February 15, 2025 • 51 mins
Happy weekend friends! Abby shares how things are going with her boyfriend aka Cheesehead and Morgan’s awkward moments with vertigo. Abby had UFO(s) at her house and it’s probably aliens, and Morgan’s delivery driver did something very sweet and it was caught on the doorbell camera. Then, a PSA about pet microchips and some TV show/movie reviews.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Behind a scene with a member of the show.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
What's up, everybody? Happy weekend? I'm joined this weekend by Abby. Abby,
how are you? I'm good.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I'm freezing. I'm in three layers right now, so if
you can hear my coat, sorry, like I'm in like
a winter down jack. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You also have handwarmers, but not like the traditional little
packets that you buy at Target.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
They're like electric hand warmers. Yeah, I got them of Amazon.
Like they're battery operated. You just charge them and they
go in my pocket and I hold them all day.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
It's really not good that you have to wear a
parka and handwarmers to be at work.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Is that? That's what I was saying with Ray, because
poor guy gets here so early and he is freezing.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
He looked like he was straight up back in Michigan.
When I saw him today. He had his stocking cap
on and all bundled up.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, what is up with that? I'm always cold? I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Welcome to a little behind the scenes of working on
the Bobby Coach. So obviously that's what's happening here. But Abby,
we need an update. We need to hear how the
boyfriend is. How things are going, mister cheesehead, cheese head,
give me the latest what you're willing and ready to
talk about.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
It's going well. I mean we've been dating since what
the end of October last year, so it's been over
a year.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Crazy?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Does that feel weird? It really does. Like that's just
that's long for me. Okay, you don't have to say
long for you can just say it's long. And in
Nashville and today's economy with dating, I feel like that's amazing.
It is. It's a unicorn situation. Yes, it's just it's
so fun, like I don't know, we just get along
so well and like nothing bothers me about him, but
(01:38):
if it does, like we just communicate and it's just fun.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Are you still as in love with him as you
were the first moment you realize you were in love
with him?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yes, And it's so fun to like look back, like
on our first date, Like it's funny to think about
the place we went to, like isn't there anymore? But
if we go, it's like an area in Nashville called
twelve South, and so that's where we went. So everyone
that's not there anymore. So it's actually it was Mafiosa's,
that's not It closed like two weeks ago.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I think, dang, that was like a pizza spot.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I know, that was like the go to It was
so good, but then it was that like wood fired girl. Okay,
it's now like a Taco's place. You know where that is,
Like you know where Embers is. I know where Embers is,
So it's like to the right of that one block.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
So now that's what replaced mafio So is there anything
actually in Mafiosa's.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Oh no, nothing's there. Okay, So well, I know I
said that confusing. The first place we were going to
go to that I like saw him for the first
time on the corner where we met. It was like
this wood fired pizza place. But it's gone. Everything's gone. Yeah,
So both both the places we went to basically, did
we read into that? No, we do not. No, we don't.
(02:48):
I'm just kidding. Oh my god, you know, I take
some I know. That's why I'm saying don't.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
That's why I thought you we already thinking that, don't
don't read into that. I was purely kidding.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Oh my god, you're not read anyway. Okay, now that
I have to get past the no. Things are fine.
Like we went to a Super Bowl party. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I just it's great, happy as can be.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Is he still cheesehead or has he earned another nickname?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
He still choose?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
He?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Okay, because like he's a huge Packers fan, and he's
always like, you want to wear my cheesehead, Like if
we go out somewhere, I'm like, no, I don't. You
don't have your own cheesehead. I'm not that big of
a fan.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I'm still a Broncos fan, so that's kind of you
haven't been fully converted. No, and you have not worn
a cheesehead yet.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, not a cheesehead. I've worn like he bought me
a shirt. You're moving on over, Yes, but not gonna
wear that cheese head. Maybe if we go to a game.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
I would.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
If we went to a game in Lamb, Lamb though Lamb, yeah,
then I would wear one for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
You know, I really love Wisconsin. They have great cheese curts.
I've been there once. We didn't have any cheese curts.
But how do you go to Wisconsin not have cheese curts.
We went for a wedding.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
One thing they're known for. That's so true. I went
for a wedding. But you know how it's like, do
you also not like cheese? I can't remember. No, I like, oh, okay,
cheese would be so it all fairness. There are some
weird things you don't like. I know I'm picky, but
that picky as I was making sure of I can
remember that was one of them. Were certain cheeses I
don't like, like pepper jack.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Okay, that's fair. But cheese curds I can, yeah, okay,
but you didn't eat them, no, because I just like,
you know, cheese whatever. Like it's sonic a fries cheese curd.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Man, it's like basically a fried mozzarella ballah mozzarella sticks.
I like those.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Yeah, that's what a cheese curd is. But like it's
from Wisconsin, so it's built there.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
That's the best sway. It originates there. What kind of
cheese is it?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Like? Cheddar?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
All kinds of cheddar? Even at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
When I go I get Wisconsin cheese, I get Wisconsin
white cheddar and mild cheddar, and then I also get
an unexpected cheddar, which I also believe is from Wisconsin.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Oh, well, we only go out and get advertisers. He
always wants cheese curds. He always does want them.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
So you've eaten them here, but you've never eaten them
in Wisconsin, right, different experience. Okay, Also, legit cheese curds
aren't fried kind. They come in a weird baggy that
you could buy it like any grocery store or gas
station in Wisconsin. And they are like these little they're
squeaky and they kind of look like I don't know
how to explain it very well, but it's a different
It's different than like fried cheese curds.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
That's not what they're actually known for. They're known for cheese.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Curds, right right, Wow, that don't have fry stuff on him.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I'm really getting in the know of where he's from. Obviously,
this is that's all they're known for, is cheese.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Honestly, I didn't know that well. And the package said,
and the packer there's more too. I greatly loved Wisconsin.
It was beautiful.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, it is so pretty. It's so nice there. I
was like, I wanted to spend more time. It was
just a weekend, so.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, I need to go back and create some new memories.
That was with my crazy ex boyfriend. Oh no, really,
why were you there? I went and visited his family.
His family's there, Oh, because he's from there. I don't know.
I've chosen to block out a lot of that.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Really nice. Yeah, let's move change, okay, any other anything
else you want to share?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Boyfriend? All good for now?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Yes? All good? Okay for now?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Maybe by next best bits I will have more to share, Biby.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I love the happy update. I'm I'm kind of one
of those and I'm like, I'm just gonna like less
is more because I feel like I DNX myself.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
I'm still there. Remember this, You're not supposed to be
there anymore at this point, Abbey. I know, remember I
told you the year in. You did tell me this,
but you guys are a year in.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
I was like, even on my like ten year anniversary
of my wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Okay, well, okay, I think we're still He puts a
freaking ring on the finger. Abby, We're gonna have to
let that one go. I think I told you the
same thing last time.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I know you did trust issues over here. Okay, that's okay.
I have trust issues too, But you're giving me some hope.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I mean, yeah, because the dating right now is just garbage.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
But in a garbage camp, set it on fire. Oh
my gosh, I'm so annoyed. Like that's really annoying. I know,
because I was doing that for ten years in Nashville
and it.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Was so bad. Yeah, and it's you. You know What's
funny though, Like I feel like quality is just so down.
I've met plenty of nice guys. There's nice guys out there,
it's just nothing that's actually creating anything more than a
friendship for me. Like there's nothing that's getting me any
version of excited to even like go on a second, third,
(07:17):
fourth date. It's like they're fine, they're not bad people,
They're just there's just not And I don't know if
I've gotten to this place abby where I've just really realized,
like somebody has to be really worth it for me
to go through a relationship and do all of this again. Yes,
(07:40):
you know what I mean, Like I really think I'm
in this place where I just don't I'm not just
gonna settle down just to settle down, and like could
I have dated and potentially continued into serious relationships with
some of them yeah, absolutely it could have, but I
just am not at that place anymore where that's necessary
to me. I think I'm so comfortable with where I'm
(08:01):
at in my life and who I am that somebody
just has to be really awesome for that to kind
of take over.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Right, because you don't. You wouldn't want it like any
other way. You don't want to feel like you're settling
or like, you know, being held back from what you
like truly want to do and be like, oh, well,
at least I'm with a guy and I have things
to do, you know, somebody to do stuff with. But
if it's not amazing, then you see, and I don't
waste of time.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
That's the thing too, is I'm like, I'll just go
do it by myself, or I'll make one of my
friends come with me.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I don't need somebody.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Like the only moment where I had like maybe five
brief minutes when I first got vertigo, and I cried
because it's like I'm by myself again, But it was
really more because my family wasn't even around. If my
family was around, I don't even think I would have
had that moment. It was more that, oh, my family's
not here, and I have to like lean on my friends,
and I'm really bad at asking for help. It's just
my one of my not great quality traits. And I
(08:59):
like cried because when you with a partner, you have
your family, you have this kind of automatic help versus
having to ask and go seeking for help. So that
was really the only moment that I've had in the past,
I mean since breaking up with my ex, where I
really was sad that I was alone. Oh my gosh,
that's really good. That is a very good sign.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah. Yeah, So I don't know, man, I don't know
what's happening. What was the last one you went on?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Mmmuse before I got vertigo. I had to cancel some dates.
When I got vertigo, I was like sorry, and I
swear this is not a cop out. That got straight
up can't get my bed.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
They're like, send me a selfie, okay, I'll show you
what I look like in.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
My Yeah, and nobody wanted to be around me. I
hadn't been able to shower. I was in clothes for
like the same four days.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
That is so rough. It was a disaster.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
So I'd canceled some It was like the week before
I'd got vertigo.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
I'd went on one and it was fine.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
The guy was really nice, but he just had he
had some stuff that he was still doing and working through,
and I just I've also really been proud of myself
that I'm not I'm not here to work on projects anymore.
I've done that, but they've done that so and got
done for that.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Yeah, you got to.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
Come show it up ready and emotionally in a place
that you're ready for a relationship.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
And I can't do that anymore. I'm curious, like what
catches your eye now, like on apps, like what makes
you be like, oh, I do want to go out
with this guy? Because there's so many you know, like left, right, right,
what makes you be like, okay, I'll let you take
me out.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
I'm really focused on quality across the board. So profile
they have to truly fill it out, and of course
I have to be attracted to them in some way
in the pictures, Like that's just part of dating. You
have to be attracted to the person you want to
go out a day with. But beyond that, beyond that,
like very quick moment of judgment, it's quality of the profile.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Do they fill it out?
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Are the pictures consistent? Do they look similar in all
the photos, Like, are they actually this person when they
fill out the prompts? Are they intentional about what they're saying?
Do they actually want to date you? Like? Do they
really want to go on dates? And then beyond matching,
it's how is this conversation unfolding? I have matched dudes
like not at this point in my life, but like
(11:13):
before I would just.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Match with dudes. I'm like, Oh, they're cute, we could
go out and be fun. I don't. I'm not there anymore.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Like you can be attractive, but if your profile sucks,
you're out, you know what I mean. Like, it's very
intentional for me on there now where you have to
have all of the pieces, Like you have to very
intentionally quality all of the things. So then in conversations,
I've had plenty of them that like they pass that
test and then you go in the conversation and nothing happens.
(11:41):
I feel like that's how.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
It was for me, Like they were so good at
conversing like on text and it was so fun and flirty,
and then you get in person You're like, where is
that other guy that too? That has happened too?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
But some like won't even go to the They'll like,
they're like, how are you doing?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
What's your work life today? Right?
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Or right?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:59):
What's your favorite color? I'm like, bro, I don't know,
give me something anything that's exhausting. Yeah, you're not having fun.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I'm not having fun? Why are we doing this?
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Like? And I try really hard to make sure my
prompts like would make you want to say something? And
even I've gotten to the point because I had a
dating coach who she's actually she'll be on my podcast
on Monday, who she's so so intentional about how she
does things, and she just kind of takes the guessing
workout of dating, where it's like, this is not how
you do this, Like, stop guessing these games.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Just date.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
And she's like, if you match with someone, you reach out,
you say something. And so if somebody matches with me
and doesn't say anything, I'll go to their profile and
say something. I'm very actively intentionally dating and some of
some of the time they just don't even respond.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
That's why why did you match with me? Why did
you like my photo? I know? What is that they
go disappear for a couple of days and then come
back and you're like, I'm not going to string this along.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Yeah, I'm like, also, how quick are they to from
the conversation on the dating to then set up a date?
Because I also don't want to pinpal, don't get my
phone number. I don't want to message you for five
five weeks unless there's a really good reason, like I
had vertigo. So we had to transition to the text
for two of them that I had to like cancel on.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
But I don't like texting before I meet.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
I don't want I don't want to text you, and
I don't want to know your social media but be for
a first date. I feel like we're just setting ourselves
up for failure here, you know what I mean, Like
past that first date, first date goes well, let's exchange
phone numbers and then maybe third or fourths eight, let's
start looking on social media. I think you set yourself
up for bad things to happen when you you go
and you creep on social media and you spend weeks
texting somebody.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Yes, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
So I've just really like narrowed down a lot of
things that I had never done before.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
Yeah, that's what I did with my current I almost
said his name, but she said, I don't know him.
It was like we didn't talk much at all, Like
it was just like why why waste the time? Just
like he was like maybe it was Tuesday or Wednesday.
He's like, hey, can we go to dinner on Friday?
And like name to time is like where do you
want to go? And I said, okay, pick these I
(14:03):
have these three areas. I was like twelve South like
East Nashville or Sylvan Park or something. Those are three areas,
and he picked it and we kind of went from there.
So it was like we made it happen in like
two seconds. See that's so attractive. That's so attractive to me.
And that right there, I was like, okay, somebody is
gonna like let's go and then follow through and not
(14:27):
be like, oh near mind, I have to cancel. I'm
something came up.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah, and like that's totally fine if you have to cancel,
but like set a new date then be like, hey
I have to cancel. I want to still see you.
Let's do this a week from now on this date.
Like that's totally cool. Life happens, but it's just it's
so much gets lost in translation over the dating apps.
So like I have a love hate relationship with them.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
Yeah, I do too, like you, Yes, And it's because
all of my friends were finding their guys and they
were getting married to the guy they met on Bumble
and Tinder, and I'm like, Okay, it has to happen
for me at some point, it has to it is
it does.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
The reason I do love them is because it puts
you in a new dating window. I guess is there's
a word that I can't find right now. Again, my
brain's mush. But it puts you in a different dating pool.
That's the word I was looking for. A dating pool
then just your typical what you see every day and
what you're interacting with.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Because I've met so many people in those.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Dating apps I would have never met, never ever would
have met, never would have crossed my path.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, so they're great for that.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
It's just finding the people that like are very intentional
quality dating.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
And that's hard to find. Everybody's exhausted. Nobody likes dating.
Nobody likes it. No, they don't, they don't. It's it's
like an interview. No one wants to go on an
interview every day or every other day. And also the
I don't even think you need to do dinner dates either.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Like I love that you guys were able to do
all one even if that works out great, I'm like,
let's just go on a walk. Let's go on a walk,
Let's go grab coffee. I don't drink coffee. I'll drink
hot chocolate, but like, let's do that, let's grab a
quick drink.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
It doesn't have to be like this huge thing that
people put up for it to be, to just know like, hey, okay,
now the second date, the second day is where I
truly think you can start to shine and be like
I'm gonna plan a dinner date and like, let's do.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
This, because it shouldn't be extravagant. It shouldn't be I've
heard guys that are like, oh my gosh, I spent
so much money on this first date, and I'm like,
then you should have just been like, let's grab one
drink or you know, like, it doesn't have to be
anything crazy. It's just like the initial screening process to
know if you want to talk to them again. And see.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
That's even why most of the time I really don't
like dinner dates because I feel like you're on it
for too long, it's like, and what happens if you
both get stuck and you don't want to be there?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Actually I lied it was just meeting for one drink
because I remember coming on like the show here and
being like, I'm limiting it to an hour and it's
just coffee or something like that. And then when I
was there, I finally admitted to him and I was like, Okay,
like I told myself, I was going to stay an hour,
but I really don't want to leave. So you want
to go somewhere else, like, but then you have the
(16:57):
option for that.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Yeah, right, you say yourself up for an option for that,
versus sitting yourself up if you don't like it to
not stay.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yes, so I do recommend yeah, the walk, coffee, Yeah,
maybe one drink, just like one beer or whatever, and
then be like, Okay, I gotta go because also I
wanted to like be a little mysterious, not that I
like play the game, but I also didn't want to
be like seem too urgent or not urgent. You're eager, yes,
(17:25):
but I didn't because it was four hours, but.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
I want to go. It worked out for you, it did,
but anyway, at least you set yourself up for the
potential of you can can get out of it. See right,
look at you.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
You're expert now that it worked because I finally set
a boundary and the boundary worked, but then I crossed
it again. We love boundaries, but happy we're not good
at them anyway, I didn't. I don't like boundaries. I
love boundaries. Boundaries are sexy sex. You're on your own
(18:01):
with that one. Yeah, I love you, and I'm on
your team every other time. That's that one. That's what
you need to talk about on your podcast. How to
set boundaries. Okay, you're gonna come on an episode. I'm
the failed version, like you.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Haven't EXPERI yeah, you need the expert success.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
And then we need the real life. Okay, yeah, your
real life happens when you don't set boundaries. You get
walked on like a normat.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Okay, you have done better, though, You've done a lot better,
so you should give yourself some friend.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Okay, we're gonna take a quick break. We'll be right back. Okay.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
So I've been dealing with vertigo lately, and I want
to tell you some funny stories.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Oh my god, please du because I've never experienced it.
This is what Those aren't funny. Those suck. I'm trying
to look at the positives. Tell me the funny.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
I want to laugh, but it does suck. I hope
nobody I wish to literally nobody ever would get this.
It's so debilitating. It's the worst thing ever. But funny
thing about having her to go and wearing these glasses, okay,
is people in public really like to, like, guess why
I'm wearing the glasses.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
They do. I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Yes, they just come up to you and they're like,
I don't know if it's because it's uncommon one, because
they're like red glasses and they don't really look like sunglasses,
and they're not blue light glasses. They're just a little different.
People don't know them. But I've had people guess one
that I am partially blind.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Yeah wait, this is what they say. Yeah. Like, and
it's like.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Employees or stuff that you're kind of already interacting with,
so it's not totally random strangers just coming up and
be like, are you blind? But it's people I'm interacting
with in the world that are strangers, okay, And they'll
be like those are glasses and I'm like, yeah, they're glasses, Like,
are you like it's funny? You know. I don't know
if we're just like, wow, they blunt these.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Days or what's that blant? But I had a filter
out there, Okay, it really is.
Speaker 3 (19:54):
So I've had one ask if I was partially blind,
and then I had one ask if I was experiencing
migrain that was the closest migrants was closest.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
And then I had another person asked if I had
cosmetic surgery.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Oh my gosh, did you just get lasick?
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Like you good? What's happening? That surprises me because I
see a lot of glasses. People wear a lot of
different interesting classes. I know, and maybe.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Commented maybe it's just for like employees because I've had
to go and get like fast food stuff or have
stuff sent or delivered because I just I haven't been
functioning enough to like get groceries and like have my
normal life. So I don't know if I've just had
more encounters in the wild. But yeah, and if they're
just starting conversations because it's an easy conversation to start
(20:39):
because you're wearing glasses.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Do you think that's odd? Would you ever say that
to somebody?
Speaker 3 (20:44):
I wouldn't assume, but if I wanted to create a
conversation around I'd be like, those are really cool? Where'd
you get those? And see if there's like a story
behind them? Yeah, versus coming out with it.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
People have been bold.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
That really is I would never think to do that ever.
But I also don't know if it's because of the
I'm walking to and I look funny because I'm so.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
Like robot you're looking straight ahead.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Yeah, and then in your head that could also be
a part of this equation.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Wow to their difference, But.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Oh my gosh, that's been a fun experience for me.
This is fun.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Boundaries. We were talking about boundaries.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
People don't have boundaries, and then I have a new discovery.
So I don't like water. This is not an uncommon thing.
I've never been a good water drinker. I try really hard.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
You don't like water. I shouldn't say I don't like water.
I'm just not good at drinking water.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Okay, Like I like it when I have it, but
I forget about it.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
It's just kind of there. Stanley could last all day
long if I want it. Unless you're like dying of thirst,
you're not going to drink it.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
I actively have to choose to like drink water, so
I shouldn't say I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
I do like water. You do always have your Stanley,
but I guess you're not drinking it.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
It never finishes. I never finish it. It's so bad.
But I obviously have been super dehydrated because I'm also
just when you're down and out, you really don't want
to drink water, and so I've been dehydrated.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
But I found Gator Light.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
One of my friends brought me Gator Light, which is
like Gatorade and pedia lighte together. This is genius.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
It tastes so yummy. It's definitely salty.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
I'm a salty person, so it's possible that it's so
salty for some people.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
But it's so.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
Good, and it comes in Gatorade flavors.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Isn't packets you mix with water.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
No, it's like an actual Gatorade bottle and it's called
Gator Light.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Oh my gosh, that's a genius.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
And I don't know if it's an official like collaboration
between the two of them, but it looks like it. Yeah,
I could be a knock off because it is called
Gator Light, so it's possible.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
They don't actually work together.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
But it's like drinking Pedia Light and gatorad which are
always the two things that I want when I'm sick.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Uh huh, So you like that? I love it.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Had I had the Glacier one, which is my favorite.
I love the Glacier Blue Glacier is the best. And
then I had a Strawberry Kiwi one that was also good.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Oh, I need to look that up.
Speaker 3 (22:54):
So if you're dehydrated or you're sick, because we're also
in like flu six season, Gator Light, have you had
any new discoveries later light? Oh, I know that's a
random one that I just threw out there.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
It's also okay if you don't, not really, I mean
I got by these. What's funny is like the Gatorade packets,
but it's Gatorade zero in their packets.
Speaker 3 (23:15):
Oh, because they're supposed to have like no calories. I
just don't like all the sugar. That's fair sat Light.
The Gator Light has fifty calories, so it's not as
bad as most Gatorade, I think again, because it is
utilizing whatever Peda LIGHTE does. Because PD light I don't
think has a lot of calories either. It's like salt
in the electrolytes. Is the kind of focus. I could
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be so wrong on that. I'm not a scientist. I
have no information on that.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
What I did discover once was though, if you mix
pedia lighte with vodka, you won't be as hungover the
next day.
Speaker 3 (23:46):
That does not sound like a good idea. Like it's
a brilliant idea, but also also you just you shouldn't
do that because rating and it is dehydrating, but like
it's supposed to just be hydrating, it's not supposed to
also dehydrate you at the same time.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
But if you want to drink and you want to
like have less of a hangover and hydrate yourself, you
feel better about it. Oh, it's been a while, but
it's great. Is this like adult? Abby figured this out?
Speaker 3 (24:18):
Adult?
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Yeah? Yeah, I didn't know if it was no. No, no,
probably a year ago, two years ago. Oh okay, full adult. Yes,
but I wish I would have known it in college.
Does it taste good? Yeah, it's like a mixer, you know,
like vodka cranberry, but it's Vodkapedia.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Like, I just feel like we're gonna, you know, it's
gonna be one of those days where we look back
on it kind of like four locals and we're like,
we shouldn't do this.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Probably I don't do it all the time, but I
wanted to see. I was like, wait, this is genius.
I want to see if it actually like does help,
because I feel like that's when they help. Yeah, because
that's how you get the most hangover.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
Hungover is when you're like just super dehydrated and you
just like need something.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
But if you start early at the same.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Time you're hydrating yourself and dehydrating, they really cancel each
other out though, So I just don't see.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
I'm not gonna walk down this road, but I will
tell you.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
In college, one of the mists that went around is
that if you drink a glass of milk before you
went out, it coded your stomach so you wouldn't vomit.
That makes me want to throw up. It made me
want to throw up when I did it.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Someone was messing with you. Were they messing with you?
No heard that too. It worked, But I feel like
it would like curdl if you have like white claw,
wouldn't it the dairy? Well, white claw wasn't the thing.
When I was in college. Beer bud light. And I
also wasn't drinking beer.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
I was drinking mostly horrible Burnett's vodka, the worst vodka
you uhould be drinking. Nah, there's worse, But that's that's
down there, isn't I remember that to first? I had
and obviously ever clear. Those make me just like one
a vomit even thinking about them. But yeah, I got
a glass of milk. I'm curious if it actually works
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or not. But I am.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
I'm curious too. But also when we.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Sit here and talk about this, doesn't it make you realize,
like i'cohol is bad for you.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
If we have to do all these things to drink,
it really bad, and we tell ourselves are never going
to drink again, and then a week later we're like,
actually I want to go, let's go.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
Yeah, I've been doing better. I haven't drink a lot
in probably the last year. I did when we were
in Europe because I was a different person over there.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Yeah it's vacation, yeah, but here.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
No, I've really I've really toned back party. Morgan is
I think officially retired.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
No, wow, No, that's a big statement. It really is.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
Even you were having more fun at concerts than I
was like I was not doing I was just sitting there.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
I was like enjoying my little drink. Let's wark just
call me out on it. Oh my gosh, you're not
going to believe this. Then I went to Losers on
in Midtown and like red door until like two am
last weekend.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
I don't know I did.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
I haven't done that in like seven years. Like that's
where all the college. I was the oldest person in there.
Why did you go? I just was like, I haven't
seen Riley Green's new bar, so I want to check
that you got wild hair.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Yeah. I got wild hair and just stayed forever because
the music was so good and Losers okay, okay, fine,
but everybody.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Around me was like twenty one. I was like, oh
my god, see you haven't retired.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
This is why you're drinking pedlite in vodka or tequila.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Whatever you do is well. I tried dry January, but
I knew that wasn't possible for me, so I drank
once a week. Now I'm selling an alcoholic. I'm really not.
But when I drink it, it's just white claw, it's you.
You do love it, white go crazy. I don't do shots.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
I just do white claw, besides this last weekend when
you stayed at all, but it was just white Claws.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Yeah, and I don't drink much abby. I don't think
I would have drank it all in January if I
didn't have dates to go on.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
It's just everybody automatically chooses.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Like a first drink, that's typically what most of them choose,
and so then you feel obligated. There was even some
by like the third or fourth when I was like,
I don't really drink Oh my gosh. Yeah I used
to do that too. Somebody you say, you could just
be like, I'll have a doctor pepper.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Literally.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
There was one I went on a date with a
guy and he had had like three drinks.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
He's like, are you can eat another one? I was like, no,
I'm good, I only had one.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
You.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
I felt judged. Sometimes when I didn't like they'd be like, wait,
you're not drinking, and I'm like, whoa, I okay, I'm
trying to be healthy. That's how I felt. I was like,
I don't feel great.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
I don't want to keep drinking this much, and on
weeknights like I'm just not I'm not as able body
as I used to be okay, especially on week nights
exactly school nights. Right, don't catch me out on a
school night. That's not fun for me, I know. And
that you have to because then you don't want to
take up your weekend.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
It's the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
It is.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
But they don't have to get up super early. No,
they don't like you, so that's fine for them. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
So anyway, anyway, where did that stem from? Gator light?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Okay, try to mix an that with vodka. I'm gonna
try that night. No defeats a purpose of gator light.
I'm kidding. I don't drink vodka anymore, like I said,
because like I don't want to get out of control.
I just want my white claw.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
That's your retired party girl part. Yeah not fully right,
you're still there, just white claw. Watch I say this,
and then like two weekends from now, when I'm like
dumb a vertigo, like, let's that go, You're.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
Probably gonna want to oh, because you haven't. You've had
to be so like still and cautious.
Speaker 3 (29:12):
It's true. Even just moving my head a little, what
talking to you here? I'm getting a little dizzy spells.
I'm trying not to but I'm a very animated talker.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
Yeah, and you've been very still you have. And I'm
over here like, no, you're doing great.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Okay, we're gonna take a quick break and then we're
coming back and we're talking about something Abby saw in
the sky.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
Oh it's crazy, all right, Abby?
Speaker 3 (29:36):
You may have seen aliens, ufo or some type of
situation in the sky.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
What happened? I did you see the picture I put
on Instagram? I did the reason I put it on
there because I was hoping other people would know, they
would have some sort of idea what it could be.
It was like this glowing, bluish object and it was
kind of cloudy, so it was kind of hazy, but
it was two It looked like two balls by side.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
In your photo, it looked like one just bright blue
shining light in the sky. Yes, yeah, but it looked
like like to your eye when you were looking at
it looks like two balls.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Kind of yeah, Hu, And I cannot figure out what
it was. I thought people would answer and they're like,
let me know what it is. How did it go?
Speaker 3 (30:18):
Did you watch it until it went away? Or did
you just kind of no?
Speaker 1 (30:21):
I mean I was out there for a while I
would say, like ten minutes, I just watched it and
nothing was happening because my boyfriend was over and he's like, come,
look at this thing in the sky and I'm like what, No,
Like I'm brushing my teeth a drone. I didn't hear anything,
and I was like, maybe it's like a spotlight from
like a club or something, you know, like they're shining
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it out there.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Nothing and I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
And I looked on Reddit and people saw the same
thing like months ago, and they're like, what is this
mysterious object? And then this lady responded and was like,
I saw this in Utah a few weeks ago. It's
a thing. Ah. I wonder if it's starlink. Starlink, it
would be that close that I could see.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
I don't think Starlink's blue though, well, because when I
was this is what people assumed mine was. When I
had seen something like kind of shoot us across the
sky on my ring camera, I was like, no way,
that was not a shooting star or anything that is
moving like it's a unidentified object, and somebody was like, well,
it could be starlink. But I had looked and starlink
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wasn't going over my house at that time, but apparently
some people can see starlink, which is like one of
the satellites. Yeah, but I don't know that it would
be blue. That would be my only guess of something
that it could potentially be.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
But it was like so bright. It wasn't like off
in the distance. It was like pretty close. You think
the aliens were checking out your house.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
I don't know in some intel on who you are
and if they're gonna abduct you. I love alien stuff,
so I'll just believe. Hey, aliens one day, if you
want to come, I'll hang out with you. It's like,
let me bring my dog in cat and like, don't
kill me. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
It was really funny because my boyfriend he always gets
up before me, and he came in and he's like, Abby,
aliens have taken over and they landed. I was like, what,
oh from the thing?
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Dang it. I want to show you the picture closer
and I can't find it on my phone. I did
see it on your Instagram story though. It was a
bright blue light. Well, if anybody's seen a bright blue
light in their sky, especially in Nashville or anywhere, send
your pictures to Abby. Maybe I can compare notes if
you know what it could be, because look, it's like.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Two, No, that's wild. That's wild. I've never seen anything
like that before. It just stays. It looks like a
UFO space. It really looks like, No, that's and it's
like a purple blue.
Speaker 3 (32:38):
And the sky is like creepy, and it was just
sitting there for ten minutes. Yeah, yeah, because it wouldn't
be like I would think with the fog in the
way that the sky is like, Oh, potentially it's like
a low prop plane or something.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Because they have lights on him. But no, if it's
just sitting there like that, that's creepy. I thought it
could be a dr aliens. It seems so much bigger.
It wasn't just like a drone like this was a
gigantic object of the sky. Those are aliens. Could be
I'm confident, you know how to have to ask you
why as a alien. I haven't seen them yet. They're
the UFO, they're hovering.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
They could also again, they could just be getting intel
finding out what we're like, what's happening down here?
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Is the earth habitable?
Speaker 3 (33:15):
There's so many.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
Things that they can be doing. That's a UFO.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
Okay, that's my that's my scientifiction. My very smart, intelligent
answer is that's a UFO.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
I just couldn't believe nobody could have an answer. I
know there's like scientific people out there. There's some FBI
you should post it on.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
Did you post it on Reddit like the picture of it,
or did you post it on the internet somewhere? Just no,
just the answers.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Okay, lunch you are, you should.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Post it in some places and see if anybody can
come up with it, because they post like UFO forums
and people will go down.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
I've been there. Yeah, it's fun. I'm sure you have.
I love it, and you still believe in them. He
can't do I'm telling you.
Speaker 3 (33:56):
If you look into the freaking night sky, heck even
just look at our solar system.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Oh that's yeah. We are like a grain of sand.
Speaker 3 (34:03):
You literally you think we are the only ones in
this entire galaxy a galaxy or beyond that we don't
even know or understand. No, there's no way, there's no way.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
We're the aliens. It's possible we're the humans.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
That's also possible too, and they could have gotten the
technology advance to come and finally check us out and
be like, who is this?
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Are they gonna come after us? Who knows? All I'm
saying is like they're we are not the only ones.
There's no way. I wish they would have landed like
I'm nice, I was just checking it out. How cool
would that be? But then nobody will believe you selfie?
Can we take a picture?
Speaker 2 (34:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Man, please don't think for those no technology? What is
that object?
Speaker 3 (34:45):
I don't know. I think it's aliens though, that's my
that's my scientific opinion. Okay, I can have a scientist
so much. But you should post that again because we're
talking about it this weekend and see, but also post
it on the UFO forums. Okay, I'd be curious if
anybody comes up with anything me too, like actually wanted
to answers all right, well, and if Reddit didn't, then
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you know it's truly a UFO.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
I gotta trust Reddit.
Speaker 3 (35:11):
Oh sure, I had a Oh, first of all, I
did want to share a PSA.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
So anybody who has a pet.
Speaker 3 (35:18):
There is this microchip company called Save This Life that
closed abruptly, So if your pet is registered to Save
this Life, this is not like an ad or anything.
I had prepped it as like a PSA for people.
If you have a pet that's registered to this, like
you need to get your chip associated with something new.
You will not be in the system anymore. Your animal
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won't be in the system if they get lost. So
we don't really know what happened. I'm just like, this
is just some news reports in the last week or
so that this happened. But so if you have a
microchip in your pet and you don't know what company
it's for, look at that first and then two go
and if they are part of this, get them reregistered
to a different microchip company to make sure that you're
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staying in the system, like your pet is staying in
the system if they were ever to get out and
just closed out of nowhere. Yeah, oh my yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
And it's based in Texas.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
So I have a feeling that a lot of our
listeners could potentially have if they've rescued, adopted, anything like that,
it could be associated with this. So do they have
to get a new trip or with help? No existing
So I believe you can go if you have your
microchip information, I believe you can take it to somebody
else and just tell them what that is and get
it registered that way. If you don't, you can go
to anywhere and people like pet Co shelters anywhere, they'll
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scan the microchip that's office. They'll scan it for free
and they'll tell you what the information is on it,
and then you can use that, oh to reregister.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
And I'm not a huge.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
Animal lover, and I've seen so many lost animals, so
I just want to make sure people know this.
Speaker 1 (36:43):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
So that was my little love the lost animals. I
know it's crazy craziness out there. But also speaking of animals.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
I did have a really cute delivery driver.
Speaker 3 (36:55):
Moment with my Amazon person. Okay, so my Amazon delivery
drivers new one. I hadn't seen her before, but she
dropped off a package for me and Remmy, Remy goes crazy.
She loves the package, shiveries, she's barking, and she she'll
always I have this like automatic shade thing that's on
my front door that I always have down. But Remy's
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just tall enough that if she gets on her back leg,
she'll hit it and it'll fly open.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
That's so cute.
Speaker 3 (37:20):
And so I think this happened and you can hear
her barking on my ring camera, but I see the Amazon.
She goes, okay, okay, I hear you, and she just
takes a tree out of her thing and she sets
it on the box. She left a treat for Remy
on the on the box.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
That's the cutest thing ever. And you saw it on camera.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Yeah, I have it on my my little doorbell camera.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Oh my gosh. Right, I love her. They need tips
Amazon like that. She was so sweet. So I'll post
that video this weekend too. But she was. It was
such a cute moment.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
She's like, okay, okay, I hear you, and she like
bulltash like a treat for you.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
I think that'd be my favorite part of like being
a delivery driver is seeing all the animals at the door,
Like the dogs right up up.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
Oh. I just try and pet all of them. I'm
pet all like you could probably have a lion come
to the door, but can't bet it. I know.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
I see so many videos though, and like they're scared
because you kind of have to be cautious. You don't
know if it's like friendly, but some of them like
get terrified. They like run back to their truck and
it looks just like an innocent little golden retriever or
something it is.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
It's it's interesting, you'd be surprised. I think there's enough
people that have had encounters with unfortunately bad owners. I'm
not gonna say bad dogs because it's always on the
bad owners, but that the dogs were aggressive and then
they're like afraid of them forever. I'm like, gosh, most
animals are not like that. Yeah, and it makes me
so sad. But then they'll get to meet Remy, and
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Remy's an easy transition for them, and they're like, Okay,
I might like them. I'm like, okay, just remember Remy
is a fluffball, right, Yeah, she's a little different.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
She just wants to be pet she does. Oh my gosh.
That's like one of the favorite, my favorite things about
dating my boyfriend. He is a Golden Retriever really, and
I am obsessed with him. You finally have a dog
back in your life. Yes, and he's obsessed with me.
Like my boyfriend's like, what, oh my god, she is
obsessed with you. I'm like, because I pet him all
the time. I give him so much attention. Do you
get a snuggle with him? Yes? Oh, oh my gosh.
And he does this like high pitch. He's like, like whiny,
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so excited. Yeah, when I like pet him or if
I like go to their house or his house or whatever,
and he'll like just like love me to like hug him,
and he's like, oh my god, it's so cute. I
love him.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
How old is he?
Speaker 1 (39:24):
He had just turned nine, okay eight or nine, so cutie.
He shed so oh my gosh. They shed so much
they do. It's insane. Like we vacuum every single day.
You don't have a a little robot vacuum. No, he's scared.
I got one for him as like a housewarming gift
when he bought a house, and my boyfriend he's like,
his dog is terrified of it. Oh, so he can't
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use it because he's terrified of vacuums. He will run
from it like Hazel runs from it too.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
I had I had done one time, uh as when
I first got it, because I had gotten Hazel.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Hazel sheds.
Speaker 3 (39:57):
Remy doesn't shed, but Hazel does, and so I was like,
I need one of these, and Hazel she'll like, I
put the Avengers theme song to the background of it
because it's so funny. She'd like try and go attack
the vacuum and then run away and then like peek
around the corner and try and.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
Attack, and it's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
It was like she's trying to fight with this thing
when when I first got it. Now she just sits
on the table angrily watches it. It does her, no, it
fazes her, but she just doesn't jump down. Now before
she was trying to chase it and I like attack.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
I always wonder what dogs would think that it is,
like they're probably like what is happening? They probably they
don't know. It's like a vacuum, Like, no, that is threatened.
That is territory here and my territory and you're moving
I am threatened. But then some of them like to
sit on it. Yeah, I've seen some animals they just
like to chill on it and just sit there.
Speaker 3 (40:42):
Yeah, if they just realize that they can go for
a ride on it. Remmy would probably bring it. Hazel
could sit on it and she'd be fine. Very different
in ways. I don't think the Golden Retriever gets it
on it either, No, even not, I don't even know
what he would do. Oh, like he doesn't like it.
Did you meet the Golden Retriever early on I did.
Did he use that as a test?
Speaker 1 (41:00):
That's what made me fall on the Golden Retriever?
Speaker 3 (41:04):
Cute it is?
Speaker 1 (41:04):
Yeah, it was very early on.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
Oh and you love walking and stuff? Do you take
him on walks? Oh my gosh, yeah, you're a big walker. Yeah. Like,
I'll just see you in the random middle of the day.
You're like in a wood South. I am always in
the woods. That's like my therapy. I haven't been in
the gym in a while, but I'll go to the
woods and get and now with the Golden Retriever. Yeah,
can you share the Golden Retriever's name?
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Captain? Captain?
Speaker 3 (41:27):
I I captain.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
Anytime I hear captain, all I think is a SpongeBob?
Speaker 3 (41:31):
Is I a captain?
Speaker 1 (41:33):
I can't hear you? And then what does he say
after that? Oh?
Speaker 3 (41:38):
Under the SpongeBob square pants, that's all I think.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Oh no, no, I don't know the rest. Do you sing
that to him? No? But I like it?
Speaker 3 (41:46):
How have I not?
Speaker 1 (41:47):
That's I think I.
Speaker 3 (41:48):
Can think of, Oh my gosh, captain Captain. It used
to be Captain Morgan, but now it's spongedrop captain.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
So I know. I was like, wait, Okay, you really
have like officially retired your party days because I was
thinking Captain Morgan and I went short Captain's fun Bob.
Speaker 3 (42:04):
But also I am functioning on on just a weird
level right now, so that's also great.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
Oh, I like our conversation well, I always love our
conversations are fun.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Maybe she drinks some water. I haven't see this whole time.
I have the whole time. We went in like five
SIPs and my mind's almost gone, Welcome to my life, Abby,
I don't like water. I don't know why. Okay, last
thing we're gonna end on.
Speaker 3 (42:28):
Have you gotten into now that you are dating a
guy who I would assume likes to watch TV shows
or movies? I'm like, you, have you gotten into any
old TV shows or like just not brand new ones
that you're like, oh, dang, I missed out on this
when it first came out.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
Or a movie or a movie movie?
Speaker 3 (42:46):
It could be either, because we gotta go both categories
with you.
Speaker 1 (42:49):
I thank you.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
No.
Speaker 1 (42:52):
Have me watch Gladiator one?
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Did you like it?
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Yeah? I actually did. I really did, And I was like,
I'll watch two, but he watched it without me because
I didn't like love it like you were like obsessed.
Speaker 3 (43:04):
Right.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
I thought it was good to watch one that I
hadn't ever seen people talk about. And he said it
was terrible that eight or two. Oh, so I'm not
gonna watch that one.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
But yeah, got Air one. I think that's a big
step for me.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
That is a big step.
Speaker 3 (43:16):
That's a long movie for you too, because you watch
it all on one setting.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
Yes, who are you? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (43:22):
I may have retired the party go, but you could
be a movie watcher.
Speaker 1 (43:25):
Look at me, look at us.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
Go.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Oh my gosh, as far as show is now, I'm
watching The Good Deed right now. No good Deed, No
good Deed. That's that's an older ish one? Or is
that new? No, it's new, it's so good. No good Deed.
Oh it is new. Twenty twenty four. Dark comedy?
Speaker 3 (43:42):
You love dark comedy, you love like horror dark comedy?
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Like it is dark?
Speaker 3 (43:48):
Is dark?
Speaker 1 (43:49):
I love it?
Speaker 3 (43:49):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (43:51):
Yeah, I don't think you should say that so confidently.
It's like Halloween the movie. It is like that. No,
I mean, I'm just saying, like I love the movie Halloween, Okay,
I just I don't know what it is. And I
watched like the O. J. Simpson. I don't, it's it's something.
Speaker 3 (44:06):
Yeah, you can watch all those for me. This is
why we never have any to talk about more than anything.
Is that because you watch like really dark stuff.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Yeah, and then you're just gonna be like Marvel's Marvel and.
Speaker 3 (44:16):
Okay, all right, lunchbox, thanks for calling out my nerdy side.
Speaker 1 (44:21):
I am very nerdy. I appreciate that. No, I didn't
say nerdy.
Speaker 3 (44:25):
Nope, it's okay, but I actually haven't been watching something nerdy.
Speaker 1 (44:29):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (44:29):
I started watching because a listener suggested it to me,
and I've again been basically stuck on my couch. I
started watching Marvelous Miss masl on Amazon.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
I so I should call it. I called it, I said, Marvel.
It's not Marvel. It's just called marvelous, Miss Mazel. It's
not a marvelous Marvelous sorry the name.
Speaker 3 (44:46):
No, Honestly, though, I am, I just I haven't seen
it yet by this recording. But I am this weeking
going to see the New Captain America Brave New World.
I always go to the Marvel premieres in theaters, and
that's happening this weekend. So you weren't wrong in that capacity,
but that's not what I was talking about for this
particular segment.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
But it still had Marvel. So is that what happened?
You were searching Marvel and then no. No. A listener
suggested this one to me.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
They say it's a good TV show because it's from
the creator of Gilmore Girls, and I love Gilmore Girls.
Do you like kill More Girls? I didn't really watch it, Okay,
back to squear one. Uh, Marvel's from Mazel is hilarious.
I love it. She's like a comedian, she tries to be.
Speaker 1 (45:25):
It's it's great.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
It has four seasons and I'm already on season three,
really and I just started it last week.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Oh so it's one of those binge worthy ones. Yeah,
which I do. I like those. I like the ones that, like,
you want to keep watching.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
It's comedy. You like comedy stuff, don't you. Yes, I
would try it, okay. And it's it's interesting because it's, Uh,
she's Jewish, her all family's Jewish, so it's a different
version of comedy than I'm used to, and so it's
just been fun to watch.
Speaker 1 (45:49):
I needed to tink you that.
Speaker 3 (45:50):
What's it on. It's on Amazon okay, and it's older
it's from It's not older like.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
I want to say.
Speaker 3 (45:55):
It was like twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, but it was
won a bunch of Emmys and Gold Globes and stuff too,
did it.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
And I just never I never watched it. I never
got into it. But now I'm obsessed.
Speaker 3 (46:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:06):
The way that I pick, I just like, go on
Netflix or Amazon whatever. It's like one that says like
for you or like, and then.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
I go to like the dark, You're like trending cool, horror, thriller,
got it, DOCUSERI horror thriller, docuseries, murder. I don't know
you really do? That is really the thing you walked down? Oh,
but also in Paradise. I don't know if you'd like Paradise.
I love it, though I think the normal person would
(46:39):
like it. I just know it is thriller.
Speaker 1 (46:42):
Paradise. Yeah, why wouldn't I like it?
Speaker 3 (46:45):
Because you watched horror and murder things but you said
it's thriller. It is, and I but more of your
favorite stuff, ten Selene darker.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
This is too happy for me. It's not happy.
Speaker 3 (46:58):
It is thriller, is I think you should give it
a try.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
It only has four episodes. On Hulu.
Speaker 3 (47:03):
Yeah, only four episodes.
Speaker 1 (47:05):
I can do that.
Speaker 3 (47:06):
Yeah, and you can also watch it on Disney because
Disney Hulu is not connected or whatever.
Speaker 1 (47:09):
But I think that's another one. I'm obsessed with that one.
Speaker 3 (47:12):
That's like my new that's my new TV show that
I'm really really are you obsessed with? Girl? Sorry?
Speaker 1 (47:18):
Do you hear my stomach? No, it was your stomach growling.
Speaker 3 (47:20):
She was so loud and that had to have Yeah, no,
I'm trying to see it. But also we were just
in here an hour ago and my hearing went out, so.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
Oh my god, yeah, it's what's happening today? Something? My
body's broken? Oh I was reading this. It's in oh
set in a city size underground bunker.
Speaker 3 (47:36):
Don't say that I didn't give anything away.
Speaker 1 (47:39):
That's not Is that what it says on this promise?
Speaker 3 (47:41):
Yeah? I just went to online. Oh okay, yeah, I
don't think that's I'm not giving you away. You haven't
watched it, so you read it. That works for me.
But why do they tell you that it's interesting? It's
it's so good. It's it's with the guy Sterling K
Brown from This is Us and with one of my
(48:01):
favorite other guys. Who I always think is Patrick Gimsey,
but it's actually not James James Marsden. Yeah, he was
in uh, he was in the Princess Show with Princess movie. Yes,
do you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1 (48:14):
Ever happily Ever, Yes, that's what I was trying to
look at in a movie? Whoa did?
Speaker 3 (48:20):
He was also in twenty seven Dresses. I love him,
I really love him, but I always get him confused
with Patrick Dimpsey.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
You do, oh I can Yeah, I can see that.
Speaker 3 (48:28):
Yeah, not purposely, like I know they're not the same person,
but that's the only name I can think of when
I look at him. But yeah, those two, it looks
good to me. Okay, so Glaudiator one, Marvel's was Mabel
and Paradise from me for some reviews.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
Okay, we're getting naughty. I think we're losing it. No,
I'm sweating.
Speaker 3 (48:48):
That was freezing. Why because it's hot in here? Yeah,
I think it's hot in here, and because I'm in
three layers.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (48:55):
You do look like you're about to go to Colorado
and head to the mountains. I do.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
This is like a down legit down jacket, and you
have borne all morning and a long sleeve shirt under it.
What is it in here? It's sixty nine sixty six.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
That no, with sixty six, that's a freezing.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
Sixty six sixty nine. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (49:14):
Honestly, this room, this, this whole building has made me
see temperature very weird ways, like because it may look
like it's something and that's what you think it would
feel like, but it doesn't. So I just don't trust
numbers anymore.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
Yeah, it keeps breaking because I asked. I asked the
guy and he came to fix it. But then he
was like, it it takes too much energy to heat
your building because it's a many windows, so it keeps
like making the circuit break or whatever. That that's really cool. Yeah.
I was like, oh, that's good to know. That's not promising.
This is why.
Speaker 3 (49:43):
The other day somebody caught Amy and I sitting on
the couch huddled under a blanket.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
Yes, and I'm bringing a blanket. I want to bring
the heated electric blanket you plug in, but I'm scared. Yeah,
you'll probably blow a fuse in our studio. It happened. Okay,
Well tell the people like that with words, Tell the
people where you can.
Speaker 3 (50:00):
Why can I talk to tell the people or they
can find you and listen all that good stuff on
Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson. I'm on there.
Speaker 1 (50:10):
I'm gonna have post that picture of the yes mysterious object.
Speaker 3 (50:14):
Yes, post it on your story at least so can
they can go and see it. And I am at
web girl Morgan on all the Things, and you can
follow my podcast take this personally, and of course you
can follow the show at Bobby Bone Show.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
But that is it for us this weekend.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
Hopefully you gathered some fun things from this all over
the place conversation. Yeah, Havy, thank you for being on.
Happy Valentine's Day. Everybody, Happy Valentine's Day. You're celebrating this weekend.
We never got into that, but that's okay. We had
other things to talk about, but I hope you had fun.
I ate a lot of chocolate that I sent myself,
so that's what I did.
Speaker 1 (50:48):
Ate, lots of chocolate, lots of chocolate. Bye, everybody.
Speaker 2 (50:52):
That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks
for listening. Be sure to check out the other two
parts this weekend. Go follow the show and all social
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Speaker 1 (51:00):
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The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Behind a scene with a member of the show.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
What's up, everybody? Happy weekend? I'm joined this weekend by Abby. Abby,
how are you? I'm good.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I'm freezing. I'm in three layers right now, so if
you can hear my coat, sorry, like I'm in like
a winter down jack. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You also have handwarmers, but not like the traditional little
packets that you buy at Target.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
They're like electric hand warmers. Yeah, I got them of Amazon.
Like they're battery operated. You just charge them and they
go in my pocket and I hold them all day.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
It's really not good that you have to wear a
parka and handwarmers to be at work.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Is that? That's what I was saying with Ray, because
poor guy gets here so early and he is freezing.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
He looked like he was straight up back in Michigan.
When I saw him today. He had his stocking cap
on and all bundled up.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, what is up with that? I'm always cold? I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Welcome to a little behind the scenes of working on
the Bobby Coach. So obviously that's what's happening here. But Abby,
we need an update. We need to hear how the
boyfriend is. How things are going, mister cheesehead, cheese head,
give me the latest what you're willing and ready to
talk about.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
It's going well. I mean we've been dating since what
the end of October last year, so it's been over
a year.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Crazy?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Does that feel weird? It really does. Like that's just
that's long for me. Okay, you don't have to say
long for you can just say it's long. And in
Nashville and today's economy with dating, I feel like that's amazing.
It is. It's a unicorn situation. Yes, it's just it's
so fun, like I don't know, we just get along
so well and like nothing bothers me about him, but
(01:38):
if it does, like we just communicate and it's just fun.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Are you still as in love with him as you
were the first moment you realize you were in love
with him?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yes, And it's so fun to like look back, like
on our first date, Like it's funny to think about
the place we went to, like isn't there anymore? But
if we go, it's like an area in Nashville called
twelve South, and so that's where we went. So everyone
that's not there anymore. So it's actually it was Mafiosa's,
that's not It closed like two weeks ago.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I think, dang, that was like a pizza spot.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I know, that was like the go to It was
so good, but then it was that like wood fired girl. Okay,
it's now like a Taco's place. You know where that is,
Like you know where Embers is. I know where Embers is,
So it's like to the right of that one block.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
So now that's what replaced mafio So is there anything
actually in Mafiosa's.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Oh no, nothing's there. Okay, So well, I know I
said that confusing. The first place we were going to
go to that I like saw him for the first
time on the corner where we met. It was like
this wood fired pizza place. But it's gone. Everything's gone. Yeah,
So both both the places we went to basically, did
we read into that? No, we do not. No, we don't.
(02:48):
I'm just kidding. Oh my god, you know, I take
some I know. That's why I'm saying don't.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
That's why I thought you we already thinking that, don't
don't read into that. I was purely kidding.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Oh my god, you're not read anyway. Okay, now that
I have to get past the no. Things are fine.
Like we went to a Super Bowl party. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I just it's great, happy as can be.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Is he still cheesehead or has he earned another nickname?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
He still choose?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
He?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Okay, because like he's a huge Packers fan, and he's
always like, you want to wear my cheesehead, Like if
we go out somewhere, I'm like, no, I don't. You
don't have your own cheesehead. I'm not that big of
a fan.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I'm still a Broncos fan, so that's kind of you
haven't been fully converted. No, and you have not worn
a cheesehead yet.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, not a cheesehead. I've worn like he bought me
a shirt. You're moving on over, Yes, but not gonna
wear that cheese head. Maybe if we go to a game.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
I would.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
If we went to a game in Lamb, Lamb though Lamb, yeah,
then I would wear one for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
You know, I really love Wisconsin. They have great cheese curts.
I've been there once. We didn't have any cheese curts.
But how do you go to Wisconsin not have cheese curts.
We went for a wedding.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
One thing they're known for. That's so true. I went
for a wedding. But you know how it's like, do
you also not like cheese? I can't remember. No, I like, oh, okay,
cheese would be so it all fairness. There are some
weird things you don't like. I know I'm picky, but
that picky as I was making sure of I can
remember that was one of them. Were certain cheeses I
don't like, like pepper jack.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Okay, that's fair. But cheese curds I can, yeah, okay,
but you didn't eat them, no, because I just like,
you know, cheese whatever. Like it's sonic a fries cheese curd.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Man, it's like basically a fried mozzarella ballah mozzarella sticks.
I like those.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Yeah, that's what a cheese curd is. But like it's
from Wisconsin, so it's built there.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
That's the best sway. It originates there. What kind of
cheese is it?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Like? Cheddar?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
All kinds of cheddar? Even at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
When I go I get Wisconsin cheese, I get Wisconsin
white cheddar and mild cheddar, and then I also get
an unexpected cheddar, which I also believe is from Wisconsin.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Oh, well, we only go out and get advertisers. He
always wants cheese curds. He always does want them.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
So you've eaten them here, but you've never eaten them
in Wisconsin, right, different experience. Okay, Also, legit cheese curds
aren't fried kind. They come in a weird baggy that
you could buy it like any grocery store or gas
station in Wisconsin. And they are like these little they're
squeaky and they kind of look like I don't know
how to explain it very well, but it's a different
It's different than like fried cheese curds.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
That's not what they're actually known for. They're known for cheese.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Curds, right right, Wow, that don't have fry stuff on him.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I'm really getting in the know of where he's from. Obviously,
this is that's all they're known for, is cheese.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Honestly, I didn't know that well. And the package said,
and the packer there's more too. I greatly loved Wisconsin.
It was beautiful.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, it is so pretty. It's so nice there. I
was like, I wanted to spend more time. It was
just a weekend, so.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, I need to go back and create some new memories.
That was with my crazy ex boyfriend. Oh no, really,
why were you there? I went and visited his family.
His family's there, Oh, because he's from there. I don't know.
I've chosen to block out a lot of that.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Really nice. Yeah, let's move change, okay, any other anything
else you want to share?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Boyfriend? All good for now?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Yes? All good? Okay for now?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Maybe by next best bits I will have more to share, Biby.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I love the happy update. I'm I'm kind of one
of those and I'm like, I'm just gonna like less
is more because I feel like I DNX myself.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
I'm still there. Remember this, You're not supposed to be
there anymore at this point, Abbey. I know, remember I
told you the year in. You did tell me this,
but you guys are a year in.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
I was like, even on my like ten year anniversary
of my wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Okay, well, okay, I think we're still He puts a
freaking ring on the finger. Abby, We're gonna have to
let that one go. I think I told you the
same thing last time.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
I know you did trust issues over here. Okay, that's okay.
I have trust issues too, But you're giving me some hope.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I mean, yeah, because the dating right now is just garbage.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
But in a garbage camp, set it on fire. Oh
my gosh, I'm so annoyed. Like that's really annoying. I know,
because I was doing that for ten years in Nashville
and it.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Was so bad. Yeah, and it's you. You know What's
funny though, Like I feel like quality is just so down.
I've met plenty of nice guys. There's nice guys out there,
it's just nothing that's actually creating anything more than a
friendship for me. Like there's nothing that's getting me any
version of excited to even like go on a second, third,
(07:17):
fourth date. It's like they're fine, they're not bad people,
They're just there's just not And I don't know if
I've gotten to this place abby where I've just really realized,
like somebody has to be really worth it for me
to go through a relationship and do all of this again. Yes,
(07:40):
you know what I mean, Like I really think I'm
in this place where I just don't I'm not just
gonna settle down just to settle down, and like could
I have dated and potentially continued into serious relationships with
some of them yeah, absolutely it could have, but I
just am not at that place anymore where that's necessary
to me. I think I'm so comfortable with where I'm
(08:01):
at in my life and who I am that somebody
just has to be really awesome for that to kind
of take over.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Right, because you don't. You wouldn't want it like any
other way. You don't want to feel like you're settling
or like, you know, being held back from what you
like truly want to do and be like, oh, well,
at least I'm with a guy and I have things
to do, you know, somebody to do stuff with. But
if it's not amazing, then you see, and I don't
waste of time.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
That's the thing too, is I'm like, I'll just go
do it by myself, or I'll make one of my
friends come with me.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I don't need somebody.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Like the only moment where I had like maybe five
brief minutes when I first got vertigo, and I cried
because it's like I'm by myself again, But it was
really more because my family wasn't even around. If my
family was around, I don't even think I would have
had that moment. It was more that, oh, my family's
not here, and I have to like lean on my friends,
and I'm really bad at asking for help. It's just
my one of my not great quality traits. And I
(08:59):
like cried because when you with a partner, you have
your family, you have this kind of automatic help versus
having to ask and go seeking for help. So that
was really the only moment that I've had in the past,
I mean since breaking up with my ex, where I
really was sad that I was alone. Oh my gosh,
that's really good. That is a very good sign.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah. Yeah, So I don't know, man, I don't know
what's happening. What was the last one you went on?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Mmmuse before I got vertigo. I had to cancel some dates.
When I got vertigo, I was like sorry, and I
swear this is not a cop out. That got straight
up can't get my bed.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
They're like, send me a selfie, okay, I'll show you
what I look like in.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
My Yeah, and nobody wanted to be around me. I
hadn't been able to shower. I was in clothes for
like the same four days.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
That is so rough. It was a disaster.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
So I'd canceled some It was like the week before
I'd got vertigo.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
I'd went on one and it was fine.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
The guy was really nice, but he just had he
had some stuff that he was still doing and working through,
and I just I've also really been proud of myself
that I'm not I'm not here to work on projects anymore.
I've done that, but they've done that so and got
done for that.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Yeah, you got to.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
Come show it up ready and emotionally in a place
that you're ready for a relationship.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
And I can't do that anymore. I'm curious, like what
catches your eye now, like on apps, like what makes
you be like, oh, I do want to go out
with this guy? Because there's so many you know, like left, right, right,
what makes you be like, okay, I'll let you take
me out.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
I'm really focused on quality across the board. So profile
they have to truly fill it out, and of course
I have to be attracted to them in some way
in the pictures, Like that's just part of dating. You
have to be attracted to the person you want to
go out a day with. But beyond that, beyond that,
like very quick moment of judgment, it's quality of the profile.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Do they fill it out?
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Are the pictures consistent? Do they look similar in all
the photos, Like, are they actually this person when they
fill out the prompts? Are they intentional about what they're saying?
Do they actually want to date you? Like? Do they
really want to go on dates? And then beyond matching,
it's how is this conversation unfolding? I have matched dudes
like not at this point in my life, but like
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before I would just.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Match with dudes. I'm like, Oh, they're cute, we could
go out and be fun. I don't. I'm not there anymore.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Like you can be attractive, but if your profile sucks,
you're out, you know what I mean. Like, it's very
intentional for me on there now where you have to
have all of the pieces, Like you have to very
intentionally quality all of the things. So then in conversations,
I've had plenty of them that like they pass that
test and then you go in the conversation and nothing happens.
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I feel like that's how.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
It was for me, Like they were so good at
conversing like on text and it was so fun and flirty,
and then you get in person You're like, where is
that other guy that too? That has happened too?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
But some like won't even go to the They'll like,
they're like, how are you doing?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
What's your work life today? Right?
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Or right?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:59):
What's your favorite color? I'm like, bro, I don't know,
give me something anything that's exhausting. Yeah, you're not having fun.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I'm not having fun? Why are we doing this?
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Like? And I try really hard to make sure my
prompts like would make you want to say something? And
even I've gotten to the point because I had a
dating coach who she's actually she'll be on my podcast
on Monday, who she's so so intentional about how she
does things, and she just kind of takes the guessing
workout of dating, where it's like, this is not how
you do this, Like, stop guessing these games.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
Just date.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
And she's like, if you match with someone, you reach out,
you say something. And so if somebody matches with me
and doesn't say anything, I'll go to their profile and
say something. I'm very actively intentionally dating and some of
some of the time they just don't even respond.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
That's why why did you match with me? Why did
you like my photo? I know? What is that they
go disappear for a couple of days and then come
back and you're like, I'm not going to string this along.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Yeah, I'm like, also, how quick are they to from
the conversation on the dating to then set up a date?
Because I also don't want to pinpal, don't get my
phone number. I don't want to message you for five
five weeks unless there's a really good reason, like I
had vertigo. So we had to transition to the text
for two of them that I had to like cancel on.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
But I don't like texting before I meet.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
I don't want I don't want to text you, and
I don't want to know your social media but be for
a first date. I feel like we're just setting ourselves
up for failure here, you know what I mean, Like
past that first date, first date goes well, let's exchange
phone numbers and then maybe third or fourths eight, let's
start looking on social media. I think you set yourself
up for bad things to happen when you you go
and you creep on social media and you spend weeks
texting somebody.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Yes, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
So I've just really like narrowed down a lot of
things that I had never done before.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
Yeah, that's what I did with my current I almost
said his name, but she said, I don't know him.
It was like we didn't talk much at all, Like
it was just like why why waste the time? Just
like he was like maybe it was Tuesday or Wednesday.
He's like, hey, can we go to dinner on Friday?
And like name to time is like where do you
want to go? And I said, okay, pick these I
(14:03):
have these three areas. I was like twelve South like
East Nashville or Sylvan Park or something. Those are three areas,
and he picked it and we kind of went from there.
So it was like we made it happen in like
two seconds. See that's so attractive. That's so attractive to me.
And that right there, I was like, okay, somebody is
gonna like let's go and then follow through and not
(14:27):
be like, oh near mind, I have to cancel. I'm
something came up.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah, and like that's totally fine if you have to cancel,
but like set a new date then be like, hey
I have to cancel. I want to still see you.
Let's do this a week from now on this date.
Like that's totally cool. Life happens, but it's just it's
so much gets lost in translation over the dating apps.
So like I have a love hate relationship with them.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
Yeah, I do too, like you, Yes, And it's because
all of my friends were finding their guys and they
were getting married to the guy they met on Bumble
and Tinder, and I'm like, Okay, it has to happen
for me at some point, it has to it is
it does.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
The reason I do love them is because it puts
you in a new dating window. I guess is there's
a word that I can't find right now. Again, my
brain's mush. But it puts you in a different dating pool.
That's the word I was looking for. A dating pool
then just your typical what you see every day and
what you're interacting with.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Because I've met so many people in those.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Dating apps I would have never met, never ever would
have met, never would have crossed my path.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, so they're great for that.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
It's just finding the people that like are very intentional
quality dating.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
And that's hard to find. Everybody's exhausted. Nobody likes dating.
Nobody likes it. No, they don't, they don't. It's it's
like an interview. No one wants to go on an
interview every day or every other day. And also the
I don't even think you need to do dinner dates either.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Like I love that you guys were able to do
all one even if that works out great, I'm like,
let's just go on a walk. Let's go on a walk,
Let's go grab coffee. I don't drink coffee. I'll drink
hot chocolate, but like, let's do that, let's grab a
quick drink.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
It doesn't have to be like this huge thing that
people put up for it to be, to just know like, hey, okay,
now the second date, the second day is where I
truly think you can start to shine and be like
I'm gonna plan a dinner date and like, let's do.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
This, because it shouldn't be extravagant. It shouldn't be I've
heard guys that are like, oh my gosh, I spent
so much money on this first date, and I'm like,
then you should have just been like, let's grab one
drink or you know, like, it doesn't have to be
anything crazy. It's just like the initial screening process to
know if you want to talk to them again. And see.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
That's even why most of the time I really don't
like dinner dates because I feel like you're on it
for too long, it's like, and what happens if you
both get stuck and you don't want to be there?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Actually I lied it was just meeting for one drink
because I remember coming on like the show here and
being like, I'm limiting it to an hour and it's
just coffee or something like that. And then when I
was there, I finally admitted to him and I was like, Okay,
like I told myself, I was going to stay an hour,
but I really don't want to leave. So you want
to go somewhere else, like, but then you have the
(16:57):
option for that.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Yeah, right, you say yourself up for an option for that,
versus sitting yourself up if you don't like it to
not stay.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yes, so I do recommend yeah, the walk, coffee, Yeah,
maybe one drink, just like one beer or whatever, and
then be like, Okay, I gotta go because also I
wanted to like be a little mysterious, not that I
like play the game, but I also didn't want to
be like seem too urgent or not urgent. You're eager, yes,
(17:25):
but I didn't because it was four hours, but.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
I want to go. It worked out for you, it did,
but anyway, at least you set yourself up for the
potential of you can can get out of it. See right,
look at you.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
You're expert now that it worked because I finally set
a boundary and the boundary worked, but then I crossed
it again. We love boundaries, but happy we're not good
at them anyway, I didn't. I don't like boundaries. I
love boundaries. Boundaries are sexy sex. You're on your own
(18:01):
with that one. Yeah, I love you, and I'm on
your team every other time. That's that one. That's what
you need to talk about on your podcast. How to
set boundaries. Okay, you're gonna come on an episode. I'm
the failed version, like you.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Haven't EXPERI yeah, you need the expert success.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
And then we need the real life. Okay, yeah, your
real life happens when you don't set boundaries. You get
walked on like a normat.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Okay, you have done better, though, You've done a lot better,
so you should give yourself some friend.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Okay, we're gonna take a quick break. We'll be right back. Okay.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
So I've been dealing with vertigo lately, and I want
to tell you some funny stories.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Oh my god, please du because I've never experienced it.
This is what Those aren't funny. Those suck. I'm trying
to look at the positives. Tell me the funny.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
I want to laugh, but it does suck. I hope
nobody I wish to literally nobody ever would get this.
It's so debilitating. It's the worst thing ever. But funny
thing about having her to go and wearing these glasses, okay,
is people in public really like to, like, guess why
I'm wearing the glasses.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
They do. I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Yes, they just come up to you and they're like,
I don't know if it's because it's uncommon one, because
they're like red glasses and they don't really look like sunglasses,
and they're not blue light glasses. They're just a little different.
People don't know them. But I've had people guess one
that I am partially blind.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Yeah wait, this is what they say. Yeah. Like, and
it's like.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Employees or stuff that you're kind of already interacting with,
so it's not totally random strangers just coming up and
be like, are you blind? But it's people I'm interacting
with in the world that are strangers, okay, And they'll
be like those are glasses and I'm like, yeah, they're glasses, Like,
are you like it's funny? You know. I don't know
if we're just like, wow, they blunt these.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Days or what's that blant? But I had a filter
out there, Okay, it really is.
Speaker 3 (19:54):
So I've had one ask if I was partially blind,
and then I had one ask if I was experiencing
migrain that was the closest migrants was closest.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
And then I had another person asked if I had
cosmetic surgery.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Oh my gosh, did you just get lasick?
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Like you good? What's happening? That surprises me because I
see a lot of glasses. People wear a lot of
different interesting classes. I know, and maybe.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Commented maybe it's just for like employees because I've had
to go and get like fast food stuff or have
stuff sent or delivered because I just I haven't been
functioning enough to like get groceries and like have my
normal life. So I don't know if I've just had
more encounters in the wild. But yeah, and if they're
just starting conversations because it's an easy conversation to start
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because you're wearing glasses.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Do you think that's odd? Would you ever say that
to somebody?
Speaker 3 (20:44):
I wouldn't assume, but if I wanted to create a
conversation around I'd be like, those are really cool? Where'd
you get those? And see if there's like a story
behind them? Yeah, versus coming out with it.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
People have been bold.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
That really is I would never think to do that ever.
But I also don't know if it's because of the
I'm walking to and I look funny because I'm so.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
Like robot you're looking straight ahead.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Yeah, and then in your head that could also be
a part of this equation.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Wow to their difference, But.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Oh my gosh, that's been a fun experience for me.
This is fun.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Boundaries. We were talking about boundaries.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
People don't have boundaries, and then I have a new discovery.
So I don't like water. This is not an uncommon thing.
I've never been a good water drinker. I try really hard.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
You don't like water. I shouldn't say I don't like water.
I'm just not good at drinking water.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Okay, Like I like it when I have it, but
I forget about it.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
It's just kind of there. Stanley could last all day
long if I want it. Unless you're like dying of thirst,
you're not going to drink it.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
I actively have to choose to like drink water, so
I shouldn't say I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
I do like water. You do always have your Stanley,
but I guess you're not drinking it.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
It never finishes. I never finish it. It's so bad.
But I obviously have been super dehydrated because I'm also
just when you're down and out, you really don't want
to drink water, and so I've been dehydrated.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
But I found Gator Light.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
One of my friends brought me Gator Light, which is
like Gatorade and pedia lighte together. This is genius.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
It tastes so yummy. It's definitely salty.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
I'm a salty person, so it's possible that it's so
salty for some people.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
But it's so.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
Good, and it comes in Gatorade flavors.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Isn't packets you mix with water.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
No, it's like an actual Gatorade bottle and it's called
Gator Light.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Oh my gosh, that's a genius.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
And I don't know if it's an official like collaboration
between the two of them, but it looks like it. Yeah,
I could be a knock off because it is called
Gator Light, so it's possible.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
They don't actually work together.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
But it's like drinking Pedia Light and gatorad which are
always the two things that I want when I'm sick.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Uh huh, So you like that? I love it.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Had I had the Glacier one, which is my favorite.
I love the Glacier Blue Glacier is the best. And
then I had a Strawberry Kiwi one that was also good.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Oh, I need to look that up.
Speaker 3 (22:54):
So if you're dehydrated or you're sick, because we're also
in like flu six season, Gator Light, have you had
any new discoveries later light? Oh, I know that's a
random one that I just threw out there.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
It's also okay if you don't, not really, I mean
I got by these. What's funny is like the Gatorade packets,
but it's Gatorade zero in their packets.
Speaker 3 (23:15):
Oh, because they're supposed to have like no calories. I
just don't like all the sugar. That's fair sat Light.
The Gator Light has fifty calories, so it's not as
bad as most Gatorade, I think again, because it is
utilizing whatever Peda LIGHTE does. Because PD light I don't
think has a lot of calories either. It's like salt
in the electrolytes. Is the kind of focus. I could
(23:37):
be so wrong on that. I'm not a scientist. I
have no information on that.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
What I did discover once was though, if you mix
pedia lighte with vodka, you won't be as hungover the
next day.
Speaker 3 (23:46):
That does not sound like a good idea. Like it's
a brilliant idea, but also also you just you shouldn't
do that because rating and it is dehydrating, but like
it's supposed to just be hydrating, it's not supposed to
also dehydrate you at the same time.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
But if you want to drink and you want to
like have less of a hangover and hydrate yourself, you
feel better about it. Oh, it's been a while, but
it's great. Is this like adult? Abby figured this out?
Speaker 3 (24:18):
Adult?
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Yeah? Yeah, I didn't know if it was no. No, no,
probably a year ago, two years ago. Oh okay, full adult. Yes,
but I wish I would have known it in college.
Does it taste good? Yeah, it's like a mixer, you know,
like vodka cranberry, but it's Vodkapedia.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Like, I just feel like we're gonna, you know, it's
gonna be one of those days where we look back
on it kind of like four locals and we're like,
we shouldn't do this.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Probably I don't do it all the time, but I
wanted to see. I was like, wait, this is genius.
I want to see if it actually like does help,
because I feel like that's when they help. Yeah, because
that's how you get the most hangover.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
Hungover is when you're like just super dehydrated and you
just like need something.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
But if you start early at the same.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Time you're hydrating yourself and dehydrating, they really cancel each
other out though, So I just don't see.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
I'm not gonna walk down this road, but I will
tell you.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
In college, one of the mists that went around is
that if you drink a glass of milk before you
went out, it coded your stomach so you wouldn't vomit.
That makes me want to throw up. It made me
want to throw up when I did it.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Someone was messing with you. Were they messing with you?
No heard that too. It worked, But I feel like
it would like curdl if you have like white claw,
wouldn't it the dairy? Well, white claw wasn't the thing.
When I was in college. Beer bud light. And I
also wasn't drinking beer.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
I was drinking mostly horrible Burnett's vodka, the worst vodka
you uhould be drinking. Nah, there's worse, But that's that's
down there, isn't I remember that to first? I had
and obviously ever clear. Those make me just like one
a vomit even thinking about them. But yeah, I got
a glass of milk. I'm curious if it actually works
(25:59):
or not. But I am.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
I'm curious too. But also when we.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Sit here and talk about this, doesn't it make you realize,
like i'cohol is bad for you.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
If we have to do all these things to drink,
it really bad, and we tell ourselves are never going
to drink again, and then a week later we're like,
actually I want to go, let's go.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
Yeah, I've been doing better. I haven't drink a lot
in probably the last year. I did when we were
in Europe because I was a different person over there.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Yeah it's vacation, yeah, but here.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
No, I've really I've really toned back party. Morgan is
I think officially retired.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
No, wow, No, that's a big statement. It really is.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
Even you were having more fun at concerts than I
was like I was not doing I was just sitting there.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
I was like enjoying my little drink. Let's wark just
call me out on it. Oh my gosh, you're not
going to believe this. Then I went to Losers on
in Midtown and like red door until like two am
last weekend.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
I don't know I did.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
I haven't done that in like seven years. Like that's
where all the college. I was the oldest person in there.
Why did you go? I just was like, I haven't
seen Riley Green's new bar, so I want to check
that you got wild hair.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Yeah. I got wild hair and just stayed forever because
the music was so good and Losers okay, okay, fine,
but everybody.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Around me was like twenty one. I was like, oh
my god, see you haven't retired.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
This is why you're drinking pedlite in vodka or tequila.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Whatever you do is well. I tried dry January, but
I knew that wasn't possible for me, so I drank
once a week. Now I'm selling an alcoholic. I'm really not.
But when I drink it, it's just white claw, it's you.
You do love it, white go crazy. I don't do shots.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
I just do white claw, besides this last weekend when
you stayed at all, but it was just white Claws.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Yeah, and I don't drink much abby. I don't think
I would have drank it all in January if I
didn't have dates to go on.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
It's just everybody automatically chooses.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Like a first drink, that's typically what most of them choose,
and so then you feel obligated. There was even some
by like the third or fourth when I was like,
I don't really drink Oh my gosh. Yeah I used
to do that too. Somebody you say, you could just
be like, I'll have a doctor pepper.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Literally.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
There was one I went on a date with a
guy and he had had like three drinks.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
He's like, are you can eat another one? I was like, no,
I'm good, I only had one.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
You.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
I felt judged. Sometimes when I didn't like they'd be like, wait,
you're not drinking, and I'm like, whoa, I okay, I'm
trying to be healthy. That's how I felt. I was like,
I don't feel great.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
I don't want to keep drinking this much, and on
weeknights like I'm just not I'm not as able body
as I used to be okay, especially on week nights
exactly school nights. Right, don't catch me out on a
school night. That's not fun for me, I know. And
that you have to because then you don't want to
take up your weekend.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
It's the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
It is.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
But they don't have to get up super early. No,
they don't like you, so that's fine for them. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
So anyway, anyway, where did that stem from? Gator light?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Okay, try to mix an that with vodka. I'm gonna
try that night. No defeats a purpose of gator light.
I'm kidding. I don't drink vodka anymore, like I said,
because like I don't want to get out of control.
I just want my white claw.
Speaker 3 (28:55):
That's your retired party girl part. Yeah not fully right,
you're still there, just white claw. Watch I say this,
and then like two weekends from now, when I'm like
dumb a vertigo, like, let's that go, You're.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
Probably gonna want to oh, because you haven't. You've had
to be so like still and cautious.
Speaker 3 (29:12):
It's true. Even just moving my head a little, what
talking to you here? I'm getting a little dizzy spells.
I'm trying not to but I'm a very animated talker.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
Yeah, and you've been very still you have. And I'm
over here like, no, you're doing great.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Okay, we're gonna take a quick break and then we're
coming back and we're talking about something Abby saw in
the sky.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
Oh it's crazy, all right, Abby?
Speaker 3 (29:36):
You may have seen aliens, ufo or some type of
situation in the sky.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
What happened? I did you see the picture I put
on Instagram? I did the reason I put it on
there because I was hoping other people would know, they
would have some sort of idea what it could be.
It was like this glowing, bluish object and it was
kind of cloudy, so it was kind of hazy, but
it was two It looked like two balls by side.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
In your photo, it looked like one just bright blue
shining light in the sky. Yes, yeah, but it looked
like like to your eye when you were looking at
it looks like two balls.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Kind of yeah, Hu, And I cannot figure out what
it was. I thought people would answer and they're like,
let me know what it is. How did it go?
Speaker 3 (30:18):
Did you watch it until it went away? Or did
you just kind of no?
Speaker 1 (30:21):
I mean I was out there for a while I
would say, like ten minutes, I just watched it and
nothing was happening because my boyfriend was over and he's like, come,
look at this thing in the sky and I'm like what, No,
Like I'm brushing my teeth a drone. I didn't hear anything,
and I was like, maybe it's like a spotlight from
like a club or something, you know, like they're shining
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it out there.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Nothing and I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
And I looked on Reddit and people saw the same
thing like months ago, and they're like, what is this
mysterious object? And then this lady responded and was like,
I saw this in Utah a few weeks ago. It's
a thing. Ah. I wonder if it's starlink. Starlink, it
would be that close that I could see.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
I don't think Starlink's blue though, well, because when I
was this is what people assumed mine was. When I
had seen something like kind of shoot us across the
sky on my ring camera, I was like, no way,
that was not a shooting star or anything that is
moving like it's a unidentified object, and somebody was like, well,
it could be starlink. But I had looked and starlink
(31:23):
wasn't going over my house at that time, but apparently
some people can see starlink, which is like one of
the satellites. Yeah, but I don't know that it would
be blue. That would be my only guess of something
that it could potentially be.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
But it was like so bright. It wasn't like off
in the distance. It was like pretty close. You think
the aliens were checking out your house.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
I don't know in some intel on who you are
and if they're gonna abduct you. I love alien stuff,
so I'll just believe. Hey, aliens one day, if you
want to come, I'll hang out with you. It's like,
let me bring my dog in cat and like, don't
kill me. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
It was really funny because my boyfriend he always gets
up before me, and he came in and he's like, Abby,
aliens have taken over and they landed. I was like, what,
oh from the thing?
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Dang it. I want to show you the picture closer
and I can't find it on my phone. I did
see it on your Instagram story though. It was a
bright blue light. Well, if anybody's seen a bright blue
light in their sky, especially in Nashville or anywhere, send
your pictures to Abby. Maybe I can compare notes if
you know what it could be, because look, it's like.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Two, No, that's wild. That's wild. I've never seen anything
like that before. It just stays. It looks like a
UFO space. It really looks like, No, that's and it's
like a purple blue.
Speaker 3 (32:38):
And the sky is like creepy, and it was just
sitting there for ten minutes. Yeah, yeah, because it wouldn't
be like I would think with the fog in the
way that the sky is like, Oh, potentially it's like
a low prop plane or something.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Because they have lights on him. But no, if it's
just sitting there like that, that's creepy. I thought it
could be a dr aliens. It seems so much bigger.
It wasn't just like a drone like this was a
gigantic object of the sky. Those are aliens. Could be
I'm confident, you know how to have to ask you
why as a alien. I haven't seen them yet. They're
the UFO, they're hovering.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
They could also again, they could just be getting intel
finding out what we're like, what's happening down here?
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Is the earth habitable?
Speaker 3 (33:15):
There's so many.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
Things that they can be doing. That's a UFO.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
Okay, that's my that's my scientifiction. My very smart, intelligent
answer is that's a UFO.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
I just couldn't believe nobody could have an answer. I
know there's like scientific people out there. There's some FBI
you should post it on.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
Did you post it on Reddit like the picture of it,
or did you post it on the internet somewhere? Just no,
just the answers.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Okay, lunch you are, you should.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Post it in some places and see if anybody can
come up with it, because they post like UFO forums
and people will go down.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
I've been there. Yeah, it's fun. I'm sure you have.
I love it, and you still believe in them. He
can't do I'm telling you.
Speaker 3 (33:56):
If you look into the freaking night sky, heck even
just look at our solar system.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Oh that's yeah. We are like a grain of sand.
Speaker 3 (34:03):
You literally you think we are the only ones in
this entire galaxy a galaxy or beyond that we don't
even know or understand. No, there's no way, there's no way.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
We're the aliens. It's possible we're the humans.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
That's also possible too, and they could have gotten the
technology advance to come and finally check us out and
be like, who is this?
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Are they gonna come after us? Who knows? All I'm
saying is like they're we are not the only ones.
There's no way. I wish they would have landed like
I'm nice, I was just checking it out. How cool
would that be? But then nobody will believe you selfie?
Can we take a picture?
Speaker 2 (34:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Man, please don't think for those no technology? What is
that object?
Speaker 3 (34:45):
I don't know. I think it's aliens though, that's my
that's my scientific opinion. Okay, I can have a scientist
so much. But you should post that again because we're
talking about it this weekend and see, but also post
it on the UFO forums. Okay, I'd be curious if
anybody comes up with anything me too, like actually wanted
to answers all right, well, and if Reddit didn't, then
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you know it's truly a UFO.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
I gotta trust Reddit.
Speaker 3 (35:11):
Oh sure, I had a Oh, first of all, I
did want to share a PSA.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
So anybody who has a pet.
Speaker 3 (35:18):
There is this microchip company called Save This Life that
closed abruptly, So if your pet is registered to Save
this Life, this is not like an ad or anything.
I had prepped it as like a PSA for people.
If you have a pet that's registered to this, like
you need to get your chip associated with something new.
You will not be in the system anymore. Your animal
(35:39):
won't be in the system if they get lost. So
we don't really know what happened. I'm just like, this
is just some news reports in the last week or
so that this happened. But so if you have a
microchip in your pet and you don't know what company
it's for, look at that first and then two go
and if they are part of this, get them reregistered
to a different microchip company to make sure that you're
(36:00):
staying in the system, like your pet is staying in
the system if they were ever to get out and
just closed out of nowhere. Yeah, oh my yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
And it's based in Texas.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
So I have a feeling that a lot of our
listeners could potentially have if they've rescued, adopted, anything like that,
it could be associated with this. So do they have
to get a new trip or with help? No existing
So I believe you can go if you have your
microchip information, I believe you can take it to somebody
else and just tell them what that is and get
it registered that way. If you don't, you can go
to anywhere and people like pet Co shelters anywhere, they'll
(36:31):
scan the microchip that's office. They'll scan it for free
and they'll tell you what the information is on it,
and then you can use that, oh to reregister.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
And I'm not a huge.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
Animal lover, and I've seen so many lost animals, so
I just want to make sure people know this.
Speaker 1 (36:43):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
So that was my little love the lost animals. I
know it's crazy craziness out there. But also speaking of animals.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
I did have a really cute delivery driver.
Speaker 3 (36:55):
Moment with my Amazon person. Okay, so my Amazon delivery
drivers new one. I hadn't seen her before, but she
dropped off a package for me and Remmy, Remy goes crazy.
She loves the package, shiveries, she's barking, and she she'll
always I have this like automatic shade thing that's on
my front door that I always have down. But Remy's
(37:15):
just tall enough that if she gets on her back leg,
she'll hit it and it'll fly open.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
That's so cute.
Speaker 3 (37:20):
And so I think this happened and you can hear
her barking on my ring camera, but I see the Amazon.
She goes, okay, okay, I hear you, and she just
takes a tree out of her thing and she sets
it on the box. She left a treat for Remy
on the on the box.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
That's the cutest thing ever. And you saw it on camera.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Yeah, I have it on my my little doorbell camera.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Oh my gosh. Right, I love her. They need tips
Amazon like that. She was so sweet. So I'll post
that video this weekend too. But she was. It was
such a cute moment.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
She's like, okay, okay, I hear you, and she like
bulltash like a treat for you.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
I think that'd be my favorite part of like being
a delivery driver is seeing all the animals at the door,
Like the dogs right up up.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
Oh. I just try and pet all of them. I'm
pet all like you could probably have a lion come
to the door, but can't bet it. I know.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
I see so many videos though, and like they're scared
because you kind of have to be cautious. You don't
know if it's like friendly, but some of them like
get terrified. They like run back to their truck and
it looks just like an innocent little golden retriever or
something it is.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
It's it's interesting, you'd be surprised. I think there's enough
people that have had encounters with unfortunately bad owners. I'm
not gonna say bad dogs because it's always on the
bad owners, but that the dogs were aggressive and then
they're like afraid of them forever. I'm like, gosh, most
animals are not like that. Yeah, and it makes me
so sad. But then they'll get to meet Remy, and
(38:37):
Remy's an easy transition for them, and they're like, Okay,
I might like them. I'm like, okay, just remember Remy
is a fluffball, right, Yeah, she's a little different.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
She just wants to be pet she does. Oh my gosh.
That's like one of the favorite, my favorite things about
dating my boyfriend. He is a Golden Retriever really, and
I am obsessed with him. You finally have a dog
back in your life. Yes, and he's obsessed with me.
Like my boyfriend's like, what, oh my god, she is
obsessed with you. I'm like, because I pet him all
the time. I give him so much attention. Do you
get a snuggle with him? Yes? Oh, oh my gosh.
And he does this like high pitch. He's like, like whiny,
(39:11):
so excited. Yeah, when I like pet him or if
I like go to their house or his house or whatever,
and he'll like just like love me to like hug him,
and he's like, oh my god, it's so cute. I
love him.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
How old is he?
Speaker 1 (39:24):
He had just turned nine, okay eight or nine, so cutie.
He shed so oh my gosh. They shed so much
they do. It's insane. Like we vacuum every single day.
You don't have a a little robot vacuum. No, he's scared.
I got one for him as like a housewarming gift
when he bought a house, and my boyfriend he's like,
his dog is terrified of it. Oh, so he can't
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use it because he's terrified of vacuums. He will run
from it like Hazel runs from it too.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
I had I had done one time, uh as when
I first got it, because I had gotten Hazel.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Hazel sheds.
Speaker 3 (39:57):
Remy doesn't shed, but Hazel does, and so I was like,
I need one of these, and Hazel she'll like, I
put the Avengers theme song to the background of it
because it's so funny. She'd like try and go attack
the vacuum and then run away and then like peek
around the corner and try and.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
Attack, and it's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
It was like she's trying to fight with this thing
when when I first got it. Now she just sits
on the table angrily watches it. It does her, no, it
fazes her, but she just doesn't jump down. Now before
she was trying to chase it and I like attack.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
I always wonder what dogs would think that it is,
like they're probably like what is happening? They probably they
don't know. It's like a vacuum, Like, no, that is threatened.
That is territory here and my territory and you're moving
I am threatened. But then some of them like to
sit on it. Yeah, I've seen some animals they just
like to chill on it and just sit there.
Speaker 3 (40:42):
Yeah, if they just realize that they can go for
a ride on it. Remmy would probably bring it. Hazel
could sit on it and she'd be fine. Very different
in ways. I don't think the Golden Retriever gets it
on it either, No, even not, I don't even know
what he would do. Oh, like he doesn't like it.
Did you meet the Golden Retriever early on I did.
Did he use that as a test?
Speaker 1 (41:00):
That's what made me fall on the Golden Retriever?
Speaker 3 (41:04):
Cute it is?
Speaker 1 (41:04):
Yeah, it was very early on.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
Oh and you love walking and stuff? Do you take
him on walks? Oh my gosh, yeah, you're a big walker. Yeah. Like,
I'll just see you in the random middle of the day.
You're like in a wood South. I am always in
the woods. That's like my therapy. I haven't been in
the gym in a while, but I'll go to the
woods and get and now with the Golden Retriever. Yeah,
can you share the Golden Retriever's name?
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Captain? Captain?
Speaker 3 (41:27):
I I captain.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
Anytime I hear captain, all I think is a SpongeBob?
Speaker 3 (41:31):
Is I a captain?
Speaker 1 (41:33):
I can't hear you? And then what does he say
after that? Oh?
Speaker 3 (41:38):
Under the SpongeBob square pants, that's all I think.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Oh no, no, I don't know the rest. Do you sing
that to him? No? But I like it?
Speaker 3 (41:46):
How have I not?
Speaker 1 (41:47):
That's I think I.
Speaker 3 (41:48):
Can think of, Oh my gosh, captain Captain. It used
to be Captain Morgan, but now it's spongedrop captain.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
So I know. I was like, wait, Okay, you really
have like officially retired your party days because I was
thinking Captain Morgan and I went short Captain's fun Bob.
Speaker 3 (42:04):
But also I am functioning on on just a weird
level right now, so that's also great.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
Oh, I like our conversation well, I always love our
conversations are fun.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Maybe she drinks some water. I haven't see this whole time.
I have the whole time. We went in like five
SIPs and my mind's almost gone, Welcome to my life, Abby,
I don't like water. I don't know why. Okay, last
thing we're gonna end on.
Speaker 3 (42:28):
Have you gotten into now that you are dating a
guy who I would assume likes to watch TV shows
or movies? I'm like, you, have you gotten into any
old TV shows or like just not brand new ones
that you're like, oh, dang, I missed out on this
when it first came out.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
Or a movie or a movie movie?
Speaker 3 (42:46):
It could be either, because we gotta go both categories
with you.
Speaker 1 (42:49):
I thank you.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
No.
Speaker 1 (42:52):
Have me watch Gladiator one?
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Did you like it?
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Yeah? I actually did. I really did, And I was like,
I'll watch two, but he watched it without me because
I didn't like love it like you were like obsessed.
Speaker 3 (43:04):
Right.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
I thought it was good to watch one that I
hadn't ever seen people talk about. And he said it
was terrible that eight or two. Oh, so I'm not
gonna watch that one.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
But yeah, got Air one. I think that's a big
step for me.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
That is a big step.
Speaker 3 (43:16):
That's a long movie for you too, because you watch
it all on one setting.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
Yes, who are you? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (43:22):
I may have retired the party go, but you could
be a movie watcher.
Speaker 1 (43:25):
Look at me, look at us.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
Go.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Oh my gosh, as far as show is now, I'm
watching The Good Deed right now. No good Deed, No
good Deed. That's that's an older ish one? Or is
that new? No, it's new, it's so good. No good Deed.
Oh it is new. Twenty twenty four. Dark comedy?
Speaker 3 (43:42):
You love dark comedy, you love like horror dark comedy?
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Like it is dark?
Speaker 3 (43:48):
Is dark?
Speaker 1 (43:49):
I love it?
Speaker 3 (43:49):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (43:51):
Yeah, I don't think you should say that so confidently.
It's like Halloween the movie. It is like that. No,
I mean, I'm just saying, like I love the movie Halloween, Okay,
I just I don't know what it is. And I
watched like the O. J. Simpson. I don't, it's it's something.
Speaker 3 (44:06):
Yeah, you can watch all those for me. This is
why we never have any to talk about more than anything.
Is that because you watch like really dark stuff.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Yeah, and then you're just gonna be like Marvel's Marvel and.
Speaker 3 (44:16):
Okay, all right, lunchbox, thanks for calling out my nerdy side.
Speaker 1 (44:21):
I am very nerdy. I appreciate that. No, I didn't
say nerdy.
Speaker 3 (44:25):
Nope, it's okay, but I actually haven't been watching something nerdy.
Speaker 1 (44:29):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (44:29):
I started watching because a listener suggested it to me,
and I've again been basically stuck on my couch. I
started watching Marvelous Miss masl on Amazon.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
I so I should call it. I called it, I said, Marvel.
It's not Marvel. It's just called marvelous, Miss Mazel. It's
not a marvelous Marvelous sorry the name.
Speaker 3 (44:46):
No, Honestly, though, I am, I just I haven't seen
it yet by this recording. But I am this weeking
going to see the New Captain America Brave New World.
I always go to the Marvel premieres in theaters, and
that's happening this weekend. So you weren't wrong in that capacity,
but that's not what I was talking about for this
particular segment.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
But it still had Marvel. So is that what happened?
You were searching Marvel and then no. No. A listener
suggested this one to me.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
They say it's a good TV show because it's from
the creator of Gilmore Girls, and I love Gilmore Girls.
Do you like kill More Girls? I didn't really watch it, Okay,
back to squear one. Uh, Marvel's from Mazel is hilarious.
I love it. She's like a comedian, she tries to be.
Speaker 1 (45:25):
It's it's great.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
It has four seasons and I'm already on season three,
really and I just started it last week.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Oh so it's one of those binge worthy ones. Yeah,
which I do. I like those. I like the ones that, like,
you want to keep watching.
Speaker 3 (45:36):
It's comedy. You like comedy stuff, don't you. Yes, I
would try it, okay. And it's it's interesting because it's, Uh,
she's Jewish, her all family's Jewish, so it's a different
version of comedy than I'm used to, and so it's
just been fun to watch.
Speaker 1 (45:49):
I needed to tink you that.
Speaker 3 (45:50):
What's it on. It's on Amazon okay, and it's older
it's from It's not older like.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
I want to say.
Speaker 3 (45:55):
It was like twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, but it was
won a bunch of Emmys and Gold Globes and stuff too,
did it.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
And I just never I never watched it. I never
got into it. But now I'm obsessed.
Speaker 3 (46:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:06):
The way that I pick, I just like, go on
Netflix or Amazon whatever. It's like one that says like
for you or like, and then.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
I go to like the dark, You're like trending cool, horror, thriller,
got it, DOCUSERI horror thriller, docuseries, murder. I don't know
you really do? That is really the thing you walked down? Oh,
but also in Paradise. I don't know if you'd like Paradise.
I love it, though I think the normal person would
(46:39):
like it. I just know it is thriller.
Speaker 1 (46:42):
Paradise. Yeah, why wouldn't I like it?
Speaker 3 (46:45):
Because you watched horror and murder things but you said
it's thriller. It is, and I but more of your
favorite stuff, ten Selene darker.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
This is too happy for me. It's not happy.
Speaker 3 (46:58):
It is thriller, is I think you should give it
a try.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
It only has four episodes. On Hulu.
Speaker 3 (47:03):
Yeah, only four episodes.
Speaker 1 (47:05):
I can do that.
Speaker 3 (47:06):
Yeah, and you can also watch it on Disney because
Disney Hulu is not connected or whatever.
Speaker 1 (47:09):
But I think that's another one. I'm obsessed with that one.
Speaker 3 (47:12):
That's like my new that's my new TV show that
I'm really really are you obsessed with? Girl? Sorry?
Speaker 1 (47:18):
Do you hear my stomach? No, it was your stomach growling.
Speaker 3 (47:20):
She was so loud and that had to have Yeah, no,
I'm trying to see it. But also we were just
in here an hour ago and my hearing went out, so.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
Oh my god, yeah, it's what's happening today? Something? My
body's broken? Oh I was reading this. It's in oh
set in a city size underground bunker.
Speaker 3 (47:36):
Don't say that I didn't give anything away.
Speaker 1 (47:39):
That's not Is that what it says on this promise?
Speaker 3 (47:41):
Yeah? I just went to online. Oh okay, yeah, I
don't think that's I'm not giving you away. You haven't
watched it, so you read it. That works for me.
But why do they tell you that it's interesting? It's
it's so good. It's it's with the guy Sterling K
Brown from This is Us and with one of my
(48:01):
favorite other guys. Who I always think is Patrick Gimsey,
but it's actually not James James Marsden. Yeah, he was
in uh, he was in the Princess Show with Princess movie. Yes,
do you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1 (48:14):
Ever happily Ever, Yes, that's what I was trying to
look at in a movie? Whoa did?
Speaker 3 (48:20):
He was also in twenty seven Dresses. I love him,
I really love him, but I always get him confused
with Patrick Dimpsey.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
You do, oh I can Yeah, I can see that.
Speaker 3 (48:28):
Yeah, not purposely, like I know they're not the same person,
but that's the only name I can think of when
I look at him. But yeah, those two, it looks
good to me. Okay, so Glaudiator one, Marvel's was Mabel
and Paradise from me for some reviews.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
Okay, we're getting naughty. I think we're losing it. No,
I'm sweating.
Speaker 3 (48:48):
That was freezing. Why because it's hot in here? Yeah,
I think it's hot in here, and because I'm in
three layers.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (48:55):
You do look like you're about to go to Colorado
and head to the mountains. I do.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
This is like a down legit down jacket, and you
have borne all morning and a long sleeve shirt under it.
What is it in here? It's sixty nine sixty six.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
That no, with sixty six, that's a freezing.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
Sixty six sixty nine. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (49:14):
Honestly, this room, this, this whole building has made me
see temperature very weird ways, like because it may look
like it's something and that's what you think it would
feel like, but it doesn't. So I just don't trust
numbers anymore.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
Yeah, it keeps breaking because I asked. I asked the
guy and he came to fix it. But then he
was like, it it takes too much energy to heat
your building because it's a many windows, so it keeps
like making the circuit break or whatever. That that's really cool. Yeah.
I was like, oh, that's good to know. That's not promising.
This is why.
Speaker 3 (49:43):
The other day somebody caught Amy and I sitting on
the couch huddled under a blanket.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
Yes, and I'm bringing a blanket. I want to bring
the heated electric blanket you plug in, but I'm scared. Yeah,
you'll probably blow a fuse in our studio. It happened. Okay,
Well tell the people like that with words, Tell the
people where you can.
Speaker 3 (50:00):
Why can I talk to tell the people or they
can find you and listen all that good stuff on
Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson. I'm on there.
Speaker 1 (50:10):
I'm gonna have post that picture of the yes mysterious object.
Speaker 3 (50:14):
Yes, post it on your story at least so can
they can go and see it. And I am at
web girl Morgan on all the Things, and you can
follow my podcast take this personally, and of course you
can follow the show at Bobby Bone Show.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
But that is it for us this weekend.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
Hopefully you gathered some fun things from this all over
the place conversation. Yeah, Havy, thank you for being on.
Happy Valentine's Day. Everybody, Happy Valentine's Day. You're celebrating this weekend.
We never got into that, but that's okay. We had
other things to talk about, but I hope you had fun.
I ate a lot of chocolate that I sent myself,
so that's what I did.
Speaker 1 (50:48):
Ate, lots of chocolate, lots of chocolate. Bye, everybody.
Speaker 2 (50:52):
That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks
for listening. Be sure to check out the other two
parts this weekend. Go follow the show and all social
place for.
Speaker 1 (51:00):
Ask Bobby Bone Show and follow at web
Speaker 2 (51:02):
Girl Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.
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