July 9, 2024 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I love my wife very much and she is the mother of my children, but I have another woman. My wife is very beautiful and smart, but she doesn’t submit to me like my mistress does. My wife wants me to be the man of the house all of the time and when I ask her for help on certain things, she huffs and puffs. I just want a partnership with her and raise our children together..................
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Time now, guys for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If
you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.
Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Muggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you here.
It is the Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject to my children's Mama
or my sugar Mama, Dear Stephen Shirley. I love my
wife very much, and she is the mother of my children.
But I have another woman. My wife is very beautiful
and smart, but she doesn't submit to me like my
mistress does. My wife wants me to be a man
(00:47):
of the house all of the time, and when I
ask her for help on certain things, she huffs and puffs.
I just want a partnership with her and raise our
children together. My other woman is older and loves catering
to me like she is my personal assistant. It's so
good with this older woman. I'm starting to wonder if
(01:07):
I'm falling in love with her or if I'm just
in love with all of the attention. I told my
mistress that I am not leaving my wife, and she
doesn't seem to care. My wife had my phone looking
for our plumber's number, and she ran across the text
from my mistress. I told her she is one of
my real estate clients. My wife would never suspect anything,
(01:29):
and she doesn't question me. If she found out about
my mistress, I'm sure I could explain it so that
she wouldn't think anything was going on, because this lady
isn't my type at all. I'm in it for the
way she's always making me feel. She makes me a
priority and treats me like a king. She buys me
(01:49):
expensive gifts, and she freely gives me money. I love
that she enjoys cognac and cigars with me and has
a passion for classic cars. She is the ideal sugar mama.
The sex is great and feels so natural with her
that I can't imagine why this woman is single. I'm
(02:09):
not under any pressure to stop seeing this woman, but
I know it's wrong. I am happy at home and
I'm happy with my mistress, so I would have a
hard time choosing between the two. Should I make a
choice now or ride this out. Please help, please help
with what what do you want us to help with?
That's what I'm confused about here. You already know, you
(02:34):
already know. I mean, what do you want Steve and
I to do? At this point? You have all the answers? Morley,
you know this is wrong. You're married, you have children. Okay,
you're cheating, You're lying, You're using the sugar Mama because
she gives you attention. You're taking money from her. You
know she smokes cigars with you and all of that.
(02:54):
You think you might be in.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Love with her.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
The sex is great. You're critical of your wife because
she doesn't submit to you and because she wants you
to be the man of the house all the time. Hello,
I don't understand that one. But so this makes her
a bad wife because those are her requirements.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
All right?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I think you, sir, I think you have a problem
because you just want women to just to serve you
and cater to you. I mean, who are you that
you deserve that? What are you doing? But you have
a good wife, you said she was beautiful and smart,
you have children, but you're cheating on her. You don't
even deserve her. Let alone a sugar mama, and you
(03:38):
think you might have to decide between the two. If
we tell you to leave the sugar mama alone, you're
not gonna do it, because what the sex is great
and she does all these wonderful things to you. You
don't really want anything from us unless you want us
to tell you to stay stay in it, because you're
happy with both of them. You don't want an answer
(03:58):
from us. I mean, really, you're.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Just was our time right now? Seriously, you are, Steve,
you know what? Surely everything you said is spot on.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I mean, you know, dude, really, did you write us
just so you could brag about your situation? You just
want to tell it to somebody because obviously, man, this
is something you can't keep to yourself because where in
here did you ask for help? Where in here do
you even see a problem? See, all you did was
(04:30):
send us a letter that to justify what you doing,
and it don't add up, dog, damn man.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
It's dudes like you. Man, See bro, I don't.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Know what you thought I was supposed to say to you,
but it's dudes like you to make it hard for
other dudes. Man, that's trying to do right or or
out there just trying to trying to get it together.
My wife is very beautiful, she's the mother your children.
But I got another woman. Okay, right here now you
starting to women are starting to develop a hate for you.
(05:01):
But let me show you where you may show they
hate you. My wife is very beautiful and smart, but
she doesn't submit to me like my mistress does.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Right there, they hate your ass.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Every woman listening to this hates your ass right now.
Hell me, dog, She's very beautiful and smart, but she
don't submit to me.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Dog, every woman, you just lose you, you stupid man.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
My wife wants me to be the man in the
house all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Well what you want some days off?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
What is that?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
You don't get days off from this hill? This thing
called manhood? Man, you got to wear it. It's yours now.
If you don't want to be the man house all
the damn.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Time, how many days off you need?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Because she got to be the wife and the mother,
she don't get no days off from there.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Oh man, Come on, dude, right here.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
And when I ask her for help on certain things
and pops, I just want to partnership with her and
raise our children together. And what marriage is, though, then
you gotta figure some stuff out. You got to sit
down and talk. You gotta listen, you gotta hear some
stuff you don't want to hear. You gotta let some
stuff go you don't want to.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Let go of.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
That's what marriage really is. My other woman is old
and loves catering to me like she's my personal assistant.
What do you have mailed on a bride?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
What did you send for?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
And she showed up in a box like she's my
personal assistant.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Don't hold it right there, Steve. I know you shouldn't
called tip service and marriage somebody down now.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up
at twenty three minutes after the hours. Today's subject my
children's mama or my sugar mama.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We'll be back with more right after this.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
You're listening hardy Morning show. All right, Steve, come on,
let's recap today's strawberry letter. This is crazy at her
subject my children's mama or my sugar mama?
Speaker 2 (07:04):
This food and wrote in me.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You know, just this letter stupid from time to start off. Man,
I love my wife very much, she's the mother of
my children. But I have another woman that hate for
you began right here by all the women listening to
this letter, Then you seal the deal. My wife is
very beautiful and smart, but she don't submit to me
(07:27):
like my mistress done.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Still, that did it right there? See, brother, let me
explain something to you.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Nothing you write in this letter after this can bail
you out of this situation you just created. In paragraph one,
I'm telling you Pardner see Fellas, and I want fellas
to listen to this man.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
This is My father taught me something.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
He said, Son, listen to me when a fool is talking,
stay there and listen carefully. I said, Daddy, why should
I listen to somebody that stupid? He says, Son, listen
to me. Don't walk away, because what you gonna learn
is what not to do and what not to say.
Just stay there and listen. He a fool can teach
you a lesson. So a fool wrote this letter. Every
(08:13):
time I ask her something, she huff and puff. I
just want to partnership with her and raise our children together.
A partnership and raise your kid.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Doc.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
You have to talk to your wife. You have to compromise,
You have to hear stuff. You have to listen to
stories you don't want to listen to. You have to
go places you don't want to go.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Your faith. While you're saying to the dress room, you're
gonna buy stuff you don't feel like buying.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
She gonna spend some money. Ain't gonna say nothing to
you about it. I just all this has got to happen.
That's what marriage is. My other woman is older and
loves catering to me like she's my personal assistant. Now,
if you thought they hated you in paragraph one, the
letter has now turned into they want to on together
(09:00):
and kill you. This woman is looking at you like
you steak ass.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
It's so good with this older woman.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
I'm starting to wonder if I'm falling in love with
her or just in the love all the attention. I
told my mistress I'm not leaving my wife, and she
don't seem to care.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Now I know why that is so, and I'm gonna
show you. We're gonna come back to that.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
My wife had your phone looking to her plumbers now,
but she ran across the tech from mistress. I told
her she's one of my real estate clients. My wife
would never suspect anything, and she doesn't question me. And
she found out about my mistress. I'm sure I could
explain it so that she wouldn't think anything was going on,
because this lady isn't my.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Type at all. Bam, right there, that's the key to
this whole thing. Type.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
She's actually perfect for you, you full.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Of it, and she is too. It's a match made
in heaven.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
But dog, let me tell you how much you into
this check because she makes you a priority and treat
you like a king. She buy me expensive gifts and
she freely gives me money.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Who do this? Who do this?
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Except somebody trying to hold on to somebody else?
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I listen, give you an example of this.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
A buy Marjorie expensive gifts.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Freely give her money. You know why? Because I'm trying
to keep her.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
No, not that ain't what it's really about, you know,
But you dog, she trying to keep you. I'm in
love with my wife. I'm man, I took some vials.
I'm trying, trying, I'm trying. I'm trying to get to
the tape with this one. You sitting up in here, man,
acting like you like like like you just got options.
But she ain't your type though, who's tie?
Speaker 2 (11:05):
But see that's why every woman hates you.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
I love that she enjoys Kanye cigars with me and
got a passion for Classic Cause.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
What woman you listen to? This a treasure troll? You
found the greatest woman to ever live? Where is she? Oh?
My god?
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Cigars, Kanyek Classic call. Don't you tell me she likes ports?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Boy?
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Don't tell me she want to go to the fight.
Don't you tell me that she don't give a damn
if you don't brush your teeth?
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Come d don't you say it? Don't just say it
your wife? And to make me cry?
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Wait, she let you get in the bed when out
taking a shower. Boy, where did you find this woman?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
See?
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Though, she's the ideal sugar mama. The sex is great
and it feels so natural. I can't imagine why this
woman is single. I'll give you a couple of reasons.
Watch your single. Number two. Number one, she's dating you.
Number two. Most men don't like women with cigar breath.
(12:38):
Number number three. I don't want a woman with all
that in common with me. I won't do something by myself.
I don't want my wife looks sports. I won't watch
sports with my boys.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
I don't want.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
My wife to play golf, I won't hope by my
damn self. Why your ask a single she do too
damn much?
Speaker 2 (13:00):
All right, Steve, thank you Rios. No more with this
ignorant ass letter.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
All right, post your comments on today Strawberry Letters can
tell you what you do. It's Steve Harvey FM on
Instagram and Facebook. And don't forget to check out the
Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Time now, guys for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If
you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.
Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Muggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you here.
It is the Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject to my children's Mama
or my sugar Mama, Dear Stephen Shirley. I love my
wife very much, and she is the mother of my children.
But I have another woman. My wife is very beautiful
and smart, but she doesn't submit to me like my
mistress does. My wife wants me to be a man
(00:47):
of the house all of the time, and when I
ask her for help on certain things, she huffs and puffs.
I just want a partnership with her and raise our
children together. My other woman is older and loves catering
to me like she is my personal assistant. It's so
good with this older woman. I'm starting to wonder if
(01:07):
I'm falling in love with her or if I'm just
in love with all of the attention. I told my
mistress that I am not leaving my wife, and she
doesn't seem to care. My wife had my phone looking
for our plumber's number, and she ran across the text
from my mistress. I told her she is one of
my real estate clients. My wife would never suspect anything,
(01:29):
and she doesn't question me. If she found out about
my mistress, I'm sure I could explain it so that
she wouldn't think anything was going on, because this lady
isn't my type at all. I'm in it for the
way she's always making me feel. She makes me a
priority and treats me like a king. She buys me
(01:49):
expensive gifts, and she freely gives me money. I love
that she enjoys cognac and cigars with me and has
a passion for classic cars. She is the ideal sugar mama.
The sex is great and feels so natural with her
that I can't imagine why this woman is single. I'm
(02:09):
not under any pressure to stop seeing this woman, but
I know it's wrong. I am happy at home and
I'm happy with my mistress, so I would have a
hard time choosing between the two. Should I make a
choice now or ride this out. Please help, please help
with what what do you want us to help with?
That's what I'm confused about here. You already know, you
(02:34):
already know. I mean, what do you want Steve and
I to do? At this point? You have all the answers? Morley,
you know this is wrong. You're married, you have children. Okay,
you're cheating, You're lying, You're using the sugar Mama because
she gives you attention. You're taking money from her. You
know she smokes cigars with you and all of that.
(02:54):
You think you might be in.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Love with her.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
The sex is great. You're critical of your wife because
she doesn't submit to you and because she wants you
to be the man of the house all the time. Hello,
I don't understand that one. But so this makes her
a bad wife because those are her requirements.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
All right?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I think you, sir, I think you have a problem
because you just want women to just to serve you
and cater to you. I mean, who are you that
you deserve that? What are you doing? But you have
a good wife, you said she was beautiful and smart,
you have children, but you're cheating on her. You don't
even deserve her. Let alone a sugar mama, and you
(03:38):
think you might have to decide between the two. If
we tell you to leave the sugar mama alone, you're
not gonna do it, because what the sex is great
and she does all these wonderful things to you. You
don't really want anything from us unless you want us
to tell you to stay stay in it, because you're
happy with both of them. You don't want an answer
(03:58):
from us. I mean, really, you're.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Just was our time right now? Seriously, you are, Steve,
you know what? Surely everything you said is spot on.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I mean, you know, dude, really, did you write us
just so you could brag about your situation? You just
want to tell it to somebody because obviously, man, this
is something you can't keep to yourself because where in
here did you ask for help? Where in here do
you even see a problem? See, all you did was
(04:30):
send us a letter that to justify what you doing,
and it don't add up, dog, damn man.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
It's dudes like you. Man, See bro, I don't.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Know what you thought I was supposed to say to you,
but it's dudes like you to make it hard for
other dudes. Man, that's trying to do right or or
out there just trying to trying to get it together.
My wife is very beautiful, she's the mother your children.
But I got another woman. Okay, right here now you
starting to women are starting to develop a hate for you.
(05:01):
But let me show you where you may show they
hate you. My wife is very beautiful and smart, but
she doesn't submit to me like my mistress does.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Right there, they hate your ass.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Every woman listening to this hates your ass right now.
Hell me, dog, She's very beautiful and smart, but she
don't submit to me.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Dog, every woman, you just lose you, you stupid man.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
My wife wants me to be the man in the
house all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Well what you want some days off?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
What is that?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
You don't get days off from this hill? This thing
called manhood? Man, you got to wear it. It's yours now.
If you don't want to be the man house all
the damn.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Time, how many days off you need?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Because she got to be the wife and the mother,
she don't get no days off from there.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Oh man, Come on, dude, right here.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
And when I ask her for help on certain things
and pops, I just want to partnership with her and
raise our children together. And what marriage is, though, then
you gotta figure some stuff out. You got to sit
down and talk. You gotta listen, you gotta hear some
stuff you don't want to hear. You gotta let some
stuff go you don't want to.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Let go of.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
That's what marriage really is. My other woman is old
and loves catering to me like she's my personal assistant.
What do you have mailed on a bride?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
What did you send for?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
And she showed up in a box like she's my
personal assistant.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Don't hold it right there, Steve. I know you shouldn't
called tip service and marriage somebody down now.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up
at twenty three minutes after the hours. Today's subject my
children's mama or my sugar mama.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We'll be back with more right after this.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
You're listening hardy Morning show. All right, Steve, come on,
let's recap today's strawberry letter. This is crazy at her
subject my children's mama or my sugar mama?
Speaker 2 (07:04):
This food and wrote in me.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You know, just this letter stupid from time to start off. Man,
I love my wife very much, she's the mother of
my children. But I have another woman that hate for
you began right here by all the women listening to
this letter, Then you seal the deal. My wife is
very beautiful and smart, but she don't submit to me
(07:27):
like my mistress done.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Still, that did it right there? See, brother, let me
explain something to you.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Nothing you write in this letter after this can bail
you out of this situation you just created. In paragraph one,
I'm telling you Pardner see Fellas, and I want fellas
to listen to this man.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
This is My father taught me something.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
He said, Son, listen to me when a fool is talking,
stay there and listen carefully. I said, Daddy, why should
I listen to somebody that stupid? He says, Son, listen
to me. Don't walk away, because what you gonna learn
is what not to do and what not to say.
Just stay there and listen. He a fool can teach
you a lesson. So a fool wrote this letter. Every
(08:13):
time I ask her something, she huff and puff. I
just want to partnership with her and raise our children together.
A partnership and raise your kid.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Doc.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
You have to talk to your wife. You have to compromise,
You have to hear stuff. You have to listen to
stories you don't want to listen to. You have to
go places you don't want to go.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Your faith. While you're saying to the dress room, you're
gonna buy stuff you don't feel like buying.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
She gonna spend some money. Ain't gonna say nothing to
you about it. I just all this has got to happen.
That's what marriage is. My other woman is older and
loves catering to me like she's my personal assistant. Now,
if you thought they hated you in paragraph one, the
letter has now turned into they want to on together
(09:00):
and kill you. This woman is looking at you like
you steak ass.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
It's so good with this older woman.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
I'm starting to wonder if I'm falling in love with
her or just in the love all the attention. I
told my mistress I'm not leaving my wife, and she
don't seem to care.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Now I know why that is so, and I'm gonna
show you. We're gonna come back to that.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
My wife had your phone looking to her plumbers now,
but she ran across the tech from mistress. I told
her she's one of my real estate clients. My wife
would never suspect anything, and she doesn't question me. And
she found out about my mistress. I'm sure I could
explain it so that she wouldn't think anything was going on,
because this lady isn't my.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Type at all. Bam, right there, that's the key to
this whole thing. Type.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
She's actually perfect for you, you full.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Of it, and she is too. It's a match made
in heaven.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
But dog, let me tell you how much you into
this check because she makes you a priority and treat
you like a king. She buy me expensive gifts and
she freely gives me money.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Who do this? Who do this?
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Except somebody trying to hold on to somebody else?
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I listen, give you an example of this.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
A buy Marjorie expensive gifts.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Freely give her money. You know why? Because I'm trying
to keep her.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
No, not that ain't what it's really about, you know,
But you dog, she trying to keep you. I'm in
love with my wife. I'm man, I took some vials.
I'm trying, trying, I'm trying. I'm trying to get to
the tape with this one. You sitting up in here, man,
acting like you like like like you just got options.
But she ain't your type though, who's tie?
Speaker 2 (11:05):
But see that's why every woman hates you.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
I love that she enjoys Kanye cigars with me and
got a passion for Classic Cause.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
What woman you listen to? This a treasure troll? You
found the greatest woman to ever live? Where is she? Oh?
My god?
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Cigars, Kanyek Classic call. Don't you tell me she likes ports?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Boy?
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Don't tell me she want to go to the fight.
Don't you tell me that she don't give a damn
if you don't brush your teeth?
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Come d don't you say it? Don't just say it
your wife? And to make me cry?
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Wait, she let you get in the bed when out
taking a shower. Boy, where did you find this woman?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
See?
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Though, she's the ideal sugar mama. The sex is great
and it feels so natural. I can't imagine why this
woman is single. I'll give you a couple of reasons.
Watch your single. Number two. Number one, she's dating you.
Number two. Most men don't like women with cigar breath.
(12:38):
Number number three. I don't want a woman with all
that in common with me. I won't do something by myself.
I don't want my wife looks sports. I won't watch
sports with my boys.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
I don't want.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
My wife to play golf, I won't hope by my
damn self. Why your ask a single she do too
damn much?
Speaker 2 (13:00):
All right, Steve, thank you Rios. No more with this
ignorant ass letter.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
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