April 25, 2025 • 7 mins
Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey has advice for:
- Lilly in Buffalo – "Most evenings before bed, I have a glass or two of red wine. I take the bottle to my bedroom so when I get out of the bath tub, it’s right there. My husband thinks I have a drinking problem. What’s wrong with two glasses of wine before bedtime?"
- Anson in Richardson – "I signed for a FedEx package yesterday. My wife was not home. The guy asked if I was Jo’s husband and I said yes. He said it’s nice to finally meet me because she usually gets the packages. Why is he on a first name basis with my wife?"
- Nikki in Southfield – "I’m married and seeing a guy on the side. He works with my husband and he said he knows my husband’s side chick. I’m not concerned about what my husband is doing so why is he? Is it a sign that he’s gossiping about our relationship too?"
- Wendell in Memphis – "My wife confessed to having an affair with one of her good female friends. I tried to be understanding by telling her that her friend should come join us one night. That did not go over well. How can my wife be mad and SHE cheated?"
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Lily and Buffalo Clo. Lily writes most evenings before bed,
I have a glass or two of red wine. I
take the bottle to my bedroom, so when I get
out of the bathtub, it's right there. My husband thinks
I have a drinking problem. What's wrong with two glasses
(00:20):
of wine before bedtime?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I don't know two full glasses. You don't have to
get up in the middle of the night and go
to the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
A lot of.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Times I would if I drink two glasses or anything
right for bed, I've just ruined my whole night's sleep.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
So I wouldn't be concerned.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I don't know if wine, I mean wine is alcohol,
but you know it's it's here worth throwing it off.
What it's the bottle right by the bed.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
So she could be there. But she gets out of
the tub, she you.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
See right there. That's that's a look.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
You don't go downstairs, get you half a glass, go home,
go to bed.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I need that bottle right there. I need on I write.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
By the bed, so soon as I get out, I
and start drinking or her your husband might want to
look at you. I know that, Sureley, but her husband
might have to look into the fact that is, he could.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Be the problem.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
She's drinking. Why why I got to get in this bed?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
We just let Go'd need two glasses.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Wow, all right?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Moving on to Anson in Richardson, Anson writes, I signed
up for a FedEx package yesterday. My wife was not home.
The guy asked me if I was Joe's husband, and
I said yes. He said, it's nice to finally meet
me because she usually gets the packages. So why is
he on a first name basis with my wife?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Because she usually gets the packages? He said, it's nice
to meet you because your wife normally gets the packages.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
That's why what what what you wanted to be? Bro?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
He's finding a problem where there is want none.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Bro.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Hey, man, it's finally nice to meet you because she
she normally gets the packages.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Now, obviously a lot of packages come in to the house.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Uh huh, delivery man, Hey, how you doing today?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Hey? Joe?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Hey, Miss Joe.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Hey, you don't have to call me miss Johnson, you
just call me early in. Well, thank you early. You know,
that's that's how Because there's so many packages coming to
the house that don't mean nothing that's going on. The
man said, hey, nice to meet you. Wow, bro, just relax,
get off social media. That's what y'all on social media
too much. That's where all this coming from.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
All right, Sometimes that's all it is. He wants to
meet a person, all right. Moving on Celo to Nikki
in Southfield, Nicky says, I'm married. I'm seeing a guy
on the side. He works with my husband, and he
said he knows my husband's side chick. I'm not concerned
about what my husband is doing, So why is he
Is it a sign that he is gossiping about our
(03:13):
relationship too?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I mean she's talking about it's a side dude gossiping
about their relationship.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah yeah, he's telling her. Yeah yeah, what is her
husband is doing?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Yeah? Yeah, you're telling somebody.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Uh huh.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What did he say though, What did he say? What
did he say to her?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
No, he just told her, hey, yeah, you know, I
know your husband. I know his side chick too. That's
to keep his relationship strong. I don't care about what
he doing. Why is he worried about that?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
She's saying?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Why is her side dude worried about what her husband
because he hadn't worried about it. He once again an
ab Norman come into this show in the form of normalcy.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Normal.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
It just that ain't.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Normal because she said it so casually. You know, I'm married,
And why is he.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Worried about it? What he doing? Because I'm not? Okay, lady?
Is he talking about us too? Yes? Yes, yes, yes
he is.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
No loyalties every change. Jamal Bryan said, what what did
he say?
Speaker 3 (04:27):
What Pastor Brian, these blanks ain't lawyer, that's the right
right talking about Jamal Bryant said, he said that he
was in the poor pit and said, excuse me to
(04:48):
the oldest saints. But I gotta say him, these blanks
ain't loyal, he's Jamal Brian said, I didn't hear. Chris
Brown said, well, Chris didn't make the news when.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
He said, but a pastor, for obvious reasons would make
the news, saying that, all right.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
All right, moving on, your mother made the news when
she said locked them doors. Your mama didn't make the
news when she said locked them doors. Marvin Sap said,
he and the news.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Yeah, yeah, because we're watching the pastors. Yeah, we hold
them to a higher standard. Steve, all right, last one,
this is from Wendell and Memphis.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Wendell writes, my wife confessed to having an affair with
one of her good female friends.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
I tried to be understanding, but I tried.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
To be understanding by telling her that her friends should
come join us one night.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
That did not go over. Well, how can my wife
be mad? And she cheated?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
A lot going on?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Exactly what.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
But she's the one that cheated.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Come on, let me, I don't understand all these confessions.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
I'm stuck on this.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Well, why you have any revelation type moments in front
of your spouse?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
You it ain't fun at h.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
And then she told him he reacted. She didn't like
his reaction. She's mad now about his reaction.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Let let back up a second and listen to me.
If you have a guilty conscious cheating is not for you.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
No.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Well see, but if you do rich a preach.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
If you do not, then you can cheat.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Man.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
A guy was talking to the other ding to my sons.
My sons are singer.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
This guy, this guy is married and he got busted
with this other girl that he's married.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
You know what I heard him tell my sons. It's
crazy out here. Man. You can't even cheat in peace
I laughed so hard.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Yeah, that is hilarious.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I laughed so hard.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Man, Wow, where are we going?
Speaker 2 (07:38):
She did Peace Store.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Yes you're listening Hard Morning Show
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Lily and Buffalo Clo. Lily writes most evenings before bed,
I have a glass or two of red wine. I
take the bottle to my bedroom, so when I get
out of the bathtub, it's right there. My husband thinks
I have a drinking problem. What's wrong with two glasses
(00:20):
of wine before bedtime?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I don't know two full glasses. You don't have to
get up in the middle of the night and go
to the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
A lot of.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Times I would if I drink two glasses or anything
right for bed, I've just ruined my whole night's sleep.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
So I wouldn't be concerned.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I don't know if wine, I mean wine is alcohol,
but you know it's it's here worth throwing it off.
What it's the bottle right by the bed.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
So she could be there. But she gets out of
the tub, she you.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
See right there. That's that's a look.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
You don't go downstairs, get you half a glass, go home,
go to bed.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I need that bottle right there. I need on I write.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
By the bed, so soon as I get out, I
and start drinking or her your husband might want to
look at you. I know that, Sureley, but her husband
might have to look into the fact that is, he could.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Be the problem.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
She's drinking. Why why I got to get in this bed?
Speaker 2 (01:24):
We just let Go'd need two glasses.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Wow, all right?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Moving on to Anson in Richardson, Anson writes, I signed
up for a FedEx package yesterday. My wife was not home.
The guy asked me if I was Joe's husband, and
I said yes. He said, it's nice to finally meet
me because she usually gets the packages. So why is
he on a first name basis with my wife?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Because she usually gets the packages? He said, it's nice
to meet you because your wife normally gets the packages.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
That's why what what what you wanted to be? Bro?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
He's finding a problem where there is want none.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Bro.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Hey, man, it's finally nice to meet you because she
she normally gets the packages.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Now, obviously a lot of packages come in to the house.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Uh huh, delivery man, Hey, how you doing today?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Hey? Joe?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Hey, Miss Joe.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Hey, you don't have to call me miss Johnson, you
just call me early in. Well, thank you early. You know,
that's that's how Because there's so many packages coming to
the house that don't mean nothing that's going on. The
man said, hey, nice to meet you. Wow, bro, just relax,
get off social media. That's what y'all on social media
too much. That's where all this coming from.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
All right, Sometimes that's all it is. He wants to
meet a person, all right. Moving on Celo to Nikki
in Southfield, Nicky says, I'm married. I'm seeing a guy
on the side. He works with my husband, and he
said he knows my husband's side chick. I'm not concerned
about what my husband is doing, So why is he
Is it a sign that he is gossiping about our
(03:13):
relationship too?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I mean she's talking about it's a side dude gossiping
about their relationship.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah yeah, he's telling her. Yeah yeah, what is her
husband is doing?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Yeah? Yeah, you're telling somebody.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Uh huh.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What did he say though, What did he say? What
did he say to her?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
No, he just told her, hey, yeah, you know, I
know your husband. I know his side chick too. That's
to keep his relationship strong. I don't care about what
he doing. Why is he worried about that?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
She's saying?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Why is her side dude worried about what her husband
because he hadn't worried about it. He once again an
ab Norman come into this show in the form of normalcy.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Normal.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
It just that ain't.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Normal because she said it so casually. You know, I'm married,
And why is he.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Worried about it? What he doing? Because I'm not? Okay, lady?
Is he talking about us too? Yes? Yes, yes, yes
he is.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
No loyalties every change. Jamal Bryan said, what what did
he say?
Speaker 3 (04:27):
What Pastor Brian, these blanks ain't lawyer, that's the right
right talking about Jamal Bryant said, he said that he
was in the poor pit and said, excuse me to
(04:48):
the oldest saints. But I gotta say him, these blanks
ain't loyal, he's Jamal Brian said, I didn't hear. Chris
Brown said, well, Chris didn't make the news when.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
He said, but a pastor, for obvious reasons would make
the news, saying that, all right.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
All right, moving on, your mother made the news when
she said locked them doors. Your mama didn't make the
news when she said locked them doors. Marvin Sap said,
he and the news.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Yeah, yeah, because we're watching the pastors. Yeah, we hold
them to a higher standard. Steve, all right, last one,
this is from Wendell and Memphis.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Wendell writes, my wife confessed to having an affair with
one of her good female friends.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
I tried to be understanding, but I tried.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
To be understanding by telling her that her friends should
come join us one night.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
That did not go over. Well, how can my wife
be mad? And she cheated?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
A lot going on?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Exactly what.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
But she's the one that cheated.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Come on, let me, I don't understand all these confessions.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
I'm stuck on this.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Well, why you have any revelation type moments in front
of your spouse?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
You it ain't fun at h.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
And then she told him he reacted. She didn't like
his reaction. She's mad now about his reaction.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Let let back up a second and listen to me.
If you have a guilty conscious cheating is not for you.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
No.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Well see, but if you do rich a preach.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
If you do not, then you can cheat.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Man.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
A guy was talking to the other ding to my sons.
My sons are singer.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
This guy, this guy is married and he got busted
with this other girl that he's married.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
You know what I heard him tell my sons. It's
crazy out here. Man. You can't even cheat in peace
I laughed so hard.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Yeah, that is hilarious.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I laughed so hard.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Man, Wow, where are we going?
Speaker 2 (07:38):
She did Peace Store.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
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