BFF: Black, Fat, Femme
"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.
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This week your BFF's dive into a conversation about faith, spirituality, the easter bunny (we know we late) and yarmulkes. Grab you a cup of the blood of Christ before Joho drinks it all!
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This week, your BFF's talk Rupaul Drag Race Season 17, why drag is so important in this climate and who truly deserves to be in the top 4.
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This week, Joho flips the script on Doctor Jon Paul, and puts them in the hot seat to talk alllll about their book, "Black, Fat, Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself." Also, Joho has some words for furniture makers!
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This week your BFF's are joined by Marie-Adélina (Loveable Trans Auntie) to talk all things trans joy, visibility and why we need to uplift the trans community now more than ever. We also dabble into Jordan's Taco Bell obsession.
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This week your BFF's are joined by the queen Goddess Latrice M*tha F*ckin' Royale - A house fave contestant of Rupaul's Drag Race and We're Here fame - to talk he legacy in drag, what it was like to be asked to write a foreword on a book and why the book is so important and needed now.
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Originally released March 20, 2023.
This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven.
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This week your BFF's chat with Marcy Guevara-Prete about sizism, fat fashion and why The Plus Bus is so much more than just a boutique. We also get into a conversation about forgiveness and why we are gonna need to offer more grace to those in community, especially now.
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This week your BFF's link with the illustrious Bay Davis to talk being Black 365, why we need to redefine community (yes we go there) and why we are so thankful to be Black, fat, femmes.
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This week your BFF's share their thoughts about living in (not-so-always-sunny) SoCal and what things folks need to consider when they tell BFF's that they will be "fine" in this climate, considering all the things we are up against. We also revisit the topic of authenticity and talk openly about why we need to stop telling folks NOT to be scared.
This week your BFF's continue to celebrate Black History Month by talking to our favorite accomplice Jessica Marie Garcia about why, now more than ever - we have to work in solidarity to get free. We also talk about the true meaning of farm-to-table and why in 2025, we don't need another thinking piece.
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This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade & XD (Jade & XD/Gettin' Grown) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers.
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This week your BFF's dive a bit deeper into the DEI conversation, while touching on a much needed conversation around capitalism and asking the question, "Can capitalism ever be equitable?" We also get into why Bojangles (didn't) hit in Las Vegas and why people need to walk their dogs on a leash.
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This week, the BFFs are getting silly! We talking about some of our favorite historically Black phrases (see, what happened was...we got inspired by our good judys). Catch the phrases that move our spirit as we talk about how having McDonald's money has healed our inner children. Also, Joho rants about why One of Them Days is a must-see movie.
Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality.
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Happy 2025! This week we discuss the wild ride that is already 2025, forgiveness and how folks can navigate ideation (we have added a chapter for Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam so you can skip). In addition, we also discuss the SoCal fires and why we are done with Influencers.
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Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!
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Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas!
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Hey BFF's! Yes we've reached the final episode of the year. We asked you all to share your favorite moments and we mashed them all together to give you all the high's (and lows) that made you chuckle.
Black Fat Femme will return with new episodes Tuesday, January 14th, 2025.
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This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole.
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On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and Archie: The Podcast host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more.
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