January 8, 2025 • 58 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
I don't really identify with my star sign. Sometimes I
feel like I'm a little too messy to be a virgo.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
Yeah, well, I think I'm way to come and chill
to be in aries.
Speaker 4 (00:09):
You guys sound like you don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
What he Listen Stars Astrology, we're your biggest fans.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
You guys, get in here.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Nope, you get in here.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
No, you get in here. My name is Curly and
I'm Maya and.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Welcome to the Super Secret Besty Club Podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Get in Welcome to another episode of the Super sleekert
Rusty Club Podcast.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Curly, how is your spirit?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
My spirit is a little questionable.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
We were talking earlier about how they stole my two
back tires of my car, and I was telling you
how it was crazy about getting somebody to toe my truck,
I mean, tell the car to the dealer and the
dealer was like bring it here, and the tow truck
was like, we can't. And there was a whole big
thing and you were like, well, it is retrograde, and
I'm like, girl, I was trying to ignore that so hard.
(01:16):
I saw somebody posted me and I was like, not
for me, not retrograde from me. But apparently the grading
is grading.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
We are retro Apparently. Yeah, it's my mom's birthday.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Oh and we're just filming this on December eleventh, So yes,
we had a fun birthday extravaganza Sagittarius.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
And I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Episode because we have the iconic Melissa stars astrology here
to talk about everything in all things astrology. And just
to start off, is it retrograde Melissa?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
It sure is. These are two kind with that intro whoa,
oh my.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
God, how's your spirit? Listen, how are you feeling?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I'm doing okay. I'm hanging in there. This retrograde season,
they tend to hit me pretty hard too, but it
hasn't been too bad this time around. Retrograde is it's
for real. People think it's you know, it's who woo
woo and all this, but no retrograde will cause all
kinds of issues, tech issues, car issues. See.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I don't know if I feel like it's woo woo.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
For me, it's more like if I'm pretending like it's
not there, Like I'm just going to turn the blind eye.
Like it's like I just don't want to Maybe if
I ignore it it maybe if I ignore.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
It long enough, it'll ignore me too. But I don't
know that that.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Yeah, just don't look at it in the eyes.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Yeah, if only I wish that's how astrology worked. No,
it's I feel so empowering to know about this kind
of stuff because it helps you make better life decisions
and so many people just don't end their victims to
the stars without it been realizing it.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Wow, how how did you even get started in all this?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
So I actually got started in astrology when I was
fifteen years old, and that was many many moons ago.
I was really into reading horoscopes and so like your
ma Maya, I'm a Sagittarius as well, and so I
would read about the sign Sagittarius and I could relate
to some things but not to others. And then one
day I found out that I was a Scorpio rising
(03:28):
and that explained everything. It was like putting all the
pieces of the puzzle together, and I just became hooked
and I was like, oh my god, this this explains
it all I need to learn more and the rest
is history. I just started diving in and realizing how
complex it is and I couldn't get enough.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
You also were just certified for what was it called again.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
As astrocotography astro catographyful, what is that?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
And tell us what that means?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yeah, astrakhotography is basically locational astrology. So it's the astrology
of place. It's finding the best place to live based
on the stars essentially. So it's crazy to think that
where you're currently located it's influenced by certain planets and
it impacts the quality of life that you have there. Wow,
astrology is wild like it It is so complex, it
(04:20):
goes so deep it is.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
And for like the skepticals out there, how accurate do
you find astrology to be?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Oh my gosh, it's everything. It's so accurate, it really is.
But I can understand why they are skeptics, Like it
makes sense to me why it sounds crazy because it's like,
how how do planets impact me on Earth? I have
free will? It just doesn't make sense. And all they
know is their sun's signs. But once you really get
into it and you start to study how deep it
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goes and how complex and how there's so many moving
pieces and you start to put them together, it just
all starts to make sense. It's crazy, it's.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Yes, yes, So we're going to to be talking about
a lot of different things on this episode. I just
wanted to get over some quick questions, some general info.
If you are just listening and you only really know
about your sun sign, we have a professional here to
let you know.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Just some a little little insight.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
You know what people say you're big three, Like you've
heard that, like I've That's that's like a I feel
like a new buzzword that I've heard, Like, oh, what's
your big three? It's almost like the same thing as like, uh,
you know, what's your love language nowadays? So can you
explain to us, like what do they mean when they
say you're big three?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Absolutely? Yeah. So the rising sign, as I just mentioned,
which is how I even got into astrology, your sun
sign and your moon sign. So rising sun and moon
are the big three. Everyone knows your sun sign. When
someone asks you what's your sign, you respond with your
sun sign. It's the sign that the sun was in
on the day that you were born, and the sun
stays in the same sign for about thirty days about
(05:56):
a month, so we have twelve months in the year,
twelve signs in astrology. But the moon sign changes about
every two and a half days, and that impacts your emotions.
It's how you feel, how you process emotions, your relationship
with your mother, how you experience your mother. And then
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your rising sign changes about every two hours to every
one hour, which is why you could be born on
the same exact day as another person and be totally
different if you were born at different hours, and that
impacts how people see you. It's like the masks that
you wear to the outside world, but it's not really
a mask because it's who you really are.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I also wanted to touch up on like a lot
of people talk about that they don't even know where
to identify within because there's like the new astrology sign
that people are talking about.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Like is that a thing? Like am I a Leo?
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Now?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Is my epieceas like is that a thing? And why
why don't we identify as the new signs?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah, oh my gosh, I hear that all the time. Yeah,
it's definitely a rumor. Out there, But we follow Western astrology,
which is called tropical astrology, and that is based on
the seasons, so the seasons don't change, and therefore our
signs do not change. That rumor actually started from Eastern astrology,
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sidreal astrology, astrology which is based on the moving constellations,
which do change, and that's a totally different ballgame, a
totally different kind of astrology. So that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Who's like who started it? Like who was the most accurate? Yeah? Like, well,
like who would be like the most accurate?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Like if you were to be like, well, it's about
the stars, so why wouldn't we follow the stars?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Like why do you think that?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Maybe are do you feel like one is more accurate
than the other or no?
Speaker 4 (07:46):
So I don't know who started the room or actually
I think it was something about NASA put about some
article and then there's you know how miss information Harry's
today it is, But there's I wouldn't say one is
more accurate than the other. I would so you use
them differently. So our astrology is really great for knowing
yourself and understanding why you are the way that you
(08:08):
are the people in your life, whereas the other type
of astrology is better for they actually say predictions, so
when you want to predict, yeah, exact dates. Now, I
don't practice that astrology, so I can't speak too much
on it, but there's some accuracy to it from what
I've heard from other astrologers for sure as well. It's
(08:29):
just used very differently.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Wow, but we would be moved one back in that one.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Yes, yeah, and Vedic astrology is what it's called. So
you're a virgo right, curly, and so because in Vedic
astrology you would then be a Leo.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Crazy, I could see that, honestly, and I could see
myself being a Pisces for sure.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Well, you're a piece's rising, so you definitely have that
influence for sure. Regardless.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yeah, I don't know if I can see myself as
a Leo.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Maybe maybe you shine bright like a Leo.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Yeah, No, for sure, I think so. So for people
who also are confused when they look at their chart,
it can be pretty intimidating, right because there's just like
a lot of information. Can you give us just like
a basic understanding of what the houses mean, what the
planets mean?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Absolutely, Yeah, it's really overwhelming when you first look at it.
It's like you're looking at a calculus or something. It's
just it looks overwhelming, but it's really not. So there
are twelve houses in astrology, and it's when you look
at it, it's like a graph, and it's broken up
into twelve sections and they represent different areas of your life.
So you have the first house, which is you. It
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represents who you are, your physical body, your personality, and
then from there it just moves to every house, representing
different areas from money to marriage, children, family, your career,
and it really paints a full picture of your overall
life life. And then each of the planets will fall
into specific houses, and it's going to be different for everyone.
(10:06):
So maya, your twelve houses are going to contain planets
and different locations, and no one's chart is going to
look exactly like yours. So it's a complex web. Did
you guys want me to go into like explaining each
of the twelve houses, a little description of each one
of the twelve.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
I think that's good what you just did.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Yeah, yeah, no, yeah, I think I think we're excited
to get into like some of the thing, the meat,
the meaty part. But I also one last little like
question too, these are just like my own personal questions.
What sign do we If someone wants to read their horoscope,
like general horoscope, what sign should they be reading in
like their rising sign or their sun sign, moonsign, or
(10:47):
all of them.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
So reading your horoscope should always be based off of
your rising sign. If you have your birth time accurately,
then I would always read for your rising because horoscopes
are typically talking about the specific house where the action
is taking place. So if I'm talking about it, yeah,
so my seventh house is in Taurus. So if there's
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a horoscope for what's going on with taurust energy at
the time or planets transiting moving through Taurus, that's directly
going into my seventh house, and I would only accurately
clock that with the rising sign.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
So if you're sitting.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
At your breakfast table on Sunday morning and you're opening
up your paper like we're in like I don't know,
the eighties or something, and you're opening up your paper
and you look for like your zodiac sign and it
tells you this week is going to be great for
money or for love, you should go and look for
the sun your rising sign in that instead of your sun's.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
Sign absolutely, but still read your sun's sign. You'll still
get an influence to your son, because that's just like
your overall vitality and it does represent you. But the
rising is definitely going to trump the sun when it
comes to reading horoscopes.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Okay, rising is like we're everything. It's like a snapshot
of where the stars Like, yeah, can you explain that.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Yeah, the rising determines where all the planets fall and
where all the signs fall in your chart, so really
it's the most important part of a chart. It also
determines your chart ruler, which is a big major area
of your focus depending on what house it. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (12:21):
You know.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
Fun fact in the old days, back in ancient times,
when people would ask you what your sign is, people
would respond with their rising sign.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Oh interesting, wow.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
And then what happened was that, because they wanted to
make money off of horoscopes, a lot of people didn't
know their rising sign because it's hard to know what
time you were born. It's really easy to know your
sun signed because that doesn't change for a month. And
so because they wanted to monetize horoscopes, they decided to
go off of sun signs. Because you know, everyone knows
their sun sign and so.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Wow, yeah, so I would be like, I'm a Scorpio
and you would be.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Like a Pisces. Oh my god, we'd both be water signs.
Makes sense, Yeah, it doesn't make sense, makes a lot.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
It makes a lot of sense. But enough about you.
Let's talk about us, just a lot of it. Just kidding.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
We were talking about how you you had actually suggested it, Melie.
You were saying, how like to talk about the sinistry
between Maya and I and what that looks like and
like why our signs might get along or why they
might not get along.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
Yes, Sindistry is a fancy word in astrology for compatibility. Basically, oh, yeah, nasty,
if you're nasty. There you go, yeah, there you go,
And it's just compatibility. You pull up the two charts
and you lay one on top of the other, and
then you look at where one person's planets fall into
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another person's houses, and it tells you the story of
their relationship.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Oh what did you see, like a few things about
our friendship.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Yeah, so it's really cool because currently, as a Scorpio rising,
that means that your sixth house, which in astrology the
six house rules work and and it rules coworkers is
in the sign aries and Maya, what is your Sun
and Moon?
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (14:09):
Isn't that wild?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Crazy?
Speaker 5 (14:12):
And we met at work?
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Yeah at work, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
Yeah, you met.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
We worked together still yet.
Speaker 4 (14:34):
Yep yep. So in this ministry with her son and Moon,
which is a huge part of who Maya is, going
into Curly your six house of coworkers, you were destined
to have some sort of relationship where you work together somehow,
So it's literally how you met what you're doing now,
it's amazing. And Curly you are a Virgo stelium, so
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you have your Sun, Venus, Mercury, and Mars all in Virgo.
We have a lot of heavy Virgo energy that all
goes into Maya's seventh house, which is the house of relationships.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Oh wow, I love that makes a lot of sense.
Is always she loves Virgo.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
My life.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
That's what we said, Like, what did you say you
couldn't getten married in.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Another like we do say that a lot. That's so funny.
I was the.
Speaker 5 (15:28):
Lady, Yeah, I was.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
I was the She was my little lady, and I
was the big burly man.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
With a lot of chest hair. So funny. But you
have the energy of her husband with your chart for sure,
because byah, your Pisces rising Maya, and so that means
that your seventh house of marriage is in Virgo.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
I keep attracting virgos. That's another thing I want to
talk about offline.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Is how do I delete that part?
Speaker 1 (15:59):
We move it?
Speaker 5 (16:00):
And do we move it?
Speaker 1 (16:01):
If I'm born?
Speaker 4 (16:04):
That there you go. You have to be reborn. But no,
I mean clearly, you guys were destined to be super
close and to have this great connection and this great
intimate friendship and relationship because of your virgal stallium Curly,
and to be great co workers as well. You have
your scorpio moon Curly and your rising that goes into
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Maya's ninth house. And the ninth house is the house
of travel and your belief systems, but it's actually one
of the platonic friendship houses. So often when people are
good friends, you'll see that one person's planets will often
go into the other person's ninth house. You also see
that in the third and the eleventh as well.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
So my chart's like, we're just friends.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
He's a gay, he's a game. That's a gay guy.
But that's so funny.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Maybe that's why we're both single because we're like, man,
it feels that thing already right.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
Yeah. Interesting, It's almost like the universe is like, yeah,
you guys, the stars are confused.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
You already have a husband, it seems according to this chart,
there's a typo here on this section.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
I'm a gay, I'm a gay the musical.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
Wait, what what's in what's in my love? What's in
my love section? What sign is good for me to
fall in love with?
Speaker 4 (17:34):
So for you, curly Taurus is actually going to be
a great sign for you to fall in love with,
as well as Pisces Piscy.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Yeah, we did say that. I did. I did tell my.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Backscratcher, the backscratcher, my handy backscratcher with me. I told
Maya that you had told me, like, oh yeah, Tauruses
were kind of like the space that I was going
to be.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
In speaking of love.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, Like in terms of compatibility or sinastri if you're nasty, like,
do you find that Like a lot of times people
are like, am I compatible with the sign? Like for example,
my parents, right, my parents are my dad is an
Aquarius and my mom's a Taurus, which probably aren't like
the signs that you would expect.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
To be in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
And even though they've had a tumultuous relationship, like a
very tumultuous, like very crazy relationship, they're still together after
like forty plus years. Like, what do you think about
like compatibility in terms of like astrology, like finding love
through astrology?
Speaker 4 (18:39):
Yeah, you know a lot of times people default to
the sun's sign for that. And just like you said,
your parents have different sun signs that aren't typically compatible,
but it's actually the rising sign. Back to the rising sign. Man,
that's what we're taking from this is the rising sign
is everything. The rising sign will really tell you who
you're going to be most compatible with. So I wonder
if your parents maybe have compatible rising signs because someone's
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rising sign really determines the kind of role they're going
to play in your life. Wow.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Yeah, so my parents, my mom's rising is Aquarius, my
dad's rising is Libra.
Speaker 4 (19:13):
That's actually perfect because as your dad being a Libra rising,
that means that his fifth house of love and romance
is Aquarius. Oh wow, and then your mom being an Aquarius,
she falls right into that playing that role for him
of love romance. Yeah. Wow, Yes, it's incredible. So currently
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your best match would actually be a tourist rising, not
necessarily a touris son, although you would do great with
the tourists on that as well because of all your
Virgo energy depending on their rising.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Interesting, I think I know a toyst rising that's wild,
But I mean then that kind of like determines like
how well you guys would get along, or it's not
like sett and Stone right, like you can still go
against the odds basically, like.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
You can still.
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Yeah, there's so much that goes into it. So that's
just one small piece, but I mean we would look
at lots of other pieces. So for example, the moon
is your feelings, and so if another person has planets
that connect to your moon in a healthy way, then
you guys are going to feel good when you're together.
Something you see a lot in romantic compatibility is when
one person's venus is in the same sign as another
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person's moon. Because Venus and astrology is a planet of
love and the moon is feelings, so you put them
together and feelings of love. You see that?
Speaker 5 (20:34):
Another Yeah, yeah, I remember you.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
I was talking to someone and I gave you their listen.
Me and Melissa we talk all the time about like
I'm always like hey girl, uh so, but this one
guy had an Ari's moon. I also have an Aries moon,
but I have an Aris venus and you were like, oh,
this is actually a really good match. But I didn't
like him because he was kind of weird. But how
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important is what is the Venus sign? And like what
does it represent?
Speaker 4 (21:03):
Because at first.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
I was like thinking venus, was like, oh, that's the
sign has to be compatible with another person's venus.
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Yeah, well that's the thing. It's never going to be
one thing, you know, so you can't pinpoint it to
oh just because of this one venus, this is going
to be the one. It's always going to be a
lot of different things you have to take into consideration
and how they work together. But Venus is the planet
of love and marriage is the planet of attraction. So
it's in your own chart. It's what you are attracted
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to and how you are in romantic relationships, your love style,
and what you find attractive basically, so it's you know,
it represents a few different things, but it is important
for sure, and compatibility and its industry.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Wow, I remember like one thing too, like because also
I guess everything every planet matters or like, because even
with moons, I've heard that if your moon is completely
not compatible with the other person's moon as well, like,
that's also something to look at as well.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Yeah, oh, so having compatible moons is always extra nice
because you guys experience emotions in a way that the
other person is able to respect, understand and recognize in
a similar way. But if your moons are not compatible,
that's not going to end or break things either, because
perhaps maybe the moon isn't compatible, but the risings in
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the sun are. Maybe there's like Jupiter connecting to someone's
venus or something. So there's again so many different moving
pieces that we would look at to determine the compatibility.
But I mean, at the most basic level, you know
that if someone's moon sign is compatible with your moon sign,
then that's there's at least that most basic level of
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compatibility there in terms of how you process emotions.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
Can I ask you why you might think that literally
all of my ex boyfriends have been Leo moons an
Unoscorpio moon, Like why why?
Speaker 4 (22:57):
Like, oh my goodness, Well, you know that's really interesting
because Leo for you, curly is actually your tenth house,
which is the house of work and public image. But
you know what it is, it's probably maybe you're Jupiter
and Aries because Aries is a fire sign and Leo
is a fire sign, and so Aries connecting to their
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Leo moon, Your Aries Jupiter connecting to their Leo moon
means that they feel good around you. You feel really
good to be around to them. That could be what's
like attracting you guys, perhaps, But yeah, it's interesting because
you don't have a lot of fire signs in your
chart other than that Aries Jupiter, but Aries Jupiter.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Interesting? Yeah, interesting?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
I mean our other Bessie Joyce once said that I
was like a human prozac for her, So I can
see why my exes might feel good around me as well.
Speaker 4 (23:50):
There you go.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
So what are some ways to find how we'll meet
the one? Right? I know we talked about at one
point in time, like the seventh and eighth house.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yeah, how do we find the one?
Speaker 5 (24:03):
How do we find oh my goodness?
Speaker 4 (24:06):
Yeah, you know that everyone wants to know how do
I find the one? When they're using astrology, So you know,
you want to think about these seasons that we go
throughout the year where there are different sun signs that
come up and different Venus signs. Venus stays in the
same sign for about like a month or so, and
so if you know your time of birth, you look
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up your rising sign and then whatever is the sign
opposite to your rising signs to make it as simple
as possible. So Curly, you're Scorpio rising. The opposite sign
to Scorpio is Taurus. So whenever we are in Taurus season,
that's going to be a heightened time where you can
meet someone.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
Oh okay, what about me?
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Whenever we are in Virgo season, that's a great time
for you to meet someone. But also your fifth house sign,
so Curly for you, that's piscey, it's so Piscy season
as well. Pisce season tourist season are going to be
times when it's heightened for you to meet someone. For Maya.
For you, that'll be cancer season and Virgo season and Maya.
You actually have some stuff coming up this year that
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is really going to increase your chances of meeting the one.
Speaker 5 (25:16):
I'm really excited, you know what, I feel?
Speaker 3 (25:19):
It so hardcore, it is crazy because also like my birthdays,
it keeps saying like three twenty five ninety three at
five twenty three am, and I'm turning thirty two next year.
My life path number is five three plus two is five.
Is that it's twenty twenty five next year. I just
feel like there's just the numbers are just numbering, and
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they're so esthetically casing that I'm like, there's there's something great. Yeah,
obviously around the corner always, but like something about the numbers.
Speaker 5 (25:50):
I'm like, wait a second.
Speaker 4 (25:52):
Oh, yeah, for sure. It's you know, not even just
the numbers, but with the astrology because of the eclipse's
going into your seventh house, clips is represent massive change,
and so we're going to be experiencing some massive change
in that seventh pousive relationships over the next year and
a half for you and Jupiter, the planet of blessings
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is going to go into your fifth house of romance
and dating. So that's super exciting.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
What does that mean for people?
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Like, so when people find out what your rising sign is,
figure out what the opposite is on the chart, like
what's directly opposite to them, what Google is, and then
during that season, it's a good time to go out,
wear your freakom dressed and flirt or get or download
a dating app and see what's.
Speaker 4 (26:39):
Up exactly, so you find out what your rising sign is,
find out the opposite, which is also known as the
sister sign. And then during that season just join all
the dating apps except all the dates, go out and
meet people, put yourself out there more and just I
mean if you could do it all year long, but
those are the times throughout the year where you're going
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to have the most heightened chance of meetings.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
And are you looking to date, like finding specifically the
opposite of your rising sign.
Speaker 4 (27:10):
That is so hard. Ideally you would, but it's so
hard because a lot of people don't know their birth time,
so you know, if you can definitely grab someone's birth
time as you're getting to know them so that you
can check.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
But isn't there been an astrology app? Melissa?
Speaker 3 (27:26):
You need to make an astrology dating app?
Speaker 4 (27:29):
Yes, you know what I always talk about that that
is what we are missing. I would love to be
able to do that. Someday it would get on you
tell me, Yeah, I would have the most success rate,
I believe out of any dating app.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Wait, I think I think co Star has it or
The Pattern The Pattern has one of them has a
dating section. Yeah, I've only used it onceeteen.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
Or something, and it's like only your friends though, right,
it's like only who you add or is it like
a bigger dating app?
Speaker 1 (28:01):
I think it's like a dating thing. I believe that.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
I think I used to nineteen yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Download it now. I think there's a dating section.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
Did you meet anyone?
Speaker 2 (28:13):
You know what's crazy is that there was a time,
there was a year there was this, without saying too much,
there was a space and time. No not on the
app to answer your question, but there was a space
of time where you told me that I was going
to meet somebody on this year according to a particular sign,
that was going to be like something that really moved
me spiritually. And you were so accurate, you were so right,
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like it was exactly the sign you said it was
going to be, and it.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Was like it was.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
It was an impactful year and an impactful relationship at
the time. But I wonder too, like do you find
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that like people mostly are using Do you think people
use astrology for love mostly and to kind of like
figure themselves out, because I feel like that's the only
thing when it comes to like finances and stuff. I
never like pay attention too hard, but when it comes
to love and tell me more about me.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Like that's when I dive into astrology.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Yeah, it depends where people are in life. You know.
I talk to people who are asking all different kinds
of questions. If people are single, that does tend to
be their number one question is love, for sure, but
people in relationships will ask about career or children or
just like personal transformations. There's so much you can dive
into and discover because throughout different points in your life,
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planets are moving into different houses and different signs and
activating different areas, and so there's always something transforming in
your life any given time based off of where the
planets are.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
Yeah, so now we have like some questions that are
a life chaotic. But you know how people say Geminis
are two faced, Like what is your opinion on that?
And why do you think they say that? Oh my goodness,
poor Gemini. They get such a bad rep Yeah. No,
I love Geminis because I'm a.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Sad too too.
Speaker 4 (30:17):
They're fellow mutable signs. So I think that's what it is.
I think it's the mutable energy of Gemini and Gemini
being probably like the most mutable sign. Mutable is like
water like they just fit into any mold that you
put them, and so they know how to hang out
with all different kinds of people and get along with them.
Speaker 5 (30:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
So it's funny because I don't know if you guys
have ever seen the funny meme that goes viral often
about like the most serial killers and their signs.
Speaker 5 (30:46):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, aren't they aries?
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Aren't they Virgo? I feel like I always see this
being Virgo, you know.
Speaker 4 (30:53):
What, It's usually the mutable signs. So you'll see like Sagittarius, Virgo,
Pisces and jem and I a lot. But wow, the
reason I think my theory is is because of the
mutable energy of someone, in one setting, they can be
like a crazy murder and then in another setting they
can you know, go back into society and mold and act,
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you know however whoever they're around at the time. So
mutable is really awesome because it has that ability to
kind of shape shift almost in a way, and to
fit in with whatever environment that they're in. It doesn't
have to be a toxic quality. That can be a
really helpful quality when you really think about it. But
you know, I guess people have just had individually bad
experiences or it's just a bad rumor that we can't
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get rid of for some reason. I love Gemini.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
They're so fun.
Speaker 5 (31:40):
Yeah, I love Geminis.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
They're so fun and I feel like there, yes, they
can adapt to any situation. I feel like people don't
like the duality of them, Like they want people to
stay kind of consistent in their feelings or their beliefs,
and I feel like Gemnis are very much like I
don't feel like that anymore. Actually want to go or
I want to hang out with someone else, or I
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want to my opinion has changed. I feel like people
find that as like two faced right, and it's just
kind of like they have autonomy over their own feelings
and decisions, Like what's wrong with that?
Speaker 6 (32:11):
You know?
Speaker 1 (32:12):
Yeah? I like all my job and I friends.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
I feel like I feel very like I always have
such magical, beautiful experiences with them, Like I always have
an unexpected time where I just like, if I let
them take me where they want to take me, I'm
always like that was really enjoyable. Thank you for planning
that for us, you know, Like, who do you feel like?
Speaker 1 (32:33):
Is? So?
Speaker 2 (32:35):
I did a survey on my Instagram once where I
said who do you think is the most like toxic sign?
And we'll give our own opinion about this later on
and this episode, But like between toxic, I mean between air, water, fire,
and Earth. I feel like the Earth signs are the
most toxic.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
But like who do who would you say?
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Like maybe not from experience, but from like overall, like
who do you think is the most toxic?
Speaker 4 (33:02):
You know, it's funny because all twelve signs are toxic.
For sure. We are all toxic in some way somehow,
And if we really wanted to, we could dive in
and like nitpick every sign. But I can see why
you think Earth is the most toxic, because they have
some qualities that can be challenging to deal with. But
in my experience, I have found water signs, So that's
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going to be Scorpio, Pisces, and cancer.
Speaker 5 (33:27):
I agree.
Speaker 4 (33:28):
And the reason I say that is because there you're
so emotional. They're known as the most emotional signs, which
is a beautiful thing when it manifests in a healthy way,
But sometimes the emotions you can't see past that. When
you get really deep in your feelings, your feelings are
hurt and you're angry, It's like screw everyone else, you know,
it's all.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
About it's just emotions taking me over. But like I
think that Earth signs read a little bit more toxic
because there's this like they just dig their feet into
the ground and they are just so stubborn, and I
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feel like it's like a little bit harder for them
to grow and to understand other perspectives.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
A lot of this is coming from a virgo.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
By the way, Like I just feel like with water signs, yes,
the emotion's there, but if you can kind of communicate
with them in a way that it's like no, but
do you see why, Like they'll get it eventually, you know,
Like and then fire signs, I'm like they're probably just
give them some space and they'll be fine. And then
Air signs, I feel like they don't care about shit.
They're just like they're already out the room. They're already
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in the car.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
You know, it's really in the car.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
They left five Actually they did even show up.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
They didn't even show Yeah, they're gone. They're will be
like I don't know, they just are doing their own thing.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, or they intellectualized things too much. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
Speaking of scorpios, though, there's it is said that Scorpios
are also just the best lovers.
Speaker 4 (34:53):
Oh, Scorpios are so passionate. It's a sign of passion
and deep intimacy, so that's probably where you get that from.
In astrology, Scorpio is ruled by the eighth House, and
the eighth House is the house of sex and death
and transformation and intensity, so that's where that comes from.
Scorpio's very passionate, very intense. They're the sign that wants
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to love you with their whole heart, mind, body, and soul,
and they want me to love them with that same
type of intensity in return, could be overwhelming if you're
not the right mix for them.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
Can I bring you both in close for one second?
I learned how to be a better lover because of this. Woo. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
They literally like walked me through some shit and they
were like, no, do it this way, and I'm like, wow,
that works so much better than anyways.
Speaker 4 (35:45):
That's perfect, a better sign. That's amazing.
Speaker 3 (35:51):
So who is going to have the best year for
twenty twenty five? When people are listening to this, it
is already twenty twenty five, So who's.
Speaker 5 (36:00):
Going to have the best year this year?
Speaker 7 (36:02):
Like?
Speaker 5 (36:02):
Based on your interpretations.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
Well, you know what cancer is what I am predicting
is going to have the best year because Jupiter is
moving into Cancer. You know what, actually cancer and Gemini.
Let's say cancer and Gemini, because Jupiter will be in
their sign in twenty twenty five. For the first half
we have Gemini, and then for the second half beginning
in June, we have cancer and Jupiter, being the planet
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of blessings and happiness and good vibes and good luck,
good fortune. Whenever it moves into a certain sign, anyone
who has planets in that sign will be hit by
Jupiter at some point in the year, and so it's
going to be some good stuff for our Geminis and cancers. Ooh,
you hear.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
That Geminis and cancers.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
And on the flip, who do you think is going
to have like a wild year or like I don't.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
Want to hear this one.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
Oh my goodness, maya Aries. I'm gonna see aes.
Speaker 5 (37:02):
Somebody so much for listening so much? Well, no, yeah,
I feel it.
Speaker 4 (37:08):
No. Yeah. The reason I say that there's a lot
of action in aries coming up in twenty twenty five.
We have Saturn. It's going to go into Aries on
May twenty fourth, we have Neptune is going to go
into aries on March thirtieth, and so you know Neptune
already and Saturn. That's that's a big load there. Uh
and then Youranus is also going to go into aries
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and you're what, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 5 (37:37):
We were talking about that earlier, Melissa. She was like,
I don't know if I should say it this way
or that way.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Just it, you know what, so funny.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
Yeah, people don't. Some people pronounce it your honest because
it's less scandalous. But I grew up pronouncing it uranus.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
I'm so stun it that way or like urinus urinus.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Yeah, to my fellow aries out there, do not get scared.
This is the thing about Aris is that we're so
resilient and like I'm kind of excited, like, yeah, bring
it on, like what because it's only going to promote
character development, you know, And I'm like, if that's going
to be an interesting year, like then I'm just going
to be more interesting and it's going to be amazing
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and great.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
I'm so.
Speaker 4 (38:26):
But all of us, honestly, I mean, because those are
planets that will impact all of us. They're really slow
moving planets, and for all of them to change signs
and one year is is huge, And.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
You said that has never really happened before.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
It is so rare to have all of those slow
because they all change signs at different at a different pace,
you know. So like Saturn changes signs like every three years,
and then Uranus I think it's like every seven years,
and then Neptune, I think it's like every fourteen years,
and so they're all over the place, tipic, but they're
all moving at the same time in twenty twenty five,
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So that really I think represents a shift in the
collective and society and life as we know it. The
world is going to start to look really different.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Oh my god, are we going to be okay?
Speaker 4 (39:15):
I think so. I think we'll be okay.
Speaker 5 (39:17):
There's a slight pause in that thing.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (39:21):
I'm a Sagittarius. I want to be optimistic. Sagittarius is
very glass half full. I want to believe that it'll
be for the best.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
You know.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
It's interesting it's lining up with AI, and AI is
becoming a big thing now because your AIS deals so
much with technology, and we also have Pluto and Aquarius
now as well. And so we're definitely going to see
a lot of movement in terms of technology and AI.
I expect a lot of advancements in that area.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
I guess my other question too is like, and this
is before we go to our shorttgey section. My last
question is do you think that based off of the
signs that your parents are, do you find that they
also are can be passed down to you? Because I
actually feel like I have a lot of my dad's
Aquarius energy and a lot of my mom's Taurus energy,
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where like my mom is very like, oh you're know
what school, like, I don't go right, don't. I'm not
familiar with She's a little bit more shy with things.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
But my dad is like you, he'll know.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Like we went to the supermarket and the ladies at
the supermarket were like said to me, like, is this
your dad? Like, oh my god, you guys are the
same person. We should have known this was your dad
because we talked to everybody. So like, do we carry
any of our parents' signs too?
Speaker 4 (40:36):
Yeah, that's a cool question. And you know what's so
cool too, is your fourth house of parents is in
the sign Aquarius, So oh wow, Yeah, it's cool because
you're you know, your dad fits right into that. But
you know where I would see where I see the
biggest connection. Well, you know, there's also the argument of
like nature versus nurture, how much of your personality is
based off of your astrology chart versus how you're raised
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and what you pick up from your parents and how
they raise you. But there's definitely a connection with the moon,
for sure, because the moon represents the mother, and you'll
find that your moon sign and the aspects that hit
your moon a lot of the times are directly correlated
to what kind of mom you had, how she treated you,
how you felt your relationship with her was how you
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experienced her. It's really cool when you look at siblings
because you'll have three kids that grow up in the
exact same house with the exact same parents, but they
all view their parents so extremely differently, and they all
had such unique experiences with the same parent, but the
parent was different to each of those children based off
of those children having different sun and moon signs.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Wow, yeah, yeah, Earth sign. So I'm like annoyed by
all of us.
Speaker 4 (41:49):
Yeah, but no, you know, there's always a connection with
the sun and moon because the son represents the father
in astrology, and the moon represents the mother. And so
when you look at your chart, you could look at
the aspects and learn a lot about, you know, the
kind of parent that you had. Like for example, if
your son is conjoined to Saturn, a lot of times
that can show a father who was very overprotective or
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restrictive in some way.
Speaker 2 (42:13):
If your son is conjoined to Saturn, you said right
to Saturn.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
What is conjoined mean?
Speaker 4 (42:19):
So conjoined is one of the aspects in astrology. It's
when the sun is in the same sign. Not the
sun that could be any planet. It's when one planet
is in the same sign as another planet and they're together,
cause you think of them kind of like conjoined twins. Okay,
you know, So that's just like one example. You know,
if your moon is training Venus. Venus is the planet
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of love, but it represents the mother, so there's a
lot of love there between you and your mom. Venuses
the arts and creativity. Maybe your mother was an artistic,
creative person or wanted to instill that in you. So
you can learn a lot about your parents through your
astrology chart. It's amazing because it's not even just your parents.
It can be any of your relationship. We can learn
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about your spouse through your chart, and your children, and
your coworkers. Like Curly, you have aries on your sign
of coworkers, and here you are with Maya double aries.
You know, so it's amazing what you can learn about
your relationships.
Speaker 3 (43:28):
Welcome to the astrology portion of the podcast. Even though
we've been talking about astrology, we just want Melissa's opinion
on this. I mean, of course you're always an astrologer, right,
but what we just want to know your toxic petty opinion.
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Okay, yeah, put your professional hat aside.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
Yeah, tell us like.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
Petty, petty betty.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Okay, yes, okay, who in your life personally has been
the most toxic sign for you?
Speaker 5 (44:08):
Ooh oh, you don't have to drop any names. You
don't have to drop any names. Just like what which sign?
Speaker 4 (44:14):
Okay? So I'm gonna say cancer. Oh, and you know
they have such beautiful qualities. But I am a Sagittarius
son with an aries moon, and I have a Sagittarius stelium.
I have a lot of fire in me and these
are very independent, loving signs, and so they just are
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not compatible with cancer. Cancer is very much a homebody,
family oriented, and it's represented by the crab. And when
you think of crabs clinging on with a little claus,
I have found some cancers personally to be a little
too clinky for my very freedom loving Sagittarius and aris energy.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
Oh what about you, Maya?
Speaker 3 (44:54):
Who's Oh my goodness, I want to say Libra?
Speaker 5 (45:03):
Oh really yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
I don't know any toxic libras. I don't know any toxic.
Speaker 5 (45:08):
Libra or.
Speaker 3 (45:11):
Virgos that I've dated for sure, And I would say, uh,
libres because I've lived with some libras and I just
feel like the ones I've come across have been low
vibrating libras.
Speaker 5 (45:23):
I love all libras.
Speaker 3 (45:24):
I think they're amazing and beautiful and so smart and ethereal.
Speaker 5 (45:29):
But the ones that I've come across I've had some.
Speaker 3 (45:32):
Beef with, have been fake to me and have been
a little like kind of like kissing your ass and
then like later on you hear from somebody else that,
oh they said this about you, and I'm like, just
say it to my face, like what do you?
Speaker 5 (45:47):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Like I feel like they have a lot of like
wishy washy energy, like these are the kind of like
you know, and I'm sure the cancers you're talking about
Melissa too, are like the ones where you're like they
need they have not started their healing journey yet, you know.
So definitely not saying all libras are wishy washy or anything,
but like, you know, I know aris have the tendency
of definitely being like just very loud and very.
Speaker 5 (46:11):
Like center of attention and all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (46:13):
And I don't feel like I'm I feel like I
can be like that in some areas, but I feel
like my pisces really comes out if we're talking about toxicity,
you know, so I don't know what other influences those
libras have had in their chart, you know. So definitely
not saying all libras.
Speaker 4 (46:29):
But yeah, no, but those are actually some toxic libric
traits that are like well known to be toxic libra
traits when a libra is not manifesting in a healthy
way for sure, because they're the people pleasers of the zodiac.
Speaker 3 (46:42):
Dad, and I can see right through that as a
reformed people pleaser, where I'm like, you don't have to
do this, like just because like you don't have to
say these things just to make me your friend. I'm
already your friend, Like, yeah, this is not how I
connect with people is by kissing my ass or compliments
like let's just spend some time together.
Speaker 4 (47:03):
It's funny because you're in double aries and aries is
the complete opposite sign of Libret's. It's on the opposite
side of the ZODIACO.
Speaker 5 (47:11):
Yeah, that probably has a lot to do with them.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
What do you think, really, I was gonna say, for me,
it's been Earth signs, even though they're my own sign.
I feel like we're just so. I think a lot
of Earth signs have like rocked me in this life.
But and then I would say that on the flip though,
the sign who has taught me the most about love
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and compassion, I would say is cancer on my end,
because I feel like because of my verrbeness, and I
think also because of the way that I was raised, truly,
like the relationship that I had with my mom, and
my mom wasn't rayly like Gadinho saw with me. My
dad was, but my mom wasn't so kadinno or the
nurturing aspect of what you might expect the mother to be,
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Like like I just didn't really have and so when
I dated lot of the cancers in my life, like
I've had three cancer boyfriends, and they all were like
the fairies from like Sleeping Beauty, Like they were all
like like you know, uh, the red one, the green one,
the little blue one, and they all gave me like
little gifts, right, and each one of them really showed
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me so many They reflected so many of my own
habits back to me that I was like, oh, that's
what I'm supposed to do, Like, oh, so when somebody
is sick, I'm supposed to be more like nurturing and
care for them, like because like you know, I had
one boyfriend was cancer and he was like he took
care of me when I was sick, and then when
he was sick, I left. I was like I'm not
trying to get sick again, and I literally left. And
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I just think like, oh, man, like now I know
because of how he taught me. You stay, you make
a little guy though, You get a little you know,
fresh squeeze orange shoes, and if you really want to
go the extra mile, maybe get some flowers, you know
what I mean, like just a little bit more like guiding, yo.
And I think that for me was where I learned love.
But I also wanted to ask you, like, what sign
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did you learn and love about in your life or
love from in your own life?
Speaker 4 (49:03):
Well, you know, curly, by the way, that makes so
much sense because cancer is your ninth house sign and
that's the house of wisdom, and so you gain a
lot of wisdom from that sign cancer.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (49:15):
Yeah, yeah, so that actually it makes perfect sense. And cancer,
like I said, it's a beautiful sign when it manifests
in a healthy way, they're very loyal and loving, and
so yeah, that makes a lot of sense. But I
think the sign, Oh that's a good question. What sign
have I learned the most from? You know what? I
think it's going to be Taurus for me.
Speaker 1 (49:38):
And every time they say that, you know.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Taurus is my husband's a tourist rising and one of
my best friends is the Taurus' son, and and Taurus
is actually my north node sign. And so part of
my destiny in this life is to learn to be
more like a Taurus and to head more into in
that direction of tourists qualities and trades. And I don't
really have a lot of Earth in my chart at all,
so they usually have traits that I lack and they're
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so grounded and stable and you know, just down to
earth and it's so I feel like I've been able
to learn a lot from their energy and just kind
of chilling out. My husband is just like a rock,
you know. Taurus is like such an Earth sign and
he's just the most chill person. And I suffer from
anxiety and my emotions are all over the place and
he helps me to He helps to like ground me.
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I love the Taurist grounding energy.
Speaker 3 (50:30):
Also side note, I've been so distracted this entire time
because I got my mom and iPad pro for for Christmas.
Speaker 5 (50:38):
And for her birthday.
Speaker 3 (50:39):
So she was just like full on opening it at
this like the slowest pace. She was like like staring
at me, and I'm like, I don't know if you
could hear that gut eat it, but just that way
I like.
Speaker 4 (50:52):
And then she goes like this to it.
Speaker 5 (50:54):
She goes like the kids arets praying over it.
Speaker 2 (50:59):
Here you go go ahead, girl, what side have you
learned from the most you think like love and positive.
Speaker 3 (51:07):
I would say Sagittarius for sure, And let me let
me think Sagittarius, Pisces, little bit of aries Virgo for sure.
But I think just like I feel like I I
tend to forget about the light and like the playfulness
(51:30):
about love and about life, and I feel like Fire
Signs have really kind of like shook me and been like, hey,
this is gonna be all good, Like this is gonna
be fine. I feel like I need to be surrounded
more by by that energy that's that's like come on,
let's get up and go, like let's do this, Like
I need to not sit in my feelings.
Speaker 5 (51:50):
As much as I've been doing this year.
Speaker 3 (51:52):
And I feel like they've really pulled me up and
out of like the spiral that I've been in.
Speaker 5 (51:58):
And I think Gemini's too.
Speaker 3 (52:01):
I'm just gonna name them all, No, but I think
like Sagittarius for sure has just been like just such
a safe, safe place, one of the most like soft
safe places for me to be in because it.
Speaker 5 (52:16):
Just I just feel like warm and.
Speaker 7 (52:20):
I don't know, you know, we love you Maya, Oh,
I went love you guys, my gosh, I have so
I this has been I love Sagittarius season because I
have so many friends who are sages and every single
time I'm.
Speaker 5 (52:35):
Like, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 3 (52:36):
Let's do this like another sa birthday, and then my
bestie Joyce, her mom's birthday is December ninth. My other
best friend's birthday is December ninth, and then my mom's
birthday is the tenth, and then our other best friend,
Guy the Yells, birthdays on the eleventh.
Speaker 4 (52:50):
You know.
Speaker 3 (52:51):
So it just is like, I don't know, they just
keep me afloat and keep me like today.
Speaker 1 (52:59):
Yeah, I was like, wait, yes, birthday today.
Speaker 5 (53:05):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (53:06):
So I love Sagittarius and I kind of want to
find more about them because I was reading somebody's chart
last night about Sagittarius moons and I'm like, oh, it's
I feel like it's an interesting placement to have, Like,
I know aries, I know, like a Gemni moon or
I know, a Libra moon, but Sagittarius moons are very interesting.
Speaker 4 (53:24):
Yeah. You know my husband's actually a Sagittarius moon. Oh
really Yeah, so they're cool. Do you find them to
be very chill or they can be.
Speaker 3 (53:33):
This was the first time I came across somebody with
like a Sagittarius moon. That was I mean, they weren't
like close to me, but I just didn't know how
to interpret it.
Speaker 4 (53:43):
Yeah, yeah, so Sagittarius moon because Sagittarius connects to the
ninth house in astrology, it's ruled by the ninth it's
the house of wisdom. So Sagittarius energy is like a professor.
It's like the professor of the zodiac. Oh yeah, they
could be a little absent minded, so it's like a
little scatterbrained, absent minded professor that loves to learn. And
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so a lot of times you'll find that they're avid readers.
They love to read, they love to dive deep and
learn as much information as possible, and then they want
to let everyone know about whatever it is that they
learn because they want to share and put out the knowledge.
They're not gatekeepers at all. It's the opposite of a gatekeeper.
And they're very adventurous and spontaneous mutable as well, so
(54:25):
they go with the flow. They're not like stuck in
their ways. So yeah, I mean you'll find that when
you live. Because the moon sign is an astrology is
a sign you don't always necessarily get to see in
someone and see those trades in a person until you
get super close with them, and sometimes not even until
you live with them. So the moon sign is really
what you see when you live with someone. So when
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you get a boyfriend or a girlfriend and you move
in together, that's when their moon sign really really comes out.
Speaker 5 (54:53):
It's interesting.
Speaker 2 (54:55):
I always say, like your top three is like if
you imagine like going into work and hanging out with
your co workers, like that's like you're rising. And then
if you work together, you sit together, you start to
become friends. That's like your son. But if you live together,
that's like your moon. Like that's if you guys are like, yeah,
they see the real you.
Speaker 4 (55:15):
That's a year certified astrologer, Curly. That was really good.
Speaker 1 (55:18):
That was a.
Speaker 4 (55:18):
Great sounds good to me.
Speaker 2 (55:23):
That concludes our astrology section, Maya, how do you plead?
Speaker 5 (55:29):
This has been so informative.
Speaker 3 (55:30):
I feel like I could talk to you for hours
and hours and hours, so many questions, but thank you
so much Melissa for coming on. I feel so like,
I mean now I have even more like insight and
I feel like understanding of like our BFF dynamic, but
also like that next year is going to be pretty
crazy for me, which let's go, Yes, let's do it,
(55:54):
but yes, what are you?
Speaker 4 (55:55):
Curly?
Speaker 2 (55:56):
That was really amazing, Like I feel like I have
a better understanding too of like the different things that
might go into my chart. I want to go and
learn about the different houses now, Like I'm like, there's
got to be because when you said like, oh, it
feels like a calculus or something like that, like it
really does. Like the minute I saw that pie chart,
I was like, this is too much, Like I'm not sure.
I don't want to go to geometry class. I just
(56:16):
want to find out what my venus is in and
all that stuff. So like just hearing you kind of
break it down was really amazing. If there's one last message,
like click message do you want to give to our listeners?
What would you say, Melie?
Speaker 4 (56:30):
Yeah, I would say you have absolutely nothing to lose
by looking into your astrology chart a little bit further.
Even if it sounds insane to you, I encourage you
to just give it a shot. Look into it, read
a little bit more about what your rising sign is,
what your moon sign is, and see if it resonates
with you. Because a lot of times people are very
skeptical because they've just never looked into it at all.
(56:51):
But I truly believe if everyone actually gave it a
shot and dived a little deeper into the rising and
the moon, they would start to kind of resone and
it would peak their curiosity and they dive a little deeper.
So that's my my little message to the world is
you have nothing to lose by looking into this a
little bit further. It doesn't mean you're not cool. No
one has to know. You can delete your search history,
(57:16):
but you might find something valuable and something that resonates
with you. Yay.
Speaker 3 (57:19):
And where can people find you on social media?
Speaker 4 (57:22):
So on Instagram, I am at Melissa Stars with the
z Astrology and that's also my website. So actually my
website is Melissa Stars dot com. So Melissa starsw the
Z dot com. Melissa's m E. L I S s
a awesome.
Speaker 3 (57:38):
Yeah, and she also has this red Light green Light
newsletter that's really great that you guys should sign up
for into it and love it. Thank you so much
for being on the podcast and speaking with us. By
the way, she's Dominican, so I just wanted to shout
out to all the Dominican astrologers son and thank you
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guys for listening to another episode of the Super Secret
Bestie Club podcast Curly.
Speaker 5 (58:04):
How can they find you on social media?
Speaker 2 (58:06):
You can find me at the Curly v Show on
Instagram and TikTok maya. Where can people find you on
social media?
Speaker 3 (58:11):
You can find me at my moment m A y
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I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
I don't really identify with my star sign. Sometimes I
feel like I'm a little too messy to be a virgo.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
Yeah, well, I think I'm way to come and chill
to be in aries.
Speaker 4 (00:09):
You guys sound like you don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
What he Listen Stars Astrology, we're your biggest fans.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
You guys, get in here.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Nope, you get in here.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
No, you get in here. My name is Curly and
I'm Maya and.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Welcome to the Super Secret Besty Club Podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Get in Welcome to another episode of the Super sleekert
Rusty Club Podcast.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Curly, how is your spirit?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
My spirit is a little questionable.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
We were talking earlier about how they stole my two
back tires of my car, and I was telling you
how it was crazy about getting somebody to toe my truck,
I mean, tell the car to the dealer and the
dealer was like bring it here, and the tow truck
was like, we can't. And there was a whole big
thing and you were like, well, it is retrograde, and
I'm like, girl, I was trying to ignore that so hard.
(01:16):
I saw somebody posted me and I was like, not
for me, not retrograde from me. But apparently the grading
is grading.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
We are retro Apparently. Yeah, it's my mom's birthday.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Oh and we're just filming this on December eleventh, So yes,
we had a fun birthday extravaganza Sagittarius.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
And I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Episode because we have the iconic Melissa stars astrology here
to talk about everything in all things astrology. And just
to start off, is it retrograde Melissa?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
It sure is. These are two kind with that intro whoa,
oh my.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
God, how's your spirit? Listen, how are you feeling?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I'm doing okay. I'm hanging in there. This retrograde season,
they tend to hit me pretty hard too, but it
hasn't been too bad this time around. Retrograde is it's
for real. People think it's you know, it's who woo
woo and all this, but no retrograde will cause all
kinds of issues, tech issues, car issues. See.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I don't know if I feel like it's woo woo.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
For me, it's more like if I'm pretending like it's
not there, Like I'm just going to turn the blind eye.
Like it's like I just don't want to Maybe if
I ignore it it maybe if I ignore.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
It long enough, it'll ignore me too. But I don't
know that that.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Yeah, just don't look at it in the eyes.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Yeah, if only I wish that's how astrology worked. No,
it's I feel so empowering to know about this kind
of stuff because it helps you make better life decisions
and so many people just don't end their victims to
the stars without it been realizing it.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Wow, how how did you even get started in all this?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
So I actually got started in astrology when I was
fifteen years old, and that was many many moons ago.
I was really into reading horoscopes and so like your
ma Maya, I'm a Sagittarius as well, and so I
would read about the sign Sagittarius and I could relate
to some things but not to others. And then one
day I found out that I was a Scorpio rising
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and that explained everything. It was like putting all the
pieces of the puzzle together, and I just became hooked
and I was like, oh my god, this this explains
it all I need to learn more and the rest
is history. I just started diving in and realizing how
complex it is and I couldn't get enough.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
You also were just certified for what was it called again.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
As astrocotography astro catographyful, what is that?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
And tell us what that means?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yeah, astrakhotography is basically locational astrology. So it's the astrology
of place. It's finding the best place to live based
on the stars essentially. So it's crazy to think that
where you're currently located it's influenced by certain planets and
it impacts the quality of life that you have there. Wow,
astrology is wild like it It is so complex, it
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goes so deep it is.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
And for like the skepticals out there, how accurate do
you find astrology to be?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Oh my gosh, it's everything. It's so accurate, it really is.
But I can understand why they are skeptics, Like it
makes sense to me why it sounds crazy because it's like,
how how do planets impact me on Earth? I have
free will? It just doesn't make sense. And all they
know is their sun's signs. But once you really get
into it and you start to study how deep it
(04:50):
goes and how complex and how there's so many moving
pieces and you start to put them together, it just
all starts to make sense. It's crazy, it's.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Yes, yes, So we're going to to be talking about
a lot of different things on this episode. I just
wanted to get over some quick questions, some general info.
If you are just listening and you only really know
about your sun sign, we have a professional here to
let you know.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Just some a little little insight.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
You know what people say you're big three, Like you've
heard that, like I've That's that's like a I feel
like a new buzzword that I've heard, Like, oh, what's
your big three? It's almost like the same thing as like, uh,
you know, what's your love language nowadays? So can you
explain to us, like what do they mean when they
say you're big three?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Absolutely? Yeah. So the rising sign, as I just mentioned,
which is how I even got into astrology, your sun
sign and your moon sign. So rising sun and moon
are the big three. Everyone knows your sun sign. When
someone asks you what's your sign, you respond with your
sun sign. It's the sign that the sun was in
on the day that you were born, and the sun
stays in the same sign for about thirty days about
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a month, so we have twelve months in the year,
twelve signs in astrology. But the moon sign changes about
every two and a half days, and that impacts your emotions.
It's how you feel, how you process emotions, your relationship
with your mother, how you experience your mother. And then
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your rising sign changes about every two hours to every
one hour, which is why you could be born on
the same exact day as another person and be totally
different if you were born at different hours, and that
impacts how people see you. It's like the masks that
you wear to the outside world, but it's not really
a mask because it's who you really are.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I also wanted to touch up on like a lot
of people talk about that they don't even know where
to identify within because there's like the new astrology sign
that people are talking about.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Like is that a thing? Like am I a Leo?
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Now?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Is my epieceas like is that a thing? And why
why don't we identify as the new signs?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah, oh my gosh, I hear that all the time. Yeah,
it's definitely a rumor. Out there, But we follow Western astrology,
which is called tropical astrology, and that is based on
the seasons, so the seasons don't change, and therefore our
signs do not change. That rumor actually started from Eastern astrology,
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sidreal astrology, astrology which is based on the moving constellations,
which do change, and that's a totally different ballgame, a
totally different kind of astrology. So that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Who's like who started it? Like who was the most accurate? Yeah? Like, well,
like who would be like the most accurate?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Like if you were to be like, well, it's about
the stars, so why wouldn't we follow the stars?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Like why do you think that?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Maybe are do you feel like one is more accurate
than the other or no?
Speaker 4 (07:46):
So I don't know who started the room or actually
I think it was something about NASA put about some
article and then there's you know how miss information Harry's
today it is, But there's I wouldn't say one is
more accurate than the other. I would so you use
them differently. So our astrology is really great for knowing
yourself and understanding why you are the way that you
(08:08):
are the people in your life, whereas the other type
of astrology is better for they actually say predictions, so
when you want to predict, yeah, exact dates. Now, I
don't practice that astrology, so I can't speak too much
on it, but there's some accuracy to it from what
I've heard from other astrologers for sure as well. It's
(08:29):
just used very differently.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Wow, but we would be moved one back in that one.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Yes, yeah, and Vedic astrology is what it's called. So
you're a virgo right, curly, and so because in Vedic
astrology you would then be a Leo.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Crazy, I could see that, honestly, and I could see
myself being a Pisces for sure.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Well, you're a piece's rising, so you definitely have that
influence for sure. Regardless.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yeah, I don't know if I can see myself as
a Leo.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Maybe maybe you shine bright like a Leo.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Yeah, No, for sure, I think so. So for people
who also are confused when they look at their chart,
it can be pretty intimidating, right because there's just like
a lot of information. Can you give us just like
a basic understanding of what the houses mean, what the
planets mean?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Absolutely, Yeah, it's really overwhelming when you first look at it.
It's like you're looking at a calculus or something. It's
just it looks overwhelming, but it's really not. So there
are twelve houses in astrology, and it's when you look
at it, it's like a graph, and it's broken up
into twelve sections and they represent different areas of your life.
So you have the first house, which is you. It
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represents who you are, your physical body, your personality, and
then from there it just moves to every house, representing
different areas from money to marriage, children, family, your career,
and it really paints a full picture of your overall
life life. And then each of the planets will fall
into specific houses, and it's going to be different for everyone.
(10:06):
So maya, your twelve houses are going to contain planets
and different locations, and no one's chart is going to
look exactly like yours. So it's a complex web. Did
you guys want me to go into like explaining each
of the twelve houses, a little description of each one
of the twelve.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
I think that's good what you just did.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Yeah, yeah, no, yeah, I think I think we're excited
to get into like some of the thing, the meat,
the meaty part. But I also one last little like
question too, these are just like my own personal questions.
What sign do we If someone wants to read their horoscope,
like general horoscope, what sign should they be reading in
like their rising sign or their sun sign, moonsign, or
(10:47):
all of them.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
So reading your horoscope should always be based off of
your rising sign. If you have your birth time accurately,
then I would always read for your rising because horoscopes
are typically talking about the specific house where the action
is taking place. So if I'm talking about it, yeah,
so my seventh house is in Taurus. So if there's
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a horoscope for what's going on with taurust energy at
the time or planets transiting moving through Taurus, that's directly
going into my seventh house, and I would only accurately
clock that with the rising sign.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
So if you're sitting.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
At your breakfast table on Sunday morning and you're opening
up your paper like we're in like I don't know,
the eighties or something, and you're opening up your paper
and you look for like your zodiac sign and it
tells you this week is going to be great for
money or for love, you should go and look for
the sun your rising sign in that instead of your sun's.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
Sign absolutely, but still read your sun's sign. You'll still
get an influence to your son, because that's just like
your overall vitality and it does represent you. But the
rising is definitely going to trump the sun when it
comes to reading horoscopes.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Okay, rising is like we're everything. It's like a snapshot
of where the stars Like, yeah, can you explain that.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Yeah, the rising determines where all the planets fall and
where all the signs fall in your chart, so really
it's the most important part of a chart. It also
determines your chart ruler, which is a big major area
of your focus depending on what house it. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (12:21):
You know.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
Fun fact in the old days, back in ancient times,
when people would ask you what your sign is, people
would respond with their rising sign.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Oh interesting, wow.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
And then what happened was that, because they wanted to
make money off of horoscopes, a lot of people didn't
know their rising sign because it's hard to know what
time you were born. It's really easy to know your
sun signed because that doesn't change for a month. And
so because they wanted to monetize horoscopes, they decided to
go off of sun signs. Because you know, everyone knows
their sun sign and so.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Wow, yeah, so I would be like, I'm a Scorpio
and you would be.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Like a Pisces. Oh my god, we'd both be water signs.
Makes sense, Yeah, it doesn't make sense, makes a lot.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
It makes a lot of sense. But enough about you.
Let's talk about us, just a lot of it. Just kidding.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
We were talking about how you you had actually suggested it, Melie.
You were saying, how like to talk about the sinistry
between Maya and I and what that looks like and
like why our signs might get along or why they
might not get along.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
Yes, Sindistry is a fancy word in astrology for compatibility. Basically, oh, yeah, nasty,
if you're nasty. There you go, yeah, there you go,
And it's just compatibility. You pull up the two charts
and you lay one on top of the other, and
then you look at where one person's planets fall into
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another person's houses, and it tells you the story of
their relationship.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Oh what did you see, like a few things about
our friendship.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Yeah, so it's really cool because currently, as a Scorpio rising,
that means that your sixth house, which in astrology the
six house rules work and and it rules coworkers is
in the sign aries and Maya, what is your Sun
and Moon?
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (14:09):
Isn't that wild?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Crazy?
Speaker 5 (14:12):
And we met at work?
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Yeah at work, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
Yeah, you met.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
We worked together still yet.
Speaker 4 (14:34):
Yep yep. So in this ministry with her son and Moon,
which is a huge part of who Maya is, going
into Curly your six house of coworkers, you were destined
to have some sort of relationship where you work together somehow,
So it's literally how you met what you're doing now,
it's amazing. And Curly you are a Virgo stelium, so
(14:55):
you have your Sun, Venus, Mercury, and Mars all in Virgo.
We have a lot of heavy Virgo energy that all
goes into Maya's seventh house, which is the house of relationships.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Oh wow, I love that makes a lot of sense.
Is always she loves Virgo.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
My life.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
That's what we said, Like, what did you say you
couldn't getten married in.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Another like we do say that a lot. That's so funny.
I was the.
Speaker 5 (15:28):
Lady, Yeah, I was.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
I was the She was my little lady, and I
was the big burly man.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
With a lot of chest hair. So funny. But you
have the energy of her husband with your chart for sure,
because byah, your Pisces rising Maya, and so that means
that your seventh house of marriage is in Virgo.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
I keep attracting virgos. That's another thing I want to
talk about offline.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
Is how do I delete that part?
Speaker 1 (15:59):
We move it?
Speaker 5 (16:00):
And do we move it?
Speaker 1 (16:01):
If I'm born?
Speaker 4 (16:04):
That there you go. You have to be reborn. But no,
I mean clearly, you guys were destined to be super
close and to have this great connection and this great
intimate friendship and relationship because of your virgal stallium Curly,
and to be great co workers as well. You have
your scorpio moon Curly and your rising that goes into
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Maya's ninth house. And the ninth house is the house
of travel and your belief systems, but it's actually one
of the platonic friendship houses. So often when people are
good friends, you'll see that one person's planets will often
go into the other person's ninth house. You also see
that in the third and the eleventh as well.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
So my chart's like, we're just friends.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
He's a gay, he's a game. That's a gay guy.
But that's so funny.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Maybe that's why we're both single because we're like, man,
it feels that thing already right.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
Yeah. Interesting, It's almost like the universe is like, yeah,
you guys, the stars are confused.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
You already have a husband, it seems according to this chart,
there's a typo here on this section.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
I'm a gay, I'm a gay the musical.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
Wait, what what's in what's in my love? What's in
my love section? What sign is good for me to
fall in love with?
Speaker 4 (17:34):
So for you, curly Taurus is actually going to be
a great sign for you to fall in love with,
as well as Pisces Piscy.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Yeah, we did say that. I did. I did tell my.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Backscratcher, the backscratcher, my handy backscratcher with me. I told
Maya that you had told me, like, oh yeah, Tauruses
were kind of like the space that I was going
to be.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
In speaking of love.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, Like in terms of compatibility or sinastri if you're nasty, like,
do you find that Like a lot of times people
are like, am I compatible with the sign? Like for example,
my parents, right, my parents are my dad is an
Aquarius and my mom's a Taurus, which probably aren't like
the signs that you would expect.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
To be in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
And even though they've had a tumultuous relationship, like a
very tumultuous, like very crazy relationship, they're still together after
like forty plus years. Like, what do you think about
like compatibility in terms of like astrology, like finding love
through astrology?
Speaker 4 (18:39):
Yeah, you know a lot of times people default to
the sun's sign for that. And just like you said,
your parents have different sun signs that aren't typically compatible,
but it's actually the rising sign. Back to the rising sign. Man,
that's what we're taking from this is the rising sign
is everything. The rising sign will really tell you who
you're going to be most compatible with. So I wonder
if your parents maybe have compatible rising signs because someone's
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rising sign really determines the kind of role they're going
to play in your life. Wow.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Yeah, so my parents, my mom's rising is Aquarius, my
dad's rising is Libra.
Speaker 4 (19:13):
That's actually perfect because as your dad being a Libra rising,
that means that his fifth house of love and romance
is Aquarius. Oh wow, and then your mom being an Aquarius,
she falls right into that playing that role for him
of love romance. Yeah. Wow, Yes, it's incredible. So currently
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your best match would actually be a tourist rising, not
necessarily a touris son, although you would do great with
the tourists on that as well because of all your
Virgo energy depending on their rising.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Interesting, I think I know a toyst rising that's wild,
But I mean then that kind of like determines like
how well you guys would get along, or it's not
like sett and Stone right, like you can still go
against the odds basically, like.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
You can still.
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Yeah, there's so much that goes into it. So that's
just one small piece, but I mean we would look
at lots of other pieces. So for example, the moon
is your feelings, and so if another person has planets
that connect to your moon in a healthy way, then
you guys are going to feel good when you're together.
Something you see a lot in romantic compatibility is when
one person's venus is in the same sign as another
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person's moon. Because Venus and astrology is a planet of
love and the moon is feelings, so you put them
together and feelings of love. You see that?
Speaker 5 (20:34):
Another Yeah, yeah, I remember you.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
I was talking to someone and I gave you their listen.
Me and Melissa we talk all the time about like
I'm always like hey girl, uh so, but this one
guy had an Ari's moon. I also have an Aries moon,
but I have an Aris venus and you were like, oh,
this is actually a really good match. But I didn't
like him because he was kind of weird. But how
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important is what is the Venus sign? And like what
does it represent?
Speaker 4 (21:03):
Because at first.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
I was like thinking venus, was like, oh, that's the
sign has to be compatible with another person's venus.
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Yeah, well that's the thing. It's never going to be
one thing, you know, so you can't pinpoint it to
oh just because of this one venus, this is going
to be the one. It's always going to be a
lot of different things you have to take into consideration
and how they work together. But Venus is the planet
of love and marriage is the planet of attraction. So
it's in your own chart. It's what you are attracted
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to and how you are in romantic relationships, your love style,
and what you find attractive basically, so it's you know,
it represents a few different things, but it is important
for sure, and compatibility and its industry.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Wow, I remember like one thing too, like because also
I guess everything every planet matters or like, because even
with moons, I've heard that if your moon is completely
not compatible with the other person's moon as well, like,
that's also something to look at as well.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Yeah, oh, so having compatible moons is always extra nice
because you guys experience emotions in a way that the
other person is able to respect, understand and recognize in
a similar way. But if your moons are not compatible,
that's not going to end or break things either, because
perhaps maybe the moon isn't compatible, but the risings in
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the sun are. Maybe there's like Jupiter connecting to someone's
venus or something. So there's again so many different moving
pieces that we would look at to determine the compatibility.
But I mean, at the most basic level, you know
that if someone's moon sign is compatible with your moon sign,
then that's there's at least that most basic level of
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compatibility there in terms of how you process emotions.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
Can I ask you why you might think that literally
all of my ex boyfriends have been Leo moons an
Unoscorpio moon, Like why why?
Speaker 4 (22:57):
Like, oh my goodness, Well, you know that's really interesting
because Leo for you, curly is actually your tenth house,
which is the house of work and public image. But
you know what it is, it's probably maybe you're Jupiter
and Aries because Aries is a fire sign and Leo
is a fire sign, and so Aries connecting to their
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Leo moon, Your Aries Jupiter connecting to their Leo moon
means that they feel good around you. You feel really
good to be around to them. That could be what's
like attracting you guys, perhaps, But yeah, it's interesting because
you don't have a lot of fire signs in your
chart other than that Aries Jupiter, but Aries Jupiter.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Interesting? Yeah, interesting?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
I mean our other Bessie Joyce once said that I
was like a human prozac for her, So I can
see why my exes might feel good around me as well.
Speaker 4 (23:50):
There you go.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
So what are some ways to find how we'll meet
the one? Right? I know we talked about at one
point in time, like the seventh and eighth house.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yeah, how do we find the one?
Speaker 5 (24:03):
How do we find oh my goodness?
Speaker 4 (24:06):
Yeah, you know that everyone wants to know how do
I find the one? When they're using astrology, So you know,
you want to think about these seasons that we go
throughout the year where there are different sun signs that
come up and different Venus signs. Venus stays in the
same sign for about like a month or so, and
so if you know your time of birth, you look
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up your rising sign and then whatever is the sign
opposite to your rising signs to make it as simple
as possible. So Curly, you're Scorpio rising. The opposite sign
to Scorpio is Taurus. So whenever we are in Taurus season,
that's going to be a heightened time where you can
meet someone.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
Oh okay, what about me?
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Whenever we are in Virgo season, that's a great time
for you to meet someone. But also your fifth house sign,
so Curly for you, that's piscey, it's so Piscy season
as well. Pisce season tourist season are going to be
times when it's heightened for you to meet someone. For Maya.
For you, that'll be cancer season and Virgo season and Maya.
You actually have some stuff coming up this year that
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is really going to increase your chances of meeting the one.
Speaker 5 (25:16):
I'm really excited, you know what, I feel?
Speaker 3 (25:19):
It so hardcore, it is crazy because also like my birthdays,
it keeps saying like three twenty five ninety three at
five twenty three am, and I'm turning thirty two next year.
My life path number is five three plus two is five.
Is that it's twenty twenty five next year. I just
feel like there's just the numbers are just numbering, and
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they're so esthetically casing that I'm like, there's there's something great. Yeah,
obviously around the corner always, but like something about the numbers.
Speaker 5 (25:50):
I'm like, wait a second.
Speaker 4 (25:52):
Oh, yeah, for sure. It's you know, not even just
the numbers, but with the astrology because of the eclipse's
going into your seventh house, clips is represent massive change,
and so we're going to be experiencing some massive change
in that seventh pousive relationships over the next year and
a half for you and Jupiter, the planet of blessings
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is going to go into your fifth house of romance
and dating. So that's super exciting.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
What does that mean for people?
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Like, so when people find out what your rising sign is,
figure out what the opposite is on the chart, like
what's directly opposite to them, what Google is, and then
during that season, it's a good time to go out,
wear your freakom dressed and flirt or get or download
a dating app and see what's.
Speaker 4 (26:39):
Up exactly, so you find out what your rising sign is,
find out the opposite, which is also known as the
sister sign. And then during that season just join all
the dating apps except all the dates, go out and
meet people, put yourself out there more and just I
mean if you could do it all year long, but
those are the times throughout the year where you're going
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to have the most heightened chance of meetings.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
And are you looking to date, like finding specifically the
opposite of your rising sign.
Speaker 4 (27:10):
That is so hard. Ideally you would, but it's so
hard because a lot of people don't know their birth time,
so you know, if you can definitely grab someone's birth
time as you're getting to know them so that you
can check.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
But isn't there been an astrology app? Melissa?
Speaker 3 (27:26):
You need to make an astrology dating app?
Speaker 4 (27:29):
Yes, you know what I always talk about that that
is what we are missing. I would love to be
able to do that. Someday it would get on you
tell me, Yeah, I would have the most success rate,
I believe out of any dating app.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Wait, I think I think co Star has it or
The Pattern The Pattern has one of them has a
dating section. Yeah, I've only used it onceeteen.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
Or something, and it's like only your friends though, right,
it's like only who you add or is it like
a bigger dating app?
Speaker 1 (28:01):
I think it's like a dating thing. I believe that.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
I think I used to nineteen yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Download it now. I think there's a dating section.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
Did you meet anyone?
Speaker 2 (28:13):
You know what's crazy is that there was a time,
there was a year there was this, without saying too much,
there was a space and time. No not on the
app to answer your question, but there was a space
of time where you told me that I was going
to meet somebody on this year according to a particular sign,
that was going to be like something that really moved
me spiritually. And you were so accurate, you were so right,
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like it was exactly the sign you said it was
going to be, and it.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Was like it was.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
It was an impactful year and an impactful relationship at
the time. But I wonder too, like do you find
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that like people mostly are using Do you think people
use astrology for love mostly and to kind of like
figure themselves out, because I feel like that's the only
thing when it comes to like finances and stuff. I
never like pay attention too hard, but when it comes
to love and tell me more about me.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Like that's when I dive into astrology.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Yeah, it depends where people are in life. You know.
I talk to people who are asking all different kinds
of questions. If people are single, that does tend to
be their number one question is love, for sure, but
people in relationships will ask about career or children or
just like personal transformations. There's so much you can dive
into and discover because throughout different points in your life,
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planets are moving into different houses and different signs and
activating different areas, and so there's always something transforming in
your life any given time based off of where the
planets are.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
Yeah, so now we have like some questions that are
a life chaotic. But you know how people say Geminis
are two faced, Like what is your opinion on that?
And why do you think they say that? Oh my goodness,
poor Gemini. They get such a bad rep Yeah. No,
I love Geminis because I'm a.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Sad too too.
Speaker 4 (30:17):
They're fellow mutable signs. So I think that's what it is.
I think it's the mutable energy of Gemini and Gemini
being probably like the most mutable sign. Mutable is like
water like they just fit into any mold that you
put them, and so they know how to hang out
with all different kinds of people and get along with them.
Speaker 5 (30:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
So it's funny because I don't know if you guys
have ever seen the funny meme that goes viral often
about like the most serial killers and their signs.
Speaker 5 (30:46):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, aren't they aries?
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Aren't they Virgo? I feel like I always see this
being Virgo, you know.
Speaker 4 (30:53):
What, It's usually the mutable signs. So you'll see like Sagittarius, Virgo,
Pisces and jem and I a lot. But wow, the
reason I think my theory is is because of the
mutable energy of someone, in one setting, they can be
like a crazy murder and then in another setting they
can you know, go back into society and mold and act,
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you know however whoever they're around at the time. So
mutable is really awesome because it has that ability to
kind of shape shift almost in a way, and to
fit in with whatever environment that they're in. It doesn't
have to be a toxic quality. That can be a
really helpful quality when you really think about it. But
you know, I guess people have just had individually bad
experiences or it's just a bad rumor that we can't
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get rid of for some reason. I love Gemini.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
They're so fun.
Speaker 5 (31:40):
Yeah, I love Geminis.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
They're so fun and I feel like there, yes, they
can adapt to any situation. I feel like people don't
like the duality of them, Like they want people to
stay kind of consistent in their feelings or their beliefs,
and I feel like Gemnis are very much like I
don't feel like that anymore. Actually want to go or
I want to hang out with someone else, or I
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want to my opinion has changed. I feel like people
find that as like two faced right, and it's just
kind of like they have autonomy over their own feelings
and decisions, Like what's wrong with that?
Speaker 6 (32:11):
You know?
Speaker 1 (32:12):
Yeah? I like all my job and I friends.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
I feel like I feel very like I always have
such magical, beautiful experiences with them, Like I always have
an unexpected time where I just like, if I let
them take me where they want to take me, I'm
always like that was really enjoyable. Thank you for planning
that for us, you know, Like, who do you feel like?
Speaker 1 (32:33):
Is? So?
Speaker 2 (32:35):
I did a survey on my Instagram once where I
said who do you think is the most like toxic sign?
And we'll give our own opinion about this later on
and this episode, But like between toxic, I mean between air, water, fire,
and Earth. I feel like the Earth signs are the
most toxic.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
But like who do who would you say?
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Like maybe not from experience, but from like overall, like
who do you think is the most toxic?
Speaker 4 (33:02):
You know, it's funny because all twelve signs are toxic.
For sure. We are all toxic in some way somehow,
And if we really wanted to, we could dive in
and like nitpick every sign. But I can see why
you think Earth is the most toxic, because they have
some qualities that can be challenging to deal with. But
in my experience, I have found water signs, So that's
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going to be Scorpio, Pisces, and cancer.
Speaker 5 (33:27):
I agree.
Speaker 4 (33:28):
And the reason I say that is because there you're
so emotional. They're known as the most emotional signs, which
is a beautiful thing when it manifests in a healthy way,
But sometimes the emotions you can't see past that. When
you get really deep in your feelings, your feelings are
hurt and you're angry, It's like screw everyone else, you know,
it's all.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
About it's just emotions taking me over. But like I
think that Earth signs read a little bit more toxic
because there's this like they just dig their feet into
the ground and they are just so stubborn, and I
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feel like it's like a little bit harder for them
to grow and to understand other perspectives.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
A lot of this is coming from a virgo.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
By the way, Like I just feel like with water signs, yes,
the emotion's there, but if you can kind of communicate
with them in a way that it's like no, but
do you see why, Like they'll get it eventually, you know,
Like and then fire signs, I'm like they're probably just
give them some space and they'll be fine. And then
Air signs, I feel like they don't care about shit.
They're just like they're already out the room. They're already
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in the car.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
You know, it's really in the car.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
They left five Actually they did even show up.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
They didn't even show Yeah, they're gone. They're will be
like I don't know, they just are doing their own thing.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, or they intellectualized things too much. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
Speaking of scorpios, though, there's it is said that Scorpios
are also just the best lovers.
Speaker 4 (34:53):
Oh, Scorpios are so passionate. It's a sign of passion
and deep intimacy, so that's probably where you get that from.
In astrology, Scorpio is ruled by the eighth House, and
the eighth House is the house of sex and death
and transformation and intensity, so that's where that comes from.
Scorpio's very passionate, very intense. They're the sign that wants
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to love you with their whole heart, mind, body, and soul,
and they want me to love them with that same
type of intensity in return, could be overwhelming if you're
not the right mix for them.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
Can I bring you both in close for one second?
I learned how to be a better lover because of this. Woo. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
They literally like walked me through some shit and they
were like, no, do it this way, and I'm like, wow,
that works so much better than anyways.
Speaker 4 (35:45):
That's perfect, a better sign. That's amazing.
Speaker 3 (35:51):
So who is going to have the best year for
twenty twenty five? When people are listening to this, it
is already twenty twenty five, So who's.
Speaker 5 (36:00):
Going to have the best year this year?
Speaker 7 (36:02):
Like?
Speaker 5 (36:02):
Based on your interpretations.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
Well, you know what cancer is what I am predicting
is going to have the best year because Jupiter is
moving into Cancer. You know what, actually cancer and Gemini.
Let's say cancer and Gemini, because Jupiter will be in
their sign in twenty twenty five. For the first half
we have Gemini, and then for the second half beginning
in June, we have cancer and Jupiter, being the planet
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of blessings and happiness and good vibes and good luck,
good fortune. Whenever it moves into a certain sign, anyone
who has planets in that sign will be hit by
Jupiter at some point in the year, and so it's
going to be some good stuff for our Geminis and cancers. Ooh,
you hear.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
That Geminis and cancers.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
And on the flip, who do you think is going
to have like a wild year or like I don't.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
Want to hear this one.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
Oh my goodness, maya Aries. I'm gonna see aes.
Speaker 5 (37:02):
Somebody so much for listening so much? Well, no, yeah,
I feel it.
Speaker 4 (37:08):
No. Yeah. The reason I say that there's a lot
of action in aries coming up in twenty twenty five.
We have Saturn. It's going to go into Aries on
May twenty fourth, we have Neptune is going to go
into aries on March thirtieth, and so you know Neptune
already and Saturn. That's that's a big load there. Uh
and then Youranus is also going to go into aries
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and you're what, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 5 (37:37):
We were talking about that earlier, Melissa. She was like,
I don't know if I should say it this way
or that way.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Just it, you know what, so funny.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
Yeah, people don't. Some people pronounce it your honest because
it's less scandalous. But I grew up pronouncing it uranus.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
I'm so stun it that way or like urinus urinus.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Yeah, to my fellow aries out there, do not get scared.
This is the thing about Aris is that we're so
resilient and like I'm kind of excited, like, yeah, bring
it on, like what because it's only going to promote
character development, you know, And I'm like, if that's going
to be an interesting year, like then I'm just going
to be more interesting and it's going to be amazing
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and great.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
I'm so.
Speaker 4 (38:26):
But all of us, honestly, I mean, because those are
planets that will impact all of us. They're really slow
moving planets, and for all of them to change signs
and one year is is huge, And.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
You said that has never really happened before.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
It is so rare to have all of those slow
because they all change signs at different at a different pace,
you know. So like Saturn changes signs like every three years,
and then Uranus I think it's like every seven years,
and then Neptune, I think it's like every fourteen years,
and so they're all over the place, tipic, but they're
all moving at the same time in twenty twenty five,
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So that really I think represents a shift in the
collective and society and life as we know it. The
world is going to start to look really different.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Oh my god, are we going to be okay?
Speaker 4 (39:15):
I think so. I think we'll be okay.
Speaker 5 (39:17):
There's a slight pause in that thing.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (39:21):
I'm a Sagittarius. I want to be optimistic. Sagittarius is
very glass half full. I want to believe that it'll
be for the best.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
You know.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
It's interesting it's lining up with AI, and AI is
becoming a big thing now because your AIS deals so
much with technology, and we also have Pluto and Aquarius
now as well. And so we're definitely going to see
a lot of movement in terms of technology and AI.
I expect a lot of advancements in that area.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
I guess my other question too is like, and this
is before we go to our shorttgey section. My last
question is do you think that based off of the
signs that your parents are, do you find that they
also are can be passed down to you? Because I
actually feel like I have a lot of my dad's
Aquarius energy and a lot of my mom's Taurus energy,
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where like my mom is very like, oh you're know
what school, like, I don't go right, don't. I'm not
familiar with She's a little bit more shy with things.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
But my dad is like you, he'll know.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Like we went to the supermarket and the ladies at
the supermarket were like said to me, like, is this
your dad? Like, oh my god, you guys are the
same person. We should have known this was your dad
because we talked to everybody. So like, do we carry
any of our parents' signs too?
Speaker 4 (40:36):
Yeah, that's a cool question. And you know what's so
cool too, is your fourth house of parents is in
the sign Aquarius, So oh wow, Yeah, it's cool because
you're you know, your dad fits right into that. But
you know where I would see where I see the
biggest connection. Well, you know, there's also the argument of
like nature versus nurture, how much of your personality is
based off of your astrology chart versus how you're raised
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and what you pick up from your parents and how
they raise you. But there's definitely a connection with the moon,
for sure, because the moon represents the mother, and you'll
find that your moon sign and the aspects that hit
your moon a lot of the times are directly correlated
to what kind of mom you had, how she treated you,
how you felt your relationship with her was how you
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experienced her. It's really cool when you look at siblings
because you'll have three kids that grow up in the
exact same house with the exact same parents, but they
all view their parents so extremely differently, and they all
had such unique experiences with the same parent, but the
parent was different to each of those children based off
of those children having different sun and moon signs.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Wow, yeah, yeah, Earth sign. So I'm like annoyed by
all of us.
Speaker 4 (41:49):
Yeah, but no, you know, there's always a connection with
the sun and moon because the son represents the father
in astrology, and the moon represents the mother. And so
when you look at your chart, you could look at
the aspects and learn a lot about, you know, the
kind of parent that you had. Like for example, if
your son is conjoined to Saturn, a lot of times
that can show a father who was very overprotective or
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restrictive in some way.
Speaker 2 (42:13):
If your son is conjoined to Saturn, you said right
to Saturn.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
What is conjoined mean?
Speaker 4 (42:19):
So conjoined is one of the aspects in astrology. It's
when the sun is in the same sign. Not the
sun that could be any planet. It's when one planet
is in the same sign as another planet and they're together,
cause you think of them kind of like conjoined twins. Okay,
you know, So that's just like one example. You know,
if your moon is training Venus. Venus is the planet
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of love, but it represents the mother, so there's a
lot of love there between you and your mom. Venuses
the arts and creativity. Maybe your mother was an artistic,
creative person or wanted to instill that in you. So
you can learn a lot about your parents through your
astrology chart. It's amazing because it's not even just your parents.
It can be any of your relationship. We can learn
(43:16):
about your spouse through your chart, and your children, and
your coworkers. Like Curly, you have aries on your sign
of coworkers, and here you are with Maya double aries.
You know, so it's amazing what you can learn about
your relationships.
Speaker 3 (43:28):
Welcome to the astrology portion of the podcast. Even though
we've been talking about astrology, we just want Melissa's opinion
on this. I mean, of course you're always an astrologer, right,
but what we just want to know your toxic petty opinion.
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Okay, yeah, put your professional hat aside.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
Yeah, tell us like.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
Petty, petty betty.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Okay, yes, okay, who in your life personally has been
the most toxic sign for you?
Speaker 5 (44:08):
Ooh oh, you don't have to drop any names. You
don't have to drop any names. Just like what which sign?
Speaker 4 (44:14):
Okay? So I'm gonna say cancer. Oh, and you know
they have such beautiful qualities. But I am a Sagittarius
son with an aries moon, and I have a Sagittarius stelium.
I have a lot of fire in me and these
are very independent, loving signs, and so they just are
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not compatible with cancer. Cancer is very much a homebody,
family oriented, and it's represented by the crab. And when
you think of crabs clinging on with a little claus,
I have found some cancers personally to be a little
too clinky for my very freedom loving Sagittarius and aris energy.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
Oh what about you, Maya?
Speaker 3 (44:54):
Who's Oh my goodness, I want to say Libra?
Speaker 5 (45:03):
Oh really yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
I don't know any toxic libras. I don't know any toxic.
Speaker 5 (45:08):
Libra or.
Speaker 3 (45:11):
Virgos that I've dated for sure, And I would say, uh,
libres because I've lived with some libras and I just
feel like the ones I've come across have been low
vibrating libras.
Speaker 5 (45:23):
I love all libras.
Speaker 3 (45:24):
I think they're amazing and beautiful and so smart and ethereal.
Speaker 5 (45:29):
But the ones that I've come across I've had some.
Speaker 3 (45:32):
Beef with, have been fake to me and have been
a little like kind of like kissing your ass and
then like later on you hear from somebody else that,
oh they said this about you, and I'm like, just
say it to my face, like what do you?
Speaker 5 (45:47):
What do you mean?
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Like I feel like they have a lot of like
wishy washy energy, like these are the kind of like
you know, and I'm sure the cancers you're talking about
Melissa too, are like the ones where you're like they
need they have not started their healing journey yet, you know.
So definitely not saying all libras are wishy washy or anything,
but like, you know, I know aris have the tendency
of definitely being like just very loud and very.
Speaker 5 (46:11):
Like center of attention and all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (46:13):
And I don't feel like I'm I feel like I
can be like that in some areas, but I feel
like my pisces really comes out if we're talking about toxicity,
you know, so I don't know what other influences those
libras have had in their chart, you know. So definitely
not saying all libras.
Speaker 4 (46:29):
But yeah, no, but those are actually some toxic libric
traits that are like well known to be toxic libra
traits when a libra is not manifesting in a healthy
way for sure, because they're the people pleasers of the zodiac.
Speaker 3 (46:42):
Dad, and I can see right through that as a
reformed people pleaser, where I'm like, you don't have to
do this, like just because like you don't have to
say these things just to make me your friend. I'm
already your friend, Like, yeah, this is not how I
connect with people is by kissing my ass or compliments
like let's just spend some time together.
Speaker 4 (47:03):
It's funny because you're in double aries and aries is
the complete opposite sign of Libret's. It's on the opposite
side of the ZODIACO.
Speaker 5 (47:11):
Yeah, that probably has a lot to do with them.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
What do you think, really, I was gonna say, for me,
it's been Earth signs, even though they're my own sign.
I feel like we're just so. I think a lot
of Earth signs have like rocked me in this life.
But and then I would say that on the flip though,
the sign who has taught me the most about love
(47:34):
and compassion, I would say is cancer on my end,
because I feel like because of my verrbeness, and I
think also because of the way that I was raised, truly,
like the relationship that I had with my mom, and
my mom wasn't rayly like Gadinho saw with me. My
dad was, but my mom wasn't so kadinno or the
nurturing aspect of what you might expect the mother to be,
(47:56):
Like like I just didn't really have and so when
I dated lot of the cancers in my life, like
I've had three cancer boyfriends, and they all were like
the fairies from like Sleeping Beauty, Like they were all
like like you know, uh, the red one, the green one,
the little blue one, and they all gave me like
little gifts, right, and each one of them really showed
(48:16):
me so many They reflected so many of my own
habits back to me that I was like, oh, that's
what I'm supposed to do, Like, oh, so when somebody
is sick, I'm supposed to be more like nurturing and
care for them, like because like you know, I had
one boyfriend was cancer and he was like he took
care of me when I was sick, and then when
he was sick, I left. I was like I'm not
trying to get sick again, and I literally left. And
(48:38):
I just think like, oh, man, like now I know
because of how he taught me. You stay, you make
a little guy though, You get a little you know,
fresh squeeze orange shoes, and if you really want to
go the extra mile, maybe get some flowers, you know
what I mean, like just a little bit more like guiding, yo.
And I think that for me was where I learned love.
But I also wanted to ask you, like, what sign
(48:59):
did you learn and love about in your life or
love from in your own life?
Speaker 4 (49:03):
Well, you know, curly, by the way, that makes so
much sense because cancer is your ninth house sign and
that's the house of wisdom, and so you gain a
lot of wisdom from that sign cancer.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (49:15):
Yeah, yeah, so that actually it makes perfect sense. And cancer,
like I said, it's a beautiful sign when it manifests
in a healthy way, they're very loyal and loving, and
so yeah, that makes a lot of sense. But I
think the sign, Oh that's a good question. What sign
have I learned the most from? You know what? I
think it's going to be Taurus for me.
Speaker 1 (49:38):
And every time they say that, you know.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Taurus is my husband's a tourist rising and one of
my best friends is the Taurus' son, and and Taurus
is actually my north node sign. And so part of
my destiny in this life is to learn to be
more like a Taurus and to head more into in
that direction of tourists qualities and trades. And I don't
really have a lot of Earth in my chart at all,
so they usually have traits that I lack and they're
(50:06):
so grounded and stable and you know, just down to
earth and it's so I feel like I've been able
to learn a lot from their energy and just kind
of chilling out. My husband is just like a rock,
you know. Taurus is like such an Earth sign and
he's just the most chill person. And I suffer from
anxiety and my emotions are all over the place and
he helps me to He helps to like ground me.
(50:28):
I love the Taurist grounding energy.
Speaker 3 (50:30):
Also side note, I've been so distracted this entire time
because I got my mom and iPad pro for for Christmas.
Speaker 5 (50:38):
And for her birthday.
Speaker 3 (50:39):
So she was just like full on opening it at
this like the slowest pace. She was like like staring
at me, and I'm like, I don't know if you
could hear that gut eat it, but just that way
I like.
Speaker 4 (50:52):
And then she goes like this to it.
Speaker 5 (50:54):
She goes like the kids arets praying over it.
Speaker 2 (50:59):
Here you go go ahead, girl, what side have you
learned from the most you think like love and positive.
Speaker 3 (51:07):
I would say Sagittarius for sure, And let me let
me think Sagittarius, Pisces, little bit of aries Virgo for sure.
But I think just like I feel like I I
tend to forget about the light and like the playfulness
(51:30):
about love and about life, and I feel like Fire
Signs have really kind of like shook me and been like, hey,
this is gonna be all good, Like this is gonna
be fine. I feel like I need to be surrounded
more by by that energy that's that's like come on,
let's get up and go, like let's do this, Like
I need to not sit in my feelings.
Speaker 5 (51:50):
As much as I've been doing this year.
Speaker 3 (51:52):
And I feel like they've really pulled me up and
out of like the spiral that I've been in.
Speaker 5 (51:58):
And I think Gemini's too.
Speaker 3 (52:01):
I'm just gonna name them all, No, but I think
like Sagittarius for sure has just been like just such
a safe, safe place, one of the most like soft
safe places for me to be in because it.
Speaker 5 (52:16):
Just I just feel like warm and.
Speaker 7 (52:20):
I don't know, you know, we love you Maya, Oh,
I went love you guys, my gosh, I have so
I this has been I love Sagittarius season because I
have so many friends who are sages and every single
time I'm.
Speaker 5 (52:35):
Like, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 3 (52:36):
Let's do this like another sa birthday, and then my
bestie Joyce, her mom's birthday is December ninth. My other
best friend's birthday is December ninth, and then my mom's
birthday is the tenth, and then our other best friend,
Guy the Yells, birthdays on the eleventh.
Speaker 4 (52:50):
You know.
Speaker 3 (52:51):
So it just is like, I don't know, they just
keep me afloat and keep me like today.
Speaker 1 (52:59):
Yeah, I was like, wait, yes, birthday today.
Speaker 5 (53:05):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (53:06):
So I love Sagittarius and I kind of want to
find more about them because I was reading somebody's chart
last night about Sagittarius moons and I'm like, oh, it's
I feel like it's an interesting placement to have, Like,
I know aries, I know, like a Gemni moon or
I know, a Libra moon, but Sagittarius moons are very interesting.
Speaker 4 (53:24):
Yeah. You know my husband's actually a Sagittarius moon. Oh
really Yeah, so they're cool. Do you find them to
be very chill or they can be.
Speaker 3 (53:33):
This was the first time I came across somebody with
like a Sagittarius moon. That was I mean, they weren't
like close to me, but I just didn't know how
to interpret it.
Speaker 4 (53:43):
Yeah, yeah, so Sagittarius moon because Sagittarius connects to the
ninth house in astrology, it's ruled by the ninth it's
the house of wisdom. So Sagittarius energy is like a professor.
It's like the professor of the zodiac. Oh yeah, they
could be a little absent minded, so it's like a
little scatterbrained, absent minded professor that loves to learn. And
(54:05):
so a lot of times you'll find that they're avid readers.
They love to read, they love to dive deep and
learn as much information as possible, and then they want
to let everyone know about whatever it is that they
learn because they want to share and put out the knowledge.
They're not gatekeepers at all. It's the opposite of a gatekeeper.
And they're very adventurous and spontaneous mutable as well, so
(54:25):
they go with the flow. They're not like stuck in
their ways. So yeah, I mean you'll find that when
you live. Because the moon sign is an astrology is
a sign you don't always necessarily get to see in
someone and see those trades in a person until you
get super close with them, and sometimes not even until
you live with them. So the moon sign is really
what you see when you live with someone. So when
(54:48):
you get a boyfriend or a girlfriend and you move
in together, that's when their moon sign really really comes out.
Speaker 5 (54:53):
It's interesting.
Speaker 2 (54:55):
I always say, like your top three is like if
you imagine like going into work and hanging out with
your co workers, like that's like you're rising. And then
if you work together, you sit together, you start to
become friends. That's like your son. But if you live together,
that's like your moon. Like that's if you guys are like, yeah,
they see the real you.
Speaker 4 (55:15):
That's a year certified astrologer, Curly. That was really good.
Speaker 1 (55:18):
That was a.
Speaker 4 (55:18):
Great sounds good to me.
Speaker 2 (55:23):
That concludes our astrology section, Maya, how do you plead?
Speaker 5 (55:29):
This has been so informative.
Speaker 3 (55:30):
I feel like I could talk to you for hours
and hours and hours, so many questions, but thank you
so much Melissa for coming on. I feel so like,
I mean now I have even more like insight and
I feel like understanding of like our BFF dynamic, but
also like that next year is going to be pretty
crazy for me, which let's go, Yes, let's do it,
(55:54):
but yes, what are you?
Speaker 4 (55:55):
Curly?
Speaker 2 (55:56):
That was really amazing, Like I feel like I have
a better understanding too of like the different things that
might go into my chart. I want to go and
learn about the different houses now, Like I'm like, there's
got to be because when you said like, oh, it
feels like a calculus or something like that, like it
really does. Like the minute I saw that pie chart,
I was like, this is too much, Like I'm not sure.
I don't want to go to geometry class. I just
(56:16):
want to find out what my venus is in and
all that stuff. So like just hearing you kind of
break it down was really amazing. If there's one last message,
like click message do you want to give to our listeners?
What would you say, Melie?
Speaker 4 (56:30):
Yeah, I would say you have absolutely nothing to lose
by looking into your astrology chart a little bit further.
Even if it sounds insane to you, I encourage you
to just give it a shot. Look into it, read
a little bit more about what your rising sign is,
what your moon sign is, and see if it resonates
with you. Because a lot of times people are very
skeptical because they've just never looked into it at all.
(56:51):
But I truly believe if everyone actually gave it a
shot and dived a little deeper into the rising and
the moon, they would start to kind of resone and
it would peak their curiosity and they dive a little deeper.
So that's my my little message to the world is
you have nothing to lose by looking into this a
little bit further. It doesn't mean you're not cool. No
one has to know. You can delete your search history,
(57:16):
but you might find something valuable and something that resonates
with you. Yay.
Speaker 3 (57:19):
And where can people find you on social media?
Speaker 4 (57:22):
So on Instagram, I am at Melissa Stars with the
z Astrology and that's also my website. So actually my
website is Melissa Stars dot com. So Melissa starsw the
Z dot com. Melissa's m E. L I S s
a awesome.
Speaker 3 (57:38):
Yeah, and she also has this red Light green Light
newsletter that's really great that you guys should sign up
for into it and love it. Thank you so much
for being on the podcast and speaking with us. By
the way, she's Dominican, so I just wanted to shout
out to all the Dominican astrologers son and thank you
(58:00):
guys for listening to another episode of the Super Secret
Bestie Club podcast Curly.
Speaker 5 (58:04):
How can they find you on social media?
Speaker 2 (58:06):
You can find me at the Curly v Show on
Instagram and TikTok maya. Where can people find you on
social media?
Speaker 3 (58:11):
You can find me at my moment m A y
A in the Moment, anywhere where you scrow nep you guys,
Bye by.
Speaker 1 (58:20):
Mary nest Day Talia.
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