Speaking Your Truth with Daisy Marquez

On this episode of the Overcomfort podcast, I sit down with the gorgeous Daisy Marquez. We get really personal, vulnerable, and speak our truths. Daisy comes with an open heart to tell us with her truth about her rumored BBL and what led her from telling the truth. We also talk about her self made Daisy DACA Foundation in support of DACA dreamers, her OnlyFans, new podcast, and her future dreams!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome back to the Overcomfort Podcast. I am your host,
Jenna co Lopez. Thank you guys so much for being here.
I'm super excited for today's guests because I'm gonna explain
right now, but let me introduce her and kind of
give her a little nice intro. We have the beautiful,
gorgeous little Libra friend twin, Daisy Marquess.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
I'm happy, so no, I'm generally so happy, and I
want to tell you something. And I don't know if
I've told you. Maybe I told you drunk Karen and
Saima's wedding.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Dude, I was so drunk. It was so much fun.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
But Daisy you okay, aside aside from the fact that
I obviously love you, I've loved your content from like
a long long time ago, like you know, huge supporter here,
But I've always prayed for you. I feel like I've
seen you at events and I've seen you as a
person and we were never like close, are you gonna cry?

(01:01):
But I always I always felt like, I don't know,
like I wanted to be, not wanted to be close
to you. But I'm like, I'm just gonna pray for her,
like quietly and like whenever she's ready, like we could
talk or whatever. So like this happening right now is
kind of like a full circle moment for me where
it's like, wow, okay, God is really like answering prayers.
And I say that because there was like one event

(01:23):
we were at and we can cut it out if
you want, but there was one event where you know,
we were drinking. Everybody was drinking. It was an influencer
of a makeup collab or whatever. Uh huh, and everyone
was drinking and all your friends left you. I don't
know where, and I'm like, wait, oh my.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
God, where was this. It was at the trelusive party.
Oh my god, you know what. That was the most
traumatizing night of my life.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
And I was like, and I remember talking to you.
I'm like, okay, she's by herself. I was blacked out.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
I literally don't. I was so blocked out that day.
I don't, I do know.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
And I think that was before you moved back to Texas.
I think I'm maybe the time is wrong or you
had moved. You had moved, and then you came back
like it was like frequently.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Oh my god, this is what I get dark. So
I know. So I think I remember that night because
the club, this club that I loved, was just opening
back up after COVID, So I think I was in
Texas and I came in for that event. You know
what's so crazy, I do not remember anything from that night.
I just remember being at the Treslus event, and then

(02:35):
I remember being at the club with a whole different outfit,
and I'm like, how did this happen? I was like,
how did I get here? Where are my friends? Like I?
And then I wake up, Oh my god, this is
gonna get a little bit dark. So after that, I
then woke up in a random hotel with nothing no clothes, no,

(02:57):
I mean no close. I had no phone, no shoes,
and I just had this bodysuit and I was crying
on the floor and the security guard was like, your
mom's coming, and I'm so confused.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
Jenica, like, and your mom's in Texas.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
No she wasn't, thank God, like Yosito, like, It's so
crazy how the way that things work. Because she was
there on like a honeymoon vacation. She was like in
Malibu or something. And the security guard from the hotel
I called my mom saying that I had been roofed,
and so I just I then after like that, everything
was like in flashes, and I wake up the next

(03:30):
day and my mom was like so disappointed in me.
She's like, what did you do? Like I thought you
were just going to the event. And I'm like, Mom,
I have no idea what happened. I know that I
got to be drunk at the event, but then when
I went to the club is when I got roofed. Yeah,
and you want to know, you what happened. I then
went to take a shower and I took off my

(03:50):
bodysuit and I had hickeys all over my body, and
I remember I was like so disgusted and I just
felt so like broken, and I was like, oh my god,
like what happened. So then I reached out to the
security guy and I'm like, hey, like, it's the girl
from last night, Like do you know what happened? He's
like hey, He's like, I knew something was wrong. He's like,
because I heard someone screaming. So he said that he

(04:11):
came out and he saw me getting out of a
van and I was screaming saying help me. Oh no,
I wasn't even a van. It was a Maserati. I
don't even know what kind of car that is. And
he said that three guys came out and they grabbed
me and they threw me back in the car, and
then that I was somehow able to escape again and
I ran to the security and I told him to
help me, like those guys just assaulted me, and that

(04:33):
they tried to pretend seeing that they were my older brothers,
and that the security guard threatened to call the cops
and they were like, unless you guys have identification that
you guys know her, Like I'm not letting her go,
and he said, I'm like shaking. I've never talked about this,
and he said that the car was just like on
the side of the building waiting for me to get out.

(04:54):
And then that's whenever my mom came. And then I
went to go get tested and like it came back
like pause, and I was just like in shock because
I thought that that never would have happened to me.
But my mom was always telling me, like, you need
to stop getting drunk like that to where you don't
know what you're doing and stuff, and I learned my lesson.
You know what, I think is so crazy. My way

(05:15):
of taking because I feel like they took a part
of me, and I think my way of taking control
of the situation. I went back to that same club
that same night, I don't know, like, and everybody in
LA found out because I was I asked the club, like,
can I get the security footage? Like I want to
know who those guys were, Like I could be standing
at a club next to them and they wouldn't even know, right,

(05:37):
And nobody wanted to help me. Nobody wanted to get involved.
That club is very popular, and I just felt so defeated,
and so I was like, you know what, I think
the only way that I can take control back is
by not being afraid to go back into that club.
And that same the next day, I went back into
the club and I don't even like, I just look
back at and I'm like, Daisy, what the fuck? Like

(05:58):
it was just a lot I think in that time
of my life. I was just so I was still
so like lost. I guess you could say it.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
And I don't. I don't want it to come off
rude or disrespectful, but I felt that, yeah, like or
it's like but maybe that's just me as a person
where it's.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
Like like think you're a am path.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
No, I kind of. I don't know. I don't know
if it's a liber thing because I'm a liber too,
where I'm just like something's wrong and I and I
remember dming you that night. I'm like, hey, did you
make it home? Like because you were waiting for your
uber and I didn't want to leave until you got
in your uber. And I'm like, you, guys, I just
want to say thank you at the bottom of my heart.
Now that you tell me this, I'm like, I should
have fucking followed you. But it's like and I knew,

(06:38):
and I'm like, I know, I know when the time
is right for like something like this to happen, for
um to say able to have a conversation, and like it's
obviously something vulnerable and I appreciate you being so open
about it because it's scary, but it's there's something like wow,
Like the whole point of the podcast is to kind
of like understand you. And I feel like over the
time of your career, it's been very You've been very misunderstood.

(07:00):
I kind of judged because you were like in the
beginning not yeah, we were in the beginning era yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Just and I guess we can. I think that's why
I even wanted to come on here. And I told you,
I was like, I only feel comfortable talking to you
because I, I don't know, You're just so warm and
your energy so inviting that I immediately just felt connected to you,
even when we were talking at Karen's wedding and I'm like,
oh my god, like I really love her. But I
honestly feel like I just have been. It's just has

(07:31):
been such a long journey of trying to find myself.
And I think because I tried to pride myself and
being independent and not needing anyone's help, Like I think
I shot myself in the foot like that by by
trying to be so independent, because then I ended up
really just losing myself. And I had been fighting my
demons for so long, like I and I think alcohol

(07:55):
was just a way of me like escaping it.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Or is and it's a la like you live it
just it just.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
After my after my relationship that was like public that
it had ended. The way that relationship ended, it just
really changed me. I feel like I had such a
good heart and then it turned my heart black and
I kind of just shut myself down, and I numb myself,
and I think the way of escaping that numbness or

(08:24):
just making myself more numbous like alcohol. And I made
it a goal of my year in twenty twenty four
to give up alcohol. And even some part of me
was like, I wonder if my friends are even still
gonna want to hang around me if I'm not dreaming,
because I'm known as like the party girl, wild and
I'm fun, and you know, people invite me and and
now I'm just like wow, like it's really going to
show me who's really going to be there for me?

(08:46):
It isn't. But I definitely think I think I have
been misunderstood. But I don't know. To some people, they
see me as like such a bad person, but I'm
genuinely not. I think I just grew up on the
internet and I've made a lot of mistakes along the way,
Like I've learned a lot and I have, you know,
I have worked really really hard to be the person

(09:08):
that I am today. And I seek medical help and
I was going to therapy and nobody even knew, but
I was on so many heavy medications for depression, anxiety
and other things. That I don't think I'm comfortable enough
to tell the public about yet. But that also, oh

(09:28):
my God, like messes you up. It messes you up
so bad.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
Have you ever been on I've never, but I've been.
But because not that I don't want to, I just
feel like it. I don't want to be dependent on
it either.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, and yeah, I think And I remember my therapist
being like, well, we're gonna put you on all these
my psychiatrists. He was like, we're gonna put you on
these medications because you're feeling too many emotions, so we're
gonna numb you. And I was like, okay. So sense
it didn't And at the time I was like okay,
But then now that I'm like, I don't take into medications,
I'm like, when I stopped the medications, all those feelings

(10:07):
came back. Yeah. So I just quit cold Turkey one day,
all the medications. And I think it's when I moved
back to Texas. I was like, okay, like I'm just
going to deal with my emotions and feel them and
let myself. I'm just gonna let go, you know. And
after that I just really started. I'm a very spiritual person,
So are you really yeah. Yeah, and then I started

(10:30):
to really get into you know, healing books and meditation,
and that's something like the core of it. Yeah, and
that's that's something that really helped me to balance my
chakras and I really really dig deep and I started
to do shadow work and try to heal my inner child.
I feel like a lot of my wounds stemmed from, yeah,
my childhood. And I feel like a lot of people

(10:51):
don't know that a lot of their way.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
And I feel, yeah, and it seems like kind of
silly to people, and it's hard to explain it to
someone that kind of doesn't.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
See it, that doesn't understand.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
Yeah, that doesn't understand. And it's like, literally, we are
who we are because of who our parents were, how
we were raised, or certain situation. It's it's real, Like
there's things that it's like affects you and creates you
as the person you are today, and you carry it
on like it's better to handle the battle now you
as a person, before you take it on if you

(11:21):
have kids or get married.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
That is so true, you know, And this is something
that I had to teach myself. So you growing up,
you are given this blueprint that the way your parents
raise you, society school, and you grew up with this blueprint,
thinking that this is the blueprint that you have to
follow for the rest of your life. Yeah. So I
grew up thinking that I was, you know, incapable of love,

(11:44):
that I had really bad abandonment issues, so anytime someone
would try to leave me, it would like trigger me
really bad. And so I grew up thinking that everyone
that I loved was going to leave me, so then
I would leave them first, and it just it was
like a domino effect. So then one day, I think,
once I got tired of like my own bullshit, I
was like, Okay, I'm completely going to rewrite my blueprint

(12:06):
and I'm going to start from zero. Yeah. So I
no longer blamed my father for not being able to,
you know, be affectionate and show me love because he
wasn't shown that, So how am I going to blame him?
You know? So then I started to just love myself
and show myself love, and I think that that's a
way that I was able to heal from that. And

(12:26):
I even tell my sisters now, you know, because my
dad is still the same and he's not affectionate with them,
and I told him. I was like, look, you can
be affectioned with yourself, Like I'm here for you guys,
like you guys don't have to believe that all men
are not affectionate. Like so I think rewiring your brain
and you know, creating the environment that you want and
not believing the blueprint really is something that.

Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yeah, and it's like you don't have to follow it
like or feel guilty. And I feel like that's what
a lot of people feel. Like in this case about
your dad, it's like you could still love him and
he could still love you, but it's a different type
of love.

Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah, it's like a it's like from a distance, like yeah,
I mean sometimes I think he loves me.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah, no, hey, I'm sure he loves you. But like
it's like for you as a person, what makes you
feel good?

Speaker 2 (13:15):
It's like, okay, yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:16):
I understand how you are, and I'm going to satisfy
myself by pleasing and loving myself, and which you do
amazing At you go on these trips, I think you're happy.
You look so good, Daisy, Like you look amazing and
like I literally look back and like when you were
in like that relationship and now that you talk about
abandonment issues or whatever, like from when you from when

(13:38):
you guys broke up or you know, that's when everything
kind of went dark you mentioned.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
Yeah, I think, And by the way, I'm already emotional
because they don't know that because I lost my dogs.
I've been crying for the past few days. That's why
I'm super emotional. It's also fumin and cancer. Yeah, I think.
I think that relationship is like the only public relationship

(14:06):
that I've ever really had. So when that ended, everybody
kind of question as to why it ended. And even
up to this day, I don't think it's fair that
people still throw that in my face, just because it's
like I always like let it go, like please, Like
I'm constantly like being reminded of And you know, the
way that relationship ended really affected me mentally in a

(14:27):
bad way. And I changed that, and everyone's like, oh,
Daisy changed. I did change. I changed and not in
a good way because I was hurt. I felt like
I was just like betrayed and I was alone in
LA and I could have gone back with my family,
I could have reached out, but I didn't. I isolated
myself and I completely spiraled. I then got introduced to

(14:48):
the Hollywood scene, and I started partying, and like, I
got so invested in that lifestyle and it completely changed me.
And it almost felt like I was living like a
double life because when the camera was on and I
was on YouTube, and I was so like posh back
then on YouTube, and I remember like I wouldn't even
flick off the camera or cuss or anything. But then

(15:11):
behind the camera, I was like this wild child and
I was running around Hollywood like partying and doing all
these crazy things. And I think that really fucked me up,
just living this like double life. And somewhere in between
the line got crossed, and then I think everybody was
able to see that it was like just that I
just wasn't the same Daisy. And I think after I

(15:35):
moved to Texas, though, I was able to just really
find myself again. I'm very happy with the person that
I am today. Like I have made a lot of mistakes,
you know, and I have taken the time to learn
from them and grow from them. And I think, I mean,
I'm not perfect, you know. I don't think anyone is perfect.
And all I can do is just try to better myself.

(15:57):
And I think I've gotten better at learning how to
control my emotions and just being around a really good
environment with good people like you.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
But you are your single? You've been single since then
since that relationship?

Speaker 2 (16:13):
I don't wait, are you talking about my relationship? I
don't know we're talking about this?

Speaker 1 (16:21):
Well, okay, you're not you're single right now?

Speaker 2 (16:24):
Yeah, okay, wait, but what relationship are you talking about?
Are you talking about the very first?

Speaker 1 (16:28):
I guess the very first? Yeah, the very first one.
Have you been like, have you been dating? And ever?

Speaker 2 (16:34):
I've been in three serious relationships since I've been here.
It was the first one, and then I dated someone
for like two months. I wouldn't really say that, yeah,
you know, and then the very last one. I've been
single since that one, which is twenty nineteen. That one
traumatized me just really bad. That I never wanted to

(16:54):
Not that I've learned now that I can't close myself
off to love, but I've just I think the reason
why I've been single for so long is because I'm
just I've worked so hard that I don't want to
just let anybody in and ruin my peace because I think, when,
oh my god, when you're in a toxic relationship like
it's so hard to get out of it and inpendent
and dependent and like I used to always depend on

(17:18):
men for love and for happiness, and I think now
that I've learned how to depend on myself for happiness,
It's like, Okay, then I can only want a man.
I don't need a man, but I mean the right
person will come. I guess, like I've been single since
twenty nineteen s good for you, though, what about you?

Speaker 1 (17:37):
I'm single, BIB since well, I've been single since twenty
twenty twenty.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
One, three four years.

Speaker 1 (17:44):
I'm happy, I'm content. Really Yeah, I'm like I feel
like I'm on the same page where it's like I'm
not in a rush. Yeah, I'm not looking. I mean
I'm open to it. Yeah, love can come, love can
be here. I'm just I have a lot on my plate.
And I always say is like I have a lot
on my plate. Are you gonna be able to fit
there without messing everything else up?

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Like are you gonna come and add to my table
and not take away or disturb anything?

Speaker 1 (18:12):
Exactly?

Speaker 2 (18:12):
So?

Speaker 1 (18:13):
And then you know, dating, like I as an influencer
or social media, like it's really complicated and it's very.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
Do you think that Do you ever think that some
men have tried to date you because of who your
fact is? Of course, how has that like affected you?

Speaker 1 (18:31):
It's hard though, like it's like it's and that's where
my trust issues coming. But it's not because of men
in general. It's because of like everybody. Yeah, it's kind
of and in my lifestyle is very hard to understand,
like there's always something going on, like people don't get
in and I come off intimidating and a lot of
men can't handle that.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
It's because you need somebody at the same leable or
like high exactly.

Speaker 1 (18:57):
So you know, we're happy out here, we're living life.

Speaker 2 (18:59):
That's nice. Not that's a little like are or something?

Speaker 1 (19:02):
No, really really, yes, I'm very careful, Like I don't
go I don't look through my dms. I don't, but
it's like if I do, and it's like a lot
of old, like weird guys. Okay, but have you gotten
that that message like on your dms like be my
sugar baby, we don't have to have sex or nothing like.

Speaker 2 (19:24):
No, no, really, I've.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
Gotten like so many of those and I'm like.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
Like men trying to be your sugar baby.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
No, men trying to be You're trying to be them
like their sugar baby.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Oh you yeah, sure baby.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
I'm like that sounds tempting, But where these.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
Men, because no men have asked me to be their
sugar baby. They've asked me to be their sugar mama.

Speaker 1 (19:45):
So I'm like no, no, Like, Okay, we're gonna wut
a quick break and then we're gonna come right back in. Okay,
all right, so we'll be right back guys. All right,
you guys, welcome back. We have the gorgeous Daisy Marquez
with us to damn Okay, so let's just lay it
out there. You started your podcast. Congrats to you, thank you,

(20:07):
so so happy for you. I love love Daisy Diaries.
It's I feel like it's very truthful to who you are.
And I feel like you've always had like Daisy Diaries, right,
I had like the Instagram, I.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Think, yeah, I've had the Instagram and that it kind
of was like a fence stuff.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Yeah, and I would.

Speaker 2 (20:23):
I'm just not good on I get very anxious when
I go on live. So there I feel very comfortable
and I would tell like my story times or when
I would go on dates, like I would update my
girls on there, and so I was very intimate and
people would always be like, we miss your story times,
but I'm like, I don't feel like sitting down and
just doing story times. I'm like, I actually want a
platform where I can sit down and talk. So that's
why I wanted to come out with the podcast. We

(20:44):
can feel just like a very intimate kind of like this.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
It's like girl talk, like where you feel like okay,
like just talking, Yeah, how how is it going? How
do you feel with it? Like is it what you expected?

Speaker 2 (20:56):
Yes? And I just feel like I don't know, I
I see. I think I'm more scared to invite people onto.
It's a little I'm just like, oh my gosh, like
what if they tell me no? Or that's why. So
that's why I wanted to start off with my sisters.
I'm super comfortable with them and they wanted to be
a part of it, and I did film some other

(21:17):
episodes with them and they seem to love it. So
maybe it'll end up turning out to be like something
with them, but yeah, or maybe you can come on
there as yes, you tell me when the questions.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Yes, Okay, So I kind of want to talk about
one of the episodes, and you know, I again I
want to respect you and honor you for your vulnerability
and being so open because what you said was very

(21:49):
again respectable. Like it's like it takes a lot of
I guess balls. I don't want to say because it
takes a lot of guts and it takes a lot of
balls to say what you had to say with what
you were going through, you know. And it's like, as
a person, a lot of people do not have that

(22:09):
same mentality to be able to be like, Okay, this
is my truth, this is what it is. And I
and even it's like, were you scared for people not
to like you?

Speaker 2 (22:18):
Though I feel like about it. Yeah, I think in
the beginning of the career, when everything was like taking off,
I was so scared of like fucking up my reputation.
And I think now it's just like, if you were
so focused on your reputation, you're literally gonna lose yourself.
Like I think I was mostly scared of what people

(22:42):
were going to think about me because I was such
a people pleaser and I didn't want disappoint anyone. And
in the end I ended up disappointing myself. And you
know the people around me and the people that had
watched that video, and so I think, once you know
that happened, and I'm so glad that I didn't address
it at the time because I was so mature, I

(23:03):
was so insecure, I was so naive. I probably would
have just like reacted out of the emotion and been like,
oh my god, you guys please, like I wouldn't have
handled it the way I should have. And so I'm
very glad that, you know, I addressed it now at
this version that I am of myself, and I think now,
like I know I'm not a bad person. I know

(23:25):
that I can go to sleep at night in peace
because I know that I do have a good heart
and I just happened to make a really bad mistake
and I'm genuinely so sorry. And I know that some
people are going to be able to see that. Some
people are going to forgive me, some people aren't. But
I had to learn that I can't satisfy everyone. You know,
I have one life, and regardless if you're doing good,

(23:45):
somebody out there is going to think you're doing bad.
Of course you can't. You can't live your life trying
to please others. Because you are going to end up
overthinking everything and killing yourself in the end. And it
had gotten to a point where I literally wanted to
you know, and life because I just couldn't take the
hate that I would get on social media.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
It's like a lot of weight.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
It's a lot of weight. It's just like, I feel
like you would understand that, like, at the end of
the day, we are all human beings, you know, And
I just think when it's a lot of hate and
immense amounts, it just is very suffocating. And you think
that at the time. I remember because now, like you
can throw sticks and stones, you will not break me.

(24:29):
Like I am so secure in myself now and I
don't even care about what anyone has to say about
me because I'm so good within myself. But I think
back then, like I believed everything that everyone would say
about me, and so I was so scared to come
out and be truthful. So I just you know, I
just waited and waited and waited, and I remember even

(24:52):
at some points I wanted to come out. In my
team at the time was like, no, you're gonna ruin
your reputation. This brand's not gonna want to work with you,
and then it got to a point where where I
have a different team now. Yeah, because I remember they
asked me like, what are your goals of this year
and I was like, look, I want to tell my truth.
I want to finally close that chapter of my life.
And they were like no, And I was like, you

(25:14):
guys are not listening to me. And they're like but
why would they say no, Like they kept telling me
no because they were because of my reputation. They were like,
you're gonna ruin your reputation. They're like people are gonna
bring it up regardless, like you shouldn't address it. But
I'm like, you guys are not in my shoes, like
everywhere I go, any person that I collab with, like
it's always being brought up, Like just let me speak

(25:34):
my truth, Like people are gonna respect me more if
I just sit here and tell them exactly what happened,
Like I fucked up. I lied in on the internet,
like I made a mistake, Like I'm so sorry, Like
just let me hold myself accountable. And I think they
were just looking at it more on like a business side.
So once they told me no, I just remember I
felt very disconnected from my team, and I was like,

(25:55):
you know what, I think it's time. I think it's time.
And I'm like, I don't even care if I have
a team, I'm gonna come out and I'm going to
say it no matter, no matter what, because like I'm
too grown like to not hold myself account of one.
I just think it's.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
Time, you know, control your own narrative.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
Now I have a new team. And I remember before
I signed with my manager, I was like, hey, like, look,
I have this baggage with me. I was like, I
really need to let this go and I need to
address this on the internet. And I was so scared
for her to being like, oh I don't want a
client like that or whatever, and she completely respected it.
She was like, I one think you should do that,

(26:31):
like I'm here, and I was like, this is what
I needed. I needed that support from a manager on
the business side. And so I think, now, you know,
I am very blessed to be financially free to where
if I didn't want to do social media, I don't
have to, but I do it for fun now and
you know I have my foundation and stuff like that,

(26:52):
so I think, you know, also, my old team was
thinking about it like what if you address this and
you get canceled, You're not going to make any more
money and you're gonna be broken, Like they were thinking
about it to like a whole other level. But I
was like, look, I I am very firm and secure
within my message and what I'm going to say and

(27:14):
how it's going to come out, because like everybody lies. Yeah,
it just so happened that I lied on the internet.
And like again, like I am super regretful. I'm regretful
to a certain extent because it also I learned my
lesson from it. I learned my lesson from it. I
am so blunt now, I'm so honest, and I just

(27:34):
literally have learned not to lie about absolutely anything, Like
it's just easier.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
And I think about at the time again, like where
you were at, like you were just starting your career,
and it was like those type of things were very shameful.

Speaker 2 (27:47):
They were because because BP.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
I don't want to forget them. And now everybody in
their mom's has supers. It's like taboo. At that time,
not even taboo was just very like it is.

Speaker 2 (28:00):
It was taboo, and I was twenty one or twenty.
I don't even twenty I remember, so I think, you know,
when I was freshly, you know, everything's like kind of
coming out, and if it were to come out that
I had gotten VBL, the internet would have dragged me
and I wouldn't have been able to handle the Hayden. Yeah,
you know that's exactly well.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
You were emotionally like as strong as you were. Now.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Yeah, you said like now like I'm I'm not scared
to talk about surgery or anything like that. And I
actually do want to say what that I got another VVO? No,
you did it?

Speaker 1 (28:35):
I love that. How was it?

Speaker 2 (28:37):
I announced it on my of literally I gotta subscribe.
I announced it on my of literally when I got it, like,
I was like, oh, I got a new body from
my and I was so positive that I was going
to come out and I was like, if it comes
out like it comes out, I know, like I'm not
ashamed of it. And so it wasn't until like recently
that people started to pick up that they were like

(28:58):
something looks different, like her butt looks more and I'm
like like, yeah, yeah, like I got another one. But
I don't think it's that big of a deal too
where I need to go and make an announcement on
social media like oh my god, I got like to
the girls that have asked me DM like, oh my god,
who's your doctor? I replied back to them, and I
tell them like yeah. But then to the girls that
are coming off so nasty and rude, and it's like, girl,

(29:19):
if you were nice, I would have told you the doctor. Man,
I don't have to be nasty about it. Like I'm
super open and honest, like I've talked about like my
breast almentation stuff like that, Like I'm just an open
book now.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
Like you're free, I am. I mean, I feel aspect.

Speaker 2 (29:33):
I feel so free and I feel so at peace,
and I've I've had to make peace with a lot
of you know, the mistakes that I've made. It's just
I feel like for influencers, some people look at us
and they expect us to just be happy and be
like just in the state of mine twenty four to seven,
and like we're gonna have some bad days and some

(29:56):
days we're not gonna want to talk or take a picture.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
Yeah, And it's like I feel it because I have
bad days too, where it's like I really hope I
don't run into a van or somebody today because not
that I'll be rude, but it's kind of like I'm
I'm not mentally there yeah to have and I'm very open.
I'm verry, like I will hug you, I'll like let
yes that take a picture high how are you? But
if someone catches me on a bad day, it's kind

(30:19):
of like then that goes like everywhere, yeah, and then
they assume and then it goes back to like, oh,
I can't believe your mother raised you this way or
your mother wasn't like that, or you're still you know
what I mean. It's like an assumption. It's like no,
like I'm human, you're human. We have bad days, which
is totally normal like any other person. And okay, So

(30:41):
I wanted to ask right now that I was thinking
about it, because you were talking about your younger self,
like before, what was your childhood like though, like and
like what like how you grew up in Mexico? Right?

Speaker 2 (30:57):
I care?

Speaker 1 (30:58):
You move over here.

Speaker 2 (30:59):
I came here when I was one, so I was
raised Yes, okay, I was raised here. I've never talked
about my childhood.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
I'm like, no, we don't have to. It's okay, it's like.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
Growing up, I was just I was a very very
angry little girl. I don't and like everybody, like my
family knew that, but I was so angry because I
was so confused. Both my mom and my dad were
not that present in my childhood, and who raised me

(31:35):
was my theater, so I grew up thinking that her
daughters were my sisters, and you know, things just got
very confusing growing up. And so I then like I
became so angry that you know, my father and my
mother were absent, and like every single time that I
would want like affection, they both weren't there. And then

(31:59):
you know that my fea I wasn't really my mom.
I was just so confused. I remember just being like
so angry being little, and I would like throw stuff
and I would throw tantrums, but that was the only
way that I would get attention from like the adults
around me. So then I would lash out more. But
I was super good in school and I had all
these good grades and I was a teacher spent, but

(32:19):
at home, I was such a bad little girl because
the only way I would get attention was when I
would lash out. But I don't think it was until
after I I'm trying to think because I feel like
I feel like I didn't get to fix those issues

(32:40):
in my childhood until after I went to therapy here
in La. So it took me such a long time
to even.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
To unravel everything and understand everything.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Yeah, because I didn't even ever growing up. I didn't
think I was like an angry little girl because I
had abandoned min issues like I just thought it was normal.
I guess you could say so when my therapist was like, whoa,
because you had absent parents growing up blah, And then
that's kind of where I like got to understand. And
I remember I was everybody knows that I'm so close

(33:11):
to my mom, like she is my rock and she's
my world. But my mom and I did not get
close until after I graduated, after I moved to LA,
I was never close to her. I never told her
anything growing up. I didn't tell her I loved her
enough when I was younger. I just think her way
of showing love was like by buying me things. She's like,

(33:32):
here's a toy, Like shut up. So I was very
like Mishard and misunderstood growing up. So it wasn't until
after I started going to therapy and I sat down
with my mom and I told her like that beautiful.
It was such a beautiful moment. And I remember it
happened in New York because we used to just bump
heads so much. And I remember everybody around me would

(33:53):
be like, you and your mom are always arguing and fighting,
and I'm like, I don't know why. I couldn't understand why.
But it was because I never talked to her about
you know, the built up. Yeah, I was built up.
And I remember we were like on a family trip
in New York and we got into a really really
big argument and she finally sat me down, and she's like,
what is your problem with me? She's like, why do

(34:13):
you hate me so much? And I was like, I
don't hate you. I was like, I hate the things
that you did growing up, like you were not there
for me. And she is such a great mother now
I think like she also she got pregnant at seventeen,
so ye she was super young, and she felt like
she got robbed of her teenage years. So she was
always out and clubbing and stuff and so all this

(34:35):
I'm the only Oh okay, I'm the only child from her.
So you know, once I got to understand that you know,
it's also my mom's first time living life and being
a mom. Then I was like, oh my god, like
I was so hard on her, but I think she
was just misunderstatre and I was misundershit. So when we
were able to sit down and talk our feelings out,
oh my god, it was so beautiful. And after that

(34:57):
we got so close. I'd tell her everything. I literally
talk to her like I think nine to ten times
a day on the phone.

Speaker 1 (35:04):
That's like, oh, and it's like you wish you would
have had it earlier, but now it's like this is
the right moment, like it was designed and meant to happen.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
Yeah, for sure, because now that I'm that, I'm grown,
We're able to understand each other like on a different level.

Speaker 1 (35:20):
It's like she she was having a hard time probably
growing up and raising someone as.

Speaker 2 (35:25):
Well exactly, especially like in like Hispanic culture. Like I
mean I know that a lot of you know, young
Latina's kid pregnant. It's very common in Hispanic culture, and
a lot of my theas did too, So it kind
of was like you have to grow up at this age.
But I don't think she was allowed, yeah, to like

(35:45):
have that teenage or childhood that she wanted, so I
think she was trying to do that at the same
time as raising me, and.

Speaker 1 (35:53):
It just yeah, that was my mom too, my sister.
She had my sister at fifteen.

Speaker 2 (35:57):
I was going to ask, how was your relationship with
your growing up?

Speaker 1 (36:00):
My relationship with my mom. It was good, it wasn't
I don't want to say that she was absent, but
she would work a lot, yeah, so it felt absent.
So I always depended on my sister. And then my
dad was in and out of jail, so he wasn't
really there. We would go spend they were divorced. We

(36:23):
would spend the weekends with him, and then he went
to jail and all this other stuff. But when she
passed away, when I feel like we could have gotten
close because I was fifteen and at that time, like
that's when you know, my whole my family was going
through like some rumors and like my sister and everything
where it's kind of like, Okay, my sister had left

(36:44):
the house and it kind of left me just me
and her and my little brother. And it was nice
because we would spend time together or whatever, but I
wish I had that opportunity though, because now that I'm older,
there's things that obviously my sister can't do or my Yeah,
my sisters they can't do for me, like they can

(37:07):
be a sister. And I've had to have that boundary
with my oldest sister, like I need you to be
my sister, not my mom. Yeah, you know I think that,
I like I have to learn how like I want
to be able to go and tell you things without
being scared.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Or without her like lecture view or I think that
do you feel like that line got blurred at some
point where like it was like your sister was your
mom at the same time, and then you had to.

Speaker 1 (37:30):
Like which was a problem for my mom.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
It's like I depended way too much on her. So
and I would love to have that opportunity now that
I know therapy, I've been through therapy, I know who
I am as a person, and I can understand my
mom even more. Yeah, you know, because I know that
she would have needed it too. I feel like everybody everybody,
I think everybody I think so too, Like I if

(37:54):
I can give that as a Christmas gift, I would
without offending anybody. But like I think it's so beautiful.

Speaker 2 (38:01):
I think it is too. And you know what, some
people really do get offended. Yes, when you offer, like
I think you should go to therapys, They're like, I
don't need that shit, like blah blah blah, and I'm
like no, but it genuinely helps you get to the
core of your problems.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
And it's not even to say that someone has a problem,
they're just not understand understand there you understand yourself, yeah,
like why you are the way you are? And I
don't know if you like with your therapist, but I
answer my own questions basically, like when I'm talking to her,
I'm like, oh, well that makes sense. Actually, yeah, I'm
like I don't even know why I'm hiring you, Like
I'm answering my own you know what.

Speaker 2 (38:34):
It's so funny though, because you don't realize it until
you're sitting there. But it's because you're with a professional,
Like yeah, so because I had a friend being like,
why would I go with the therapist if it's their
job to sit there and listen? Like what if they
don't care? And I'm like, you won't understand it until
you're sitting there and they're giving you actual professional, you know,
feedback and honest opinion on your situation exactly. Like, Yeah,

(38:58):
I love therapy. I think of it. I think it's
such a Actually I'm going to my therapist after this.

Speaker 1 (39:03):
Yeah, you're like, uh, I don't know if I need
it anymore, but no, but yeah, I honestly like and
I and I. My sister does it. She does life coaching, Jackie.
She's also gone to therapy, and like, I want to
be able. I wish everybody can like do it so

(39:23):
that everybody can be not aligned, but kind of just
understand each other. Backer where it's like it's hard to
explain what you've learned in therapy to someone that does
doesn't get it.

Speaker 2 (39:33):
I feel like it would go in one year and
not the other. I've tried to tell, like or give
advice to my sisters and then they just, yeah, they
don't get it. Yeah they don't. But I mean we're
girling and it's okay to each their own and yes, yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
Okay, we're gonna go in a quick break. I'm gonna
go to the bathroom. We'll be right back, all right,
you guys, welcome back. We are. This is such a
good episode. Daisy I'm We're just so we're literally just
like I feel like we're very connected.

Speaker 2 (40:03):
We're just having girls talk. Yeah, just loving this.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
I feel like we're connected and I'm just I don't know. Again,
it's like full circles for me and like I don't
I don't know. And I feel like we've always kind
of been like some way attached because of Milio and like,
oh my god, oh.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
My god, wait, can we talk about this? I think
that is so crazy. So I met him when I
first moved here. I've been knowing him for years. I
think I've been knowing Emilia for I think seven years.
I've known for such a long time. He's been knowing
me since I was a little baby. So when I
saw him with your sister, I was.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
Like, I was like, I am loving this and I'm
shipping it.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
And I literally I remember telling everybody.

Speaker 1 (40:40):
I was like, oh my god, I hope to get married.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
And then I saw the engagement.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
I was like, I know, my mother, they're engaged. They're
in love enough for them, but yeah, I was like,
that's so crazy. Small small world. He knows everybody too,
though he knows it.

Speaker 2 (40:53):
He's such a good person.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
No, he's a good guy. But on a lighter note,
I want to talk about your DACA foundation because you
are the DACA Queen and I feel like a lot
of people people should know, but if they don't know,
you have a foundation. Yes, you have a foundation. You
have you were here on DHAKA right, yes, yes, So
tell me about it. How did it start? What inspired you? What? Yeah?

(41:19):
Oh that good stuff.

Speaker 2 (41:21):
So, like I said, in the beginning of the year,
when I switched teams, yes, she had me write out
what are your goals? And I remember telling her I
was like, I don't know exactly what foundation I want
to start. I was like, but I want to start
a foundation to give back to my community. And she
was like, well, you're going to have to really sit
down and like think about what exactly you want it.

(41:42):
And I was like, you know what, You're right, So
I just and literally right after that phone call, I
called her and I was like I already know. I
was like, it's going to be for the Dreamers, for
DAKA recipients, like that is something that I'm very passionate about.
And unfortunately the program did close. So it's like a
very it's it's a big but a small community of
us daka dreamers that are in the program. And this

(42:05):
idea came to mind because I have a cousin who
it's just me and her that are under DECA and
she has kids, and so she was like, oh my god,
like I'm dreading you know, it about to expire. Like
I'm dreading that it's about to expire. And I was
like why, and she's like, because, like, if you think
about it, like it's a lot of money, and she
does have a very good job, so she's like financially stable.

(42:27):
But she was like, just imagine, like the people that
you know have to choose between being able to feed
their kids or paying for their DACA or paying the
bills or DACA. And I was like, oh my god,
like I would hate to be in that position. And
so that kind of like clicked in me, and I
was like, you know what, I want to be able
to take away that stress and that weight off of someone,

(42:47):
and I want to give them financial support and pay
for their renewal. And so it once I told you know,
my team the idea, they were like, Okay, let's do it.
We got a really good team behind it. And then
I remember I remember telling people that I was launching
this foundation and nobody was taking it serious and everybody's like, oh, okay, cool,

(43:07):
and I was like, but I feel like not that
I was getting shut down, but I was like so
passionate out about it, and everybody was just kind of
saying like, oh, like you know, like like you've launched
so many things like this is just But I was like,
I hold this so close to my heart and I
was like, I feel that it's going to make a
really big impact. And I remember another reason why I
wanted to start the foundation was because I was thinking

(43:31):
and like, I just think so much when I'm bout myself,
and I was thinking. I was like, Okay, Daisy, if
you were to die tomorrow, do you think that you
would be happy with what you've done in your life
on Earth? And I was like no, I was like,
I haven't made an impact. I'm like, what I posted
content on social media? Like that's it? Like did I
impact people's life that I make a positive change? Like
did I help people out? And once I started to

(43:52):
like really question, you know, what have I done with
my platform? I was like I need to do something,
you know that will really make a big impact on
peopoth lives. And so when the foundation launched, we at
first my manager was like, how many applications do you
think we should, like, you know, have it open for
and I was like, honestly, like maybe just like a thousand,

(44:12):
Like I don't think we're gonna get more than a thousand.
And then we hit a thousand with it not even
an hour, and I was like, holy crap. And so
then we extended to five thousand, and then we ended
up getting a total of ten thousand applications and that
is good. I was so happy, Thank you. I was
so happy and I was like, oh my god, I
can't believe that, like, you know, I reached this many people,
and like, I was so overwhelmed with joy. And I

(44:33):
remember I was just crying and crying because I was
so happy that, you know, I was going to help
out so many people. And now that I get like updates,
they're like, Daisy, like I got my new DACA in
and like my new card. And I also decided to
there's some dreamers out there that already paid for their
DAKA renowals, so they're like, hey, like I want to

(44:55):
apply for advance pro, which is how I was able
to visit Mehico. So they're like, would you be able
to pay for like my lawyer fees for advances? And
I was like, of course. So now you know if
you're somebody that's that's the thing you're watching this if
you are under DACA and and you want to apply
for advance for that's something that I also help with financially.
So we've been able to help out a lot of
people in.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
What are the requirements? Is there any like type of
rules or what like? For you, it's super accepted or
I guess it's super easy.

Speaker 2 (45:23):
I have the Daisy DACA Foundation dot org. You go
on the website and you just fill out a couple
of questions. You just need you know your ID, and
you need proof that that you that you that you
have DACA and that it hasn't expired, because unfortunately, once
it expires, you are completely kicked off and you can
no longer join. And so this is only available for

(45:43):
people that are still in the program that need help
financially to cover the cost of that. But you just
need to submit those two forms and just the reason
why you think, you know you should be a part
of or why you should be chosen for the foundation,
and I'm such a hands on person with everything that
I do in my life, so I'm literally going through
the applications. Some people it's and I feel like they

(46:06):
don't understand that it's it does take a long time
because then I'm having to sort and it's a very
small team. It's like five of us. Yeah, it's like
a team of five. So we're going through applications and
we're having to you know, separate you who submitted the
right paperwork and who didn't, and you know it. It's
very tedious, but I love it. And each month we

(46:27):
get to select a few people. Sometimes I choose more people,
you know, if I had a really good month with
my finances and I'm like, you know what, I'm going
to help out more. Yeah, more people. And so it's
just little on me doing it. I'm I think in
the future, thank you. I think in the future, I
want to like have investors and have it be like
a really big thing, and I want it for twenty

(46:47):
twenty four. I definitely wanted to have like a bigger presence,
and I want to, you know, have an event where
like let's say I do like a gala or something
and it's like you buy a ticket and you know
that money goes whatever. Yeah, so I I think I
can help out more people if I do an event
like that, but I'm working towards that. So the foundation
is here to stay as long as I'm alive. So

(47:08):
I'm very I'm very happy with the foundation, and I
think it I think I found a new passion because
now I don't ever think about like everybody was asking me,
like Daisy, what are you going to be for Halloween?
And usually I would spend so much money on my
Halloween costumes and I'm like, I'm not doing Halloween this year.
All that money is going towards my foundation. So I

(47:29):
love that my priorities changed. They're always changing, but you know,
for better, for the better. And yeah, I think I
found my new passion is helping out people. Do you
feel like it like completed, like a part of you
one pc. I think being a Libra, we you know,
rule the scales, and even like Kim Kardashian being into
law and stuff like that, I think it's it's in

(47:50):
our nature to want to find balance and to help.
So it definitely. I think if I were to die tomorrow,
I'd be happy. I would be. I'd be so happy.

Speaker 1 (47:59):
That's awesome.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
I set myself free and I've I've made at least
some type of impact in my community, so I can
die happy. I mean, why, I still want to get married, but.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
Would you want to get married? Yeah? And I what
is like the I don't want to say timeline, but
you know what, what's your idea? What does it look
like for you?

Speaker 2 (48:19):
Honestly, it's because like everyone's always telling me, like, you
can get this if you get married. But I'm like,
I'm such a romantic and I'm such a hopeless romantic
that if I get married, it's because I'm in love
and i want my fairy tale wedding and so I'm
not trying to rush it at all. And I definitely
want to get married first travel the world, and then
have kids. Kids.

Speaker 1 (48:40):
Is like on the last, yeah, last, how old you're
twenty six?

Speaker 2 (48:44):
I'm twenty six?

Speaker 1 (48:45):
Twenty six? Yeah at twenty six too, that's fine.

Speaker 2 (48:48):
Yeah, I know.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
I'm like, I don't like talking about it.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
I looked.

Speaker 1 (48:53):
I've even had to like do the calculator math. I'm like,
am I really twenty six? Like?

Speaker 2 (48:57):
Please, I can't believe you're twenty, so dude, and it's
going by too fast. It's going by so fast. My
mom told me she's like on thes like it passes
by like this, and I'm like, you're sorry.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
But everyone says that thirties is like the new twenties,
and it's everything me too.

Speaker 2 (49:12):
I'm kind of excited to adder my dirty thirties. Yes,
you want to know, I've seen this on my plot.
You know what they call it the dirty thirties. Why
because you're your body. In women's bodies, release is more
hormone so you can get pregnancy, your hornier when you're
That's why I call it your dirty thirty.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
Let's turn thirty tomorrow. I just kidding, no, but yeah,
it's like I want to enjoy what I'm doing now. Yeah,
and I'm not in a rush.

Speaker 2 (49:39):
Yeah, there's no rush.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
Like, Okay, we're gonna run a quick break and then
we're gonna come right back in. Okay, all right, you guys,
welcome back. We have the gorgeous Daisy Marquez. Okay, So,
what's like your idea, Like, not your idea, but like
your standards for a guy if you're cause are you
looking or you're not looking or you're kind of just
like there.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
Honestly, I'm not looking. But if somebody comes my way
and they asked me on a date and I'm interested,
and I'll say yes, because you just never know. But
I think what I look for in a guy, I
really interrogate a guy when I first go on a date.
I'm like, what is your relationship with your mom? Do
you have any siblings? What was your relationship like with

(50:16):
your ex?

Speaker 1 (50:16):
What's your social security?

Speaker 2 (50:20):
But I think because of therapy and with my healing
journey and everything, I want to get to know what
your environment is like because that's going to dictate the
type of environment that you're going to have.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
What kind of baggage you are you caring as well?
Like have you been through Yeah?

Speaker 2 (50:37):
Like I went on a date with this guy and
he was talking really bad about his mom and I
was like, oh, no, red flag right there. But what
I look for in a guy is just for him
to be respectful, loyal and family oriented and just kind.
I think kindness is what I mostly look for. I'm
just romantic. Yeah, I'm like, and the list goes out.

(51:00):
You know what's so crazy? My mom told me, She's like,
it's because she's so old school, but she was like,
you have too many standards. She's like, you're never going
to find a guy. She's like, you need to look,
and I was like, we can find it. I'm like, no,
I'm not lowering my standards for anyone. I'm like, there
is somebody out there that will fit my standards. And
you know that's why I'm not in a rush to
date anyone. I mean I've had like here in there,

(51:22):
but not like it worth no, no, not worth like
introducing to like my family or anything.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
Like that, because once it like takes it to the family.

Speaker 2 (51:31):
It's like then they will bring them up and then
Christmas comes around. This guy like, yeah, no, I actually
I found some cute guys on cheese Pa.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
You like it?

Speaker 2 (51:43):
I actually do. I did?

Speaker 1 (51:44):
Okay, I did cheese Pa. Yeah. Maybe that's just me
and it's I don't know, maybe La is just weird though.

Speaker 2 (51:50):
But I found most of my connections in La. Really, yes, what,
Like nobody knows what I was on the I was
literally on set for shooting the commercial for a cheese
Pa and the cutest guy popped up and I was like,
oh my god, and I slit in his dams and
we matched. But he left me in Red.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
No, he left you on Red.

Speaker 2 (52:09):
You will be surprised because I every single, and I
don't know. I guess it's just men. But they're always
asking me like, I bet you have a lot of
guys in your DM. Oh, I promise you.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
I don't, swear to god. It's mostly like girls asking
me about makeup or like, hey, what was the link
to this? And I it's very I've had some very
interesting people in my dms, but.

Speaker 1 (52:33):
It's never like never, I like talking to a bunch
of guys or nothing.

Speaker 2 (52:36):
Yeah. No. I also, I just don't have the energy
to obtain that many people like the younger me definitely
had it in her.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
But I'm just just like right now, I'm like, no,
it's just the energy too precious. Yeah, it's too precious.

Speaker 2 (52:48):
What is your timeline?

Speaker 1 (52:50):
My timeline? Yeah, honestly, Look, if I'm being really really honest,
and I always say this, I don't know if I
want to get married. Really, I'm fine in content and
if we live together and I have a ring on
my finger, Oh my god, wait, actually you know what,
You're so right.

Speaker 2 (53:05):
I saw somebody else talking about this how like marriage
doesn't really like it's just a paper, yes, And it's.

Speaker 1 (53:10):
Like why why would I need to? You know what
I mean? Like like I give me a ring, we'll
live together, I'll do all the wifie things you do,
all the hoodie things that we don't need to I
need to have that title.

Speaker 2 (53:23):
Yeah, like I don't.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
And maybe that's just my I don't want to say
my trauma speaking because I just I don't know, like
it doesn't attract me, Like I'm not a girl who
that wants to get married, you know what.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
I'm like that. But about kids, yeah, I literally and
I had to sit down with my mom and tell
her like, hey, like would you be disappointed if I
don't have kids? Because I am her only child and
she's always asking me and she just kind of looked
at me. She's like, I just want you to be
happy because she knows that I've been through a lot.
And I was like, okay. I was like, because I

(53:55):
I know that there's some women out there that you
can't wait to mom and have kids and like, oh
my god, Like I'm in a group chat with Laura
and am Brie and they're like, oh that baby snow,
and I'm like the baby smell, Like what are you
guys talking about? Like I'm pretty sure I get what
they're talking about, but I'm like, I don't have that
desire and need to have kids. And I just think

(54:16):
about waking up and having to devote my life to
another human being, Like I just don't see myself doing that.
And I told my mom and she's like, I just
want you to be happy, and I was like, okay,
I was like, what about I have thought about adopting
me too. I've thought about adoption because I'm like, okay,
I don't want to go through the whole baby newborn sta.
I'm like, and I feel like I would be able
to I want to give another person a better life.

(54:39):
I see it all the time.

Speaker 1 (54:42):
I'm like, and I I because I grew up like
without my parents for such a long time. I'm like,
I don't want anyone to feel that. Yeah, And it's
like there's a reason why they were born and given away,
and you know it's obviously a sad situation, so why
not make it happy? Hear somebody? Yeah, And then I
think about I'm like, oh, like and what if someone
asked me, like what if your man wants to have

(55:03):
his own maybe, and I'm like, okay, but let me
add up first. Maybe.

Speaker 2 (55:08):
I said the same thing because everybody around me was like, well, like,
what if the right person comes and you do when
I have his children. I was like, okay, well if
that happens, and that can happen, but like right now,
it's like I'm not even thinking about kids. It's like
so far down in my list of like things that
I want to do in life.

Speaker 1 (55:23):
I'm happy being a thea I'm happy like loving them,
giving them the world like, but I like my space. Mean,
I like waking up a little late sometimes. I love
making my own breakfast.

Speaker 2 (55:34):
You know what. I will say though, what and everybody
around me tells me that, like this is really bad.
What I'm scared because I think, because I've just been
single for such a long time that I don't see
myself sharing the same bed with really I don't. And
my friends were like, what do you mean? And I
was like, well, like, if I have a boyfriend, like

(55:56):
I want to live in the same house, but him,
he has his home, he has his own room, and
I have my own room. And they were like that
can't and I'm like, I'm just that it's interesting. I
don't know, like if I have Like my sister stayed
over for a whole week and after like a couple
of days, I was like, yeah, I'm like, hey, like
I have a guest room upstairs. Like I just got
so used to just staying alone, being alone, and I'm like,

(56:16):
oh my god, Like I mean, maybe it'll change if
I really am in love.

Speaker 1 (56:20):
But yeah, he's got to sweep off your feet.

Speaker 2 (56:23):
He better sweep me off, carry you in the sky
up there with the end of corner or something, because.

Speaker 1 (56:31):
Okay, can we talk about your only fans? I love it.
I am like, I mean I don't subscribe, but I
love like everything that you do regarding it, and you're
so confident about it, and honestly, you truly inspired me
to really want to do it. Really yes, I'm like
I wanted to, Like, dude, like, why not I post
the same thing we talked about at Karen's wedding, Like

(56:53):
we post the same thing on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
It's because look, and to anyone listening to this, I
I literally was posting lingerie pictures on the internet for free.
And I had a friend of mine who owns an
agency and being like Daisy, you can be making so
much money posting these on the platform, yeah, you know,
instead of posting it for another brand and then posting
it for free. And I was like no, because of

(57:16):
the stigma that I has around it. Of course, everybody
around you will judge you or say that it's shameful.
But then once I really got to because I'm like, Okay,
let me just explore the platform.

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Obviously there's like tiers different ones.

Speaker 2 (57:27):
Yes, there's people on there that literally they almost use
it as like a diarrhea of log channel, like you
can use that platform for whatever. It's just more intimate
and it's literally like keeping up with Jenigo or keeping
up with Daisy, and you're paying to see like this
very intimate side of you. And so I'm like, Okay,
if I'm posting this content on social media for free,
I might as well post it on that platform and

(57:50):
make money off of it. Like absolutely, Am I doing
anything like super crazy on there?

Speaker 1 (57:54):
No?

Speaker 2 (57:55):
Am I being provocative and sexy and confident? Yeah? Like
I have always been, and everybody in my circle knows
that I'm a very not sexual I guess you say
a little bit sexual I'm just a very like, I'm
very open with my sexuality. I'm very comfortable, I'm very sexy,
and I always try to empower even like my cousin
and my sisters. I'm like, once you and I used

(58:16):
to be so insecure. I used to be so insecure.
And I don't know something I think. I just I
realized that I was being so mean to myself and
I would call myself ugly and all these mean things,
and I'm like, Daisy, you have to be your number
one fan. So once I started to rewire my brain
and start complimenting myself, hyping myself up, that is how
I was able to gain confidence. And I'm like, oh

(58:37):
my gosh, Like, when you're confident, nobody can take that
away from you. You can't even buy confidence. You get
me like, you just have to own it. And if
you think that you were the badest bitch other, then
you were the bad as witch out there. And so
I think lingerie and being comfortable in you know, my
sexuality has made me even more confident. And I love

(58:58):
I love being in lingerie. I love being sex and
I love being a little bit provocative. And I don't
think there's anything wrong with having that side because we
are women, you know, like we can be sexy and
powerful and we can also be a business woman and exactly,
you can whatever you want, Like, don't let society make

(59:18):
you feel like you because you are this, you can't
be that. I want to try to achieve anything that
my mind thinks up, be in control of my life
and what I want to do. And I think some
I had to set a boundary with her because you know,
like we're too complete separate people. I was like, I
don't think anyone is going to you know, bring you

(59:40):
or like tie both them together, like and she was
like okay. She's like, I'm just scared for you. And
I'm like, don't be scared, Like I'll be fine. I'm
a big girl, you know, I have very thick skin.

Speaker 1 (59:48):
And that was it.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
She just told me to just not bring it up
around her, talk about it around her, and literally that
was it.

Speaker 1 (59:55):
But you're happy, happy, I mean, it's going well, like it's.

Speaker 2 (59:59):
I was talking into this guy friend of mine and
he's like, I think if you're a girl in twenty
twenty four and you're not doing a f like, why
why aren't you doing it? Because and It's so crazy
now because I have this friend that I'm like, I
have this friend of this friend, but there's this girlfriend
of mine that she would post the most beautiful like
Pinterest pictures in mangerie and I'm like, oh my god,

(01:00:20):
if you were to post this on a f you'd
be making so much money. And I'm never going to
pressure anyone into do it anything, you know. But I
just told her and I showed her, you know, the income,
and she was like, oh my gosh. And I was like, girl,
you can be making money off of it. And so
now she's doing it and she's making bank dude, and
I'm like, girl, I'm so happy for you. She's like moving,
she got a house and I'm like, yes, Like I

(01:00:42):
love that for.

Speaker 1 (01:00:43):
You so well, I'm gonna text you talk about it.
And I'm like, if you guys see it there, subscribe
to both A two in one package A Okay, So
what's next for you? What's next for Daisy?

Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:00:58):
Career wise, what are you looking forward to? Is there
any other goals that you may have or now that
the new year started, like what are you feeling? Like,
what are you what's your word's your mindset? At right now.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
I think right now, one of my main priorities m
there's two projects that I can't fully talk about yet.
They're in the works. But I think just aside from
those two projects that are going to come out, is
focusing on my podcast and like I said, my foundation,
I just wanted to be I see it as something bigger.

(01:01:29):
I see it as like something that even if I
were to pass away, you know, my sisters can. Yeah.
I see it as kind of just having a very
long I see it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
What's that word longevity?

Speaker 2 (01:01:41):
Yes, yeah, So I just I think that and I
was even thinking about moving to Miami whenever you said that,
really yes, just because like I've been in Texas already
about to be four years.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
The energy is different over there.

Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
It's just I think it was good when I was
trying to, you know, find myself, and like it's very
quiet over there, you know. But I just think that mentally,
I'm strong now and I think I'm just ready for
a new chapter. And I was thinking, I'm like I
already did La you know, Texas, and I'm like, I
think I need to try a new environment, tropical beach.

(01:02:21):
And every time I go to Miami, there's all these guys.

Speaker 1 (01:02:25):
Yes, absolutely, I'm convinced that the love of my life
lives over there.

Speaker 2 (01:02:30):
I'm honestly can miss out. The love of my life
is in Europe. But I'll wait for that. But I
think for wrapping Miami, I know, I think I think
I might move to Miami for just a couple of
months if I like it, try it out, and then yeah,
I'm just I'm gonna I feel like I'm very stable
right now, so I'm just gonna see kind of what

(01:02:52):
my intuition tells me. So I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:02:54):
I'm very happy for you. I'm genuinely happy.

Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:02:57):
I see your face and I see peace. Thank you,
And I don't know if there if you don't have
any like, if you don't, I know you have.

Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
Peace, let's just leave it at that.

Speaker 1 (01:03:08):
But I just I could see it. And it's different
when you feel it and you see it on somebody.
And I really, like I've always wanted to tell you,
like whatever your feeling or whatever the moment that you
went through, like God has never left your side, and
I guarantee you that he won't, and like you are

(01:03:31):
destined to be here to tell your story and to
be able to live the life that you are truly
living right now that you deserve, Like everything that you
went through has come for this moment, like happened for
this time in your life. And I don't think that
I just I don't know when I mean it when
I say it, Daisy, like I've been praying for you

(01:03:53):
every time that I've seen you in person, where I'm
just like I pray God blesses her and protects her
her heart, cerment her spiritually, and.

Speaker 2 (01:04:02):
It's like.

Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
Like I'm honored to know you and your story now
and understand you as a person better and to see
like like wow, like God, you're real and I and
it's really truly full circle. And I will say like
I hope God continues to bless you and He's gonna
reward you in every single way.

Speaker 2 (01:04:22):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:04:24):
It's because I had to say, I'm like you are,
You're doing so much even with the foundation, like the
way you take care of your mom and your family,
Like it's gonna come back to you in another former
way that's gonna bring you so much happiness. Thank you,
and it's gonna probably feel like, oh my God, like
I don't I don't like, what is this? And it's like, no,
you needed because you've done all this and you went

(01:04:45):
through this, It's gonna come back twice as much for you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:48):
It just felt like I had my guardian angel talk
to me and give me the reassurance that I needed
because I genuinely was questioning myself so much. On the
way over here, I was like, my I wore makeup
specifically so I wouldn't cry. Make me cry. But this
is exactly what I need. And I just want to
say thank you so much for allowing me to be
vulnerable and be comfortable and come on here on you know,

(01:05:10):
your podcast and just sharing my story and I'm just
very thankful and I just can't wait for our beautiful
friendship to Bosso of course.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
You can come back anytime. I'll go over there with you.
We'll go do yours, we'll have girl talk and just whatever.
You have a friend, I'm I'm more than happy to
be your friend and to really like listen to you.
I feel like we can under we understand each other.
So what's your what are your big three? I want
to know what are you?

Speaker 2 (01:05:43):
Okay? So I'm a Libra Okay, My rising is sad,
which is why I'm like very free and just out there.
And my moon's in cancer what Okay, I'm a Libra.

Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
Yeah, my moon isn't scorpio and I'm a sage rising.

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
We both have water moon wait was whatever? But feel
is water and oh my god, yes you're also rising? Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
Is that why we want to get married? That our problem?

Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
You want to be free? You know such a Terrius
is the guy with half horse and yes, uh huh,
horses are very free. Yes, so we hate to feel
like smothered and.

Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
Controlled and whatever, and then we like to feel free.
Love to know my problem. I'm like, I love that.
That's crazy. Wow you're septemberly, bro. Yeah, yeah, I'm in October.
I'm the third Oh I love it. I love it.
We're just connecting. But all right, you guys. Thank you
guys so much for watching and listening. Please follow Miss

(01:06:47):
gorgeous Daisy Marquis, please subscribe, Please apply for her DACA
Foundation if you guys need it. It's an amazing foundation.
If you really truly need it, please please please apply.
Make sure you guys follow her podcast and I will
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