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November 8, 2024 17 mins

One of our listeners tells us she had an “intense moment” on her date, but it was a GOOD intense. So good, she’s desperate to get a Second Date Update with us!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date updated.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
What's worse than getting ghosted? Should we have a term
for that?

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Get him deceased?

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Good, crypti, cryptid, black holed.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
I bet these are all terms already that we probably
shouldn't google.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
Maybe whatever you call it.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
That's what our listener, Nicole says, happened to her because
not only did her date block her, he's removed his
entire dating.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Profile from the apps. So Nicole got black hole bad.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
I think she just got blocked.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Actually, it really doesn't sound right now that I say
it out loud, but Nicole, either way, welcome.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
To the show.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
I mean you are very perky for someone who is devastated.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I am sorry. Why on earth would you want to
get a hold of someone that's blocked you?

Speaker 4 (00:49):
If I did anything wrong, I want to know about it.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Interesting, So let's start at the beginning. Tell us about
this guy that you met.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
Okay, So I met Elijah on a dating app, and
Elijah on his dating profile. It was very clear it
literally said here to find my wife with intentionality and.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Wow, okay, so he's not here to just have fun
and see what happens.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
He's like, right, he might already be married. I thought
Alexis was going to break out in hives you just
reading that description of something else.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
I feel like a lot of women would be turned
off by something that strong. But that was appealing to you, Nicole.

Speaker 4 (01:29):
Yeah, I'm looking for something serious. I want to build
a future with someone. So I found it really refreshing.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Okay, Okay, I mean most people are so vague.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
It's a lot of pressure going into a first date
like that.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
You know, so usually went to Vegas to get hitched
for your days.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
I mean I would be really pissed if we got
married on a first date and then never heard from
him again.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
It would Yeah, but what did you do?

Speaker 4 (02:00):
Okay? So we got together and we did something a
little different that was really really fun. Like, neither of
us have pets, but we both are animal lovers. Okay,
So we went to a local dogs parks and we
just shot and we chatted and we watched dogs.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
And did you bring your dog?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
She doesn't have one.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
You don't have a dog, That's.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
What I was gonna ask you.

Speaker 5 (02:21):
I have never done that.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
Can you just show up to a dog bark just
a normal park?

Speaker 3 (02:24):
Yeah, I've never even thought to do that because I
don't have a.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
Dog a bar where people bring their dog.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Like, why you're.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Banned from most public spaces, but that's not because of
the dogs.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
Okay, the women. Okay.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
Still, I think this is really cute because it does
sound like a date that a couple who's been married
for twenty years would do.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Instead of people watching your dog watching together. How was it?

Speaker 4 (02:48):
It was really fun? It was great, Like it was
so true. And then afterwards we drove around the city
and he found this like really cute area and we
pulled over and he kind of like point hit out
some things to me that I hadn't known and ended
up making out in his truck. Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yes, Okay.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
What was also interesting, which I actually really liked, is
like he stopped halfway through like the makeout session, and
he just like put his hands around my face in
a way that was really sweet, and he said, look,
I just want you to know that I'm looking for
my wife and I don't want this to be a
one night thing.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
WHOA you could not laugh with some subscribing such a
tender moment. No, you get so too comfortable. You have
such a hard time with emotions laughing at something else. Yeah,
two hands.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
No, that that was very sweet.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
I thought that was very a nice moment to stop
in makeout.

Speaker 5 (03:51):
Gold hands, grab both cheeks.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
Making a wife cart.

Speaker 4 (03:56):
I mean it was nice. I was like, oh my god,
maybe this is my teacher how spend day?

Speaker 1 (04:02):
That moment was special.

Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah, maybe you guys are perfect for each other.

Speaker 5 (04:06):
That matter.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
That's true. Everybody's in different spaces of dating.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
If she is ready for this, if this is what
you want, Nicoll, then we got your.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Back on it.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
But how messed up did you do that? You say
that to someone and then you block her?

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah? What happened after that? Did something left?

Speaker 4 (04:24):
He gave me this romantic kiss again, and he was like, look,
I'm looking for my forever and I hope it's you.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
I hope.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
I thought that the whole time it was you, And
that was the face grab and the stuff.

Speaker 5 (04:37):
Maybe too much, like, I really hope you it's you.

Speaker 3 (04:40):
I don't know. It sounds like he's now a host
of a reality ship.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, I don't find out when we come back from
the break and spin the giant wheel.

Speaker 6 (04:49):
Giant.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
I really hope it too.

Speaker 4 (04:52):
It does sound like that.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Not again, So okay, how long ago was that date?

Speaker 4 (05:00):
This was about a week and a half ago, and like,
I went home after my yoga craft and I said specifically, like, oh,
I want to see what he's up to, but I
don't want to message him. Let me go look on
his profile. And I went on the app and I
was like, what the hell, Like, why are we no
longer match? Where are all our messages?

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (05:24):
Well, is it in your mind that maybe somebody else
has stepped in and like he found I mean because
people are dating on like lots of people on these
apps all the time. Maybe he found somebody else.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Sounds like me if someone proposed to him, he'd say yes, yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
I said I love you to a lot of people
that I didn't mean it too, so he did.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
Well that's just me, I'm sure, yeah, I think.

Speaker 3 (05:45):
And Jeff laughed at himself through the whole thing. Uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
Let's figure out where Elijah's head is, ad why he
took down his dating profile.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
And it totally makes sense why you would want answers here.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
I looked up Instagram and I would blocked there, like
I literally can't see anything that's not good.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, well it's a bad sign.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
I hope we don't block you at the end of
this either we'll find out when we come back. Get
some answers in your second date update. Right after this
second Date update, Vegas has set the odds at nine
to one that this call ends in a marriage proposal.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
Wow, I'm really bad with odds.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
I'm honestly no, I never know should be well, I
don't really know.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
You know what, Jeff, I'm not gonna bet anymore.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
The fact that even Vegas is in on this should
be kind of shocking, because Nicole has asked us to
call a guy named Elijah who repeatedly told her that
he is not dating casually.

Speaker 3 (06:47):
He says it a lot is on his dating profile.
He says it in real life.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Yeah, very intentionally searching for his wife, and even stopped
mid makeout to grab her face and remind her this
Frenching isn't for fun, it is a life hunt.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
I'm setting a tone with this tongue so afterwards.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
The weird part is that I know afterwards he blocked
Nicole and deleted his entire dating profile.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
And for Nicole, it's like, I'm guessing, Nicole, maybe I'm wrong.
This is like the most romantic thing that's probably ever happened.
On a first date.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
Right, Yeah, I felt like a real connection. I thought
to myself, Oh my gosh, like this guy knows what
he wants and like I was so hopeful, and then
all of a sudden, it's like, how can I not
take this personally? Like, not only did he delete the
profile block me on all socials, I don't even know
if he's going to answer your number.

Speaker 5 (07:43):
Like, yeah, well, this is one of those dudes that
actions speak louder than words. They'll tell you everything you
want to hear, and then they won't follow through and
do it.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
I still feel like that, I hope it's you. Line
is just not sitting right with It feels almost like
there's a job opening and he's trying to fill a position.
Like he's not connecting with you, He's just trying to
make this next step. I don't know. Maybe I'm reading
too much of it.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
Maybe he found one of those Russian bride websites and
he realized how easy it is to do that.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
So I hope that's not the answer.

Speaker 6 (08:18):
But she.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
Let's call see if he picks up, and hopefully he
has some explanation. Here I'm donaling his number right now,
let's do it. Hello, Hey, is this Elijah. Yeah, this

(08:40):
is a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in
the Morning, and we are hoot and a half.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
Oh my god, we are.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
It's like just when we get popular.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
This is what's boosting the ratings. Elijah, you still there. Yeah,
we're going.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
But we're doing better until jeff started talking. But we're here.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
We're calling with a purpose. It's a segment that we're
doing called Second Date Update. That's where listeners can come
on our show and we try and help them reconnect
with a person they went on a date with that
they had a really nice time with.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Ah darn it.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
All right, dude, I am so interested in hearing.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
Story because we heard that you went out with a
woman named Nicole about a week ago.

Speaker 3 (09:33):
Right, Okay, yeah, I mean it sounds like a really
good date that you two had. Would you agree with that?

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (09:41):
I mean it was cool.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
It was cool, Okay.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
I positive, it is positive. I just didn't. You don't
seem like a casual guy. From what she explained, was.

Speaker 1 (09:51):
Intense than I assumed you'd be.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
She definitely intense is a good word, because she said
that you were putting it out there a lot that
you were only eating to find a wife for love.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
I don't know, he said, you, guys, love is a
wife dating.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
So we heard about that you're looking for a wife.
I mean, not anymore, no way, I found Wait does
that means there's another person?

Speaker 6 (10:23):
Well, here's the thing. After the date, I went to
a clairvoyant, and uh, I got news that my wife
isn't even in this realm.

Speaker 4 (10:33):
What? Okay, you want to hang.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Hold on?

Speaker 3 (10:38):
I just dropped my pick because I just can't.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Okay, hold on.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
The psychic said, your wife is not in this realm. Right,
It makes a lot of sense to me. I get
what you're saying, but maybe explain for everybody else.

Speaker 6 (10:55):
I believe that I've married other people in my past
live it's constantly the same person, maybe in a slightly
different form.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Okay, So this same person, your soulmate that's been with
you across all your lives.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
She's not that's who you're looking for.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
She's not here.

Speaker 6 (11:15):
Nah, why how do you know?

Speaker 4 (11:16):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Like, how do you know that the girl you went.

Speaker 5 (11:19):
On a day with isn't it?

Speaker 3 (11:20):
Clairvoyant told him.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
I know, But yeah, you're.

Speaker 5 (11:22):
Looking for is she?

Speaker 4 (11:23):
Say?

Speaker 3 (11:23):
It's me? Hi?

Speaker 6 (11:24):
Honey? Like from the.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
Seventeen that kind of the part of the past live
saying that you don't actually remember explain it to us.

Speaker 6 (11:32):
Yeah, thank you. My clare voyant said that I found
my soulmate in every single dimension, but not this one.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
She doesn't exist in this one.

Speaker 6 (11:40):
No, that she's not here, not here in this.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
Okay, it doesn't matter where she is. I think this
could be good news.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
Actually, yeah, because we have a real life woman who
feels like she had a strong connection.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
With you, and it sounds like you're freed up in
this realm, you know, like you're single and kind of permanently.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
In Nicole single. We're talking about Cole. Obviously, Nicole felt
that connection with you. Okay, what do you mean that's
a good thing?

Speaker 3 (12:06):
You told her again and again. I'm looking for my wife.
I hope it's you.

Speaker 1 (12:10):
Is this a sign?

Speaker 3 (12:11):
Is a sign?

Speaker 4 (12:12):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (12:13):
Yes it is.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Look, Nicole felt like you guys had a deep, deep connection,
and now you actually have a phone connection to her too,
because she's on the other line waiting.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
To talk to you. What I like, that's Nicole.

Speaker 6 (12:31):
I know she's on the phone, but my wife's dead.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Oh no, past life, I thought she wasn't in this realm, right, correct?
She never made it here.

Speaker 4 (12:40):
Oh okay, wait what yeah?

Speaker 3 (12:43):
Exactly, Nicole? So why did you We never even got
to why you blocked Nicole?

Speaker 1 (12:47):
You know what this is why? Because she's not his wife.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
Nobody's going to be his wife though, Are.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
We understanding that right?

Speaker 2 (12:53):
If you're not looking for your wife since she's not
in the realm, then then you're not interested in dating
at all.

Speaker 6 (12:59):
I guess things are better off unexplained. I don't have
all the answers.

Speaker 4 (13:04):
Oh, yeah, you're right, this is definitely unexplainable.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Well, I think the explanation makes sense.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
He was searching for his wife the whole time, but
not just anybody, a specific woman from another dimension.

Speaker 4 (13:17):
And you're not think this clairvoyant is really messing with you,
Like I feel like she is trying to kind of
be the only person who can like access supposedly what
your quote unquote truth is. And wow, I might not
be your celestial being from a different realm, but I

(13:37):
think you're going to miss out on some really great
girls in this realm if you don't give us a
real shot.

Speaker 3 (13:44):
That was good. That was so well spoken.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
What do you think about that, Elijah.

Speaker 6 (13:49):
All I heard was that she was talking about my clairvoyant.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
Who is this man?

Speaker 4 (13:56):
Your clairvoyant can meet me outside.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Let's put the wife and the clairvoyant stuff aside.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
What can we What about just having fun with Nicole,
going out on another date and enjoying this life.

Speaker 3 (14:11):
I mean, you've got a woman that has heard all
of this and still wants to hang out with you.

Speaker 4 (14:16):
I mean, I guess I do something wrong specifically for
you to block me.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
You weren't my wife.

Speaker 6 (14:22):
I don't know how many times I told you that.

Speaker 1 (14:25):
Okay, it's like, you know, maybe I was.

Speaker 4 (14:27):
Maybe the clairvoyant is wrong. I mean, I'm just saying
I don't like being rejected, and I also have to
say that, like, I think it's just really shortsighted. We
had a great time.

Speaker 6 (14:38):
Yeah, well, I know that my wife didn't talk that
much in another lifetime.

Speaker 3 (14:47):
It is purposely avoiding him now, dude, Yeah, the wife
wasn't born into this century.

Speaker 4 (14:53):
Is maybe my point in this lifetime to tell you
to be more accepting if you beat your ripe in
another realm Okay, So I.

Speaker 2 (15:04):
Know Nicole still is fighting for this, So Elijah, I
think she's fighting I get that you have doubts about Nicole.
What if you and Nicole went to your clairvoyant together
and we would pay for the uber ride?

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Oh my god, can we have a fight? Give it
a chance?

Speaker 3 (15:21):
Would Nicole even do that?

Speaker 4 (15:23):
Honestly, I'm just confused and curious as to what the
clairvoyant would tell me about my path.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
I don't I don't want to know.

Speaker 3 (15:30):
It's going to lead you down at dark trail.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
I want this to happen. So that's a yes from Nicole. Elijah,
it's up to you.

Speaker 6 (15:37):
My clairevoyant is in chief, so if she pays half,
then I'm cool with it.

Speaker 1 (15:42):
All right, Nicole, I'm sure you're down for that.

Speaker 4 (15:45):
I mean, hey, if it's on the radio, we can
even come back and tell you guys to go.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
I don't know if I want to know, we want
to know that that's going to be a no.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
From all.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
It sounds like it's a yes. Eliza and Nicole. You
eyes are going out together in this realm.

Speaker 3 (16:03):
I can't wait till we do a second date update
from the next realm.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
It's gonna be expensive.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
Phone Billberok Jeffrey in the morning. Is that literally the
only second date update where we actually got a yes,
but then said we don't need an update.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
We're good. Yeah, that is not.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
Remember Ever, I am still baffled by that entire conversation.
I don't know what was real, who believed what if
they were being sincere?

Speaker 1 (16:27):
Okay, well I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (16:28):
Girls asked for a commitment. This guy's committed over what
hundreds of years?

Speaker 3 (16:33):
Trouble valid point, valid point? Maybe you were his wife,
it'll pass life.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
Yeah, I'm waiting for you, honey. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
I do think maybe the missing piece in all of
this is is it possible Elijah had been smoking something
when we called him?

Speaker 5 (16:52):
You know, he sounded like that's his vibe, like he
didn't sound like a big mysterious person.

Speaker 2 (16:57):
He was trying to reach the other dimension true different means.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Find his wife, Yeah, trying to find his wife that way,
I don't see yet.

Speaker 3 (17:08):
I think Alexis was onto something where he actually probably
did have a wife, and she just chose not to
come back like that. That's not worth coming back again,
you know, I called.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
It after four hundredth marriage. It's enough for me.

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