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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what y'all don't
know y'all at all at all, So.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Don't given them back.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
A million bus busy.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, listening to to.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Don't Joy? Yeah, Joy?

Speaker 4 (00:58):
You don't.

Speaker 5 (01:01):
Turn out? Turn you gotta turn.

Speaker 6 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
I got to turn the mouth.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
Turn You probably got to turn the mouth, turn out,
turn the water the.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Mony up, looking me, come come out. You'll think that
I sure will. Good morning everybody.

Speaker 7 (02:04):
You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey. I got a radio show.
Real grateful for that. You know, it's funny. I remember
when I first started out in the radio. A lot
of my peers laughed at me. Some of it was
being mean spirited, some of it was just you know,
mocking me. I'm used to stuff like that. But I

(02:27):
had a special guest on my show, Joe Oldstein, and
you know something, man, he said something that was I
can't remember the scripture. I don't know exactly how it well,
like we were having a long conversation, but the gist
of it was, don't be upset with where you are now,
and don't be upset with the small things in your life.
Be grateful for the small things and the small position

(02:49):
that you have right now, because you don't know where
that's going. You don't know what that's gonna be one day.
You don't know what that's gonna lead to. And that
was very warming to hear him say that. But it
also reminded me of when I started in radio, how
small it was. It reminded me of when I started
in stand up making twenty five dollars a show. It
reminds me of not having a home at a period

(03:13):
in my life and what God has allowed me to
live in now. So don't be distraught over your position now,
and don't be ungrateful or unappreciative for the things you
have now because you don't know what that's going to
grow into. And that's really the gist of that I
got from what he was saying. I just wanted to
share that with you, that where you are now is

(03:36):
so temporary because now, like I've said before, now is
a fleeting moment. Right after you finished saying now, that
moment that you claimed as now, that's gone. So the
where you are now is a very fleeting process. Now
you can change where you are now, and you can
change how you feel about where you're at now, and

(03:56):
you can change about where you're going by simply changing
your mind.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
It is no difference.

Speaker 7 (04:03):
I'm telling you, folks, the thing that I've learned about
successful people is not so much of what they do.
It's not what they have. The biggest thing I've learned
about successful people is how they think. That's the thing
that's different. It's how they think. And I'm telling you

(04:23):
that you can change the way you think on any
subject and start becoming successful towards that. Starting now, you
have to understand that. Man, the biggest difference I've noticed
between successful people and non successful people is how they think.
I was reading what is God said that he was

(04:46):
taught all wrong about money. He said that his father
was very negative about money. He all throughout his life
he heard his father say, you know, people who got
money have walked on somebody to get it, or cheated
somebody to get it. People who have money, money is
the root of all evil. Money is money is this,
And people who got money, you know, don't deserve it.

(05:09):
They've done something wrong to get it.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
Y'a to y'all.

Speaker 7 (05:11):
So, he said, he grew up the whole time thinking
that having money was something was wrong with that. He
discovered that it wasn't. Look you can choose to be
successful anywhere you want to. I've chosen several ways to
be successful. I want to be a very, very successful father.
I think that's one of the things that's paramount in
my life that I really am working hard right now

(05:34):
to become a successful father. Not a successful father in
terms of money, but a successful father in terms of
offering the amount of love and guidance and leadership and
the example that my children need to look at. That's
what I'm really really working hard at now. I want
to be successful as a father, but also I want

(05:56):
to be successful as a husband.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
You know.

Speaker 7 (05:58):
I want Marjorie to always know that she can count
on me, to not have to wonder about me or
look for me.

Speaker 1 (06:04):
You know.

Speaker 7 (06:05):
I want her to feel secure in the fact that
I really have gotten it right, that I really am
focused on being a good husband to her because it
means so much to me, you know. So I'm working
hard on a lot of levels. I'm working hard. I'm
trying very strong to be a successful motivator of people.

(06:25):
I want to be a share of information to people
that will uplift others and give others the same things
that I've learned through the trials and tribulations of my life.
But at the same time share that information and use
the power of this microphone to uplift people, you know,
not to destroy. My show is not about Oh, guess
what so and so said? Guess what so and so did.

(06:47):
I don't like mean spirited things about people, you know.
I joke with people who calling this that's another thing.
But I don't like destroying people with the power of
the microphone. So I'm working very hard on being successful
in a lot of areas of my life now. Also
I do care about being financially successful too, because my father.
One of the gifts he gave me was very simple gift.

(07:08):
He told me a long time ago. He said, son,
the best thing you can do for poor people is
not be one of them. And that stuck with me.
And this was a hard working man who was a
coal miner who worked construction his entire life. My father
didn't have an easy life man. My father didn't sit
behind a microphone. My father didn't come to work and

(07:29):
people cheered for him. My father wasn't famous. My father
was just a go get it, dude, that he instilled
that in me and I've taken that and applied it
to my craft and I thank God for him for that.
But I do try to be financially successful so that
I can do some things with it to help some
other people. Now, am I opposed to having nice things?

Speaker 8 (07:51):
No?

Speaker 1 (07:51):
Do I apologize for having nice things?

Speaker 6 (07:54):
No?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
And why should I? I work?

Speaker 7 (07:56):
You know, I'm not on the radio asking to give
me money, you know, so I can go buy a car.
I'm working. So I don't feel how you want to feel.
And other people do feel that way about it. But
if success in terms of finance is what you're lacking,
you can go about the business of doing that. I'm
writing a book and that whole book is about teaching

(08:19):
people how to become successful. And man, I'm breaking it
down in a way where everybody can get it, man,
because I want the college student to get it, you know,
I want the working mom to get it, to single
mom to get it. The hard working father that has
been trying to hold his family together can get it.
The father that ain't ever got it together and feel

(08:39):
that because of that reason, he can't be the father
he needs to be. I'm writing something, man, to put
it into words, to let you know that God is
a forgiving God, and that God is a merciful God,
and that God can get you out of any situation
you find yourself in. You just can't beat yourself up
every time you make a mistake. I make mistakes all

(09:01):
the time, man, I just got to remind myself to
get up. I ask God for forgiveness, I call on
his mercy and his grace, and I get up and
I go again. But it's coming, man. And if finance
success is what you want, you got to change your mind.
You got to start thinking about how to produce it.
The first thing you do is you got to ask.

(09:21):
You got to ask to have a life and have
a life more abundantly. That's a scripture that He comes
to you to give you life and to give you
life more abundantly.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
That's a scripture. That ain't a joke, that ain't a theory.

Speaker 7 (09:36):
That's a fact, and the fact that if you don't
have a life of abundance, you can get that by asking.
Then it starts by believing. And how too, don't even
worry about that. He takes care of that himself. He'll
send the stuff your way, but you got to be
willing to put some effort in this thing now, and
you can do it.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (09:52):
I know I was a little around the place today,
but that's what it was. So you know, let's go
get it.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve had morning, ladies and gentlemen.

Speaker 7 (10:02):
You know what, at God he did it again, gave
us another one, another glorious day, another opportunity. And I
kid you not, I say this with all seriousness. I'm grateful, man,
I'm really really grateful to God Almighty forgiving me this
thing called life, for every single blessing He's bestowed upon me.

(10:23):
And even when I'm going through something, I want y'all
think about this. When you're going through something, thank you anyway,
because he gonna pull you through it, just like he's
always done. He is absolutely unbelievable at how good and
merciful he is. That's what I want to say this morning.
This is the Steve Harvey, Martiny Shaw, Shelon Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Mississippi,

(10:46):
Monica Jr. And the legend of Nephew Tommy Junior. What's
going on with you today? Little brother?

Speaker 4 (10:52):
All right?

Speaker 6 (10:52):
Un well?

Speaker 9 (10:53):
You know what, man, let me just talk about this,
Managing your expectations. Managing your expectations. You know, you put
a lot of pressure on yourself. You know, we all
do put pressure on ourself. You gotta imagine it is
because sometime when you don't reach that goal, people look
at you differently. They say, you know what I told you,
he wasn't'na be able to do it, or he won't
gonna be able to be this or be that. You know,

(11:13):
so wish how you manage your expectations of you?

Speaker 7 (11:15):
Well, the best way to manage your expectations to stop
telling people what they are.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
I've had to learn that the hard way.

Speaker 7 (11:23):
And surprisingly I still have to learn that lesson, and
I just recently learned it again. As a matter of fact,
over the past six months, I had to relearn that lesson.
Stop telling people your dreams and visions because everybody that's
listening to it ain't with you, and so there's some
counter stuff that people do so that will help you.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Secondly, I don't believe.

Speaker 7 (11:50):
In managing my expectations. If I'd of went to God
about it. I try to dream as wildly as I
possibly can. I have some off the chain thoughts when
I'm talking to God, so I'm not managing my expectations.
You know, that's a great term to use for people

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to set themselves up for failure.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
For me, because that's one thing I've discovered in my life.

Speaker 7 (12:17):
You can't receive a positive with the negative approach. Okay,
here's a person has these wow, great, crazy, big, huge ideas.
Now here comes somebody that ain't got none. You need
to manage your expectations, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
So you gotta be careful man with.

Speaker 7 (12:35):
Some of these slogans that's out there that are designed
for non successful people, because there are a lot of
regular people that have created slogans that are geared towards
explaining their lack of success or their unwillingness to try.

Speaker 1 (12:53):
You know.

Speaker 7 (12:53):
And here's one of the biggest ones statistics. Stop looking
at statistics. One out of tea and people become successful.
What you're worried about that when you're trying to be
the one?

Speaker 1 (13:04):
Though?

Speaker 7 (13:05):
See if you're trying to be one of the successful,
what difference do it make the one out of ten? Well,
guess what, I'm just finna be the one then, So
managing your expectations you gotta be careful with it because
a lot of times it's a set up.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
So I don't manage my expectation. Question.

Speaker 7 (13:25):
I'm expecting God to do great things. Now I'm gonna
let him manage that.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
That's the word.

Speaker 10 (13:35):
All right, Thank you guys.

Speaker 11 (13:36):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we
will hear from the nephew as he runs that brank back.
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Speaker 10 (14:16):
It is time now for the nephew to run that
prank back. What you got for his nept Yeah?

Speaker 8 (14:23):
This?

Speaker 12 (14:24):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (14:24):
You know we we we're crawling up on Valentine's You
know you're you're you're sending different things, and Friday is
the big day, so Peop're gonna be sending different things out.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
This right here is edible fruit delivery.

Speaker 6 (14:35):
I'm to ask you, ladies, you can tell me when
we come back what y'all want from Valentine?

Speaker 1 (14:39):
All right?

Speaker 8 (14:40):
Not for me?

Speaker 1 (14:40):
Because yeah, yeah, fruit delivery. Yeah, let's go cut up?

Speaker 13 (14:49):
Hello, stories, how can I help you? He's not in
right now? How can I help you?

Speaker 14 (14:55):
Okay? All right? I'm sorry man. What's your name?

Speaker 8 (14:59):
My name is Perkin. I actually have a delivery, edible
fruit delivery for Chad, and I'm trying to make sure
I got the address and everything correct.

Speaker 13 (15:07):
Oh who's it from?

Speaker 8 (15:10):
I think it's from you? Your name is? What's your name? Kids?

Speaker 13 (15:14):
Divina? I didn't order any any edible arrangements?

Speaker 14 (15:17):
Okay, it's for Valentine's let me see.

Speaker 13 (15:21):
Yeah, that's that's definitely stay a mistake. You sure I
was in? Chad ordered some edible arrangements for me. I
think that's that might make some sense.

Speaker 14 (15:29):
It's for Chad.

Speaker 8 (15:30):
Okay, here it is.

Speaker 14 (15:31):
Who's who's sent this?

Speaker 8 (15:33):
Miss the reader? The reader?

Speaker 13 (15:38):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, that's not
me at all. I'm di verna and that is amazing
why she would have sent anything, right, I'm Chad, but
the different persons.

Speaker 8 (15:51):
Okay, so do you know Theta Clark who is there?

Speaker 13 (15:54):
Oh, that's not someone I associate with personally. That's Chad's
ex wife and that doesn't make any sense for her
to be sending us anything. So you don't you don't
even have.

Speaker 8 (16:04):
Said I think she said us. She didn't send it.
She said just the chance she didn't send it to you.

Speaker 13 (16:10):
Okay, Well, I'm just gonna let you know. We don't
need that delivery, so thank you anyway, you can go
ahead and to keep that THESSA, hold on, hold.

Speaker 8 (16:19):
On, miss make say the right name.

Speaker 13 (16:22):
Don't worry, don't don't don't worry too much about that.

Speaker 8 (16:25):
If I don't make my deliveries, I don't get paid.
I have to deliver these of this edible fruit, man,
I have to deliver.

Speaker 13 (16:31):
It doesn't make any sense. So now just discard it
myself if you if you need to bring it, but
I'm sure I.

Speaker 8 (16:37):
Have to bring it. Me. Let me ask you something.
I mean this, lady.

Speaker 14 (16:40):
I mean, I'm not trying to pry into anything, but
I mean, have you have you bought him anything for
battle that.

Speaker 13 (16:46):
No, I haven't, but I have plenty of timia.

Speaker 8 (16:50):
But the egg wiped them about something that don't make
sense to me. Why haven't you bought anything?

Speaker 13 (16:54):
All right? I don't think you need to worry about
what I get from my man or what I don't
get from my husband. All right, that's none of your sir.

Speaker 14 (17:00):
Well is concerned about making sure he gets something.

Speaker 13 (17:04):
I'm sorry, who am I speaking to? My name is Perkins, okay,
and I already told you we don't need no delivery.
I don't need you ask me questions about it. I
told you my marriage. Well, let me tell you I'm
not gonna fight you to fight with you on the
phone when I canna be two fools here arguing I'm
all dress, we don't need anything. You need to be

(17:27):
questioning me about what I do what don't do for
my husband. That's actually none of your god business.

Speaker 8 (17:32):
I need to know when mister Chad is gonna be there,
so mister Chad might want.

Speaker 13 (17:35):
Don't worry so much about Chad. This is our family business,
family business. I'm his wife. Do you understand what that means?

Speaker 14 (17:41):
I'm his wife. I understand that. But evidently his ex
wife wanted him to have his fruit. If you are off,
and I'm not gonna say, I'm not gonna become deliver
nothing you and you're gonna throw it away.

Speaker 8 (17:54):
This is Chad's fruit basket.

Speaker 13 (17:56):
And this is Angel did send you specifically. I just
want to understand what the hell is going on because
you seem really invested in my husband's ex wife. I
don't even understand why, but it's gonna piss me off.
So I want some answers.

Speaker 8 (18:10):
And you used the right word. You're not invested in Chad.
Why haven't you thought anything for Chad? Is why?

Speaker 13 (18:17):
Perkins. I'm gonna need to speak to your gut and
manager because I'm getting real upset right now and you
don't want no problems with me, So why don't you
hand over your manager of the phone and we're gonna
settle this, me and your manager. And I don't want
to ever see you because I don't even know what
I'm gonna do. I've been so disrespected on this guy
phone call right now room my whole damning day. So
why don't you pass your manager of the phone.

Speaker 8 (18:37):
I'm not fraid to put you on the phone.

Speaker 14 (18:38):
My manager.

Speaker 13 (18:39):
I lose me on the phone with your manager. You
don't have something, I'm gonna call back. I'm gonna make
sure you get fined. But disrespecting me.

Speaker 8 (18:45):
You taking your anger out on the ex wife and
you taking it out on me, the anger that you
have for her, you're taking it out on me, that's
what you're doing.

Speaker 13 (18:53):
No, I'm taking out the disk respect that you keep
laying on top of me, like like you don't know
how to talk to somebody. I don't see how you
have this, y'all calling me, disrespecting me like this.

Speaker 14 (19:02):
All I'm saying is the lady won't chad to have this.
Prew bask in business.

Speaker 13 (19:07):
None of your in business. So, like I said, give
your manager the phone, because I'm teaching it that you're fired.

Speaker 14 (19:12):
Okay, okay, all right till you hold on for me, Yeah,
I can hold on.

Speaker 4 (19:16):
Go ahead.

Speaker 14 (19:17):
Hey, this is the man's wife. She don't want me
to deliver the stuff because the ex wife is who's
fit it to him and.

Speaker 13 (19:26):
She don't want too serious.

Speaker 14 (19:28):
So now she got the attitude and she's cutting at me,
and I've been talking crazy her and I haven't the
bouquet stuff. It's fit for him the prow bask.

Speaker 13 (19:38):
I need you to just give your manager the phone.
If that's enough explaining, I'm gonna.

Speaker 14 (19:41):
Tell him why Hello. He just on over.

Speaker 13 (19:45):
Hello, Liz, Hi, my name is Divina and I need
to talk to you about your your customer service, delivery person,
whatever he is. I have been so disrespected on the phone.
I've never been met with such hostility on the phone
for at this point, I just I just want to
put this behind me. I just want you to take it.

(20:05):
Make sure you speak to him, penalized him, and if
he doesn't understand what he just did.

Speaker 8 (20:09):
But he just I will, I will, I will.

Speaker 14 (20:11):
I will definitely reprimand him for that.

Speaker 13 (20:14):
I don't want him making no delivery, not to my
not to my place of this. I'm here on Friday
all day. I don't need any delivery.

Speaker 8 (20:21):
You don't want him to make the delivery. But can
I ask you what your delivery? I'm sorry, go ahead, Okay,
I can't take it.

Speaker 14 (20:26):
I can't take you.

Speaker 8 (20:26):
Listen.

Speaker 14 (20:27):
This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve.

Speaker 8 (20:29):
Harvey Morning Show. All your husband Chad got me the
prank phone called you.

Speaker 14 (20:36):
I'm sorry, what this is, Nephew Tommy from the Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Your husband, Chad got me the prank
phone calls?

Speaker 13 (20:45):
Oh my god, I believe this? Are you hearing you?

Speaker 8 (20:52):
Me? Husband? Terry got you? Girl?

Speaker 13 (20:55):
Wow, I'm so stressed. I'm gonna kill my husband.

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at the top of the hour. But right now it
is time to ask the clo. This is from Nia
in Fayetteville. Nia says, my twelve year old son got
suspended because the female classmates spit on him and he

(22:42):
punted her backpack across the room. Her glasses were in
the bag and they broke and he didn't touch her.
He did not touch her, And the mom says, Nia says,
I think that the girl should be suspended too.

Speaker 10 (22:56):
Is she wrong? She wants to know. Am I wrong?

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Little girl spit on him?

Speaker 10 (23:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:02):
On him? She should be suspended.

Speaker 10 (23:04):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 7 (23:06):
I applaud the little boy for not spitting back on her,
and I applaud him for not hitting her. Yeah, I
applaud him for that. Yeah, Now I ain't mad at
him for kicking that backpack. Somebody got it just sent right.
Hey man, hellttle boy said, I beat damn So yeah,

(23:28):
I think the little girl should be suspended too. He
would have never kicked the backpack across the room had
she not spit on him exactly. Now, if everybody know
that the little girl spit on him, then where's her suspension? Yeah?

Speaker 11 (23:42):
Oh yeah, hello that Yeah, that's not cool at all?

Speaker 1 (23:47):
All right? Moving moving on to back though he put
his foot in that backpack, he kicked it like he
was in the NFL. Yeah, boy went all right.

Speaker 11 (24:01):
Moving on to Zoe and Denver, Zoey writes, my husband
is not a planner, So I told him that I
made reservations already for Valentine's Day. He accused me of
wanting to go out so I can have pictures to
post on Instagram. Why is he so bothered by stuff
like that? Why can't he just let me be me?
Why is he so bothered? He didn't do anything.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
Some people don't like the pretentiousness.

Speaker 7 (24:29):
That's caused by you know, you want to fake a
good time, put on the air, you know, make appearances
look this way just for the sake of the gram
And that gets on people's nerves sometimes.

Speaker 8 (24:44):
You know.

Speaker 10 (24:45):
Yeah, so they got on her nerves that he didn't
plan anything for Valentine's Day.

Speaker 1 (24:49):
Well, Valentine's Day Friday.

Speaker 7 (24:51):
You ain't even gave him a chance give him, you know,
said no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
She said he's not a planner.

Speaker 7 (25:01):
So she didn't jump the gun, got this reservation what
she wanted, and all she gonna do is post pictures.

Speaker 1 (25:07):
So all of a sudden, what he's changed?

Speaker 10 (25:09):
Now he's a planner.

Speaker 7 (25:11):
No, I'm not saying he's a planner at all. Yeah,
but come on now, Valentine's Day is few days away.
You ain't gave him a chance to do nothing.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
Rump the gun.

Speaker 10 (25:23):
She already knows what he's gonna do nothing.

Speaker 7 (25:26):
You know what, Shirley, you don't know what she know.

Speaker 1 (25:32):
You read the same lines we read.

Speaker 10 (25:35):
He's not a planner.

Speaker 7 (25:36):
Now me and Tommy is sitting up here together saying
jump the gun.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
But see that go the problem?

Speaker 7 (25:46):
You assuming this man is not a planner, Maybe he
wasn't planning to go to dinner.

Speaker 1 (25:51):
Maybe the man had another plan.

Speaker 10 (25:54):
Oh hello, he had another plan. Not a planner.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
Okay, but the lady has to wait those shirts. She
gotta gilt time. So you're saying, wait for the holiday.
See what happens. You gotta get your man out on.
That's all it is to what happened. Now, look here.

Speaker 7 (26:11):
If he don't plan nothing, and it's Friday and you
at work and you ain't got nothing, right, you can say,
no problem. Tonight at eight o'clock, we don't go. We're
gonna be at Benadtoe.

Speaker 10 (26:23):
So whatever it is Italian, No, it's Mexican Italian bened Detos.

Speaker 11 (26:32):
I think we've had that before, all right, Moving on
to Ron and Mobile, Ron writes, my ex wife called
to tell me her aunt died. My current wife heard
the whole forty five second call, and she still got mad.
I had to explain how that aunt is responsible for

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me getting saved. Am I not supposed to have any
feelings for anyone from my past?

Speaker 1 (26:59):
Nope? Not according to your new wife, you ain't. Nope.

Speaker 7 (27:07):
I like the way you threw it, and she's just
spiling responsible for me getting saved that's nice.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
I appreciate that, brother, that's real good.

Speaker 10 (27:15):
Nope, okay, all right, so just let that go.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
He can't even go to the funeral.

Speaker 7 (27:25):
Yeah, dog, hey, you go down there if you want to.
She gonna be responsible for some other things too, you know.
Now she'd have got you saved.

Speaker 10 (27:38):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
Can he sent flowers? Eh?

Speaker 11 (27:42):
Can he go the repass just to just the repair,
just to.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
Get a face. Yeah, don't go down there.

Speaker 12 (27:49):
That's wrong to go to the repass and not the
funeral to eat late.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
That's wrong that the guest of all I ain't gonna know.
You didn't know how.

Speaker 7 (28:01):
He really going down there for the aunt? Are you
going down there so everybody can see you down there?

Speaker 1 (28:09):
They gonna take pictures of you and post. You know what?
He came in her funeral?

Speaker 15 (28:14):
Ain't he married?

Speaker 14 (28:15):
Now?

Speaker 7 (28:16):
Yeah, let's the old girl, and he came anywhere. Wonder
how he knew she passed?

Speaker 1 (28:23):
Okay, you know what? They must still be in contact. Wow,
take a picture do his wife?

Speaker 8 (28:33):
No?

Speaker 1 (28:33):
She he down exactly? Oh you know too, that's too much,
too much.

Speaker 10 (28:38):
Okay, so just cut all ties from the past. Yes,
function like that, all right?

Speaker 7 (28:48):
You then he thought because he got saved this would
spare him the regular things like you don't.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
It don't.

Speaker 10 (28:58):
She took him to know the Lord?

Speaker 11 (28:59):
Okay, last one, Steve, Last One, Natasha and Harlem. Natasha writes,
I am in an open marriage. It's a joy to
watch my husband with other women, but he has issues
when it comes to him allowing me to be with
other men. How will our marriage work? If it's one sided?

Speaker 7 (29:20):
News for you, your marriage ain't working.

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Is over. It is a joy to watch him with
other women.

Speaker 10 (29:30):
Yeah, what how our marriage work?

Speaker 14 (29:34):
Hey?

Speaker 8 (29:34):
Man?

Speaker 7 (29:34):
Like Junior say, sometime, what meet these people?

Speaker 10 (29:43):
Why is he the only one that can have fun?
That's what she really ultimately wants to know.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
He's just sitting there watching it.

Speaker 10 (29:51):
Man, it's a joy. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (29:55):
I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm not gonna be
able to perform issue watch I'm not going to do
to perform right now. It's Steve what' you're writing on?

Speaker 1 (30:09):
You just leave?

Speaker 8 (30:12):
All right?

Speaker 14 (30:13):
All right?

Speaker 10 (30:14):
Thank you?

Speaker 11 (30:14):
Colo killing up at the top of the hour, We'll
have some entertainment news for you right after this leave.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey morning shows this Valentine's Day.
You don't want to miss SNL fifty the Homecoming Concert,
which is part of Saturday Night Lives ongoing celebration of

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its big fiftieth anniversary on air. SNL fifty the Homecoming
Concert is a three hour special that will stream live
on Peacock from Radio City Music Hall in New York.
The concert is hosted by Jimmy Fallon and will feature
legendary performances and sketch comedy to highlight the musical impact
that SNL has had for the last fifty years. SNL

(31:00):
fifty The Homecoming Concert is streaming this Friday, February fourteenth
on Peacock.

Speaker 10 (31:05):
So can you guys.

Speaker 11 (31:06):
Believe it's been fifty years for SNL. I didn't fifty years.

Speaker 10 (31:11):
Wow?

Speaker 11 (31:11):
The long time run Yeah, and still be on top
of your game pretty much? Yeah, long time.

Speaker 1 (31:18):
Annie Murphy, Yeah, mister Robinson.

Speaker 10 (31:23):
Congratulations to SNL.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
For the goat.

Speaker 12 (31:30):
Eddie Mercy yeah, oh well, congratulations again and moving on.

Speaker 11 (31:40):
We now understand why everyone didn't see the thirty second
commercial that Kanye spent eight million dollars on for the
Super Bowl. Now, this is according to TMZ. On Friday,
Fox approved Kanye's at to air during the Super Bowl,
but only in these cities Los Angeles, Philadelphia, and Atlanta.
Fox approved the commercial for Kanye to promote his Yeezy

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dot com site, and upon review of the site, there
was nothing offensive on it, just a normal Yeezy athletic
gear for sale. But by Sunday the website had been
edited down to one thing, a white T shirt with
a big swastika on the front of it, selling for
twenty dollars. Can you believe that Kanye spent eight million

(32:21):
dollars to offend millions of people?

Speaker 10 (32:24):
Come on, yes on Kanye?

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Yeah, yeah, here's the question I have.

Speaker 7 (32:34):
Okay, how's the title of genius working out for y'all?

Speaker 1 (32:40):
We have stripped him of that time old.

Speaker 10 (32:43):
I never called him that I liked him.

Speaker 7 (32:49):
Ah My damn stupid ass kids, all them, But Dad, he.

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Is a genus, hey man.

Speaker 7 (32:57):
And I don't understand the blatant disrespect that this dude
is doing.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
The swastika. Hey man, listen to me. That's awful. You
can't do that, this anti Semitic stuff.

Speaker 7 (33:09):
Man, it never works out because you know what, the
Jewish community has it together. They are all together on
this part right here. You not taking us back? And
if they see any signs of it. You gonna stop this,
You're gonna get some takedown measure one. Yeah, And so
you know, I'm with it, man, I wish black people
did that. Sadly though, we're heading in the other direction.

(33:32):
We're in the tear down business. And I'm just grateful
for all of you, Junior, Tommy, Monica, Carla Shirley, all
of you who have decided as a collective unit that
that's not what our show is gonna be about.

Speaker 8 (33:50):
Now.

Speaker 7 (33:50):
We wi't report the news, and we'll report the entertainment news.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
Yes, and if you're wrong, you wrong.

Speaker 7 (33:57):
But what we're not doing, we we're not coming in
here just taking stuff apart. We're not gonna do that,
and we're.

Speaker 1 (34:03):
Not gonna allow for it.

Speaker 7 (34:05):
Don't come on this format talking about you're gonna destroy
another another artist, another person, and I especially man would
not allow You're not coming on here talking about nobody.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
I know I'm.

Speaker 7 (34:17):
Friends with you know I have a good relationship. I'm
not gonna lie that.

Speaker 12 (34:21):
That's not normal behavior to set out to destroy other people,
to come wrong, to along with you, to do this,
to want to do.

Speaker 7 (34:29):
That right And sadly though, that's so prevalent in our
society and in our culture.

Speaker 11 (34:36):
Yeah nowadays for sure. Yeah, all right, moving on to
this next story. Really hard to believe.

Speaker 4 (34:42):
Now.

Speaker 11 (34:42):
This is according to CBS News and a you gov
poll done just this month, Donald Trump's approval ratings have
been a significant surge they've had, They've seen a significant surge.

Speaker 10 (34:54):
I should say, fifty three.

Speaker 11 (34:56):
Percent of those polls approve of Trump's actions thus far,
marking a notable increase from the thirty three percent of
poop of rating he had when he left office back
in twenty twenty one. The pole shows strong support for
key parts of Trump's agenda, such as his mass expulsion
plan for immigrants and his handling of the Israel Hummus war. However,

(35:17):
some issues are still controversial, like the tariffs on Mexico,
on Europe and Canada, and two thirds of people polled
feel that the Trump administration has not focused enough on
lowering household prices as he promised during his campaign. So basically,
when will the price of milk and eggs go down?

Speaker 1 (35:37):
Is the question.

Speaker 10 (35:38):
Okay, you're doing all this other stuff, what about these eggs?
What about this milk? You know?

Speaker 15 (35:45):
Yeah, what are you pulling it?

Speaker 6 (35:47):
Fifty probably fifty three people that ain't it really hasn't
unfolded yet. What all these signings he's done agency. Just
yesterday he got rid of of the Credit Protection Agency.

Speaker 1 (36:06):
Just hit it that.

Speaker 10 (36:09):
Yeah, I mean, bro, whatever they put in front of him.

Speaker 7 (36:12):
So what they've done now is he says it's a
corrupt organization and a waste of money. They protect summers
from loan sharking uh illegal uh rates in loans and banking.
It just monitors all companies to protect the consumer. He

(36:33):
just got it that yesterday, And people don't know what
that's gonna do. That's gonna allow the big boys to
charge whatever interest loan sharking, how they want to get friends.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
Right, But all those people who voted for him, y'all
gonna suffer.

Speaker 7 (36:47):
Man, You gonna you gonna see it ain't gonna stay
at fifty three once you all discover what was really
ha man, I owe them damn eggs and groceries.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
They not coming down all.

Speaker 11 (36:57):
Right, Listen, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, women,
it halfway through Black History Month, and Junior has stepped
up with a special poem for us right after this.
You're ready, hell, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (37:14):
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Speaker 1 (37:23):
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Speaker 7 (37:25):
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Speaker 6 (37:31):
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twenty twenty four.

Speaker 11 (37:45):
All right, we are still celebrating Black History months. No
matter what they say, we're celebrating it. It is what
it is, and so Steve, please do us the honors
and introduce our poet. Laureate ladies, gentlemen, Jay.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Rap j R.

Speaker 7 (38:02):
A p acronym standing for Junior's raggedy ass poets.

Speaker 9 (38:08):
Come on, j oh, thank you. Uh you know, as
I walk against the establishment.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
I have oh you kindred lamar now yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (38:18):
The name of this poem is say it loud. I'm
black and I'm proud, Okay, say it loud. I'm back
and I'm powered.

Speaker 1 (38:25):
Here we go.

Speaker 12 (38:26):
I'm back and I'm black and power.

Speaker 15 (38:32):
No, I'm black and I'm proud, y'all, i am black.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
You say that the second time?

Speaker 10 (38:37):
Tell me, I know you're not talking about anybody.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
I'm telling him.

Speaker 9 (38:41):
Come on, this month, we celebrate the people that fought
for our civil rights and shout out to the black
man that invented the traffic light. We can straighten out
have before we leave home because a black woman invented
the straightening can.

Speaker 15 (38:55):
And it really makes my heart starts.

Speaker 9 (38:57):
To flutter when I think about the black man that
invented Peter Butter. And it was a black woman that
invented the touchtow phone side.

Speaker 15 (39:03):
Granted, could gossip.

Speaker 9 (39:03):
Without ever leaving home. But wait, we also invented the thermostat.
We got some cold ancestors. I bet y'all can't top that.
The President tried to cancel Black History Month this year,
but were still celebrating every February. So have no fear
saying loud, I'm black and I'm proud.

Speaker 8 (39:18):
D N.

Speaker 15 (39:19):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
Drop the mic.

Speaker 15 (39:22):
The establishment will not succeed.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
Come out, kid, drop it.

Speaker 15 (39:28):
This me and Kendrick on the same level.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
Yeah, he did not write that.

Speaker 6 (39:35):
I can't tell y'all right now, Junior ain't wrote Junior
Ain't wrote that. That sounds way too good right there?

Speaker 1 (39:41):
See that. Tear down, tear.

Speaker 10 (39:44):
Down, Junior, not like us and be your own people,
your own people. It was a great bomb.

Speaker 9 (39:53):
Thank you, good job here like that. We still celebrating
every February. You can say it's answer, but it's not back.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
But we're Yeah, so far, it's been real black and
the black.

Speaker 10 (40:04):
Black used to be a week.

Speaker 15 (40:10):
The Negro National anthem.

Speaker 9 (40:12):
They sang the national anthem and they did the halftime
show that's black as hell.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
February we had one album of the year.

Speaker 14 (40:21):
It's been black.

Speaker 7 (40:28):
Are Getting too Black? I just this boy's poem. I
just sit here and just go ahead right there.

Speaker 1 (40:36):
Wait a minute, you said each other day some praise. Yeah,
but juniors, Junior is ours.

Speaker 15 (40:44):
Yeah inside hours.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
Yeah, Ripping JR.

Speaker 7 (40:48):
A new one is like ripping ourself one sometimes you know, oh,
you know he's not changing now.

Speaker 11 (40:56):
I know, we gotta go to Broadway, go to New York, Carlo,
I know, girl, we're here. You know you didn't you
disloyal you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. Okay, Carla, I
think we need to hold hands on this one girl.
During a podcast with The New York Times, Denzel Washington

(41:19):
revealed that he almost bit his tongue off.

Speaker 10 (41:24):
And that it's.

Speaker 11 (41:25):
Affecting his speech and making it harder to prepare for
his return to Broadway next month. Denzel is rehearsing, Yeah,
this is really bad.

Speaker 1 (41:35):
Right here.

Speaker 10 (41:35):
Denzel is rehearsing for the Broadway revival of William Shakespeare's Othello.

Speaker 1 (41:40):
Denzel said, quote, Yeah, I bit.

Speaker 11 (41:43):
My tongue almost half off a few months ago. Yeah,
it's affecting my speech. It forces me to slow down.
I have a line, whether will you go that I
go to answer this your charge?

Speaker 10 (41:56):
It is hard because my tongue is swollen.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
Well, hold on, say the line again.

Speaker 10 (42:03):
Whither will you that I go to answer this your charge?

Speaker 1 (42:07):
Okay, Now, Tommy, listen to me. Here's your chance, Tommy
to sit.

Speaker 7 (42:12):
In what for the great Denzel Washington until his tongue.

Speaker 6 (42:19):
Until his tongue, get his tongue back, get the show
must go.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
On, Tommy, We'll wait deliver this line, fellow. Mm hmm.
What Denzel is trying to.

Speaker 7 (42:38):
Come on, Tommy, whither will you?

Speaker 4 (42:46):
Tell me?

Speaker 7 (42:46):
You're gonna have to get this together because this is
for O Broadway, this fella.

Speaker 1 (42:53):
You gotta sound like Dinzel? Come on, Whither will you?

Speaker 6 (43:00):
Did I go to answer this? You your charge? I
got the lamb. Boy, this's the front. That's beauty.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
Right there.

Speaker 7 (43:08):
This you your charge? Very just zelish, I need the beginning.
That's where we're struggling. He can't rehearse his tongue swollen.
Damn near bid it off, baby, Whither will come on?

Speaker 1 (43:23):
Come on, come on this whither will you? But we
got to stay you right here. I ain't no need
to move it off this hill.

Speaker 7 (43:32):
To go to the next line, because we we really
got to get this party.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
We will wait for Can you say the line again, Shirley,
that we are looking for? Whither will you? That I
go to answer this your charge?

Speaker 7 (43:45):
Whither will you? With the will you? We go to
answer this shot? Time to hit it quiver.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Right there?

Speaker 7 (43:58):
It's will will not not wheel. There's no wheel in this.
It's a wheel, all right? Come on, long time?

Speaker 1 (44:07):
Whither wheel?

Speaker 7 (44:09):
Okay, we got gousty quick blow it. We have gossic
quick blowing that whistle. That's really.

Speaker 1 (44:19):
See, this is gonna bother a lot of people at
the play.

Speaker 7 (44:21):
I'm gonna tell you right now because they've been going
to plays for years and they know good that right there,
we got to cut that party. Try to do it, Tim,
I know you got a problem. Try to do it
without the without without the blowing part.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
Can I take the w's own?

Speaker 12 (44:39):
No?

Speaker 6 (44:39):
Because then ill he hither here? The ill you that
I go to answer? This is your charge?

Speaker 8 (44:46):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (44:47):
See that don't that don't even fit into the play
because we don't know who whoever is? Okay somebody ill
That's the reason we are here because denzay, okay.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
Come out here tongue all right, Denzel?

Speaker 7 (45:02):
Whither that should listen to me? Without the blowing with that,
it's hopeless. Steve Shure, I heard that. I heard that.
I can still hear it now.

Speaker 1 (45:17):
Whither But but no, Thomas, once you said, you gotta
keep going? Okay, whither quill you that I go to?
No will? What the hell is that? Last time? Ten seconds?

Speaker 8 (45:32):
Come on? Hit it?

Speaker 1 (45:34):
Whether will you?

Speaker 8 (45:34):
Then?

Speaker 1 (45:34):
I go to come on back, Jnzel, come on, hurry
back the will so we will wait for you. Denzel
all right, come on in.

Speaker 11 (45:44):
We'll run at the Ethel Barrymore Theater on Broadway from
March twenty fifth through June eighth. Coming up next, it
is the nephew and the bring phone for Frank back
Cowing up next is the nephew is brank phone call
for today.

Speaker 10 (46:01):
Right after this, you're.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 11 (46:05):
Coming up at four minutes after the hour, it's my
Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is I get
bored with men quickly.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
All right, yeah, you got the wrong man, that's all.

Speaker 10 (46:17):
We'll get into that in just a little bit.

Speaker 11 (46:20):
Okay, but right now, the nephew is here with today's
prank phone call.

Speaker 10 (46:25):
What you got for his neph All.

Speaker 6 (46:27):
Right, Shirley, this one right here. You know, we headed
to Valentine, so we're gonna keep it going. Valentine's Day prank.
This is the Valentine's Day prank. Okay, We're gonna call
a gentleman let him know that I'm buying things for
the ladies in the office and I need some information
on his wife.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (46:43):
Yeah, huh, you know, because I should be able to
buy your wife something, you know, for what you think. Yeah, yeah,
I mean why should you Why should she just get
one gift? You know why you can't get something from
somebody else, Somebody at the office, Somebody looking out for her.
Somebody spend most hand than you do. Okay, Somebody will
take her to lunch, Somebody that makes sure you got

(47:05):
what she needs when she needs her coffee and stuff
in the morning.

Speaker 1 (47:07):
You don't know what we go through at the job.
You don't.

Speaker 6 (47:10):
You don't be there to marry with some of these men.
They get, uh Valentine's Day, Frank, let's go cat dog.

Speaker 8 (47:17):
Hello.

Speaker 4 (47:18):
Hey, I'm trying to reach Travis. Yeah, this Travis, Hey Travis,
check this out. Man, this Kendrick dob I'm trying to ask.
I wanted to reach out to you. Man. Hey, man,
do you know what you're getting? Uh getting your girl
Diane for for Valentine? I want to make sure we
don't get the same thing. Who is this this Kendrick?
You want to make sure that we don't get the
same thing for my girl? Who you know my girl?

Speaker 14 (47:37):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (47:38):
No, I work with I work with Diane. Man. I'm
getting all the ladies something here in the office.

Speaker 8 (47:42):
I'm gonna get them off getting nothing for my girl,
talking about what I'm not.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
Now, hold up, down, hold listen to me, man, I'm
trying to I'm trying to get something for all the
ladies in the autun I'm just gonna get nothing for
my lady. You can get something for everybody else. I
don't know about what you're talking. You're talking about what
to tell your babies against aint Kendred. Well, my guy,
I ain't never mentioned no Kendrick.

Speaker 8 (48:02):
Hold on, let me go.

Speaker 4 (48:03):
No, hold up, guy, you you you you you rolled
up too fast. What I'm trying to do, man, I'm
just trying to get all the little lady or something.

Speaker 7 (48:09):
Man.

Speaker 4 (48:09):
Just look, hey, hey, hold on, doubt, hold on, doubt
doing the most. You doing something right now. You ain't
got to get for my lady. You understand me. Hey, hey,
why why are you coming at me sideways?

Speaker 14 (48:18):
Man?

Speaker 4 (48:19):
Like I say, I'm just trying to. I'm just trying
to get it, you know, you know, show my appreciation.
I worked with him, man, Just show them a little love.
And I want to make sure I wasn't getting the
same thing that you might be getting them. For an
hour about you're doing talent time now, I'm telling you now,
I'm telling you, don't me man, don't with my girl.
You ain't got nothing to do with my guy. You
ain't got nothing to do with the all.

Speaker 8 (48:37):
Right, let me call hard Who the hell?

Speaker 4 (48:39):
What'd you say?

Speaker 8 (48:39):
Your name wasn't my name?

Speaker 4 (48:40):
Kendreck?

Speaker 8 (48:41):
You're simple got to leave my girl alone.

Speaker 4 (48:43):
I know that's the show. Hey, hey, hey, you ain't
gotta come in me like this here. Man, you want
to come in sideway talking about you try to get
something my guy? You're stupid trying to do Huh, I
just don't out. Hey, hold up, man, I wouldn't get
my man.

Speaker 8 (48:57):
How do you get my numb anyway? Now?

Speaker 4 (48:58):
I got your number from you? From Uh, there's another
dude told me here at your number. He the one
gave me your number. But I mean, what's what's the
big deal? Dowd just trying to give us something for Barentine? Man,
it ain't it ain't nothing serious?

Speaker 8 (49:10):
Now what cubeau you work at? How long you been
working anyway?

Speaker 4 (49:14):
I've been here by three months and now it's bout.

Speaker 8 (49:16):
Three more money?

Speaker 4 (49:17):
What makes you think you're supposed to buying anybody anything anyway? Huh?
Are still on probation what you say? Your name worth giveing?

Speaker 8 (49:25):
Hey?

Speaker 4 (49:25):
Dog, my name Kendrick Man? But do why? Wow?

Speaker 8 (49:27):
How you want?

Speaker 4 (49:29):
Why are you being hostile? You being hostile? He ain't
seen hostile yet, dog. I'm trying to say, well, but
that's what I'm trying to do. You know what I'm
talking about. I'm just trying to show the ladies in
the office.

Speaker 8 (49:40):
You know that I got love.

Speaker 4 (49:41):
And respect for Should my wife know of the something?
We got enough love around here.

Speaker 8 (49:46):
You ain't got to show my wife nothing? Your simple?

Speaker 4 (49:48):
What what to you work on? Doc? I work on
the fourth floor. I know they're on the third floor,
but I work you know on they are we all cool?

Speaker 8 (49:54):
Man?

Speaker 4 (49:54):
I don't even understand the hostility?

Speaker 8 (49:57):
Man, How do you know my wife?

Speaker 4 (49:59):
I just know about working with a dog, That's it.
So what makes you think you're supposed to be buying
a Valentine's gifts?

Speaker 8 (50:04):
Hey?

Speaker 4 (50:05):
Hey, let me think you know what? Man, I don't
even want to argue. Let me ask you this here, man,
do you think she like Victoria a secret?

Speaker 8 (50:11):
I'm on my way down. I'm on my way right now.
But what one for all? On? Now?

Speaker 4 (50:15):
What's the deal?

Speaker 14 (50:15):
Man?

Speaker 8 (50:16):
Dogs?

Speaker 4 (50:17):
You know don't be playing with my family like that.
You understand what we've been going through. Dogs, I'm about
to man what you say? You are on the fourth floor? Yeah,
but dob, what what you are house style for?

Speaker 8 (50:26):
Man? I'm just what what? What?

Speaker 14 (50:27):
What you?

Speaker 4 (50:28):
Because you're in now, I'm on the I'm on the
fourth floor.

Speaker 8 (50:31):
Day on the third.

Speaker 4 (50:32):
Dog, I'm you know my cubical right when you get
off the elevator. But why is you tripping though the
dog you're talking about right now? Dog? You ain't nobody
buying my note? My wife know to your secrets. Hey,
you got a girlfriend or wife or something? You gotta
Are you married?

Speaker 12 (50:46):
No?

Speaker 4 (50:47):
No, I got a little you know, a little something
something I'm singing right now, But I ain't.

Speaker 8 (50:51):
A good do something doll. You believe my wife and
bout of this? You know what I'm talking about? How
many people get in call with this? Anyway?

Speaker 4 (50:57):
Now you're the first person I called. I'm the first
person then you call. I'm glad you did call me.

Speaker 8 (51:01):
You stupid?

Speaker 4 (51:02):
You about to get your whooped out, don't be. You
need to focus on that. There's a nap ahead. However
that is that you got on your team.

Speaker 1 (51:10):
You feel me?

Speaker 4 (51:10):
You know talking about to leave mine out of this
Hey hey, hey, hey, hold up, man, don't know the
first of all. And you know what, man, you finna
quit talking crazy to me. That's what you finish, you finnah,
Quit talking crazy to me?

Speaker 14 (51:20):
What you say?

Speaker 4 (51:21):
Wait all I'm saying. All I'm saying is you ain't
got to be You ain't got to be tripping on
hog style with me the way you acting. Dog, That's
all I'm saying. What you wanna call me talking about
you about to buy a gift for my my wife.
You leave me and dad out of your little book. Dog?
You about to get your boop. Doug called me with
some like this. Fuck what you say your name was

(51:42):
my name, Kendrick. Man I'm saying is I was trying
to be nice to the ladies in the office.

Speaker 8 (51:47):
Dog. That's why you ain't nice.

Speaker 4 (51:48):
We don't need your niceness around here. You about to
get well, that's what's about to happen. Hey, man, you
ain't got to have no hostile attitude about this man,
You and my attitude, Doug, you just one of them
more rule to trying to get with my dad. I
ask no, halady, another game, diady, Another game, you feel me, Diane,
you can leave what out it is. I'm telling you

(52:10):
you're about to get your in the situation. That's what
you're a postit do come out of think don't buy
her a gift. You buy our gift and you see
what happened?

Speaker 8 (52:19):
Oh so so so?

Speaker 4 (52:20):
Now okay, hold dog, Either I could buy a gift
or not. Now I ask you before what times they toil?

Speaker 8 (52:25):
Singrets? Do she will? Man?

Speaker 4 (52:27):
Buy whatever you think she will whatever you think she will,
you buy that?

Speaker 8 (52:31):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (52:31):
So you cool with me getting something?

Speaker 14 (52:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (52:33):
Yeah, yeah, I'm cool with you getting something. It's you
cool with me getting a panty and bro set man,
and you're cool.

Speaker 8 (52:39):
With getting your what? Now?

Speaker 4 (52:42):
Now you're back to being hostile. Now either I can
buy something or I can't.

Speaker 8 (52:46):
Why are you tripping?

Speaker 4 (52:47):
I don't know how you got my numbers, but I
tell you the truth. Man, you better you better leave
my wife alone. Dogar, don't don't even look at me, Diane,
you feel me. Don't even look at Diane. Don't get
your see you don't know you Okay, dom Let me
let me tell you this. Can I tell something to you? Man?
What what? I just want to tell you this man,
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(53:10):
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Speaker 8 (53:21):
Your wife.

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Oh oh, I'm gonna get up. I'm gonna get up,
nephew Tommy Man. Somebody was about to get whoop up
there on the fourth floor. I'm talking about with the
cubic rite out the elevator today.

Speaker 8 (53:36):
You a fool man.

Speaker 4 (53:37):
I'm gonna get her.

Speaker 8 (53:38):
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Somebody gonna you up, Tommy Man, for real?

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Man?

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You had me over here about the I ain't gonna
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That Steve Harvey Morning Show?

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the subject is I get bored with men. Quickly we'll
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It is Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 11 (56:25):
Thank you, nephew. Subject I get bored with men quickly.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty two year old woman,
single woman. I am afraid that I will be a
certified loaner all of my life because I get bored
with men quickly. Maybe I'm attracted to the wrong men.
So I'm writing you because it's cheaper thanotherapist. I was
dating a guy that pursued.

Speaker 10 (56:47):
Me for months.

Speaker 11 (56:47):
I liked him a lot, but played it off so
I could be pursued. After a few dozen roses being
sent to me, I agreed to go out with him.
Our first few dates were great, but he's not big
on opening doors for me and pulling out my chair
when we dined out. He smelled good and he was
nicely groomed, but he wore sneakers with everything. He also

(57:08):
started talking about sex too soon and made jokes about
my curves that were distasteful. I guess you would say
I'm a hopeless romantic, and I've watched too many black
and white movies, so I expect to be I expect
to have a love story similar to what I see
in the movies.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
I get bored quickly and.

Speaker 11 (57:26):
Start to lose interest in the men when things don't
go as I had imagined. I tried online dating and
recently I met a man that checked all of the boxes.
But he has a six year old child. He has
soul custody, and he is the sweetest girl dad. Everything
was going great, and his child even went on a
few dates with us. I got baby fever really bad,

(57:49):
and he could see. He said he could see us
having children together. I prayed that I wouldn't lose interest
or get bored with him, but I did right after
we made love for the first time. It was boring,
and he doesn't know what he's doing. He said he
was nervous, but he's in his forties, so he should
know better. I'm still with him, and I'm bored. He

(58:12):
knows something is wrong, but I don't want to be honest.
I'm a big part of the problem. So how do
I fix myself? Why do I get bored quickly? Well,
you told us what you don't like, but not really
what you do. Like, I mean, honestly, it sounds like
you're looking for a perfection from these men.

Speaker 10 (58:30):
Like maybe you think what you see in the movies.

Speaker 11 (58:32):
These black and white movies that you watch, maybe you
think that's real life. Well that's not real those movies.
It's nothing wrong with wanting a gentleman to open doors
for you and pull your chair out for you.

Speaker 10 (58:43):
Nothing wrong with that at all. But the guy you
dated wasn't that, and the sex talk was too soon
for you.

Speaker 11 (58:49):
You said, well, that's who he is. You didn't like it,
and you moved on from him.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
Good.

Speaker 10 (58:54):
He wasn't for you.

Speaker 11 (58:56):
It didn't mean he was boring necessarily, he just wasn't
your second guy, nice guy boring in the bedroom according
to you. It wasn't your first time.

Speaker 10 (59:06):
It was his first time, he said, And he said
he was nervous, which I believe because he could have
been nervous the first time. And just because someone's in
their forties doesn't mean he automatically knows how to please you.
These things, these things take time. You got to get
to know each other.

Speaker 11 (59:23):
You got to talk to each other, communicate what you like,
what you don't like. You are half of the problem
because in order for anything or any relationship to work,
you got to put in some work.

Speaker 10 (59:33):
But you don't.

Speaker 11 (59:34):
You want everything just so, just so perfect, immediately, and
you're gone because you're bored. If it's not that, no
one's saying you have to stay in an unfulfilling situation.

Speaker 10 (59:44):
But you should give a good man a chance. That's
all I'm saying, Steve.

Speaker 7 (59:50):
It's an interesting letter from this young lady that's thirty
two years old. So I'll try to approach this from
a dad's standpoint and what I know about men, which
is a lot. I know a lot about men. Not
that great on women, but now I know a heck
of a lot about men. But once you get into relationship,

(01:00:11):
I can tell you where his head is at. You're
afraid that you will be a certified learner all of
your life because I get bored with men quickly.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
There's a huge part.

Speaker 7 (01:00:24):
Of your problem in that first line. I get bored
with men quickly. So guess what's gonna continue to happen.
You're gonna get bored with men quickly because you've accepted
that as a flaw. You've done nothing to change it,

(01:00:44):
so you've just accepted it. So now here we are. Okay,
you think it's cheaper than a therapist, I'll do what
I can do. I liked him a lot. I met
a guy pursued me for months. After a dozen roses,
he said, I agreed to go out with him first dates,
but he wasn't big on opening doors, pulling our chairs
when we went out. He smelled good, really groom, but

(01:01:08):
he wore sneakers with everything that.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
Can be changed. Damn.

Speaker 7 (01:01:15):
Some dudes don't know no better. And that's what people
do now. They were sneakers with everything that could have
been changed. So and the don't open doors and pulling
our chairs that could have been changed. I tell women
this all the time. You can train a man how
to treat you. If you go to the door and

(01:01:36):
you stand there in that door, then he don't see
that you've been waiting on him to open it.

Speaker 8 (01:01:41):
He go.

Speaker 1 (01:01:41):
You know that's it.

Speaker 7 (01:01:43):
You all go out to dinner. Just stand at your chair, Marjorie,
don't open no doors. We go to dinner, Marjorie standing
in her chair. She know I'm coming, and if something
happened and throw me off, she's staying right there.

Speaker 1 (01:01:56):
You could have good. Did that?

Speaker 7 (01:01:58):
I expect to have a love store like you see
in the movies. Here we go right back again. I
get bored quickly and start to lose interest in men
with things don't go as I had imagined. Okay, you
just you keep losing me because it don't go as

(01:02:18):
how you would imagine let me say this before we
go to break. You have all these expectations in this letter,
and I've heard no expectations of yourself in this letter.
All right, Steve, this is a very one side of
relationship you're trying to have.

Speaker 1 (01:02:38):
I'll tell you the rest. I want to come back.
All right, hold it right there.

Speaker 11 (01:02:41):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject
I get bored with men quickly.

Speaker 10 (01:02:49):
We'll get back into.

Speaker 11 (01:02:50):
It right after this. Hey, this is your girl, Shirley Strawberry.
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Strawberry letter. The subject is I get bored with men quickly.

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
Well, like I said, this is the problem in this
whole letter.

Speaker 7 (01:03:33):
This young lady gets bored with me and quickly, and
so all throughout the letter she'd meet. She meets a guy.
He was everything. He was nice, he just wasn't big
on chivalry. He don't pull out chairs, open doors, and
he wears he dressed nice, but he wears sneakers with everything.

Speaker 1 (01:03:50):
All those three things you.

Speaker 7 (01:03:51):
Just said change. He ain't mistreating you in this letter.
You know he he's not kind. He didn't open a
door and he didn't pull out a chair is because
chivalry has not been taught to him, but you could
teach it to him. And the fact that he were
sneakers with everything you could have worked with that.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
See all these expectations in this letter.

Speaker 7 (01:04:14):
Like I said before we went on break, the problem
is you have no expectations of yourself. There are women
who have got with men who weren't complete and work
and worked on completing though, But you ain't willing to
do that. You won't miss the ready man. But you're not.
I tell you then, But you're not. I don't see

(01:04:36):
you building a man up. I don't see you getting
ready to support him. I don't see none of that,
all right, So that one didn't happen. Then you say
he also started talking about having sex too soon, and
he made jokes about your curves that were distasteful.

Speaker 1 (01:04:56):
Okay, all that could have been worth it anyway.

Speaker 7 (01:04:59):
I guess you say I'm a hopeless romantic because I
watched a lot of black and white movies. I expect
to have a love story similar to what I see
in the movies. You know how old black and white
movies is. It don't work like that in the movies.
This is real life. You got to put in some work.
Then you go right back saying I get bored quickly,

(01:05:19):
and I started to lose interest in men when things.

Speaker 1 (01:05:22):
Don't go as I had imagined.

Speaker 7 (01:05:25):
See you gonna let your imagination mess you up for
the rest of your life because the reality of it
is nobody's perfect. Everybody has to make some little adjustments,
and that would include you.

Speaker 1 (01:05:39):
All right.

Speaker 7 (01:05:40):
Then you recently met this man on line and guess
what checked all the boxes. But he had a six
year old child soul custody. He's the sweetest girl.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
Dad.

Speaker 7 (01:05:51):
Everything was going great, his child even went on a
few dates with us. I got baby fever really bad,
and he said he could see us.

Speaker 1 (01:05:58):
Having children together.

Speaker 7 (01:06:00):
And let me ask you a question, sho, Well, she said,
I got baby fever real bad. That means she wanted
to have a baby exactly. Okay, cool, all right now.
And he said he could see us having children together.
I prayed that I wouldn't lose interest or get bored
with him, but I did. Well, let's find out why.

(01:06:21):
Right after we made love for the first time, it
was boring. And he doesn't know what he's doing. Okay,
he said he was nervous, but he's in his forties,
so he should know better. There you go again. There
you go a kid. He was nervous, you said, but
he in his forties. He ought to know what he doing. Well,

(01:06:44):
But you got to give the man a chance anyway,
let me okay, So now here we go. This is
another man that's slipping out perfect checked all the bloxes.
His love making is a little bit boring. And you
know what is it that these men are boring?

Speaker 1 (01:07:01):
Are you too damn much? Which one could it be?

Speaker 7 (01:07:05):
Because right now you have no criticism of yourself except
you get bored quickly. I'm still with him and I'm bored. Okay, lady,
let the man go. Let him go, because I bet
you it's a woman out there will take all this
little bored him you're talking about and turn it into something.

(01:07:25):
He knows something's wrong, But I don't want to be honest.
Well you're not honest in it throughout this letter, with
them or yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
So how do I fix myself? Why do I get
bored quickly? Well?

Speaker 7 (01:07:39):
I think you get bored quickly because number one, you
say you get bored quickly, you know you are as
you think. Whatever you set upon yourself in words, it's
gonna manifest itself in deeds and actions. You keep saying
you bored with me and quickly, Therefore anything that happened

(01:07:59):
you cannot justify what you said. I get bored quickly.
Stop saying that. I tell you this one other time before.
If you keep saying I'm not a morning person every morning,
you ain't gonna be a morning person when you're gonna
quit doing that to yourself, stop saying you get bored

(01:08:19):
with me and quickly, start finding ways to stay with
somebody instead of trying to find a way to leave somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
It don't take nothing for you to leave. And I
got news for you.

Speaker 7 (01:08:31):
The bedroom seems really important to you.

Speaker 1 (01:08:35):
So let me intend say something to you, little mess.
I get bored off you.

Speaker 7 (01:08:38):
Since the bedroom seems to be so important to you,
I'm assuming you've spent a lot of time working on
your expertise in that area. And because somebody else ain't
put the same amount of time and being an expert
in bed like you, now you bored with them. But
where has that expertise in bed gotten you? By your

(01:09:01):
damn self, that's what it's done, all right. I just
want to say this to you, young lady, before you
destroy another man talking about what they aint what's wrong
with you? You're talking about how you fix yourself. You
need to first of all, fix your expectations and start
putting some on yourself, because you have no expectations on yourself.

(01:09:22):
All your expectations are on these men, and ain't none
of them been able to live up to it?

Speaker 6 (01:09:27):
All right?

Speaker 7 (01:09:28):
Checking all the blocks boxes said, when we get in
this bed, you boring.

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It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk.

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What you got Junior, Well, let's.

Speaker 15 (01:10:33):
Talk about it.

Speaker 9 (01:10:34):
The twenty twenty five Class of Hall of Fame Class
of twenty twenty five have been released man Eric Allen
after nineteen years of the eligibility is finally going into
the Hall of Fame. And he was a cornerback play
for Philadelphia North and the Oakland Raiders.

Speaker 8 (01:10:47):
He's in.

Speaker 15 (01:10:48):
Jared Allen. Jared Allen got in defensive ends.

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He played for Kansas City, Minnesota, Chicago Bears, and the
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Speaker 15 (01:10:54):
He got in.

Speaker 9 (01:10:55):
Antonio Gates is in play all these seasons with the charges.

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You know, he's in Hall of Fame.

Speaker 9 (01:11:01):
But the one that everybody's excited about, man is Sterling Shape.
Sterling Sharp is going to the Hall of Fame. Everybody,
come on, man.

Speaker 1 (01:11:13):
That's I like that.

Speaker 15 (01:11:15):
And you know what made a special His brother welcomed
to the Hall of Fame.

Speaker 8 (01:11:18):
Man.

Speaker 15 (01:11:19):
You had him come over to the house. Shannon Sharp
had on his Hall of Fame jacket and told him,
welcome you going to the Hall of Fame man for
his brother.

Speaker 1 (01:11:28):
Dog.

Speaker 7 (01:11:28):
Is that on film somewhere, Yes, sir, I'm sitting there
to me, junior, you know what really made that special?
In Shannon's Hall of Fame speech, he said, I'm the
only person in the Hall of Fame that has a
gold jacket who can truly say he is the second
best football player in his family.

Speaker 15 (01:11:48):
Ain't that crazy?

Speaker 7 (01:11:49):
Man? His brother was sitting there watching him and his
brother them tears rolled down his brother's face. I said,
boy lord him mercy, I got to see that, Junior.

Speaker 15 (01:11:57):
He couldn't believe it.

Speaker 8 (01:11:58):
He could.

Speaker 15 (01:11:59):
He say, honey, what's going on here?

Speaker 1 (01:12:01):
He sat down?

Speaker 8 (01:12:02):
Man.

Speaker 9 (01:12:02):
They cried together, Man, they did, and he said, Man,
I have never had to go outside of my family
look for a father figure.

Speaker 15 (01:12:08):
He said, Sterling, you've been a father figure to.

Speaker 9 (01:12:10):
Me my entire life. And I thought that was awesome, man,
just to see that. And they the first two brothers
to go into the Hall of Fame together. Man, that
is That's a special moment man, for a brother that
they looked over for all this time and he finally
got in there.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Man, Wow, your best sports.

Speaker 10 (01:12:27):
Report that every time what he's improving.

Speaker 7 (01:12:31):
You know, we put you in the uplift. BIS were
trying at worthing Fordamn, my poem.

Speaker 15 (01:12:45):
Did you just not hear nephew?

Speaker 1 (01:12:47):
Time last?

Speaker 15 (01:12:47):
I would do a fellow that.

Speaker 7 (01:12:50):
So my poem is the proper Listen, we all know
he's not replacing Dinzel.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
They'll take Denzil with no tune right, look, will.

Speaker 15 (01:13:15):
Make it a second start for the legas tonight. So
let's go see what happens to night, Luca Doctor, i'm'n
watched that game. See what happen Planted.

Speaker 10 (01:13:20):
James, all right, Julia?

Speaker 1 (01:13:23):
Maybe all right?

Speaker 10 (01:13:25):
Thank you, Jun You're coming up at the top of
the hour. A man needs your advice.

Speaker 8 (01:13:28):
Steve.

Speaker 11 (01:13:28):
He said his wife is mean and she never apologizes.
We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this one's
from Anthony and Macon Steve. Anthony says, my wife gets
upset with me over small things, and she loves to
curse at me and lock me out of the bedroom.

(01:13:49):
She says the most vile and evil things to me
and won't ever apologize. She always expects me to move
on like nothing happened. But I'm hurt. If I mentioned therapy,
she will flip out. Has she mentally checked out of
our marriage?

Speaker 1 (01:14:05):
I don't know, but you should. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:14:12):
I don't thank you for calling in dog so I
can show you the other side of me. Br I'm
telling you I don't know how to I can't live
with a mean person and what you don't understand and
I'm not just I'm just talking about to the lady
in this letter, and any lady that might use.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
This words hurt me.

Speaker 7 (01:14:37):
And the things you can say to your man that
you can't take back, and you've done the damage. You
have to be careful how you talk to these men,
because we take a lot of stuff out here at
work in this world, just as a man, and then
we come home and we don't get no relief, we
don't get no battery recharge at home, and now you

(01:15:00):
expect us to go back out here and deal with
it again. And you at the house calling you names,
talking about him, being mean to him, locking him out
of the bedroom door.

Speaker 1 (01:15:09):
Man, Bye, I'm divorcing you. I'm not doing this. I'm
not doing though, but just.

Speaker 12 (01:15:18):
Is she?

Speaker 7 (01:15:20):
I can't stand you black, blanking and blank. Okay, come,
ain't no problem. I bet you can find somebody who would.

Speaker 8 (01:15:28):
Here.

Speaker 6 (01:15:29):
A couple of weeks from getting his air whip. He
need to leave now, Oh man, the way, she's.

Speaker 1 (01:15:36):
Just take a shower. Yeah, you know people got showers
of damn. I have a solution for this.

Speaker 10 (01:15:56):
Yeah, this is bad, all right. We have time for
another one, Steve.

Speaker 11 (01:15:59):
This one's from Drinka and t Neck Draka says, I've
been dating a man for a few months and we
lived ninety minutes apart. He had told me that he
wanted me to feel at home when I come to
visit him on weekends. But I was shocked by what
he did. He has given me my own drawer at
his place full of panties and bras that he bought.
He bought all of the toilet trees I used daily,

(01:16:22):
and he bought a shower cap. He also got his
matching pajamas and slippers. He said he looked at one
of my bras to get the right size. That's a
bit much. My best friend said he's a keeper, but
I think he's a creeper. Is he being sweet or
is this controlling behavior?

Speaker 7 (01:16:40):
Has it controlling? He hit match control, bought you a
shower cap. He wants you to stay a few mons,
looked to bras just a bit on the floor. He
picked it uphim So research hate a bought your drawer
full of panties.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
And bras. You're free? Say he a keeper? You say
he's a creeper. What did he do want? He's doing
too much? That's okay, Yeah, he's doing too much. But
how has it worked out with the men that don't
do nothing.

Speaker 7 (01:17:13):
If he's trying to be kind to you and do
things for you, you can call it control, but it
could be called carry well.

Speaker 1 (01:17:21):
He said he wanted her to feel at home.

Speaker 7 (01:17:24):
There are some women who have been mistreated so long
they think that's normal. Then when a guy come along
and does something that's kind, that's out of the way,
then all of a sudden, that abnormal thing that you
experience in now is weird.

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
It's creepy. It is creepy.

Speaker 11 (01:17:42):
But isn't she right though, to feel, you know, to
be a little more cautious, to be cautious.

Speaker 10 (01:17:48):
They've only been dating a few months. Shouldn't do it
too early?

Speaker 1 (01:17:54):
She been over that. That's what they doing such a
whole bunch of time. Now you won't start cutting back?
Oh what yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:18:05):
Once weis that we over did it and got.

Speaker 1 (01:18:08):
Pay us Hello, all right?

Speaker 11 (01:18:15):
Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:18:19):
Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 11 (01:18:23):
While fans continue to give Kendrick his well deserved flowers
for Sunday Super Bowl halftime show, many people have already
started looking ahead to the twenty twenty six Super Bowl,
and according to X, they've got one artist in mind.
One artist the people's choice for next year's halftime show
is the one and only Chris Brown. I'm with us, Chris,

(01:18:48):
I'm with it, Chris Brown. X has been flooded with
requests for Chris Brown to finally get the chance to perform,
and believe he's been blacklisted enough. So gotta ask you,
what do you guys? What do you guys think Chris
Brown for the halftime show? That's what a lot of
people want.

Speaker 6 (01:19:04):
A lot.

Speaker 1 (01:19:05):
You can do it.

Speaker 10 (01:19:07):
Yeah, you got everything you take and super talented.

Speaker 12 (01:19:12):
Because I was wondering why the Grammys didn't ask him
to do Thriller the Michael Tribute with Quincy Jones. I
said that would have been fire. No hate to Janelle Monnet,
but Chris Brown would took it out.

Speaker 11 (01:19:25):
They still have that thing, right, Steve against Chris Brown.

Speaker 7 (01:19:30):
I mean, that's that's that's the hypocrisy of living in
the United States of America. One man get to be president,
the other man have to pay for a past mistake
his entire damn life. At one point in time, man
We've got to understand this brother was young. He made
a mistake. He has paid his dues for that, he

(01:19:53):
has learned his lesson. This dude, Chris Brown is next level.
I he next level?

Speaker 8 (01:20:01):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:20:01):
Coming up with thirty three minutes after the hours, we'll
play a round of would you rather?

Speaker 1 (01:20:05):
Right after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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All right, guys, it is time for a round of
would you rather? Would you rather have candy hearts as
teeth or hers? She's kiss as your nose? As we
head into Valentine's candy Hearts, I love you or her.

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
Good, I'm not gonna We're gonna go with the ignorant.

Speaker 10 (01:21:04):
I'm with the nose, okay, Junior, just nose, Yeah, all
of us nose.

Speaker 1 (01:21:11):
Next week?

Speaker 6 (01:21:20):
All right, there we go.

Speaker 11 (01:21:21):
Would you rather have chocolate covered strawberries or chocolate covered cherries?

Speaker 10 (01:21:26):
Which one? Strawberries or cherries? And the right answer? What
you go from not wanting to.

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
Play at all to ask that gets all part?

Speaker 8 (01:21:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (01:21:42):
Would you rather have chocolate covered strawberries or chocolate covered cherryes?

Speaker 8 (01:21:47):
That's it?

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Thank you?

Speaker 10 (01:21:54):
The right answer, Yeah, strawberries.

Speaker 11 (01:21:59):
Next Weould you rather be shot by cupid's arrow or
be bitten by the love bug?

Speaker 1 (01:22:06):
What is these?

Speaker 11 (01:22:08):
These are Valentine's questions about love dudes?

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
Black dudes? What do you say? I'm not getting shot by.

Speaker 4 (01:22:24):
Arrow?

Speaker 15 (01:22:26):
I know you want black crime?

Speaker 10 (01:22:27):
And it is you rather be bitten by the love bug?

Speaker 1 (01:22:30):
Okay? All right, so ignorant?

Speaker 8 (01:22:34):
All right?

Speaker 11 (01:22:36):
Would you rather have loved or loved and lost? Or
would you rather never have loved at all? You rather
have loved and lost or never had loved at all?
Never have loved it all?

Speaker 1 (01:22:47):
Which I've loved and lost? The love and property is
not about yours shirt? Say yes you war today? Ask
that's over liability?

Speaker 15 (01:23:05):
Or he lost my mind to my best friend at
the time. So this a good question for me.

Speaker 1 (01:23:11):
Oh God, I'm mad at I ain't mad at the
love I love. I'm good love love. Yes, so JR.

Speaker 10 (01:23:21):
What's wrong? What's wrong?

Speaker 7 (01:23:23):
Now?

Speaker 15 (01:23:24):
My best friend took my girl at the time fifteen,
I don't like this end up having a baby together.
I see the baby and show let mean what happened?

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
And we all go to the same church membership. Sorry
I couldn't drive Tommy.

Speaker 11 (01:23:48):
All right, that's today's round up, would you rather?

Speaker 10 (01:23:53):
Thanks?

Speaker 1 (01:23:53):
Guys?

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Coming up our last break of the day, and we'll
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are last break of the day and Steve.

Speaker 7 (01:25:12):
And you know my close remarks today has something to
do with the opening of the show. Junior asked me
a question about monitoring your expectations?

Speaker 8 (01:25:27):
Was that what it was?

Speaker 1 (01:25:28):
Monitoring your expectations.

Speaker 7 (01:25:30):
Managing managing your expectations, And it caused me to do
some thinking. And I was saying to him this morning,
we as people, you got to be keenly aware of
all of these things. Slogans that's out there that people
confuse with words of wisdom, every slogan you hear is

(01:25:55):
not a word of wisdom. See, I've learned from every
self help book I've ever read. All of them are
based on the principles in the Bible, all of them.
All self help books are based on the secret the
theory of the Law of Attraction, The Magic of Thinking Big,

(01:26:19):
Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale.

Speaker 1 (01:26:21):
Every I could go on.

Speaker 7 (01:26:23):
In the Winner's Circle by Dexter Wyansol, I could go
on and on and on, but every single one of
them have taken all of their thoughts from the principles
of the Bible. So when we were talking earlier and
JUNI was talking about managing your expectations, people like I said,

(01:26:44):
you gotta be careful because everything you hear is not
a wise saying. Some of these are just slogans, and
a lot of things are created to limit you and
to explain a person's failure. I give you another one.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket. They call

(01:27:04):
that words of wisdom. But you gotta look at that
slogan and analyze it very carefully. So what they're saying is,
don't put all of your everything into one basket now,
because now that's true. It depends on what the basket is, though,

(01:27:25):
and it depends on what your basket is constructed of.
If your basket is constructed of faith in God, prayer
and hard work, I'm gonna dump everything I got into
that basket because then it would allow me to put
my all, in all behind this one effort. So be

(01:27:46):
careful of that, because I don't know how to be
successful unless you give your all. I just don't know
how to be successful at anything until you give it
your all. Now, when that drives up and it's time
to move, move on, put your haul into something else.
There's another one. Always have a plan B. I've never

(01:28:07):
agreed with this one. Sounds like words of wisdom. Okay,
that's in case plan eight on work. But in order
to have a plan B, you must construct the plan B.
But while you're constructing your plan B, it takes away
the time and efforts you could be using to construct
your plan A. Everybody that I know that had a

(01:28:29):
Plan B had to use it. It's like a prenup
in a marriage. I don't know a single couple that's
got a prenup that didn't use it. Because you plan
from the outset. This is the end event that something
go wrong. So now you've prepared for an out.

Speaker 1 (01:28:47):
Look. I'm not saying you shouldn't have a prenump. You
can do what you want to do.

Speaker 7 (01:28:51):
I'm just telling you, if you have one, you're gonna
use it, because I don't know a single couple that
had a prenup that didn't use it. Think about it, y'all,
because you're you're not planning on making it to the tape.
Because you have an out, and the moment you decide
that the price of the out is adequate, you gonna
take it. I ain't got to put up with this
no more. See you gotta here's another one. Be careful.

Speaker 1 (01:29:15):
Statistics one in every so and so this happens. Wait
a minute. You know what I was told a long
time ago, one in every twenty thousand comedians will make
it to the Tonight Show. That was something somebody told me.
I don't even know if it's the truth to statistics,
but sitting around with a bunch of young comedians back
in the eighties and we were all talking about it,

(01:29:36):
and this guy said, you know, one in every twenty
thousand comedians making on the Tonight Show, and you can't
become a star unless you get green lit by Johnny
Carson on the Tonight Show. So what I decided was
I'll be one of the ones. So every night before
I walked on stage, I used to harm this.

Speaker 7 (01:29:56):
Then I'll be pacing in the background to they said,
ladies and gentlemen from Cleveland House Steve Hardy, and then
I run on stage. Well, you know what, I never
met Johnny Carson. I never said on this show. I've
been on the Tonight Show.

Speaker 1 (01:30:11):
With Jay Lenole.

Speaker 7 (01:30:13):
But it was after I had already gained enough notoriety
to be a guest on his show. I just decided
I was gonna be the one. But what statistics do
is it justifies a person who's looking for a way
not to be successful, and only one in us so
many people. It's one in up millions of chance to

(01:30:34):
win the Power lottery, but if you don't play it,
that percentage drops to zero, and then when somebody win it,
you're going wire.

Speaker 1 (01:30:43):
They want, but they played.

Speaker 7 (01:30:45):
Y'all be very conscious as you move into life about
things that people are called wise sayings, because they might
just be something somebody said to justify why they are
where they are. Be conscious of that, talk to God,
he'd absolutely love miss the house.

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