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(00:00):
Okay, it's another weird Wednesday hereon Q one O two. It's backsimbuster
And who are you? My nameis Shana. How are you, Shane?
We're good? What makes you weird? I don't know if I'm actually
weird, but I just want toexpress that I understand society's stigma when it
comes to pedophilia. Pedophilia. Correct. I work with IPCEE. If you
(00:24):
don't know, that's International Pedophile andChild Emancipation and our goal is to abolish
the stigmatization of people with pedophilia sexualinterests in normalizing the potential role and moderating
pedophile's emotional well being. I knowthat's a mouthful. This we get now,
Yeah, this is sounds disgusting.Are you saying you're a pedophile?
(00:45):
No, I'm not saying that I'ma pedophile in the sense that I've never
had sexual relations with a person underage because legal well, I just don't
believe we should be shunting those inour community that have desires to engage in
a romantic relationship with someone in adrastically different age group. So you're saying
you support pedophiles, I'm saying Isupport love just because America views ages like
(01:08):
eighteen as some sort of imaginary barfor humans to engage romantic relationships. Doesn't
mean it's right. So you don'tsee anything wrong with a twelve year old
dating a twelve year old. That'snot what I'm saying. But listen,
in Nigeria, the age of consentis eleven. It's fourteen in other countries
like Brazil Columbia. If we're takinga month as a country to showcase our
(01:30):
pride for other communities of sexual exploration, then I think we should add the
letter P, which is just asimportant as the LGB and T. Oh,
my trust, I can't believe thisis real. You got to be
like making this up to get onthe radio. I almost feel like you,
like, yeah, Like, letme explain a little more. You
know, if more people would takethe time to have this actual conversation,
(01:52):
then maybe we could abolish the stigmawhen it and then we could begin to
make a safe environment for this community. Why do you feel so passionately about
this? Did you have a relationshipwith somebody much older younger than you you
seem like, well, I meannot in the sense of it being illegal.
I have dated both younger and older. But again, I'm just coming
from a place of believing in love, not necessarily believing in pedophilia. But
(02:15):
I think that if we viewed thosein the pedophilic community as normal humans with
desires that are different from yours orours, that we could potentially put an
end to dangerous black market sex traffickingthings like that, not to mention improving
statistics of suicide in the community,if they knew that there was a place
where where their desires and lifestyle andmaybe you have some kind of a great
(02:40):
impact with the mental health community fora lot of people. I'm gonna go
back to my other question. Soyou think that a one, it's okay
for like a twelve year old tobe dating a twelve year old. I
just think that we need to helprelease the stigma and let people understand,
you know, that they are peopletoo. Now, I'm not saying that
it's acceptable for a twelve year oldto dan your twenty year old, necessarily
(03:00):
because it's illegal, and I can'tsupport something that's illegal. However, I'm
just saying that we need to acceptthe fact that pedophilia is part of the
LGBTQWO et cetera community. Then Ifeel like I have friends in the gay
community that would take great offense tothat. Yeah, I don't know if
they want to be grouped in withwhat you're trying to do. I mean,
(03:23):
your whole motto is love is love, right, Love is love,
and you can't help who you love. That's all I'm saying. Yeah,
No, I'm not really necessarily herefor this. Yeah, this conversation makes
me sick to my stomach. Ithink that if you're somebody that not only
supports this, but also you seemto be out here fighting for the cause,
what are you trying to do.You're trying to get awareness for somebody
(03:44):
to like join your fight. Thatit needs to be understood better, that's
all what needs to be understood.Yeah, molesting children. No, that
love is love. I'm not talkingabout molesting children. I'm talking about people
who are in love. Oh yeah, that as a mom has all know.
I mean, yeah, I mean, I just I mean, you
(04:05):
need to decide that eighteen is anacceptable age. Somebody just threw an imaginary
line in the stand and said,Okay, at eighteen you can have sex.
That's seventeen you can't. No,nobody thinks that you're saying you're not
having sex, then you're wrong,and nobody's not. Nobody's saying that.
There's I'm sure there's people of differentages doing that. What the concern is
(04:26):
is that somebody is a predator whois older, praying on somebody who has
not the ability to fully, youknow, make those decisions and make those
decisions like a ten year old.So like, I understand, I understand
that. I'm just saying that weneed to help other people understand in the
mental health community and the pedophilic communitythat they're that they're people too. Yeah.
(04:50):
I just feel like you're taking allthese like buzzwords like mental health and
love is love and throwing them ontosomething that's just yeah, like, there's
no reason why a grown man shouldbe pursuing a nine year old sexually,
Like there's absolutely no reason. Ora woman in your case, which is
(05:11):
also surprising to me that a womanis calling this. I am just trying
to be supportive and I'm trying toyou know, that's the probably added to
the yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, because we keep adding letters, right,
And that's the problem with with youknow, where we're at right now,
is that we've blurred the lines somuch that you actually feel as though
that pedophiles have a place on thisplanet besides being locked up. I'm not
(05:35):
talking about molestation. I'm talking aboutyou are because love is love and all
that doesn't apply when someone is tooyoung to even form the correct scruples in
life. And how really? Iagree? I agree, But I'm saying,
who's to say that that a twelveyear olds can't be in love with
somebody that's older. I'm just saying, maybe a twelve year old falls in
(05:57):
love of an eighteen year old.Where's your line? What do you think
is inappropriate. I'm not advocating formolestation. I'm not advocating for grooming.
I'm advocating for people who have beenin a situation where they're in love with
somebody that is of a younger ageor of an older age. It works
both ways. You and I'm sayingthat those people I don't I don't even
(06:17):
feel like you need to have kids. Well, I just wonder I was
going to give her the example ofwhat if her child who's a five year
old or something like that, youhad to say you had a twenty five
year old and a five year oldin love in yours. I'm not advocating
for that. I'm not saying that. I'm saying that a younger person can
be in love too. Well.I don't know that a five year old
could actually be in love, butthirteen year old can't, a fourteen year
(06:41):
old can't. And again, I'mnot advocating for molestation. I don't agree
with that. I agree with thefact that sometimes people fall into a situation
where they don't know that's somebody I'mnot And again, I'm not talking about
grooming. I'm just talking about addingpedophilia to the I mean, they call
everybody a pedophile if they're dating somebodywho's not a legal age. I just
don't feel this argument's going to goanywhere. Yah yeah, yeah. Honestly,
(07:02):
I feel like you're calling from likea phone bank, this ISPCK,
whatever place you're at, and you'relike just trying to get the word out,
yeah, trying to get the wordIPCE. And to be honest with
you, I don't even know ifwe should have given you the platform on
the air here. I mean,since we did, I say, we
open up our phone lines and seewhat people have to say about it.
(07:25):
Maybe those people have that possibly agreeor people want to sound off with what
you're saying. That's fine, right, thank you. I thank you for
keeping a civil and for allowing meto speak my mind. I appreciate that
because a lot of times this argumentdoes go south very quickly. So I'm
glad we were can't imagine why?Okay our yeah, sure, our phone
number two one five two six threeone oh two one. You could text
(07:46):
us at seven one oh two one, or our DMS are at Becks and
buster. H. Listen, Ihear what you're saying. If it's a
nineteen year old and a seventeen yearold, I guess I get where it's
a conversation. But I just feellike you've got a slippery slope here,
and you're advocating for a lot ofslime bags on this planet that should probably
(08:07):
be locked up or worse. Sohey, thanks for the call on the
streets. Ah boy, all right, it's beck Simbuster on Q and O
two is the word that I woulduse for what we just went through.
Called in and basically said that weshould humanized pedophiles. She wanted to add
(08:31):
the letter this is what I thinkis the craziest part. Well, it's
all crazy it's all crazy. Shewanted to add, she's advocating to add
the letter P to to the LGBTplus initialism, and she thinks that pedophili
yes absolutely humanized. Discussing. We'regetting tons of calls, and we'll get
(08:52):
to the calls here in a secon. We got some text messages. Roll
it in here. He said,I'm screaming at my radio right now.
Get this woman off. She's apsychopath, she said, What the hell
is she thinking? Uh, pedophilesshould be put in jail. That's it.
Brought is insane, literally screaming atthe radio. Uh, people just
(09:13):
going off. She sounds like agroomer to me. Get this idiot off
the radio. Hey, I'm thishoney. How y'all doing? What's going
on? You have a good day? A listener? Wasn't she so pleasant?
I am? This is very weird. You know. I'm astonished at
this woman. I assume like shemust be calling from mental health hospital or
(09:35):
something. I'm not really sure ofthis foundation or moving she's trying to create
or bring awareness to, but somethingis very wrong with her. Apparently she
has had this situation scramble her brainat some point in her life. Because
this is unaccessible. Even as aneighteen year old young adult, I made
(09:58):
mistakes and the people who I choseto the and situations that I've engaged them.
Therefore there's no list. Well,you can be cognitive knowledgeable or experienced
enough or old enough to have aconcession with what love is and what truly
love is about. Yeah, weappreciate you calling. We're with you.
She's nuts. Yeah, thanks forcall honey. You just for clarity.
(10:22):
She said, her name is Honey. I was just calling honey, Hey,
you're on Q on or two.What do you want to say?
Yeah, well, I think thiswoman that this book was disgusting and the
fact that she wants to, youknow, add the keyword to the LGBTQ
community. My oldest brother, whenhe was around thirty five, was arrested
for attempting to have sex with anine year old whoa, whoa. I
(10:48):
mean he was arrested, thank god. The mother had seen all the messages
through Facebook and stuff, and hewas arrested and he went to jail.
He got out, violated proof,went back to jail and wow, you
know, so my view on itis like the woman said, like,
yeah, they're people, My brotherwas a person, but he was sticking
(11:09):
the head and he the consequences thathe had. Wow, wow, thank
you for sharing that story. Yeah, I'm sorry you went through that and
you you almost know not you humanizeit a little bit having gone through it.
That's so crazy. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, like, at
the end of the day, hewas my brother, but it was something
(11:30):
I had no idea. You knowthat that's who he was as a person,
right, and he's sent a pastaway as well, so you know,
one of those things like that.But that's a lot of trauma.
But yeah, we appreciate you.S thanks for calling. Yeah, no
problem, thank you. Hey you'rewhat do you think? Hey, what's
(11:52):
going on? Man? What's happening? So I'm kind of pulled by hearing
what the hell I'm sorry for ifI curse, Just kind of a pall
to hear what she had to say. I personally think pedophiles belong in a
damn electric chair. There are piecesof crap they don't belong to her.
And do you have this, lady. Love is love, Yeah, love
(12:13):
is love, But you can't havea damn adult having any kind of relations
with a child. Yeah, that'sjust completely wrong and to advocate for it
as if it's like just okay,yeah, like it's normal. Yeah,
it's I really with two of mybuddies right now, we're just like glued
to it, like why is thislady talking like that? And man,
and you know, in our situation, we don't really ever want to give
(12:37):
somebody the platform to, you know, to even down she's she's talking about
it. And what's crazy is asa community and imagine if somebody hears it
and feels like they agree with herthat community, that's crazy. It's absolutely
insane. And I don't know whatshe's on, what she's what she's drinking,
(13:01):
but she needs to stop immediately.Yeah, I don't want a bag
of that put her in jail.Hey, thanks for the call, man,
No problem, Begs. I meanthe lines are they're still full.
I I don't know how much moreenergy I can give this woman. But
you know, just know that asyou're listening to us, no, by
any means, that is not somethingthat the pedophilia is not something that we
(13:24):
support. We do not believe thatit couples in with the love is love
concept. Yeah, for our friendsin the LGBT plus community, I mean,
look, we We couldn't disagree morethat that the pedophiles should be somehow
aligned or there's some sort of parallelbetween the communities. So we thanks,
(13:46):
thanks for all your calls, andman, we gotta yeah. Here's here's
the music.
Okay, it's another weird Wednesday hereon Q one O two. It's backsimbuster
And who are you? My nameis Shana. How are you, Shane?
We're good? What makes you weird? I don't know if I'm actually
weird, but I just want toexpress that I understand society's stigma when it
comes to pedophilia. Pedophilia. Correct. I work with IPCEE. If you
(00:24):
don't know, that's International Pedophile andChild Emancipation and our goal is to abolish
the stigmatization of people with pedophilia sexualinterests in normalizing the potential role and moderating
pedophile's emotional well being. I knowthat's a mouthful. This we get now,
Yeah, this is sounds disgusting.Are you saying you're a pedophile?
(00:45):
No, I'm not saying that I'ma pedophile in the sense that I've never
had sexual relations with a person underage because legal well, I just don't
believe we should be shunting those inour community that have desires to engage in
a romantic relationship with someone in adrastically different age group. So you're saying
you support pedophiles, I'm saying Isupport love just because America views ages like
(01:08):
eighteen as some sort of imaginary barfor humans to engage romantic relationships. Doesn't
mean it's right. So you don'tsee anything wrong with a twelve year old
dating a twelve year old. That'snot what I'm saying. But listen,
in Nigeria, the age of consentis eleven. It's fourteen in other countries
like Brazil Columbia. If we're takinga month as a country to showcase our
(01:30):
pride for other communities of sexual exploration, then I think we should add the
letter P, which is just asimportant as the LGB and T. Oh,
my trust, I can't believe thisis real. You got to be
like making this up to get onthe radio. I almost feel like you,
like, yeah, Like, letme explain a little more. You
know, if more people would takethe time to have this actual conversation,
(01:52):
then maybe we could abolish the stigmawhen it and then we could begin to
make a safe environment for this community. Why do you feel so passionately about
this? Did you have a relationshipwith somebody much older younger than you you
seem like, well, I meannot in the sense of it being illegal.
I have dated both younger and older. But again, I'm just coming
from a place of believing in love, not necessarily believing in pedophilia. But
(02:15):
I think that if we viewed thosein the pedophilic community as normal humans with
desires that are different from yours orours, that we could potentially put an
end to dangerous black market sex traffickingthings like that, not to mention improving
statistics of suicide in the community,if they knew that there was a place
where where their desires and lifestyle andmaybe you have some kind of a great
(02:40):
impact with the mental health community fora lot of people. I'm gonna go
back to my other question. Soyou think that a one, it's okay
for like a twelve year old tobe dating a twelve year old. I
just think that we need to helprelease the stigma and let people understand,
you know, that they are peopletoo. Now, I'm not saying that
it's acceptable for a twelve year oldto dan your twenty year old, necessarily
(03:00):
because it's illegal, and I can'tsupport something that's illegal. However, I'm
just saying that we need to acceptthe fact that pedophilia is part of the
LGBTQWO et cetera community. Then Ifeel like I have friends in the gay
community that would take great offense tothat. Yeah, I don't know if
they want to be grouped in withwhat you're trying to do. I mean,
(03:23):
your whole motto is love is love, right, Love is love,
and you can't help who you love. That's all I'm saying. Yeah,
No, I'm not really necessarily herefor this. Yeah, this conversation makes
me sick to my stomach. Ithink that if you're somebody that not only
supports this, but also you seemto be out here fighting for the cause,
what are you trying to do.You're trying to get awareness for somebody
(03:44):
to like join your fight. Thatit needs to be understood better, that's
all what needs to be understood.Yeah, molesting children. No, that
love is love. I'm not talkingabout molesting children. I'm talking about people
who are in love. Oh yeah, that as a mom has all know.
I mean, yeah, I mean, I just I mean, you
(04:05):
need to decide that eighteen is anacceptable age. Somebody just threw an imaginary
line in the stand and said,Okay, at eighteen you can have sex.
That's seventeen you can't. No,nobody thinks that you're saying you're not
having sex, then you're wrong,and nobody's not. Nobody's saying that.
There's I'm sure there's people of differentages doing that. What the concern is
(04:26):
is that somebody is a predator whois older, praying on somebody who has
not the ability to fully, youknow, make those decisions and make those
decisions like a ten year old.So like, I understand, I understand
that. I'm just saying that weneed to help other people understand in the
mental health community and the pedophilic communitythat they're that they're people too. Yeah.
(04:50):
I just feel like you're taking allthese like buzzwords like mental health and
love is love and throwing them ontosomething that's just yeah, like, there's
no reason why a grown man shouldbe pursuing a nine year old sexually,
Like there's absolutely no reason. Ora woman in your case, which is
(05:11):
also surprising to me that a womanis calling this. I am just trying
to be supportive and I'm trying toyou know, that's the probably added to
the yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, because we keep adding letters, right,
And that's the problem with with youknow, where we're at right now,
is that we've blurred the lines somuch that you actually feel as though
that pedophiles have a place on thisplanet besides being locked up. I'm not
(05:35):
talking about molestation. I'm talking aboutyou are because love is love and all
that doesn't apply when someone is tooyoung to even form the correct scruples in
life. And how really? Iagree? I agree, But I'm saying,
who's to say that that a twelveyear olds can't be in love with
somebody that's older. I'm just saying, maybe a twelve year old falls in
(05:57):
love of an eighteen year old.Where's your line? What do you think
is inappropriate. I'm not advocating formolestation. I'm not advocating for grooming.
I'm advocating for people who have beenin a situation where they're in love with
somebody that is of a younger ageor of an older age. It works
both ways. You and I'm sayingthat those people I don't I don't even
(06:17):
feel like you need to have kids. Well, I just wonder I was
going to give her the example ofwhat if her child who's a five year
old or something like that, youhad to say you had a twenty five
year old and a five year oldin love in yours. I'm not advocating
for that. I'm not saying that. I'm saying that a younger person can
be in love too. Well.I don't know that a five year old
could actually be in love, butthirteen year old can't, a fourteen year
(06:41):
old can't. And again, I'mnot advocating for molestation. I don't agree
with that. I agree with thefact that sometimes people fall into a situation
where they don't know that's somebody I'mnot And again, I'm not talking about
grooming. I'm just talking about addingpedophilia to the I mean, they call
everybody a pedophile if they're dating somebodywho's not a legal age. I just
don't feel this argument's going to goanywhere. Yah yeah, yeah. Honestly,
(07:02):
I feel like you're calling from likea phone bank, this ISPCK,
whatever place you're at, and you'relike just trying to get the word out,
yeah, trying to get the wordIPCE. And to be honest with
you, I don't even know ifwe should have given you the platform on
the air here. I mean,since we did, I say, we
open up our phone lines and seewhat people have to say about it.
(07:25):
Maybe those people have that possibly agreeor people want to sound off with what
you're saying. That's fine, right, thank you. I thank you for
keeping a civil and for allowing meto speak my mind. I appreciate that
because a lot of times this argumentdoes go south very quickly. So I'm
glad we were can't imagine why?Okay our yeah, sure, our phone
number two one five two six threeone oh two one. You could text
(07:46):
us at seven one oh two one, or our DMS are at Becks and
buster. H. Listen, Ihear what you're saying. If it's a
nineteen year old and a seventeen yearold, I guess I get where it's
a conversation. But I just feellike you've got a slippery slope here,
and you're advocating for a lot ofslime bags on this planet that should probably
(08:07):
be locked up or worse. Sohey, thanks for the call on the
streets. Ah boy, all right, it's beck Simbuster on Q and O
two is the word that I woulduse for what we just went through.
Called in and basically said that weshould humanized pedophiles. She wanted to add
(08:31):
the letter this is what I thinkis the craziest part. Well, it's
all crazy it's all crazy. Shewanted to add, she's advocating to add
the letter P to to the LGBTplus initialism, and she thinks that pedophili
yes absolutely humanized. Discussing. We'regetting tons of calls, and we'll get
(08:52):
to the calls here in a secon. We got some text messages. Roll
it in here. He said,I'm screaming at my radio right now.
Get this woman off. She's apsychopath, she said, What the hell
is she thinking? Uh, pedophilesshould be put in jail. That's it.
Brought is insane, literally screaming atthe radio. Uh, people just
(09:13):
going off. She sounds like agroomer to me. Get this idiot off
the radio. Hey, I'm thishoney. How y'all doing? What's going
on? You have a good day? A listener? Wasn't she so pleasant?
I am? This is very weird. You know. I'm astonished at
this woman. I assume like shemust be calling from mental health hospital or
(09:35):
something. I'm not really sure ofthis foundation or moving she's trying to create
or bring awareness to, but somethingis very wrong with her. Apparently she
has had this situation scramble her brainat some point in her life. Because
this is unaccessible. Even as aneighteen year old young adult, I made
(09:58):
mistakes and the people who I choseto the and situations that I've engaged them.
Therefore there's no list. Well,you can be cognitive knowledgeable or experienced
enough or old enough to have aconcession with what love is and what truly
love is about. Yeah, weappreciate you calling. We're with you.
She's nuts. Yeah, thanks forcall honey. You just for clarity.
(10:22):
She said, her name is Honey. I was just calling honey, Hey,
you're on Q on or two.What do you want to say?
Yeah, well, I think thiswoman that this book was disgusting and the
fact that she wants to, youknow, add the keyword to the LGBTQ
community. My oldest brother, whenhe was around thirty five, was arrested
for attempting to have sex with anine year old whoa, whoa. I
(10:48):
mean he was arrested, thank god. The mother had seen all the messages
through Facebook and stuff, and hewas arrested and he went to jail.
He got out, violated proof,went back to jail and wow, you
know, so my view on itis like the woman said, like,
yeah, they're people, My brotherwas a person, but he was sticking
(11:09):
the head and he the consequences thathe had. Wow, wow, thank
you for sharing that story. Yeah, I'm sorry you went through that and
you you almost know not you humanizeit a little bit having gone through it.
That's so crazy. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, like, at
the end of the day, hewas my brother, but it was something
(11:30):
I had no idea. You knowthat that's who he was as a person,
right, and he's sent a pastaway as well, so you know,
one of those things like that.But that's a lot of trauma.
But yeah, we appreciate you.S thanks for calling. Yeah, no
problem, thank you. Hey you'rewhat do you think? Hey, what's
(11:52):
going on? Man? What's happening? So I'm kind of pulled by hearing
what the hell I'm sorry for ifI curse, Just kind of a pall
to hear what she had to say. I personally think pedophiles belong in a
damn electric chair. There are piecesof crap they don't belong to her.
And do you have this, lady. Love is love, Yeah, love
(12:13):
is love, But you can't havea damn adult having any kind of relations
with a child. Yeah, that'sjust completely wrong and to advocate for it
as if it's like just okay,yeah, like it's normal. Yeah,
it's I really with two of mybuddies right now, we're just like glued
to it, like why is thislady talking like that? And man,
and you know, in our situation, we don't really ever want to give
(12:37):
somebody the platform to, you know, to even down she's she's talking about
it. And what's crazy is asa community and imagine if somebody hears it
and feels like they agree with herthat community, that's crazy. It's absolutely
insane. And I don't know whatshe's on, what she's what she's drinking,
(13:01):
but she needs to stop immediately.Yeah, I don't want a bag
of that put her in jail.Hey, thanks for the call, man,
No problem, Begs. I meanthe lines are they're still full.
I I don't know how much moreenergy I can give this woman. But
you know, just know that asyou're listening to us, no, by
any means, that is not somethingthat the pedophilia is not something that we
(13:24):
support. We do not believe thatit couples in with the love is love
concept. Yeah, for our friendsin the LGBT plus community, I mean,
look, we We couldn't disagree morethat that the pedophiles should be somehow
aligned or there's some sort of parallelbetween the communities. So we thanks,
(13:46):
thanks for all your calls, andman, we gotta yeah. Here's here's
the music.
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