Bobby shared how a26-year-old got a vigorous neck massage to relieve pain narrowly avoided permanent paralysis after suffering a stroke. Bobby shared the leftover roasts from ChatGPT about him and Amy. There was a crazy story about 5 nurses from the same unit in Boston hospital diagnosed with brain tumors. We got an update on what we are going to set as Lunchbox’s punishment that he still owes. Bobby got called out for wearing a women’s shirt. Amy shared a vulnerable story on how she reacted when she found out a guy she had been dating was on the apps and found out about another date he had planned.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
A couple things won This guy he got a neck massager,
started massage in his neck. He had a stroke. Oh yeah,
it sucks. A neck massage turned into a stroke for
a twenty six year old computer programmer. He is a
suffer of chronic neck pain from sitting at his desk
all day. And so I guess he went to a
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massage parlor. Sounds like a place where we get a
hapy ending. I'll be honest, say parlor. But he went
to a place they were doing stuff to him, like
putting a thing on him. They're doing with their hands,
all of it. He felt a sharp pain and the
next day he woke up. Part of his body was
numb and weak, and his speech started to be slurred,
and so he goes to the hospital. He had a
secondary cerebral in farction. He fortunately made it to the
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hospital to avoid permanent damage. No paralysis, but could have been.
But it was the massage, either by the person or
some of the stuff they were using, he thinks is
the reason he had the stroke. Hmm, Like they must
have been going hard, Like that's what I'm there for.
I'm always too prideful to go Oh that's too.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Much, even though it hurts.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, I'm always too prideful that story from Oddity Central.
But yeah, if like I don't get a lot of massages,
if I do, it's because I'm injured. I would get
athletic like body work if I'm hurt. And so if
it's going, if it's hard, and she's like, okay, if
it's too hard, let me know, I will never let
her know.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
So if she's like, how's the pressure, You're always like
it's good, are you Well?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
They only ask the pressure at the very beginning, like
they do a couple and like, how's the pressure? Yeah?
I never so go go less. I can say go harder,
but it's rarely that because I'm so weak, but I'm
not a Oh and what I do when it's really hard,
I do this yeah yeah yeah, but I never say
is that too much?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No, no, you're fine.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
It can hurt.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
So it reminds me of Oh, I have a little
ball in my bag and Ominous put it. I've been
sitting with it between my leg and what's this hamstring?
My hamstring and a seat and I put it down,
and I've been doing it during the show sometimes because
my hamstring hurts. So bad. So sometime if you hear
me during a segment goal.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yeah, don't do that.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Then, yeah, don't do it during your second you're at
this segment, you're laughing at your ball.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
That would really throw us off.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, don't do that during a segment we're talking about death.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
And he was like, I'm kidding, I won't make that noise,
but it feels that way, like it feels so good.
But I have this one spot. See look this, you
wanna try it.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I'm good, Okay, I'm moved on. I gotta do other stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Moved on. Okay, let me get a place just right.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Okay, So we did some of the roast stuff this morning.
I was going to read the rest of the roast
jokes from chat GPT oh gosh that I didn't get to,
and again there were way more on me and Amy,
and so I just typed into chat GPT, Hey, roast
us individually. I'm here are some more on me, Am,
I the dots Mike that I need to do. Okay,
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because I did a bunch of this morning. Bobby's got
more money than everyone in his hometown combined and still
has the kind of energy a kid had as to
hope you get his name called for free lunch. Bobby's
proof you can survive childhood trauma, build a media empire,
would come rich and still have the constant vibe of
a kid asking if he can have his ball back.
(03:12):
Bobby's living proof that success doesn't heal you. It just
gives you a nice, nicer furniture to sit in as
you overthink your entire existence.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Oh my god, Wow, that was probably the best one.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
The best ones are ones we did this morning. These
are these are leftovers.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I want to tell Chad GPT you're actively working on it.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's okay, it's funny. It's funny.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I know it is.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
He doesn't care. I don't care about that.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Doesn't care doesn't feel right? Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Sometimes y'all. If y'all are in there, do you say
please and.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Thank you always?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Bobby has everything money can buy, accept the ability to
take a compliment about looking like you just threatened him.
Pretty funny. You want to hear Amy's I didn't read.
Amy is like a target, commercial, wholesome, friendly and somehow convincing.
You just spend way more emotional energy than you planned.
That's a funny one. Amy's been working on herself for
years and honor. It's inspiring because it proves healing is
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a journey with absolutely no final destination.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Insight, Oh my gosh, I have healed a lot.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
You're being a fit in my computer here. Amy has
this magical ability to bring up trauma, confusion, and self
doubt all while smiling like she's running for pta president.
I think I read the rest right, Mike. Everybody else's
everybody else got it all the rest of them, the
hardcore Wins are on the show this morning.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
This has made me think that, like it's hard to
sit there, like when you see celebrity roasts, it's got
to be hard to sit there and just take it.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Oh, I would love to take it. Like you say
all that stuff about me. I think it's freaking hilarious,
like because that's like cerebral, like you're complimenting, but then
you're just ripping it all away in a different way.
So yeah, I think I would like it, Like I
would want you to go as deep and dark and
as mean as you possibly cut and more the better,
Like the more you can make me feel, the more
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you're winning this roast. There would be no rule.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I think I could appreciate that from y'all, but a
computer you don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Yeah, like we've never talked before.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Yeah, you don't know me.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
The nurse story about all the nurses getting the brain tumors.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Yeah, and the same floor or whatever, the same hospital.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
So I don't know if you guys have seen this.
Five nurses working in the same unit at a Boston
area hospital have been diagnosed with non cancerous brain tumors,
prompting them and their labor union to search for answers.
While the medical facility contends it's ruled out an environmental
risk for workers there, but it seemed to I'll just
read the story before I go into it seemed to me.
(05:39):
According to a statement that Mass General Brigham Newton Wesley
Hospital provided the NBC ten Boston, the five nurses either
work or have previously worked in the facility's fifth floor
maternity unit. The hospital said an interview to eleven staff
members who have worked at some point on the floor
as an investigation into the nurses and their tumors. Environmental
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assessments of the area, which began in December, found no
environmental risks which could be linked to the development of
a brain tomb or the hospital added, that's from the Guardian.
Now I also read another story that there were other other.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Than these five that were not affected.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
No, no, no, Over the years, there were other people who
had a similar situation. Can you deep dive that for
me or mid dive that for me? Because there have
been stories of like towns too.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yes, I remember that. Oh yeah, like an elementary school
or something.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yes, where Aaron Brokovich.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I'm just going to present this as this is nothing factual,
and I don't know anything obviously. But let's say these
nurses all live within a thirty mile radius of each other.
It could be they just so happened to be nurses,
but that their area has been affected by whatever it is,
more so than the hospital. Now you're hearing it, you're
going hospital. I think about when I have to get
an X ray, or if I hurt something or break something,
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and they're like, okay, get it. They walk out because
that's a very mild amount of radiation. But over time,
every day, fourteen times a day, five days a week,
that very mild amount of radiation could turn into significant
radiation and affect it. That's immediately what I think of
whenever I think of these nurses all end up with
this tumor. But it's the maternity floor, right, So if
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it is the hospital, which they're saying, it's not like
what machines are up there.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
His tumors are tough too, right, because like it doesn't
happen overnight, Like this is stuff that could have happened
within a five year range of like exposure from some
machine or whatever. And it's it's hard to just kind
of say, like, no, it's not.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
The hospital non cancerous brain tumors prompting them and their
labor union to search. Francis, it is a wild coincidence.
If it's just a coincidence, do you see anything else?
The number that I feel like I saw was like seventeen,
but I don't know that I saw that other than
it could have been nurses in the country. So but
even just five on that same floor, same unit, that's crazy, Like, yeah,
(07:54):
wild coincidence. If you do see it, Mike, let me know.
If not, I'll just say I read it wrong, or
I didn't read any read like two lines come.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
By the same at the exact same hospital, yeah, or
is it like a different story.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
I don't know what do you see?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I just remember a different woman I'm trying to find.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah, I don't know if whatever you find otherwise everything's
fake except for that story, Like just cover myself with that.
Everything's fake. Okay, boom boom. We do have to do.
I don't know what I want to do here, So
we still have to punish the lunchbox. And I'm okay,
we're just getting this bit over with h No, you
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know exactly what it is.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
And he and he's the one that agreed to him,
So it wasn't even us going okay, let's put lunchbox up.
And the whole deal was he submitted himself for a
game to win, and if he didn't, he'd accept a punishment.
He didn't, he had to name five out of ten
top celebrity couples and we said if you miss, though,
you get a punishment, and he said, okay, deal. So
this wasn't us all going like, let's find something to
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punish lunchbox.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
So, okay, I won't take a nap today. Punishment accepted.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
I've thought about this and I love the wheel and
on the wheel there are three, six, nine, twelve spots,
and so I have some punishments we can put on
the wheel. But I would also like to suggest because
I feel like he's brought some pretty good even if
it wasn't him bringing it, he's been the subject of
(09:21):
some pretty good material. Like the listener is the one
that he said, Hey, I think the dude has h Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Yeah, but if I wasn't brave enough to share my
diagnosis of.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
I hear you.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
But I was brave. Yeah, So good for you man,
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
What I would what I would encourage us all to
agree upon, is we can list some of the punishments,
but I think half the will should be free pass.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Oh no, he gets half. Yeah, he gets grace for
his punishment.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
No, it's not grace.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh, it's like he earned.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Well, it's a little sympathy too, right, Like he got
rejected for a job on the air. It's been like
that's like the empathetic part of me. I get that.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Did he get rejected or redirected?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, you know, he get rejected, rejected. I've never seen
make it rejected harder.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Actually, I told you he's sorry.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
That's great euphemism, but still.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
I don't know where you heard that crap, but it
was straight up rejection.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
That was just tough.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
I don't think one has to do with the other.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Okay, that's if you got you. We can do a
three person triangle vote here. I do feel that there's
been some wonderfully provided content, and not all in his doing,
but some of us doing to him. But still regardless,
like he's been the center of it, and I would
be willing to give him a bit of grace in
(10:45):
the punishment and put a few of the spots is
just free pass.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
So what I'd say half the spot, but.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
That seems too much.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Half seems about right.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
What if we take a triangle per A triangle gets
a free spot per segment, like UAST infection triangle.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
That one you're very confusingas effect does account why because
he just had to say it. The other one that's
vulnerable to be happy to give his blood.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
He likes talking about that.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Yeah, like he was, you know, he was anxious to
go in and be like, I'm getting on there with
the East infection.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Freaking finger for syphilis. One triangle great getting rejected publicly
one trial.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Even though he didn't know he was rejected. He thought,
did you think you got it? He thought he got it.
He didn't look at him and he lent it to
Scooba thinking it was giving me a celebration. Literally, the
fact that.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
They asked the salesperson if I'd be interested, and then
she came to me and was like, hey, they want
to know if you'd be interested. I'm like, okay, this
is all a formality, like sign me up, give me
a jersey, put me on the field, let me do
some introducing or something.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
And he thought he was going to get it. But
I agree.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
I told my kids I was gonna get it. I
was like, you're gonna be able to see me on
the side.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I can do East infection too.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
We can do so three three triangles.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Okay, it seems a light to times two.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
But and here here's the deal. I mean, would you
rather not do the segment of the game. It's like, oh,
anybody want to punishment if you don't win the game?
Everybody else sits on their thumbs, like, I'm not gonna
do that.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I don't understand what you're saying. Like all that I didn't.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
You didn't understand that. You said whoever loses is going
to have a punishment. These weeds are like I'm not playing.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
It's okay, but you guys chose to not eat the marshmallows.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Do we want to do we want to just not
do segments?
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Then okay, I would just fight that logic the full
hold on. Let me just fight us logic with something
he said and he did today. He chose not to
do the bit on the marshmallows.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
I didn't choose yes, you did.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
No.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
No, no. But in the same way, it's like, should
we just not do it? We we said we want
to do it, he said no, So we just didn't
do the bit.
Speaker 4 (12:33):
I was all in until you start talking. You did
medical research, and like you, I.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Said, I googled it what would happen? And then you.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Okay, honestly it probably would have been bad for his
east infection.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
That was okay. But he made sixteen hundred bucks and
then eight hundred bucks.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Yeah, pay for hospital bills.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Okay. So Amy says three squares of the twelve square wheel, Eddie.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
I say, no squares?
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Oh wow, I was gonna say half.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
No, keep it the way it is the answer punishment.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Then the answer is gonna be three, because that's that's the
mid ground of our all of our bases here. Amy
says three. I said six you said, zeros, the three
is in the metal in the middle. So we'll give
him three squares of get out of.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Jeil free three in a row or three scattered, not
in a row.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
We're not going to take a little segment out.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Bobby's gonna yeah, like I mean geese.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
It's up to lunchbox, who's like three in a rower.
Would you like him spread out? Because we still have
to go through what the punish mus may be. Because
I have a list here.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
That's a good question. Let me hear the punishments.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
So the punishments are number one.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Let me think about this.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Truck nuts. We're gonna order a pair of trucknuts from Amazon.
You know they usually hang off the back, but you're
gonna have to wear them around your neck for a
week like that, it's only wearing it's only wearing truck
nuts for a week around your neck. You mean a day? No, No,
I think you've misheard what I said.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
A week and this is everywhere he goes.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
No, just show when he's up here in the mid
he's in the building, he wears the truck nuts.
Speaker 4 (13:51):
I was like, man, that's a long time to be
walking around the city with truck nuts on.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
My doesn't he already have truck nuts?
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Do those on his neck?
Speaker 4 (14:00):
Those are in my pants?
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Yeah, those are called truck truck it's a little geometro. Okay,
So that's one. Number two is puzzle in the dark.
We put lunchbox in the dark room and he has
to finish a fifty piece puzzle wearing only a head lamp.
And he's got fifty pieces thirty minutes to an hour
and he can't come out until he's done. Oh and
if he doesn't do that, then he has to wear
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the trucknuts for a week outside of the studio. I
like that, So the trucknuts comes back into playing that one.
But if he doesn't complete the task.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
So we went puzzle then so it's a double punishment.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
No, no, no, it's if you don't succeed in your game,
then the punishment happened.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
The puzzles like a chance to get out of your punishment.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Yes, doing the puzzles of punishment.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Nah, puzzles are fun.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
And so what's the other one I liked here? Uh
the episode of Friends where Ross gets spray tanned four times.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
That would be hilarious.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Where that's what we do to lunchbox. He has to
go in and get spray tanned four times on both sides,
like four one, one, two, two, three, three four four?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
And how long does that last?
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Five? Six days? He can't watch You can't shower for
a day, yeah, twenty four hours.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Or just go to sleep and then when you wake
up again, it's.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Gonna be all my sheets.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Yeah, that's what happens. But then you wash your sheets,
and that would probably also give you a reason to
wash your sheets. So there's that one, and then the
fourth one is upper body waxing. Hold on from his belly,
well not your head, but from your belt. Have to
do this, dude, from your belly button to your chin,
everything gets waxed. No, that's my armpits too.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
Yeah, stream guys, this was one silly game, and we're.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
If it was you two, he'd be on doing sure. Okay, okay,
hold on, okay, there's four. You can eliminate one of them,
the waxing. Okay, so that one's eliminated for sure. The
other three will be on the wheel and we'll end
up doing this on the show tomorrow, the next day whatever,
but it will be either the truck nuts for a
week anytime he's in the building, the spray tan four
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times on each side, or the puzzle in the dark
with the potential of it. If he doesn't create the
puzzle and do the puzzle in the dark in time,
he has to wear the truck nuts for a week.
Everybody goes love it, Like everywhere he goes, let.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Pick up his kids from seat, everywhere.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
The trucknuts must be on it all time.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
This is awesome.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
Okay, And so where does he want the free spaces
after hearing all that.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
I don't know. I need to do my research on
scientifically which one's.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Better, like odds and probability. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
I don't really think there's going to be an answer
that provides any sort of advantage. But you have at
it and then we'll figure out the next day or two. Okay, yeah, oh,
he's not having anymore, but it'll be over at least.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
What are we doing with lucky charms? Like, what are
we doing with those marshmallows?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
This is trash, trash, they're probably so old. They're probably
so old at this point. Yeah, what a waste. I've
never heard of a lavender marriage. Amy, Yes, so walk
us through that.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
I saw that it was something they did way back
in the day, really popular in the fifties, where a
gay man would marry a woman and they would enter
into a living arrangement. They obviously didn't do other things, but.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Would they would the gay man be outwardly gay or
would it be like, I'm married to this person.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
So he wasn't like he could be who he was
going to be. But I don't think it was like
out outBut the but his quote unquote wife knew.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Correct, so publicly he was not gay, but he could
be gay and be married to kind of cover in
that time.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Yeah, And so sometimes even the woman might be gay
or she just might you know, want a partner of
sorts or roommate, like because it's like you're living with
your BFF and he's like this guy that was talking
about in particular, he was like, I mean, think about it.
You have this living person that likely loves fashion, can
help you get dressed, loves to cook, loves flowers, loves candles,
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loves design, loves like all the things that you get
from like BFF. But it's your lavender husband. And I'm like, oh, man,
like a lavender husband.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I could see that that would seem nice if you'd
already been married once and you were like, marriage is
not for me, because yes, if one of your friends
they wanted to run for office. He did feel comfortable
being gay publicly because he was running in a state.
But he was like, I don't. I still want to
run for office, but I don't feel like I can
be open yet. It's mutually beneficial. Yeah, he has a wife,
(18:39):
you have a husband.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
He likely loves to benefits, host dinner parties and he'll
take care of everything. I just love that. I'm like, oh,
people will be like, oh, you look so cute. I'll
be like, oh, Richard picked it out or whatever his name.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Is, So your fantasy lavender marriage is dick.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know why I said that.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
I just thought it was interesting. Obviously times are different,
but this was just a gay guy on social media
and he was campaigning like he wants to bring.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
It back, got it?
Speaker 3 (19:10):
I mean, but he's open. He's like, I'm open gay,
but I just love to have like my girl Beff
be my partner.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Remember Chuck and Larry when Adam Sandler and Kevin James
did the movie where they got married, So they could
like it was some sort of like financial.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Is it we now pronounced?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
My dad had a friend that was gay and he
was married with kids, and we just never understood how
that all worked.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Was he gay before? And he probably gay always? But
I'm saying, was he openly gay to his wife before
he had the kids, because I've known people who had
kids and then later were like, I'm gay and they
had a wife and kids.
Speaker 5 (19:49):
No, well, I don't know, but I think he met
him already while he was gay and married.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
So we don't know how it all started.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
If he just, oh, he met a man after he
was gay.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Married, because I know a guy who did that, who
like and probably had known he was gay the whole
time but never acted on it or maybe even or
maybe even you know, within himself. Yeah, and then he
met a guy, but he'd already had two kids and
they were almost adult kids, and he was like, I
think I've been gay the whole time.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
So then he got a divorced.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Yes, yeah, this one wasn't lavender.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Do you feel like this one was lavender?
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
They just like he was married and he continued to
be married, and he was openly gay. And I had
asked my dad to him, like, Dad, like, what's going
on here?
Speaker 6 (20:35):
Right?
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I was like, we don't really talk about that, and
he just had an arrangement. Maybe he felt he could
sure he was gay after having kids being married and
felt and then his wife's like, well, why we even
get divorced. I already I don't want to get remarried.
We'll just be friends. Yeah, possibly live in the house. Yeah,
I remember that very well. Okay, I have a couple
other things here. Oh I did listen. Did see me
(21:01):
wearing a shirt somewhere and it was a woman's shirt,
And I know is woman's shirt. I just I don't
mind wearing a woman's shirt. There's a no. I also
will buy women's shoes, like tennis shoes, but buy them
in size like fourteen or fifteen if I really like them.
What Yeah, so, and I'm not going to point out
point it out.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
How do you know it's a woman's shirt.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Like woman's I got from a story the only woman's clothes,
got it? Yeah? God, I kind.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
Of have a store where they only have women's clothes.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah. I love the shirt. I'll wear the shirt again
many times. But I don't think it's not like it
doesn't have like a plunging breastline or anything like that.
It's just a shirt I really like. But a listener said, hey,
I saw you wearing this shirt. I know that's a
woman's shirt and I saw on DM and I reply
back gut like, you're exactly right, it is, but I
got it way large. And I also will buy shoes.
(21:50):
I like pink a lot, so I have tennis shoes
that are pink, and I can't find specific colors, so
I'll just try to find fourteen's. I think it's fourteen
that I wear in women's shoes.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Fourteens do a lot of those. But yeah, it's a
big foot.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
It's a woman's fourteen. I'm pretty sure eleven translates to
but yeah, I know if anyone else has seen whatever
that is, and I will not draw attention to it
because I just don't want to deal with it. I
will probably wear the shirt again. I really love the shirt.
But yes, if you're asking, it was definitely a woman's
shirt and.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
I'm not suppressing anything.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
No, no, no, no, And how you can tell a woman
absolutely it is. The buttons they're backwards, right, they're on
the other side.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, that's tough. That did you have a hard time
button that?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
I knew it was oneman short. I'm used to it,
so it's easy.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
Well, so it wasn't even a woman's tear. You got
a woman's button down? Is it fitted?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Hey? Who knows? Not embarrassed of it?
Speaker 3 (22:44):
Wait, okay, pink woman's But I.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Didn't say the shirt was pink. I said, I like
to wear pink. I like pink and tennis shoes.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Oh I thought, I thought I took that as.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
It could be pink. I don't have pink, any pink shirts.
I don't think.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
I haven't seen you wear pink.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Pink.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
I love that one. That's a dude shirt. But you Yeah.
You know who was extremely complimentary of that shirt was
Deebo Samuel. We sat down. He was like, that's the
most legit shared ever. I was like, yeah, it's Selene.
He was like, bro, I never seen it in that color.
I was like, for sure, And so Deebo sayuels give
me a shout out. What are you guys gonna do?
By the way, Deebo Samuel. Deebo Samuel played for the
forty nine Ers Forever now plays for Washington. Yeah, D
(23:20):
nobody calls him D. Yeah, I do you do debo? Yeah? Okay,
mid roll back, m hm. So you saw Karen from
a little big town where Amy.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
At a basketball game playing her son. Yeah, no, her son,
her son was playing?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Got it? How old is he now? Thirteen or something?
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Junior high going into I guess next year maybe he'll
be going into either eighth or ninth grade.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
And so you guys cool, Yes, why was there a few?
Speaker 3 (24:01):
No?
Speaker 1 (24:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Oh no, I ran into Karen and yeah, I hadn't
seen her in a really long time, I guess. So
the last time I ran into Karen was out to
eat and it was February of twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
So, oh, Karen's a brown haired one of the two
ladies in little big towns.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
A little big town.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
So I ran into Karen back then at a restaurant
and she was like, Hey, there's this guy I want
to introduce you to. And I was like, oh, because
I had I had just started dating at that point,
like on hinge, and so I wanted to hear more
about what she had to say. And she was like, yeah,
he's in our dad group, like our kids go to
school together, and I guess he had asked her like, hey,
(24:39):
do you know Amy Brown? I heard she go divorced,
da da da, And so she started showing me all
these things about him, and then I was like, oh, okay, well, yeah,
I'm interested. And then she goes, there's just one catch,
and I was like, well, what's the hatch.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
She goes, he's gay.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
He's gay?
Speaker 3 (24:57):
No, she said that. She said he's a widow were
and I said, with three kids? And she's like, yeah,
his wife died a few years ago from cancer. And
I was like, oh, okay, I'll circle back, like I
just started dating, and I just didn't think that that
was something that I had the bandwidth for at the
time because I was still going through a lot. And
(25:18):
so then fast forward to like the summertime, like June
or July. She messaged me and was like, hey, that
guy still would love to take you out. And I
had started dating somebody else, so I was like, eh,
I'm I just moved, so I need some more time.
I'll circle back. Well, then that guy that I was dating,
is this the boy toy? No, this is somebody else.
(25:41):
I was like getting ready for a date with him
and my friend called me and she said, hey, are
you still dating da Da Da Da? I said, yeah,
he's about to come pick me up. She goes, well,
I'm at dinner right now with a girl that has
a date with him tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
And I was like, oh, but what did you think
you guys were only dating? Because if not, then that's okay.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Well, I guess we hadn't had that talk, so I
couldn't be upset. I wasn't upset. I think my ego
was hurt like I was. So I found myself getting emotional,
but then I knew I did. I couldn't say anything
to him because we weren't exclusive. But remember back I
went to the US open with him, like so I
kind of just thought, well.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
This is like, you know, I remember that, yeah, my
wife's purse. I saw it on Instagram, yes, and I
was like, she's my wife's purse.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Well, because I didn't, I was nervous what to wear
to open.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Because I remember that's what's funny.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Yes, And so Caitlin actually helped me. She's like, oh, yeah,
where this where this will be cute and I was like, oh, okay,
you know, like and yeah. We So it was a
group that all went to New York. But anyway, I
just kind of thought, I don't know. I just I
didn't think we were dating other people, especially on an app,
because he met her on an app and I was like, okay.
So then he picked me up and we went out
(26:46):
and it was so awkward. I tried to be cool,
we cool, be cool, be cool. And then I couldn't
take it anymore and I was like, I know you
have a date tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (26:53):
Oh wow, Oh that's how you do it.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
But I didn't say it in a like mad way.
I just said, I need you to know. I didn't
ask for this information. I shouldn't even know it, but
I do. And now I feel awkward and I know
that you have a date tomorrow. So I guess I
just want to have an open, an honest conversation with you,
like are we Yeah, we haven't been had an exclusive talk.
(27:17):
But this is the guy now, No, this is but
I this is what led to the guy now, because.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
How did that gut react?
Speaker 3 (27:23):
First of all, he said, he just sort of goes.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Oh oh, So he felt guilty.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Until I said, yeah, my friend, and he knew the
friend because he had met her, and so I said
you know my friend you met the other night, she's
at she's at dinner right now with your date tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
And he was like, wow, smart, I know one of
the odds, I'm busted man. And the thing is, really
wasn't doing anything anything wrong, but I understand the guilty.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
I promise. My demeanor wasn't like you've done anything wrong.
I just said I have information that now is making
me feel weird right now. And he said the way
I communicated it, however I did. He was like, hey,
you're you're a good communicator. Okay, so but still I'm like, well,
(28:10):
so my therapist has been talking to me about adult dating,
so I guess if you want to keep dating, we can.
But I just need you to know, like, okay, so
you're going to date other people and we'll keep getting
to know each other, I said, because I I have
people that want to date me, Like I didn't really
have anybody else.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
ID like, yeah, I have.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
I have a guy once it's been trying to date
me for months, but like I kept denying him or whatever.
So then the next day I texted Karen and I
was like, hey, the guy still available, because now it's
like October. So it's like February to October. That's when
I circled back to Karen and she's like, well, let
me check. And so I went out with this guy
(28:54):
mostly because I just needed to practice dating because now
I was adult dating, which is dating multiple people.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
It was a spie date to get back your oh yeah, And.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
I didn't really think it was going to turn into
anything because again the whole the window or piece. But
I had sort of gotten over that because I think
from February to October I had had a lot of
healing and there's some space that had opened up within
me that suddenly that didn't seem overwhelming. And so yeah,
that's how I have a boyfriend now. And so that
was from October to now.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
How's the so I was.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
Able to see Karen. My point is I saw Karen
and I was like, oh my gosh, like thank you
for introducing us. Like I went out with him not
thinking it would turn into anything, and then now here
we are running into each other at y'all's kids basketball game.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Did you tell her the part where you're got a
compliment after you called him out.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
Such a communication, Well, this is a basketball game, so
I didn't give.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
You get rid of all the other dude.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Oh so yeah. So then I was trying to date
both of them at the same time, and that was
I wasn't good at that, like that in you know
they knew though you were honest, no knew. Get this
the dating pool at forty in Nashville forty fifty. Because
these guys are in it's small.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
I wouldn't think it's big.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
It's small. And they know each other and we've already
run into him. We've yep, their kids are going to
be going to school to get it. Gets a small world.
So I'm like, well, we're going to run into him
a lot. So once I decided I was going to
be exclusive with who I'm with now, I called the
guy that thinks I'm a good communicator and I communicated like, hey,
I am dating somebody now, and I'm going to give
(30:29):
this a go. I don't like dating multiple people. Da
da da, And I said just a little. And he goes,
are you talking about Alex? And I was like, you
know him and he's like my brother. So then they
know each other and they actually dated this other same girl.
So yeah, and guess what, we've run into her too.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
Show Man what's the really could how has it been
dating somebody whose wife has died?
Speaker 3 (30:58):
Because I that's a lot. Well, we have therapy today
because there's just some things. Yeah, with our kids that
it's a lot. So he's got a twelve year old
of fifteen year old to sixteen year old. My kids
are cool there. They've lost their mom, Like the youngest
(31:20):
one doesn't really remember. My kids are like, take it
look like their dad had a girlfriend for like a
year they broke up, but like they have experience as
before for his kids, their dad has dated a lot,
but not serious enough to bring the kids around someone.
And so I am now in their life. And the
younger one is very attached, like because he's he doesn't
(31:43):
he hasn't his mom died five years ago and he
was seven at the time, and she had cancer for
two years before that, so he's wanting that mom figure
and so that is it's really sweet, but I got
to be careful because he's so attached. And then rightfully,
so the sixteen year old, it's a lot because she
(32:03):
was very very close to her mom. And I'm towing
that line of like, you know, I've even had a
conversation with her of like, no part of me is
coming in here and wants to replace your mom in
any way, Like I want to honor her and come
alongside and just support you how you need support. But
it's tricky. It's tricky navigating and merging our kids together.
(32:24):
And then yeah, without it's his story too. There's a
lot that's just easy at times between us, like we're
very compatible, but then also we're both experiencing things for
the very first time that are tricky, and so we're
trying to get third party input so that we can
(32:45):
navigate at the best that we can. And that's what
today's therapy session will be about. Kind of just some
I got to know how to handle some stuff.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Ah free, I couldn't handle it. I wouldn't have the
emotional intelligence to date somebody whose partner.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
Has died and they were very much in love.
Speaker 1 (33:07):
Yeah, because I think I would compare myself to them,
or if I weren't comparing, I would think that they
were always comparing me to them, or that they were
always going, well, it's never going to be as good
as it once was. So this is like, that's all
the thoughts that I would have that I would have
to have somebody work me out of those thoughts.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Yeah, and I love that he still loves her it,
you know, it's that's that's not really the problem. But
he has dated some girls that straight up were like
I can't I can't handle that that or how it
might be with your kids. And I think I was
really really scared of it, which is why I told
Karen initially like, oh, well, that's that's a problem. But
(33:46):
we're we're working through it, and I think it could
be a beautiful thing, but we're day by day like it,
so I don't know what's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Not good for you for putting in the work though.
Speaker 3 (33:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
I was a therapy of the day, just trying to
figure out to eat breakfast at lunch?
Speaker 3 (34:00):
How do eat?
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Oh yeah, yea, yeah, because you like going for like
real and I'm my therapist going, man, that's why eat pancakes.
Everybody else's in a sandwich.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Well, they're both real problems.
Speaker 3 (34:09):
Yeah, they are.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
They are.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
We've never done it together though, Like I've done my
own therapy, but this is our first time doing something together.
So oh really today literally coincidentally today, so you have
the same therapist.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
No, no, no, no, you have to go to a different
one because our couples counselor is different than my therapist.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
So how do you.
Speaker 4 (34:26):
Agree on a couple counselor? Though, like who picks it well?
Speaker 3 (34:29):
So to your point, yes, that's true. Oh my ring
came off. If if if we were doing full time
couples counseling, we would have to find someone separate. I
had to sign a waiver to allow him to join
in with my.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
Yeah, you can bring someone that's a therapist, but it's
not permanent.
Speaker 3 (34:46):
That's what's happening today. And then to Lunchbucks's point, if
we were to decide to continue, then we would have
to find our own and we would just do recent.
Speaker 4 (34:54):
But any nervous that your therapist is gonna be on
your side.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
No, because it's not about a side thing. I think
we're trying to just learn the We need tools to
navigate certain things. It's not about someone being right or wrong.
It's like, how can you help us navigate this because
we're it's we just want it to be a little
bit smoother or I.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
Got for you. I try to win our counselor.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
I'm in there trying to win you, but ours was
we went and completely unrelated to our own therapists, like
I didn't know them. So the thing about a therapist
too is it's kind of like dating because you may
go to I've been a therapist that I just did
not vibe with, like their style, their communication, so I
would just Okay, well thanks, let me move on to
(35:37):
the next one, not the personal, and so that that's happened.
We got very fortunate with our because we started going
as soon as we got married, and it's awesome. So
and he's great, but I do try to win, not
the argument, but I try to like win his favor.
So I get like, feels good when you wink yeah, yeah,
that feels good.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
Yeah yeah, like I'm right.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Yeah, or like it kind of pump your yeah. I try. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
But Ami, who's whose idea was the therapy?
Speaker 4 (36:06):
It's a great question. How do you say, hey, let's
go to therapy together.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
I'm assuming it's you, but I'm just asking.
Speaker 3 (36:10):
I'll give you one guess. But it was after well, okay,
we have like summer vacation coming up and just trying
to figure out some some things and our kids. It's
mostly about our kids were very both very protective of
them and how they feel with certain things, and it
(36:31):
was great. We're just trying to figure it out. And
then we realized there's other little things. I don't know
how to explain it because I don't want to tell
all the kids problems.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
So yeah, but it was me. He processes really well,
So that's great. And even in the loss of his wife, so,
like his wife died, and then a few months later
his wife's mom, so his mother in law died, and
then a few months after that, his mom died.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
So their grandma's died, and both.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
The grandma's and the mom said the kids lost basically
all the women in their life, and then he lost
the women in his life, all back to back. So
he experienced that and and went through and did the work.
But he I can tell how he handled that.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
He is a.
Speaker 3 (37:14):
Processor. He's like a deep thinker. He's very respectful and
listens and.
Speaker 1 (37:20):
You know, you probably won't try to win.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
Then I don't think he's going to try to win
because there's nothing to win.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
But are you kidding?
Speaker 3 (37:25):
What's there to win? We're not going to like he
he has told me before. He said something the other day,
like I'm not talking about this right now, and I
was like, well.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Good, Uh try your boundary, bro, that's what I say.
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2 (37:40):
What is wrong with that?
Speaker 1 (37:41):
One to talk about life? Meets me with that though,
because I'll do that, be like I do not feel
have the capacity to talk about that now, And she'll go, Okay,
what time would you like to talk about and I'll
go what what? And she'll go, I'm happy to walk
away from this. She's like, I don't want to press
on it if you feel for whatever reason, sometimes I
don't feel good, like sometimes I don't feel good or
or I want time to think about it. She goes,
but give me a time, and then I'll hit her
(38:03):
with July third, and then she's like, don't do no stupid, Yeah,
give me a time, child, I'm a child.
Speaker 2 (38:12):
July third, two o'clock.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
Yes, I'm a child. Still the calendar July.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
Third, Yeah, But do you know like a kinder way
to say that, Bobby might be instead of saying I'm
not going to do this right now or I'm not
I'm not talking to you about this like with that,
like I'm not doing this right now, say how exactly said,
that's how he said it to me, and just what
would have been helpful at that time instead of telling
me this, we're not talking about this right now, just saying, hey,
(38:40):
can we come back to this at another time?
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Oh? The problem with that is you're giving you the
right to say no.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
And so I've also been taught I'm respectful too, Like
I would be like, oh, okay, now, it's not.
Speaker 1 (38:52):
That I've been taught don't ask a question if you're
not going to accept one of the answers. And if
I go, hey, can we talk about this later, she
says no, I have to respect the no one to
talk about it.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
So when my wife says can you do the dishes?
I can say no.
Speaker 3 (39:04):
No.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
I think you're missing that you can say whatever you want,
because that's give opportunity consequences. What Amy's saying is a
better or a different way to say it that maybe
comes off not as harsh, is can we talk about
this at a different time? And I think that's wonderfully soft,
and I like it. It's a nice cushion to land on.
But I've also been taught that if I offer a
question to somebody and I give them an option and
(39:25):
they choose an option, I have to go with that option.
So if I go, can I talk? Can we talk
about this later? My wife goes, no, I want to
do it now. Then I now have to do it
now instead of me just going, hey, I don't have
the capacity right now, so I'm gonna go and punt
on this. And used to I would just think and
definitely we never have to talk about it again. And then
she got on me because I would never come back around.
It doesn't work, never come back around. And then she go, Okay, well,
would you mind giving me a time? And I'll be
(39:48):
like sure, July.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
Third, Yeah, that's so good.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
Well it didn't work.
Speaker 2 (39:53):
I mean, I know I'm gonna try that one.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
That doesn't work.
Speaker 1 (39:55):
Good, I'm rooting for you.
Speaker 3 (39:57):
Oh thank you? Yeah? No, see how well.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
That leads me to two other things. I got like
four things to talk about left. Then what we've done.
I was talking. I did try to eat breakfast at lunch,
and this is such a stupid thing, but one of
the things I just cannot have not been able to do.
I don't know, my mind doesn't allow me. I can't
eat a meal at a different time somebody else is
eating their meal and not even meaning at a different
time to actually eat the food. But if Eddie's eating dinner,
(40:21):
I can't eat breakfast food. If he's gonna have dinner,
then I must have dinner food. Very strange at a
restaurant or at the house. If someone's gonna eat breakfast food,
even if it's at dinner time, I can't eat meat loaf.
I've also got to match that. So it's some irrational
part of my brain that really struggles. We went to
California and I had pancakes while they had lunch, and
I couldn't eat my pancakes. Eddie like, that's all you're gonnat.
(40:43):
He didn't know that was what the struggle I had
with it, but he was like that that's all you're
gonna eat. I had like four or five bites of
pancakes and I was like, I can't do this.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
I didn't realize you were struggling.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
Yeah, yeah, I was in it. Okay, I was immersing myself.
I couldn't do it.
Speaker 5 (40:55):
But again, like Amy said the first time we talked
about this, it's a good thing though, that you're not
making everyone else change, that you are open to change.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Well, I would say this is as intense've amy situation.
Very yeah, it's very equal the other We have a
few minutes and I don't know this is the best
time to bring it up, but okay, sure, why not
Eddie thinks he has brain cancer. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (41:18):
No, it's not second cancer, it's not.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
Here we go.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
I just sort of rolled my eyes in my head.
But I'm also gonna feel bad if he's right.
Speaker 5 (41:26):
That is the danger of talking about this because if
I'm right and they laugh at me, Yeah, but.
Speaker 1 (41:31):
You've also been very wrong many times. So we just
talked about somebody having cancer and dying and then all
of a sudden, he's got I got brains.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
Not a joke though, last time porn that's what it was.
He had had a hard to tech cancer.
Speaker 4 (41:45):
Let's be real, like, I mean, the odds are very bloom.
Speaker 5 (41:48):
I've just had a headache for like almost going on
two weeks now, and yeah, does tiland all take care
of it? Sure, it goes away, but then after the
four hours I get it back again.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
But then, don't you think it's something that's in your
It's environmental. Maybe you're dehydrated. There could be a sinuses
that the allergies that you have could also be creating
like you.
Speaker 3 (42:09):
If you cut back on caffeine at.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
All, it could be a lot of things.
Speaker 4 (42:12):
Are you drinking water?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Yeah, chicking water To.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Go right to brain cancer feels a bit intense. Man.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
You just hear the stories of like you, but no.
Speaker 1 (42:20):
You hear them, but you're reading and you're chasing them,
and if you're pursuing them, that's why you hear them.
Speaker 5 (42:25):
People say they have headaches and they're like, oh, it's
just a sinus infection, and then turns out no, they
were had stage four brain cancer.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
And I'm like, I don't want to then go get checked.
Speaker 4 (42:34):
But in that expensive see here we go. Your life
worth it?
Speaker 2 (42:38):
It's it is worth it. Then.
Speaker 5 (42:40):
But do I go to the doctor and say I
think I have brain cancer? Or do I just say
I've had headaches for two weeks?
Speaker 1 (42:45):
I probably lead with the second one.
Speaker 4 (42:47):
Oh, I like brain cancer. That way they can just
laugh at you.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
Right on the machine.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
I would lead to the second one and say, hey,
I have had these headaches nonstoft for like two weeks.
I don't know what it is. It could be or
brain cancer and just maybe just sloawed that out there
and they'll say, we don't think it's brain cancer, but
we'll do the test that show you it's not.
Speaker 4 (43:02):
Do you have a stiff neck, no vision changes?
Speaker 2 (43:06):
Oh yes, I'm having to wear my readers.
Speaker 5 (43:08):
More numbness because you're getting older, dude, Well that could
be two numbness where it.
Speaker 4 (43:13):
Just says numbness.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
I don't think you have brain cancer, but I would.
It's probably sign us pressure. We're at a bad allergy time. Yeah,
for us, that's probably what it is. But I would
definitely get it checked if it's bothering you that much.
Speaker 4 (43:24):
Is it around your eyes?
Speaker 2 (43:26):
No, it's in my head.
Speaker 4 (43:27):
That's not a cluster headache.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Another couple of things here, and then well we'll move
on which one I want to do first. Okay, I'm
going to make an offer. I was looking, by the way,
why don't we have our YouTube follower plaque, Scuba or
one hundred thousand follower plaque? Do you know do you
know where that is? Because we have way more than that,
but YouTube sends one. You get a plaque, yeah if
(43:49):
you yeah, okay, left, Scuba, continue your mic on, Yeah,
do you know where one hundred thousand? Because we have
two hundred ninety four thousand followers on you tube. Plaques
are given away when you reach one hundred thousand, a
silver one we should which we should have, Yeah, a
gold one for a million. But where's our silver plaque?
Speaker 7 (44:09):
Probably send it to our San Antonio corporate office and
they took it.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
Can you track it down for us?
Speaker 2 (44:12):
Yeah? Yeah, we'll see.
Speaker 1 (44:13):
So it's somewhere we need it. I want it. I
met the corporate office.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
Probably got it or something.
Speaker 1 (44:17):
So right now we have two hundred and ninety four
thousand YouTube followers.
Speaker 7 (44:20):
So you get him at what amounts one hundred thousand
and what else? Well, we don't have a million yet,
so just so next one will be a million, So
one hundred thousands. Where we just want our hundred thousand
subscriber plaque? Okay we want Yeah for years they've probably
just been holding on to So see if you can
track that down.
Speaker 1 (44:33):
Okay, yeah, So we have two hundred ninety four thousand,
and basically our YouTube followers fall on Eddie and Morgan
as far as subscribers. So here's the deal that I'm
gonna make. What are we Wednesday?
Speaker 2 (44:45):
Who gets the plaquem here? Morgan?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
No?
Speaker 4 (44:47):
No, no, oh, who should get it.
Speaker 1 (44:48):
We have two hundred ninety four thousand followers. If we
get three hundred thousand followers by the end of the week,
I'll give Eddie, Morgan and Lunchbox each one hundred dollars.
Oh okay, so six thousand follower that's it.
Speaker 2 (45:00):
Hang on, hang I'm in hang on why lunchs Yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Just because I don't want him crying about not making
the money. And that's it.
Speaker 2 (45:06):
Yeah, you're gonna feed that.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
Yeah, it's worth it to me not hearing to him cry.
And maybe he's gonna help promote it. Who knows on
a social YouTube. So if we had three hundred thousand
by the end of show Friday, I'll give each you
guys a hundred bucks. Boom.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
Okay, okay, I'm just gonna start uploading everything everything. I'm
going to unload my computer.
Speaker 1 (45:25):
It doesn't he upload if Morgan go ahead? No?
Speaker 2 (45:29):
What was that?
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Morgan go ahead?
Speaker 1 (45:31):
Noly.
Speaker 3 (45:31):
He gets mad at me sometimes when I add extra
videos on our list, and now he's like, I'm gonna
upload everything.
Speaker 2 (45:36):
Fair.
Speaker 1 (45:37):
I don't know what you guys do. Okay, here's the
other thing. What Today's April May, June July by August thirty. First,
if we have five hundred thousand followers.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
We get five grand each.
Speaker 2 (45:54):
That would seem fair.
Speaker 4 (45:55):
No, that seems about right.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
No, it doesn't, see fir because I don't make any money.
Well five hundred thousand, this is no.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
Do we make money, you make money? It's all.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
It's all same, tomatom Tomato right, No, because it's I
don't own the YouTube channel. The company does, so that
would be different. Oh, I will you guys can pick
if we hit five hundred thousand.
Speaker 4 (46:14):
Fly away to Vegas.
Speaker 1 (46:15):
Let's go. I will either give each of you a thousand,
or you can play a game to win three thousand,
all winner take all.
Speaker 2 (46:29):
I like that too. I'm good again.
Speaker 3 (46:32):
No, I won a thousand.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
Well, well you have to get there. You have to
and you get to vote two out of three. So
but you have to get there.
Speaker 3 (46:38):
You like to cheat at games.
Speaker 1 (46:39):
I'll trust it. So you're not there. You're not there, right.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
But the whole lunchbox things throw me off. And I
understand that you want to make him feel included in everything.
Speaker 5 (46:48):
But if you take him out of the mix, would
that mean more money for me and Morgan?
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Probably?
Speaker 2 (46:54):
But because I.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
Will fight this I think you. I think two things
are gonna happened. One, he's gonna cry about it.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
But that's him anyways.
Speaker 1 (47:02):
Here, I'm not going to cry then. But I also
think like for you guys to have his support, however
he gives, it would probably be beneficial.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
He doesn't really give.
Speaker 1 (47:11):
He I greaks, But that's that's on you to create whatever.
So that's the deal. However you see fit all right?
So created just by the end of the week, you
just need five hundred followers, subscribers.
Speaker 2 (47:26):
Let's have a meeting.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
Five thousand by the end. Oh my god, No, guys,
I thought you said five thousand. No, wait, thank you.
Everybody just out for one second.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Don't call me the idiot.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
People. No one called anybody an idiot. Oh, everybody hold.
Everybody hold. We have two ninety four points something, right,
So I'm doing the math here, So it's five thousand,
whatever it is. If it's a three hundred thousand, I
give each you one hundred bucks by the end of
the week. That's doable.
Speaker 2 (47:50):
We can do that.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
But by August thirty, first you can eat you have
a thousand, or you can play for thirty five hundred.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
Oh you just had a five hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
Sure did cash.
Speaker 2 (48:03):
Let's have a meeting after the show.
Speaker 1 (48:05):
What the media is too probably be how you're gonna
get the prescribers more than what you can do with
the money.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
I got some ideas.
Speaker 1 (48:13):
Don't want to throw that out there down there.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
Lunchbox, start thinking star rainstorming.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
You can't hire bots. I don't know how people do that.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
I don't know any bots.
Speaker 1 (48:28):
Okay, thank you, and now.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
We can do anything we want to do.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
First of all, no, I don't know what that means.
I'm just gonna go know doing anything we want, like.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
Be creative and stuff.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
What are you talking within what we would do? You
can do anything new, but it has to You can't
be like, okay, scrow them off. You can't do stuff
that we wouldn't that we wouldn't you think what T
shirt cont mean?
Speaker 2 (48:52):
I was just thinking leaving it open.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
But if you do stupid stuff, you're gonna make people unsubscribed.
Speaker 2 (48:57):
That's true. We don't want that.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
Okay, to do one more things, thinking, no, I'll do
one more thing.
Speaker 3 (49:08):
Do they make shorts?
Speaker 1 (49:10):
I do YouTube shorts?
Speaker 3 (49:11):
I know you do. But does the show?
Speaker 2 (49:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (49:12):
Okay, because I had you do a meeting yesterday with
iHeart and they said those are really good to do.
Speaker 1 (49:17):
I mean, yeah, they're they're good if you do them right.
Speaker 3 (49:20):
You to do them right, or just to get if
you're trying to get new eyes. Short is like a
real or a TikTok video the studio.
Speaker 1 (49:32):
I want to do one other thing before we go, So, Amy,
you know the guy that goes, let's get ready to rumble?
Do you know his name?
Speaker 3 (49:39):
By the chance, I mean, give me a hint. No,
I know, I want to figure it out.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
I don't think you will first as Michael Michael. Yes, okay, Michael,
his name is Michael Buffer.
Speaker 3 (49:53):
I definitely exactly.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
And he goes, let's let's get trademarked. It's a massive
thing for him. So he has a brother, Bruce Buffer,
who is the announcer for the UFC, and his thing
is it's time and so you would think that they
were brothers who grew up doing announcing together because they're
both the biggest two announcers in sports. Basically, they didn't
(50:18):
even know each other until later, until their debt, until
one saw another one on TV and it was like dubber brother,
that's this is a crazy story, so really weird.
Speaker 4 (50:26):
Well, they didn't know Joe, I'll.
Speaker 1 (50:27):
Play I'll play a clip. So I do a podcast
called Lots to Say That's out today with Matt Castle,
the former NFL quarterback, and we had Bruce Buffer on
and he did not know his brother's the most famous
announcer ever. He did not know his brother. They didn't
meet well into their twenties. And so here's Bruce at
this like a minute clip telling the version of that.
Speaker 6 (50:43):
We're long lost hap brothers. We met each other when
I was twenty eight years old. I saw him on
TV being a huge boxing fan of my dad and
my brother Brian and I, you know, watching boxing all
our lives. How came this handsome debonair, James Bond looking
individual with that famous words let's get ready to rumble?
And when they conrand his name on the screen, Michael Buffer,
(51:04):
I'm like, WHOA, who's this? Right before the Internet, I
never saw my last name in a phone book in
the United States, so it kind of really struck me. Funny,
my dad never told me that he had been married
at the age of twenty when he was going over
to serve in World War Two. It was a brief
marriage and he came back a divorce en suit, but
a child was born, and last time he saw the
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child was when he was two and a half. Michael
was raised under the name of Hubert by foster parents
great as he calls it, leave it to Beaver upbringing.
And when he went in the army at twenty, they said,
your birth certificate says you're Buffer, because he was never
formally adopted, so they said, you're not Michael Huber, You're
Michael Buffer. And had that not happened, and the events
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had led him into being the legendary greatest announcer of
all times. As I like to say, in most everybody believes,
we wouldn't be sitting here talking right now because when
he did see him on TV and and my dad
called a local arena here in Los Angeles to receive
a country club left a message for Michael to call
him back, and Michael called him back. They got together
for lunch and it turned out to be his long
(52:10):
lost son, and we all got together and we got
along famously amazing.
Speaker 1 (52:14):
And so Bruce Buffer, the guy we're talking to, was
not an announcer. He did that later. He was He
was like studying how to fight. But they they were
half for others, didn't know each other, saw him on TV, crazy.
Speaker 2 (52:28):
And now they're both they're both the biggest announcers.
Speaker 1 (52:30):
Yeah, it's two biggest, but the whole we did like
a half an hour with him. It's on our podcast.
Lots to say, but I thought that story was crazy
because I just imagine they were both brothers growing up.
Their dad was like an announcer, and they both.
Speaker 2 (52:41):
Be Yeah, that's what I thought too.
Speaker 1 (52:44):
There you go at the end, Thank you guys, We'll
see you tomorrow. I believe that's all we got for today. Goodbye, everybody.
A couple things won This guy he got a neck massager,
started massage in his neck. He had a stroke. Oh yeah,
it sucks. A neck massage turned into a stroke for
a twenty six year old computer programmer. He is a
suffer of chronic neck pain from sitting at his desk
all day. And so I guess he went to a
(00:25):
massage parlor. Sounds like a place where we get a
hapy ending. I'll be honest, say parlor. But he went
to a place they were doing stuff to him, like
putting a thing on him. They're doing with their hands,
all of it. He felt a sharp pain and the
next day he woke up. Part of his body was
numb and weak, and his speech started to be slurred,
and so he goes to the hospital. He had a
secondary cerebral in farction. He fortunately made it to the
(00:47):
hospital to avoid permanent damage. No paralysis, but could have been.
But it was the massage, either by the person or
some of the stuff they were using, he thinks is
the reason he had the stroke. Hmm, Like they must
have been going hard, Like that's what I'm there for.
I'm always too prideful to go Oh that's too.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Much, even though it hurts.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, I'm always too prideful that story from Oddity Central.
But yeah, if like I don't get a lot of massages,
if I do, it's because I'm injured. I would get
athletic like body work if I'm hurt. And so if
it's going, if it's hard, and she's like, okay, if
it's too hard, let me know, I will never let
her know.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
So if she's like, how's the pressure, You're always like
it's good, are you Well?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
They only ask the pressure at the very beginning, like
they do a couple and like, how's the pressure? Yeah?
I never so go go less. I can say go harder,
but it's rarely that because I'm so weak, but I'm
not a Oh and what I do when it's really hard,
I do this yeah yeah yeah, but I never say
is that too much?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No, no, you're fine.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
It can hurt.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
So it reminds me of Oh, I have a little
ball in my bag and Ominous put it. I've been
sitting with it between my leg and what's this hamstring?
My hamstring and a seat and I put it down,
and I've been doing it during the show sometimes because
my hamstring hurts. So bad. So sometime if you hear
me during a segment goal.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yeah, don't do that.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Then, yeah, don't do it during your second you're at
this segment, you're laughing at your ball.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
That would really throw us off.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, don't do that during a segment we're talking about death.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
And he was like, I'm kidding, I won't make that noise,
but it feels that way, like it feels so good.
But I have this one spot. See look this, you
wanna try it.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I'm good, Okay, I'm moved on. I gotta do other stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Moved on. Okay, let me get a place just right.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Okay, So we did some of the roast stuff this morning.
I was going to read the rest of the roast
jokes from chat GPT oh gosh that I didn't get to,
and again there were way more on me and Amy,
and so I just typed into chat GPT, Hey, roast
us individually. I'm here are some more on me, Am,
I the dots Mike that I need to do. Okay,
(02:52):
because I did a bunch of this morning. Bobby's got
more money than everyone in his hometown combined and still
has the kind of energy a kid had as to
hope you get his name called for free lunch. Bobby's
proof you can survive childhood trauma, build a media empire,
would come rich and still have the constant vibe of
a kid asking if he can have his ball back.
(03:12):
Bobby's living proof that success doesn't heal you. It just
gives you a nice, nicer furniture to sit in as
you overthink your entire existence.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Oh my god, Wow, that was probably the best one.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
The best ones are ones we did this morning. These
are these are leftovers.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I want to tell Chad GPT you're actively working on it.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's okay, it's funny. It's funny.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I know it is.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
He doesn't care. I don't care about that.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Doesn't care doesn't feel right? Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Sometimes y'all. If y'all are in there, do you say
please and.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Thank you always?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Bobby has everything money can buy, accept the ability to
take a compliment about looking like you just threatened him.
Pretty funny. You want to hear Amy's I didn't read.
Amy is like a target, commercial, wholesome, friendly and somehow convincing.
You just spend way more emotional energy than you planned.
That's a funny one. Amy's been working on herself for
years and honor. It's inspiring because it proves healing is
(04:02):
a journey with absolutely no final destination.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Insight, Oh my gosh, I have healed a lot.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
You're being a fit in my computer here. Amy has
this magical ability to bring up trauma, confusion, and self
doubt all while smiling like she's running for pta president.
I think I read the rest right, Mike. Everybody else's
everybody else got it all the rest of them, the
hardcore Wins are on the show this morning.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
This has made me think that, like it's hard to
sit there, like when you see celebrity roasts, it's got
to be hard to sit there and just take it.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Oh, I would love to take it. Like you say
all that stuff about me. I think it's freaking hilarious,
like because that's like cerebral, like you're complimenting, but then
you're just ripping it all away in a different way.
So yeah, I think I would like it, Like I
would want you to go as deep and dark and
as mean as you possibly cut and more the better,
Like the more you can make me feel, the more
(04:57):
you're winning this roast. There would be no rule.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I think I could appreciate that from y'all, but a
computer you don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Yeah, like we've never talked before.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Yeah, you don't know me.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
The nurse story about all the nurses getting the brain tumors.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Yeah, and the same floor or whatever, the same hospital.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
So I don't know if you guys have seen this.
Five nurses working in the same unit at a Boston
area hospital have been diagnosed with non cancerous brain tumors,
prompting them and their labor union to search for answers.
While the medical facility contends it's ruled out an environmental
risk for workers there, but it seemed to I'll just
read the story before I go into it seemed to me.
(05:39):
According to a statement that Mass General Brigham Newton Wesley
Hospital provided the NBC ten Boston, the five nurses either
work or have previously worked in the facility's fifth floor
maternity unit. The hospital said an interview to eleven staff
members who have worked at some point on the floor
as an investigation into the nurses and their tumors. Environmental
(06:00):
assessments of the area, which began in December, found no
environmental risks which could be linked to the development of
a brain tomb or the hospital added, that's from the Guardian.
Now I also read another story that there were other other.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Than these five that were not affected.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
No, no, no, Over the years, there were other people who
had a similar situation. Can you deep dive that for
me or mid dive that for me? Because there have
been stories of like towns too.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yes, I remember that. Oh yeah, like an elementary school
or something.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yes, where Aaron Brokovich.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I'm just going to present this as this is nothing factual,
and I don't know anything obviously. But let's say these
nurses all live within a thirty mile radius of each other.
It could be they just so happened to be nurses,
but that their area has been affected by whatever it is,
more so than the hospital. Now you're hearing it, you're
going hospital. I think about when I have to get
an X ray, or if I hurt something or break something,
(06:50):
and they're like, okay, get it. They walk out because
that's a very mild amount of radiation. But over time,
every day, fourteen times a day, five days a week,
that very mild amount of radiation could turn into significant
radiation and affect it. That's immediately what I think of
whenever I think of these nurses all end up with
this tumor. But it's the maternity floor, right, So if
(07:12):
it is the hospital, which they're saying, it's not like
what machines are up there.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
His tumors are tough too, right, because like it doesn't
happen overnight, Like this is stuff that could have happened
within a five year range of like exposure from some
machine or whatever. And it's it's hard to just kind
of say, like, no, it's not.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
The hospital non cancerous brain tumors prompting them and their
labor union to search. Francis, it is a wild coincidence.
If it's just a coincidence, do you see anything else?
The number that I feel like I saw was like seventeen,
but I don't know that I saw that other than
it could have been nurses in the country. So but
even just five on that same floor, same unit, that's crazy, Like, yeah,
(07:54):
wild coincidence. If you do see it, Mike, let me know.
If not, I'll just say I read it wrong, or
I didn't read any read like two lines come.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
By the same at the exact same hospital, yeah, or
is it like a different story.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
I don't know what do you see?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
I just remember a different woman I'm trying to find.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah, I don't know if whatever you find otherwise everything's
fake except for that story, Like just cover myself with that.
Everything's fake. Okay, boom boom. We do have to do.
I don't know what I want to do here, So
we still have to punish the lunchbox. And I'm okay,
we're just getting this bit over with h No, you
(08:31):
know exactly what it is.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
And he and he's the one that agreed to him,
So it wasn't even us going okay, let's put lunchbox up.
And the whole deal was he submitted himself for a
game to win, and if he didn't, he'd accept a punishment.
He didn't, he had to name five out of ten
top celebrity couples and we said if you miss, though,
you get a punishment, and he said, okay, deal. So
this wasn't us all going like, let's find something to
(08:55):
punish lunchbox.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
So, okay, I won't take a nap today. Punishment accepted.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
I've thought about this and I love the wheel and
on the wheel there are three, six, nine, twelve spots,
and so I have some punishments we can put on
the wheel. But I would also like to suggest because
I feel like he's brought some pretty good even if
it wasn't him bringing it, he's been the subject of
(09:21):
some pretty good material. Like the listener is the one
that he said, Hey, I think the dude has h Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Yeah, but if I wasn't brave enough to share my
diagnosis of.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
I hear you.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
But I was brave. Yeah, So good for you man,
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
What I would what I would encourage us all to
agree upon, is we can list some of the punishments,
but I think half the will should be free pass.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Oh no, he gets half. Yeah, he gets grace for
his punishment.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
No, it's not grace.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh, it's like he earned.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Well, it's a little sympathy too, right, Like he got
rejected for a job on the air. It's been like
that's like the empathetic part of me. I get that.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Did he get rejected or redirected?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, you know, he get rejected, rejected. I've never seen
make it rejected harder.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Actually, I told you he's sorry.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
That's great euphemism, but still.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
I don't know where you heard that crap, but it
was straight up rejection.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
That was just tough.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
I don't think one has to do with the other.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Okay, that's if you got you. We can do a
three person triangle vote here. I do feel that there's
been some wonderfully provided content, and not all in his doing,
but some of us doing to him. But still regardless,
like he's been the center of it, and I would
be willing to give him a bit of grace in
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the punishment and put a few of the spots is
just free pass.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
So what I'd say half the spot, but.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
That seems too much.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Half seems about right.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
What if we take a triangle per A triangle gets
a free spot per segment, like UAST infection triangle.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
That one you're very confusingas effect does account why because
he just had to say it. The other one that's
vulnerable to be happy to give his blood.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
He likes talking about that.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Yeah, like he was, you know, he was anxious to
go in and be like, I'm getting on there with
the East infection.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Freaking finger for syphilis. One triangle great getting rejected publicly
one trial.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Even though he didn't know he was rejected. He thought,
did you think you got it? He thought he got it.
He didn't look at him and he lent it to
Scooba thinking it was giving me a celebration. Literally, the
fact that.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
They asked the salesperson if I'd be interested, and then
she came to me and was like, hey, they want
to know if you'd be interested. I'm like, okay, this
is all a formality, like sign me up, give me
a jersey, put me on the field, let me do
some introducing or something.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
And he thought he was going to get it. But
I agree.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
I told my kids I was gonna get it. I
was like, you're gonna be able to see me on
the side.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I can do East infection too.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
We can do so three three triangles.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Okay, it seems a light to times two.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
But and here here's the deal. I mean, would you
rather not do the segment of the game. It's like, oh,
anybody want to punishment if you don't win the game?
Everybody else sits on their thumbs, like, I'm not gonna
do that.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I don't understand what you're saying. Like all that I didn't.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
You didn't understand that. You said whoever loses is going
to have a punishment. These weeds are like I'm not playing.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
It's okay, but you guys chose to not eat the marshmallows.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Do we want to do we want to just not
do segments?
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Then okay, I would just fight that logic the full
hold on. Let me just fight us logic with something
he said and he did today. He chose not to
do the bit on the marshmallows.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
I didn't choose yes, you did.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
No.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
No, no. But in the same way, it's like, should
we just not do it? We we said we want
to do it, he said no, So we just didn't
do the bit.
Speaker 4 (12:33):
I was all in until you start talking. You did
medical research, and like you, I.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Said, I googled it what would happen? And then you.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Okay, honestly it probably would have been bad for his
east infection.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
That was okay. But he made sixteen hundred bucks and
then eight hundred bucks.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Yeah, pay for hospital bills.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Okay. So Amy says three squares of the twelve square wheel, Eddie.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
I say, no squares?
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Oh wow, I was gonna say half.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
No, keep it the way it is the answer punishment.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Then the answer is gonna be three, because that's that's the
mid ground of our all of our bases here. Amy
says three. I said six you said, zeros, the three
is in the metal in the middle. So we'll give
him three squares of get out of.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Jeil free three in a row or three scattered, not
in a row.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
We're not going to take a little segment out.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Bobby's gonna yeah, like I mean geese.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
It's up to lunchbox, who's like three in a rower.
Would you like him spread out? Because we still have
to go through what the punish mus may be. Because
I have a list here.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
That's a good question. Let me hear the punishments.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
So the punishments are number one.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Let me think about this.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Truck nuts. We're gonna order a pair of trucknuts from Amazon.
You know they usually hang off the back, but you're
gonna have to wear them around your neck for a
week like that, it's only wearing it's only wearing truck
nuts for a week around your neck. You mean a day? No, No,
I think you've misheard what I said.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
A week and this is everywhere he goes.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
No, just show when he's up here in the mid
he's in the building, he wears the truck nuts.
Speaker 4 (13:51):
I was like, man, that's a long time to be
walking around the city with truck nuts on.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
My doesn't he already have truck nuts?
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Do those on his neck?
Speaker 4 (14:00):
Those are in my pants?
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Yeah, those are called truck truck it's a little geometro. Okay,
So that's one. Number two is puzzle in the dark.
We put lunchbox in the dark room and he has
to finish a fifty piece puzzle wearing only a head lamp.
And he's got fifty pieces thirty minutes to an hour
and he can't come out until he's done. Oh and
if he doesn't do that, then he has to wear
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the trucknuts for a week outside of the studio. I
like that, So the trucknuts comes back into playing that one.
But if he doesn't complete the task.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
So we went puzzle then so it's a double punishment.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
No, no, no, it's if you don't succeed in your game,
then the punishment happened.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
The puzzles like a chance to get out of your punishment.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Yes, doing the puzzles of punishment.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Nah, puzzles are fun.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
And so what's the other one I liked here? Uh
the episode of Friends where Ross gets spray tanned four times.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
That would be hilarious.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Where that's what we do to lunchbox. He has to
go in and get spray tanned four times on both sides,
like four one, one, two, two, three, three four four?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
And how long does that last?
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Five? Six days? He can't watch You can't shower for
a day, yeah, twenty four hours.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Or just go to sleep and then when you wake
up again, it's.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Gonna be all my sheets.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Yeah, that's what happens. But then you wash your sheets,
and that would probably also give you a reason to
wash your sheets. So there's that one, and then the
fourth one is upper body waxing. Hold on from his belly,
well not your head, but from your belt. Have to
do this, dude, from your belly button to your chin,
everything gets waxed. No, that's my armpits too.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
Yeah, stream guys, this was one silly game, and we're.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
If it was you two, he'd be on doing sure. Okay, okay,
hold on, okay, there's four. You can eliminate one of them,
the waxing. Okay, so that one's eliminated for sure. The
other three will be on the wheel and we'll end
up doing this on the show tomorrow, the next day whatever,
but it will be either the truck nuts for a
week anytime he's in the building, the spray tan four
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times on each side, or the puzzle in the dark
with the potential of it. If he doesn't create the
puzzle and do the puzzle in the dark in time,
he has to wear the truck nuts for a week.
Everybody goes love it, Like everywhere he goes, let.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Pick up his kids from seat, everywhere.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
The trucknuts must be on it all time.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
This is awesome.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
Okay, And so where does he want the free spaces
after hearing all that.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
I don't know. I need to do my research on
scientifically which one's.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Better, like odds and probability. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
I don't really think there's going to be an answer
that provides any sort of advantage. But you have at
it and then we'll figure out the next day or two. Okay, yeah, oh,
he's not having anymore, but it'll be over at least.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
What are we doing with lucky charms? Like, what are
we doing with those marshmallows?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
This is trash, trash, they're probably so old. They're probably
so old at this point. Yeah, what a waste. I've
never heard of a lavender marriage. Amy, Yes, so walk
us through that.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
I saw that it was something they did way back
in the day, really popular in the fifties, where a
gay man would marry a woman and they would enter
into a living arrangement. They obviously didn't do other things, but.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Would they would the gay man be outwardly gay or
would it be like, I'm married to this person.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
So he wasn't like he could be who he was
going to be. But I don't think it was like
out outBut the but his quote unquote wife knew.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Correct, so publicly he was not gay, but he could
be gay and be married to kind of cover in
that time.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Yeah, And so sometimes even the woman might be gay
or she just might you know, want a partner of
sorts or roommate, like because it's like you're living with
your BFF and he's like this guy that was talking
about in particular, he was like, I mean, think about it.
You have this living person that likely loves fashion, can
help you get dressed, loves to cook, loves flowers, loves candles,
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loves design, loves like all the things that you get
from like BFF. But it's your lavender husband. And I'm like, oh, man,
like a lavender husband.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I could see that that would seem nice if you'd
already been married once and you were like, marriage is
not for me, because yes, if one of your friends
they wanted to run for office. He did feel comfortable
being gay publicly because he was running in a state.
But he was like, I don't. I still want to
run for office, but I don't feel like I can
be open yet. It's mutually beneficial. Yeah, he has a wife,
(18:39):
you have a husband.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
He likely loves to benefits, host dinner parties and he'll
take care of everything. I just love that. I'm like, oh,
people will be like, oh, you look so cute. I'll
be like, oh, Richard picked it out or whatever his name.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Is, So your fantasy lavender marriage is dick.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know why I said that.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
I just thought it was interesting. Obviously times are different,
but this was just a gay guy on social media
and he was campaigning like he wants to bring.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
It back, got it?
Speaker 3 (19:10):
I mean, but he's open. He's like, I'm open gay,
but I just love to have like my girl Beff
be my partner.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Remember Chuck and Larry when Adam Sandler and Kevin James
did the movie where they got married, So they could
like it was some sort of like financial.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Is it we now pronounced?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
My dad had a friend that was gay and he
was married with kids, and we just never understood how
that all worked.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Was he gay before? And he probably gay always? But
I'm saying, was he openly gay to his wife before
he had the kids, because I've known people who had
kids and then later were like, I'm gay and they
had a wife and kids.
Speaker 5 (19:49):
No, well, I don't know, but I think he met
him already while he was gay and married.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
So we don't know how it all started.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
If he just, oh, he met a man after he
was gay.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Married, because I know a guy who did that, who
like and probably had known he was gay the whole
time but never acted on it or maybe even or
maybe even you know, within himself. Yeah, and then he
met a guy, but he'd already had two kids and
they were almost adult kids, and he was like, I
think I've been gay the whole time.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
So then he got a divorced.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Yes, yeah, this one wasn't lavender.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Do you feel like this one was lavender?
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
They just like he was married and he continued to
be married, and he was openly gay. And I had
asked my dad to him, like, Dad, like, what's going
on here?
Speaker 6 (20:35):
Right?
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I was like, we don't really talk about that, and
he just had an arrangement. Maybe he felt he could
sure he was gay after having kids being married and
felt and then his wife's like, well, why we even
get divorced. I already I don't want to get remarried.
We'll just be friends. Yeah, possibly live in the house. Yeah,
I remember that very well. Okay, I have a couple
other things here. Oh I did listen. Did see me
(21:01):
wearing a shirt somewhere and it was a woman's shirt,
And I know is woman's shirt. I just I don't
mind wearing a woman's shirt. There's a no. I also
will buy women's shoes, like tennis shoes, but buy them
in size like fourteen or fifteen if I really like them.
What Yeah, so, and I'm not going to point out
point it out.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
How do you know it's a woman's shirt.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Like woman's I got from a story the only woman's clothes,
got it? Yeah? God, I kind.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
Of have a store where they only have women's clothes.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah. I love the shirt. I'll wear the shirt again
many times. But I don't think it's not like it
doesn't have like a plunging breastline or anything like that.
It's just a shirt I really like. But a listener said, hey,
I saw you wearing this shirt. I know that's a
woman's shirt and I saw on DM and I reply
back gut like, you're exactly right, it is, but I
got it way large. And I also will buy shoes.
(21:50):
I like pink a lot, so I have tennis shoes
that are pink, and I can't find specific colors, so
I'll just try to find fourteen's. I think it's fourteen
that I wear in women's shoes.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Fourteens do a lot of those. But yeah, it's a
big foot.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
It's a woman's fourteen. I'm pretty sure eleven translates to
but yeah, I know if anyone else has seen whatever
that is, and I will not draw attention to it
because I just don't want to deal with it. I
will probably wear the shirt again. I really love the shirt.
But yes, if you're asking, it was definitely a woman's
shirt and.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
I'm not suppressing anything.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
No, no, no, no, And how you can tell a woman
absolutely it is. The buttons they're backwards, right, they're on
the other side.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, that's tough. That did you have a hard time
button that?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
I knew it was oneman short. I'm used to it,
so it's easy.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
Well, so it wasn't even a woman's tear. You got
a woman's button down? Is it fitted?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Hey? Who knows? Not embarrassed of it?
Speaker 3 (22:44):
Wait, okay, pink woman's But I.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Didn't say the shirt was pink. I said, I like
to wear pink. I like pink and tennis shoes.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Oh I thought, I thought I took that as.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
It could be pink. I don't have pink, any pink shirts.
I don't think.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
I haven't seen you wear pink.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Pink.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
I love that one. That's a dude shirt. But you Yeah.
You know who was extremely complimentary of that shirt was
Deebo Samuel. We sat down. He was like, that's the
most legit shared ever. I was like, yeah, it's Selene.
He was like, bro, I never seen it in that color.
I was like, for sure, And so Deebo sayuels give
me a shout out. What are you guys gonna do?
By the way, Deebo Samuel. Deebo Samuel played for the
forty nine Ers Forever now plays for Washington. Yeah, D
(23:20):
nobody calls him D. Yeah, I do you do debo? Yeah? Okay,
mid roll back, m hm. So you saw Karen from
a little big town where Amy.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
At a basketball game playing her son. Yeah, no, her son,
her son was playing?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Got it? How old is he now? Thirteen or something?
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Junior high going into I guess next year maybe he'll
be going into either eighth or ninth grade.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
And so you guys cool, Yes, why was there a few?
Speaker 3 (24:01):
No?
Speaker 1 (24:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Oh no, I ran into Karen and yeah, I hadn't
seen her in a really long time, I guess. So
the last time I ran into Karen was out to
eat and it was February of twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
So, oh, Karen's a brown haired one of the two
ladies in little big towns.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
A little big town.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
So I ran into Karen back then at a restaurant
and she was like, Hey, there's this guy I want
to introduce you to. And I was like, oh, because
I had I had just started dating at that point,
like on hinge, and so I wanted to hear more
about what she had to say. And she was like, yeah,
he's in our dad group, like our kids go to
school together, and I guess he had asked her like, hey,
(24:39):
do you know Amy Brown? I heard she go divorced,
da da da, And so she started showing me all
these things about him, and then I was like, oh, okay, well, yeah,
I'm interested. And then she goes, there's just one catch,
and I was like, well, what's the hatch.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
She goes, he's gay.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
He's gay?
Speaker 3 (24:57):
No, she said that. She said he's a widow were
and I said, with three kids? And she's like, yeah,
his wife died a few years ago from cancer. And
I was like, oh, okay, I'll circle back, like I
just started dating, and I just didn't think that that
was something that I had the bandwidth for at the
time because I was still going through a lot. And
(25:18):
so then fast forward to like the summertime, like June
or July. She messaged me and was like, hey, that
guy still would love to take you out. And I
had started dating somebody else, so I was like, eh,
I'm I just moved, so I need some more time.
I'll circle back. Well, then that guy that I was dating,
is this the boy toy? No, this is somebody else.
(25:41):
I was like getting ready for a date with him
and my friend called me and she said, hey, are
you still dating da Da Da Da? I said, yeah,
he's about to come pick me up. She goes, well,
I'm at dinner right now with a girl that has
a date with him tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
And I was like, oh, but what did you think
you guys were only dating? Because if not, then that's okay.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Well, I guess we hadn't had that talk, so I
couldn't be upset. I wasn't upset. I think my ego
was hurt like I was. So I found myself getting emotional,
but then I knew I did. I couldn't say anything
to him because we weren't exclusive. But remember back I
went to the US open with him, like so I
kind of just thought, well.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
This is like, you know, I remember that, yeah, my
wife's purse. I saw it on Instagram, yes, and I
was like, she's my wife's purse.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Well, because I didn't, I was nervous what to wear
to open.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Because I remember that's what's funny.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Yes, And so Caitlin actually helped me. She's like, oh, yeah,
where this where this will be cute and I was like, oh, okay,
you know, like and yeah. We So it was a
group that all went to New York. But anyway, I
just kind of thought, I don't know. I just I
didn't think we were dating other people, especially on an app,
because he met her on an app and I was like, okay.
So then he picked me up and we went out
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and it was so awkward. I tried to be cool,
we cool, be cool, be cool. And then I couldn't
take it anymore and I was like, I know you
have a date tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (26:53):
Oh wow, Oh that's how you do it.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
But I didn't say it in a like mad way.
I just said, I need you to know. I didn't
ask for this information. I shouldn't even know it, but
I do. And now I feel awkward and I know
that you have a date tomorrow. So I guess I
just want to have an open, an honest conversation with you,
like are we Yeah, we haven't been had an exclusive talk.
(27:17):
But this is the guy now, No, this is but
I this is what led to the guy now, because.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
How did that gut react?
Speaker 3 (27:23):
First of all, he said, he just sort of goes.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Oh oh, So he felt guilty.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Until I said, yeah, my friend, and he knew the
friend because he had met her, and so I said
you know my friend you met the other night, she's
at she's at dinner right now with your date tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
And he was like, wow, smart, I know one of
the odds, I'm busted man. And the thing is, really
wasn't doing anything anything wrong, but I understand the guilty.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
I promise. My demeanor wasn't like you've done anything wrong.
I just said I have information that now is making
me feel weird right now. And he said the way
I communicated it, however I did. He was like, hey,
you're you're a good communicator. Okay, so but still I'm like, well,
(28:10):
so my therapist has been talking to me about adult dating,
so I guess if you want to keep dating, we can.
But I just need you to know, like, okay, so
you're going to date other people and we'll keep getting
to know each other, I said, because I I have
people that want to date me, Like I didn't really
have anybody else.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
ID like, yeah, I have.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
I have a guy once it's been trying to date
me for months, but like I kept denying him or whatever.
So then the next day I texted Karen and I
was like, hey, the guy still available, because now it's
like October. So it's like February to October. That's when
I circled back to Karen and she's like, well, let
me check. And so I went out with this guy
(28:54):
mostly because I just needed to practice dating because now
I was adult dating, which is dating multiple people.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
It was a spie date to get back your oh yeah, And.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
I didn't really think it was going to turn into
anything because again the whole the window or piece. But
I had sort of gotten over that because I think
from February to October I had had a lot of
healing and there's some space that had opened up within
me that suddenly that didn't seem overwhelming. And so yeah,
that's how I have a boyfriend now. And so that
was from October to now.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
How's the so I was.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
Able to see Karen. My point is I saw Karen
and I was like, oh my gosh, like thank you
for introducing us. Like I went out with him not
thinking it would turn into anything, and then now here
we are running into each other at y'all's kids basketball game.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Did you tell her the part where you're got a
compliment after you called him out.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
Such a communication, Well, this is a basketball game, so
I didn't give.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
You get rid of all the other dude.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Oh so yeah. So then I was trying to date
both of them at the same time, and that was
I wasn't good at that, like that in you know
they knew though you were honest, no knew. Get this
the dating pool at forty in Nashville forty fifty. Because
these guys are in it's small.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
I wouldn't think it's big.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
It's small. And they know each other and we've already
run into him. We've yep, their kids are going to
be going to school to get it. Gets a small world.
So I'm like, well, we're going to run into him
a lot. So once I decided I was going to
be exclusive with who I'm with now, I called the
guy that thinks I'm a good communicator and I communicated like, hey,
I am dating somebody now, and I'm going to give
(30:29):
this a go. I don't like dating multiple people. Da
da da, And I said just a little. And he goes,
are you talking about Alex? And I was like, you
know him and he's like my brother. So then they
know each other and they actually dated this other same girl.
So yeah, and guess what, we've run into her too.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
Show Man what's the really could how has it been
dating somebody whose wife has died?
Speaker 3 (30:58):
Because I that's a lot. Well, we have therapy today
because there's just some things. Yeah, with our kids that
it's a lot. So he's got a twelve year old
of fifteen year old to sixteen year old. My kids
are cool there. They've lost their mom, Like the youngest
(31:20):
one doesn't really remember. My kids are like, take it
look like their dad had a girlfriend for like a
year they broke up, but like they have experience as
before for his kids, their dad has dated a lot,
but not serious enough to bring the kids around someone.
And so I am now in their life. And the
younger one is very attached, like because he's he doesn't
(31:43):
he hasn't his mom died five years ago and he
was seven at the time, and she had cancer for
two years before that, so he's wanting that mom figure
and so that is it's really sweet, but I got
to be careful because he's so attached. And then rightfully,
so the sixteen year old, it's a lot because she
(32:03):
was very very close to her mom. And I'm towing
that line of like, you know, I've even had a
conversation with her of like, no part of me is
coming in here and wants to replace your mom in
any way, Like I want to honor her and come
alongside and just support you how you need support. But
it's tricky. It's tricky navigating and merging our kids together.
(32:24):
And then yeah, without it's his story too. There's a
lot that's just easy at times between us, like we're
very compatible, but then also we're both experiencing things for
the very first time that are tricky, and so we're
trying to get third party input so that we can
(32:45):
navigate at the best that we can. And that's what
today's therapy session will be about. Kind of just some
I got to know how to handle some stuff.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Ah free, I couldn't handle it. I wouldn't have the
emotional intelligence to date somebody whose partner.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
Has died and they were very much in love.
Speaker 1 (33:07):
Yeah, because I think I would compare myself to them,
or if I weren't comparing, I would think that they
were always comparing me to them, or that they were
always going, well, it's never going to be as good
as it once was. So this is like, that's all
the thoughts that I would have that I would have
to have somebody work me out of those thoughts.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Yeah, and I love that he still loves her it,
you know, it's that's that's not really the problem. But
he has dated some girls that straight up were like
I can't I can't handle that that or how it
might be with your kids. And I think I was
really really scared of it, which is why I told
Karen initially like, oh, well, that's that's a problem. But
(33:46):
we're we're working through it, and I think it could
be a beautiful thing, but we're day by day like it,
so I don't know what's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Not good for you for putting in the work though.
Speaker 3 (33:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
I was a therapy of the day, just trying to
figure out to eat breakfast at lunch?
Speaker 3 (34:00):
How do eat?
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Oh yeah, yea, yeah, because you like going for like
real and I'm my therapist going, man, that's why eat pancakes.
Everybody else's in a sandwich.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Well, they're both real problems.
Speaker 3 (34:09):
Yeah, they are.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
They are.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
We've never done it together though, Like I've done my
own therapy, but this is our first time doing something together.
So oh really today literally coincidentally today, so you have
the same therapist.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
No, no, no, no, you have to go to a different
one because our couples counselor is different than my therapist.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
So how do you.
Speaker 4 (34:26):
Agree on a couple counselor? Though, like who picks it well?
Speaker 3 (34:29):
So to your point, yes, that's true. Oh my ring
came off. If if if we were doing full time
couples counseling, we would have to find someone separate. I
had to sign a waiver to allow him to join
in with my.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
Yeah, you can bring someone that's a therapist, but it's
not permanent.
Speaker 3 (34:46):
That's what's happening today. And then to Lunchbucks's point, if
we were to decide to continue, then we would have
to find our own and we would just do recent.
Speaker 4 (34:54):
But any nervous that your therapist is gonna be on
your side.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
No, because it's not about a side thing. I think
we're trying to just learn the We need tools to
navigate certain things. It's not about someone being right or wrong.
It's like, how can you help us navigate this because
we're it's we just want it to be a little
bit smoother or I.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
Got for you. I try to win our counselor.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
I'm in there trying to win you, but ours was
we went and completely unrelated to our own therapists, like
I didn't know them. So the thing about a therapist
too is it's kind of like dating because you may
go to I've been a therapist that I just did
not vibe with, like their style, their communication, so I
would just Okay, well thanks, let me move on to
(35:37):
the next one, not the personal, and so that that's happened.
We got very fortunate with our because we started going
as soon as we got married, and it's awesome. So
and he's great, but I do try to win, not
the argument, but I try to like win his favor.
So I get like, feels good when you wink yeah, yeah,
that feels good.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
Yeah yeah, like I'm right.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Yeah, or like it kind of pump your yeah. I try. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
But Ami, who's whose idea was the therapy?
Speaker 4 (36:06):
It's a great question. How do you say, hey, let's
go to therapy together.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
I'm assuming it's you, but I'm just asking.
Speaker 3 (36:10):
I'll give you one guess. But it was after well, okay,
we have like summer vacation coming up and just trying
to figure out some some things and our kids. It's
mostly about our kids were very both very protective of
them and how they feel with certain things, and it
(36:31):
was great. We're just trying to figure it out. And
then we realized there's other little things. I don't know
how to explain it because I don't want to tell
all the kids problems.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
So yeah, but it was me. He processes really well,
So that's great. And even in the loss of his wife, so,
like his wife died, and then a few months later
his wife's mom, so his mother in law died, and
then a few months after that, his mom died.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
So their grandma's died, and both.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
The grandma's and the mom said the kids lost basically
all the women in their life, and then he lost
the women in his life, all back to back. So
he experienced that and and went through and did the work.
But he I can tell how he handled that.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
He is a.
Speaker 3 (37:14):
Processor. He's like a deep thinker. He's very respectful and
listens and.
Speaker 1 (37:20):
You know, you probably won't try to win.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
Then I don't think he's going to try to win
because there's nothing to win.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
But are you kidding?
Speaker 3 (37:25):
What's there to win? We're not going to like he
he has told me before. He said something the other day,
like I'm not talking about this right now, and I
was like, well.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Good, Uh try your boundary, bro, that's what I say.
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2 (37:40):
What is wrong with that?
Speaker 1 (37:41):
One to talk about life? Meets me with that though,
because I'll do that, be like I do not feel
have the capacity to talk about that now, And she'll go, Okay,
what time would you like to talk about and I'll
go what what? And she'll go, I'm happy to walk
away from this. She's like, I don't want to press
on it if you feel for whatever reason, sometimes I
don't feel good, like sometimes I don't feel good or
or I want time to think about it. She goes,
but give me a time, and then I'll hit her
(38:03):
with July third, and then she's like, don't do no stupid, Yeah,
give me a time, child, I'm a child.
Speaker 2 (38:12):
July third, two o'clock.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
Yes, I'm a child. Still the calendar July.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
Third, Yeah, But do you know like a kinder way
to say that, Bobby might be instead of saying I'm
not going to do this right now or I'm not
I'm not talking to you about this like with that,
like I'm not doing this right now, say how exactly said,
that's how he said it to me, and just what
would have been helpful at that time instead of telling
me this, we're not talking about this right now, just saying, hey,
(38:40):
can we come back to this at another time?
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Oh? The problem with that is you're giving you the
right to say no.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
And so I've also been taught I'm respectful too, Like
I would be like, oh, okay, now, it's not.
Speaker 1 (38:52):
That I've been taught don't ask a question if you're
not going to accept one of the answers. And if
I go, hey, can we talk about this later, she
says no, I have to respect the no one to
talk about it.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
So when my wife says can you do the dishes?
I can say no.
Speaker 3 (39:04):
No.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
I think you're missing that you can say whatever you want,
because that's give opportunity consequences. What Amy's saying is a
better or a different way to say it that maybe
comes off not as harsh, is can we talk about
this at a different time? And I think that's wonderfully soft,
and I like it. It's a nice cushion to land on.
But I've also been taught that if I offer a
question to somebody and I give them an option and
(39:25):
they choose an option, I have to go with that option.
So if I go, can I talk? Can we talk
about this later? My wife goes, no, I want to
do it now. Then I now have to do it
now instead of me just going, hey, I don't have
the capacity right now, so I'm gonna go and punt
on this. And used to I would just think and
definitely we never have to talk about it again. And then
she got on me because I would never come back around.
It doesn't work, never come back around. And then she go, Okay, well,
would you mind giving me a time? And I'll be
(39:48):
like sure, July.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
Third, Yeah, that's so good.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
Well it didn't work.
Speaker 2 (39:53):
I mean, I know I'm gonna try that one.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
That doesn't work.
Speaker 1 (39:55):
Good, I'm rooting for you.
Speaker 3 (39:57):
Oh thank you? Yeah? No, see how well.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
That leads me to two other things. I got like
four things to talk about left. Then what we've done.
I was talking. I did try to eat breakfast at lunch,
and this is such a stupid thing, but one of
the things I just cannot have not been able to do.
I don't know, my mind doesn't allow me. I can't
eat a meal at a different time somebody else is
eating their meal and not even meaning at a different
time to actually eat the food. But if Eddie's eating dinner,
(40:21):
I can't eat breakfast food. If he's gonna have dinner,
then I must have dinner food. Very strange at a
restaurant or at the house. If someone's gonna eat breakfast food,
even if it's at dinner time, I can't eat meat loaf.
I've also got to match that. So it's some irrational
part of my brain that really struggles. We went to
California and I had pancakes while they had lunch, and
I couldn't eat my pancakes. Eddie like, that's all you're gonnat.
(40:43):
He didn't know that was what the struggle I had
with it, but he was like that that's all you're
gonna eat. I had like four or five bites of
pancakes and I was like, I can't do this.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
I didn't realize you were struggling.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
Yeah, yeah, I was in it. Okay, I was immersing myself.
I couldn't do it.
Speaker 5 (40:55):
But again, like Amy said the first time we talked
about this, it's a good thing though, that you're not
making everyone else change, that you are open to change.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
Well, I would say this is as intense've amy situation.
Very yeah, it's very equal the other We have a
few minutes and I don't know this is the best
time to bring it up, but okay, sure, why not
Eddie thinks he has brain cancer. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (41:18):
No, it's not second cancer, it's not.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
Here we go.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
I just sort of rolled my eyes in my head.
But I'm also gonna feel bad if he's right.
Speaker 5 (41:26):
That is the danger of talking about this because if
I'm right and they laugh at me, Yeah, but.
Speaker 1 (41:31):
You've also been very wrong many times. So we just
talked about somebody having cancer and dying and then all
of a sudden, he's got I got brains.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
Not a joke though, last time porn that's what it was.
He had had a hard to tech cancer.
Speaker 4 (41:45):
Let's be real, like, I mean, the odds are very bloom.
Speaker 5 (41:48):
I've just had a headache for like almost going on
two weeks now, and yeah, does tiland all take care
of it? Sure, it goes away, but then after the
four hours I get it back again.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
But then, don't you think it's something that's in your
It's environmental. Maybe you're dehydrated. There could be a sinuses
that the allergies that you have could also be creating
like you.
Speaker 3 (42:09):
If you cut back on caffeine at.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
All, it could be a lot of things.
Speaker 4 (42:12):
Are you drinking water?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Yeah, chicking water To.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Go right to brain cancer feels a bit intense. Man.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
You just hear the stories of like you, but no.
Speaker 1 (42:20):
You hear them, but you're reading and you're chasing them,
and if you're pursuing them, that's why you hear them.
Speaker 5 (42:25):
People say they have headaches and they're like, oh, it's
just a sinus infection, and then turns out no, they
were had stage four brain cancer.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
And I'm like, I don't want to then go get checked.
Speaker 4 (42:34):
But in that expensive see here we go. Your life
worth it?
Speaker 2 (42:38):
It's it is worth it. Then.
Speaker 5 (42:40):
But do I go to the doctor and say I
think I have brain cancer? Or do I just say
I've had headaches for two weeks?
Speaker 1 (42:45):
I probably lead with the second one.
Speaker 4 (42:47):
Oh, I like brain cancer. That way they can just
laugh at you.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
Right on the machine.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
I would lead to the second one and say, hey,
I have had these headaches nonstoft for like two weeks.
I don't know what it is. It could be or
brain cancer and just maybe just sloawed that out there
and they'll say, we don't think it's brain cancer, but
we'll do the test that show you it's not.
Speaker 4 (43:02):
Do you have a stiff neck, no vision changes?
Speaker 2 (43:06):
Oh yes, I'm having to wear my readers.
Speaker 5 (43:08):
More numbness because you're getting older, dude, Well that could
be two numbness where it.
Speaker 4 (43:13):
Just says numbness.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
I don't think you have brain cancer, but I would.
It's probably sign us pressure. We're at a bad allergy time. Yeah,
for us, that's probably what it is. But I would
definitely get it checked if it's bothering you that much.
Speaker 4 (43:24):
Is it around your eyes?
Speaker 2 (43:26):
No, it's in my head.
Speaker 4 (43:27):
That's not a cluster headache.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Another couple of things here, and then well we'll move
on which one I want to do first. Okay, I'm
going to make an offer. I was looking, by the way,
why don't we have our YouTube follower plaque, Scuba or
one hundred thousand follower plaque? Do you know do you
know where that is? Because we have way more than that,
but YouTube sends one. You get a plaque, yeah if
(43:49):
you yeah, okay, left, Scuba, continue your mic on, Yeah,
do you know where one hundred thousand? Because we have
two hundred ninety four thousand followers on you tube. Plaques
are given away when you reach one hundred thousand, a
silver one we should which we should have, Yeah, a
gold one for a million. But where's our silver plaque?
Speaker 7 (44:09):
Probably send it to our San Antonio corporate office and
they took it.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
Can you track it down for us?
Speaker 2 (44:12):
Yeah? Yeah, we'll see.
Speaker 1 (44:13):
So it's somewhere we need it. I want it. I
met the corporate office.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
Probably got it or something.
Speaker 1 (44:17):
So right now we have two hundred and ninety four
thousand YouTube followers.
Speaker 7 (44:20):
So you get him at what amounts one hundred thousand
and what else? Well, we don't have a million yet,
so just so next one will be a million, So
one hundred thousands. Where we just want our hundred thousand
subscriber plaque? Okay we want Yeah for years they've probably
just been holding on to So see if you can
track that down.
Speaker 1 (44:33):
Okay, yeah, So we have two hundred ninety four thousand,
and basically our YouTube followers fall on Eddie and Morgan
as far as subscribers. So here's the deal that I'm
gonna make. What are we Wednesday?
Speaker 2 (44:45):
Who gets the plaquem here? Morgan?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
No?
Speaker 4 (44:47):
No, no, oh, who should get it.
Speaker 1 (44:48):
We have two hundred ninety four thousand followers. If we
get three hundred thousand followers by the end of the week,
I'll give Eddie, Morgan and Lunchbox each one hundred dollars.
Oh okay, so six thousand follower that's it.
Speaker 2 (45:00):
Hang on, hang I'm in hang on why lunchs Yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
Just because I don't want him crying about not making
the money. And that's it.
Speaker 2 (45:06):
Yeah, you're gonna feed that.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
Yeah, it's worth it to me not hearing to him cry.
And maybe he's gonna help promote it. Who knows on
a social YouTube. So if we had three hundred thousand
by the end of show Friday, I'll give each you
guys a hundred bucks. Boom.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
Okay, okay, I'm just gonna start uploading everything everything. I'm
going to unload my computer.
Speaker 1 (45:25):
It doesn't he upload if Morgan go ahead? No?
Speaker 2 (45:29):
What was that?
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Morgan go ahead?
Speaker 1 (45:31):
Noly.
Speaker 3 (45:31):
He gets mad at me sometimes when I add extra
videos on our list, and now he's like, I'm gonna
upload everything.
Speaker 2 (45:36):
Fair.
Speaker 1 (45:37):
I don't know what you guys do. Okay, here's the
other thing. What Today's April May, June July by August thirty. First,
if we have five hundred thousand followers.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
We get five grand each.
Speaker 2 (45:54):
That would seem fair.
Speaker 4 (45:55):
No, that seems about right.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
No, it doesn't, see fir because I don't make any money.
Well five hundred thousand, this is no.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
Do we make money, you make money? It's all.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
It's all same, tomatom Tomato right, No, because it's I
don't own the YouTube channel. The company does, so that
would be different. Oh, I will you guys can pick
if we hit five hundred thousand.
Speaker 4 (46:14):
Fly away to Vegas.
Speaker 1 (46:15):
Let's go. I will either give each of you a thousand,
or you can play a game to win three thousand,
all winner take all.
Speaker 2 (46:29):
I like that too. I'm good again.
Speaker 3 (46:32):
No, I won a thousand.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
Well, well you have to get there. You have to
and you get to vote two out of three. So
but you have to get there.
Speaker 3 (46:38):
You like to cheat at games.
Speaker 1 (46:39):
I'll trust it. So you're not there. You're not there, right.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
But the whole lunchbox things throw me off. And I
understand that you want to make him feel included in everything.
Speaker 5 (46:48):
But if you take him out of the mix, would
that mean more money for me and Morgan?
Speaker 1 (46:53):
Probably?
Speaker 2 (46:54):
But because I.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
Will fight this I think you. I think two things
are gonna happened. One, he's gonna cry about it.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
But that's him anyways.
Speaker 1 (47:02):
Here, I'm not going to cry then. But I also
think like for you guys to have his support, however
he gives, it would probably be beneficial.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
He doesn't really give.
Speaker 1 (47:11):
He I greaks, But that's that's on you to create whatever.
So that's the deal. However you see fit all right?
So created just by the end of the week, you
just need five hundred followers, subscribers.
Speaker 2 (47:26):
Let's have a meeting.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
Five thousand by the end. Oh my god, No, guys,
I thought you said five thousand. No, wait, thank you.
Everybody just out for one second.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Don't call me the idiot.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
People. No one called anybody an idiot. Oh, everybody hold.
Everybody hold. We have two ninety four points something, right,
So I'm doing the math here, So it's five thousand,
whatever it is. If it's a three hundred thousand, I
give each you one hundred bucks by the end of
the week. That's doable.
Speaker 2 (47:50):
We can do that.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
But by August thirty, first you can eat you have
a thousand, or you can play for thirty five hundred.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
Oh you just had a five hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
Sure did cash.
Speaker 2 (48:03):
Let's have a meeting after the show.
Speaker 1 (48:05):
What the media is too probably be how you're gonna
get the prescribers more than what you can do with
the money.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
I got some ideas.
Speaker 1 (48:13):
Don't want to throw that out there down there.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
Lunchbox, start thinking star rainstorming.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
You can't hire bots. I don't know how people do that.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
I don't know any bots.
Speaker 1 (48:28):
Okay, thank you, and now.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
We can do anything we want to do.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
First of all, no, I don't know what that means.
I'm just gonna go know doing anything we want, like.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
Be creative and stuff.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
What are you talking within what we would do? You
can do anything new, but it has to You can't
be like, okay, scrow them off. You can't do stuff
that we wouldn't that we wouldn't you think what T
shirt cont mean?
Speaker 2 (48:52):
I was just thinking leaving it open.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
But if you do stupid stuff, you're gonna make people unsubscribed.
Speaker 2 (48:57):
That's true. We don't want that.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
Okay, to do one more things, thinking, no, I'll do
one more thing.
Speaker 3 (49:08):
Do they make shorts?
Speaker 1 (49:10):
I do YouTube shorts?
Speaker 3 (49:11):
I know you do. But does the show?
Speaker 2 (49:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (49:12):
Okay, because I had you do a meeting yesterday with
iHeart and they said those are really good to do.
Speaker 1 (49:17):
I mean, yeah, they're they're good if you do them right.
Speaker 3 (49:20):
You to do them right, or just to get if
you're trying to get new eyes. Short is like a
real or a TikTok video the studio.
Speaker 1 (49:32):
I want to do one other thing before we go, So, Amy,
you know the guy that goes, let's get ready to rumble?
Do you know his name?
Speaker 3 (49:39):
By the chance, I mean, give me a hint. No,
I know, I want to figure it out.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
I don't think you will first as Michael Michael. Yes, okay, Michael,
his name is Michael Buffer.
Speaker 3 (49:53):
I definitely exactly.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
And he goes, let's let's get trademarked. It's a massive
thing for him. So he has a brother, Bruce Buffer,
who is the announcer for the UFC, and his thing
is it's time and so you would think that they
were brothers who grew up doing announcing together because they're
both the biggest two announcers in sports. Basically, they didn't
(50:18):
even know each other until later, until their debt, until
one saw another one on TV and it was like dubber brother,
that's this is a crazy story, so really weird.
Speaker 4 (50:26):
Well, they didn't know Joe, I'll.
Speaker 1 (50:27):
Play I'll play a clip. So I do a podcast
called Lots to Say That's out today with Matt Castle,
the former NFL quarterback, and we had Bruce Buffer on
and he did not know his brother's the most famous
announcer ever. He did not know his brother. They didn't
meet well into their twenties. And so here's Bruce at
this like a minute clip telling the version of that.
Speaker 6 (50:43):
We're long lost hap brothers. We met each other when
I was twenty eight years old. I saw him on
TV being a huge boxing fan of my dad and
my brother Brian and I, you know, watching boxing all
our lives. How came this handsome debonair, James Bond looking
individual with that famous words let's get ready to rumble?
And when they conrand his name on the screen, Michael Buffer,
(51:04):
I'm like, WHOA, who's this? Right before the Internet, I
never saw my last name in a phone book in
the United States, so it kind of really struck me. Funny,
my dad never told me that he had been married
at the age of twenty when he was going over
to serve in World War Two. It was a brief
marriage and he came back a divorce en suit, but
a child was born, and last time he saw the
(51:27):
child was when he was two and a half. Michael
was raised under the name of Hubert by foster parents
great as he calls it, leave it to Beaver upbringing.
And when he went in the army at twenty, they said,
your birth certificate says you're Buffer, because he was never
formally adopted, so they said, you're not Michael Huber, You're
Michael Buffer. And had that not happened, and the events
(51:48):
had led him into being the legendary greatest announcer of
all times. As I like to say, in most everybody believes,
we wouldn't be sitting here talking right now because when
he did see him on TV and and my dad
called a local arena here in Los Angeles to receive
a country club left a message for Michael to call
him back, and Michael called him back. They got together
for lunch and it turned out to be his long
(52:10):
lost son, and we all got together and we got
along famously amazing.
Speaker 1 (52:14):
And so Bruce Buffer, the guy we're talking to, was
not an announcer. He did that later. He was He
was like studying how to fight. But they they were
half for others, didn't know each other, saw him on TV, crazy.
Speaker 2 (52:28):
And now they're both they're both the biggest announcers.
Speaker 1 (52:30):
Yeah, it's two biggest, but the whole we did like
a half an hour with him. It's on our podcast.
Lots to say, but I thought that story was crazy
because I just imagine they were both brothers growing up.
Their dad was like an announcer, and they both.
Speaker 2 (52:41):
Be Yeah, that's what I thought too.
Speaker 1 (52:44):
There you go at the end, Thank you guys, We'll
see you tomorrow. I believe that's all we got for today. Goodbye, everybody.
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