October 10, 2023 • 48 mins
On this episode of the Overcomfort podcast, I sit down with my dear friend Marlene Mendez, aka Marlenedizzle. We talk about her childhood and where she came from. She goes into detail about her wild college life, getting her Bachleor's degree in business and choosing a completely different career. She gives insight on her current relationship and coming out of a toxic one.
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome back to the Overcomfort Podcast. You guys, I am
your host, Jennica. Thank you guys so much for being here,
for watching wherever you guys are at in your kitchen,
in your car, and your living room doing whatever you
do on this beautiful Tuesday. Thank you guys so much
for being here. I'm super excited for today's guest. I
have my beautiful friend Marlen. But know it's Marlene Dizzle.
(00:28):
I love I love that. How did you come up
with it?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Actually? A friend in high school came up with it?
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah. When I was making my Twitter, I didn't know
what to put, like name myself, and he's like, if
I find your name, will you like what you do? Yeah?
What you do it? I'm like, okay, fine, but give
me a good one because I'm really picky with my names.
He's like, okay, and I don't know where he just
said Marlene this one. I changed all my platforms to Marline.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Are you guys so friends?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Credit to you friend. I love that. Well, thank you
so much.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
For being you for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
All right, how are you? How are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I'm feeling better. I did tell you that I lost
my voice. Dude, I went to a party when was
it Saturday? For my friend's wedding? Completely lost my voice.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Oh you're like college friends, right.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I went to a far Yeah, I completely lost.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Yeah, I love that thought.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Okay, Well, thank you so much for being here. You
haven't really done any podcasts recently, right, not recently. You
did Alan's like a couple of times. So I'm really
glad that you're here.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Thank you for having me.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Such it's a different vibe. It's a little you know,
a little bit more calm, yea more into it. But
I like for all the guests to kind of tell
us their story, what they do, where they come from,
how they grew up, how many siblings you have, how
old you are, all that good stuff. Okay, so that
further do Marlene to sell you guys.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
So my name is morning Man. This guys, I'm a
content creator. I do like lifestyle, beauty, a little of everything.
I grew up in Bell Gardens and I have two brothers.
I'm the middle child. I'm the only girl, so I'm
like the princess, I guess. And yeah, I started social
(02:17):
media in college actually with my YouTube channel, yeah Mavente,
because I've always wanted to do like social media, and
then one day I'm like, I'm gonna just do a
YouTube channel. And it was just like a hobby back
then because I was still like in college.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
So you mentioned that you're in the middle of do
you have two brothers?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Two brothers?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, so are they like protective of you and all that?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I wouldn't say. I think my big brother was a
little overprotected. My little brother, he's I'm his mother, I'm
his second mom, so he can't tell me anything but
the big one a little bit. But he was actually
pretty cool, like in high school. Growing up, I remember
when I first started dating, my mom would always check
my phone, dude. Like she'd be like I went to
(03:00):
the lephonom check it was.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
She more like your sister.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
No, my mom was like your mom, dude. I tried
making her my sister and it did not happen. Girl.
I remember I sat her down when my well, the
first boyfriend I ever had, he asked me to be
his girl, and I was like, I need to ask
my mom first, because that's how scared I was of her,
Like how old were you fifteen? MACA, Yeah, She's like,
(03:25):
let me talk to my mom and I'm like, oh,
you're back to you. So I remember sitting her down.
I'm like, mom, I have to talk to you then,
and she's like what, Like she probably not thinking about it.
She probably thought that I was pregnant or something, because
like I sat her down, like very serious conversation, and
she's like, what happened. I'm like, you know, like I
see all my friends being good friends with her mom,
(03:46):
and I want to be like that with you, and
I want to like trust you. Yeah, And I'm like
they asked me to be like a guy's like trying
to be my boyfriend. She's like, oh, no, no I tried, But.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
How did you tell him then I still wouldn't be
She's like, I didn't know, yeah, but I'm still gonna
be here.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's still going to be your girlfriend. But I just
knew that I wasn't like like rebel like that, so
I knew like my limits. So I was still his girlfriend,
but it was more like many's that that stuff, like you.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Know, it wasn't nothing like you're still young.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Yeah, Like I was like, yeah, I know, how.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Was your relationship with like your parents and stuff growing up?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
It was pretty good? Yeah, I mean my parents have
always been together, So I think that's like a big
thing that helped you. Like I always they always set
the example. So every time I see them, I'm like,
I want to be like I want to have a
baddya like that, you know, like last for them, last
with them, like for a very long time. Yeah. But
with my parents, they've always been good. They've always been supportive.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
You know, are you Are you closer with anyone specific,
like your mom or dad?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I think my mom but just because like she understands
to me as a woman now, so if I ever
have to tell her something like she like she's there
for me, or like whenever I'm stressed out, I call her.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Like maybe because you're the only girl too. Yeah, Like
you're not going to go to your brother's.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Right, even though like with my brothers, like growing up
in high school, I would tell my big.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Brother stuff, you guys went to high school together.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
No, so we're all like five years apart, Okay, but
when he graduated high school, I was going into high school.
And then when I started dating and my mom would
take away my phone, I would tell my brother, dude,
please like delete my messages with my boyfriend, and he
would I would be like, yeah, yeah, he had my back.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
That's good though, And.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I think that's where like our bond started, like because
he was like she never He probably even went through
my messages too, and he was like, well, she's not
doing anything bad, like let me just delete them.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
At least my brothers would probably snitch on me. So
that's cool that you had like that bomb with your brother.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yea.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
How was like life growing up for you guys though?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah? I was pretty good. I mean my parents were
always like working for the most part. I remember when
my little brother was born. That's when my parents started
their business because they are like business owners. And when
that happened, like we would barely even see them, like
we were always with like our babysitter. But we didn't
really like mind because they would always like tell us like, oh,
(06:22):
we're doing this for you guys, Like I know, we
don't spend much time with you guys. But whenever they
did have time, it was like during vacations when they
would take their time off, they would take us to
like you know, like a coon or something, and we'd
be all happy and then they'll tell us like this
is why we're working hard, Like so we can give
you guys, So we never complained. But yeah, it was
(06:43):
mostly like me and my brothers like taking care of
each other, like we always had each other's back.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Yeah, and we would make each other our kmita too,
whenever the babysitter wasn't there or that Grema and all that.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But those foods, now, they're so good. They're like healing.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Times when I don't have nothing to eat, I'm like,
I'm gonna make myself that good mud dude. I love them,
but yeah, it was, I mean it was. It wasn't
like bad, you know, Yeah, but I appreciate I appreciate them.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Yeah. Are they still working to this day?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yes, dude, no way. Yeah, it's so crazy and stop
their heart old. My mom's like fifty five. They're both
fifty five because they're both from the same year. Yeah,
but I mean they were from my mom. My mom's
from and then my dad's from a Lefe.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Ok. Yeah, so when did they come here or did
they like.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
So they came here when they were like like eighteen
seventeen old.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
N Yeah, so they're really living out like yeah, dude,
dream because.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
I actually they got lucky because they fixed they fixed
papers when what's it called a mystia When a mistia
was on, like when the president was giving an opportunity
to fix me. First, they did it right away and
they got lucky, and to this day they're like, dude,
we got so lucky. I was like, wow, you guys
just work We worked off. And then they started their
(08:11):
business when my little brother was born.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
What business they do?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Glamor pictures? Oh yeah, the old school glamor pictures. Now
they take pictures for everything, like in senoras and all that.
But that's so they started with glamor pics.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
So different. I love it. Did they ever take any
of your picture?
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Yes, dude, all the time. We hated it so much
because it was like to be there like the whole day.
But my mom was like, it's for memories.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
It's for memories on my fine, and then now you
look back.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
No, yeah, now I'm like, how cute. I'm like, what
it looks so different?
Speaker 1 (08:45):
I love that. So, Okay, you went to college, right, Yes,
you went to college. And I feel like a lot
of people don't know this because I like, there's this
People assume that because you're an influencer, like college, you guys,
she has a whole ass degree, like she's one step
(09:05):
ahead of me and everybody.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Dude, I feel like I'm old. It's because it's because
a lot of people don't know that I'm twenty six.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Turn twenty six.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Okay, but don't people tell you that you look younger?
Speaker 1 (09:19):
No, they say I look older, But that's because I
feel like everything that I went through has like matured
my right right and like my attitude. Yeah, not like
young young you.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, you're very mature. So
people think that you're older.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Yeah, So I don't know. When people see me, they're like, oh,
I think you're like, we feel like you're younger. Maybe
because I'm still partying and stuff.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
I don't know, she's still in her college es. Okay,
so you went to so tell me that whole experience,
like you, girl, I just I don't know, like you
you can have that opportunity if you wanted to stop
being an influencer to go back and do what you
want to do what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
So okay, So how okay? So after high school, I
knew I had to go to college because my parents
were like, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
My parents were always like, you have to go to college,
like for you to get a good job, like obviously,
like they never knew about social media either, And at
the time, I wasn't into social media. I was when
like the influencers were starting, Like I would look up
to like all the og makeup like Jessie Perkins, like
(10:21):
all of them, right, Yes, And I knew that was
a thing, but I never like thought it would be
for me. So then I went to college. I did
the whole college thing for four years. I went to Yes,
I dorned my first two years, and then the other
two I lived off campus, but it was still a
house so I still had roommates and know that, And
(10:43):
I went far. Girl. I was like, I need to
go far from home because I wanted to like be independent, yeah,
and also have my freedom because my parents were always
so strict, so I'm like I need a little bit
of like air.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
I didn't want to be too far from right, like
didn't like get.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
There, yeah, Like I wanted to be able to drive back,
and that was perfect because it's like only like four hours.
I think, how did they now, I say, four hours?
Oh my mom, dude. She tried to convince me by
like buying me a car's no. Literally, she's like if
you leave, She's like, you either leave or we buy
you a car and you stay here so you can
commute it.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
No, she's like, I still want to leave.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Yeah. I didn't think about it because I'm like, dude,
I can have my car, like I can get my
own my own car later on. But like the experience,
no one else is going to give it to me back,
you know, like it. I loved it. It was like
my yeah, like sometimes I miss it like that.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
You yeah, like you thought about everything.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Yeah, like the freedom, your friends, like just being alone
and depending yourself. Like it's like a whole vibe.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
It is. So how old were you at that time?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Eighteen eighteen? Yeah, I left when I was twenty. I
came back when I was twenty one.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Did you ever hear homesick?
Speaker 2 (11:52):
I did the first year. My mom would tell me,
if you get homesick, don't try to come back. I'm like,
I'm like, okay.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
So you got your degree and all that stuff. What
how did social media come in? Like you just you
said you did it for fun and like, yeah, you
just had this big inspiration. Obviously. I love I love
I love all of those og creators too, like they
live Daisy, I know, girl, I was, I know.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
I was like that too till they.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Stay though, Like I'm like I watched their stuff. I'm like,
oh my god, I.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Know they're just like I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
They're really good at it.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
They're very good.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Yeah, And it's like it was a huge inspiration for me.
So how did that come for you? What was like
your first video and all that.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
So when I tried starting my YouTube, I was doing
it for fun, but I always obviously it was like
my inspiration two behind them that I wanted to start.
And it took me like a whole year to decide
whether to start or not, Like it was so hard
to start for some reason, like it was like the
what ifs or like what are people going to say
(12:57):
about me? Or just little things like that that like
really didn't I didn't want to start. And then one
day I'm like, you know what, Marlene, who cares to
people like talk crap about you like starting a YouTube channel? Like,
just do it? So I did it and then I
just had it there. And then after I graduated, and
then after college, I started getting into makeup more and
(13:21):
posting like my get ready with me or like not
get ready with me, but like more like tutorials and
just my pictures of makeup. And then that didn't work out.
So then I was like, oh, I'm gonna just leave it,
like I'm gonna just focus on working. Yeah yeah, which
now I think about it, I'm like why, Like I
should have just kept going. And then I started when
(13:44):
I was working at the bank, because I started working
at the bank as a teller.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Dude like, do you want me to get a possit voice?
And everything? Like I could totally tell really what would
be happy if, like you were moving.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
I'm like, thank you, Like that's a compliment.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Went there.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Yeah, So I was working as a teller.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
And then Chase okay, yeah, wells fargoing here?
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Oh yeah yeah. So then one night, like how social
media started for me. One night, I was like, uh,
it was a night out and I was gonna go
out with my friends and it started raining. So then
they were they canceled the plant, but I was ready already,
like I was ready to go out. I was kind
(14:30):
of sad. I'm like, why are you guys canceling? It's
it's like pouring, but not like a lot, it's not
that bad. And that's when TikTok was starting. My little
brother told me to download the app and he was like,
it's a new app, and I thought it was for
little kids. I'm like, DoD it for little kids, Like
I'm not a down I'm not I'm not gonna use it. Yeah,
(14:53):
and he's like just do it. I'm like okay, So
I downloaded it, and that's when I saw Adam's video.
But I I saw not Adam's video. I saw someone
reacting to Adam's video and I was like, wait, what's
going on here? I was like, are they on FaceTime?
Like what's going on? So then I went to Adams
the Stitch. I went to Adam's profile and I was like,
(15:14):
oh my god, like this is so cool, Like people
are acting like they're talking to him.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
You guys weren't friends at that time.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
No, I just like I found him through he was.
I think it was when he was barely starting to
and I was like, oh my god, let me try it.
I was like, let me experiment with this app. And
I did it for fun and I remember sending it
to my little brother and he was like making fun
of me too. Yeah, I'm like, boy, the app right,
(15:39):
but he was like, oh my god, like that's so cringe.
And I was like, Okay, let me do it again.
So I did it again because even for myself, like
I felt like the first time, I wasn't like I
feel like I was acting. Yeah, like I wasn't being myself.
So I'm like, let me try it, but like, let
me actually be myself. So then I did it the
second time. Didn't send it to him because I didn't
want hear from him. I posted on Twitter because I'm like,
(16:02):
let me just show my friends like that I'm cracking
up at this because I was cracking up. I'm like, bro,
I'm so dumb. And I posted it and like it
just started blowing up. I love that, and I was like,
wait a minute, what the hell? And well this was
when I woke up because I went to sleep and
then I woke up and I was blowing up and
people were asking for more, for more, for more, and
I was like, I'm gonna just keep doing it. And
(16:24):
I was doing it, doing it and doing it, and
people loved it. And that's how I created my following.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
In the beginning, Yeah what from one night, dude?
Speaker 2 (16:32):
It was crazy. I was like, thank you friends.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Literally God said, no, bitch, you're staying here ass. So
literally stitched this.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Video and yeah, that's how it's gonna start.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
And then that's how you became from as Adam.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
He hit me up on Instagram after it was like
after a few months, and I was so happy, dude.
I was so excited, and he told me he was
coming to la but and yeah, he just came. Yeah,
and and the rest is history. Oh yeah, cute. We
clicked right away, by the way, too, which was a
(17:07):
really good sign. I was so scared. I was scared
when I met him. I'm like, oh my god, what
if we don't click, Like what if it's weird? Like
what if it's not like how social media? Yeah, but
it worked out, so I was like, oh my.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
God, Yeah, I love that. That's so cute. Okay, we're
gonna go on a quick break and then we're going
to come back and still talk about social media and
your relationship and surgery and all that good Stuff'll be
right back, all right, Welcome back, you guys. We have
the gorgeous Marlene Dizzo here. We just finished talking about
social media, her friendship with Adam, obviously when you create,
(17:41):
you know, you come from social media, there's a bunch
of opinions and everything. How did your family feel, obviously
that you were a bank teller starting social media.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
So when I was starting social media, I was actually
getting promoted too, So that was That's also like held
me back a lot from like quitting my job because
I'm like, oh my god, I'm getting promoted and this
just started, like how am I going to do it?
Or what am I going to do? But my parents
were very supportive, Like they knew from the start. I
always told them that I wanted to do social media,
(18:11):
so when it happened, they were fully on like supporting
me one like no, like oh you need to be
working or which thank god, because I feel like it
would have been harder for me to like yeah if
they told me like, oh, you have to focus your
on work, or like if they would have pulled the
card of like you went to college for social media,
(18:31):
Oh my god, that's like my biggest fear, Like, well,
that was my biggest fear for them to be like
we paid for college and like now you're doing this,
But they didn't. They supported me, And I remember it
was when I started. I was really stressed out because
I would go to work from nine to five, come
back home, get ready again because I wouldn't really go
(18:52):
ready to like the bank like Musulminos but not but
not like Boby. So I would get ready and then
do the videos. So I would just spend my entire
like free time in my room, like doing my videos,
and they would never see me. I wouldn't even come
out to eat, so they'd be like, like you are doing,
like where are you? So they just sat me down
(19:14):
one day and they're like, you need to choose what
you're going to do. And I was like, what do
you mean I need to choose. I'm like I don't
want to choose. She's like, yeah, you need to choose,
like whether it's social media, you're going to focus yourself
on social media or you're gonna keep working because you're
stressing yourself out. You're not even coming out to eat,
(19:34):
like we don't even see you, or you don't have
family time. Yeah, And I just started crying because I
was like, oh my god, like you're right, Like I'm
just like in my room and like you know, I'm
not giving you guys time either. So I told them
like I'm scared. I'm scared to quit my job. I
was super scared because I'm like, what if this doesn't
work out? Like and my mom's like, Okay, what if
(19:56):
this doesn't work out? She's like, you tell me what's
the like worst thing that can happen to you? And
I'm like, I go back to work and she's like, exactly.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Like you got fired.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Yeah, She's like, you have your degree, you have experience,
like you can always go back. And I was like, okay,
so they gave me the the green light, so I
didn't And.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah, that's crazy though, that you had like that promotion
and it's like literally God like okay, here you can
literally take the risk, overcome that fear and do this
and see how it goes, Like let this go. But
that it's true. It's like you didn't get fired. You
didn't have to, like you just you're literally following your
dreams and you still have that just in case.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Right, just in case, like I can always go back.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
That's why you're always like one step ahead.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
And I always thought about that too, like risk, take
the risk.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
Take it because and what happens, you're gonna be in
the bank. You're gonna be sitting.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
There, yeah and thinking of what if.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
And what like I should have done this, Like you're
gonna have that doubt and like it's like no, it's
like the point is to take those risks and to
be able to like do what you want to do exactly.
And if you don't, then then it's fine. You have
that degree. You're still a bad bitch. Like like it's
like for me, I wish I finished school because I
wanted to be a teacher or like a daycare or
(21:16):
a counselor. And I wish I wish I did because.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Well, you can always go back, girl, Like it's never
too late because people always say like, oh my god,
no I'm too old to go back.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
I'm like, girl, no, there's a lot of people that
go back, like at forty right.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Yeah, I'm like, it's never too late.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
So no, I thought about it. I might yeah fired, man,
Like did you know? Because you never know, like what
are we going to do with if social media the
internet goes out one day or.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
Not even not even that. Like sometimes it's also like
good to like learn more.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
It makes it more smarter, I feel like for a girl,
and it's just like a little bit more sexier.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Too, like you know, thank you, Like I know I
have a degree business or whatever, you know.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
Like it's like it's like just to add a little
bus to you, and I love that.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
So I don't know, that's how I feel with people
that I get their masters then because I didn't get
my master's. Yeah, my bachelor's.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Yeah, girl, but still enough.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
No, But when I hear people say, oh, I have
my master's, I'm like, damn, like I feel doctor, Yeah,
I'm like wow, Like that's like I'm proud of you, guys,
because it's a lot.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
No for real. And then you see all these artists
like Taylor Swift, Kanye, all these other people that actually
go back to school and get like Kim K, like
she has four fucking kids.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
I know, isn't she like a lawyer or something.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
She's going to school to be a lawyer, and that's
like the hardest ship probably, like girls are studying.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Like if Kim K can do it, you guys, and
you can do it, anybody could do it, so obviously, Okay,
so you quit. You were scared, so scared, and then
what happened Like you just devoted all your time.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Yeah, that, Yeah, I started doing social media. That's when
my manager also found me. So yeah, so I'm like
thank god for her too, because she was like pitching
me too, so you know, I was like I felt safe,
like I didn't feel alone, like just doing it by myself.
So that really helped me a lot to like guide
me in the right steps.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Yeah. I love that. I like you had like you
weren't so you had help.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
Yeah, and I had my support system.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Too, and your brothers and all stuff. I love that.
That's that's so good because then there's a lot of
people that don't have that.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
I know, Dude, every time I see that, I'm like,
like I wish I could just like be there, like
bring them under my wing and be their support.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
System literally, And that's like what I feel like I
did with Troy all of them, like, because it's it's
like it's not easy. So no, it's not.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
And like in this industry, you can get f over
so many times if you don't if you're not careful.
So that's why when my manager came to me, she
gave me a lot of confianza because she was from
this She was actually raised in Bell Gardens too, so
when she cont and she gave me like a trial too,
Like it wasn't like, oh, you have committed committed, Yeah,
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so I knew she was like a good person.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
How do you feel now that there's like that change
in social media? Like do you feel? Because for me,
I felt a little lost, like oh and like TikTok and.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Oh my god, I still feel lost like the.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Age right, like the age difference, like you don't know
which audience to attract, right, like if the content is
still good or like you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Yeah, I feel I still feel lost. Honestly, I'm not
gonna lie, Like there's times where I like disappear from
social media and like my like all my best dies
they're like Marlene, You're like where are you? But I
think it just it gets to you sometimes, Like for sure,
it's so many like apps nowadays, like dude, like threats
just came on. I was doing that for like I
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let that shit go Twitter too, like I haven't been
active on that for like forever. But Twitter also because
it became so toxic, like I was just like oh
my god, no, like it was bringing me down instead
of uplifting me. And I just took a break from that,
but there's threads, there's snapchats, snapchats back, which I miss
snaps so much, like I snap all the time now too,
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And then what else Instagram everything reals but not only
Instagram picks, Instagram reels, take talk like it's crazy, but.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
It's kind of finding like the happy medium and like
what the audience wants, right, So it's like, whatever, you guys,
let us know what you guys want to see to
help us out.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Over here, because sometimes I feel like I'm too old,
but sometimes I feel like I'm too.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Young young, Yes, Like look, I'm gonna be straight up
and honest, like now that I have like Shay Willito,
like I've gotten so many mixed messages like why are
you hanging out? Why don't you hang out with all
your age or oh why isn't she hanging out with them?
And it's like, okay, first of all, like like I
who said I kept like they're adults, they know what
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they're doing, and it's like I'm helping them.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Who was that I remember I hung out with? I
think it was about and oh my god, a lot
of people, what is she doing? This is weird? Like
why are they hanging out together? Like she's too old
to be hanging out with kids. I'm like, they're not kids.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
First of all, they do the same thing that we do, right,
Why can't we give advice if we get around friends?
Like what's the problem now?
Speaker 2 (26:17):
It's crazy. That's why I'm like sometimes I'm like, wait,
should I hit them up? Should I not hit them up?
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Like?
Speaker 2 (26:22):
My god, I know it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
What kind of other comments do you get? Like what
are like your worst hate comments?
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Well, you know there's always like, oh, the the comments
that get to me the most, they're going to start. No,
they're the ones that are like insulting my family. Like
when I would post them, they would like insult my
fam like talk about like their parents, my.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Fam What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Yes, exactly what I mean. Yeah, So that would bother
me a lot because I'm like, leave my family out
of this, Like you could talk shit to me, but
like not don't talk about my family because that would
get me so mad. And like there I go, like
I would the lead and block the lead and block
because I would not my family. It's on social media obviously,
like because they support me, but they're always like looking
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at the comments, so I wouldn't want them to see
that too and affect them.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Do you ever feel like you have to stop posting
your family Sometimes?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, Sometimes I'm like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
And then you don't want them to feel like why
do you stop posting me?
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Yeah? But you know what, I got to the point
where I'm like, you know whatever, because my mom one
time told me, oh, other comments, like when they start
commenting about your body, yeah, that too, that could get
to you. And it's so sad because it's like why,
like what's the reason for that?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
And then you look at their profile and it's totally different, right,
like no page or it's like a page of like
I don't know of animal or whatever.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Or like sometimes when they're like all religious, and I'm like, girl,
like why.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
Can't people just be kind? Like no, like, just be kind,
just speak kind words, and then it'll come back right,
like it's like good karma, like be kind to people.
It's like it's not the end of the way.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
Car.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
I always say that it always comes back to.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
You whether you're like.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
I remember there was a time when they were commenting
a lot on my body, yeah, and I was down
bad girl, Like my mom saw me and she's like, girl. Like,
she's like, why are you like this? And I'm like,
she can always tell when I'm like in a bad
mood or like in a sad mood. She's like, what's
going on? And I'm like, oh, it's just like the comments.
And then she's like girl, she's like via fr she's like,
(28:28):
get your shit together, because they're not paying your rent.
They're not like here telling you in your face. They're
behind the screen like they're not going to do anything
to you. And I'm like, yeah, but like it's because well,
and she's like, girl, don't even pay attention. She's like,
don't read them, block your if you have to put
if you have to block your comments to it. And
I'm like, but I don't want to because there's all
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there's also the people that support me and that are
commenting good, positive things. And she's like, well, focus on that, yeah,
instead of focusing on the bad.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
And I was like, you're right, I agree, and I
get that from my friends too.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
You always look at the map one it's like because
it's there, it's like and then we forget about all
the good way come.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
Yeah, And then I feel guilty because I'm like Oh
my god, I should be paying attention to everybody else
like reporting me.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
It's true, So got to listen to ourselves.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, dude, listen to So Now what I do is block.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Yeah, it's I don't. And the word filters the filters
of the world. You know.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
I started doing that very.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
It makes it so much better. And even then, like
there's still some but it makes it so much better.
I'm like, I'll put like slut or fat. I mean,
like I do not want to see those words, so
make sure they're not in there. Yeah, I get all
of all of those. What do you have? Do you
remember like your worst worst comment, my worst comment, but
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affected you like the most? Like and like, did call
you something?
Speaker 2 (29:54):
I think. I was at the gym and they were
saying that I that might BB I was watched.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I was like, you start looking at the beer.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
I was like, wait really, And then I was asking everybody, dude.
I went to like all my friends and I asked
them and they're like, girl, what are you talking about?
Like you look good? And I'm like, everybody's saying it's botched,
But no, dude, it was just I was gaining weight.
But it wasn't like I was watched you know.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
No, and it's like, yeah, like you're happy with You're.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Happy right, Oh yeah, I'm super happy.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
We're going to talk about the l right now. We're
going to talk about it right now, about the whole
surgery thing. What do you feels like your misconception, Like
people always get wrong about you.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
They think about this for like most girls though that
you're a bitch. Yeah, like they're like, oh, when I
first saw you, I thought you didn't like me, or
I thought that you were I'm like, what.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
I feel like it's a Latin I like our face.
Oh yeah, I get that all the time. But that's
also because I'm very quiet and like introverted and I
don't really like you know, like I don't really at events.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Or whatever right right, Like you're to yourself. Yeah that's
how I am too. When I get drunk, I gets
so inspirational, like I don't know, like something hits me
and I'm like, oh my god, Like you're doing great,
keep going, Like I just want to tell everybody that
they're doing great, like if they haven't heard it before,
like you're doing great, keep going, like you're doing amazing thing.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Someone needs to hear it.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Right, So, and maybe because I'm drunk and I need
to hear it sometimes too, I start thinking about it. Yeah,
and then that's when I start telling people too. And dude,
it's embarrassing sometimes because I'm like, I'm so drunk and
I'm over here telling them, and the next the next day,
I'm all quiet.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
You could be talking shit, but you're giving someone insprain
true true, Like so no one could be mad about that.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
True because I could be like the mean girl and
like gyues, you.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
Could be like true fuck you, Like, no, you're helping people,
and I love that. Like, girl, keep on drinking, there's
no problem.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
Keep on drinking, girl.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Okay, we're gonna go on another quick break and then
we're gonna come back and talk about love and your
surgery not that. Okay, welcome back you guys. Okay, So
I want to talk about your surgery. You've been very
open and honest about that. Right. When did you get it?
Speaker 2 (32:06):
I think like two years ago? Yeah, it was in
a while.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
How do you feel now now that it's settled in? Right?
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Yeah? I feel good. I definitely gain weight though, because
when I first came out of it, I was so like,
do it? I was tiny, Like I missed that.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
And I'm like, let's go back.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Yeah, I'm like, let's go. I'm like round two.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
No, because it's like I just told my sister too,
because she's getting her mommy makeover and she's like, I'm
nervous this is and that. I'm like, look all our lives,
we've been dreaming. We've we've been talking about going to
sleep and waking up skinny, yeah, and having a fun
and that's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
You're gonna go to sleep, wake up, and it's.
Speaker 1 (32:44):
Like every girl like dreams, Like you know, did you
obviously when you got it, did you feel like any
insecurities or like worried, and what was like your reason
forgetting it? You've always wanted to?
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Yeah, I always wanted to. I think I always had
like the love handles, and every time I would go
to the gym, I would never, like as hard as
I would go, like they would never go away. And
I remember I told my mom Mom, like I'm gonna
give myself a year, like I'm gonna go hard at
the gym a year, and if I don't see results,
I'm gonna go get a BBM. She's like ay, is
that loca because in the beginning she didn't want me
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to and I'm like, it's because like I really want it,
and she's like, okay, then what just dedicate yourself to
the gym and then we'll see. And well I did
the gym.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Thing purposely not yeah, I'm like I would skip like.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Like three times a week and after I'm like okay,
like I'm gonna just get it. And I didn't even
tell my parents. I just told them when I had
my appointment. No, and like they couldn't do anything because
one I was like twenty over twenty one already and
yeah I was paying myself too, and what can they
tell you, like and they're like, okay, boys, like we'll
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go with you. So they went with me.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Where did you get it?
Speaker 2 (33:54):
Tijuana? Yeah? With campus? Oh yeah, yeah, I did my
little research. I was like I need to like be
sure you know, yeah, I love it? Did you I
Sometimes I think about it.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
Because I'm doing another or to do something else.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
To do another bb on. But look, let me tell
you guys, like I think about it, but then I'm like, no,
I don't want it, Like I'd rather just go to
the gym this time. But because I don't want to
put my body through like that again, like I feel
like it's a lot that they do. So I'm like,
oh my god, I I wouldn't want to, Like like
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I'm like, I'm a little nervous, but I have thought
about my boobs. I do me too, But then I
think about all this other stuff, and I'm like, maybe
just to lift I don't know. I still haven't decided,
but everybody tells me not to do my boobs because.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
I feel like a lot of people like that have
done it, like recently, like seeing some type.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Of right reaction, and that's that's what scares me. And
I'm like, Okay, maybe I shouldn't do like breast and plants,
like maybe I should lift them up.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Even then I get scared, like what happens with the lift?
Speaker 2 (35:03):
I think they're just like, well, I don't know what
I actually, I haven't done my research yet, but yeah,
we're gonna do our research and then we'll let.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
You guys know. Welcome back. How was obviously like the reaction,
how like people saying anything? Was there a lot of
hate comments?
Speaker 2 (35:17):
I was scared to like tell my audience in the beginning,
but I was like I can't lie to them either, Like, girl,
it's gonna be a whole big difference of like how
my body was. So I'm gonna just let them know.
And I made a video on everything on YouTube of
my experience, and I honestly feel like that was the
best way because they appreciated that I was being honest
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with them and I wasn't hiding it from them. So
I was like, oh my god, thank god. Like I
didn't have a few hate comments, but I mean I
didn't really care about it because I'm my girl to
my body at the end of the day, like I
could do whatever. Yeah, and I'm doing it for me.
If you don't want to get it done, then don't
get it done. But let other people like decide for themselves,
you know, like don't be hating in the comments.
Speaker 1 (35:58):
For real, you didn't pay for it.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Yeah, And also you don't know how like like it
can help somebody to like with their like confidence confidence,
because for me, it boosted my confidence so much, so much.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
And it's like it's not even to say that, like
you were super insecure whatever, but it's like it just
makes you feel good about yourself, like in the clothes
you wear and your videos and like, you know, so
if girls, if you want to get your surgery, do it,
do it because it's it's your body, it's your money,
it's what you want to do.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Just obviously do research and do it for the right reasons.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
Do it for the right reasons.
Speaker 2 (36:31):
Yeah, because there's also people that have done it and
they're not happy. Yeah, so you have to like go
like internally and like really like see if you that's
what you.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
Want, because it's a lot mentally. Oh yeah, it's like
if you're sitting on your ass or sitting like doing
nothing for a long.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Time for six weeks, you can't sit on give your
life and yeah you're like what did I do this for?
Speaker 1 (36:54):
You know? But for real, like do your research. Make
sure you're mentally prepared. Like it's a lot, it's heavy,
it's heavy, it's a huge change, Like you're gonna look
at yourself and it doesn't settle in for a while.
Just let it, you know, let the body do it's there.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, do your research and doctors too, like make sure
their board certified and know where you're going because that's
also very scary too.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
And make sure you love yourself no matter what.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Yes, that's the kill him.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
So I kind of want to know where Oscar came
into all of this.
Speaker 2 (37:24):
At what point so I already had my baby out,
already had it done. He came in when was it
like two years ago?
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Okay, because you were in a toxic relationship, right, Oh yeah,
you were in a toxic relationship and obviously comes in
Oscar the King, and I feel like he generally like
I could see you just in his eyes and I
don't know him that well, but he loves you, yeah,
and like you just like you guys hold on to
each other, and like he treats you so good.
Speaker 2 (37:53):
It's so good.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
Dude, how did you guys meet and all that?
Speaker 2 (37:55):
So we met like two and a half years ago.
It was when I was trying to see how to
invest my money and I had told my mom. I'm like, oh, Mom,
like I want to see like different ways to invest
my money. And she's like, oh, well, like why don't
you buy a property, And girl, I'm like, hold on,
I don't have much that much money for a property.
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She's like, no, like, let's go see how you're able
to qualify. And I'm like okay, I'm like and dude,
I didn't even know that you had to qualify, like
to buy a house or you know, like all that.
So she's like, let me take you with like a
realtor that I know, and she took me with the realtor,
and the realtor took Oscar because Oscar is a loan officer.
So I was kind of scared because it was two
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of them, and I just thought it was gonna be
one of them. And I'm like, oh my god, like
I'm intimidated. I didn't know anything, Like they were asking
me all these personal questions like and I was just there,
you know, like a little chamaca. And that's how we met.
Like we left it at that. They asked they told
me how to qualify, like which at the time I
didn't qualify, but they did let me know like other information.
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And then he followed me on Instagram, he followed me
on he messaged me, and he's like, oh, I followed
you on all your social platforms to support you. I'm like,
oh my god, I'm like to support me. What okay, yeah, okay,
I'll take that. And I followed him back and then
one day he just messaged me. He said in the
(39:25):
DMS it was when I had my foot fractured, and
he was just like, take it easy on yourself, because
I remember posting a story and I was just going
in on myself, like I was telling myself, I'm so dumb,
like why did I even get in the scooter and
fracture my foot? Like I can't even take pictures, I
can't even like go out on super And he's like, oh,
take it easy, and that's how we started. And then
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from there, like we just it took a while. Actually,
it took like months for him to ask me out
at it. Well, we kind of like we were just
talking as friends and still like in a professional side,
and then we stopped. I think he actually stopped replying
to me for like two months. No, I didn't even
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notice because at the time, like I was just doing
my thing and then he was doing his thing. And
then out of nowhere, Oh, it was his birthday and
I saw that it was his birthday, so I said
happy birthday to him. I'm like I made the other move. Yeah,
and then that's when it all started. And we went
on a couple of days and yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
Did you ever feel scared because you were like in
a previous relationship, like you didn't like your heart was
kind of closed.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Yeah. I was super scared actually, like to go on
a first day with him. But then after I'm like, girl,
like I can't always be like like this, like be
in my room like not wanting to know about man.
I'm like, I just need to like let go, let
go of that. And I did. I just I was like,
let me just do this first day, Let's see how
this goes. Oh my god. And the first day was
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like amazing, really, how was it? It was so good?
Like we went to dinner and then it was just
like those little things that you know, yeah that you
know they're gentlemen and they like we went to a
restaurant and he was like, first he opened the door
for me, which that's a major like if you don't
do that, then red flag two. When we were ordering,
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he was like very like attentive to like, oh, you know,
they have this like kind of like ordering for me.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Like making you feel comfortable and making.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
My life easier. I was like, wait, what's like usually
when I go to a restaurant with new people, I
feel weird because what do I order? Like what's in
the menu? You know? And he was like, you know,
explaining everything detail by detail, and yeah it was everything
was like good, like everything was perfect at night.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (41:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (41:45):
And how long how long have you guys been together for? Now?
Speaker 2 (41:47):
Almost year?
Speaker 1 (41:48):
Two years? And your parents love him?
Speaker 2 (41:50):
Oh my god, my parents love him.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
Yeah. Yeah, And I remember you were saying that one
time he asked your family.
Speaker 2 (41:56):
Oh yeah, he asked my parents to be your girlfriend
my girlfriendeople like you were like fifteen.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
I was so shook. Like when my mom told me,
I was like, no way he did that. She's like yeah,
Like before you guys left, he asked me if it
was okay, and I was like what, Like that's so cute.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
I feel like nobody ever does that Moore, I know,
like okay, So it's not like fully necessary, but it's
just like it adds like just like a little touch,
Like it's like I'm thinking of everybody around me.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
Right, and I care about like your your family and
not only you, but your family, and that means that
meant like the world to me. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
Good applause for Oscar and.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Just going from like a toxic to that dude. It
was like I think my family loves him so much
because they just saw the change in me.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
It's like what you needed.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
I was a different person, Like I was so down
in my last relationship, and like when he came into
my life, it was like it was just a new me,
right because I was treated being treated right.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
He gives you like that and everything.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Animas and support. It was like like a whole like
one eight.
Speaker 1 (43:04):
Yeah, do you feel like this is like the one?
Speaker 2 (43:07):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (43:07):
Yes, Like I don't, right, so if he's the one,
like and obviously I don't. I feel like people don't know.
But you guys don't live together no, right, So is
that different now that you're older, Like you guys want
to live together? Like what are the plans there?
Speaker 2 (43:26):
So we haven't talked about it yet, okay, because he
lives like on his own with like he lives like
like his roommate and then like his brother, and then
I live I still live with my parents, but I
don't know maybe in the future and like I still
we haven't talked about it because we're still taking it
like step by step, like we don't want to like
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also rush into things. But definitely I would obviously want.
Speaker 1 (43:50):
To live with him. I feel like like that you
guys still have that dating aspect like yes, spark right,
like drop me off at home like pick me up? Yeah,
romantic like Okay, sometimes.
Speaker 2 (44:03):
I do like I am with him though, but it's
not like all the time than vocal because my mom
always tells me like it's still gotta.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
Which is like I feel like still gives it, like
it makes it healthy, makes it more exciting, like you
guys aren't in a rush.
Speaker 2 (44:18):
You still miss each other, yes, like you're not always
like there with one another like im palagosles.
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Warning off here.
Speaker 2 (44:28):
Yeah, I'm all like holding on nobody.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Like I said, it makes it romantic and healthy, like
it's just that, and I feel like that's what you need. Anybody.
Anybody needs that, just a healthy relationship like after coming
out from something toxic, like you know what's good now,
Like he treats you good and it's like still literally
boyfriend girlfriend like how it should be.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
Yeah, and that's honestly Like when I saw that, I
was like, dude, this is like what I've been asking
for my whole life, Like thank god he came to
my life because he literally changed it.
Speaker 1 (44:58):
We'll be waiting for my invitation, okay to the wedding,
you know, don't worry. Okay, So we've talked social media,
we've talked about your surgery, growing up college. What is
your piece of advice that you can give to someone
(45:19):
maybe in the same position as you, or you know,
something that you've learned, like a monumental moment in your
life where you've learned and you just you want to
give that hope and inspiration.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
To people to just keep going, Like, don't ever get
the scourage of what you're doing, because like I said earlier,
like I got this courage when I was starting social media,
and I wish that was in the case because if
I maybe if I would have gone like kept going,
it would have led to something different different. But just
keep going, keep doing you don't listen to anybody like
(45:49):
the negative comments, and keep thriving like it. And if
you're going through something right now, like it gets better,
Like trust me, it really does get better. But just
know that God always has something for you, for each
and every one of us, like you're never alone, so
it will get better. It will.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
And I feel like for you, like I don't. I
think I feel like yours is taking risk. Yeah, taking risk, and.
Speaker 2 (46:16):
Take the risk girl, take it because you're always gonna
have that in your head, like oh what if I
didn't do it, or like like what if I would
have done it? Where would I be right now? So
just do it, like, no matter what, take the risk.
Speaker 1 (46:31):
And whatever you're doing though, yeah, like it doesn't even
if it's not social media, if you need to go,
if you're getting a.
Speaker 2 (46:37):
New job or.
Speaker 1 (46:39):
Something with the house or whatever in a relationship, take
the risk because you don't know if you don't try.
Speaker 2 (46:44):
Also, like a reasonable risk to like have always a plan,
b a plancy to always like fall back to that, you.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
Know, like but case something doesn't work out.
Speaker 2 (46:54):
You always have you always have something else.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
And it's not too late. Guys, you really inspired me.
If it's to go back to school, yes, pends would
be like don't go back to schools. It's like no,
like in just in case it's something and I'll go
back to this. But it gives you some sense of
normal normalcy and like life, Like I want to be
able to say, like I went to school, I did this,
and like I had a normal life in that sense,
(47:18):
right right, what I mean aside from social media, what
are your goals? What are your what does your future
look like? Where do you see yourself? Are there any
collabs anything that you want to.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
I definitely want to keep growing on social media. I
see myself as a CEO, So I want to start
my business like maybe like in a couple of years.
I don't know what yet. I'm still trying to like
find my passion because I feel like you really have
to be passionate about something if you're going to start something.
And I do have collapse coming, so I stay tuned
(47:53):
for that. I'm super excited. But yeah, they've been in
the works for a couple months now, so I'm excited. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (47:59):
Well her, So you're so Marlene, dizzl Marlene, Marlene on everything,
on every everything, Marlene. Not hard to tell you, guys.
All right, well, thank you so much for love. I
really appreciate. I love the conversation that we had, and
you really inspired me. You inspired me to school. Yes,
go back to school, get it done. No, it's always
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that extra little plan b my plan, be there, my plans.
Thank you so much. Thank you, Karen. I love you
so much. You're such a good friend and you're such
a beautiful heart and soul. Make sure you guys follow her.
Make sure you guys follow Overcomfort Podcast. Thank you guys
so much for watching and listening from wherever you guys
are at. And I'll see you guys next Tuesday by
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Overcomfort Podcast is a production of iHeart Michael Podcast Network
Welcome back to the Overcomfort Podcast. You guys, I am
your host, Jennica. Thank you guys so much for being here,
for watching wherever you guys are at in your kitchen,
in your car, and your living room doing whatever you
do on this beautiful Tuesday. Thank you guys so much
for being here. I'm super excited for today's guest. I
have my beautiful friend Marlen. But know it's Marlene Dizzle.
(00:28):
I love I love that. How did you come up
with it?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Actually? A friend in high school came up with it?
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah. When I was making my Twitter, I didn't know
what to put, like name myself, and he's like, if
I find your name, will you like what you do? Yeah?
What you do it? I'm like, okay, fine, but give
me a good one because I'm really picky with my names.
He's like, okay, and I don't know where he just
said Marlene this one. I changed all my platforms to Marline.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Are you guys so friends?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Credit to you friend. I love that. Well, thank you
so much.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
For being you for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
All right, how are you? How are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I'm feeling better. I did tell you that I lost
my voice. Dude, I went to a party when was
it Saturday? For my friend's wedding? Completely lost my voice.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Oh you're like college friends, right.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I went to a far Yeah, I completely lost.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Yeah, I love that thought.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Okay, Well, thank you so much for being here. You
haven't really done any podcasts recently, right, not recently. You
did Alan's like a couple of times. So I'm really
glad that you're here.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Thank you for having me.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Such it's a different vibe. It's a little you know,
a little bit more calm, yea more into it. But
I like for all the guests to kind of tell
us their story, what they do, where they come from,
how they grew up, how many siblings you have, how
old you are, all that good stuff. Okay, so that
further do Marlene to sell you guys.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
So my name is morning Man. This guys, I'm a
content creator. I do like lifestyle, beauty, a little of everything.
I grew up in Bell Gardens and I have two brothers.
I'm the middle child. I'm the only girl, so I'm
like the princess, I guess. And yeah, I started social
(02:17):
media in college actually with my YouTube channel, yeah Mavente,
because I've always wanted to do like social media, and
then one day I'm like, I'm gonna just do a
YouTube channel. And it was just like a hobby back
then because I was still like in college.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
So you mentioned that you're in the middle of do
you have two brothers?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Two brothers?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, so are they like protective of you and all that?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I wouldn't say. I think my big brother was a
little overprotected. My little brother, he's I'm his mother, I'm
his second mom, so he can't tell me anything but
the big one a little bit. But he was actually
pretty cool, like in high school. Growing up, I remember
when I first started dating, my mom would always check
my phone, dude. Like she'd be like I went to
(03:00):
the lephonom check it was.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
She more like your sister.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
No, my mom was like your mom, dude. I tried
making her my sister and it did not happen. Girl.
I remember I sat her down when my well, the
first boyfriend I ever had, he asked me to be
his girl, and I was like, I need to ask
my mom first, because that's how scared I was of her,
Like how old were you fifteen? MACA, Yeah, She's like,
(03:25):
let me talk to my mom and I'm like, oh,
you're back to you. So I remember sitting her down.
I'm like, mom, I have to talk to you then,
and she's like what, Like she probably not thinking about it.
She probably thought that I was pregnant or something, because
like I sat her down, like very serious conversation, and
she's like, what happened. I'm like, you know, like I
see all my friends being good friends with her mom,
(03:46):
and I want to be like that with you, and
I want to like trust you. Yeah, And I'm like
they asked me to be like a guy's like trying
to be my boyfriend. She's like, oh, no, no I tried, But.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
How did you tell him then I still wouldn't be
She's like, I didn't know, yeah, but I'm still gonna
be here.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's still going to be your girlfriend. But I just
knew that I wasn't like like rebel like that, so
I knew like my limits. So I was still his girlfriend,
but it was more like many's that that stuff, like you.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Know, it wasn't nothing like you're still young.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Yeah, Like I was like, yeah, I know, how.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Was your relationship with like your parents and stuff growing up?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
It was pretty good? Yeah, I mean my parents have
always been together, So I think that's like a big
thing that helped you. Like I always they always set
the example. So every time I see them, I'm like,
I want to be like I want to have a
baddya like that, you know, like last for them, last
with them, like for a very long time. Yeah. But
with my parents, they've always been good. They've always been supportive.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
You know, are you Are you closer with anyone specific,
like your mom or dad?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I think my mom but just because like she understands
to me as a woman now, so if I ever
have to tell her something like she like she's there
for me, or like whenever I'm stressed out, I call her.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Like maybe because you're the only girl too. Yeah, Like
you're not going to go to your brother's.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Right, even though like with my brothers, like growing up
in high school, I would tell my big.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Brother stuff, you guys went to high school together.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
No, so we're all like five years apart, Okay, but
when he graduated high school, I was going into high school.
And then when I started dating and my mom would
take away my phone, I would tell my brother, dude,
please like delete my messages with my boyfriend, and he
would I would be like, yeah, yeah, he had my back.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
That's good though, And.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I think that's where like our bond started, like because
he was like she never He probably even went through
my messages too, and he was like, well, she's not
doing anything bad, like let me just delete them.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
At least my brothers would probably snitch on me. So
that's cool that you had like that bomb with your brother.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yea.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
How was like life growing up for you guys though?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah? I was pretty good. I mean my parents were
always like working for the most part. I remember when
my little brother was born. That's when my parents started
their business because they are like business owners. And when
that happened, like we would barely even see them, like
we were always with like our babysitter. But we didn't
really like mind because they would always like tell us like, oh,
(06:22):
we're doing this for you guys, Like I know, we
don't spend much time with you guys. But whenever they
did have time, it was like during vacations when they
would take their time off, they would take us to
like you know, like a coon or something, and we'd
be all happy and then they'll tell us like this
is why we're working hard, Like so we can give
you guys, So we never complained. But yeah, it was
(06:43):
mostly like me and my brothers like taking care of
each other, like we always had each other's back.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Yeah, and we would make each other our kmita too,
whenever the babysitter wasn't there or that Grema and all that.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But those foods, now, they're so good. They're like healing.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Times when I don't have nothing to eat, I'm like,
I'm gonna make myself that good mud dude. I love them,
but yeah, it was, I mean it was. It wasn't
like bad, you know, Yeah, but I appreciate I appreciate them.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Yeah. Are they still working to this day?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yes, dude, no way. Yeah, it's so crazy and stop
their heart old. My mom's like fifty five. They're both
fifty five because they're both from the same year. Yeah,
but I mean they were from my mom. My mom's
from and then my dad's from a Lefe.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Ok. Yeah, so when did they come here or did
they like.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
So they came here when they were like like eighteen
seventeen old.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
N Yeah, so they're really living out like yeah, dude,
dream because.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
I actually they got lucky because they fixed they fixed
papers when what's it called a mystia When a mistia
was on, like when the president was giving an opportunity
to fix me. First, they did it right away and
they got lucky, and to this day they're like, dude,
we got so lucky. I was like, wow, you guys
just work We worked off. And then they started their
(08:11):
business when my little brother was born.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
What business they do?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Glamor pictures? Oh yeah, the old school glamor pictures. Now
they take pictures for everything, like in senoras and all that.
But that's so they started with glamor pics.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
So different. I love it. Did they ever take any
of your picture?
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Yes, dude, all the time. We hated it so much
because it was like to be there like the whole day.
But my mom was like, it's for memories.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
It's for memories on my fine, and then now you
look back.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
No, yeah, now I'm like, how cute. I'm like, what
it looks so different?
Speaker 1 (08:45):
I love that. So, Okay, you went to college, right, Yes,
you went to college. And I feel like a lot
of people don't know this because I like, there's this
People assume that because you're an influencer, like college, you guys,
she has a whole ass degree, like she's one step
(09:05):
ahead of me and everybody.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Dude, I feel like I'm old. It's because it's because
a lot of people don't know that I'm twenty six.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Turn twenty six.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Okay, but don't people tell you that you look younger?
Speaker 1 (09:19):
No, they say I look older, But that's because I
feel like everything that I went through has like matured
my right right and like my attitude. Yeah, not like
young young you.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, you're very mature. So
people think that you're older.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Yeah, So I don't know. When people see me, they're like, oh,
I think you're like, we feel like you're younger. Maybe
because I'm still partying and stuff.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
I don't know, she's still in her college es. Okay,
so you went to so tell me that whole experience,
like you, girl, I just I don't know, like you
you can have that opportunity if you wanted to stop
being an influencer to go back and do what you
want to do what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
So okay, So how okay? So after high school, I
knew I had to go to college because my parents
were like, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
My parents were always like, you have to go to college,
like for you to get a good job, like obviously,
like they never knew about social media either, And at
the time, I wasn't into social media. I was when
like the influencers were starting, Like I would look up
to like all the og makeup like Jessie Perkins, like
(10:21):
all of them, right, Yes, And I knew that was
a thing, but I never like thought it would be
for me. So then I went to college. I did
the whole college thing for four years. I went to Yes,
I dorned my first two years, and then the other
two I lived off campus, but it was still a
house so I still had roommates and know that, And
(10:43):
I went far. Girl. I was like, I need to
go far from home because I wanted to like be independent, yeah,
and also have my freedom because my parents were always
so strict, so I'm like I need a little bit
of like air.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
I didn't want to be too far from right, like
didn't like get.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
There, yeah, Like I wanted to be able to drive back,
and that was perfect because it's like only like four hours.
I think, how did they now, I say, four hours?
Oh my mom, dude. She tried to convince me by
like buying me a car's no. Literally, she's like if
you leave, She's like, you either leave or we buy
you a car and you stay here so you can
commute it.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
No, she's like, I still want to leave.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Yeah. I didn't think about it because I'm like, dude,
I can have my car, like I can get my
own my own car later on. But like the experience,
no one else is going to give it to me back,
you know, like it. I loved it. It was like
my yeah, like sometimes I miss it like that.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
You yeah, like you thought about everything.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Yeah, like the freedom, your friends, like just being alone
and depending yourself. Like it's like a whole vibe.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
It is. So how old were you at that time?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Eighteen eighteen? Yeah, I left when I was twenty. I
came back when I was twenty one.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Did you ever hear homesick?
Speaker 2 (11:52):
I did the first year. My mom would tell me,
if you get homesick, don't try to come back. I'm like,
I'm like, okay.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
So you got your degree and all that stuff. What
how did social media come in? Like you just you
said you did it for fun and like, yeah, you
just had this big inspiration. Obviously. I love I love
I love all of those og creators too, like they
live Daisy, I know, girl, I was, I know.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
I was like that too till they.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Stay though, Like I'm like I watched their stuff. I'm like,
oh my god, I.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Know they're just like I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
They're really good at it.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
They're very good.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Yeah, And it's like it was a huge inspiration for me.
So how did that come for you? What was like
your first video and all that.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
So when I tried starting my YouTube, I was doing
it for fun, but I always obviously it was like
my inspiration two behind them that I wanted to start.
And it took me like a whole year to decide
whether to start or not, Like it was so hard
to start for some reason, like it was like the
what ifs or like what are people going to say
(12:57):
about me? Or just little things like that that like
really didn't I didn't want to start. And then one
day I'm like, you know what, Marlene, who cares to
people like talk crap about you like starting a YouTube channel? Like,
just do it? So I did it and then I
just had it there. And then after I graduated, and
then after college, I started getting into makeup more and
(13:21):
posting like my get ready with me or like not
get ready with me, but like more like tutorials and
just my pictures of makeup. And then that didn't work out.
So then I was like, oh, I'm gonna just leave it,
like I'm gonna just focus on working. Yeah yeah, which
now I think about it, I'm like why, Like I
should have just kept going. And then I started when
(13:44):
I was working at the bank, because I started working
at the bank as a teller.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Dude like, do you want me to get a possit voice?
And everything? Like I could totally tell really what would
be happy if, like you were moving.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
I'm like, thank you, Like that's a compliment.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Went there.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Yeah, So I was working as a teller.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
And then Chase okay, yeah, wells fargoing here?
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Oh yeah yeah. So then one night, like how social
media started for me. One night, I was like, uh,
it was a night out and I was gonna go
out with my friends and it started raining. So then
they were they canceled the plant, but I was ready already,
like I was ready to go out. I was kind
(14:30):
of sad. I'm like, why are you guys canceling? It's
it's like pouring, but not like a lot, it's not
that bad. And that's when TikTok was starting. My little
brother told me to download the app and he was like,
it's a new app, and I thought it was for
little kids. I'm like, DoD it for little kids, Like
I'm not a down I'm not I'm not gonna use it. Yeah,
(14:53):
and he's like just do it. I'm like okay, So
I downloaded it, and that's when I saw Adam's video.
But I I saw not Adam's video. I saw someone
reacting to Adam's video and I was like, wait, what's
going on here? I was like, are they on FaceTime?
Like what's going on? So then I went to Adams
the Stitch. I went to Adam's profile and I was like,
(15:14):
oh my god, like this is so cool, Like people
are acting like they're talking to him.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
You guys weren't friends at that time.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
No, I just like I found him through he was.
I think it was when he was barely starting to
and I was like, oh my god, let me try it.
I was like, let me experiment with this app. And
I did it for fun and I remember sending it
to my little brother and he was like making fun
of me too. Yeah, I'm like, boy, the app right,
(15:39):
but he was like, oh my god, like that's so cringe.
And I was like, Okay, let me do it again.
So I did it again because even for myself, like
I felt like the first time, I wasn't like I
feel like I was acting. Yeah, like I wasn't being myself.
So I'm like, let me try it, but like, let
me actually be myself. So then I did it the
second time. Didn't send it to him because I didn't
want hear from him. I posted on Twitter because I'm like,
(16:02):
let me just show my friends like that I'm cracking
up at this because I was cracking up. I'm like, bro,
I'm so dumb. And I posted it and like it
just started blowing up. I love that, and I was like,
wait a minute, what the hell? And well this was
when I woke up because I went to sleep and
then I woke up and I was blowing up and
people were asking for more, for more, for more, and
I was like, I'm gonna just keep doing it. And
(16:24):
I was doing it, doing it and doing it, and
people loved it. And that's how I created my following.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
In the beginning, Yeah what from one night, dude?
Speaker 2 (16:32):
It was crazy. I was like, thank you friends.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Literally God said, no, bitch, you're staying here ass. So
literally stitched this.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Video and yeah, that's how it's gonna start.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
And then that's how you became from as Adam.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
He hit me up on Instagram after it was like
after a few months, and I was so happy, dude.
I was so excited, and he told me he was
coming to la but and yeah, he just came. Yeah,
and and the rest is history. Oh yeah, cute. We
clicked right away, by the way, too, which was a
(17:07):
really good sign. I was so scared. I was scared
when I met him. I'm like, oh my god, what
if we don't click, Like what if it's weird? Like
what if it's not like how social media? Yeah, but
it worked out, so I was like, oh my.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
God, Yeah, I love that. That's so cute. Okay, we're
gonna go on a quick break and then we're going
to come back and still talk about social media and
your relationship and surgery and all that good Stuff'll be
right back, all right, Welcome back, you guys. We have
the gorgeous Marlene Dizzo here. We just finished talking about
social media, her friendship with Adam, obviously when you create,
(17:41):
you know, you come from social media, there's a bunch
of opinions and everything. How did your family feel, obviously
that you were a bank teller starting social media.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
So when I was starting social media, I was actually
getting promoted too, So that was That's also like held
me back a lot from like quitting my job because
I'm like, oh my god, I'm getting promoted and this
just started, like how am I going to do it?
Or what am I going to do? But my parents
were very supportive, Like they knew from the start. I
always told them that I wanted to do social media,
(18:11):
so when it happened, they were fully on like supporting
me one like no, like oh you need to be
working or which thank god, because I feel like it
would have been harder for me to like yeah if
they told me like, oh, you have to focus your
on work, or like if they would have pulled the
card of like you went to college for social media,
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Oh my god, that's like my biggest fear, Like, well,
that was my biggest fear for them to be like
we paid for college and like now you're doing this,
But they didn't. They supported me, And I remember it
was when I started. I was really stressed out because
I would go to work from nine to five, come
back home, get ready again because I wouldn't really go
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ready to like the bank like Musulminos but not but
not like Boby. So I would get ready and then
do the videos. So I would just spend my entire
like free time in my room, like doing my videos,
and they would never see me. I wouldn't even come
out to eat, so they'd be like, like you are doing,
like where are you? So they just sat me down
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one day and they're like, you need to choose what
you're going to do. And I was like, what do
you mean I need to choose. I'm like I don't
want to choose. She's like, yeah, you need to choose,
like whether it's social media, you're going to focus yourself
on social media or you're gonna keep working because you're
stressing yourself out. You're not even coming out to eat,
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like we don't even see you, or you don't have
family time. Yeah, And I just started crying because I
was like, oh my god, like you're right, Like I'm
just like in my room and like you know, I'm
not giving you guys time either. So I told them
like I'm scared. I'm scared to quit my job. I
was super scared because I'm like, what if this doesn't
work out? Like and my mom's like, Okay, what if
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this doesn't work out? She's like, you tell me what's
the like worst thing that can happen to you? And
I'm like, I go back to work and she's like, exactly.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Like you got fired.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Yeah, She's like, you have your degree, you have experience,
like you can always go back. And I was like, okay,
so they gave me the the green light, so I
didn't And.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah, that's crazy though, that you had like that promotion
and it's like literally God like okay, here you can
literally take the risk, overcome that fear and do this
and see how it goes, Like let this go. But
that it's true. It's like you didn't get fired. You
didn't have to, like you just you're literally following your
dreams and you still have that just in case.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Right, just in case, like I can always go back.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
That's why you're always like one step ahead.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
And I always thought about that too, like risk, take
the risk.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
Take it because and what happens, you're gonna be in
the bank. You're gonna be sitting.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
There, yeah and thinking of what if.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
And what like I should have done this, Like you're
gonna have that doubt and like it's like no, it's
like the point is to take those risks and to
be able to like do what you want to do exactly.
And if you don't, then then it's fine. You have
that degree. You're still a bad bitch. Like like it's
like for me, I wish I finished school because I
wanted to be a teacher or like a daycare or
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a counselor. And I wish I wish I did because.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Well, you can always go back, girl, Like it's never
too late because people always say like, oh my god,
no I'm too old to go back.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
I'm like, girl, no, there's a lot of people that
go back, like at forty right.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Yeah, I'm like, it's never too late.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
So no, I thought about it. I might yeah fired, man,
Like did you know? Because you never know, like what
are we going to do with if social media the
internet goes out one day or.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
Not even not even that. Like sometimes it's also like
good to like learn more.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
It makes it more smarter, I feel like for a girl,
and it's just like a little bit more sexier.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Too, like you know, thank you, Like I know I
have a degree business or whatever, you know.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
Like it's like it's like just to add a little
bus to you, and I love that.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
So I don't know, that's how I feel with people
that I get their masters then because I didn't get
my master's. Yeah, my bachelor's.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Yeah, girl, but still enough.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
No, But when I hear people say, oh, I have
my master's, I'm like, damn, like I feel doctor, Yeah,
I'm like wow, Like that's like I'm proud of you, guys,
because it's a lot.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
No for real. And then you see all these artists
like Taylor Swift, Kanye, all these other people that actually
go back to school and get like Kim K, like
she has four fucking kids.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
I know, isn't she like a lawyer or something.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
She's going to school to be a lawyer, and that's
like the hardest ship probably, like girls are studying.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Like if Kim K can do it, you guys, and
you can do it, anybody could do it, so obviously, Okay,
so you quit. You were scared, so scared, and then
what happened Like you just devoted all your time.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Yeah, that, Yeah, I started doing social media. That's when
my manager also found me. So yeah, so I'm like
thank god for her too, because she was like pitching
me too, so you know, I was like I felt safe,
like I didn't feel alone, like just doing it by myself.
So that really helped me a lot to like guide
me in the right steps.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Yeah. I love that. I like you had like you
weren't so you had help.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
Yeah, and I had my support system.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Too, and your brothers and all stuff. I love that.
That's that's so good because then there's a lot of
people that don't have that.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
I know, Dude, every time I see that, I'm like,
like I wish I could just like be there, like
bring them under my wing and be their support.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
System literally, And that's like what I feel like I
did with Troy all of them, like, because it's it's
like it's not easy. So no, it's not.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
And like in this industry, you can get f over
so many times if you don't if you're not careful.
So that's why when my manager came to me, she
gave me a lot of confianza because she was from
this She was actually raised in Bell Gardens too, so
when she cont and she gave me like a trial too,
Like it wasn't like, oh, you have committed committed, Yeah,
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so I knew she was like a good person.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
How do you feel now that there's like that change
in social media? Like do you feel? Because for me,
I felt a little lost, like oh and like TikTok and.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Oh my god, I still feel lost like the.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Age right, like the age difference, like you don't know
which audience to attract, right, like if the content is
still good or like you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Yeah, I feel I still feel lost. Honestly, I'm not
gonna lie, Like there's times where I like disappear from
social media and like my like all my best dies
they're like Marlene, You're like where are you? But I
think it just it gets to you sometimes, Like for sure,
it's so many like apps nowadays, like dude, like threats
just came on. I was doing that for like I
(24:49):
let that shit go Twitter too, like I haven't been
active on that for like forever. But Twitter also because
it became so toxic, like I was just like oh
my god, no, like it was bringing me down instead
of uplifting me. And I just took a break from that,
but there's threads, there's snapchats, snapchats back, which I miss
snaps so much, like I snap all the time now too,
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And then what else Instagram everything reals but not only
Instagram picks, Instagram reels, take talk like it's crazy, but.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
It's kind of finding like the happy medium and like
what the audience wants, right, So it's like, whatever, you guys,
let us know what you guys want to see to
help us out.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Over here, because sometimes I feel like I'm too old,
but sometimes I feel like I'm too.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Young young, Yes, Like look, I'm gonna be straight up
and honest, like now that I have like Shay Willito,
like I've gotten so many mixed messages like why are
you hanging out? Why don't you hang out with all
your age or oh why isn't she hanging out with them?
And it's like, okay, first of all, like like I
who said I kept like they're adults, they know what
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they're doing, and it's like I'm helping them.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Who was that I remember I hung out with? I
think it was about and oh my god, a lot
of people, what is she doing? This is weird? Like
why are they hanging out together? Like she's too old
to be hanging out with kids. I'm like, they're not kids.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
First of all, they do the same thing that we do, right,
Why can't we give advice if we get around friends?
Like what's the problem now?
Speaker 2 (26:17):
It's crazy. That's why I'm like sometimes I'm like, wait,
should I hit them up? Should I not hit them up?
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Like?
Speaker 2 (26:22):
My god, I know it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
What kind of other comments do you get? Like what
are like your worst hate comments?
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Well, you know there's always like, oh, the the comments
that get to me the most, they're going to start. No,
they're the ones that are like insulting my family. Like
when I would post them, they would like insult my
fam like talk about like their parents, my.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Fam What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Yes, exactly what I mean. Yeah, So that would bother
me a lot because I'm like, leave my family out
of this, Like you could talk shit to me, but
like not don't talk about my family because that would
get me so mad. And like there I go, like
I would the lead and block the lead and block
because I would not my family. It's on social media obviously,
like because they support me, but they're always like looking
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at the comments, so I wouldn't want them to see
that too and affect them.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Do you ever feel like you have to stop posting
your family Sometimes?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, Sometimes I'm like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
And then you don't want them to feel like why
do you stop posting me?
Speaker 2 (27:17):
Yeah? But you know what, I got to the point
where I'm like, you know whatever, because my mom one
time told me, oh, other comments, like when they start
commenting about your body, yeah, that too, that could get
to you. And it's so sad because it's like why,
like what's the reason for that?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
And then you look at their profile and it's totally different, right,
like no page or it's like a page of like
I don't know of animal or whatever.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Or like sometimes when they're like all religious, and I'm like, girl,
like why.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
Can't people just be kind? Like no, like, just be kind,
just speak kind words, and then it'll come back right,
like it's like good karma, like be kind to people.
It's like it's not the end of the way.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
Car.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
I always say that it always comes back to.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
You whether you're like.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
I remember there was a time when they were commenting
a lot on my body, yeah, and I was down
bad girl, Like my mom saw me and she's like, girl. Like,
she's like, why are you like this? And I'm like,
she can always tell when I'm like in a bad
mood or like in a sad mood. She's like, what's
going on? And I'm like, oh, it's just like the comments.
And then she's like girl, she's like via fr she's like,
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get your shit together, because they're not paying your rent.
They're not like here telling you in your face. They're
behind the screen like they're not going to do anything
to you. And I'm like, yeah, but like it's because well,
and she's like, girl, don't even pay attention. She's like,
don't read them, block your if you have to put
if you have to block your comments to it. And
I'm like, but I don't want to because there's all
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there's also the people that support me and that are
commenting good, positive things. And she's like, well, focus on that, yeah,
instead of focusing on the bad.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
And I was like, you're right, I agree, and I
get that from my friends too.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
You always look at the map one it's like because
it's there, it's like and then we forget about all
the good way come.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
Yeah, And then I feel guilty because I'm like Oh
my god, I should be paying attention to everybody else
like reporting me.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
It's true, So got to listen to ourselves.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, dude, listen to So Now what I do is block.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Yeah, it's I don't. And the word filters the filters
of the world. You know.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
I started doing that very.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
It makes it so much better. And even then, like
there's still some but it makes it so much better.
I'm like, I'll put like slut or fat. I mean,
like I do not want to see those words, so
make sure they're not in there. Yeah, I get all
of all of those. What do you have? Do you
remember like your worst worst comment, my worst comment, but
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affected you like the most? Like and like, did call
you something?
Speaker 2 (29:54):
I think. I was at the gym and they were
saying that I that might BB I was watched.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I was like, you start looking at the beer.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
I was like, wait really, And then I was asking everybody, dude.
I went to like all my friends and I asked
them and they're like, girl, what are you talking about?
Like you look good? And I'm like, everybody's saying it's botched,
But no, dude, it was just I was gaining weight.
But it wasn't like I was watched you know.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
No, and it's like, yeah, like you're happy with You're.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Happy right, Oh yeah, I'm super happy.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
We're going to talk about the l right now. We're
going to talk about it right now, about the whole
surgery thing. What do you feels like your misconception, Like
people always get wrong about you.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
They think about this for like most girls though that
you're a bitch. Yeah, like they're like, oh, when I
first saw you, I thought you didn't like me, or
I thought that you were I'm like, what.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
I feel like it's a Latin I like our face.
Oh yeah, I get that all the time. But that's
also because I'm very quiet and like introverted and I
don't really like you know, like I don't really at events.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Or whatever right right, Like you're to yourself. Yeah that's
how I am too. When I get drunk, I gets
so inspirational, like I don't know, like something hits me
and I'm like, oh my god, Like you're doing great,
keep going, Like I just want to tell everybody that
they're doing great, like if they haven't heard it before,
like you're doing great, keep going, like you're doing amazing thing.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Someone needs to hear it.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Right, So, and maybe because I'm drunk and I need
to hear it sometimes too, I start thinking about it. Yeah,
and then that's when I start telling people too. And dude,
it's embarrassing sometimes because I'm like, I'm so drunk and
I'm over here telling them, and the next the next day,
I'm all quiet.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
You could be talking shit, but you're giving someone insprain
true true, Like so no one could be mad about that.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
True because I could be like the mean girl and
like gyues, you.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
Could be like true fuck you, Like, no, you're helping people,
and I love that. Like, girl, keep on drinking, there's
no problem.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
Keep on drinking, girl.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Okay, we're gonna go on another quick break and then
we're gonna come back and talk about love and your
surgery not that. Okay, welcome back you guys. Okay, So
I want to talk about your surgery. You've been very
open and honest about that. Right. When did you get it?
Speaker 2 (32:06):
I think like two years ago? Yeah, it was in
a while.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
How do you feel now now that it's settled in? Right?
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Yeah? I feel good. I definitely gain weight though, because
when I first came out of it, I was so like,
do it? I was tiny, Like I missed that.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
And I'm like, let's go back.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Yeah, I'm like, let's go. I'm like round two.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
No, because it's like I just told my sister too,
because she's getting her mommy makeover and she's like, I'm
nervous this is and that. I'm like, look all our lives,
we've been dreaming. We've we've been talking about going to
sleep and waking up skinny, yeah, and having a fun
and that's what's gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
You're gonna go to sleep, wake up, and it's.
Speaker 1 (32:44):
Like every girl like dreams, Like you know, did you
obviously when you got it, did you feel like any
insecurities or like worried, and what was like your reason
forgetting it? You've always wanted to?
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Yeah, I always wanted to. I think I always had
like the love handles, and every time I would go
to the gym, I would never, like as hard as
I would go, like they would never go away. And
I remember I told my mom Mom, like I'm gonna
give myself a year, like I'm gonna go hard at
the gym a year, and if I don't see results,
I'm gonna go get a BBM. She's like ay, is
that loca because in the beginning she didn't want me
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to and I'm like, it's because like I really want it,
and she's like, okay, then what just dedicate yourself to
the gym and then we'll see. And well I did
the gym.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Thing purposely not yeah, I'm like I would skip like.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Like three times a week and after I'm like okay,
like I'm gonna just get it. And I didn't even
tell my parents. I just told them when I had
my appointment. No, and like they couldn't do anything because
one I was like twenty over twenty one already and
yeah I was paying myself too, and what can they
tell you, like and they're like, okay, boys, like we'll
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go with you. So they went with me.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Where did you get it?
Speaker 2 (33:54):
Tijuana? Yeah? With campus? Oh yeah, yeah, I did my
little research. I was like I need to like be
sure you know, yeah, I love it? Did you I
Sometimes I think about it.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
Because I'm doing another or to do something else.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
To do another bb on. But look, let me tell
you guys, like I think about it, but then I'm like, no,
I don't want it, Like I'd rather just go to
the gym this time. But because I don't want to
put my body through like that again, like I feel
like it's a lot that they do. So I'm like,
oh my god, I I wouldn't want to, Like like
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I'm like, I'm a little nervous, but I have thought
about my boobs. I do me too, But then I
think about all this other stuff, and I'm like, maybe
just to lift I don't know. I still haven't decided,
but everybody tells me not to do my boobs because.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
I feel like a lot of people like that have
done it, like recently, like seeing some type.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Of right reaction, and that's that's what scares me. And
I'm like, Okay, maybe I shouldn't do like breast and plants,
like maybe I should lift them up.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Even then I get scared, like what happens with the lift?
Speaker 2 (35:03):
I think they're just like, well, I don't know what
I actually, I haven't done my research yet, but yeah,
we're gonna do our research and then we'll let.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
You guys know. Welcome back. How was obviously like the reaction,
how like people saying anything? Was there a lot of
hate comments?
Speaker 2 (35:17):
I was scared to like tell my audience in the beginning,
but I was like I can't lie to them either, Like, girl,
it's gonna be a whole big difference of like how
my body was. So I'm gonna just let them know.
And I made a video on everything on YouTube of
my experience, and I honestly feel like that was the
best way because they appreciated that I was being honest
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with them and I wasn't hiding it from them. So
I was like, oh my god, thank god. Like I
didn't have a few hate comments, but I mean I
didn't really care about it because I'm my girl to
my body at the end of the day, like I
could do whatever. Yeah, and I'm doing it for me.
If you don't want to get it done, then don't
get it done. But let other people like decide for themselves,
you know, like don't be hating in the comments.
Speaker 1 (35:58):
For real, you didn't pay for it.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Yeah, And also you don't know how like like it
can help somebody to like with their like confidence confidence,
because for me, it boosted my confidence so much, so much.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
And it's like it's not even to say that, like
you were super insecure whatever, but it's like it just
makes you feel good about yourself, like in the clothes
you wear and your videos and like, you know, so
if girls, if you want to get your surgery, do it,
do it because it's it's your body, it's your money,
it's what you want to do.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Just obviously do research and do it for the right reasons.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
Do it for the right reasons.
Speaker 2 (36:31):
Yeah, because there's also people that have done it and
they're not happy. Yeah, so you have to like go
like internally and like really like see if you that's
what you.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
Want, because it's a lot mentally. Oh yeah, it's like
if you're sitting on your ass or sitting like doing
nothing for a long.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Time for six weeks, you can't sit on give your
life and yeah you're like what did I do this for?
Speaker 1 (36:54):
You know? But for real, like do your research. Make
sure you're mentally prepared. Like it's a lot, it's heavy,
it's heavy, it's a huge change, Like you're gonna look
at yourself and it doesn't settle in for a while.
Just let it, you know, let the body do it's there.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, do your research and doctors too, like make sure
their board certified and know where you're going because that's
also very scary too.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
And make sure you love yourself no matter what.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Yes, that's the kill him.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
So I kind of want to know where Oscar came
into all of this.
Speaker 2 (37:24):
At what point so I already had my baby out,
already had it done. He came in when was it
like two years ago?
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Okay, because you were in a toxic relationship, right, Oh yeah,
you were in a toxic relationship and obviously comes in
Oscar the King, and I feel like he generally like
I could see you just in his eyes and I
don't know him that well, but he loves you, yeah,
and like you just like you guys hold on to
each other, and like he treats you so good.
Speaker 2 (37:53):
It's so good.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
Dude, how did you guys meet and all that?
Speaker 2 (37:55):
So we met like two and a half years ago.
It was when I was trying to see how to
invest my money and I had told my mom. I'm like, oh, Mom,
like I want to see like different ways to invest
my money. And she's like, oh, well, like why don't
you buy a property, And girl, I'm like, hold on,
I don't have much that much money for a property.
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She's like, no, like, let's go see how you're able
to qualify. And I'm like okay, I'm like and dude,
I didn't even know that you had to qualify, like
to buy a house or you know, like all that.
So she's like, let me take you with like a
realtor that I know, and she took me with the realtor,
and the realtor took Oscar because Oscar is a loan officer.
So I was kind of scared because it was two
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of them, and I just thought it was gonna be
one of them. And I'm like, oh my god, like
I'm intimidated. I didn't know anything, Like they were asking
me all these personal questions like and I was just there,
you know, like a little chamaca. And that's how we met.
Like we left it at that. They asked they told
me how to qualify, like which at the time I
didn't qualify, but they did let me know like other information.
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And then he followed me on Instagram, he followed me
on he messaged me, and he's like, oh, I followed
you on all your social platforms to support you. I'm like,
oh my god, I'm like to support me. What okay, yeah, okay,
I'll take that. And I followed him back and then
one day he just messaged me. He said in the
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DMS it was when I had my foot fractured, and
he was just like, take it easy on yourself, because
I remember posting a story and I was just going
in on myself, like I was telling myself, I'm so dumb,
like why did I even get in the scooter and
fracture my foot? Like I can't even take pictures, I
can't even like go out on super And he's like, oh,
take it easy, and that's how we started. And then
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from there, like we just it took a while. Actually,
it took like months for him to ask me out
at it. Well, we kind of like we were just
talking as friends and still like in a professional side,
and then we stopped. I think he actually stopped replying
to me for like two months. No, I didn't even
(40:09):
notice because at the time, like I was just doing
my thing and then he was doing his thing. And
then out of nowhere, Oh, it was his birthday and
I saw that it was his birthday, so I said
happy birthday to him. I'm like I made the other move. Yeah,
and then that's when it all started. And we went
on a couple of days and yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
Did you ever feel scared because you were like in
a previous relationship, like you didn't like your heart was
kind of closed.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Yeah. I was super scared actually, like to go on
a first day with him. But then after I'm like, girl,
like I can't always be like like this, like be
in my room like not wanting to know about man.
I'm like, I just need to like let go, let
go of that. And I did. I just I was like,
let me just do this first day, Let's see how
this goes. Oh my god. And the first day was
(40:57):
like amazing, really, how was it? It was so good?
Like we went to dinner and then it was just
like those little things that you know, yeah that you
know they're gentlemen and they like we went to a
restaurant and he was like, first he opened the door
for me, which that's a major like if you don't
do that, then red flag two. When we were ordering,
(41:19):
he was like very like attentive to like, oh, you know,
they have this like kind of like ordering for me.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Like making you feel comfortable and making.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
My life easier. I was like, wait, what's like usually
when I go to a restaurant with new people, I
feel weird because what do I order? Like what's in
the menu? You know? And he was like, you know,
explaining everything detail by detail, and yeah it was everything
was like good, like everything was perfect at night.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (41:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (41:45):
And how long how long have you guys been together for? Now?
Speaker 2 (41:47):
Almost year?
Speaker 1 (41:48):
Two years? And your parents love him?
Speaker 2 (41:50):
Oh my god, my parents love him.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
Yeah. Yeah, And I remember you were saying that one
time he asked your family.
Speaker 2 (41:56):
Oh yeah, he asked my parents to be your girlfriend
my girlfriendeople like you were like fifteen.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
I was so shook. Like when my mom told me,
I was like, no way he did that. She's like yeah,
Like before you guys left, he asked me if it
was okay, and I was like what, Like that's so cute.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
I feel like nobody ever does that Moore, I know,
like okay, So it's not like fully necessary, but it's
just like it adds like just like a little touch,
Like it's like I'm thinking of everybody around me.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
Right, and I care about like your your family and
not only you, but your family, and that means that
meant like the world to me. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
Good applause for Oscar and.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Just going from like a toxic to that dude. It
was like I think my family loves him so much
because they just saw the change in me.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
It's like what you needed.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
I was a different person, Like I was so down
in my last relationship, and like when he came into
my life, it was like it was just a new me,
right because I was treated being treated right.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
He gives you like that and everything.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Animas and support. It was like like a whole like
one eight.
Speaker 1 (43:04):
Yeah, do you feel like this is like the one?
Speaker 2 (43:07):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (43:07):
Yes, Like I don't, right, so if he's the one,
like and obviously I don't. I feel like people don't know.
But you guys don't live together no, right, So is
that different now that you're older, Like you guys want
to live together? Like what are the plans there?
Speaker 2 (43:26):
So we haven't talked about it yet, okay, because he
lives like on his own with like he lives like
like his roommate and then like his brother, and then
I live I still live with my parents, but I
don't know maybe in the future and like I still
we haven't talked about it because we're still taking it
like step by step, like we don't want to like
(43:47):
also rush into things. But definitely I would obviously want.
Speaker 1 (43:50):
To live with him. I feel like like that you
guys still have that dating aspect like yes, spark right,
like drop me off at home like pick me up? Yeah,
romantic like Okay, sometimes.
Speaker 2 (44:03):
I do like I am with him though, but it's
not like all the time than vocal because my mom
always tells me like it's still gotta.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
Which is like I feel like still gives it, like
it makes it healthy, makes it more exciting, like you
guys aren't in a rush.
Speaker 2 (44:18):
You still miss each other, yes, like you're not always
like there with one another like im palagosles.
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Warning off here.
Speaker 2 (44:28):
Yeah, I'm all like holding on nobody.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Like I said, it makes it romantic and healthy, like
it's just that, and I feel like that's what you need. Anybody.
Anybody needs that, just a healthy relationship like after coming
out from something toxic, like you know what's good now,
Like he treats you good and it's like still literally
boyfriend girlfriend like how it should be.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
Yeah, and that's honestly Like when I saw that, I
was like, dude, this is like what I've been asking
for my whole life, Like thank god he came to
my life because he literally changed it.
Speaker 1 (44:58):
We'll be waiting for my invitation, okay to the wedding,
you know, don't worry. Okay, So we've talked social media,
we've talked about your surgery, growing up college. What is
your piece of advice that you can give to someone
(45:19):
maybe in the same position as you, or you know,
something that you've learned, like a monumental moment in your
life where you've learned and you just you want to
give that hope and inspiration.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
To people to just keep going, Like, don't ever get
the scourage of what you're doing, because like I said earlier,
like I got this courage when I was starting social media,
and I wish that was in the case because if
I maybe if I would have gone like kept going,
it would have led to something different different. But just
keep going, keep doing you don't listen to anybody like
(45:49):
the negative comments, and keep thriving like it. And if
you're going through something right now, like it gets better,
Like trust me, it really does get better. But just
know that God always has something for you, for each
and every one of us, like you're never alone, so
it will get better. It will.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
And I feel like for you, like I don't. I
think I feel like yours is taking risk. Yeah, taking risk, and.
Speaker 2 (46:16):
Take the risk girl, take it because you're always gonna
have that in your head, like oh what if I
didn't do it, or like like what if I would
have done it? Where would I be right now? So
just do it, like, no matter what, take the risk.
Speaker 1 (46:31):
And whatever you're doing though, yeah, like it doesn't even
if it's not social media, if you need to go,
if you're getting a.
Speaker 2 (46:37):
New job or.
Speaker 1 (46:39):
Something with the house or whatever in a relationship, take
the risk because you don't know if you don't try.
Speaker 2 (46:44):
Also, like a reasonable risk to like have always a plan,
b a plancy to always like fall back to that, you.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
Know, like but case something doesn't work out.
Speaker 2 (46:54):
You always have you always have something else.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
And it's not too late. Guys, you really inspired me.
If it's to go back to school, yes, pends would
be like don't go back to schools. It's like no,
like in just in case it's something and I'll go
back to this. But it gives you some sense of
normal normalcy and like life, Like I want to be
able to say, like I went to school, I did this,
and like I had a normal life in that sense,
(47:18):
right right, what I mean aside from social media, what
are your goals? What are your what does your future
look like? Where do you see yourself? Are there any
collabs anything that you want to.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
I definitely want to keep growing on social media. I
see myself as a CEO, So I want to start
my business like maybe like in a couple of years.
I don't know what yet. I'm still trying to like
find my passion because I feel like you really have
to be passionate about something if you're going to start something.
And I do have collapse coming, so I stay tuned
(47:53):
for that. I'm super excited. But yeah, they've been in
the works for a couple months now, so I'm excited. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (47:59):
Well her, So you're so Marlene, dizzl Marlene, Marlene on everything,
on every everything, Marlene. Not hard to tell you, guys.
All right, well, thank you so much for love. I
really appreciate. I love the conversation that we had, and
you really inspired me. You inspired me to school. Yes,
go back to school, get it done. No, it's always
(48:21):
that extra little plan b my plan, be there, my plans.
Thank you so much. Thank you, Karen. I love you
so much. You're such a good friend and you're such
a beautiful heart and soul. Make sure you guys follow her.
Make sure you guys follow Overcomfort Podcast. Thank you guys
so much for watching and listening from wherever you guys
are at. And I'll see you guys next Tuesday by
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