July 15, 2024 • 10 mins
You got to get your mind right. This is the first step needed in order to be successful.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all bay.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
At all soon.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Given them back.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
A million buf bus things and yeah, listening.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
To to.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Love? Turn you gotta turn, I can't.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I got to turn the mouth. Turn.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
You probably got to turn the mouth. The turn out
a wad of the morning UPO me.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Come come out your ba uh huh, I sure will.
Good morning everybody.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well,
I got to tell you something everybody, And this is
great news for everybody that I'm gonna share something with
your principal of becoming successful.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
At whatever level you choose.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
It can be successful in the relationship, successful in the family.
Successes may be considered to you becoming a homeowner. It
could be being debt free. Your ideal success could be
sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year, one hundred
thousand dollars a year.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
If you're considering it, if you're wanting it, if you
have a desire to become successful. I want to share
with you the very beginning of that, if no one's
ever done it, I'm going to say the beginning of
it today.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
See scripture makes it very clear for us.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You don't The only thing you need to become successful
is already inside of you. It's not an external need.
God wouldn't do that to you. He puts the core
basis of everything you need inside of you. So if
you discover it, if you tend to it, nurture it,
(03:35):
fertilize it, and water it, it grows, it branches out.
Then it reaches out externally and it starts grabbing things
outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better,
last longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything.
It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship
(03:55):
with God, it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me
tell you that thing that I'm talking about is a
God given gift that He has given to all of us.
We all possess it. It is all within us, and
everybody has a gift. Had somebody told me what I
(04:16):
know now back then, I would have saved myself tons
of mistakes. I just didn't know the principles. I had
to learn them all well. One of the principles are
becoming successful is your mindset. You got to get your
mind right now. This mindset is simply a decision that
you can make. I can't get it for you. I
(04:38):
can tell you what to do, but you got to
make the decision. You that's listening, have to decide. You
know what, I'm gonna go on and get at it.
I'm gonna stop wrinting. I'm gonna become a homeowner. You
know what, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna stop living
check to check. I'm I'm I'm gonna put a budget together.
I'm gonna stop stepping out on my family. I'm gonna
(05:00):
go home. I'm gonna get it together. I'm gonna stop
using when you make these decisions. That's correcting your mindset.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
The closer connection you have with God, the more help
you get sustaining the mindset. How many times have you
started to do something and you stopped? How many resolutions
have you made at the New Year and stopped by
February over with by me? And January done in March?
Because if you don't have a clear connection with your
(05:30):
creator to help you carry out the other force out there,
that evil force is designed to get you not to
reach your goals, get you not to come to resolution
with whatever the resolutions are you made, so he can
so you can consider yourself not worthy or failure or
unable to do something. But the more things you are
(05:52):
able to accomplish, the greater your confidence goals grows. So
we got to get your mindset together. Your mindset is
a decision that you have to make. When you make
the decision, you can begin in the process. Your mindset
is also a will of yours, a will.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Along with the decision.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
A will, a willingness to do right, a willingness to change,
a willingness to be better, is going to then cause
you to have to make a decision to make.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
A change of direction. Don't go where everybody else going.
You got to go your way. Now.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
You can't follow the crowd. You got to take a
less travel path. You cannot do this without changing your direction.
You can't keep hanging with the people you've been hanging
with if you want to be different, because they not.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Then you have to develop an obligation to yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
You've got to say, you know what for me and
my family, or if you don't have a family, for
me I owe it to myself. I have an obligation
to myself to be the best meed that I can
pay possibly be, to be the best self that I
can possibly be, to be the best father, the best man,
the best husband, the best wife, the best mother, the
(07:12):
best daughter, the best son, the best student, the best employee,
the best owner. You have an obligation to yourself to
give yourself a shot at the best life you can.
That's an obligation. You owe that to yourself. Why would
you not live the best life that you possibly could.
You have an obligation to yourself. Why would you cheat
(07:35):
yourself like that? Why would you take yourself and never
allow yourself to see the goodness that's already in you,
to have the abundance that's been promised to you, to
go and explore all the riches out there that's available
to you. But one of the worst ways that you
(07:58):
can rob yourself of the joy of your obligation is
to keep comparing yourself to somebody else. Because guess what, Man,
that ain't your life. You ain't Jay Z and Beyonce,
You're not Oprah. Instead, man, that's not who you are.
Quit looking around at everybody else that comparison of everybody
(08:19):
else will keep you broken, It'll keep you unhappy. You
won't even be able to be grateful for what you
have because you steady talking about what you don't have.
That's not the way, man. You have an obligation to
yourself to be the best you. You can be, not
the best them. You're not them. Stop trying to be them.
Be the best you.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
It's cool. You got a nice little house. That's cool.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
You know how many big houses is empty and feel
with hate and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house
fill with joy in it than to go to a
big house. Man. Prince got a line in the song
that says, I realized, in its best disguised, a pretty
house don't.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Make a home. Man.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Don't you know I know how true that is? So
I'm just trying to tell you now. Another part of
the mindset is taking dead aim at your life's goals
and ambitions. What are they? What are your goals and
your visions? What do you see for yourself? What do
(09:24):
you dream about? If you knew you couldn't fail at
whatever it is you were attempting, what would you go
attempt see? That's what we need to be after. It's
a mindset, y'all. It's a decision. It's a will. It's
a change of direction. It's an obligation to yourself. It's
taking dead aim at your life's visions and goals. Come on, man,
(09:45):
you got to get your mind wrapped around this thing.
You owe it to yourself to live the best life
you can be. Come on, man, talk to God. God
got something for you. You just got to check in
with him. Morning Show
Today show is pre recorded.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all bay.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
At all soon.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Given them back.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
A million buf bus things and yeah, listening.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
To to.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Love? Turn you gotta turn, I can't.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I got to turn the mouth. Turn.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
You probably got to turn the mouth. The turn out
a wad of the morning UPO me.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Come come out your ba uh huh, I sure will.
Good morning everybody.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well,
I got to tell you something everybody, And this is
great news for everybody that I'm gonna share something with
your principal of becoming successful.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
At whatever level you choose.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
It can be successful in the relationship, successful in the family.
Successes may be considered to you becoming a homeowner. It
could be being debt free. Your ideal success could be
sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year, one hundred
thousand dollars a year.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
If you're considering it, if you're wanting it, if you
have a desire to become successful. I want to share
with you the very beginning of that, if no one's
ever done it, I'm going to say the beginning of
it today.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
See scripture makes it very clear for us.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You don't The only thing you need to become successful
is already inside of you. It's not an external need.
God wouldn't do that to you. He puts the core
basis of everything you need inside of you. So if
you discover it, if you tend to it, nurture it,
(03:35):
fertilize it, and water it, it grows, it branches out.
Then it reaches out externally and it starts grabbing things
outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better,
last longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything.
It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship
(03:55):
with God, it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me
tell you that thing that I'm talking about is a
God given gift that He has given to all of us.
We all possess it. It is all within us, and
everybody has a gift. Had somebody told me what I
(04:16):
know now back then, I would have saved myself tons
of mistakes. I just didn't know the principles. I had
to learn them all well. One of the principles are
becoming successful is your mindset. You got to get your
mind right now. This mindset is simply a decision that
you can make. I can't get it for you. I
(04:38):
can tell you what to do, but you got to
make the decision. You that's listening, have to decide. You
know what, I'm gonna go on and get at it.
I'm gonna stop wrinting. I'm gonna become a homeowner. You
know what, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna stop living
check to check. I'm I'm I'm gonna put a budget together.
I'm gonna stop stepping out on my family. I'm gonna
(05:00):
go home. I'm gonna get it together. I'm gonna stop
using when you make these decisions. That's correcting your mindset.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
The closer connection you have with God, the more help
you get sustaining the mindset. How many times have you
started to do something and you stopped? How many resolutions
have you made at the New Year and stopped by
February over with by me? And January done in March?
Because if you don't have a clear connection with your
(05:30):
creator to help you carry out the other force out there,
that evil force is designed to get you not to
reach your goals, get you not to come to resolution
with whatever the resolutions are you made, so he can
so you can consider yourself not worthy or failure or
unable to do something. But the more things you are
(05:52):
able to accomplish, the greater your confidence goals grows. So
we got to get your mindset together. Your mindset is
a decision that you have to make. When you make
the decision, you can begin in the process. Your mindset
is also a will of yours, a will.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Along with the decision.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
A will, a willingness to do right, a willingness to change,
a willingness to be better, is going to then cause
you to have to make a decision to make.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
A change of direction. Don't go where everybody else going.
You got to go your way. Now.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
You can't follow the crowd. You got to take a
less travel path. You cannot do this without changing your direction.
You can't keep hanging with the people you've been hanging
with if you want to be different, because they not.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Then you have to develop an obligation to yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
You've got to say, you know what for me and
my family, or if you don't have a family, for
me I owe it to myself. I have an obligation
to myself to be the best meed that I can
pay possibly be, to be the best self that I
can possibly be, to be the best father, the best man,
the best husband, the best wife, the best mother, the
(07:12):
best daughter, the best son, the best student, the best employee,
the best owner. You have an obligation to yourself to
give yourself a shot at the best life you can.
That's an obligation. You owe that to yourself. Why would
you not live the best life that you possibly could.
You have an obligation to yourself. Why would you cheat
(07:35):
yourself like that? Why would you take yourself and never
allow yourself to see the goodness that's already in you,
to have the abundance that's been promised to you, to
go and explore all the riches out there that's available
to you. But one of the worst ways that you
(07:58):
can rob yourself of the joy of your obligation is
to keep comparing yourself to somebody else. Because guess what, Man,
that ain't your life. You ain't Jay Z and Beyonce,
You're not Oprah. Instead, man, that's not who you are.
Quit looking around at everybody else that comparison of everybody
(08:19):
else will keep you broken, It'll keep you unhappy. You
won't even be able to be grateful for what you
have because you steady talking about what you don't have.
That's not the way, man. You have an obligation to
yourself to be the best you. You can be, not
the best them. You're not them. Stop trying to be them.
Be the best you.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
It's cool. You got a nice little house. That's cool.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
You know how many big houses is empty and feel
with hate and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house
fill with joy in it than to go to a
big house. Man. Prince got a line in the song
that says, I realized, in its best disguised, a pretty
house don't.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Make a home. Man.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Don't you know I know how true that is? So
I'm just trying to tell you now. Another part of
the mindset is taking dead aim at your life's goals
and ambitions. What are they? What are your goals and
your visions? What do you see for yourself? What do
(09:24):
you dream about? If you knew you couldn't fail at
whatever it is you were attempting, what would you go
attempt see? That's what we need to be after. It's
a mindset, y'all. It's a decision. It's a will. It's
a change of direction. It's an obligation to yourself. It's
taking dead aim at your life's visions and goals. Come on, man,
(09:45):
you got to get your mind wrapped around this thing.
You owe it to yourself to live the best life
you can be. Come on, man, talk to God. God
got something for you. You just got to check in
with him. Morning Show
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