November 29, 2023 • 59 mins
Rapper/actress KaMillion, alongside comedian/actress Aida Osman from Rap Sh!t, join the ladies of Lip Service this week and things get WILD! Have you ever tried nasal sex? Well apparently, KaMillion has. The ladies also discuss their experiences dating white men, their new relationships, and much more. On a serious note, KaMillion and Aida open up about instances in which a male figure tried to abuse their power, sexually.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's at everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It is life Angela Yee, I'm g G maguire.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
I'm Laura Ramara, I'm comedian.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Listen, and I'm so happy that we can talk about
rap shit okay, because the strike is over, so it's
back to business.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
How y'all feeling praise?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
I'm happy to be back to work, okay that you
know the strike is over, because I might have got
in trouble because I was gonna.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I'm not even said going.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
You have so much going by an okay, you know,
because I saw you had posted about like getting back
to the music too, because you have been filming and
all of that. But so I feel like you probably
would have just put out like a double album or something.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
You know what.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
I really wanted to been on music no more, like
I honestly like actually partisan font saying was one of
the reasons why I started recording again. He's actually on
rap shit. And he came in the trailer and was like, yeah,
used to said you don't do music. Well I was like,
I don't, like I'm an actor, and he was like,
you know, this is the time where you need to
be dropping music. You need to sell anything you can
(01:07):
sell and I was. He was like, and it's going
to make the show, like you know, it's anything to
draw attention to the show. I was like, well in
that case, but I just have fun with this shit now,
Like you know, my life don't depend my survival, don't
depend on it, you know.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
So you know, but is it different because you know
they always act like as an artist when you're real
hungry for it, it's a different feel when you go way, a.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Different feel when I feel like like, even when I
had the songs work for me, I feel like I
was I was at the bottom, and like you got
to rise when you're at the bottom, but when you
come up, you still got to find a way to
relate to people, and still, you know, relate to your fans.
So it's like I feel like when you're having fun
and you're not focusing on them hits and you just
live in life and experience and shit, I can't talk
(01:47):
about the same things I used to talk about because
I ain't.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Doing this shit, mom, you know what I'm saying. But like,
I just feel like the music is better.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
And it's gonna be a more success story for me
because I'm having fun.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I don't give a fuck yeah, that's how much it
really happened for you.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
And listen, as you're a writer comedian, have you ever
wanted to be a rapper or.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Oh for sure?
Speaker 6 (02:08):
Okay, that's the whole reason why I even could write
Shawna and had an interest in writing Shauna.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
Like.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
The first script I ever wrote was called Boutang Mafia,
and it was just my excuse to make a group
like two rappers and I want to do you know,
the Gorillas. Yes, so I wanted to do that with
girls in a rap group. And I was going to
be both of the girls. I was going to do
like my little, my little, like lesbian, like aggressive one
and then my sweet one. And I have these two
different voices I was doing and I was developing it,
(02:35):
and like at the email, he's he's doing a show
about two girls in a rap group. So I closed
that script and I have not opened this.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
You were like, but.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
That's great mind, And I said, bro, if.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
I can't, if I can't beat them, my better joint.
Speaker 7 (02:55):
You ever let us to know that you was actually
working on Oh yeah, I did.
Speaker 6 (03:00):
And I studied in the interview, like my staffing interview
to get to become a screenwriter, and she was like,
please still make your show And I was like, so
what do I look like?
Speaker 7 (03:07):
Like, don't say do you want to partner up on this?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Exactly? Exactly? So yeah, well I want to.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
So the new season, Jess, so we could talk about
that a little bit because there's some things on there.
But you guys are on your first ever tour, right yeah,
and so possibly no pay all right, so now let's
let's discuss money and opportunity and how do you know
when is it a time to worry about money and
when you don't write? Because there are times when you're
(03:39):
you guys on the show are first kind of getting started.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
You got a good following in Miami.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
But to go on the road and do things and
like get a bigger audience and open for White Girls.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
The Biggest Night from My.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Heart, it's a whole different feel. But in real life,
what are your thoughts about that? Like going and and
doing something? You're an artist chameleon, Like, what do you
think about that in real life?
Speaker 5 (04:05):
I was a starving as artist for a long time
and I feel like my big break is because I
sacrificed so much, Like you know, it's kind of like
whatever you want your success to be, that's what you
got to be able to sacrifice. You're gonna sacrifice something,
and shit, whether it's your body, your time, you know,
(04:25):
your sexuality, whatever your sacrifice is.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
And I sacrificed my.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Time and just not having no money to do shit,
I was volunteering. I just wanted to be in the presence.
I just wanted to be there because I know one
day it was gonna be a bigger payoff. So anything
you want in life, like you're gonna have to sacrifice something.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
You know, Man made.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Like a lot of sad sexuality, But I wasn't doing that.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
I always said, I didn't get it on my feet,
not my back, because it's gonna have It's gonna happen
for me regardless whether you fuck with me, whether you
fute me, whether you fool me.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
I'm gonna get there. But it's just what route I'm taking.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
And when I get there, can I still keep my
stick my chest out And when I walk past, niggas
can't talk about me, and I always it's like I'm
a lady, but I feel like a real nigga A
lot of times, like I never had to fun with
the nigga to get where I am. You know that's
good and now with some real niggas.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Are you from Jacksonville?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
You know what I love when I go there? A
couple of times. I've been to Amelia Island. Did you
come to Amelia Island when you got yes at the
Rich Carlson. Yes, we had a time over there.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Hell yeah. But you get a lot of love in Jacksonville.
I love you now. I got seen you like I
first met you down there.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Because I hosted in Jacksonville. Yea, I like it there.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
And where are you from?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Ida?
Speaker 6 (05:42):
I'm from Lincoln, Nebraska, Ethiopia.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
I gotta do the East Africa play.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
But I was born in DC and raised in Nebraska,
which is man.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
You gotta meet Jasmine Brand She's down She's from Omaha
and she lives in DC.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I would always drive up to Omaha to do my
comedy shows because was a very small comedy circuit in Lincoln.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
It was like nothing was happening but me Omaha, like
your hour Minson drive an hour back. If it was
some kind of guys.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Did you date? What kind of guys that have been
in Lincoln?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
Well, I definitely had to create a no pink dick
policy about halfway into college.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
That ship was fucking me up. But yes, you know,
I said you dated a lot of white guys. Girl,
who else was around?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
I was like, okay, I know what's there.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
It's unfortunate. It's unfortunate. I think I dated.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
I've dated one or two white guys, and you know,
I can't say I had a blast.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I didn't. I did not have a good time at all.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
But then college started and out of all the fine
boys came out from Mississippi to play football and all
the crazy like everything, everything changed Alabama, all of it.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
He was coming from.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
It's way that is way different. I know you've been
with a white god and Lord, you never have, right.
Speaker 7 (07:02):
I've never have, and I have even liked it, Like
I'm not attracted to I can look at him and
be like, wow, he's fine.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
What is his least?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
He's super cute.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
I've always thought Brad Pitt was, but I never thought going.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
To think like, oh I would him.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
It was like, oh, he's so handsome.
Speaker 7 (07:25):
But intimately, I don't think and I'm not gonna say
what I would never do.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
That's what you.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Did a white guy I want to say day, but yeah,
it's Swedish.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Is that white? That's the one that's that's like.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
I had a little twirl.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Twirl and then I got kind of I got my
findings because he was like, man, that's just have fun.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
I'm like, bitch, now I'm catching finis.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
I ain't never thought I was catch I'm like, okay,
y'all just like the like it's the same thing.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Men I'm in.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
But live in la now, Like I'm open right, Like
I'm just I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
People are people.
Speaker 8 (08:11):
Man.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
That's interesting.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
If you were dating a guy, you were really into him,
and he said to you, let's just have fun, would
you still continue to talk to him knowing that he's
messing with other girls, knowing that he just went to
and he was honest.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
And you know what it was.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
It was when he was hitting it from the back
and he slapped me on my ass and I was like,
it made me think of slavery.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
And I was like why, I don't know why it
made me think about that.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
And when that happened, I was like, oh, like I actually.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Have one situation I remember now from this story. When
I was in college, I was hooking up with this
white dude, and uh maybe about halfway in he literally
said the words, damn, I have never been with no
black girl before.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Like mid stroke, did you turn to God? I swear
to God a whole right?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Did you drive right up at that moment?
Speaker 9 (09:06):
She has insane You don't say, don't you wish?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Say I wish I want to see refunded from.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Enough to take your wig off and everything.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
I was like, like, that's nineteen twenty.
Speaker 9 (09:22):
Just being yeah, that's something that he should have kept
this out his mind or said that one of his
friends afterwards.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Yeah, but it's so fine white guys out here, it is.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
Yeah, I'm trying to think some current actors they just
can't smack you in ass.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Right, let's say certain things.
Speaker 7 (09:35):
They gonna be very sweet words I want, like right
now my life like like Africans is just okay, come on,
come on coo, Okay.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
I'm no culture.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
You would either.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
Yeah, I haven't had experience.
Speaker 9 (09:52):
Actually the rule I want to Nigerians, which I love
because they have so much coach, like so nice.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
I've been.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I'm not dating no Nigerian man.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Somebody, did you?
Speaker 6 (10:04):
Yeah, dated a boy in college he was Nigerian super Christian.
He wouldn't like let me talk for that long.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
Nigerian Niggas is just different.
Speaker 7 (10:12):
There's a lot of Nagerians, okay, is he like he
was raised here or there?
Speaker 3 (10:18):
They all I said, they all look.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Just joking all of there like a Nigerian American like No,
But I like the ones from the mother Man, right,
you know, the one that got culture that could that
could show me something I want to when I do
get married, like I want to do all of the things.
You got to be submissive with them because they like
to be in control a.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Lot, not mine.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
To let somebody be in control the times if you
trust them, if you trust them.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
But I mean, I feel like submission is like you could.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
It's a different definition for for me, Like I'm gonna
submit to a man that makes me feel comfortable and
you're taking care of it, but I'm still gonna tell
you how I feel.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
I'm not right.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Exactly, because there's gonna be times when you really are
going to be like, look, do this, do that, and
he's gonna listen. And then there's gonna be times when
he can tell you that and you're gonna listen. Because
there's no relationship I think that can work where you
always are the person that's down to right, because I
think guys like that too, like you have to challenge
on things and be your own individual. That's the best
(11:25):
when two people are really strong individually and they can
come together, that's the best experience.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
In fact, effect of communication, I think it's their partnership.
Speaker 6 (11:32):
Yeah, for real, Like women at first, I feel like
they don't share any of their needs or their wants,
or their desires and boundaries. And then suddenly halfway into
the relationship, she's like a whole new person because she
realized she didn't tell him how she felt by anything.
And I think of like, as women, we got to
watch out for that and just come in like demanding
I can't do it.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Later, this woman she is married and she loves ain't
no sex, but she has never told her husband, and
now she feels actually can't tell him because he's going
to be like, why when did you start liking this girl?
Speaker 4 (12:05):
Just grabbing him forever?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Because I also feel like now I can't do anything.
But I also feel like an is the type of
thing where if you've done it, it probably is a
lot more gliding than if you've never done in a
long time.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
It's probably tightened back up.
Speaker 7 (12:21):
Tried it and I almost cried, and I was like, no,
just stop to stop.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
I don't got space for it. It's like the needle.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Even I was like, you know what.
Speaker 7 (12:35):
And we spoke about it the next day. He was like, yo,
everything was so great. And then when I tried that,
you was like.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Bro I was.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
He was like, yo, you sober up real quick.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
No, because you got to do that.
Speaker 9 (12:47):
Yeah, it's a special moment, especially in the beginning piercing.
Once you get past it's really good.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Though I can't.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
Yeah, I was the only one NI want my mere.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Before huh able to up your nose?
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I would never.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
Smurfs and elves realized, bitches take up that's a lot.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
You got pretty small nostrils. I'm confusing. I'm just saying
they open up the booty holes. Is is small to
my house.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
They stretch your nose not stretched enough for no peanut.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Stop it and then how you sniffed?
Speaker 4 (13:36):
If the web.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Market listen, I don't play around with certain things like
I also, and I know this is very sexy for
some people, spit. I don't play with like people spitting
in my mouth, or like.
Speaker 5 (13:55):
I'm here for the spit in my mouth, like.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
Yeah, you speak never.
Speaker 7 (14:04):
Clean, like this guy don't clear about his health about now.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I'll be like, damn, do that one time again that price.
Speaker 6 (14:11):
Juice spit, yeah, because if they don't, that's a Nickelodeon slime.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Never ever. You know, the first time he did it, I.
Speaker 7 (14:18):
Was like and I was like, oh, this is not
so forward to it.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
Wow in my mouth.
Speaker 6 (14:29):
I don't mind spit on my body, my mouth, don't
spit in my mouth.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
I like it. No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
That just doesn't seem like, I don't know, appealing to me.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I know people love it though me like in the moment,
I love it in the in the moment, it's like.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Go ahead, it's just something.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
It got to be my person though.
Speaker 7 (14:48):
Of course, yeah this had just met like my first
but I can't see just anybody and again so healthy,
so clean, But you got.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
To be able to person that just allows you to
be in that space like just free, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
I don't know, man, niggas got grits.
Speaker 7 (15:06):
Niggas looked like that, I'm not kissing you, okay.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
He was like a pay that niggas.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
A while ago and we ended up being a relationship.
And when we started dating, I was just like, you
got to go to the genists. Like I had to
tell him, like, you gotta go to dinis. You can't
kiss me with that.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
First of all, your teeth gotta looked great.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Like I just went to the dentist last week too.
I was like, my uncle's my dentist, but he's about
to retire. And so my dad was like, go see
your uncle and get everything, like, because I had to.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Get a crown.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
So I been putting it off for like a year,
and so I finally went and did it. I was like,
let me just go because dental stuff is expensive.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Send me that information. Been waiting, hurry up and go.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, because we're not playing no games now let me
Since we were talking about that, you know, we have
four on here before from black in Chicago, and you
know he's very into like a lot of freaky things.
You know, he likes pet play, like he likes being
walked like a dog and stuff like that. And yeah,
but you're talking about this before y'all got here. Are
you okay with doing anything? A guy like he should
(16:16):
be comfortable enough to ask you to do anything. No
matter how weird it is right. He should be comfortable
to ask you. He should be comfortable to ast.
Speaker 9 (16:24):
But depending on my comfortability of accepting is if I'm
going to say yes or no. I mean, I pretty
much tried just about anything. But I'm sure there's some
boundaries that I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
But he should be able to ask you anything.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
I'm just like anyone anything on the street.
Speaker 6 (16:41):
Anyone.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
Feel I don't know.
Speaker 6 (16:47):
I think I'm scared of the like role play, extra
play stuff, the best act. I feel you, I feel you,
But I'm worried to bleed over into our real life.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
And I don't want you to like barking me at
breakfast or some ship.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
I don't want lean over way for your stand up
for writing.
Speaker 4 (17:05):
There's no wolf wolf breakfast everything.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
Make it funny, you like, I'm gonna write about this
because that's gold.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Yeah, so you're saying I should go home.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Said, let I got bat your breakfast, get on.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
But what is the craziest thing somebody has asked you
to do in the bedroom?
Speaker 4 (17:25):
Oh, it has to be in the bedroom.
Speaker 6 (17:28):
I have a nasty, freaky, dicky as story from when
I was like seventeen eighteen. I was working at a
diner and this.
Speaker 4 (17:36):
Old nigga came in and he sat down.
Speaker 6 (17:39):
First of all, he used to always ask for me
and be like, can I get the colored girl?
Speaker 4 (17:42):
And I was god, and this suck because he tipped crazy.
Speaker 6 (17:45):
So I was like, I'm here, you're here, And he
was like, okay, I'm gonna give you two hundred dollars.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
I'm gonna give me your shirt.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
I'm gonna come on your shirt and then you have
to you have to wear that for your next shift
when I come in the next morning.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Wait, how much?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Seventeen?
Speaker 6 (18:08):
But the legal age Nebraska is seventeen because it's kind
of the South, it's kind of it's just nasty.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
Did you wear no.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
Break so many?
Speaker 4 (18:21):
Serving food?
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Which is.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Shirt?
Speaker 4 (18:27):
You had?
Speaker 2 (18:28):
The boss even at that it's weird.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
So what did you say?
Speaker 4 (18:35):
What are you done with your Omelet went to the
back room. You're like, please, please leave me alone. I'm
a minor.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
What's the craziest thing somebody asked you to do?
Speaker 5 (18:48):
The craziest thing somebody ever asked me to do? I
think it was and it's probably not even crazy to
some people. But like a three soong Okay, yeah, I
ain't know that my life. Really, I never did it, Okay, Yeah,
I'm just I'm.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
I feel like any guy would ask you that, they'll
try it.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
Yeah, you guys will definitely try it.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Yeah, but you.
Speaker 6 (19:11):
Had th you said Dominicans it.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
Was something at the same time.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
Yeah, there was a time when I moved to Miami.
The first I was stating.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
They must have been from Alapada.
Speaker 6 (19:25):
They were from one was from Hilia and the other
one was actually a nigga from Washington Heights that have
moved to my.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
I would not girl and the guy. The girl and
a guy.
Speaker 5 (19:39):
Okay, you know it's different, like with two guys that's
still trade.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
One after another threesome. It's like all simultaneous.
Speaker 6 (19:52):
That one nigga, you one nigga, and then the other
nigga come in and another truth like true true.
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Yeah, the because nigga still called it a train.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
That's and that's that's that do that?
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yes, feel bad?
Speaker 2 (20:09):
I want to say always they was nice.
Speaker 6 (20:15):
It's like it's like getting to have sex but also
watching porn at the same time.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
It's the best of both worlds.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Really, I'm like, my friend does it.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
It's like that that's like her.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
She has like a monthly routine with these two guys
that she called all the time, and I've called her before.
She sent me pictures of a chacuzzie with a heart.
She's like, I'm with my I'm with my niggas. I'm
like you, it's the ship.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
I'm a germaphobe. So it's like when you take that out, Harry,
what you finna in me?
Speaker 4 (20:42):
Like change?
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (20:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:46):
And you could also like just get eating out or
something and not you know, eating out.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
I've done it with two men before too.
Speaker 6 (20:53):
There was a time in my life where I really
like to like turn niggas out like.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Your kids, Like I would love to like nigga though
with a.
Speaker 5 (21:08):
Yeah, I want to do that afterwards, we know because
I feel like, Okay, think about it. God put our
g spot in our coochies. Why would he put theirs
in their ass if it wasn't supposed to be massaged?
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Because you gotta.
Speaker 5 (21:21):
But it's like I feel like think that they're gay
because they can't have this open conversation with a woman,
but they try and ship with their homeboys, but they
really not gay the whole time. They just can't identify
with something that they both enjoy, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
And I like a lot of women put fingers in
men's like yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
Yeah, but sometimes they don't.
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Even if you haven't, they feel like he's gay because
you don't know who you're fin the go tell if
you're not his girl.
Speaker 9 (21:49):
I feel like when a woman does something with the man,
as far as ain't no play, it's not gay, like
you so gay is is homosexual? Homosexuals too, people of
the same sect of a guy don't having sexual activities.
Is so just because of a male allows his woman
to have any play with him, I don't think that
(22:09):
that's gay.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
I think that that's heterosexual sax.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
It's a sexual fluent. Now nobody cares who does what where?
Speaker 5 (22:17):
And I feel like petrating like a man penetrates some
woman like that to me when when a guy dig
a woman down, it's like, I don't know, it asserts
a certain type.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Of power thing and I feel like a.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
Man is getting poked to like you can do the
same to him, Like it's a certain type of submission
that you know.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
It is probably a powerful feeling to be like I'm
fucking you yeah, like.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
Yeah, it was good. It was good. I won't ask.
Speaker 9 (22:47):
Why that.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I won't know he is not already know he'd be
like you like it?
Speaker 9 (22:52):
No, certain guys, you know, certain guys know if he
won't like it, certain you just got to be like
not with these kind of themes like let's nineteen forty two.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
Yeah, actually the first, the first rapper ever wrote was
about that.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Most men.
Speaker 6 (23:12):
I show that ship to eat, so I think that's
how I got stopped on the show.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
She probably loved it.
Speaker 6 (23:16):
I mean she was in shock a little bit. The
first rapper ever wrote I don't know if I can wrap.
Before it was on the internet, it was about packing.
Oh bitch, that boy kind of thing. I said, he
got a booty? Do he handle that ship?
Speaker 8 (23:30):
Got it?
Speaker 3 (23:30):
Wait? I did?
Speaker 6 (23:32):
It goes it's further. It's like a whole thirty two
bars about Wow playing in a nigga booty hole.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
I'm going to go find this out.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
That's a hit.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
I don't want to play in a nigga booty hole.
I just want to make him feel good.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
I just want to I like since I just want
to make I like when like, even when a man comes,
I like to hear that, like, I want to hear.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
You right, you don't want to hear it.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
I want to make you vulnerable.
Speaker 5 (23:52):
I want to be the one, and I guess a
certain that certain me down.
Speaker 4 (23:56):
That's yeah.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Do you want to ask him man that though? Like
you gotta make him really dominate man.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
At times?
Speaker 2 (24:04):
I think it depends on Yeah, it depends on what
type of mood.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
What was the question? Actually started doing that up here?
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Remember I told j S that you gotta start initiating
and taking charges.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
Because I wasn't. I was just like the lady or girl,
this girl.
Speaker 6 (24:21):
Yeah you know, just it into Yeah you know it is.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Nig it's still there.
Speaker 4 (24:32):
You're not getting to it.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
No, I got you.
Speaker 5 (24:35):
Yeah, And they told me no, Yeah, I know this
girl she was like she used to walk on niggas
backs with like hells and ship and yeah that candles
that drop wax on them like and people used to
pay her like.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Yeah, yeah they pay you for men.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Men are really disgusting.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
They are like they they have imaginations when it came,
but I.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
Feel like they have to be really comfortable with you
and just trust you or not.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Yeah one the other.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Yeah, have y'all taken any man's virginity before I did.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I think when I was he came in, I was
taking just.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
Putting it in. Yeah, wait, hold up putting in his
ask no put it you're.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
I was like, wow, I don't know, I did.
Speaker 9 (25:29):
I think that's something that I have not done high
school and at this point in my life, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (25:34):
The senior Yeah, well, unless you you got to find the.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Right guys wild lie.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
When I was younger, you know, guys would lie about
being a virgin, like they would act like they weren't
they were.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
That's why.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
I think that I used to be one in that case.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Then yeah, you were like, oh.
Speaker 3 (25:54):
I've never done this before.
Speaker 4 (25:55):
I was most fun.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
Did they take extra care of you?
Speaker 6 (26:02):
Because yeah, I always had Yeah, every time I lost
my virginity.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
I she was.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Like thirty two, Like, yeah it right right.
Speaker 4 (26:17):
I was at the sea for young women. I found
I found God.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Do you remember the first time you you came or
had an orgasm?
Speaker 3 (26:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:25):
Maybe I was with the shower head maybe like twelve
or thirteen. Yeah, but like from sex.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
So I was on the.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Floto you still have.
Speaker 5 (26:34):
I used to Mama, I hope my mama watching this lord.
So you know how like at the bottom of a
door you have like people.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
Have like the little things that the pecs coming.
Speaker 5 (26:44):
We had like a little mail drop, And so when
my mama would leave and my boyfriend was at the
house at the time, like in high school.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
We would like look through the thing to see she coming,
and like we would have.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Sex right there while you were looking right there.
Speaker 5 (26:57):
So one day, I don't know why, I just decided
to put my hands like when he was hitting it
from the back side with my hand like right here,
and then when he was hitting I.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Was like, oh my god, what the fuck?
Speaker 5 (27:08):
And that was the first time I ever came unlocked
the clitterist and I was like, wow.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, And this was in front of the little door door.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
My mom came like two minutes later, and we just
get it together.
Speaker 4 (27:22):
It's crazy. First time I came. I can't lie to you.
Speaker 6 (27:26):
It was much much later, like I was having sex
and thinking it was good because it's just the pressure of.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
Penetration can still be good. Even if it can it can.
Speaker 6 (27:35):
I just like being close to the person I was
having sex with, Like that's what I loved about sex.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
But the orgasm is the cherry on a Sunday.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
It is I said, what happened the first time?
Speaker 1 (27:43):
Had it like it was.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
The first the first first time. I can't recall. Okay,
I really wish I could remember. I don't remember.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
I feel like we have to animate your story.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Like the Malie.
Speaker 6 (27:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (27:59):
Yeah, it's like you're still coming down off your orgasm
and your mom walking in the door, and.
Speaker 4 (28:03):
It's like.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
The same thing.
Speaker 5 (28:07):
I think she started catching on because we were doing
the same thing. Everything always coming.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Out of the kitchen, everything picking out, and she just.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Go back to you turning guys out.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Okay, okay, so yeah she does that that.
Speaker 4 (28:26):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so you're not turning the guys
out anymore.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (28:29):
That's right after I let go of my homosexuality. I
decided to find God and now I'm in the committed
really manship amen, her Man, he's aper, he's a rapper.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Okay, does he do photography ourself?
Speaker 6 (28:42):
No?
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Talking about the last post.
Speaker 6 (28:44):
The last post was I tagged the photographer that took
the photo of us, but was actually I can't don't
no more.
Speaker 4 (28:51):
But okay, they're annoying.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Okay, we talked about that later. We'll talk about it later. Okay. No,
because she said your boyfriends a real big rapper. I
just thought I was always public.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
His name is Earl Sweatshirt. Oh okay, yeah, you know,
Earl's best rapper in the world.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Okay, I just and I just I just clicked on
the the photographer's thing and I didn't even.
Speaker 6 (29:13):
Really pay to Okay, he was a flog not taking
photos and he caught us a sweet moment.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
Yeah, I don't play by my nigga. He's the best
rapper in the world.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
The way, how did y'all even end up dating?
Speaker 7 (29:22):
Like?
Speaker 1 (29:22):
How long had it happened?
Speaker 6 (29:24):
There's been about I'm like a you know when mothers
have babies, they're like, it's fourteen months, ten months, nigga,
that isn't one and a half year old?
Speaker 4 (29:32):
Yeah, about fourteen months it was.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
A relationship is fourteen years young.
Speaker 6 (29:38):
It's a young relationship. I'm learning a lot I learned
in this relationship. Love is just about parking it and
working on something with that person, because, yeah, there's problems
every relationship, but we've decided.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
To do it with each other.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
And you were very and clearly you're very honest about
everything that you've done in your past to him, because
I can tell he'll hear it.
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like he knows.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
And he seemed like he would be like a fun
person to even have those conversations.
Speaker 6 (30:06):
I love my baby. He is the chillest, most heterosexual man.
Speaker 4 (30:11):
Like I'll be trying.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
He's like, no, no, there's all these stories are not about.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
I can't get in nothing.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Do you want to know, like things about his past
or do you feel like we don't even need to
discuss those things?
Speaker 6 (30:26):
He's been so forthcoming, Like I'm like, chill, I don't
want to know all that have some fucking couth, nigga, Like,
stop telling me about your past and who you've been with,
especially because sometimes there are girls that are in the
industry that I.
Speaker 4 (30:38):
Like can't listen to no more.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
You know what I mean, my past?
Speaker 3 (30:46):
I heard about you?
Speaker 1 (30:47):
What about you, Chameleon? What about are you single? Are you?
Speaker 4 (30:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:52):
I'm single?
Speaker 1 (30:53):
No, are you Gallamel?
Speaker 3 (30:54):
But I'm dating. I'm dating a few niggas, but I
like a nigga.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
Okay, yeah, she ain't gonna say who said that.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
They all think it's them, don't care, but it's you.
You know, you African Nigerian, You're Nigerian.
Speaker 4 (31:13):
You're giving him a lot of airtime right now.
Speaker 6 (31:14):
He must be special, said who he was, Africa, his
nationality and everything.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
I can tell you into it because we had legs shaking.
Speaker 4 (31:24):
And that little tongue and we ain't need to have
sex ship what made him so special?
Speaker 5 (31:29):
Because it's like I don't know, like even in I'm
in the I'm in the industry, you know what I'm saying.
But I'm still like a real bitch, like even in
this ship, like I remain like just me. So if
I could be myself around you and I don't got
to try to scramble for ship to say, Like when
we're talking on the phone, they could be dead silent
if you could just sit there with me and just chill.
Speaker 3 (31:50):
I know you for me like that.
Speaker 5 (31:52):
Definitely, that's so crazy, And I don't try to figure
out what to say, like he a libra actually yeah, yeah,
you know. So we're gonna see where it goes these niggas.
Speaker 3 (32:03):
So we're gonna see did he.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
Know what you did when he first met you?
Speaker 3 (32:06):
Or he does, but it's like he don't get into it.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
But like even today, like when he saw like earlier
we did like the Tammer Hall Show and he's like, oh, ship,
like you're really doing. Even when I sent him billboards
of like us all over l A, he don't really
He sees it and he supports it, but he don't
really get into And I like a nigga like that
that's not fucking with me, you.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Know, because of because I met him. I may him
at Drake's Drake's hook Hookah Lounge.
Speaker 5 (32:31):
Okay, I can't say, oh yeah it don't got no address, Okay,
I could call up.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
Yeah, yeah, have.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
A double day.
Speaker 5 (32:44):
Yeah, but you you know, you know, if you know,
you know, Yeah, that's in LA.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
So that's so he was in the right place.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
So yeah, he was used to being around because you
want to kind of need that somebody who's like used
to ship.
Speaker 6 (32:59):
Yeah, I was lucky that my nigga taught me about shit.
Like we were in New York for the first time
and people were trying to pull on me to take
pictures and stuff for rap shit.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
Nobody knows my name. I'm just Shawna from rap shit.
Speaker 6 (33:10):
But I was freaking out and like this has been
happening to him since he was fourteen fifteen sixteen, Like
he's dealt with it so much that he's already he
just had all the guidance and stuff, so it didn't
overwhelm me too much. I still freak out, Like I
was in the hotel earlier and in the restaurant and
the girl like stood up at her table with her
family to wave at me and start to walk at me,
(33:32):
and I freaked out, like, bitch, I'm still a scary bitch,
Like you were coming happy, I'm like maybe gonna fight.
I don't know what's going on. And she just wanted
to say.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Hi, Yeah, what is sweet?
Speaker 3 (33:44):
Jerry's I like him for you?
Speaker 4 (33:48):
He's the one.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
He's the one. He's the one I love that.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
Did he give you that one? No?
Speaker 6 (33:53):
This is constantly did the whole she got the whole
web plan, seventeen.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
Boards, role play with him, like if he was like,
let's you know, let's I.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
Wish I had freaky beats for you, but I don't.
Speaker 9 (34:14):
It's really but I'm sure after all of the freaky
past that you had, this could be a little bit like.
Speaker 6 (34:19):
This is my this is my error. I'm cleaning it
up for real. This is like I'm here for partnering up,
settling down, like.
Speaker 9 (34:26):
Up settling down, that's big for her to say she
looks innocent, but she's like, you know, she's already surprised.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Relationship.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
Yeah, so, how did y'all like when you guys first
started working together?
Speaker 1 (34:44):
What was that magic like.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
Or not?
Speaker 4 (34:48):
Well, we instantly had sex. It was beautiful.
Speaker 6 (34:54):
I think my favorite thing about really everybody's like, y'all's
chemistry is crazy. When they watched the show, it's like,
it's it's really easy to get into Shauna and MIA's
relationship and friendship and believe it because either were the
best actors in the world.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
And this is like my spirit sister in a way.
Speaker 6 (35:10):
I and she's she brings out some stuff in me
that I don't get to, like, learned about femininity, learned
about confidence from her.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
I'm sure I taught her some things I let her.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
I think she's one of the most willy people I know.
She's so talented. Y'all see her using koof and all
these big words like put me on a lot of
is only four letters?
Speaker 5 (35:31):
Yeah, I know, but you know, but man, just even
on screen, like when we just freestyling and when we
just tripping, like you know, and Easa just lets us
go off the grid, and you know, just freestyling.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
So you guys need to go off script.
Speaker 6 (35:52):
A lot of the stuff they off the grid, especially
for the season. Yeah, a lot of jokes, a lot
of references. Everything is like because we play around.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
And they give us take stuff. It just like do
whatever you want to do.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
Her when y'all wasn't getting along to like those scenes,
it was.
Speaker 4 (36:09):
Fine, we just wasn't in scenes together.
Speaker 5 (36:11):
I remember you was like, I hate when well, I
hate were fighting scenes because you like that. But we
have to go there and we have to really you
know what I'm saying. It's just weird because it is
like even first season when when she was on stage
and she had that cringey moment and she's freestyling. I
(36:32):
remember her saying that she was learning these like she
was because a lot of times we learned our the
script or whatever we're saying, like right before we do it,
and we learned that show on the spot like real quick,
and she was learning the lyrics and I didn't think
nothing of it. So when she started saying and ship like,
my expressions are real genuine, because I'm like, what the fuck.
Speaker 4 (36:54):
Doing? You know?
Speaker 2 (36:55):
So there's also a scene this season where what's the
artist name that you are so excited florid ak Yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
Oh we're talking about season two.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, and he like raised the champagne and you know,
oh you know the disrespectful moment. Yeah, that was crazy
and so committed. I want to ask you, like, as
a woman in this business, you know, having been on
the road and performances and been around male rappers, have
you ever experienced anything like super disrespectful.
Speaker 5 (37:32):
I can know. I think niggas peap my energy, you know,
like I ain't know. I ain't no whole ship. You
know what I'm saying. I support the hose, but I'm
just I support the I don't hate on nobody, but
I'm saying I just I just don't be on the
whole ship.
Speaker 3 (37:48):
So I know, men like they peep certain type of energies.
Speaker 5 (37:51):
Now I am a certain type of female, where like
if I'm in the studio and I know how to
do something, niggas might feel some type of way because
I'm I know how to engineer my session, so they
might try to just stick out their chest a little bit,
you know, more than mine. But I ain't never really
experienced like that type of energy before. Right, That's good
that's good trying to fuck you know, they'll stay certain
(38:13):
shit like that slick shit, of course, like slick shit
like that, but not like that.
Speaker 2 (38:17):
And I feel like, you know, as women were also
taught to just like know that that's part of it.
Like they'll tell you just this is part of being
in the industry if you and I was told this
when I first started in radio, like you gotta have
tough skin. You can't be crying every time a guy
does this or says this or whatever.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
It's a big exec that, like music is that.
Speaker 5 (38:39):
I remember when I first got in this ship and
he invited me down to like the studio to listen
to this record. And I told my homegirl, I was like, bitch,
it's twelve o'clock am. Mother fuck is this nigga like
right now?
Speaker 3 (38:53):
And I was like, so, if you.
Speaker 5 (38:54):
Don't hear from me in an hour, yeah, And I
went down and trying yeah, And so he was like,
I guess cause I got like juicy lips or whatever.
And in the middle of him playing the record, the
nigga pulls out his dick. No in the middle of
the record, na't think.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
He was like, do what you do, bitch? What he like,
why would you even a storm?
Speaker 5 (39:17):
And that moment in my head, I mean I was,
I was flustered, and I was like if I if
I say the wrong thing, like will I be like
blackball or will he tell people? Because at this time
I was I was writing like for other artists and
she's still trying to get on like as an artist too.
And I ended up like walking out of the session.
(39:38):
I'm like, I'm good, you know what I'm saying. And
after that he had the utmost respect for me, Like
every time I wrote a song, this nigga paid.
Speaker 3 (39:44):
Me for everything.
Speaker 5 (39:45):
He was like, wy come man, and I was getting
paid by he was scary.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
But I want to and you know with you saying that,
because we see a lot of things that have been
happening in the industry and people are like, why didn't
this person speak up? Why didn't somebody say something at
the time, And it is sometimes hard at that time,
like to be like, this is the person he did this,
call it out, especially when somebody is like big in
the music business. Sometimes people don't believe you too.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
And then yeah, and you can get black belt, like
my shit. I come from the comedy world and I
don't know if y'all know anything about that, but it's
full of sad, bad men, Like.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
Yeah, you know, I know a lot of comedy I know,
so you.
Speaker 6 (40:22):
Know, their energy is like insecure narcissists. It's people that
they get a little bit of power sometimes and they
want to act creatit.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
And it's so hard for women in that business too.
Speaker 6 (40:30):
Yeah, I've been in situations where I've had to report
superiors and then I've been dropped from the show. I've
had situations where niggas doesn't send me cease and desist
because I'm talking about them and it's a defamation issue. Wow,
And all I'm doing is telling the truth about something
that a nigga did. And then you learn that shit
is not safe, so you stop talking and you're effectively silenced,
(40:50):
and then you can like go into yourself and you
have to reflower and learn everything again. And especially in comedy,
because it's like it's like music, it's shape underground. Everything
happens at night with liquor and drugs, and yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
I always feel like it's kind of very very parallel
world for women because it's a very male Both of
them are very male dominated spaces, and like you said
there's liquor. You're in these spaces where they have more
control and power, and then you say something and now
I can't even you know, people are not messing with
you exactly because something happened to you and you spoke
about it, and.
Speaker 4 (41:25):
Yeah, in the very essenation cycle, it's endless.
Speaker 6 (41:28):
The very essence of being a comedian or a rapper
is you have an ego, you have a bravado, Like
you have to be a sound nigga. To not take
advantage of the women around you. You have to be
a solid person, and especially if you start getting a
little bit of motion, it's really hard not to.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
So yeah, so I'm glad that both of y'all has
said that because I feel like everybody, like for women,
we've all had those experiences. And I don't fault anybody
because I know there's things I could have spoken about
at the time and things that who knows if you know,
it's just hard because it really putting yourself in a
position where everybody's going to be now judging you.
Speaker 5 (42:08):
You feel like your trauma is your trauma, like you know,
like when you get in an accident or like any
kind of auto accident, it's like you have a certain
amount of time to report what happened. I feel like
your trauma is your trauma that you can't tell me
whether I should have reported it right now or down
the line. Because my back that might not hurt right
now might not my back might be hurting a couple
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of months from now.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
And that's what I'm gonna say it.
Speaker 5 (42:32):
Or you know, some people they'll wait until they're able
to really have a leg to stand.
Speaker 3 (42:37):
On, depending on who they're talking about. Because if you
ain't got.
Speaker 5 (42:40):
No money, all, all of this is your word and
you might find yourself even worse by yourself. Yeah, so sometimes,
you know, it just depends on what the situation is.
But you can't put a timeline on. You can't tell
somebody when they're comfortable about you know.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
You might never say anything.
Speaker 6 (42:58):
You might it might take the grave, and especially when
the outcome is if you report a nigga, they might
be up more than ever than you.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
So you wait till you get up.
Speaker 5 (43:09):
Now people are more ready to hear what you got
to say or respect what you have to say.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
Yeah, you know, well look about popularity.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
No, this is good because I've seen so many different
people say things, but I think.
Speaker 4 (43:20):
This current climate, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:23):
And I also feel like, like with Cassie, her saying
what she said made a lot of other people feel
empowered to be able to say what they had to say.
But now it turns into a situation where like people
don't believe it because they're like, oh, well they saw
her get paid and then now they it's just so
many different.
Speaker 7 (43:39):
Things or people saying okay, so instead of assuming why
you didn't just press charges, and it's like pressing charges,
going through the trial, reliving.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
It, all of that, and then a powerful man.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Well I think for here it was because of the adults. Right,
So that's a yeah, because.
Speaker 7 (43:54):
I know a lot of people said that to me too,
and I was just like, well, I don't think she well, yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:58):
They don't take into a consideration.
Speaker 6 (44:00):
Even beyond adult survivors, actors like black women will be
scared to report niggas like you already in jail, You
already don't got this, you already got like all these
negative stereotypes on you an eyes, a black woman, I'm
about to bring you down to I'm to it, so
we will like hurt ourselves, right.
Speaker 3 (44:16):
Instead of hate you you're still bringing him down because.
Speaker 1 (44:21):
Like this was a slow death.
Speaker 7 (44:23):
Eat great, this is like a slow because there's so
many things coming after that, or a nigga.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
Would run off and rebrand as a spiritual guru.
Speaker 5 (44:34):
I just feel like that's why people super pain and
suffern Yes, that's what I like.
Speaker 3 (44:39):
Money's gonna make it better. Yes, yeah, I can go better.
Speaker 5 (44:43):
I can go to therapy, I can buy what I want,
I can live comfortably, I can you know, entertain myself
with it.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
But it still doesn't make it right. You know, you
still have those those scars on you.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
But do you feel like that has affected you like
permanently or is something that you were able to just
be like.
Speaker 5 (44:59):
I mean, yeah, affected me permanently. I'm still I mean,
I'm on this platform and triggered me to even say
anything about it, but I wouldn't. I wouldn't press no
charges because it just and he ain't violate me because
if you would have violated me, I'm the type of
he made. You don't have that, you know what I'm saying, Like,
we're not waiting.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Because people always also say what they would have did
if it.
Speaker 7 (45:21):
Was down shot?
Speaker 6 (45:28):
Right, you don't know how to reacty, what do what
you do?
Speaker 7 (45:33):
Like like I told you I was.
Speaker 4 (45:39):
Master manipulators. They might do the thing and then convince
you in my moment they didn't do no ship.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
And then also you might feel like did I make
him think that I do stuff?
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Like I came here.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
I even questioned myself midnight. He thinks I'm here at midnight?
Now I gave him this impression for him to feel
like he could do this.
Speaker 5 (45:56):
I watched the Maryland Monroe documentary and and like the
meet like a little movie about her life on Netflix,
and how she was saying that beauty is great, but
it's also like a double edged swore because it's just
because you're pretty, people feel like they can't disrespect you
or you know, it's.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
Just sometimes how men come off from you.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
You don't even be in that mode, but it's like
you got to entertain these advances and it's just crazy.
Speaker 3 (46:22):
So a lot of times, even just being a beautiful.
Speaker 4 (46:24):
Woman, it's the sense of entitlement that.
Speaker 5 (46:28):
Like because you look like this or because you wore this,
you deserve this, Like, nah, bitch, I like.
Speaker 3 (46:33):
To look good for me? What is shit for you?
My confidence?
Speaker 5 (46:40):
You know?
Speaker 4 (46:40):
I like and it don't matter what you're wearing.
Speaker 6 (46:43):
Like my first comedy job I ever got, I was
booked on the show. I think I can say it
was wilding Out. I was on wlding Out and we
were all living in the hotel, was at the Georgia
and Terrace in Atlanta. And one of the other castmates,
I'm young at this point. I'm twenty two. When I
get cast on the show, I don't know what the
hell is going on. I'm just trying to make it
through workshops every day. I'm trying to get jokes off,
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I'm trying to like rap, and it's just so much
is happening at once. And one of the other comedians
one night after we left, we was working on some
improv shit. He followed me to my to my room.
He was like, I'm gonna just go get some coffee.
I need coffee. It's three am. I need sugar. I'm
just gonna follow you. I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, sure,
I have so much coffee. Like I'm being a dumb
(47:25):
ass because I don't know that this is what men do.
Speaker 3 (47:28):
They coerse.
Speaker 6 (47:29):
There's a whole other level of this ship where they
trick you out some coachy.
Speaker 4 (47:33):
Like and you know, laughs exactly.
Speaker 6 (47:37):
So they're just it's very it's very evil, it's very malicious.
Speaker 4 (47:42):
They have all these different tools.
Speaker 3 (47:43):
But then when you speak on.
Speaker 4 (47:47):
Yeah, stupid in the room.
Speaker 1 (47:50):
So now she thought it was gonna have ncs.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
That's what I was thinking earlier.
Speaker 4 (47:56):
That overt that in your face, it's really crazy.
Speaker 2 (48:00):
Well, I'm glad we did have this conversation. I know
this ain't like a typical but it was important right
now and I'm a moment because this really is lip service.
Speaker 1 (48:09):
This show.
Speaker 2 (48:10):
The reason why I even did this show, to be honest, when.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
I fast show thank you.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
When I first started this, I was as serious and
you know it was a night time show, but I
did it because a lot of the women that were
like in videos and in magazines, people didn't get to
hear what their voices sounded like or see who they
were as people.
Speaker 1 (48:28):
And also I felt.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Like men didn't understand women because they didn't know what
our conversations were about, what we liked, what we didn't like.
And also I didn't want it to feel so taboo
for us to talk about sex. I felt like women
were going on all these men shows and mix shows
and stuff and being like asked questions, but not having
a conversation and being like respected the way that you
really have around your dialogue. And so that's really why
(48:52):
I started it, to be able to have conversations about
anything and to not make it seem like sex is
a bad thing, you know, to talk about, because I
feel like it's educatational for us to all talk about
things that we do, so people don't feel weird either,
like I like some weird ship. There no such thing
as weird ship anymore.
Speaker 7 (49:09):
You think there's things, I mean, crazy stuff, and so
many things are okay, and so many things that you
thought before were not And you were somebody squirt.
Speaker 1 (49:22):
All over the room.
Speaker 8 (49:23):
She was like, it's still on the run. Still, I
don't think she's squirted.
Speaker 2 (49:37):
Like we had a table in here, and we had
a man, you know, shout out to what was it
King Mark, I mean not King Sir marvelous, Yes, marless.
He brought her up here and he can make anybody square,
and he made her squirt.
Speaker 4 (49:50):
Yeah, he used toys in his hands. Yeah, you know,
And it wasn't like Africans right, it wasn't p right.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
No, I don't know what squord is the mixture. It's
it couldn't be pe because the way it shout out
it was milky.
Speaker 1 (50:03):
It was like she sprayed the room up.
Speaker 2 (50:05):
You know what I'm saying. We had to duck in
the corner.
Speaker 4 (50:09):
It he's don't ask me why it was. There's a
bookstore one of this moments, for sure, there's a book talent.
Speaker 6 (50:18):
Everybody just google it. K U n why a z a.
It's the like ancient Rwandan art of squirting. Oh she
love Africans.
Speaker 4 (50:28):
This is for you. This is for you.
Speaker 2 (50:30):
But when I do that, nigga two days, let me
do something. What if it's not good the first time.
Speaker 3 (50:41):
It's gonna be good about him?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
You make it good.
Speaker 3 (50:45):
It's not even about him. I'm gonna fuck his whole
world up.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Spelt it like because you know you got to do this.
Speaker 3 (50:51):
I've seen it.
Speaker 1 (50:52):
Okay, you already. It's gonna get black panther package. Please
report back to tweeted live, tweeted.
Speaker 2 (51:07):
Angela and back doing music by the way, s uv So,
can you talk to us about just it's a new
vibe you know for you and like you said, you're
just doing it because you felt like doing it at first,
you didn't even want to do music no more?
Speaker 1 (51:26):
So what plan with that movie?
Speaker 5 (51:27):
I mean, you know, I was just niggas flying me out,
you know, all different places that I wanted to go,
just taking trips, just like spending different type of currency
and then being in l.
Speaker 4 (51:38):
A yeah, get on currency.
Speaker 5 (51:45):
Money and then being in La like when you go
to like a lot of these red carpets and events.
I'm from the South, so it's like baby, if I
if I spend all one hundred thousand for a car,
I'm finna pull up with my car, you know. So
they're like, come in you please, don't drive, like get
a car service, you know. So I was like going
to all of these events and I was like in
a lot of SuDS. I was in a lot of
(52:06):
black cars, you know what I'm saying. So I got
kind of spoiled.
Speaker 3 (52:08):
I'm like, okay, cool, Like I like this life.
Speaker 5 (52:10):
And then a nigga took me to like this, He
took me to this function and he was calling me
a black car. What the tesla kept coming up and
I was like, now I don't want that, you know
what I'm saying. He was like come on, like it's
a lot of traffic. I was like, I don't want that,
Like I want a black car, and you don't cancel
that ship three times. So in the song, I'm like,
don't give me no tesla, send me that black truck.
Guy the act up like, send me the black truck.
Speaker 1 (52:31):
I want a black real life.
Speaker 3 (52:33):
This is real life, you know.
Speaker 5 (52:34):
So that's where really sub came from. And then like
that's all I have, Like I have three cars.
Speaker 3 (52:39):
I had three. I just bought an X seven BMW
two people.
Speaker 1 (52:45):
You know about it.
Speaker 9 (52:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (52:47):
And then when I used to like just have carnal,
I'm like a bad like my grandma called me a
pack work because I like to take a lot of things.
That makes my life convenient, Like I gotta take the
whole thing. I like big persons, you know, so I
can stuff everything in it. And then in regular cars,
I just feel like I don't have enough room, you know,
when I need a big car. Yeah, So when I
got when I get in trucks and SUVs, I just
(53:09):
you know, I can store shit in there and it's
just more space the space.
Speaker 2 (53:13):
Yes, are you you're gonna put a whole album out?
Speaker 5 (53:15):
Or people like my team and stuff and people are
requesting it, but I don't know.
Speaker 3 (53:19):
But if you're definitely on some AfroB ship UK real
so we.
Speaker 1 (53:23):
Heard yeah and.
Speaker 3 (53:31):
UK song. I was like the UK with an accent,
you know, And that's where it came from.
Speaker 9 (53:37):
But I just love the inspiration here for the like,
I think that's the real life inspiration.
Speaker 4 (53:42):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 3 (53:43):
So yeah, that's where it came.
Speaker 2 (53:44):
You're not going to leave here and I don't get
nothing from you. I'm taking some inspiration.
Speaker 3 (53:49):
Yes, yes, my character Mia.
Speaker 5 (53:52):
Honestly, I feel like now in my life, I'm doing
it the right way. Like when women date like one
guy or two guys and we spend too much time
with a nigga, our feelings get like intertwined in and
we know we not together. But it's like I feel like,
even though I know you not, so when you say,
but we're not together, shut the fuck up, you know.
(54:12):
So now I'm in my feelings, you know. But it's
like Mia is dealing with three different niggas on the show.
I rap shit, and when we rap, I was like,
I'm gonna try that, and I like, I doubled it
a couple of times, you know. But I feel like
I have the best world now because it's there's a
balance because now I'm getting to options, I'm getting to
(54:32):
see who I like, who I don't.
Speaker 3 (54:37):
You got a htation, you got your htation hit my hotation.
Speaker 5 (54:41):
Yeah, So that's why I know, like me liking this
this nigga right here.
Speaker 2 (54:44):
Okay, Now, if you had a birthday party or you're
inviting everybody.
Speaker 3 (54:47):
Well I did have a birthday party and I invited.
Speaker 1 (54:49):
Oh I knew it, I.
Speaker 5 (54:52):
Know, but this African wasn't in the he went in
the rotation at the time. But I invited all of
them how niggas do. And I just watched all of them.
I was plugging on all love them dancing.
Speaker 6 (55:01):
You aging o chaos, that's crazy, and couldn't take it.
Speaker 3 (55:06):
He was like, man up and to go.
Speaker 6 (55:09):
I was waiting for bye. You are.
Speaker 3 (55:16):
So good. It was so stub because these niggas like
to see us come undone too.
Speaker 2 (55:23):
And then stays and then they all it's like a
waiting game to see.
Speaker 1 (55:26):
But they were actually.
Speaker 3 (55:28):
Like like competing.
Speaker 2 (55:30):
I love dance off.
Speaker 1 (55:34):
Ye and and two of.
Speaker 3 (55:36):
Them were friends.
Speaker 4 (55:38):
All right, is having a year?
Speaker 1 (55:40):
Let me find you players.
Speaker 3 (55:45):
But the thing is when you're dating all these niggas
just because I'm dating. I don't mean I'm fucking.
Speaker 5 (55:50):
I'm just spending their money and time enjoying your second
inspiration to write more ship and I started writing like scripts.
Speaker 3 (55:58):
And stuff as well. So it's it's inspired me to
just you.
Speaker 5 (56:01):
Know, just mean my life is a it's research, yeah,
research and development.
Speaker 4 (56:07):
Research.
Speaker 2 (56:10):
You know what about the all right, So clearly you're
not gonna do your script that you were doing before
because of Yeah, so now now what yeah, like, because
I know you got some other things you're working on.
Speaker 4 (56:23):
Well, I recently went to Sweden.
Speaker 6 (56:25):
I have family in Sweden because like, yeah, exactly, my
little Swedish you dressed like a whole snow bunny too.
That's my Swedish sister. My family, they're all like refugees
from from Africa, so they've moved to different countries and stuff.
Speaker 4 (56:39):
Some of them are in Sweden.
Speaker 6 (56:40):
I want to go visit some of them recently, and
I made them make a movie with me, the little Babies.
Speaker 4 (56:45):
I just I'm like, I want to direct. I definitely
want a.
Speaker 1 (56:48):
Script right and stuff.
Speaker 6 (56:49):
So I did, like and I don't know what the
child labor laws are in Sweden, so I just was like,
y'all making a movie for twelve hours with me?
Speaker 4 (56:55):
Okay, it's family. Yeah, they don't have a choice and
they love me.
Speaker 6 (57:00):
I'm on TV, so we made a little movie, and
I'm feeling like a filmmaker right now.
Speaker 4 (57:06):
I'm investigating over there.
Speaker 6 (57:07):
I'm just studying and like learning film structure because I've
been writing TV for maybe six years now, but the
way it's broken down and films is very different. So
I'm watching a lot of movies and studying and trying
to develop, like understanding films.
Speaker 4 (57:23):
I really like films because.
Speaker 6 (57:24):
I like like a little snippet of story you used
to beginning to the end, and you.
Speaker 4 (57:29):
See the whole thing together.
Speaker 9 (57:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (57:31):
TV is great because you can develop these characters, like
where's Mia gonna go?
Speaker 4 (57:34):
Where Seana gonna go?
Speaker 6 (57:35):
But I like knowing where my characters is gonna go.
So I'm working on becoming a filmmaker.
Speaker 4 (57:41):
All right.
Speaker 1 (57:41):
I love this.
Speaker 2 (57:42):
But it feels like y'all gonna be linked up forever.
Speaker 3 (57:45):
Yeah, we definitely are.
Speaker 6 (57:46):
Yeah, I'm developing a project for someone else. I'm working
on the picture deck in Millie's face is like right there,
Like his character is like a chameleon, and I just
see the end of the day.
Speaker 5 (57:54):
I'm like, I told her that I was working, I'm
working on this Christmas film that we're we're about to
start production for it, and I'm like, I would love
for you to either write on my project because she
has dark humor and I'm a dark humorous stitch and
we just get each other, you know, So we love
her writing. So yeah, we locked in, So why not
(58:15):
switching up?
Speaker 2 (58:16):
Okay, I like that, But I love this whole discussion
that we had today. So I just want to thank
y'all for coming through and send it with us. I
know we were here for rap shit, but it was
really about y'all as individuals and human beings, and I
do appreciate the open conversation that we were able to.
Speaker 5 (58:32):
I want to say, I want to give you your
flowers legendary, you know, and you represent for the females
and hip hop just being up there with a whole
bunch of men and being out numbered, and I want
to thank you for your contribution.
Speaker 3 (58:45):
And like I said, I've been trying to get on
the show for.
Speaker 2 (58:46):
Me because there's a little way when it had you
on's Okay, it was not.
Speaker 1 (58:52):
Even off.
Speaker 4 (58:57):
The rhyme.
Speaker 5 (58:59):
They will be talking about you why when we're all gone,
like you'll be a part of like history. And I
just want to thank you for your contribution.
Speaker 4 (59:06):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (59:08):
They did bring me up in rap shit.
Speaker 2 (59:10):
Yeah you go a little breakfast club. Well, thank you
so much again, it is a service. We had a
time y'all.
Speaker 1 (59:23):
Make sure you guys watch rap. She it Okay, I
said you
What's at everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It is life Angela Yee, I'm g G maguire.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
I'm Laura Ramara, I'm comedian.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Listen, and I'm so happy that we can talk about
rap shit okay, because the strike is over, so it's
back to business.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
How y'all feeling praise?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
I'm happy to be back to work, okay that you
know the strike is over, because I might have got
in trouble because I was gonna.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I'm not even said going.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
You have so much going by an okay, you know,
because I saw you had posted about like getting back
to the music too, because you have been filming and
all of that. But so I feel like you probably
would have just put out like a double album or something.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
You know what.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
I really wanted to been on music no more, like
I honestly like actually partisan font saying was one of
the reasons why I started recording again. He's actually on
rap shit. And he came in the trailer and was like, yeah,
used to said you don't do music. Well I was like,
I don't, like I'm an actor, and he was like,
you know, this is the time where you need to
be dropping music. You need to sell anything you can
(01:07):
sell and I was. He was like, and it's going
to make the show, like you know, it's anything to
draw attention to the show. I was like, well in
that case, but I just have fun with this shit now,
Like you know, my life don't depend my survival, don't
depend on it, you know.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
So you know, but is it different because you know
they always act like as an artist when you're real
hungry for it, it's a different feel when you go way, a.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Different feel when I feel like like, even when I
had the songs work for me, I feel like I
was I was at the bottom, and like you got
to rise when you're at the bottom, but when you
come up, you still got to find a way to
relate to people, and still, you know, relate to your fans.
So it's like I feel like when you're having fun
and you're not focusing on them hits and you just
live in life and experience and shit, I can't talk
(01:47):
about the same things I used to talk about because
I ain't.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Doing this shit, mom, you know what I'm saying. But like,
I just feel like the music is better.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
And it's gonna be a more success story for me
because I'm having fun.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I don't give a fuck yeah, that's how much it
really happened for you.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
And listen, as you're a writer comedian, have you ever
wanted to be a rapper or.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Oh for sure?
Speaker 6 (02:08):
Okay, that's the whole reason why I even could write
Shawna and had an interest in writing Shauna.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
Like.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
The first script I ever wrote was called Boutang Mafia,
and it was just my excuse to make a group
like two rappers and I want to do you know,
the Gorillas. Yes, so I wanted to do that with
girls in a rap group. And I was going to
be both of the girls. I was going to do
like my little, my little, like lesbian, like aggressive one
and then my sweet one. And I have these two
different voices I was doing and I was developing it,
(02:35):
and like at the email, he's he's doing a show
about two girls in a rap group. So I closed
that script and I have not opened this.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
You were like, but.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
That's great mind, And I said, bro, if.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
I can't, if I can't beat them, my better joint.
Speaker 7 (02:55):
You ever let us to know that you was actually
working on Oh yeah, I did.
Speaker 6 (03:00):
And I studied in the interview, like my staffing interview
to get to become a screenwriter, and she was like,
please still make your show And I was like, so
what do I look like?
Speaker 7 (03:07):
Like, don't say do you want to partner up on this?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Exactly? Exactly? So yeah, well I want to.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
So the new season, Jess, so we could talk about
that a little bit because there's some things on there.
But you guys are on your first ever tour, right yeah,
and so possibly no pay all right, so now let's
let's discuss money and opportunity and how do you know
when is it a time to worry about money and
when you don't write? Because there are times when you're
(03:39):
you guys on the show are first kind of getting started.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
You got a good following in Miami.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
But to go on the road and do things and
like get a bigger audience and open for White Girls.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
The Biggest Night from My.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Heart, it's a whole different feel. But in real life,
what are your thoughts about that? Like going and and
doing something? You're an artist chameleon, Like, what do you
think about that in real life?
Speaker 5 (04:05):
I was a starving as artist for a long time
and I feel like my big break is because I
sacrificed so much, Like you know, it's kind of like
whatever you want your success to be, that's what you
got to be able to sacrifice. You're gonna sacrifice something,
and shit, whether it's your body, your time, you know,
(04:25):
your sexuality, whatever your sacrifice is.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
And I sacrificed my.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Time and just not having no money to do shit,
I was volunteering. I just wanted to be in the presence.
I just wanted to be there because I know one
day it was gonna be a bigger payoff. So anything
you want in life, like you're gonna have to sacrifice something.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
You know, Man made.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Like a lot of sad sexuality, But I wasn't doing that.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
I always said, I didn't get it on my feet,
not my back, because it's gonna have It's gonna happen
for me regardless whether you fuck with me, whether you
fute me, whether you fool me.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
I'm gonna get there. But it's just what route I'm taking.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
And when I get there, can I still keep my
stick my chest out And when I walk past, niggas
can't talk about me, and I always it's like I'm
a lady, but I feel like a real nigga A
lot of times, like I never had to fun with
the nigga to get where I am. You know that's
good and now with some real niggas.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Are you from Jacksonville?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
You know what I love when I go there? A
couple of times. I've been to Amelia Island. Did you
come to Amelia Island when you got yes at the
Rich Carlson. Yes, we had a time over there.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Hell yeah. But you get a lot of love in Jacksonville.
I love you now. I got seen you like I
first met you down there.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Because I hosted in Jacksonville. Yea, I like it there.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
And where are you from?
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Ida?
Speaker 6 (05:42):
I'm from Lincoln, Nebraska, Ethiopia.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
I gotta do the East Africa play.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
But I was born in DC and raised in Nebraska,
which is man.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
You gotta meet Jasmine Brand She's down She's from Omaha
and she lives in DC.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I would always drive up to Omaha to do my
comedy shows because was a very small comedy circuit in Lincoln.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
It was like nothing was happening but me Omaha, like
your hour Minson drive an hour back. If it was
some kind of guys.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Did you date? What kind of guys that have been
in Lincoln?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
Well, I definitely had to create a no pink dick
policy about halfway into college.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
That ship was fucking me up. But yes, you know,
I said you dated a lot of white guys. Girl,
who else was around?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
I was like, okay, I know what's there.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
It's unfortunate. It's unfortunate. I think I dated.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
I've dated one or two white guys, and you know,
I can't say I had a blast.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I didn't. I did not have a good time at all.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
But then college started and out of all the fine
boys came out from Mississippi to play football and all
the crazy like everything, everything changed Alabama, all of it.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
He was coming from.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
It's way that is way different. I know you've been
with a white god and Lord, you never have, right.
Speaker 7 (07:02):
I've never have, and I have even liked it, Like
I'm not attracted to I can look at him and
be like, wow, he's fine.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
What is his least?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
He's super cute.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
I've always thought Brad Pitt was, but I never thought going.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
To think like, oh I would him.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
It was like, oh, he's so handsome.
Speaker 7 (07:25):
But intimately, I don't think and I'm not gonna say
what I would never do.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
That's what you.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Did a white guy I want to say day, but yeah,
it's Swedish.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Is that white? That's the one that's that's like.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
I had a little twirl.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Twirl and then I got kind of I got my
findings because he was like, man, that's just have fun.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
I'm like, bitch, now I'm catching finis.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
I ain't never thought I was catch I'm like, okay,
y'all just like the like it's the same thing.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Men I'm in.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
But live in la now, Like I'm open right, Like
I'm just I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
People are people.
Speaker 8 (08:11):
Man.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
That's interesting.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
If you were dating a guy, you were really into him,
and he said to you, let's just have fun, would
you still continue to talk to him knowing that he's
messing with other girls, knowing that he just went to
and he was honest.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
And you know what it was.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
It was when he was hitting it from the back
and he slapped me on my ass and I was like,
it made me think of slavery.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
And I was like why, I don't know why it
made me think about that.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
And when that happened, I was like, oh, like I actually.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Have one situation I remember now from this story. When
I was in college, I was hooking up with this
white dude, and uh maybe about halfway in he literally
said the words, damn, I have never been with no
black girl before.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Like mid stroke, did you turn to God? I swear
to God a whole right?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Did you drive right up at that moment?
Speaker 9 (09:06):
She has insane You don't say, don't you wish?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Say I wish I want to see refunded from.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Enough to take your wig off and everything.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
I was like, like, that's nineteen twenty.
Speaker 9 (09:22):
Just being yeah, that's something that he should have kept
this out his mind or said that one of his
friends afterwards.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Yeah, but it's so fine white guys out here, it is.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
Yeah, I'm trying to think some current actors they just
can't smack you in ass.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Right, let's say certain things.
Speaker 7 (09:35):
They gonna be very sweet words I want, like right
now my life like like Africans is just okay, come on,
come on coo, Okay.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
I'm no culture.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
You would either.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
Yeah, I haven't had experience.
Speaker 9 (09:52):
Actually the rule I want to Nigerians, which I love
because they have so much coach, like so nice.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
I've been.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I'm not dating no Nigerian man.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Somebody, did you?
Speaker 6 (10:04):
Yeah, dated a boy in college he was Nigerian super Christian.
He wouldn't like let me talk for that long.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
Nigerian Niggas is just different.
Speaker 7 (10:12):
There's a lot of Nagerians, okay, is he like he
was raised here or there?
Speaker 3 (10:18):
They all I said, they all look.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Just joking all of there like a Nigerian American like No,
But I like the ones from the mother Man, right,
you know, the one that got culture that could that
could show me something I want to when I do
get married, like I want to do all of the things.
You got to be submissive with them because they like
to be in control a.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Lot, not mine.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
To let somebody be in control the times if you
trust them, if you trust them.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
But I mean, I feel like submission is like you could.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
It's a different definition for for me, Like I'm gonna
submit to a man that makes me feel comfortable and
you're taking care of it, but I'm still gonna tell
you how I feel.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
I'm not right.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Exactly, because there's gonna be times when you really are
going to be like, look, do this, do that, and
he's gonna listen. And then there's gonna be times when
he can tell you that and you're gonna listen. Because
there's no relationship I think that can work where you
always are the person that's down to right, because I
think guys like that too, like you have to challenge
on things and be your own individual. That's the best
(11:25):
when two people are really strong individually and they can
come together, that's the best experience.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
In fact, effect of communication, I think it's their partnership.
Speaker 6 (11:32):
Yeah, for real, Like women at first, I feel like
they don't share any of their needs or their wants,
or their desires and boundaries. And then suddenly halfway into
the relationship, she's like a whole new person because she
realized she didn't tell him how she felt by anything.
And I think of like, as women, we got to
watch out for that and just come in like demanding
I can't do it.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Later, this woman she is married and she loves ain't
no sex, but she has never told her husband, and
now she feels actually can't tell him because he's going
to be like, why when did you start liking this girl?
Speaker 4 (12:05):
Just grabbing him forever?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Because I also feel like now I can't do anything.
But I also feel like an is the type of
thing where if you've done it, it probably is a
lot more gliding than if you've never done in a
long time.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
It's probably tightened back up.
Speaker 7 (12:21):
Tried it and I almost cried, and I was like, no,
just stop to stop.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
I don't got space for it. It's like the needle.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Even I was like, you know what.
Speaker 7 (12:35):
And we spoke about it the next day. He was like, yo,
everything was so great. And then when I tried that,
you was like.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Bro I was.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
He was like, yo, you sober up real quick.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
No, because you got to do that.
Speaker 9 (12:47):
Yeah, it's a special moment, especially in the beginning piercing.
Once you get past it's really good.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Though I can't.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
Yeah, I was the only one NI want my mere.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Before huh able to up your nose?
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I would never.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
Smurfs and elves realized, bitches take up that's a lot.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
You got pretty small nostrils. I'm confusing. I'm just saying
they open up the booty holes. Is is small to
my house.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
They stretch your nose not stretched enough for no peanut.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Stop it and then how you sniffed?
Speaker 4 (13:36):
If the web.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Market listen, I don't play around with certain things like
I also, and I know this is very sexy for
some people, spit. I don't play with like people spitting
in my mouth, or like.
Speaker 5 (13:55):
I'm here for the spit in my mouth, like.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
Yeah, you speak never.
Speaker 7 (14:04):
Clean, like this guy don't clear about his health about now.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I'll be like, damn, do that one time again that price.
Speaker 6 (14:11):
Juice spit, yeah, because if they don't, that's a Nickelodeon slime.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Never ever. You know, the first time he did it, I.
Speaker 7 (14:18):
Was like and I was like, oh, this is not
so forward to it.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
Wow in my mouth.
Speaker 6 (14:29):
I don't mind spit on my body, my mouth, don't
spit in my mouth.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
I like it. No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
That just doesn't seem like, I don't know, appealing to me.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I know people love it though me like in the moment,
I love it in the in the moment, it's like.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Go ahead, it's just something.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
It got to be my person though.
Speaker 7 (14:48):
Of course, yeah this had just met like my first
but I can't see just anybody and again so healthy,
so clean, But you got.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
To be able to person that just allows you to
be in that space like just free, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
I don't know, man, niggas got grits.
Speaker 7 (15:06):
Niggas looked like that, I'm not kissing you, okay.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
He was like a pay that niggas.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
A while ago and we ended up being a relationship.
And when we started dating, I was just like, you
got to go to the genists. Like I had to
tell him, like, you gotta go to dinis. You can't
kiss me with that.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
First of all, your teeth gotta looked great.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Like I just went to the dentist last week too.
I was like, my uncle's my dentist, but he's about
to retire. And so my dad was like, go see
your uncle and get everything, like, because I had to.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Get a crown.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
So I been putting it off for like a year,
and so I finally went and did it. I was like,
let me just go because dental stuff is expensive.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Send me that information. Been waiting, hurry up and go.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, because we're not playing no games now let me
Since we were talking about that, you know, we have
four on here before from black in Chicago, and you
know he's very into like a lot of freaky things.
You know, he likes pet play, like he likes being
walked like a dog and stuff like that. And yeah,
but you're talking about this before y'all got here. Are
you okay with doing anything? A guy like he should
(16:16):
be comfortable enough to ask you to do anything. No
matter how weird it is right. He should be comfortable
to ask you. He should be comfortable to ast.
Speaker 9 (16:24):
But depending on my comfortability of accepting is if I'm
going to say yes or no. I mean, I pretty
much tried just about anything. But I'm sure there's some
boundaries that I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
But he should be able to ask you anything.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
I'm just like anyone anything on the street.
Speaker 6 (16:41):
Anyone.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
Feel I don't know.
Speaker 6 (16:47):
I think I'm scared of the like role play, extra
play stuff, the best act. I feel you, I feel you,
But I'm worried to bleed over into our real life.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
And I don't want you to like barking me at
breakfast or some ship.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
I don't want lean over way for your stand up
for writing.
Speaker 4 (17:05):
There's no wolf wolf breakfast everything.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
Make it funny, you like, I'm gonna write about this
because that's gold.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Yeah, so you're saying I should go home.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Said, let I got bat your breakfast, get on.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
But what is the craziest thing somebody has asked you
to do in the bedroom?
Speaker 4 (17:25):
Oh, it has to be in the bedroom.
Speaker 6 (17:28):
I have a nasty, freaky, dicky as story from when
I was like seventeen eighteen. I was working at a
diner and this.
Speaker 4 (17:36):
Old nigga came in and he sat down.
Speaker 6 (17:39):
First of all, he used to always ask for me
and be like, can I get the colored girl?
Speaker 4 (17:42):
And I was god, and this suck because he tipped crazy.
Speaker 6 (17:45):
So I was like, I'm here, you're here, And he
was like, okay, I'm gonna give you two hundred dollars.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
I'm gonna give me your shirt.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
I'm gonna come on your shirt and then you have
to you have to wear that for your next shift
when I come in the next morning.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Wait, how much?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Seventeen?
Speaker 6 (18:08):
But the legal age Nebraska is seventeen because it's kind
of the South, it's kind of it's just nasty.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
Did you wear no.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
Break so many?
Speaker 4 (18:21):
Serving food?
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Which is.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Shirt?
Speaker 4 (18:27):
You had?
Speaker 2 (18:28):
The boss even at that it's weird.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
So what did you say?
Speaker 4 (18:35):
What are you done with your Omelet went to the
back room. You're like, please, please leave me alone. I'm
a minor.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
What's the craziest thing somebody asked you to do?
Speaker 5 (18:48):
The craziest thing somebody ever asked me to do? I
think it was and it's probably not even crazy to
some people. But like a three soong Okay, yeah, I
ain't know that my life. Really, I never did it, Okay, Yeah,
I'm just I'm.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
I feel like any guy would ask you that, they'll
try it.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
Yeah, you guys will definitely try it.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Yeah, but you.
Speaker 6 (19:11):
Had th you said Dominicans it.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
Was something at the same time.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
Yeah, there was a time when I moved to Miami.
The first I was stating.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
They must have been from Alapada.
Speaker 6 (19:25):
They were from one was from Hilia and the other
one was actually a nigga from Washington Heights that have
moved to my.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
I would not girl and the guy. The girl and
a guy.
Speaker 5 (19:39):
Okay, you know it's different, like with two guys that's
still trade.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
One after another threesome. It's like all simultaneous.
Speaker 6 (19:52):
That one nigga, you one nigga, and then the other
nigga come in and another truth like true true.
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Yeah, the because nigga still called it a train.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
That's and that's that's that do that?
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yes, feel bad?
Speaker 2 (20:09):
I want to say always they was nice.
Speaker 6 (20:15):
It's like it's like getting to have sex but also
watching porn at the same time.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
It's the best of both worlds.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Really, I'm like, my friend does it.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
It's like that that's like her.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
She has like a monthly routine with these two guys
that she called all the time, and I've called her before.
She sent me pictures of a chacuzzie with a heart.
She's like, I'm with my I'm with my niggas. I'm
like you, it's the ship.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
I'm a germaphobe. So it's like when you take that out, Harry,
what you finna in me?
Speaker 4 (20:42):
Like change?
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (20:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:46):
And you could also like just get eating out or
something and not you know, eating out.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
I've done it with two men before too.
Speaker 6 (20:53):
There was a time in my life where I really
like to like turn niggas out like.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Your kids, Like I would love to like nigga though
with a.
Speaker 5 (21:08):
Yeah, I want to do that afterwards, we know because
I feel like, Okay, think about it. God put our
g spot in our coochies. Why would he put theirs
in their ass if it wasn't supposed to be massaged?
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Because you gotta.
Speaker 5 (21:21):
But it's like I feel like think that they're gay
because they can't have this open conversation with a woman,
but they try and ship with their homeboys, but they
really not gay the whole time. They just can't identify
with something that they both enjoy, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
And I like a lot of women put fingers in
men's like yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
Yeah, but sometimes they don't.
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Even if you haven't, they feel like he's gay because
you don't know who you're fin the go tell if
you're not his girl.
Speaker 9 (21:49):
I feel like when a woman does something with the man,
as far as ain't no play, it's not gay, like
you so gay is is homosexual? Homosexuals too, people of
the same sect of a guy don't having sexual activities.
Is so just because of a male allows his woman
to have any play with him, I don't think that
(22:09):
that's gay.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
I think that that's heterosexual sax.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
It's a sexual fluent. Now nobody cares who does what where?
Speaker 5 (22:17):
And I feel like petrating like a man penetrates some
woman like that to me when when a guy dig
a woman down, it's like, I don't know, it asserts
a certain type.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Of power thing and I feel like a.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
Man is getting poked to like you can do the
same to him, Like it's a certain type of submission
that you know.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
It is probably a powerful feeling to be like I'm
fucking you yeah, like.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
Yeah, it was good. It was good. I won't ask.
Speaker 9 (22:47):
Why that.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I won't know he is not already know he'd be
like you like it?
Speaker 9 (22:52):
No, certain guys, you know, certain guys know if he
won't like it, certain you just got to be like
not with these kind of themes like let's nineteen forty two.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
Yeah, actually the first, the first rapper ever wrote was
about that.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Most men.
Speaker 6 (23:12):
I show that ship to eat, so I think that's
how I got stopped on the show.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
She probably loved it.
Speaker 6 (23:16):
I mean she was in shock a little bit. The
first rapper ever wrote I don't know if I can wrap.
Before it was on the internet, it was about packing.
Oh bitch, that boy kind of thing. I said, he
got a booty? Do he handle that ship?
Speaker 8 (23:30):
Got it?
Speaker 3 (23:30):
Wait? I did?
Speaker 6 (23:32):
It goes it's further. It's like a whole thirty two
bars about Wow playing in a nigga booty hole.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
I'm going to go find this out.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
That's a hit.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
I don't want to play in a nigga booty hole.
I just want to make him feel good.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
I just want to I like since I just want
to make I like when like, even when a man comes,
I like to hear that, like, I want to hear.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
You right, you don't want to hear it.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
I want to make you vulnerable.
Speaker 5 (23:52):
I want to be the one, and I guess a
certain that certain me down.
Speaker 4 (23:56):
That's yeah.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Do you want to ask him man that though? Like
you gotta make him really dominate man.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
At times?
Speaker 2 (24:04):
I think it depends on Yeah, it depends on what
type of mood.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
What was the question? Actually started doing that up here?
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Remember I told j S that you gotta start initiating
and taking charges.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
Because I wasn't. I was just like the lady or girl,
this girl.
Speaker 6 (24:21):
Yeah you know, just it into Yeah you know it is.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Nig it's still there.
Speaker 4 (24:32):
You're not getting to it.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
No, I got you.
Speaker 5 (24:35):
Yeah, And they told me no, Yeah, I know this
girl she was like she used to walk on niggas
backs with like hells and ship and yeah that candles
that drop wax on them like and people used to
pay her like.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Yeah, yeah they pay you for men.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Men are really disgusting.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
They are like they they have imaginations when it came,
but I.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
Feel like they have to be really comfortable with you
and just trust you or not.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Yeah one the other.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Yeah, have y'all taken any man's virginity before I did.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I think when I was he came in, I was
taking just.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
Putting it in. Yeah, wait, hold up putting in his
ask no put it you're.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
I was like, wow, I don't know, I did.
Speaker 9 (25:29):
I think that's something that I have not done high
school and at this point in my life, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (25:34):
The senior Yeah, well, unless you you got to find the.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Right guys wild lie.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
When I was younger, you know, guys would lie about
being a virgin, like they would act like they weren't
they were.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
That's why.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
I think that I used to be one in that case.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Then yeah, you were like, oh.
Speaker 3 (25:54):
I've never done this before.
Speaker 4 (25:55):
I was most fun.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
Did they take extra care of you?
Speaker 6 (26:02):
Because yeah, I always had Yeah, every time I lost
my virginity.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
I she was.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Like thirty two, Like, yeah it right right.
Speaker 4 (26:17):
I was at the sea for young women. I found
I found God.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Do you remember the first time you you came or
had an orgasm?
Speaker 3 (26:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:25):
Maybe I was with the shower head maybe like twelve
or thirteen. Yeah, but like from sex.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
So I was on the.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Floto you still have.
Speaker 5 (26:34):
I used to Mama, I hope my mama watching this lord.
So you know how like at the bottom of a
door you have like people.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
Have like the little things that the pecs coming.
Speaker 5 (26:44):
We had like a little mail drop, And so when
my mama would leave and my boyfriend was at the
house at the time, like in high school.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
We would like look through the thing to see she coming,
and like we would have.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Sex right there while you were looking right there.
Speaker 5 (26:57):
So one day, I don't know why, I just decided
to put my hands like when he was hitting it
from the back side with my hand like right here,
and then when he was hitting I.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Was like, oh my god, what the fuck?
Speaker 5 (27:08):
And that was the first time I ever came unlocked
the clitterist and I was like, wow.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, And this was in front of the little door door.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
My mom came like two minutes later, and we just
get it together.
Speaker 4 (27:22):
It's crazy. First time I came. I can't lie to you.
Speaker 6 (27:26):
It was much much later, like I was having sex
and thinking it was good because it's just the pressure of.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
Penetration can still be good. Even if it can it can.
Speaker 6 (27:35):
I just like being close to the person I was
having sex with, Like that's what I loved about sex.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
But the orgasm is the cherry on a Sunday.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
It is I said, what happened the first time?
Speaker 1 (27:43):
Had it like it was.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
The first the first first time. I can't recall. Okay,
I really wish I could remember. I don't remember.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
I feel like we have to animate your story.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Like the Malie.
Speaker 6 (27:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (27:59):
Yeah, it's like you're still coming down off your orgasm
and your mom walking in the door, and.
Speaker 4 (28:03):
It's like.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
The same thing.
Speaker 5 (28:07):
I think she started catching on because we were doing
the same thing. Everything always coming.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Out of the kitchen, everything picking out, and she just.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Go back to you turning guys out.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Okay, okay, so yeah she does that that.
Speaker 4 (28:26):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so you're not turning the guys
out anymore.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (28:29):
That's right after I let go of my homosexuality. I
decided to find God and now I'm in the committed
really manship amen, her Man, he's aper, he's a rapper.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Okay, does he do photography ourself?
Speaker 6 (28:42):
No?
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Talking about the last post.
Speaker 6 (28:44):
The last post was I tagged the photographer that took
the photo of us, but was actually I can't don't
no more.
Speaker 4 (28:51):
But okay, they're annoying.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Okay, we talked about that later. We'll talk about it later. Okay. No,
because she said your boyfriends a real big rapper. I
just thought I was always public.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
His name is Earl Sweatshirt. Oh okay, yeah, you know,
Earl's best rapper in the world.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Okay, I just and I just I just clicked on
the the photographer's thing and I didn't even.
Speaker 6 (29:13):
Really pay to Okay, he was a flog not taking
photos and he caught us a sweet moment.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
Yeah, I don't play by my nigga. He's the best
rapper in the world.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
The way, how did y'all even end up dating?
Speaker 7 (29:22):
Like?
Speaker 1 (29:22):
How long had it happened?
Speaker 6 (29:24):
There's been about I'm like a you know when mothers
have babies, they're like, it's fourteen months, ten months, nigga,
that isn't one and a half year old?
Speaker 4 (29:32):
Yeah, about fourteen months it was.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
A relationship is fourteen years young.
Speaker 6 (29:38):
It's a young relationship. I'm learning a lot I learned
in this relationship. Love is just about parking it and
working on something with that person, because, yeah, there's problems
every relationship, but we've decided.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
To do it with each other.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
And you were very and clearly you're very honest about
everything that you've done in your past to him, because
I can tell he'll hear it.
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like he knows.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
And he seemed like he would be like a fun
person to even have those conversations.
Speaker 6 (30:06):
I love my baby. He is the chillest, most heterosexual man.
Speaker 4 (30:11):
Like I'll be trying.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
He's like, no, no, there's all these stories are not about.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
I can't get in nothing.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Do you want to know, like things about his past
or do you feel like we don't even need to
discuss those things?
Speaker 6 (30:26):
He's been so forthcoming, Like I'm like, chill, I don't
want to know all that have some fucking couth, nigga, Like,
stop telling me about your past and who you've been with,
especially because sometimes there are girls that are in the
industry that I.
Speaker 4 (30:38):
Like can't listen to no more.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
You know what I mean, my past?
Speaker 3 (30:46):
I heard about you?
Speaker 1 (30:47):
What about you, Chameleon? What about are you single? Are you?
Speaker 4 (30:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (30:52):
I'm single?
Speaker 1 (30:53):
No, are you Gallamel?
Speaker 3 (30:54):
But I'm dating. I'm dating a few niggas, but I
like a nigga.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
Okay, yeah, she ain't gonna say who said that.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
They all think it's them, don't care, but it's you.
You know, you African Nigerian, You're Nigerian.
Speaker 4 (31:13):
You're giving him a lot of airtime right now.
Speaker 6 (31:14):
He must be special, said who he was, Africa, his
nationality and everything.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
I can tell you into it because we had legs shaking.
Speaker 4 (31:24):
And that little tongue and we ain't need to have
sex ship what made him so special?
Speaker 5 (31:29):
Because it's like I don't know, like even in I'm
in the I'm in the industry, you know what I'm saying.
But I'm still like a real bitch, like even in
this ship, like I remain like just me. So if
I could be myself around you and I don't got
to try to scramble for ship to say, Like when
we're talking on the phone, they could be dead silent
if you could just sit there with me and just chill.
Speaker 3 (31:50):
I know you for me like that.
Speaker 5 (31:52):
Definitely, that's so crazy, And I don't try to figure
out what to say, like he a libra actually yeah, yeah,
you know. So we're gonna see where it goes these niggas.
Speaker 3 (32:03):
So we're gonna see did he.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
Know what you did when he first met you?
Speaker 3 (32:06):
Or he does, but it's like he don't get into it.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
But like even today, like when he saw like earlier
we did like the Tammer Hall Show and he's like, oh, ship,
like you're really doing. Even when I sent him billboards
of like us all over l A, he don't really
He sees it and he supports it, but he don't
really get into And I like a nigga like that
that's not fucking with me, you.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Know, because of because I met him. I may him
at Drake's Drake's hook Hookah Lounge.
Speaker 5 (32:31):
Okay, I can't say, oh yeah it don't got no address, Okay,
I could call up.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
Yeah, yeah, have.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
A double day.
Speaker 5 (32:44):
Yeah, but you you know, you know, if you know,
you know, Yeah, that's in LA.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
So that's so he was in the right place.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
So yeah, he was used to being around because you
want to kind of need that somebody who's like used
to ship.
Speaker 6 (32:59):
Yeah, I was lucky that my nigga taught me about shit.
Like we were in New York for the first time
and people were trying to pull on me to take
pictures and stuff for rap shit.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
Nobody knows my name. I'm just Shawna from rap shit.
Speaker 6 (33:10):
But I was freaking out and like this has been
happening to him since he was fourteen fifteen sixteen, Like
he's dealt with it so much that he's already he
just had all the guidance and stuff, so it didn't
overwhelm me too much. I still freak out, Like I
was in the hotel earlier and in the restaurant and
the girl like stood up at her table with her
family to wave at me and start to walk at me,
(33:32):
and I freaked out, like, bitch, I'm still a scary bitch,
Like you were coming happy, I'm like maybe gonna fight.
I don't know what's going on. And she just wanted
to say.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Hi, Yeah, what is sweet?
Speaker 3 (33:44):
Jerry's I like him for you?
Speaker 4 (33:48):
He's the one.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
He's the one. He's the one I love that.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
Did he give you that one? No?
Speaker 6 (33:53):
This is constantly did the whole she got the whole
web plan, seventeen.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
Boards, role play with him, like if he was like,
let's you know, let's I.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
Wish I had freaky beats for you, but I don't.
Speaker 9 (34:14):
It's really but I'm sure after all of the freaky
past that you had, this could be a little bit like.
Speaker 6 (34:19):
This is my this is my error. I'm cleaning it
up for real. This is like I'm here for partnering up,
settling down, like.
Speaker 9 (34:26):
Up settling down, that's big for her to say she
looks innocent, but she's like, you know, she's already surprised.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Relationship.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
Yeah, so, how did y'all like when you guys first
started working together?
Speaker 1 (34:44):
What was that magic like.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
Or not?
Speaker 4 (34:48):
Well, we instantly had sex. It was beautiful.
Speaker 6 (34:54):
I think my favorite thing about really everybody's like, y'all's
chemistry is crazy. When they watched the show, it's like,
it's it's really easy to get into Shauna and MIA's
relationship and friendship and believe it because either were the
best actors in the world.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
And this is like my spirit sister in a way.
Speaker 6 (35:10):
I and she's she brings out some stuff in me
that I don't get to, like, learned about femininity, learned
about confidence from her.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
I'm sure I taught her some things I let her.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
I think she's one of the most willy people I know.
She's so talented. Y'all see her using koof and all
these big words like put me on a lot of
is only four letters?
Speaker 5 (35:31):
Yeah, I know, but you know, but man, just even
on screen, like when we just freestyling and when we
just tripping, like you know, and Easa just lets us
go off the grid, and you know, just freestyling.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
So you guys need to go off script.
Speaker 6 (35:52):
A lot of the stuff they off the grid, especially
for the season. Yeah, a lot of jokes, a lot
of references. Everything is like because we play around.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
And they give us take stuff. It just like do
whatever you want to do.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
Her when y'all wasn't getting along to like those scenes,
it was.
Speaker 4 (36:09):
Fine, we just wasn't in scenes together.
Speaker 5 (36:11):
I remember you was like, I hate when well, I
hate were fighting scenes because you like that. But we
have to go there and we have to really you
know what I'm saying. It's just weird because it is
like even first season when when she was on stage
and she had that cringey moment and she's freestyling. I
(36:32):
remember her saying that she was learning these like she
was because a lot of times we learned our the
script or whatever we're saying, like right before we do it,
and we learned that show on the spot like real quick,
and she was learning the lyrics and I didn't think
nothing of it. So when she started saying and ship like,
my expressions are real genuine, because I'm like, what the fuck.
Speaker 4 (36:54):
Doing? You know?
Speaker 2 (36:55):
So there's also a scene this season where what's the
artist name that you are so excited florid ak Yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
Oh we're talking about season two.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, and he like raised the champagne and you know,
oh you know the disrespectful moment. Yeah, that was crazy
and so committed. I want to ask you, like, as
a woman in this business, you know, having been on
the road and performances and been around male rappers, have
you ever experienced anything like super disrespectful.
Speaker 5 (37:32):
I can know. I think niggas peap my energy, you know,
like I ain't know. I ain't no whole ship. You
know what I'm saying. I support the hose, but I'm
just I support the I don't hate on nobody, but
I'm saying I just I just don't be on the
whole ship.
Speaker 3 (37:48):
So I know, men like they peep certain type of energies.
Speaker 5 (37:51):
Now I am a certain type of female, where like
if I'm in the studio and I know how to
do something, niggas might feel some type of way because
I'm I know how to engineer my session, so they
might try to just stick out their chest a little bit,
you know, more than mine. But I ain't never really
experienced like that type of energy before. Right, That's good
that's good trying to fuck you know, they'll stay certain
(38:13):
shit like that slick shit, of course, like slick shit
like that, but not like that.
Speaker 2 (38:17):
And I feel like, you know, as women were also
taught to just like know that that's part of it.
Like they'll tell you just this is part of being
in the industry if you and I was told this
when I first started in radio, like you gotta have
tough skin. You can't be crying every time a guy
does this or says this or whatever.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
It's a big exec that, like music is that.
Speaker 5 (38:39):
I remember when I first got in this ship and
he invited me down to like the studio to listen
to this record. And I told my homegirl, I was like, bitch,
it's twelve o'clock am. Mother fuck is this nigga like
right now?
Speaker 3 (38:53):
And I was like, so, if you.
Speaker 5 (38:54):
Don't hear from me in an hour, yeah, And I
went down and trying yeah, And so he was like,
I guess cause I got like juicy lips or whatever.
And in the middle of him playing the record, the
nigga pulls out his dick. No in the middle of
the record, na't think.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
He was like, do what you do, bitch? What he like,
why would you even a storm?
Speaker 5 (39:17):
And that moment in my head, I mean I was,
I was flustered, and I was like if I if
I say the wrong thing, like will I be like
blackball or will he tell people? Because at this time
I was I was writing like for other artists and
she's still trying to get on like as an artist too.
And I ended up like walking out of the session.
(39:38):
I'm like, I'm good, you know what I'm saying. And
after that he had the utmost respect for me, Like
every time I wrote a song, this nigga paid.
Speaker 3 (39:44):
Me for everything.
Speaker 5 (39:45):
He was like, wy come man, and I was getting
paid by he was scary.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
But I want to and you know with you saying that,
because we see a lot of things that have been
happening in the industry and people are like, why didn't
this person speak up? Why didn't somebody say something at
the time, And it is sometimes hard at that time,
like to be like, this is the person he did this,
call it out, especially when somebody is like big in
the music business. Sometimes people don't believe you too.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
And then yeah, and you can get black belt, like
my shit. I come from the comedy world and I
don't know if y'all know anything about that, but it's
full of sad, bad men, Like.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
Yeah, you know, I know a lot of comedy I know,
so you.
Speaker 6 (40:22):
Know, their energy is like insecure narcissists. It's people that
they get a little bit of power sometimes and they
want to act creatit.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
And it's so hard for women in that business too.
Speaker 6 (40:30):
Yeah, I've been in situations where I've had to report
superiors and then I've been dropped from the show. I've
had situations where niggas doesn't send me cease and desist
because I'm talking about them and it's a defamation issue. Wow,
And all I'm doing is telling the truth about something
that a nigga did. And then you learn that shit
is not safe, so you stop talking and you're effectively silenced,
(40:50):
and then you can like go into yourself and you
have to reflower and learn everything again. And especially in comedy,
because it's like it's like music, it's shape underground. Everything
happens at night with liquor and drugs, and yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
I always feel like it's kind of very very parallel
world for women because it's a very male Both of
them are very male dominated spaces, and like you said
there's liquor. You're in these spaces where they have more
control and power, and then you say something and now
I can't even you know, people are not messing with
you exactly because something happened to you and you spoke
about it, and.
Speaker 4 (41:25):
Yeah, in the very essenation cycle, it's endless.
Speaker 6 (41:28):
The very essence of being a comedian or a rapper
is you have an ego, you have a bravado, Like
you have to be a sound nigga. To not take
advantage of the women around you. You have to be
a solid person, and especially if you start getting a
little bit of motion, it's really hard not to.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
So yeah, so I'm glad that both of y'all has
said that because I feel like everybody, like for women,
we've all had those experiences. And I don't fault anybody
because I know there's things I could have spoken about
at the time and things that who knows if you know,
it's just hard because it really putting yourself in a
position where everybody's going to be now judging you.
Speaker 5 (42:08):
You feel like your trauma is your trauma, like you know,
like when you get in an accident or like any
kind of auto accident, it's like you have a certain
amount of time to report what happened. I feel like
your trauma is your trauma that you can't tell me
whether I should have reported it right now or down
the line. Because my back that might not hurt right
now might not my back might be hurting a couple
(42:30):
of months from now.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
And that's what I'm gonna say it.
Speaker 5 (42:32):
Or you know, some people they'll wait until they're able
to really have a leg to stand.
Speaker 3 (42:37):
On, depending on who they're talking about. Because if you
ain't got.
Speaker 5 (42:40):
No money, all, all of this is your word and
you might find yourself even worse by yourself. Yeah, so sometimes,
you know, it just depends on what the situation is.
But you can't put a timeline on. You can't tell
somebody when they're comfortable about you know.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
You might never say anything.
Speaker 6 (42:58):
You might it might take the grave, and especially when
the outcome is if you report a nigga, they might
be up more than ever than you.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
So you wait till you get up.
Speaker 5 (43:09):
Now people are more ready to hear what you got
to say or respect what you have to say.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
Yeah, you know, well look about popularity.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
No, this is good because I've seen so many different
people say things, but I think.
Speaker 4 (43:20):
This current climate, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:23):
And I also feel like, like with Cassie, her saying
what she said made a lot of other people feel
empowered to be able to say what they had to say.
But now it turns into a situation where like people
don't believe it because they're like, oh, well they saw
her get paid and then now they it's just so
many different.
Speaker 7 (43:39):
Things or people saying okay, so instead of assuming why
you didn't just press charges, and it's like pressing charges,
going through the trial, reliving.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
It, all of that, and then a powerful man.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Well I think for here it was because of the adults. Right,
So that's a yeah, because.
Speaker 7 (43:54):
I know a lot of people said that to me too,
and I was just like, well, I don't think she well, yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:58):
They don't take into a consideration.
Speaker 6 (44:00):
Even beyond adult survivors, actors like black women will be
scared to report niggas like you already in jail, You
already don't got this, you already got like all these
negative stereotypes on you an eyes, a black woman, I'm
about to bring you down to I'm to it, so
we will like hurt ourselves, right.
Speaker 3 (44:16):
Instead of hate you you're still bringing him down because.
Speaker 1 (44:21):
Like this was a slow death.
Speaker 7 (44:23):
Eat great, this is like a slow because there's so
many things coming after that, or a nigga.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
Would run off and rebrand as a spiritual guru.
Speaker 5 (44:34):
I just feel like that's why people super pain and
suffern Yes, that's what I like.
Speaker 3 (44:39):
Money's gonna make it better. Yes, yeah, I can go better.
Speaker 5 (44:43):
I can go to therapy, I can buy what I want,
I can live comfortably, I can you know, entertain myself
with it.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
But it still doesn't make it right. You know, you
still have those those scars on you.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
But do you feel like that has affected you like
permanently or is something that you were able to just
be like.
Speaker 5 (44:59):
I mean, yeah, affected me permanently. I'm still I mean,
I'm on this platform and triggered me to even say
anything about it, but I wouldn't. I wouldn't press no
charges because it just and he ain't violate me because
if you would have violated me, I'm the type of
he made. You don't have that, you know what I'm saying, Like,
we're not waiting.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Because people always also say what they would have did
if it.
Speaker 7 (45:21):
Was down shot?
Speaker 6 (45:28):
Right, you don't know how to reacty, what do what
you do?
Speaker 7 (45:33):
Like like I told you I was.
Speaker 4 (45:39):
Master manipulators. They might do the thing and then convince
you in my moment they didn't do no ship.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
And then also you might feel like did I make
him think that I do stuff?
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Like I came here.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
I even questioned myself midnight. He thinks I'm here at midnight?
Now I gave him this impression for him to feel
like he could do this.
Speaker 5 (45:56):
I watched the Maryland Monroe documentary and and like the
meet like a little movie about her life on Netflix,
and how she was saying that beauty is great, but
it's also like a double edged swore because it's just
because you're pretty, people feel like they can't disrespect you
or you know, it's.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
Just sometimes how men come off from you.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
You don't even be in that mode, but it's like
you got to entertain these advances and it's just crazy.
Speaker 3 (46:22):
So a lot of times, even just being a beautiful.
Speaker 4 (46:24):
Woman, it's the sense of entitlement that.
Speaker 5 (46:28):
Like because you look like this or because you wore this,
you deserve this, Like, nah, bitch, I like.
Speaker 3 (46:33):
To look good for me? What is shit for you?
My confidence?
Speaker 5 (46:40):
You know?
Speaker 4 (46:40):
I like and it don't matter what you're wearing.
Speaker 6 (46:43):
Like my first comedy job I ever got, I was
booked on the show. I think I can say it
was wilding Out. I was on wlding Out and we
were all living in the hotel, was at the Georgia
and Terrace in Atlanta. And one of the other castmates,
I'm young at this point. I'm twenty two. When I
get cast on the show, I don't know what the
hell is going on. I'm just trying to make it
through workshops every day. I'm trying to get jokes off,
(47:04):
I'm trying to like rap, and it's just so much
is happening at once. And one of the other comedians
one night after we left, we was working on some
improv shit. He followed me to my to my room.
He was like, I'm gonna just go get some coffee.
I need coffee. It's three am. I need sugar. I'm
just gonna follow you. I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, sure,
I have so much coffee. Like I'm being a dumb
(47:25):
ass because I don't know that this is what men do.
Speaker 3 (47:28):
They coerse.
Speaker 6 (47:29):
There's a whole other level of this ship where they
trick you out some coachy.
Speaker 4 (47:33):
Like and you know, laughs exactly.
Speaker 6 (47:37):
So they're just it's very it's very evil, it's very malicious.
Speaker 4 (47:42):
They have all these different tools.
Speaker 3 (47:43):
But then when you speak on.
Speaker 4 (47:47):
Yeah, stupid in the room.
Speaker 1 (47:50):
So now she thought it was gonna have ncs.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
That's what I was thinking earlier.
Speaker 4 (47:56):
That overt that in your face, it's really crazy.
Speaker 2 (48:00):
Well, I'm glad we did have this conversation. I know
this ain't like a typical but it was important right
now and I'm a moment because this really is lip service.
Speaker 1 (48:09):
This show.
Speaker 2 (48:10):
The reason why I even did this show, to be honest, when.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
I fast show thank you.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
When I first started this, I was as serious and
you know it was a night time show, but I
did it because a lot of the women that were
like in videos and in magazines, people didn't get to
hear what their voices sounded like or see who they
were as people.
Speaker 1 (48:28):
And also I felt.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Like men didn't understand women because they didn't know what
our conversations were about, what we liked, what we didn't like.
And also I didn't want it to feel so taboo
for us to talk about sex. I felt like women
were going on all these men shows and mix shows
and stuff and being like asked questions, but not having
a conversation and being like respected the way that you
really have around your dialogue. And so that's really why
(48:52):
I started it, to be able to have conversations about
anything and to not make it seem like sex is
a bad thing, you know, to talk about, because I
feel like it's educatational for us to all talk about
things that we do, so people don't feel weird either,
like I like some weird ship. There no such thing
as weird ship anymore.
Speaker 7 (49:09):
You think there's things, I mean, crazy stuff, and so
many things are okay, and so many things that you
thought before were not And you were somebody squirt.
Speaker 1 (49:22):
All over the room.
Speaker 8 (49:23):
She was like, it's still on the run. Still, I
don't think she's squirted.
Speaker 2 (49:37):
Like we had a table in here, and we had
a man, you know, shout out to what was it
King Mark, I mean not King Sir marvelous, Yes, marless.
He brought her up here and he can make anybody square,
and he made her squirt.
Speaker 4 (49:50):
Yeah, he used toys in his hands. Yeah, you know,
And it wasn't like Africans right, it wasn't p right.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
No, I don't know what squord is the mixture. It's
it couldn't be pe because the way it shout out
it was milky.
Speaker 1 (50:03):
It was like she sprayed the room up.
Speaker 2 (50:05):
You know what I'm saying. We had to duck in
the corner.
Speaker 4 (50:09):
It he's don't ask me why it was. There's a
bookstore one of this moments, for sure, there's a book talent.
Speaker 6 (50:18):
Everybody just google it. K U n why a z a.
It's the like ancient Rwandan art of squirting. Oh she
love Africans.
Speaker 4 (50:28):
This is for you. This is for you.
Speaker 2 (50:30):
But when I do that, nigga two days, let me
do something. What if it's not good the first time.
Speaker 3 (50:41):
It's gonna be good about him?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
You make it good.
Speaker 3 (50:45):
It's not even about him. I'm gonna fuck his whole
world up.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Spelt it like because you know you got to do this.
Speaker 3 (50:51):
I've seen it.
Speaker 1 (50:52):
Okay, you already. It's gonna get black panther package. Please
report back to tweeted live, tweeted.
Speaker 2 (51:07):
Angela and back doing music by the way, s uv So,
can you talk to us about just it's a new
vibe you know for you and like you said, you're
just doing it because you felt like doing it at first,
you didn't even want to do music no more?
Speaker 1 (51:26):
So what plan with that movie?
Speaker 5 (51:27):
I mean, you know, I was just niggas flying me out,
you know, all different places that I wanted to go,
just taking trips, just like spending different type of currency
and then being in l.
Speaker 4 (51:38):
A yeah, get on currency.
Speaker 5 (51:45):
Money and then being in La like when you go
to like a lot of these red carpets and events.
I'm from the South, so it's like baby, if I
if I spend all one hundred thousand for a car,
I'm finna pull up with my car, you know. So
they're like, come in you please, don't drive, like get
a car service, you know. So I was like going
to all of these events and I was like in
a lot of SuDS. I was in a lot of
(52:06):
black cars, you know what I'm saying. So I got
kind of spoiled.
Speaker 3 (52:08):
I'm like, okay, cool, Like I like this life.
Speaker 5 (52:10):
And then a nigga took me to like this, He
took me to this function and he was calling me
a black car. What the tesla kept coming up and
I was like, now I don't want that, you know
what I'm saying. He was like come on, like it's
a lot of traffic. I was like, I don't want that,
Like I want a black car, and you don't cancel
that ship three times. So in the song, I'm like,
don't give me no tesla, send me that black truck.
Guy the act up like, send me the black truck.
Speaker 1 (52:31):
I want a black real life.
Speaker 3 (52:33):
This is real life, you know.
Speaker 5 (52:34):
So that's where really sub came from. And then like
that's all I have, Like I have three cars.
Speaker 3 (52:39):
I had three. I just bought an X seven BMW
two people.
Speaker 1 (52:45):
You know about it.
Speaker 9 (52:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (52:47):
And then when I used to like just have carnal,
I'm like a bad like my grandma called me a
pack work because I like to take a lot of things.
That makes my life convenient, Like I gotta take the
whole thing. I like big persons, you know, so I
can stuff everything in it. And then in regular cars,
I just feel like I don't have enough room, you know,
when I need a big car. Yeah, So when I
got when I get in trucks and SUVs, I just
(53:09):
you know, I can store shit in there and it's
just more space the space.
Speaker 2 (53:13):
Yes, are you you're gonna put a whole album out?
Speaker 5 (53:15):
Or people like my team and stuff and people are
requesting it, but I don't know.
Speaker 3 (53:19):
But if you're definitely on some AfroB ship UK real
so we.
Speaker 1 (53:23):
Heard yeah and.
Speaker 3 (53:31):
UK song. I was like the UK with an accent,
you know, And that's where it came from.
Speaker 9 (53:37):
But I just love the inspiration here for the like,
I think that's the real life inspiration.
Speaker 4 (53:42):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 3 (53:43):
So yeah, that's where it came.
Speaker 2 (53:44):
You're not going to leave here and I don't get
nothing from you. I'm taking some inspiration.
Speaker 3 (53:49):
Yes, yes, my character Mia.
Speaker 5 (53:52):
Honestly, I feel like now in my life, I'm doing
it the right way. Like when women date like one
guy or two guys and we spend too much time
with a nigga, our feelings get like intertwined in and
we know we not together. But it's like I feel like,
even though I know you not, so when you say,
but we're not together, shut the fuck up, you know.
(54:12):
So now I'm in my feelings, you know. But it's
like Mia is dealing with three different niggas on the show.
I rap shit, and when we rap, I was like,
I'm gonna try that, and I like, I doubled it
a couple of times, you know. But I feel like
I have the best world now because it's there's a
balance because now I'm getting to options, I'm getting to
(54:32):
see who I like, who I don't.
Speaker 3 (54:37):
You got a htation, you got your htation hit my hotation.
Speaker 5 (54:41):
Yeah, So that's why I know, like me liking this
this nigga right here.
Speaker 2 (54:44):
Okay, Now, if you had a birthday party or you're
inviting everybody.
Speaker 3 (54:47):
Well I did have a birthday party and I invited.
Speaker 1 (54:49):
Oh I knew it, I.
Speaker 5 (54:52):
Know, but this African wasn't in the he went in
the rotation at the time. But I invited all of
them how niggas do. And I just watched all of them.
I was plugging on all love them dancing.
Speaker 6 (55:01):
You aging o chaos, that's crazy, and couldn't take it.
Speaker 3 (55:06):
He was like, man up and to go.
Speaker 6 (55:09):
I was waiting for bye. You are.
Speaker 3 (55:16):
So good. It was so stub because these niggas like
to see us come undone too.
Speaker 2 (55:23):
And then stays and then they all it's like a
waiting game to see.
Speaker 1 (55:26):
But they were actually.
Speaker 3 (55:28):
Like like competing.
Speaker 2 (55:30):
I love dance off.
Speaker 1 (55:34):
Ye and and two of.
Speaker 3 (55:36):
Them were friends.
Speaker 4 (55:38):
All right, is having a year?
Speaker 1 (55:40):
Let me find you players.
Speaker 3 (55:45):
But the thing is when you're dating all these niggas
just because I'm dating. I don't mean I'm fucking.
Speaker 5 (55:50):
I'm just spending their money and time enjoying your second
inspiration to write more ship and I started writing like scripts.
Speaker 3 (55:58):
And stuff as well. So it's it's inspired me to
just you.
Speaker 5 (56:01):
Know, just mean my life is a it's research, yeah,
research and development.
Speaker 4 (56:07):
Research.
Speaker 2 (56:10):
You know what about the all right, So clearly you're
not gonna do your script that you were doing before
because of Yeah, so now now what yeah, like, because
I know you got some other things you're working on.
Speaker 4 (56:23):
Well, I recently went to Sweden.
Speaker 6 (56:25):
I have family in Sweden because like, yeah, exactly, my
little Swedish you dressed like a whole snow bunny too.
That's my Swedish sister. My family, they're all like refugees
from from Africa, so they've moved to different countries and stuff.
Speaker 4 (56:39):
Some of them are in Sweden.
Speaker 6 (56:40):
I want to go visit some of them recently, and
I made them make a movie with me, the little Babies.
Speaker 4 (56:45):
I just I'm like, I want to direct. I definitely
want a.
Speaker 1 (56:48):
Script right and stuff.
Speaker 6 (56:49):
So I did, like and I don't know what the
child labor laws are in Sweden, so I just was like,
y'all making a movie for twelve hours with me?
Speaker 4 (56:55):
Okay, it's family. Yeah, they don't have a choice and
they love me.
Speaker 6 (57:00):
I'm on TV, so we made a little movie, and
I'm feeling like a filmmaker right now.
Speaker 4 (57:06):
I'm investigating over there.
Speaker 6 (57:07):
I'm just studying and like learning film structure because I've
been writing TV for maybe six years now, but the
way it's broken down and films is very different. So
I'm watching a lot of movies and studying and trying
to develop, like understanding films.
Speaker 4 (57:23):
I really like films because.
Speaker 6 (57:24):
I like like a little snippet of story you used
to beginning to the end, and you.
Speaker 4 (57:29):
See the whole thing together.
Speaker 9 (57:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (57:31):
TV is great because you can develop these characters, like
where's Mia gonna go?
Speaker 4 (57:34):
Where Seana gonna go?
Speaker 6 (57:35):
But I like knowing where my characters is gonna go.
So I'm working on becoming a filmmaker.
Speaker 4 (57:41):
All right.
Speaker 1 (57:41):
I love this.
Speaker 2 (57:42):
But it feels like y'all gonna be linked up forever.
Speaker 3 (57:45):
Yeah, we definitely are.
Speaker 6 (57:46):
Yeah, I'm developing a project for someone else. I'm working
on the picture deck in Millie's face is like right there,
Like his character is like a chameleon, and I just
see the end of the day.
Speaker 5 (57:54):
I'm like, I told her that I was working, I'm
working on this Christmas film that we're we're about to
start production for it, and I'm like, I would love
for you to either write on my project because she
has dark humor and I'm a dark humorous stitch and
we just get each other, you know, So we love
her writing. So yeah, we locked in, So why not
(58:15):
switching up?
Speaker 2 (58:16):
Okay, I like that, But I love this whole discussion
that we had today. So I just want to thank
y'all for coming through and send it with us. I
know we were here for rap shit, but it was
really about y'all as individuals and human beings, and I
do appreciate the open conversation that we were able to.
Speaker 5 (58:32):
I want to say, I want to give you your
flowers legendary, you know, and you represent for the females
and hip hop just being up there with a whole
bunch of men and being out numbered, and I want
to thank you for your contribution.
Speaker 3 (58:45):
And like I said, I've been trying to get on
the show for.
Speaker 2 (58:46):
Me because there's a little way when it had you
on's Okay, it was not.
Speaker 1 (58:52):
Even off.
Speaker 4 (58:57):
The rhyme.
Speaker 5 (58:59):
They will be talking about you why when we're all gone,
like you'll be a part of like history. And I
just want to thank you for your contribution.
Speaker 4 (59:06):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (59:08):
They did bring me up in rap shit.
Speaker 2 (59:10):
Yeah you go a little breakfast club. Well, thank you
so much again, it is a service. We had a
time y'all.
Speaker 1 (59:23):
Make sure you guys watch rap. She it Okay, I
said you
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Angela Yee
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