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April 16, 2024 41 mins

On this episode, Lil Duval sits down with special guests Gizelle Bryant and Robyn Dixon of the Reasonably Shady podcast and The Real Housewives of Potomac reality TV series. They share personal experiences and opinions about relationships, cheating, interracial dating, oral sex, grooming, age gaps in dating, spending habits, the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and much more. Tune in and join the conversation in the socials below. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm a little duval and this is Conversations with the podcast.
Today's guest helps from the world of Housewives of Potomac.
Let's welcome Giselle Briant and Robin Dixon Live. He directed
you by a little du ball tapping in, you know,
vibing Dan some we over here chilling, you know, you
know we do over here. We just like about life

(00:20):
and talk ship. This episode, I got two people with me,
you know. You know it's a threesome on this motherfucker
to day got there.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
That's how you do.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Three some motherfuckers, you know. And and and they gonna
teach me about certain ship because I don't know shit
about this about what they do, you know what I'm saying,
So they gonna tell us matter in fact, y'all introduced
who y'all are right now, because because I don't know
shit about ship, so my ordience don't know shit about
shit's needed. So y'all let them know, you.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Know what, this is some nonsense, Okay, how on earth
do we get invited onto a podcast?

Speaker 4 (00:55):
And he starts by saying, I don't know shit about y'all,
but anyway.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
We love you know, that's not a bad, bad thing.
That's that. It's just like I'm trying. I'm just like
the audience. I'm new to everything. So you gotta know
I'm not one of them fake. I'm with you.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
I'm not going back and forth with you.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
You got to, baby, you got to on the podcast.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
So I am Jaselle, and we are and this is Robert.
We are half or the whole thing is reasonably shady.
So I typically shady one. She's reasonable. We are also
housewives on the Real Housewives Atomach, which airs Sundays on
Bradbo eight o'clock.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Get Your Entire Life. Yes, so we've been on reality
TV for eight years sharing our lives. I have a
question enough about us. Are you in your kids room
or something? Why do I see toys in the background?

Speaker 1 (01:43):
Those are legos? Those they Oh you don't like the legos?

Speaker 2 (01:49):
I mean, what is this? You and the kids were
smoking weed? What is happening?

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Now? I'll be building ship. You know, when you get older,
you gotta you gotta do ship to keep your brain going,
you know. So this is one of my things that
through I'll be building off you are he built that?

Speaker 2 (02:02):
So you built those? Okay?

Speaker 1 (02:05):
I built all the type of shit. You know, I'll
be building shit now. I just that's been my new
thing since since i've been look back on my feet,
I've been building ship. So it's been helping me better
on the road and helped me on stage and shit,
believe or not?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Okay, So okay, So Robin, you might not notice she's been
with her guy forever she's married. She's she married the
same guy twice.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
Okay, Okay, she realized I fucked up, let me get
back with this nigga, okay.

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Or she might have just forgave him for whatever he'd
been done in his life.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
So so at this point, if you married somebody twice,
is that it like whatever they do, whatever one person does,
you just got to forget the other person don't matter.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
I think honestly, if you married the same person twice,
you realize what you got. You realize now this motherfucker
is a good person through the thinking thing, even though
he got some fucked up ways. You realize it ain't
gonna get no better than this nigga. Anybody gonna love
me like this nigga ain't gonna love this nigga. You
know what I'm saying. I gonna love this nigga like
I love him, so we stuck together. You know, you

(03:08):
realize it's some bullshit out there, and we all know
it some bullshit out there.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
Trump Trump, It's a lot. But you consider yourself part
of the bullshit.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
In a way. Yeah, because I kind of molded most
of these young motherfuckies to be out of there ears.
So I'm kind of brothers the problem BA at the
same time, I make I make a method through my madness.
You know what I'm saying, because I don't think most
men of that band. If you take out cheating, what
else can you do? What else is there? Fu?

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Okay, some are dead beats. They don't want to get
off the cows.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
Well, see, I'm not talking about them, baby boy ass niggas.
I'm not talking about these srens getting taken care of
about other motherfuckies. I'm talking about this regular If they
taking care of the bills, okay, taking care of the kids,
they what else slepper is there to do? Shit? Alright?
He might be fucking off every now and then, but
he's not. You don't have girlfriends.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
What if what if he gambles all of the money away?
He got a gambling problem? That's a problem.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Is he still being responsible? Y'all still got a roof
over y'all head?

Speaker 2 (04:11):
No, every three months, we gotta move every three months.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
No, that's tripping. He tripping there, y'all. That that's tripping.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
So am I hearing? You're like, okay, as long as
the house is taking care of the kids are taking
care of. So what if he's out here in the
streets cheating? Is that what I'm hearing.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
No, I'm saying if that's the worst that it is.
I mean, and im not saying out here cheating. I'm
just saying, you caught him fucking off.

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Same thing.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
No, it ain't, No, it ain't. It ain't.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
It's not. It's not because of my situation. So I
had a situation my husband recently before we got married.
The second time, he got caught up communicating with somebody
on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
And then that is so petty, b She's not done.

Speaker 2 (05:03):
She not done.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Okay, I'm not done.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
Okay, So communicating with somebody on Instagram and then and
then this side the rest of the story goes. So
she ends up flying herself to where we live, claiming
that she was visiting some other dude. This is the story. Okay,
and and uh and and but and it's still communicating,

(05:33):
you know, somehow telling reaching out to my husband, Oh,
I'm coming to the area, and he's like, okay, whatever,
so what. So then she gets here and it's reaching
out to him, talking about I lost my Violet. I
went to the casino. I lost my violet. I can't
pay for for the rest of my nights in the hotel.
Can you help me out?

Speaker 4 (05:54):
So he pays for the hotel. It's on his credit card.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
I'm listening. It's trick off. This, this is trick pussy.
So that's what she sounded like. She sounded like a
trick pussy. But go ahead, yeah, okay, I mean.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Pretty much an escorts what I kind of deduced. Anyway,
she was trying to, yes, trick some things off, so
he got he was caught up for a second. However,
he says he did not spend any time with her.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
He didn't.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
He felt bad for her. She ain't had no violet.
He sent his friend to hang out with her and
take her places and whatever, and friend ends up doing
something with her, so then she gets mad, and then
she goes and tells the world and she had the
receipt with his name on it. However, my husband is like,
I didn't do nothing with her. She literally reached out

(06:40):
to me. She was, you know whatever, he.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
Got caught now, he oh, are you feelshing because we
got caught up with some pat He got caught up
with some basis pussy. That bitch won the troll and
come up. He just fucked up and cheated with the
wrong bitch. He wasn't wrong. He just fucked up and
cheated with the wrong girl. That's what it sounds like me.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
But tell me this. Are you telling me this? What
do you believe?

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Number one? Right?

Speaker 2 (07:06):
What do you believe happened? Do you believe his story?

Speaker 1 (07:08):
Do you believe yes?

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Okay, so so is so? If he didn't do anything
physically with her. If he just felt bad because the
girl didn't have a wilet and he went and helped
her out, put you know whatever, felt bad for her
and rolled out. Is that and he you know, communicated
with her because she reached out to him. Is that cheating?
Is that breakup worthy?

Speaker 1 (07:32):
No? I don't think it's I don't think it's cheating.
I mean I think it's fucking off. That's what I said.
He was fucking off the side.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Off me, fucking off me.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
It's just a little bitch you kicking with on the side,
like your little your little young Lietenda that you fucking
here and there, and you pay us, you pay us
to shut the fuck up. But he just picked the
wrong base to do this with that.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Well, look, she tried, that's the things. She tried to
get him to pay her to shut up, and he wouldn't.
And then that's why she went and came running telling me.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
And then well that's what she suckled up bad because
now she ain't getting no more money. She'd have done it, Yeah,
she's the dummy. She'd have done it. You know what
I'm saying Like that, And in those sake shaping form,
are you stupid at all? Because you playing your part
the right way? She the one fucking up and he
fucked up. You gotta tell him. Man, man, you need
to check your bitches because these bitches is fucking up.

(08:26):
You need to know how to pick a better side, bitch,
pick better ones, right, because proof be told, every time
I got caught cheating, it's only again because my old
lady's been was searching for shit. None of my side
bitches called me out. I've never never called me out.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
Okay, so look but that's but that's what it is now.
Now it's like these these girls are so like my
husband is. Because I'm on the TV show my husband
is is a target.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, yeah, I see what you're saying that I get it, you.

Speaker 2 (08:56):
Know what I'm saying. The side pitches they not regular
side pitches anymore like the first is. They they're not
regular time.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
But just like, yeah, it's hard for y'all because y'all
got competition. These b just ain't playing there.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
No, no, okay, they want to meet me. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
Yes, they didn't even hand talking about when can I mean, Robin, you.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
Can't but see my old lady. But see my old lady.
She liked girl. So it makes it a lot easier
for me.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
Oh wow.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
Okay, So moving on, moving on. So just to give
you a little backstory.

Speaker 1 (09:35):
On on me, y'all cool fucking me. I ain't know
y'all was just cool. Go ahead. I was damning about
to counsel. I ain't going to eat friends.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
Let me tell you something. You ain't gonna go back
and forth with me topic. Okay, So a little backstory.
I was married shore pastor.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
And oh yeah, it's gonna be good.

Speaker 3 (09:57):
Okay, Well we're not gonna do is when I talking
about the pastor, I'm just giving you backstory.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Okay, Okay, go ahead, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Yes, and he's doing his thing in Atlanta, so you know,
kudos to Jamal Bryant.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
All Right, So nigga, Hell no, how you doing that? Nigga,
that's your that's your exhaust.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
Yes. Yeah, we had three kids together.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
So I did not know this ship, nigga. This is
a small ass celebrity world.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
Okay, all right, so we're moving away from that again. Backstory,
all right, We've got three kids together.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
They're amazing.

Speaker 3 (10:38):
So I you know, I'm now on this show, and
I have my own little platform, and I have my
little businesses, and you know, I'm excited about my little life.

Speaker 4 (10:50):
So mentally and emotionally, it's very difficult for me to.

Speaker 3 (10:54):
Take any of these dudes seriously because I'm just like,
I don't got time, and I didn't been through you know,
has to put me through a little bit. So at
this point in time my life, I'm just like, oh,
I just want some fun. Okay, you here for the fun.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
Let's get it. So we do you think I should
be serious about somebody and be honest with you.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
I go through this with a lot of my friends,
that girls a lot because I ustn know what to
tell y'all. But the ain't that much dick out here
that's safe and him mature like I don't know.

Speaker 2 (11:29):
So we screwed so pretty much. So wait, wait, I
decided with the pastors.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
What you say, Yeah, you should have did what she
did got better last.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
Well the pastor it may have made it very clear.
So I am the one and only even though he's
doing God knows well. But you know we are very
good friends. Yeah, I've decided that when I'm ready to
settle down, I think I'm going to venture out into
other ethnic groups because.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
Oh, you have a mess with other other colors? Yet
not not seriously, No, have you had sex? Let me
ask you, because I want to ask a woman. That's
when it come to different races, when it comes to sex,
is the sex different fucking with from black to white
to Asian? I have you messed with those different races?

Speaker 3 (12:17):
Okay, I've had sex with a white and it's pretty
much the same as a black dude, and it's a.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
Myth that white men got small dish.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
Yeah, that was a myth. Mine was good. Mine was
very nice size.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
Okay, Asian no, because I have a very good gay
friend and he was like, the Asians don't have nothing
in their hands, nothing, so I don't even want to
waste my time.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
So that's a no. But I'm here for any others.
I'm here for others.

Speaker 1 (12:49):
Have you tried Have you tried to date any others?

Speaker 2 (12:51):
Have you?

Speaker 1 (12:52):
Have you even tried today? Because they're besides sex, because
there's something like like a like a cultural different conversation wise. Yeah,
I said, I've dated it like I've dated the Asian.
I mean I fucked all of them, but I mean
actually that relationship. I've dated like black white. No, I
ain't dating no white yet, but I dated as Latino.

Speaker 4 (13:16):
Wait, we didn't say date. We said just just we're
just Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
But as far as the reason why, I said, as
far as like day can as far as dating, as
far as I think, I don't know if it's different,
because when you were the man, you kind of fall
into whatever he into, So they wasn't that much difference.
But as far as culture ship, it was a little
difference up in North. I dated a girl that's from
up North. That was totally different.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
Right, So I find with white guys they come at
me differently. Like when a black guy approaches me, it's
very direct. It's very much in your face, it's very
you know what you're doing?

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Can can we talk?

Speaker 3 (13:51):
It's they're very direct about what they want. White men
will come at you slid like, very passively. They are like,
hey about if I'm at the gym, Hey, I see
you have on new tennis shoes, and from that, I'm
supposed to figure out that.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
So why don't so if you understand that, why don't
you just take that shot?

Speaker 2 (14:14):
I just understood it like three weeks ago. I'm just three.
I always you you did date a white guy though, right,
or you hung out with a white guy years ago?

Speaker 1 (14:26):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (14:27):
Yeah, culture, what happened with that?

Speaker 1 (14:28):
What happened with that?

Speaker 2 (14:29):
How was it culturally?

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Like?

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Did you feel like, man, I need a black people.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
I'm be honest, I can't have this conversation right.

Speaker 2 (14:35):
Well, I'll be honest.

Speaker 3 (14:36):
I was always scared he was gonna say something racist,
and I just was like on edge all the time,
and and then he ended up kind of saying something racist.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
So I was like, I know it.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
My old lady said her family said some racist because
she dated a white guy before me, and she said
her family his family said some racist. That made us
cut them off and not fucking with him, right right,
because if.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
The family feels like that, then then you probably feel
like that too.

Speaker 1 (15:01):
Yeah. So I don't know. It's kind of tough dasing
outside your rest because not old do you have, Like
what do you do when the family bucket?

Speaker 2 (15:08):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Yeah, you can't just get easier said than done. So
I have a deal with that situation. But for me personally,
I think you just try that ship because if you
could deal with a nigga for so long, white people
should be a breeze for you. Mate.

Speaker 3 (15:23):
Okay, okay, I got a question for you. So do
you always go down like, okay, let's say you just meet.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
No, no, no, I can real quick fuck no, Like
did you have to work up to that? All right?
Let me tell you about me. I only I started
eating pussy late because eating pussy was like, y'all know,
we're older, Eating pussy wasn't no big thing back in
the day. Like shit, it wasn't like that, like it

(15:53):
was now late. I just thought he pushing my baby
mama and my daughters fifteen. So I'm forty six. Fifteen
years ago, yeah, about sixteen seventeen years Yeah, probably like
twenty nine, twenty eight, twenty nine. I started heating pussy.
Oh okay, and I could count on one I've done

(16:15):
a lot of fucking in my life. I count on
one hand how many girls out there ate in my life.
I learned quick, like, because once I started heating, I
like this shit. I hey, so I tried real quick,
and I realized real quick, you just can't eat everybody.

Speaker 2 (16:31):
So this is my question. What's the seriod? No, this
is my question. Do you have to if you just
met a woman, you have to work up to that,
Like you.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
Have to be my old lady. You have to be
my old lady.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
Oh you have a relationship, you have to be in
a relationship.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
Ok. Yeah, to be a relationship.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
I have a question because this is something on our
reality show that we talked about amongst the ladies. Oh,
this is a good question. This is a good question.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
You ready, Okay, y'all got a bunch of questions.

Speaker 5 (16:58):
I like, y'all, how do you feel about when you're
receiving oral sex, whether they swallow or not.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
I like, I like swallow because it's less messy, and
like if I'm laying that, like because I get here,
like right before I go to bed, that's up to her, Okay,
is it a turn off?

Speaker 4 (17:22):
Like Let's say she she doesn't swallow, and she kind
of like, you know, she.

Speaker 2 (17:27):
Goes to the bathroom and spits it out.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Not not.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
She don't have to go to the bathroom. She could
just like it's just she just I don't know, she
just gets.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
Rid of it.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
I don't really be caring that that part is up
to her really, and so it's okay, So it's not
I don't really be caring. It's up to her. Like
when I do the faces and ship like that. It
probably like threesomes and ship, but I don't really.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
Okay, Robin is a swallower.

Speaker 1 (17:51):
I'm not okay, why not? Why not?

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Because it's I don't know what you've been eating.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
It's sometimes you for the nigga, What the you mean?
You don't know what?

Speaker 4 (18:02):
Okay, I don't really cook, so you know, I don't
know what you're eating.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
It's too thick, it's too thick. It might get caught
it my throat like no, it's just too thick for me.

Speaker 1 (18:12):
Okay, so you gotta see I'm behavi you and we
got these things called the NEPs that it's like fruit.
Fruit make the nutcaste better for what they tell me.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
So okay, so this is this is my thing I'm
gonna get.

Speaker 3 (18:23):
I'm gonna, I'm not You're not gonna sit there and
white and it's not like you can I fix.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
So I'm not gonna get you to a point where
you're gonna.

Speaker 3 (18:33):
I'm gonna, we're gonna change positions and then you cannam
you won't even let them come in your I mean
sometimes but like typically I would rather.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
Change position, change position and come like so like jump
on top of it. But then what he not? Then
what he got nothing to gnay? I wear kandy peanuts
with a kind of no fuck no. But I'm talking
about usually usually when I get like when I get
I even wear commors with my old ladies because I

(19:07):
don't want to know both kids like I'm with them
and I like, get your stuff tied. No fuck no,
I'm I'm old fast. Let me ask y'all this too,
because like because I tweeted this the other day. I
got the people were crazy for me and I didn't
know this was This wasn't normal. No more, niggas don't shave,

(19:27):
they dicks. Niggas shaved they dicks now like I didn't
know you?

Speaker 2 (19:31):
Yes, I don't ye Yes. Are you hairy?

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Oh god no No, don't man skate, it's all man skate. Okay, Like,
what type of niggas is?

Speaker 1 (19:41):
What did this change?

Speaker 2 (19:42):
Like?

Speaker 1 (19:43):
I could have floord like I've been. I don't change
like I'm a hairy nigga.

Speaker 2 (19:49):
I'm not okay, any dude.

Speaker 4 (19:50):
Forty on down. I'm just gonna speak for myself. Forty
on down.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
It is handled okay.

Speaker 1 (19:55):
That don't look weird, y'all.

Speaker 2 (19:57):
That doesn't look like it looks bigger. No, we appreciate, Yes,
we appreciate. I don't want all that hair.

Speaker 4 (20:03):
No, and in the hand sometimes I'm smelling no.

Speaker 2 (20:06):
No.

Speaker 1 (20:06):
So that's a turn off for y'all, like hair like
head turn off for y'all. Yeah, yeah, yeah, trip like
I've been.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
I've been with my husband since nineteen ninety six. He
probably been shaving since two thousand, y'all.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
But he don't be scared of like like getting like
ingrown hands and ship like that shit, just like how
do you shave? Like how do you shop? You wed?

Speaker 2 (20:30):
It's one of those No, don't use like a straight
razor like a so.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
So I'm gonna cock my leg up like this here, yes,
y'all you are it ain't no fucking way, hell man,
I'm not doing th ship.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
Get one of those electric r you know, no, at
least are at least like trim it down.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
No, bro, no, it's no.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
No, have your lady, do it?

Speaker 1 (20:57):
Have your that's even gayer. So I'm gonna cock my
I'm gonna cock my ass up, and.

Speaker 2 (21:07):
You're producer.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
I didn't need to see that, bro.

Speaker 2 (21:11):
I ain't that the monthly monthly subscription you can get
that A low razor, get you a little electric than
you can get in.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Everyone I have been with they like playing in that head.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Oh they know, they don't know, they don't they know.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
But they's not. Ain't like my hands stick don't make me.

Speaker 3 (21:34):
Lady, and even even like men with all of that
that beards. I hate all of that beard stuff going on.
That's been a trend. That's got to cool.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
So you don't like my face? I like because I'm
just you know, that's good.

Speaker 4 (21:49):
What you have as fine? But anything longer?

Speaker 1 (21:52):
Oh yeah, like slim thug slip. Yeah, No, it's gotta
go do y'all like that painting Nigga's head the what
the paint?

Speaker 2 (22:03):
No, what's about the paint?

Speaker 1 (22:05):
The base?

Speaker 3 (22:10):
No ship off? Listen, listen, listen, Damal, let me tell you.
Let me tell you about that past to Jamal Briant.

Speaker 1 (22:18):
What did he? Don't you talk about that man? Don't
you talk about God?

Speaker 2 (22:23):
Child?

Speaker 1 (22:24):
Wait?

Speaker 3 (22:24):
He started, he went to go preach, and this this
negro started sweating that Beijing did not hold it up
all guy, wasn't it was a disaster.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
This is the church flights wasn't playing.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
This was about thirty years ago before Beijing was.

Speaker 1 (22:44):
This was when Charlie Lowe first started wearing Beijing.

Speaker 2 (22:47):
Yes, yes, it was a disaster, he said. Never he
was like, I can't believe this happened. Like you look crazy.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
I just can't do it because I just liked the
gray here. I think women like gray hair. Honestly, no,
I like it.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
It makes you look very uncle ish.

Speaker 1 (23:05):
Let me ask y'all another thing. What's what do y'all
think do y'all think age is a is a problem,
Like what's the what's the age gift? There's too much
for y'all. Dayton.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
So the guy that I'm fooling around with these days
is how old is Juson thirty six? Thirty seven?

Speaker 3 (23:20):
He's thirty seven, so he's fifteen. He's fifteen years sixteen
years younger. Okay, Yeah, And we don't have we have
great conversations. I don't ever feel like he's super young.

Speaker 1 (23:34):
So I think, is this the first youngest person you
ever David? I mean seriously, yeah, David, seriously.

Speaker 3 (23:40):
Yes, he's the youngest, but he's not the dude, the
Miami dude, Miami deal is like not ten years ten years.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
Yeah. Oh so but okay, all right, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (23:50):
So this is the young and I don't I think
because of who he is, just he's been through a
lot in life. He's got a you know, an amazing story.
I think because of that, I don't feel like I'm talking.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
To a teenager.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
Yeah, but I think if it was in the reverse,
like if I'm talking to an old man who's like
sixteen years older than me.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
Yeah, no, what's the oldest you ever dated? I'm older
than you, I mean not even now maybe younger. Have
you ever dated somebody like fifteen years younger than twenty
years older than you?

Speaker 2 (24:18):
I mean he was like twelve years older than me
and he and I was young, and I was hot.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
I was a hot girl.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
So I was like, you, you're you're just too you
moving still look good?

Speaker 1 (24:29):
Now. I ain't gonna frunt, thank you.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
I just felt like he was just moving too slow,
and sex was a little strange. Okay, So how old
was he at that time? So he was in his forties?

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Damn, we're forties. Which forties, I'm forty six, which he
was probably like.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
Forty five, and he just and this probably didn't have
anything to do with his age, but he just was
like he came very fast, so I didn't understand.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
Oh yeah, okay, so wait a minute, let's talk about
coming fast.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Okay, wait, so how I come fast? I'm gonna come fast.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
Okay, let me give me a time frame.

Speaker 4 (25:10):
Three minutes, seven minutes, twelve minutes.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
You went too far? Give me your time frame the
first the first round. Hey, I don't even know, like
first like my first round. I'm always not quick, that's
just me.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
I can't quick gim me, gim me what what's like
two minutes ship?

Speaker 1 (25:32):
Yeah, sometimes it all depends on yes, what pussy, I
really love pussy like you coming two.

Speaker 4 (25:40):
Minutes and then what do you do? You have to
sit there and like recharge yourself.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
Yeah, that's why I like people think I like three
since because just to have more girls. It's because my
girl could keep it going until I get packed hard again.
Stay woke, wait a minute.

Speaker 3 (25:54):
Okay, when you say wait, wait, wait, wait, don't tell
me to stay because because you know, like can stop
because you trying to flat from the.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
Fact that you're a too minute man, I am.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
I know what told you?

Speaker 2 (26:08):
Okay. So wait, So she's.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
Saying, like doing stuff to you or doing stuff to
somebody else while you're getting yourself.

Speaker 1 (26:14):
Together for really yeah, and I'm join the view.

Speaker 3 (26:19):
Oh okay, So then once you get yourself together for
around two, round.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
Two ain't no joke like round two. I ain't no hope,
Like I can go, you know what I'm saying. I
can go, but that ain't no time of ship. I
don't know, but I'm gonna go and tell you. I'm
gonna go and tell you good y'all be tripping because
you know that roads got y'all fucked up.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
But she turned on the roads.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
She Hey, man, leave that shit alone.

Speaker 2 (26:48):
Man, Yeah, we don't need you anymore.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Yeah, lead that shit alone. Bro That ship fucking up
a he co system.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
Okay, wait, you have to use it while she gotta
use it with you while you're in out of her.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
Do you do that? I ain't never did. I'm not
breaking those shit in. I'm not breaking that ship in
the party with me.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
I'm telling you to try it.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
Okay, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Can you not have one on one sex because you're
used to three?

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Yeah, we do all the time. I do it all.
When I say, like, I don't think I think people
think three soons like that's all you just round that,
just fucking wrap. I'm just saying, my girl she really
liked pussy, you know what I'm saying, Like, she don't
like girls, but she like pussy. She just gay like that.
So if we get around like I wanted them people,
it ain't no fun if the homie can't have none.

(27:34):
So if the girl knows she fuck with me, she
gotta fuck with my girls. So that's that's all it is.
But in the meantime, it's like, we don't give a
fuck if you're fucking or not. We're gonna suck each other,
you know.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
So do y'all have like like girls, Did y'all just
call and me like come over? Or do you just
like meet people out on the street?

Speaker 1 (27:51):
Like how does that? No? No, honestly, especially though that
you get you want to find your little quick that
y'all cool with and stick to that.

Speaker 2 (27:57):
How many on the roster? How many on the roster for.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
I don't want to suck it up?

Speaker 4 (28:02):
For me?

Speaker 1 (28:02):
No, I don't fuck it up? Get this part of
this song from from being how I am, Maggie. You
gotta be quiet sometimes you gotta know fuck up. Okay,
I know when you shot the fuck up. You ain't
never seen me as a blouse by none of my ship.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
Okay. So on your on your Instagram, you put that
you said a woman will put up with anything except
embarrassing her. M do you you say about that?

Speaker 1 (28:38):
That's that's why I just said. It's the reason why
I got this far, never got caught up because I
don't I don't embarrass no no woman. And to think
I don't know if y'all know anything about me, but
any old lady I've ever had, I've never posted it.
I'd never show her. I never promote them. You know
what I'm saying. And it actually works in your face
because when we break up, you ain't gonna deal with
the bullshit?

Speaker 4 (28:59):
Okay, but do you taking her dinner? Are y'all out
and about to people?

Speaker 2 (29:02):
See y'all?

Speaker 1 (29:03):
Yeah, we usually go and see that's another thing. That's
the only thing that if people don't realize that, like
it's a big thing, but it is, especially if you
deal with a woman. I don't eat that much. I'm
not an eater. Earlier you start, I'm not an eater,
so I don't like. I'm not like a restaurant type
nigga like that. I go if you want to go,

(29:24):
but I don't go out like that. And if I
do go out this out the country or some shit
like that, I'm not like, so I'm not. So it
works in my favorite as far as like being up
at the same time a woman that likes to eat,
they think that's cool until they get with me or
this nigga really don't eat.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Yeah, but yeah, that won't work. That would not work.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
Only okay, even if you don't eat a lot, and
you don't necessarily love restaurants if she does.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
Got like, and I do do that. But but naturally
for a woman, from what I've experienced, they do what
you do. You know what I'm saying. Even if I
say let's go out and eat, they y'all nefinitely just
start cooking for a nigga, They just want to cook, cook, cook,
And I'm like, hey, so you think.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
That depends on the woman and what she has going
on over her life. Yeah, So what I'm saying, like, like, who,
not everybody wants to live your movie?

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Okay, you're right, You're right, You're right. They don't. But naturally,
when a woman gets in a situation, if they love
this situation, that y'all naturally conform into a relationship type
shit and say fuck the world outside of that. And
that's what happens a lot when they give with me
because I'm a great nigga. Yea, I don't know if
y'all know. I'm a great guy. And it's easy, but

(30:35):
it works against me sometimes because trust me, I hate
I hate when they get too coupled women because they
it's like, I need you to like something else because
I don't want you to always be under me twenty
four seven, because then you're gonna start going crazy, you know,
and I don't be wanting that.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
So do y'all live together?

Speaker 1 (30:53):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (30:54):
Okay, you've been how long you've been? How long you've
been cohabitating?

Speaker 1 (30:59):
Shit with this? We three years in? Non?

Speaker 4 (31:01):
Oh that's nice, congratulations up.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
But it's just it's just you just gotta figure out,
all right, now that y'all be in this situation plenty times,
now that you're in a situation where all right, you
ain't gotta worry about nothing. Now you got to worry
about just being happy and being at peace and and
just being happy. And that's where a lot of times,
getting the situation with me happy's like, all right, how
can I just be happy, just chilling with life and

(31:26):
not have to worry about the problems.

Speaker 2 (31:29):
Do y'all share a bathroom?

Speaker 1 (31:31):
Yeah? What the what type of house?

Speaker 2 (31:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (31:35):
Well, I'm never sharing a bathroom with a man again.
He gotta use another one, Okay, why not? Because I
want my own bathroom space, Okay, And I don't want
to smell yo, what you what you're doing?

Speaker 2 (31:48):
I don't want to smell it?

Speaker 1 (31:49):
So you need what I mean, even if you y'all
in the same bathroom, you're not gonna smell this ship
at the bathroom got a door?

Speaker 4 (31:57):
I mean, this is true, but I don't want your
hair is all over the bath.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
The floor and then saw you gotta oh my god,
Hey don't you got a maid though? And that's what
you got a housekeeper?

Speaker 3 (32:05):
Fu? Yes, yes, but but still I just want my
own face. Okay, can have much face the fun. You
must want a whole other house here, What the.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
I want my own bathroom space?

Speaker 1 (32:17):
You a lot? You a lot? You see, I could tell,
I could tell the difference. I could kick it with
her more and so than with you, because you a lot.

Speaker 4 (32:27):
What what you're just mad because I told y'all was
married to Jamal.

Speaker 2 (32:30):
That's why I.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
Don't give a fuck about that. I don't even know
about that ship. That's not my homeboy. Like I'm just
I'm just saying I could tell she more like she
more understanding to relationships and ship like that there where
it's your way of the highway type ship like and
I'm the same way like you. So I need balance,

(32:52):
like I need a motherfucker that's kind of like her
personality where you need a motherfucking that's ship. You need
a motherfucker like that too, because people like that's why
y'all good at each other. That's why y'all good with
each other.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
Yes, very much.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
So okay, So do you feel like you're well and down?
You know, all this sex that you be having, you
feel like you're welling death. This is our last question
and we're gonna let you go.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
I feel like when you get to this age and
it's being as popular as I am in social media,
somebody was told me if I wasn't, I don't know
even know if I'm will die. I think I got
good dick ship.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
That's a good answer. That's what I answer. That's what matters, you.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
Know what I'm saying. So I haven't had nobody tell
me what like, even if we broke up, I haven't
had nobody say, oh look, little dick ass nigga. No shit.
The only thing I have had is this nigga that quick.
That's it, and I'm cool with that.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
Okay, Okay, So did you did you go to college? No?

Speaker 1 (33:54):
I think like I went to college when I came
from I got from Florida and I lied and said
I went the Morris Brown. But I did. I went.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
I went to Hampton and if if at any point
there was a dude that was very small, listen, his
girlfriend was gonna tell it like once they broke up,
like the like, that's a small dude, and just don't
even waste your time. So that's why I asked, Okay,
I think you you feel.

Speaker 1 (34:21):
You know, y'all to mess with little niggas before you
and you fuck little niggas before. Have you had a
little nigga that was small? Yeah? So I sent him
a packet, A short nigga. You had a short man
that was small.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
A short man that was small. I'm five seven, so
I really don't date like super short man. No you,
but wait, did I have had a man that came
really fast like you?

Speaker 4 (34:48):
And you did that two minutes?

Speaker 2 (34:50):
I told him, get your clothes on player and get
about again. I am not staying around.

Speaker 1 (34:55):
Your stay wet wet. Do your stay wet wet?

Speaker 2 (34:58):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (35:00):
Yeah, I'm talking about on sight, like like as soon
as you problem even at this, Yes.

Speaker 4 (35:06):
It's on high, Papa, and just like you, I've got
no complaints.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
Okay, all right, let me say this and this this one.
I'm proud of them too, because they always I could
get hard as soon as a bitch touched me at
forty six.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
That's good, very good, that's very good.

Speaker 1 (35:23):
As ball lady, old man. We believe you.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
We believe you, you know, we believe Okay, you've been
very honest.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
Believe you. Okay, all right, wait, I have a question.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
I got the last question totally don't worry about.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Don't worry about all.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
Right, I'm totally changing the channel off the sex stuff.
What what what do you think of like guys that
really have no money, that's living off of their ladies, like.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Bro that is I've been talking about that this whole week.
Is funny because I really think it's y'all funck y'all
fucking up the eco system, y'all taking care of these
grown ass motherfucking men out here. It's like, y'all, it's
it's a whole generation of baby boys out here. I
don't know if y'all can know, y'all got these sons.

(36:12):
I do that too. Are they living with y'all? Y'all
taking care of these niggas?

Speaker 2 (36:16):
What are they're fifteen or four?

Speaker 1 (36:18):
Okay, those don't count, but I'm talking they have grown
niggas in their thirties that's living with their parents and
it's a problem out here. And it's like I didn't
realize this until like lately, Like it's a lot of motherfuckers.
My homeboy was telling me his his his girl he
groke up with. He know, he moved out the house

(36:39):
because she moved her son back in the house and
he's staying there twenty four years old.

Speaker 2 (36:44):
Like right, okay, so how long we get out of
this cycle?

Speaker 1 (36:47):
Though?

Speaker 3 (36:48):
No, But like let's say, let's say you have a
dude and then he's not working anymore, Like how long
did you give him to get his ship together and
get up and make it happen?

Speaker 1 (36:57):
Man, I'm the wrong person here because in my mind,
and I've always did for myself since I was like
eighteen ninety and I jumped off the porch and took
care of myself. I ain't never like and I don't.
I don't fuck nobody that got that get fucked up
and got go home and start over. But if you
ain't doing shit, I think you just gotta kick him out.
Like if you don't see nothing, if you don't see

(37:20):
they ain't doing shit, right, Hey, kick theres sound like
you gotta give them a off top, Like you can't
leave no room for cause motherfuckers be I think nowadays
people just assume like, all right, he gonna do better.
You gotta leave set ground rooms, ground rooms, off top,
Like you gotta say, look, you got a month to
get your shit together, and you gotta move the fuck

(37:41):
up out of here. I do that with my shit
in my other houses, Like I don't writ none of
my houses out out let people stay in them. So yeah,
but like family and friend, but I let them know, hey,
you got a certain amount of time boom boom boom,
and you gotta get the fuck out. So that's why
I think you gotta do either with friends, family, kids,
And I don't think a lot of people doing that
because we got that survivor's remorse or some ship like that.

(38:05):
But you guys, say fuck this ship and kick the
motherfuckers out because it's fucking up. It's making a lot
of weekend ass men out of here, and and they
getting raised, and they raised, and you got girls just
just taking care of me and this shit fucked up
out of here.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
Right, It's crazy. But it's like I feel like women
because of the dating, the lack of men out here
to date. They just settle. They take whatever is out there.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
Now and that goes back to ours like I I
don't know what the tailor woman is looking for. Man,
because it's.

Speaker 2 (38:39):
Okay, this is the last question.

Speaker 3 (38:41):
We got to go now listen, what is your what
is your what is your max on your club? Spind
Like when you go to the club and you ball out,
what's the max spin well?

Speaker 1 (38:52):
Club and ain't thing like it used to be. I
don't know if you know that.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
Okay, but back in the day, what was your highest?

Speaker 1 (39:00):
I've never really had to pay because the bottles was
always they was always giving. Yeah, they gave Like when
I'm in the club, you know how the club that
if you hosting the party or doing something to you somebody,
they're giving you bottles. And I don't drink. So when
I have my bottles just for everybody else.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
You'll blow on strippers.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
The max ie of blue on some holes was a
couple of thousand thousands. But that's just for the that's
not really for me. That's just to get the vibe right,
because it's just a culture thing. Like I don't really
spend for pussy like that, I don't really have to
trick off like and like as far as with bottles

(39:43):
and club and like I've I came up in the
air when the ship they were spending money like that.
But I never had to because.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
You just that guy.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
I ain't gonna say I'm that nigga. It's just if
I wasn't that nigga.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
I was.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
The section was good like it was just like I
never had to worry about that type of shit. I
always I was a nigga, Like I always make the
jokes about like these niggas spend twenty thousand dollars on
a section of a table, right, So I never had crazy.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
Yeah that's not your thing. So one thing that is
your thing. How many blunts do you smoke a day? Yes,
that's the last question.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
I don't if I knew that mean I ain't smoking enough.
Like look this this, I mean I just added so far. Yes,
I know I've been you know, I just started smoking
like at forty what what? Yeah, I never smoked.

Speaker 2 (40:37):
You are killing it.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
Yeah, I ain't smoke a day before for maybe thirty nine.
I started smoking, like and so I ain't smoking joint.
I just started doing shrews about a couple of years ago.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
All right, well, we appreciate you and we wish you
the best of lock on this new podcast. You started
this by saying you don't you don't understand or know
anything about this podcast.

Speaker 2 (40:58):
Shit. Clearly you know what you're doing and you're gonna
be nothing, but you know super successful. You already know that.

Speaker 1 (41:05):
I appreciate y'all. Makea y'all made a lot easier for
me because a lot of people they don't know how
to talk, especially when you're dealing with young people. They
ain't going through shit and you gotta pull it out
of your ass. But shit, y'all had a lot to say,
so shit, y'all made this shit easy for me.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
All Right, well, we appreciate you.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
Well. I appreciate y'all. Y'all mixing, y'all tune in next
time and check y'aut holing Black Effects. We out this bitch.
Oh oh, thanks for listen to another episode of Conversation
with Me, Little Duval. We got this, bitch. Don't miss
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