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October 7, 2020 16 mins

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 36 year old woman who just found out that I'm pregnant by my co-worker’s son. Her son is 24 and I met him at her birthday party earlier this year. We were standing around and I heard him say he was going to smoke and I told him that’s just what I needed to get the party started. He had a bag of really good weed so I asked him if he could bring me some later in the week. It’s legal, but I’ve never bought it myself. He called me the next day and said he was ready to drop off my package.................

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I should have never let him come inside. Dear Stephen Shirley,
I'm a thirty six year old woman who just found
out that I'm pregnant by my coworker's son. Her son
is twenty four, and I met him at her birthday

(01:06):
party earlier this year. We were standing around and I
heard him say he was going to smoke, and I
told him that's just what I needed to get the
party started. He had a bag of really good weed,
so I asked him if he could bring me some
later in the week. It's legal, but I've never bought
it myself. He called me the next day and said
he was ready to drop off my package. He also

(01:29):
told me that I'm very sexy and I have nice lips.
I told him he's handsome and had nice arms. I
was flattered that this young man was flirting with me.
He over with my package and he was still flirting.
He asked if he could come inside and smoke with me.
I told him that I never smoked inside my house.
He said, if we smoked outside, my neighbors will see

(01:50):
us smoking and having sex. I asked him what made
him think we were going to have sex, and he
said he could tell from the first time we met.
I never should have let him come inside. We smoked
a lot of weed and we had a lot of
crazy good sex that day. It went on for months
until we got careless and stopped using protection. When I

(02:12):
got pregnant, he flipped out and asked me to terminate
the pregnancy. I refused because this may be my last
chance of being a mother because of my age. He
forbade me to tell his mother about us having sex
and me being pregnant. He is an adult and he
needs to act like one. I plan to tell his mom,

(02:32):
my co worker, that I'm pregnant by him. How should
I start the conversation with her? Please advise? Okay, girl,
hold up, Okay, just wait a minute. Please just don't
go up to her and say, good morning, how are
you doing. By the way, I'm pregnant by your son.
You cannot do it that way. Okay, you might get

(02:52):
jumped on because his mom is going to be shocked.
I'm telling you right now. She's going to be furious
with you. She's going to be mad at him too,
but mostly you, because you're older and you should know better.
You're thirty six, he's twenty four. She's gonna end you
guys work together. She's gonna feel like you betrayed her
by going behind her back. She's gonna feel like you

(03:13):
took advantage of her young son. Again, you're thirty six,
he's twenty four. This is just as much your fault
as is his because you say you guys got careless
and did it without protection. I mean, how high? How
high were you that you couldn't stop for a moment
just to put on a condom. Naturally, he flipped out

(03:33):
because at twenty four, that's what he wants to do,
smoke weed, flirt and have sex. Okay, as far as
I'm concerned, not all twenty four year olds do that,
of course, but that's what he wants to do. You
didn't mention in here that he had a job or
anything like that, as far as I'm concerned. When you
told him, you told the right person. Though you told

(03:54):
the person you needed to tell, he is the father.
You didn't get the reaction you want it from him,
so now you're mad and you want revenge. I agree
his mom should know eventually because it's going to be
her grandchild, but not right now. I think you're you're
only telling her right now to get back at him.

(04:15):
I think maybe that you know you think that she
can make him responsible, you know, be a good father
for the grandchild. You think if she talks to him,
and he doesn't want any part of it. He already
told you he asked you to terminate the pregnancy. I
think right now, you're you're in a world of trouble

(04:35):
and you need to concentrate on the baby you'll be having.
All Right, he'll come around as far as what he
has to do to take care of the baby, maybe,
but right now, that's what you need to concentrate on.
Steve Wow Wow letter right here, I shouldn't never let

(04:56):
him come inside. Thirty six year old woman finds out
she pregnant by her coworker son. Now the dude is
twenty four. I met him at her birthday party earlier
this year. Well, him, you're not even getting invited back
next year to the think for damn now this I see.

(05:20):
I read a lot of stuff in these letters. We're
standing around, and you heard him say he was gonna
smoke and then and you told him that's just what
I needed to get the party started. He had a
bag of really good weed, so I asked him if
he could bring me some late in the week. Okay,
Now you see how she left this gap out, And

(05:40):
it's a lot of stuff about this lady's letter right here.
If you just standing around and just what you needed,
he had a bag of really good weed, how'd you
know it was good. Y'all went somewhere in smoke, tell
her all of it now, and then you asked him
he could bring you something lady in the week. Now
here she come being right again. It's legal, but I've

(06:02):
never bought it for myself. Right, So, playboy, I call
you next day, say he ready to drop off your package.
He told me I'm sexy and I got nice lips.
I told him he handsome, he had nice arms. You
was flattered that the young man was flirting with you.
He came over with your package and was still flirting.
Then he said, can he come inside and smoke with me?

(06:23):
I told him I never smoke inside of my house.
Where are you smoke? If you aren't smoking your house,
where do you smoke? You ain't gotten no kids, you
ain't married. Where do you smoke if you don't smoke
an house. Quit lying all that thought, Steve. We'll have
part two of your response coming up in twenty three
minutes after the subject of today's strawberry letter. I never

(06:48):
should have let him come inside. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening show, All right, here
we go, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. That's subject
I never we should have let him come inside. Wow, yoh, y'all.
This lady in this latter thirty six year old at
this twenty four year old at her co worker's birthday party.

(07:08):
She's pregnant by him now, which mean she ain't invited
did the party? Now? Y'all? Standing around, you heard him
say he was going to smoke. You told him that's
just what you need. He had a bag of really
good weed, so I asked him if he could bring
me something. Lady, in the week you invited him over,

(07:30):
you knew what you was doing. After you smoked the weed,
you asked him if he could bring it over. Then
you said, it's legal, but I've never bought it myself.
How much weed you to smoke? You're so good at
knowing what good weed is versus bad weed, But now
you're trying to tell us you ain't never bought none
your damn self. But it's legal. No, ladies, stop, In

(07:54):
order for you to know it's good weed, you'd have
had to smoke so a lot of weed. He called
me the next day, said he ready to drop off
my package. He told me I'm very sexy and I
got nice lips. That's what you wanted to hear. You
told him he was handsome, he had nice arm, That's
why you asked him to drop the package off. I

(08:14):
was flattered that this young man was flirting with me.
He came over with my package and he was still flirting.
He would flirting because you was flirting. He didn't stop
with just your nice lips. He told you some other
stuff and you said something else other than by his arms.
Ain't nobody just still flirting? By the damn self. He

(08:35):
asked if he could come inside and smoke with me.
I told him I never smoked inside my house. Ladi's
too many lines in this damn lettering now a whole
lot of stuff too. If you don't smoke in your house,
where do you smoke? Her car, in her car, in
the car over her friends? He said, if we smoked outside,

(08:58):
your neighbors would see all smoking and having sex. I
asked him, what made him think we was gonna have sex?
See right there, when you asked him that it was
already on your mind normally, if you wasn't having no sex, boy,
if you don't drop this weed off and get your
young ass out of him at some damn sex outside. Boy,

(09:21):
if you don't drop this weed off, get your young
ass out of him. But that didn't happen, right, What
makes you think you want to know what he's thinking.
We gonna have sex, and he said he could tell
from the first time we met. I never should have
let him come inside you damn show didn't. But you
invited him over, that, didn't you. You already had plans

(09:43):
to him coming inside when you invited him over. Lady,
don't play with me. We smoked a lot of weed. Now,
you don't blame it on the weed. Yeah, I wasn't
smoking no weed when he was standing at the door
with him nice arms, with that bag in his hands.
The decision that was made to have sex was before

(10:04):
the weed. You led him in, after he told you
y'all was gonna have sex. You led him in to
have sex. Don't be talking about we smoked a lot
of weed. We had a lot of crazy good sex
that day. It went on for months. It went from
a month today today's to a month? What yeah, until

(10:25):
we got careless and stop using protection? What you mean
we m You're a grown woman here. You ain't know
we got careless. You did it without the protection. When
I got pregnant, then she just throw this in here
then and until we got careless and stopped. When I
got pregnant, he flipped out and asked me to terminate

(10:47):
the pregnant. I refused because this may be my last
chance of being a mother because of my age. That's
why you got careless. This woman is pregnant on purpose,
grown ass. People don't accident to get pregnant. You know,
if you have sex without protection, you know what happens.

(11:08):
This is basic health class in this eighth grade. If
you have sex, see the little sperm swims up the
channel with the tail on it just wiggling and wiggner,
and it's millions of them, but it's just one egg.
And they'd be fighting at the egg, at the dope,
and then one of the little millions of sperm go

(11:30):
into the egg. Remember that, Yeah, all right, that's what
the hell happened. You knew you could be pregnant by
doing like this, and you didn't get this didn't happen
one time you had unprotected sex with this boy quite
a bit, and then ask you determinate print. I ain't

(11:50):
even determinate my last chance to be a mother caused
my egg. Then he told me not to tell his
mother about us having sex and me being pregnant. He's
an adult and he need to act like one. Nothing
in this letter says he was much an an adult,
except he has some crazy game for you. I told
you you was gonna have sex, said you had nice limbs.

(12:11):
You fail for it. I plan to tell his mom,
my coworker, that I'm pregnant. How should I start the
conversation with her? When I come back? Part three, I'm
gonna show you how she gonna introduced to this lady
that she pregnant by her twelve year younger son. It's

(12:32):
gonna be so good. All right. Post your comments on
today Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook,
and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now
coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. You
heard Steve. Part three of Today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I
never should have let him come inside. Okay, Part three

(12:53):
coming up right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
All right, Steve, here we are heard three. This letter
was so good we had to do a three parter.
The subject I never should have let him come inside.
Good you know, thirty six year old woman messing with
the twenty four year old son of her co worker.
She gets pregnant. They smoking weed and let him in

(13:15):
the house. Now she upset because she wants to had
a baby. He flipped out, told her to get rid
of the pregnancy. She said this her last chance, which
lets me know she had this baby on purpose. She
needed a way to have a baby, and she found
these young stood with the nice arms, and now she's
having a baby. So here was the question I planned.

(13:36):
Now he didn't told her don't tell my mama about
us having sex and the baby. He need to act
like an adult. You wasn't this little dude right here?
He ain't ready for none of this. Here you told
me he want no family, he's twenty four, He want
to have a smoke. Were now sexually saying that? In
her response? Absolutely correct. So now here's a question. I'm

(13:57):
planning on telling his mom my co work that I'm
pregnant by him. How should I started the conversation with him? All? Right,
here we go? So Sureley, you're the co worker, I'm
the pregnant lady, and we're talking. Hey, Hardan. Hey, Betty,

(14:20):
good are you doing it? I'm all right? Um, you know, girl,
I don't know where to start. You know, what are
you blowing? And everything? Girl? Causing your party that was
months ago? I know, but that girl was so crazy
and that it was just crazy. It was at the

(14:41):
craziest party I ever been to. What it was just
a party? Now? It was crazy though. It was crazy
the way it was. It wasn't just it was your birthday,
but it was crazy, girl. I handsome, It was gonna
weeding and everything. What you so, Betty? I know what

(15:02):
your so? Smoked weed? I smoked DeMarcus Marcus. Yeah, DeMarcus smoker.
Now he bought me some weed over to my house.
Sometimes he comes in and his eyes are a little red.
But I just said, yeah, well you can't in my house.
His eyes was red at his underwear? What what what happened?

(15:24):
How did you know about my sons? I demanded, Now, Betty,
how do you know about DeMarcus Is underwear? It's because
he bought the weed over with his arms out, talking
about and said I had big lips. What told me
my lips was pretty? And I told him his arms
was cuted? But what you get to the point I
gotta get back to work now you feel be a grandmother?

(15:46):
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Shall we show out? Hey? Listen? Uh, We'll be back
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