February 13, 2023 • 22 mins
Ros is fresh off her breast lift surgery and feeling the post plastic surgery blues. Part of which she calls the underwhelming response from Eric. Wait until you hear how that one plays out.
Plus, not to be all about themselves, they also take time to tackle other couple’s problems too, including the J. Lo and Ben Grammy drama.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is, he said, with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantev. Hi,
how you doing? I'm okay? How are you? He said?
I had the Holy listeners who are so happy to
have you. We are in different locations. I'm on set.
During lunch, I might be eating. Guys. It's been a
(00:22):
bit of an eventful morning of doing nothing and no eating,
so as usual, I'm eating while I'm doing the podcast.
I guess it's my thing and Eric doesn't like it.
But sorry, you're you're going through a lot right now.
So how are you feeling? Talk to us? I know
you just came out of your surgery that I said
(00:44):
don't do, but she did and here we are. So
it's been what ten days, I believe nineteen ten days
since I did my breast lift with an implant, and
I also corrected this car that I had on my
(01:04):
right armpit that created a thing my hair is covering.
I have like a it's like a very special bra.
I can't believe I'm sharing this with the world. But yeah, guys, Um,
you can see a lot, but my next outing you'll
see them. Um, a lot of scars, but I have
a fabulous, fabulous surgeon, Dr Reddy Raban. He's incredible, and
(01:27):
I know maybe I don't know, six weeks, six months,
a year from now, I am going to say it
was all worth it. Right now, I'm still in shock
because there's scars and the anesthesia was ordeal for me,
and you know it was. It was a big surgery.
(01:48):
So as of now, I am so grateful to my doctor,
and I know everything looks incredible. I have the pictures
people that I showed them to. Everybody's like, oh my god, Ross,
that's that looks amazing. And it's just been days. So
just give it some time. But you know what, I
think people go through a bit of a depression after
they do a procedure like plastic surgery. Eric Winter, Well,
(02:11):
I mean you're going through what. I don't know if
everybody does, but you definitely are. It's been a struggle, no,
you know, I friend of mindset to me that I
think I just said, google it. I think, um, eighty
or ninety percent of people after they undergo a plastic
h surgery usually the phase more than anything, like for example,
if you do a nose job, because you know, noses
are so important, it's the center of your face. It
(02:32):
changes everything. I think. I think people want to do
it so badly and it's their dream, and then once
they do it, because you the reveal comes days after.
Like I had my surgery and my reveal was two
days ago. So for seven days, for eight days, I
didn't know what my my breast look like. So you're
going through what your constipated. You're taking all these meds,
(02:52):
and you're wondering, oh my god, am I gonna be happy?
And you get into a little bit of a funk
almost like a like a hormonal type of thing. Nobody
talks about that. I think also with surgery, and this
is one of the things that you personally struggle with anesthesia.
I don't you do a lot of people do um.
But you also, as we've talked about the podcast, you're
not somebody who follows instructions very well. So I think
(03:16):
you were told to be on meds payments for a
certain amount of time. You did it like kind of
whenever you wanted. The problem with that is is that
once the meds wear off and paint kicks in, it's
hard to get it back under control. You were told
to go on stool softeners right away. You didn't want
to do that, so then you pay the price when
you don't do that right away. So you kind of always,
you know, in Rosslyn fashion, kind of follow your own formula,
(03:40):
and sometimes it fits you in the butt, sometimes it doesn't.
Let's talk about constipation, guys. Let's talk about constipation. I
had to talk about constipation after a surgery. And I
know they told me you had to take what is
the name of the thing, cola colas colise and and
we're alla is a mirror lax. Anyways, I was supposed
(04:02):
to take it a week before and a week after surgery.
But this is the thing, guys. As you know, I've
I've been dealing with a lot of g I truck
issues I've been taking I had to take so much
medication for my g I problems. Now I'm adding a surgery.
That's why my husband here was like, why are you
doing a surgery when you're dealing with your g I
truck problems. But I decided to do it. So I'm
(04:23):
taking g I medication with pain meds. Anstia was tricky.
It is a problem because no, I did take it.
I just didn't take it as it struck. No, I
didn't because I didn't want to add I too. I
took it one day a week before and it killed
my stomach. So I was like, this is not good
for me. And you know, I'm trying to avoid all
(04:44):
these meds and all the artificial, all the caca that
you put into your body. The problem was that the
kaka now stayed in some my body. It was a problem.
And guys, altering, you have no choice but the probably
thing in your body for a limited amount of time.
Correct your own script. You pay the price. I did,
(05:05):
and I and I and I realized once I stopped
taking that a biotic because I stopped earlier. My doctor said,
since you're not doing an implant, if after three days
everything is healing properly, there's no sign of infection. If
it's causing your problems with your g I track stopped
taking the antibiotics, I'm not concerned because you don't have
an implant. So after three days I'm going to know
(05:25):
what this is. Great, I'm gonna stop. And then I
didn't want to continue taking no U and value da
da da da, So I stopped and then I realized
I need to go to the bathroom finally. And then guys,
when you go to the bathroom. Nothing comes out and
nothing comes out the pain. It was awful. But anyways,
(05:45):
my Mike chet does my cookies. My little things are beautiful.
Thank you. Dr Already, Robin, I'm gonna be very happy.
Anything is that she sent me a picture of it
goes are you happy? When I was like, it doesn't
matter what I think. Are you happy? Why why are
you asking me if I'm happy? You just sent me
(06:05):
a picture. Frank Frankenstein, Franken. They looked, they looked amazing.
Number one, this is what sad ladies. Maybe that's what
this is. Maybe maybe this is what I'm going through
a depression. Because my husband, he's incredible, he's incredibly supportive.
Listen to me, Listen to me. You're incredible. I love
you so much. And you know what, my doctor actually
(06:28):
taught me a lesson because they do the reveal. I'm
so overwhelmed and I'm going, oh my god, I looked tight.
It's like it was kind of like interesting. But I
was so happy because they looked nice. Yeah, the nipple
is much smaller and darker, and your bruise and stitches
and but anyways, I take this picture. My body looks
banging yeah, have scars, but I felt cute, right, and
(06:51):
I sent it to my husband. I thought, I thought
my my breath looked very beautiful and I was like, granted, stage,
but but I was like, this could have been more
like horrific. Anyways, I sent it to my husband. I'm
so proud. I said, are you happy? His response was
(07:12):
the question should be are you happy? Oh? My God,
like I died. So my doctor comes in. Let me
finish the story. My doctor comes in and he goes
okay because the nurse is the one that takes the
stitches out. And the doctor comes in and he's like, so, Ross,
how do you feel. I'm going, well, I just sent
my husband this this picture, and I asked him if
(07:33):
he was happy, and he was response was are you happy?
He sat down and he's like, Ross, you didn't do
this for your husband or your friends or the world.
You did this for you, So at this moment you
have to ask yourself are you happy? And you know what?
He was right. I was like, you know what, doctor,
I'm shocked. They they feel tight, my nipples are too dark.
(07:56):
But the reality is I am very happy. Thank you
so much. I'm pleasantly surp Rice and you know what,
my friend Catia came with me, um that has Donna herself,
she had the same surgery done five years ago, said
to me, you look amazing. For just seven days, I
was just hoping that you were going to be like, hey, baby, wow,
you look freaking incredible. I kind of way to bank that. What.
(08:19):
First of all, you've never asked me to talk to
you like that. Number one, Number two, the one time
you're asking me to talk to you like that, you
have Frankenstein booms with stitches going up and down and
on the bottom. And number three, wow, you always have
told me because we all everybody in the podcast clearly
knows my opinion about this that you know, it wasn't
(08:40):
what I thought you needed to do, but it's a
thing you want to do. And every single friend of
ours who you spoke to in front of me, everyone said,
it's not about you, Eric, It's about Rosalind. It's about
something that she wants. And even when I tried to
talk to you out of it, you said, it's something
that's going to make me happy. So her only text
to me was you happy. I'm looking at the text
(09:03):
You're happy, and I wrote back, I wrote back, are you?
I love you? Right, And then I said I'm happy
for you if you are happy. Yeah, but that came
after when you realize that I didn't reply back. Then
you decided to do the whole testament. It did not,
which was very beautiful. Thank you, which was very beautiful.
(09:23):
The same time, I said, all that matters it was, Yes,
it was. I was in the middle of doing stuff
and you sent me a quick picture and you were
at the doctors. I didn't know what was going on,
and I said, all that matters is that you are.
As long as you're happy, then all is perfect. I
don't know a lot about this stuff or the scars,
but it seems to be as you describe, so I'm
guessing it'll all heal up nicely. As long as you
(09:46):
got the result you felt you were needed. You did good.
I love you and I even said you would kis emoji. Yeah,
that was very beautiful. They just came ten minute it came.
It came ten minutes later. So I took it as Oh,
now he's freaking out because he knows that I'm probably
a little bit affected. So now he's been awesome. But
if you're telling me that you did it right after,
(10:06):
and it was just a delayed in in whatever the
universe and technology. Then it's okay, I accepted and I
appreciate it. I was remember the exact spot. I was
in the cooking kitchen. I was cooking. You said that text.
I was like, whoa, okay, let me delete this off
my phone. First off, I didn't put my face. No,
(10:27):
my face was gone. I think it was my chin down.
I deleted it immediately, and then I was like, all right, yeah,
are you happy? It's not about me, It's about you.
That's what we've always that's what I had to But ladies, ladies, ladies,
put yourself in my place. This is what I maybe
maybe you know again back to I don't have expectations
because they're never gonna be maybe wait wait wait wait
(10:48):
wait wait exactly. I didn't practice that at the moment
I sent the pictures because I was so pleasantly surprised
that they looked so nice and perky. It almost looks
it looks like I have an implant. I know they're
gonna settle, they're gonna go down. But anyways, and I
just thought you were gonna be like, wow, ross that
that's really beautiful and his response was, arebby, it looks
(11:10):
like two booms with big scars on the center and
scars in the bottom. Stop saying that it does doesn't
does that? They don't look like that. That's what implants
look like. And I looked at no inplus a little
the implus sometimes he was like, iplants sery I lift end.
At the end of the day, it didn't matter what
I thought. And I was like, why is she god?
(11:31):
I said, look, you keep flashing the camera. I don't understand.
What did your point a flash in the camera. Well
you can't say that there. They're all there, but you
don't see anything. Guys, look, they're all cover my, my, my,
your flashing? Why are you flashing the camera? Because people
are asking I don't want them to see. Unfortunately, I
have a massive brath for six weeks. All the ladies
I followed, he said, yeah, do you want to follow
(11:52):
the journey? They would like to see an example of
what was done. Unfortunately I can't eat. I can't yet
because I have to wear this massive brath from months.
What is it? He said? You know Playboy Edition. You're
not not not showing their boobs, just the cleavage. At
least at least the cleavage. Anyways. Anyways, so let's talk
about something that guys. Thank you for the concern that
(12:14):
the surgery was a success. Um, I'm still shocked. Like
I said, I'm feeling better every single day. I cannot
go like that too much. I have to be very
mindful and blah blah blah blah. But everything is good.
Thank you. Anyways, Let's talk about so many things. Pamela Anderson. Uh,
(12:41):
and since we're talking about Booze, Um, you didn't see it.
I saw it because I've been watching a lot of
TV because I've been in bed recovering. The documentary is
so interesting about her life. And you know that one
of her kids is named Dylan. The little one is
named Dylan. Yeah. Um that Tommy Lee and her story.
(13:02):
It was really really interesting and she seems like a
really really nice, nice lady. So I highly recommended. You know,
if you judged Pamela Anderson because of you know, people
have judgment because of she's just stunning and big breasted,
like a like a bumbshell you did, I don't remember that.
I don't remember I told you that I did a
(13:23):
modeling job. I was we were at the beach and Nolabu.
I remember what it was four that was like Diesel.
I remember what the campaign was, but it was some
kind of campaign and she was the girl. That was
me and a couple of dudes. I think we were
all in speedos and she was in bikini or something.
I don't know, something like that. She was lovely. Yeah,
she's very lovely. That's true. At the peek of her fame,
(13:46):
you know, she was very famous. And she's an animal lover,
which I was like, oh my god, I wasn't. I
think I knew, but I didn't. I didn't know to
what extent. And she's very involved with Peter and she
has traveled the world been an advocate, you know, for
Annie Moles and animal abuse and all kinds of things.
So you know what crazy past pas. Molested by a babysitter,
(14:09):
I don't remember. Yeah, the girl that that she said
in the beginning, she was molested by her female babysitter,
who she said she wished when when did you see that?
In the very first I've always seen part of the
documentary and she said I wish that she would just die.
And then she said the next like whatever day she
(14:30):
found out that the lady died in the car accident
and she lived the role. Why are you shocked you're
the one that watched the documentary. Well you know that clearly,
no North volume. We're like taking over my body because
I don't remember that part she said that the girl died.
I think it was in a car and she lived
with this like guilt that she made. Oh Jesus, Okay,
I don't remember molesting, but can I tell you something
(14:51):
that she was You know, the famous tape, the sex
stape that she did. Um, they documented every single part
of the really sationship. That's something that they did as
a couple. They had a little camera and they would
just tape everything for them, for nobody else. It was
just something that I was personal to them and they recorded.
They recorded that day them having sex and it was
(15:14):
very playful and it was funny and the whole thing.
So they were doing a renovation. This is what you
have to be so careful with whoever you bring to
your house, you know, friends, workers, It doesn't really matter.
They have this safe right with valuable things and a
lot of tapes, like a collection of tapes of them,
um and through through the years, so the renovation took
(15:38):
a long time. Then one day he goes to find
something and he realizes the safe was not there. So
to this day, Eric, they don't know who basically stole
the entire safe, the tapes. To this day, they don't
know if it was the workers. They don't they don't
know who who it was. People have made millions and
(15:59):
millions of dollars throughout the years because of this sex stay.
They never made a cent and to this day they
don't know who did it. So that was a case
of somebody whose sex tape really got stolen, correct, because
the Kardashians claim, but that's that sex tape was stolen,
but no tape was definitely released in correct. Correct. And
(16:22):
it's so it's sad because when that whole thing happened,
then it came back into the news that somebody was saying,
you know what, they Pamela Lee and the Pamela Anderson
and Tommy Lee thing. It was also leaked and to
and to this day she claims, you know, even in
front of her children, I never made a dollar. As
a matter of fact, the owner of penthouse at the
time offered us five million dollars to have exclusivity. I said,
(16:45):
I f you. She passed. He had to this day.
People had made so much money of me and Tommy Lee.
We never ever made a cent. It was embarrassing. It
depressed me. It destroyed my career. It's that's the reason
why I don't even trust people. You know. It's like,
so I believe a d percent that they had nothing,
nothing to do with it. It destroyed the marriage, you know,
it was it was really I mean that there there
(17:09):
was there was a claim that he kind of like
pushed her or grabbed her. Um. He was she she
had two kids, they were very young. She was a mom.
She's exhausted. He came home, you know, she's he's Tommy Lee,
he's a rock star, and he was kind of like demanding,
I want my wife back, Like I want sex, Like
(17:29):
can I have you for a second? All you do
is just be mom. She's like, I'm stressed. Oyle. She
basically said, you know what, well, I would be amazing
if I can, if I can have some help. You know,
I'm drowning here and you're asking for sex. He lost
his bananas and he became a little violent. It wasn't
like hidden her, but he kind of like did something
and to that day she called that one one he
(17:50):
was arrested, he went to jail, and she filed for
divorce and never looked back because she was like, I
was meddling in loved To this day, I think she's
still meddling in love with this man. And but she
said I could not I could not find on my
life with somebody that will just touch me that way.
And she went back to it, went back to abuse
as a childman. Yeah, parents or dad was abusive to
(18:12):
the mom. Anyways, crazy story. And then what do you
think one more thing? Because I know you, I know
you have to go soon. And my my, my, my,
boviies are like throwing a little bit. Anyways, Um, what
do you think about this hole in the Grammys? The
ratings were amazing, um, and the whole talk yeah they yeah,
they were that. They were really really fantastic. The Bad
(18:33):
Bunny performance was really good. Did you like it? I
thought he wrapped down the house and it was nice
to see a song open up in Spanish and just yeah,
it was amazing. Yeah, I knew a song that was
gonna be I didn't know until I knew before I
watched it. When they said it was he brought the
houtsetowns like there's one song on his album that kicks
in with this great like you said, um beating all that,
(18:56):
And I thought I thought it was great. I thought
it was really cool thing to see and people get.
I think a lot of people were. What I thought
was funny is that I felt a lot of people
were kind of confused at first, and like, WHOA, what
am I watching? Unless you're you know, you like Latin music.
I feel like they were kind of all confused, and
then you saw a lot of people come out of
their comfort zone. I mean, God, God bless Taylor Swift.
(19:18):
As she got up and got the party started, she
validated the whole thing. But I love that about her.
She she does it a lot. She sports a lot
of musicians. When you see her at shows and stuffing,
she gets up and dances for people. She's not just
all about me, and she's not doesn't care about how
she's dancing, if she did it right or wrong. She's
there for the party, into support and how fun. But
why do you think? What do you think has stole
(19:40):
the entire Grammy publicity? It's this ben Affleck face, which
feels like, how do you know? Because I saw it
all over was it's all over everything, and I feel
like people are just finding something to go after him.
For me, he's just sitting there and he's probably tired.
He's probably just watching the show and people just found
a moment and they're like, oh my god. So you
(20:02):
don't think they were fighting. No, I don't think so.
I think there's way too much being blood out proportion. Yeah,
I think, God bless you. Can you imagine being that
level of fame and popularity that everything you do because
the power of the phones and everybody records everything, and
there's no privacy that you cannot even look at your
(20:24):
husband and do a little gesture before millions of people
blowing things out of proportion. Whether it's too or not true,
just the fact that you cannot do anything because everybody
would just have an opinion about it is crazy. And
you would take that fame an RP. Why would you
say that? Would you? I'm joking. I'm just I'm joking
(20:44):
about would you take it to be like that big
of a worldwide star? Would you? Would you be comfortable?
I don't know. Listening, I don't know. I thought I
was going to have that level of that's like my
whole life. It's not that I aspired or I was
working towards It wasn't even a dream. I just I
didn't have a doubt that I was going to be
(21:06):
at that level. But the reality is, I don't think
you you can have a proper answer to that question
unless you live in that, you know what I mean. Like,
I can't even imagine life like with people paparazzi following
you at all times, people always criticizing you at all times.
Everything you do is for better or words is I mean?
I listen, we we go out, we get noticed people,
(21:29):
you know what I mean, let people know who we are.
We might sometimes we go to the farmer's market, there's
a paparatzi. You know what. We we we deal with
it at a very lesser or lesser like level, low
level of it, you know. But um, and I don't
I don't mind it. But I don't know how if
I would lose my banana because you know, I'm very
private and other I just like I just want to
(21:50):
be home reading a book by myself. So I don't
know if I'll be happy with the scrutiny you know.
I don't know. You can't plan. It just kind of happens.
I think you have to figure now. Um. On that note,
I have to go act on the rookie. We're on location.
There is a paparazzi here, so let's see what happens.
There's a paparazzi there. Yeah, I guess so for Tim Bradford,
(22:16):
I have no idea what they're here. Oh, I love it.
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(22:38):
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This is, he said, with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantev. Hi,
how you doing? I'm okay? How are you? He said?
I had the Holy listeners who are so happy to
have you. We are in different locations. I'm on set.
During lunch, I might be eating. Guys. It's been a
(00:22):
bit of an eventful morning of doing nothing and no eating,
so as usual, I'm eating while I'm doing the podcast.
I guess it's my thing and Eric doesn't like it.
But sorry, you're you're going through a lot right now.
So how are you feeling? Talk to us? I know
you just came out of your surgery that I said
(00:44):
don't do, but she did and here we are. So
it's been what ten days, I believe nineteen ten days
since I did my breast lift with an implant, and
I also corrected this car that I had on my
(01:04):
right armpit that created a thing my hair is covering.
I have like a it's like a very special bra.
I can't believe I'm sharing this with the world. But yeah, guys, Um,
you can see a lot, but my next outing you'll
see them. Um, a lot of scars, but I have
a fabulous, fabulous surgeon, Dr Reddy Raban. He's incredible, and
(01:27):
I know maybe I don't know, six weeks, six months,
a year from now, I am going to say it
was all worth it. Right now, I'm still in shock
because there's scars and the anesthesia was ordeal for me,
and you know it was. It was a big surgery.
(01:48):
So as of now, I am so grateful to my doctor,
and I know everything looks incredible. I have the pictures
people that I showed them to. Everybody's like, oh my god, Ross,
that's that looks amazing. And it's just been days. So
just give it some time. But you know what, I
think people go through a bit of a depression after
they do a procedure like plastic surgery. Eric Winter, Well,
(02:11):
I mean you're going through what. I don't know if
everybody does, but you definitely are. It's been a struggle, no,
you know, I friend of mindset to me that I
think I just said, google it. I think, um, eighty
or ninety percent of people after they undergo a plastic
h surgery usually the phase more than anything, like for example,
if you do a nose job, because you know, noses
are so important, it's the center of your face. It
(02:32):
changes everything. I think. I think people want to do
it so badly and it's their dream, and then once
they do it, because you the reveal comes days after.
Like I had my surgery and my reveal was two
days ago. So for seven days, for eight days, I
didn't know what my my breast look like. So you're
going through what your constipated. You're taking all these meds,
(02:52):
and you're wondering, oh my god, am I gonna be happy?
And you get into a little bit of a funk
almost like a like a hormonal type of thing. Nobody
talks about that. I think also with surgery, and this
is one of the things that you personally struggle with anesthesia.
I don't you do a lot of people do um.
But you also, as we've talked about the podcast, you're
not somebody who follows instructions very well. So I think
(03:16):
you were told to be on meds payments for a
certain amount of time. You did it like kind of
whenever you wanted. The problem with that is is that
once the meds wear off and paint kicks in, it's
hard to get it back under control. You were told
to go on stool softeners right away. You didn't want
to do that, so then you pay the price when
you don't do that right away. So you kind of always,
you know, in Rosslyn fashion, kind of follow your own formula,
(03:40):
and sometimes it fits you in the butt, sometimes it doesn't.
Let's talk about constipation, guys. Let's talk about constipation. I
had to talk about constipation after a surgery. And I
know they told me you had to take what is
the name of the thing, cola colas colise and and
we're alla is a mirror lax. Anyways, I was supposed
(04:02):
to take it a week before and a week after surgery.
But this is the thing, guys. As you know, I've
I've been dealing with a lot of g I truck
issues I've been taking I had to take so much
medication for my g I problems. Now I'm adding a surgery.
That's why my husband here was like, why are you
doing a surgery when you're dealing with your g I
truck problems. But I decided to do it. So I'm
(04:23):
taking g I medication with pain meds. Anstia was tricky.
It is a problem because no, I did take it.
I just didn't take it as it struck. No, I
didn't because I didn't want to add I too. I
took it one day a week before and it killed
my stomach. So I was like, this is not good
for me. And you know, I'm trying to avoid all
(04:44):
these meds and all the artificial, all the caca that
you put into your body. The problem was that the
kaka now stayed in some my body. It was a problem.
And guys, altering, you have no choice but the probably
thing in your body for a limited amount of time.
Correct your own script. You pay the price. I did,
(05:05):
and I and I and I realized once I stopped
taking that a biotic because I stopped earlier. My doctor said,
since you're not doing an implant, if after three days
everything is healing properly, there's no sign of infection. If
it's causing your problems with your g I track stopped
taking the antibiotics, I'm not concerned because you don't have
an implant. So after three days I'm going to know
(05:25):
what this is. Great, I'm gonna stop. And then I
didn't want to continue taking no U and value da
da da da, So I stopped and then I realized
I need to go to the bathroom finally. And then guys,
when you go to the bathroom. Nothing comes out and
nothing comes out the pain. It was awful. But anyways,
(05:45):
my Mike chet does my cookies. My little things are beautiful.
Thank you. Dr Already, Robin, I'm gonna be very happy.
Anything is that she sent me a picture of it
goes are you happy? When I was like, it doesn't
matter what I think. Are you happy? Why why are
you asking me if I'm happy? You just sent me
(06:05):
a picture. Frank Frankenstein, Franken. They looked, they looked amazing.
Number one, this is what sad ladies. Maybe that's what
this is. Maybe maybe this is what I'm going through
a depression. Because my husband, he's incredible, he's incredibly supportive.
Listen to me, Listen to me. You're incredible. I love
you so much. And you know what, my doctor actually
(06:28):
taught me a lesson because they do the reveal. I'm
so overwhelmed and I'm going, oh my god, I looked tight.
It's like it was kind of like interesting. But I
was so happy because they looked nice. Yeah, the nipple
is much smaller and darker, and your bruise and stitches
and but anyways, I take this picture. My body looks
banging yeah, have scars, but I felt cute, right, and
(06:51):
I sent it to my husband. I thought, I thought
my my breath looked very beautiful and I was like, granted, stage,
but but I was like, this could have been more
like horrific. Anyways, I sent it to my husband. I'm
so proud. I said, are you happy? His response was
(07:12):
the question should be are you happy? Oh? My God,
like I died. So my doctor comes in. Let me
finish the story. My doctor comes in and he goes
okay because the nurse is the one that takes the
stitches out. And the doctor comes in and he's like, so, Ross,
how do you feel. I'm going, well, I just sent
my husband this this picture, and I asked him if
(07:33):
he was happy, and he was response was are you happy?
He sat down and he's like, Ross, you didn't do
this for your husband or your friends or the world.
You did this for you, So at this moment you
have to ask yourself are you happy? And you know what?
He was right. I was like, you know what, doctor,
I'm shocked. They they feel tight, my nipples are too dark.
(07:56):
But the reality is I am very happy. Thank you
so much. I'm pleasantly surp Rice and you know what,
my friend Catia came with me, um that has Donna herself,
she had the same surgery done five years ago, said
to me, you look amazing. For just seven days, I
was just hoping that you were going to be like, hey, baby, wow,
you look freaking incredible. I kind of way to bank that. What.
(08:19):
First of all, you've never asked me to talk to
you like that. Number one, Number two, the one time
you're asking me to talk to you like that, you
have Frankenstein booms with stitches going up and down and
on the bottom. And number three, wow, you always have
told me because we all everybody in the podcast clearly
knows my opinion about this that you know, it wasn't
(08:40):
what I thought you needed to do, but it's a
thing you want to do. And every single friend of
ours who you spoke to in front of me, everyone said,
it's not about you, Eric, It's about Rosalind. It's about
something that she wants. And even when I tried to
talk to you out of it, you said, it's something
that's going to make me happy. So her only text
to me was you happy. I'm looking at the text
(09:03):
You're happy, and I wrote back, I wrote back, are you?
I love you? Right, And then I said I'm happy
for you if you are happy. Yeah, but that came
after when you realize that I didn't reply back. Then
you decided to do the whole testament. It did not,
which was very beautiful. Thank you, which was very beautiful.
(09:23):
The same time, I said, all that matters it was, Yes,
it was. I was in the middle of doing stuff
and you sent me a quick picture and you were
at the doctors. I didn't know what was going on,
and I said, all that matters is that you are.
As long as you're happy, then all is perfect. I
don't know a lot about this stuff or the scars,
but it seems to be as you describe, so I'm
guessing it'll all heal up nicely. As long as you
(09:46):
got the result you felt you were needed. You did good.
I love you and I even said you would kis emoji. Yeah,
that was very beautiful. They just came ten minute it came.
It came ten minutes later. So I took it as Oh,
now he's freaking out because he knows that I'm probably
a little bit affected. So now he's been awesome. But
if you're telling me that you did it right after,
(10:06):
and it was just a delayed in in whatever the
universe and technology. Then it's okay, I accepted and I
appreciate it. I was remember the exact spot. I was
in the cooking kitchen. I was cooking. You said that text.
I was like, whoa, okay, let me delete this off
my phone. First off, I didn't put my face. No,
(10:27):
my face was gone. I think it was my chin down.
I deleted it immediately, and then I was like, all right, yeah,
are you happy? It's not about me, It's about you.
That's what we've always that's what I had to But ladies, ladies, ladies,
put yourself in my place. This is what I maybe
maybe you know again back to I don't have expectations
because they're never gonna be maybe wait wait wait wait
(10:48):
wait wait exactly. I didn't practice that at the moment
I sent the pictures because I was so pleasantly surprised
that they looked so nice and perky. It almost looks
it looks like I have an implant. I know they're
gonna settle, they're gonna go down. But anyways, and I
just thought you were gonna be like, wow, ross that
that's really beautiful and his response was, arebby, it looks
(11:10):
like two booms with big scars on the center and
scars in the bottom. Stop saying that it does doesn't
does that? They don't look like that. That's what implants
look like. And I looked at no inplus a little
the implus sometimes he was like, iplants sery I lift end.
At the end of the day, it didn't matter what
I thought. And I was like, why is she god?
(11:31):
I said, look, you keep flashing the camera. I don't understand.
What did your point a flash in the camera. Well
you can't say that there. They're all there, but you
don't see anything. Guys, look, they're all cover my, my, my,
your flashing? Why are you flashing the camera? Because people
are asking I don't want them to see. Unfortunately, I
have a massive brath for six weeks. All the ladies
I followed, he said, yeah, do you want to follow
(11:52):
the journey? They would like to see an example of
what was done. Unfortunately I can't eat. I can't yet
because I have to wear this massive brath from months.
What is it? He said? You know Playboy Edition. You're
not not not showing their boobs, just the cleavage. At
least at least the cleavage. Anyways. Anyways, so let's talk
about something that guys. Thank you for the concern that
(12:14):
the surgery was a success. Um, I'm still shocked. Like
I said, I'm feeling better every single day. I cannot
go like that too much. I have to be very
mindful and blah blah blah blah. But everything is good.
Thank you. Anyways, Let's talk about so many things. Pamela Anderson. Uh,
(12:41):
and since we're talking about Booze, Um, you didn't see it.
I saw it because I've been watching a lot of
TV because I've been in bed recovering. The documentary is
so interesting about her life. And you know that one
of her kids is named Dylan. The little one is
named Dylan. Yeah. Um that Tommy Lee and her story.
(13:02):
It was really really interesting and she seems like a
really really nice, nice lady. So I highly recommended. You know,
if you judged Pamela Anderson because of you know, people
have judgment because of she's just stunning and big breasted,
like a like a bumbshell you did, I don't remember that.
I don't remember I told you that I did a
(13:23):
modeling job. I was we were at the beach and Nolabu.
I remember what it was four that was like Diesel.
I remember what the campaign was, but it was some
kind of campaign and she was the girl. That was
me and a couple of dudes. I think we were
all in speedos and she was in bikini or something.
I don't know, something like that. She was lovely. Yeah,
she's very lovely. That's true. At the peek of her fame,
(13:46):
you know, she was very famous. And she's an animal lover,
which I was like, oh my god, I wasn't. I
think I knew, but I didn't. I didn't know to
what extent. And she's very involved with Peter and she
has traveled the world been an advocate, you know, for
Annie Moles and animal abuse and all kinds of things.
So you know what crazy past pas. Molested by a babysitter,
(14:09):
I don't remember. Yeah, the girl that that she said
in the beginning, she was molested by her female babysitter,
who she said she wished when when did you see that?
In the very first I've always seen part of the
documentary and she said I wish that she would just die.
And then she said the next like whatever day she
(14:30):
found out that the lady died in the car accident
and she lived the role. Why are you shocked you're
the one that watched the documentary. Well you know that clearly,
no North volume. We're like taking over my body because
I don't remember that part she said that the girl died.
I think it was in a car and she lived
with this like guilt that she made. Oh Jesus, Okay,
I don't remember molesting, but can I tell you something
(14:51):
that she was You know, the famous tape, the sex
stape that she did. Um, they documented every single part
of the really sationship. That's something that they did as
a couple. They had a little camera and they would
just tape everything for them, for nobody else. It was
just something that I was personal to them and they recorded.
They recorded that day them having sex and it was
(15:14):
very playful and it was funny and the whole thing.
So they were doing a renovation. This is what you
have to be so careful with whoever you bring to
your house, you know, friends, workers, It doesn't really matter.
They have this safe right with valuable things and a
lot of tapes, like a collection of tapes of them,
um and through through the years, so the renovation took
(15:38):
a long time. Then one day he goes to find
something and he realizes the safe was not there. So
to this day, Eric, they don't know who basically stole
the entire safe, the tapes. To this day, they don't
know if it was the workers. They don't they don't
know who who it was. People have made millions and
(15:59):
millions of dollars throughout the years because of this sex stay.
They never made a cent and to this day they
don't know who did it. So that was a case
of somebody whose sex tape really got stolen, correct, because
the Kardashians claim, but that's that sex tape was stolen,
but no tape was definitely released in correct. Correct. And
(16:22):
it's so it's sad because when that whole thing happened,
then it came back into the news that somebody was saying,
you know what, they Pamela Lee and the Pamela Anderson
and Tommy Lee thing. It was also leaked and to
and to this day she claims, you know, even in
front of her children, I never made a dollar. As
a matter of fact, the owner of penthouse at the
time offered us five million dollars to have exclusivity. I said,
(16:45):
I f you. She passed. He had to this day.
People had made so much money of me and Tommy Lee.
We never ever made a cent. It was embarrassing. It
depressed me. It destroyed my career. It's that's the reason
why I don't even trust people. You know. It's like,
so I believe a d percent that they had nothing,
nothing to do with it. It destroyed the marriage, you know,
it was it was really I mean that there there
(17:09):
was there was a claim that he kind of like
pushed her or grabbed her. Um. He was she she
had two kids, they were very young. She was a mom.
She's exhausted. He came home, you know, she's he's Tommy Lee,
he's a rock star, and he was kind of like demanding,
I want my wife back, Like I want sex, Like
(17:29):
can I have you for a second? All you do
is just be mom. She's like, I'm stressed. Oyle. She
basically said, you know what, well, I would be amazing
if I can, if I can have some help. You know,
I'm drowning here and you're asking for sex. He lost
his bananas and he became a little violent. It wasn't
like hidden her, but he kind of like did something
and to that day she called that one one he
(17:50):
was arrested, he went to jail, and she filed for
divorce and never looked back because she was like, I
was meddling in loved To this day, I think she's
still meddling in love with this man. And but she
said I could not I could not find on my
life with somebody that will just touch me that way.
And she went back to it, went back to abuse
as a childman. Yeah, parents or dad was abusive to
(18:12):
the mom. Anyways, crazy story. And then what do you
think one more thing? Because I know you, I know
you have to go soon. And my my, my, my,
boviies are like throwing a little bit. Anyways, Um, what
do you think about this hole in the Grammys? The
ratings were amazing, um, and the whole talk yeah they yeah,
they were that. They were really really fantastic. The Bad
(18:33):
Bunny performance was really good. Did you like it? I
thought he wrapped down the house and it was nice
to see a song open up in Spanish and just yeah,
it was amazing. Yeah, I knew a song that was
gonna be I didn't know until I knew before I
watched it. When they said it was he brought the
houtsetowns like there's one song on his album that kicks
in with this great like you said, um beating all that,
(18:56):
And I thought I thought it was great. I thought
it was really cool thing to see and people get.
I think a lot of people were. What I thought
was funny is that I felt a lot of people
were kind of confused at first, and like, WHOA, what
am I watching? Unless you're you know, you like Latin music.
I feel like they were kind of all confused, and
then you saw a lot of people come out of
their comfort zone. I mean, God, God bless Taylor Swift.
(19:18):
As she got up and got the party started, she
validated the whole thing. But I love that about her.
She she does it a lot. She sports a lot
of musicians. When you see her at shows and stuffing,
she gets up and dances for people. She's not just
all about me, and she's not doesn't care about how
she's dancing, if she did it right or wrong. She's
there for the party, into support and how fun. But
why do you think? What do you think has stole
(19:40):
the entire Grammy publicity? It's this ben Affleck face, which
feels like, how do you know? Because I saw it
all over was it's all over everything, and I feel
like people are just finding something to go after him.
For me, he's just sitting there and he's probably tired.
He's probably just watching the show and people just found
a moment and they're like, oh my god. So you
(20:02):
don't think they were fighting. No, I don't think so.
I think there's way too much being blood out proportion. Yeah,
I think, God bless you. Can you imagine being that
level of fame and popularity that everything you do because
the power of the phones and everybody records everything, and
there's no privacy that you cannot even look at your
(20:24):
husband and do a little gesture before millions of people
blowing things out of proportion. Whether it's too or not true,
just the fact that you cannot do anything because everybody
would just have an opinion about it is crazy. And
you would take that fame an RP. Why would you
say that? Would you? I'm joking. I'm just I'm joking
(20:44):
about would you take it to be like that big
of a worldwide star? Would you? Would you be comfortable?
I don't know. Listening, I don't know. I thought I
was going to have that level of that's like my
whole life. It's not that I aspired or I was
working towards It wasn't even a dream. I just I
didn't have a doubt that I was going to be
(21:06):
at that level. But the reality is, I don't think
you you can have a proper answer to that question
unless you live in that, you know what I mean. Like,
I can't even imagine life like with people paparazzi following
you at all times, people always criticizing you at all times.
Everything you do is for better or words is I mean?
I listen, we we go out, we get noticed people,
(21:29):
you know what I mean, let people know who we are.
We might sometimes we go to the farmer's market, there's
a paparatzi. You know what. We we we deal with
it at a very lesser or lesser like level, low
level of it, you know. But um, and I don't
I don't mind it. But I don't know how if
I would lose my banana because you know, I'm very
private and other I just like I just want to
(21:50):
be home reading a book by myself. So I don't
know if I'll be happy with the scrutiny you know.
I don't know. You can't plan. It just kind of happens.
I think you have to figure now. Um. On that note,
I have to go act on the rookie. We're on location.
There is a paparazzi here, so let's see what happens.
There's a paparazzi there. Yeah, I guess so for Tim Bradford,
(22:16):
I have no idea what they're here. Oh, I love it.
Thank you, I'll see I love you. Thanks for listening.
Don't forget to write us a review and tell us
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(22:38):
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