Ask The CLO - 04.10.25

Today, our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey has advice for:

Kenitra in Macon – “I’m dealing with a man that has been married three times and all he talks about is getting it right the fourth time by marrying me…”

Henry in Bradenton – “I chartered a boat for me and my wife and she had really bad motion sickness on the boat. We went back to the dock and she went home. She’s mad because I called our son to come sail with me…”

Kyla in Grambling – “I’m graduating next month and moving back home. My boyfriend back home wants me to move in with him but I’m dating a new guy on campus and I really don’t want to leave him alone…”

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Kinetra and Making. Kinetra writes, I'm dealing with a man
that has been married three times, and all he talks
about is getting it right the fourth time by marrying me.
I would love to talk to his ex wives before
I get into deep with him. So should I ask

(00:20):
him first or do it behind his back?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Lady? You talking to his ex wives?

Speaker 3 (00:30):
It is probably one of the more ignorant things you
can do, because what do you think they're going to
tell you?

Speaker 2 (00:40):
What is it?

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Do you think they're going to Have you ever heard
a woman say, ever?

Speaker 2 (00:45):
You know what?

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I ain't nothing, I ain't a good woman. I was tripping.
I just wasn't a good woman. Have you ever heard
a woman say that? I haven't. Every woman I've ever
talk to the reason they relationship ain't work, it's cause
some man somewhere was a dog, or some man somewhere

(01:07):
treated her wrong. I have never ever heard a woman
say it was her In all my life, I've never
heard one.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
So you don't think she should ask the ex wives
about why they broke up or why they divorced?

Speaker 2 (01:23):
This?

Speaker 3 (01:24):
What what could you possibly gain from that? Except why
not to marry him. If you don't want to marry
the man, don't marry the man, because not now one
of them is going to tell you go ahead and
do it, Not.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
One of them. And how does she know all of them? Anyway?
They all go to say in church? Would she she
might not know? She could reach out on faithbook.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
She needs some intel.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
She should get her intail from herself. You all have
this wonderful thing called intuition. If you think you got
to check with all the people, it's already something wrong,
all right.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Moving on to Henry and Braydenson, Henry says, I charted
a boat for me and my wife, and she had
really bad motion sickness on the boat. We went back
to the dock and she went home. She's mad because
I called our son to come sail with me. Was
I wrong for getting my money's worth?

Speaker 2 (02:31):
What?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, bron what.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
You can't be no more dumber? Oh you should have
took care of your wife, got her home, make sure
she was good. Now, next time you get a boat,
just get the boat with you son.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Yeah, yeah, that's you. Let her go home by herself.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
We went, we went back to the doc.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
She went home then he called, all right, bro, bro,
that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
He just wanted his money's worth that's what he said.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
Your wife, dude, your wife. I'm sorry, bro, bro, some
stuff is a loss. Yeah, it's right off. Just a
rite off though.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Yeah, you won't get you see your money's worth it.
It's not, it's not worth it. Yeah, because look, you're
not getting your money back regardless, right, exactly right.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
So that's it. Now you're out there with your son.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
Now you've got to go home and deal with the
ramifications of your decision.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
And it's not going to be a good one.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
But Steve, what happened when she started getting motion sickness
on the boat? Did he get mad at her?

Speaker 2 (04:03):
He probably said, maybe, no much I pay for this boat.
Exactly what is you vomiting for? Baby? Just look at
the horizon, Look at the horizon. Focus. Get yourself together though,
and you think drama. Mean, oh, now.

Speaker 3 (04:24):
We got to go back. I'm gonna put you in
this uber. I'm gonna call my sol. We gonna go
back to.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Many I've been sick on the boat before. Man, that's
that's a terrible feeling.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Kyla and Grambling,
Kyla writes, I'm graduating next month and moving back home.
My boyfriend back home wants me to move in with him,
but I'm dating a new guy on campus, and I
really don't want to leave him alone. He's a senior,
but he has a year of eligibility left on the

(04:57):
basketball team. Will he forget about me after I moved
back home?

Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, of course the bath Didn't you say it's on
basketball team? She said it. You ain't the only one
watching run them down the floor.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Now, and when you move back home, your boyfriend back
home want you to move in. Here's another one of
them unnormal letters, just typing some stuff like it's cool. Uh,
I don't want to move back in because I'm dating
the dude on the team that's got one more year

(05:33):
of eligibility, and I don't want him forget me when
I go back home. But if I go back home,
I move in with this other dude.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Right.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Don't you don't see nothing wrong, Warren? She's young, she's torn,
No Carlo, no what he is?

Speaker 1 (05:58):
College days?

Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yeah, but here's an opportunity for a woman to say, look, okay,
right now, I ain't sugar honey, iced tea.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
Oh goodness, she's.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Well, well, ain't no woman gonna say that, But here's
a good time to say it, because if this was
a man. Hey, look, i'm dating this girl in college,
but my girl back home want to move in when
I got home. But I don't want the girl back
here in college to forget about me. You think if
I go home moving with this girl, she'll forget about me.
What would y'all say to that? Yeah, make up your mind,

(06:38):
tell somebody the truths. Yeah, that's what y'all would be doing.
So same thing to this little girl right here. No,
I can't help you. Oh, you got to make a decision.
You got to go back home and sneak. I don't
care if she I don't care if she's eighteen. Listen
to me, you this, this ain't the way the game go.

(07:04):
This is not the way the game go. I'm so sorry. Yeah,
hard to be a player when you ain't.

Speaker 1 (07:12):
A lot of work to learn, right, So will he
forget about me after I moved back home?

Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yes? Girl, out of sight, out of mind.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
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