Little Woman Big Dreams feat. Tanya Tahana

This week Good Moms are joined by reality star, artist & mother Tanya Tahanna. Join the conversation as Tanya tells all about her behind-the-scenes experience on the reality show Little Women of Atlanta, and her experience growing up as a little person. Tanya also shares her experience raising children that share her disability plus the fears and reality of living with a disability and protecting her children in a sometimes cruel world. Tune in until the end to learn how the adult industry broke her stage fright and broke the bank. Will Milah & Erica finally get an Onlyfans? Subscribe to Patreon to hear the full episode!

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• How to educate your kids when it comes to people different from them.
• The real on not-so-reality TV.
• Important things to consider when raising little people.
• The challenges of discussing puberty with your kids.
• Protecting your kids from predators and keeping an open dialogue with them.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up, you guys. We are back with another special
episode of Good Mom's Bad Choices. This week, Eric and
I catch up with Tanya to Hannah from one of
my favorite reality shows, Little Women Atlanta. We are talking
raising kids, puberty, just living in the world as a
little person, how cruel the world can be, preparing your

(00:22):
kids for bullies and shit, not becoming one, and just
educating yourself on people different than yourself. Tanya is spilling
some tea, talking a bunch of different things behind the
scenes of reality TV. OnlyFans, and so so, so much more.
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(01:36):
you could be a little person and you can have
a baby that's like regular size. You could be two
regular people and have a baby that's a little Both
of my.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Parents are my dad's six one, my mom is six
five to seven. Oh wow, so yeah, and.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Then you know, there's no other little people in your family,
so it's not genetics.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
They're all average. My brother is six to one as well,
my older brother.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
So it's just like something that happens.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
It just happened. I think I'm a fairy. You're a fairy,
you know.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
I think I read that in air because like she's
a fairy, but I don't know, I also identify as
a fairy, and like we're from the same family.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
I think that's why I love you guys, honestly, the lineage.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
The fairy lineage.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
And I was like, I'm supposed to be, like my
body hurts, like I got a reading ones and they're
like the reason why I'm so much, I'm in so
much pain is because I'm used to like having wings
and like flying and so that it's heavy here, you know,
and it's a lot for me to I have a
lot of energy, big energy, So even though I'm small,
it's a lot of energy in my body that's constantly moving.
I have a lot of nervous system shit, you know.

(02:35):
So yeah, I was like, maybe that's real because I'm
not supposed to be walking, I'm supposed to.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Be flying, dying right, like flying all around.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
I feel like that makes perfect sense. I feel it
makes perfect sense to me too.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
I'm like, that actually makes sense. And like even having
a lot of energy and like having to put at places,
You're like, I'm too, I'm too grand for this world,
taking to the fucking to the stars.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
I'm like, how do y'all know that? Y'all are the
ones that are off right?

Speaker 3 (03:01):
Right?

Speaker 2 (03:03):
I just landed here, right, y'all can send me back?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Y'all mortals right?

Speaker 3 (03:08):
Honestly?

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Of your three kids or any of them little people.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
They're all little, really. So I thought my youngest was
not because she does not look like me or any
my other two kids. Her bones are straighter, she's taller
than her older sister, so I thought that she was average.
But when she's around kids her age, she's noticeably shorter.

(03:35):
So I'm going to be taking her to the doctor.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
How old is how does this one?

Speaker 2 (03:39):
She's seven?

Speaker 3 (03:40):
Seven Okay, yeah, how do you Is there a conversation
or how do I'm sure it's an ongoing conversation, but like,
how do you prepare your children for school and for
like I don't know, just societies, judgments or pressures like venerance.
I mean, obviously you're their mom, so they're with you
every day and they experience, you know, your existence every day.
But I'm curious, is there like something that you have

(04:03):
had to share with them or is it like an
ongoing conversation. I'm just thinking, And I'm also thinking of
like other parents that maybe aren't little people who like
don't even know how to.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
Yeah, and have little people children and have little people.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Children and don't know what to do, don't know what
to say, Like what is I guess, what is some
advice that you would give them?

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Definitely Like what I'm what I try to do, and
I've been successful so far, is try to find other
little parents or like people with little people children so
that they can be around people like them, because I
feel like we all need representation, you know, and being
around someone so that you don't feel like it's just you,
it's just our family that's like this, you know, So
I think that that's very important, especially if there are

(04:44):
average parents and this is their only little person child
and the only person in their family. Making sure that
they see other people like them doing great things. It
is what I would say, and I tell my kids
to curse people out. This is your time to curse somebody.
Somebody asks you why you sure, ask them why they's
all you know? Ask them the reverse question. And if
somebody tries to be mean to them, be mean to you.

(05:04):
Be mean to you, be mean to them back. Curse
them out if you have to. I don't care because
they're gonna be so shocked if you call them a bitch.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
She was five and she called me a bitch.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah, and her mama too.

Speaker 3 (05:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
And if the mama want to talk, that a teacher
want to talk, let's talk about it. I was in
a relation. I've been in a relationship for the last
five years with this person, but no one's know that
because I don't Ever since being a little woman Atlanta,
I don't want to put my relationship out there. I
don't want to be public with anyone. I just I'd
rather keep what I can to myself because I already
feel like the world expects a certain amount of openness

(05:43):
from me, and so I feel like I give a lot, yeah,
you know, And so there's some things that I just
want to keep to myself, like my children. They audn't
know I have kids. I don't post them because I
have a sexual page. I know that there's a bunch
of I have fifty percent men on my page. I
don't want them zooming in and looking at my kids.
You know what I'm saying. I just don't I just

(06:03):
don't want to do that. I mean, yeah, I understand
you give a lot. You've had a lot of people
in your business. Yeah, Like if I had a page
where it's less fucking sexual shit going on, maybe I
post my kids more. But like right now, you know,
I'm not. I just don't want to do it, you know.
And so what was the question?

Speaker 3 (06:28):
I think we're just asking talking about OnlyFans, and I
mean my only fans. There has been a lot of
me and Mila have definitely considered let me put my
feet on their real quick. I can just make a
couple of you know, and then I fucking no one
sees my face, you know.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
What I'm saying at this time, at that time, I'm
making one hundred two hundred K a month in my page.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
What are you doing with that? What's the first thing
you do with that? I got to know was you,
Like what are you DeMar the month?

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Your cash out?

Speaker 1 (07:02):
Like, why are you you do?

Speaker 3 (07:03):
I want to cook?

Speaker 1 (07:06):
M m hm.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
Hm h m hmm yeah yeah,