Certified Sex Symbol Feat. Pardi Fontaine

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the
man of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.
She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was
a good woman who always made good choices.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
I sing that shit off.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
We're Good Mom's Bad Choices.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
Two single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all
their bad choices.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
And sound out they were so bad after all, we're experts.
Over and your new vestie, sit back and near the ride.
I can do.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
At Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm America
and I'm Nila and it's Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Bitches.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
What it do? Hello? Hi? How are you?

Speaker 1 (01:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Yeah, if you haven't tuned into our YouTube channel. Shit
because Meila's dressed like a little kiddy cat today.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah, very important. You know I'm feeling rather felin in
and so why not represent it. I see like all
the white high school girls wearing kitten ears all the time,
so I said I could wear kitten not kitten heels.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
Kitten ears, let's not be confused with kitten heels, because
we know how we feel about kitten heels.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
I fucking hate kitten heels. It is my number one
pet peeve on women, unless you're over sixty, in which case.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
And even then just just surrender.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
Just wear flats.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Fuck it.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
I like New York is like the number one place
of kitten heels, and it really pisses me off every
time I go.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
It is an East Coast like Boston girl thing or
something Connecticut.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Some shit.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Just commit, bitch, just commit. Don't do it. If you're
going on a date, don't fucking wear that kitten hell.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
If you didn't call you back, bitch, tell you.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
It's because that fucking kitten here. Sorry we got off topic.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
How are you? I'm great, I feel good.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
I'm I've been eating really well for the past week.
I got like severely ill last week and I was
puking my brains out. That body was like, bitch, stop enough.
And so I've been just kind of trying to rewire
my mind to stop eating bullshit.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
And I've been feeling good, feeling healthy, and I haven't
been drinking. But last night I went to Summerville. How
was it?

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Shout out to Asa Ray for that fucking restaurant. That
shit is a fucking vibe.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
I missed it. I'm gonna have to wait another three months.

Speaker 1 (02:47):
No, that's just dope. Like, oh my god.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
When I walked in, I was like, god damn. It
was just like it was super impressive. The food was amazing.
It was a little girls' night. We missed you. I
know you were tired. I was shocked because me a
little miss a party.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
I don't and this year I've I just I've let
shit go. I can have fomo. I'm not going to
make it. I'm bitch, just tired. I overbooked myself. I
went on a trip that my daughter really wanted to
go on. It was it was painful for me, not
like I went to Disney World. This is my bad
choice of the week. I went to Disney World to
go with my daughter with a mom that I don't love.

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And it was fine until it wasn't. I only have
like forty eight hours and I spent like fifty eight,
and so I just had to go.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
I didn't.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
My social battery was on a zero.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
I tried to tell.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
You, bitch, you did did Okay, I'm glad that you
went and you had those forty eight hours that were positive.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
It was those last It was those last like hey
yeah that I was just like, this is why I
hit my max nice. But it was still it was fun.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Great. I'm happy for you.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
Thank you sacrificing for the children.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
We do it every day.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
Well, you guys, I'm really excited because we have a
special guest here, and you know, we've been trying to
get this man on our show for a minute, like
I would say, like maybe a year and a half,
two years of some sort, and he's finally pulled up
on us in LA. He's from New York. I know
a lot of you bitches. A lot of you hoes

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listening right now. I wish you were sitting in my seat,
but you're not. I would love to welcome to this
to the show, rapper, producer, actor, father.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Party Fontaine. You forgot sex, oh international sex symbol.

Speaker 5 (04:40):
Excuse me.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
A respect on this.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
I'm sorry having Partisan Fontanne.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Welcome Partisans Party to the show.

Speaker 5 (04:51):
Thank you all for having me. I'm excited to be here.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
Yeah, we're excited to have you.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
We were talking off camera and I was asking Party
if his name, if his government name is Partisan and Fontaine,
because that's such a strong I don't even know if
it's a black name. I guess the black name. I
never heard nobody named Partisan. But I was like, that's
a strong name. And you told me that's not your
real your real name, So how did you come up
with this name?

Speaker 5 (05:15):
My birth name?

Speaker 1 (05:16):
And actually I heard that your name was originally a
rap name was Partisan McFly.

Speaker 5 (05:20):
Party partly.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Because we got a team nigga the internet.

Speaker 6 (05:28):
It started as Party McFly after watching it back to
the future. But I was like, that might not that
might not age well with me.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
How old were you when you were Party McFly.

Speaker 5 (05:39):
Sixteen fifteen something like that.

Speaker 6 (05:41):
When I first decided I wanted to like start rapping
and making music, I needed a moniker. But yeah, it
quickly evolved in the partisan and then I started working
at a Sax sax flaf and I used to have
to pass the and Fontange story and I was like,
y Fontaine just sounds.

Speaker 5 (06:01):
Luxury.

Speaker 6 (06:02):
Yeah exactly. So then I attacked it on to the
end of my name and I threw it on. I
threw it on my Space and I swear to God,
people just you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
It just stuck with me.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
Was it not the MySpace?

Speaker 5 (06:15):
Now?

Speaker 3 (06:16):
I know you're our age.

Speaker 5 (06:17):
That's what it was.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
Good old my Space?

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Remember the codes and ship and if that we were
colder were why do we stick with that?

Speaker 5 (06:24):
Now?

Speaker 3 (06:25):
We don't know ship because I was putting the backgrounds
and the music, the h and if you did one
thing off the whole thing for hours we didn't know
about but we would figure out that fucking MySpace Ship
pays me.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
In the background of Ship doing it.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
Yo, the kids will never know.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
Wait.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
The other day I had I found a picture of
my old bedroom when I was a kid, and I
showed Iri and I had that mac that had like
the like you remember the yeah, and she was like,
what is that?

Speaker 1 (06:53):
What is that?

Speaker 2 (06:54):
I just burst out laughing. She's like what the fuck?
I was like, that is a computer?

Speaker 3 (07:00):
Oh my god, that makes us seem so old.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
I was in there coating and as selling my life
in chat rooms.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
Wow, that's interesting. Like you never you think you look
at old pictures, but you rarely have a photo of
your old and then you can take you back there
because you kind of forget those details of your like
childhood life, because you have so much shit on your brain.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
And then you're like, oh, yeah, that.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
Wall I covered in pictures of Tyra Banks and niggas from.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
That fucking magazine min was Nelly. I was nellied out.
I had Nelly all over that goddamn wall.

Speaker 3 (07:29):
He got older and I lost interest. But in seventh grade, baby,
that was my nigga.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
And tell me St. Luna takes and Nelly what.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Yeah, don't get me started, because I know every.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Rap we're excited to have you. I want to know
you were an athlete before you decided to be a rapper, right,
wit shifted, Where were you? Like you know what I
call this athletic shit.

Speaker 6 (07:57):
It was like I guess in senior year high school
is when I was like, all right, I don't think
I'm going to the NBA, like you know what I mean.
And I started just and I just fell in love
with the ability to make something in my room and
then put it out like as fast as I wanted to,
like anything like that just took over my mind. That
I could say anything on the microphone and then put

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it out in the universe and it never existed until
I did it. So I fell in love with that
ability and that just became like a superpower, and that
just it kind of started consuming me slowly.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
This is important. This is an important lesson because I
feel like there's a lot of young men who said,
I'm a basketball player. But do you have to ask yourself,
are you going to the NBA though? Because the chances
are low, My chances are low. You have to look
at numbers. And I don't want to kill anybody's dreams.
But my baby daddy, he told dam I have to

(08:56):
go for my own experience. I feel like a lot
of I mean, not like rapping as much better freaking
numbers or podcasting. Really, so I'm being.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
Hypocritical, he said, I'm gonna I'm gonna quit bawling and
I'm gonna try wrap.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
I'm just saying I think people lack the ability to
pivot and really say, what the fuck am I doing?
Does this really matter? Because you don't want to be
thirty five and then be like I should have not
been bawling until thirty five. I should have had a
plan B. And I know people are not popular about
plan b's because you want to just like know that
the first thing's gonna happen. And I'm a firm believer
of manifestations obviously, but I think, look what happens when

(09:30):
you follow the truth? O.

Speaker 5 (09:33):
Man.

Speaker 6 (09:33):
It definitely was definitely a time like I'm like, at school,
I was, I was a scholarship player. So after I
got a after school I got a scholarship, I'm sitting there,
I'm like, damn, if I don't leave school now, I
may wonder what if for the rest of my life,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (09:49):
Like I couldn't live with that.

Speaker 3 (09:52):
When there was the moment that you knew like, oh shit,
shit's about to shift, like the music shit took off
and you saw something like shift, you knew that it was.

Speaker 5 (10:01):
It was, Oh I made this song called OI.

Speaker 6 (10:05):
It was like it was it might have been the
first or second song I made when I came home
from college, like it might uh, And I just threw
it out there. I shot like a quick video and
I just started seeing reposts from people that I never met,
you know what I mean. I started seeing people that
weren't from my area. Like I used to always think, like,

(10:27):
I don't see no negative comments. Yet I didn't reach
enough people, right, you know what I mean. It wasn't
until I saw negative comments that I was like, all right,
I'm seeing people that I don't know on the day
to day seeing it. And that one kind of had
like the the effect in the tri state that let
me know, like you on the right track.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
So negativity is is like a benchmark for.

Speaker 6 (10:49):
It's a good moniker. If all you see is positive
and it's your friends, and yeah, you're doing good, Yo,
this is my ship, you probably want to just do more,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
That's a good perspective. I think people think, oh, like
people get scared, they see something negative and they try
to reform, But at some point you're gonna piss somebody off.
Not everyone's going to agree with you, and in fact,
that makes you know that you're like.

Speaker 6 (11:10):
Somebody took that doesn't know you, that are not invested
in what you're doing, took time out of their day
to comment on something you're doing.

Speaker 5 (11:17):
Like they got a full day of they own the.

Speaker 6 (11:18):
Life of their own and they stopped and in comment
on something you was doing, whether it was positive or negative.
You gotta respect that, like you're doing something. I got
another moniker too. I was at the time of this
record bubblin, I was doing a substitute teacher So what
grade I'm doing middle school? So I'm at this point

(11:39):
I'm loved in the substitute teacher community.

Speaker 5 (11:43):
What is what class I listen?

Speaker 6 (11:46):
I've started off with just doing gym, because you know,
I was an athlete, Like, let me go here and
sub this this gym class real fast. And from there,
I think they just needed somebody to cover a math class,
like can you just do this for us? I went there.
It was a worksheet. I'm like, all, it's pretty easy, boomed.
The students they kind of want to listen to somebody
that looked like them, you know what. They're like, you're

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not that much older us, like, so they listen everything.

Speaker 5 (12:11):
It's cool.

Speaker 6 (12:11):
Before I know it, they just getting me for the
full day. They're like, yo, can you just cover this?
Oh we got a Spanish I'm like, I don't know
nothing about Spanish, right, but it doesn't matter now. It's like, yo,
there's a worksheet, not a worksheet. At the time, this
is all they needed, get the worksheet. I was a
glorified babysitter for forty five minutes. But regardless, in the school,

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it got to the point where I had I had
played in the student faculty game, like you know what
I mean, Like I was, I was a kid. They
loved me there right. One day, just one kid out
of know where, he's like, you wrap, my mom showed me.

Speaker 5 (12:49):
I seen my mom, I've seen you.

Speaker 6 (12:50):
And I'm like, out of here, yeah, no, I don't
you know what I'm saying. This is like one hundred
dollars a day the boom, so that goes away. I
think one day I didn't I didn't substitute, and I
go to my The other job was the boys and
Girls club, so I was with some of the kids
throughout the day. One kid comes downstairs one day to

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the homework room. He's like, Yo, how come you ain't
tell us you wrap that shit fired, like you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (13:21):
And then he's showing me.

Speaker 6 (13:22):
He showed me on on his phone, all the kids
on like Facebook and stuff and like everybody talking about it.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
He's like, Yo, that's tough. Monell put that shit away. Right.

Speaker 6 (13:31):
The next day, the same kid comes downstairs and he's like, yo,
they pulled us into the office. They was asking how
we knew you and now yo. So he's like, yo,
I guess one of the teachers seeing you in the video.
So it's like a big deal. And before I as
soon as I got home that night, I guess the

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school district has sent like a car to my house.
They had a little siren on the top and not
the car. Yo, had a car they hitting me. The
envelope was like, yeah, you need to appear before the
board and what seek representation. So then I'm like, yo,
it's not it's probably time to just do music now.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
That's when you're retired from substitute.

Speaker 5 (14:12):
Yeah, maybe that was my last day or subject.

Speaker 1 (14:14):
I feel like fighting the case. How long were you?
How long did this last for?

Speaker 6 (14:18):
It was probably it was probably a good part of
the year, like so I started in the winter, and
it's probably so about when school was about to get out,
so it's probably a good.

Speaker 5 (14:25):
Part of the year.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Oh wow, you seem like you work with kids a lot.
Is that like a Was that like a passion of yours?

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Early on?

Speaker 5 (14:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (14:31):
It was easy, Like you know, it was like it
was little mes I'm watching. I'm watching them grow up.
They want to play basketball, they want to be bad,
they want to be loud. And I'm in shout out
to whoever hired me at the Boys and Girls Club
because all I live right down the street. So I'm
just driving a van picking up the kids who got
a watch, gone opening with their homework, and it was
just it was just a great time. That's definitely my

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favorite two jobs, subbing and the Boys and Girls Club.

Speaker 3 (14:57):
Have you always wanted to be a father? Was that
always like a player of yours? M let me see,
like when you're a young man.

Speaker 5 (15:04):
I guess it was. It was somewhere in the plane,
But it wasn't like, yeah, I can't wait to be
a dad, you know.

Speaker 3 (15:09):
You know, most men don't really think about that. Only
for women. They give us fucking baby dolls and shollers.
At three They're like, you're going to raise someone, but
men they don't have They don't even think about.

Speaker 5 (15:19):
That becomes like a play thing for girls, right.

Speaker 3 (15:21):
No, they they brainwashed us absolutely to teach us about
our bodies.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
They just say, here's but I can't tell you how
how it's gonna get in here and how you're going
to get it out right.

Speaker 5 (15:32):
Here's here's a baby. Here's a kitchen fake.

Speaker 3 (15:35):
Here's a kitchen fake cook this plastic food. This is
your future, which is really fucked up. I'm refusing get
any daughter of mine any little kitchen, even though I
love that ship as a child.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
How old is your daughter? She's eight eight, that's a
good age.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
She just goes to our daughters. Our daughters are nine
and ten. She's spicy, she.

Speaker 6 (15:52):
She's everything, telling you that she's a little adult, like
it was crazy.

Speaker 5 (15:55):
Matter of fact.

Speaker 6 (15:56):
She just had a dance competition that she did great
in first, in third place or someone.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
What kind of dance she does?

Speaker 5 (16:03):
Everything she does tap a lyrical.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
I saw a video of y'all that was so fucking adorable.

Speaker 5 (16:11):
Stretches Like why why I'm show me the stretches? Y'all
do it? This? She busts these she's doing.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
She's all flexible because you know, kids basically.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
Do have bones, just tartless, a tarlish, just bent over here, big.

Speaker 5 (16:27):
As overhead, Like I'm like, bro, get out of.

Speaker 1 (16:30):
It's like, you can't keep up, dad, you want more kids?

Speaker 5 (16:34):
If God gives them to me? I do you know?

Speaker 2 (16:36):
It's it's well, God could give him about you.

Speaker 5 (16:40):
Seriously, seriously, It's two things.

Speaker 6 (16:46):
I love my daughter and I love like everything about
getting to see her grow grow up and develop, and
I love the experience.

Speaker 5 (16:53):
I'd be feeling like, damn.

Speaker 6 (16:55):
I miss so much of her with my job and
what I'm doing, Like I be feeling like damn to
have another one. And then you know, so maybe when
I'm a little older and I got time and I'm
more just settled down and I can really just be
there like I would, I would love to see it
again from just baby baby all the way up.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
So I guess so you experienced dad guilt when you
have to be on the most.

Speaker 5 (17:16):
Hate it. I hate it. I hate it absolutely whole heartedly.
She understands, but she still be pissed.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
She like, damn, kids, don't for giving the fuck about
paying the bills.

Speaker 5 (17:29):
Toys and ships you get like, yeah, yeah, it's nice,
but you left.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
Do you have a good relationship with her mom?

Speaker 1 (17:36):
You best friends?

Speaker 5 (17:36):
Yeah? Yeah, absolutely absolutely, She's she's dope.

Speaker 6 (17:39):
Shout out to her because my daughter is amazing, and
I know it's because of because of her.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (17:44):
Is there anything like I'm curious like when you grew
up as did you have siblings or what was your
upbringing with.

Speaker 6 (17:51):
I have, Well, my mom has me and my brother
and my dad has four other boys.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
Outside of that where they married your parents.

Speaker 5 (17:59):
Yes, they didn't get married.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
Is there anything that you're doing differently in your version
of fatherhood that maybe you experienced as a kid that
you were like, yeah, when I have a kid, I
ain't doing that.

Speaker 5 (18:12):
Ship.

Speaker 6 (18:14):
I think my dad like two things right, me being
in this in his life, in his entertainment, in this field,
I understood my dad a lot more now, Like I
understood I understood what it was like to have a
dream and a passion, and like you, he's he was
going at it one hundred. He was a singer. He
was a gospel singer. He was a gospel he still is.

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I don't even know how I said it was he
about to drop an album. Now you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
Shout out daddy album John thorpep okay.

Speaker 6 (18:47):
Right, so yeah, go buy his album, stream it. He's
a legend in North Carolina. Like you know what I'm saying.
You go in, they to The's quartet anything, and they
know who he is. But I understood what he was
trying to make happen. So me seeing that it lewed
me to know, like, all, it's cool to do that,
but make the time, you know, find the time. I

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make sure I never missed anything important. I make sure
I see her every week, you know. Like, so I
learned a lot from him.

Speaker 3 (19:16):
Do you feel like he had a difficult time with
the finding balance and pursuing the passion and also raising kids?

Speaker 5 (19:23):
Hell yeah, And it was a different time.

Speaker 6 (19:24):
It was a different And then I say to my mom, like, bro,
this nigga had too When you met this nigga, he
already had two.

Speaker 5 (19:34):
He thought he was just about to be good. Nah.

Speaker 6 (19:37):
I opposed a picture of my dad the other day.
I'm like, Ma, you I know you ain't think he's
about to change this nigga right here?

Speaker 5 (19:43):
He no, but but.

Speaker 6 (19:46):
I think he probably you know, he was pursuing a
dream in a time where it was probably Look, I'm
making sure the food is there, Like you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (19:55):
That's all you really needed to do.

Speaker 5 (19:57):
That's about it.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
Did your mom remarry?

Speaker 5 (20:00):
Nope?

Speaker 1 (20:00):
Okay, so she's chilled after that.

Speaker 5 (20:02):
I think she's My mom is cold blooded.

Speaker 6 (20:05):
Like you know what I'm saying, she didn't have people
proposed and all that, and she'd be like, ah, I
just don't like nobody that much.

Speaker 5 (20:11):
Man.

Speaker 6 (20:11):
She's like, I want to have my space, I want
to have my time. Like I'll be trying to get
her to stay at my house and be like mine,
just stay here. Like she'd be cooking her little banana
breads and she got all the little healthy snacks and
stuff in the pantry.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
Just stay here.

Speaker 6 (20:23):
She'd be like, nah, I got to have my own
So she just likes to move around, likes to be
on her own schedule.

Speaker 3 (20:28):
So so growing up, you you went back and forth
with your mom or dad. You didn't necessarily grow up
in a household with two like a married two buried parents.

Speaker 5 (20:37):
N I never seen them together.

Speaker 6 (20:38):
I did live with my dad for a while, and
I stayed with my mom obviously for the most part,
but I never seen them together.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Did that effect?

Speaker 3 (20:45):
Like when you were younger, We're like, I'm going to
be married or I'm going to be this kind of
a father and I'm going to be married and them
and have a kid. I have a white picket fence,
Like what was your vision?

Speaker 5 (20:53):
I think that was the vision at first, Like that
was the that was like that would be nice. You
know what I'm saying. You know, stuff don't happen like that.

Speaker 6 (21:01):
And that's how I realized, like I see what he
was doing, I see what he was chasing, see what
he's trying to do.

Speaker 3 (21:06):
How about now, do you aspire for marriage?

Speaker 6 (21:09):
I think it would it would be nice to have
somebody that that you felt strongly enough to get in
front of your peers and your friends and the church
and God and tell them that you want to be
with them forever and ever to a death. Do you
part in sickness and in wellness?

Speaker 5 (21:26):
Richer? I think that's really nice.

Speaker 6 (21:29):
But these motherfuckers got out here so much and said
irreconcilable difference, Yo, what this shit don't mean nothing? Y'all
could have stayed dating for that, Like you know what
I mean?

Speaker 1 (21:39):
Like to me you think marriage means.

Speaker 6 (21:42):
I just feel like it. I feel like we watered
it down, Like you know what I mean. I feel
like it doesn't hold the same merit that it used to.
I feel like it's been you know, it's been taken
for granted. It's like, oh, yeah, the Instagram pictures would
be nice. The thought of it is because y'all want
that thought, right, we want the perfect da da da.

(22:02):
But when you get to the work, the work that
it requires to Yo, I might have to meet my
partner five different times in this lifetime, but you know
what I mean, Like they're going to transform what they
was when I met them.

Speaker 5 (22:14):
It's not what they're going to be. AM I dedicated
to relearning.

Speaker 6 (22:17):
Am I dedicating to to not only giving love how
I like love, but how they receive it. You know,
Like it's it's so much that goes into it. And
if I did, if I was to find a partner
who was that had that level of dedication, who was
able to provide that level of grace and just really
cared about me, you know what I'm saying, and I

(22:38):
felt the same, I'll be down for it because.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
You're kind of a lover boy. I feel like I
look into the instagrams like every other six months and
you have like a new bitch. I'm like, relationship, Yeah,
I'm like, okay, party. I love a nigga that loves
love because I feel like it's a lost art to
men think like everybody is supposed to love them without
loving anybody back. And we're also in the era of

(23:01):
like open relationships. Everyone's like it's I'm Polly. I'm like,
if I hear that fucking word when we're goddamn time,
I mean, I'm cool with it. I just feel like
it's a it's like a it's not only a trend,
but I'm like people have been being hose forever, Like.

Speaker 1 (23:14):
This is not Polly until it doesn't go their way.

Speaker 5 (23:16):
No.

Speaker 3 (23:17):
I know, people become Polly because it doesn't go their way.

Speaker 1 (23:20):
No, But then they get Pollie and they think they
can handle and it still doesn't go their way, and
then they're like, this shit isn't for me.

Speaker 3 (23:24):
Either, because I feel like, like like you said, being
in a relationship with one motherfuck, it requires so much dedication,
dedication to growth because you're gonna keep seeing yourself like
there's a in love. The mirror is like no other.
Like it's like when your parents, you grow up with them,
you live in the household with them, You're triggered because
you're growing up. There's no other relationship that's gonna be
as triggering and as mirroring as in a romantic relationship

(23:46):
where you're doing life together. And I feel like people
don't really don't really understand all of that until they
get into it and they're like, never mind, it's easy
to peace out. So I feel like poly especially. You
know how much I hate the fucking word polly single
or single pollie, I fucking hate it.

Speaker 5 (24:01):
What does that mean?

Speaker 1 (24:02):
It means you're single.

Speaker 5 (24:03):
That's what the multiple people.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
It means you're single on your hoe because you're going
to hope. It's like, I know, I just want to
be I want to have different relationships, but be single,
But it means you're single, bitch, Stop making up new
words for regular ship. You're single and your howeing, which
is what all single.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
People be doing. It's fine, it's fine.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
Just be single. And then ethical whatever.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
Ethical ethical is, like when well they like to ethical
non monogamy, It's.

Speaker 6 (24:31):
Like, I just think, because Harlem is my show, liked
and that's what he was talking to Shorty about.

Speaker 5 (24:39):
Right. He was like, I do got other women.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
You're openly sharing and means honest, which is which just
fucking should just be the standard, my nigga, Like, if
you're dating someone, just be honest. Might not have to
put the word ethical to be like I'm ethical?

Speaker 2 (24:53):
No, I mean there's because there's other non monogamy where
people don't want to know ship. They don't want to know,
so I go do your thing, shout the fuck up
and then come back.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
But that must But is that also not ethical? Because
that's my agreement, Like I don't tell, don't I want
to ask, don't tell me? But the like, I feel
like there's always the agreement of like if I ask,
be honest, but if you if we have to assume
that niggas are lying all the time, and you have
to put the title ethical non monogamy, like.

Speaker 1 (25:21):
I don't know, we're in. We're in like an error.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
We gotta make a name for everything.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
You guys, So are you single now?

Speaker 5 (25:33):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (25:34):
Are you dating? Mm hmm? How long have you been single?

Speaker 2 (25:44):
That's like when a man becomes single, does he like
go on like a like a cleanse or just like
what happens because bitches do a bunch of crazy ship
they like, you know, they like go celebrate, or.

Speaker 3 (25:55):
They like the ratification by themselves, the world trip.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
They like they reacclimate with their friends that they haven't
talked to in one year because they were so invested
in their nigga, Like you know, what do what do
men do?

Speaker 1 (26:07):
Or what what do men do? And then what does
party do?

Speaker 5 (26:09):
First? All right? Phase one? Right, Phase one you've just
broken up, is you go through that phone like you've
never before.

Speaker 6 (26:19):
I forgot about every single one to see who's in arms.

Speaker 5 (26:22):
Reach, right, that's the first.

Speaker 3 (26:23):
So you go through shock and then you go reaching
for the first picture the.

Speaker 5 (26:26):
Club, the club after the club, and for a couple
of weeks you're like nothing there still ain't ain't hitting it.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
Save ship you just left.

Speaker 5 (26:36):
But then you settle in and you go to the gym.

Speaker 1 (26:40):
We're gonna say healthy, we're gonna find helpy bitches.

Speaker 5 (26:42):
The final phase is going to the gym. You just
change your ship up and then you be like but the.

Speaker 1 (26:48):
Gym to just be by yourself or the gyms are also.

Speaker 6 (26:52):
I mean depend depending on their eyes, those steps, depending
on how y'all broke up, right, Okay, if it's a heartbreak,
like I bet, like this bitch broke my heart, she
left me such and such, you might go to the
gym first, right, you know what I mean. It's just
like I gotta get back looking good type ship and
you see your therapy.

Speaker 5 (27:10):
But I think I think.

Speaker 6 (27:12):
The time alone really let me focus on myself and
and what I wanted to do, what I wanted to achieve.

Speaker 5 (27:19):
One physically, two.

Speaker 6 (27:21):
Uh career wise, like like the thing for power came up,
we just landed another movie getting into it, about to
do something with one of the fitness brands. So it
allowed me to uh because like I said, relationships are
work right and that you got to invest in them
and be there. So it kind of like freedom some

(27:43):
time in mental space, Like I got some cloud space
back and was able to just lock in a little.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
Bit so hoeing scrolling scrolling health, scrolling club hoeing.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Health, and.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
And then you realize you're back in alignment with yourself
party four steps.

Speaker 5 (28:02):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (28:02):
And then they be looking back like damn, this is
my fucker looking good, this nigga ship together.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
You do go back? Are you a go backer.

Speaker 5 (28:08):
I can't. I can't go.

Speaker 1 (28:10):
You never go back.

Speaker 5 (28:12):
I've tried it once, but all right, put it like this,
h If I know.

Speaker 6 (28:22):
That the the girl is like moved on and sleep
with somebody else, I just I think it's it's over
for me.

Speaker 2 (28:29):
I can't onmind, there's no interest in that.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
There's no like I'm gonna get my bitch back real quick,
fucking I.

Speaker 6 (28:36):
Guess, depending on the nature in which you you know
what if you you know what I'm saying, Depending on
the nature and what you lost it, and then you
might you know what I'm saying, Maybe you get on
your ship and be like, oh you thought that niggas
for you?

Speaker 1 (28:46):
Huh?

Speaker 6 (28:46):
You thought you you thought you had found no one.
You thought you niggas like you thought.

Speaker 5 (28:52):
That was gonna make you happy. Come back where you belong.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
This is my New York at this one, I'll never
know you see that important can't do maybe fucking my
whole brain.

Speaker 3 (29:03):
You did one bad New York.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
I had a few.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
Bad New Yorkers, bitch, Okay, I had a whole life
before I met you. Yeah, she's the most recent one
really was bad.

Speaker 1 (29:14):
And then before that I had a Dominican that he
was lying. The one arm.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, he was like, yeah, he'd had arms. Well, everyone
had arms, to be clear, but he had he was
cheating on me with his supposed best friend. But the
way he told me that, the way he made me
feel safe, He told me that his best friend only
had one arm, so there was no chance, right because
she has one arm, his handicap, like I seen.

Speaker 5 (29:38):
Her on exactly.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
But then.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
The plot twist is that then she got on the
phone with the bitch she was his best friend, and
she was like, this is my Nick, and she's like,
what he told me? You had one arm? And she said,
what he told me?

Speaker 1 (29:51):
You had one arm? So everyone had one arm? So,
y'all Nick is in New York. Y'all really handicaps?

Speaker 2 (30:00):
How did he get I was never going to meet
instant because I lived in l A and he lived
in New York.

Speaker 6 (30:05):
Oh, and he just says she had one arm, like
you're going pictures of his handicapped friend.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
And first of all, one arm is not going to
stop a nigga from smashing. Let's be clear, you got
but no disability.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
I never heard of it.

Speaker 3 (30:18):
Like disability really like curving a niggas so hard they
wouldn't do it, like you said, like she was thick?

Speaker 5 (30:24):
You know ot there?

Speaker 2 (30:26):
You ever had sex with someone with a disability, all
of them crazy, but no missing arms, limbs, wheelchair?

Speaker 5 (30:36):
Not that I wouldn't, Not that I wouldn't, but I
haven't yet.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
How do you feel about dating? Well this, how do
you feel about dating moms? Because I know a lot
of niggas are anti dating moms even when they have kids.
So I'm just curious.

Speaker 5 (30:48):
I'm all for it. I think I think single mother
is like my favorites.

Speaker 1 (30:54):
You're that, lady. Why are we your favorites?

Speaker 3 (30:56):
Tell us more.

Speaker 5 (30:57):
One out of share?

Speaker 6 (31:00):
Fact, y'all be having responsibilities and ship to do you understand?
Like y'all got y'all can't y'all don't be bullshit.

Speaker 5 (31:07):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (31:07):
Like your time is precious. You know what I'm saying,
y'all be having to be back somewhere single girls. I
ain't got no kids, y'all.

Speaker 5 (31:13):
Just looking around the house and ship.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
Waiting for you to take me here.

Speaker 5 (31:20):
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (31:20):
No, what are you doing? Nothing?

Speaker 5 (31:24):
Like? Yeah, just like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (31:26):
So I got an appreciation for a woman that you
know what I mean, They got a certain schedule and
just tacked to them like you know what I mean,
everything has to be within rhyme or reason for them
and then too y'all are like y'all sorry. Women with
children are really uh appreciative, like you know what I mean,
like after picking up crayons and diapers or whatever they've

(31:49):
been doing all day.

Speaker 5 (31:50):
Hey, listen, come here, let me just rub your feet.

Speaker 6 (31:52):
Amen, be very grateful, you know what I'm saying, Like,
let me just let me just let me you straight
everything good?

Speaker 5 (31:59):
What you want to watch? I already got your food
over there. Like they appreciate shit like that, you know
what I'm saying. So I got a.

Speaker 3 (32:04):
Real basically your stepdaddy material.

Speaker 5 (32:08):
You heard it.

Speaker 1 (32:08):
You're first ladies.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
I mean, if you date a mom, that's essentially that's
that's essentially what you're signing up for a long term
relationship with the mom stepdaddyhood.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
Do you have a limit on how many children you
would like?

Speaker 5 (32:27):
It is?

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Like three is your heart? Okay, that's too many?

Speaker 5 (32:30):
Hold on all right? So dating or were going there for?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
What are you dating for right now? Like if are
you not dating for like long term? Are you just like,
what is the point of dating someone seriously in like
monogamy if you don't have the intention of taking it
to like a long term format?

Speaker 5 (32:45):
I mean.

Speaker 3 (32:47):
Potentially, okay, okay, just for dating. What is your kid.

Speaker 5 (32:51):
Maximum tow one?

Speaker 6 (32:59):
If it's like, yo, we have to go there, And
I mean, actually, if the other one is like eighteen
nineteen and out the house, you don't even count no more.

Speaker 5 (33:10):
You reset you back the one.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
I mean, I agree. I don't think I even in
my single them, I wouldn't date. I didn't really want
to date somebody with a whole bunch of kids. So
I understand. I think that's not a popular opinion.

Speaker 6 (33:21):
And it's not even about the kids. It's about they
all got dads. The motherfuckers be coming around for stupid shit.
And I gotta you know what I'm saying, baby thinking
we beefing, I'm not beefing with your nigga. Pick this
nigga up and get the fuck out of here. We
got I've been waiting to wear her ass out all day.

Speaker 3 (33:35):
Lap sucking up my itinerary.

Speaker 1 (33:36):
Hurry up.

Speaker 5 (33:37):
Yeah, So that's that's that's the real problem with.

Speaker 3 (33:40):
We have a question. Were you there when your daughter
was born? H you saw it, but did she come out?
She had a natural birth?

Speaker 6 (33:47):
She she was sin Sirian. I was there. I'll never forget.

Speaker 5 (33:51):
That was crazy.

Speaker 3 (33:52):
Were you traumatized? How you did it change and shift
your perspective of like women?

Speaker 6 (33:56):
I thought my baby Mam was the bravest person in
the world. I ain't going I'm like what they like
because when they do something like that, and it was
like they was making it sound like it was just
dire like blood pressure. This they rushing in, we got
we gotta do this.

Speaker 1 (34:08):
Peep.

Speaker 5 (34:09):
They've turned it on the hospitals.

Speaker 1 (34:12):
The hospitals, I'm like, yo, what the fuck is going on?

Speaker 5 (34:15):
They like epidural? They signed the papers. I'm trying to
read the ship. She like sign it. I'm like, oh ship,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (34:21):
Like, so all of this happened, and she was like, hey,
it's the baby, alight, it's the baby, or it's the baby,
are right? So I looked at her like you're a soldier.
I would have went I'd have called the lawyer, Hey,
what's on this paper? Like what happened about please?

Speaker 1 (34:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (34:35):
Yeah, But no she went through that, and I was
watching they the little decisions started throwing organs around the.

Speaker 5 (34:42):
Room and Ship. I'm like, oh shit, I'm seeing it.
I never thought I would see.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
I think that's worse than the niggas get traumatized off
over the pussy opening up ten centimeters, But I think
throwing up the organs and reputting them back.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
Is I mean, the way my baby daddy was screaming
during my C section, bitch, I thought I was dying.

Speaker 5 (35:02):
Oh I was.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Not cool, he was.

Speaker 3 (35:07):
I was ressed because if you react like that, then
she's gonna be.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
I have the video.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
I might have to insert it right here, because this
nigga was screaming baby, I was like, what the fuck
am I dying?

Speaker 1 (35:23):
And not? And now when I saw the video, I said, well, yeah,
wait there you have a video of the the guts.
Well yes, when I have the video of Iri coming
out of me and.

Speaker 3 (35:35):
Everything, why have I never seen this video? I might
even your best friend.

Speaker 1 (35:38):
See the guts. But like he said, yeah, like they
placed Ship on the table.

Speaker 5 (35:44):
Taking stuff out and putting it. I'm like, yo, and then.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
They put it back and then I'm supposed to be fun, right,
I'm just like, how do you how do you put
the digestive system back perfectly?

Speaker 1 (35:52):
It's a lot of like I think it just kind
of comes just kind of I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
Ladies don't have a baby for just anybody. The ship
is not a walk in the park. Can you pick
a card for us? I forgot to ask you.

Speaker 1 (36:15):
Oh yeah, what is it? Let me say.

Speaker 5 (36:18):
A little bad drum?

Speaker 3 (36:21):
She looks happy. That's the money mar these pinnacles. How
do you feel about the esoterics, the tarot? And have
you ever dated a whitch? I know you grew up
in the church, which you know, like, I.

Speaker 5 (36:33):
Don't think they knew they was, but they was.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Which doesn't mean negative.

Speaker 3 (36:36):
It's not like the ones you see in the like
the wicked Witch of the Western or shit like that,
which is I feel like, are just women who have
the alchemy and the intuition to harness there?

Speaker 5 (36:46):
No, I haven't. I haven't eighty one per se. But
I think a few girls have pulled these out on
me before pulled.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
Out the cards.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
You know what, You're not like a guy raised in
the church. He was like, don't show me no sage
or no cards, No, nothing.

Speaker 5 (36:59):
Like that what is this?

Speaker 6 (37:01):
I mean, I don't think it's too much, you know
what I'm saying. It's what are you a Capricorn? And
people who think they know you about that?

Speaker 3 (37:07):
Do you think you're pretty true to your sign? Are
you very organized and good with money? Organized that you
don't have any spreadsheets?

Speaker 5 (37:15):
None?

Speaker 1 (37:16):
Don't like an itinerary when you travel?

Speaker 5 (37:17):
I mean it would be nice, but if I gotta
make it, it's not happening.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
You have OCD? Are you very neat in your house?

Speaker 5 (37:24):
I got ADHD?

Speaker 6 (37:25):
So it's like it's like when I put something somewhere,
I remember where it's at, and if somebody moves it,
now I think it's stolen because clearly I know I'll
put it here and now it's not there.

Speaker 5 (37:37):
So I don't understand.

Speaker 2 (37:39):
What would you say is like your biggest pet peeve
in a relationship or yeah in a relationship.

Speaker 6 (37:46):
In a relationship, I would say just just pessimism, like
if it's if it's everything is negative or everything is
a complaint and everything.

Speaker 5 (37:58):
Is Oh, why should do that? You know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (38:02):
I don't like that, Like I like a person that
can just see the benefit or like they didn't have
our correct seats, Well, these are fun, Like you know
what I'm saying. I like a vibe like that. So
if everything is something wrong in me, I'm so like
affected by my partner's mood. Like so if my partner's unhappy,
immediately I feel the tension of like how do I
fix this? Like how do I make it right? So

(38:24):
after a while of just everything is wrong, I've been
putting out fires all day, like you know what I mean.
So I would say, like pessimism.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
What would you say, is the nicest thing a woman
ever did for you?

Speaker 5 (38:37):
The nicest thing a woman has ever done.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
For me, the most thoughtful thing, because I'm always curious
like what a man views as thoughtful. Because I was
actually talking to Kem about this the other day because
we're talking about the couple's retreat that we're doing and
just you know, figuring out what workshops we're gonna do
and how we're gonna play. And I was saying, how, like,

(39:01):
for example, like in mirror work like a woman, it
would be really impactful for a man to come behind
a woman and like whisper affirmations into her ear while
looking in the mirror, touching her body. And I was
like does a man benefit from that? He was like,
m not really a man just want you dick and
give him compliments.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
No, I think a man.

Speaker 2 (39:18):
I think men often like want compliments on like what
they what they provide, what they or what they can
do or what or like they're doing a good job,
like I really enjoyed when you did that.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
Oh, like thank you for fixing that shelf, like I've
been asking to fix for five months.

Speaker 5 (39:34):
Straight.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
So like when it comes to to you, like what
is it? I mean, first answer was the nicest thing
a woman did for you? And then like what is
what is something like thoughtful that a woman might be
like surprised to hear that a man like you would
enjoy I think.

Speaker 5 (39:50):
I think, Oh, I think the nicest thing I ever done.
H damn. Two, I'm gonna think. I'm gonna think of two.
Like one.

Speaker 6 (39:58):
I'm a big gamer, right, so I'll never forget like
every year two K comes out, right, So this is
big to me. This is big, big one. I was
like this, you know what I'm saying. So she she came.
She had like twenty four pack of batteries controller, brand
new controller out of the batteries in the game I said,

(40:21):
she's trying to stay, She's trying to be around for
a minute, so so that that was definitely one of them. Well,
it was like I think organized the massage, like you
know what I'm saying out of nowhere, It's like, hey,
I got to as soon as she's just gonna give
you a massage and d D, I was like me,
for me, you appreciate the nigga, she's smart like so

(40:42):
I think those are two of the nicest. But yeah,
I think men do like to be just recognized and
and appreciated for whatever they because whatever efforts they making,
I think that goes along.

Speaker 5 (40:56):
Way with guys.

Speaker 3 (40:58):
Not to sell. Can you roll that backward?

Speaker 1 (41:01):
Yes, my love?

Speaker 3 (41:03):
Okay, I have a question, what is your ideal, like
if you were planning the perfect date? Because you you
are the self proclaimed sex symbol, So I just want to.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
Know where you're self proclaimed, Like it's on the internet
that you are self proclaimed.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
Yes, someone said that you are a self proclaimed sex symbol.

Speaker 3 (41:22):
Party you should be self proclaimed.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
I agree with it.

Speaker 3 (41:24):
I'm a self proclaimed sex symbol. I said it about myself,
so it's true.

Speaker 2 (41:27):
But it's kind of like when someone like claims their genius,
like you have to say it if you actually are it.

Speaker 3 (41:33):
She's just mad that I've claimed the sex symbol of
the podcast and you don't have to argue about that today.
But it just is what it is. Yes, happen.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
Don't forget.

Speaker 3 (41:47):
It's not every day that you're in the room with
you know, multiple sex symbols.

Speaker 6 (41:52):
Is the criteria, like how many you must have?

Speaker 3 (41:58):
Sex, must be good at its strong sex game, confident
in your sex moves, your four play moves. You just
a sexy body roll.

Speaker 5 (42:05):
Porn star, you know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (42:07):
But sex symbol like this person exudes sex when they
come like like damn, it's this motherfucker, you know what
I mean?

Speaker 5 (42:13):
Like I feel like that's the sexybody that's an important
person looks at me. It's like, ship, is this mother
fucking undressing me? Should I be undressing? Like you know
what I mean? Like like that that goes into it.

Speaker 3 (42:23):
So you feel like that, You feel like you can
just look at a bitch and you can undress her
with your sunglasses, miss your eyes. I can't believe it.
I can't confirm you guys. It's just too strong. You
have to keep from one sex symbol to another. She
cannot you can either deny or confirm. It's like a vampire.
I can't see your eyes. How will I know?

Speaker 7 (42:44):
So?

Speaker 3 (42:44):
What is your ideal date? How do you how are
you laying out the evening sex symbol party?

Speaker 6 (42:49):
Let me see? Where do I want just to go
home out with? It's all important. It's because important dates
are you know, It's definitely about individual that you're with
and what they would enjoy and appreciate.

Speaker 1 (43:04):
What would you enjoy and appreciate?

Speaker 3 (43:06):
What would you plan if you were like, this is
this woman you've been waiting to go out with for
a long time. You got some time, you got a weekend.
This is something you really have interested in. She's sexy,
she's smart, she has an itinerary, she has shit to do.
She's not just fucking loitering.

Speaker 1 (43:20):
She's a single mom.

Speaker 5 (43:22):
She's a single mom.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
Yeah, thirty five, definitely a single mom over thirty.

Speaker 5 (43:26):
Five, over thirty five alone. She got ship to do.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
You know, she helps her.

Speaker 5 (43:31):
Kid, a new kid.

Speaker 6 (43:32):
But you know what I like that I figured out
I've liked in the last few years. I enjoy like
a lot of Broadway stuff right now, a lot of plays.
So I would tell Ao, just get dressed, throwing something,
we go to the UH, I'll pick her up. And
if I couldn't pick her up, I'll make sure there'll
be flowers in the truck that I sent. So she
would have those who'd arrive watch the play I would

(43:56):
like to drive. I would like to drive from there.
I could have the playlist going, you know, put the
hand on the thigh while I'm driving us to dinner.
Make sure it's either private room or somewhere with a
real good view. Oh see whatever she likes, a bottle
or whatever.

Speaker 5 (44:16):
Why the champagne she wanted?

Speaker 6 (44:18):
Oh, seafood Tower, but the oysters hit every time.

Speaker 3 (44:32):
I don't even language and seafood Tower, I don't.

Speaker 6 (44:36):
Even like oysters, but I know to have the motherfuckers
readily available. After the conversation, we pretty much.

Speaker 3 (44:45):
Home and then what once we're home, Yeah, that's where
it gets really, that's where the date starts. And what's next?
Other candles? Lit incense? Do you have Siri? Play my
love jams?

Speaker 5 (44:59):
You want to know something crazy?

Speaker 6 (45:00):
When I'm when I once we get to the house,
like I do a little walk through whatever the case
may be. Oh yeah, this is this, this is this
telling you how my ship?

Speaker 1 (45:08):
But you have your hue lighting.

Speaker 3 (45:10):
It was like the dim lightings. I hate a nigga
with Florence's fluorescent lights.

Speaker 6 (45:15):
All of them, all of them, damn all of them
change color. But then I get into the fucking room
and I don't know why. This might be just my
vibe right now, but Gunna, nasty girl, play that ship through.

Speaker 3 (45:27):
So Gunna, I'm gonna have to write that down so
to God.

Speaker 6 (45:34):
Oh and then I got a just in case you know,
she wasn't prepared, got like a bunch of bonnets individually
rapped and.

Speaker 5 (45:45):
Like to change.

Speaker 3 (45:47):
If I come to a nigga's house and he has
a bonnets with an s individually rap how often are
you bringing bitches back to the house for sleepovers? You
gotta hide the rest of the collection. You gotta act
like it's like just for her.

Speaker 6 (45:59):
There's not only bring one. Okay, bring one obviously, But
you know what I'm saying. God blesses those who are prepared.
So so they got the little nutrient gena wipes. If
she wanted to take her ship off, little too blush.
You want a T shirt or something.

Speaker 5 (46:15):
We did?

Speaker 3 (46:17):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (46:17):
I'm missing one step.

Speaker 2 (46:20):
You didn't book the babysitter for she's a single mom
party a babysitter to pay for the babysitter, baby, You
know this is it's expensive for us to go on dates.

Speaker 3 (46:31):
She had one nick and pay for a babysitter, and
she's never she's never forgotten ever.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
Eye was astonished. I couldn't believe.

Speaker 3 (46:38):
I've been hearing about that ship in the fact that
if minus A Vacum was a fucking horrible he was
from New York to a horrible individuals, but he got
a babysitter and this ship wonner.

Speaker 6 (46:47):
Im about to say it because if that's one of
the joints she gives you, like, I don't know, I
got my kid.

Speaker 5 (46:51):
I'll pay for that. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (46:53):
Don't worry about that.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
No, no, no, you can't send it.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
My auntie is coming over to get that baby.

Speaker 2 (46:56):
Can we talk about this back with this? Is this
actually tastes really good? That's the l A is the
d This is the l A Backward Limited Edition. Basically
smooth like for real, just like an l A bitch, Smooth.

Speaker 3 (47:08):
Like an l A bitch. Do you like women from LA?
Do you like New York women. Do you have like
a region preference, regional preference.

Speaker 5 (47:14):
I don't have a regional preference at all.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
Is nice?

Speaker 5 (47:18):
They got a nice bob to them. I have no idea.

Speaker 3 (47:24):
Seven of the day, your day of birth of I
mean your time and whereabouts?

Speaker 5 (47:27):
What I need to know?

Speaker 3 (47:28):
You didn't find out what time you're born? Hold text
your mom. I know you got the per certificate.

Speaker 5 (47:34):
Let me ask you. Yeah, yeah, as my brother, what
time was all born? You remember?

Speaker 3 (47:38):
Your brother don't remember?

Speaker 1 (47:40):
Why would he know what time you were born?

Speaker 5 (47:42):
He was already seven.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
It has to be. It has to be the exact time.

Speaker 3 (47:46):
It goes by a minute, Yeah, exactly, am, Yeah it depends.

Speaker 5 (47:53):
Let me see.

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Only witchy bitches are asking every man they met, what
time are you born?

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (48:00):
This is important information. I bet you it's a water sign.
Huh my, mic I'm gonna go to Cafe Astrology so
I can get you going as soon as we find
out if you guys haven't been to Cafe Astrology. This
is not an ad. This ship changes your.

Speaker 6 (48:20):
Hey, hey grandma, how you girl? How you doing your
pretty self? I mean I'm in Hollywood, so it's only fitting,
I said, I'm in La. It's actually not too bad.

(48:46):
It's pretty good.

Speaker 5 (48:48):
Oh good good.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
This was in California. He's telling he's so good. I'm confident.

Speaker 5 (49:00):
I got a question for y'all. Y'all are going crazy.

Speaker 6 (49:04):
I got a question, Ma, what time?

Speaker 5 (49:09):
Tell them? Where the tell them?

Speaker 3 (49:11):
I agree, Mom, Shanelin, I agree. If you're watching on YouTube,
he's looking good.

Speaker 1 (49:14):
At the month.

Speaker 5 (49:16):
What time was out born.

Speaker 8 (49:19):
More more forty three or four thirty forty three or
four forty three?

Speaker 1 (49:26):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (49:27):
Morning four forty three am.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
It's a M.

Speaker 8 (49:31):
Yeah, yes, a M before the quacking throne.

Speaker 5 (49:37):
So I was always an early riser. I got it.
You wasn't no early?

Speaker 1 (49:41):
Yeah, waking me up out of my fleet.

Speaker 5 (49:44):
Time to go, It's time to go.

Speaker 8 (49:45):
Tell mam, I want to be born, carry kick it
and carry it on.

Speaker 5 (49:56):
What I have no idea. I just need the world
needed me to come through today.

Speaker 1 (50:03):
Yeah, yes, you are. You know I'm get up at five,
So I'm thinking it's indigestion.

Speaker 5 (50:14):
Around indigestion, thinking this could be something anything else.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
What's your actual birthday?

Speaker 5 (50:24):
December? Well, yeah, nineteen eighty nine.

Speaker 1 (50:30):
And where city were you born?

Speaker 5 (50:32):
Newburgh, New York.

Speaker 6 (50:35):
I'm here on this lovely podcast, Good Bams, Bad Choices.

Speaker 1 (50:39):
My mom, Hi, Hi, Hello.

Speaker 6 (50:46):
So we're trying to figure out when I was born
to see why why I act.

Speaker 5 (50:50):
The way I act?

Speaker 1 (50:55):
We got it. We're getting the data right now. We're
gathering the data, all right.

Speaker 5 (51:01):
All right, man, I got a question, all right? Why
why why you never wanted to remarry?

Speaker 1 (51:11):
Why didn't I ever want to be married?

Speaker 5 (51:14):
Yeah? Why why you was like, I mean, you know
why you ain't want to I'm thinking, I'm.

Speaker 8 (51:21):
Trying to think of.

Speaker 1 (51:24):
I was good.

Speaker 5 (51:25):
I was good.

Speaker 8 (51:27):
I was trying to raise two young men, fine young men.
So because I had to keep I gotta have to
keep books.

Speaker 5 (51:39):
All right, we grown, We're grown. Now, Why you still
ain't want to remarried?

Speaker 1 (51:47):
Because I'm happy?

Speaker 5 (51:52):
All right? I just wanted to know.

Speaker 1 (51:55):
I come, please, I take care. I don't know.

Speaker 5 (52:02):
Of eight.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
Man?

Speaker 5 (52:13):
All right, man, I just had to chap in with
you one time. All right, Oh g.

Speaker 6 (52:21):
Thank you, thank thank you, mom, by Grandma, I love you.

Speaker 3 (52:29):
Wo wow, that was beautiful. That was beautiful. But you
heard it first, women, men are a distraction. If you
have peace, don't be seeking these niggas out here. You
heard it from parties, Mama, she said, because I was fine.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
I love that she knew the time she said four
forty three.

Speaker 3 (52:55):
You don't forget human coming through your vagina.

Speaker 6 (52:57):
It's pretty that's the crazy part, right, like because they say,
like that's literally like the most pain a human can withstand.

Speaker 5 (53:03):
Right, and then y'all do it again.

Speaker 3 (53:05):
You sign up to you do it again.

Speaker 5 (53:07):
It's like, y'all just forget.

Speaker 1 (53:08):
Yeah, we do.

Speaker 3 (53:09):
Though I'm about to do it again and I've I've
forgotten and I've had to if I want to do
it again.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
Yeah, it feels like a dream that happened sort of.

Speaker 3 (53:19):
We are the portal between the heavens and earth. There
is nothing else that Literally we don't know where we
come from, but we are the vessels.

Speaker 2 (53:27):
And that why, and that's why we deserve all the
respect and all the love and all the caring and
our feet rubbed after dinner, and yeah, cars with flowers
and them getting picked up and paid babysitters.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
That's the most importantly, most importantly, pay that babysitter.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
That is that's a major key. Okay, you will get
some pussy if you pay the babysitter.

Speaker 3 (53:48):
What are the things Sun moon, sun moon rising, right,
ascend it?

Speaker 1 (53:53):
Okay, are you guys ready? I'm ready? Are you ready?
Ready to know who you are?

Speaker 5 (53:58):
I've been wondering this whole time, wondering the whole.

Speaker 3 (54:00):
Time, which one is sunding? This is very complicated. While
I feel like the one's going up. I'm gonna have
you look for that one. So party, your son is
a capricorn, your moon is a Capricorn. To freak itt

(54:20):
all your flow and your spice. Okay, and so wait, what.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
Is the Okay?

Speaker 2 (54:26):
So he is a sun capricorn, a moon capricorn, and
a rising scorpio.

Speaker 3 (54:33):
That makes sense. The sex symbolism and the flow where
you're chill about ship that is the water sign that
makes sense.

Speaker 1 (54:42):
And apparently on Cafe Astrology, I just o came.

Speaker 2 (54:44):
I just saw this the other day because we're in
our goddess healing circle with Jesse. Shout out to Jesse
of Sweet Love Sanctuary. Make sure you check out, just
check her out overall, she's incredible that you can find
out the balance between your masculine and feminine you are.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
I don't know if you don't like this too. Masculine
eight feminine.

Speaker 3 (55:05):
I like it. I think most men who are like wealth,
I'm asking.

Speaker 1 (55:08):
Him, you're too masculine. Out of ten yes, eight feminine.
I think it's healthy. I don't think it's I don't
think it's unhealthy. I just think most.

Speaker 2 (55:21):
Men have an issue or take heed ever sharing the
fact that or even identifying with any part of their femininity.
And if it is, it's like the most minute amount,
even if that's not true for how they show.

Speaker 3 (55:33):
Up, I know, And I think I think that's usually
an indication that if someone thinks that that's a negative trait,
that they are have a misconception of it, like true
masculinity means.

Speaker 1 (55:43):
You know what I mean, or what femininity means, true true, both.

Speaker 3 (55:46):
And I think we're in a time and error where
it's like cool to hate women, like a lot of
men like bashing it on the internet and like stand
strong in it. And I think it's feminine. It's weird,
Like it's just a strange We're in a strange time.
So I think in order to bring the balance back
to true masculinity, the men have to the like the
real men have to come with more femininity because to

(56:06):
balance out, I.

Speaker 6 (56:08):
Think we had a bad time of us just being
hard on each other, Like you know what I'm saying.
I see multiple platforms whereas women just like or just
like you knowice the quick interviews where it's like, oh,
do we need men and they're.

Speaker 5 (56:21):
Like, no, we don't need them for nothing, We don't
need I'm like, damn.

Speaker 1 (56:24):
It's like damn.

Speaker 6 (56:26):
You know, there's a lot of doging going on, and
I feel like we just need to give each other
a lot more grace and then respect our differences that
we bring, Like I gotta appreciate a woman for everything
that she is and everything that I'm not that she's
able to do, and vice versa.

Speaker 2 (56:43):
How do you feel about women on just in life?
And I feel like you probably encountered this a lot,
just in being in hip hop music industry.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
There's this.

Speaker 2 (56:54):
There's been a long I guess pushing of women being
like if you can't buy me the bag, if you
can't get me this, if you can't me that, then
like fuck you, you're disposable to me. And then I
see men that say they don't want that, but then
they're with those women. So I'm just curious, like does
that hold weight to you or is that kind of
abad shut up? I don't believe it, Like, how do
you feel about that?

Speaker 5 (57:14):
It's it's a slider scale. It's a duality, right, Oh.

Speaker 6 (57:20):
I feel like when I when I hear statements like that,
it's like a woman who has been been tricked before it, Right,
So I think every I want.

Speaker 5 (57:33):
To saying my response, yeah, because I.

Speaker 6 (57:36):
Think women are are emotional, like you know what I'm saying,
at least more they lead with emotion, right. So in
the beginning, it's like, oh, Yo, you meet a guy.
He's cute, he's nice to me, he's saying these sweet things,
da da da da da, and he really likes me,
you know what I'm saying. And they choose their men
off of who they think really likes them. And in

(57:57):
terms where that goes sour, that goes south. And it's
like this niggas a dick. He never liked me, and
now I'm just here feeling dumb. Right, he was messing
with this girl telling her the same stuff, right, So
then the girl starts to feel dumb and then it's
like that happens enough times. It's like, yo, I keep
getting left with nothing. So now the compass that she

(58:20):
had on how to dictate who she goes with and
who she finds attractive gets skewed. It's like, all right, listen,
I liking mean enough no more. Now you gotta come
with something. Yeah, Like I gotta have I have to
at least place a monetary value on this so I
can at least weed out all of the I like

(58:41):
you for you like.

Speaker 5 (58:42):
I don't believe that no more.

Speaker 6 (58:43):
So now I gotta see the like the bag is
the like the cars that like you can provide this
that and the third on top of you know, women
like security and the ability to provide that level of security.
But I think where that came from is you ain't
gonna trick me out of nokuchie because you like me.

Speaker 5 (59:01):
They can show me.

Speaker 1 (59:02):
You know what I'm saying, Would you be attracted to
a woman that that leads with that?

Speaker 6 (59:06):
Because I think this is a I think that's a
like I said, a trauma response. And she doesn't see
I think her compass still might be a little off.
She doesn't see where to place the value in the
guy like. She doesn't see like, all right, these are
the qualities I should be looking for. And this is
what it ain't get me the bag, it's you have

(59:26):
this going on for yourself. You're going in this direction.
You look at you hold me to this standard. I
hold myself to this standard. I feel like, so the
bag is ministery and that's why you got so many
people like, ship a bag for that pussy. I do that.
That's cool, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's easy.
That's an easy trade off for a lot of people.
So I don't think I don't think that's the barama.

Speaker 2 (59:45):
So it actually puts women in a more harmful situation
to be honest, like, well, if you're if you're looking
at it from that perspective.

Speaker 5 (59:51):
If I can buy l like yeah, shit that you
know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (59:54):
Anybody can anybody the merit of a character.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
And then it kind of just perpetuates exactly what whatever
it is, the trauma response that she's reacting to, because
now now she paid, Now she got paid for the pussy,
and now and now this niggas still dogged her out
and then but now it's reinforcing the whole reason why
the whole thing.

Speaker 3 (01:00:16):
I think a lot of women haven't had the pleasure, unfortunately,
of experiencing the relationship with the man that provides a
full compass of things. You know, emotional support, like intelligence,
there's so many other things that you know obviously qualities
that men have. But if you've never seen it, and
all the niggas have only you know, pretended like they're

(01:00:37):
likes you and then dogged you out and that's your
only example, or maybe your dad was a dog and
you cheated on your mom or whatever it is. But
if you've never witnessed a man living in like true
masculinity and in like a safe and healthy space, then
you're like, no, these niggas are not safe. If you like, statistically,
niggas are not safe. We have like women are the
only species we have to go out and literally think

(01:00:59):
that our body could be perpetuated as like a weapon.
So we're always on like if I wear this, who
am I with? You know what I mean? So if
you feel that they are danger of you to you
to be around them, yeah, like pay me because what
else do you have to provide? So like within this cycle,
men are like acting out in a way that lets
me know there's very little else you have to.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
Offer, and then women are subthing answer it exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:01:25):
Yeah, So basically I'll have to wake the fuck up
and if you're going to save humanity.

Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
You've mentioned that your daddy was kind of like a player, right,
how do you think that because I'm wondering, like, how
do you think that that is like shown up in
your life as a man who's you know, dating, who
has been in serious relationships. People always say I always
hear like people say, like if your daddy was a cheater,
then if his daddy was a cheater, then he's.

Speaker 6 (01:01:50):
A cheating I mean he's he's gotten it right, He's
been married for like the last twenty years. And now
I think so like you know what I mean, like, uh,
got it right. I just understood, Like I just say,
I understood what he was going through and what comes
with it. And and we talked about we talked about
and do.

Speaker 1 (01:02:09):
You mean like in the regards to like women, like
having a lot of options, essentially.

Speaker 6 (01:02:13):
Having a lot of options, and it just coming with
with the with the territory of the of the career.
I guess, like we talked about when you raise the
little girls, you're giving them dolls and kitchens and stuff
like that. It's like, oh, you'll be a wife, you
know what I'm saying, You'll be a mom. They give
little boys footballs, race cars, basketballs and say ship to

(01:02:34):
them like, oh, you're gonna get all the girls. You're
gonna have all the girls. You're gonna have all the girls.
Know crazy, right, So it's like, yeah, finally, like you
know what I mean. Like, So it's it puts you
in a in a place where it's like, damn, this
is what I worked for.

Speaker 1 (01:02:46):
We're definitely not telling little girls you're gonna have all
the boys.

Speaker 2 (01:02:49):
You're gonna got girls.

Speaker 3 (01:02:52):
You're fast, you're fast.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
Put on lipstick, stop.

Speaker 3 (01:02:56):
Hanging out with boys. Don't be a horre. Yeah, being
told that from such a young age, like you dance
and it's too much. Put on a brad like all
the things they tell us about our bodies is completely
different than what they tell boys.

Speaker 2 (01:03:09):
He didn't answer my question though, because I was I'm
a recovering cheater recovering.

Speaker 1 (01:03:15):
I'm a recover recovered Okay, this is years ago.

Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
I haven't cheated since two thousands, early two thousand.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
Two thousand and seventeen.

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
Ish, I'm Erica, and I'm true I have cheated, but
I was I was cheating back throughout that time. That
happened like one or two times since I fully really
stopped cold turkey, you know, and cheating. I also come
from a long line of cheaters, my dad being one,
uh and being very honest with me about it even

(01:03:46):
as a young girl, like being like Erica. First of all,
I'm never getting married.

Speaker 1 (01:03:50):
I was. I was priding to this stand the other day.
How he told me he never loved my mom.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
How he uh, how he was just like I just
never had the I just never had the desire to
to be married. And he's been with his partner now
for twenty years. They're not married, and you know, and
he's had and he struggled with with monogamy. You know,
my whole life, I've witnessed and struggled with monomy. He's
tried to conform because he was like, all right, let

(01:04:14):
me do the right thing. And it's just he just
it's not it's not in his I don't want to say,
it's not his DNA.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
It's a choice. But for you and your in.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
Your journey into like you know, being a boy, witnessing
your father starting to date, and have you ever has
just been ever a thing where you've had to, like,
I don't know, work through because I think a lot
of men won't even admit that that, Like, yeah, because
I'm a recovery cheater, I recovered from cheating, or I
went through a very heavy phase in my life where like, yeah,
I didn't really give a fuck, So I'm curious.

Speaker 6 (01:04:46):
I definitely, definitely it was a phase in life where
I didn't give a fuck. It was like, damn, let
me see. How can I put this as a And
I don't know if this is true for all guys?

Speaker 5 (01:04:57):
How do they think? Right?

Speaker 6 (01:04:58):
One, I can say, if you want to be monogamous
and you really you really want to do it, can
we I feel like we can't do it right? So
I think it's our natural or it's the easiest thing
for us in the world. No, because too many niggas
suffer from the same problem. Yeah, Like yo, like I'm
talking about great niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:05:17):
You're talking about doctor King.

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
Like you know what I'm saying, Like you mean, doctor King?

Speaker 5 (01:05:22):
You mean to tell me this nigga cheated. President's cheat?

Speaker 6 (01:05:24):
Like come on, bro, Like these are great men others
Like this ain't a just a me thing, This is
not just a tyrone thing.

Speaker 1 (01:05:30):
This is doctor King.

Speaker 5 (01:05:32):
How so cheated universally like this.

Speaker 2 (01:05:34):
Is has doctor King, did you gotta give me grace?

Speaker 3 (01:05:38):
Okay, jay Z, It's not me, it's my whole species.

Speaker 5 (01:05:44):
Like you're joking, But listen what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:05:46):
Like right from from from thirteen right, maybe even eleven right,
a nigga is trying to find out how to get
some ass. From eleven twelve, we are we do. I
don't know nothing about sex, but I know I need
to be involved with.

Speaker 5 (01:06:03):
It somehow, Like these girls here, these girls are starting
to look too good.

Speaker 6 (01:06:09):
So from then right, and you very quickly learn as
a guy that you have to have something for girls
to want you.

Speaker 5 (01:06:16):
Right.

Speaker 6 (01:06:17):
You gotta be able to talk to them. You gotta
smell good. You gotta be tall. You gotta be the
fastest in the class. You gotta be the best dressed.
You gotta be something funny. You have to or ship
you a star like you know what I'm saying. You
have to acquire something that is so about you that
women want to be around you and want to have

(01:06:37):
sex with you. You have to acquire this, right, So
you spend all your life trying to figure out what
that is. What is my thing that is going to.

Speaker 5 (01:06:45):
Get me the access to the ability to have women
and sex.

Speaker 6 (01:06:50):
Girls, y'all are taught from a don't do that and
from twelve thirteen fourteen, whatever guys want y'all just because
y'all are girls. Y'all are girls. Yeah, you'll have vagiants
like you know what I'm saying. A nigga is interested.
There's somebody pulling a chair for you, holding the door
for you, say oh, girl, you cute because there's a

(01:07:11):
possibility of sex for doing so. Y'all didn't have to
do nothing. Y'all might not even wash. Y'all ass that day.
Y'all came outside with sweats and a stain on your
T shirt. And it's a nigga telling you a girl.

Speaker 2 (01:07:20):
Like you don't think that they're also developing, like what
your your acquired taste? It's just like anyone can get
it at that age.

Speaker 5 (01:07:25):
What you mean?

Speaker 1 (01:07:26):
I mean when you're saying from the ages of what
did you say ten to?

Speaker 5 (01:07:30):
We're just trying. We're just trying. We're trying to figure out,
We're trying to figure out what it is that all
court like, if damn, how do I get a girl
to like me?

Speaker 6 (01:07:39):
You know what I'm saying, How do I get a girl.
You know what I'm saying, Like this is our thing.
Y'all are taught, Like, hey, y'all can literally have sex
anytime y'all want, right, Like you can. You can find
a stranger on the street and like, hey, you got
five minutes and it happened for you.

Speaker 5 (01:07:52):
Doesn't happen like that for us. So you guys are
more on this side of restraint, like restraint restraint.

Speaker 6 (01:07:58):
Like we'd be having to jump through hoops to get
into some ass. So that's how it's been for us
for since twelve. So now when it's coming at us,
laugh right, laugh right, it's like you gotta be a
real discipline motherfucking to be able to just shutting this away,
turn this like, nah, I'm good, I'm good, I'm good.
I remember there was a time I would have killed

(01:08:19):
to have a girl come up to me and be like, hey,
so this thing, we just got a different struggle, a
different relationship with with sex and being monogamous.

Speaker 5 (01:08:29):
That's the long way to that. So you be cheating
or now for me, I stay single.

Speaker 3 (01:08:35):
So you be cheating or ethical? Pl No, I'm single.

Speaker 5 (01:08:41):
I'm single. I had a relationship with the girls into
girls and and and that was cool, Like you know,
I thought that was that was like maybe this is
for me. Maybe this is the girl that's in the girls,
who's picking girls, bringing girls, and it's like I don't
want to be with them.

Speaker 2 (01:08:59):
But the variety is like you don't have to like
shut it you have to you don't have to be
so disciplined.

Speaker 6 (01:09:05):
Exactly, and it's like us and it's uh us having
this experience together.

Speaker 5 (01:09:12):
So I thought that was I thought that was dope.

Speaker 1 (01:09:14):
Mhm interesting.

Speaker 3 (01:09:18):
Shall we play trigger, my dear? Yeah, do you have
an affirmation for us this week? An affirmation like something
you tell yourself when you're feeling down or every day,
or just something you go by like.

Speaker 1 (01:09:29):
This is.

Speaker 4 (01:09:33):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 5 (01:09:35):
Not when that's so profound. It's nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:09:37):
It doesn't have to be so profound. The last one
was a few weeks ago. Was bitch, be Buddha, be
like Buddha. Bit be like Buddha. Bitch.

Speaker 5 (01:09:46):
What did that mean?

Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
Like trigger, just bring yourself back to the core of
there's nothing I can do about this, zero expectations.

Speaker 5 (01:09:55):
Okay, I get it, I get I get it now.

Speaker 6 (01:09:56):
Mine's just like you're gonna die anyway, Like you're gonna
die one day. Bro, fuck you nigga, Like you know
what I'm saying because I'm more telling myself now, I
don't do that, Like, Bro, you're gonna die.

Speaker 3 (01:10:06):
You're gonna die, and every every minute it's closer to death.

Speaker 6 (01:10:09):
Bro, do whatever the fuck it is. You say what
you wanted to say. Get that ship off, you know
what I mean, Like, stop worrying about people what they
think they're gonna die to everyone that, like these niggas
is like, just stay on their own journey. Bro, do
whatever you gotta do. Fuck what they think folk, what
they say, I mean what.

Speaker 1 (01:10:26):
They say, Like, so you're gonna die one day, fuck it.

Speaker 6 (01:10:29):
Yeah, you're gonna die one day. And don't let it
be nothing on that list that you hadn't done, Like damn,
I wish I would just really don't don't have that.

Speaker 2 (01:10:37):
Well, it seems like you're making you're making grounds on
whatever list you have. Yeah, is there anything on that
list that you feel like you're is like number one
you haven't acquired.

Speaker 5 (01:10:49):
Yet Number one. I don't know. I'm not gonna. I'm
not gonna.

Speaker 6 (01:10:51):
I'm knocking off stuff pretty rapidly. Like this acting thing
was was a big one for me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:55):
How was it? How was that? Was that your first
time ever in any project?

Speaker 6 (01:11:00):
I think my first acting was shout out to easta
rap shit like they brought me on. I played myself actually,
which is tougher than you think, because it's like, damn,
how would I act in this where I'm not supposed
to be acting?

Speaker 5 (01:11:14):
You know what I mean. So it's tougher than you think.

Speaker 6 (01:11:16):
But that was my first I had read for Power previously,
like a couple of years during COVID, and they wound
up giving that that role to Joey as a matter
of fact, and Joey badass yit unique role. But a
late few years later, they needed somebody else and they

(01:11:37):
they asked me to read and I nailed it. And
now there's another movie coming.

Speaker 4 (01:11:43):
This.

Speaker 6 (01:11:45):
I don't know if they started production yet, but I
just signed for another movie, so we're getting into it.
And I've always wanted to do that. I've always loved
cinema and how people are etched in time, Like I'm like, Damn,
Will Smith was fucking nineteen killing that ship. Martin was
killing that ship. Jamie Fox was killing that ship. You
know what I'm saying. And no matter how old they

(01:12:06):
get whatever, like you.

Speaker 5 (01:12:07):
Got that stand ever time like.

Speaker 6 (01:12:09):
Yo, like this was me then, and people will remember
you that way, like YO, remember that episode like you
know forever. So I always love that. I always want
to be a part of that. So I'm happy that
I finally getting knock.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
That one over.

Speaker 3 (01:12:22):
Congratulations.

Speaker 1 (01:12:24):
Okay, let's play trigger, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:12:26):
We're going to ask you one word questions and you
just say the first thing that comes to mind.

Speaker 5 (01:12:32):
Bad habits, cigarettes, What it's a bad habit? Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
Sorry? Okay, I thought you were saying you cigarettes.

Speaker 5 (01:12:43):
No, no, no, no, I don't smoke. It's about me.

Speaker 6 (01:12:53):
Okay, go ahead, Okay, bad habits, procrastination, fatherhood, amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
Mm hmm, last time you had sex?

Speaker 5 (01:13:07):
Thank you. I'm doing bad out here a wow?

Speaker 1 (01:13:15):
A while ago now December, January, February, March, November, September yesterday?

Speaker 5 (01:13:20):
What month is it now?

Speaker 3 (01:13:21):
It's March, Christmas, New Year's February.

Speaker 2 (01:13:25):
Probably Okay, you're right, it's still kind of bad.

Speaker 1 (01:13:33):
Uh anal.

Speaker 3 (01:13:37):
Not a deep breath?

Speaker 6 (01:13:40):
Yeah, because now I really if you, if you with me,
like you, my girl, I want to do like everything
I wanted to be. No leaf unturned, So I'm all
for it. Like if you if you move on, there's
nothing we ain't done.

Speaker 2 (01:13:51):
I don't care, like I know that give you got
a little bit gratification to nigga's like get gratification by
like seeing a bitch that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:57):
You've done everything too with another nigga, You're like, already.

Speaker 6 (01:14:00):
I've done everything, done, everywhere, everything on.

Speaker 5 (01:14:05):
I know nothing. There's nothing new for you, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:14:08):
Love language mm hmm, physical touch, wrapping or producing rapping
white women, no offense.

Speaker 5 (01:14:24):
They just ain't not my main attraction.

Speaker 1 (01:14:28):
Do you have you ever dated a white woman, like
seriously in a relationship?

Speaker 5 (01:14:33):
No? Not not not after the eighth grade?

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
What's her name? I gotta know?

Speaker 7 (01:14:42):
Ship?

Speaker 5 (01:14:43):
Uh Stacy something like that like that like that.

Speaker 3 (01:14:48):
What have you knocked down a white woman?

Speaker 5 (01:14:50):
Uh? Yo?

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
They I've never. I've never you refer to sex is
knocked down.

Speaker 3 (01:14:56):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:14:57):
I never knocked in my life?

Speaker 8 (01:15:02):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
What's happening? Come back high?

Speaker 5 (01:15:07):
Not one of them.

Speaker 3 (01:15:10):
When white women and never dated. But if you knocked
him down, he has.

Speaker 1 (01:15:14):
A wrapper on the show and suddenly knock down. We're
knocking these bitches down?

Speaker 3 (01:15:21):
Would you know? I smoke a background the man, I
feel like a gangster.

Speaker 1 (01:15:28):
You didn't answer, though, Oh.

Speaker 6 (01:15:29):
No, actually there was. It was what I would see it.
I forgot she was like from over there, white.

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
She wasn't from over Europe, European.

Speaker 6 (01:15:38):
I'm saying, you go Baltic something, you know. But she
was bad as the motherfucker.

Speaker 5 (01:15:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:15:43):
Yeah, black women most toxic trait.

Speaker 5 (01:15:50):
Oh my, most toxic. I think sex fixes everything.

Speaker 3 (01:15:58):
That's the most Nigga, we sucked what You're so mad?

Speaker 5 (01:16:04):
How could this?

Speaker 1 (01:16:05):
You love me?

Speaker 3 (01:16:07):
I fixed like ninety n You literally said you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:10):
Forget your fucking body convulsed.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
Move on, bitch. God favorite porn category.

Speaker 5 (01:16:20):
Mmmm, it's tough goes by the week. I'm not gonna lie.
I think.

Speaker 6 (01:16:33):
I think in my later years, I feel like a
heavy titty guy, like I'm just.

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
So just like titty porn ship.

Speaker 2 (01:16:41):
I saw I post you said about a girl who
had plastic surgery. You were saying, basically, she should have
just never touched your titties.

Speaker 1 (01:16:49):
Specific you would take this listen.

Speaker 6 (01:16:53):
Because I see and I come across in a lot
of the time. I hear when it's not for like
old back pain, and I hear I want to look
better and close, and I'll be like, bro, them titties
look perfect and closed. I don't like the way they droop.
They don't droop. They are elegantly swinging.

Speaker 3 (01:17:11):
Like I don't think you understand what elegant elegantly swinging?

Speaker 5 (01:17:17):
Yeah, like them, she's got grace.

Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
I love it, like you know what I mean, some
ship baby, And.

Speaker 5 (01:17:23):
I can really appreciate that more than you know what
I'm saying, droop in your mouth.

Speaker 6 (01:17:30):
Now, I gotta work all hard, straight across. They don't
come down to meet me half like yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
Like that's the fact.

Speaker 5 (01:17:37):
That, like I can really appreciate the bitches.

Speaker 2 (01:17:40):
With titties, you know, matter shout out to some flower
cause you know she's like the head of the Saggy
titty Committee.

Speaker 3 (01:17:47):
That was the tiny titty matters.

Speaker 5 (01:17:50):
We are latching to whatever titty comes out.

Speaker 3 (01:17:53):
That's that's just primate mal intuitions.

Speaker 5 (01:17:57):
You don't got to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:18:00):
Celebrity crush.

Speaker 5 (01:18:03):
Mm hmm. I don't know if I have one.

Speaker 6 (01:18:09):
Uh I said this if I was gonna go on
a date, though, I would like to go on a
date with Tracy Ellis Ross.

Speaker 1 (01:18:23):
Okay, you like you're like older women want them at all.
Turn off.

Speaker 5 (01:18:31):
Mm hmm, too aggressive, turn on.

Speaker 6 (01:18:36):
Softness boxers or briefs, briefs therapy, boxer briefs.

Speaker 1 (01:18:44):
The combo.

Speaker 3 (01:18:45):
Now you're having to look.

Speaker 5 (01:18:46):
Like what I just buy one underwear every every one
of them is the same.

Speaker 1 (01:18:52):
What is the underwear you buy?

Speaker 6 (01:18:54):
Don't try to go out there and body ships up. Listen,
you go to Target. I'm pretty sure Target got a brand.
It's called good fellow and they make all black underwear
in the box of briefs on.

Speaker 5 (01:19:07):
In the world, best of the world.

Speaker 3 (01:19:08):
We can't support Target anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:19:09):
Guys, go to Goodfellows dot com. No there Targets.

Speaker 5 (01:19:15):
Okay, well, somebody else makes matter of fact about draws.

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
The draws draw.

Speaker 5 (01:19:21):
Matter of fact.

Speaker 6 (01:19:21):
I do make draws, Yeah, I do make Go go
to good Folks brand dot com. Get your pair of drawers.
I got ladies underwear to I gotta get you. I
got you.

Speaker 5 (01:19:33):
I'm gonna show y'all, I'm bugging the funk.

Speaker 3 (01:19:35):
Out you forget you got the whole you got.

Speaker 6 (01:19:37):
Because and I just I just put them on some
models before I left New York too.

Speaker 5 (01:19:41):
But yeah, I'll get you all.

Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
So okay, thank you.

Speaker 6 (01:19:44):
Therapy, Yes, yeah, need to find a new one though
the last one was white dude pissed me off.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
Oh, eating pussy.

Speaker 5 (01:19:58):
The best.

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Best advice you've ever gotten.

Speaker 5 (01:20:03):
That's the advice I ever gotten.

Speaker 1 (01:20:06):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 6 (01:20:14):
People aren't gonna understand what God gave to you, all right.
So it's like a lot of times we try to
explain it and run it by people and like, yo,
what if we do this? And then they come thinking
logically and ship They're like yo, But a lot of people, hey,
I ain't asked you all of that support the ship,
but they're not going to see whatever your vision is

(01:20:36):
or how big something.

Speaker 5 (01:20:37):
Could be because God gave that idea to you. So
go with that.

Speaker 6 (01:20:42):
Biggest insecurity, biggest insecurity is not being good enough.

Speaker 5 (01:20:49):
Mushrooms and in in micro dosage cannabis.

Speaker 2 (01:20:59):
I'm mad at it, happily ever after Amen, Amen, Well,
before we get out of here, I think we should
read your tarile car that you pulled.

Speaker 3 (01:21:21):
You got the nine of Pinnacles, which means abundance, luxury,
self sufficiency.

Speaker 1 (01:21:26):
Financial independence. Sounds very capricorn.

Speaker 3 (01:21:30):
As a matter of fact, you have worked hard to
create abundance in your life, and the Nine of Pinnacles Wait,
something's happening and AD's coming up. Okay, You've worked hard
to create abundance in your life, and the Nine of
Pinnacles say is now you can finally enjoy the fruits
of your labor. Thanks to your independent efforts, self confidence,
and discipline, you attained a well deserved success and created
a subtle, a stable foundation for your material wealth and comfort.

(01:21:54):
Now sit back, relax and enjoy the luxuries and pleasures
of the good life. Money, lead, your time, fun, material
comfort and rest.

Speaker 1 (01:22:03):
You deserve it.

Speaker 5 (01:22:04):
Amen.

Speaker 3 (01:22:08):
Do you do you feel like that resonates with you?

Speaker 5 (01:22:10):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (01:22:11):
Yeah, because I've been saying I'm about to take a
break and move to d r and just by the
beach house.

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
I saw you were out there. You have a good time.

Speaker 5 (01:22:17):
I did. It was nice out there.

Speaker 3 (01:22:19):
They have some really nice investment properties out there.

Speaker 5 (01:22:22):
I'm out there.

Speaker 1 (01:22:24):
You got to come to Costa Rica. Oh yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:22:28):
I don't like I like to be places or go places,
but I don't like to travel, if that makes any sense.

Speaker 1 (01:22:32):
You don't like the actual travel.

Speaker 5 (01:22:33):
I don't like having to pack a bag, go to
the airport.

Speaker 3 (01:22:36):
None of that wanted. Some as Mr with that watermelon
show us some things I can't.

Speaker 5 (01:22:43):
I can't do that. I can't do that. I can't
do that.

Speaker 6 (01:22:45):
I can't My mom called, I can't do that. I
can't do that. But this watermelon has been sitting there
looking good as ship.

Speaker 1 (01:22:52):
I know. We got this watermelon because we thought maybe.
I mean, I don't know what you said.

Speaker 2 (01:22:57):
Your love language is physical touch? What about acts of service?

Speaker 5 (01:23:03):
Mm? Describe?

Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
Describe? I can show you.

Speaker 5 (01:23:16):
I need to take anything more if you.

Speaker 3 (01:23:28):
We do retreats in Costa Rica, and we realize women
have a wound about like getting served and being serviced
in their friendships, and like me and Erica, we've found
a lot of love in our friendship just serving each
other and serving the women in our community. And I think,
you know, it's important that on the internet we're seeing
a lot of hate and we just want to share
our I think it's important to to water the masculine,

(01:23:52):
and so we want to feature this fruit.

Speaker 1 (01:23:55):
If that's okay with you, the fruit, I'll play.

Speaker 3 (01:24:01):
You consent, Okay, you already have this fruit?

Speaker 5 (01:24:09):
She said, hey me that.

Speaker 3 (01:24:12):
Do you like watermelon?

Speaker 5 (01:24:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:24:18):
You gotta do them.

Speaker 5 (01:24:19):
Baby.

Speaker 3 (01:24:22):
We're known on the internet form.

Speaker 1 (01:24:27):
That was a very masculine bite.

Speaker 3 (01:24:32):
Very cafe astrology.

Speaker 1 (01:24:38):
How do you feel about strawberries? What's your favorite fruit?

Speaker 5 (01:24:43):
Watermelon, pineapple, strawberries.

Speaker 2 (01:24:51):
Your teeth are so white, party a really nice smile.

Speaker 5 (01:24:57):
It just cost me.

Speaker 1 (01:25:00):
Teeth wouln't didn't look like that before, No, those teeths got.

Speaker 3 (01:25:05):
How does that feel? Do you like being served by
the feminine? You feel cared for?

Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
I think it's time.

Speaker 2 (01:25:13):
I think we as women with all that man bashing,
and I'm not gonna lie, we've been a part of
it at times in our life, because there are men
that need to be held accountable. But I think there's
a lot of men that watch and listen that are
open to acknowledging their shortcomings and wanting to be better.
And when they do, you have a greater opportunity to

(01:25:36):
really be fully nourished and supported by divine, feminine women.
I think a lot of men think that there's not
good women in the world. That's like kind of like
the propaganda that's being shared now. I see so much
of it on the internet, and I think it's because
we're imbalanced and women actually would love nothing more than

(01:25:57):
to serve their man, and I think men but love
nothing more than received from their women. So I think
the more we have conversations like this, honest conversations, the
more everyone gets to win.

Speaker 3 (01:26:10):
And gets healed.

Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
So this is our offering to you party for you know,
being honestly like a very a source of a lot
of inspiration and love and support for black women, a
lot of your music. I really I love how much
you idolize the black woman and really empower her to
be her in all ways, in every single way, So

(01:26:34):
thank you for your service.

Speaker 3 (01:26:36):
I think we forget that there's black men that will
do that loudly and proudly because we see so little
of it on the internet, and we see a lot
of hate and so that resonates. But yes, I appreciate you,
and I thank you for that being that representation. It
means a lot. And like hip hop and being young
and handsome and like having a statement and saying it boldly.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
So thank you.

Speaker 5 (01:26:55):
Thank y'all for being the inspiration that you know behind
all of the words actions, creativity.

Speaker 1 (01:27:02):
You're welcome.

Speaker 3 (01:27:06):
Did you want to share a bad a bad choice
that you've done this week?

Speaker 1 (01:27:10):
This week?

Speaker 7 (01:27:11):
Or bad mom not a bad mom, but a bad
mom so.

Speaker 6 (01:27:22):
Living it's only one bad choice? And I feel like
us fellas make it all the time. I don't know
if y'all know about these choices, but yeah, y'all know,
y'all know we do this ship. We will get into
a situation right with protection in our pocket, and we

(01:27:48):
will steal consummate, raw tashimi in there, nothing condom right there,
and you still just decide to go there without it.
I too, Do you know what I'm saying? Olympic to this.
It's a bad decisions. You gotta be better.

Speaker 3 (01:28:09):
I think the women can. We might not have it
in our pocket, but I think the women can also
be better. We could all be better. I have to
be better.

Speaker 1 (01:28:16):
I am women. I am women too.

Speaker 2 (01:28:18):
I think after also that you like created life, like
there's a level, and also like created life or been
in long term relationships like you.

Speaker 1 (01:28:30):
It's hard.

Speaker 2 (01:28:32):
It'd be hard, not just hard, it'd be hard.

Speaker 6 (01:28:38):
Going back, listen, listen, bring it scratch. Whatever the fuck
I just said, niggas, all of us. I thought it
was just us, everybody, we together. That's why they don't
put up a just But do you.

Speaker 3 (01:28:52):
Feel like I feel like at a certain age, it's
not even It's like because I don't want to really
I don't desire really is sex of the condom? They
smell weird, Like, I don't desire that. So I am
then more intentional about who I'm fucking because a I
realized there's an actual energy exchange. Most people are kind
of slow, and I have to, like, I have to

(01:29:13):
really be motivated to want to share with you in
that way, because I don't really like if I have,
I just don't casual sex. Sex as you get older
becomes more and more rare, not because you become less
sexual or because you don't like to fuck. It's because
the pickings are slim.

Speaker 2 (01:29:29):
Well, you learn yourself and you realize it's not worth
it half the time.

Speaker 1 (01:29:32):
Yeah, so, but I would say that there is. I
think most people. I don't say most people. Let me
not speak for me.

Speaker 3 (01:29:39):
Don't endorse this, let me kids.

Speaker 1 (01:29:42):
I think it's hard out here to put a condom on.

Speaker 3 (01:29:44):
Okay, it is hard.

Speaker 1 (01:29:45):
But if you're gonna not.

Speaker 2 (01:29:46):
Put a condom on, make sure you're fucking the right person, okay,
because anything can happen.

Speaker 3 (01:29:51):
We don't endorse the ship. We said, it's just the truth.
We don't support it. It's not the best of us.

Speaker 2 (01:29:57):
This is why this is a bad choice. We said
this is a bad choice. We led with a disclaimer.

Speaker 1 (01:30:01):
This is a bad choice. Right, this happens, and.

Speaker 2 (01:30:05):
Now we're just we're just telling you that it's okay
because I know that you've also made some bad choices,
probably last night.

Speaker 1 (01:30:12):
And go get that plan by bitch, go get it now.
Don't think twice.

Speaker 2 (01:30:16):
I know your if you're fertile, ast fuck, don't be risky.

Speaker 3 (01:30:21):
You can't get abortions and you cannot get a plan.

Speaker 1 (01:30:23):
B but send me your address. I will ship it
to you. It's free here. I will send it on over.

Speaker 3 (01:30:30):
But there's more important things than just maybe getting pregnant.
It's not There's worse things.

Speaker 1 (01:30:36):
Yeah, there is, so are adults.

Speaker 2 (01:30:43):
We're parents, okay, Last, but not least, because I'm really
interested and I must know.

Speaker 1 (01:30:51):
Do you have a horror story for us?

Speaker 3 (01:30:52):
Party like a very when you acted like a huff?

Speaker 1 (01:31:00):
Yeah, it's like some whole activity day.

Speaker 2 (01:31:02):
We're like, god, damn, I can't believe that was that
was highly horriorsh of me.

Speaker 1 (01:31:07):
And it doesn't have to be.

Speaker 2 (01:31:08):
It could be like I'm proud of myself, or it
could be like god damn, I did too much?

Speaker 1 (01:31:17):
Whose stories?

Speaker 5 (01:31:22):
Okay, Jesus, just letting people know my shit. I've been
a pretty private person.

Speaker 7 (01:31:27):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:31:28):
Maybe we'll put this on Patreon.

Speaker 3 (01:31:29):
You'll make it like a more slip.

Speaker 1 (01:31:31):
We'll put this on Patreon.

Speaker 2 (01:31:32):
If you want to hear parties highly Horrish hotel, then
make sure you join Patreon, Thisspatreon dot com, backslash good
Mom's Bad Choices where you can get a lot of
other hotels there like ours that we don't always share
on the podcast.

Speaker 6 (01:31:47):
All right, So I had had a girl with me
and I've been dealing with her for a while, like
nothing like serious, nothing dating, but we just been you know,
interacting for some years is.

Speaker 5 (01:32:00):
Now, so it's cool.

Speaker 6 (01:32:02):
But somebody else called. It was like, hey, what you're
doing that. I'm in the city.

Speaker 5 (01:32:09):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:32:10):
Me and said friend have you know, shared a girl
or two in our past. But this is totally unplanned.
She doesn't know this girl at all. So I'm like,
what am I going to do? So I send a
text like do you like girls?

Speaker 2 (01:32:28):
She's like yeah, yeah, she like.

Speaker 1 (01:32:32):
One like yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:32:35):
So I'm like all right, that's enough for me to
just try to wing this. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:32:41):
The fact that she even likes girls is like.

Speaker 6 (01:32:43):
All right, bet, I'm like, I'm like, okay, cool, my
friend is here. That's just Vegas. Hell, but send the
car she comes. I'm like, hey, while this car is
already in the way, I'm like, I show her a picture, like, hey,
what you think of her?

Speaker 1 (01:32:59):
She's like, oh, so you were risking it, Like this
picture is already on the.

Speaker 5 (01:33:02):
West she's already on the way.

Speaker 3 (01:33:03):
Oh, discussions just she don't know on the way.

Speaker 5 (01:33:07):
She don't know she's on the I'm just trying to
do some ground work here, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (01:33:11):
Like she live where she lived?

Speaker 5 (01:33:12):
Like she like she's coming.

Speaker 6 (01:33:14):
She's coming from maybe like forty five minutes, thirty five okay.

Speaker 1 (01:33:18):
So you have forty five minutes to.

Speaker 5 (01:33:19):
Work just to warm up.

Speaker 6 (01:33:20):
I don't even do much warming up either though. I
just simply asked what she's thinking of this girl.

Speaker 5 (01:33:24):
She's like, oh, she's cute. All right, that's enough for me.
That's enough. That's enough for me.

Speaker 6 (01:33:31):
Now I think I've done this more than one occasion.
But all right, so girl gets here. Girl a ride.
She's like, what was that? You know, I'm like, what's
the present?

Speaker 5 (01:33:43):
I go down, I go down.

Speaker 1 (01:33:46):
I don't get nother fucking ideas, nigga.

Speaker 5 (01:33:49):
I go downstairs. I go downstairs, and and she's like's here, Like,
oh is my friend upstairs?

Speaker 6 (01:33:57):
She says, you're cute. She's like who is? She's like,
what if I don't like her? I'm like, you will
trust me, you will like you'll like her.

Speaker 3 (01:34:04):
This is a risky business.

Speaker 5 (01:34:06):
It's definitely risky, but you gotta you gotta have stake.

Speaker 3 (01:34:09):
Is either a success or a disaster.

Speaker 1 (01:34:10):
Normally, bitches are asking a lot of questions like how
do you know her? Who is she? How many times
we fucked?

Speaker 5 (01:34:14):
Did you?

Speaker 1 (01:34:15):
Do you love her?

Speaker 5 (01:34:16):
We didn't even you see how I mitigated all of those.

Speaker 3 (01:34:20):
But like Marie episode, there's a ring the doorbell.

Speaker 6 (01:34:25):
So boom, I got upstairs. I'm like, friend is in
bed already. Homegirl's hair is fully dressed.

Speaker 1 (01:34:32):
From the club wherever she was o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 6 (01:34:35):
Yeah, it's late, it's late. So she she walks in.
I'm like, hey, yo, this is yo X. This is
why and you know what I'm saying such and suf
She's like hey, I'm like yeah, I met her like
a little while agosi. Matter of fact, the story is crazy.
You're gonna die when you hear this. And I'm telling it.
I'm like, you know, telling the story.

Speaker 5 (01:34:54):
Boom boom. I'm like, yo, ship, let me just get
you more comfortable, real fast. Boom. Get her together, get her.

Speaker 3 (01:34:59):
Ship, her bonnet, her bonnet, takes her shower.

Speaker 5 (01:35:03):
You know what I'm saying. I don't don't joke about this.
Matter of fact.

Speaker 6 (01:35:12):
She takes her shower, she gets ready. Now I go,
I gotta go back and like temperature check.

Speaker 5 (01:35:18):
I guess. You know what I'm saying. I'm saying, like,
are you nervous?

Speaker 6 (01:35:21):
Not nervous. It's just like, let me see how it's
about to go. Let me see the level of mad.

Speaker 2 (01:35:26):
She is like yeah, what what?

Speaker 5 (01:35:31):
She was like what?

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
So?

Speaker 5 (01:35:34):
Now I still got to play it cool with the
other girls. She's like, I don't know if she likes me.
I'm like, it's fine, it's.

Speaker 1 (01:35:40):
Fund like, it's fun.

Speaker 5 (01:35:43):
Let's let's get in the bed. We're getting in bed.

Speaker 1 (01:35:46):
Damn no, loove. We didn't do drink.

Speaker 3 (01:35:48):
We didn't dance.

Speaker 6 (01:35:50):
Wait, I might I might have had shots. The one
X didn't drink. Why I drink? And she had been.

Speaker 5 (01:35:55):
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:35:57):
So I think I think we did get extra shot
or whatever the case. Maybe a little bit, yeah, boom,
just just a little bit. I'm still cool, cordial. It's
getting which I want to watch. Matter of fact, the
new Venom just came on.

Speaker 1 (01:36:12):
Wow, right, not venom and nothing like Venom to get
the pussies wet.

Speaker 5 (01:36:17):
Whoa.

Speaker 1 (01:36:19):
I can't wait to watch that.

Speaker 5 (01:36:21):
Look, the fucking movie is background. I typically go.

Speaker 1 (01:36:24):
With family people dying in the background.

Speaker 5 (01:36:26):
I typically go with family guy, American Dad. Those are
typical go to.

Speaker 2 (01:36:31):
But oh, you have typical go to movies for threesome
situations or.

Speaker 3 (01:36:34):
Not just background, just.

Speaker 2 (01:36:37):
Background situations much one American Dad, American Dad.

Speaker 3 (01:36:41):
You must you must intend on getting it popping rather quickly,
because none of those shows make anybody, specially.

Speaker 1 (01:36:47):
Because that's like they're not going to watch it. They
have to focus on what's happening. No one wants to
watch fucking American Dad when there's a hard dick next
to you. Watch.

Speaker 5 (01:36:54):
In comparison, I seem like the good option.

Speaker 1 (01:36:56):
Now I am an American likes this ship of me.

Speaker 6 (01:37:03):
So we played and then it's just like we we.

Speaker 5 (01:37:08):
Know, yeah, kiss this one, kiss this in the middle.

Speaker 6 (01:37:13):
Like these these these pants have been on for entirely
too long, like you know. And then once one starts,
it's like, oh, ship that this ship is happening. This
is happening. Oh mid mid arranging and moving around. It's like,

(01:37:33):
I'm like, yo, you you ever. She's like, I never,
I never actually eating a girl out the girl who
came the girl came over. She's like, I'm like, oh.

Speaker 3 (01:37:42):
Ship, that really really but here she goes, she says,
but I'm down to try.

Speaker 1 (01:37:53):
I'm like, yo, did you give her a lesson.

Speaker 6 (01:37:55):
The fucking jackpot? Actually no, just she just wanted to try.
She was she was feeling X and was like, I
bet she goes to she just starts.

Speaker 5 (01:38:07):
I'm looking. It's like, is from there you know what
I'm saying, amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:38:11):
Beautiful night. So she did a good job on her
first time. From what I was told, Wow, that was
a success.

Speaker 3 (01:38:18):
That could have gone terribly wrong.

Speaker 5 (01:38:19):
Could it could have? But that's what fortune favors. The boat.
Go for it.

Speaker 6 (01:38:25):
You're going to die, Bro, You're going to die. They're
going to die. Bro corner corner.

Speaker 3 (01:38:34):
She's cute, girls, you know what you should have Maybe
maybe the question is do you eat pussy? Have you
ever eaten pussy?

Speaker 2 (01:38:39):
Might have been I just want to know, girls, and
I just want to let the gentleman listening right now
don't think that this is this is not going to
work for you.

Speaker 1 (01:38:47):
This is a very.

Speaker 2 (01:38:47):
Specific circumstance, a very specific man where you.

Speaker 3 (01:38:53):
Didn't tell them they're at the door, at the door,
Is it.

Speaker 1 (01:38:58):
Usually after hours?

Speaker 2 (01:38:59):
Because after hours more things are abound to happen.

Speaker 1 (01:39:01):
Drinking, delirious. But that's why.

Speaker 3 (01:39:04):
But that's why it's even crazier. If I'm sitting at
the house, we're totally sober, chilling, regular watching family guy
and he says, what do you think it's cute? And
two minutes later she's there. I'm like, what the fuck?

Speaker 2 (01:39:15):
Well, there's probably a vibe already happening before that.

Speaker 5 (01:39:19):
I just know her for a long time.

Speaker 1 (01:39:21):
Yeah, you have to know your audience.

Speaker 3 (01:39:23):
Thank you for that share. You've been very gracious sharing
such intimate stories about yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:39:28):
You're great.

Speaker 5 (01:39:29):
Don't look at me different.

Speaker 1 (01:39:30):
Mom, I'm sorry, he's not a great son. Mom. He's
doing great, and will send to her segment.

Speaker 3 (01:39:38):
We'll cut you especially where can the people find you?

Speaker 6 (01:39:45):
Instagram, p A R d I uh TikTok section a
sex symbol, Twitter is or x is party.

Speaker 1 (01:39:57):
And where? And what else? What else you got going
on right now? You know you have Canaan on? Is
there anything else?

Speaker 5 (01:40:02):
Cane and Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:40:03):
Season four Cane Raising Canan on Stars Hulu. However you
watch it on care if you're still well fucking streaming
whatever it is and your friend account watch season four
b Realer a new movie on the way, new records out,
little shit, anybody out tune it up with me and

(01:40:23):
Cardi b out I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:40:27):
Morell well, thank you, thank you for joining us, Carti
and we love you guys.

Speaker 1 (01:40:33):
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Speaker 2 (01:40:37):
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Speaker 1 (01:40:43):
This is not a threesome retreat, though it must be clear.

Speaker 3 (01:40:46):
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Speaker 1 (01:40:54):
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(01:41:16):
review now please?

Speaker 1 (01:41:18):
And what else is that it?

Speaker 3 (01:41:20):
Think you covering it all? Oh, we're gonna be at
the Podcast Festival in Atlanta, so pull up and see
us on April twenty sixth.

Speaker 2 (01:41:28):
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out mom Juice.

Speaker 1 (01:41:39):
Than Charlotte, right and Charlotte.

Speaker 2 (01:41:41):
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Speaker 1 (01:41:46):
How do you? How do you recommend? And we'll see
you next time? Bank please?

Speaker 4 (01:41:51):
Yeah, I'm live, been so good.

Speaker 5 (01:41:53):
Can't you tell I went through it?

Speaker 1 (01:41:55):
Drought that's until I find a well may my.

Speaker 7 (01:41:57):
Have been known hurt? I used to be brokenstail now
dot com the Blues inser like Beyonce Jisell throat shot
or pop in his cor We're in her voices patriarch
and kept it in the box to its flots.

Speaker 1 (01:42:07):
Women put the pee in powers, so it's pointless. They
want me to be good, so I make bad choices.
Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

Speaker 7 (01:42:15):
It he's in on the cannabis in their backbone, walked
in boscels cap and I blew his cat bolls hot dog.
Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie and no
waisted straight.

Speaker 1 (01:42:24):
To it like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the lover
when too.

Speaker 7 (01:42:27):
It is like a water suming where you're renting winter
reessential will when the summertime. I do what doll ain't
know when that needs to run it by

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