Steve Harvey's Closing Remarks - 11.25.24

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So Steve, now it's time for you to take us
home with your closing remarks.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
My closing remarks today are gonna be based around the
value of yourself. I think this is important. Tommy sent
this to me, you know, a billboard, and it really
triggered me to think. And I'm gonna share that with you.
But it all pertains to the value of yourself. This
can pertain to you in terms of reaching your goals.

(00:31):
Your dreams are in business, and this is for you
to consider in the relationship of love. It is amazing
to me while I talk to people and people talk
about how they're being treated and handled it and represented
and dealt with, and they can't seem to get no

(00:53):
oldbody to see they value in their worth. And I'm
sending a bit going, wait a minute, wait a minute.
You can't try to get someone to see something in
you that you don't see in yourself. It starts with you.
You know, you've all heard the saying beauty is on

(01:15):
the inside. It's not just skin deep. That's true. Confidence
is not an outward emotion. It's something that starts from within.
Everything starts from within, and it exudes and and and
and manifest itself in the outward shape or form. So

(01:36):
if you want people to value you.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
You must first value yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
I tell my daughters all the time, you can train
a man how to treat you well, Daddy, how do
you train a man? You just don't accept bad treatment
from him. If you don't accept bad treatment from him,
little girl of mine, then guess what?

Speaker 3 (02:01):
He can't keep giving it to you. A person can
only treat you the way you allow them to do it.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
If you don't accept a man coming to pick you
up late all the time, but you stop going with
him every time he late, the next time he want
to go out with you, he got to be on time.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Now. If he don't want to be on time, then
guess what. You don't go out.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
You've trained him how to treat you, and if he
don't line up with what you want, then guess what
he not for you. At least you don't have to
be mistreated the way he want to treat you by
simply not allowing him to treat you any way he
wants to. You cannot have high value for yourself and

(02:41):
expect someone else to have a high value of you.
That goes into same thing with business. You can't go
in and ask for a raise if you don't think
you deserve one. What would cause you to walk in
there and ask for a raise if you don't think
you deserve one, If you don't have the facts to
back up a raise. You can't want more money just
because you don't spend all the money you had. You

(03:03):
got to go in there and ask for a raise
because you can show value to the company. You're worth
this much more to the company. The company has become
this because of you. Then you can show your value.
Then you can go in there with a raise, and
you can go in there with some confidence with the raise.
It happens with goals and dreams. If you aim too low,
your problem is you might hit it. But I'm gonna

(03:26):
say that for tomorrow. So it's what you think of yourself,
how you value yourself that matters most. Now, let me
tell you what was sent to me, and listen to
this real careful, because this is gonna register with a
lot of people. Listen to me. If you aren't being
treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Maybe

(03:48):
you've marked yourself down. It's you who tells people what
you're worth. Get off the clearest rack and get behind
the glass keep the valuables.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
It's you who tells people what you're worth.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Get off the clearest rack and get behind the glass
where they keep the valuables. Stop acting like you a
sidewalk sail. Stop acting like you can be picked up
at the swap meet. Stop acting like you belong in
the junkyard. You a new car. Don't act like an

(04:26):
old car. I don't care how old you are to somebody.
You got to be a new car. Stop putting yourself
on the sales rack when clearly you deserve full price.
If you lower the value for yourself, that's what we'll
pay for you, and that's how we'll treat you.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
And that's how we respect.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
If you don't respect yourself, if I see you constantly
disrespecting yourself, then you're gonna turn to me and demand respect.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
How how does that work?

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Be?

Speaker 2 (04:55):
That be a coat where they got to lock on it. See,
you can't take me off the rack and just try
me on. No, that ain't how this work. See. But
now you go over that to that valuable section in
the store. You everybody been to Macy's. You got that
stuff where you got to go get a salesperson to
come and unlock it for you to even try it on.
That's cause they don't put a value on that. Oh

(05:17):
you can going over there and just put the little
shirt on. T shirts ain't locked up. Anybody can get
one if you steal this T shirt. It ain't that
big a loss. That ain't a four dollars pack of three.
Come over here, by the swede, Come over here, by
this first stuff. We got locks on this stuff right
here because it has value. We know it has value.

(05:37):
So we can't just let you try to stop letting
people just try you on. You got it, put a
value to yourself, maintain it. You determine your value. Don't
let other people do it. You do it, all right?
Those are my clothing?

Speaker 3 (05:52):
You more? All right?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
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