December 1, 2023 • 9 mins
On this episode of Our American Stories, part 3 of our 5-part series we hear Favre get very personal about his miraculous Monday Night Football game immediately following his father’s passing.
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
This is our American Stories. Much of what's known about
legendary NFL quarterback Brett Farv has been kept between the goalposts.
But our own Greg Hangler took a drive three hours
south to Hattiesburg, Mississippi. We broadcast from here in Oxford
to learn the rest of the story, as we do
so often here at Our American Stories are Brett's life,
(00:33):
and what we come up with is a five part
series about a lot of things.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
This one has to do with the day.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
On December twenty two, two thousand and three, the day
after his father's fatal heart attack, and his father's name
was Irvin, Brett Farv played and a must win Monday
night football game against the Oakland Raiders. Farv dealt with
the grief and the best way he can imagine, he
played his heavy heart out here again He's Bred Farv
(01:01):
with Part three of our five part series.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
That game.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Of all the games I played, I played in three
hundred twenty one games, played in two Super Bowls by far,
not even close. The most pressure and the most nervous
I've ever been was an Oakland game. And it wasn't.
It had nothing to do about will I or will
(01:29):
I not play, as people were thinking leading up understandably, so,
I mean, do you think he'll play? I knew I
was going to play, but I was so afraid that
I wouldn't play. I wanted to honor my dad by playing.
The lights frigging out. I didn't want to just play,
(01:51):
even though I would have gotten a free pass. Say
you play, we win? He played crappy. People said, what
do you expect? I didn't want. I didn't wanna even
go down that road. I wanted to play like I've
never played before, and the odds of that happening just
(02:16):
because I want it. I wanted to do that all
the time, but this time more than ever. So the
pressure was enormous and and in my experiences, when the
when the pressure is almost too big to bear, it's
hard to perform, very hard to perform. You you know,
(02:42):
you just can't settle down and everything's moving so fast,
which is what was going on that night. But it
was like as the game unfolded with each play, it
was like, man, that this is the this is.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I knew then. I mean, I've always been.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
A Christian, some days better than others, some years better
than others.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But you know, we were born and raised, went.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
To church, and as kids we didn't pay attention, and
you know, we got weapons and got chewed out, you know,
sent to the cry room. And then you know, through
my trials and tribulations, I've leaned on the Lord more
at times than other.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Times, I think like most people.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
But I knew that night, based on what I just
told you, there's no way that was a sign.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I've used this several times.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I didn't realize at the time, but at halftime, I
mean I knew statistically that this was it was unbelievable,
but I wanted to win the game. But I was
well aware of like that, you gotta be kidding me.
I mean, this, this is crazy. But at the end
(04:10):
of the game, it didn't dawn on me. Then it
didn't dawn on me that year. It didn't dawn on
me a year later. It dawned on me years later
that you know. And I've I spoke to a group
at Murphysboro, this high school up there.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
It was a Christian group last year. Oh.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I spoke at Liberty University this year or actually October,
I think, and and talked about it there. I said,
you know what I don't know about and I was
kind of really asking a question to the audience. I said,
do you ever like find yourself saying I want to sign, Lord,
give me a sign, show yourself, or you know.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Make this curtain move or whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
You know, all of a sudden, this billboard says you
know I am real, or you look, you give me
a sign. And I said, and it never works out
that way, right, And you got and you forget about it,
you go on, and then maybe you do it again.
I said, I was that that happened to me. And
I said, one day I realized that the sign was
(05:17):
how I played. I said, you know, you have to
keep in mind that I played at at at halftime,
I had already if that game would have ended, I
it would have been the best game in my history,
statistically speaking. And it's just a half. Now, keep in
(05:39):
mind that my father just died. I'd ever studied cause
when h I've got the news that he had died.
I mean, I I you know, my mind was elsewhere
and we needed to win this game, and I needed
to play and play well, but I didn't need to
play that well. And I prayed and prayed and prayed. Lord,
(06:03):
I want to I want to honor my father. I
want to play well, I don't want to just play.
I want to And I don't even know if I
was really specific, but I think he knew what I
was asking. And that's the sign that the God is real.
It wasn't some little angel comes flying in and drops
a football, although angels may have been placing the balls
(06:27):
in certain places.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
But two touchdown.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Threw four touchdowns my halftime, which is not not unheard of.
But two of the touchdown passes were two of the
best passes.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
I've ever thrown. You people watching probably wouldn't know that.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
They'd have to know that why angle on precision had
to be perfect when you're when you're when you're not
running out of the pocket, and huns you add running
out of the pocket, so it's chasing. You have to
turn to the and then make it over the shoulder
throw to a guy in the back corner of the
(07:08):
end zone that has to drop only one spot, and
it did. And then there was two more that we're
just totally opposite. Oakland could have caught it just as
easy as our guys, and they didn't even come close
to it. They were in position like just fell down.
So that's you know that that game is important for
(07:33):
a lot of reasons. At the time, we needed to
win the game to continue playoff hopes.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
But when I.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Came back for the funeral, it sure made life easier
for everyone because that's what people.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Were talking about. And I'm not I don't know many.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
People that are good at funerals or wakes, I particularly,
I'm not very good.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
In fact, I like to if I go to one.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
And my wife's aunt passed away about a month and
a half ago, and we were real close with her.
But my way of handling those situations and being in
that environment is to make light of the situation, talk
about stories.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
That made us laugh.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
I don't I I don't like being down, never have
And so that had I played bad, coming back home
would have been even worse. All the people I know
what they would have said, maybe, hey, you you play
you did your best.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I don't. I didn't wanna hear it. I wanted to
come home and be able to.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Celebrate, and so I'm thankful that we were able to
kind of enjoy and rejoice about it.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
And you've been listening to Brett fav talking about his
performance on December twenty second two thousand and three, the
day after his father, Irvin, suffered a fatal heart attack
and died. And Brett that night was twenty two for
thirty at three hundred and ninety nine yards, four touchdowns
and three yards shy of his best game ever, and
(09:20):
in the biggest night of his life, God.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Showed up for him.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
And we'll bring you this story because as you could tell,
there was a lot more going on here than just
the material world grass and turf and x's and o's
and plays, and we all knew it when we were
watching it. Brett Favre's story, a story of a game,
a story of a love affair with a sport, and
a story of a love for a father and a
son and God here on our American stories
This is our American Stories. Much of what's known about
legendary NFL quarterback Brett Farv has been kept between the goalposts.
But our own Greg Hangler took a drive three hours
south to Hattiesburg, Mississippi. We broadcast from here in Oxford
to learn the rest of the story, as we do
so often here at Our American Stories are Brett's life,
(00:33):
and what we come up with is a five part
series about a lot of things.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
This one has to do with the day.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
On December twenty two, two thousand and three, the day
after his father's fatal heart attack, and his father's name
was Irvin, Brett Farv played and a must win Monday
night football game against the Oakland Raiders. Farv dealt with
the grief and the best way he can imagine, he
played his heavy heart out here again He's Bred Farv
(01:01):
with Part three of our five part series.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
That game.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Of all the games I played, I played in three
hundred twenty one games, played in two Super Bowls by far,
not even close. The most pressure and the most nervous
I've ever been was an Oakland game. And it wasn't.
It had nothing to do about will I or will
(01:29):
I not play, as people were thinking leading up understandably, so,
I mean, do you think he'll play? I knew I
was going to play, but I was so afraid that
I wouldn't play. I wanted to honor my dad by playing.
The lights frigging out. I didn't want to just play,
(01:51):
even though I would have gotten a free pass. Say
you play, we win? He played crappy. People said, what
do you expect? I didn't want. I didn't wanna even
go down that road. I wanted to play like I've
never played before, and the odds of that happening just
(02:16):
because I want it. I wanted to do that all
the time, but this time more than ever. So the
pressure was enormous and and in my experiences, when the
when the pressure is almost too big to bear, it's
hard to perform, very hard to perform. You you know,
(02:42):
you just can't settle down and everything's moving so fast,
which is what was going on that night. But it
was like as the game unfolded with each play, it
was like, man, that this is the this is.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I knew then. I mean, I've always been.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
A Christian, some days better than others, some years better
than others.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But you know, we were born and raised, went.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
To church, and as kids we didn't pay attention, and
you know, we got weapons and got chewed out, you know,
sent to the cry room. And then you know, through
my trials and tribulations, I've leaned on the Lord more
at times than other.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Times, I think like most people.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
But I knew that night, based on what I just
told you, there's no way that was a sign.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I've used this several times.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I didn't realize at the time, but at halftime, I
mean I knew statistically that this was it was unbelievable,
but I wanted to win the game. But I was
well aware of like that, you gotta be kidding me.
I mean, this, this is crazy. But at the end
(04:10):
of the game, it didn't dawn on me. Then it
didn't dawn on me that year. It didn't dawn on
me a year later. It dawned on me years later
that you know. And I've I spoke to a group
at Murphysboro, this high school up there.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
It was a Christian group last year. Oh.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I spoke at Liberty University this year or actually October,
I think, and and talked about it there. I said,
you know what I don't know about and I was
kind of really asking a question to the audience. I said,
do you ever like find yourself saying I want to sign, Lord,
give me a sign, show yourself, or you know.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Make this curtain move or whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
You know, all of a sudden, this billboard says you
know I am real, or you look, you give me
a sign. And I said, and it never works out
that way, right, And you got and you forget about it,
you go on, and then maybe you do it again.
I said, I was that that happened to me. And
I said, one day I realized that the sign was
(05:17):
how I played. I said, you know, you have to
keep in mind that I played at at at halftime,
I had already if that game would have ended, I
it would have been the best game in my history,
statistically speaking. And it's just a half. Now, keep in
(05:39):
mind that my father just died. I'd ever studied cause
when h I've got the news that he had died.
I mean, I I you know, my mind was elsewhere
and we needed to win this game, and I needed
to play and play well, but I didn't need to
play that well. And I prayed and prayed and prayed. Lord,
(06:03):
I want to I want to honor my father. I
want to play well, I don't want to just play.
I want to And I don't even know if I
was really specific, but I think he knew what I
was asking. And that's the sign that the God is real.
It wasn't some little angel comes flying in and drops
a football, although angels may have been placing the balls
(06:27):
in certain places.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
But two touchdown.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Threw four touchdowns my halftime, which is not not unheard of.
But two of the touchdown passes were two of the
best passes.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
I've ever thrown. You people watching probably wouldn't know that.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
They'd have to know that why angle on precision had
to be perfect when you're when you're when you're not
running out of the pocket, and huns you add running
out of the pocket, so it's chasing. You have to
turn to the and then make it over the shoulder
throw to a guy in the back corner of the
(07:08):
end zone that has to drop only one spot, and
it did. And then there was two more that we're
just totally opposite. Oakland could have caught it just as
easy as our guys, and they didn't even come close
to it. They were in position like just fell down.
So that's you know that that game is important for
(07:33):
a lot of reasons. At the time, we needed to
win the game to continue playoff hopes.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
But when I.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Came back for the funeral, it sure made life easier
for everyone because that's what people.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Were talking about. And I'm not I don't know many.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
People that are good at funerals or wakes, I particularly,
I'm not very good.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
In fact, I like to if I go to one.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
And my wife's aunt passed away about a month and
a half ago, and we were real close with her.
But my way of handling those situations and being in
that environment is to make light of the situation, talk
about stories.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
That made us laugh.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
I don't I I don't like being down, never have
And so that had I played bad, coming back home
would have been even worse. All the people I know
what they would have said, maybe, hey, you you play
you did your best.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I don't. I didn't wanna hear it. I wanted to
come home and be able to.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Celebrate, and so I'm thankful that we were able to
kind of enjoy and rejoice about it.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
And you've been listening to Brett fav talking about his
performance on December twenty second two thousand and three, the
day after his father, Irvin, suffered a fatal heart attack
and died. And Brett that night was twenty two for
thirty at three hundred and ninety nine yards, four touchdowns
and three yards shy of his best game ever, and
(09:20):
in the biggest night of his life, God.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Showed up for him.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
And we'll bring you this story because as you could tell,
there was a lot more going on here than just
the material world grass and turf and x's and o's
and plays, and we all knew it when we were
watching it. Brett Favre's story, a story of a game,
a story of a love affair with a sport, and
a story of a love for a father and a
son and God here on our American stories
Host
Lee Habeeb
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