Divine Union™

Sacred union asks something profound of us. Not perfection. Not control. Not getting life or love “right.” But the ability to keep our hearts open through challenge, uncertainty, miscommunication, and the moments when life refuses to unfold according to our plan.

In this intimate solo episode Nicola explores what it truly means to prepare for sacred union, with a partner, with yourself, and with the greater intelligence guiding your...

In this intimate episode of Divine Union™, Nicola explores the tension that most couples feel but rarely name: the push and pull between closeness and space. Some of us reach for connection because distance feels threatening, while others create space because intimacy once felt intrusive.

Drawing on childhood patterns and the rhythms of desire, Nicola guides listeners to the subtle balance where true intimacy thrives. Learn how to h...

In Part 3 of the Desire Series, Nicola explores how desire is sustained over time through the subtle dance between intimacy and spaciousness. Drawing on the elemental metaphor of fire and air, she shares how passion naturally ebbs when a relationship becomes “too known,” and how introducing gentle space, play, and mystery can reignite the spark.

It’s about learning to feel the moment and when to lean in, when to let it breathe, give...

In this second installment of the Desire Series, Nicola explores a subtle but profound shift in intimacy: the difference between reaching from need and offering from fullness.

When our gestures carry the energy of seeking reassurance, response, closeness, or validation, the other often contracts. Because desire cannot bloom where there is pressure. Yet when intimacy arises from genuine pleasure, generosity, and expression, connectio...

If you’ve ever wanted more closeness and passion in your relationship, yet found yourself bumping up against mismatched needs for space, affection, or attention, this episode is for you.

In this first installment of her Desire Series, Nicola explores what truly creates attraction that lasts. She guides us into the energetics of desire and how the way we balance togetherness and sovereignty directly shapes intimacy.

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Most of us say we trust the universe — until life doesn’t go our way.

What if true fulfillment is something you cultivate through your connection with Source?

In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola explores what it means to rebuild your relationship with Source, God, the Universe, or Higher Power, and why that connection is the foundation of peace, clarity, and authentic joy.

Through heartfelt storytelling and grounded spiritual ins...

In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola takes a deeply personal dive into the theme of balance—how she navigates the push and pull between work and play, doing and being, connection and self-sovereignty.

Through heartfelt reflection, Nicola explores how extremes in her life and relationships have shaped her understanding of masculine and feminine energies, independence and intimacy, and the ongoing dance of aligning the mind and he...

In this intimate solo episode of Divine Union™, Nicola shares her personal journey of always seeking to be seen by the masculine, and how that longing shaped her choices in love, intimacy, and self-expression. Through stories of romance, heartbreak, and the moments where she shrank or self-sacrificed, she reveals the deeper truth: every breakdown was guiding her back to herself.

You’ll hear:

• How seeking validation in love can pul...

In this special episode of Divine Union™, recorded on Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year and the symbolic birth of the universe and humanity itself, Nicola explores karmic relationships, their place in our lives, and for soul’s correction, or tikkun.

Through teachings from Kabbalah and lived experience, she reflects on how our deepest wounds, like longing for validation, fear of abandonment, and being disrespected, are sacred invita...

Life shifts can feel uncertain. But they’re actually divine invitations to realign, reinvent, and step into what truly matters. In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola welcomes Leanne Elliott, certified reiki master, intuitive guide, writer, and host of The Living Wellness Muse podcast, to explore how to navigate major life pivots with greater clarity and ease, so you can release what no longer serves you and move toward a life th...

What really happens when we say we’re giving, but underneath, we’re actually taking? In this episode, Nicola explores the hidden agreements in our relationships: serving, accepting, taking, and allowing, and how they shift when done in the light versus how they manifest in the shadow, using Dr. Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent as a framework to understand the quiet bargains of desire and exchange that shape intimacy, connection...

In this episode of Divine Union™, Nicola explores polarity as a living principle that fuels attraction, intimacy, and depth in partnership. Through the lens of opposition and contrast, you’ll discover how the dance between polarities creates magnetic connection, and how to intentionally cultivate it, whether in conflict, the bedroom, or anywhere in between.

You’ll walk away with tools to spark passion, invite greater presence, and e...

In today’s episode of Divine Union™, Nicola explores why cultivating inner polarity, the balance of our inner masculine and feminine energies, is the key to creating outer polarity and the sacred dance of union.

She unpacks how embodying both ends of the energetic spectrum builds attraction, magnetism, and passion in partnership. And why expanding your range within yourself is what fuels intimacy, devotion, and aliveness with anothe...

In this episode of Divine Union™, we explore the art of balance and how aligning our active and passive energies, or our masculine and feminine energies, creates fulfillment in intimacy, leadership, and life. You’ll hear how imbalance shows up in relationships, work, and personal well-being, and why cultivating balance is the key to deeper love, empowered leadership, and inner harmony. This episode offers insight and tools to help ...

A gift from us to you. 

In today's episode of Divine Union™, Nicola takes you on a journey with a Taoist Microcosmic Orbit meditation to help you transform stuck or crunchy emotions and move your qi through your body’s energy centers. Perfect for starting your day with clarity, winding down in peace, or finding your center anytime you need it.

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What if your next level was less about doing more, and more about becoming the version of you who can hold more?

In this conversation, Nicola sits down with Katie Rogers, Feminine Leadership and Embodiment Coach, who shares her journey and how leaders can move from high-performing chase cycles to becoming their own energetic authority, building abundance, safety, and true wealth in aligned, easeful ways. They dive into identity as s...

Why do we feel the need to resolve everything in one conversation?
In this episode of Divine Union, Nicola explores the quiet truth that not all conflict needs to be wrapped up quickly. Rushing resolution can actually short-circuit intimacy, leaving us disconnected instead of closer. Through story, client insight, and personal reflection, she invites us into a more spacious, attuned approach to conflict, one rooted in presence,...

In this tender solo episode, Nicola opens up about something rarely spoken about the ache of loneliness, even as a relationship coach. Whether you're single or partnered, this episode invites you to rethink what loneliness means and explores the deeper truth behind our longing to be completed by another. She dives into self-pleasure as a sacred practice, the illusion of wholeness through partnership, and the spiritual dance of...

In this episode of Divine Union, Nicola is joined by Sarah Walton, business coach, sales expert, and international speaker, to go beyond the usual chatter about money and dig into the deep beliefs that shape how we see and experience abundance. 

What if the secret to financial freedom isn’t in the things we chase but in the space around them? Sarah unpacks the money narrative and creates a new one. 

Some key highlights we discussed.