Meet Me in Stars Hollow

Tanya and Becca are like ships in the night, with Becca just getting back from New York, and Tanya on her way out. And waiting for Tanya in the Big Apple is a blind date, and we’ll see how she’s feeling about it! Then, Scott Patterson, aka Luke from Gilmore Girls stops by! He tells us about his new coffee company, and the crazy story of how he transitioned into acting… from baseball.  He spills about what REALLY happened behind the scenes with Lauren Graham, and Becca reveals a big secret about her past with Gilmore Girls.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing in with Scatilly and Tanya rat and I Heart
Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcast. UMF why I
Mark just suggested that we take off the award winning
podcast part of the intro after the new year. It's
been enough of that. Maybe are you kidding? From a

(00:23):
guy who would vote? When I said, did you? You
could vote a lot? But well here's a people that
voted a hundred times a day with multiple emails. I
think that get a little braggy after a certain point. Yeah, okay,
all right, fair enough, Okay, I'm sorry. This is the
closest I've ever gotten to winning a Grammy. That's until

(00:48):
you're smash hit. Just like that. You just missed the
cut off for the Grammys this year. But next year,
I'm still holding out Guys Award winning, right there? Um,
I guess we could always say it. We could take
out of the intro and just be like Mark, if
you think it's better for us and we want to

(01:09):
we want to come across this humble, yeah, humble and modest.
So if you think that's but we tell everybody we'd
be Oprah. We like lost our modesty on the Oprah thing.
That's long gone, we can still remain humble and modest podcasters.
Here's the thing. We're just normal people, do you know

(01:30):
what I'm saying. Like we're like not famous, we're not celebrities.
That's why. That's why we weren't. That's why we were
it wasn't televised. Yeah, that's why don't. That's why we
don't have the people I don't actually don't even have
in the world. I'm pretty sure we only get one,
and I'm gonna get to yours because I know you
have a special spot for it and lighting on it.

(01:50):
There's like this weird hole in my staircase and it
has like it was made for it. She's been dusting
it every day since moved it. That's why I think
it's so cool, Amy Schumer. One that would have been
in the telecash. But what I'm saying also is like
if Amy Schumer put that on the front of her podcast,
it would be like, Okay, Amy Schumer. But it's like,

(02:11):
we're just normal people and we want to freaking People's
Choice Award. Like it's pretty legit braggy. It's like, feel
really stressed because I only have nine more minutes with
you before you have to leave me, and so I'm like,
what do we need to get in? Oh, don't get stressed,
and we have the rest of our lives together. But
today for the podcast, I'm not going to have you

(02:31):
tany haves to fly to New York today. What are
you going to New York for the second act premiere?
That's going to be in New York. That's very exciting. Yeah,
and it's so cute. Yeah, she's like the queen of
feel good movies. She really is. It makes me just
want to watch the wedding pointer as we're sitting in.
Monster in Law is one of my favorite movies of
all times. That's interesting me. I need to rewatch that

(02:52):
because you always reference them because it's such a giggle.
How old it's such a it is Okay, Um, I
just got back from New York and I just don't
like the fact that we were ships in the night.
Is it cold for freezing? I think I was only
outside like a total of five minutes old time I

(03:14):
was there. But it's like not, it's like that bitter
cold where you're a little bit angry just being outside,
so bundle up. Yeah, I don't I'm not going to
do any outside stuff. Yea, tomorrow's high is thirty eight,
which is not bad for New York in December. But
I do have to say, I guess who I'm going
to hang out with my last day in New York?
Who Nicole Lapping, our last guest that we had on

(03:35):
the pots. Funny because when when she was here, she's like,
oh are you coming to New York? At times I
was like, I'm actually gonna be there. And so she's
been following up and we've been texting, and she offered
to let me stay with her. So she has another
girlfriend staying that same night with her, So the three
of us are going to like, I bet she has
a great apartment. Oh yeah, oh yeah, I bet she
has a great apartment. I bet she's gonna take you

(03:55):
to somewhere like amazing to go have drinks or something,
or like we're just gonna like sit home in her
like house and just like oh yeah either way. Yeah, well,
you know, it doesn't take much to make me happy,
I know. But I'm just saying she would be my
go to girl if I were going, you know, like
that's how I would call up if I was like, Hey,
where should we get drinks? Where should we get dinner?

(04:16):
She would, and there's a blind date happening too if
they're not. Yeah, but you know what, Honestly, the way
that my dates have been going of recent, um, I
think I might just table it till you're going to
cancel the blind date. I don't know about cancel, but like,
if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, because
it's like I'm trying to make every I'm trying to
juggle things with the premiere and just like timing and

(04:38):
my work friends that are there, and I'm like, if
it doesn't work out at it, I'm not stressed. Well,
your last set up date was what we're calling a
mutual ghost double ghost. I don't think either one of
us was really interested because I haven't heard a peep
from him, So I kind of like a double ghost.
I do too, Like it feels like, yeah, it's clean,
it's it's no one's feelings for her. They're just kind

(04:59):
of like you might go, why do you text me?
And then that's the end of it, Well why did
I text him? That's the end of it. And it
was like I think we really enjoyed each other, Like
I really do, Like I think he was a great guy. Um,
I just don't think we're super compatible, which is fine.
This happened to me with a guy and we like
texted back and forth. I was like really excited about it.
And then we hung out. We hooked up, not sex,

(05:23):
but hooked like you know, things happen, and then we
never neither of us ever texted each other, like it
was just like that was wow. I didn't didn't go
that far along. It was weird. We just kissed. We
kissed a couple of what base? Did we get to
second second touching of things? Sure? Yeah? Um, but yeah,

(05:49):
I just it was and I'm like not, you know,
I'm not the kind of girl who like a second
second Yeah, third bases licking mm hmm, third base, I
think some questions about Yeah, I think the bases are skewed.
It was second it was it was it was mildly yes,
closed are off for a third base? Right? Yeah? Close

(06:09):
here on anyways. Um, but yeah, it was just weird
because it happened. And then my friends were like, oh,
did you ever hear from so and so? And I'm like, no,
do I remember this guy? Becca is whispering in a
Tania's ear. The name of a guy that she went
to second base with and then never heard from again.
Yeah yeah, yeah, I remember this guy. This I cannot

(06:30):
talk about it, but it was like a weird it
was fine. Is he someone we would know if you
said the name? Oh yeah? Um but anyways, um yeah,
So I was just in New York that one. I
would just literally be Okay, if you just like touch
my foot and never talked to me again, just grace,

(06:52):
you'd be happy. Yeah, I'd be like, bloody blood touched
my foot And that's how that's going on my gravestone. Wow,
it's like I beat a bra and bodyball. Yeah yeah, totally,
that's amazing. Um. Yeah, So I just went to New
York and I I went to the Billboard Women in Music,
which my manifestation if I make it. I don't really

(07:14):
make vision boards, but if I make a vision board
this year, my vision is going to be that you
are honored at the Billboard Women in Music Awards, because
it's been a big dream of mine honestly for a while. Yeah,
And we talked about it before I went, because I
didn't really I was going. Haley was being honored as
a rising star. So I went out there for that
and I was talking to Tony about it and she's like,

(07:35):
it's literally been my dream to be there, and I
was like, well, um, it really has. Like for years now,
I did not know how to get on the list,
but now I understand why because it was just like
the biggest names in music. And it's also just like
it's such a beautiful like night or it's during the day.
Actually it's like a brunch, right, No, it wasn't. It wasn't.

(07:56):
I never know because like New York at the kid difference,
But I feel like it's such a beaut a full
event where like women come together and it's all about
like celebrating like these women in the industry and they
they're doing all kinds of different things. They're singing, there
are their singers and they do like that, you know,
like the Woman of the Year, which was Ariana, and
then they have like their artists and stuff. But they
honor like executives in the music industry, and there's people

(08:18):
that are like doing like trailblazing things like I remember
there was one girl that was honored for I can't
remember what it was, but it's something like very that
I like, it's not so far off, you know, because
these are like s vps and just like you know,
high high up in the industry. But I was like,
there are some like attainable honorees that get invited that
I'm like, I need to get on that list. Well.

(08:39):
I had a jumpsuit that I was planning on wearing
for the event, and I tried it on when I
got it in like probably five days before I left
for New York, and it was really tight, like uncomfortably tight.
But I thought, if I can eat healthy and like
just clean it up for a few days, like it'll
it'll be perfect. I didn't do that, so I panicked,

(08:59):
and I here a stylist out in New York and
she didn't really know my style or anything. So then
she brings the clothes. Nothing really works, and I'm like, well,
I have this jumpsuit, but it's really really tight, like
I could barely sit in. And the one that you
ended up wearing, yes, it's beautiful. I could have caused
severe organ damage. I'm not kidding. And and like the
whole time I was like, I don't know if I

(09:20):
can sit in this. And it was a sit down dinner,
so I'm like, okay, as long as I'm just sitting,
maybe it'll like stretch out. The whole time it was
standing up and down, giving people standing ovation. Oh so
I was aside for me like really being concerned about
my health. It was an amazing, amazing event, right, I know,

(09:41):
I watched the whole thing on the stream, like I'm obsessed,
like and I'll watch it again. They air it, they
air it aired on TV. I don't also do a
live stream. A lot about Haley is what kind of
music does she do? She does pop music and she
was honored as the Rising Star. So it was huge.
I mean there was what like I think six people
being honored night. Yeah, and they honor like, um, there's

(10:02):
like the Woman of the Year, who's like the you know,
the Ariana this year. Yeah, so there's been like Katy
Perry's been at Rihanna um. And then they do like
five like sublets of that that are like artists and
there's a rising Star, there's um um uh innovator, roll breaker. Correct, Yeah,

(10:24):
there's yea um. But yeah, it was really cool. And
the night before she played in a charity show for
Jack Antona's sister Rachel, and um she brought out Taylor
Swift as her guests her guest, and they played one
degree from Taylor Swift. Yeah, I'm at I mean I've
met Tylor before, but I didn't know this. Yeah, um

(10:49):
so I met Taylor Blake Lively was back there. Who
I just I feel like I'm in a in some
sort of world I'm supposed to be friends with her.
This is the difference between Becka and I. Beca gets
put in the situation and she's just like cool and
chill and like just like you'd be fine with Taylor Swift,
graze your foot. No, I meet Taylor swipping like things
when I come back, like you guys, like I'd make

(11:12):
a total idiot of myself when I'm around her. I
mean it's different because like I'm not I was there
with you know, I was there with Haley, and so
it was kind of like I didn't want I don't
know I was you know, if I was like there
by myself with my friends and I just happened to
run into her, I'd probably be less cool. But I
was like having to be like on somewhat good behavior.
Are you friends with Haylor Swift? Would you call yourself definitely? Not? No? No, no, no,

(11:39):
we have not gotten. Do you remember you from the
last time you met her? No? How oh yeah, yeah
she remember from but Blake Lively. I met her premiere
for her movie The Shallows, and I met her with okay,
so Robin Lively, who we had on the podcast. Her
husband is Bart Johnson, who is coach of Bolton On

(12:00):
School musical and then his brother his name is Brad,
and I went on a couple of dates with him
and he was super nice, like such an amazing guy,
and he was at the Shallows premiere and so he
introduced me to Blake with my friend Charlene, and we
took like a selfie and the elevator on the way down.
Like it was very brief, you know, like I didn't
I barely remembered it. And so when I saw her,

(12:20):
I was like, hi, I was like, I'm friends with
your sister. Robin. She's like, I know, like I know
you are totally like so personalble and kind and I
don't know, just really give me really good vibes. She's
like I told her, when I see every time I
see Robin, it makes me feel like I'm seeing a
family member. Like That's how I feel every time I
get to see Robin Lively. So there was this moment

(12:42):
of being like, I get like it's their family, something
about like how they're raised or something, because they're all
they all kind of feel that comfort, comforting feeling. Unfortunately,
Ryan Reynolds was not there. I didn't, but I also
heard that he's just an amazing human being. I've heard
that too. Afore you to anything else, we need to

(13:04):
know about your life. The wreath. You wanta talk about
your wreath on your door, I have to because this
is like the epitome of like holiday spirit. So I've
had this wreath on my door and I put it
up with like one of those sticky things, you know
what I mean, And it keeps falling off of my
front door, and so I finally just gave up and
I left it on the thing. I was going to
buy one of those reef hook wreath hooks from my door.

(13:25):
I just haven't gotten around to it. So it's like
sitting on the side of my door for like two
or three days. I go out this weekend and I
noticed that it's like falling in a different spot and
there's like a different hook with it, and I was like,
somebody in my complex came and tried to put my
wreath up on my door while I was like sleeping
or wherever I was, I don't know. So I started
texting on the neighbors that I have their phone numbers,

(13:47):
and I'm like, hey, did you put try and put
my wreath back under? And they were like, no, I
wish I you know, I wish I would have thought
of that, blah blah blah. So then I hear like
a scratching at my door and I open it and
it's Pauline. She lives in I think she lives in
Unit nine. I don't really know, but I was like,
oh my gosh, did you try and put my wreath
back on my door? And she was like, I did it.

(14:07):
It's just so beautiful it can't be on the floor. Like,
so she tried to put it back up for me,
and she was like she kept thinking for the cookies
that I left on their door, remember how I did that.
When I moved in, she was like, that was so
nice of you, and it's just I just love having
you in here. And I was like, this is the
epitome of Christmas spirit. It just felt so good to
like have this random neighbor that I I know, not

(14:29):
like I know her name, and that's the extent of it.
And now I know like that she's a grandma. I
know that she works at CBS. She does makeup for
and and she does Sadie, who was a mutual friend
of ours, um her makeup when she does she in
the Channel two News. Yeah, I know, and so I
just like, I know, it's just like such a I've
been feeling very like the spirit and like yesterday was

(14:53):
Christmas Love at our church, and it's just like I've
just been feeling very like joyful and happy and like,
I don't know, I've just been feeling it lately. I
don't mean to be cynical. Is there any chance this
year just annoyed that this neighbor of her wreath was
sitting on the floor for three days and it looks
terrible to walk past every day, and so she's decided
to fix it herself. I don't think so. I don't

(15:14):
think so, because I think I'd be annoyed if my
neighbor just had a wreath on the floor. My cynical
sam over there seez No, Okay, I think she liked
it fair enough, But I thing is it just kept
still kept falling off, so that I had to like
really like Jerry Rigging, think you just need to get
a hook and hang it and you'll be no, No,
it's good. Now it's a grandma Grandma's aren't cynical grandma's

(15:36):
are they? They're looking out, they're looking out. Yeah, she
was cute. Shout out to UM. Also, UM, while we're
just talking about it, while I have you quickly, we're
really good and close. I did want to address with you,
UM last week's episode some of the things that were said.
We saw some comments on the Facebook group, UM, some

(15:58):
of the things that were a little bit and sensitive
on our last podcast UM with Lisa. But this is
I think, and there's no excuse for some of the
things she said about suicide. And you know, it was
like it was like bad jokes. But I think it
came in a sense of she is almost it seemed
to me like a little bit uncomfortable with the transition

(16:20):
or being able to talk about her transitions, so she
uses humor as a defense mechanism and it was just
done in poor taste in a bad way. That didn't
that didn't necessarily it didn't land because you don't joke
about suicide. So I just wanted to say, like, Tony
and I heard that and we know it, and yeah,
I think my takeaway from it was like I had
a gut feeling when all that was going on and

(16:42):
I didn't say anything, and I can I help you?
What are those are all birds? Sorry? She was like
touching my feet. Yeah, um, but it was I had
a gut feeling about it, And for me, it was
like I need to speak up when I feel that way, um,

(17:02):
and not not just kind of go through the motions,
like I feel like I should have said something. Well,
what do you wish you would have said? Say it now? No,
I feel like I should have when she left, I
should we should have cut some of those things out. Well,
that's censoring her joke, which is not on you guys
to do. She's a comedian, but it I like her

(17:23):
because I think people should get the opportunity to like
change themselves. But sometimes you don't go from a complete
change overnight, you know what I mean. She's really learning
what's going to work for her. But you could say
it even when she's here or after, you can say whatever.
Some people emailed that I want to address. Some people
emailed me saying why didn't we edit her? And I

(17:46):
don't want to censor somebody. So it's a very fine line.
I think censoring language or there's a way to censor.
I felt like suicide was just not it's too sensitive
right now with everything that's going on that that I
think that's a hey to be censored if it's a
joke about, like like joking sarcastically about someone or whatever.
But I think it's too there's too much. And believe me,

(18:08):
I am not one of those people who gets offended
by much. Like I know there's a lot of sensitivity,
but I do think that that is a topic that
should not be joked about, and we we should have
just said something. We should have addressed it. Yeah, said
something in the moment, either when she was here or
even right after. Yeah, but anyway, that's sich. A lesson
that we learned is not to be afraid to say
it even right after and say, hey, she's doing her

(18:32):
but we're still yeah, right, I'm so sad. Wait before
you go, can we do some commercial because because Becca
is gonna have to carry the load for all these
spots that do you want to tell us. Amazon Fire
normally asked to very the load, but I'm just saying
it's it's we have a lot today because the show
is so popular and award winning that you want to
cut out. I beg your pardon that we're winning Amazon Fire.

(18:54):
It was on Fire. It's such a great service, and
I know Tany is passionate about it. Um are you
passionate about it? I am because I like doing things
that are hands free. Okay, can you elaborate? So basically,
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(19:18):
or something on the TV, and it does it for you.
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What all cooks out there, I think, Well, you know,
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(19:39):
You can even listen to this podcast to hear UM
and watch it. You can watch YouTube, um basically, you
can access UM websites like Reddit, Facebook. On fire TV,
you can do makeup tutorials, you can see cake icing videos,
and you can see any of the new TV dramas

(20:00):
that are about to come back in February. Yeah. I
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fire Yeah. Um, so you can head to Amazon dot
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(20:20):
for the holiday season. What show you guys gonna watch
over the holidays? I highly recommend Dirty John. Oh, I
want to watch that? What is that? What is it one?
It's based on a podcast about this woman in Newport
who fell in love and he was like bad news,
bad news. It's true? Is it a documentary or serial?
It's um stars Connie Britten and Eric Bana and like

(20:42):
all these cool people, and it is it's it's creepy, juicy,
It's little Netflix. What is it? Only? It's on but
you can watch on your Amazon Fire. Oh perfect, great,
there you go, Amazon Fire, Dirty John, Amazon dot com
slash scrubbing in the one more time Amazon dot Com
slash scrubbing in in. Um, before I leave, I wanted

(21:02):
to tell Scott Patterson that I love him if you could.
Oh is he here? Oh? I will hug him on
my way out, because I just always wanted to, like,
just marry everybody in that town. O, goodbye, I love you,
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(23:16):
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slash Becca. All Right, I have some emails we should
get to before we get Scott in here. Is that
fine with you? Yeah, my voice is tired and I'm
sorry about that. That's okay. It's Monday. Produre at surgery
on Thursday. What kind of surgery? I deviated septum repaired?

(23:37):
It's called a scept plastic septo plastic. Wait, Haley's having
at this Thursdy, she and I should talk. You give
a whole preview. Yeah, you're you look great and don't
even look like you had surgery. You know what's funny
is when people say they have a deviated septum and
they come back with bruised eyes and everything. They had
a nose job. The cover for the I did not

(23:58):
get a nose job, right, you really didn't. But did
you have to do like the were you drain everything,
and they didn't doing anything the standard. I went fully
under but two successful, do we know? Yeah, yeah, he
said it went great, and I've had so little pain.

(24:20):
I've been amazed at how little pain I had, because
they really they go up there and they cut you open.
They make up the slice right into your septum, and
then they moved stuff around so it's straight. So I've
just been resting. Today's my first day back, so I'm
kind of but I feel I feel good. That is.
I am. Wow, you have a beautiful nose and after beautiful.

(24:41):
Thank you very much. Alright, So anyway that explains that.
But here's an email we got. I'm twenty five, my
boyfriend's twenty six. We've been eating for five years and
have been living together two years. We just got a
puppy and talked about marriage and have a pretty good relationship. Well,
back in May, my boyfriend's younger brother graduated college. He
was trying to get a job in floor. I didn't
want to move back home with our parents, so we

(25:01):
told him you could live with us in Chicago for
a year if he had a job by July one. Well,
they got a job and he's been living with us
on the least paying rent, and it's been a nightmare.
He's trashed our apartment, has thrown frat parties while we
were gone. His friends have pete and puked all over
our bathroom. We've learned he's a liar. He could not
take criticism. Now what do we do. Do we have

(25:23):
the right to say you can have people over for
an after party. Do we have the right to say
you were not allowed to bring drugs in this apartment?
What do we do? I'm so uncomfortable with this, and
so is my boyfriend. Oh my god, you have the
right to kick him out? Are you kidding that he's
on the lease. I think she's limited a little bit.
So his name is on the least Yeah, I mean
I would just say, hey, um, okay. Personally, I have

(25:46):
my two younger sisters live with me. They don't do
anything like that, like for the most part. My biggest
complaint is that they don't do the dishes or take
the trash out, or it's messy, but standard roommate stuff,
standard mother daughter. Um. But I like when I talked
to them about it, we have a conversation. They're very respectful.

(26:09):
They don't do they don't do it, like, they don't
do anything close to that. But I feel like since
they did him a favor and he's living with them,
they may be either need to say, like, you need
to find a new place, or there has to be
some changes where there's respect and livestrong. Because I know
his name's on the lease, but when people are puking

(26:30):
and throwing up and paying like that is gross and like.
And I think this is also one her boyfriend because
it's his brother. He needs to say something. I think
he really does. It's more on him than it is
on the person who wrote this, whose name is Maybe
they need to move into their own place or something. Now,
that's not a bad idea, rather than kick him out,
say hey, you know, we got our own place. We're
in love, we're gonna do this thing, so we're real sorry,

(26:51):
but you got a deadline in puke stains. You don't
want to look there anywhere. Yeah, I would say, have
your brother have a conversation with him, But my biggest
suggestion is that y'all move out into your own place.
That's a good one. I like that idea. Bye, yeah bye, Wow.
Now I have the hiccups, so I apologize. What did

(27:12):
you wear on your first day of kindergarten? I'm picturing
like an orange and blue striped polo shirt with what
kind of pants? Blue slacks? I didn't like jeans at
the time. They were they were uncomfortable. Why are you
asking me these questions? I was just curious. Probably that

(27:33):
Bruce Jenner tennis shoes that had a little gold medal
on the tongue. Those will be worth money, now, wouldn't they. Bruce? Yeah?
Why did you ask that? If your hiccups are still there? Oh,
all right, maybe they went away. Maybe that's a technique,
all right, Steph. I've been married for just over a year.
I've been with my husband for ten. When we first met,

(27:53):
I waited about a hundred and forty five pounds. During
college and after college, I put on a lot of
weight and I'm not my heaviest one. During this time,
my now husband broke up with me and started seeing
someone else. We eventually got back together, but it made
it very apparent the breakup was due to my weight gain.
He said he wasn't attracted to me anymore. This one
I'm leading up to our wedding where he threatened me
two weeks prior to getting married that he would leave

(28:15):
me if I didn't outline a plan of how I
was going to lose weight. I was heartbroken. I'm ashamed
to say I went through at the wedding. I know
a lot of the repairing process begins with me trying
to repair my broken self esteem. But how do I
save my marriage? I'm a Christian, I don't believe in divorce,
and I do truly love him. He as some amazing
qualities and I don't want to lose my marriage over this.
But the record, I've not lost much weight, but I
have adopted a healthier life down in the past year.

(28:36):
We go on hikes together now when we cook healthy meals.
What else can I do? This is something that I'm
interested for YouTube to weigh in on as as men.
If this were if this were your situation, boy, that's
a tough one because he took it. It's interesting that
he left in the first place, dumped her over her weight, right,
But so I'm confused was she's saying this happened? They

(28:57):
he dumped her before the wedding, then they go back together,
and then they got married. So he dumped her, but
she hadn't lst weight, but he still got back together
with certain ultimatums. He put on it that I need
a plan from you with how this is going to happen.
This is a tough one for me, I know, because
I understand all sides everybody in his view. If he's

(29:18):
not attracted to her anymore, which is her words, why
did he come back? Why did he still want to
make this Maybe he loves her and now could it
be he wants her to be healthy to that's I
think that might be the wants to keep control over
her because it's like, hey, if you don't do what
I say, I'm gonna leave you again like I did before.
That gives him the upper hand in a big way.

(29:39):
This is how I feel though about like to be
together for that long and then leave someone over a
physical change is so I mean, I get how like
how maybe you're not like sexually attracted to someone in
the sense that like you know, you're not you're not
feeling what you felt because of that change. However, like
we all get old, all not gonna be like exactly

(30:02):
how we looked when we were you know, first married
or first together. So to like leave someone and then
like give them ultimatums. It just seems really unhealthy unless
you're doing it in the concern for health, which I
don't feel like. He Okay, So this one is so
hard for me because I have so many different thoughts
on it. Sometimes when someone gains a significant amount of weight,

(30:27):
there is a reason for it unhappiness. So I'm one
happiness were happiness but pounds whatever, But if we're talking
fifty pounds or more, it could be health unhappiness. So
this specific case is hard for me. But I wonder

(30:47):
in in a our situation, if that were to happen,
would you want to figure it out? Because maybe the
person there's an underlying emotional cause or an under lying
um something going on with them where they're unhappy. So
it's such not a black and white thing for me.

(31:08):
I don't necessarily think it's black and white, but I
just feel like, especially if she's changed, you know, I
for her, like she's changed her lifestyle, she's made healthier
decisions and what she's eating, she's exercising, So now there's
this sense of pressure of I'm I'm being healthy for
my you know, my body and my health in general.

(31:28):
And I still feel the stress in this way that
he's going to leave me if I don't lose it fast.
Part's not cool, it's not healthy. It shouldn't be the
you do this or I'm gone. It should be what
does she want? If she wants to lose the weight
to feel good? Because I feel better when i'm active.
Most people do, so it should be about her. They're

(31:50):
also I don't fault her if she wants to look
good for him. I get that. So there's a lot
of reasons why she could be healthier and is the
weight right, But it's got to be on her terms,
and for the reason she wants it to be. It
can't just be to make him happy because of the ultimatum. Yeah,
that's what I'm saying. I feel like her doing it
because she wants to do it and feel better is

(32:12):
totally different than her doing it because she's stressed out
that he's going to leave. She needs to figure out
who she wants to be. If she wants to be
this are they That's the question. Doesn't sound very happy
from this email, but she doesn't believe in divorce. She
really wants to make this work. So the question is
how does she do that? How does she make her
her marriage work and brighten up her future. I think

(32:32):
I personally and I'm I'm so far out of being
in this situation in the sense of I've not been
with anyone for ten years. I'm not married, I have
not had anyone giving me an ultimatum in any way
of like do this or I'm out. But I really
believe in focusing on yourself and doing what is best

(32:53):
for you to be happy and healthy, because I think
when you're happy and you're healthy, your relationship is going
to prosper. Because I don't think if you're feeling insecure,
feeling pressure that he's going to leave, it's it's making
it worse. It's making it worse. Yeah, you gotta love
you first he leaves, that he leaves because you love you,
And that's all right. It's not the number on the scale,

(33:16):
do you know what I mean? Like, she whatever she
needs to do now, I'm not saying she doesn't need
to do anything. Something needs to be done, because I
don't know how happy these guys are. More information. Somebody
comes to you, you're in a relationship long term, and
he says, look, I'm really the butter pop tarts and
the Dr Pepper and the McDonald's. I can't. I'm worried

(33:40):
about you. I need you to knock it off. It's
already any healthy or I gotta go. If he said it,
I'm worried about you, I'm worried about your health, I
would say. I hear that, I'm a little concerned myself. Moderation.
You could work out and go like, hey, alright, fine,
let's eat healthy Monday to Saturday and Sundays are cheat day,
buttered pop charge for everyone. And it sounds like they're

(34:01):
working together on some of that. They're hiking together. Yeah,
And I think if he and we don't know, he
may have approached that way. But if, if, if, that
would be very different than someone coming and being like,
I'm not attracted to you, and I think I'm gonna
leave if you don't get it together, because then I'm like,
go on, how's the healthier lifestyle going? By the way?
Not great? You know, not great? Do you think it's

(34:24):
because of like do you run out of time to
eat healthy? And it's easier and it's so much easier
to not eat healthy. That's a lot of people because
when I was like cooking and stuff and like eating
at home. I was like, oh, like I make it,
I have to clean it up, Like this is way
more work than when someone just brings it to my
door and I eat it throw it away. But I'm
moving into my new place this week, and so i

(34:46):
have a bigger kitchen. I feel like I'm gonna I'm
walkable to stores. I'm hoping that I am a little
more active and try to eat better. However, I'm gonna
have new Postmates option. Oh yeah in my new location
Jones on Third. Yeah, i know I'm going there today.
Beyond like that would be a great option. So I'm

(35:10):
I'm hoping that that will help. It's just hard. I mean,
I know everyone's like it's hard with the holidays. Imagine
it being hard all the time. The holidays don't help,
true enough, And here we are, by the way, that's
what that procedure came in handy because I barely ate
all weekend recovering from feel like I'm in a deficit
now going into the holidays, and I feel good about
what I need that seven pounds two years where I'm

(35:35):
like seven literally ever since I've met Amy. I just
have to lose seven pounds and I'm not lie. I'm
not exaggerating. Probably the first time I've met you told me,
and she'll be like, I had twenty three cheese. It's
I had half to be better, Jo, It's like, well,
I always just want to lose seven pounds, like I
don't know, probably lost seven pounds. I don't know. It's

(36:00):
like it always feels like seven pounds. That just feels good. Well,
speaking of the holidays, is that time of year for
Christmas cards and Christmas parties? It sure is. And it's
all about getting healthy and white teeth. Um. I know
a lot of people constantly, honestly, I get so many
questions about my teeth, and one if they're veneers into

(36:21):
how do I keep them white? They're not veneers, by
the way. Um. But we're all eating a lot of
sweets this time of year, and we're all drinking a
lot of coffee because it's cozy time. Um. And that's
why quit makes the perfect gift for anyone this year.
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(36:42):
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talk on this show lately, haven't we. Yeah, lots of
period talk lately. Um, which Tony was here to talk

(38:11):
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(38:57):
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(39:17):
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(39:39):
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(40:47):
We have a very exciting guest today. We have Scott Patterson,
as some of you may know as Luke Danes on
the hugely popular show Gilmore Girls. Amy is fully fan
girling over in the corner. Ever since I met Amy,
I feel like the first thing she told me it
was something about Gulmer Girls. You could like it when

(41:10):
it was going, And now I weirdly like it even more.
There is something about that dialogue cracks me up, like
I just laugh out loud. I don't know how to explain.
It's like this is such a weird way to say,
but it's like it tickles me, like I just go,
you know what, genius it's so fast, the back and forth.
It was so quick, topical, just like and do you

(41:33):
know what? Doing it? It's twice as fast as how
it comes out in your head when you're doing it
inside your body. And the only note you're getting from
any director that's working with you, because that's the only
note they've received from up top, is faster. No. Wait,
so I have a question. They just come up to

(41:54):
and go, great, it's all great, but just can you
do a little faster? I don't think so. How many
like pay ages. Let's say you're doing a scene on
Gilmore Girls compared to a scene I watched you on
that other show where it was like the Aliens or something.
We're like, what would be the comparison of how much
more dialogue there was on Gilmore Girls? Oh god, it
was you know, well that was a half hour and

(42:16):
Gilmore was an hour. But um, Gilmore is eighty pages
of all black ink. It's not seen descriptions, it's not,
it's just chunks of dialogue. It's like big honking chunks
of dialogue, right, you know. The very first year maybe
the second or third episode, I think it was first

(42:37):
year one, they'd rewritten a scene and they used to
do this a lot, and then they kind of gave
us a break on it, but they threw a ten page,
ten pager at us in the makeup chair at six am,
and we were going to shoot it at six thirty.
And I looked at Lauren and said, well, if we
can do this, we can do anything. And we actually

(42:57):
did it. We worked on it and we did it
and it came out really well. So I mean, yeah,
And I was I posted we have a really loyal
Facebook group that follows this podcast, and I was like,
I need to know the die hard fan questions, and
I think the ones I saw the most were who
is the baby daddy? And were you annoyed that it

(43:20):
took so long for Laura Lee and Luke to realize
I guess Laura Lie to realize that she that you
were the one no, because I think you know that
was the secret magic of of that chemistry is will
there won't they? And it's really difficult television and television

(43:40):
to keep a fan base engaged at that level, you know,
And I think Warner Brothers knew they had something really
good with that storyline. Um, but it's like I think
I think the debate going on between the creators and
Warner Brothers was how to execute that and how to
you know, how quickly to bring them together. Let's make

(44:01):
them wait, And you know, I think a lot of
discussions were, well, the fans are going to defect if
we don't give them this by season three, and you know,
we're really worried about it. And it's like, no, yeah,
they'll stick around. I was gonna say, because they're going
to wait until they get the satisfaction. Yeah. Look, I
was all for no, bring another guy in, make him jealous,
you know. Well that was what was so heartbreaking at times.

(44:22):
Keep me around. It was real, Like I can remember,
like in season one or two, she was engaged to
that other dude, and at that time you could already
tell that Luke was a little bit like h And
I also think God that the Gilmer Girls allowed me
discover Matt Zukri, Oh my god, Like that was where

(44:43):
I first learned about him. And he's still just are
you seriously talking about another man in my presence? I'm
so sorry. My heart is always with Luke. But then
there's check her. Listen, we don't know, we don't know
who she is and where she came from. Look, it's
been real fragile after so else, but we can build

(45:10):
up as you go again if you want to with
this email. Yeah, we're here now. We have an email
to really build you up and mention another actor, Amy
brought you down, but one of our listeners is here
to bring you back up. Megan email does this, she said.
The only thing I love more than the scrubbing in
podcast is Gilmore Girls. I washed on TV when it

(45:30):
was on and have binged it on every box set,
DVD and Netflix ever since. It played a huge part
in my life growing up and even now as an adult.
That helps me through hard times and good ones. Please
tell Scott that he and the show have impacted my
life so greatly. As silly as it is to rely
on a TV show, it's a big light in my
life and something I can watch over again without fail
for comfort and happiness. I've wanted to meet Scott Patterson
my entire life, and having my two favorites merged together

(45:52):
is making me so happy. Wow. Yeah, that's very nice.
Thank you so much. Well, I don't think I am,
but you know, I I'm just I'm just reading the
words on the page. And trying not to knock into
the first much I was gonna I've never shared this before.
When I was in sixth grade, our local mall I'm
from Louisian. Originally our local mall had a open casting

(46:21):
for it was w B shows, but at the time
w B and Gilmore Girls was one of them, and
I went with my friend who was also trying to
be an actor. I was in. I was in drama
at this time, and I thought I was going to
be an actress when I grew up. And this was
when I knew I wasn't going to be was that
this casting call. I waited in line for one time.

(46:45):
I would say thirty seconds. It was quick, but sat
in line for hours and my friend I was like,
this is I mean, this is meant to be my
big break. I'm gonna be on Gilmore Girls. They said
it's very fast dialogue, so think about that when you're
doing your all edition. They have this like fake set
set up in like the back of like a Kirklands
or something, and they started reading the lines. I blacked out.

(47:08):
I don't even know how it went, but it was
just like thank you, And at that moment I walked
out and I was like, I'm never this is never
gonna be. This is not it for me. You gotta
hang in there. Didn't want to. It felt horrible, like
nothing about it felt right. You know. Well, you know
I think, yeah, you definitely need a thick skin, There's

(47:28):
no question about it. And I came into this profession
um with a very thick skin because I've been through
seven years of professional baseball and I did not know that. Yeah.
In fact, one of my favorite people was from Louisiana,
Ron Gidrey, from Louisiana Lightning. They called them. Yeah, wait,

(47:54):
that's so you were. You were in like a very
different profession, but still a profession where requires discipline and
get paid nothing, or at least they didn't pay me. Yeah, yea,
So how that transition? What was? How did you discover? Oh?
You know, I when I when I walked away from baseball,

(48:17):
I went to Europe. I've never been to Europe, and
I spent about a year and a half there and
sort of trying to figure it out. And I met
some American tourists and people that were living there, and
I went to New York with them and got int
acting and the whole thing and yeah, sorry, this is
my wheelhouse. I feel like, yeah, you made it to
the major leagues. I never I never pitched it. I

(48:39):
never pitched any of the majors. But I was on
the Yankees major league roster and eighty three. Boy, I'm
dating myself. And I was on the Rangers major league
roster and a D five, and then I was I
don't I don't know that I was. I don't think
I was ever a part of the Dodgers forty man roster.
But I went to camp with them, and that's who

(49:00):
kind of put me out to pasture. Dodgers, thanks so much.
Actually they did me a favorite tiler professional baseball players.
To even get on that major league roster, that's impressive,
that's well. Yeah, I was pretty excited about the first
time I was on the first couple of times I
was on a major leaue roster, I was pretty exciting. Absolutely. Yeah.

(49:20):
But um, you make more money, uh you get you
get to come to big league hit camp and and
try to impress people if they ever give you a chance.
Um yeah, it's it's kind of nice. You hang out
with the big leaguers and then they take you out
drinking and see if you're a real man, you know
that kind of a thing. How long is it going
to take him to fall off the bar stool kind

(49:41):
of deal. Um, yeah, it's kind of it's kind of
it's kind of neat. It was a neat experience, no question,
but it gave me a thick skin. And I came
into Hollywood thinking or I went to New York and
I was studying, and I was doing theater and you know,
just trying to get because for me, it was always
about acquiring skills, and that's really what baseball it was
just like, you know, stop stop complaining about you're not

(50:04):
getting promoted. Just work on your skill set, and once
your skill set is there, you'll get promoted. So um,
and I wish I had taken my own advice early
in my career, which is, stopped complaining and work on
your damn skill set. You know, you're here for a reason.
You know you want to go to the next level.

(50:24):
You need this skill set. You want to go higher
than that, you need that skill set. So it's really
all about that and acting. I approached it the same way.
It's a skill set. You sing, do I sing? Uh?
Someone on the Facebook group after the body's music. Well, yeah,
I know, but I didn't know. Are you the singer?
Are you a right? Right? And saying I write all

(50:47):
the songs. In fact, I have my new single with
me right now. And do you really I can't do
I actually do? Yeah, Well I don't know. Maybe if
you want to see it, if you own the publishing
and of rights to it, Oh sure I do. Oh
god you well we'll no. I have it on a

(51:10):
oh even better thumbing I got. I got it on
a thumbdra Do you really on the publishing? I'm sorry
to be that person, but if you do, then we
can actually play it. Yeah, but anyway, but you want
to hear it? Seriously, Yeah we were. I was not
planning on doing this. Actually, well we're gonna talk about
your coffee in a second, but we want to hear them. Yes,
we love playing you so long. And it's totally different

(51:32):
than you would expect. It's a little bit like rock, right,
it kind of is. This new song is a little
it's a departure and I just wasn't even gonna well,
let's do it. Mess with it all right. A lot
of people that are like, what are you up to now?
So well, I'm I run my coffee business seven And

(51:52):
you know, I finished that song a while ago, but
I haven't done anything with it. But as long as
I'm here, Well he did a lead a minute to
get it into the system. When I talk about other things,
you have to delete that as soon as it's the
next thing. You know, I was playing on kiss. Yeah,
I'm gonna say it's not a bad thing. Um. Well,
since we're since we're talking about what you're doing, do

(52:13):
you want to talk about your coffee because I mean
the fact that you are Luke and you were known
for your coffee shop, which Tanya, who is my co host,
she had to she left out of town. But um,
and she's like a huge fan. Like it was like bitter,
you know, not the great timing for her italy. Um,

(52:35):
but she went to the pop up where she sat
in line for I don't even know how many hours
to have a cup of coffee. And I said, well,
was it was it good? Was it worth it? She
was like, it's pretty dang good. I had no regrets
about waiting. So I just love that you now have
a coffee company and it's called Scotty Peace, Scotty peas

(52:55):
big mug coffee. Uh. We debuted a year ago November
two thousand seventeen, and on our website scott ep dot com,
we offer twelve ounce ground and five blends, two flavors,
and breakfast blend in a French roast in a decaf
and hazel nut and French vanilla. And we have cake

(53:16):
ups in breakfast blend and French roast. We have whole
bean and two pound bags and breakfast blend and dinner
blend actually and um French roast. So we're rocking and rolling.
We're coming out with espresso pods and pretty soon. And
you heard it here first. At what point where do
you like, I'm gonna this is gonna be I'm gonna

(53:38):
transition from Luke's to Scotty Peace. Actually it was in
the middle of the music tour that I did a
couple of summers ago. I did a tour of twenty
seven coffee shops with It was just me and another
guitar player. My guitar player. That's why you like laught
When I was like, oh, you're like, I just did
a coffee. I don't know if you could describe it

(53:59):
as singing. I don't know that people would identify it
as such. No, I feel if you're showing a song,
you're a singer. I myself would not describe what I
do as singing. I'm not one of them. I was.
I was an athlete, so I played sports. So I
see you got this nice gene where you were able

(54:20):
to do both. I don't have that artistic creative side.
Oh I'm sure you do. No, no, no, I I've
searched it. I don't. I can't sing, No, I really don't.
It's good at fashion, and she's a good dancer, but
she's not a good dancer. You're good, well, I mean
she's not, but in like a concert, she's not embarrassing

(54:43):
or anything. Oh I'm gonna take that home to family
time for Christmas and fashion and like decore. But she's
not a good singer, and neither is Tanya. You know.
It's funny though, a lot of my friends, like if
I'm singing along to the music, they'll be like, like,
you have a great voice, and I'm my mind of thing.
I have been told that I'm a terrible singer my

(55:03):
whole life, So I can't tell where the line is.
Am I so bad that it's like artsy sounding and
it's good. What do you do? You sound really good? No?
I think I can stay on key, But I don't
think of my tone. Let me let me a song,
Let me hear something, Let me hear a little something.
Give me a bar of something, little country song. Think

(55:24):
it's like an audition. I have some songs. That's a client.
Little crazy current country country, little Elvira, carry Underwood here
the American idol. I don't know what a rocket top?
Do you know? Rocket? This is not going well? How

(55:44):
did this become about literally all of a sudden. I'm nervous.
I can't come on. Take me home, There you go,
There you go. That's easy. Tag me home to the
place where you know it's a nice time. Nice about it.

(56:04):
I could be a country singer. I mean, if you
committed to it and acquired lit. You have a nice sound,
you have a nice tone. Paint app okay I do,
because everyone's going to get mad at me if I
don't get an answer about this. I know you're probably
tired of talking about it. But who do you think

(56:25):
the baby daddy is? Rory's baby daddy? You know who
I think it is. I think it's buzz Aldrin. I
think buzz Aldrin is going to make an appearance. I
don't know, but I still think it's him. I think
it's either buzz Aldrin or it's um it's jay Z.

(56:45):
I think it might be you. But how about that
Milo really making a career for himself too. I don't
know what to say. I'm sorry, I don't mind the question,
and you're pursuing here. I'll go to is Milow. I

(57:06):
think it's jay Z. It's only two options, Milow, third guy.
But let us pray it's not him, that myandom guy,
that nerdy guys she was dating in the movies. It's
not the movies. They kind of were, Yeah, they were
just like long episodes a ninety minute. No, they were
actually I only saw one of them, and you know,

(57:28):
we went to the premiere and they did a whole thing,
and I watched it and it did have a film
quality to it. I mean, it was beautifully shot, and
it was like, boy, this isn't really like just a
TV episode. It doesn't look like a TV episode. It
looks like a film. So generally, you don't make a
habit of watching your stuff back, and I don't. I
don't I've never I saw the pilot and that was it.
I swore, really yeah, I did. I did see the

(57:49):
pilot when it aired, and I just I haven't seen
another episode. But then I, you know, during the bing
a thon that up TV was doing recently over Thanksgiving,
I just sited in all of my wisdom to live
tweet during a couple of the episodes, and that was
all my idea. And then I said, oh, I actually

(58:10):
have to watch the episode to tweet, and I'm like,
oh no, But I did it and sort of sucked
it up and did it. Any hundred episodes, girls, you've
seen one or two I've seen now, well I I've
seen three or four now, and that's it. That's all

(58:31):
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How about those pickles, Oh my god, yeah, talk about
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(01:03:38):
I was kind of impressed. Yeah. A lot of people
asking about Lauren Graham. They feel like you guys had
a great chemistry. Were you friendly off this? Off screen?
Are used? Did you stay friends? Afterward? She wouldn't leave
me alone. She wouldn't let me go, And do you
really have to go home? And I'm like, yeah, I'll
get some sleep. Can you just stay And I'm like, no,
I gotta go. Um Melissa ba Darry the real answer,

(01:04:02):
she wouldn't leave me alone. So you guys enough, I
get it. He's smiling right now. All right, let's where'd
you come back for a second revival? Sure? Yeah, yeah,
it was. It's a blast to be with those people.

(01:04:22):
That's a fun show to be on. A lot of
people don't say that after being together for that many.
I mean a lot of people are kind of like
it was, it ran its course and we all were
ready to move on. So it's I think it's good
to hear that as people who watch shows and then
they hear like no one got along on set is
maybe the most crushing, soul crushing thing ever. But think
about it. Do you get along with everybody here all

(01:04:44):
the time of the time. I don't know, but I'm
saying that Eastern because he looks like he looks like
silent trouble. I'm to be that's some times there's a
little flare uffs. But it's like when you get a
bunch of people together and it's so collaborative, and it's

(01:05:05):
so intensively collaborative, you know you're going to have little
dust ups here and there and people getting hurt. I
loved us. I closed dust ups to entertain myself. But
I'm talking about like that tumultuous of those. I'm a scorpio.
Well On that note, Sarah Wells is wondering who your

(01:05:26):
best friend was on the cast um. You know, Sean
Gun was always the most I always found him to
be the most interesting and most entertaining. Um. He was
always reading some obscure novel and then he would read
Bill James's Baseball Abstract and throw a question. We talked ball,

(01:05:47):
we talk novels, we talked I mean, he was He's
an endlessly entertaining human being. Um, you know, really everybody,
I mean everybody's pretty good hang over there. You know.
We we we sat around and we had a lot
of downtime, you know, there was we were there a
lot um So I don't think the show would have
been successful if people really didn't get along, you know,

(01:06:08):
I mean it was it was really that kind of
a fun, funny, a lot of wit flying around. As
you can imagine. When Amy came on set to direct
an episode, it was really elevated and ramped up and
it was just you know, it was it was fun.
It was like a little circus of trained Performerslyn wants
to know what much living was done. It sounds like
you couldn't do a lot of ad libbing because the

(01:06:30):
dense Yeah. No, no, that is a good question, because
it is. It is like spit fire, it's so fast. No,
there's just no ad libbing. In fact, we would do
takes on a master shot before we could move on
to close ups or coverage, and we really didn't get
close ups. We got sort of cowboy shots from waist
up um. But you had to really nail that master

(01:06:54):
before we could move on, and it had to be
word perfect and calm, a perfect and period perfect and
perfect perfect perfect because that was kind of like what
it was known for. Yeah, that was that. See, that
was the pressure is to get it word perfect at
a pace that is not human. Yeah, we're we could.
We could actually get jobs on different planets because of

(01:07:17):
the training and the pace and what we're used to.
The marvelous. I have not seen it now, I've been
really really busy, but I hear it's kind of great. Yeah,
yeah at Gilmore Girls, but it has to write Yeah,
Bunheads one to I didn't see that one either for you. Oh,

(01:07:41):
I think I would imagine you sit down for Bundheads
like I got my own Bunheads. All right, I don't
need to watch it on TV. Hum. I don't even
know what that means. Actually I wasn't sure either. I
just had to just go with it. To go with it, yeah,

(01:08:01):
sort of um, but yeah, I mean no, it was
a good hang. It was a good place to work,
and especially the revival because you know, it was a
different level with Netflix. Netflix really spent some money on that. Yeah,
and it felt like we were on a big budget
feature film. I mean it was a whole different experience.

(01:08:23):
The level of equipment that was available that was being
deployed trailer size. Oh yes, I'm telling you. It was
a different trailers, pop out things. I mean it was
like fancy, fancy time. We felt like fancy movie stars
for a couple of months there and we're not. I
don't know. I mean, people are so into like the
Netflix and Binging, and I felt like it was like

(01:08:45):
a brilliant move to come back and people were so
I mean diehard fans of that show that to bring
it back and then for it to end like that.
If they don't do another series, people are going to
be ourselves. I just bought the entire our set of
DVDs for my knees for her birthday. I hope you
get a dollar. Y'all. Y'all waiting for a wedding. You

(01:09:06):
know you're waiting for a wedding. Aren't you a wedding
we have? I just need to know who the baby's
dad is. No, no, we gotta we gotta get the
wedding first. There was no wedding that Mini things. I
don't know your wedding. Yeah, I thought we did it.
I thought there was there was no wedding. We want
at the end with just like the intimate group, are
you are you legally married? There? It was being set

(01:09:28):
up for a massive, entire town wedding that they didn't
have the budget to do, so they had to cut
it down. But it's like, you know, come on, we
did something that like gazebo. That's what the fans wanted.
What they wanted a massive wedding with all of the
crazy stuff that would have gone on at a big wedding. Right,

(01:09:48):
all the pratfalls well as far as acting, because I
know you're doing music, are you doing anything else in
the acting work? Because people are like, it's just it's
really coffee now, It's just you don't have it like
you other than Gilmore girls. You're like, I don't really
have any interest in doing anything else. It's not a
question of interest, it's a question of opportunity. I see
projects on your IMDb. Yeah, they've been on my I

(01:10:11):
AMDB for a couple of years. Yeah, those projects you're
seeing are still waiting for funding. The Rogue is not
in pre production. Rogue has been in pre production. Well no,
it's not even in pre production. They keep saying they're
waiting for I think our government to clear the funds
that are coming from overseas National to secure all that
kind of stuff, because like ten million, fifteen million dollars

(01:10:33):
and I get updates once in a while and then
email from as are by John or someplace, and it's like, well,
you know, we're still working on getting the funds cleared
and into the United States and that kind of a thing.
And I'm I'm thinking, well, I'm just gonna move on now,
you know, not worry about that one. And the liberty
is not happening. That's the same company, Sons of Summer.
Sons of Summer, Where're gonna play a coach? You know?

(01:10:54):
I passed on that. Continue to promote that film with
me attached to it. Um, we could never make a
deal with them. And if they're listening, they should really
remove me from that project. And any you know, any
investors thinking of investing in that project should not do
it based on my participation because I will not be
in the film. I just wanted to make that clear.

(01:11:17):
That's the only reason I came here. Exclusive Sons of
Summer will not be featuring me. Two more rapid fires.
Where's their coffee in the cups? Was They're always coffee
in the cups? Oh god? Yeah? And uh do you
still have the iconic hat. Oh, I have all of them.
There's a lot of them. There's a couple I have.
I have the stunt ones, and I have the originals,

(01:11:39):
and I ain't giving them up for no one. The
Smithsonian called, I said, no, no, no, no, no, those
are mine. You know my boys getting that when I
when I shuffle off this mortal coil and where's it going?
Right to? My boy? I have a son, he's four. Yeah,

(01:12:00):
he's amazing. Yeah, he's he's really amazing. Are you from here? Originally?
I'm from New Jersey. Oh I knew. I didn't know
if that was an actor? Born in Philadelphia, raised in Jersey. Yeah, yeah, no,
that's that's how are you Mary? Do you have a girlfriend? No? No,
I've been with the same same woman for eighteen years. Yeah.
She ever felt felt threatened by the Lucamarelie connection, the

(01:12:25):
hard hitting questions. There weren't any fistfights at all between
those two. Those are rumors. There was no high there
was nothing. It's all rumors now nothing now. No. She
she gets along with everybody. She's an amazing woman. Yeah,
all right, we have to wrap, but I want to
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(01:13:35):
Oh my god, what is it called? It's called my
cell Phone? Can we do sound? Are you? Are you similar?
You know my cell phones either? Just like Luke, It's
it's my commentary on on what technology has done to
us and how it's sort of separated us. And I
never really intentionally set out to to write a song

(01:13:56):
that had a message, and I don't think it really
has a message, just a little story about about how, um,
you know, this couple is having some problems and she
sees something on his cell phone as we see a
lot of relationships blow up. Because this is amazing for
our pod. Who the hell is you know? And I
was like, bou so, so that's kind of what the
song is about. It's like some dude getting busted because

(01:14:18):
he's he's texting, he's being a little shady. Yeah. Yeah,
this is a good content for this podcast. Yes, really, Okay,

(01:15:00):
when are you done again coming through the bed door death?
I need to find a rest when you just ran around?
D you know about right to the rivers hard testing
on the show because I know I don't have a
tech kids to do it. Just don't when you come

(01:15:51):
again coming through the bed door through the desk, I'm
gonna find a rat when I should just run around soon,
get on the body, run through the rabbit to jump,
keep it on the shoe because I don't don't have
a chance to get to your story. Just don't. Don't

(01:16:46):
don't sounding on the telephone to ride, coming on your telephone,
by sounding on the telephone to ride, to tell from

(01:17:32):
the wall to wall, and don't any more. You watch Wow,

(01:18:06):
we imagine we added some country let that um so
what I'm taking away from today with you is that
there's nothing you can't or don't do well. I look,
I've been writing music my whole life, right, and I
never pursued it. I never ever pursued it. And I

(01:18:28):
decided to pursue it two years ago. Um, and then
I realized, I don't want to be on the road.
I don't want to be away from my son. I
can't do that to him. I was on the road
in my early twenties, in mid twenties with the baseball
and I didn't have a family then. So you can
do that when you're young, but when you know, you
get a little more, a little longer in the tooth,

(01:18:50):
you know, I'm I don't want to miss those moments
with my boy because you know, listen, Um, you know
I ain't twenty anymore, right, And and I want to
spend as much time with him as possible. There's a
lot I want to teach him, um, and there's a
lot he needs to teach me as well. It's a
great way of looking so so, but it's really it's

(01:19:11):
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(01:19:34):
I mean, yeah, it's time to educate my palace. I get.
I get a lot of comments, we get a lot
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(01:19:55):
I cannot say thank you enough for thank you for
the coffee, thank you for sharing yourself unexpected and luck.
We'll call the road together. We'll go listen everybody, I'll
be there, everybody. I'll be happy. Thanks. Thank you so

(01:20:15):
much for coming back dot com. Very much appreciate it. Um.
I'm guess I'm the one calling Time of Death today.
It seems abrupt, but here we are. Time of Death
twelve six