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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update. We got an email from a listener
and I'll just read the subject line. It says, there's
a scamming coward on the dating apps and you need
to help me expose him. And his name is Scotty.
Don't I'm just kidding. It's an inside joke on the
(00:26):
show right now. So we're gonna put that aside with
the bottle of peach snaps and everything else that's waiting
up in his hotel room. Let's focus on our caller here,
because she did seem pretty heated in her email. Just
on the subject line alone, you could tell. Let's talk
to Lindsay. Lindsey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Hi already coming in hot just with that high. I
love it, Lindsay, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I did?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
And I want to call him. I want to call
him right.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Let's take a deep breath.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Yeah, we'll into him. Can we know what's this guy's name?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
His name is Alex and honestly, don't even call him
a guy. He's a boy. Wow, Like yeah, cowardly little.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Oh oh, what happened? Well, okay, Lindsay, we're on the radio.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, we got to watch the language just a little bit.
But I appreciate the passion that you have.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
What happened, Well.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
We got dinner and it was going great. I felt
like we were really connecting, having a good time. He
seems more into me than I was into him. And
towards the end of the meal he gets up to
go to the bathroom and never comes back.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Oh no, we have taught to people that have done
this or had it done to them.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah, that's really extreme.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
I've heard of this happening online. I never thought this
would happen to me, and it was humiliating. I felt
like an idiot.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Oh god, how long did you sit there? Did you
get the waiter to like go check on him or what?
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Okay, So after like fifteen twenty minutes, I was like,
maybe we can check the bathroom. Is he okay? I
actually got worried about him and he wasn't even there.
He was gone, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I hate to ask, but usually the people who do
this are enjoying the date. Do you think maybe you've.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Done this before saying you did something wrong?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
He usually did it have a really good reason.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I come, he isn't like you so much?
Speaker 4 (02:22):
He left right Like I said, he seemed more into
me than I was into him. He was so slurty
and funny and like, who does this? What kind of
garbage piece of craft? Human and leave their dates at
the end of the dates all by yourself.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah, I mean it's going you just.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
Don't call her.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
You have a lot of reason to be upset. But
I don't know that he is going to hear you
if we're coming in at that level, you know what
I mean, Like, what do you want out of this?
You want to call him out? And then what I.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Want to know what made him do that?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
So you want to know what's good that we're going
to talk and not you because it sounds like you're
just gonna yell. This is definitely different because most of
the people that reach out to us want another date
with the person that we're about to call. Lindsey, you
have no interest whatsoever.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
No, I want you to call him and then I'm
going to come on the phone and lean him out.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Okay, okay, I'm here for that. I don't know, like
what if he has a good reason, but.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
There isn't there There is no good reason a man
should ever do that to a woman.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
We have heard where people have had like bathroom emergencies
where they can't go back to the table.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
He could have texted her and said something to her like,
exactly have you reached out to him since then? Since
that happened.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Yes, I've texted him a lot. He had plenty of
opportunities to write me back and let me know if
something went wrong in the bathroom, which he didn't.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Well, I'm assuming you called him a bunch of like
mean names in the text message.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
I mean I started off nice and then he didn't answer,
so he didn't deserve anything nice. He didn't get that.
He does not get that.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
What's interesting. I mean, as soon as we tell this
guy who we're calling for, he's going to hang up
on us. Why because he knows, he knows how mad
she is. She's already been texting us.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Well, he won't know that she's on the line until
we surprise her with that.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I mean, maybe he wants to out her. Maybe this
is his chance, right if it's something he thinks she did,
not that I support.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
That women don't do things wrong in the dating world.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
So the only he's done this.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I bet he's done this to like a hundred women,
so he can't get away with it and he has
to defend himself or say something.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Oh you think he does this like all the time
he gets nothing to do.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I bet he does.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Okay, because he was acting so smooth and funny, flurry,
I can read these guys.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Like a book.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, So the only reason that you reached out to
us here is just because the idea of not knowing
why he left that night is probably just killing you
right now.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
And if he's going to humiliate me, I'm going to
humiliate him on the radio.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Okay. We're not just doing this for Lindsay today. We're
doing this for women everywhere who have gotten stood up
and walked out of in the middle of dinner.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Let's get him, ladies, Come on, I don't even know
if he's a scammer.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
We are gonna la'm merciless when we come back and
do the most brutal second Date, Part two we've ever done.
If you're a guy, I would not answer your phone
in the next five minute, well please answer so that
we can have something to eric. But we're gonna do
it right after this second date update. This is a
little tense because there's a woman listener of ours on
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the phone right now who is out for blood.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Yes she is, claws are.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Out because in her mind and I do kind of
agree with her here, there's no reason for a guy
to get up and leave a table at the end
of the date, sneak out of the restaurant and stick
her with the entire bill.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
And that's a day he ate his dinner. It's not
like he left in the middle and like sub emergency.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
But that's what's a point, Joe. That's what happened to Lindsay,
or I mean, at least I think she got stuck
with the bill. What happened with the bill, Lindsay? Did
you pay it?
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, so that's another thing. He left me to cover
the bill. The waiter saw me sitting there for a
half hour and sawhow up said he was, and he
generously covered my bill, which was so nice.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Told the manager to take it off the bill.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
You didn't have to pay, Yeah, I didn't have to pay.
But the humiliation of being left alone there was the
worst part of it.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Okay, Alexis is humiliated just sitting alone at her desk
sometimes even if I can't shameful.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
But Brooke, I think we need a game plan so
we all don't jump on Alex and like get anger
right off the back.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I mean, I think, first of all, we shouldn't accuse
him of anything. We don't know from his side what happened,
you liar, you would say that there could be a reason,
even if his reason sucks. You want to hear it.
That's the whole point of you calling in, right, you
want to hear it.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
He better be in the hospital when we call him.
I won't forgive him.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
The only way we're going to hear it is if
we come in not accusatory.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Okay, okay, but like we're all on my side.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Yes, well the girls do not see you, I mean
right now. Yeah, I haven't heard the other side of
the story yet.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I don't care what the other side of the story
is personally, But you know what, I'm gonna dial Alex
and we're going to be on our best behavior. Hopefully
he picks up.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Here we go, let's see what he says.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Okay, okay, I make sure.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
I kind of like it. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
we're looking to speak with Alex.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
Let's see Hey, Alex, hope you're.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Having a good day.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Hello, Hello, Sorry, Alex, I'm just laughing at Jeffrey right now.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Hey, Pas Jeffrey, that's me. I'm a radio host on
the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Hey Alex, Wait, what.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
The whole show's here?
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Man? Yeah, you're on the radio right now. We're just
hoping to have an nice, calm, pleasant conversation with you
today about what a date you went on recently with
one of our listeners. Her name is Lindsay. Please don't hang.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Up my god.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Okay, yeah, you remember Lindsay.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Huh oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
So we heard from her that you two went out
to dinner recently, which.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
She thought was going great. She really was enjoying her
time with you.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
And then there was the bad part of dinner, which
happened when you went missing from the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Like yep, yeah, you're just gonna own that. You're not
gonna apologize immediately.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
So you admit that, you admit that happened, you walked out.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
I take full credits to that.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
What credit's God, that's like a pride thing when you
take credit or something.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
What do you mean because she probably didn't share with you,
but I saw her and her little friend before the date.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
What little friend?
Speaker 5 (09:00):
What's a little friend? I don't know her little friend's name,
her little girlfriend. They were about a block away from
the restaurant. Her and her friend were involved in something else,
so they didn't notice me.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
What do you see them do? That's so terrible.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Her friend is like, seems like she's coaching her for something.
So Lindsey says to her friend, oh, my uber app
is not working, can you pay for me?
Speaker 5 (09:28):
And she like bats her eyes.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
And and her friend said no, just say a little more.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Believably, she's coaching her.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Exactly, exactly so she wouldn't have to pay for an
uber home.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
She was like, my uber app's not working, did you
pay for me? It was like sociopathic the way she
did it.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
So you path the way I did it.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Okay, we have to let Alex know that that is
Lindsay on the line.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
What I'm hearing. What I'm hearing, Alex is that you're
so so guys aren't supposed to help a girl get
home safely?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Well after the thing is, Lindsay, you jumped in too soon,
so we couldn't get to what Alex was thinking. What
was going through your mind? Alex?
Speaker 5 (10:28):
I was thinking, and I feel like I have proof
because I witnessed your friend coaching you in getting me
to pay for your uber and you playing this like
Damsel in distress act just to get free stuff out
of me.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Do you know what he's talking about, lindsay, I I was.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
I was expecting to be able to get help getting home.
I just said that, and there's nothing wrong with that,
And so you were your answer to that was a
get up and just leave dinner at the end and
leave me the bill, like I don't know, like an
immature loser will help.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
I mean, I want to know, like, if you heard
it before the date even started, why did you do
the date?
Speaker 5 (11:07):
Because here's the thing. As soon as I heard her
planning to do that, I already knew she was going
to manipulate me.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
So I was like, I'm going to manipulate you. So,
oh my god, God forbid a guy helps a girl
get home, you know, usually.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
People do that, but you were practicing over and over again,
and you twoine laughing about it. If you ask for help.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Girls, and we think like I was like, Hue, who
do not laugh with your friends? Like Jesus, you see
me this evil plan and response to leave me and
like an idiot in the middle of the restaurant all alone, like, oh.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
God, no one, I ordered the most expensive thing on
the men.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Okay, so that's just confirms you are you are just
a little Oh well, if.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Anything, you guys are both a little bit of manipulators.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
No no, no, no, no no no, I only scam the scammer.
I was ready to have a genuine date with her.
Shut up.
Speaker 4 (12:07):
After a few drinks safely, and you decided up on
a planet of just I don't know. You just want
to make someone feel small. You want to make women
feel small.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
You are not women, You are one person.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
Great, so now I'm not a woman who deserves to
be not left an abandoned at a restaurant.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Why can't you afford your own uber?
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Yes? Fine, you guys are not getting it. She was
practicing that her uber wasn't working. She can totally afford it.
She just wants to take the fool out of somebody.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Okay, so chivalry is dead, thank you.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
A little bit, sus that you're practicing the line to
say to like be like, can you pay for my
broken app? Owhn?
Speaker 2 (12:54):
No, it's more than suss. It's like you got caught, girl,
You got caught scamming him for an uber ride.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
I was not scamming.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
You're not scamming. You're lying. You're lying to get what
you need.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
I am just a shamed that Brooke was on Lindsay's
side this entire time. This is what happens.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
Yeah, like, maybe Brook cannot be part of this anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Yeah, exactly, thank you for taking my side.
Speaker 5 (13:19):
I think it sounds like a genuine individual who could
totally afford her own over right home.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Yeah, man, clearly, Brooke, there's always two sides to every story,
and you're on the wrong one every time.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, I've never heard anyone in that room say that
before that there's two sides. I didn't hear that at.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
All, so weird.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Look, I mean, at this point, we're running out of time,
so I just have to ask, we would.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
I know there could be a lot of hot passion there.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Because we always offer to send you guys out on
another date, a date that we would pay for if
you're both willing to agree to it.
Speaker 4 (13:51):
Just no, I can find a man who doesn't mind
getting me home after a few drinks.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
I don't mind getting you home after a few drinks.
That's why I'm offering to pay.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
I mean lindsay, I'm actually kind of down at this point.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Don't for Lindsey. He's luring you in for another track.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
What's someone?
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (14:10):
What could I possibly weave this time? Dude?
Speaker 2 (14:13):
And in the end, Alex, I don't know if you
know this, but she never even paid for the dinner.
Speaker 4 (14:17):
Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Know what?
Speaker 5 (14:28):
You know what? That makes me even happier that this
is all happening on the radio.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
What's happening on the radio.
Speaker 5 (14:33):
That she is getting completely exposed for being the liar
manipulator that she is.
Speaker 4 (14:39):
Oh my god, this is funny now, Alex, Oh my god, Sun.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
It around.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Takes one to know one, babe.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
I think we've gotten pretty far in understanding what happens.
We finally reached common ground.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Thank god, you are such a champion of women generally.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Right, I fixed all the problems I knew you.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
Would, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
I feel like it's pretty clear, and maybe this is
just my observation, but I feel like it's a super
rare occurrence for Lindsey to be held accountable for anything
she's ever done wrong.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Yeah, it sounds like she just bats her eyes and says.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
What means the end how her thing was. Oh well
is dead. Yeah, that's what this means.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Like, that's not what this means. A wait a minute.
I thought you two were gonna champion her no matter
what happened. Remember that tried, but someone took us.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
I'm all about hearing people out.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Yeah, you would have thought the two girls in the
room had the right sense of the.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
What if he wouldn't have seen her practicing her uber
app lie out on the side of the.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Road, would have paid for her uber.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
He would have paid for the Uber. There would have
been no drama. They would never have even been on
the show.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
I mean, they could be two kids deep by this point.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
See.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
I think the real lesson is practice your scam lines
in private, or at least in the women's restroom where
the men can't here.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
It is.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Remember that, ladies, thank you for the always again, Jim.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
That's right. We're ready to be scammed by you. We
just don't want to know about it. Okay, and text
in email the show. We'll call that person who's not
calling you back. Go check out all of our second
Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey