Ep. 9 "Recurring Symptoms"

Actress and Country Music singer Jana Kramer checks in to the O.R. Becca breaks gives the prognosis of relationship survival if you fart in front of your significant other. Plus the recap of Grey's 300th...was it all we wanted and more? And Mr. Whole Foods is back battling another case...of "the Tanyas"

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ready scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio Podcast.
Hello everybody, it's Becca Tilly and Danya here. You know,
it feels really good to be back. It was a
long week without you, the longest week ever. I did

(00:22):
see you in between, though, but only like twice. I
know we were you know, we had a distant week
from each other. We had a very distant but you know,
I feel like I was thinking this morning, I feel
like my life isn't a really good place right now,
and the only thing I can really credit it to
is Taylor slips of them being out. I have to
to have to agree with you on that, Like, do

(00:43):
I give that much credit to her? I think I
do for sure. Ye. Remember I asked you this on Thursday.
I said, what were you more excited about the three
episode of Gray's Anatomy or Taylor's album? I really want
to get into both of these. The both of these
topics have been heavy on my mind this week, very heavy,
very heavy. The Taylor Swift album is everything I didn't

(01:07):
know I needed. Like I don't really relate to it
a lot, really, I mean so relatable. Oh, I get
what you're saying, because it's like a lot about like
love beef. Oh, it's about love and drama, which I
don't have a lot of in my life, which I
guess the drama part is good. But you know, like
I wish there was someone I could think of and
be like, yeah, I dig that. You hear that that's

(01:30):
from me and Taylor. Yeah yeah, but New Year's Day,
that's going to be us New Year's Day. Yeah, that's
like romantic. I know. That's what I'm saying, Like if
we had somebody we could be like oh yeah yeah,
or like call it what you want. There's just so
many lyrics. You know, I think you know my theory.
I know you're I back you up on this, Okay.
I am in full support of this. Okay. So Dress

(01:52):
on her album is probably like one of the sexier
songs she's had, agree although there's always reports that like
her parents and how to Leave the Room. Yeah you
told me that. After listen to it, I'm like that.
I'm just saying, like compare it's it's not so like
loving and cute. See, it's definitely more of like a
a sexy vibe than like lovey and romantic. It's romantic,

(02:14):
but I think it's about Carly Cloth and I agree
now that I when you told me that, I listened
to it again and I was like, because there's been rumors,
I guess of her them having like a secret romance,
and so now I think that just in my head.
So any songs she puts out, I'm like, oh, Lys,
any lyrics are like, that's that's about Carly. But tell
everybody the lyric that tipped you off. I don't want

(02:37):
you like a best friend. And and she says something
about being in a crowded room and no one knows
or something. I don't know. It's just it sounds I
totally agree with you because it's not Joe her new boyfriend.
Because when you meet a guy and you're dating a guy,
you don't they're not you're not going to be your
best friend, Like you're not thinking of them as like

(02:58):
a best friend right off the bat exactly. But um also,
I like dope into it. Apparently the Swifties, it's like
a whole thing that like Taylor Swift fanatics are They're like, no, well,
they had this theory a long time ago. Like there's
a hashtag Taylor for Carly Taylor. So I'm basically swifty now. Yeah,

(03:22):
I figured it out on my own. I didn't need
the fan base, you know. But I agree with you,
and I've told many other people your theory. Yeah, and
they were like, yes, yeah, um, but I don't I
don't feel like they're like friends, and I don't know
they're they broke up. I guess, yeah, something happened. Definitely
something happened. Yeah, I think they're still friends, right, I
don't know. I don't think she was on the jacket

(03:44):
in the video. You're right, But I feel like the
album is just I've listened to it on repeat. I
have a different favorite song every day. I was just
gonna ask you give me your top three in order
one to three. I don't have an order because I
really genuinely like all of them. Today though I was
listening to Delicate a lot um. I really like I

(04:06):
did something bad. I did something bad. I did something bad,
and I and I love New Year's Day. Okay, interesting,
So what are yours? Number one? Delicate for sure? Yeah,
you've been on that one. Yeah. Number two is don't
blame Me. That's a good one, and number three is
I did something bad. I also love King of My Heart.
There's like this breakdown, that's so good. When it's like

(04:28):
stops the music. Oh you don't. I think that might
be little You just did that like lame where you
stick your finger in your throat and gag. Who does
that anymore? Anyway? Kanya has no in between. Kanya thinks
it's the greatest thing in the history of the world
or gross, get it away from me and I played
a few of the songs. Literally within three seconds, she goes,

(04:49):
this is off. This is not good. I'm like, what
the heck I'm gonna be every Instagram story She's like
song of the day and it's a new tailor slow
something like you said that one was terrible when I'm
heat it for you the other night. You're a faker. No,
I'm not. King of My Heart is not one of
the tops. I love him all Okay. I ed Sheeran's

(05:11):
video for Perfect. Yeah what what? He's pretty perfect? I
love him. It's the most romantic video there. I don't
know where they are, but it looks cold. Um okay,
can we should we get it? Do we have time
to get into the three episode Take it away? Becca? Okay?

(05:34):
I have thought this episode is going to redeem the
previous two that, in my opinion, were absolutely terrible, and
this is gonna bring it back. I'm gonna get emotional,
and on Twitter everyone was saying that they were crying
and that I was gonna love it and totally redeemed itself.
So I sit down so excited to watch it, like

(05:55):
could not be more excited, and once again let down. Yeah,
that was not a fan Tanya. First of all, Tanya
and Jojo talked during Gray's Anatomy, and I'm like, they're
on a dating app swiping for Tanya while I'm trying
to like really get into this episode. I'm like, can
you all just wait for commercials? This is rude. We

(06:15):
were doing it during commercials. Definitely, we're not Believe me,
I remember this is that not rude? Knowing how much
I like I'm invested in they're going to talk about
whoever on Riya, I don't know more of these little
girls nice to watch. That's what I'm saying, Like, I'm
gonna have to do, like we can't watch it together.
Excuse me, I when I watch it with you, I'm quiet, no,

(06:36):
but I just saying I felt like this is the
perfect time to bring it up. Whoa. Yeah, so we're
gonna have to watch separately and then we can talk
about it together. Um. I loved that episode. I thought
all the Easter eggs were so amazing. I love the fairy.
It problem made me feel like Derek Shepard was there

(06:57):
in spirit. I love that how Krev had a whole
theory as to what is he's doing now? That made
me cry. Um. The fact that she won the Harper
Ape spoiler alert, spoiler alert spoiler alert, you guys, that
was the the one redeeming thing was the very end
when she won the Harper Avery and and Jackson talked

(07:18):
about her all the things about her and her mom
was in the gallery summed up like Meredith Gray, which
I did love, that's all. And like the George and
Christina Yang in the as like the patient, but well
neither one of them really looked like what are either
of them? It was, and then how the intern like

(07:40):
tripped over his feet running out That's what George did
in the first episode. It was like, yeah, they're not
the same though, It's like why, like they're They're never
gonna say. I love the music. That's one of the
things that I've been really I wish they bring back
those Like I watched the old episode where spoiler spoiler
alert Henry dies and they're got to be way behind

(08:03):
the heavens in Henry dye and I cried and this
is just yeah the other day and I'm like, I
missed these feelings. I know, you know, I'm I'm back
on the season where um where Denny comes back as
a ghost and we find out about spoiler alert is
he's as a ghost. But those episodes are so good,

(08:24):
I know they were. Just it's just not the same,
and I don't know. I don't know if it's because
they're trying to make it more lighthearted, so it just
comes across a little bit cheesy and not as deep
and like emotional. But I need I need something to
turn around. I saw Jason George at this charity basketball
game I played in yesterday. We're like friends at this point.
I walked in the room and he's all, hey, back up.

(08:47):
But he was like he's been nice, and he was like,
we have got we gotta get you as an extra
on the show or even like the new spin off.
I was like, please, honored, can you rescue me from
a burning building? He was one of So Becca and
I went to Pailey Fest and we interviewed a bunch
of the Gray's Anatomy characters, and he was one of

(09:08):
the guys that really genuinely thought our scrubs were so
awesome and was so nice about it. He was one
of the few that was pumped on us. Super No
one else was that exciting. No Um Edwards, Stephanie Edwards,
Dr Edwards was pretty stoked on it, and so was
de Luca. Yeah, so those those three much everyone else

(09:29):
just stared at us with not much emotion in their eyes. Um,
Maggie was not so pleased with our scrubs. Could not
have been less pleased. Actually, she's She's probably one of
the people that comments on my Instagram when we wear scrubs.
She's all, this isn't right, right right, that's probably I

(09:52):
don't see why if she can wear scrubs, you guys
can't wear scrubs. No, I think she was just um,
I just don't think she found it cute, like I
think she was, like, yeah she was. She was probably
like these rules are so lame, but oh also comic
con No one's mad that somebody's dressed up like Chewy
That's what I said to I'm like, I find it
surprising that we're we're the only ones on the press

(10:13):
line and scrubs, the only ones in the professional press
line wearing scrubs. Yeah, you're right. Um. Also, uh, in
the game yesterday to Mario from Rachel Season, the Bachelorette
was playing, we're on the same team. Literally, we were
down by two points. He goes up for the last
play of the game and gets fouled and he's dislocates
his shoulder and we're like, Ben Warren, where's Ben Warren?

(10:37):
There's a doctor? We a doctor? Did he hope? He
walked over there, but he didn't help. He's a firefighter. Now,
don't have time. Don't have time for dislocated shoulders. What
a firefighter could fix a dislocated shoulder? Yeah? Okay, Um,
you know what Jason George would like? Do you know
what any man would like? But there is this website

(11:01):
and it's it's called this company, It's called man Creates.
My One of my most stressful times in my life
is when I'm trying to find a gift for any
of the men in my life. I don't have a
love interest, but my dad my brother in law, my brother.
I have a really hard time finding gifts for guys. Yeah,
because guys are really hard to shop for. Yeah, why

(11:21):
are you all so hard to shop for? They don't
want anything? Yeah, but that's why. So every guy has
like a niche like I feel like every guy has
either they like whiskey. Nice, it's like tomato tomato okay, um.
But like for me, my brother in law is obsessed
with like craft beer, so I would get him the

(11:42):
craft beer one. Okay, So let me explain what this is.
So Man Creates offers over a hundred hand created gift
collections for every type of guy. So if you're an outdoorsman,
or you're someone who likes to grill, or you're someone
who likes to make cocktails, whatever, there is like literally
a gift for every single guy with a different hobby.
They have a they have a crate that has personalized

(12:04):
golf balls, in which I know pretty much any guy
I know, I would love that. My future husband is
gonna like a whiskey crate like all the different whiskeys.
And it's not just for guys. It's called Man Creates.
But there's a Moscow mule set on there, which I
love a good Moscow mule. Thing. That's so genius is
it's like for the girl having to get a gift
for any guy. This will make you look like, you know,

(12:27):
you're like, it's really good stuff. One of my favorite
parts about this is that every crate comes with a
personalized laser engraved crowbar that they have to open the crate. Way.
By the way, did you know there's a whole bacon
crate Bacon. That's what I'm saying, Like, this thing has

(12:48):
everything a man could want, and you can you can
do one that's already made, or you can personalize your crate.
They also have a gift card option that comes in
a concrete case and they have to pry it open
with the tools because guys like to like break stuff. Yeah,
like it's true though, it's true. They like to just
get down and dirty. Um okay. And they also if

(13:10):
you go on their website, it's man Creates dot com.
That's m A N C R A t e s
dot com And if you look at the reviews, it's
all five stars. And man Create comes with a satisfaction guarantee,
which we love. So they basically walk you through it,
make sure you get the perfect gift for your guy. Um,
and if you go to man Creates dot com slash Becca,

(13:31):
you'll get five percent off your order. So five percent
off at man Creates dot Com slash Becca. That's Man Creates.
M A N c R A t e s dot
com slash Becca b E c c A. You guys,
My girl crushes here and I love her and she's
going to co host with you guys the rest of
the show. Um, I like love her so much. I've

(13:53):
never met her. Oh my god, it's so many events
when I've not met her. She is the rattus Chick.
Janet Kramer is coming in. Janna Kramer is quite possibly
the most naturally beautiful person. She was walked in the
room and you're stunning, Like seriously, I stalked you on
Instagram and it's just like your makeup is always flawless.
Well that's that's face tune. That's not no no, I'm

(14:14):
just like you're naturally like gorgeous. Thank you, it's so beautiful.
I remember this is actually what year did you first
go on One Tree Hill? Oh gosh, oh, I mean
this was sick. So I'm thirty three, so it was
a while. I think I just remember what I mean
I was. I've been up. I was obsessed with One
Tree the time it started. Michael Murray was everything. I

(14:39):
won't tell Sofia that, okay, but I remember when you
came on and I was I genuinely was like, this
is the prettiest girl I've ever seen. I just I
loved you on the show, was appreciating. I was a
mess on the show, but I love like I loved
my character and she was a mess, but like I
redeemed her. I feel. Did you watch? I did, but

(15:01):
I didn't know you were such a big fan. I
you really played it cool. And remember we saw Chad
Michael Murray at the Chuck prom. I know you were
not with him. I like have to have Oh yeah, yeah.
Well here's the thing about One Tree Hill. I my
sister and brother in law. I lived with him, and
so I we all watched together. And then they moved home.
Your sister who babies that my daughter, my older sister. Okay,

(15:25):
so they moved and then I moved in and to
my own, like to another place. I didn't have cable anything.
So I still haven't watched the last two seasons, right,
you have to, but like my favorite at the beginning, Yeah,
but you or maybe the season before. How many seasons
with it all together? I think nine you could crank
out nine and two. I left early though, but yeah

(15:47):
you can probably. Yeah, Tanya watched episodes and two months
thirteen seasons. I'm kind of done there, Like I've watched
every single episode, but I feel like the season I'm
just kind of like I needed to be over don't wait,
don'ts but like like I'm struggling. But here's the deal.
Like I feel like I had a massive anxiety attack
when Patrick died. Like I literally was like in my bed,

(16:09):
like I mean I still have the picture on Instagram.
I mean I was like ugly tears. Like even for
a days I was like I like, I was like
I was a mess, and then like I was still
watched it and then I watched it again. But this season,
I just feel like, Okay, like they don't even care.
I feel like the actor's care. I don't feel like
anyone cares. I don't feel like the actor's care. I
still care, but they need to end it. When Patrick died,

(16:32):
then you need to give it up. It's like what
like is going to be like Grandma Grandma in like
fifty years, like she's still going to be in the show,
Like come on, oh my gosh, what Zola. But here's
Tanya is still like new to loving Grayson just happened
this year, so she hasn't been through all them, you know.

(16:55):
I mean remember Caggle seeing mc steamy coming out of
that hour. It's like nothing has ever been that amazing
that that was good. And remember Catherine's what was his name,
Dean No Danny, this is where girl, we went through
that like fifteen years ago. Way to catch up, welcome

(17:22):
you know. I was on the show, which he's just like, um,
yeah it was girl. He did it so mean. I
was like, that was a girl that was probably one
of my like like I was super young and I
didn't do very well. I'd like to go back and

(17:44):
redeem myself on the show. But um yeah, that was
that was the mean girl. He laid in Nevada. Cement
have been on that show, can we say right there?
I am there? Yeah, he kept the young I love
he going this is my freshman fifteen to impress you.
That's why he got into this men to impress you.

(18:05):
I gave him a little petally like, yeah, I was
gonna say, you redeemed yourself. I feel I feel like
it did. I usually try to so what doctors have
you worked with her? And then okay, best story about
because I mean again, I was obsessed with Grace Natty,
like absolutely so. And I found out that I booked it.
I was just like, you know, freaking out. Actually got
into a car accident that day, but I was like, okay,
likes um. And then all I remember is I'm in

(18:29):
my trailer like one of those little I mean, it
was basically like a stall because I just just like
a you know, really small part of it. But I
see Patrick Dempsey get out of his trailer. I literally
run out of my stall and I was like hi,
and he's like hello, and I was like hey, and
then I just went right back in. It was so embarrassing,
but I was just like, he's so stunning. I just

(18:52):
wanted to say Hi, Hi, and I did, and I
embarrassed myself. I probably follow it with something more embarrassing, though,
I may you all should watch Can't Buy Me Love
and Report Back to Me Bye. Yeah, like young People,
Oh please, first movie in the eighties, and he was

(19:16):
a door, right, but amazing a cute door. Yeah, he's cute,
but he like then a cute little door then from
the Bachelor, it's like a cute door. He is. He's like,
I don't know any girl who's met him met him
that's not just like charmed. Yeah, he's very charming. My

(19:36):
old nanny is like obsessed with him. She single, he's single,
but she's like I don't think yeah, I mean she's
she's I like, Brittany's like so sweet but not like
the other girl. So I don't know, oh, not like
they didn't work out, but like you know, like she's
just like a really good girl. Um, yeah, she's like

(20:02):
very good girl. Yeah, okay, um, something that we can
all talk about. You have amazing teeth. Thank you, you're welcome.
Do you use equip toothbrush? Um? I don't. I just
use like a regular toothbrush. It's not even electric. We
got to talk about. Can you imagine jannas that she
is equipped? Can you imagine? Are we are we are okay?

(20:28):
Are we talking about this? Yah? Um? So I can
only imagine what would happen to your smile if you
use equipped toothbrush? So apparently seventy of us do not
refresh our bristles or visit the dentist on time. How
often do you go to the dentist every six months? No? Um,
like maybe once a year. I'm okay, yeah, I'm the

(20:51):
same one. In fact, I hadn't gotten so long that
I went to the dentist and I had to go
like every week, were like every week for like three
We hate it and us it's bad. But I don't
ever change bristles. Yeah, okay, so I'm guilty of this.
I don't brush. I do brush often enough, but I
don't brush long enough, and I avoid the dentist like
antonia avoids atheist. Oh um, but not anymore things stuff

(21:18):
than today. Um um. So it's an electric toothbrush and
it packs vibration and tim or features so it tells
you when to switch spots in your mouth. So it's
I love your interests in this. Um. It looks like
Apple designed it. It's really really does it have the

(21:41):
like um, you know some one or something as they
can clean because you know how dirty apparently like toothbrushes
are uh huh clean, but they can send you refill.
So you because you're supposed to change it down every
three months, which apparently none of us do. I can't
even sometimes I forget to brush my teeth just on
a lazy tonight. I do know you're supposed to change

(22:02):
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(22:23):
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b E C C a um. We are very single.
The two of the topic we talked about all the time,
but we've recently started talking about I don't like to

(22:45):
say fart because my mom listens, and you don't like
me to say fart, but tuting in front of your
significant other thoughts, Well, this is funny. So we're just
in Disney world. This past week and we just got
back actually last night, and I accidentally farted and when
you was like, what was he doing? Oh, I was
helping me get out in the wet site when we
were at Discovery Cove and I accidentally farted and he

(23:06):
was like, did you just fart? I was like no,
Like I still can't admit a fart. So he's like, yes,
you did. I was like no, I turned into like
a daddler, you know, but he not. I don't think
he technically wants me to. Like you you do that
in your the privacy of your own Yeah, Like I'm
not just gonna like, let like now I burp constantly.

(23:26):
I'm like the loudest burper ever, like, and I can
burp with the best of them, but like farting, I
still I'm like, I still want him to think I'm
somewhat attractive interesting, you know, like how long have you
been together? Um, like two and a half years. That's impressive,
but like I don't know because what if it stinks
and I'm like I'm really embarrassed. But if mine are

(23:47):
like deadlier, they're silent and just go out, Like what
if you're like laying in bed you and you have
to do just walked outside. No, I'll totally like, I'll
just make sure I don't push up the covers, like
I'll fart and then like make sure don't move or
push the covers up. This is to ask this morning,
I actually grossed myself out, like yeah, I literally looked

(24:08):
at me and was like, you're gross sometimes. Don't you
want to know what it smells like? Flip the covers
up to good one, Janna? I really, I mean I
would consider myself much more of a burper than a farter.
I mean I wasn't fart in front of the dudes
if you're just started dating, Like wait, I didn't do
that until I was married. And then I hid in

(24:28):
my corner and was like the bathroom number two in
front of him, not in front of him. I don'
wanted to see my face, but I'm trying to pinch
it out. Do you do that in anybody? I used to, Yeah, really,
well that's why you're single. Like you just leave the door,
but you're like, hey, baby, don't come in here. Like
I even make I even get the skid marks gotten
to make sure you, like, because I have problems going

(24:52):
to the bathroom, like oh, you're the opposite of ibs. No, No,
it is so either I have to go real bad
or I don't go for days, and so sometimes I've
to sit on the toilet for like minutes, leave it
open and yeah, yeah, you gotta take your phone or
like some good reading content and shut the door. No,
I would always leave it open and just okay, well

(25:13):
not laugh. Do any of that in front of my
boyfriend or husband, like, never to none of it. Is
that possible? No, I mean I think it's impossible not
to do those things in front of people. My mom's
still liked. She like, I think that's a different generation,
you know what I mean. But it's our generation is

(25:35):
more crude. You're right, we are. We are so rude.
Like the fact that we're even talking about I want um.
But we have a really funny email from um Steph,
and it says I was hanging out with my boyfriend
we've been dating for over a year now, when we
were cooking in his kitchen. When he tooed it, he
looked at me. We both laughed and made a joke
of it. It weirdly makes me feel kind of flattered
knowing he feels that comfortable around me, but I still

(25:57):
find myself uncomfortable to two in front of him. I
feel like guys feel totally fine farting in front of
their girlfriends, but girls sometimes associate farting with being unladylike.
And yes, I fall victim to this. Yeah, I think
we need to ask guys if they really don't like it.
Let start with Mark. I've been with my wife for
twenty years, and any of that that's happened on either
side has been accidental, but it has happened because it's

(26:19):
going to happen. Do you all laugh or is it like? No?
Usually you ignore it out of respect of the other person,
but sometimes you can't and then you do laugh about
It's like it's kind of like it's like you still
want her to be like this sexy, mysterious. She would
like to keep that hidden, and so I kind of
let her even though I'm aware of it. Sometimes I'm like,
I'm not going to call attention to because that would
be embarrassing. But sometimes it's very obvious and then we

(26:41):
do have a laugh about it. Do you have separate bathrooms?
I feel the key to marriage is separate bathroom. Yeah, No,
we don't have separate bathrooms, but weren't at a different
times because I get up to early, so there's not
a lot of cross traffic there. Wait, Janna, do you
guys have separate bathrooms? He uses Jolie's bathroom and then
I use other one, but sometimes he uses the other
one to go to the bathroom and then I'm like,

(27:02):
can you please use And then he like the plunger
and I'm like, it's a lot, so I'm like, I
don't want to smell that. Have you ever been at
someone's place and had to like go out and ask
for a plunger? That would be mortifying? No, but I have.
This is really gross. But one time I had asparagus
on a date and then I used their bathroom, and
then they went right in there and used the bathroom,

(27:24):
and I was like, yeah, that was our last thing.
I don't know. I eat a lot of asparagus and
it's a problem. But what am I missing? I thought,
that just makes your number one smell. It does sometimes
worse than poop, so I think it's so disgusting. I
love it. I eat asparagus like almost every day. It's
really good for you. Number two. Poor husband, How old

(27:50):
are you? How are you. I'm twenty nine. Okay, so
we have an Okay, so part of our one of
our topics has been Tonya met this guy at Whole Foods. Okay,
what's his name? We just called Mr Whole Foods. We
don't want to expose him. I went on a date
and had like an amazing time. But Tanya is a
Christian and he is an atheist, and so it's kind
of like a topic. But he is keeping no, he

(28:15):
keeps reaching out because clearly it's not a deal breaker
for him. You know, I don't think he cares. He's like,
well you're a Christian? Great, did you tell him? And
to kind of a deal breaker for you know, because
I really went on one date. So it's like, what
am I gonna do, like break up with the guy?
Like I would just be honest. There's no like y're
in your thirties, there's no point to blot out, there's
no point in like you know, going down like playing
this like what I was Just what I'm doing is

(28:36):
when he text me, I'm responding with just I'm answering
his questions, but I'm not engaging. Does that make sense?
So why don't you give one more try? Because at
the end of the day, if he's you know, well,
here's the question I had asked you at your house,
that's not really the only thing stopped right. Of course,
if he was checked, if he was like this amazing

(28:57):
person and that was the one thing, I think I
would probably go again and seep. But it was like,
we don't really have a lot of comments like bye,
how did you guys? Mate? Well work, yeah, well through
going to heart events and then we lived literally shared
a while. We live next door to each other in
the same apartment as Amy. We all live together. Yeah,

(29:17):
it was like a sitcom that's like it should be. Yeah, wait,
but what's the show you have here forever? You've lived
here forever. No, not here forever. I took a five
year break and moved to Nashville. Okay, so you I remember, Okay,
you were Nashville. Janna travels a lot because I text
her constantly. Can you come to this? And you just
did a movie. It's coming out. It is December nine,

(29:39):
Christmas and Mississippi. It's a Hallmark movie. Lifetime even better,
it's Christmas too. I mean, come on, Lifetime. I swear
back at you have a sweatshirt that says like, watch
Lifetime and now it's a Lifetime movie and chill Lifetime,
yeah life him, and I'm going to do that. I'm

(30:02):
going to wear that while I watch your movie December Night,
December nine, Lifetime Movie Network or Lifetime, Lifetime, Lifetime, Lifetime,
big stuff. I like it. I can really binge watch
those train wrecks for so long. I mean it's like,
you know, you know what you're going to get when
you're watching. Does yours have drama? Like somebody's been kidnapped
or murdered or something? I wish in my brain I

(30:25):
did because I was wearing like all this warm stuff
and it was about ten degrees out. I was like,
there's some body in it? Because is it allowed to
say I watch your Instagram stories or is that stalker?
Like I don't really know. I don't know the protocol.
That's what you're supposed to do all the time. Great,
there's some body in that movie. His name's Wes Brown.

(30:46):
He's really cute. He was on Private Practice, he was
on one of these shows. He was on Scandal. I
think Scandal. I knew it was one of them. He's married.
Never mind, I don't care. Yeah, I did stay away
from the whole like bachelor's stuff. Yeah, yeah, Robert is amazing.
Who that was my boyfriend before he was on the

(31:08):
Robert the exception, not the rule, Roberts the exception. He
was on like, oh does a race season? Yeah, and
he was Spinner. Do you remember the sign Spinner watched
like some of the season's he looks like a Kendall
I always yeah, I didn't watch this a Liam hymns Worth.
Look what happened, wasn't the wasn't the physical attraction. I'll

(31:30):
tell you that. Um, we're still we're good. No, I'll
tell you what happened. Becca has a hard time settling down. Okay,
that makes me sound like I'm not it's not settling down.
It's not settling down, settling down. I'm not saying settling
I'm saying settling down. And he wanted to settle down
with you. Yeah, she's not ready yet, and that's okay,

(31:52):
not ready. Do you want kids? Yeah? Well they all die?
Ye know. I'm like the very bad news girlfriend of
mine just went to go get her eggs. I want
to do that too, And she had zero because she
was thirty five. No, she's thirty three. And she said that.

(32:13):
The doctor actually told her she still has some time.
He's like, as long as you retrieve them by thirty seven,
you're good. So I was like, I did that and
it makes you cray cry? Do it? You froze your eggs? Yeah,
and it made me crazy. I was just like I

(32:34):
would like to feel that. I'm like pretty like stable
and like never emotional either way, so I'm like to
be like out of control. First I have a question,
and this might be personal. I want to did you
use the frozen eggs? Okay, so very personal? No? No. Um. So,
we weren't married yet. We were still just engaged. But
I my mom with your menopause at thirty three, and

(32:55):
so I was always freaked out that I was going
to go through menopause early and I just being a
mom is what I want to be a mom. I
wanted to be a mom and um, so I was like, okay,
I'm gonna freeze my eggs. And then my eggs, um
weren't that healthy, so she thought, So we made embryos,
and out of those embryos only three We're okay, but

(33:16):
they weren't good enough to freeze. So we ended up
in planning to before we were married, and then I
got pregnant and lost um both of them, and then
one of the ones that we thought were bad um
is still technically frozen and he's a boy. So Hans
Solo is frozen. We call him Hons. He's a boy

(33:36):
and he's in a freezer. So if you want him,
we probably won't use him. So no, no, we want
to have more. But I'm I want to try because
because I had Jolie natural right after that, right after that,
I had Yeah, it was awesome, but I was told
at first I couldn't have kids because I had scarring
in my stomach. I'd have a surgery to help that.

(33:57):
And did they think all that worked? And sometimes maybe
even reach freaving those other eggs might have kicked your
body into gear. Yeah, I mean there's definitely ways. Like
I had this one thing that's cleaned out your tube,
so that kind of like greased up everything in there,
and then got pregnant. But my girlfriend was freezing her
eggs and she's thirty four, she's already six now, but
she went in at thirty four to freez r eggs
and I'm just like, no, I'll do it like kind

(34:18):
of like side not too went back nothing. She had
like two and that's not enough to freeze. So it's
a very interesting conversation. Then, I I've been talking to
one of my girlfriends that that she hasn't done it yet,
but she's gone to the first two initial appointments with
the doctors where they kind of like break down everything
and like to explain everything. And I was like, wow,
I didn't realize it's like a lot to it. There is,

(34:40):
but then just and then you know, when you start dating,
don't like wait till like the fifth date to be
like and by the way, I have frozen eggs so
you can then like coff in a little thing so
that we can have an efferat together. Like talking to
her made me feel a lot more calm about it
because she basically said, like, naturally conceiving up until thirty seven,
it's highly likely. M I think doctor said yeah, because

(35:06):
my doctor, because I just spoke to my guy now
a couple weeks ago and he was just like, you know,
at the past thirty five year geriatric pregnancy, right, and
like it's it's a lot harder. Your chances are, it's
a lot scarier to all the tests and things that
you have. Hannah, my little my youngest sister. My mom
had her eight and she's fine. But you're gonna be that.
You're going to be fine. You're good, You're good. I

(35:28):
was fine. Tony. You're gonna you're probably meet your husband
and you will get married within like five months or something. Yeah. No,
I think it's gonna be quick for me. It's depressing, though,
Guys can just you guys have it so easy. It's
so annoying. You're just like, well, Billy Joel is like
seventy and just had another. Jagger is popping him out
like every nine months, he's going to have another one.

(35:49):
I know. I was thinking of checking with my guy, No,
just to see how my fertility is, because that's easy.
You can just take blood for that too. Yeah, just
see you always, you always every week. Can you report
back to us because we'd like to know. Yeah, we're
gonna have a whole segment on here about your eggs.
You think it's I think it's a really it's a
conversation that a lot of girls have, but they don't

(36:10):
have it publicly. Because I remember when I was like, um,
I think I started thinking about it at seven, um
freezing my eggs, and I was like, I just don't
even know anything, and nobody was talking about it. But
I feel like it's on every girl's mind. I feel
like it don't definitely become a lot more like people
are talking about it, because it's kind of like why
not A lot of people are in a place, especially

(36:31):
out here where it's like, I mean, being from the South,
everyone has kids by twos, and so you get out
here and it's like you're not in a rush. You
want kids, but you're not in a rush to have them.
But then there's that panic of like I'm getting older
and I haven't met a guy, and you know, and
the math in your head. You're like, I'm single, so
I would want to be with the guy for a

(36:51):
while before you marry him, and I don't want to
be married for a little bit. That's why dating your
thirties is like lightning fast, because you're like, no, I
don't want kids with you. Nope, Okay, it's like there's
going to cut out the b s. Would you do
it on your own, Tanya? Would I have a baby
on my own? No? Oh? Sometimes it's I would do it.
I wish I did sometimes really I would than I
am for a husband, Like I feel like I could

(37:12):
have a baby, But could you really honestly I do?
That's awesome. So that's kind of like how Alex and Nimes.
I'm like when I really hate my husband, I'm just like,
sometimes it's the easier news about you. How do you
meet on Twitter? Oh? Love a good I love a
good social media love story. Okay, so who reached out
to who? Um? He favorited some of my stuff and

(37:33):
you saw the scrubs that he was a football player
at the time. Wow, football player to scrubbing in so
he hold on, this is important, guys. I have to
interrupt this segment with something fab, something fit, and something fine.
We have the fab fit Fine Box and it's sitting
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(37:54):
I want you to open it. We're gonna go through
the items as you open the box. Um. So, there's
chill in the air. Christmas lights are growing up, which
seems a little bit early, but they are. And you
know what that means. Time for the Winter Box from
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So all products in this box are full size. You

(38:16):
pay each season, but each box has a value of
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valued at over three. Okay, so what do we have
your Kate Summerville. Oh yeah, wait the exfolicate. I have this.
I use this, So this is this is a good one.
It's like a mini facial. Uh. This hand cream is

(38:39):
I think what we're smelling? Is it the hava? Is
that how you say at mineral hand cream? H A
v A. It's very thick? Yeah, well that's like my
hands are so dry in the winter. What are you doing? Oh?
I thought you were like putting it in your bag. Okay,
yes you can have that letter also, um oh fun

(39:00):
the socks travel socks to those are perfect or to
watch graz in. Right My house is freezing right now.
I have hardwood floors, and when I wake up, I
kind of get angry because it's so cold. Um. Also,
I've noticed the Baby Dakota poncho. Everyone's been wearing it
to travel in and posting photos in it, and it's
so cute. I love Baby Dada. That's the skirt I

(39:20):
just brought you is bb Dacoda. Yeah, and this is
just a poncho. It's like a clothing brain they sell it.
I mean it's sold it like Nordstrum and blooming Dales
and stuff. But this is a really cute poncho. Yeah.
This is probably the best box I've seen from them
so far. Um so mask of face mask, face mask
for the dry skin. So all of this is but

(39:43):
for all of you listeners, it's even what did you
find a cooking thing or something? Yeah, that's Steph Curry's
wife for those at home. Oh with the mug coming
in Hot, that is so you. It's a coffee mug
that says coming in hot. That's designed by Aisha Curry,

(40:04):
who's Steph Curry's wife. But you know what she is
Atisha Curry. SHO, don't have to have Steph Curry. Good point, Becca,
that's an interesting topic. Well, I mean she's just like
done a lot on her I mean it's awesome that
her husband does. Although I'm sure Janna's husband does get
a lot. Oh that's Janna Kramer's husband. Janna Kramer's applying
eyeshadow with her finger right now. This is amazing. Um Okay,

(40:25):
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products right now. This is great. Do you mind if
I take this? Sure, I'll just take the other one.

(40:48):
Um okay, So I wanted to talk We're what were
we just talking about? To commercial? That was it? That
was a commercial. But there was something good on the
fairy tale? Guys. Can you see my husband and I
are just a real life fairy tale? Um no wee.

(41:11):
We met on Twitter and he favored it some of
my stuff and um and yeah, and then he came
to one of my shows that I was playing in Chicago. Um,
we dated. We got engaged pretty fast. Because I'm a lover.
I love to love a little fast. What's your sign?
I'm Sagittarius. Okay, what's he February twenty six because I'm Aquarius.

(41:37):
It is Yeah, are tough? Yeah yes, there are a
little watery so they don't make decisions. It's a little
of this. No, but wait, I need to know. So
he favored in some of your tweets. I'm like, I
needed all the time. By the way, social media is
like it's it's good dating. Yeah, so you favored your

(41:58):
tweets and then you just reach out and said come
to my show. No, so I followed him because he
was already following me, and then he could direct message me.
Then then hey, you know, thanks for the follow like,
how's your night? And I'm like, by the way, I
was like, yeah he did. And meanwhile I was eating
macaroni and cheese and having a glass of wine and
like a single single night out at my house. Yeah,

(42:21):
and then and then we talked for a little while
and then we facetimes and then he flew to my
show in Chicago like a couple of days later. Wait
where did he live at the time? Baltimore. He was
playing for the Buffalo Bills. Okay, got it, but lived
in Baltimore on the off season. There you go. I mean,
I feel like it's going to happen over social media?
What for you? For all of us, there's it's just

(42:44):
I feel like, especially because like you guys are in
the limelight that's just it's a it's a way to
meet people that you might not meet on a daily basis. Yeah, yeah,
it does seem to be working. Sarah and wells Sarah
Highland and there's how they met in love. Did y'all
see her tweet about like a long time ago? She

(43:04):
said something like, just because I tweet about the Bachelor guys,
I'm not interested in any of them or something something
I found it, I thought, And then now it was
like a funny full circle moment. He's very cool, actually
really really cool. What do y'all think about the Instagram
official It does seem sort of like they came out
on Instagram, you know, right a big moment. People hide

(43:27):
it for a while because it's like, you know, when
your first dating, you don't really know if you know,
you don't want to make it a thing unless it's
a thing, and then it's like if you guys break
up and it's like you're making it's like, you know
all these people you're with, you're just like letting so
many people down. No, I mean I remember being like,
oh my gosh, do I do I post and be
like something this was so sad? Or do I just

(43:49):
let them figure it out right? What do I do?
I feel like I want you to break up. It's
like everybody's still questioning, commenting on all your photos, being like,
are you still dating Robert still? It's like what happened
to Robert? I'm like Peter, he's hot, he's so hot.
Um yeah, I don't think. I don't. When I met him,
there was no I didn't feel any like he's super

(44:12):
super sexy. But there's not. Sometimes you're not, you know,
when you're like, you need like a man, I want you.
I also want someone who's really funny, Like I like
to laugh a lot, So I want someone who likes
is kind of dorky and not afraid to you know,
he seems kind of funny. No, he's funny and dorky.
He's do you mind just like a normal person or
do you want someone that's like, Oh no, I don't

(44:34):
feel anyone. I was like some people like normal is good.
I do like athletes for them, though I will say
I don't know. I mean no, I don't know. He
was awful. It was bad. I just feel like they
have a lot of access to whoever they want, and

(44:55):
that's sometimes and then certainly don't date a musician. That's
what I'm saying. Yeah, I don't necessarily want any one
that's not you, of course Jann No, No, of course not.
But I No, I mean, I think here's the other
there's always exceptions to everyone, you know, like not they're
not all pigs, they're not all right like that. Well,
my brother in law played in the NFL and literally
is obsessed with my sister. Like, but he talked, you know,

(45:16):
he talked about what he saw on the road and
how people the guys acted, So I kind of had
a first firsthand view of you know, what he told me.
But like, he's definitely an exception. Yeah, I think not, Yeah,
I think yeah. Let's I think that, Um, not all

(45:36):
athletes are players. I do think they get a bad rap.
But I think that you have to you have to
be able to figure out. And I think it's easy
to see when you're dating somebody, if they're like a player,
a golfer or a tennis player, they could be good.
Speaking of you should talk about Janna song which is
called I've Done Love, which is a very like heart.
It's a little bit heart wrenching that song to me,

(45:57):
Like I love it. But at the same time, I
feel the pain kind of in that song. Did you
write it? No, but I feel like I did. Tell
them about it, tell them I love It's a strange
analogy you use in the song, but it's totally perfect
when you go, wow, WHOA. Well, I just I've been

(46:19):
like I've been through it. And because when first listen
to song, people don't believe me. But I've never been drunk.
I've never done drugs. I've never I've never done like
the hard stuff, but like I have loved. You're like, no,
but you drink wine all the time, every day, two glasses,
but you never get drunk. You just stay stopped because
I'm so terrified of not being control interesting, Yeah, like terrified.

(46:42):
And its like my mom she let me have a
drink when I was fourteen fifteen, Like she'd be like,
you want a wine cooler? Like you know it's it's
It wasn't like I didn't have to hide it, I
didn't have to write I didn't really care for it.
So but yeah, no, I've never so but I've but
I've loved. I mean, I married some guy didn't even
know for two weeks once to Vegas, like I've done stupid,
stupid stuff like in love that's not her husband now right,

(47:05):
Ye gathered that much. But yeah, it's just like, but
that's this kind of song. It's like, but I've done love.
I've you know, I've I've slammed doors and I've you know,
fought hard and a little bit. That's your addiction. Yeah,
I'd have a total love addiction. If love doesn't make
you crazy, you're not doing it right. If that's a

(47:26):
Taylor Swift line we were just talking about earlier. I
haven't listened to it yet, but I didn't love the
first song that came out. I feel like he likes,
are you talking about? Um? Look what you made me? Yeah?
I feel like there's some that you would like a
little bit more. I'm obsessed you like it. She ignored
me one time and I still didn't care. Fine, you

(47:48):
can ignore me. Um Wait, I want to know what's
the saddest lyric in the song. I love sad lyrics.
I love lyrics Touch the sky. I've had it all.
I've had too much. I've had withdrawals, so I've had
like I've had withdrawals from not from. It's an interesting
song because I first heard it. I didn't. I didn't
pay enough attention to get it. I was just like,

(48:10):
you know whatever. And then I started listening and I'm like, whoa, Yeah,
this is heavy stuff, like but really good. It's one
of your best songs. But what was your song about
um walking into a place and you see the guy?
What was it called? I love that song, but it's
so relatable person. I was just about to say, oh
my god, that song. Tell Tommy about that song? What? Well,

(48:34):
basically it's I Got the boys, she got the Man.
So it's about my high school sweetheart. So basically I
got the boy and she got the man him. Yeah,
the boy is fun, and that's the thing. Like in
the song, it's like I know you want the man,
but I love this. I love that I had the
boy and like I got something that she didn't get,

(48:55):
Like we both got something that each other didn't get.
Have you ever talked to her or him since you
did the song? Yeah? Whoa? What did they say? Well,
she's she doesn't like me too much, but he's always like, hey,
how are you like trying to reach out and then
he's like, my friends at work don't believe that I
didd you I'm like, yeah, make sure you tell them
that you cheated on me. And then I wrote a
song about that was juicy. I liked that way. I

(49:21):
have a good I have a good email. They are
say the guys are the worst. I mean it was
it was, you know, senior years. So I read this
fascinating article that I would love for you guys to
read that we can talk about next week because I
really googled why do girls go crazy when he doesn't

(49:42):
text you back? Like I thought we already talked about
this last week. I have not. I have not solved
the crime. So I continue to heavily research and an
article came up that was so amazing. I'm gonna send
it to you all and then you you all tell
me because I thought this really helps. What is it?
It basically explains why he doesn't text back because his

(50:03):
brain works completely differently than our He's like, he's he
only can think about one thing, so he's probably thinking
about like the score of the game, and then he's like, oh,
I'm going to text and email were like every two seconds,
I'm gonna my phone is silent and then I won't
look at it, but I'm still going to look at
it even though it's on silent, and I'm like, I
made him bad. I think I think I made it mad?
What I said that made it mad? Why is he
ad at me? I'm I'm pretty sure my phone is

(50:24):
not working like something. I'm not getting text from anyone.
I have it on. Wow, nothing's happening. See why this
is the continual quest we are on to solve the
conundrum of the text side. I haven't felt like that
in a long time though, because the conundrum everyone see
pop Star. It's a great conundrum. Sorry Andy Samber. Yeah, um,

(50:47):
this is a little bit off topic, but it's always
kind of on topic. What Um, we got an email
and the girl said, hey back Antony. I just want
to say that I love your podcast. Totally obsessed with
Grace to two things for Did everyone just forget that
Miranda Bailey had a son, Like, where has he been
the last couple of years? I am kind of concerned
his leg by the way of a sudden she grew back. Okay, continue,

(51:15):
Um the second Becca is your brother single? Ever since
I heard you say he is from Atlanta, I have
been curious. I live in Atlanta too, and Chris sounds
absolutely adorable, sweet and funny. Can you help a sister out? Sincerely,
LEXI looking for her sloan that is really cute? Is
her name Lexi? Oh? Borderline creepy though? What about my brother?

(51:38):
Well like that she's you know, oh, would you let
her datum? I'd screen her first from the from the
sounds that email I like her is that he's gonna
be December. He guys all really close. Yeah, so I

(51:59):
know your brother? Oh my, this is amazing. Don't you
guys date? I want them too, but I would totally
date him, he commented on my Instagram photo over the weekend,
and people were tell tell everyone what he said. Hold, mom,
I had to get it. I had to make sure
I get it right. I know I read it. I
know exactly what it's Okay, what does it say? It says, girl,
let me change your last name? Oh my god, no, girl,

(52:24):
let me change that last name. That's also in a
country song. I can't remember which one. Probably a lot.
Are you like a huge country music fan? Is that
when you started? Yeah, I grew up listening to country music.
I love it, but I'm i'm I started what I mean?
I grew up singing, but I started with acting and
then now I'm kind of back into the acting realm again,
so I'm doing music kind of my way, but more

(52:44):
focused on acting. You started seeing on One Tree, Hildo, right,
I would like to know more about this Vegas wedding.
Oh god it was. I mean, I don't know if
you want to know how it ended. We know that's
a bad part. So okay, So only new for two weeks,
and he was twenty something years older than me. I

(53:05):
had major daddy issues, like real bad. Yeah, so um,
and I was like, it would be so fun to
like go to Vegas and get married. And then so
we did. And then when we got back to l A,
I was like, okay, let's annol it and he's like, what,
you don't love me? And I was like I just know,

(53:25):
like I just thought it would be like fun because
I was stupid and and yeah, so um. Then he
went away for like a long time. I don't know
where he went. So are you like no no? I
was like no, no, no, no, no, not still married terms.
So then I went to do a movie in Romania.
I got really really sick in Romania. The end up

(53:47):
taking out the wrong organ in my body. You're literally
a graze anatomy episode. They took out my appendix and
it was actually my gall ladder that was the problem.
So so it was in the remaining hospital. The shoutdown
production was the whole was my first movie, and I
was like a whole mess. So anyways, he ended up
like calling me and he's like, I'm so sorry, like
my dad died and and I was like, it's okay.

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I'm in a hospital right now in Romania, like I'm filming.
So he came out to see me and so then
he was like there for me, and I was like,
all right, we why don't we just date and just
kind of go from there. But I didn't tell anybody
because I was, you know, I felt I was felt
so stupid. And then, um, long, long, long story short.
He was my domestic abuse abuser. So he went to

(54:29):
jail for attempted murder. Crazy yeah whoa twist? So um,
and he actually he served I think eight years in
prison and then when he got out, he committed suicide.
Whoa yeah, but the courts ended up and alling it.
So that was my crazy Vegas trip. Yeah, oh wow,

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that's not to marry somebody that you've only known learned
that lesson, but I stayed with him for about a
year and a half because I didn't know how to
get out of it because you know, he would if
you if you guys at Munda thought he was the
greatest guy. Behind the doors, he was a monster, and
then he was like in your career, exactly what you're
talking about. Not personally, thank god, I've never had to experience,

(55:11):
but I have had a close friend that in out
in public. He is charmer, charm, charm, charms, the charm
of those doors. It's violent and aggressive and so scary. Yeah,
I think it's important for people because a lot of
people are in those situations and they don't know what
to do. You know, as a friend of hers, I
had no idea what to tell her to do. I
have no idea what you do in this situation. You go,

(55:34):
you got a card. Though the thing it took me,
like I mean it took I literally prayed to my grandpa,
was like, please kill me, Please let him kill me,
because I do not know how to get out of this.
And that's the most common problem is the most and
I don't want to just say women don't know where
to go, how to leave and they pull you back.
That's why I've worked with the Safe Horizon. Now I've

(55:54):
been able to find the positive and why I went
through it so be able to find people that I
can work with and spread though spread a little bit
of awareness and what you tell them to do. Well. Again,
like you have to be in the frame of mind
that you want to that you want help right until then. Like,
but it's hard, it's I mean, there's still times where
it's like you get pulled back into that abuser um

(56:16):
moment where you're like feel like acting like an addiction,
like like you have to be ready, Like people want
to help you and get you in rehab or order,
but you have to be like I'm sick of this,
Like I have to like ready. But that's a good
analogy back. It really is. Wow. Well, I will say
it's very interesting because you clearly have taken it and

(56:37):
you're very you have like you're joyful and have a
very like happy energy and are very honest, which is rare.
I feel I feel like a lot of people try
to kind of bury that stuff, like you forget about it,
and obviously it's not like you want to live in
that forever. But there are people going through it that
you can help because you've been through it, whereas someone
like me who has never experienced anything close to that.

(56:58):
It's like I can say what I think, but I
haven't had it an experience for trying to help my friend,
but I had no idea. What it's the status with
your friend? Now they are not together anymore, but it
was hard. Yeah, and just be careful of like who
she's with next, hopefully, like the trend is to keep
right like every man. Since then it was like another.

(57:19):
It still wasn't good, you know, but there's always like good.
And then you also have to mirror yourself. Why did
you want that kind of you know, and the shame
and you blame yourself. Yeah, but also like there's something
you attract, your own healthiness, So at that point I
was probably not as healthy too. Interestingly, Um, Jannah, thank you.
You guys are a pleasure to be around. And this

(57:41):
is fun. We loved having you. And she's prettier in person,
even as it right here I named him Howard, whereas
there is baby guy person. You can't see it. Sorry,
now we're comparing pimples. It's exciting. Um. Next, wait, we
gotta gotta end up with an ask a guy topic.

(58:01):
I know, and we have one. We had a listener
right in. So last week Tanya and Becca gave their
deal breakers, and they really want us to ask some
guys what their deal breakers all time, Mark, Do we
have time? No, there's no time. I feel like we
do it next week, next week. Okay, so next week
we're gonna call guys, get the guy's opinion. What are

(58:22):
deal breakers. I'm interested to hear this. Yeah, like the burping.
It's fine, all right, So we'll be back next week.
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