April 1, 2025 • 39 mins
Johann Alexander Vera Tapia, better known as Johann Vera, is an Ecuadorian singer, songwriter, and actor. He began his career at age 10 participating in the Colombian television show Factor X alongside Camilo and Greeicy. He later participated in La Banda, a reality show created by Ricky Martin and Simon Cowell.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Oh my God stops and it started raining the lovely.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
More tell me more. Oh yes, of course.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hi guys from ghost Therapy. It's Paerla.
I loved this session. We're always thinking that we know
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what we want, and we always work towards what we want,
and sometimes we don't think about what we need, or
we don't think about maybe the higher love up there,
maybe God, whatever we want to call it, has something
different plan for us. And sometimes what I learned on
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this session is that the energy that we put into
just wanting what we want really kind of plays against us.
We need to know what we want and then ask
for help. How do we ask for help? It's just
we do our part, which is we prepare ourselves, we
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take lessons, we study, we do what we need to
do to be prepared for when the opportunity comes. We're ready.
But we don't need to be always thinking about what
we want and how we want it and the way
we want to do it, because we don't control that
God controls that we were talking about a good example
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of an audition. You go to that audition with all
your heart, and you go to that audition prepared. You
go to that job interview very prepared. But after you
do that job interview, it's really not up to you.
You did your part, you showed them who you are,
you showed them your talent. After that, it has nothing
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to do with us. And when we obsess about wanting
that job, wanting that job, then the energy kind of
doesn't flow like it's supposed to. We need to let
everything go right there, do our thing and then let
God and let the energy flow. And if it's for us,
it's going to be for us, no matter what, no
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matter if Mariah Carey comes and does an audition next
to me, it could all it could be for me,
because that's what God wants. And we learned a lot
about this with Johann and I think that the messages
he received from his spirit guides really could help us all.
Please give a listen to this. This is Joan Vera
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on ghost Therapy. Guys, Welcome to GHOS Therapy. Johann Veda,
thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Thank you, guys. I was expecting a whole different podcast.
So I'm excited about the sins I just found out.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
He's like, it was so funny because you were like, Okay,
what are we going to do? You sing? And I'm like, yes,
I do sing, thank you very much, but that's not
the point.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I was like, what, No, But it's long. I think
it comes at a great, great time. I actually had,
now that you said it, last release of a song,
the weirdest thing happened to me where this person like
out in the streets, was like, I have to tell
you all of these messages.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
And she just went boom boom boom.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Days before the release and told me what I needed
to do, what was happening in my life. And it
was so direct and honest that I was like, oh my,
Like someone is sending me this message. And I was
going through a very hard moment. So I was like, wow, okay, interesting.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
It was very interesting. So now that I'm about to
rely ease another song and I'm having this which I
didn't know I have, I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
That's crazy, you know what I'm thinking. Then you have
very powerful spirit guides because they're they're doing a lot
to get to you. That's pretty awesome. That's pretty awesome.
Somebody wants you to do good up there, so that's good.
I'm very happy for you. Good, good, good, It's going
to be good. Okay, let's let's talk to them. I'm
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going to say a little prayer in silence and just
invite them over and then we'll go ahead and start.
I'll sell to telling you what they're telling you. Okay,
all right, I read. Okay. The first thing that comes
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through is I feel like there's a team of people
who love you very much by the way, that are
kind of like creating things or creating I think, I
feel this is kind of to promote or this is
kind of like new ways to promote you. But they're
talking about things that are kind of unnecessary or maybe
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something that maybe there's money put into something that because
they're talking about save money for some save money because
some things aren't proven to be successful in terms of promotion,
I feel, or in terms of like everything they're kind
of creating around you. Gon las ganas quetin no Gone
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like Expediencia, like there could be people that can be like, yes,
let's do this, let's do this, and that's awesome because
they all want the same result, like a good result
with you. But the problem is that that doesn't have
to mean that they have experience in all of this
that it could turn out well. So it's like what
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And then the last thing that they said is stick
to what you know, which is you know, I understand
that we're always looking for new things and new strategies
and everything, but I feel that with you, they your
guides feel like a more traditional approach is the right
one for you because they talk about longevity versus something
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new that could easily go away. And I feel like,
not that there's two teams, but I feel like the
team needs to be a little bit more redirected to
not want to go ahead and go crazy before we
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get like the classical results and then we and then
like the experimentation kind of thing comes in. It's like
but I just feel like this is like a new era,
like a new Are you guys doing like new things
that you hadn't been doing before in terms of promotion?
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yes, yes, I crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
I just finished an interview right now, literally thirty minutes ago,
and it's something I've never spoken about. And there is
a new team coming in and we're actually having the
conversations so if they're working or not. So I'm like,
oh my god, okay, And I was like, well, you know,
we have to try. Like it's new, we should try it.
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But I don't know now with this information, maybe I.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Should let me give you right right, let me give
you more like specific things that way, you know, like
where where it's coming from, so we don't be like
so we're not like no nothing, you know, like let's yeah,
but it does. It does feel like, just to be
very very clear, there's no wrong intentions on behalf of anybody,
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you know. It's just like the only thing is that
some people have to understand that not because their new
ideas mean means that they're going to work, or means
that we have to spend all this money or we
have to spend all this on something that we don't
know is going to work. But no ill intentions on
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any behalf on any of them. Okay, hold on, let
me give you a little bit more stuff. And it
also feels like and that, like I said, I don't
know if there's like two teams, but I feel like
the kind of like your ogs kind of you know,
your your your core people. They want to kind of
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let go of what they know and let other people
kind of like tell them, oh, this is what's working.
And no, like you have to they have to know
that they know what they're doing, okay, and that for
them to trust what they're doing and not think that
other people are gonna come and tell them what the
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new thing is or how to do things. You see
what I'm saying. I feel like you have like three
solid ogs with you that know or that have the
intuition and have the chops and the good ideas, the
solid ones, and just tell them, don't doubt yourselves, don't
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let other people come and tell you what to do.
Think about all your ideas are valid. Maybe we can
put in three or four things of course that will
help us go into a new era. But we really
have to trust these like these old I feel like
these old sharks, you see what I'm saying, Like the
good like they're good, they're solid, they're taking you where
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you need to go. You have to trust. You have
to trust because they are I feel more mature in
many ways.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Interesting, and you're seeing this on a promotion side that
this is on.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
The career promotion. You know, it's like Oh, I really yeah,
I at the beginning felt the things that I told you.
At the beginning, I feel it's about more about promotion,
but what I told you right now is more about
like your career in general, you know, like the decision making,
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the trust in themselves and the trust that it's going
to happen, and it's happening and the next step is
going to happen too, because I feel like with you
it's been and correct me if I'm wrong. It's been
like boom and then baby steps and then boom and
then baby steps, like it up and down, like very weird.
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So like it's like that's fine because that's the way
it's supposed to be. But sometimes it could feel you
could feel like it's not going the way it's supposed to.
But what is the right way? You see what I'm
saying with you, it's like it's like a new formula
kind of thing, old school, new school. But I feel
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that around you you really do have the right people.
You see the right intentions with people, and I think
that this is something I needed to tell you, and
not because you doubted it, but because it may seem
like it isn't that way. Hold on let me tell
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you something. Hold on, hold on. Does your mom have
like a lot of extra opinions about all of your
career more than normal?
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Ah? Yes, of course it's a mom. But what are
you seeing? Maybe she's is it.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
I'm going to be honest like every yes, everything she'uld say,
and I you know, ill effect, but I will try
not to listen and actually for this new era or
what's happening in a couple of days, when this will
be out is probably gonna be already out. But when
this is happening, this part she doesn't know, because I
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know it's just she's super against it, so exactly debating
that if I should tell her beforehand, if I should,
I don't know what to.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Do right right, No, no, because the the problem is
the extra opinion, you know, the extra extra that doesn't
actually help you. It's great that your mom is involved,
and they don't show it like a negative thing. They
just show it like a little bit of you know,
let's be careful kind of because because I don't think
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she will understand a lot of things.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Oh my god, you know what I'm saying. And it
started raining. There's a lot of you tell me more,
tell me more.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
I need it, okay, okay, yes, of course, of course,
of course, yeah, yeah yeah. And and this is something
that will mark a little bit of I feel that
you need sometimes to kind of keep to yourself in
a lot of ways for now, okay, because in the
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past your heart has always been like everybody help me,
I'm here. But everything now, because since you're going now
into like the next step, which is upward, everything is
needs to start confined, being confined a little. It's like
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just your team, just your people for now, not friends.
And it's terrible because we always want to tell our friends.
We always want to tell everybody because you know that
they're gonna be the you know, the good, the good vibes.
But here it's a little bit of I don't think
they'll understand, and that's okay, so you know you'll tell
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them later on. And and because you need to tweak
it first. Here's here's how it. Let me put it
all together. I'm sorry, I'm like saying all over the place.
Whatever you need to tweak right now. There's no sense
of telling anybody because that's not gonna be the end result.
Like the whole promotion. Everything you need to tweak it
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so if you right now, you need to tweak it
according to what you feel and what you think and
what you uh, I feel like your heart is not
very convinced. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's kind of like
a very big step, like very like risky. So if
you tell people, they are gonna probably tell you what
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you want, what you don't need to know, you kind
of need to trust you you and Mom is gonna
always be like the best one she is, but not
in this point right now because her over opinion might
mess up your head a little.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
My god, Wow, that's been my debate. Actually the last
couple of days has to include them or not, like
it's not new information, but just this part is to
like work and the new era on what's happening. I
did think, like I know, the moment I talk, it's
just gonna give opinions and it's just gonna, as you say,
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like maybe throw me off a little. It's just feel
weird and not including them and just being like, oh,
this is it's out, You're not part of it.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
But totally, I mean, it is a new era. How
do I tweak it then?
Speaker 2 (15:40):
Because I'm days away, so I'm very that's my big
big Costay.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
No, No, we'll get through this. We'll get through this.
Hold on, just a little side note for mom. I
need you to make a letter, write a letter, and
then just be like I'm going into this. I didn't
tell you anything like today, I'm not telling you anything
because I need to keep my head straight. This is
more personal, this is more but just so you know,
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I love you and this is gonna happen. And then
you give it to her after, just so she knows
that she was taken into account, but in a way
that you know that you really did, like you really
did think about her, you really did, and that there's
nothing wrong with her. It's just like I really needed
to keep my head straight for everything I did and
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give her examples like I didn't tell my friend this,
I didn't tell my cousin, I didn't tell anybody. I
just you know, this is something that I had to do. Okay,
just a little letter, Okay, just a little letter so
she knows that she wasn't just like brushed off.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Yeah you see what.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I'm sure maybe it's going to be a bigger fight
just because I'm not including.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Or in this, but.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
And you're and you are including her you are.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Of course, if I say before it's it's gonna like,
you know, I feel like it's going to be like
bad energy, You're bad, you know.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Not exactly right. She's your mom. She will never give
you bad energy. She will never like anything. Don't be
afraid because these type of decisions kind of it's like,
I don't know how you say it, like go big
or go home kind of thing. Going big really has
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a lot of sacrifices. You know. You can't tell a
lot of friends. You can't, you know, put it out there.
You can't because the stakes are so high, you know.
And it doesn't make you a bad person. It just
makes you someone. It's an individual artist that has to
go with the gut, you know, and it'll it'll be fine.
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Your mom will never ever bring bad energy around anything, Okay.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Perfect.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Also, they tell me, let him know that even though
that they're telling me like, there could be mistakes and
that's okay. In terms of your career, they said, listen,
there's still room for trial and error. And I'm sure
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that there's money involved, and I'm sure that it's a
lot of it's a lot involved with all of this.
But at the end of the day. There has to
be an element of you trying very hard to say,
you know what, Okay, let's do this, or let's not
do this. If I if it's a mistake, if this
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is something that's fine, we'll try harder next time, or
we'll do this next time. He's like, you still have
that wiggle room of making things right. I don't know
if you're very pressured, or I'm sure you are, but
just so you know that, yes, this is a career.
Yes this is going on upwards, because it definitely is.
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It's just like, the more you know that there's trials
and errors on everything, the way to see it is
not getting mad more than okay, all right, so this
isn't working, so this doesn't work. Okay, we can still
do this. We can still do that. It's not like
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a one what's coming up. Don't feel like it's a
one shot and that's it. It's like, let's let's relax
the mind and let's think positively that we're still alive,
that we can still do more things, and that we
can still make mistakes. And that's okay, oh my god, okay, wow, okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
That's comforting.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Yes, because I've been I've been putting a lot of
pressure on the.
Speaker 3 (19:57):
Next release, thinking of that, God, okay, your one.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Chance, right, but it isn't because this isn't your final
destination yet, you know. And they're saying like sometimes you forget,
you know that that we're on the road, that we're
not here to stay. And that's it. No, because what
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makes what's gonna make you the great artist that you
are becoming is that is the fact that you mess up,
is the fact that you maybe you know, maybe Papa
isn't working out, maybe I'm gonna go and do doon whatever.
It's just like, it's okay, it's okay because you still
have that opportunity to make it right and make it
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right for them. Is you in many ways, I'm sorry
this sounds so cliche. Okay, I'm very sorry, but it's
very true to what you at the end of the
day saying I knew it. I knew it. This is
not what I wanted. They told me, this is what
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I should do, they told me, and I yeah, I
was convinced, Yeah, yeah, yeah, And that's okay. I can
forgive myself for being convinced by other people of doing
a certain way or thinking that this is the way. Okay,
I forgive myself, but you know what, I'm big enough
and I'm smart enough, and I'm talented enough to know
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that there can be other way. You know, there could
be something else, and that's part of your greatness. Can
you confirm if you have the three ogs that I'm
talking about or are there more.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
The three ogs?
Speaker 2 (21:44):
It's just I've been thinking of that because I'm an
independent artist. So it's really like I do have people
that I trust, and I've realized over the last couple
of months actually now that I'm going to this new era,
just people that you know that work and that it
makes sense and that you know that they've been doing
it for a while and they know their thing and
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you know it it works, so like I see them like, yeah,
I would say one would be the publicist here in
the US, which I just started working, No, just started.
It's been like I've known him, he's been doing this
for you know, years, and I would probably put him
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in that list. I'll put like the person that manages
me in Ecuador that I like, you know, really like
and trust, and then probably like the team sort of
helping me organize and everything on the music site specifically. Okay, Yeah,
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I feel like there's a couple key persons in that
team that you know, I've been like, oh, I mean
one of them is also like one of my closest friends,
so he knows me. He's like, is that really you?
And this is where you, you know, like look for
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the music that you really right have to offer, right.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
So I feel that those sound like the ogs. Those
sound like that these people that are that know what
they're doing.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
You know.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
It's great to have great new ideas and stuff, but
for sure like the people that you feel that are
on your like your side and will tell you know,
and everything else is of course it's great. It's awesome incorporate,
but always stick I feel with you, it's very stick
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to the classics, you know, stick to the solid ones,
you know, the ones that have not the innovative ideas,
but the actual way of doing things the right way,
you know, and if something and if you do incorporate
new things by all means, just maybe not all of
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them or just maybe like with that little cautious.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
Yeah, that's what happens, what they do.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
But have like your other options as as I've always
done in life. Yes, more because I did have that
time when you know, you meet people and like okay,
I would go like life or death with them and
then you know, results are not what you expect. But
you were saying very true as to like you have
those moments where like I feel like boom and then.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
And then it's always that like.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Someone in the team, something changes and when you know,
life COVID whatever, so.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
That okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, but for you like this
that showed that they showed me is part of part
of the success in your case. You see what I'm saying,
Like something about your personality and something something about who
you are makes this such a learning experience as opposed
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to other people maybe not like maybe getting discouraged or
you know, I understand it's it's hard, but for you,
like all of this has nothing been positive, and they
wanted to know how well you've done and how you're
on the right track and how it's gonna all add up.
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You see what I'm saying, Like there's no doubt that
you're in the right place. That's very important and the
fact that you oh okay, they're saying, it's very important
that you stay in the same place for now. Let
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me explain what I think I interpret it is. It's like,
don't go moving things around so drastically because of kind
of like I need to take this like this has
to be like I need to take this to the
next level. Now you see what I'm saying, Like, no,
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it's not that. It's not about that, not now, because
the energy that goes towards that desperation kind of thing,
because everybody as artists, of course, we're like I want
it now, you know, like I've been doing this for
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so long, like damn, it's my turn, you know kind
of thing. Yes, And when that happens, the energy, your
energy towards everything that you're doing. It's something weird. It's
something about like sama set a statika, pork hya, pistah,
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get it, yeah, get us in las cosas. This is
when when that happens, things really don't end up happening.
And then when you're like, Okay, this is a learning experience,
let's see how this goes. And then I know that
what I'm saying is so hard to do. But this
is something that they want you to know. You know
that it's not about this time around it has to
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stick or this around it has to be a hit. No,
not at all, not at all, because if if this
is the hit for some weird reason, everything after that
is gonna be super hard. And maybe you're not prepared
to back it up. Maybe you don't have enough songs
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to back up this hit that you wanted, or maybe
you know, it's like it's better to move up slow
than just to move up quick and get really tired
and then have to sit down at the middle of
the stairway because you can't, you know. And for you,
that's like you have to very you have to keep
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this in mind when you're going to through this process
coming up. It's like, it's okay. If it's not the biggest,
it's okay. And I'm not saying it's not going to be.
I'm just saying your attitude towards it is what makes
the energy either flow or kind of contain itself.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
So for the energy to flow, the way to see
it is like, this is not the biggest moment yet.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
Exactly, And maybe it is because I can't see your
future at all. We are not allowed to see future,
and we are not allowed to see deaths. Those two
things we can never see. I have no clue how
it'll end up at the end. But what they tell
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you is everything you need to know for it to
end up how it's supposed to end up, for your good.
And it all has to do with because what happens.
What I've learned, which is I don't know if this
is true or not. It's just this is what I've
learned from my dead people that I talk to every day,
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is that when you're so obsessed with something or so
like so so invested, something happens and it breaks, something happens.
But when you're so when you want it so much,
but you let everything up there, or whatever your beliefs are,
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it doesn't matter that you let it everything. It's like,
this is what I want, oh so badly. Okay, here
you go, it's up there. Let it happen how it's
supposed to happen.
Speaker 3 (29:59):
But this is what I want.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
That's it, And everything flows very different. But the obsession
or the heart, the extra hours, there's very there's a
very big difference between extra hours of worrying and looking
for shit then practicing and getting better at your skill
that you can do all the time, you know, because
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that only makes you better. But all energy put into
something that you want to happen the way you want
it to happen. That's where it all messes up because
it's not what you want. It's what God wants and
it's what's good for you. And the way you accept
it is how it flows, and it goes better or worse.
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Does that make sen Yes, okay, because sometimes I feel
I ramble sorry.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
Because I'm a very pushy person.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
In the same says to like, I feel like it's
not like stuff you know, gets handed to me in
the case that I don't know, let's say, like even
the job opportunities I've had, I've had to.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Like look for them and you know, be like I'm
here and go through like all that process. But what
you're saying it kind of goes the opposite of as
to how I've been living. But it does make sense.
I just I just want to know.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
I don't know if you're or what they say to like,
when is the part where you stop, Like obviously you
have to knock on the door, But when the start
where you like stop knocking and.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Just let it be. What they're saying to me, is
it stops at the knocking. That's where it stops being
your problem, and it starts being the universe is problem.
You see what I'm saying. Send the emails, knock on
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the doors, go to the gym, go to your classes,
your your voice or voice classes, go to your piano classes.
That's where it stops. The knocking. When they open the door,
or when they don't open the door, that's it. Whatever happens,
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and that's not up to you, that's up to God.
You know, it's like an audition. I'm sure you've been
in an audition like I have. You've been in auditions
where like there's like people ten times more good looking
than you and then ten times uglier than you and
ten times more talented than you, and it's like fuck,
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You're like, you know, it's like what do I do?
And then you feel bad and oh, I'm sure she's
gonna get it or whatever. And at the end of
the day, who doesn't go to to whoever? It was
meant to be? Nothing to do. You've done your job,
you've gotten the audition, you've prepared yourself, you've taken your
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voice lessons, you did what you had to do. You stop,
and then I love hearing this because like I can
take this advice too. Like this is like something very
is something that let me think, like maybe fifteen years
ago I didn't understand.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
Yeah, the more you grow up you can get more
to that as But obviously you know I always wonder,
and even more in that case, because again I have
been putting a lot of pressure into what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
But yes, it's right.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
I still have to write the email, you know. I'm like, oh,
they're gonna say no, but I haven't even sent the email,
so I might as well write it and then leave
it to God whatever exact.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
What if they say, yes, you know, that's great, you
did your part. Yeah, that's where it stops. That's where
it stops. And it's true. You do your audition, that's
where it stops. The rest is not up to you
at all. Who are you going to convince?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
You know?
Speaker 1 (34:11):
I also I want to tell you something that I see,
like I don't know if this is present or this
is future, but I see like a very big sponsor.
Do you have like a very like like I'm talking
about like a like a car company or like a
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do you have that?
Speaker 3 (34:34):
But I would love to have it because I'm independent.
I've been I've been I'm putting all my That's why
I feel like I'm also putting so much pressure on this.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
It's because it's my money, like it's something you know,
paying every everyone, every single person, every like thing. So
that's why it takes like a bigger meaning because it's
you know, I mean, it's now or never. It's like
they're like, I'm investing in myself all of this. But
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I just think it's great to hear, like.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
You know, it's still.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
There's so much more room to grow and continue doing.
Like I don't have to put all the pressure in
this upcoming and releases.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Because at the beginning, I have it written down right here,
h and I wrote it in Spanish. It says oural.
That makes sense that you tell me this. Now it's
not it's your money, okay, save save on something like,
don't spend money on something that you don't know if
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they're going to be exactly.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Yeah, I've been having so many meetings with like new
people as so oh it's now we're never.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
So I need my pr person. I need this person
to help me. You know, I have to put money
on this and like you know, right playlists and all
this just because it's now never. So it's very interesting
and beautiful to hear this.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I see and you know what, c because you can
tell your humility from here like this is nothing about
me being psychic or whatever. You have great humility, and
I think that humility is where it where it right
now is like you know what, Yeah, I'm gonna save
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some money here. It's not you know, I'm not at
Sony Music with a million dollar contract yet, let's save
the big guns maybe for because like it's a build up,
you know, like they show you as a build up,
you know, and that one it's not gonna be about
that song. It's about let's let's be conservative until we
(36:52):
get to the point where boom, it's like they go
like this to you, you know, And so that because
what happens is that, yeah, exactly, we hire the publicist,
we hire everything because we want this had to happen
right away. It's like, yeah, but are you in the
right movie. Maybe you're not in the best movie to
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hire the best publicist, And maybe you wait till this
movie comes out, so you get the best the next movie,
and then it's going to be worth it, you see
what I'm saying. But all of it in the end
is worth it, Like it's it's going somewhere.
Speaker 3 (37:28):
For you know, I think, nah me coming out? Does
it coming?
Speaker 1 (37:39):
Now that you say that about coming out, like, it's
interesting to that all this time I had not seen
about the coming out. I had not seen that. But
just that the fact that they're telling you that you're
on the right track, I feel is so good, you know,
because that means that you're doing the right thing.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
And obviously now it all makes sense to you regarding
like what you said about my mom and this is
what you said about the team. Why is it how
for me, it's so like detrimental this release compared to
like other songs. It's because I'm you know, I'm putting
a lot of weights into it. And obviously I'm like, well,
you know, I've been having a career for years where
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you know, mainly the fan base or the people that
follow it's like girls and everything you just have that
that's that scare like it's.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
A yo, they might leave totally.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (38:29):
So it's all it's all those things.
Speaker 2 (38:31):
But yeah, whatever information you're company bringing, it's very important.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Thank you been very very helpful.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
That's Irian. Thank you John, and this has been ghost therapy.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
Thank you very much, Thank you guys,
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Oh my God stops and it started raining the lovely.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
More tell me more. Oh yes, of course.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Welcome to ghost therapy, where it's not just about connecting
with deceased loved ones, it's about learning through them and
their new perspective. Hi guys from ghost Therapy. It's Paerla.
I loved this session. We're always thinking that we know
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what we want, and we always work towards what we want,
and sometimes we don't think about what we need, or
we don't think about maybe the higher love up there,
maybe God, whatever we want to call it, has something
different plan for us. And sometimes what I learned on
(00:56):
this session is that the energy that we put into
just wanting what we want really kind of plays against us.
We need to know what we want and then ask
for help. How do we ask for help? It's just
we do our part, which is we prepare ourselves, we
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take lessons, we study, we do what we need to
do to be prepared for when the opportunity comes. We're ready.
But we don't need to be always thinking about what
we want and how we want it and the way
we want to do it, because we don't control that
God controls that we were talking about a good example
(01:39):
of an audition. You go to that audition with all
your heart, and you go to that audition prepared. You
go to that job interview very prepared. But after you
do that job interview, it's really not up to you.
You did your part, you showed them who you are,
you showed them your talent. After that, it has nothing
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to do with us. And when we obsess about wanting
that job, wanting that job, then the energy kind of
doesn't flow like it's supposed to. We need to let
everything go right there, do our thing and then let
God and let the energy flow. And if it's for us,
it's going to be for us, no matter what, no
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matter if Mariah Carey comes and does an audition next
to me, it could all it could be for me,
because that's what God wants. And we learned a lot
about this with Johann and I think that the messages
he received from his spirit guides really could help us all.
Please give a listen to this. This is Joan Vera
(02:43):
on ghost Therapy. Guys, Welcome to GHOS Therapy. Johann Veda,
thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Thank you, guys. I was expecting a whole different podcast.
So I'm excited about the sins I just found out.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
He's like, it was so funny because you were like, Okay,
what are we going to do? You sing? And I'm like, yes,
I do sing, thank you very much, but that's not
the point.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I was like, what, No, But it's long. I think
it comes at a great, great time. I actually had,
now that you said it, last release of a song,
the weirdest thing happened to me where this person like
out in the streets, was like, I have to tell
you all of these messages.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
And she just went boom boom boom.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Days before the release and told me what I needed
to do, what was happening in my life. And it
was so direct and honest that I was like, oh my,
Like someone is sending me this message. And I was
going through a very hard moment. So I was like, wow, okay, interesting.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
It was very interesting. So now that I'm about to
rely ease another song and I'm having this which I
didn't know I have, I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
That's crazy, you know what I'm thinking. Then you have
very powerful spirit guides because they're they're doing a lot
to get to you. That's pretty awesome. That's pretty awesome.
Somebody wants you to do good up there, so that's good.
I'm very happy for you. Good, good, good, It's going
to be good. Okay, let's let's talk to them. I'm
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going to say a little prayer in silence and just
invite them over and then we'll go ahead and start.
I'll sell to telling you what they're telling you. Okay,
all right, I read. Okay. The first thing that comes
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through is I feel like there's a team of people
who love you very much by the way, that are
kind of like creating things or creating I think, I
feel this is kind of to promote or this is
kind of like new ways to promote you. But they're
talking about things that are kind of unnecessary or maybe
(05:14):
something that maybe there's money put into something that because
they're talking about save money for some save money because
some things aren't proven to be successful in terms of promotion,
I feel, or in terms of like everything they're kind
of creating around you. Gon las ganas quetin no Gone
(05:39):
like Expediencia, like there could be people that can be like, yes,
let's do this, let's do this, and that's awesome because
they all want the same result, like a good result
with you. But the problem is that that doesn't have
to mean that they have experience in all of this
that it could turn out well. So it's like what
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And then the last thing that they said is stick
to what you know, which is you know, I understand
that we're always looking for new things and new strategies
and everything, but I feel that with you, they your
guides feel like a more traditional approach is the right
one for you because they talk about longevity versus something
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new that could easily go away. And I feel like,
not that there's two teams, but I feel like the
team needs to be a little bit more redirected to
not want to go ahead and go crazy before we
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get like the classical results and then we and then
like the experimentation kind of thing comes in. It's like
but I just feel like this is like a new era,
like a new Are you guys doing like new things
that you hadn't been doing before in terms of promotion?
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yes, yes, I crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
I just finished an interview right now, literally thirty minutes ago,
and it's something I've never spoken about. And there is
a new team coming in and we're actually having the
conversations so if they're working or not. So I'm like,
oh my god, okay, And I was like, well, you know,
we have to try. Like it's new, we should try it.
(07:32):
But I don't know now with this information, maybe I.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Should let me give you right right, let me give
you more like specific things that way, you know, like
where where it's coming from, so we don't be like
so we're not like no nothing, you know, like let's yeah,
but it does. It does feel like, just to be
very very clear, there's no wrong intentions on behalf of anybody,
(07:58):
you know. It's just like the only thing is that
some people have to understand that not because their new
ideas mean means that they're going to work, or means
that we have to spend all this money or we
have to spend all this on something that we don't
know is going to work. But no ill intentions on
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any behalf on any of them. Okay, hold on, let
me give you a little bit more stuff. And it
also feels like and that, like I said, I don't
know if there's like two teams, but I feel like
the kind of like your ogs kind of you know,
your your your core people. They want to kind of
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let go of what they know and let other people
kind of like tell them, oh, this is what's working.
And no, like you have to they have to know
that they know what they're doing, okay, and that for
them to trust what they're doing and not think that
other people are gonna come and tell them what the
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new thing is or how to do things. You see
what I'm saying. I feel like you have like three
solid ogs with you that know or that have the
intuition and have the chops and the good ideas, the
solid ones, and just tell them, don't doubt yourselves, don't
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let other people come and tell you what to do.
Think about all your ideas are valid. Maybe we can
put in three or four things of course that will
help us go into a new era. But we really
have to trust these like these old I feel like
these old sharks, you see what I'm saying, Like the
good like they're good, they're solid, they're taking you where
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you need to go. You have to trust. You have
to trust because they are I feel more mature in
many ways.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Interesting, and you're seeing this on a promotion side that
this is on.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
The career promotion. You know, it's like Oh, I really yeah,
I at the beginning felt the things that I told you.
At the beginning, I feel it's about more about promotion,
but what I told you right now is more about
like your career in general, you know, like the decision making,
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the trust in themselves and the trust that it's going
to happen, and it's happening and the next step is
going to happen too, because I feel like with you
it's been and correct me if I'm wrong. It's been
like boom and then baby steps and then boom and
then baby steps, like it up and down, like very weird.
(10:47):
So like it's like that's fine because that's the way
it's supposed to be. But sometimes it could feel you
could feel like it's not going the way it's supposed to.
But what is the right way? You see what I'm
saying with you, it's like it's like a new formula
kind of thing, old school, new school. But I feel
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that around you you really do have the right people.
You see the right intentions with people, and I think
that this is something I needed to tell you, and
not because you doubted it, but because it may seem
like it isn't that way. Hold on let me tell
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you something. Hold on, hold on. Does your mom have
like a lot of extra opinions about all of your
career more than normal?
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Ah? Yes, of course it's a mom. But what are
you seeing? Maybe she's is it.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
I'm going to be honest like every yes, everything she'uld say,
and I you know, ill effect, but I will try
not to listen and actually for this new era or
what's happening in a couple of days, when this will
be out is probably gonna be already out. But when
this is happening, this part she doesn't know, because I
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know it's just she's super against it, so exactly debating
that if I should tell her beforehand, if I should,
I don't know what to.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Do right right, No, no, because the the problem is
the extra opinion, you know, the extra extra that doesn't
actually help you. It's great that your mom is involved,
and they don't show it like a negative thing. They
just show it like a little bit of you know,
let's be careful kind of because because I don't think
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she will understand a lot of things.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Oh my god, you know what I'm saying. And it
started raining. There's a lot of you tell me more,
tell me more.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
I need it, okay, okay, yes, of course, of course,
of course, yeah, yeah yeah. And and this is something
that will mark a little bit of I feel that
you need sometimes to kind of keep to yourself in
a lot of ways for now, okay, because in the
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past your heart has always been like everybody help me,
I'm here. But everything now, because since you're going now
into like the next step, which is upward, everything is
needs to start confined, being confined a little. It's like
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just your team, just your people for now, not friends.
And it's terrible because we always want to tell our friends.
We always want to tell everybody because you know that
they're gonna be the you know, the good, the good vibes.
But here it's a little bit of I don't think
they'll understand, and that's okay, so you know you'll tell
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them later on. And and because you need to tweak
it first. Here's here's how it. Let me put it
all together. I'm sorry, I'm like saying all over the place.
Whatever you need to tweak right now. There's no sense
of telling anybody because that's not gonna be the end result.
Like the whole promotion. Everything you need to tweak it
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so if you right now, you need to tweak it
according to what you feel and what you think and
what you uh, I feel like your heart is not
very convinced. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's kind of like
a very big step, like very like risky. So if
you tell people, they are gonna probably tell you what
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you want, what you don't need to know, you kind
of need to trust you you and Mom is gonna
always be like the best one she is, but not
in this point right now because her over opinion might
mess up your head a little.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
My god, Wow, that's been my debate. Actually the last
couple of days has to include them or not, like
it's not new information, but just this part is to
like work and the new era on what's happening. I
did think, like I know, the moment I talk, it's
just gonna give opinions and it's just gonna, as you say,
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like maybe throw me off a little. It's just feel
weird and not including them and just being like, oh,
this is it's out, You're not part of it.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
But totally, I mean, it is a new era. How
do I tweak it then?
Speaker 2 (15:40):
Because I'm days away, so I'm very that's my big
big Costay.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
No, No, we'll get through this. We'll get through this.
Hold on, just a little side note for mom. I
need you to make a letter, write a letter, and
then just be like I'm going into this. I didn't
tell you anything like today, I'm not telling you anything
because I need to keep my head straight. This is
more personal, this is more but just so you know,
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I love you and this is gonna happen. And then
you give it to her after, just so she knows
that she was taken into account, but in a way
that you know that you really did, like you really
did think about her, you really did, and that there's
nothing wrong with her. It's just like I really needed
to keep my head straight for everything I did and
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give her examples like I didn't tell my friend this,
I didn't tell my cousin, I didn't tell anybody. I
just you know, this is something that I had to do. Okay,
just a little letter, Okay, just a little letter so
she knows that she wasn't just like brushed off.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Yeah you see what.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I'm sure maybe it's going to be a bigger fight
just because I'm not including.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Or in this, but.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
And you're and you are including her you are.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Of course, if I say before it's it's gonna like,
you know, I feel like it's going to be like
bad energy, You're bad, you know.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Not exactly right. She's your mom. She will never give
you bad energy. She will never like anything. Don't be
afraid because these type of decisions kind of it's like,
I don't know how you say it, like go big
or go home kind of thing. Going big really has
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a lot of sacrifices. You know. You can't tell a
lot of friends. You can't, you know, put it out there.
You can't because the stakes are so high, you know.
And it doesn't make you a bad person. It just
makes you someone. It's an individual artist that has to
go with the gut, you know, and it'll it'll be fine.
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Your mom will never ever bring bad energy around anything, Okay.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
Perfect.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Also, they tell me, let him know that even though
that they're telling me like, there could be mistakes and
that's okay. In terms of your career, they said, listen,
there's still room for trial and error. And I'm sure
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that there's money involved, and I'm sure that it's a
lot of it's a lot involved with all of this.
But at the end of the day. There has to
be an element of you trying very hard to say,
you know what, Okay, let's do this, or let's not
do this. If I if it's a mistake, if this
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is something that's fine, we'll try harder next time, or
we'll do this next time. He's like, you still have
that wiggle room of making things right. I don't know
if you're very pressured, or I'm sure you are, but
just so you know that, yes, this is a career.
Yes this is going on upwards, because it definitely is.
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It's just like, the more you know that there's trials
and errors on everything, the way to see it is
not getting mad more than okay, all right, so this
isn't working, so this doesn't work. Okay, we can still
do this. We can still do that. It's not like
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a one what's coming up. Don't feel like it's a
one shot and that's it. It's like, let's let's relax
the mind and let's think positively that we're still alive,
that we can still do more things, and that we
can still make mistakes. And that's okay, oh my god, okay, wow, okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
That's comforting.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Yes, because I've been I've been putting a lot of
pressure on the.
Speaker 3 (19:57):
Next release, thinking of that, God, okay, your one.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Chance, right, but it isn't because this isn't your final
destination yet, you know. And they're saying like sometimes you forget,
you know that that we're on the road, that we're
not here to stay. And that's it. No, because what
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makes what's gonna make you the great artist that you
are becoming is that is the fact that you mess up,
is the fact that you maybe you know, maybe Papa
isn't working out, maybe I'm gonna go and do doon whatever.
It's just like, it's okay, it's okay because you still
have that opportunity to make it right and make it
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right for them. Is you in many ways, I'm sorry
this sounds so cliche. Okay, I'm very sorry, but it's
very true to what you at the end of the
day saying I knew it. I knew it. This is
not what I wanted. They told me, this is what
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I should do, they told me, and I yeah, I
was convinced, Yeah, yeah, yeah, And that's okay. I can
forgive myself for being convinced by other people of doing
a certain way or thinking that this is the way. Okay,
I forgive myself, but you know what, I'm big enough
and I'm smart enough, and I'm talented enough to know
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that there can be other way. You know, there could
be something else, and that's part of your greatness. Can
you confirm if you have the three ogs that I'm
talking about or are there more.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
The three ogs?
Speaker 2 (21:44):
It's just I've been thinking of that because I'm an
independent artist. So it's really like I do have people
that I trust, and I've realized over the last couple
of months actually now that I'm going to this new era,
just people that you know that work and that it
makes sense and that you know that they've been doing
it for a while and they know their thing and
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you know it it works, so like I see them like, yeah,
I would say one would be the publicist here in
the US, which I just started working, No, just started.
It's been like I've known him, he's been doing this
for you know, years, and I would probably put him
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in that list. I'll put like the person that manages
me in Ecuador that I like, you know, really like
and trust, and then probably like the team sort of
helping me organize and everything on the music site specifically. Okay, Yeah,
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I feel like there's a couple key persons in that
team that you know, I've been like, oh, I mean
one of them is also like one of my closest friends,
so he knows me. He's like, is that really you?
And this is where you, you know, like look for
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the music that you really right have to offer, right.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
So I feel that those sound like the ogs. Those
sound like that these people that are that know what
they're doing.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
You know.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
It's great to have great new ideas and stuff, but
for sure like the people that you feel that are
on your like your side and will tell you know,
and everything else is of course it's great. It's awesome incorporate,
but always stick I feel with you, it's very stick
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to the classics, you know, stick to the solid ones,
you know, the ones that have not the innovative ideas,
but the actual way of doing things the right way,
you know, and if something and if you do incorporate
new things by all means, just maybe not all of
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them or just maybe like with that little cautious.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
Yeah, that's what happens, what they do.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
But have like your other options as as I've always
done in life. Yes, more because I did have that
time when you know, you meet people and like okay,
I would go like life or death with them and
then you know, results are not what you expect. But
you were saying very true as to like you have
those moments where like I feel like boom and then.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
And then it's always that like.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Someone in the team, something changes and when you know,
life COVID whatever, so.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
That okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, but for you like this
that showed that they showed me is part of part
of the success in your case. You see what I'm saying,
Like something about your personality and something something about who
you are makes this such a learning experience as opposed
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to other people maybe not like maybe getting discouraged or
you know, I understand it's it's hard, but for you,
like all of this has nothing been positive, and they
wanted to know how well you've done and how you're
on the right track and how it's gonna all add up.
(25:37):
You see what I'm saying, Like there's no doubt that
you're in the right place. That's very important and the
fact that you oh okay, they're saying, it's very important
that you stay in the same place for now. Let
(25:58):
me explain what I think I interpret it is. It's like,
don't go moving things around so drastically because of kind
of like I need to take this like this has
to be like I need to take this to the
next level. Now you see what I'm saying, Like, no,
(26:21):
it's not that. It's not about that, not now, because
the energy that goes towards that desperation kind of thing,
because everybody as artists, of course, we're like I want
it now, you know, like I've been doing this for
(26:41):
so long, like damn, it's my turn, you know kind
of thing. Yes, And when that happens, the energy, your
energy towards everything that you're doing. It's something weird. It's
something about like sama set a statika, pork hya, pistah,
(27:05):
get it, yeah, get us in las cosas. This is
when when that happens, things really don't end up happening.
And then when you're like, Okay, this is a learning experience,
let's see how this goes. And then I know that
what I'm saying is so hard to do. But this
is something that they want you to know. You know
that it's not about this time around it has to
(27:29):
stick or this around it has to be a hit. No,
not at all, not at all, because if if this
is the hit for some weird reason, everything after that
is gonna be super hard. And maybe you're not prepared
to back it up. Maybe you don't have enough songs
(27:51):
to back up this hit that you wanted, or maybe
you know, it's like it's better to move up slow
than just to move up quick and get really tired
and then have to sit down at the middle of
the stairway because you can't, you know. And for you,
that's like you have to very you have to keep
(28:12):
this in mind when you're going to through this process
coming up. It's like, it's okay. If it's not the biggest,
it's okay. And I'm not saying it's not going to be.
I'm just saying your attitude towards it is what makes
the energy either flow or kind of contain itself.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
So for the energy to flow, the way to see
it is like, this is not the biggest moment yet.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
Exactly, And maybe it is because I can't see your
future at all. We are not allowed to see future,
and we are not allowed to see deaths. Those two
things we can never see. I have no clue how
it'll end up at the end. But what they tell
(29:08):
you is everything you need to know for it to
end up how it's supposed to end up, for your good.
And it all has to do with because what happens.
What I've learned, which is I don't know if this
is true or not. It's just this is what I've
learned from my dead people that I talk to every day,
(29:28):
is that when you're so obsessed with something or so
like so so invested, something happens and it breaks, something happens.
But when you're so when you want it so much,
but you let everything up there, or whatever your beliefs are,
(29:49):
it doesn't matter that you let it everything. It's like,
this is what I want, oh so badly. Okay, here
you go, it's up there. Let it happen how it's
supposed to happen.
Speaker 3 (29:59):
But this is what I want.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
That's it, And everything flows very different. But the obsession
or the heart, the extra hours, there's very there's a
very big difference between extra hours of worrying and looking
for shit then practicing and getting better at your skill
that you can do all the time, you know, because
(30:23):
that only makes you better. But all energy put into
something that you want to happen the way you want
it to happen. That's where it all messes up because
it's not what you want. It's what God wants and
it's what's good for you. And the way you accept
it is how it flows, and it goes better or worse.
(30:47):
Does that make sen Yes, okay, because sometimes I feel
I ramble sorry.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
Because I'm a very pushy person.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
In the same says to like, I feel like it's
not like stuff you know, gets handed to me in
the case that I don't know, let's say, like even
the job opportunities I've had, I've had to.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Like look for them and you know, be like I'm
here and go through like all that process. But what
you're saying it kind of goes the opposite of as
to how I've been living. But it does make sense.
I just I just want to know.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
I don't know if you're or what they say to like,
when is the part where you stop, Like obviously you
have to knock on the door, But when the start
where you like stop knocking and.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Just let it be. What they're saying to me, is
it stops at the knocking. That's where it stops being
your problem, and it starts being the universe is problem.
You see what I'm saying. Send the emails, knock on
(32:05):
the doors, go to the gym, go to your classes,
your your voice or voice classes, go to your piano classes.
That's where it stops. The knocking. When they open the door,
or when they don't open the door, that's it. Whatever happens,
(32:27):
and that's not up to you, that's up to God.
You know, it's like an audition. I'm sure you've been
in an audition like I have. You've been in auditions
where like there's like people ten times more good looking
than you and then ten times uglier than you and
ten times more talented than you, and it's like fuck,
(32:48):
You're like, you know, it's like what do I do?
And then you feel bad and oh, I'm sure she's
gonna get it or whatever. And at the end of
the day, who doesn't go to to whoever? It was
meant to be? Nothing to do. You've done your job,
you've gotten the audition, you've prepared yourself, you've taken your
(33:09):
voice lessons, you did what you had to do. You stop,
and then I love hearing this because like I can
take this advice too. Like this is like something very
is something that let me think, like maybe fifteen years
ago I didn't understand.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
Yeah, the more you grow up you can get more
to that as But obviously you know I always wonder,
and even more in that case, because again I have
been putting a lot of pressure into what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
But yes, it's right.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
I still have to write the email, you know. I'm like, oh,
they're gonna say no, but I haven't even sent the email,
so I might as well write it and then leave
it to God whatever exact.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
What if they say, yes, you know, that's great, you
did your part. Yeah, that's where it stops. That's where
it stops. And it's true. You do your audition, that's
where it stops. The rest is not up to you
at all. Who are you going to convince?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
You know?
Speaker 1 (34:11):
I also I want to tell you something that I see,
like I don't know if this is present or this
is future, but I see like a very big sponsor.
Do you have like a very like like I'm talking
about like a like a car company or like a
(34:32):
do you have that?
Speaker 3 (34:34):
But I would love to have it because I'm independent.
I've been I've been I'm putting all my That's why
I feel like I'm also putting so much pressure on this.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
It's because it's my money, like it's something you know,
paying every everyone, every single person, every like thing. So
that's why it takes like a bigger meaning because it's
you know, I mean, it's now or never. It's like
they're like, I'm investing in myself all of this. But
(35:04):
I just think it's great to hear, like.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
You know, it's still.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
There's so much more room to grow and continue doing.
Like I don't have to put all the pressure in
this upcoming and releases.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Because at the beginning, I have it written down right here,
h and I wrote it in Spanish. It says oural.
That makes sense that you tell me this. Now it's
not it's your money, okay, save save on something like,
don't spend money on something that you don't know if
(35:41):
they're going to be exactly.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Yeah, I've been having so many meetings with like new
people as so oh it's now we're never.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
So I need my pr person. I need this person
to help me. You know, I have to put money
on this and like you know, right playlists and all
this just because it's now never. So it's very interesting
and beautiful to hear this.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I see and you know what, c because you can
tell your humility from here like this is nothing about
me being psychic or whatever. You have great humility, and
I think that humility is where it where it right
now is like you know what, Yeah, I'm gonna save
(36:29):
some money here. It's not you know, I'm not at
Sony Music with a million dollar contract yet, let's save
the big guns maybe for because like it's a build up,
you know, like they show you as a build up,
you know, and that one it's not gonna be about
that song. It's about let's let's be conservative until we
(36:52):
get to the point where boom, it's like they go
like this to you, you know, And so that because
what happens is that, yeah, exactly, we hire the publicist,
we hire everything because we want this had to happen
right away. It's like, yeah, but are you in the
right movie. Maybe you're not in the best movie to
(37:13):
hire the best publicist, And maybe you wait till this
movie comes out, so you get the best the next movie,
and then it's going to be worth it, you see
what I'm saying. But all of it in the end
is worth it, Like it's it's going somewhere.
Speaker 3 (37:28):
For you know, I think, nah me coming out? Does
it coming?
Speaker 1 (37:39):
Now that you say that about coming out, like, it's
interesting to that all this time I had not seen
about the coming out. I had not seen that. But
just that the fact that they're telling you that you're
on the right track, I feel is so good, you know,
because that means that you're doing the right thing.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
And obviously now it all makes sense to you regarding
like what you said about my mom and this is
what you said about the team. Why is it how
for me, it's so like detrimental this release compared to
like other songs. It's because I'm you know, I'm putting
a lot of weights into it. And obviously I'm like, well,
you know, I've been having a career for years where
(38:18):
you know, mainly the fan base or the people that
follow it's like girls and everything you just have that
that's that scare like it's.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
A yo, they might leave totally.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (38:29):
So it's all it's all those things.
Speaker 2 (38:31):
But yeah, whatever information you're company bringing, it's very important.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Thank you been very very helpful.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
That's Irian. Thank you John, and this has been ghost therapy.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
Thank you very much, Thank you guys,
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