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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
At all at all, So.

Speaker 4 (00:12):
Don't give the.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Mill bu bus things.

Speaker 5 (00:23):
Ye listening to show?

Speaker 3 (00:38):
I want to joy?

Speaker 4 (00:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Joy? They show?

Speaker 6 (00:59):
You know you turn, you turn, you gotta turn.

Speaker 7 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Go to turn the mouth turn.

Speaker 5 (01:43):
You probably got to turn the mouth turn. Ad the
money up, come come out, you think, Uh huh, I
sure will.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
Good morning everybody, y'all.

Speaker 8 (02:05):
Listen to the voice. Come on dig me now. One
and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man o
man o man. Grateful for it. Come through a huge
amount of responsibility. I didn't really know I was gonna
have to be this responsible.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
You know? Can I share something with y'all?

Speaker 8 (02:23):
I started out to Finally I had gotten on track
and was able to see a way to even pursue
my dream. It has been a long, a long trip
that I've been on, and I've gone through so many
phases of it. It is rewarding along the way to

(02:44):
accomplish your dreams. What I'm saying is this, let me
let me put it together, because I got so much
running through my head right now. You know, it's one
thing to accomplish your dreams, but there's joy in the
process of achieving it. See, some people are so caught
up in the goal, the final goal, that they find

(03:07):
no joy, no enjoyment in the process. If you have
found what it is you want to do and you
strike out on that journey, please understand you are far
more blessed than the average person to know what it
is you really want to do. To find your work

(03:31):
in life, your purpose, to find out what direction you
want to go in is such a blessing. The average person,
if you sit down and talk to them, oftentimes don't
have their life on track. And it'd be some people
that you looking at you think God it going on
because of their appearance, their swagger.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
Oh they walk like it, they talk like it, they
look like it.

Speaker 8 (03:55):
But if you sit down and talk to the average person,
the average per person man does not know what their
purpose is, has not discovered what they want to do,
and have no idea how to get there. If you
are on the other side of that, if you understand
your purpose, if you have an idea of what you

(04:16):
want to be, and you are on your way there,
you are truly blessed. And in that blessing. You must
recognize it as a blessing. You must recognize the fact
that you are on the right side, and that there
should be a sense of accomplishment and a feeling of

(04:36):
pride in you that you are on track to accomplish
your goal. See what used to happen was sometimes I
used to keep my nose so on the grindstone that
I wouldn't even look up and realize, Man, hey, man,
I know you're trying to get here, but steve, hold on, man,
can't you see what you've done so far?

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Can't you find just some joy in the process.

Speaker 8 (05:01):
See, a lot of us lose the joy of the
blessings God has given us because we looking at the
end talking about I ain't there yet, you on your way.
I'm gonna give you an example. I had a friend
who told me that they wanted to be a millionaire.
And they asked me some questions and I told them,
so they started the process, and I am telling you,

(05:25):
this dude works extremely hard. So about a year later
we were talking. He had found this business, he had
set his goal, and he was working towards it. Then
about two years later I ran up into him again.
We were talking about it and everything. He said, Man,

(05:47):
I really really appreciate the advice. He said, Man, but
this is all jacked up, man, because I still ain't
made that million I was talking about. I said, well, hey, man,
just keep at its coming. He said, Man, keep at it.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
Man.

Speaker 8 (06:01):
You know how long I've been doing this? Been two
years now. And I didn't say that to him, but
I said to myself, yeah, two years. He said, Man,
I've been grinding so long, man, Its just it ain't
happening from me. I said, wait a minute, man, holld on,
hold on. I said, about how much you making right now?

Speaker 2 (06:18):
A year?

Speaker 9 (06:20):
Man?

Speaker 8 (06:20):
About two hundred and fifty thousand. I quit breathing. I said, whoa,
my man. Two years ago you didn't have a clue.
Two years later, you making a quarter of a million dollars.
I said, man, do you understand how blessed you are?
I said, ma'am, your family was about.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
To get put out.

Speaker 8 (06:44):
Two years ago you done bought a house. Yeah, man,
but this ain't the house.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
I really won't.

Speaker 8 (06:50):
Oh, oh, partner, whoa I got that? I got that
the house you really want? Mike call fied eight million.
I don't know, but man, y'all got a you making
a payment, you drive it. You ain't out no more.
I said, old man, you got to stop. I said,
you got to stop. I said, man, because right now, man,
you you coming across. That's real ungrateful to me. And

(07:11):
so he said, man, why are you tripping like that?

Speaker 3 (07:13):
Man?

Speaker 8 (07:13):
Man, you act like don't nobody want to have nothing
but you? I said, whoa man, where are you going
with this conversation? I said, Oh, I didn't come to you.
I just came to you and asked you how you doing.
And I'm trying to point out to you that the
journey that you started on, that you are on your way,
and you are in the process of accomplishing your goals,
and can you not feel some joy and some pleasure

(07:34):
in your accomplishment. Quit tripping on the fact that you
ain't made a million yet, you on your way. You
done went from He thought this dude was making fifteen
thousand dollars a year. You making quarter of a million
dollars in two years? Man, come on, man, can't you
see can't you see? So he said, eventually, ah, man,
I kind of see what you saying. But that ain't
about nothing to me because I ran up into him

(07:57):
a year and a half later. How you doing, man, man,
I show wish I'd appreciate it my life when I
had it like that?

Speaker 2 (08:06):
I said, what you mean, had it like that? Man?

Speaker 8 (08:09):
Just fell on some hard times. Man, right back where
I was. And then we talked. I said, hey, man,
don't worry about it. I said, Once you know how
to accomplish something, I said, you just reapply the same
principles and start on over again. Man, you know how
hard it is or be to start over? Okay, my man,
Hold up, pardoner, you've been do yourself like this again. First,
you wasn't grateful for what you had. Now you're looking

(08:31):
at the fact that you might have to start over,
and you know how hard it is to start over.
Maybe God said, okay, you ain't happy with this, Okay,
didn't handle it your way? You obviously ain't happy with
the way I'm bringing it into your life. You want
to handle it your way, Go ahead and handle it
because he will let you have it your way. Can
I tell you that he will let you do it

(08:52):
exactly the way you want to it because he gives
us all the power of choice. So then maybe he said, okay,
you don't appreciate the way I'm doing it, like the
favor I'm showing you. You think it's taken too long,
I'm gonna let you do it your way. I'm not
gonna turn my back on you. I'm just gonna let
you do it your way.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
Just just say.

Speaker 8 (09:08):
Maybe he said that, and now he right back where
it was. So what I tried to get the young
cat to understand was, man, appreciate your life for what
it is, because, like like Jenny's got that song that
he got out off this album, still I still believe
it could have been worse.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
And now that it is worse.

Speaker 8 (09:28):
What's on your mind now, folks, If you are on
that side of life where you have figured out what
you want to do, you know how you're gonna get that,
and you know your purpose. You're accomplishing what the majority
of people never ever do. So be grateful for your process.
Don't tumble yourself, don't throw yourself off the cliff. It's
gonna be all right. Success takes a measure of time.

(09:51):
It is not easy. If success were easy, everybody would
be successful.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morningshell.

Speaker 8 (10:05):
Ladies and gentlemen, let me have y' undivided attention. In
the words of an old minister, I heard one time,
it's moaning time, moaning as an m A n I
n g moaning time, and that was his whole sermon.

(10:25):
But when you from the country, you moaning is two things.
It's moaning m O A n I n g, and
is moaning m O A n I n g as
in daytime. Moaning and moaning is the same thing. We

(10:46):
are doing a word of effigy today. This is for
Shirley Strawberry owner to get her caught up on things
that she needs to know. You know, as an adult
African American person who has never taken the time to

(11:07):
learn culturally her people. She has spent her time in
the bugy category, acting like she from Boston or something.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
But that's for you shall be moaning. Yeah, and she
don't know. It's the mother words she don't know like that.

Speaker 8 (11:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, let's get into that. Shelly Strawberry colle
for real, Mississippi Monica Jr. And nephew Tommy and myself
here would go. Uh, it's a lot of words she
don't know, like like e n n oh, that's you
know see that see right there, and see you ain't
even know that's it's just so much to her that

(11:56):
you know, she said e see right then she just
walks into it. She just don't no put it in
your mind.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
T A W.

Speaker 8 (12:12):
B O U T two see right there. See see
there you go. That's what Michelle. You don't know what
it is. See see she come talking about he gonna
leave me. See she still don't get it. Listen, come

(12:34):
talking about talking about he gonna leave me.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
It's all right right now.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
That is just the sadness of where you are with
this language.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
This is sad.

Speaker 8 (12:55):
Yeah, because surely see you gotta be able to float
within all worlds.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
See I can. I'm global, all right, I'll do all right,
I'm global. But see you gotta be you gotta be
more more hood.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Where did they say that, comet?

Speaker 2 (13:12):
That is what we just said? What you mean? Why
did they say that? Who saying?

Speaker 1 (13:21):
She said?

Speaker 2 (13:21):
Where did they say that? Act?

Speaker 1 (13:25):
I just said where not to say that?

Speaker 4 (13:27):
Not?

Speaker 1 (13:27):
Where do they say that at?

Speaker 7 (13:29):
All?

Speaker 2 (13:30):
Right?

Speaker 1 (13:31):
Wow, we got to go, Thank the Lord. I'm not
gonna make it.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
You ain't gonna make it.

Speaker 10 (13:40):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
have some church complaints for you. Right after this, you're
listening hard morning show.

Speaker 7 (13:52):
At the Salvation Army. Love gives beyond situation and season.
While lights are sparkling and temperatures dropping. You can be
the difference for a family in need right in your
local community. Your donation puts presents under the tree today
and food on the table all year long, warm hearts

(14:13):
and homes beyond the Christmas season. By donating twenty five
dollars a month at Salvation Army USA dot org, help
a neighbor in need through the holidays and beyond.

Speaker 10 (14:25):
All Right, it is time now for church complaints with
Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf jam.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
We gavel Hill.

Speaker 8 (14:35):
This morning on a very very augarious day, realizing that
Deacon probably gonna get into some subject metal that is
of the deepest departy of deprivation.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
Eh So I'm not gonna.

Speaker 8 (14:53):
Bather you with my normal elongated introductory. Yeah, I will
allow him full a continent of time, the full continent
of time.

Speaker 2 (15:12):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (15:14):
Someone once told me, Pastor, that's full compliment. I said, well,
suppose he not compliment any one? Why is we saying that?
Lord jeez, let us gather this morning, brother Deacon Jay
death jam.

Speaker 11 (15:31):
Go ahead this morning, I pastor, I sister lul Or Davis,
her son Elik. Her son Elite gave her a birthday
party with a bunch of gifts. All the gifts have
security detect us on him. And when she went to
the mill, she keeps beeping every time she.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
Go in and out.

Speaker 11 (15:51):
These does She's asking if anybody who had a dark
past knows how to get these things off of her clothes.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
That heat about her.

Speaker 8 (16:01):
Brother Raloh has the little uh device at his house.

Speaker 7 (16:08):
Okay, take it off.

Speaker 8 (16:12):
He charges twelve dollars to remove a minimum three items.
Put that out there. Go ahead, our past.

Speaker 11 (16:23):
We got an insan sister, the niece Journey again is
in jail for fighting over the last can a cranberry
house in the grocery store.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
Bail is five hundred dollars.

Speaker 11 (16:33):
He's asking us to please hurry up so she can
start her dressing.

Speaker 8 (16:37):
But yeah, we're gonna pay the five hundred for this.
Hell we are that girl dressing is lord out of
the world, and uh she brings somebody every year. So
we're gonna take five hundred out to jackpot. Joint and
go on and get her free. What's uh, we're gonna

(16:59):
call it the f f T fund if you don't love, Yeah,
the f f T Fund.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
That's free for Thanksgiving free.

Speaker 8 (17:09):
Okay, they're don't make that deposit our Okay, we have
a serious situation.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
I just got this call this morning.

Speaker 11 (17:18):
My brother Exavia Thompson was supposed to drop turkeys off
at the church this morning for the turkey drive. Now
he dropped off fifty turkeys and that's still mount it
was supposed to be. But Pastor, the turkeys are alive
and they running all around through the back of the
kitchen at the church, all up around the church.

Speaker 2 (17:40):
How do you want to handle this? Well?

Speaker 8 (17:43):
Also, I must refer you to brother Rauloh. Brother Ralloh
has a killing service. He has turkey killing service. And
that clue is twelve dollars. While you're getting your safety,
uh theft tags, taking off your clothes, also get your

(18:07):
turkey killed over there. He got everything. Praise God for brother.
That's the t k S fun we have. That's turkey
killing surface. All the jack parties loaded with jewels.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
I didn't know.

Speaker 11 (18:32):
That this person joined church recently. They joined by uh,
I guess they joined by email. But he's asking for
some help. He Diddy is asking if we can pray
for him.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
No, all these people.

Speaker 11 (18:43):
Are lying on him at the same time, and he
wants us to pray for him. No, that's not the
you don't passer. I don't know what to do. Uh, well,
new members like.

Speaker 8 (18:52):
This here, so I have well we we we are
church and we have to pray for the down trodden.

Speaker 2 (18:59):
But do know his ties this month will be thirty.

Speaker 8 (19:04):
Thousand us ma'am, I'm sorry three hundred.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
Three. Matter of fact, Oh, I'm going to school.

Speaker 8 (19:16):
Hold up, we need three million taeil brother Puffy that
his ties this month is three million dollars before we
offer up a prayer, all prayer, because that's what that's
the from the AP committee. You get sent over to

(19:38):
the AP Committee once you make a request for prayer.
Until you are caught up on your ties and in
line with our bylaws of our church at the JPJJ,
the AP Committee will not help you. And for those
of you that are trying to figure out what is
AP until you are tied credit worthy, we not saying

(20:04):
ah prayer at all, not a prayer shout out to
Deacon fifty will always been on the in and thet
in such a time. That way, he's a sign of
our One of our reporters here at the church.

Speaker 1 (20:26):
Didn't twenty one question stays up.

Speaker 8 (20:28):
On the Salacious Gossip came in and reported that after
the settlement, Deacon fifty posted who that was?

Speaker 2 (20:37):
Quick?

Speaker 11 (20:39):
Let me get to this one, Pastor, because this is
a serious. Sister Strawberry, who can't cook, is asking if
someone can bring her plate on Thursday around noon, but
everyone will be busy.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
What can we do to help her? Our pastor, I
don't really know what church?

Speaker 8 (20:59):
You know we are also, Sister Shirley normally takes food
from our service kitchen. You know, we get weight. We
feed the homeless and shelter church down in the basement.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
Sister Cheryl wheels, Oh, look at the time we have
to go for you.

Speaker 8 (21:19):
Sister Shearley, You're invited back to the Homeless Shelter dinner
with brother.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Coming up next. As the CELO Chief Love Officer.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
Seve Harvey.

Speaker 7 (21:35):
At the Salvation Army, love gives beyond situation and season.

Speaker 1 (21:40):
While lights are sparkling and temperatures.

Speaker 7 (21:42):
Are dropping, you can be the difference for a family
in need right in your local community. Your donation puts
presents under the tree today and food on the table
all year long, warm hearts and homes beyond the Christmas season.
By donating twenty five dollars a month at Salvation ARMYUSA

(22:02):
dot org, help a neighbor and me through the holidays
and beyond.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
Right now it is time to ask the clo.

Speaker 10 (22:12):
Vivian and Hartford says, my two grandchildren started living with
me two months ago because they don't like their new stepdad.
I tell the parents they need to work on properly
blending their family. The kids have got to go. Am
I wrong for making my grandkids leave?

Speaker 2 (22:28):
Nah, you ain't wrong for making it. I don't know.
I don't know how they got over there, see you.

Speaker 8 (22:35):
I ain't got to make you leave because, first of all,
y'all not coming over here, so I ain't gonna have
to make you leave it. But no, you ain't wrong
for making them leave. That's their job. They married. They
married somebody else, and their kids don't like to somebody else.
Y'all got to live in that house. I'm not taking
care of no kids.

Speaker 2 (22:54):
You know. Since she brought it up, I don't care
for him that much myself either, is the reason why
they're going back over there.

Speaker 8 (23:02):
Take that hate on over there towards who is supposed
to be directed. I'm not gonna deal with it. No,
you're not wrong for that, not at all. Send them home,
all right?

Speaker 10 (23:12):
Moving on to Danny and Charleston, Danny says, I used
to date a guy that my husband just met, and
I told him that we used to date. My husband said,
I should not have volunteered that information. I want to
know if he dated someone I'm around. So is honesty
not the best policy?

Speaker 9 (23:31):
Wow?

Speaker 8 (23:35):
How that honesty working out for you? You thought you
going there and volunteer some information or see, First of all,
if you're talking to somebody I dated, I'm not bringing
it up.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
And if you find out about it, you know what
I'm gonna say. What I don't know what you're talking
about or who you talking? Yeah? So who? No? No,
I'm not even No, No, we're not dancing. We're not
doing this dance here. Yeah. You He said you shouldn't

(24:10):
have volunteered information because he know he ain't he's not
going to volunteer that information. I would want to know.

Speaker 8 (24:18):
No, No, that ain't lady, That ain't how that works.
Shut your mouth. But why why make a fire in
your house?

Speaker 2 (24:33):
That ain't there? Wait till the fire come to the house,
are you Yeah?

Speaker 1 (24:39):
I'm sorry?

Speaker 2 (24:39):
Go ahead? You think what should No?

Speaker 1 (24:41):
I think it's what you just said.

Speaker 10 (24:43):
She didn't want him to find out and her I
think she wanted to tell him before he found out
that he's trying to get ahead up.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
Yeah. She used to date the guy and then he
would be like, I just wait.

Speaker 2 (24:55):
I just wait till you find him when you come.

Speaker 8 (24:59):
Did you you should date this guy? It wasn't no
big deal. We went out on a couple of dates
and that was it. I didn't think it was nothing
to mention that was it was nothing more than that
we went out to the movies twice something.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
That was it.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
I couldn't stay again, right right exactly.

Speaker 8 (25:17):
See, that's all you got to do. Wait till it come,
Wait till it come to your doorstep. Don't open the
door and send it out there.

Speaker 1 (25:25):
I'm still volunteer.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
Yeah, all right, I ever do that? Bobo? Is you listening?

Speaker 1 (25:34):
Are you listening? All right?

Speaker 2 (25:38):
Whole curtain bag dog?

Speaker 10 (25:41):
He does that all the time, you know, it Jimmy
and Raleigh says, my wife and I have been married
for eight years and she is not the most sociable person.
She can't get along with women, and she clings to
me when we're in group settings. I'm a social guy,
so I want her to do better. Is she a
lost call or what?

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Well?

Speaker 8 (26:02):
No, she's not a lost cause, but we I mean,
what's what? What are you wanting to fix to be?
See you're saying, and she a lost cause, don't get
along with other women? Yeah, she clings to you and
you want to.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Be out messing around, floating around, you know.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
Working the room.

Speaker 3 (26:21):
Yeah, how roll?

Speaker 8 (26:33):
Now she wasn't clinging to you. I don't know what
to tell you about this one because it's not a
lost cause. But you being a social butterfly and she's not.
You've known that before you got married.

Speaker 2 (26:45):
Yeah, so what you want now?

Speaker 1 (26:48):
Some people are just socially awkward and some people are
the life of the party. They're social butterflies, you know,
And that's what this is, all right?

Speaker 10 (26:58):
Last one, Steve, this is the Georgetown THEA says, I'm
seventy one years old and I'm planning to run my
first marathon in December.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
I think I need to read that line again.

Speaker 10 (27:08):
I'm seventy one years old and I'm planning to run
my first marathon in December. My husband doubts that I
can do it, and he's killing my spirit with his negativity.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
I want to prove him wrong. But what if he's right?
Is one month long enough to train?

Speaker 6 (27:26):
Hell?

Speaker 8 (27:26):
No, you can't run a marathon training for thirty days.
No you can't, ma'am. It takes a long time to
get up to that type of a marathon is twenty
six point two miles, And you're going to start training
in thirty days and you you may not even really
be a runner. Don't you start with like a five koor?

Speaker 12 (27:49):
So her?

Speaker 1 (27:51):
What is her husband just saying?

Speaker 2 (27:53):
Y'aught to wait until Junior's walk running walk? Because you
because I can now see your husband not, isn't. Yeah? So, uh, Sureley,
tell me you're fit to run a marathon.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
Go ahead, honey, guess what I think I'm gonna run
the marathon?

Speaker 2 (28:16):
Mm hmm, that's all you thought?

Speaker 3 (28:19):
What do you mean?

Speaker 1 (28:20):
Yeah, I'm gonna start training for it. I want to
run it. I want to push myself. It's when it's
on my bucket list.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Maybe you can't run a marathon now, come on.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
I don't know that until I've done it, right, until
I get it.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
I know that, I know you have ran one before.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
It will be my first one.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
We'll see you right here. Why how you wait? You
seventy one? It will run a damn marathon.

Speaker 10 (28:43):
Well, this is just something I've been dreaming of doing,
and I want to do it. I mean, I'm not dead,
I can.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
You ain't dreaming nothing else? Yeahs ain't nothing else in
your head? Running around? Wow?

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Why don't you come and join me, honey? Or train
with me at least?

Speaker 2 (29:07):
Baby, baby, baby, babe, we ain't runner.

Speaker 8 (29:12):
We can balkmore school the running out and seen from Kenya, Ethiopia,
not jes We ain't gotta visit out here.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
That's an answer.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
You're supposed to support me. You're supposed to support me.

Speaker 8 (29:25):
I'm supposed to protect you. Keep you alive. Younas around,
kill yourself. Stop all this damn foolishness, mess around, pass out?

Speaker 2 (29:33):
Why you run? Anybody go around here? I can't keep
up with you, know how? Baby?

Speaker 8 (29:37):
Maybe you gotta do something now. You don't kill, gotta walk, kill,
gotta walk when you walk. Nobody is a walk kill.
You're hope you can make that, Mister Steve Harbin Martin show.

Speaker 10 (29:57):
Man, would you rather be known as a sex symbol
or would you rather be known as the funniest man?

Speaker 1 (30:04):
Or I'll be beaten because I ain't gonna be no
sex something that with these bodies.

Speaker 2 (30:07):
I missed that. I missed that train beat. I am
a sex symbol. I can't get rid of it.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
You can't help I know.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
I can't get rid of that. And that right there
is the funniest.

Speaker 9 (30:18):
Thing you.

Speaker 2 (30:22):
Coming up right up to.

Speaker 10 (30:23):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (30:31):
Steve, please introduce your nephew and junior.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
Well, folks, this is called right or wrong.

Speaker 8 (30:37):
This segment almost should be called dumb and du Yeah, whatever,
ladies and gentlemen, what is it now?

Speaker 2 (30:45):
Tommy? Tell him about the one when he was gone,
because I hate he wasn't here.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
Wait, remind me, I forget Okay.

Speaker 2 (30:53):
I'm just gonna drop this one on you because because
I hate you wasn't here for that.

Speaker 12 (30:57):
Tell him that if a person who is death, if
they've been smoking weed, ain't that h d ain't.

Speaker 2 (31:08):
That high depth? Yeah? I don't even I couldn't even
argue that.

Speaker 12 (31:16):
I don't say it again, if a deaf person been
smoking weed, that's h D, that's hide depth.

Speaker 8 (31:31):
So let me ask you something. So you're saying, since
he's death and the fact that he's deaf and he's high,
so you're saying then so let me let me let
me ask you something. I'm saying that since he's deaf,
that that heightens his other senses and now his ass

(31:55):
can see better. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, but you thought
it was yeah, yeah, don't try to put any deepness
on it. Oh, are you merely saying merely because he's

(32:15):
deaf and he smoked weed, ain't that high?

Speaker 2 (32:18):
Death?

Speaker 9 (32:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (32:20):
All he's saying, that's okay.

Speaker 12 (32:27):
So me and Junior phone last night, tell him. People
don't die in the living room. What what are you
you know, dying there? It's not a dying room. It's
a living room.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
People don't die. People die in living rooms all the
time because you know what that room becomes. It become
a dead person in the living room.

Speaker 1 (32:56):
Now that makes sense. I don't know, you know it,
but you ain't been your intention intended to do that?

Speaker 9 (33:04):
Be you're in it.

Speaker 1 (33:05):
And I told them I haven't told you.

Speaker 2 (33:07):
I just been in there.

Speaker 1 (33:08):
What even put bodies up in caskets in the living
room Casca.

Speaker 8 (33:12):
Oh hell yeah, Tommy Cameron tried the same money and
they buried their daddy. But they had a funeral at
the house. Problem was though casker was too wide, had
turning side killed it up. When they got there, would.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
Holler, they got the get it in the living boom
and open me.

Speaker 3 (33:33):
He was balled up in there.

Speaker 8 (33:36):
Many had fist clothes till they cask I was in there, holler,
you would have to carry me out on the stretch.

Speaker 2 (33:45):
They had to turn the castle sideways and tiled.

Speaker 8 (33:48):
It up because you know, it was a little it
was a little wall where the closet was when.

Speaker 2 (33:51):
You go through the door. So they had to turn it.

Speaker 8 (33:53):
So they had to they had to turn it sideways.
Then they had to tip it up, and they had
to turn the corner straight back.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
When they opened the.

Speaker 1 (34:02):
Cast he was in that ball But did they take
the door just.

Speaker 2 (34:07):
Yeah, they out suit game office show y'all give hey
what that? Let me tell you to give them some minute.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
The funeral living room.

Speaker 2 (34:20):
Oh go, but the dudes cousin did the body in
there the homes. Well, if he wasn't dead, he did.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
Him out.

Speaker 8 (34:33):
They had to do the same to turn the casket again.
They had the funeral in the canon's living room.

Speaker 13 (34:41):
Wow, malf be licensed for some s, mister Hoolet. But
the funeral, the actual funeral was at the house. People
doing remarks and.

Speaker 1 (34:54):
Of family pictures around and flow model TV.

Speaker 8 (35:01):
They were so mortified when they opened up their cast
and he was in that man just balled up.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
The clothes wasn't on him?

Speaker 1 (35:07):
No more good If people get off and look, because if.

Speaker 2 (35:10):
I was in the holland the funny thing I look,
I would.

Speaker 1 (35:16):
Be kind of scared. If they opened the casket like.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
The people getting up.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
You know, it would have been a closed casket if
the funeral was open that you know.

Speaker 2 (35:24):
How small everybody saw as soon as they opened it.

Speaker 12 (35:27):
There but.

Speaker 8 (35:33):
Man Jesus turning around looking at the wall, joining up
at the five, looking at their mana picture Jesus.

Speaker 2 (35:48):
Just looking at that sign.

Speaker 3 (35:49):
Just Jesus, we are about that, la people.

Speaker 1 (35:53):
Yeah, have we do that?

Speaker 2 (35:54):
Play a few of them a minute. Have you ever
seen bad Grandpa?

Speaker 1 (36:00):
That movie boy with Billy what's his name?

Speaker 8 (36:05):
At the funeral, I watched it. This is the funniest
thing I've seen in years. You could pull it up on.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
On on YouTube. His wife died and they had the
funeral at a black filmer.

Speaker 8 (36:26):
They got the dogs in there that the white family
got the dog, and all the black people was watching.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
That's that friend.

Speaker 8 (36:32):
But then he messed around. The daughter came in and
tried to take the necklace off the.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
Mama watching the deceased. The mama was she in the
casket washing the.

Speaker 8 (36:41):
Cast, right, but the lady ain't really dead. It's just
a movie, right, So they're pranking these black people. So
the white girl in there trying to take the necklace
off her dead mama, and then mess around and turned
that castle.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
Lady fell out. Okay, the victim and the black Oh.

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Guys, We're so.

Speaker 10 (37:49):
Happy to announce that our fifteenth annual Steve Harvey Morning
Show Turkey Giz is underway.

Speaker 1 (37:57):
Yes, I love that.

Speaker 10 (38:00):
And over the years we have provided I didn't know
we had given away these many turkeys, one hundred thousand turkeys.

Speaker 1 (38:06):
Steve Harvey Nation.

Speaker 6 (38:08):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (38:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (38:11):
This year we will be handing out over seven thousand
more turkeys. It's our way of saying thank you to
our listeners. You know, listeners, we love you. Yes, here
the top ten markets participating this year. We want to
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We want to.

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It sounds like Philly to me.

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That's good.

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All of them in Detroit. I went to Yeah, I
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Right, yeah yeah, I went up there.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
I had a good time.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
Oh wow.

Speaker 12 (39:47):
Okay, so let me ask this. This is uncle Steve
money these turkeys? Yeah, okay, so long Steve ain't getting
no money, No Cranberry saw.

Speaker 8 (39:56):
No nothing.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
We ain't get him none to go with sides. Ain't
no sign. That's what is it.

Speaker 12 (40:02):
I mean, that's what is Steve doing. So we got
the I mean it ain't no dressing, ain't no gimping
gravy with it.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
Ain't well.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
I will tell you this.

Speaker 7 (40:15):
I have been to our annual Steve Hardy Morning Show
turkey giveaway annually every year in Birmingham and in the
hot Ham.

Speaker 1 (40:24):
They giving us sides. I've seen all.

Speaker 4 (40:27):
I've seen that.

Speaker 7 (40:30):
Greens, tomatoes, but the whole point come on that surely, okay,
I know, sweep the tato pible.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
What else the peach cobbler.

Speaker 10 (40:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
Cake okay, banana pudding, yes, yes, I make banana puddings
for the American Soccolate cake. Why is it listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Shows? Thanksgiving and we are grateful
for you all Thanksgiving Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 8 (41:16):
Yeah, I got a little something because you know Thanksgiving
is coming up, and I just want to remind.

Speaker 2 (41:21):
You all to be conscious of the people that's in
your house.

Speaker 8 (41:25):
These are just a few different types of people that
you might have, and they're usually relatives. Now, these are
all relatives. Some of them you've seen in a while,
some recently. Some people you ain't seen in the wild.
But these are relatives that you might have a Thanksgiving gathering. Oh,
here's the first one. You might have a relative there

(41:47):
that been done some hard time. Sound familiar. Here's another one.
You might have a relative there. There's got don't work clothes,
but don't have a job, going a PEPSI uniforms. Here,

(42:08):
got on the middle of highlight come live and see
got a damn post office uniform home? You ain't STI
working no post office on. Yes, here's another relative that
you might have that your Thanksgiving Uh, gather one of
them that the stole from their mama.

Speaker 2 (42:28):
So now you gotta watch every damn move they make.
Oh yeah, let him go in that backroom. Not let
him go in there.

Speaker 8 (42:37):
Here's another relative that you might have over on Thanksgiving,
mister black power one hundred percent, but he's married.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
To a white girl.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
To the people.

Speaker 2 (42:52):
So black.

Speaker 8 (42:56):
Here's another relative that you might have over the things
and dinner. You got one that relatives got a brand
new car.

Speaker 2 (43:05):
But what don't nobody know is he's sleeping in the
car because he ain't got place to live.

Speaker 8 (43:17):
Here is the relative we all got, all of us
got this one. Ain't gonna bring a damn thing, but
gonna pack six to go place.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
Yes, I.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
Can't stand there. I can't stand here. Go the other one.

Speaker 8 (43:38):
You one of your relatives gonna bring some kids to
Thanksgiving that need They ass whipped. But you can't do
nothing about it because they ain't choice.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
It would be a whole draft.

Speaker 8 (43:53):
That's all of us in there, just throwing punch on
each other, just dipping in the punch bowl, throwing it
on each other.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
The black ass. Yes, your table is dangerous, damn just working.
They do can't read. Yeah, wait what you.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Yes, you know the kids will do all that torking
but can't read.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Yeah, damn show can't read. Curse the right they do
that here. And you ever had the relatives come over
to your house?

Speaker 8 (44:30):
That ain't nobody invite, but somehow they found out where
everybody was. Yes, wonder the way y'all want? Oh wow,
you got the relatives. Here go the relatives to come

(44:51):
on swamp swamping down. They don't eat pork, but just
tearing up the greens that got pork in them.

Speaker 1 (44:59):
Yeah, yep, I'll be killing.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
That would be a hog mall. Pardon of that, right.

Speaker 8 (45:08):
Last one, this the relative I had over one year.
I made sure his ass don't come back no more.

Speaker 3 (45:15):
Found his ass in.

Speaker 8 (45:16):
The guess room, fast asleep, not on top of the bed,
but under the when you wake your find house up,
I bet you all. Oh yeah, dog, oh dog, I
want to says in the guest room.

Speaker 2 (45:36):
He was in the bed under the cover. Dog under
took his clothes.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
All right, thank you for that.

Speaker 10 (45:47):
Coming up next, the nephew in the building with today's
brank phone call.

Speaker 1 (45:52):
Right after this, Hey, y'all, this is Monica, This is
Spike Lee. Hey, this is Mary J. Blood.

Speaker 12 (45:58):
Yo.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
This is Stephen A. Smith.

Speaker 1 (46:00):
Hey, this is Shaka Khan.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
You have no idea what it is.

Speaker 1 (46:03):
This is Carlos Miller. And this may or may not
be the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (46:07):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up
at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.
It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject I think
I'm playing with fire. Think I'm playing with fire right now?
Speaking of playing with fire all the time, it's the
nephew here with the prank phone call.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
What you got nef? They moved big Mama? Should I say.

Speaker 3 (46:37):
So dramatic?

Speaker 2 (46:46):
Let's go cat dog? They move, big Mama.

Speaker 4 (46:52):
I'm trying to can I stick to the owner of
the company. It's just Robert. Owner is Robbert. It's this Robert.

Speaker 9 (47:02):
Yes, sir, this is this is mister Robert.

Speaker 11 (47:03):
How can I help you?

Speaker 4 (47:04):
My name is Corruthers. Hey, y'all, y'all clean, y'all clean
my uh my, my house last week? Okay, And when
y'all moved the furniture to clean the carpet, somebody, somebody
moved my grandmother off the coffee table. Is he not

(47:27):
in there no more.

Speaker 9 (47:28):
Well, hold hold one from the shirt. Do you know
what day did we clean your house on?

Speaker 4 (47:32):
Sir? Last Wednesday? Y'all clean my house.

Speaker 9 (47:36):
We came to your house on Wednesday of last week.
What's your address, sir, Big Mama, it's it's.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
Big mom. Sir.

Speaker 9 (47:49):
Hello, you said your name is corrupted and we came
to your house on Wednesday. If you don't mind, can
I have your address? Sleep y'all?

Speaker 4 (47:59):
Big lie mag Okay, mister.

Speaker 9 (48:02):
Coruthers, listen, if if if we if your grandmother now,
was your grandmother laying on the carpet, I mean, my guys,
don't move people, sir, h we would.

Speaker 4 (48:11):
Not have our grandmother. My grandmother, she was on the
she was on the coffee table. Her her urn was
on the coffee table. Oh real, mother's pets, No lad, y'all.
If somebody moved it and now the vase is still

(48:32):
having dashes.

Speaker 9 (48:35):
Okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry. So you're saying that you're
may mister mister grugg I am so sorry. I just
lost my grandmother not too long ago, sir. I know
how you feel. Now, I'm listen. My guys would not
have knocked over a vase or something like that, or
they would have told me if they are knocked over.

(48:56):
So are you sure that it was my clean service?

Speaker 4 (48:58):
I ain't have no nobody, no two different carp cleaning
services to come by in the same week. Man, y'all,
the only ones came by there, y'all, the ones who
did it, y'all, the one more on my grandmama and
now my grandmama gone.

Speaker 9 (49:11):
Mister correct man, mister Carruthers. I'm sorry about that, but
if you would give me your address, I can confirm
that that actually was my company that came by you.
I apologize, sir, uh.

Speaker 4 (49:23):
Trump sorry, Oh I beg one wy.

Speaker 9 (49:30):
Oh, I'm so sorry, sir. Now, can you please just
give me your address?

Speaker 4 (49:34):
Sir?

Speaker 9 (49:34):
Let me let me pull some information up in my
system and we can we can straighten all this out.
Hold on for one second, please, Fading do me faby
go and ask Wayne and Robert you need to come
in here for a second. They had to be the
ones clean at man carpet on last week. Obout knock
told his grandmama.

Speaker 4 (49:52):
Earth, bigre, you've been on that coffee table. But on
that coffee table, but it's in my yar ya, mister.

Speaker 9 (50:09):
Brothers, I'm sorry. I'm trying to find out.

Speaker 4 (50:11):
If you know what. When I give myself together, I'm
gonna come down there and I'm gonna kick some at
that damn place in here.

Speaker 10 (50:21):
Do you hear me?

Speaker 9 (50:22):
Listen, Corruvis, Now listen. I'm gonna do everything that I
can to help you. But now don't don't. You're not
gonna threaten me on this phone.

Speaker 4 (50:28):
Tell you you move my grandmama, and I'm gonna move you.
Now you hear me. I'ma I promise you. I'm gonna
tell everybody not to use this damn coffee cleaning service
because y'all don't know what y'all know.

Speaker 9 (50:40):
Hold hello on now listen now now, uh, it took
me a long time to get my services together. Certain
we do a real good job. Now, you're not gonna
threaten me.

Speaker 4 (50:48):
Y'all want for grandmama? That's what y'all do? You want?
People's grandmama?

Speaker 9 (50:53):
We sir, we have never had this kind of incident.
As a matter of fact, we haven't had any incidents
at all.

Speaker 4 (50:58):
So I'm gonna everything that I can.

Speaker 9 (51:01):
I'm sorry about your grandmother, sir.

Speaker 4 (51:03):
I ain't gonna get everything anywhere away. I'm gonna get
it in the newspaper and tell everybody not to use
this damn service. I promise that I have told you once.

Speaker 9 (51:14):
Now you're not gonna prep me about my damn company
any more. You understand me. Are never putting no added,
no newspapers, and you're not gonna shit there. Tell me
what you're gonna do. I gonna call my sons in here.
I the calling that you did there, all the ones
that clean that god dog on coffee. Now, I'm gonna
find out what happened. But you're not gonna presan my company.
You're understand. It's how I make my Listen, now, don't
know how you make your living, but that's how I.

Speaker 4 (51:32):
Make my I don't make y'all live by moving people's grandmama's. Man,
you move my grandmama. My grandmama ain't on the coffee table,
no more, sir, sir.

Speaker 9 (51:41):
It's I'm sorry that your grandmama not on your coffee table,
no more, sir.

Speaker 4 (51:45):
I'll try to find out what happens.

Speaker 9 (51:46):
We're gonna get this fixed for you, but you gotta
work with me.

Speaker 4 (51:49):
Ain't that way. I'm coming down there. Right down to
do damn if was gonna start kicking some bro. Now
your boys now stead too, Oh you're gonna come down.

Speaker 9 (51:58):
Here, corse britty, come on down here right now. I'm
not scaring you, man, I'm trying to help you, and
you want to go out on me like that. I
don't give a let her come on down here right now.
You won't get even your address.

Speaker 4 (52:08):
I don't even know where you are.

Speaker 9 (52:09):
I don't even know if you see.

Speaker 4 (52:10):
I promise you I'm whooping your boys, yo is y'all
move my grandma? You move my grandmother?

Speaker 9 (52:17):
Man, brother, missus corrubb, don't threaten me or don't threaten
me by my boy. That that's my son. I don't
take that too lightly. I will come personally to your
house right now, beat up, and then come back and
clean your house for free. Do you understand me? Don't
you my children? Don't you treat me? Let me get
up my damn father.

Speaker 4 (52:32):
One more thing I want to tell you, man, you listening,
what is nephew? Tell me from the Steve Harvey Money Show.
You just got planged by your wife? Dog Hello, say hello?

Speaker 9 (52:49):
Said man?

Speaker 10 (52:57):
I just.

Speaker 9 (53:00):
About it that that wasn't that wasn't nobody.

Speaker 4 (53:02):
That's just timming. Man.

Speaker 9 (53:03):
You ain't right now, you're right. You called me telling
me now you got my sons and there looking like
like that did something imput the head man. You won't
tell me what you gonna do with my coming man.
You know how long it's been saying, Man, you're wrong?

Speaker 4 (53:16):
That wrong?

Speaker 12 (53:18):
Man?

Speaker 4 (53:18):
Hey, man, Robert, I got one more thing, nows you? Man?
What is what is the baddest And I'm talking about
the baddest radio show in the.

Speaker 9 (53:25):
Land, Steve Hoggy Morning Show player. Man, I'm listening y'all
every morning. Man, y'all everyone look here, why don't you
tell doctor Steve Man, y'all need to put a copper
clean in the water over in the hoodie wards.

Speaker 4 (53:36):
Man, you mean a copper clean in a category.

Speaker 9 (53:41):
Copper cleaning category. Man, y'all need to go and put
one in me. I'm kidding.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
What y'all y'all no.

Speaker 4 (54:00):
Asking to you.

Speaker 8 (54:03):
Now we bury everybody in our family. Yeah, oh no,
you're getting in this hole in the ground. That's what
you find to do. You're not falling off the mantel piece.
Now we got the stuff. We're not doing it.

Speaker 1 (54:14):
Now you're in the vacuum clean.

Speaker 8 (54:16):
Now you all have been hit. Now we're trying to
tag a bag open and make free with all of
it out. We we done left your fingers up in there.
You shouldn't get all the.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
Dust out, the boy, do that vacuum bags.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
Because you don't know. If you don't get all the dust,
you don't know what part of the answers missing. Boy.

Speaker 8 (54:36):
Yeah, that's why we fool that. I that ain't no
ap for food. That's why you're not doing it. You're
not breaking Grandpa up.

Speaker 2 (54:46):
Down in here now.

Speaker 8 (54:48):
We don't know he over the fireplace. We don't know
what the ashes is from the fire here. Now we
do have swept the wrong thing in there coming.

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Speaker 1 (56:24):
Thank you, nephew. Subject. I think I'm playing with fire.
Dear Stephen Shirley.

Speaker 10 (56:29):
I'm an older single man and I'm very nice looking,
not your typical old cornball pops type. Dating is hard
for me because most women my age have let themselves
go and look matronly. I love online dating sites and
I have a great time meeting and hooking up with
various women. Recently, a thirty year old bombshell sent me

(56:50):
a message to say that she was looking for a
little financial help in exchange for some confidential fun. So
we have met up for lip service a few times
and that's it. We've never gone all the way. I
give her a little extra money for bills and you know,
to get her hair done and her nails done, and
she's happy. But here's my problem. She asked me to

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do her a big favor and I agree to it.
She told me that her mom is single, gorgeous and
a lot of fun, but she is trouble meeting good men.
She asked me to escort her mom to a galup
as her date. She told her mom that I am
her coworker's dad, and she showed her a picture of me.
She showed me a picture of her mom too. I

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took her mom to the galup and we had a
great time talking, laughing and dancing. We are the same
age and we have a lot in common. After the gaelub,
she invited me in for a nightcap. We have been
drinking wine all night, so one thing led to another
and I ended up spending the night with her. I

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must say that we're compatible in the bedroom too. I
think I want to keep seeing this woman, but I
don't want to mess it up with what I.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
Have with her daughter.

Speaker 10 (58:05):
They can give me two different and very pleasurable experiences. Besides,
the daughter is only in it for the money. What
do you think Can I get away with it? Or
am I playing with fire? Please help now? I don't
think you're gonna be able to get away with this one.
Their mother and daughter, you know they're gonna talk. Yeah,
you're playing with fire if you're not honest, and if

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you get greedy, which is.

Speaker 1 (58:28):
What you're doing.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
What are you doing?

Speaker 1 (58:31):
You're being greedy now, I.

Speaker 7 (58:33):
Mean, you know.

Speaker 10 (58:34):
And the only one really who's gonna be mad in
this whole thing, I think is the daughter, because like
you say, she's only in it for the money, and
if you stop the money then she probably will be mad.
So in this case, I think it's okay. I think
you need to be honest, open and honest with the daughter.
You said you haven't slept with the daughter. You guys

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have had lip service, met up for lip service. So
I'm assuming you've kissed the daughter and that's all. So
that should make it a little easier because you guys
haven't gone all the way I say. In this particular case,
life is short. I think this situation is different because
you guys are the same age. You're very compatible. As

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you say, you have a lot in common. You enjoy
each other's company, you're compatible in the bedroom. You do
want to keep seeing her. But then here's the greedy part.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
When you say you don't want to mess it up,
mess up what you have with the daughter. What do
you have with the daughter? You're the daughter, sugar daddy.
All right, you're the daughter sugar daddy. That's what you are.

Speaker 10 (59:35):
You didn't say how old you are, but the daughter's thirty,
so I'm assuming you're in your fifties or sixties here.
So you know, if you're going to be open and
honest and not greedy, this situation can work if the
mom agrees to it. If not, you think you can
have your cake and eat it too. It's not gonna work,
and it's going to backfire and you won't have either
of them.

Speaker 1 (59:52):
Steep Wow, this is here.

Speaker 2 (59:56):
There's a tough one. Dude.

Speaker 8 (59:59):
Let me just I think I'm playing with five? Well,
what the hell you think it for? Cause y'a'll ask no,
I know what. I think you're grown man, you know,
oldest single man. I'm very nice looking, not your typical
old cornball pop type. Okay, now you know that's an opinion.

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That's just an opinion.

Speaker 4 (01:00:26):
You know.

Speaker 8 (01:00:27):
Ain't ain't nothing in this letter. After you said you
was nice looking, they ain't come up no more.

Speaker 2 (01:00:35):
The daughter ain't said, oh my god, he find The
mamma ain't said, oh my god, you find it. Ain't
come up no more. Dog. Look well, but you know
I don't like me and talking about how nice they look.
I just don't like that.

Speaker 8 (01:00:49):
You know, I'm a good strong man. I'm a strong
but you'll be that I'm talking about nice looking Troy
to give a damn. I don't like dudes like that.
You know, dating is hard for me because most women
my age had let themselves go and look matronly matron.

Speaker 9 (01:01:07):
What is that like?

Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
Oh like a nun?

Speaker 1 (01:01:10):
Well, yeah, like an older woman.

Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
Maybe you know what is matron?

Speaker 1 (01:01:13):
Put on a couple of pounds, But what do matronly mean.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Somebody see not sexy.

Speaker 8 (01:01:18):
Okay, somebody give me the definition of Webster definition of
matrolly so I can get into this what I need.

Speaker 1 (01:01:25):
To you know, like your mother, not your girlfriend.

Speaker 8 (01:01:28):
I love online dating sites. I've had great time meeting
hooking up with various women. Then it's thirty year old bombshell.
Since you a message to say she was looking for
a little financial help in exchange for some confidential fund.
What okay, I'm you know hey man? Wait see matronly
and confidential fund.

Speaker 10 (01:01:49):
The definition of matronly says having the attributes of a matron.

Speaker 2 (01:01:56):
See what the teacher told me in school was you
can't define the.

Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
Word with the word exactly exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:02:04):
But now you dating the older woman that look matroally,
and now you have met this young girl. She wanted
to do some financial help in exchange for some confidential fund.
So we'd have met up for lip service a few times.
And that's it. So y'all kiss it, y'all kissing. Now
we ain't never gone all the way.

Speaker 8 (01:02:25):
I'll give her extra money for bills to get her
hand and nails done, and she is happy for kissing.

Speaker 1 (01:02:33):
You're paying bills for kissing. All right, Hang on, Steve,
hang on, don't Why are you mad at him?

Speaker 2 (01:02:42):
We paying bills for kissing?

Speaker 3 (01:02:45):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:02:45):
Look, I'm telling you right now.

Speaker 10 (01:02:47):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up in
twenty three after the hour.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
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Speaker 1 (01:03:32):
All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject.
I think I'm playing with fire.

Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
All right, we're back. We're playing with fine.

Speaker 8 (01:03:40):
Now who that's what this letter is because I have
a couple of clarifications I got on the break. Now,
this nice looking man who just nice looking just to
his damn self, didn't met this woman online.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
That's a thirty year old Bombshield.

Speaker 8 (01:03:58):
They done got to talking now, but he normally meet
women his own age who are matronly.

Speaker 4 (01:04:05):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:04:06):
Matronly, according to the dictionary, is relating to our characteristics
of a stage or conservative, conservatively dressed, older married woman,
especially one with a somewhat heavy beild.

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
She looks matronly in a putty colored tweet two piece. Okay,
that's no, that's the definition of matrons.

Speaker 10 (01:04:34):
Let me give you another one too, Steve, a female
animal kept for breeding.

Speaker 8 (01:04:40):
Okay, yes, it's good, too hard shure, I can't believe
you did that. Should well shuld We don't want that
work famous that.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
We're just doing jokes right now, so you'll get a picture.

Speaker 8 (01:04:50):
Well, I hooked up a verious when recently she met
this thirty year old bombs Shall send me a message
said she was looking for a little financial help in
exchange for some confident.

Speaker 2 (01:05:00):
That your fund.

Speaker 8 (01:05:01):
So we've met up for flip service a few times
and that's it. We've never gone all the way.

Speaker 9 (01:05:07):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:05:07):
I was thinking lip service is.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
Just kissing me too.

Speaker 2 (01:05:11):
Well, on the break, I've been enlightened. Nip service it's
something else. It's when the two people provide pleasure with
their lips, and so they met up for lip service.

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This is molding kissing. Now they're providing pleasure for one
another with their lips. That's what this is.

Speaker 8 (01:05:43):
Oh that changes, hey, But she and he said that
just a few times, and that's it. We've never gone
all the way. I give you a little extra money
for bill. Now understand these bill paying Now. Yeah, at
first I thought y'all was just kissing. You can't get
bill money for kissing. But for that, oh yeah, you
get you get the cart caught up.

Speaker 2 (01:06:08):
Grocer groceries. Hell yeah, what you need your assurance policy? Laughing, Well,
we get that right back for you. Wow, Rick, I
got you kids school clothes. Yeah, okay, So now anyway,
well anyway, but here's the problem. She asked me to

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do her big favorite. I agreed to do it.

Speaker 8 (01:06:30):
She told me that her mom is single, gorgeous and
a lot of fun, but she has trouble meeting good men.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
So she asked me to eskor their mom to a gala.
Asked her date.

Speaker 8 (01:06:39):
She told me told her mama that I'm her coworker's dad,
and she showed her a.

Speaker 2 (01:06:45):
Picture of me.

Speaker 8 (01:06:46):
She showed me a picture of mom too. I took
a mom to the gala. We had a good time talking.
They would limp services. They were just talking, laughing down
ha ha and dancing then and they the same age,
and they got.

Speaker 2 (01:07:05):
A lot in common. Well, after the gala was over,
she invited me in for a night cap. They drinking.
Now y'all been drinking wine all night? What the night
cap for? To cap off the night? Yes, sir, so now.

Speaker 8 (01:07:18):
Y'all in there capping off nights. And one thing led
to another. This is my favorite party is drapping the letters?
How they always say? So one thing led to another.
I ended up spending night with her, So now you
just slept with the mama. Now I must say that
we're compatible. We're compatible in the bedroom too. I think
I want to keep seeing this woman, but I don't

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want to mess up what I have with her daughter,
because they can give me two very different and pleasurable experiences.

Speaker 2 (01:07:48):
Boy, looker here. Besides, the daughter is only in it
for money.

Speaker 3 (01:07:53):
What do you think?

Speaker 8 (01:07:54):
Can I get away with it? Or am I playing
with fire? Please help well, dog understand what's really going on?
You having one type of sex with the daughter and
you're having all the way sex with the mama. The
daughter just in it for money. But you happen to
think that the mama is fly she more. You may

(01:08:15):
could have found someone, But the problem here is, dog,
you ain't found nothing. Because see, dog, you really an
old player and you like playing because even in your
letter you said, I have a great time meeting and
hooking up with various women online.

Speaker 2 (01:08:34):
So now you got these two women here.

Speaker 8 (01:08:37):
One of them does something for you physically and don't
go all the way, and the other one go all
the way. But you like the mama, but you don't
want to mess up what you have with the daughter
because she just in it for money. Found here's what
I could till you stay with the mama because the

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mama is cheap, that's why. And the mama broke it
all the way off for free. See, ain't no need
to you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:14):
No, let me explain.

Speaker 1 (01:09:15):
Are you for real?

Speaker 9 (01:09:16):
It is?

Speaker 4 (01:09:16):
Well?

Speaker 8 (01:09:16):
I'm just on the real. You cannot make this work.
Tall it cannot work, but on because dog, it can't work. Tommy,
let me come back and tell you why I can't work. O.

Speaker 2 (01:09:27):
I got something to ask if you own man?

Speaker 1 (01:09:29):
All right?

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Speaker 10 (01:10:28):
All Right, Steve, you wanted to finish the Strawberry Letters
subject I Think I'm playing with fire.

Speaker 1 (01:10:32):
About this older Guyland.

Speaker 8 (01:10:34):
This man loves online Dayton. He's an old player. He
got this girl he met online thirty year old bombshell
said they can have some confidential fun. He didne got
together with the girl and they provide each other with
lift service. Mean that they haven't different, just sex. He's
been giving her money and stuff for it. It's been

(01:10:55):
going real well. Did she ask him to do her
a favor take her mama to a gala. He showed
them a picture of the mama. She liked the mama
showed the mama picture of her, said this one of
her coworkers.

Speaker 2 (01:11:05):
Daddies. She know you all, and so you said, yeah,
met the mama. She fined.

Speaker 8 (01:11:11):
Y'all went out, had a good time, got to drink,
and she invites you in for a drink. You end
up spending the night with the mama, and you enjoy
the mama. You really like the mama.

Speaker 2 (01:11:18):
Y'all compatible in bed, and y'all got a lot in common.
You're laughing and stuff.

Speaker 8 (01:11:22):
Now you're trying to figure out because you've been breaking
off this money to this young girl who's providing you
with this lip service, and you providing her with lip service. Y'all,
just don't go all the way that. Now you want
to know if you can make both of them work.
Dog this ain't gonna work. Women always know, they know, dog,

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they gonna find out. Now, what's your question, Tommy? If
I'm the dude, I didn't invest it way too much
in this first girl. I got stock in there. Now
you know, I see what I'm saying. I got to
get broke off for I leave at least too.

Speaker 2 (01:11:58):
I just had to.

Speaker 12 (01:11:59):
I spent too much money. I spent way too much money. Man,
with this, this whole, this halfway thing we do. We
got to finish this off before I get over here
to mama.

Speaker 3 (01:12:09):
WHOA don't you.

Speaker 10 (01:12:09):
Think I almost separate yourselves when he said he wanted
to ask a question.

Speaker 8 (01:12:14):
See, this is why it won't work, because men have
a stupid logic when it comes to the way they
think about said this is a dumb ass logic.

Speaker 2 (01:12:27):
Did not just tell you that they gonna find out.
Why y'all always looking at each other like that that's
gonna come out? All you can do.

Speaker 8 (01:12:39):
The only chance you got is to tell how you
really met the daughter. But that's if you wanted to
keep the mama. Your problem in you trying to keep
the mama. Your problem is you trying to keep them both.
And if you try to keep.

Speaker 2 (01:12:54):
Them both, it's gonna end miserably for you.

Speaker 8 (01:12:59):
But if you just try to keep the mama, you'd
have to give up something, and you ain't willing to
do that. Because you enjoy online dating. You said that,
and you don't want to have nobody. You ain't looking
for nobody. You enjoy online dating because need various women's
They think, so dog, guess what you are. So just
tell them that's what you are and going about your business.

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Because you try to keep both of them, you're gonna
get busted and they're gonna probably kill you.

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Speaker 2 (01:13:52):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 10 (01:13:54):
Remember last week we received a voicemail from a man
who said that after ending a relationship with his ex,
she seems like she's getting blessed all the time. You
gave him advice about envy. Well, this caller disagrees with
your view. Take a listen.

Speaker 17 (01:14:09):
You know this message is with Steve Harvey himself, and
I really hope that it gets to Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:14:14):
Man. Listen.

Speaker 17 (01:14:15):
I've been watching you for a long time on TV,
listening to you on the radio for a while, and
I really like you, man, and I never thought that
I would be calling into a radio station, but I
had to, Man, because I heard you make a statement
on the radio that when two people are together and
they break up and one of them is doing very well,
that it's probably because they're not with the person that

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they broke up with, and that in essence, it might
be the person's fault, but the other person's fault because
perhaps they were blocking their blessing. Well, Man, I beg
to differ with that man, because how about if that
person cheated on the person, how about if they were
just totally unfaithful, disrespectful, how about that? You know what
I mean, hold, how's the other person blocking a blessing

(01:14:57):
at that point?

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
Okay?

Speaker 17 (01:14:58):
And just because a person breaks up with someone and
one does very well, there's no indication that they've been blessed,
you know. I mean, it's just that they haven't received
the karma that they got coming yet. Okay, That's exactly
what it is. Okay, Because the Bible says, and I
hear you talking about God a lot, but the Bible says,
to be not deceived, that God is not mock whatsoever?

Speaker 12 (01:15:17):
Man?

Speaker 17 (01:15:18):
So is that shall he also read?

Speaker 10 (01:15:20):
So?

Speaker 17 (01:15:20):
In other words, and layman's time, he's talking about karma.
What goes around comes around.

Speaker 2 (01:15:25):
Okay.

Speaker 17 (01:15:25):
And I feel very bad that you would make a
statement like that, you know, I mean, to make a
person that's probably already feeling bad feel even worse, maybe
feeling like they are the problem they like they calls.

Speaker 2 (01:15:38):
The break up when they probably did not, you know, man.
And I just it just made me feel.

Speaker 17 (01:15:43):
Really upset and angry that you would make a statement
like that.

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
I was really surprised to hear that from you, man.

Speaker 17 (01:15:48):
You know, So whether you put this on a radio
or not, you know, I just wanted you to hear it,
you know what I mean, take care of yourself. Man.

Speaker 2 (01:15:54):
Well, what you're saying all could be true.

Speaker 8 (01:15:58):
The problem that I have what your statement is, this
phone call wasn't about anybody cheating. No one mentioned cheating
in the phone call at all. The guy was simply saying,
how does he rationalize in his mind that after if
he's broken up with someone that they're doing really really well.

Speaker 2 (01:16:18):
Now?

Speaker 8 (01:16:19):
Well, And my statement was maybe the tour you weren't
supposed to be together, and maybe you were the cause
why she wasn't doing and I stand by that. But bruh,
Nobody in the letter mentioned any infidelity, anybody cheating. Nobody mentioned.
And then for you to use the scripture talking about
maybe calm or ain't caught up with him yet? You know,

(01:16:40):
y'all kill me with that one. Man, y'all need to
slow down a little bit. God's ways is as high
burrow of the earth as the heavens. Our ways are
not like his. You we as people, don't have the
right to call out calm based on how you think
God deals with a situation. I'm very leary when people
use karma. Karma ain't caught up with him yet? How

(01:17:03):
do you know what timing God is using or what
method he's using to get a person to learn a lesson.
I've had a lot of people tell me that something
that happens to be now is CAUs a karma for
something I did when I was twenty seven. Do you
know I just recently heard that. You mean to tell
me that it took God thirty nine years to teach

(01:17:27):
me a lesson. So I'm just literly when people do that.
And you're right about the scripture. That's what the scripture says.
But you all don't know when to apply karma, and
we as Christians and people need to stop doing that.

Speaker 2 (01:17:42):
That's calma. Y'all don't know what karma is. You don't
know how God working this thing out you.

Speaker 8 (01:17:49):
Every time something had bad happen to somebody, somebody think
it's calma for something they did in the past.

Speaker 2 (01:17:54):
No, sometimes it's just your turn. It's called life. You
just finnah get one today just to card you. You
ain't do nothing to deserve it.

Speaker 8 (01:18:02):
Life ain't fair all the time. Sometimes you get done
dirty and you didn't really do nothing. That ain't calm.
But if you're looking at it from the outside, you
called in it coming. That's calm for what you did back. Yeah, no, brod,
that ain't what that is. So I agree with you
to what you said.

Speaker 12 (01:18:15):
Bruh.

Speaker 8 (01:18:16):
I do agree with what you said if that was
infidelity involved, But in the phone called it wasn't no
infidelity involved, So I stay.

Speaker 2 (01:18:22):
By what I said.

Speaker 1 (01:18:24):
All right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (01:18:27):
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(01:19:12):
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You know what is there?

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Walk walk shirt?

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Wh you got covers?

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Yeah?

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Yes, I love that.

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And over the years we have provided I didn't know
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One hundred thousand turkeys to the Steve Harvey Nation.

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Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:21:02):
This year we will be handing out over seven thousand
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the top ten markets participating this year. We want to
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All of them in Detroit. I went to build it. Yeah,
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I had a good time. Oh wow. Okay, so let
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This is uncle Steve money the buying these turkeys.

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Yeah, okay, So I'm Steve.

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Ain't getting no no cranberry sauce, no none, We ain't
get them nothing go with sides. Ain't no side, which
is it? I mean, that's what is Steve doing? So
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Ain't.

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I will tell you this.

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Mond. All right, here we are, Steve, last break of
the day. Has been a great day.

Speaker 4 (01:25:11):
What a day? What a day?

Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
Yeah, it's been a crazy day today. So Steve, now
it's time for you to take us home with your
closing remarks.

Speaker 8 (01:25:19):
My closing remarks today are going to be based around
the value of yourself. I think this is important. Tommy
sent this to me, you know, a billboard, and it
really triggered me to think. And I'm gonna share that
with you. But it all pertains to the value of yourself.
This can pertain to you in terms of reaching your goals.

Speaker 2 (01:25:45):
Your dreams are in business and this is for you
to consider in the relationship of love.

Speaker 8 (01:25:56):
It is amazing to me why I talk to people
and people talk about how they're being treated and handled
it and represented and dealt with, and how they can't
seem to get nobody to see they value and they worth, and.

Speaker 2 (01:26:11):
I'm sitting a bit going wait a minute, Wait a minute.

Speaker 8 (01:26:15):
You can't try to get someone to see something in
you that you don't see in yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:26:22):
It starts with you.

Speaker 8 (01:26:25):
You know you all heard the saying, uh, beauty is
on the inside. It's not just skin deep, that's true.
Confidence is not an outward emotion. It's something that starts
from within. Everything starts from within, and it exudes and
and and and manifest itself in the outward shape of form.

(01:26:50):
So if you want people to value you, you must
first value yourself. I tell my daughters all the time.
You can train a man how to treat you well, Daddy,
how do you train a man? You just don't accept
bad treatment from him. If you don't accept bad treatment

(01:27:12):
from him, little girl of mine.

Speaker 2 (01:27:15):
Then guess what. He can't keep giving it to you.
A person can only treat you the way you allow
them to do it.

Speaker 8 (01:27:22):
If you don't accept a man coming to pick you
up late all the time, but you stop going with
him every time he late, the next time he want
to go out with you, he got to be on time.

Speaker 7 (01:27:31):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:27:31):
If he don't want to be on time, then guess what.
You don't go out.

Speaker 8 (01:27:35):
You've trained him how to treat you, and if he
don't line up with what you want, then guess what
he not for you. At least you don't have to
be mistreated the way he want to treat you by
simply not allowing him to treat you any way he
wants to. You cannot have high value for yourself and

(01:27:56):
expect someone else to have a high value of you.
That goes into same thing with business. You can't go
in and ask for a raise if you don't think
you deserve one. What would cause you to walk in
there and ask for a raise? If you don't think
you deserve one, if you don't have the facts to
back up a raise, You can't want more money just
because you don't spend all the money you had. You

(01:28:17):
got to go in there and ask for a raise
because you can show value to the company. You're worth
this much more to the company. The company has become
this because of you. Then you can show your value.
Then you can go in there with a raise, and
you can go in there with some confidence with the raise.
It happens with goals and dreams. If you aim too low,
your problem is you might hit it. But I'm gonna

(01:28:40):
say that for tomorrow. So it's what you think of yourself,
how you value yourself, that matters most. Now, let me
tell you what was sent to me. And listen to
this real careful, because this is gonna register with a
lot of people.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
Listen to me. If you aren't being treated with love
and respect your price tag, maybe you've marked yourself down.
Is you who tells people what you're worth?

Speaker 8 (01:29:08):
Get off the clearest rack and get behind the glass
where they keep the valuables.

Speaker 2 (01:29:16):
It's you who tells people what you're worth.

Speaker 8 (01:29:20):
Get off the clearest rack and get behind the glass
where they keep the valuables. Stop acting like you a
sidewalk sail. Stop acting like you can be picked up
at the swap meet. Stop acting like you belong in
the junkyard.

Speaker 2 (01:29:38):
You a new car.

Speaker 8 (01:29:39):
Don't act like an old car. I don't care how
old you are to somebody. You got to be a
new car. Stop putting yourself on the sales rack when
clearly you deserve full price. If you lower the value
for yourself, that's what we'll pay for you, and that's
how we'll treat you, and that's how we respect. If

(01:30:00):
you don't respect yourself, if I see you constantly disrespecting yourself,
then you're gonna turn to me and demand respect.

Speaker 2 (01:30:07):
How does that work?

Speaker 9 (01:30:09):
Be?

Speaker 2 (01:30:09):
That be a coat where they got to lock on it. See,
you can't take me off the rat and just try
me on. No, that ain't how this work. See.

Speaker 8 (01:30:18):
But now you go over that to that valuable section
in the store. You everybody been to Macy's. You got
that stuff where you got to go get a salesperson
to come and unlock it for you to even try
it on. That's cause they don't put a value on that.
Are you going over there and just put the little
shirt on? T shirts ain't locked up. Anybody can get
one if you steal this T shirt. It ain't that

(01:30:40):
big a loss. That ain't a four dollars pack of three.
Come over here, by the swede, Come over here, by
this first stuff. We got locks on this stuff right
here because it has value. We know it has value.
So we can't just let you try to stop letting
people just try you on. You got it, put a
value to yourself, maintain it, you determine your value. Don't

(01:31:02):
let other people do it. You do it, all right.

Speaker 2 (01:31:05):
Those are my clothing, your more all right, those are.

Speaker 9 (01:31:08):
Drop the.

Speaker 3 (01:31:10):
Bank to.

Speaker 2 (01:31:14):
Appreciate.

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