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Speaker 1 (00:00):
My husband cheating on me with two women. He wants
to stay together because he has cancer? Should I stay?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Okay, Sam, this has to be the craziest story in
Okay storytime podcast history.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Well that's because it's dump and weak and this user writes,
my partner told me when we first got together that
he has cancer and if his operation doesn't go well,
could be terminal. He's currently living with his mom while
he is in recovery so that it takes the pressure
off me caring for both him and our baby until
he is well enough to move into our new home
with us. Well. Last week we had an attempted break in.
(00:30):
I asked my husband, who is supposed to be at
his mom's, to come over and change the locks, but
he wouldn't and his mom told me he wasn't with her.
I went to Facebook and it took me less than
an hour to find the first two women he was
cheating on me with.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
What else is he lying about?
Speaker 1 (00:45):
I don't know, John, but also first too, not last two.
This story's gonna get messy. One thing my paranoia just
wouldn't let up about was his cancer and his treatments.
I asked his mom about it. Who told me, Hey,
he doesn't have cancer. Oh, to inform me he was
in rehab, not the hospital. Apparently he suffered from addiction
and was trying to recover for me and our baby.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
That's not good news.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Throw him out. I never mentioned to him what I knew.
I assumed it was the embarrassment of wanting to get
clean without me knowing, so he could be a good
partner and dad. I was proud of him forgetting that
help that I never spoke about it.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
We just skipped all the things to work on, the
cheating and everything. Yeah, you know, I was proud for him,
like going and get rehabbed behind my back after cheating
all this.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Tuff man gets the hall pass of the century. The
bar is so low. The bar is in the magma
in the middle of the earth.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Dude, it's you know what below the space time continuum below.
We got to go below the milky making.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
It's in a wormhole, traveling through space. And still this
man is trying to limbo under it. Yeah, lem, and
she's letting him. With his autoimmune disease, his mom explained
how brutal it has been for him and that he
did have chemo a few years back, so maybe that's
why he's confused.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
No. Also, mom, why are you like defending him?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I mean, you know sometimes you you know, you think, oh,
like that person on facebook's my wife, you know, and
you just gotta you gotta DM them pictures of yours
just just in case. Well, pregnancy brain is a real thing.
Or maybe I'm just too blindly in love emphasis on
the blind because I accepted this and never question it again.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
No communication, okay, no communication, Yeah, there is not This
is not good. This is not good. After discovering the
first two women, Oh, I sent my partner a message
telling him to let his girlfriend know I'm asking after
her and not to bother coming home anymore. Okay, maybe
she's putting her foot down breaking the limbo stick.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
We're all right, We're we're flipping it up.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
I gut all right, you can giving me a little whiplash,
but it's the kind of kind of whiplash that I like.
I've had the locks changed from the break in so
he can't get in double win. He panicked and started
me to answer the phone and let him come see
me so he could explain everything. Babe, it was my
sickness brain. I thought she was you what if it
(03:09):
was a nurse, Yeah, I was. I was so confused.
I thought it was back of the hospital, and then
she was a nurse in They said it was an
experimental treatment where they just had to just you know,
go crazy on it, you know, bounce on it craziest style.
I started to see everything through clear eyes for the
first time and realized how long he had been gaslighting
me for and told him, dump him there, it is there,
(03:32):
it is Dump him in the ground.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Get him in there.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Put a hole that go straight to the magma chambers
of the earth. Go kick him in there Sparta style.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
And then we'll fart him into the wormhole.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Fart Yeah, put him into the wormhole. He doesn't deserve
to be in the same universe as you.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
No.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Realizing he couldn't get through to me, and now aware
I was trying to contact his girlfriend, he panicked and
went to her instead got a backup home. During that time,
I found to photo, Oh is it a spicy photo
she had shared of the two of them, and shared
it to my profile Petty with the caption can someone
(04:09):
please ask this woman to contact me?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I'm so o Pee wants to contact the girlfriend because
she wants to tell the truth of the web of lies.
She's she's put it on blast. She's like, the truth
will set you free, and she's trying to spread that
truth far and wide every face work. Yeah. Yeah, maybe
throw it into the wormhole too, Yeah, so everyone can know.
(04:35):
She instantly blocked me. Maybe she knew, but her sister
got in touch with me instead. Apparently the family has
never trusted him and knew something was wrong.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
That also means that they were deep in the relationship. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Family, this wasn't just a flame, this was a girlfriend. Also, like, oh, Pee,
how are you not seeing these red flag like old guys?
Family knew?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Uh super quick? Personal Okay, storytime. I know of a
person who had a wife and family for five years and.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
A separate wife and family, a second family, which was
the practice.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
One the person I know was the practice.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
That was the practice family.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
He would come home with glitter and he said, oh,
I did Sunday arts and school, you know, a Sunday
school arts and crafts with his other kids or with
strippers with That's who it really was.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Whoa but he had a family with a strippers.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Not a no so he was going to the strip
club even with the wife at home and.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
The girlfriend, the whole practice family.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, he was crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Oh but maybe he would find a stripper with the
heart of gold. Anyway, back to this story, this affair
is serious enough to have met the family man is
a full time juggler. She says he has told her
not to speak to me as I'm deranged stalker he
slept with once years ago and has been hunting him down,
trying to convince people my baby is his. The gas
(05:56):
lighting is unreal.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Yeah that is, that's some other of your child.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Then you're telling people, God, dude, that's just some girl.
I don't know what you're to do. What what information
do you have?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I think you're off You're off base.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
We've got to figure out something.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
You're de range. You need to be put on block.
Apparently I sent her a photo of the birth certificate
Wow and us in hospital together, Ah to show her
sister before he can lie to her anymore photoshop. During
this I am also messaging another woman who is furious
at what he has done and is helping me with
(06:29):
all the information she's aware of. Yes, units Yes, Powerpuff Girls,
take this guy.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Down.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
We want this, Yes, we want this.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
You know, sugar, spice and everything nice emphasis on the
spice spice.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Yeah, there's not much nice here, but maybe you know,
through the power of cheating, new friendships can occur. It's
a beautiful thing, you know, a fairly love no hopeless place.
It's gonna be all them when they feel how they
realize how much they love each other. I mean, there's
a reason that they all connected with this guy. They
probably have a lot in common.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
It could be the burgeoning of the greatest friendships the
world has ever known through the most unlikely of circumstances.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, yeah, that's that. Let's think positive lemons. She tells
me he broke her heart by cheating on her without
even knowing he was cheating on me too. Also, if
you're new here, there are multiple parts of the stories,
and make sure to follow us on Ihearts and Apple podcasts.
And we're gonna get back into this story. But it
(07:26):
gets a little crazier. It gets a little crazy, And
just to recap for everyone, a woman is confronting a
man for gaslighting her about being the father and reaches
out to others for support, and those others being this
woman who is now like the guy is living with
and has is so deep that he's met this girl's
whole family family and another girl that's like, oh, I
(07:47):
didn't know he was cheating on me with both of you,
op and this woman that met the family yep.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
The wife and the two two mistresses.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Yeah, who's the most mistressy like, well, who's the most
wife and who's I mean, it's.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Got to be a third dude.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
The third person is just sad man because like he's
got the baby with Opie, he's now living at home
with the second.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
The thirds just getting scraps.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Yeah, just scraps, you know nothing. Yeah, well so far.
So now OPI's constructing a timeline. So far, I have
the current timeline Chemo in March, a nineteen year old
rehab in April, so he met the girl in rehab July,
a woman of an appropriate age this time, but also
cheating on her. August now his twenty year old girlfriend.
(08:29):
I then find out his emergency cancer medication that he had,
so he had to leave in the middle of labor
crazy because of there was two failed epidurals. Opie was
screaming and Agny begginging, doctors to help because I thought
I was passing away while the emergency team rushed in
to place extra monitors on our baby in distress. But
that was an actually huge turn on for him, so
(08:51):
he needed to go sleep with a twenty year old
before making it back in time to kiss me before
I went into emergency's surgery.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Bro left in the middle of not only not only
his baby's birth, but his wife is like emergency mode.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
He left in the middle of that to go give
his chick.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
He just needs a little afternoon delight, a afternoon delight.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
My god, this is the most, without a doubt, the
most horrendous case of afternoon delight inhumanity.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I actually I can't think of a worse one right now.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
No worse examples.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah, please let me know if you have a worse example.
This is This is pretty bad.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Comment below. You can't beat it.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Still don't get it. You can't beat it yet, but
I hope no one can beat it. Well. This was Sunday,
it is now Saturday. The following week, I made a
post on Facebook calling out my partner for his actions
with photographs, medical notes, and evidence, and asking people to
leave me alone. On Tuesday, after forty eight hours of
no sleep, multiple calls to the crisis team, and a
barrage harafsment from his friends and family who want to
(09:53):
sue me for character defamation. OPI as the receipts.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Soe ah, dude, you have the audacity to to round
up losses.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Getzer stop it. Yeah, get out of here. I need
to get out of here.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Dude needs to go down. I can't wait. I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, if this was a regular affair, I'd lick my
wounds and move on. But I have now learnt. I
have been leaving my daughter alone with a substance regular
user who is claiming he doesn't know me or his
daughters to others, but demanding custody rights to me. So publicly,
he's saying, that's not my kid. Privately, he's like, I
(10:28):
still want to see my kids.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
It's go time. I think it's go time.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
He just wants to be a good dad.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
He's like, Hey, I have my daughter. I need to
know women as much as possible. How can I know
I do only have one wife. I have to have
three women to understand women enough to raise.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Me exactly he's getting, he's getting a sample size you know,
he's ensuring that he does understand like women's are like diamonds, multifaceted,
and he needs He only has three facets, I mean
roby facet Army, how many facet is a normal diamond? Twenty?
He's far from his final formude.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
He's trying to go to vvs as far as you can.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Govs.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
That's like the highest quality, like clear diamond. Sham Man's
in a relationship. Deep yeah, maybe name well, he doesn't
know tens.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
Oh we were joking. Oh, Man has the facets.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Tens tens of women. Tens of women have now come
forward who have also dated him during our relationship with
no idea of me or each other.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Tens. At a certain point, you have.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
To respect the game. Game.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
That's insane, Like, bro, if you had applied this.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
To anything else, he would be a millionaire.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
He would be he would be the president, Dude, he
would be the president.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
He's kissing babies and making them the president of mistresses.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Oh my god, every baby, he has to kiss them.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Man, his gang is caught over here. He's gonna be
repopulating the earth. His seed is spreading far and wide.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Tens.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
The scheduling of that alone, I mean, is mythical.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Again, like he would be the greatest like organizer logistics
coo in him mystery.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
I can barely talk to ten friends in a week.
To have ten mistresses, you need to hire him for
all your new day. I know I'm gonna going to
Hinge dates recently.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
He's about to catch a client contract.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Hopefully catch nothing else. Tens of women I've an now
come forward who've also dated him during our relationship, with
no idea of me or each other. This obviously is
really upseting. Understatement of this I had to read. But
what upsets me the most is that I'm beginning to
notice a very worrying pattern.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Hmmm, more than we already have to worry, okay, more
than okay?
Speaker 1 (12:52):
What the man is the onion of terribleness?
Speaker 2 (12:56):
True?
Speaker 1 (12:57):
You just keep peeling layers layer, and you're like, oh,
it can't possibly be worse than this, And it's moldier,
it's stinkier, it's more disturbing with every layer. I don't understand,
what's your guess on what could be possibly more worrying
than everything that we've seen before?
Speaker 2 (13:14):
He left a trail of some spicy diseases.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
I mean honestly, I feel like it's worse their wife foos.
Riley says their wife foos. I'm fine with a couple
of wife foods.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Oh is he no? I see? Are they all the
same type of woman? Oh? Does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Type?
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Yeah? I guess that would feel pretty bad where it
was like guy just has a type and they like
all look the.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Same as twenty clones.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
It's twenty clones, because then I would be like, not
only is he cheating on me, but he's I'm like
common enough to find twenty of me. Yeah, yeah, that
would feel bad. Oh I'm not ready for this, but
I am bad. Let us know what your guesses are
in the comments. No cheating, don't skip ahead, no cheating
you okay? Well, but what upsets me the most is
(14:00):
that I began to notice a very worrying pattern. He
has told every single one of these women that he
has cancer and can't get them pregnant. Man's trying to
raw dog his way to Genghis Khan fame. I think
that's kind of what it is. That's kind of yeah, yeah,
he's farming.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Just remember he was like, oh I'm pregnant now, whoa, Yeah, whoa.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
I said, my labor and deliverily was difficult. I was
induced due to an infection I had. My GP had
told me I had an SDI, and although I understood
and took the treatment and was induced, my madly in
love pregnancy brain never accepted it as an SDI until
I went back this week and checked my hospital discharge
(14:41):
notes and they're in big bold letters sensitive Partner SDI.
So the doctor's knew.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
I called it, but I'm not happy you did call it.
I did call it you.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
That's a little bit of a Reddit guru right there.
But I you don't feel great about it. I feel like, yeah,
it's like saying the end is nigh and then like
you know, a meteor hits the planet and you're like, oh,
well I was right.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
But yeah, yeah, just the.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Cloud of just terribleness ash everywhere and Magma hits you.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
If only Opie's husband was in there, then I would
be fair.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Yeah, yeah, this is not good. Well, at least he
has whatever she has. You know, I'll be having what she's.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Having, and uh that's one thing you don't want to share.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is not caring. Well. Also, if
you're new here. There are multiple parts of the story,
so make sure to follow us. Okay, story Time podcast
on the iHeart app or Apple podcasts. Okay, back to
this story. So he's been telling women that he has
cancer and can't get the pregnant so they don't use protection,
which led to an sdi which almost unalived me and
his daughter in labor. And he wasn't even there to
(15:46):
be with us because he was sleeping with a girl
who also believes he has cancer.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Bro.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
Actually, like in real reality worlds needs to go to
jail for like he needs to be sentenced for, Like
lifetime isn't enough.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
It has to be like thousands.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Of years, thousands of years, like just so many years
in prison, so many.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Locked in a box.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
I think I was going to say, like hopefully not
with everyone else. We don't want those things spreading.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
I mean, I think bro gett. We can't put him
around any human.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Yeah, man, the man is going to get after whatever
he sees in front of.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
We can't have it. Box, walls, lock.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
Maybe he has holes in the walls. Just you know,
we can't give I think I think you know, no pillows, no,
no pillows, no white foo pillows definitely not Bose. I
don't know. I think I would like to give him
one hole. He's human, he's human after all.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
If I can give him five thousand years, no, no
one hole, absolutely not zero, no, no hole.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
This judge is saying no holes.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
All right, let us know if that jurisdiction is uncalled for. Well,
I decided to let everyone know that he in fact
does not have cancer by using a screenshot of his
mom's messages, all the woman he has slept with to
make sure they take a pregnancy and SDI test, and
all all of his friends who he's been guilty for
years over his condition, and also social services and the
(17:05):
police for spicy related endangerment.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yes, fuck fuck, we're getting them. It's the house of
cards is tumbling.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Yeah, and we are clapping back on the man with
the clap.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Well, God, me my daughter now have safeguarding in place
for us from a local organization for women leaving abusive relationships.
So I feel very safe to reveal the truth about
him and make sure all of his partners are safe
and informed. As he couldn't uphold his legal obligation of
declaring ne STI I guess his postpartum girlfriend will do
(17:39):
it for him. I've also had contact from many of
his old friends, band members, band members.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Let's delete his page, I don't know, delete this music.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
I hope he has zero listeners on Spotify. Yeah, and
ex partners who have all given me testimonies to use
for the police and then as backup for if his
mother does, in fact try to assume me. This man
has been a lying and manipulating women for over nine years.
Nine years, nine years. Man, probably a lot. Again, we
didn't say it wasn't like ten women. It was tense.
(18:11):
It was tense, and that could be up to nine tens.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I mean, I think he could have ten children or
like I think you have more, could have tens.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
He's sleeping with all of them, unprotected or trying trying. Yeah,
so far everyone is now aware of his lies, and
I'm waiting for my in person meeting with the police.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
Good.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
I'm also preparing for lego battle.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Oh, also, my partner is a primary school teacher. Man
should not be teaching the youth.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
Get him.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I'm away, yeah, I'm away, well.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Definitely getting fired, so that's good.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
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My husband cheating on me with two women. He wants
to stay together because he has cancer? Should I stay?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Okay, Sam, this has to be the craziest story in
Okay storytime podcast history.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Well that's because it's dump and weak and this user writes,
my partner told me when we first got together that
he has cancer and if his operation doesn't go well,
could be terminal. He's currently living with his mom while
he is in recovery so that it takes the pressure
off me caring for both him and our baby until
he is well enough to move into our new home
with us. Well. Last week we had an attempted break in.
(00:30):
I asked my husband, who is supposed to be at
his mom's, to come over and change the locks, but
he wouldn't and his mom told me he wasn't with her.
I went to Facebook and it took me less than
an hour to find the first two women he was
cheating on me with.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
What else is he lying about?
Speaker 1 (00:45):
I don't know, John, but also first too, not last two.
This story's gonna get messy. One thing my paranoia just
wouldn't let up about was his cancer and his treatments.
I asked his mom about it. Who told me, Hey,
he doesn't have cancer. Oh, to inform me he was
in rehab, not the hospital. Apparently he suffered from addiction
and was trying to recover for me and our baby.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
That's not good news.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Throw him out. I never mentioned to him what I knew.
I assumed it was the embarrassment of wanting to get
clean without me knowing, so he could be a good
partner and dad. I was proud of him forgetting that
help that I never spoke about it.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
We just skipped all the things to work on, the
cheating and everything. Yeah, you know, I was proud for him,
like going and get rehabbed behind my back after cheating
all this.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Tuff man gets the hall pass of the century. The
bar is so low. The bar is in the magma
in the middle of the earth.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Dude, it's you know what below the space time continuum below.
We got to go below the milky making.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
It's in a wormhole, traveling through space. And still this
man is trying to limbo under it. Yeah, lem, and
she's letting him. With his autoimmune disease, his mom explained
how brutal it has been for him and that he
did have chemo a few years back, so maybe that's
why he's confused.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
No. Also, mom, why are you like defending him?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I mean, you know sometimes you you know, you think, oh,
like that person on facebook's my wife, you know, and
you just gotta you gotta DM them pictures of yours
just just in case. Well, pregnancy brain is a real thing.
Or maybe I'm just too blindly in love emphasis on
the blind because I accepted this and never question it again.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
No communication, okay, no communication, Yeah, there is not This
is not good. This is not good. After discovering the
first two women, Oh, I sent my partner a message
telling him to let his girlfriend know I'm asking after
her and not to bother coming home anymore. Okay, maybe
she's putting her foot down breaking the limbo stick.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
We're all right, We're we're flipping it up.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
I gut all right, you can giving me a little whiplash,
but it's the kind of kind of whiplash that I like.
I've had the locks changed from the break in so
he can't get in double win. He panicked and started
me to answer the phone and let him come see
me so he could explain everything. Babe, it was my
sickness brain. I thought she was you what if it
(03:09):
was a nurse, Yeah, I was. I was so confused.
I thought it was back of the hospital, and then
she was a nurse in They said it was an
experimental treatment where they just had to just you know,
go crazy on it, you know, bounce on it craziest style.
I started to see everything through clear eyes for the
first time and realized how long he had been gaslighting
me for and told him, dump him there, it is there,
(03:32):
it is Dump him in the ground.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Get him in there.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Put a hole that go straight to the magma chambers
of the earth. Go kick him in there Sparta style.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
And then we'll fart him into the wormhole.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Fart Yeah, put him into the wormhole. He doesn't deserve
to be in the same universe as you.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
No.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Realizing he couldn't get through to me, and now aware
I was trying to contact his girlfriend, he panicked and
went to her instead got a backup home. During that time,
I found to photo, Oh is it a spicy photo
she had shared of the two of them, and shared
it to my profile Petty with the caption can someone
(04:09):
please ask this woman to contact me?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I'm so o Pee wants to contact the girlfriend because
she wants to tell the truth of the web of lies.
She's she's put it on blast. She's like, the truth
will set you free, and she's trying to spread that
truth far and wide every face work. Yeah. Yeah, maybe
throw it into the wormhole too, Yeah, so everyone can know.
(04:35):
She instantly blocked me. Maybe she knew, but her sister
got in touch with me instead. Apparently the family has
never trusted him and knew something was wrong.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
That also means that they were deep in the relationship. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Family, this wasn't just a flame, this was a girlfriend. Also, like, oh, Pee,
how are you not seeing these red flag like old guys?
Family knew?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Uh super quick? Personal Okay, storytime. I know of a
person who had a wife and family for five years and.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
A separate wife and family, a second family, which was
the practice.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
One the person I know was the practice.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
That was the practice family.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
He would come home with glitter and he said, oh,
I did Sunday arts and school, you know, a Sunday
school arts and crafts with his other kids or with
strippers with That's who it really was.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Whoa but he had a family with a strippers.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Not a no so he was going to the strip
club even with the wife at home and.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
The girlfriend, the whole practice family.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, he was crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Oh but maybe he would find a stripper with the
heart of gold. Anyway, back to this story, this affair
is serious enough to have met the family man is
a full time juggler. She says he has told her
not to speak to me as I'm deranged stalker he
slept with once years ago and has been hunting him down,
trying to convince people my baby is his. The gas
(05:56):
lighting is unreal.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Yeah that is, that's some other of your child.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Then you're telling people, God, dude, that's just some girl.
I don't know what you're to do. What what information
do you have?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I think you're off You're off base.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
We've got to figure out something.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
You're de range. You need to be put on block.
Apparently I sent her a photo of the birth certificate
Wow and us in hospital together, Ah to show her
sister before he can lie to her anymore photoshop. During
this I am also messaging another woman who is furious
at what he has done and is helping me with
(06:29):
all the information she's aware of. Yes, units Yes, Powerpuff Girls,
take this guy.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Down.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
We want this, Yes, we want this.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
You know, sugar, spice and everything nice emphasis on the
spice spice.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Yeah, there's not much nice here, but maybe you know,
through the power of cheating, new friendships can occur. It's
a beautiful thing, you know, a fairly love no hopeless place.
It's gonna be all them when they feel how they
realize how much they love each other. I mean, there's
a reason that they all connected with this guy. They
probably have a lot in common.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
It could be the burgeoning of the greatest friendships the
world has ever known through the most unlikely of circumstances.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, yeah, that's that. Let's think positive lemons. She tells
me he broke her heart by cheating on her without
even knowing he was cheating on me too. Also, if
you're new here, there are multiple parts of the stories,
and make sure to follow us on Ihearts and Apple podcasts.
And we're gonna get back into this story. But it
(07:26):
gets a little crazier. It gets a little crazy, And
just to recap for everyone, a woman is confronting a
man for gaslighting her about being the father and reaches
out to others for support, and those others being this
woman who is now like the guy is living with
and has is so deep that he's met this girl's
whole family family and another girl that's like, oh, I
(07:47):
didn't know he was cheating on me with both of you,
op and this woman that met the family yep.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
The wife and the two two mistresses.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Yeah, who's the most mistressy like, well, who's the most
wife and who's I mean, it's.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Got to be a third dude.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
The third person is just sad man because like he's
got the baby with Opie, he's now living at home
with the second.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
The thirds just getting scraps.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Yeah, just scraps, you know nothing. Yeah, well so far.
So now OPI's constructing a timeline. So far, I have
the current timeline Chemo in March, a nineteen year old
rehab in April, so he met the girl in rehab July,
a woman of an appropriate age this time, but also
cheating on her. August now his twenty year old girlfriend.
(08:29):
I then find out his emergency cancer medication that he had,
so he had to leave in the middle of labor
crazy because of there was two failed epidurals. Opie was
screaming and Agny begginging, doctors to help because I thought
I was passing away while the emergency team rushed in
to place extra monitors on our baby in distress. But
that was an actually huge turn on for him, so
(08:51):
he needed to go sleep with a twenty year old
before making it back in time to kiss me before
I went into emergency's surgery.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Bro left in the middle of not only not only
his baby's birth, but his wife is like emergency mode.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
He left in the middle of that to go give
his chick.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
He just needs a little afternoon delight, a afternoon delight.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
My god, this is the most, without a doubt, the
most horrendous case of afternoon delight inhumanity.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I actually I can't think of a worse one right now.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
No worse examples.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah, please let me know if you have a worse example.
This is This is pretty bad.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Comment below. You can't beat it.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Still don't get it. You can't beat it yet, but
I hope no one can beat it. Well. This was Sunday,
it is now Saturday. The following week, I made a
post on Facebook calling out my partner for his actions
with photographs, medical notes, and evidence, and asking people to
leave me alone. On Tuesday, after forty eight hours of
no sleep, multiple calls to the crisis team, and a
barrage harafsment from his friends and family who want to
(09:53):
sue me for character defamation. OPI as the receipts.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Soe ah, dude, you have the audacity to to round
up losses.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Getzer stop it. Yeah, get out of here. I need
to get out of here.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Dude needs to go down. I can't wait. I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, if this was a regular affair, I'd lick my
wounds and move on. But I have now learnt. I
have been leaving my daughter alone with a substance regular
user who is claiming he doesn't know me or his
daughters to others, but demanding custody rights to me. So publicly,
he's saying, that's not my kid. Privately, he's like, I
(10:28):
still want to see my kids.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
It's go time. I think it's go time.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
He just wants to be a good dad.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
He's like, Hey, I have my daughter. I need to
know women as much as possible. How can I know
I do only have one wife. I have to have
three women to understand women enough to raise.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Me exactly he's getting, he's getting a sample size you know,
he's ensuring that he does understand like women's are like diamonds, multifaceted,
and he needs He only has three facets, I mean
roby facet Army, how many facet is a normal diamond? Twenty?
He's far from his final formude.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
He's trying to go to vvs as far as you can.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Govs.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
That's like the highest quality, like clear diamond. Sham Man's
in a relationship. Deep yeah, maybe name well, he doesn't
know tens.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
Oh we were joking. Oh, Man has the facets.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Tens tens of women. Tens of women have now come
forward who have also dated him during our relationship with
no idea of me or each other.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Tens. At a certain point, you have.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
To respect the game. Game.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
That's insane, Like, bro, if you had applied this.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
To anything else, he would be a millionaire.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
He would be he would be the president, Dude, he
would be the president.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
He's kissing babies and making them the president of mistresses.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Oh my god, every baby, he has to kiss them.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Man, his gang is caught over here. He's gonna be
repopulating the earth. His seed is spreading far and wide.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Tens.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
The scheduling of that alone, I mean, is mythical.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Again, like he would be the greatest like organizer logistics
coo in him mystery.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
I can barely talk to ten friends in a week.
To have ten mistresses, you need to hire him for
all your new day. I know I'm gonna going to
Hinge dates recently.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
He's about to catch a client contract.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Hopefully catch nothing else. Tens of women I've an now
come forward who've also dated him during our relationship, with
no idea of me or each other. This obviously is
really upseting. Understatement of this I had to read. But
what upsets me the most is that I'm beginning to
notice a very worrying pattern.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Hmmm, more than we already have to worry, okay, more
than okay?
Speaker 1 (12:52):
What the man is the onion of terribleness?
Speaker 2 (12:56):
True?
Speaker 1 (12:57):
You just keep peeling layers layer, and you're like, oh,
it can't possibly be worse than this, And it's moldier,
it's stinkier, it's more disturbing with every layer. I don't understand,
what's your guess on what could be possibly more worrying
than everything that we've seen before?
Speaker 2 (13:14):
He left a trail of some spicy diseases.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
I mean honestly, I feel like it's worse their wife foos.
Riley says their wife foos. I'm fine with a couple
of wife foods.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Oh is he no? I see? Are they all the
same type of woman? Oh? Does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Type?
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Does he have a type?
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Yeah? I guess that would feel pretty bad where it
was like guy just has a type and they like
all look the.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Same as twenty clones.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
It's twenty clones, because then I would be like, not
only is he cheating on me, but he's I'm like
common enough to find twenty of me. Yeah, yeah, that
would feel bad. Oh I'm not ready for this, but
I am bad. Let us know what your guesses are
in the comments. No cheating, don't skip ahead, no cheating
you okay? Well, but what upsets me the most is
(14:00):
that I began to notice a very worrying pattern. He
has told every single one of these women that he
has cancer and can't get them pregnant. Man's trying to
raw dog his way to Genghis Khan fame. I think
that's kind of what it is. That's kind of yeah, yeah,
he's farming.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Just remember he was like, oh I'm pregnant now, whoa, Yeah, whoa.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
I said, my labor and deliverily was difficult. I was
induced due to an infection I had. My GP had
told me I had an SDI, and although I understood
and took the treatment and was induced, my madly in
love pregnancy brain never accepted it as an SDI until
I went back this week and checked my hospital discharge
(14:41):
notes and they're in big bold letters sensitive Partner SDI.
So the doctor's knew.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
I called it, but I'm not happy you did call it.
I did call it you.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
That's a little bit of a Reddit guru right there.
But I you don't feel great about it. I feel like, yeah,
it's like saying the end is nigh and then like
you know, a meteor hits the planet and you're like, oh,
well I was right.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
But yeah, yeah, just the.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Cloud of just terribleness ash everywhere and Magma hits you.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
If only Opie's husband was in there, then I would
be fair.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Yeah, yeah, this is not good. Well, at least he
has whatever she has. You know, I'll be having what she's.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Having, and uh that's one thing you don't want to share.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is not caring. Well. Also, if
you're new here. There are multiple parts of the story,
so make sure to follow us. Okay, story Time podcast
on the iHeart app or Apple podcasts. Okay, back to
this story. So he's been telling women that he has
cancer and can't get the pregnant so they don't use protection,
which led to an sdi which almost unalived me and
his daughter in labor. And he wasn't even there to
(15:46):
be with us because he was sleeping with a girl
who also believes he has cancer.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Bro.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
Actually, like in real reality worlds needs to go to
jail for like he needs to be sentenced for, Like
lifetime isn't enough.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
It has to be like thousands.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Of years, thousands of years, like just so many years
in prison, so many.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Locked in a box.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
I think I was going to say, like hopefully not
with everyone else. We don't want those things spreading.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
I mean, I think bro gett. We can't put him
around any human.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Yeah, man, the man is going to get after whatever
he sees in front of.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
We can't have it. Box, walls, lock.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
Maybe he has holes in the walls. Just you know,
we can't give I think I think you know, no pillows, no,
no pillows, no white foo pillows definitely not Bose. I
don't know. I think I would like to give him
one hole. He's human, he's human after all.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
If I can give him five thousand years, no, no
one hole, absolutely not zero, no, no hole.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
This judge is saying no holes.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
All right, let us know if that jurisdiction is uncalled for. Well,
I decided to let everyone know that he in fact
does not have cancer by using a screenshot of his
mom's messages, all the woman he has slept with to
make sure they take a pregnancy and SDI test, and
all all of his friends who he's been guilty for
years over his condition, and also social services and the
(17:05):
police for spicy related endangerment.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yes, fuck fuck, we're getting them. It's the house of
cards is tumbling.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Yeah, and we are clapping back on the man with
the clap.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Well, God, me my daughter now have safeguarding in place
for us from a local organization for women leaving abusive relationships.
So I feel very safe to reveal the truth about
him and make sure all of his partners are safe
and informed. As he couldn't uphold his legal obligation of
declaring ne STI I guess his postpartum girlfriend will do
(17:39):
it for him. I've also had contact from many of
his old friends, band members, band members.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Let's delete his page, I don't know, delete this music.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
I hope he has zero listeners on Spotify. Yeah, and
ex partners who have all given me testimonies to use
for the police and then as backup for if his
mother does, in fact try to assume me. This man
has been a lying and manipulating women for over nine years.
Nine years, nine years. Man, probably a lot. Again, we
didn't say it wasn't like ten women. It was tense.
(18:11):
It was tense, and that could be up to nine tens.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I mean, I think he could have ten children or
like I think you have more, could have tens.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
He's sleeping with all of them, unprotected or trying trying. Yeah,
so far everyone is now aware of his lies, and
I'm waiting for my in person meeting with the police.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
Good.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
I'm also preparing for lego battle.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Oh, also, my partner is a primary school teacher. Man
should not be teaching the youth.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
Get him.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I'm away, yeah, I'm away, well.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Definitely getting fired, so that's good.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Yeah, oh my goodness. Okay, So if you're new here,
this is our podcast. Okay, story time. This is just
part one of the story. We got some Joe's left
to squeeze, So make sure you're following us on the
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