February 12, 2025 • 26 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
and the Black Effects.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with
your girl, Jess.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hilarious. What are we doing?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
I'll be fixing mess and we got one. Listen my baby,
my baby, I'm in here.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
What say? Let's say what's up Taylor? You all say?
What's up on my girl? What's she here?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Even more pregnant than she was two weeks ago? So
she gonna be in and out y'all because she is
annoyed as fuck. She got a little baby up in there?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
What you have a girl?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Oh? Can we know? Yeah, I have a new boy.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
She's having a little boy. So she's about to be
a bit sorry talking about that. My god.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Boys make you so mean. In my opinion, I was
mean when I was pregnant with ash.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I wasn't. Do you think I was mean when I
was pregnant with Marley? No, I wasn't mean.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, yeah, I wasn't mean. I just was like over everything.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I wasn't mean, though, I just was like, y'all getting
on my motherfucking nerves all right, So we have a
voice memo, y'all. It's the first one in a long time.
I think it's the first one in season four that
we had. I ain't have a voice memo since like
season two, I think either way.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
But let's get straight into it. Let me sing hey.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Girl, Hey, okay, es he picks my mess and you're
gonna be like, what the fuck? It's not even mess,
it's really pissed. Okay, it's really more borderline shit. Yeah,
let me get it started, because I ain't trying to hold.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
You, Okay.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
So I'm gonna try to make a long story short.
I am twenty seven, just turn twenty seven. My wishing
mccollic because it's an ex but it's a washing mcgolic
because I ain't go back.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
One more time for a find a round of this disappointment.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Okay, So I'm twenty seven. My wish mccallage is thirty
eight seven thirty nine this year. So we met when
I was twenty four, turned in twenty five and a.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Couple of months.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
I mean, everything was kind of perfect, Like we talked
for a month before we like linked up. I was
dating single for a year and a half, heavy on
the self love. My confidence was how its fuck all
time high, like bitches is working out, doing yoga, drawing, reading, writing, women,
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their breast life and shit. So I was dating, I
wasn't exclusively like dating him.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
So when I monthly got to know.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Each other, you know, we just kind of clicked more
than the other guys, and the other guys were kind
of more on my roster d for convenience and not
just convenienced like there were good dudes. So you know,
I wanted to see if more feelings could develop for me.
So after that first link up, it was fucking history.
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We is going on days every weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I eventually stopped.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Texting the other guys so much, and you know, about
two months go by, and at this point, he is
spending the night every night I'm talking about he's basically
living here, like his game is here, he has close here,
He comes right after work, it doesn't leaven, so he
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goes back to work. Like we're literally together all the
fucking time, Like even on the weekends, he's there after work,
he's there playing the game like just it's like we're
living together at this point. So that about the third
month mark, I got to put myself down, like, hey,
what are we doing? Like you know, single for many
(03:38):
I need boundaries think like are we together?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Are we not together? Relationship, which clearly it fucking was.
So I'm like, look, if you want me to.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Be your girlfriend, you need to ask me a person
not throwing off fucking text me as it is, which
your drive before, which was a major red flag.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
So you know, I'm the pype girl like hook every day.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
So I'm backing him lunches with fruit, snacks, juice, whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
The fuck he likes, cute little notes.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
He's also doing cute shit like appealing to my love languages.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
You know, we go to the store together or whatever.
He'll go have here. You know, he got me on
my saying stuff for Christmas, which is the fuck he should.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I got him something as well, so you know shit's
coming good.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
But I'm kind of like at this point now, like, well,
you know you're not. I'm playing these bills on.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
All like, and that's kind of turning me off from you,
because you know, I had a dude on my roster
and send me money for the fucking hell of it.
My asude dude on my roster was in the streets
and this dude wasn't so I wasn't really tripping.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I'm like, I got a good dude, like you might
be the nigga that I've been praying for.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
So the date slowed down from every weekend every once
in a while, the affection slowed down.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Everything slowed down.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
So this is about month six, and I'm noticing these changes.
I'm like, hey, like, you know, it's something wrong, like
do we need to do something else to connect? You know,
what are you missing? Because I've noticed changes in our relationship.
So I noticed that, you know, we would go through
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my phone sometimes.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
So I was scrolling through his Facebook one day and
I saw.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
This, I know, this this one girl and all of
his like literally all of his fucking like all of them.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
So I call him.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I'm like, hey, babe, I was just scrolling through your
Facebook and I noticed this one girl and all of
your li likes.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I was just wondering who it was, like, you know,
who is it like?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
And this is like, you know, he was scrolling through
my Facebook, asked questions through my phone, asked questions.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
So I didn't think it would be a problem.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
He immediately gets defensive, like, that's my best friend. Weve
been best friend since child, we grew up together. I'm
not cutting her off like whoa dude relaxed like And
that really blew me to cook back and was a
major red flag because I literally have never asked him
to cut any female friend off or came off as
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any type of insecure.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It was just like that shit blew me a back.
So with Henry acting on.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
All defensive and she you know, I'm like, that's your
best friend, Like you know, why never made her?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Why have I never heard of her? Why you never
brought her up? If I literally never stroke through your.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Facebook and asked who she was, I literally would have
never knew about her, So be red flag right. So
after that, he kind of started being like more private,
like I don't you know, so I don't ask you questions,
you don't ask me questions. It's just fucking crazy because
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the nigga asks questions all the times.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And then also he basically living at your house like
basically once the nigga game is there, he moved the
fucking so you trying to have your cake and needith
too and I and I'm not really with that ship,
so I definitely understand.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, but yeah, that's you.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You let him, You let him do a little bit
too much, too fast, and he started getting he started
smelling hisself as the black mothers would say, but I'm
gonna let you finish. Hold up, Hold up, I know
the ship getting good. But listen to just a couple
of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
So at this point, my mind is fixated when his
best friend, Like, I am determined to figure out.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
What the fuck he really got going on, because it's
more than a defense thing.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
So I go through his phone, can't find anything, so boom,
fuck it. Like, you know, he's on Facebook, you know
inboxing girls.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
My getting replies. I'm like, you know what, I don't
want to call my.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Fice insecure, even though if we're in a relationship, I
do kind of find like I'm not inboxing niggas trying
to get attention or response as hard I'm not heart
I you know, motherfucking stories and sending it to the
inbox hoping and respond like.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I'm not doing any of that. But I got to
just let it go. My fault. So a few months
go by and we're just we're not getting along.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
I'm finding out that he's inconsistent, he's a liar. He
is hiding shit, like literally, he is making me insecure
by just he done did a whole one to eighty
from the motherfucker he showed me in the beginning, Like
he's not affectionate. We're not like that intimate as much anymore.
Like where he used to want to talk like throughout
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the workday, like while he was working or whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
You know, he is not willing to do that anymore.
So I'm like cool, like and my mom, I'm like,
I'm gonna run through this nigga phone like fuck that.
I'm want an ambitious I rather know.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Hold up, you given this ship a lot of posssion
for you to be coming from the streets.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Remember you said you had this nigga, that nigga, this nigga,
that nigga. You didn't got rid of the nigga that
was paying your bills for this clown ass nigga. And
you still like this one must have been the one
that had you like ready to be on some exclusive ship.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
And you you you hinted toward.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
That earlier like seven minutes ago, and you also said
you was gonna make this story short.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
And I'm loving it.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Remember you said that you lie, honey, so I'm gonna
let you finished. But yeah, this this seemed like you I'm, i'm, i'm, I'm,
I'm gonna let you finish.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
And to just be wondering like Beach just be talking
about intuition. Well, Beach, my mother fucking insuition led me
to look through this niggaphone.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
So I find.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Messages with the X, you know, asking when can he
come see her. She basically told his niggas she's busy
until the next mother fucking year. Come to find out
much later on that X was her or whatever. So
fast forward, we have an argument.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
He's mad at me. He sends me a.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Screenshot of text messages but with the name covered up
and you know, the little drawing shit. So the message
he's talking about a day and you know.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
They've been trying to take each other.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
Out on dates for months, and I'm just like, what
the fuck? Like in for context, he was the type
of nigga that overtalked me, you know, bring up pitches
and how he got options, and he taught.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Me, are you.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
He couldn't just sit down and have.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
A conversation and be held accountable, So he couldn't have
difficult conversations.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
So he sends his screenshot.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
So now I have said it on figuring out who
the fuck was he.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Talking to an as green shot. I was talking about.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Dates and sidelines, and she's basically saying, you're trying to
make me outsideline, and he basically said.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Back, no, you're trying to make me your sideline.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Fucking with so and so so anyway, girl, So I
want to say, like for three months straight that I
left him alone, he's calling me non stop, pulling up
to my house, pulling up to my mom my house, like.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Pulling up with me, literally like stalking me. So me being.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Delusional and retarded. Oh my gosh, I am so sorry.
If that offends anybody, just just beat that out or something,
me being stupid and delusional.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I'm like, you know what this man is really fighting
from my love?
Speaker 4 (11:50):
He said, fucked up, And he never talked to truth
about the sex message. He literally went from is my sister,
who I used another phone to make that up just
to make you jealous, like all types of shit.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
Never told the truth about it, so I never know
who it was at that point. This is long as fuck.
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Okay, So I'm just mean this all the way up
fast far we get back together, why my dumb mess
was doing good? I had a new bool like just
the fucking stupid. Okay, So we get back together. So
he's the same narcis assistic type.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Of man.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
He's I'm thinking that, you know, maybe he'll be who
he showed me in the beginning, but no, because he
was probably never that nigga to begin with.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So fast forward.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
I go through his phone a couple of months after
we get back together. So you're not we had both
agreed when we got back together. You know, we got
a month to cut off any extra shit we got
going on. This is three months after that conversation, and
it's odd types of bitches, not even old bitches from
the three months new bitches.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Okay, what the hell did you expect?
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Baby girls?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Really fucked my head up place. I went through that
phone for motherfucking teeth for tea. So in the screenshots,
he had the message that it was in his pictures.
He had the screenshot that he covered up with the
ink or whatever, and then his dumb ass had the
fucking real screenshot there, the one that he didn't cover
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the name of So I'm gonna find out the motherfucking
screenshot about the dates and the flirting and shit in
the sidelines and how they want each other was from
he's fucking so God best friend that he was defensive
to suck about.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Kay yum, see why you should have left, girl? See
do you see why you put up? You put up
with a lot of shit.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
From this nigga. Girl. I'm gonna keep reminding you.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Remember you you you left the nigga that was paying
your bills for this nigga fuck talking about that was
a red flag, and that was a red flag, and
then that was a red flag and the bitch you just.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Was on a roller coaster.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
You just went through it like there was nothing red flag,
six flagshead.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Ass, like you didn't give a fuck. Ma'am. I'm gonna
let you finish.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
So now I am on a so so I find
an iCloud and a phone number, and I go through
all of their messages literally from the time before time,
basically since the time we got together. So he has
been flirting with, like linking with, you know, but from
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the messages aspar as I could tell, they hadn't fucked
an intimate but clearly it's some type of.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Feelings and emotions there.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
Its just something has prevented them from being together in
a relationship or I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Yeah, because that's they were best friends. They really started
off his best friends and he probably always had a
thing for her, but she, probably being his best friend,
has seen how he's done bitches for.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Years and years and years, you including.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Being one of them, and she's like, nah, I don't
trust you. I see how you move with bitches. So
that's she loves her best friend too, but as much
as she loves them, she damn sure ain't about to
be one of his victims, you know, end up like
your ass, So you know.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
What I mean?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Like that, that's you gotta think about that when a
best friend, when a female best friend is like hesitant
to get with her her male best friend, but they
do like each other more than likely that's why because
she's seeing how he is with women.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
She has two young kids, so.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
I don't know. She doesn't adversity together her grown ass.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Age either, So it's probably a couple of factors.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Or first of all, how the fuck you going? Girl?
Speaker 1 (15:41):
You write and think about your story. You're sitting here
giving me this story where you are the fool.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
In the circus.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
You you are made out to be the clown in
the circus. And how dare you speak on what this
woman ain't got together in her life? She got that
nigga that she was trying to get, She got that
nigga that you thought was yours.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
So I hate when women come at the other one
month when it's really like, you know, when when y'all
don't have to sometimes you gotta check a bit.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Sometimes you gotta.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
You know, air a girl out every time, every now
and then, you know what I'm saying. Arabit y'all, let
pop out and show you know what I'm saying. But
if you got your own shit going on, the last
thing you need to be thinking about is somebody else
not having their life together. Okay, now we got a
commercial and if you click off of this podcast, I
swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Listen, so let's let me let you finish.
Speaker 4 (16:36):
Top of She not this nigga ain't shit for real.
So I'm going back to such a time before.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Time see other bitches. But what bother me the.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Most was her because you know, this kind of fucked
up my views on best friends and platonic relationships between
male and females. You know, so now as I move
over dating, it's gonna be like, nigga, I don't want
to be one of the bitches.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Blade ain't no friends like.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
I need to see all the messages from the sign
before time hang out with these bitch a couple of
times with you see how she vibes around you, and
just read the energy in the room.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Basically, this nigga fucked my head up with that.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
So and it was just like you know, they was
talking about sexual shit and how they love each other
and how deeply they feel about each other and about
marriage and being together and moving in together like all
types of shit. So this is well after you know,
we done got back together and that month, don't want
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boy where we're supposed to be cutting size.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
With everyone, so.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
I leave again and then I also what really fucked
my hand up was because he knew I hadn't ran
through that phone before and saw her and question d
and tripped out about it, and that's why we broke up.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Ultimately, he saved her.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Number and another girl's number under male names, so I
wouldn't really think twice to look through those messages, or
if they called, I wouldn't think twice about why he
wasn't going to answer. And what fucked me up was
one of the names had been in there for like
two whole years, and I literally have been seeing it
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for two whole years. And this is like literally the
two years of the relationship.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
So really what's.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Been holding me on was Yeah, I can't wait to
hear that.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Thanks time.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
If this it, like, damn nigga, like, you don't waste
it two years in my twenties, I'm twenty seven.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Now I'm like in.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Love with you in the most toxic way ever, Like,
and it's so hard to leave him, like these niggas
kicked my door in multiple times because I blocked him
for weeks since the last time I went through his phone, Like.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
I just I really don't know what to do.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
I need help getting away, staying away. I'm moving soon
so that should make it better.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
But yeah, and ROWN needs help, Like what how do
I move on from this?
Speaker 4 (19:11):
I feel stupid and brainwashed and stuck, but I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Well, I'm glad that you said it, and I don't
have to say it because I don't like calling women stupid.
I don't like calling you know, because we've all been
in predicaments like this. And why I can't say we've
all because I know a few women that have not,
you know, but I have. I've been in a predicament
where I couldn't leave a guy alone and know he
was treating me like ten carrots shit, you feel me
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like putting things before him and putting him up on
a pedestal, and it's like, first of all, bitch, you're
you're you're.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
That's a whole other situation.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
But yes, I've done that before, so I'm really I
don't want to say that you're stupid, but what you
just said, you know, you're giving him too much power
talking about he wasted two years ago, Like if you
wasted two years of your own life, you already know,
you know, And I'm glad that you recognize that this
ship is toxic, but you know, be that as it may.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
This is your fault as well.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
You let this man play you like a fucking fiddle,
and that's why he kept doing it and got better
at it with time, you know, and was doing it
for so long by the time you found out about bitches.
You you think he cared, You think he was gonna
give a fuck. You chased him to no end. All
he gotta do is chase you a little bit and
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that leads you on. I know, the dick cannot be
that good. We got to stop obsessing over the dick
and the time spending all of that shit.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Like that's like a crazy thing, ain't it.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Yes, I hate I hate girls.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
It's like you gotta talk in the mic. I don't
understand that though she was saying it because of the.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Dick, well, she was saying it was because the time spend. Now,
Taylor has been in and out. So I'm gonna go
I'm gonna go over your story. Okay, So she want
to this nigga name is which I M call it.
She want to call him that she's even though she's anonymous,
she still wants him to remain anonymous as well. Now
they've been dealing with each other for a total of
two years or whatever. When they first got together, everything
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was great, but she was doing her thing, you know
what I mean, Like she had a roster niggas which
one of them was paying her bills for her, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
But that nigga was in the streets.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
So it was like taking the good with the bedy
paying your bills, but he also risking his life every day,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Okay, so you did get that, all right?
Speaker 3 (21:24):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (21:25):
And her and the dude started talking, you know what
I mean, like and she started liking him. He basically
pulled her away from the other dudes, you know, just
just I guess, whining and dining her and you know,
just making her feel good. Basically, she was getting something
from him that she wasn't getting from all the other
niggas on the roster, right, So she left him alone,
including the god who was paying the bills. She left
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him alone. I'm sorry I had to get leut on
it because that is so that's crazy. That's just respectful
to yourself start some other girls. Yeah, pretty much. So yep,
she she had found out about his best friend.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yes, she go through the I mean go through the
Facebook and realize, all right, you got a best friend,
whie the fuck I never knew about her? But look,
this is the thing. He started slowly but surely moving
in her game. His game ended up over there, like
clothes and stuff and that's the thing. Yeah, but because
she stopped talking to the guy who's paying the bills,
now she's paying everything by herself. This nigga never offered
her nothing from the bills, but he started standing up
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in the house laying that pipe. You know.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
So that was the best friend exactly. This is what
I said.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
I feel like he's not with the best friend because
the best friend probably see how he treat women, you
know what I mean, and will never go there with him.
I had the same situation, you know what I mean.
I had a male best friend who wanted to go
there with me. And as much as I loved my
best friend, I'm like, Nigga, I see how you do
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bitches like I'm not about to be one of them,
Like you got what four fucking baby mothers now and
shit like I already got a baby father with four
other baby mothers.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
I'm not doing it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
But yeah, either way, so I definitely understand where she
coming from. And you know, but she let this nigga
do this seat. She said he was a liar, he
was inconsistent. She started seeing how with her. They ended
up breaking up, and she looked she went She ended up,
breaking up with the nigga, putting them out and all
that type shit. God had gotten herself a whole new
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bull was like doing good. Then this nigga came back.
She said, all right, we're gonna put everything on the table.
I think they gave each other thirty days to like
dismiss all the bitches and all the niggas, like they
like played this game basically, and so at the end
of the thirty days, they're supposed to swap phones and see,
you know, all right, clean out the phone or whatever.
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But this nigga forgot to delete some shit, and she's
saying other shit, like shit that went way.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Back from years with other bitches and all that.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
And then the best friend was in there, so it
was a lot and she was like, she feels like
and she still can't leave them alone. She asking me
how she can leave him alone. And I ain't even
let her finish the goddamn stories. It's three minutes and
fifty other fucking seconds, yo. Shit, Yeah, that's a whole
another episode. Oh lord, leve me.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
I got to end this shit. She need to lead
this nigga alone.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Then right, yeah, I don't feel like what else I
feel like this is part one. We're gonna you know,
we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a two part
that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a
two parter, y'all. Y'all let me know, y'all jump in
the Carefully Reckless podcast page and the dms are in
the comments, and y'all let me know the advice that
I should give this lady or y'all give her advice,
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and we're gonna come back with part two. We're gonna
hear the other five minutes that she got to say,
because I think, oh no, it's ten minutes. It's ten
other minutes, okay, and the summary Jesus all right, So
we're gonna come back, and just like that, we come
to the end of yet another Carefully Reckless episode with
your girl Jess hilarious and my girl Taylor is here.
Say thank y'all, You say thank you to the people. Yes,
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say it's okay, all right, y'all, see y'all for part
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Speaker 2 (00:15):
Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with
your girl, Jess.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hilarious. What are we doing?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
I'll be fixing mess and we got one. Listen my baby,
my baby, I'm in here.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
What say? Let's say what's up Taylor? You all say?
What's up on my girl? What's she here?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Even more pregnant than she was two weeks ago? So
she gonna be in and out y'all because she is
annoyed as fuck. She got a little baby up in there?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
What you have a girl?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Oh? Can we know? Yeah, I have a new boy.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
She's having a little boy. So she's about to be
a bit sorry talking about that. My god.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Boys make you so mean. In my opinion, I was
mean when I was pregnant with ash.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I wasn't. Do you think I was mean when I
was pregnant with Marley? No, I wasn't mean.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, yeah, I wasn't mean. I just was like over everything.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I wasn't mean, though, I just was like, y'all getting
on my motherfucking nerves all right, So we have a
voice memo, y'all. It's the first one in a long time.
I think it's the first one in season four that
we had. I ain't have a voice memo since like
season two, I think either way.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
But let's get straight into it. Let me sing hey.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Girl, Hey, okay, es he picks my mess and you're
gonna be like, what the fuck? It's not even mess,
it's really pissed. Okay, it's really more borderline shit. Yeah,
let me get it started, because I ain't trying to hold.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
You, Okay.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
So I'm gonna try to make a long story short.
I am twenty seven, just turn twenty seven. My wishing
mccollic because it's an ex but it's a washing mcgolic
because I ain't go back.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
One more time for a find a round of this disappointment.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Okay, So I'm twenty seven. My wish mccallage is thirty
eight seven thirty nine this year. So we met when
I was twenty four, turned in twenty five and a.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Couple of months.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
I mean, everything was kind of perfect, Like we talked
for a month before we like linked up. I was
dating single for a year and a half, heavy on
the self love. My confidence was how its fuck all
time high, like bitches is working out, doing yoga, drawing, reading, writing, women,
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their breast life and shit. So I was dating, I
wasn't exclusively like dating him.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
So when I monthly got to know.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Each other, you know, we just kind of clicked more
than the other guys, and the other guys were kind
of more on my roster d for convenience and not
just convenienced like there were good dudes. So you know,
I wanted to see if more feelings could develop for me.
So after that first link up, it was fucking history.
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We is going on days every weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I eventually stopped.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Texting the other guys so much, and you know, about
two months go by, and at this point, he is
spending the night every night I'm talking about he's basically
living here, like his game is here, he has close here,
He comes right after work, it doesn't leaven, so he
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goes back to work. Like we're literally together all the
fucking time, Like even on the weekends, he's there after work,
he's there playing the game like just it's like we're
living together at this point. So that about the third
month mark, I got to put myself down, like, hey,
what are we doing? Like you know, single for many
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I need boundaries think like are we together?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Are we not together? Relationship, which clearly it fucking was.
So I'm like, look, if you want me to.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Be your girlfriend, you need to ask me a person
not throwing off fucking text me as it is, which
your drive before, which was a major red flag.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
So you know, I'm the pype girl like hook every day.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
So I'm backing him lunches with fruit, snacks, juice, whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
The fuck he likes, cute little notes.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
He's also doing cute shit like appealing to my love languages.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
You know, we go to the store together or whatever.
He'll go have here. You know, he got me on
my saying stuff for Christmas, which is the fuck he should.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I got him something as well, so you know shit's
coming good.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
But I'm kind of like at this point now, like, well,
you know you're not. I'm playing these bills on.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
All like, and that's kind of turning me off from you,
because you know, I had a dude on my roster
and send me money for the fucking hell of it.
My asude dude on my roster was in the streets
and this dude wasn't so I wasn't really tripping.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I'm like, I got a good dude, like you might
be the nigga that I've been praying for.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
So the date slowed down from every weekend every once
in a while, the affection slowed down.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Everything slowed down.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
So this is about month six, and I'm noticing these changes.
I'm like, hey, like, you know, it's something wrong, like
do we need to do something else to connect? You know,
what are you missing? Because I've noticed changes in our relationship.
So I noticed that, you know, we would go through
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my phone sometimes.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
So I was scrolling through his Facebook one day and
I saw.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
This, I know, this this one girl and all of
his like literally all of his fucking like all of them.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
So I call him.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I'm like, hey, babe, I was just scrolling through your
Facebook and I noticed this one girl and all of
your li likes.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I was just wondering who it was, like, you know,
who is it like?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
And this is like, you know, he was scrolling through
my Facebook, asked questions through my phone, asked questions.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
So I didn't think it would be a problem.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
He immediately gets defensive, like, that's my best friend. Weve
been best friend since child, we grew up together. I'm
not cutting her off like whoa dude relaxed like And
that really blew me to cook back and was a
major red flag because I literally have never asked him
to cut any female friend off or came off as
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any type of insecure.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It was just like that shit blew me a back.
So with Henry acting on.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
All defensive and she you know, I'm like, that's your
best friend, Like you know, why never made her?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Why have I never heard of her? Why you never
brought her up? If I literally never stroke through your.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Facebook and asked who she was, I literally would have
never knew about her, So be red flag right. So
after that, he kind of started being like more private,
like I don't you know, so I don't ask you questions,
you don't ask me questions. It's just fucking crazy because
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the nigga asks questions all the times.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And then also he basically living at your house like
basically once the nigga game is there, he moved the
fucking so you trying to have your cake and needith
too and I and I'm not really with that ship,
so I definitely understand.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, but yeah, that's you.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You let him, You let him do a little bit
too much, too fast, and he started getting he started
smelling hisself as the black mothers would say, but I'm
gonna let you finish. Hold up, Hold up, I know
the ship getting good. But listen to just a couple
of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
So at this point, my mind is fixated when his
best friend, Like, I am determined to figure out.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
What the fuck he really got going on, because it's
more than a defense thing.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
So I go through his phone, can't find anything, so boom,
fuck it. Like, you know, he's on Facebook, you know
inboxing girls.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
My getting replies. I'm like, you know what, I don't
want to call my.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Fice insecure, even though if we're in a relationship, I
do kind of find like I'm not inboxing niggas trying
to get attention or response as hard I'm not heart
I you know, motherfucking stories and sending it to the
inbox hoping and respond like.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I'm not doing any of that. But I got to
just let it go. My fault. So a few months
go by and we're just we're not getting along.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
I'm finding out that he's inconsistent, he's a liar. He
is hiding shit, like literally, he is making me insecure
by just he done did a whole one to eighty
from the motherfucker he showed me in the beginning, Like
he's not affectionate. We're not like that intimate as much anymore.
Like where he used to want to talk like throughout
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the workday, like while he was working or whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
You know, he is not willing to do that anymore.
So I'm like cool, like and my mom, I'm like,
I'm gonna run through this nigga phone like fuck that.
I'm want an ambitious I rather know.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Hold up, you given this ship a lot of posssion
for you to be coming from the streets.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Remember you said you had this nigga, that nigga, this nigga,
that nigga. You didn't got rid of the nigga that
was paying your bills for this clown ass nigga. And
you still like this one must have been the one
that had you like ready to be on some exclusive ship.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
And you you you hinted toward.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
That earlier like seven minutes ago, and you also said
you was gonna make this story short.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
And I'm loving it.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Remember you said that you lie, honey, so I'm gonna
let you finished. But yeah, this this seemed like you I'm, i'm, i'm, I'm,
I'm gonna let you finish.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
And to just be wondering like Beach just be talking
about intuition. Well, Beach, my mother fucking insuition led me
to look through this niggaphone.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
So I find.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Messages with the X, you know, asking when can he
come see her. She basically told his niggas she's busy
until the next mother fucking year. Come to find out
much later on that X was her or whatever. So
fast forward, we have an argument.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
He's mad at me. He sends me a.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Screenshot of text messages but with the name covered up
and you know, the little drawing shit. So the message
he's talking about a day and you know.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
They've been trying to take each other.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
Out on dates for months, and I'm just like, what
the fuck? Like in for context, he was the type
of nigga that overtalked me, you know, bring up pitches
and how he got options, and he taught.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Me, are you.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
He couldn't just sit down and have.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
A conversation and be held accountable, So he couldn't have
difficult conversations.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
So he sends his screenshot.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
So now I have said it on figuring out who
the fuck was he.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Talking to an as green shot. I was talking about.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Dates and sidelines, and she's basically saying, you're trying to
make me outsideline, and he basically said.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Back, no, you're trying to make me your sideline.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Fucking with so and so so anyway, girl, So I
want to say, like for three months straight that I
left him alone, he's calling me non stop, pulling up
to my house, pulling up to my mom my house, like.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Pulling up with me, literally like stalking me. So me being.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Delusional and retarded. Oh my gosh, I am so sorry.
If that offends anybody, just just beat that out or something,
me being stupid and delusional.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I'm like, you know what this man is really fighting
from my love?
Speaker 4 (11:50):
He said, fucked up, And he never talked to truth
about the sex message. He literally went from is my sister,
who I used another phone to make that up just
to make you jealous, like all types of shit.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
Never told the truth about it, so I never know
who it was at that point. This is long as fuck.
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Okay, So I'm just mean this all the way up
fast far we get back together, why my dumb mess
was doing good? I had a new bool like just
the fucking stupid. Okay, So we get back together. So
he's the same narcis assistic type.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Of man.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
He's I'm thinking that, you know, maybe he'll be who
he showed me in the beginning, but no, because he
was probably never that nigga to begin with.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So fast forward.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
I go through his phone a couple of months after
we get back together. So you're not we had both
agreed when we got back together. You know, we got
a month to cut off any extra shit we got
going on. This is three months after that conversation, and
it's odd types of bitches, not even old bitches from
the three months new bitches.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Okay, what the hell did you expect?
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Baby girls?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Really fucked my head up place. I went through that
phone for motherfucking teeth for tea. So in the screenshots,
he had the message that it was in his pictures.
He had the screenshot that he covered up with the
ink or whatever, and then his dumb ass had the
fucking real screenshot there, the one that he didn't cover
(13:20):
the name of So I'm gonna find out the motherfucking
screenshot about the dates and the flirting and shit in
the sidelines and how they want each other was from
he's fucking so God best friend that he was defensive
to suck about.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Kay yum, see why you should have left, girl? See
do you see why you put up? You put up
with a lot of shit.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
From this nigga. Girl. I'm gonna keep reminding you.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Remember you you you left the nigga that was paying
your bills for this nigga fuck talking about that was
a red flag, and that was a red flag, and
then that was a red flag and the bitch you just.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Was on a roller coaster.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
You just went through it like there was nothing red flag,
six flagshead.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Ass, like you didn't give a fuck. Ma'am. I'm gonna
let you finish.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
So now I am on a so so I find
an iCloud and a phone number, and I go through
all of their messages literally from the time before time,
basically since the time we got together. So he has
been flirting with, like linking with, you know, but from
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the messages aspar as I could tell, they hadn't fucked
an intimate but clearly it's some type of.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Feelings and emotions there.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
Its just something has prevented them from being together in
a relationship or I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Yeah, because that's they were best friends. They really started
off his best friends and he probably always had a
thing for her, but she, probably being his best friend,
has seen how he's done bitches for.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Years and years and years, you including.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Being one of them, and she's like, nah, I don't
trust you. I see how you move with bitches. So
that's she loves her best friend too, but as much
as she loves them, she damn sure ain't about to
be one of his victims, you know, end up like
your ass, So you know.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
What I mean?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Like that, that's you gotta think about that when a
best friend, when a female best friend is like hesitant
to get with her her male best friend, but they
do like each other more than likely that's why because
she's seeing how he is with women.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
She has two young kids, so.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
I don't know. She doesn't adversity together her grown ass.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Age either, So it's probably a couple of factors.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Or first of all, how the fuck you going? Girl?
Speaker 1 (15:41):
You write and think about your story. You're sitting here
giving me this story where you are the fool.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
In the circus.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
You you are made out to be the clown in
the circus. And how dare you speak on what this
woman ain't got together in her life? She got that
nigga that she was trying to get, She got that
nigga that you thought was yours.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
So I hate when women come at the other one
month when it's really like, you know, when when y'all
don't have to sometimes you gotta check a bit.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Sometimes you gotta.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
You know, air a girl out every time, every now
and then, you know what I'm saying. Arabit y'all, let
pop out and show you know what I'm saying. But
if you got your own shit going on, the last
thing you need to be thinking about is somebody else
not having their life together. Okay, now we got a
commercial and if you click off of this podcast, I
swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Listen, so let's let me let you finish.
Speaker 4 (16:36):
Top of She not this nigga ain't shit for real.
So I'm going back to such a time before.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Time see other bitches. But what bother me the.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Most was her because you know, this kind of fucked
up my views on best friends and platonic relationships between
male and females. You know, so now as I move
over dating, it's gonna be like, nigga, I don't want
to be one of the bitches.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Blade ain't no friends like.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
I need to see all the messages from the sign
before time hang out with these bitch a couple of
times with you see how she vibes around you, and
just read the energy in the room.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Basically, this nigga fucked my head up with that.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
So and it was just like you know, they was
talking about sexual shit and how they love each other
and how deeply they feel about each other and about
marriage and being together and moving in together like all
types of shit. So this is well after you know,
we done got back together and that month, don't want
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boy where we're supposed to be cutting size.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
With everyone, so.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
I leave again and then I also what really fucked
my hand up was because he knew I hadn't ran
through that phone before and saw her and question d
and tripped out about it, and that's why we broke up.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Ultimately, he saved her.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Number and another girl's number under male names, so I
wouldn't really think twice to look through those messages, or
if they called, I wouldn't think twice about why he
wasn't going to answer. And what fucked me up was
one of the names had been in there for like
two whole years, and I literally have been seeing it
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for two whole years. And this is like literally the
two years of the relationship.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
So really what's.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Been holding me on was Yeah, I can't wait to
hear that.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Thanks time.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
If this it, like, damn nigga, like, you don't waste
it two years in my twenties, I'm twenty seven.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Now I'm like in.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
Love with you in the most toxic way ever, Like,
and it's so hard to leave him, like these niggas
kicked my door in multiple times because I blocked him
for weeks since the last time I went through his phone, Like.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
I just I really don't know what to do.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
I need help getting away, staying away. I'm moving soon
so that should make it better.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
But yeah, and ROWN needs help, Like what how do
I move on from this?
Speaker 4 (19:11):
I feel stupid and brainwashed and stuck, but I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Well, I'm glad that you said it, and I don't
have to say it because I don't like calling women stupid.
I don't like calling you know, because we've all been
in predicaments like this. And why I can't say we've
all because I know a few women that have not,
you know, but I have. I've been in a predicament
where I couldn't leave a guy alone and know he
was treating me like ten carrots shit, you feel me
(19:36):
like putting things before him and putting him up on
a pedestal, and it's like, first of all, bitch, you're
you're you're.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
That's a whole other situation.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
But yes, I've done that before, so I'm really I
don't want to say that you're stupid, but what you
just said, you know, you're giving him too much power
talking about he wasted two years ago, Like if you
wasted two years of your own life, you already know,
you know, And I'm glad that you recognize that this
ship is toxic, but you know, be that as it may.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
This is your fault as well.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
You let this man play you like a fucking fiddle,
and that's why he kept doing it and got better
at it with time, you know, and was doing it
for so long by the time you found out about bitches.
You you think he cared, You think he was gonna
give a fuck. You chased him to no end. All
he gotta do is chase you a little bit and
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that leads you on. I know, the dick cannot be
that good. We got to stop obsessing over the dick
and the time spending all of that shit.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Like that's like a crazy thing, ain't it.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Yes, I hate I hate girls.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
It's like you gotta talk in the mic. I don't
understand that though she was saying it because of the.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Dick, well, she was saying it was because the time spend. Now,
Taylor has been in and out. So I'm gonna go
I'm gonna go over your story. Okay, So she want
to this nigga name is which I M call it.
She want to call him that she's even though she's anonymous,
she still wants him to remain anonymous as well. Now
they've been dealing with each other for a total of
two years or whatever. When they first got together, everything
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was great, but she was doing her thing, you know
what I mean, Like she had a roster niggas which
one of them was paying her bills for her, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
But that nigga was in the streets.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
So it was like taking the good with the bedy
paying your bills, but he also risking his life every day,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Okay, so you did get that, all right?
Speaker 3 (21:24):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (21:25):
And her and the dude started talking, you know what
I mean, like and she started liking him. He basically
pulled her away from the other dudes, you know, just
just I guess, whining and dining her and you know,
just making her feel good. Basically, she was getting something
from him that she wasn't getting from all the other
niggas on the roster, right, So she left him alone,
including the god who was paying the bills. She left
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him alone. I'm sorry I had to get leut on
it because that is so that's crazy. That's just respectful
to yourself start some other girls. Yeah, pretty much. So yep,
she she had found out about his best friend.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yes, she go through the I mean go through the
Facebook and realize, all right, you got a best friend,
whie the fuck I never knew about her? But look,
this is the thing. He started slowly but surely moving
in her game. His game ended up over there, like
clothes and stuff and that's the thing. Yeah, but because
she stopped talking to the guy who's paying the bills,
now she's paying everything by herself. This nigga never offered
her nothing from the bills, but he started standing up
(22:20):
in the house laying that pipe. You know.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
So that was the best friend exactly. This is what
I said.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
I feel like he's not with the best friend because
the best friend probably see how he treat women, you
know what I mean, and will never go there with him.
I had the same situation, you know what I mean.
I had a male best friend who wanted to go
there with me. And as much as I loved my
best friend, I'm like, Nigga, I see how you do
(22:49):
bitches like I'm not about to be one of them,
Like you got what four fucking baby mothers now and
shit like I already got a baby father with four
other baby mothers.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
I'm not doing it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
But yeah, either way, so I definitely understand where she
coming from. And you know, but she let this nigga
do this seat. She said he was a liar, he
was inconsistent. She started seeing how with her. They ended
up breaking up, and she looked she went She ended up,
breaking up with the nigga, putting them out and all
that type shit. God had gotten herself a whole new
(23:23):
bull was like doing good. Then this nigga came back.
She said, all right, we're gonna put everything on the table.
I think they gave each other thirty days to like
dismiss all the bitches and all the niggas, like they
like played this game basically, and so at the end
of the thirty days, they're supposed to swap phones and see,
you know, all right, clean out the phone or whatever.
(23:43):
But this nigga forgot to delete some shit, and she's
saying other shit, like shit that went way.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Back from years with other bitches and all that.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
And then the best friend was in there, so it
was a lot and she was like, she feels like
and she still can't leave them alone. She asking me
how she can leave him alone. And I ain't even
let her finish the goddamn stories. It's three minutes and
fifty other fucking seconds, yo. Shit, Yeah, that's a whole
another episode. Oh lord, leve me.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
I got to end this shit. She need to lead
this nigga alone.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Then right, yeah, I don't feel like what else I
feel like this is part one. We're gonna you know,
we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a two part
that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna make this a
two parter, y'all. Y'all let me know, y'all jump in
the Carefully Reckless podcast page and the dms are in
the comments, and y'all let me know the advice that
I should give this lady or y'all give her advice,
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and we're gonna come back with part two. We're gonna
hear the other five minutes that she got to say,
because I think, oh no, it's ten minutes. It's ten
other minutes, okay, and the summary Jesus all right, So
we're gonna come back, and just like that, we come
to the end of yet another Carefully Reckless episode with
your girl Jess hilarious and my girl Taylor is here.
Say thank y'all, You say thank you to the people. Yes,
(25:00):
say it's okay, all right, y'all, see y'all for part
two next week. Can't Fully Reckless is a production of
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