June 11, 2024 • 8 mins
An inquisitive wife is asking Steve for some advice about the time her man takes for himself. A woman got ghosted and found out why. Now she wants closure. We not doing that!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now to ask the CLO. This is
from Andrea and Troy. Andrea says, there is an open
field near our house. It used to be the practice
field for a football team. My husband goes there and
sits on the old bleachers for hours.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
He said.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
He goes there to think, does this sound normal? Should
I be worried about him?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
No, he's going there to think, Yeah, men do that?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
You think? I think?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
When you do, though, it's just ask your husband and
say he thinks you can help him with as he
will to talk about it. Because because a lot of
the time men are taught to be Brazilian hold your
head up, man up and me and men.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Go through a lot.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
And so if I were you out telling him how
much you appreciate him, and ask him if you could
help with anything, but let him have that time over
there on then bleed.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I think it's for hours. That's bothering her?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Right, Well, you don't as long as you don't go
over there and sit down there with him.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
That's not what he had showed him. Won't do that.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
You go over there and he come back to Marrow
wanting be no bleachers at that old.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Don't go over there city.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I won't that he didn't ask you to go down
there with him because he needs some time to hisself.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Hours.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Hours, yeah out, yes, hours?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Okay? Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Moving on to Rashida and Bronsville.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Rashida says, I casually dated a guy for three months.
He ghosted me and I found out he got married.
I confronted him, but I remained friendly with him. We
never had sex. So is it cool to talk to
him and meet for drinks occasionally? Or should I ignore him?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Wait a minute, I don't understand you. You you jumped around.
You never said he was reaching out to you. You
you seem the disappointment that he ghosted you, that you
all casually date. Now all of a sudden, did he
reach out to you? You're not saying that, or you
are really? What I think it is is you are
(02:04):
now he getting married. You want some clothes, so you
want to have drinks so you can find out what happened.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Well, nothing happened.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Y'all ain't had sex. Y'all casually dated. Now he's getting married.
Why don't you just walk away and leave it alone.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah, he's already married. He's already already married.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You meeting with him, meet with that conversation, Finna be yeah,
you already know what that is, little girl married. Stop
stop acting stupid because you already know. You already know
what you gonna meet and talk about. Yeah, what could
have been, might have been, should have been, had a been,
(02:40):
and what it can be. Yeah that's all all you can.
You ain't, Finna talk about the good times?
Speaker 4 (02:47):
None of that. Stop playing little girl, go home leading
all right.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Moving on to Emmanuel in Columbus. Emmanuel says, my wife
is the breadwinner, so she gets her props for holding
me down. But I hate when she throws stuff in
my face, like how much she spends on my clothes
or how she's paying for our child's private school. If
the roles were reversed, I wouldn't brag a brag so much.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
How do I get her to stop flexing on me?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Hey, dog, you need to get a job, Yeah, Doug,
I don't know what tell you. Twig quick, dog, you
got to get a job. You got to start making contribution.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
She the bread.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
When she flexing on you, you don't want to flex
it on you flex back. You got to get a job, though,
I don't know what to tell you. I'm not finna
sit here and let that happen. That's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
You mean as a man, not Yeah, No.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Now, I'm not letting no woman take care of me.
I'm just not gonna do it. Now.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
That's old school. Call it what you want to call it.
But I got a job to do. I know my role.
My father taught it to me. I'm gonna go do
my job. Shouldn't I'm finna go make you money. No,
he shouldn't have had time to write in He should
have been trying to find a job rightly.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
This year. How much she's spending on my clothes?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
So she buying you clothes man, and putting the baby
boy boy. And I'm gonna tell you right now, she's
getting tired of it. Yeah, I'm just gonna let you know.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
She getting rolls. Were reversed, he wouldn't be bragging.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Well, then you better, okay, reverse them and let's see.
So wow, I think that laid your clothes out for church,
had him on when I come back.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
That's not I bought him. This is what I want
you to hear that I thought.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Good morning, baby, what's going on? Work going on? That's
what's going on. Ain't nothing going on.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
But I gotta go down here to Ralse and get
you something else to put on.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
I'll be back. No, my damn man, what you.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Getting ready to say?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
You know, I'm tell you right now, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
I'm not doing that. Yeah, I'm gonna get out to
hear something. No, just not man. If you're a man,
that's your job. I'm sorry. I look, man, you can
call it old fashioned. I got it.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
It's different now. It is different.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
It is not different. It is different now because people
say it's different. It ain't really different. It's different now
because people people have moved the norm to a new norm.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
I mean, y'all can save all this mess right here.
This ain't how I work.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Ask that lady that keep telling him you know how
much private school costs? That she buys his clothes since
its changed something. Yeah, the yellow shirt go with the
blue pants.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
I should know, because a bottom?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
What is you standing in that refrigerator?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Don't fall close it just now.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
You ain't wanting nothing nothing. I just feeled up the tank.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Okay, why do I hear the car starting outside?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
You can't do nothing. I wish she stopped braging so much.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
I had to cut back. I turned your cell phone off.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Randomly s if I was working. You can't talk to
me like that.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Good, ain't no need of you going down there to
plant fitness. I had to counsel your membership that you
find for unemployed walking around here?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Fine, all right, Last one unless you guys are still going.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Last one. This is from Touty in Jacksonville.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Tooty says, I'm in love with a man that won't
give me the time of day until it's time to
have sext I know it, and I because I've been
dealing with him for eight years. I'm forty three and
I need more. Can I give him an ultimatum? Or
have I waited too long?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
No?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
No, no, no, no no no.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You could give him the ultimatum, But guess what, it's
gonna be open. You've set the standard for what you
will accept. Now you want to say you don't want
to accept it. You ever heard of saying you can't
change horses in the middle.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
Of the stream.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yeah, so you've settled for this for eight years.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Now you want to change it? Okay? The only way
to change it? Did you get somebody else? Because he don't?
Won't you clearly and stop you. Yeah, when it's just
time for sex, that's it. You don't know it.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
And she says she's accepted it for eight years.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Okay, cool, all right, going there and try it.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Thank you, Celo, we gotta go.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
You're listening Morning Show
It is time now to ask the CLO. This is
from Andrea and Troy. Andrea says, there is an open
field near our house. It used to be the practice
field for a football team. My husband goes there and
sits on the old bleachers for hours.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
He said.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
He goes there to think, does this sound normal? Should
I be worried about him?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
No, he's going there to think, Yeah, men do that?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
You think? I think?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
When you do, though, it's just ask your husband and
say he thinks you can help him with as he
will to talk about it. Because because a lot of
the time men are taught to be Brazilian hold your
head up, man up and me and men.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Go through a lot.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
And so if I were you out telling him how
much you appreciate him, and ask him if you could
help with anything, but let him have that time over
there on then bleed.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I think it's for hours. That's bothering her?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Right, Well, you don't as long as you don't go
over there and sit down there with him.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
That's not what he had showed him. Won't do that.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
You go over there and he come back to Marrow
wanting be no bleachers at that old.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Don't go over there city.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I won't that he didn't ask you to go down
there with him because he needs some time to hisself.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Hours.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Hours, yeah out, yes, hours?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Okay? Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Moving on to Rashida and Bronsville.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Rashida says, I casually dated a guy for three months.
He ghosted me and I found out he got married.
I confronted him, but I remained friendly with him. We
never had sex. So is it cool to talk to
him and meet for drinks occasionally? Or should I ignore him?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Wait a minute, I don't understand you. You you jumped around.
You never said he was reaching out to you. You
you seem the disappointment that he ghosted you, that you
all casually date. Now all of a sudden, did he
reach out to you? You're not saying that, or you
are really? What I think it is is you are
(02:04):
now he getting married. You want some clothes, so you
want to have drinks so you can find out what happened.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Well, nothing happened.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Y'all ain't had sex. Y'all casually dated. Now he's getting married.
Why don't you just walk away and leave it alone.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah, he's already married. He's already already married.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You meeting with him, meet with that conversation, Finna be yeah,
you already know what that is, little girl married. Stop
stop acting stupid because you already know. You already know
what you gonna meet and talk about. Yeah, what could
have been, might have been, should have been, had a been,
(02:40):
and what it can be. Yeah that's all all you can.
You ain't, Finna talk about the good times?
Speaker 4 (02:47):
None of that. Stop playing little girl, go home leading
all right.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Moving on to Emmanuel in Columbus. Emmanuel says, my wife
is the breadwinner, so she gets her props for holding
me down. But I hate when she throws stuff in
my face, like how much she spends on my clothes
or how she's paying for our child's private school. If
the roles were reversed, I wouldn't brag a brag so much.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
How do I get her to stop flexing on me?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Hey, dog, you need to get a job, Yeah, Doug,
I don't know what tell you. Twig quick, dog, you
got to get a job. You got to start making contribution.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
She the bread.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
When she flexing on you, you don't want to flex
it on you flex back. You got to get a job, though,
I don't know what to tell you. I'm not finna
sit here and let that happen. That's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
You mean as a man, not Yeah, No.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Now, I'm not letting no woman take care of me.
I'm just not gonna do it. Now.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
That's old school. Call it what you want to call it.
But I got a job to do. I know my role.
My father taught it to me. I'm gonna go do
my job. Shouldn't I'm finna go make you money. No,
he shouldn't have had time to write in He should
have been trying to find a job rightly.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
This year. How much she's spending on my clothes?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
So she buying you clothes man, and putting the baby
boy boy. And I'm gonna tell you right now, she's
getting tired of it. Yeah, I'm just gonna let you know.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
She getting rolls. Were reversed, he wouldn't be bragging.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Well, then you better, okay, reverse them and let's see.
So wow, I think that laid your clothes out for church,
had him on when I come back.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
That's not I bought him. This is what I want
you to hear that I thought.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Good morning, baby, what's going on? Work going on? That's
what's going on. Ain't nothing going on.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
But I gotta go down here to Ralse and get
you something else to put on.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
I'll be back. No, my damn man, what you.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Getting ready to say?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
You know, I'm tell you right now, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
I'm not doing that. Yeah, I'm gonna get out to
hear something. No, just not man. If you're a man,
that's your job. I'm sorry. I look, man, you can
call it old fashioned. I got it.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
It's different now. It is different.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
It is not different. It is different now because people
say it's different. It ain't really different. It's different now
because people people have moved the norm to a new norm.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
I mean, y'all can save all this mess right here.
This ain't how I work.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Ask that lady that keep telling him you know how
much private school costs? That she buys his clothes since
its changed something. Yeah, the yellow shirt go with the
blue pants.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
I should know, because a bottom?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
What is you standing in that refrigerator?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Don't fall close it just now.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
You ain't wanting nothing nothing. I just feeled up the tank.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Okay, why do I hear the car starting outside?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
You can't do nothing. I wish she stopped braging so much.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
I had to cut back. I turned your cell phone off.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Randomly s if I was working. You can't talk to
me like that.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Good, ain't no need of you going down there to
plant fitness. I had to counsel your membership that you
find for unemployed walking around here?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Fine, all right, Last one unless you guys are still going.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Last one. This is from Touty in Jacksonville.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Tooty says, I'm in love with a man that won't
give me the time of day until it's time to
have sext I know it, and I because I've been
dealing with him for eight years. I'm forty three and
I need more. Can I give him an ultimatum? Or
have I waited too long?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
No?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
No, no, no, no no no.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You could give him the ultimatum, But guess what, it's
gonna be open. You've set the standard for what you
will accept. Now you want to say you don't want
to accept it. You ever heard of saying you can't
change horses in the middle.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
Of the stream.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yeah, so you've settled for this for eight years.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Now you want to change it? Okay? The only way
to change it? Did you get somebody else? Because he don't?
Won't you clearly and stop you. Yeah, when it's just
time for sex, that's it. You don't know it.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
And she says she's accepted it for eight years.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Okay, cool, all right, going there and try it.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Thank you, Celo, we gotta go.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
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