't have

(08:19):
a ton of just like me and Robert talking. And
then the show started, so it was like just like
you know, like just chit chat in between songs or
you know what I mean. Like it wasn't like it's
just hard because it's so comfortable and so it was
like funny making like funny comments throughout the show and
not to mention James Bay sings like these really like

(08:39):
sweet romantic songs. Like it's not like a like a
rap concert or anything, you know. Um, but it was
good to see him. I haven't we haven't talked since.
It wasn't like, um, you know, I know, everyone's like,
oh my gosh, are they together? Did they go together? There? No,
I I guess I didn't realize that. I didn't realize
people thought that we had all gone together. Oh yeah,

(09:01):
I guess so if you see everyone on the Instagram
story together, that's totally natural to think that. So yeah,
it was I was living I loved, not living my
best time. We kept looking back at us with this
like longing look on her face, and I think both
Robert and I were like, what do we do with that?
Because I literally just turned my hand like this. You

(09:22):
can't see her, but she would like give us this
like grin, like just the biggest grin, and I like
stood two ft like in front of you guys, because
I wanted to give him some alone time, you know,
but like we didn't need a lie. His friend was
on the other side of him, and I kept be like, over,
give him some alone time. Well a lot of people

(09:45):
are excited to see you two together. Yeah, well I
was one of them. I was one of them. I
don't It wasn't a bad thing at all. If anything,
I feel like maybe it made things a little harder emotionally.
But you know, you haven't seen any one for so
long and now I said that. When I saw one
of them when we first walked up, I was like,
oh gosh, this is so crazy. And he's like, yeah,

(10:06):
He's like, I haven't we've seen each other in months,
And I was like, wow, you're right, yeah, yeah, but
it's weird. I feel like in those situations, you either
see someone and you're totally just like over it and
like oh good to see you, Hope you're doing well,
or you're kind of like, oh m hmmm, you know,
let's move on. I have a little I have a

(10:27):
little tick chit chat with him, but I'm gonna keep
that front of it. I think we're all team Rebecca.
Rebecca Tanya had a great tactic share that I want
to talk about. Oh yeah, actually, Becca crafted the text great. Okay,
So let's first of all, what did he say out
of the blue, and then you can tell us about him.
After you tell us what he said. He said, do
you want to go get a drink this week? And

(10:48):
who is this guy? So I'll give you the clip
notes version I met him. We mutual friend introduced us,
just like, oh, you guys would be just good people
to know in the industry. So we ended up getting
coffee and totally flirting the whole time. So then he
was like, asked me out on a date and I
was like, yes, I'd love to, So we made plans
on a Saturday night. An hour before we had made

(11:08):
our plans, he ends up being like, I'm so sorry.
The dinner that I was at got ran long. I
have to reschedule this is the night. So I ended
up crying. It was like really sad for okay, So
he called me and profusely apologized. He's like, I'm so sorry,
like just said you know. He's like if I was you,
I wouldn't take me back, but like, I really like,
I feel strongly like that year an awesome person. I

(11:30):
would really like to explore this. Would you mind giving
me one more chance? So I said, you know what,
that's really big of him to like call me and
asked me out again. Yes, I'll go out with you.
So we go out. We have a really great date.
I can't remember if I kised him or not. Anyways,
it was a really good date. I was really excited
about it. Um and then he just went away. He
just like literally not ghosted me, because I don't think

(11:52):
he like intentionally did. He just went away and never
asked me out again. And it had been months. Then
he just comes out and then blew again with just hey, like,
oh he referenced something that we talked about on our date.
He's like, I was in a meeting and somebody brought
up the book about love languages made me think of you,
and I was like, oh, it's so funny at level,
and it was a loss. We started try talking about

(12:13):
more than he asked me out for drinks. And your
response co crafted by back, not co crafted, solely crafted.
What did it say? Because here's the thing, though, Tony,
I wish we could pull up our conversation back and
forth because I was like, my whole thing was okay.

(12:33):
He had gone through like a bad breakup right like
right before you all went on the first date or something. Yeah,
he'd gone through divorce, divorce, So in my head I
was thinking, okay, if this guy was just kind of
getting back into the dating world, maybe he wasn't looking
to settle down right away, but if you had fun
with him, he was a good guy. But I get
not wanting to be like available only when he wants you.

(12:55):
But we had a conversation was like, if you want
to shut the door on this, like you don't you
have no interest in going out with him again, then
you can say this, but that's shutting. It's shutting the door.
Tell you shut the door because no more discounts, no more.
I put my money where my mouth is. And I
was like, you know what I'm saying, preaching all this

(13:16):
stuff like I don't want a guy that's gonna just
like ghost me for months, and you know, like I
want of somebody wants somebody to pursue me. I want
somebody that's like really attentive and not gonna I don't know,
I just in my head, my gut was telling me
like shut the door. Well that's that is key. The
gut feeling is what you have to go because you
can go through every rational scenario like I did, Like

(13:38):
maybe he wasn't in a place, but if you got
saying like this and it's nothing against him, Like he
could have been in a he could be in a
really but he could have been in a bad place.
He couldn't have been dating other people, like, it's nothing
against him, for what I want from a guy is
just not that, not that Okay, So what do we say?
This is? So it's so good? If I remember correctly,

(13:59):
we've made these plans before and you canceled and then
disappeared for a while. So to save me any confusion,
I'm going to say, no this time, how good is that?
It's so great? It was so liberating sending that too.
It was so well thought out, so concise, it was
to the point. It was exactly what I wanted. If
I verbalized it myself, it would have been like three

(14:21):
pages long. So um, it was just so concise and
so to the point and just so perfect. And he
responded with fair enough. That door is I think, clothes
shut and boarded up. Yep, it's just ready for Mr
Wright to walk on in. Y before we get the

(14:43):
Hello Fresh, because I'm very excited to hear all that
you have to tell us about Hello Fresh. I want
to talk about last weeks Grace and Amy. I thought
it was the best episode of the season. I thought
it was fantastic. I definitely think it's up there. And
the best three storylines. We had the going to Teddy,
which look, none of us love Owen, but for an

(15:05):
Owen storyline, I thought it was all right. We had
Meredith getting to know Scott Speedman from Felicity, who I
don't know. Is that ring a bell with other of you.
I didn't watch Felicity, but I know who he is.
He's great. He's Ben from Felicity. So that was wonderful.
I could have watched those two chit chat the entire connection. Yes,

(15:28):
we had in April and saw Rubenek as the Rabbi
and that was here and that was that was magic yea,
So those that was great. I was so happy with
that episode, top to bottom. Great episode. Yeah, I could
have done with like probably thirty minutes less of Owen.

(15:51):
She was like, are you going to move to Germany?
I was like, yes, hit him show No, I'm just
I mean that sounds harsh, But the thing is I
watched old episodes of Owen and Christina and I'm like, oh,
I like really didn't mind him, Like I enjoyed them together.
I know he took a turn. I don't know when
it was any other time. I literally if it flashed

(16:12):
back to them one more time in Germany looking out
a fake snowy window, I was like getting really upset
because I felt like I was so invested in the
other two storylines that that was just like throw every
time it went to the him. When she realized slept
with Amelia yesterday and she told you to come here
before that they even had that conversation, I was like,

(16:34):
that scumback was sleeping with Amelia right before he came here,
And are they not even gonna talk about that? Like
is he just gonna get away with that and not
not even be a thing. So I enjoyed that too,
But yeah, I mean it's so hard for me because
of my love for Derek Shepherd, but I she had

(16:55):
with him, and I loved that she told Alex like
she hasn't felt that way since Eric. That was special.
Yeah I could have I could have been a whole
episode of the two of them flirting. Do you guys know,
And this is I'm sorry if this is a out
of left field. Do you guys know the before movies
before Sunrise, Before Wait, I watched one of those Ethan

(17:16):
Hawk into the Delphi and the first one is they
meet in I want to say Venice and they because
he misses a train or something and that's how they meet.
Or they meet on a train and they just get
off the train together and they walk around all night long.
That's the movie is though to chatting. It reminded me
of that her and Scott Speedman in the in the hospital,
but reminded me of that just two people getting to

(17:37):
know each other, just talking, and yet it's fascinating. Yeah,
it's great. Yeah. And then the April thing. It's so
weird because they almost took me to my breaking point
of being so over April. I was like, she's annoying
me so much right now, I'm scared they're going to
kill her. Yeah, I for sure think they're going to
kill her. But um I say that with confidence. I

(17:59):
never right on Great, I don't think I think. I
think she goes back to the military. I think she
goes back where she's more comfortable. Do you know one
it's Arizona or April is going to die. They can't
just leave us happy in them. I guess I'm optimistic
that they won't. And then my only thing with the
April storyline is that she has a baby, so I
can't see them having her leave, Yeah without just like

(18:23):
when she was reading Bailey the chief of staff for
giving this guy antibiotics, I was uncomfortable with that. I mean,
I mean, that's what I'm saying. She was like spiraling
and I didn't. I was like watching someone, you know,
like be out of control and there's nothing anyone could do.
So I felt like that that relations or those conversations
she had with the rabbi was just so powerful, like

(18:47):
it was this It was like a powerful moment watching
that storyline come to that place. I'm really happy they
brought that around because I was starting to panic. But
I hope that the whole next episode is just Meredith.
And at the end when they flashed back to her
when she first met Derek at the bar, was like
a split second. I didn't get it. It was like

(19:11):
my um like connection just went out. What happened? Yeah,
I was like I just saw an old boat of
mill video. Yeah, it was almost like she was having
that moment again a meeting him for the first time. Yeah. Yeah,
it took me a minute. Um wait, so you went

(19:35):
to Disneyland. Wait, no, sorry, should we do Hello Fresh again?
Even as exciting as Disneyland's Hello Fresh? Um, Hello Fresh.
As we have talked about, it is a meal kit
delivery service. They shot for you, they plan it out
for you, and they deliver it to you step with
step by step recipes and it's all pre measured ingredients,

(19:58):
so you just have to cook and eat yeah yeah, yeah,
and enjoy it. Um. They have three plans to choose from,
so they have the Classic, they have the Veggie, and
then they have the Family. So each box is made
up of fresh, responsibly obtained ingredients from carefully selected farms,
which I'm a big fan of because I I used

(20:19):
to shop up the farmers market, so I love it.
They get these from their local farmers and high rated
and trusted sources. Um. So the part about it I
think that makes it so enjoyable is that it makes
dinners fuss free. There's options for picky eaters, it's kid
tested and they have a family approved recipes. Yeah. And

(20:39):
the best part is it takes twenty minutes to make it. Parts. Yeah, well,
the thing is twenty minutes, that's give or take a
few Someone like me might take around thirty someone like me,
you probably could do it in fifteen. It's so easy.
Even like that, they pretty measure are the ingredients, so

(21:01):
you literally just have to put it together. I know.
But I'm like a shaky cook, you know. And what's
the best part the eating it? The cooking it is fun?
The worst part cleaning it up. But with Hello Fresh,
the cleanup is simple is that there's no extra waste.
I know exactly what it's supposed to be and then
put in the ziplog back. Yeah. And that my sisters

(21:23):
anytime we get food and there's leftovers, it sits in.
They're like, we're going to eat it, and it's it's
in the fridge for like two weeks before I finally
have to take it out. Shout out to my girls.
One pot recipes, clean done. Um. Yeah, so get out
of the recipe, right we all get stuck in it.
Start cooking outside of your comfort zone. Um discovered new

(21:43):
delicious recipes in each week's box. My mom was like,
we try something my mom used to have, like her
three meal she cooked on a regular basis, and now
they used Hello Fresh every week and she's like, there's
things that I cook that I would have never even
guessed and we love it. So it's really actually funny
seeing firsthand from like knowing the meals that I grew

(22:04):
up with, and then it's all changing. Um and for
thirty dollars off your first week at Hello Fresh, you
can visit Hello Fresh dot com and into our code
Becca T thirty. That's Hello Fresh dot com and the
code is Becca T thirty for thirty dollars off your
first week. Are you ready? I don't know. I'm just

(22:24):
just just go. That's Hello Fresh dot com promo code
Becca te thirty. Yeah. I feel like we nailed that one.
I was feeling so anxious reading it. I was like,
how are we going to do this? I had a plan. Yeah.
The Facebook group continues to bring joy to all of
our lives. Yeah. Well, speaking of the promo code, did

(22:45):
you see that little girl? So so cute? And then
every time I go on here, there's another fifty people
who want to be in it? Worked over people are
on this on this thing now, and it's really it's
cool because what I do is when I get a
list of fifty people who want to be in the group,
I scroll and I look at all the cities because
they're from all over the world and it just it

(23:06):
warms my heart. Yeah, it's really a neat thing. And
one of the cool things that was on there this
week was Emily who ran into Ellen Pompeo Meredith Gray
at a coffee shop, Yes, a Starbucks. So put that
in your like, what do you do in that situation?
Like you had to run? Say, we know how I
handle it. Let's get her on here. Here's Emily. Sorry
that's the wrong but Emily, are you there? Yes, hi, Hi,

(23:31):
it's back at Tania Mark and Easton. Hello everyone, Hi,
um we you know, I feel like your post on
the Facebook group was the hit of the well the
whole time. Really, people are so excited. I was so
shocked how many people were were responding to it. But
it was so exciting. I mean, you met the Queen,

(23:54):
I met one. Yeah, So can you explain, like you
can you explain just the whole everything that happened from
you walking in the door? Yes, okay, okay. So my
mom and I, uh, we're one on a walk in
the morning to start busts and we went into like
really early, like six am on a Sunday morning, so

(24:15):
we were in Starbucks by ourselves, like no one else
was in the Store's just me and my mom and
uh my dad had gotten there and was outside. So
I grabbed the drinks and went to walk out of
the store. And as I'm walking out of the store,
Ellen Pompey was walking in and I like, stop in
my truck, turned around walking at my mom, and my
mom is just standing there and she's like yep, Vick

(24:36):
in her head, like seeing you exactly in my mind.
So I'm like steaky, and I walked outside. I'm like
freaking out to my dad. I'm like to tell Pompea
what do I do. She's like, go in there. There's
no one else in the store, like be calm. So
I'm like okay. So I go in and my mom's
standing there and I'm like, Mom, you have to do it.
We have to do it. We're the only ones here,
like this is our time, like we have to we

(24:57):
can't let this moment pass. So she's like, okay, I'll
do Like what do I say? And I'm like, you,
you're much better at this than I am. So she's like, okay,
I'll play it. Super cool. So she's like, hi, we
just wanted to let you know. We're like huge fans.
We've been watching since the beginning, Like we just wanted
let you know how great we think you are. And
we just and she was like she like stopped and
she was like, oh my god, thank you. And she's like,

(25:18):
let me just order really fast. So we're like okay.
So we're standing there like okay. At last, she said
hi to her, like what will we do next? And
then she like came over to our table and was
like hi, Like that was such a nice thing to
hear from you guys. We love hearing that people have
been walking since the beginning. And she like started talking
to my mom. She was like, yeah, we got new

(25:39):
writers for this season, so we're helping to lighten things
up and all this stuff. And she's like very friendly,
like shockingly friendly. And then she like her drink is
called so she's like she's like thanks so much for
saying high and gives us a hug, and I'm like shaking,
like actually shaking and freaking out. My mom's like I

(26:00):
think I've watched out to get a picture, Like no
one's gonna believe this actually happened. She's like, okay, let's
do it. So my mom was like, I know, like
you this early in the morning and you probably don't
want a picture, but like we promised we won't post it.
And she's like, we could just get a picture fresh
to have and she was like, oh no, like totally fine,
Like it's okay. Um, She's like, we'll get a picture.

(26:21):
She's like, normally it's like screaming thirteen year old stands
like running after me. So this is a lot more
like personal. And I was like okay, Like so he
took this healthie and she's like, we think it was
so great meeting you, and like walked outside and WoT,
I'm freaking out and I'm like, mom, it's like she's
wearing crubs like outfit even looks like she looks. It
was like so pathetic. And then she had walked outside

(26:43):
and we followed her to my dad was sitting outside.
She's like talking to my dad about because her husband
was there and he drove off, like because he was
certainly in the parking lot, you couldn't find them. Then
she's talking to my Dad's like, oh my god, what
do I feel? And my mom's like, do you want
us to give you a ride. We'll get you a
ride want and then you like, her husband came up
and that was the moment that I for the next

(27:04):
like two hours of my life, like I cannot believe
that happened. So wait, So when was this how long ago? Uh?
About like about month or so ago? My well, my
grandma surgery. It was reason where at Starbust was my
grandpa was in surgery and then waiting for him. But
it was like about three or four weeks ago. Maybe

(27:30):
this new like contract, this new deal like has there
like a different mindset, you know. She's like I need
to like you know, like she's public relations for the
entire like it's her show, the show. And I also
feel like the way that y'all approached her because there
was no one else to like kind of cause maybe
out or Ruckus there was. She was like calm and

(27:51):
the mom helps, I think to think. I think, first, sure,
my mom helps because she's like the same mate, so
they can relate and Tau like me, I probably would
have fangled so hard. I would have been like, oh
my gosh, I love cool. But it was it was
seriously so cool. And I definitely think that it being
so early in the morning that no one's being around

(28:12):
definitely played in our advantage because it wasn't like one
person started and then she felt like he to take
picture with everyone, right, So, like, I mean on the
airplane for you, once you started, maybe everyone would have started.
So did knowing that story make you hesitant to approach?
Knowing Becca tried to approach and her husband kind of said, don't,
don't do it right now. I told my mom this
story because my mom like, I tell him, like, oh, yeah,

(28:35):
didn't my friends. I haven't met them before, my friends
and she was on their plane with them, and my
mom was like, well, maybe it's just a different scenario.
She's like, I still think we should try. So I'm like,
I'm glad my mom was there. Probably I don't know
what I would have done. I would have at least tried,
But I mean, you know, you know what this story
teaches us. Moms make everything better, Yes, they really do.

(28:58):
And that one man's pie might be another man's pleasure?
What is that mean? Like another one man's but there's
another reason plusure pleasure, like like like your experience with
Ellen was so different from Emily's experience without you? Was

(29:21):
my pleasure Yes, this was pie, and Emily had leisure.
Nobody likes pi. This is the this is her weirdest one.
Yet everyone likes pie. I like pie. I like pie.
Everyone likes pie. Likes there's a hundred different types of pie.
There's one you would like, and move on from that.

(29:43):
Move on. What you're saying is in different scenario. People
can have different experiences. We all deal with different different
situations at the time, like, oh, this happened to my girlfriend,
this is going to happen to you. But it's like,
look like everything happens differently for different people. And good
was a good And there's some days people are like
wanting to talk and be friendly, and there's stays they're

(30:05):
like want to keep their head down. Prob. Yeah, especially
for like her, when I'm sure everywhere she goes she
gets asked for a picture. So it's probably easy when
there was no one else around to ask her for
a picture, it was easier for her to say yes,
knowing it's not going to like ripple effects for everyone around.
I kind of feel like we've met Ellen Pompeo because

(30:27):
you're talking to us about it. Yeah, me too, Like
I feel like I got here's the thing though. Also,
I think with your mom too. I think that that
y'all had a conversation with her first and gave her
like a nice compliment and didn't just say like can
I get a photo? Was probably really nice too. Yes,
that's very true. I mean my mom also told her

(30:47):
we wouldn't post it, and then I posted in the
Facebook group and now we're talking about it. Yeah, it's
a safe place in there. Um. Okay, thank you so
much for telling that we are. It was even better
than I expected. Thank you for calling I love you
guys in the podcast. Okay, we love you. Have a
good day, bye bye. That would be a good We

(31:09):
should post it on the Facebook group. What celebrities have
you met and how did it go? Like? That would
be a good stories. Yeah, I love stories like that. Actually,
that whole thing reminds me of one time my friend
had an experience with Jennifer Gardner. Was like she was
so rude to me, and everyone else I've talked to
is like she's the nicest person ever. So it's like,
I think at that point I realized, you know, people

(31:30):
just have on and off day and I don't even
know if Ellen was having an off day on the plane.
I just never even talked to her, never got that far.
But we got the vibe from the husband. Got the vibe. Yeah,
like even a pot pie, you might like me. I'm sorry,
I don't want to harp on it too much, but
that made no sense. What is the saying? I don't

(31:52):
know because I've never heard anything. One man's pies and pleasure.
I think that might be a phrase, and she thought
it was pie. She's like, yeah, no, one likes one
is another man's pleasure. Oh shoot, you don't like chocolate
cream pie? Yeah, a straw and you're gonna have like
ice cream or cake or candy. Okay, but those are

(32:14):
all good, and so is pie, like like you know,
apple pie, cherry pie, whatever you're gonna say, Pies like
the one, the Owen of the desserts, like the Owen
of desserts. Yeah, you hit the nail ahead with that one.
Tiny gets mad at me because we have the same
week of birthday, and so when that week rolls around,

(32:36):
they'll get a cake and I don't. I don't want cake.
I want pie. I prefer it over cake. Mark deserves
too pie. Thank you don't cake. But the majority of
people want the cake now, so maybe you should bring
him a pie for his birthday. She has brought me
a cherry tart like pie. I mean it's close enough.

(32:57):
I thought that possibly possibly before we get to Clarity.
I want to do a book club on the Facebook page.
Oh yeah, because I read a lot of books, and
I feel like the books I read are books that
our audience would enjoy. OK. Sure, I don't read a lot,
so I would like to have something that I liked.

(33:17):
I just finished and I'll post it on there. I
just finished Little Fires Everywhere by a Celeste ng and
now it's going to be a Reese Witherspoon mini series.
Oh yeah, it's phenomenal. So I'm gonna post that on there,
and maybe once a month, at the beginning of the month,
I'll post a book. But I think everyone was a
cute idea that Mark love it. Um. We have talked

(33:38):
about bio Clarity a lot on the podcast, but I
have noticed more people that I like follow on Instagram
or people that um just I see in general and
social media are using it more and more. UM. I
think because it is an all natural, um vegan, gluten free,
basically clean product, it's easy in your skin. I think

(34:00):
a lot of products can be really like, I have
really sensitive skin, so a lot I can't use a
lot of products because my skin I'll just go berserk. Yeah.
I mean I'm the same way if I use anything
with too many chemicals, it freaks out. Oh what is it?
It's delivered straight to you. What you know? I could

(34:21):
say it over and over again, you know. I love that. UM.
It's an easy to use, three steps skin care ritual.
And it's like I said before, it's a vegan, it's
gluten free, it's cruelty free. UM. They have the cleanser,
they have the treatment, they have the restore gel, and
then they have a hydrade moisturizer. UM Bio Clarity is

(34:43):
also packed with clarifying botanicals and new fa lx um it,
which is naturally derrived from chlorophyll, which is the green
stuff that plants need to live UM, and it's proven
to soothe the way bloomishes. So it's really good on
your skin if you have any redness or any irritated area,
as it calms it down. UM. They also offer a
skin smoothie with hydrate, which is the moisturizer I was

(35:06):
talking about It's a lightweight, breathable moisturizer designed for even
supersensitive skin. UM and you can use it. You can
use the hydrate alone or with the whole system right
like at the end, Yeah, after the three step process. Right.
I've seen a lot of people on Facebook groups saying
they've used my Clarity and how much they love it. Yeah,
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(35:26):
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(35:47):
as I love to do. Yeah. Um, that's bioclarity dot
com and enter my code Becca. Okay, We're just gonna
go through some of the like quick quick topics on
Facebook that we have seen. First of all, Tony and
I haven't quite figured out how to master the Facebook
situation because like, if I look at one like post

(36:08):
and then I try to go back and find it,
I can't find it. That makes me feel better, you know,
it's that algorithm. But yeah, I have a terrible time
with it. But where does it go? When I look
at my feed, they pop up in a certain order,
and I want to look at the straight Facebook group feed.
It's a totally different. Yeah. Like you were talking about
this girl that I met in Disland. She's like and
I said, how did you know that? And You're like,
she posted the photo in the Facebook group and I'm like,

(36:30):
how do I find that? I can't haven't seen it.
It was so sweet. She was so excited that she
ran into you and could care less that you had
Sofia Carson I was telling market was like just flocks
of people all day for Sophia, this moment came came
up to me. It was like the podcast, like, what
the heck? He waited to give a shout out to Constance.

(36:50):
Oh yeah, wait. At the James Bay concert, Constance comes
up to us and she taps us on the shoulder
and she's crying and she's like, really drunk, That's why
I'm crying. And she was like, I love you all
so much. It was the sweetest, sweetest She was like,
I love Mark, I love Easton. Yeah, She's like, I'm

(37:11):
the Becca my best friends the Tanya she makes up
at five and does yoga. She I love my bed
and McDonald It was so sweet. Yeah, so shout out
to Constance. Yeah, it was really good meeting you. So
nice to meet you. M okay so Kayla from our
Facebook group and wants to know if guys like being
asked out. She has a crush on the guy at

(37:33):
the gym. Yeah, and she was like, should I go
up and ask him out? And the answers yes, right,
Oh not so much. Tanya is groaning. I say, dropped
the handkerchief. All right. Let me just say, from a
guy's point of view, guys do love being asked out.
It's a huge ego boost for them and so ego driven.
It's like going to make their day. If they're not interested,
they'll say they have a girlfriend or something. But I

(37:53):
don't feel like you have anything to lose. Just grab
it if you want it. If you want it, go
get it. So I said, go up to him and
introduce yourself and ask him out. Tanya, I say, dropped
the handkerchief. Let him know that you're interested somehow and
let him ask you out. Yeah, I say, go up
and introduce yourself. Have a conversation, see if you can

(38:14):
fail out the vibes and then make the move after that.
So you're both against asking a guy out because this
is interesting. Yeah, because we got some a lot of
conversation on the Facebook. Quich I know we addressed about
the last name thing because you guys both also took
a more traditional view of taking a guy's last name,
taking more traditional view of being asked out. You don't

(38:36):
think it's appropriate to ask a guy out. I'm not
saying don't make the first move. I'm all about making
the first move. Hello. I think about going up to
him and approaching him is making the first move, and
I think he should be the one that. Why can't
you say I would love to get coffee sometime? Would you?
Would you be interested in that? It's just kind of
like I have always had this mentality or this what

(39:00):
I what I what I want is to be pursued.
So this is maybe just a personal thing. If a
girl doesn't have that desire of like wanting to be
pursued and she likes being in control, then I say
go ask him out. Personally, I wouldn't because I like
to be pursued. Yeah, And then like so then did
they get coffee? Like? Does she pay for the coffee?
Like she's just gonna you know what I mean, it's

(39:21):
gonna be so awkward the whole time, Like she's like,
is he taking me out? Does he really want to
be here? To be here? Yeah, well that's what guys
have to do with every time. But that's why I think.
I almost think if she shows the interest first, then
it should make it easier if he's interested to ask
her out, because she already made the move to approach. Okay,

(39:42):
fair enough, Um, what about Katie? She kissed a guy.
It was terrible. She's wondering father continuing with us at all?
What he just kind of inhaled her bottom lip or something.
I don't know. Maybe he didn't inhale it. Maybe he
just like suckling it. Okay, it could be nice. March

(40:05):
is literally in the same suckling. There's not lip, but
could be nice. I could see this poor guy was
probably I don't want to ever talk about lip suckling. Ever.
She said that at first he was barely moving his

(40:25):
mouth at all, and then he inhaled her bottom. WI. Yeah,
I like this guy, I said, Katie, I do well?
You don't think so. I think it'd be like everything
else and enjoyed his company and everything the kissing can

(40:49):
get back. Yeah, she could teach him. I think that's
what people are in the comments. We're basically saying, was
my husband and I were a terrible first kid worked
out great. And yes, I think it's sweet because he
clearly doesn't have a lot of experience kissing. Right. Is
that kind of sweet? Is that kind of endearing that?
Or does he maybe he dated someone that enjoyed the

(41:10):
suckling and he's like, I'm gonna do this next time. Yeah?
I mean I don't. I say, if you like everything else,
don't let that be a deal breaker, especially on the
first date. If after like what three or four times?
Like how long do you give that? Though? I think

(41:31):
you could have a conversation about it at some point. No,
you teach him with your mouth. You don't teach him
with your words. You can't be like you're terrible kisser.
Let me teach you show him, let me show you something.
You could just say that. Here's the actual quote from
Katie Morgan. Thank you, Katie. We're watching that flicks and
all of a sudden, he just kissed me, but he
didn't really move his lips. It was like he was
trying to make out with me, but with no movement,

(41:52):
if that makes sense. Until he put his until he
put my whole bottom lip in his mouth, and his
hands were all over the place. Not great. It sounds
like he just was out of control a little bit.
I don't hate it. You don't hate what. I don't
hate this guy. I think she can keep I think
you can work with it. Well, me too, But like,

(42:13):
I don't think that kiss sounds like a good kiss.
It doesn't sound bad at me. I like mysterious hands
going places all over the place, like I'm picturing flailing about.
I'm picturing him like grabbing her hair, then like moving
him somewhere else, like but not like soft and like sexy,

(42:34):
but more just like spastic. You would like someone who
is a spastic. None of this is a deal breaker. Yeah,
she also dated a guy with halitosis. Let's not forget
dark times. I also really like Laurence. She wasn't in advice,
but she posted that she mashed the guy in bumble
and then they finally got to the point with the

(42:56):
phone numbers. Oh my gosh, this is hilarious, and then
she said that they'd already had a text conversation because
they had already gone out. I'm so good, very memorable, clearly,
but a really good story. I know, really good story
if they end up like being together. Well I think
they both said though, let's not bother kind of but
I don't know. Maybe they didn't. I matched. I matched
with the guy on bumble and he looked so familiar,

(43:19):
and then I realized we had gone out. But I
literally had to ask him. I was like, I feel
so dumb, but I can't remember how we met or
like when we went out. I've done the same thing,
but I've seen people like in real life, and I'm like,
I know I've met you, and like it'll hit me
afterwards that I've seen them on like a dating app.
I've never met them. But I actually I went out

(43:40):
on a date with this guy and didn't remember. That's bad. Yeah,
I know. It was so unlike me. I'm like, wow,
that made me feel like such a player. I went
on like four tender dates before I went on The Bachelor,
and I think he was one of them. But that's
the problem. So many of these dates are one and done, yeah,
and there's such a small pool of guys that you
interested you start back at the beginning again. Um. You

(44:04):
know what's great though, is threat Up and then we'll
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(44:25):
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(44:48):
those like? You can buy those for. Yeah, that's what
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(46:18):
let me tell you all how much I love the podcast.
You guys are amazing. I love all the advice you
guys have to offer. Becca Antania, I wish I had
your confidence about going out into the dating world and
on first dates. I'm twenty years old in college. I've
never had a boyfriend at this point. I'm scared to
even go on dates because of how inexperienced I am
in the dating world. Seriously, I've never even gone on
a date before. I need advice how do I date.

(46:41):
I'm so scared of awkward date talking and totally freak
that any guy is gonna think I'm weird and awkward.
Thanks for reading, guys, I really do love the podcast, Sophia. Well, Sophia,
I did not have I would say I had relationships
where I was super into a guy and we had
something similar to relate sation ship, but it wasn't an

(47:01):
official title of being in a relationship until Robert. Yeah,
and how old were you at Robert seven? But you've
been on dates before, right, Yeah. But I'm just saying, like,
don't let that never having had a boyfriend at this point.
Don't let that like be a reason why you are
scared to try or go out on a date. And
I also think that people put a lot of pressure

(47:23):
on like the word date. Like I'm sure Sophia, that
you interact with humans on a regular basis. That's essentially
what a date is. Like you're interacting with another human
over a meal, you know, So it's like kind of
like take the label off of it. You do it
every day, so it kind of takes the pressure off,
and and you don't put any expectation into it, Like
I go into every single date with this saying. My

(47:45):
sister told me. She said, Um, I think I've said
it before, but it's be open to the possibility, but
not attached to the outcome. So you're open to the
possibility of liking this this person you're going out with,
but you're not attached to them like becoming your boyfriend
or becoming your husband or you know what I mean
as like just being open but not being not having expectations.
I think you'll do great. Yeah, but I think I mean,

(48:06):
and I will say going on dates or like how
learning how to date as far as how to meet someone,
you have to be in situations where there's people of
the opposite sex or people that you would be interested
in maybe that have the same um interested you. If
you're you know, religious, in a Bible study group or

(48:28):
in a church setting, or if you like going out,
Oh you can't go to bars because you're one. Another
good way is maybe to tell your friends, like I'd
really love to be set up, Like people really like
to set up their friends. So I'd say, like, do
you have anybody that I could you could set me
up on a date with? I think people will really
like jump on that. And even I mean, I know
that we talk a lot about dating apps, but that

(48:49):
is kind of the way people are doing it now,
and maybe doing it on a dating app where you're
not super familiar with who's on there and they're ultimately strangers.
Just let someone know where you are at all times. Um.
But I think that's just you go on dates, and
even if it's like Tony said, even if you're not
like I'm gonna marry this person, it's an experience and

(49:11):
meeting someone new and we're all weird and awkward everybody is,
especially on dates. I I actually I get like I
struggle with just not putting expectations on it, and I
struggle with trying to just act like it's a normal conversation. Yeah,
I struggle with like reeling it in. I'm just like

(49:32):
a level a hundred, and I was trying to reel
it back a little bit. I might just picturing you
on a date being like, you know, like one man's
pie is another man's pleasure, and he's just like staring
at Yeah, Okay, I don't know what she's talking about.
Caitlyn is twenty three. The last guy they had cheated
on me and had a baby with another girl ended
up marrying her. So my heart has been guarded ever since.

(49:53):
So now she's digging a new guy. She's he's an
hour away, but she's done a lot of long distance
that's not a big deal. Lately, she it's like he's
backing off a little and not as engaged as he
once was. He I'm now quoting her. He also calls
me his girlfriend, but we haven't talked about defining our
relationship yet. So do I just go with it or
do you think we should have a conversation. I'm fine
with and want to be exclusive, but I don't know

(50:14):
where his head is Also, I'm told out of the
dating game, so I'm unsure how to approach this. I
can feel myself getting sad that he seems more distant lately,
so I think there could be potential here, but I'm
terrible about putting myself out there. I'm scared to bring
it up because I don't want him to see me
as pushy or anything. I'm noticing a lack of effort
I was giving compared to him, but I don't want
it to be too late. I love y'all and your podcast. Ps.

(50:37):
I made a vision board this year because of you
two and this podcast, and y'all are right up near
the center of it. Thanks for inspiring me in so
many ways. So anyway, she met this new guy and
now he's starting to get more distance, and she feels
like it's her doing because she's not giving as much
as she should be. But he calls her his girlfriend.
By the way, that's where his head is at. That's
what I was gonna say. If there was any doubt
he would not be calling you his girl, no conversation necessarily.

(50:59):
Guys don't throw that out, Willie Nillie. Guys throw that
out because they mean it and they're interested and they
want you to be that. Yeah, I mean that that
says a lot right there. But I I think I
see that she said I relate to you a lot, Becca,
because I'm very emotionally unavailable. And if you're into someone
and you really want this to work, you kind of
have to. I mean, I'm learning, but you have to

(51:21):
let those walls down. Like no one, someone's only going
to try so hard before they realize they're not getting anywhere,
and then they're going to become more distant. I think
that's what I learned for sure. Yeah, I mean, no
one wants someone who doesn't show them that they're wanted to. Um,
I think it might be time for a grand gesture

(51:43):
like she does a grand gesture. He's an hour away,
but I think maybe she shows up surprises him or something.
I don't know the level of intimacy these two are at,
but maybe she surprises him by wearing something or some
sort of a for him that will make him realize that, Okay,
she's really into this because it's out of character for you,
and he'll realize that's out of character for you, and
it will mean that much more. Yeah, or something you

(52:05):
don't have to the sexy route, and you can do
something sentimental, like if you mentioned like his favorite, like
he loves a sub from whatever, and you go bring
him his favorite sub with like a nice note and
you're like, I just wanted to bring you lunch today.
I mean, yeah, I think just something that shows that
you're putting an effort. I think that's gonna say or
mean a lot to him totally. But I think if yeah,

(52:26):
I agree with Mark, if he's calling you this girlfriend,
no conversation needed on that part. Don't bother with that,
and don't worry about that he's in. So let him
know that you're in. I like, we have time for
one more here. Kristen Um. So there's a a guy
she's into. The randomly bumped into each other walking their dogs.
We introduced each other while back, but then of course
she forgot his name and just remembered his dog's name. Well,

(52:47):
finally she got around to saying hi. She actually used
our Facebook group to figure out how to get his name.
But finally she goes, hey, rue fifth to the dog,
and you are and so now she knows his name again. Anyway,
they bump into each other all the time, even at
tenant night when she's in pj's and a side Tony, which,
by the way, that's underrated. You girls think you look
like like crap. We don't. I think that's adorable. Um.

(53:08):
This morning, we had another casual bump in and he
asked me to meet him later at the dog parked together.
At the end, he asked for my phone number, but
we didn't plan another time to hang I'm writing because
I was looking for suggestions to ask him to hang
out again. My friend said I should buy tickets to
a local soccer game and tell him I have an
extra ticket. What do you guys think? By the way,
he works at a hospital as an our end best.
I think your friend has great advice. I think that's

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so fun and eat like casual. I think it's great
if he's giving you indication that that's something he would enjoy.
But I feel like, well, I mean, I don't like baseball,
but I love to go to a baseball game and
eat like I like that, yeah, right, the vibe. Yeah,
it's almost like a concert or something. Yeah. And I
do like sporting events and Tanya disagrees with me, But
I like sporting events as first dates because you don't

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have to talk. But you can talk movies. You can't
talk dinner. You have to talk sporting event. It's up
to you. There's no awkwardness. You can watch the game,
you can talk back and forth whatever time. You're making
faces like, no, you liked the football game. You said,
this is so cute. It's so cute to go with
your friends on the first day. Are you kidding? If
I went to a first date Jim Tebow was like, Hey,
I want to go the Lakers game in a month.

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Let's maybe get dinner and get to know each other
a little bit. You're turning it. Oh you don't. If
you're turning Tim Tebow down on that, then you don't.
I'm also not. I'm also not saying like, if I
get asked out on the first day to do something
like that, I would never I probably wouldn't poo poo it.
I just wouldn't be my first choice. So you would
go out. If you like the guy, you go out,
even if it was mini at your golf, which I
know you're not a fan of. Yeah, yeah, I would.

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If I wasn't the guy on the first day, I
want to that's my go to first date. Really cute,
it's like fun, it's cute, you can talk, it's quiet.
And that was my second day with Amy was mini golfer.
Mini golf is better than like going to a sporting event.
Though if I someone asked me to go to a
baseball game on the first day, I'd be like, okay, okay,

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don't knock it till you try. The only negative to
a ball game is it's three hours and if you're not.
But I like the soccer game. I like whatever you
can come up with. I think he'll be into it. Kristen,
we say go for it, right yeah, Because he asked
her to meet him later at the dog park, he's interested.
I was. I was trying to think of something that

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they could bring their dogs together since they have that
in common. But cute, yeah, or like um and she's like,
oh my dog, we just gave her. I just got
out of this new treat and I got one for
Rufus too. That's the first date. It's not it doesn't
lead to anything for it all right. Before we wrap,
Ali just wanted to point out Chase mcnary's snapchat The

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power that you guys have. Chase McNary, who was on
the Bachelor, he said on a Snapchat public service announcement.
I don't have any dating apps. If you're talking to
someone pretending to be me, tell them to piss off. Clearly,
our listeners on moss are going after these people and
saying by talking to a funny to me, it's so funny,

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and I you know, I noticed a lot of people
got a little more serious about it on the Facebook group, like,
you know, this is not right. You're starting it off
on a lie. It's it's supposed to be lighthearted. Totally,
all these Bachelor people and all these professional aspen I
just love that Chase, Like, our listeners are like Chase
McNary totally, totally, and he got so many that he

(56:24):
felt in the need. It's so good. It's so good.
I hope he's not listening. Um, yeah, that is so funny.
I feel like I've seen so someone did it to
my brother and he goes good, try back in Tanya.
So good. I know we need to come up with

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more of these. I know. Yeah, we gotta try some more. Okay,
unfortunately we have to wrap no, but we still have
so much to talk about. I felt like time really
flew by today. What do you have to talk about
out so much, so many things. Well, um, we have

(57:06):
next week. We maybe I know a lot of people
want to podcast a week. It's something to consider. I mean,
I'm in do we shorten them or do we keep
him the same length? I don't know. That's something we'll
have to discuss the logistics to forty minute episodes instead
of one. Well, this one's an hour on the nose. Yeah,
And people were upset last week because it was fifty

(57:27):
nine minutes. They were like, and we waited an extra
day and we got chipped on time. So well, we'll
talk about it. May call back. Do we have a
post show meeting? Yes, let's have a post show meeting
and discuss the ability of a second podcast a week.
Just to check in. Clear the inbox something like that.
Clear the inbox. That's I like that. I actually just

(57:51):
did that. I did the party show and I got
to go through his d M. Yeah. I felt really
proud about that. Great. He was like, you're a star.
Thank you. He was like, we have a new segment.
I'm gonna go through my d M. You said your
feet is going to be your feet must be. So
it's so sad that actually like I got excited about

(58:12):
the possibility of reading his d m s. Why don't
we go through one of you. Both of you are
not interesting, none really, I mean mine aren't that interesting either,
but we can probably find some some gems. I did get.
A guy sent me a cucumber, some very prerogative looking thing.

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I was like, okay, it was a cute. It was
like an actual cucumber. And I was like, it's like
a dirty one. Sounds pretty dirt. I didn't love it.
All right, you gotta go. Thank you all for listening,
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my gosh, I haven't call it well done. No, no,