April 15, 2025 • 39 mins
"Chiquis" Rivera is a singer and television personality. She is the eldest daughter of singer Jenni Rivera.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
And I don't know why, but I was like, is
it my mom? Is she here? Because it was her birthday?
So that is I don't know. It's so crazy. I
haven't shared that ever.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Welcome to ghost Therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with Decie's loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hey, guys from Ghost Therapy, thank you
so much for being here. I'm poutap Pedrosa. Today is
(00:32):
a wonderful day. We have such a special guest, Miss
Cheeky's Rivera herself. Oh my god, I'm a fan, but
I was such a fan of her mom's and we
got to talk to her mom, and that for me
is just like an honor that she would that she
accepted actually and that we went through with it, and
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that it was all positive, all beautiful, and we kind
of uncovered a lot of things that were not in
them that nobody else knew confirmed by her, and that
was really really satisfying. I hope you enjoyed this episode
with Miss Cheekis Rivera. Hey, guys from Ghost Therapy, we
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are so happy, so so happy because we have the
wonderful Tiki Rivea with us. Thank you so much. Thank you,
thank you for being here.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
So thank you so much. I'm so excited.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
I'm so glad you're excited. It's an honor to have
you here. And let's get started. Who would you like
to speak to today? Uh, definitely my mom.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I'd love to connect with her, and also possibly with
my stepdad.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Oh awesome, Okay it was his name.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
His name is Manuel Opez.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
All right, Okay, here we go. The first thing I
get and it's very uh. She's being like, very pushy
(02:25):
about it. She's like, I really need to say I'm sorry.
So she wants to say I'm sorry. I think she's
talking about like the family unit. I believe she talks
about this thing where she made you guys grow up
way too fast, or something about like putting too much
(02:46):
on your shoulders that you weren't supposed to have, like
you were too small or too young or you know,
too innocent. I feel it's more you than your siblings.
She's like, I made you grow up too fast, and
I'm sorry because there's something about her also saying sorry
(03:06):
about working too much, and it's something that has to
do with you. It's like, remember, too, I should have
prioritized family and being on the lookout, kind of like
opening eyes instead of being like what should I do next?
What do I do? I'm gonna turn this into that,
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this into that, you know. She's like, I had to
be a mover and a shaker. But then when I
was like in a very good place, I wanted more
and I wanted more and I wanted more. It's like
and everything around me was not balancing correctly because I
was the pillar. And then the pillar kind of goes
away and it's like, what the hell you know? And
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she's like, I'm so sorry. I never saw it that
way when I was alive. I see it now, but
I never I just wanted to provide. I just wanted
to be the best, and and she she also wants
to say sorry. She it's something about her pushing you back,
something about you wanted to do something. But it was
(04:12):
kind of like, no, I'm first, let me do this
first and then we'll go we'll kind of like then
we'll get to you later. Does this sound familiar? Yes, okay,
And we don't have you know, you don't have to
tell us anything. Is just I'm sure you know what
I'm talking about. So she's like, I'm so sorry because
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if we could have done it together, she's like, oh
my god, she's like she goes like this, and then
but she's like, but anyway, I'm so proud because she
kind of makes me feel very content with the way
things occurred anyway, because it's kind of like this happened,
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so you could you could be this, you know, if
she were alive, probably being Cheeky's enterprises, you know, all
that would have probably been postponed, or maybe you wouldn't.
It wouldn't have been so magical, you know. And she's like,
I didn't know I was doing it, you know, and
(05:16):
I felt protective. And she's laughing because she's like I was.
She was like I was so stupid. She's like I
wanted them to be so independent, but at the same
time I was very critical or very controlling. Does that
make sense to.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
You, Yes, for sure. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
She's like, I'm so sorry, you know, I'm so sorry
because because it's so like opposite, you know, like she
puts so many things on top of you. But then
she was like, don't do this, don't do that, and
she's not, why is it that this is gonna sound weird?
Maybe you know what I'm talking about. But she's showing
(06:04):
me a lot of bees, but she's smiling almost like
smirking or smiling. Were you like stung by a bee
or something and it's an inside joke or something. But
I'm like a lot of bees. Yes, you know, it's
so crazy. I love bees.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I love bees like you think of a butterfly, and
it represents my mom and bees are something that I
feel that I identify with very much. And not only that,
but on her birthday I had a party.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
For It was my.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Party before I got married, and it was on her birthday,
July second, and for the first time in my life,
a bee stung me that day and I don't know why,
but I was like, is it my mom?
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Is she here?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Because it was her birthday? So that is I don't know,
it's so crazy. I haven't shared that ever.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
God good, now you had to maybe maybe that was
her because she, like I said, she was smirking, so
you know how that like like that devilish kind of
smile exactly. And did I say, I go to work. Yeah,
that's so crazy. Oh my god, yeah she was. I'm like,
(07:27):
I have to tell her that icy bees. It's so random,
there would have been like a logical, you know, explanation.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
I'm glad I told you.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Okay, okay, yeah, okay live Also she hold, oh, and
for you, there's something else. She said that she was
sorry too for not letting you be yourself when she
was alive, like I feel you. I don't know if
it was like the way you dressed or the way
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you wanted to be or your your your character, but
I feel like she was very like, I want you
to be like me, not like you. Does that make sense? Yes? Absolutely,
she seems so.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, she was very.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yes, she was very territorial in a way and in
a way I was like that with her as well.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Oh it was so she yes.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
So I think it was hard for her to see
her daughter, her baby, grow up and start dressing different
and wearing tight clothes and it made her feel uncomfortable, feel.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Okay, yeah that could be yeah, because she didn't care
much about what maybe the trend was or how even
if you look good. It was more about her, like
what she wanted or what she thinks. Yeah, right, but
she thought it was good. Now, so she's like, I'm
so sorry about being so controlled. It's so funny you
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thank you. Okay, she wants to talk about you're it's
a it's a brother and a sister, right, No, two
brothers and a sister.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Uh, two sisters and two brother I have two sisters
and two brothers.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Two sisters and two brothers. Okay. She's bringing up because
I feel like you're you're their mother in some way.
You're the oldest, right, I'm the oldest. Yes, she's talking
to you in a way like a mother to a mother.
You see what I'm saying, Like, yeah, like you guys
would have their talks now. It's about oh, sorry, getting emotional.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
It's about her recognizing you being a mom without having
to have had been a mom, and you took it on,
you know, and she.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Is so proud of you for that. I'm sorry. It's
just so she felt like she loved you alone in
a way, and you kind of stepped up to the plate.
And then she's like, I know you've made mistakes, you know,
and I know that because they're kind of like your
(10:10):
children in a way. It's like I know that now
you know the mistakes that I made. Why, you know,
it's all about like wanting everybody to be like this
does that make sense? For sure? Like united and yeah,
it's yeah, for sure, she's proud. I'm sorry, it's just
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so beautiful because I feel that you don't feel she's
proud of you sometimes.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Yeah, I guess it's it's I needed this. I needed
to hear her say it or feel it or I imagine,
you know, knowing the way that she was that she'd
be proud because I've I've kept going no matter what
the way she taught me. But hearing it from her
is obviously it hits different, you know.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Of course, yeah, totally. Yeah. She's like, don't for one
second belief that I'm mad at you or that I
feel anything negative. Were those wind chimes mm hm oh wow,
oh wow. Okay they do that sometimes, which is weird,
(11:28):
but you.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Know, yeah, I just put them in not so long ago.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah, listen, they can manipulate that, Okay. So she's like,
never for once think that I'm not proud of you,
that I'm I don't love you, and that I'm not
there with you every step of the way. I me
your mom, I hug you, I'm there, I will never
be anywhere else. And I'm happy. I'm happy, and I'm
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happy with you and I'm happy with the family. And
she's like, are they all like very artistic, all of
all of your brothers mm hmmm. Be said to you
very like even like not singing or some singing or
like everything. Yeah. I feel she's like, yeah, absolutely, She's like,
(12:17):
look at what I made. You know, It's like wow,
very proud. Yeah, she's very proud. And I feel some
are shyer than the others are. Some don't like the
limelight that much than others. But she's like, you're doing
the right thing because you're keeping it going. Let them be.
Whoever wants to be on camera can be on camera
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that they don't want to. They don't want to. Let
them be. You're You're kind of the one that's in.
You're the It's like you're you're good on TV, You're
good with the people, You're good with everything you do.
So keep on doing it that way and let them
express themselves how they want. No pressure. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
There's a scene that I'm that they're giving me and
(12:59):
I don't know this is maybe one or if this
is your I think it's one. It's a scene where
you and him and this is something that you guys
had only something about like making fun of your mom
when she was singing for some reason, or making fun
of her like whatever something. Does that make sense to you? Yes,
(13:25):
a lot because he was.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, because my mom would always have me on a diet,
so he would go to the store to go and
not to the gas station to pup gas.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
I'm assuming this is what it is.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
And he'd be like, do you want something from the
gas station, Like yeah, bring me a snickers or bring
me something. And it would be like, you know, like
don't tell me because I was always on a diet.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
So he's like sort of thing. He didn't have that
with the others. You know, it was with you so
many things like no know pro there was something.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
That was.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Yeah okay in the tip they say no the les
Nigers many say is okay? Sour madey say beyond beyond,
proud say and he's like maybe his okay list come okay,
(14:33):
he's tickets come he's done. Does that make sense?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Yeah for sure? Or no?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, the okay artista see you.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
I was impositively and it's at Temple, So I would
he's surprised as I would tell him things and I
never mentioned it, never really mentioned that part.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Wow, Okay, he's like, you should have said something, you know,
like I should. Yeah, I would have totally. And he's like,
I would have totally supported you. He's laughing because there's
something about him speaking English in a very weird way.
Does this make sense? He's just pointing it out or
(15:28):
validating it. He's like, yes, I'm talking with my weird accent.
So what like I don't care anymore or something like that,
or I don't know, like he didn't have good Spanish
or good English. Yeah, something about he wasn't well spoken
or something like that. But he's like, yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I'm me.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
I'm still me, and I'm proud of it, you know.
And then he goes too to this thing where he's
like but you guys, Oh, it's like you're a lady.
You know. It's like wow for him, she had that
little girl. He's so bad, and and they're they're both together,
(16:10):
and it's so funny because they go tell her, we're
here together, we're here right now. We're not holding hands, okay,
we're just like we're here.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Our homies. That's so funny.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So it's like very she really
wants they both want you to know that they're not
holding hands. They're just like they're they're homies. They're good,
they're real good.
Speaker 5 (16:35):
But he's like, no, Nola, no.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay, kit tozzles, okay, very clear,
but on.
Speaker 6 (16:59):
It, I'll go come the to Sermanos, medio rmanos, see okay,
so come on the l yeah, may exacto loss.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Okay, Grassis Cris cross Cast, no medic come okay, Grassia
Spoor for like taking them on. Yeah, But at the
same time he's like, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, come
okayos or no sah come okay, this is no come
(17:46):
o and tremendous come on or they've been see save. Yeah.
He's like, I know, there, handful, just thank you, thank
you because he said for me, you were all my child,
you were all my children. And he said, I'm sorry,
(18:13):
I don't know what he's talking about, but you you
you know, and that's enough. He's like, I'm sorry for
some time setting a bad example in terms of what
a man like a relationship should be. I know you
love him very much, but do you know what I'm
talking about?
Speaker 3 (18:29):
Absolutely, he wasn't the best husband to my mom.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
So that's oh, okay, that's why. Yeah, okay, yeah, because
like I didn't set the best example and maybe that
kind of you know, triggered you or maybe that kind
of after not like at that point, but later on
in life. He's like, I'm so sorry for the bad example.
I was stupid, but I wanted to know that I
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really always had the best interest in heart And was
he feel like very jealous?
Speaker 1 (19:02):
No, I wasn't allowed to, Like when they got separated.
That's when I started getting piercings. And he was very
protective in that sense, he and about boys and stuff.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Yeah, he was MOI protective.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Comma protected. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, sorry, yes, okay, sorry.
Is there a sister or her brother that sings beautifully?
M hm yes, yes, one right, yes, a girl. Okay,
I feel like angelically, you know, I'm sure they all
(19:39):
sing good, but like angel Yes, yeah, okay, definitely, this
message is for her. What's her name, Jackie, Jacqueline, Jackie, Jacqueline. Okay,
this is for Jacqueline. She's like, don't let anybody pressure you.
Sing where you want to sing, what you want to sing.
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You don't have to do everything else. Everything else will
come to you when you're being true to yourself about
what you're doing with your talent. Does this make it okay? Yes? Yeah,
She's like, don't sweat it. You don't have to do
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it if you don't want to. Okay, there you go, Jacqueline. Okay,
now you know. But she's like angels singing. She's like, why, yes,
like something.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
I always say that she has an angelic voice.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Yeah, yeah, oh I feel okay. She's talking about your
career right now. She goes like this, like, miha, it happens.
Not everything works out or not everything. That doesn't mean
the next thing is going to fail. That does. Let
(21:00):
me say, it's all learning. It's all learning experience. She's
kind of like hugging you, like, don't be down, it's okay.
Is there something like maybe something that happened that wasn't
like a big hit like you thought recently?
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Yeah, kind of, it's been I'm kind of like at
a crossroads right now with my career.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
M hm. Also, let me see if she says something
about that. Okay, okay, okay, let me see if she specifies.
But the first thing she's like it's okay, don't worry
about it, like, not everything has to work out, not
everything has to be about that. She's like, you can
do whatever you want. She's so sweet. Okay, let me
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see about the crossroad. She feels like, she's she likes
that you dabble into a lot of things. She thinks
it's a good thing. Okay, and then she talks about
it sounds very cliche. Okay, I very sorry. She's like,
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you have to be real, so more about like you,
you've been turning kind of towards a place where you're
kind of being told what to do or what works,
and you're not really doing what you want, you know.
And she's like, no matter what to do, God is
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going to honor it. God is going to make it big.
God is going to make you successful. But if you
do only what they tell you or what you think
they want or what think is good, kind of like
not being yourself. She talks about not being yourself, which
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I don't think that. I feel like talking to you.
I feel very yourself, like you're very yourself. But she's like,
go towards that path and not towards the other one,
because that's not making you and you know it because
I feel that because of that, you get discouraged because
it doesn't really work.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
That makes absolutely frequently, absolutely one hundred and ten percent yep, awesome.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
I'm glad that. Yeah. So I think this is like
we needed to hear maybe yeah, yeah, absolutely, you knew this.
I felt that.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
I've been feeling it for a while.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
So yes, yeah, but you know what, we don't. Okay, okay,
do this.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Yes, I'm gonna try.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Yes, it's money, it's work, and yeah, yeah yeah, let
me try it. And she's like, yes, that's good. You know,
of course we all want money, we all want everything.
She's like, you're at a place in your life where
you can pick and choose. You're at a place in
your life where you can be this beautiful person that
you are, and she's making fun of you. Okay, this
(24:04):
is not me. I don't know what, but she's she's
going like this like yo yo yo, but like in
a very mother way, like totally out of it, you know,
like oh yeah, yeah, She's like come on, like, you
know that's not you, but the fuck are you doing that? Funny?
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She's like trying to be all street and ship, you know,
but like doing it in a very moud like like
I feel she's in her moom in her moo moo,
you know that funny yeah. Yeah. But she's like, she's like,
you're so beautiful, you're so on the inside. On the outside,
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she's like, go for the softness, go for the low
kind of like the low profile low not low profile,
but like the understated things, because I feel like in
all of that is where you find comfort. Oh no,
and not in like trying to be like oh yes,
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not even try. Oh my gosh, she is.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
It's like that really tight dress or something.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
Yeah, it's so crazy that you say soft. That's been
the word, like gentle soft. It's it's who I am
at my essence, you know. And being in a male
dominated industry and genre, you have to kind of have
a hard shell, so it kind of forces you and
it gets exhausting.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
And that's what I got tired of, where I'm like, oh.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
I just.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Alas, yes, Luna, like, I just that's who I am.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
I'm a hippie at heart, So I think that's what
she's talking about, Like just oh my gosh, yeah, you're not.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Yo yo yo yo, yo, yo yo. Ya ya ya
yo up you know completely. Oh this is so funny.
When you said Luna, made said porky pork is a Spaniard.
Perkinis algo pop mister porkian ago romantic al go on mislo. Okay,
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so I'll go Rado.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
You know.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
See there that he said it is not Look you
said it's not the crazy Cara miss is normans on
a laves six class mad sayest l mundo call miss
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contos conto coto physicostrel mundo. It's a persona tanzi yakes,
he said, porque those fans come, Missa, those fans miran
glamour a Miran was like, okay, wow, she's so beautiful,
(27:17):
she's so like the clothes and the hair. We said, yeah, yeah,
yeah for sure, yas on those fans missiles tambien jest
misses to mister pas to jos todos run in go
Lado see two lessen Yes, Aura is the Lado medic
(27:39):
porque porque tuerees alinkea cambia mouto madisrances not te kets
and persona or l tip musica west so poor loke,
we said, I said, well, Lornado, you chingo, savez you
(28:00):
like the whole other person. In so many ways, you're
more mature. And I was like, she's like, you're not
like this anymore, you know. She's like she's so ma sure,
she's had to endure so many things in life, and
now this is who you are right now. Don't fight it,
make it yours.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
I love it, Yes, thank you, I love that.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
That's so beautiful.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
I can choose and this is I've worked hard to
get to this point, so now do it.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Let's just do it. Yeah, why not? Yeah? But he
was like, I said, what I'm interesting better? Letting is
(28:53):
the yea look at and it's the softness, noise, insatia,
the aura, noise. NOI Islam is comprind just cause us
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can't comos cos it's ten. It's to see the Also,
you know, it's what you think. And now it's more
about okay, what do you think? What do you think? Okay,
you know I understand.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Yeah, I have more compassion, for sure, toward even noise
like your caro or noise or or there's a lot
of sharks. Should always tell me there's a lot of sharks.
So now I think back to those conversations and I think,
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oh my goodness, I'm so compassionate. It's not that she
didn't want to be with us on our birthday or
on holidays. She had to do it. This is what
she had to do and all the hard work, just
on so many different levels. But definitely I'm a different person.
I can see things from the outside in, you know,
so that resonates with.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Me as you couldn't have done it. Yeah, for sure
when you're younger. Yeah, like I said, yeah, when you're younger,
we're all very ste Yeah, look at this out at them.
So now she feels like if you're if you remember
those conversations, that's great. Now take it on as you know,
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the caretaker, like the one that has to be the pillar.
You are the pillar, you know, and don't ever feel
She's like, don't never feel like you're not respected as
as such. You are. It's like it's just they're younger whatever,
and you know they'll get it. They'll get it later. Yeah,
(31:02):
I hope so hard. Oh yes, Mark, No, had I
became a mom at forty really old? You guy? It
like a whole other thing. How does your baby you
know I'm gonna be forty six? Sex there is movie
in Joe.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Movie and so porky just mamas tank ant.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
So yeah, that makes me like.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Okay, necessitas necessitavas too, mama. No you don't pin check
out Like no, you have an next husb or ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Ex husband, don't we all don't be so modried.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
Okay, say no a la mala lasca. He may say,
I would solam pente solo la mala. You get it,
he says. So he was in your life for a reason.
(32:36):
Good for him, God bless him, Thank God.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
You know.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Now it's your time. Now it's time for a baby.
Don't sweat it. You're still on time. You're still you know.
I can't tell you when you're gonna have a baby,
as I can't tell when you're gonna die or when
you're gonna meet somebody. Those are like the things we
can't say because they don't come to us. Yeah, like
(33:01):
God is like this is about faith and about you
having the experience. But I really do see that you
do have a baby. So it's it's coming, you know,
But don't feel like you're old or don't feel like
you're Oh no, no, no, believe it. It's gonna come.
And it's gonna be fine. But now you're ready.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
Okay you weren't, Yeah I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
It's the better. See. Yes, she's proud of you, she's
happy for you, and she's like like, let's do it, miha,
let's do it. Cool. Okay, Now I'm gonna be your manager.
Now I'm right, yes, plane manager.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
They said bet don't look you say look at that
Felie me say, it's not all on you. Yeah. All
the bricks are not on here, and if you put
them on yourself, that's on you. You know, like that's
(34:17):
you being stupid, because what she wants is everybody like
every other family, like every family, or you're not the
only one that lost the mom. Your siblings are not
the only one that lost a mom and a dad,
and they're like, everybody needs to get their shit together.
Everybody needs to have their own way. You've done great
(34:39):
at what you've done. Let everybody live what they're supposed
to live. Don't try to like, no, it's not your responsibility.
Good for you.
Speaker 1 (34:55):
Yeah, I know, I've been working on it. I've been
working on that. But this is exactly the confirmation I
needed because good, especially the past couple of days.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
It's been hard and we've kind of been bickering. Yeah, ja.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
Grande and and yoga and matrimonial and and in physical
men it meant to have a baby, but.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Normal I can't. It's too much. Jalousi ste jalous o
ja complete the critical moments. Look at the next said
Lois sees that you freaking rocked pro yah to familiar,
(35:47):
topposely to so familiar. Yeah, yeah, this is our look
like you said, you concentrate masspriviss a little Anna, but
gan there. You're always going to be there for them,
but they need to be there for themselves.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Right, absolutely right, you know what I mean, You're right, okay,
totally fine with me, totally even better.
Speaker 2 (36:16):
And and she's like, and one more thing just to
close off, and might sound a very cliche, but she's like,
you are where you have to be right now. You
are very much where you have to be. She's kind,
she's happy the people that are surrounding you now, okay,
(36:37):
as opposed to be found. So I don't know, like
the timeline, Yeah, you know what I'm talking about, yep, okay,
good good.
Speaker 3 (36:47):
I have my mom's stamp of approval.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
That's important stamp of approval.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
Yeah, I have, I have like more peace with the
people that are around me or in my home. So
I know exactly what she's talking about.
Speaker 3 (37:01):
So that's good.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Geen Get but you're doing great. She loves you so much, Juan,
She he loves you so much. He's like, I like
in a very beautiful way. He's like silvera me no
savees juanto te quiero. Me said. I know I was
(37:26):
a bad maybe like a husband or like that, he said,
but my love towards you was huge. He said, never
forget it. Me say I was your dad, and may
they say never? And so proud and so happy that
I was. He said, I'm sorry for all the pain
and all the bad examples, but never never forget that
(37:48):
I loved you. Always. Thank you. She loves you so much.
She's like, tell her I'm her cheerleader. I'm here. I'm here.
Ask me anything, all answer, all answer. She's like, you'll see,
you'll know when I'm answering you. Oh, thank you. I'm
(38:15):
so happy you liked grasses Tikis. Thank you so much
for being on ghost Therapy. It was an honor to
(38:36):
have you. Yes, thank you so much. Thank you thank you.
Speaker 3 (38:40):
I feel I feel good, I feel very I could breathe,
so thank you.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
I'm so happy for that. And thank you everybody goes therapy.
We'll see you next week.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
Two
And I don't know why, but I was like, is
it my mom? Is she here? Because it was her birthday?
So that is I don't know. It's so crazy. I
haven't shared that ever.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Welcome to ghost Therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with Decie's loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hey, guys from Ghost Therapy, thank you
so much for being here. I'm poutap Pedrosa. Today is
(00:32):
a wonderful day. We have such a special guest, Miss
Cheeky's Rivera herself. Oh my god, I'm a fan, but
I was such a fan of her mom's and we
got to talk to her mom, and that for me
is just like an honor that she would that she
accepted actually and that we went through with it, and
(00:53):
that it was all positive, all beautiful, and we kind
of uncovered a lot of things that were not in
them that nobody else knew confirmed by her, and that
was really really satisfying. I hope you enjoyed this episode
with Miss Cheekis Rivera. Hey, guys from Ghost Therapy, we
(01:26):
are so happy, so so happy because we have the
wonderful Tiki Rivea with us. Thank you so much. Thank you,
thank you for being here.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
So thank you so much. I'm so excited.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
I'm so glad you're excited. It's an honor to have
you here. And let's get started. Who would you like
to speak to today? Uh, definitely my mom.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
I'd love to connect with her, and also possibly with
my stepdad.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Oh awesome, Okay it was his name.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
His name is Manuel Opez.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
All right, Okay, here we go. The first thing I
get and it's very uh. She's being like, very pushy
(02:25):
about it. She's like, I really need to say I'm sorry.
So she wants to say I'm sorry. I think she's
talking about like the family unit. I believe she talks
about this thing where she made you guys grow up
way too fast, or something about like putting too much
(02:46):
on your shoulders that you weren't supposed to have, like
you were too small or too young or you know,
too innocent. I feel it's more you than your siblings.
She's like, I made you grow up too fast, and
I'm sorry because there's something about her also saying sorry
(03:06):
about working too much, and it's something that has to
do with you. It's like, remember, too, I should have
prioritized family and being on the lookout, kind of like
opening eyes instead of being like what should I do next?
What do I do? I'm gonna turn this into that,
(03:27):
this into that, you know. She's like, I had to
be a mover and a shaker. But then when I
was like in a very good place, I wanted more
and I wanted more and I wanted more. It's like
and everything around me was not balancing correctly because I
was the pillar. And then the pillar kind of goes
away and it's like, what the hell you know? And
(03:49):
she's like, I'm so sorry. I never saw it that
way when I was alive. I see it now, but
I never I just wanted to provide. I just wanted
to be the best, and and she she also wants
to say sorry. She it's something about her pushing you back,
something about you wanted to do something. But it was
(04:12):
kind of like, no, I'm first, let me do this
first and then we'll go we'll kind of like then
we'll get to you later. Does this sound familiar? Yes, okay,
And we don't have you know, you don't have to
tell us anything. Is just I'm sure you know what
I'm talking about. So she's like, I'm so sorry because
(04:32):
if we could have done it together, she's like, oh
my god, she's like she goes like this, and then
but she's like, but anyway, I'm so proud because she
kind of makes me feel very content with the way
things occurred anyway, because it's kind of like this happened,
(04:56):
so you could you could be this, you know, if
she were alive, probably being Cheeky's enterprises, you know, all
that would have probably been postponed, or maybe you wouldn't.
It wouldn't have been so magical, you know. And she's like,
I didn't know I was doing it, you know, and
(05:16):
I felt protective. And she's laughing because she's like I was.
She was like I was so stupid. She's like I
wanted them to be so independent, but at the same
time I was very critical or very controlling. Does that
make sense to.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
You, Yes, for sure. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
She's like, I'm so sorry, you know, I'm so sorry
because because it's so like opposite, you know, like she
puts so many things on top of you. But then
she was like, don't do this, don't do that, and
she's not, why is it that this is gonna sound weird?
Maybe you know what I'm talking about. But she's showing
(06:04):
me a lot of bees, but she's smiling almost like
smirking or smiling. Were you like stung by a bee
or something and it's an inside joke or something. But
I'm like a lot of bees. Yes, you know, it's
so crazy. I love bees.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I love bees like you think of a butterfly, and
it represents my mom and bees are something that I
feel that I identify with very much. And not only that,
but on her birthday I had a party.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
For It was my.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Party before I got married, and it was on her birthday,
July second, and for the first time in my life,
a bee stung me that day and I don't know why,
but I was like, is it my mom?
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Is she here?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Because it was her birthday? So that is I don't know,
it's so crazy. I haven't shared that ever.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
God good, now you had to maybe maybe that was
her because she, like I said, she was smirking, so
you know how that like like that devilish kind of
smile exactly. And did I say, I go to work. Yeah,
that's so crazy. Oh my god, yeah she was. I'm like,
(07:27):
I have to tell her that icy bees. It's so random,
there would have been like a logical, you know, explanation.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
I'm glad I told you.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Okay, okay, yeah, okay live Also she hold, oh, and
for you, there's something else. She said that she was
sorry too for not letting you be yourself when she
was alive, like I feel you. I don't know if
it was like the way you dressed or the way
(07:54):
you wanted to be or your your your character, but
I feel like she was very like, I want you
to be like me, not like you. Does that make sense? Yes? Absolutely,
she seems so.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, she was very.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yes, she was very territorial in a way and in
a way I was like that with her as well.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Oh it was so she yes.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
So I think it was hard for her to see
her daughter, her baby, grow up and start dressing different
and wearing tight clothes and it made her feel uncomfortable, feel.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Okay, yeah that could be yeah, because she didn't care
much about what maybe the trend was or how even
if you look good. It was more about her, like
what she wanted or what she thinks. Yeah, right, but
she thought it was good. Now, so she's like, I'm
so sorry about being so controlled. It's so funny you
(08:56):
thank you. Okay, she wants to talk about you're it's
a it's a brother and a sister, right, No, two
brothers and a sister.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Uh, two sisters and two brother I have two sisters
and two brothers.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Two sisters and two brothers. Okay. She's bringing up because
I feel like you're you're their mother in some way.
You're the oldest, right, I'm the oldest. Yes, she's talking
to you in a way like a mother to a mother.
You see what I'm saying, Like, yeah, like you guys
would have their talks now. It's about oh, sorry, getting emotional.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
It's about her recognizing you being a mom without having
to have had been a mom, and you took it on,
you know, and she.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Is so proud of you for that. I'm sorry. It's
just so she felt like she loved you alone in
a way, and you kind of stepped up to the plate.
And then she's like, I know you've made mistakes, you know,
and I know that because they're kind of like your
(10:10):
children in a way. It's like I know that now
you know the mistakes that I made. Why, you know,
it's all about like wanting everybody to be like this
does that make sense? For sure? Like united and yeah,
it's yeah, for sure, she's proud. I'm sorry, it's just
(10:34):
so beautiful because I feel that you don't feel she's
proud of you sometimes.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Yeah, I guess it's it's I needed this. I needed
to hear her say it or feel it or I imagine,
you know, knowing the way that she was that she'd
be proud because I've I've kept going no matter what
the way she taught me. But hearing it from her
is obviously it hits different, you know.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Of course, yeah, totally. Yeah. She's like, don't for one
second belief that I'm mad at you or that I
feel anything negative. Were those wind chimes mm hm oh wow,
oh wow. Okay they do that sometimes, which is weird,
(11:28):
but you.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Know, yeah, I just put them in not so long ago.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah, listen, they can manipulate that, Okay. So she's like,
never for once think that I'm not proud of you,
that I'm I don't love you, and that I'm not
there with you every step of the way. I me
your mom, I hug you, I'm there, I will never
be anywhere else. And I'm happy. I'm happy, and I'm
(11:56):
happy with you and I'm happy with the family. And
she's like, are they all like very artistic, all of
all of your brothers mm hmmm. Be said to you
very like even like not singing or some singing or
like everything. Yeah. I feel she's like, yeah, absolutely, She's like,
(12:17):
look at what I made. You know, It's like wow,
very proud. Yeah, she's very proud. And I feel some
are shyer than the others are. Some don't like the
limelight that much than others. But she's like, you're doing
the right thing because you're keeping it going. Let them be.
Whoever wants to be on camera can be on camera
(12:38):
that they don't want to. They don't want to. Let
them be. You're You're kind of the one that's in.
You're the It's like you're you're good on TV, You're
good with the people, You're good with everything you do.
So keep on doing it that way and let them
express themselves how they want. No pressure. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
There's a scene that I'm that they're giving me and
(12:59):
I don't know this is maybe one or if this
is your I think it's one. It's a scene where
you and him and this is something that you guys
had only something about like making fun of your mom
when she was singing for some reason, or making fun
of her like whatever something. Does that make sense to you? Yes,
(13:25):
a lot because he was.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, because my mom would always have me on a diet,
so he would go to the store to go and
not to the gas station to pup gas.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
I'm assuming this is what it is.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
And he'd be like, do you want something from the
gas station, Like yeah, bring me a snickers or bring
me something. And it would be like, you know, like
don't tell me because I was always on a diet.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
So he's like sort of thing. He didn't have that
with the others. You know, it was with you so
many things like no know pro there was something.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
That was.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Yeah okay in the tip they say no the les
Nigers many say is okay? Sour madey say beyond beyond,
proud say and he's like maybe his okay list come okay,
(14:33):
he's tickets come he's done. Does that make sense?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Yeah for sure? Or no?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, the okay artista see you.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
I was impositively and it's at Temple, So I would
he's surprised as I would tell him things and I
never mentioned it, never really mentioned that part.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Wow, Okay, he's like, you should have said something, you know,
like I should. Yeah, I would have totally. And he's like,
I would have totally supported you. He's laughing because there's
something about him speaking English in a very weird way.
Does this make sense? He's just pointing it out or
(15:28):
validating it. He's like, yes, I'm talking with my weird accent.
So what like I don't care anymore or something like that,
or I don't know, like he didn't have good Spanish
or good English. Yeah, something about he wasn't well spoken
or something like that. But he's like, yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I'm me.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
I'm still me, and I'm proud of it, you know.
And then he goes too to this thing where he's
like but you guys, Oh, it's like you're a lady.
You know. It's like wow for him, she had that
little girl. He's so bad, and and they're they're both together,
(16:10):
and it's so funny because they go tell her, we're
here together, we're here right now. We're not holding hands, okay,
we're just like we're here.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Our homies. That's so funny.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So it's like very she really
wants they both want you to know that they're not
holding hands. They're just like they're they're homies. They're good,
they're real good.
Speaker 5 (16:35):
But he's like, no, Nola, no.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay, kit tozzles, okay, very clear,
but on.
Speaker 6 (16:59):
It, I'll go come the to Sermanos, medio rmanos, see okay,
so come on the l yeah, may exacto loss.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Okay, Grassis Cris cross Cast, no medic come okay, Grassia
Spoor for like taking them on. Yeah, But at the
same time he's like, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, come
okayos or no sah come okay, this is no come
(17:46):
o and tremendous come on or they've been see save. Yeah.
He's like, I know, there, handful, just thank you, thank
you because he said for me, you were all my child,
you were all my children. And he said, I'm sorry,
(18:13):
I don't know what he's talking about, but you you
you know, and that's enough. He's like, I'm sorry for
some time setting a bad example in terms of what
a man like a relationship should be. I know you
love him very much, but do you know what I'm
talking about?
Speaker 3 (18:29):
Absolutely, he wasn't the best husband to my mom.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
So that's oh, okay, that's why. Yeah, okay, yeah, because
like I didn't set the best example and maybe that
kind of you know, triggered you or maybe that kind
of after not like at that point, but later on
in life. He's like, I'm so sorry for the bad example.
I was stupid, but I wanted to know that I
(18:55):
really always had the best interest in heart And was
he feel like very jealous?
Speaker 1 (19:02):
No, I wasn't allowed to, Like when they got separated.
That's when I started getting piercings. And he was very
protective in that sense, he and about boys and stuff.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Yeah, he was MOI protective.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Comma protected. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, sorry, yes, okay, sorry.
Is there a sister or her brother that sings beautifully?
M hm yes, yes, one right, yes, a girl. Okay,
I feel like angelically, you know, I'm sure they all
(19:39):
sing good, but like angel Yes, yeah, okay, definitely, this
message is for her. What's her name, Jackie, Jacqueline, Jackie, Jacqueline. Okay,
this is for Jacqueline. She's like, don't let anybody pressure you.
Sing where you want to sing, what you want to sing.
(20:04):
You don't have to do everything else. Everything else will
come to you when you're being true to yourself about
what you're doing with your talent. Does this make it okay? Yes? Yeah,
She's like, don't sweat it. You don't have to do
(20:25):
it if you don't want to. Okay, there you go, Jacqueline. Okay,
now you know. But she's like angels singing. She's like, why, yes,
like something.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
I always say that she has an angelic voice.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Yeah, yeah, oh I feel okay. She's talking about your
career right now. She goes like this, like, miha, it happens.
Not everything works out or not everything. That doesn't mean
the next thing is going to fail. That does. Let
(21:00):
me say, it's all learning. It's all learning experience. She's
kind of like hugging you, like, don't be down, it's okay.
Is there something like maybe something that happened that wasn't
like a big hit like you thought recently?
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Yeah, kind of, it's been I'm kind of like at
a crossroads right now with my career.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
M hm. Also, let me see if she says something
about that. Okay, okay, okay, let me see if she specifies.
But the first thing she's like it's okay, don't worry
about it, like, not everything has to work out, not
everything has to be about that. She's like, you can
do whatever you want. She's so sweet. Okay, let me
(21:41):
see about the crossroad. She feels like, she's she likes
that you dabble into a lot of things. She thinks
it's a good thing. Okay, and then she talks about
it sounds very cliche. Okay, I very sorry. She's like,
(22:01):
you have to be real, so more about like you,
you've been turning kind of towards a place where you're
kind of being told what to do or what works,
and you're not really doing what you want, you know.
And she's like, no matter what to do, God is
(22:26):
going to honor it. God is going to make it big.
God is going to make you successful. But if you
do only what they tell you or what you think
they want or what think is good, kind of like
not being yourself. She talks about not being yourself, which
(22:47):
I don't think that. I feel like talking to you.
I feel very yourself, like you're very yourself. But she's like,
go towards that path and not towards the other one,
because that's not making you and you know it because
I feel that because of that, you get discouraged because
it doesn't really work.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
That makes absolutely frequently, absolutely one hundred and ten percent yep, awesome.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
I'm glad that. Yeah. So I think this is like
we needed to hear maybe yeah, yeah, absolutely, you knew this.
I felt that.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
I've been feeling it for a while.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
So yes, yeah, but you know what, we don't. Okay, okay,
do this.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Yes, I'm gonna try.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Yes, it's money, it's work, and yeah, yeah yeah, let
me try it. And she's like, yes, that's good. You know,
of course we all want money, we all want everything.
She's like, you're at a place in your life where
you can pick and choose. You're at a place in
your life where you can be this beautiful person that
you are, and she's making fun of you. Okay, this
(24:04):
is not me. I don't know what, but she's she's
going like this like yo yo yo, but like in
a very mother way, like totally out of it, you know,
like oh yeah, yeah, She's like come on, like, you
know that's not you, but the fuck are you doing that? Funny?
(24:26):
She's like trying to be all street and ship, you know,
but like doing it in a very moud like like
I feel she's in her moom in her moo moo,
you know that funny yeah. Yeah. But she's like, she's like,
you're so beautiful, you're so on the inside. On the outside,
(24:48):
she's like, go for the softness, go for the low
kind of like the low profile low not low profile,
but like the understated things, because I feel like in
all of that is where you find comfort. Oh no,
and not in like trying to be like oh yes,
(25:12):
not even try. Oh my gosh, she is.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
It's like that really tight dress or something.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
Yeah, it's so crazy that you say soft. That's been
the word, like gentle soft. It's it's who I am
at my essence, you know. And being in a male
dominated industry and genre, you have to kind of have
a hard shell, so it kind of forces you and
it gets exhausting.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
And that's what I got tired of, where I'm like, oh.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
I just.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Alas, yes, Luna, like, I just that's who I am.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
I'm a hippie at heart, So I think that's what
she's talking about, Like just oh my gosh, yeah, you're not.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Yo yo yo yo, yo, yo yo. Ya ya ya
yo up you know completely. Oh this is so funny.
When you said Luna, made said porky pork is a Spaniard.
Perkinis algo pop mister porkian ago romantic al go on mislo. Okay,
(26:22):
so I'll go Rado.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
You know.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
See there that he said it is not Look you
said it's not the crazy Cara miss is normans on
a laves six class mad sayest l mundo call miss
(26:53):
contos conto coto physicostrel mundo. It's a persona tanzi yakes,
he said, porque those fans come, Missa, those fans miran
glamour a Miran was like, okay, wow, she's so beautiful,
(27:17):
she's so like the clothes and the hair. We said, yeah, yeah,
yeah for sure, yas on those fans missiles tambien jest
misses to mister pas to jos todos run in go
Lado see two lessen Yes, Aura is the Lado medic
(27:39):
porque porque tuerees alinkea cambia mouto madisrances not te kets
and persona or l tip musica west so poor loke,
we said, I said, well, Lornado, you chingo, savez you
(28:00):
like the whole other person. In so many ways, you're
more mature. And I was like, she's like, you're not
like this anymore, you know. She's like she's so ma sure,
she's had to endure so many things in life, and
now this is who you are right now. Don't fight it,
make it yours.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
I love it, Yes, thank you, I love that.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
That's so beautiful.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
I can choose and this is I've worked hard to
get to this point, so now do it.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Let's just do it. Yeah, why not? Yeah? But he
was like, I said, what I'm interesting better? Letting is
(28:53):
the yea look at and it's the softness, noise, insatia,
the aura, noise. NOI Islam is comprind just cause us
(29:21):
can't comos cos it's ten. It's to see the Also,
you know, it's what you think. And now it's more
about okay, what do you think? What do you think? Okay,
you know I understand.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Yeah, I have more compassion, for sure, toward even noise
like your caro or noise or or there's a lot
of sharks. Should always tell me there's a lot of sharks.
So now I think back to those conversations and I think,
(30:00):
oh my goodness, I'm so compassionate. It's not that she
didn't want to be with us on our birthday or
on holidays. She had to do it. This is what
she had to do and all the hard work, just
on so many different levels. But definitely I'm a different person.
I can see things from the outside in, you know,
so that resonates with.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Me as you couldn't have done it. Yeah, for sure
when you're younger. Yeah, like I said, yeah, when you're younger,
we're all very ste Yeah, look at this out at them.
So now she feels like if you're if you remember
those conversations, that's great. Now take it on as you know,
(30:39):
the caretaker, like the one that has to be the pillar.
You are the pillar, you know, and don't ever feel
She's like, don't never feel like you're not respected as
as such. You are. It's like it's just they're younger whatever,
and you know they'll get it. They'll get it later. Yeah,
(31:02):
I hope so hard. Oh yes, Mark, No, had I
became a mom at forty really old? You guy? It
like a whole other thing. How does your baby you
know I'm gonna be forty six? Sex there is movie
in Joe.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Movie and so porky just mamas tank ant.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
So yeah, that makes me like.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Okay, necessitas necessitavas too, mama. No you don't pin check
out Like no, you have an next husb or ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Ex husband, don't we all don't be so modried.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
Okay, say no a la mala lasca. He may say,
I would solam pente solo la mala. You get it,
he says. So he was in your life for a reason.
(32:36):
Good for him, God bless him, Thank God.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
You know.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Now it's your time. Now it's time for a baby.
Don't sweat it. You're still on time. You're still you know.
I can't tell you when you're gonna have a baby,
as I can't tell when you're gonna die or when
you're gonna meet somebody. Those are like the things we
can't say because they don't come to us. Yeah, like
(33:01):
God is like this is about faith and about you
having the experience. But I really do see that you
do have a baby. So it's it's coming, you know,
But don't feel like you're old or don't feel like
you're Oh no, no, no, believe it. It's gonna come.
And it's gonna be fine. But now you're ready.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
Okay you weren't, Yeah I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
It's the better. See. Yes, she's proud of you, she's
happy for you, and she's like like, let's do it, miha,
let's do it. Cool. Okay, Now I'm gonna be your manager.
Now I'm right, yes, plane manager.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
They said bet don't look you say look at that
Felie me say, it's not all on you. Yeah. All
the bricks are not on here, and if you put
them on yourself, that's on you. You know, like that's
(34:17):
you being stupid, because what she wants is everybody like
every other family, like every family, or you're not the
only one that lost the mom. Your siblings are not
the only one that lost a mom and a dad,
and they're like, everybody needs to get their shit together.
Everybody needs to have their own way. You've done great
(34:39):
at what you've done. Let everybody live what they're supposed
to live. Don't try to like, no, it's not your responsibility.
Good for you.
Speaker 1 (34:55):
Yeah, I know, I've been working on it. I've been
working on that. But this is exactly the confirmation I
needed because good, especially the past couple of days.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
It's been hard and we've kind of been bickering. Yeah, ja.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
Grande and and yoga and matrimonial and and in physical
men it meant to have a baby, but.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Normal I can't. It's too much. Jalousi ste jalous o
ja complete the critical moments. Look at the next said
Lois sees that you freaking rocked pro yah to familiar,
(35:47):
topposely to so familiar. Yeah, yeah, this is our look
like you said, you concentrate masspriviss a little Anna, but
gan there. You're always going to be there for them,
but they need to be there for themselves.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Right, absolutely right, you know what I mean, You're right, okay,
totally fine with me, totally even better.
Speaker 2 (36:16):
And and she's like, and one more thing just to
close off, and might sound a very cliche, but she's like,
you are where you have to be right now. You
are very much where you have to be. She's kind,
she's happy the people that are surrounding you now, okay,
(36:37):
as opposed to be found. So I don't know, like
the timeline, Yeah, you know what I'm talking about, yep, okay,
good good.
Speaker 3 (36:47):
I have my mom's stamp of approval.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
That's important stamp of approval.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
Yeah, I have, I have like more peace with the
people that are around me or in my home. So
I know exactly what she's talking about.
Speaker 3 (37:01):
So that's good.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Geen Get but you're doing great. She loves you so much, Juan,
She he loves you so much. He's like, I like
in a very beautiful way. He's like silvera me no
savees juanto te quiero. Me said. I know I was
(37:26):
a bad maybe like a husband or like that, he said,
but my love towards you was huge. He said, never
forget it. Me say I was your dad, and may
they say never? And so proud and so happy that
I was. He said, I'm sorry for all the pain
and all the bad examples, but never never forget that
(37:48):
I loved you. Always. Thank you. She loves you so much.
She's like, tell her I'm her cheerleader. I'm here. I'm here.
Ask me anything, all answer, all answer. She's like, you'll see,
you'll know when I'm answering you. Oh, thank you. I'm
(38:15):
so happy you liked grasses Tikis. Thank you so much
for being on ghost Therapy. It was an honor to
(38:36):
have you. Yes, thank you so much. Thank you thank you.
Speaker 3 (38:40):
I feel I feel good, I feel very I could breathe,
so thank you.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
I'm so happy for that. And thank you everybody goes therapy.
We'll see you next week.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
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