February 16, 2025 • 18 mins
Our listeners love dysfunctional relationships so much, we didn't wanna deprive you. Here's a segment from our Full Show feed that may have even more drama than a Second Date Update. Let us know what you think!
One of our listeners overheard their husband saying something VERY suspicious and now she’s wondering, is she being paranoid OR is something weird going on?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You found it the home of the Second Date Update.
It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and thanks for
being here on the weekend with us. And I know
we have a lot of new listeners from all over
the world since we've been in the you know, top
ten charts of podcasts, Yes, which is awesome. And if
you don't know, we actually are a full radio show,
I know, and we are talking on it and we
(00:22):
do a brand new full hour episode every day on
our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And
we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like relationship drama.
We're kind of experts on it, and we do a
lot of other segments, including this one awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yes, love it.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with
these It was.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Always awkward and tricky.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call
on Sunday.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Totally.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
It starts right now.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Let's bloy around of is it friendly or flirty? Our
first contestant is a Lexus Alexis, can you tell me
does this sound friendly or flirty?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It was how you do it's attempt to be flirty.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
That's flirty and thirsty at the same time. That is
just cool. Even worse, Brooks said that at her child's
pta meeting, so it doesn't look great for her.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
I was talking to the second grade boys.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
J Okay, who oh god. The thing is one of
our listeners overheard her husband saying something even more suspicious
and cringey than that, and now she's wondering if she's
just being paranoid or if something actually weird is going on.
(01:49):
You're gonna hear it in your brand new awkward Tuesday
phone call that's coming up. It was, okay, how you
do book control yourself? We're doing it right after this.
It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Ladies,
If you're ever curious about what your husband or boyfriend
(02:10):
is doing when he's not with you, yeah, just slash
his tires and offer to give him a ride. Oh,
tire slashing is one of the pillars of a strong,
healthy relationship, as long as he doesn't find out you're
the one doing it.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
If you have a shared bank account, that's really not wise.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Brook Your husband's cars are constantly in trouble, and you're
saying you're not the one behind it. That's if you
could spend more time with him.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
That's just because I like to run the tires right
up against the curve.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
That's right, our listener, Julia didn't go that far as
to slash her husband's tires, so you're disappointed. But she
did give him a ride recently and apparently found out
something very interesting, so interesting, she needs our help, So Julia,
welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Hi, Thanks guys.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
How long are you even married?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Julia?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Three years?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Okay, tell us what's going on? Why'd you email us?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Well, I'm not really sure what's going on. I witnessed something,
but I don't know fully what I saw or if
I'm gempt conclusion it.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Okay, I totally love this.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
You sound so sweet. It sounds like you're not upset,
like I can't tell.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Well, I'm worried, but I'm also just trying to be rational.
I'm trying to not be like super reactionary, but I'm
I'm freaking out a little.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Okay, that was the voice that I didn't And.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
You're freaking out with something involving your husband. What's his name?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Okay, so his name is Harry and a couple of
weeks ago, I took him to his hair appointment. We
normally have we have supper cars, so normally I wouldn't
do that sort of thing. But his is in the shop, okay.
I offered to drive him because I saw it was
on our calendar, and he was like, nah, I'll just
take an uber.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I mean that would throw up a little bit of
a red flag for me, But did you agree to
let you drive him?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
He did, and when we got there, he was like,
we had a big hurry to get out of the car,
and I was like, no, I'm gonna go in with you.
I'm going to check and see if they have the
hairspray that I use. Okay, He's like, no, no, no,
you're playing your just let think you have an hour, because.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
He like it's like an embarrassed junior high, you know,
not wanting his mom to.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
He says, that is what it was like, Okay, objectively
a little strange.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
So I'm go in with him and I'm looking and
then call his name and then the stylist comes out,
and of course she is a gorgeous girl. I mean
she's just absolutely beautiful.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
I mean, isn't it a requirement to become a one
that isn't drop dead beautiful.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
That's what she wanted. Would feel good to have somebody
who's really really beautiful styling you. You don't want like
rumpel Stills coming in bigger than mine.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
She's like, I don't do my own.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Like a tree troll comes from the back, So I don't.
I would think it's it's okay.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
I mean, it's it's normal, it's common. Ye Does that
make you feel like a certain way?
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Well, it was just very obvious that this is not
the first time he's seen her, and they seem very
friendly and familiar with each other. Well, I mean it's
a hairstylist.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
They're friendly.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
There's more. So as soon as she showed up, he
was like, all right, you probably gotta get go in.
She's like, you liter really chewing me out of the door. Yeah.
And so then there's this petition, you know, like you
(05:36):
can come into the place and there's a reception desk
and then a petition, and then on the other side
is where all the chairs and all that guys. I
walk around the petition and I opened the door and
I didn't go out. I just closed the door, like
made it sound like I left out there for a
minute behind the petition and.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Listen, what'd you hear?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
And they were just laughing and giggling and flirting, and
he was laughing like a moron. It everything she was saying,
and then she's ving with him, and then she starts
complimenting and like, oh, your hair feels so good. You've
been doing so good and taking care of it.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Not to defend what they're doing at all, but sometimes
stylists will be extra friendly and extra nice in order
to get a better tip.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That still doesn't like dismiss her husband's flirting back. Yeah,
that doesn't.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
It's weird behavior. I don't know. Like I understand maybe
you have a little bit of a crush and there's
nothing wrong with that, but she has been trying to
get rid of me and not want me to come in.
I just feel like that behavior.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Is kind of fun. It would have been nicer if
he had been like, hey, don't say nice things about me.
I'm married, Okay, doesn't cut my hair and shut up.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
No. But like normally, like a stylist relationship, that's the
first thing you talk about is your significant other. It's
at first thing that comes out so that's not a
good sign that that's not what they were talking about
to me.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Yeah, I just I've been thinking about it's been a
couple of weeks, and it's just like I can't get
it out of my mind. I don't know how to
bring it up to him because I don't want to
come across as super jealous or defensive. But it's really
starting to eat at me and I'm kind of getting
scared about it.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
You obviously haven't told him that you heard stuff or
you were there.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Oh yeah, that she was sneaking around there and listening.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Is you should know before we help.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
It's a good point.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
No, I did not. I did not tell him that
I stayed and heard them flirting.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
This is what we're doing. Have you booked an appointment
with that stylist, Just see if she's equally flirty and
touchy with you.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
Just talk about your husband the whole appointment.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
I could just book with her and then tell her like,
some really bad hygiene habit did he have.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
But that's going to be step two in this process.
Step one is getting our advice in a few minutes
here before we let you make an awkward Tuesday phone
call to your husband to ask what is going on
between him and the hairstylist.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
Oh my god, is he just gonna tell you?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
It just seems crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I mean, I don't know. I mean, book that all
depends on your advice and if it's actually good for once.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
I just hope it's some innocent flirting that we're blowing
out of proportion. I mean, honestly, that's best case scenario.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
We'll find out when we call him and do your
awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward, it's Tuesday.
It's awkward Tuesday phone call. After you get married? Is
there anybody that you are still allowed to flirt with?
Brooke wanted me to ask that question. I'm not why,
(08:42):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
I mean, there's a difference so between innocent flirting, like
flirting with a cash registered lady, or like there's something
else going on.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Would you get mad if you caught your husband flirting
with your Alexa?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Oh my god, he has called her pretty?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
The realization setting in some people may be okay. Definitely
not with your hairstylist though, that needs to be off limits, and.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Especially when he's shoeing her out the door. As soon
as she yes, he gets there exactly.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
So you see your hairstylist a lot. Yeah, and that's
why our listener, Julia has reached out because she caught
her husband flirting and laughing with the pretty woman cutting
his hair. Sent up some red flags first, so she
wants to confront him about it, but doesn't want to
get too weird and defensive. So before we call Harry Jose,
what's your advice for her? I feel like the way
to disarm him is to give the stylist a compliment.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
First, you guys are talking and you're like, by the way,
your barber is super cute, honey.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
I mean if I was you, I wouldn't have even
came home. Oh all right, okay, then you just gauge
his reaction. What do you think, Julia, are you able
to give the hairstylist a compliment?
Speaker 4 (09:55):
I'm just trying to figure out, like how I would
have to work it into the conversation since it was
like two weeks to go.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
Do you think see that's the way?
Speaker 5 (10:05):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Because the thing is is if you accuse him, it's just.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Not gonna go. Well.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I think you say, oh my god, it's been bugging
me for two weeks. Your hairstylist looks so familiar and
I couldn't place it, and I remember I.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Know her whoa Where do you know her from?
Speaker 6 (10:23):
Could be anywhere?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
We're in a book club, we do lie together. Do
you guys have kids yet?
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
You could name anything honestly, because if he freaks out
that you have a connection to her, that's not a
good side.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Brook does have the best lies to her significant if
anybody that I know, she knows how to twist the truth.
Is that helpful to you? Julia? Are you comfortable lying
to your husband right now?
Speaker 4 (10:52):
But what if it's perfectly normal? Then he's like, wants
to know where I know her from and tries to
follow through on that.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
But it's good if it's perfect normal. I mean, sure,
you look like kind of a controlling.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Jealousy woman. Were confused?
Speaker 2 (11:05):
You All you have to.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Do is tell the man you're just so hot it's
hard for me to imagine.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Want Well, Julie, that's our best advice for you. Take
whatever you want from it. But I'm dialing your husband,
Harry right now. I'm gonna let you make your awkward
Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Okay, Hello, say babe, bang, how are you doing?
Speaker 5 (11:38):
Good, good, good. I didn't reconize the number. What do
you call it?
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Yeah? Sorry, No, I'm just I'm at work and I
just had a question for you. I've been thinking about
it and it just keeps slipping my mind, so I
wanted to run it by while it was in my head.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
Oh good, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Yeah. So, a couple of weeks ago, when I took
you to the salon to get your hair cut, your
stilist was so she was so nice, like she seemed
really really outgoing and personal, and I'm looking for a
new stilust and so I was kind of curious if
you know, if she's taking new clients.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
Okay, why don't you already have a silence?
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Well, you know, the last couple of times that I
was with Jasmine, I don't know. I just felt like
she kind of dried my hair a lot about the
color and talked to her about it, and she kind
of got annoyed at me, and it's so weird, and
so I didn't know if maybe you'd want to give
me a referral.
Speaker 7 (12:43):
Uh, yeah, you know, I think I don't. I think
she mentioned she's like totally booked up, Like I barely
get into that so like, I don't know, i'd have
to talk to her.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
It might be a stretch to get you in, to be.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Honest with you. Cool, Okay, Well that brings up another
point that I guess I need to get to. When
I dropped you off, I didn't actually leave the salon.
I just kind of like opened the door, and then
(13:15):
I like stayed and hung out and I heard I
heard the two of you talking, and it was a
lot flirting and giggling.
Speaker 5 (13:25):
And you say, I thought you said you were going
to get groceries.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
I did.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
I did, you were going to get the macaee. I did,
But you.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
Were acting with her like you didn't want me to
drop you off, and then you didn't want me to
come in, and then when she came up, you were
like trying to shoot me out the door, and I
was just really.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Well, I just know you were busy. I just know
you're really busy. I don't want you to stress out.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
That's not what it felt like. It really felt like
you were trying to get rid of me and like
you didn't want me there, and that just flow up
the red flags, and so I felt like I needed
to stay and just see what was going on, and
I mean, there's some going on. Is there something that
you need to tell me? No, I mean what you
hear I could hear you laughing. I mean she would
say something and you were like, Oh, you're so funny.
I mean it was like it was weird. It's not
(14:12):
the way you laugh when we talk. I just I've
never heard it, and it's just I don't know. It
was just a weird energy. And she was so flirty
and so okay.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
But I got a coin session.
Speaker 7 (14:22):
I didn't. I wanted to keep it for you. But
I'm trying to get this temperature discount from her. And
the only way is that if she thinks like I'm
into her, so, but it's really for you, it's really
for us.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Wait what how how does that work?
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Well, you know, I just tell her I'm single, because
so she thinks that she has a reason to give
me the discount. That's it.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
So she just gives discounts to single guys that she likes.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Wait, so how did she even believe that you're single? Though?
Because I walked in with you.
Speaker 5 (14:50):
Yeah, I mean she asked about you and everything, but
I just told her you and my aunt.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
What?
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Oh god, who are those people. What's going on?
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Oh my god, am I being punk?
Speaker 1 (15:05):
You're with an idiot?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Well, yeah, hey, Harry Man, tell me. I need to
let you know that. You're on the radio right now
with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
This is called awkward Tuesday phone call. God, Julia listens
to us and asks for help today because she saw
that interaction between you and your hairstylist, which she.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
Obviously read right. You were flirting with.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
Her, but not it's not genuine flirting.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
No discounts for single hot guys, that doesn't exist.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
I don't know I could get behind that. What's this
hairstylist place that you go to, Harry, because I could
lay that on.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
I'll tell you later. We'll get off the phone.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Okay, you believe him, Jeff It doesn't really matter what
I believe. It's what Julia. This is her marriage.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Do you believe him a ten percent hot guy discount?
Speaker 4 (15:52):
I do believe him. He's not. It's not a liar.
He doesn't lie to me. I mean, I think I
think he's very truthful. I just I think it's stupid
and I think it's really acessive.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Wait, stupid on his part, or stupid on the hairstylist part.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
It is about business choice for her.
Speaker 7 (16:09):
Like I said before, this is a discount that I'm
getting for you or I look, I admit I probably
should have told you about it.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
That's my fault.
Speaker 7 (16:16):
Okay, I promise I'm not up to anything fullish or
or adultery ish or anything like that.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Okay, ish you have no romantic interest in actually getting
together with the style?
Speaker 5 (16:29):
No?
Speaker 3 (16:29):
No, you would rather just pay the ten percent stopper?
Speaker 5 (16:33):
No, no, absolutely not. The economy is.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
Harry, your wife is clearly uncomfortable with this interaction, no
matter how much money it saves. She doesn't like it. So, Julia,
what would you like to see Harry do going forward?
Speaker 1 (16:48):
I mean that was that was almost marriage counselor is
that It's.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Kind of like, what do you want from him at
this point?
Speaker 5 (16:56):
Well?
Speaker 4 (16:56):
I would say, at the very least it to be
honest with her.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
You don't want him to switch stylists. You're cool with
him still going there.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
I'm just down the dishonesty and like where that leads.
I mean, how would you feel if I wore a
mini skirt to the dentist to try to get a discount.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I actually believe a dentis giving discounts.
Speaker 6 (17:15):
Those guys are.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
I don't need any more laughing gays anyway, Harry, are
you comfortable? Are you able to change ever so slightly
to make your wife happy?
Speaker 5 (17:30):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (17:30):
I will.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
I will definitely accommodate it, Harry.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Women can change a man. I didn't realize that. Look
at us.
Speaker 6 (17:41):
So he's changing Julie all right, by the way, was
so talking about that?
Speaker 3 (17:52):
All right? Well, you know what, I think we're in
a better place now than when we started this phone call.
Good luck to you too. Your marriage sounds perfect.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Thank you all.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
You found it the home of the Second Date Update.
It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and thanks for
being here on the weekend with us. And I know
we have a lot of new listeners from all over
the world since we've been in the you know, top
ten charts of podcasts, Yes, which is awesome. And if
you don't know, we actually are a full radio show,
I know, and we are talking on it and we
(00:22):
do a brand new full hour episode every day on
our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And
we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like relationship drama.
We're kind of experts on it, and we do a
lot of other segments, including this one awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yes, love it.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with
these It was.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Always awkward and tricky.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call
on Sunday.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Totally.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
It starts right now.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Let's bloy around of is it friendly or flirty? Our
first contestant is a Lexus Alexis, can you tell me
does this sound friendly or flirty?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It was how you do it's attempt to be flirty.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
That's flirty and thirsty at the same time. That is
just cool. Even worse, Brooks said that at her child's
pta meeting, so it doesn't look great for her.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
I was talking to the second grade boys.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
J Okay, who oh god. The thing is one of
our listeners overheard her husband saying something even more suspicious
and cringey than that, and now she's wondering if she's
just being paranoid or if something actually weird is going on.
(01:49):
You're gonna hear it in your brand new awkward Tuesday
phone call that's coming up. It was, okay, how you
do book control yourself? We're doing it right after this.
It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Ladies,
If you're ever curious about what your husband or boyfriend
(02:10):
is doing when he's not with you, yeah, just slash
his tires and offer to give him a ride. Oh,
tire slashing is one of the pillars of a strong,
healthy relationship, as long as he doesn't find out you're
the one doing it.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
If you have a shared bank account, that's really not wise.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Brook Your husband's cars are constantly in trouble, and you're
saying you're not the one behind it. That's if you
could spend more time with him.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
That's just because I like to run the tires right
up against the curve.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
That's right, our listener, Julia didn't go that far as
to slash her husband's tires, so you're disappointed. But she
did give him a ride recently and apparently found out
something very interesting, so interesting, she needs our help, So Julia,
welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Hi, Thanks guys.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
How long are you even married?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Julia?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Three years?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Okay, tell us what's going on? Why'd you email us?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Well, I'm not really sure what's going on. I witnessed something,
but I don't know fully what I saw or if
I'm gempt conclusion it.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Okay, I totally love this.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
You sound so sweet. It sounds like you're not upset,
like I can't tell.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Well, I'm worried, but I'm also just trying to be rational.
I'm trying to not be like super reactionary, but I'm
I'm freaking out a little.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Okay, that was the voice that I didn't And.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
You're freaking out with something involving your husband. What's his name?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Okay, so his name is Harry and a couple of
weeks ago, I took him to his hair appointment. We
normally have we have supper cars, so normally I wouldn't
do that sort of thing. But his is in the shop, okay.
I offered to drive him because I saw it was
on our calendar, and he was like, nah, I'll just
take an uber.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I mean that would throw up a little bit of
a red flag for me, But did you agree to
let you drive him?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
He did, and when we got there, he was like,
we had a big hurry to get out of the car,
and I was like, no, I'm gonna go in with you.
I'm going to check and see if they have the
hairspray that I use. Okay, He's like, no, no, no,
you're playing your just let think you have an hour, because.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
He like it's like an embarrassed junior high, you know,
not wanting his mom to.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
He says, that is what it was like, Okay, objectively
a little strange.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
So I'm go in with him and I'm looking and
then call his name and then the stylist comes out,
and of course she is a gorgeous girl. I mean
she's just absolutely beautiful.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
I mean, isn't it a requirement to become a one
that isn't drop dead beautiful.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
That's what she wanted. Would feel good to have somebody
who's really really beautiful styling you. You don't want like
rumpel Stills coming in bigger than mine.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
She's like, I don't do my own.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Like a tree troll comes from the back, So I don't.
I would think it's it's okay.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
I mean, it's it's normal, it's common. Ye Does that
make you feel like a certain way?
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Well, it was just very obvious that this is not
the first time he's seen her, and they seem very
friendly and familiar with each other. Well, I mean it's
a hairstylist.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
They're friendly.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
There's more. So as soon as she showed up, he
was like, all right, you probably gotta get go in.
She's like, you liter really chewing me out of the door. Yeah.
And so then there's this petition, you know, like you
(05:36):
can come into the place and there's a reception desk
and then a petition, and then on the other side
is where all the chairs and all that guys. I
walk around the petition and I opened the door and
I didn't go out. I just closed the door, like
made it sound like I left out there for a
minute behind the petition and.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Listen, what'd you hear?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
And they were just laughing and giggling and flirting, and
he was laughing like a moron. It everything she was saying,
and then she's ving with him, and then she starts
complimenting and like, oh, your hair feels so good. You've
been doing so good and taking care of it.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Not to defend what they're doing at all, but sometimes
stylists will be extra friendly and extra nice in order
to get a better tip.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That still doesn't like dismiss her husband's flirting back. Yeah,
that doesn't.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
It's weird behavior. I don't know. Like I understand maybe
you have a little bit of a crush and there's
nothing wrong with that, but she has been trying to
get rid of me and not want me to come in.
I just feel like that behavior.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Is kind of fun. It would have been nicer if
he had been like, hey, don't say nice things about me.
I'm married, Okay, doesn't cut my hair and shut up.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
No. But like normally, like a stylist relationship, that's the
first thing you talk about is your significant other. It's
at first thing that comes out so that's not a
good sign that that's not what they were talking about
to me.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Yeah, I just I've been thinking about it's been a
couple of weeks, and it's just like I can't get
it out of my mind. I don't know how to
bring it up to him because I don't want to
come across as super jealous or defensive. But it's really
starting to eat at me and I'm kind of getting
scared about it.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
You obviously haven't told him that you heard stuff or
you were there.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Oh yeah, that she was sneaking around there and listening.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Is you should know before we help.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
It's a good point.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
No, I did not. I did not tell him that
I stayed and heard them flirting.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
This is what we're doing. Have you booked an appointment
with that stylist, Just see if she's equally flirty and
touchy with you.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
Just talk about your husband the whole appointment.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
I could just book with her and then tell her like,
some really bad hygiene habit did he have.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
But that's going to be step two in this process.
Step one is getting our advice in a few minutes
here before we let you make an awkward Tuesday phone
call to your husband to ask what is going on
between him and the hairstylist.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
Oh my god, is he just gonna tell you?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
It just seems crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I mean, I don't know. I mean, book that all
depends on your advice and if it's actually good for once.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
I just hope it's some innocent flirting that we're blowing
out of proportion. I mean, honestly, that's best case scenario.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
We'll find out when we call him and do your
awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward, it's Tuesday.
It's awkward Tuesday phone call. After you get married? Is
there anybody that you are still allowed to flirt with?
Brooke wanted me to ask that question. I'm not why,
(08:42):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
I mean, there's a difference so between innocent flirting, like
flirting with a cash registered lady, or like there's something
else going on.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Would you get mad if you caught your husband flirting
with your Alexa?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Oh my god, he has called her pretty?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
The realization setting in some people may be okay. Definitely
not with your hairstylist though, that needs to be off limits, and.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Especially when he's shoeing her out the door. As soon
as she yes, he gets there exactly.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
So you see your hairstylist a lot. Yeah, and that's
why our listener, Julia has reached out because she caught
her husband flirting and laughing with the pretty woman cutting
his hair. Sent up some red flags first, so she
wants to confront him about it, but doesn't want to
get too weird and defensive. So before we call Harry Jose,
what's your advice for her? I feel like the way
to disarm him is to give the stylist a compliment.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
First, you guys are talking and you're like, by the way,
your barber is super cute, honey.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
I mean if I was you, I wouldn't have even
came home. Oh all right, okay, then you just gauge
his reaction. What do you think, Julia, are you able
to give the hairstylist a compliment?
Speaker 4 (09:55):
I'm just trying to figure out, like how I would
have to work it into the conversation since it was
like two weeks to go.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
Do you think see that's the way?
Speaker 5 (10:05):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Because the thing is is if you accuse him, it's just.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Not gonna go. Well.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I think you say, oh my god, it's been bugging
me for two weeks. Your hairstylist looks so familiar and
I couldn't place it, and I remember I.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Know her whoa Where do you know her from?
Speaker 6 (10:23):
Could be anywhere?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
We're in a book club, we do lie together. Do
you guys have kids yet?
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Like?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
You could name anything honestly, because if he freaks out
that you have a connection to her, that's not a
good side.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Brook does have the best lies to her significant if
anybody that I know, she knows how to twist the truth.
Is that helpful to you? Julia? Are you comfortable lying
to your husband right now?
Speaker 4 (10:52):
But what if it's perfectly normal? Then he's like, wants
to know where I know her from and tries to
follow through on that.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
But it's good if it's perfect normal. I mean, sure,
you look like kind of a controlling.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Jealousy woman. Were confused?
Speaker 2 (11:05):
You All you have to.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Do is tell the man you're just so hot it's
hard for me to imagine.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Want Well, Julie, that's our best advice for you. Take
whatever you want from it. But I'm dialing your husband,
Harry right now. I'm gonna let you make your awkward
Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Okay, Hello, say babe, bang, how are you doing?
Speaker 5 (11:38):
Good, good, good. I didn't reconize the number. What do
you call it?
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Yeah? Sorry, No, I'm just I'm at work and I
just had a question for you. I've been thinking about
it and it just keeps slipping my mind, so I
wanted to run it by while it was in my head.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
Oh good, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Yeah. So, a couple of weeks ago, when I took
you to the salon to get your hair cut, your
stilist was so she was so nice, like she seemed
really really outgoing and personal, and I'm looking for a
new stilust and so I was kind of curious if
you know, if she's taking new clients.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
Okay, why don't you already have a silence?
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Well, you know, the last couple of times that I
was with Jasmine, I don't know. I just felt like
she kind of dried my hair a lot about the
color and talked to her about it, and she kind
of got annoyed at me, and it's so weird, and
so I didn't know if maybe you'd want to give
me a referral.
Speaker 7 (12:43):
Uh, yeah, you know, I think I don't. I think
she mentioned she's like totally booked up, Like I barely
get into that so like, I don't know, i'd have
to talk to her.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
It might be a stretch to get you in, to be.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Honest with you. Cool, Okay, Well that brings up another
point that I guess I need to get to. When
I dropped you off, I didn't actually leave the salon.
I just kind of like opened the door, and then
(13:15):
I like stayed and hung out and I heard I
heard the two of you talking, and it was a
lot flirting and giggling.
Speaker 5 (13:25):
And you say, I thought you said you were going
to get groceries.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
I did.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
I did, you were going to get the macaee. I did,
But you.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
Were acting with her like you didn't want me to
drop you off, and then you didn't want me to
come in, and then when she came up, you were
like trying to shoot me out the door, and I
was just really.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Well, I just know you were busy. I just know
you're really busy. I don't want you to stress out.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
That's not what it felt like. It really felt like
you were trying to get rid of me and like
you didn't want me there, and that just flow up
the red flags, and so I felt like I needed
to stay and just see what was going on, and
I mean, there's some going on. Is there something that
you need to tell me? No, I mean what you
hear I could hear you laughing. I mean she would
say something and you were like, Oh, you're so funny.
I mean it was like it was weird. It's not
(14:12):
the way you laugh when we talk. I just I've
never heard it, and it's just I don't know. It
was just a weird energy. And she was so flirty
and so okay.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
But I got a coin session.
Speaker 7 (14:22):
I didn't. I wanted to keep it for you. But
I'm trying to get this temperature discount from her. And
the only way is that if she thinks like I'm
into her, so, but it's really for you, it's really
for us.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Wait what how how does that work?
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Well, you know, I just tell her I'm single, because
so she thinks that she has a reason to give
me the discount. That's it.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
So she just gives discounts to single guys that she likes.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Wait, so how did she even believe that you're single? Though?
Because I walked in with you.
Speaker 5 (14:50):
Yeah, I mean she asked about you and everything, but
I just told her you and my aunt.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
What?
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Oh god, who are those people. What's going on?
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Oh my god, am I being punk?
Speaker 1 (15:05):
You're with an idiot?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Well, yeah, hey, Harry Man, tell me. I need to
let you know that. You're on the radio right now
with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
This is called awkward Tuesday phone call. God, Julia listens
to us and asks for help today because she saw
that interaction between you and your hairstylist, which she.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
Obviously read right. You were flirting with.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
Her, but not it's not genuine flirting.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
No discounts for single hot guys, that doesn't exist.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
I don't know I could get behind that. What's this
hairstylist place that you go to, Harry, because I could
lay that on.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
I'll tell you later. We'll get off the phone.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Okay, you believe him, Jeff It doesn't really matter what
I believe. It's what Julia. This is her marriage.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Do you believe him a ten percent hot guy discount?
Speaker 4 (15:52):
I do believe him. He's not. It's not a liar.
He doesn't lie to me. I mean, I think I
think he's very truthful. I just I think it's stupid
and I think it's really acessive.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Wait, stupid on his part, or stupid on the hairstylist part.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
It is about business choice for her.
Speaker 7 (16:09):
Like I said before, this is a discount that I'm
getting for you or I look, I admit I probably
should have told you about it.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
That's my fault.
Speaker 7 (16:16):
Okay, I promise I'm not up to anything fullish or
or adultery ish or anything like that.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Okay, ish you have no romantic interest in actually getting
together with the style?
Speaker 5 (16:29):
No?
Speaker 3 (16:29):
No, you would rather just pay the ten percent stopper?
Speaker 5 (16:33):
No, no, absolutely not. The economy is.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
Harry, your wife is clearly uncomfortable with this interaction, no
matter how much money it saves. She doesn't like it. So, Julia,
what would you like to see Harry do going forward?
Speaker 1 (16:48):
I mean that was that was almost marriage counselor is
that It's.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Kind of like, what do you want from him at
this point?
Speaker 5 (16:56):
Well?
Speaker 4 (16:56):
I would say, at the very least it to be
honest with her.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
You don't want him to switch stylists. You're cool with
him still going there.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
I'm just down the dishonesty and like where that leads.
I mean, how would you feel if I wore a
mini skirt to the dentist to try to get a discount.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I actually believe a dentis giving discounts.
Speaker 6 (17:15):
Those guys are.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
I don't need any more laughing gays anyway, Harry, are
you comfortable? Are you able to change ever so slightly
to make your wife happy?
Speaker 5 (17:30):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (17:30):
I will.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
I will definitely accommodate it, Harry.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Women can change a man. I didn't realize that. Look
at us.
Speaker 6 (17:41):
So he's changing Julie all right, by the way, was
so talking about that?
Speaker 3 (17:52):
All right? Well, you know what, I think we're in
a better place now than when we started this phone call.
Good luck to you too. Your marriage sounds perfect.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Thank you all.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
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Jeffrey "Young Jeffrey" Dubow
Jose Bolanos
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