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March 17, 2023 49 mins

Episode 226 - "The Baller Alert Show" Feat: Ferrari Simmons, Su Solo & You Know BT Produced by: Octavia March

with Special Guest, Social Media Influencer: Alexis Skyy

Topics include: ICYM, Drake, Blueface, our exclusive interview with Alexis Skyy: quitting Love & Hip-Hop, Relationships, Body Enhancements & more.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
UMQW with me here you know bt so low shout
oct no color? What we see? Who getting rid the
bla bit something? Oh, you can't stand on the home SUSI.
I really know he can't ball with me because you
have with a squad of me. They getting they called
me roller to the Ballerler show was so set, so

(00:29):
you don't bet I'm in the building. And we got
the one and only Alexis Sky joining us show. Yeah
with the million dollars smile blinging, Yeah, how are you doing?
It's the washtoo. Now look at what people in here
who had just got their veneers done or needed something up.

(00:49):
It was like if my teeth fall out, just cut
away from it was like headed it out if it
falls out. Yeah, no, it really happened. She was literally
talking trying to hold her teeth. That happens, they fall out? Yeah, Like, man,
how do they fall out? It's like, think about granting
a critics on your nail when you're going to announce one,
think about the overlay. It's an overlay on your teeth
on her whole thing was about those the whole thing thing. No, No,

(01:15):
you know what I think it is. I think that
she didn't complete the process. Yeah, yeah it was so
you know what she had on? She had tempts. Yeah,
I can't even lie. My tempts fell out too. I
was like literally fell out. I had like a missing
while your your teeth shaved down. Yeah, unfortunately, should look good,
thank you. Well. The first time I was having like

(01:36):
the k under so you have to get care with
the veneers. So I had to get all my teeth, like,
not all of them, the front one shaved down lower
because you can get like an infection. So I had
to go to Columbia get antibiotics and they then them
all over. Now they look good. Yeah, I want to
look course wrestling right unfortulately Now the person is the
best one. Yeah, they're more expensive, but they look better

(01:57):
and the maintenance isn't like I'm there annoying because it's
hard to lost. Yeah, but your teeth will ever like
turn yellow teeth. Don't be smond us. Now do you
rush your teeth teeth? I'm just saying, like, you know, no,
I brush my teeth, but like if you were not
to brush your teeth, it's like they're permanently one color.

(02:18):
There's no you know, that's cute wake up in the morning.
I roused done. Yeah, teeth done. That's cute. Still, you stik,
I brush some teeth because you check it out on
our show. We do in case you missed it. So
we're just gonna go through some topics and you're just
gonna give your opinions. So we're gonna get into that
right about now. All right, So congratulations to rub your

(02:42):
Miller welcomes his second daughter and her name is Winter
Snow Miller. I love that name. That Yeah, I'm like,
I actually think that, Um what you think? She's gorgeous
and all babies are blessings. That is real. And he's
a girl. Dad, this is second daughter. You know, you
know what they say his life for a reason. Ye right,

(03:04):
That's exactly what I was getting to. What you know,
when they give when God gives men daughter daughter, the
daughter after daughters, how he treated some other daughters in
his past life? Well? Anyways, inflation is real and Drake
tickets are looking like Beyonce tickets. Drake fans are complaining
about how how the tickets are because the tour with
twenty one Savage is all a blue right now, what

(03:25):
are y'all thoughts about these high ass tickets. I don't
think it's right. What do you want the people to do?
People who might not be able to afford it? A
lot of fans, you know, you got to cater to
like your fans, not everybody might not afford them. And
like as a rapper, I could see with Beyonce, she's
doing a lot, she's performing and everything. But Drake is
gonna stand there on a mic with flames on the

(03:46):
screen in the background. It's like, no, so what y'all try?
That's the prices of the ticket. The nose bleeds are
two hundred dollars starting like to get I guess it
was like a bottle for one thousand dollars over a
thousand gotta be at that point. Yeah, that's a little high,
But it's Drake. No, I would start off like fifty

(04:07):
dollars one hundred and work the way down to like
you'll got to take a consideration too. That is Drake
and twenty one. Oh, you gotta take into consideration reality, Like, man,
they trying to make that money. His fan base is
like younger people as well, like that, you know, working
a job that might not be able to afford a
thousand dollars ticket average. They might empty their savings just

(04:27):
to go to that concert. That's not you know, I'm
sure that's not smart. That's true, that's not smart. But
when he's like a fan of somebody, you'll do it.
But it's like, are you going to see Beyonce or Drake?
Because they both coming, they both coming to town. Little
Wayne is his own tour. He's about to start to
see who would you see? Yeah? Who would you see? Yeah? Okay,
because you're gonna get your money worth Okay. I think

(04:49):
most they puts on the show. Yeah, I think most
Drake and twenty one Savage fans aren't debating if they're
gonna go see Beyonce or them. They're definitely gonna go
see Drake in twenty one. Like, I don't think that's
a bait for the people going than yeah Drake fans, Yeah,
but that's messed up. Like the average rent in Atlanta
is twenty five hundred. Like what you want these people

(05:10):
to do? They gonna be like twenty one? Can't you do? So? Literally,
what's going on with job Morant? Who's gone? Where you
holding the gun? Wasn't my? It's not who I am?
I don't condone and or any type of violence. But
he's not saying whose gun it was. Well, we obviously
know it wasn't his gun. Well, how do you know that?

(05:31):
What we know now it was a real gun. He
kept saying there was a toy gun. That job morant
was was flash that girl was too small, and then
yeah it was a real gun from from what they said.
But it was so small. I said, man, that's like
a fake gun. And then Chaota came on on the
show a couple of days ago, hilarious, say that's a
little doucy. I mean have left the club. I say, hey, man,

(05:54):
I don't think you need to be telling us telling
Ustic is hilarious. But he restaurant I got suspended. John
Ryan got suspended. Well, now it's time for clean up.
He can't have his image out there looking crazy, looking
like a thug. He has to clean it up like
he did that interview. Though he had to do that,
he already made a statement. He owned up to to

(06:14):
his you know, to um to his mistake. It wasn't
giving genuine but if you look at the interview, it
looked like he didn't even want to do it. In
exactly that's why he had to do it all, why
you shouldn't have done it. He was doing an interview
like uh yeah, I mean yeah, sure, it looked like
somebody because all the definitely dropping. If your first little

(06:39):
statement was not genuine and you were in the same
you were acting in the same way that you are
in trouble for, you need to come back and do
it better, do it again until you get it right.
I just think he just shouldn't have said anything at all.
If I was on his team gonna put out the state.
But the interview was too quick, Like I felt like

(06:59):
if he would have did this interview like months later,
when nobody was really talking about it, I feel like
it'll be more genuine. But he looked like he was
forced to say all the stuff that's happening in real time.
He's losing money in real time. It's like he has
to save his career. But I didn't see the interview,
but I think it was best that he did do
something or everything just would have been done for him.
I've seen I've seen the post about it. But where

(07:20):
the ogs like, you know, telling him like hey up,
you're messing up. You're about to affect your career, your family,
Like you worked so hard to get here, and this
is what you want to do. You want to drop
the ball because you want to be a gangster on Instagram.
Well guess who is a big gangster on Instagram? Bully.
At the same time, Blue Face to keep on messing

(07:40):
with Costan until she gets an abortion? What kind of
low life is this real? I just have like no
respect for him, like whatsoever? Um, And it's just sad.
He's very disrespectful and Pshawn is a beautiful girl. And
I really just you know, you can't really control when
you like somebody love and make you do crazy things.

(08:01):
But I think she really needs to like get some
help and get out that situation because it's just to
go through all this pregnant thought. Confused, is she pregnant
because I've just seen a podcast with her just drinking
liquor from the bottle. I don't know she's I don't
know what the current bodle because I haven't seen have
been drinking. So she's pregnant. Yeah, Oh she even looks pregnant,

(08:24):
look like her face. Well, yes, I just think that
he just needs to stay away from her. Wow, this
is the thing people are saying he needs to leave
her alone. A man is not going to leave you
alone if you keep allowing access, if he doesn't have
to give you commitment, if he doesn't have to respect you,
and you keep allowing it, he not gonna leave. She

(08:45):
has to leave. I just feel like it's just becoming
a circus at this point, and it's just like, no,
it was like at first to me, it was like funny,
like some things were funny. I'm like, okay, this is
just Then when I started seeing like the domestic power
and like the violence and then the liquor and her
just coming on and just lashing out, I just think
that he's tearing her down and it's not looking good,

(09:08):
especially right now she's about to be a new mom
because I didn't know she was pregnant. I's been seeing pictures.
I didn't know because I was seeing things saying that,
oh she's not pregnant, she is um. But because she's
about to be a new mom, I think she just
needs to kind of like gets something. But that's his
plan is to like, I guess, stress her out till
she you know, miscarried. He needs to get some help himself. Yeah,
and they went counseling. I think it needs to go

(09:29):
deeper than counseling. I think it needs to be like
time away. They just need to break up and leave
each other along. Now I think they need forced to
be separated like the force, because breaking up, they're gonna
come right back together, like they need to be in
this state, this state no communication. If he doesn't get help,
he's gonna do this to the next moment, he's gonna
sniff out. You know, a woman who is not strong

(09:50):
enough to stand on her own two feet, she will
take the abuse. Like. He doesn't even disrespect his I mean,
he don't even respect his mother. So that should be
a sign. If a man is respect his mother, he's
not going to respect you. So the way he disrespects
his mother is just disgusting. So I don't have no
respect for him at all. Did you see when his
mom said that her man retails. They're like always like

(10:12):
the topic of the week sometimes, so all in your algorithm, listen.
I want to avoid it. It's like, what's going on today,
what's on this episode today? The episode of blue Face today?
What do we got? That's why I said we see
them more than the damn president. When the president says something.
I don't see nothing unless I watch the news. Well, hopefully,
you know, her having this baby will change her mindset.

(10:34):
You know, I'm praying for that. Sometimes people change, sometimes
people don't, and it might the baby might definitely change
because there'll be a different type of love. And especially
it's a boy. You know, it might be good for life. No.
In his last video, he was holding a baby good putting.
Chris shown on blast about how dirty the laundry room

(10:56):
is and how her closet is not organized, and he said, Lord,
I could see it now. The baby diaper gonna be shitty.
I'm gonna have a shitty baby, is what he said
out of his mouth. I'm cool on that. Have all
ever dealt with anybody that disrespectful? Not? On? That is
the most toxic I've seen, Like nobody could top them. Yeah, nobody.

(11:18):
What'sn't been your personal experience? Because you you have been
very open about some things that you went through, Like
so have you personally? Yeah, I've went through toxic situations,
but I don't think as to that extreme, and I
think publicly, I think it's more embarrassing. I think everybody
went through something toxic but it's not as you know,
public as there and they're putting it out there, and
I kind of think they go on live and do things.

(11:38):
I don't know what they're really craving, but they're like
showing the world they're toxic side. So that's but some
people deal with like pain and hurt that way, So
I think that's how they're just like releasing it. But
I've dealt with it, but not to the extreme like that.
He said that in a tweet in a series of
tweets said he's been doing lately. He said that if
you do not do what I say privately, then I'm
going to embarrass you publicly. Yeah, that's not good. He

(12:00):
needs some healing. They both need to be healed. So man,
that's crazy. Yeah, Runaways, let's let these sponsors heal us.
So we're gonna take a quick break out. We'll be
more Alert Show. Alexa Sky's here. We'll be right back
with more of the Baller Alert Show. You're listening to
a special edition of the Baller Alert Show. Hey, it's

(12:20):
Alexis Sky coming up on the ball Alert Show. All right,
bather Alert, We're back with Alexis Sky in the building.
All Right, Alexus for our audience who don't really know.
You're on a new path right now, you know, just
fill us in on where you came from, you know,
where you elevating from. Who was Alexis Sky before the

(12:41):
fame and the attend to this change? Okay? So, um,
when I was younger, I always wanted to be famous.
So I always knew I was gonna be somebody. So
that's that, Um, growing up, I came from a good family. Um.
Then you know, I left home at a young age,
so I was in the street. I kind of got
caught up in the street life, and then I created

(13:02):
you know, the name Alexis guy. How old were you
when you left home? Um? Sixteen fifteen? Sixteen years old?
Here and you just wanted to have a little more freedom,
you felt like, Yeah, I came from a good family,
just wanted to be free. Where are you from? Um?
From New York? But I was raised here in Georgia
and um wine, oh right, yeah yeah, and nothing's out there,

(13:27):
so I just wanted to be in the city. I
wanted to be you know, so I wanted to be
like the new News, so you know what I mean
pretty much? Yeah, So I left home and I kind
of just you know, it was in the streets a
little bit, and then I kind of created a name
Alexis Sky, started modeling, doing hostings, and I've just built
from there where you get Alexis Scott from it's a

(13:50):
long story. Well, my name is Alexis, but the Sky
part was from somebody I don't even want to talk
about right now, but I like it if it's me.
You were open about a traumatic experience around the age
of fifteen. Yeah, how did that, first of all share
with the audience? If you feel comfortable what that experience
was and how that helped you navigate into adulthood. UM.

(14:14):
I won't go into details, um, but you know, I
would just say, like I did leave home, I got
caught up in the wrong situation with the wrong people. UM.
In Atlanta, trafficking is huge and I got caught up here. UM.
So it kind of like affected my life going forward
with the decisions I made and the environment I put
myself in, just because of the mindset of what I

(14:36):
was taught through those years. So it just became a
pattern movie. How many years was it? Um? It was not.
It was really like sixty days. It wasn't out of that.
You know, I think you just had free wheel to
just go. No, I just had to really get gang still,
Like I really like think like how am I gonna
get out of here? It was like how am I

(14:57):
go out of here? So did you like run away
or yeah? I mean I did something else. But what
advice would you give women that that you know have
been in those situations that whoa I guess currently are
in those situations because the trafficking in Atlanta is huge,
Like you see bill Boys you hear talking about. Yeah,

(15:18):
I kind of want to you know. Right now, what
I'm working on with my team is bringing more awareness
to it. I was you know, I told my story before,
but I never really liked explained it. And I feel
like it's so much that we need to do out
here in Atlanta, and especially in these strip clubs and
these young girls even now they're like kidnapping girls at Walmart.
It's just so much things that we could like do
to help, you know, protect these young women out there

(15:40):
in the last because you never know, you know, like
for me at that time, I didn't know, I got
set up by a friend. So I feel like that's
how that's how it always happened, or it could be
like a guy you know, persuading you, making you think
that you're you know, his girlfriend, and it turns into pimping. So,
you know, it's a difference between pimping and trafficking. Like
when you're being pimped, it's like okay, like you know

(16:01):
what's going on, but you're just not strong enough to
you know, be on your own. But trafficking is being
held against your will, like being sold off. So I
can't imagine there's some there you saw. I'm working on
that now, trying to create awareness for that. I don't know,
there's plenty of other women out there that's been you know,
do the same thing. If you're gonna do like a
documentary or something, yes, I think you're not only having

(16:23):
a platform, but being someone that can speak from real
experience and using your platform, I think a lot of
women will really gravitate towards that. But also, how do
we help the men in our community understand that they
can protect us too. They can be vocal if they
see something like how how do we talk to men
about sex trafficking? Because I think that people always make

(16:46):
it a woman's issue and they leave out the fact
that a lot of the men are carrying out these deeds.
How do we bridge that gap? That's a hard question.
I really that because I never thought about that because
we always speaking to woman about it. But I think
for men, if you see something or you see something
that right, like, just imagine if that was your daughter,
I would just that would be my best advice. Imagine
if that was your little girl or that was your sister,

(17:08):
how would you feel, because you know, nobody deserves to
go to the the best of Yeah, and so how did
you become an influencer? Um? So I was obviously in
a relationship with Fatty at the time. I was That's
what sparked it because I feel like I like, well,
I already familiar with you well because I was nobody
really knew me on Instagram at the time, but I
was like a popping dancer here in Atlanta, and I

(17:28):
built my name from like Magic City, so people started
hearing my name, so you probably knew me from that.
But then I was dating Fatty and we kind of
were like the first couple to go like public on
Instagram and made it like a you know thing at
that time. So and then from there I kind of
just built my own brand. You know, I didn't really
want to be attached to oh Fatti Wopperlar like, so

(17:49):
I was like, no, let me create my own lane,
build me up, build my brand, and beat me my
own person. So yeah, what was the route, Like did
you start working with brands and like become maybe like
a model for something brands or how did you actually
build your own identity? Well? I had like a million
followers at that time, so I just kept posting every day. Um,
we kind of had like a little series like back

(18:11):
then on Instagram with all his girlfriends. It was just
like so I just kept gaining more followers and I
would just you know, keep posting content and then brands
would reach out to me and I created Marcus. Yeah.
Well I just at that moment, I knew I had
to like make sure I had backup plans on, you know,
for myself. So Trip Queen was about you, yep, And

(18:35):
how do you conduct business on a day to day basis.
We'll be talking about back then, no like today, like
to keep your brand still you know going, you just
gotta keep going. Like I'm a hustler. I've been a
hustler since I was younger. So for me, I like money.
So if you like money, you know you gotta do
get up every day and figure it out. Every day
might not be easy, something might not work, a business
might phil. I just feel like you gotta keep going.

(18:55):
And businesses have you had? Um I've had a recovery
how else and know how to salon? Oh wow? Yeah?
Um so my recovery house got shut down by like
the state people hating. So that's another thing too, Like
with me being an influencier, it's kind of hard having
businesses because there's so much people that don't want to
see when and they're praying on your down posts and
go find one little thing to try to sabotage you.

(19:16):
And that's kind of like what's happened with me. And
I think learning the learning process for me is like
finding good staff, finding people you can rely on. Because
of me, I wasn't gonna go live my life travel
and I'm like relying on other people to run my
business for me. So I learned that you have yeah,
not even friends, but people that I hired that I
thought I could trust or and then it all falls
back on me. So then it's like I have to

(19:38):
defend myself always. So now I'm moving forward. I feel
like if I am to open anything else up, nobody
would know I'm gonna do it. I like the white
people do it, and I'm like, nobody, No, I got
my coins and here, I got my coins and here.
So I'll just probably be a private investor when it
comes to like different businesses, you know. I think on
top of that too, people just kind of want to
put you in a box. Like some people will really

(19:59):
be like who does alexis, guy? Think she is with
a recovery house, Like she's she's an Instagram model, she's
this or that, Like people really want to put you
in a box and they don't believe it. And I'm human, Yeah,
I'm human. And like I was in the recovery house
cooking for the girls, like literally, like I was trying
to save a dollar anyway I can, Like I didn't
want to hire chefs. I was cooking, I was there
spending the night with them, like I was doing things

(20:20):
like I'm human just like you guys. So I really
enjoyed it. But I was in Egypt. Somebody was hating
on me and and I could have kept going. I
could have kept going, but I just gave up. And
so I learned from that like to like not just
give up so fast. I really should have like revisited
it because it made me a lot of money. But
you still can where does the girls go? What do
you they just went back or did they go to

(20:42):
another No? It was a recovery house for surgery. When
you get like bo and like surgery, so you come
and you recover. I had nurses there and things like that,
so recovery like no, I had like no, no, no,
this was like when you got surgery and stuff, not
where all the addicts go. Wait, I didn't even know that.

(21:04):
So when you get your body done, you have to recover. Yeah,
So I had nurses there taking care of them, and
it was like a nice house. It was dope. It
was like six girls in the house. I bet you
was a lot. Because you can get that house done,
you can got some money rest up too, right, So
it pretty much was like an airbnb, but they're paying
for like the services that they're getting in there, so

(21:24):
they had to pay the nurses and the stay. So
it was a lot of more. And then I had
a salon. My salon was perfectly fine. Um, for me.
I just was bored during the pandemic, and I was like,
let me just do something. So I opened a salon
in my home during the pandemic. You opened it. Wow,
I started to build out. And then once we kind
of like was able to reopen up. Um, I just salon,
but I don't do hair. So I was making money,

(21:47):
but it just was not making sense. It was like, Okay,
if I was a hairstylist, I would profit more. So
I was like, I sold it and it just wasn't
for me. Do you think there's a lot of pressure
for black women's, specifically in our culture to look a
certain type of way, like you having the recovery house,
You're seeing all these women getting the bbl's the light
bol this of that, Like, is there pressure for black
women to pa? Yes? Absolutely, I just went and got surgery.

(22:10):
Like I told myself, I was not gonna get surgery
because I was in that house and I seen everybody
in pain and I just was so against it. And
um so you hadn't had surgery if until that point, well,
I mean, I did you know the typical atl As
shots you know? Um see, I don't lie about the
type of stuff be like, I know I didn't get
bashots No I did, but I never had light bo

(22:31):
or nothing like that. So, um, I just went in
December and it was tragic. Does it hurt? I feel
like I got hit by a car. I called my
mom crying. I called my grandma crying. It was the
worst pain. I even called Mega crying. It was the
worst pain. Okay, you don't understand. So I don't remegon No,

(22:52):
she wanted done well at all. I would take my ass, Jim.
Do people get addicted to to surgery? Yes, and it's
not good. So Black China is removing killers and plans
and that's good for her. I'm happy for her. What
do you think of that? Like, I think it's I
think that you know, um, she's on her journey as well.

(23:13):
I think that that's really really dope. You know, you
got to start somewhere, and that's if that's her way
of healing, then you know, more power to her. I
think it's a beautiful thing. Yeah, because it also Yeah,
she years ago it was getting sick. Well, I'm gonna
leave my son, So how do you get the ass
taken back? Well, I took some of mine out as
well when I got my surgery because more for health reason.
It's not because you don't want your butt to be

(23:34):
too big. You gotta be careful because we don't you know,
when you want your butt bigger, you're just like, okay,
shoot me up, shoot me up. You don't really know
the long term effects that I have with your blood,
your body, and you just gotta be careful because a
lot of girls get sick and you don't know why
you're so sick, but it could be from that. So
it's always if you do have butt shots, I recommend
just you know, go to a good doctor. Go to
a doctor, you know, see what's going on. Even if

(23:57):
you go get an X ray, if you see what's
really like on the extra you could see like all
the stuff that's filled up in your butt. It's crazy.
So when you had it taken out, was that painful?
I mean I got some of it taken I don't
get all of it taken off, but um, it's painful.
Are you still in the process? Are you just done?
I did an in December, so I'm still healing. What's
the healing? Like? How long is the healing process? I'm
still in pain, but I'm not as much pain as

(24:19):
I was before. You have like six months, you're still
gonna be sore in certain areas. But yeah, it was
painful before the No no, no no, I wasn't. I just
wanted it out. I was. I was hearing too many
stories like people having infections and and I wanted it
smaller as well. So yeah, well, speaking of came and
shell love and hip hop, you've been on like all
in all the cities. Um, I was in York, La Atlanta. Okay,

(24:44):
I think it's you are however she is. No, it
just shows how much of a hustler you are, Like
you said, because you want to be here. Okay, I'm
here back now right and you want to reu now
with Spice and Chaotic and who we just had on here?

(25:04):
How has that been? How did you even get the
call to be on that show? Was it the fattie
whap thing for the show originally? Yeah? Okay, I'm so
start off in La um So that was the first part,
and then they wanted me in New York and um Atlanta,
and then I took a little break from them, and
then they reached back out they knew they needed me again,
So that's okay. Y'all. I know it's didn't help you

(25:26):
in any way. Did they change your business or I
don't think it would. I mean, at this point, it's
not really helping me. So it was a good opportunity
in the beginning. I'm appreciating it. You know. I had
a great time working with the company, had my ups
and down. I don't think it's just it fits me anymore. So,
you know, I think that was just a stepping so
for me to get into movies now and different things.

(25:48):
We're having my own show. Okay, movies said, it's not
helping you anymore. I mean because for me, there wasn't
love and hip hop likes to show people in the
negative light. It's all based around drama. So it's kind
of like, you know, every time I'm always in something.
So this time around, when I did Jamaica, I was like, listen,
I'm not coming on here. You're not about to You

(26:09):
almost did argue with and I had to first and
then I like three I had to stop. I was like,
you know how I didn't come out here and start
looking like because every city I was fighting somebody, because yeah,
they was. But then they banned liquor for like two
days because it was so many fights. It was it
was that bad. Listen, I'm talking about off cameras like

(26:30):
it was crazy, like because we're on an island for
two weeks and you know, I think we could not leave,
like the resort. So people just started creating like drama,
and people really started beefing, like because they were doing
that on purpose. They literally want to know what the
producer say, Hey, you remember such, all be like, they'll
send our talent person to comeing and be like, well
they said this, they said that, and then you'll be
like what she saying, Like you're ready to go? Yeah,

(26:55):
So that's crazy. So you mentioned movies. What kind of
movies have you done already? I haven't done money. I've
only just one but I only got like a little
intro scene, so I'm working on that now. But you
want to get into acting, I'm started to go to
agency right now. So okay, so um, yes, that's when
my plans are this year. Did you see Young Miami
on BMFKA, I don't watch do you see the clip

(27:19):
on Instagram? No? I haven't watched it. I need to
watch it. I haven't watched it. Please do I want
to I'm gonna watch it, watch TV. I'm not like
a ship. No, I'm gonna get one, but I haven't
you so for me, like, I don't even turn on
the TV unless like I'm just really really bored. So
I'll pick a series. But I don't really just watch.
I don't want to watch the BMF. I just watching

(27:40):
animal or something. No, I don't like TV. So what
do you What do you do when you have time
to do nothing? It's I'm just with my daughter. I
just I watched watch Traveling is my thing. I get money,
the money. Yeah, my brain starts like, I don't I'm
all over So me sitting on watching TV. I need

(28:01):
to get some money. Yeah yeah, okay, tell her? You
know your daughter? How was she doing? She is amazing?
She is five? Um, she's so amazing? Is five? Yea?
What is what is her condition? Um? She doesn't really,
it's not really a condition. She was born um early,
so I had her at five months and she got

(28:23):
a brain bleed. So pretty much because you know, think
about a baby that's one pound, taking them taking her
out of me. Her brain was hit, you know, to
the process. So it calls a muscle spasm on the
right side of her body, so her like muscle is weak. Okay, yeah,
but she seems so sweet though, so like people to me,
the doctor's could say, oh, it stands it's that is
that because my daughter was born with anything, But it's

(28:45):
called hydrocephalis, So that's what's called a brain blee. So
um is there, Like there's other kids like that. Yeah,
hydrocephalis is a thing, But to me, I just feel
like I've seen other kids or hydrocephalis and my daughter
kind of does opposite of So there's some things I
need to research. But that's what they want to label
it as. What is that? Because it causes the way

(29:07):
her like she walks on her tippytoes and her hand
will lock, so it's like a muscle SMAs and it
causes like, um, like a brain delay on one side.
Is there long term treatment for that? She's in therapy
seven days a week in school, and she's had surgery.
She had brain surgery, so now she has a shunt
on her in her brain, so it controls the pressure
of her brain. So the fluid she piece more than

(29:28):
like an average person would go to the bathroom, she
peas a lot, so the tube gross from here downs
her stomach and it just helps her. It flushes all
that fluid so her brain doesn't swell, because that's what
it is. It's like swelling on the brain. And you
know your brain like operates everything. So think about it, like,
so now her arm is like wanting to move, but
the brain is not allowing, you know, so that's why
you have therapy. Um, but actually getting her surgery this month.

(29:53):
So um, so they're gonna break her legs. Is it
demanding for you as a mom, like having to make
sure that she can do the things that she wants
to do or needs to do. Yeah, well for sure,
Because like they wanted me to place her in certain
schools and classes and I said absolutely not. So I
sent my daughter to a regular classroom with regular kids,
and so she couldn't know that she could do it

(30:14):
just like them. Because you know, I think for moms
that do have specialties, kids or kids that you know,
have any type of problems even with their arms, legs,
whatever it is, put them around and see that they
can do it. Because when a kid is going to
follow another kid's doing, so she might not be able
to fully complete it, but she'll try, and then she'll
try again, and then she'll try again, then she'll finally
be able to do it, you know. So, um, I

(30:35):
just try to surround her in an environment where she's
it's pushing her. Yeah, and you want to around regular kids, Like, yeah,
well that's the thing, because I feel like she can't
and she's any less than anybody growing, you know. So
and that's the thing, Like what's regular? You know what
I mean? Like I think it's you want to be
careful with being like, oh my child is not regular.
It's just she may not be able to do it

(30:57):
the same way, but she can still get she's still
like yeah, just some of her abilities to do certain
stuff she's not able to do. But um, like I'm
gonna homeschool her after this year, just to give her
a push start, and then I'm gonna send her into
um private school because the school did want to like
put her in a special needs classroom and I just didn't,
you know, And I have nothing against that. I just

(31:18):
want her to be able to strive harder. So I
think all parents should do that. That's Fair's end to
vote for you to to, you know, take on that
probably yourself as a single mom to I have a
village of my family helps me like a woman, my mom, my,
grandma's don't thankful for them. Um, you know it's not easy.
I was gonna like work, Yeah, she's missing me. She's

(31:40):
at an age like you know, she's missing me. She
wants to be with me, but I gotta still provide
him a single mother. So it's like, you know, then
my grandma's a little bit older, but my grandma helps
me so much with her and my mom as well.
So yeah, I was gonna ask you know about your
village or support system, because there was a lot of
I guess confusion around your daughter. And if we know

(32:01):
that there's some I guess drama with her father, yea,
is he very present. There's no drama with me in
that man at all. He is just the definition of
a debbat. And I'm just sad to say and that's
just what he is. I have no respect for him.
I'm they'll just leave it in God's hands, But I
will say this, God don't play about his children, so

(32:23):
you won't continue to get your blessings. And you think,
don't worry. You could keep thinking that you're living this
life and you're having all these things, but God will
take anything from me like this, So he just needs
to be very humble because that little girl's gonna grow
up to be somebody, and she's so precious and he
just neglects her. And I'm tired of, like, you know,
I would go on the internet and lash out because
it's like hurtful for me because my daughter's like, oh,

(32:45):
where's my daddy? Who's my dad? And she knows who
he is, but it's like, she is my daddy coming
to pick me up and he'll make broken promises and
never come and then he'll take care of his other kids.
So to me, I feel like it's just an excuse.
I don't know what it is. It's something internally with him.
I don't know if he isn't like me. It's not
something I want to figure out. And I really don't care.
I just want you to take care of your child
and he doesn't want to. So there's nothing I could

(33:07):
do about it. Because I started realizing the more I
keep lashing out, like what am I gaining from it?
Because it's not going to change him to be a father.
A man's going to be a father if he wants
to be so you know, whenever my husband is around,
that's going to be her father, and that's what'll be.
She'll be good. Speak that into existing. So you guys
don't talk at all? Um No, he no, he refuses

(33:28):
to have When we do talk, it's always an argument.
He's disrespectful. And I'm tired of people like thinking that
he's just this positive person, like take care of your kids.
Like I don't ask him for a dollar. It's not
about money. I don't need you to pay my bills,
my rent. Just be president in her life, like there's
it's not about a dollar. She's five years old. It's
not much that she could possibly need that I can't
do for her because I'm doing it on my own already.

(33:50):
But just be in her life. It doesn't matter what
the situation was. It doesn't matter when you found out
you was her dad. You knew once you knew you
was her father's you know. So I don't have no
respect for any guys like that. And shout out to
all the single moms out and you're doing a good job.
You are, you are good doing it. Thank you. So

(34:11):
what's up? And I'm not And I'm I'm gonna say
this I'm not even the type of person trying to
bash nobody because I don't want to. You're trying to
bash me like now, it's just the truth needs to
be told because I'm tired of looking like the crazy
person when I spats out, you know what I mean,
especially going through surgeries and not being present things like that.
I'm so hurtful. Yeah, but you're keeping your energy together,
You're working on your spirituality like covered, I'm covered. I

(34:33):
ain't worried about her. Come of God got the last day.
So you gotta answer to him, not me. So period,
you know, so what you got coming up next? You
know you have the like you said you was on
Union Jamaica. What else do you have coming? You tried music?
No done, you had picked it up, Haber, don't do

(34:58):
us like that, Alexa Scott. So, I think loveing hip
hop made me think he no, no, no, I'm not
gonna lie. Though I thought about him like, oh she
could make it love hip hop. I could do this.
I got had a little booth and I thought I
was doing a little say something. But I'm not gonna lie.

(35:20):
That's not me. It's never me. What was the name
of the soul uh, no, Tiffany, no, Tiffany. I want
to hear the no no, no, no no. That to me,
the whole video. What do you video? Had a video
and it's like you see the video. The funniest thing

(35:42):
is TC would piss me, like when he tries to
make me mad, like if companies around, he was like,
we're listening to YouTube, he'll play my son perfect like
guys gonna hear this, Hey, listen, don't worry about embarrassed
music Paris Hilton, And it's not for me. It's out
of my style. Like you don't know if you don't try. Yeah,

(36:05):
I mean, I know I got it in me. I
don't sound bad now, I get it wrong, but I
just feel like when you don't have a passion, I'm
gonna be my You know, can you sing a little bit?
I'm shower a little singing a shower now I can't.
If I really wanted to sing, I could, but say
you sing. Being an artist is a commitment, and I

(36:27):
don't know if I want them problems. Okay, I feel ya.
I'm trying to tell you. Yeah, okay, So no music?
What else you got? So I'm done with loving hip
hop completely? Why I just it doesn't feel it doesn't
align with me no more. You know. It's it's about
this new spiritual journey that one. Okay, so you don't
scrub your Instagram and everything, right Yeah, she is covered

(36:48):
right now. Okay, she got to turtle that down on
the Long Sleep man. She is covered. No. No, I'm
just trying to be a little more conservative love. Um.
You know, I'm still I still want people to know
you could still be you know, sexy but glassy, and
I don't want to lose that. So I just know
that before I used to just a little bit more
like revealing. So I'm just trying to like tone it

(37:09):
down a little bit. Um. But my journey started in
December or like Novembers December. But I mean it was
just something that I was internally feeling. I just wasn't
where I was at in my life. I was unhappy. Um,
just people places things financially and I think that sometimes
you know, God will humble you and he kind of

(37:30):
will take things from you and let you see you know,
m because I was just living in this fast life's
fast paced, getting fast money, and I just crashed, you know,
and it doesn't even matter what you have sometimes you
could just be empty in the inside. That's where I was,
like I had the diamonds, the bags, the cars, like,
and I just still was just like an empty soul,

(37:51):
like sitting there just like confused on what I wanted
to do with myself, and things just was shutting down.
Opportunities were shutting down for me, Like nothing was just
aligning for me. Like anytime I try to do something,
it would just like fail. So I'm like, like even
down to my businesses, I was just like, why is
this happening to me? So I think just God wanted
my attention and my calling isn't to be this sex

(38:14):
symbol that's Alexis guy. I think because of what happened
to me in my past, I think that God wants
to use me as a light to other women that
are going through you know, traumatic situations and you know,
whether it's an abusive relationship, whatever it is, I experienced
it all. So I think He gave me that platform
and grew it bigger to be a voice and to
help others and to bring them closer to Him. You know,

(38:37):
it doesn't mean you have to just become holy and overnight,
but it's a transition. You know, you gotta start somewhere.
So yeah, I got and if I'm gonna represent and
do it the right way, and I'm just following, it's
kind of like he downloaded it in my brain and
it's like a recipe and I'm just you know, putting
it out there. So I think, if I'm gonna do
it the right way, I can't be halfway in. And

(38:59):
like because I tried this last year, I was trying
to do my journey and I got scared. So that's
why I have this saying cause faith over fear, which
is a scripture, but that's what I live by because
it's like you have to have faith. I was living
in fear for so many years, like, well, how am
I going to make money? How am I gonna pay
my bills? How am I gonna live this life? That?
How am I gonna be able to go buy this
new bag? And it's been hard. I'm not gonna lie,

(39:20):
it's been different. It's it's hard different because I'm used
to a certain life. Yeah, and doesn't mean all of
that has to change because I can still live that life.
I just want to do it the right way. Like,
but people got to hear this because I feel like
a lot of people don't understand that. You know, when
people do want to go on these spiritual journeys, you know, uh,
you know the different things about life that that does happen.

(39:42):
Like you said, you know, your life was just so fast,
you know, you make it fast money and then it's
like everything is changing, but what hasn't changes, you know,
your need for things that you want, you know, to
make you happy because you know the devil can bless
you too. Sure, so that's what's happening for me. I
was getting less in the wrong way, and I just

(40:02):
think that, you know, I don't judge anybody however you
get your money, You get your money, but think about
it like you could do it the right way and
God will triple your blessings and triple your income. And
it's just a way to do things, you know. So
I just wanted to switch up the way I moved,
So I literally like stop posting. So now I'll host
like conferences, women events, brunches things like that. So I'll

(40:23):
still host events, but I won't be hosting nightclubs. I
still will go out, like there's nothing wrong with stepping out,
but do I drink hard liquor. I don't drink hard
liquor no more. I'll drink champagne or wine. Like I
just toned it down. Am I in a club to working, No,
I'll be in a club just you know, just moving
with class. You're definitely keeping a queue last night, just
sitting champagne because you could still be a human. You

(40:46):
can still go out and as I want people to know,
you're able to still be out and steady a woman
of God. Like. I'm not saying I gonna be in
a club every week, but if I do want to
step out, I still would do that and just move
a certain way. I hate that people associate like you
wanted to be out and social as not being godly
like in this I guess this world is still judgmental

(41:07):
very much. So I'm just preparing myself to that. Yeah, yeah,
so they're gonna talk regardless, but I'm gonna still be
me at the end of the day. Because the transition,
you're not gonna change overnight. And it's been a it's
a battle. I fight temptation every day. So it's decisions
and you know, you just gotta keep moving forward. And
so I deleted that I'm not really hosting. I deleted
um a lot, a lot. So yeah, yeah, so don't

(41:31):
call her for the book, no nightclub, Yeah, call her
for the brunch, Yeah, for the brunches. I haven't pretty
much deleted all the income that in my life didn't
really serve me any good purpose. Like, so I deleted
all of that, and I'm just waiting for the journey
to for God to bless me more because I know
it's coming. I'm just being patient and obedient, you know.
It's yeah, I love this for you. Yeah, I feel

(41:55):
like the last us, like the last few people that
we've interviewed, have been very open about God. Yeah, it's
really have time. I mean it's a time. It's it's
you know, chaotic country Wayne or Amy energy girl and yes, Stephanie.
And everybody's looking healthy, like when people are talking about God,
people are talking about like they're looking healthy and happy

(42:18):
and like you know what I mean. Like and people
don't understand what you was, what you was talking about
artists like you know, the devil will bless you too.
And it's like when you a lot of times people
don't understand when you see people in interviews, when people
coming here you can kind of tell the people that
ain't that ain't really right, you know what I mean,
Like people are coming you're like, man, you could tell
this person ain't happy. They got the ap on they

(42:38):
got and they're not happy. Yeah, but that's where I was.
I was that person. I just was empty. I was
really depressed. I was suffering from depression, and I would drink, drink, drink, drink, drinking,
and you got all this money coming in. Yeah, but
I didn't really you know, I just wasn't happy with
myself and I felt like there was so much more
potential that I was missing out on. I just wouldn't
see what God had in a story for me because
I was just so caught up in Yeah. You know.

(43:00):
So it's been like I said, it's been a journey
and it's I'm still on it and I'm it's not easy,
but I know in the end of it, the rewards
gonna beautiful and I just gotta stay disciplined, true to it.
I think it's hard for people to be in the
thick of it and realize that God is using you
even when you fell down, He's still using you, Like
this is your setup to be an advocate for something,

(43:21):
and it's okay to make mistakes, like you don't have
to be like so and TC and mecha always telling
like don't be so hard. I think I'm trying to
be too hard on myself right now. So like yesterday
was the first time I went out like in a
long time, and I just needed to get out for
a second because I was like, okay, I get it,
like I'm used to going out, but I just needed
to be free for the night. But I was like, okay,

(43:41):
I could do this. It wasn't a booking. It was
just it wasn't But I hated that they called my
name with a bike because I was I heard it,
I said. At first, cop was like, oh my gosh,
the whole world wasn't no. Yeah, but then I thought
about it. I was like, man, I about to sit
here and drink my champagne. Yeah, but I'm to sit
here and drink my champagne like a lady. And guess what,

(44:03):
And Gud's still gonna love me the same way. Like
I'm just you ain't on the blogs doing nothing crazy. Yeah, say,
I just switched up the way I carried myself. Um,
and that's about it. You're allowed to girl, to do
you what. We're so proud of you. We're excited to
see you know what you become on your journey, and
we just thank you for coming to stop it a
finish with me. And it starts because you got a

(44:26):
different look in your eyes. You want to encourage like
people like that are scared, just say yes to him,
like and it's just start somewhere like once you submit
yourself and give your life to God, you will see
everything clear, like and he'll show you the way. It's
hard looking at yourself in a mirror and actually holding
yourself accountable for things, and it gets really dark before

(44:46):
it gets better. But it's worth It's worth the journey.
It's definitely worth. Oh no, trust me. The devil came
in full force these past week. It's been coming at me.
But I have to be like, this is just a
test to know if I'm gonna want to run back,
because I like, temptation has been hitting me. It's been
kocking on that door, like and it's like they're in
my ear like and the things that the devil knows
that I like, it's just like it's hard, but I'm

(45:08):
not allowing it to to get We are on our
spiritual journeys. Yeah, I'm not allowing it to get me
at all. I feel like everybody's on their own, you know,
personal journey the time. Right now. I don't know what's
it's a it's a special warfare and it's happening and everybody.
God's calling his people and that's just what it is.
You see that big old uh, that godlike figure in
South America, was just struck. Yeah, He's coming first, So

(45:30):
that was real. I thought that, Oh, it's crazy because
a lot of our guests that we've been having has
been real advocate about their journey with God. Once he
once he gets you, it's like you don't want to
go back. You don't want to go back to that world.
It's like a dark place and people don't even know.
It's like that's why I like these rappers and everybody

(45:51):
in the industry suffer from like drugs, mean and all
these things because they're in a dark, dark place, like literally,
they're they're sunken. You know, they don't want to acknowledge
the truth. And that's want to accept it and give yourself.
You know, it doesn't matter who you are, what you do.
You could be whoever you are, He forgives and you
just gotta keep going. We'll be right back. Stay tuned

(46:13):
with more of The Baller Alert Show. You're listening to
a special edition of The Baller Alert Show. Hey, it's
Alexa skuy checking out on the Baller Alert Show. Message.
My lady and I had a drunk night with great
sex last night. We woke up next to each other
in the morning, Eve talking about the night before. She

(46:36):
slips up and says she can't remember how many men
she has sex with, but jokingly laughed it off. I've
never been insecure about something until this point. I wanted
to ask her about the comment, but I know that
ain't a good idea. We both follow y'all, so she
gonna know we're talking about her. Oh damn, oh damn.

(46:57):
Need your opinion? Should I speak on it or leave
it alone? If you don't want to know, leave it alone?
Why do you want to know that? Like number one?
I feel like why? Like why do you want to know?
I don't think it's anybody's business? Like why amn? I
is saying down to tell you how many people are
stepping were how many people know we have allowed to pass? Like?
Where do you think she learned how to have sex

(47:18):
from that amazing sex that you were happy to have
just picked that up along the way, sir, Like, just
be grateful that you got some amazing set. Didn't say that,
enjoy your knight. That's it. I wonder what his sign is.
He's a little emotional, you see. I'm not saying that
women an aquarious signs or cancer women. The way that

(47:41):
women care about a man's future is the same way
a man cares about a woman's pass. So I think
that I can't. I I saw against that part a woman,
a man caring about a woman's pass, because we all
have a pass, and that kind of for me off
Not saying you're offending me, but I feel like I
would feel definitive A man did care about my past,
and that's kind of some of the problems I had

(48:03):
with past relationships because it's like I had a pass.
I couldn't control what happened to me in the past,
and that past led me into different things. So I
feel like you're gonna have to accept me for who
I am, and I come with this. I'm changed now,
but I can't change what already happened. So I feel
like you can't worry about a woman's pass and this
guy's situation, I think that that's something that he probably

(48:25):
wants to leave alone. Because if you're talking about something
that makes you insecure as a man, especially you're talking
about this great sex that y'all had, why he ruined
the great sex with he's insecure? Right twist? Lord, have mercy.

(48:47):
I don't know. I think insecure man worry about that.
I feel like you're secured yourself. You don't care about
what a woman had going on before you. You need
to worry about how you can make her better. And
that's about That's That's what I'm standing on. That's the
type of man that'll be like you got to throw
out the gifts that your escape you. Yeah, like stop
watching this, stop wearing this, stop driving this like no, yeah,
and coming that he in love with is you know

(49:08):
was made by her past? Yeah, listen, every man has
a pass. Every woman has a past. It just might
be a little you know, different levels to the past.
So a ka, man, you need to leave it alone.
Don't don't bring it up. You know what I'm saying.
If you gotta crop to your don't don't ruin the
great sex just just sit it out. And that was

(49:29):
baller mail right here on the baller Alert Show. Before
we get out of here, we got a pep talk
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