Episode 330: Toxic Juice (Feat. Kountry Wayne)

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
What's up. It's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Jeni Maguire,
I'm Jennifer Williams. Yeah, I know Country Wayne. What was
that voice? Oh, that was the voice with this service off,
switching it up. I tried. I tried to make it soundsist,
but he might. Oh, but we're doing something different wearing Atlanta.
I was actually here for the Revolt Summit and has

(00:23):
been flying into New York every other week to record
lip service, so I thought it'd be nice to do
it here. So just as a little introduction, Um, Jennifer
is here. We all know Jennifer from Basketball Wives, but
I knew her way before that, since we were fourteen
years old, little kay, way back. And she's very nervous.

(00:44):
I don't know what for. Are you nervous because I'm
a version. I've never been here. I mean, I thought service.
You were a basketball wife. You shouldn't be nervous. Y'all
don't talked about way crazier things on their true true.
This is a safe space. I don't know, y'all go in,

(01:05):
but it's a judgment free zone. It's okay, yeah, alright,
and Country Rain, it's here in the flesh. Yeah you
got country ain't here. Yeah, you don't even know what
to say, but everything guy started, I saw, I'm stopped
being because I'll be trying to be humble. I don't
want to make nobody feel bad in this world. But yeah,
the one yeah here is not because he was just

(01:27):
talking about something. Because I was like, yeah, would you
let a woman like if she had a lot of
money and wanted to take care of you, would you
be down with that? He was like, I could do
all that. No, I don't want about doing nothing for me.
And you don't like head. No, I don't like you
don't got out of hand all that spitting slab room
the year they started that slaver topic. I don't know

(01:48):
if you a't be like that, you should just be
whatever more you got like a dry blow job, Like
a dry blow job, you don't got the drop or whatever.
Naptal wars don't pull nothing back from you. No, you
don't want a girl like what you're getting it from.
You wanted to cry during it, cries duringhead. I don't cry,

(02:10):
but sometimes my eyes badering, my nose start running. Oh
that's that's incongestion. Take by the time I'm getting that
time I'm done. My whole face be wet, lashes off
and everything angling. What about you, Jan, what's your thoughts

(02:36):
on sloppy head? I see I'm not a sloppy person
in general. So yeah, all of that, the spinning, that's
a little too much for me. So do you like
wet pussy or no? Okay, to make sure it's gonna
be with, I had to check. I love it. I
love it with So are you? So when you go

(02:57):
down on a woman, are you sloppy? No? I know
where to go at. I used to be slopping I
was young, but now I know what goal I go
straight up. You're gonna be doing all that when I
find it? I stinking. I don't got a d D
He hit in the same place. I don't mean, because
listen would not be weird too if a guy like
spit on your absolutely you know what I hate when

(03:18):
guys trying to do When they try to like suck
on it a little and they suck too hard. It
should be like you're not just like you don't want
teeth on your ship. It's like I can feel your
teeth a little and you and then sometimes you shift
and they think that means you like it, and they
try to get right back to that same spot like
I had to move away. And then finally you have
to be like I'm running from that. Let me around

(03:41):
the fellas, y'all see how they talk with the caramit?
See how they're talking about y'all were listening. You got
to pay attention on. Listen, get her mind. Don't worry
about her body. See if you get her mind, her
body gonna follow. Get her mind, befold that if you
sit start as soon as you get in the bedroom,
you don't lost. How do you start? You gotta start
a conversation in that man, you gotta make you gotta

(04:03):
have a toxic conversation. Toxic So by the time you
get there, it's like it don't matter what you do
because you already conversation because tossing this start in the mind.
But then then juices. Toss it releases the juice in
your body, and that's what's down there, some toxic juice,
some toxic juice. Start with her mind. Don't go for
her body. You ain't doing nothing to it. Listen, are

(04:25):
you sexed out yet saying stop? Do you ever feel
like you've had too much sex. That's what I like
to do. From day one, I chose my thing. I said,
I don't even own do nothing else. I get money
and I'm gonna make some love and some babies. Apparently
I got about nine A ten. He had to scratch
his beard while nine possible team I heard about seping.

(04:50):
By the time you want more, I might, I might. Man.
At this point, you gotta be fruit for multiply. You
want to get married, well, I want to get married,
I know. But I had yeo when I was four,
a little seventeen to twenty two, I had them. I
had seven though I was in the hospital regularly. You

(05:13):
said that. You said the doctor was like, oh no,
that she already went home, and you were like, no,
I'm here. Yeah. I came back like a week later
cause my daughter told my daughter was born. The mom
was prigging at the same time. So I was in
there for one and then I came back next week
and she was like, did you leave anything like another baby? Yeah.
So I had a lot of kids, but you know,
making a little bit always my thing. Yeah, and plessant

(05:36):
the kids aren't working now, so that's good. At this
point in life, you got to be fruit from multiply,
you know what I'm saying, Because you need you, you
need some employees. So do you think that if say
you got married, would you want to be with the
women who have, like, you know, a bunch of kids too?
Is the would be like a nice blended family. The
kids is what keep it man. The kids will keep

(05:56):
your life. Yeah, the country. You know, I love children,
so it's a different thing. But if you know you
get that money too. Now, how are you with your
daughters dating? Oh me? Oh uh? Do what I told him?
I said, Man, y'all got to get you all life right,
y'all got to clean. I'll be talking to him straight, like,
if y'all acting like that, every body from you're gonna

(06:16):
gonna smoke black them mouths, instagrats. At the same maybe
you're having a house dirty and stuff. Oh my god.
And I'm like, so what I'm doing for them? I
trying to get there. I'm trying to get make the
beds they can be so they're gonna date, but at
least a track a certain type, because if you own
your stuff, a certain type of guy gonna come up
to you. Anyway, How has your type changed over the years.
My type changed over the years. I always like the

(06:40):
clean woman, right, so now it's like you just gotta
be you gotta be clean, and now you gotta you
gotta know about God from and you got them want
to house six reals like making a little clean freaky
church girl. What's it? What's the difference between um making
love and having set to you? Making love is passionate

(07:02):
like you. You you're getting into that. You're getting in
here having six. You're just pleasing the flesh. But the
flesh ain't got no mine, so we can forget. When
you make love, she's never gonna forget, and the body
is gonna be agreeing black. I feel you. So the
bind and the body difference, we have six. You're just
hitting that body, the body doing all kinds of stuff.
When you hit that mine, the body might just later

(07:23):
because it's shocked like a starfish. Starfish. So I made
a little You don't want to start? No, no, no.
You like for women to be on top yok I
know they like it? Okay, good answer. I love the woman.
You know women you like being on top in um?
Sometimes it depends. I mean, I'm into it, but I

(07:45):
don't confused. I don't at every time? Why you don't
do that tonight? Because I feel like I don't really
initiate sex. I feel like it's the guy to initiate.
Why don't you that you do? Me and G used
to talk about this all the time. Yeah, do you'all
initiate it? Yes, there was the time that I didn't.

(08:06):
And I learned from this show that initiating sex that's
a smart thing for your man lead. Sometimes you just
got to wipe across his mouth, like just in case
you know what you got at home only black. You know,
I'm going back to the high. You gotta do a
little stuff like that where you're going. Okay, go ahead,

(08:30):
go out there on streets. Yeah, sometimes I like the
man to take the lead. See, I had told you this.
I was like, you gotta initiate sex mores, right I did.
That's good. That's good because guys want to feel wait wait, wait,
because like what does that mean? Like what do you
Because guys want to feel like you want them too,
you know, just like you want to tell wanted Sometimes

(08:52):
when y'all laying up watching TV or you know, just
fresh out the shower and getting cozy in the bed
instead of waiting for him to make the move. You
make the move. I was waking over by to sleep
already on it. You don't know what's going now. That's
the little that's like pro status, like we just we're
just trying to you know what, you raise everybody on

(09:14):
my phone because you just erase everybody on my phone.
You know one thing I won't do though, is I'm
not gonna kiss somebody in the morning. Now you don't
do that? Why God, Why God made morning broke? Really
supposed to sleep with each other? You're posted to make
love and go to your own separate room a bid.
That why you're growna had two bids and room or
several room morning broth inside kiss people on the morning.
I don't like that. Angel can't come to you at

(09:35):
night when there's two people. Angel did you at night?
If you got somebody in the bid, can't show up?
So God created morning broth for you. Get out of
each other phase. Man, it's over, it's over with. Yeah,
I can't do it. I'm sorry, man, my morning breath
of man, you mess Ryan And in case somebody the
morning breath and you don't know them like that, you
think they brek smell like that all the time, you
know what, and over for country win. I'm sitting to

(09:58):
feel like you're a little conservative with me. Stand you
with the d let me ask you this, okay, So
let's just say you with somebody you would love and
you come inside her, right? Yeah, well you eat around after? No, No,
if I do put that in there, talk, I ain't
going no devil, okay, but you'll do it a little bit.

(10:22):
I'm at the talk with it. I'm always that's the
part that counts. Yeah, I'm not. I'm I'm at the
talk with it. I learned even if you're at the
top is gonna hit your chin. It's yours though. Yeah
with my vegans old beer shine on, I don't know,
but I ain't trying to let that happen. I'm at
the talk with most girls girls once I did with

(10:43):
a couple of times. They don't even want me to.
They've pulled me straight up. What you mean they want that?
They wanted enough. Have you ever had a bad experience
where you like came too quick or you didn't really
perform like you had hoped. When I was you, me
and this girl head didn't my uncle ship and I
can't real fast, and I was popular in school, but

(11:04):
I screwed like she me, I think my uncle come
and you hear that. She's like, I put your clothes on. Yeah,
I played it all. But so you can stand up
right after you come. So everybody that you came fast.
Oh yeah, see I had to my reputation. But now
since I've been grown, because man, I ain't feel you know,
I'm I'm gonna stay. I'm gonna stay up in the

(11:26):
coming fast is not always a bad thing because you're
gonna hype us up to think that this you came faster,
the pussy was good. So even though we might have
wanted you to last longer, said that we can nothing
to do with it. But that's what we're gonna take.
Come fast and that man, then I'm gonna take off her. Gods.
I've been telling women, man, look out for you anyway,

(11:48):
because yeah, man, look, let me ask you this that
I'm impressed that you could stand up after you came
to me. Yeah, I'm seventeen. I was born with Because
you know a lot of guys that do they come
they being at like Charlie horses. You must be dealing
with horses. No, they can't they need a moment, need

(12:10):
a moment, Yeah, don't. I felt like guys need a
moment after they come. Man, the first of all, they're
going to sleep. Yeah, they'd be in a feudal position
right after ain't no see you see that's when you
don't will it ain't never been willed. I'm the cat whipple.
So nothing nothing. They's gonna have me laid out, balled up. Okay, Yeah,

(12:31):
let's see what d MS we get about what I
don't have him and no woman, no man, can't do
no me. But you also said you've never been on
vacation for more than three days with a woman. I
think me and went for more than three days and
we went to Hawaii. I had a show out though
I ain't never really been on vacation from the start
doing that, now you should. I'm going Where are you

(12:52):
gonna go? I'm going everywhere? Like where like if you
what's your what's a good place? Yeah, bucket list? Yeah,
I want. I want to go to all Africa where
that's a huge continent. I just want to go everywhere.
I've been on a vacation page on Instagram and I've
been really West Africa, South. I'm going there everywhere, traveling

(13:15):
vacation on Instagram. Those vacation phases, you know where it
got me wanting to visit Switzerland. They make Switzerland looks
so beautiful. I've been. I've been to Zurich in Switzerland. Yeah,
it is beautiful. And Sweden's will make you want to
have sick. It's more when you go to some places
it's yeah, absolutely, I think island. Yeah, when you go
someplace and it's like traffic, the ocean is right there,

(13:36):
it's warm, beautiful sunset. For five minutes you have just
built up in your mind. Get over there. We're going
to feel like you don't own swimming in the ocean,
and I feel like minutes, yeah, I feel like you
don't own swimming trunks and you wear basketball shorts and
you wears to the beach white and some slides, some

(13:57):
guty slides. Do you own swim chunks? We're gonna say
you don't care for you for your vacation. I knew it.
I like, I like to look at this, I like
to walk the water. If I like, I don't want
though basketball, you have whatever you want to help. Would

(14:18):
you go to a nude beach? No? I don't want.
I don't want to see no dudes. Oh my god,
I just don't want to do it. It's just being free.
You don't see you guys in the gym. No, man,
you never played sports. Yeah, but I don't go when
you watch porn, I don't watch porn. Know, we don't

(14:39):
want to point were for to make one like when
we're watching the fun I never want I never watched porn.
They ain't. You don't watch porn. No, I'm not turned
one by that ship. And I have to say I
never used any type of um what do they call it? Yes,
she didn't even know what it's called. She's lying and

(15:00):
you don't know what it's called. It's like something called
the rolls. You know. I never used the point. I
never used a vibrator. So the road is, I don't
have a rose, but I have a toy that's very
similar to the roles and it's like vibrate and suction
at the same time. Ain't able to do It's good.

(15:21):
Stop trying to please yourself through her pen. They got
these toys out here. You can't do no, get her mind.
Don't worry about her about it. They got a toy
for that you worry about about them. Tell you you
try to think, you tell it it's a broke due
or come hit some spots you hit. Have you ever
been with somebody who you really didn't like as a person,
you know how like sometimes you might be sucking something

(15:43):
like sing with somebody like I don't know if I
really like this person good? Yeah, yeah, yea. Being people
like that in a chair like that, I ain't gonna
I don't have good. I'm gonna make it good, Okay,
So it's up to you. It's like it's like a comedian.

(16:03):
You get a bad audience, ain't no sort of thing
you gotta make the people laugh. It's like being an
interview where at the interview, you know what I'm saying,
you gotta be consistently good but called great once you
called great. Hey, we're gonna figure this out, okay with you?
You d you dry right now? It's something else she liked,
so she might like you a lot of her. You know,
I'm thinking about being with you something some women to
be lying about being with you. I think you got

(16:26):
to write a let you tell um a line. Now
that's when you're really get that's not even that great
about mama. You got a lot to them that way,
that's gonna turn them on fellows telling some lies like
say something. But man, God talked to me and told
me to tell you this. Man. Listen, women be lying

(16:51):
to but you gotta write a line because you're pleasing them.
Have you ever had somebody used lubricant? Man? Not since
I've ben't grown, you ain't no. But when you were younger, yeah,
you tried all the new stuff. But man, I've been grown. See,
I'll had me a partner all the time, So I'm
always telling up my girl with I'm telling Hug. And
then if I do this, if I cheat, I turned

(17:14):
them into a girlfriend too, Like I ain't even feel
gonna be hitting a random that's on high school. So
I did that between the ages of seventeen two. If
I cheat me, Hug got agreement. We feel to be
in your life too. I got enough paper to him
to you. You know what I'm saying. I told you

(17:34):
my book coming out. I had monether of teen years.
I had money before comedy. I had a hund of
grand I was that type of guy. Okay, but you
did say you had some rough times. Yeah, that was
before that. I was a child, I had some open
downtime coming home. I was always you know, I'm in
a hood. So when you're making you're profiting five grands
six grand a week, three grand a week, you're bawling

(17:56):
in the country, you know what I'm saying. Not in
New York, there ain't nothing but way I was at
I'm making ten fifteen two grand a month profit. You
go to the ship club? Did you ever used to go?
Since you don't even like? No, I never liked that
because I'm like, I got hell, are you coming with
me or not? Because I get your brakes fixed before
you all. You know, if I share some of this

(18:16):
and throwers on floor to you might get to pick
all this up. But let's figure out how much are
you behind to your student loans or something. To have
a real conversation because you let me get in your life.
I'm trying to see how much it costs to get brakes.
Fit depends on your ros if your rosy, Let's figure

(18:37):
out what's going on real. I'm not with all that.
Da ain't ain't come on, man, I'm a real person
that ain't did nothing to me. Come always sober, so
you can't treat me, he is always sober entertainment Kate
and no. Me and Jennifer would tucking earlier about our
first time take your patron. Oh my god, Yeah, what

(18:58):
a night. That's what I got. That's my first time
and last time getting drunk. My Sosal got me drunk
for my birthday and that's what I had, pet trunk.
Really my birthday, I was bawled up in the bed
and it was a space in my stomach. I feel
like I wouldn't met and I asked my son, I said,
y'all go out like this if I could get took

(19:19):
advantage of I feel vulnerable. I feel like I wasn't
in control of me. I didn't know where I was.
I had left my car at my parents house in
the driveway where it was. Yeah, you gotta watch what
they put in your drink too. You gotta hold your
cook Okay, yeah, but listen, it wasn't it was we
had the bottle. It wasn't like it was just we

(19:40):
didn't even go in the club yet. She said she forgot,
did you hear? She said she forgot what her car
was at, but she wasn't. Yeah, we had a designated
driver who was not drinking, So that was what that was.
So we did get drunk, you know, we got I
got drunk wrong drunk And listen you said that, Um

(20:02):
so you was curled up. Do you ever feel like
a woman took advantage of you all the time? Oh
my god, I ain't gonna lie. Man, I was just
telling my brother this before. We can't hear this true story. Bro.
I've been getting hit on like a woman all my life.
But when I was young, I used to like it.

(20:22):
But hit on't Like how like, man, a woman gonna
get you that vibe? I could read a woman, so
I know when they you know what I'm saying. You
know how a man be looking at you and it's
kind of like you know, so I could read a
woman too. Most men can't read women. Liked what was she?
But I'm talking about hitting on you like it's more
belatan like they say or do to the day, like
like give us some examples, man, wain't I'm gonna be

(20:45):
I'm gonna tak the soul out of you. And I
was like, you're gonna go to prison if you even
attempt to do what you just said. Woman Like women
be saying all kind of stuff me, what does she
find of at this point? Man, I ain't It was
fine to me. I like a clean woman. Okay, fine
clean some dirty women. I've just always been like that,

(21:07):
Like I always was fine to me. Might not be
fine to the person I like. You could be simple
man along when you clean and what if that looks look,
you gotta be like it got a little good clean?
If you ain't you're clean? Clean? Is the good little
people think beauty? Duty is clean? Is you can look
at bins old school called that old school car clean.

(21:28):
You should be like, okay, clean clean, all right? Well
have a point out, looks at y'all. I feel like
looks go right. So if you are planning to be
with somebody long term, you know you might look this
way and then things start sagging, and you know, so
you really got to like people for who they are.

(21:51):
I think the first attraction is physical, but you can't
get caught up in that. I agree. Have you ever
been with somebody that you you look back and you're like,
all right, I don't even want to get started, but
I will say this. My boyfriend, I just stare in
his face like, oh my god, I just love looking
at him. So Yeah, I'll just be staring in his eyes.

(22:12):
They're so brown. She love. Do you feel like some
of the past relationships that you've been in that didn't
work had really prepared you for real love? Yes? No,
I feel like everything you go through is for a
reason and you can't look at it and you can't
live with regrets because if you live with regrets, then

(22:35):
it didn't prepare you for the moment that you're in.
So for me, I just try and find whatever the
lesson is now. I haven't been through some awful relationships.
I've had some good ones too, but most people know
about the awful ones. But I don't live with regrets.
I feel like it prepared me for what it's supposed
to happen in my life that I agree with everywhere
that often to treat somebody good, my girl, she's gonna

(22:58):
get she's gonna be treated best in the world. God,
how hard is it to trust somebody though? After all that,
Like for everybody, you know, because we all been through
some ship but like I mean, Jan even most recently,
we know about the scam guy and everything, But how
hard is it to trust somebody and move on? Well,
the thing is you gotta have a clean slate, right,
So of course I think things happen where you are, like, Okay,

(23:21):
I need to notice certain things that I probably didn't
notice before. But you can't hold what happened to you
in the past or with somebody else did in the
past to the next person, because that's not fair. Until
they do something, then you gotta just have a clean
slate with them. I'm not saying just jump all in,
but you know, perceive a caution. But I don't think

(23:42):
that what scam Likely did to me, I gotta hold
somebody else accountable for. That's what we call him scam Likely. Yeah,
you know, still he's still her car, he still her
range Rover. Yeah, that's a difference. Yeah, it turns out
he was a professional scammer. It's so fat you enjoyed.

(24:02):
You had to see some sc signs when it came out. No, no, no.
So here's the thing. He was living in Atlanta, I
was in l A. So there were certain things that
he could do that I wouldn't see. So I don't
feel bad about it, because one, I'm going to always

(24:23):
live in my truth, and I probably could have did
some things differently. But I am a very honest and
genuine person, and so when I'm with someone, I just
expect them to be the same way. True, but it
was a lesson that I had to learn that listen
to everybody's not like you. But come to find out
this man has been doing this for professional so and

(24:47):
and at that point, when you do something, how long
you've been a comedian? Not value? Okay, so like twenty years,
longer than that, five years? Five years? Yeah, I took
off fasting, continue continue to him of an expert, and
you know what to do, what not to do, what

(25:08):
to play on. And so he's done this to dozens
and dozens of people. So I'm not alone. What's his
protected Like, how do you get to that point? What's
the Antela knows Angela has been in your trenches with
these uh here broke he must have broke, yeah, broke. Yeah,

(25:28):
he was broke. I think it gets off on it.
I think he gets off on it. You know what
I'm saying. Let me tell you he was to the
point where he was sucking dudes like he would do it.
Some people will do whatever to get to the money.
He yes, Oh my god, in the name of in

(25:49):
the name of money. In the name of it. I
need to take your bros. Old counsel decision. He don't
on here that you everything like a girl scammed you.
I got child nonsense, childre yes, I got scared. I've
been scamed. Scam Listen, I got scam a girl. I'm

(26:15):
gonna tell a girl told me one time I was
at my social high under this small town. You know,
I was in a small town, so I was the
head of the towns. I'm thinking the man. Girl ain't
christally put me the bathroom. One time she said, I'm
gonna tell you what girls want to I said, what
I was in the street, don't husband I go to jail.
To mar She was like, because you're an opportunity. Yeah,
you know, on the dope. But she said, no, people
know you're gonna be soon. And I thought about it

(26:38):
to hell. Y'all know, she said a woman just I said, man,
the women don't investment. Yeah, do women knew? The women
knew for show man. Everyone. When I was to deal
with girls and I was young, they mama's used to
let me come to their house and stay tonight. Mama,
Now did you then? No, No, I ain't that, But

(26:59):
I ain't that type of I try to see because
I know how to dry about a sister. No, I don't.
I don't deal with a girlfriend friend. I don't deal
with a whole group of friends. But I did that
because I knew they couldn't tell each other. They had
a train on you. You just go, you go deal
with it. You go deal with the other. When you

(27:19):
deal with hers, she's on. Told her it's like it's
used to be like a little it's tossings. He's run
through that crew. Now you ever feel bad about anything
like I kind of dogged her. Now, I'm not a dog. No,
I'm not a dog at all. Been a player, but
I ain't never been no dogs. A dog will walk
in your house and see your little boys to leep

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on the float and walk over, walking up like you
know what, let's get that big friend. Yeah, you know.
So a player gonna be like, let's change some things
in your life. And now he's gonna he's gonna break
your heart. He's gonna break your heart too, but when
he leaves, gonna be a better person. A dog gonna
come and take your cars on the breaks the road up,
don't take your car, just gonna steal the car by

(28:03):
you at work and never come back. Don't, don't care,
don't has no remorse. Take your car while you at
work and go fucking home girl, and don't pick you
up and leave you stranded. Feel it, Okay, what's the
worst thing you did to a girl that you're like? Man,
that I kind of took it too far? Man, leave
the house in the middle of night and go to
somebody else house and they ride by and see the

(28:24):
car ship because they knew, yeah they knew, but crazy
things back the circle of friends I was in this time, huh,
in both houses now, but really I'm just going home.
I'm just going to the other house, get up in

(28:45):
the middle of night and make sure, just frons I'm
paying for about any stealing. Yeah, you know you were
about But at the same time crazy that was the
things that would turn them on in a weird way.
I feel it was like a competition. I told him
my every moment, I said, Man, if I wanted to
be a way, y'all won't go like me anyway. They
likened me because other women like some people like the

(29:07):
little drama, the competition. Yeah, they like it. Everybody like that.
Everybody like a man now after some time they get
tired of that. They try to go but they like
a man who other women like that's the gate, but
other women like, but not that my man like. People
want by rules? Why was somebody will want if you
didn't see the roulets out there and people comparison and
nobody listen, that's the game. That's how I go to game.

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We're gonna change. We always like somebody that. Of course
other people would be like, he don but we want
our man to be like yea, yeah, okay, that's right,
not leave my house. And he got to go through
that part to prove that he that guy in the
middle of the night. You forgot it was in the
middle of the night. Yeah, the middle of night. But
good way. When she came and we loved her, we

(29:51):
went home what she was ready? Do you ever have
your heart broken? No, you can't break my heart. I
told him, I can't want ain't break my heart bounce
back from that ship hurt? No, But see on Superman
for real. That why I say I gotta started to
tell true because sometime interviews I'll be wanting if people
feel comfortable with my book coming out. Now I've been

(30:13):
that guy. You're not even a break all the truth. Man, man,
my heart can't get bro how but you men how
because like you might feel like I really like her, Like, look,
have you ever had a girl that you thought was
the one and you really liked her? And then she
did some whole other ship all that, and I was okay,

(30:36):
I would with my career at one time, and we
just be off and on. She went with a dude
out of time, came back with some polo stuff. I
know I ain't bad, and I was like, that's nice.
You know I'm saying. She tried to throw it on
a bid and kind of show me like yeah, I'm like, damn,
that's nice. But all weekend I was able to host
her free do your thing because I don't did you

(30:56):
owe me more than that. I'm a fair person if
I don't cheated five come on you least come on,
least go do that two times. So you think you
think you could be with one person, Yeah, yes, I'm ready.
I've always been ready to be one person. But I
get my life on the order first. See my life
is in order now because I'm the person hook. I'm

(31:18):
Russell Wilson with some stuff curring. So alright, since you
said Russell Wilson, right, little dude, but I posted news flash,
it's a lot of Russell Wilson's out here. Y'all just
ignoring them because they're not rich. You think that's true, Damn,
that's part of his whole thing. Come on, Russell Wilson. Yeah,

(31:39):
nobody don't want you nice and broken but not broke.
Broke but just like comfortable. What's what's the difference I'm
trying to for you, guy, I need to check your
dick to call rich. I'm like the bank if you
did it is way more than what you if you
ain't got residual it cam you know. So it's like
Russell Wilson or another level. Man. I mean, like what

(32:01):
if you're not like a multi millionaire but he a
multi thousand? There white people, I don't want see what
men think. He's so lame because he's like he's a quiet,
nice guy, good guy. Might you don't know, praying together
and stuff. Whoever, it is too just like in your

(32:22):
song okay, yeah, well drip song. But what it is
is to see somebody come from a relationship that was
toxic quote unquote toxic to go to something like that
where she's like totally like respected on a pedestal. That's
what it is because if it would have just she
would have came out just like that. Because you saw
people talking about like all this Yarra's exes and then

(32:45):
now she finally got this. Now everybody like, how can
I get my Russell Wilson because we all have been
through something. They pray the prayer they won't be cursed
at pleased. They're trying to find a prayer. Nobody know
what it is now, Country Rain, if you could do
a prayer, Yeah, that's it. Now what would your prayer?

(33:05):
God send me a woman to understand and to be real,
to be clean, to be clean and believing God, and
know that if you ain't loryer a God, He's gonna
make sure your relationship go wrong. That I told all
my women, I say I relationship be wrong because y'all
want praying. I was praying by myself and yeah, so
that's what I want. So you think it's important to

(33:26):
pray with your girl. Listen, if you if you're not
putting God first, hes gonna make sure something happen in
your relationship or life to get you back on tracks.
So you can't notot have an imperfect relationship with God
and thank your relate. That's what you plan. You you
pray together. Yeah, pray to girl. I'm gonna do mine,
so you better my first. I ain't gonna lie my first,

(33:46):
my years wife. I was in the projects when I
picked up the Bible. This girl is to watch me read.
I picked it up. She should have been picking it
up too, because by the time she wanted to get
the guy, I was so far in it. So it's
like when you when somebody who else but does it first.
The other person need to jump on. And y'all need
to do that together because if not, your relationship is
going to end and it's not gonna end good. So
I don't put God first. So now I'm just got

(34:08):
mature straight. We're in the high So now I'm looking
for a nice woman so I can please her and
make her my wife. That's what you're looking for. Okay,
look at their prayer, y'all. God hurt me. Y'all gonna
be like, gotta get your country way in a minute.
Are you a little nervous for your buck to come out? No?
I don't really because people get to know me for real,

(34:31):
because a lot of times I got to be kind
of cut back because they don't know me, like on
front of trenches for real, So I don't really kill
So it's like people getting missed up. God screamed Jesus.
So I want people to know who I really am
so they could understand where I came from. So then
you'll understand where I'm going because they'd be like, you
got a bunch of kids. I'm like, but you don't
know these kids or will matter taking care of Say, yes, sir,

(34:56):
they got them in order. It's a about half of
them grown. It's a village. My susters don't work. I
take care of my whole family. We are a village.
You know what I'm saying. My baby mamas. Everybody's a village,
and my kids make money and what I do. You
know what I'm saying. So when the book come out
of people understand it mode baby mamas hanging out together.
They started and I was I was happy they started

(35:19):
hanging out together recently and they never did because I
still deal with both of them over the two like
I think that deal. But over time they did it
without me telling them to. It was just like I'll
be on the road and I'm like, hey, tell them
y'all that we both who all here. They'd be like, okay, yeah,
we don't talking about y'all. Keep doing y'all things. Daddy
out of you. But they hang together now because they

(35:40):
anything straight. Because once I upgraded all their lives and
all my baby mama's when you get you know what
I'm saying, You make sure I took my dick out
of all of them. I was stick up being real.
I was just I was still in both for him,
you know what I'm saying. See, you ain't never dealt
with a superman, so I was. I learned that once

(36:01):
I upgraded their life too, and they feel secured that
don't matter what they speak, gonna be straight. That's when
everything got easy because they're like if I'm living one way,
but their kids going home and the lifestyle dropped to
you know what I'm saying, when I got that even
but that they ain't living like me now, I gotta mention,
but they got nice out. Yeah, they got their garage
in the little living room over there, looked like living

(36:22):
room come from a household of of of blended families.
Um My dad got a gang of kids and baby
mama's and I'm a side of baby. Yeah. I got
a sister that six I don't wonder why you walked
in the due sideways. I got a sister that sixteen
days younger than me, and neither one of my mothers
and his wife. Um And and throughout the years that

(36:44):
the second baby mama, she like was never really around
and involved, but my mother and the wife and my
my dad's old family were really embracing. And I grew
up with my siblings and you know, his wife's kids
and everything. Um And I kind of not regret because
it's not my fault, but I wish that I had
a childhood with that other set of siblings. People. We're

(37:04):
close now that we're adults, but as children, I didn't
know them. I don't have childhood memories of being with
my grandparents and Christmas and holidays and stuff with those
sets of siblings. Yeah, that's the point that their mother
would have been able to get on the same page
as my mother and the wife, because you know, for
the children saying, and I say that speaking from experience
as one of those children. I told him I got
I just got got me out. I got ain't no woman.

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And I got all my kids. It's ten rooms and
that way all the kids. They my kids are close,
so it don't matter what the moms. It's the dad
of job to be like, y'all are gonna spent time
with each other every summer. You know what I'm saying.
When do you introduce the kids to a woman you're dating? Oh?
Soon as I like my kids, my kids, Gee, it's
a girl I like. Nah. I already showed my sons.

(37:47):
I ain't showed the daughters yet. I said, what you
think about her? Like, I'm gonna go get hull and
I keep it real with him. I tell them like,
you know, when I was with just there was about
come up to I had got a room down stills
in the basement in Jay's house, like my kids coming.
So if a woman don't want to deal with that,
my children coming, they don't want to deal with that,

(38:10):
get gold because my children were with it. Jen, So
what about do you think you would get married again? Absolutely,
I definitely want to get married again. Now, when you
were married, your husband had a bunch of kids. How
is that for you? Well, so I only knew about
a few. No, I'm serious you don't do something scammel. No.

(38:33):
But after the fact, I was like, wait a minute,
Like people were telling me stuff and I was like, oh,
I didn't I didn't know about that. I mean, so
his son was really in his life and I'm not
even going, yeah, so you were counsel. I love kids,
but I don't really want to be like a step mom. No,

(38:57):
I'm serious. They have you on the means, you know,
you know, that's a bunch of kids, like I could
do probably like but if they write the children shouldn't
even they shouldn't even need No, they shouldn't even need
no step mom because my childing man, they don't even
need me. Like, once you get them children together, there's

(39:19):
a bunch of them. They keep each other. Now you
got a little bit of over them, that's when they're
gonna bother you. But when you yeah, I was gonna
just say that. So I don't mind being a step mom.
I don't want somebody with toddlers because I feel like
you're so fucking them. I just don't want it, right,
And that's like that's a big responsibility. They like, yeah, right,

(39:40):
that could be going on when you write you right now,
he's like because I know when you write that, I
want to sign out for that. But back to marriage, absolutely,
it's gonna be hard to find a man out here,
oh woman to fit everything, and everybody really won't. I
will never go like that what you mean about, because

(40:02):
love is hidden on the other side of something that
you say you will never do, because then that would
be love. You have to compromise in any relationship, You're
gonna have to compromise. So I might say I don't
want to do something now and that right you only
you know he hit that spot intil you'd be like,
I don't give it. I do have some hard nose
with some of hard nos. I mean like the taller thing, Okay,

(40:26):
that's a hard no. No, toddlers no. So like what
what ages? Okay six and up? Maybe it's seven eighty Okay,
seven is still possibly first grade? You know what I'm saying?
Depending second grade? Yeah? Eight, nine, king, okay, what e

(40:50):
seven years? What's the mother hard nosed bear? You don't
wanna do with that? So I really don't like liars,
but it's hard to determine if they're a liar, especially
they're good at it. Right to make your liar, yo,
if a person lied, and beginning persons go back and

(41:11):
check that. The check a big life like that's small,
I gonna get bigger, right because you gotta keep lying
to keep it up. It's snow bulls okay, So no liars,
no toddlers. So where are you asking me? Just hard
no yeaheah, you said you had somebody knows would be
he can't be broke. Next Fellers, I'm gonna tell you something.

(41:32):
You still got hold. You get you this. You stay,
if you stay up, that's the last child in my book.
If you stay, they're going for a woman. For If
you stay up, nobody can't break your heart and they
ain't just financed. If you your best version of you,
you can't get your heart broke because your energy isn't you.
Any time your heart is broken, you have allowed too
much energy here to that person. That's why you gotta
let God be your accounting, because he will tell you

(41:53):
how much of your energy to put into somebody. You
to put too much money into a stock and it crashed,
and it crash your bank account. You should have put
that much out there. But if you keep your energy
and you your heart can't be broken because God's gonna
be your account. You're gonna know how much energy to
put into that, what you can afford to lose. No,
I only put out with God to you to put
out there. He's gonna tell you, you're gonna feel like
this person don't deserve all that, so I'm not gonna

(42:14):
give him. So when they leave, that was just tax
money anyway, that was tax energy. But when you're trying
them build this relationship and you're working on this, now
you ain't even reading the word God like okay, so
go here and work on that. Watch you teared up.
I'm gonna tell I'm gonna tell your heart the pieces
and embarrass you. You gotta put and you've got gods.
They put yourself first. Okay. If I got this much

(42:35):
water in a bottle and I want to put a
bucket of water, what did I get that water from?
I'm in debt somewhere, so now I got to pay interest.
I don't barrow it from energy from faminine memos. Talking
to them all day, you calling your friend, I'm tired
you calling I got I can't stand people calling me
and talk about their problem. I ain't calling you about math.
I don't I want to call people. I pay if

(42:56):
you ain't panel about it. So it's like you gotta
put energy in you, but people ain't doing that. They're
trying to make relationship. My mama, we had no food.
This Ladies to pray for a man, but ain't never
pray for no fool. I've been God like he got
the bread in hand. I don't want to see you
this bread so bad. But you see her playing for
God during James and were around here shrew. So just

(43:20):
stay off. You stay up. You're gonna get any woman
you want, and they'll go for a warm or two.
If a woman stay up, you're gonna control every situation.
Put put the energy in you. Let me put that.
No man is this in the book, yo, listen. I
gave the lady who wrote my book advice. She got
the man back who's been playing her for years? Why
she went back years? Eraised that because she might see
that not not playing her. But basically basically it worked

(43:48):
out her relationship. I gave her advice stay up. It's
like when you stay up, nobody really turned. They really
can't say that. It's like a rapper who if he
keeps dropping that music and he in that studio. Ain't
nothing you really to say about him because he stayed up.
You know what I'm saying. People been trying to bring
Lebron down for a long time. You got the stage,
this ball. Do your job, man, do dk drink your water,

(44:12):
eat your vest, will read your words. Stop putting that
because like you ain't gonna be able to give it
to you. Me and my children a rock good. I
told my baby mama, I stay up, so I got
the energy for them. I just thought about something, just
to flash back to something you said earlier. You said
you don't watch porn because you make your own. So
where are these tapes at? In my mind? I got

(44:32):
a strong memory, so you havn't in your phone, and
they got him in their mind about them deal with
You said you made tapes. Now I don't make no tape.
You never made a tape. You never recorded on your
phone on the flip phone, but it was blurred flip phone,
Oh god, and flip phone, having the flip phone, but
it was blurry. But now I don't really do you
be talking during sex? I say anything? I like it.

(44:53):
M Then I asked a question answer question. I'm like yeah,
and I'm talking calm just like this, but hips are
going to different speed. And I'm like, yo, so you
want me with your father and tell the truth. Yeah,
I don't earnything. I look, Yo, I'm saying what I'm
talking to that you know now, I'm in that ill
I'm talking to her soul. Yeah, that's why she wake

(45:13):
up pregnant. Yeah, yeah, I said they went up pretty
because Poland do you ever say that like I'm you're
gonna have my baby? You ever said that during I
don't say that no more. Man, y'all listen, I had
seven kids by the time I was But I'm saying,
did you ever say that? Like? Yeah, I was saying

(45:36):
all that it was coming true? Okay, so now I'd
be saying stuff like you know, he man, just tell
me how I feel. Is it mad? You know what
I'm saying? Is it mad? You want me to keep
getting this? Don't have you ever had a woman who
said she was pregnant by you and it turned out
she wasn't. Yo, that happened a lot. It's crazy. Women

(46:00):
ain't gonna lie and you got a bunch of kids
in a weird way like like once, women seeing my
situation they want to because my children. If they've seen
my children, Man Child, they got Man. Without my children
right now, I wouldn't be making the money made. I
gotta real as the TV show coming because of my children.
What I'm doing online. You know what I'm doing the

(46:21):
world I don't know. I've created a lane online that
nobody in the world. I make money off my cell
phone that have nobody in the world ever made. I
never can go broke again. I got something going on
and it's because of my my song Rick this Car.
It caused fourteen thousand fits. But I did three videos
and they made right now they would for if I
don't made over assisted grand I can't lose. I'm going

(46:43):
when I go on vacation. Now I take my phone.
I'm gonna spend fifty but I'm gonna make a hunt
of the townet if it want for my children. See God,
say the love of your children. Because children are us
grown ups. We were contaminated by the world. We're trying
to make sure we look right. Yeah, a child still
peer a little bit. So God say, I'm in the children.
And I learned that when you put your children first,

(47:05):
man your life. So it's my children that got me
to this point because if you want for them, I
want to win this hard. But I'm talking about people
who have claimed that those are the Yeah, they tried
to claim it because they've seen that situation. Every woman
I don't deal with didn't have children, right but at
the time that you actually like believed in and was
working in. Like you know, I'm gonna tell you about
I got to about that off the microphone. For me,

(47:31):
I don't believe in it. But I don't. I don't.
I'm not against it, you know what I'm saying. No,
women don't listen, I don't. I don't have mischaracters all
that when I was young. I don't need it. I
don't need at all. But you like I don't believe
in my own. When you come from the hood, is
different rules. You know what I'm saying. People in the hood,

(47:52):
like it's just like this right here, Like I had
a bunch of babies, but that's just what we were doing.
It's like when I see somebody don't do drugs though
I never did drink. Listen, but I ain't even a
jug about to do that. When you come from the hood,
the rules different. This is what we're doing. We're diving
with a different pain. Look it's working for you. So yeah,
so yeah, I'm rich and I got it, so it's

(48:13):
a different. So I don't tell my sons. I tell
another man, don't do what I did because I only
got this way because I believe in him. Everybody's gonna
believe me. God like me. God gave me a story.
But I don't above about to go out. They had
no bunch of children, but it worked out of me.
I'm up. We didn't mention and I got them elms
without Hollywood. So it's a different. Holiday is gonna be

(48:35):
amazing at your house, and I think we move in.
All right, Well can't you ain't thank you so much
for joining us? When is the book coming out? Two
three April? Book? Man, this is a big This is
gonna be the biggest book. Many people gave me so
much money for this book. But that's a year and
a half. That good. It's a movie, come behind it. Listen, man,

(48:58):
we gotta wait that long, but it's that real of
a story. Though, you know what. We had to go
through lawyers and make sure I can talk about the
stuff I did illegally, So it was just like but
the book coming out. They don't give you about having money.
The way these years been flying by, It's gonna be
here next to April Man the book coming out. It's
gonna be all the change, all right. But we appreciate

(49:19):
you so much for coming through. As always appreciate you
too in your air conditioning, because I've been bought up
like a snail the whole time. But I didn't want
to shrivel, shrinkage. I don't shrink clip services