April 25, 2025 • 25 mins
Tara from Waldorf kicks things off with a hilarious “Take Your Kid to Work Day” moment 😂. More people weigh in on what their last meal would be. Then, we feel all the feels hearing how a Fairfax middle school is rewarding kindness 🫶. Plus, listeners call in to share the red flags they ignored... and are so glad they did 🚩❤️.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Why shout out, there's always a reason to feel good
on a Friday morning. Why because it's Friday and you've
made it this far, get through today, and the weekend
is here, And that's why I'm feeling good this morning, Chili.
But I think you're probably feeling good for other reasons altogether.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You know, in since nineteen ninety six, I've been driving
to this area from Tyson's Corner for work, and this
is the first time I have been part of a
beltway shut down, not for construction, but for a tractor
trailer accident. And I'm grateful that I was able to
make it in time to get ready for the show
this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
So, yeah, I saw your text this morning, and I
go I thought about responding with something quip and funny,
but then I said, no, let's just let that go,
Just just let her do her thing.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
I was giving a heads up to both producer Taylor
Shay and to Toby because I honestly didn't it are
even an hour and they were saying that they had
no eta on when they'd reopen the lanes, and I
was stuck. I couldn't go anywhere, and I was like, hey,
you may have to start without me. Yeah, I don't know.
I mean, it seems crazy that I would still be
here three or four hours, But you never know around
(01:15):
the DC area, no, you never know. No, but no,
I gotta know.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Between ninety five, the Beltway, the construction at the Legion Bridge,
the moving construction zones and whatnot, you could encounter anything
at any given time. And then you throw an accident
into the mix and it takes everything in mix. It
just go sideways. So I'm glad you're here too, because
it's Friday. You've made it, and yes, you know, we
would have carried on until you showed up, but you know,
(01:42):
it is what it is, and I'm glad that you've
made it through. And hopefully you're not stuck in anything
that's residual, because I did hear that. It's still a
situation and you're moving slow and it's probably gonna take
you about an hour. So if you've got to come
to the Moco side of the Legion Bridge from over Tyson's,
you might want to get going earlier rather than later,
(02:03):
you know. Yeah, anyway, there's always reason to feel good.
It's Friday. Why are you feeling all right today? Eight
sixty six nineteen seven forty three sixty one. That is
the number we've got. The news coming up. Top Stories
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Speaker 3 (02:18):
A DC Council bill proposes doubling the reward for tips
in homicide cases.
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All right, stay there for the news.
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Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
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blocked parts of a Trump executive order on election rules,
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and the States. The FBI is investigating the discovery of
a white powder that was sent in a letter to
(02:51):
the Department of Homeland Security postal facility in Capitol Heights
yesterday morning. The facility was secured as multiple agencies were
or to identify that material. West Potomac High School in
Alexandria is now the latest Fairfax County high school to
see a new weapons detection system in action. The open
gate screeners are part of a pilot program, and yesterday
(03:13):
morning's installation at the school comes ahead of schedule just
a day after a stabbing incident there. A DC Council
bill proposes doubling the reward for tips and homicide cases.
It'll go from twenty five thousand dollars to fifty thousand dollars.
Both US Attorney's Office and the Mayor's Office, though oppose it.
They say that they have concerns over unreliable testimony and
(03:37):
potential budget cuts. Employees of a charter bus company in
Hyattsville officially went on strike yesterday after their union called
out the company for unfair labor practices and bad faith bargaining.
Mart's Goldline operates several commuter bus services in Maryland and
also charter buses, And finally, McDonald's revealed yesterday it's bringing
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back its eagerly and it's a pated chicken strips after
a five year hiatus. Starting May fifth, the chain will
start selling make Crispy strips, which are all white chicken
tenders coated in crispy golden brown breading. Forecast today another
nice mild day, partly Sonny eighty. The high chance of
showers tonight right now, though it is fifty one in restin.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
If you're stuck in a Beltway traffic. Maybe you're having
some sort of a morning. It's been one of those
mornings for some people. We can help you, we think,
with a quote that'll get you into a better morning mindset.
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Stay there.
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You might want to hear this, you might need to
hear this is on the way every weekday morning, right
around this time with Toby and Chilly in the morning
here in ninety seven point one Watch FM, we stop
and we talk about you and your headspace.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
We call this your morning mindset.
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Is where we share a quote to get you into
a good mindset as you start your day.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
And since today starts a best of the eighties weekend,
we'll keep in that theme because there there's real power
and lyrics.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
You know what I mean.
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Everybody wants to rule the world. Tears for Fears. It's
a song from the eighties. You might have heard it before,
No doubt you'll hear it probably this weekend here on
ninety seven point one WASHFM. So what does that mean
to you? Well, it means that everyone wants to shape
the world around them right. But true strength comes from
mastering your own world. First, take charge of your choices today,
(05:25):
because the real power lies in how you respond to
life's challenges. Everybody wants to rule the world. Tears for Fears.
It's more than a song, it's a mantra for life.
How are you going to respond to what life brings
your way? Start by taking charge of what you choose
to do. That's your morning mindset for this Friday. If
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or myself and we'll be happy to send it your way.
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And you can find our emails online as well.
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Day with Toby and Chilly in the morning because coming
up in just minutes yesterday was take your Kids to
Work Day chilling.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Yes and we were talking about how you know, what
you hope your kids learn from that experience, and Tara
in Waldorf is calling. It's called this this morning and
she wants to share.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Wait till you hear this story in just minute. What
did your kids learn during take your Kids to Work Day?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Yesterday?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's ninety seven point one watch FM Toby and Chilly
in the Morning. We were talking about this yesterday. Tara
from Waldorf I understand your daughter learned something pretty fascinating
about mom.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
This was years ago when my daughter was either in
eighth grade or freshman year of high school. I can't
remember exactly which, but I took her to work because
she begged me, and there wasn't a whole lot at
work that I could show her that because of safety
reasons or you know, other hazards. So I was taking
around to some of the things that I could, and
(06:54):
one was a sewage treatment plant. So she was interested
in science and chemistry, so I was like, okay. I
arranged for one of the plants engineers to walk her
through the whole process, what things, you know, what happened
and where, and I thought, oh, this is cool, she'll
really like it. But I also had a lot of
meetings that day that she ended up tagging along with
me too. And at the end of the day I
(07:15):
asked her, I said, so, what did you think it about?
Did you like the you know, going through the plant
and everything, And she goes, Mom, you talk a lot
at work.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
That's what you got out of My daughter is.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Stilled my job. Okay, I talk a lot.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Wow, that's all that And that's all she got from
it that mom talks a lot at work.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Yes, sounds like she had a very insightful day your daughter.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Now, when everybody asked me what do I do for
a living, I said, I talk.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Apparently ironically, that's exactly what Toby and I truly do
every day. We just talk. We just talk at work
and I love you guys.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Well, we love you too, Tara.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Thank you for calling this morning to tell us a
story about to take your kids to work day from
your own personal life.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
And for the record, we don't think that's all you
do at work.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Tarah, Toby and Chilly in the morning.
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Federal judge blocked parts of President Trump's election order, ruling
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power lies with Congress and the States. However, a provision
threatening funding cuts over mail in ballot deadlines was allowed
to stand. Metro is shifting focus from costly rail expansions
(08:31):
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more bus only lanes, and also launching a redesigned bus
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(08:53):
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Center has defaulted on a two hundred and thirty five
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picked Oregon offensive tackle Josh Connery junior, twenty ninth overall
(09:18):
in the NFL draft last night. He is expected to
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state of Maryland, deadly crashes apparently are up more than
forty percent compared to this time last year. Officials say
that distracted driving is one of the biggest issues, and
Maryland has already seen one hundred sixty seven deadly accidents
(09:42):
since the beginning of the year. And according to a
recent survey, sixty four percent of Americans are more stressed
about running out of money in their golden years than
they are about dying. Sixty two percent admit they are
not saving as much for retirement as they'd like. Forecast
today partly sunny, sky highs around eighty, although there is
(10:02):
a chance with some rain tonight. Right now fifty in resting.
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All right, got Toby and Chilly in the morning. It's
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next we were talking yesterday about what you would want
your last meal to be. There's some study out I
guess they asked people in Virginia and in Maryland what
they would want for it to be. Well, we'll tell
you just in case you missed it. And then Nikki
(10:26):
wants to chime in, and she did on talkback. Well
hear what she has to say. And by the way,
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want to. In case you has said yesterday with Toby
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and Chilly in the morning here on ninety seven point
one wash chefn, we were talking about what you would
want for your last meal?
Speaker 3 (10:55):
And it's because they did a study and folks in
Maryland the overwhelming answer, who has potatoes and in Virginia pasta?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Well, I mean, I guess Virginia is not that far away.
If I had to have a last meal, it wouldn't
be potatoes, although I do like potatoes, but not for
the last meal.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Interesting.
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Well, Chili and I had a very robust conversation about it.
You can hear the conversation on the Toby and chilipage
at waschfm dot com when you check out our podcast.
But Nikki left us a talkback message. It's real easy
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the microphone and you speak out. Here's what she had
to say about her last meal.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
My last meal would probably be a steak that's well done,
smothered in salt, haid, mushrooms and onions with shrimp scampy
on the side.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
That sounds really good right.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Now, smothered my well done goodness? Wow?
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Yeah, not even mooning. You want that steak cooked well? Nikki,
Thank you for a chiming in via talkback to let
us know what you would want your last meal to be.
And by the way, anything is better than potatoes.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Unless they're mashed. Well yeah, no, the potatoes would go
well with the stage.
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Kelby and Kelly's nearly impossible.
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Question Question four Friday.
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Is this occurs roughly four point seven billion times a
day around the world. What is it? And here's a hint.
You usually use your phone to do it. M Wow,
that's a good hint.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Yeah.
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Well, considering that numbers four point seven billion times.
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Daily around the world. Wow. So the question again and
its entirety is this.
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Occurs roughly four point seven billion times a day around
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We've got tickets to Jerry Seinfeld at the haul It
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Did you say Jerry Seinfeld? Yeah, He's coming to down
Monday six twenty five, after the weekend.
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Be here. The news is on the way. Next Touch Stories.
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Hop story top of the hour.
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The White House is asking the Supreme Court to reinstate
it's transgender military ban, arguing that a lower court's injunction
oversteps presidential authorities. Commander in Chief a Defense Secretary, Pete
Hegseth reportedly used the Signal messaging app on a personal
computer in his office to connect to the Internet on
(15:14):
an unsecured commercial line. Now, the line did not have
any firewall protection, which made it susceptible to being hacked
or monitored. The FBI is investigating the discovery of a
white powder in a letter that was sent to the
Department of Homeland Securities post a law facility in Capital
Heights yesterday morning. The facility was secured as multiple agencies
(15:36):
worked to identify that material. West Potomac High School in
Alexandria is the latest Fairfax County school to see a
new weapons detection system in action. The new open gate
screeners are part of a pilot program this year. Well
yesterday morning's installation of the screeners at West Potomac came
ahead of its schedule. It was just a day after
(15:58):
the stabbing incident there. A DC Council bill proposes doubling
the reward for tips and homicide cases from twenty five
thousand dollars to fifty thousand dollars. Both the US Attorney's
Office and the Mayor's office, though oppose it, citing concerns
over unreliable testimony and potential budget cuts. And according to
eight recent survey, sixty five percent of married Americans say
(16:21):
they're more romantic when they're on vacation, and eighty two
percent say that a trip with their partner can reignite
the spark. Forecast today Bartley sunny skies highs around eighty
right now fifty in Arlington coming.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Up in just minutes with Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Did you hear about this? Fairfax County Middle School. They're
having a ride up situation. Kids getting written up big
time for a great reason. The reason will make you
feel good on a Friday. We'll tell you this story
that'll bring you all the fields coming up in just minutes.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
Stay there, it's next. It's Friday morning, and.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Around here we feel like maybe you need to feel
all the fields. That's why we've got your feel good
Friday story right now from Kilmer Middle School in Vienna, Virginia,
home of Chiliam Arm.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
That's right. They've come up a very creative and impactful
way to celebrate students' good behaviors.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
It's ninety seven point one. Watch FM Toby and Chilia
in the morning. The kids are getting written up for
being positive. That's why they call it the Positive Referral Program.
They don't focus on bad ride ups. They focus on
the good ones, students who demonstrate kindness, who are helpful,
who are good citizens. At Kilmer Middle School, these positive
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actions don't go unnoticed.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
So when a student receives one of these positive referrals,
their achievement is then written on a very colorful card
and it's displayed on the cafeteria windows for the entire
school to see it's a way to be publicly recognized
for their good behavior.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
And it's been a huge success. Over fourteen hundred positive
referrals have been handed out so far since the beginning
of the program.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Oh yeah, and here's what their principal, Stephen McFarlane has
to say. Words and actions matter.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
If we're able to take that time to just pat
someone on the back to say you're doing the right thing,
that's going to pay dividends more than we can ever quantify.
And those dividends are fabulous. Thank you, mister principal, and
thank you for this program that has made a difference
at the school. It's the kind of story that makes
us feel good on a Friday. That's why we wanted
to share.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
And you can find out more about that or share
your own feel good story with us on the Toby
and Chili page at waschefm dot com.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
On the Way with Toby and Chili in the morning,
we're talking about red flags and relationships, particularly the kind
of red flags you're glad you ignored age sixty six,
ninet two seven forty three sixty one. If you want
to get into the conversation we're talking about it coming up.
There ever been a time where you ignored a relationship?
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Red flag?
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Toby and Chile in the morning ninety seven point one
WASCHEFMS eight six six nine two seven forty three sixty one.
You've been facing it, Dilima lately, Chilli.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
I met my friend's boyfriend for the first time. They've
been together for a few months, and I guess, to
simplify it, Toby, I didn't love the way he was
talking to her during our group date, and to me,
that's a red flag, and if she ignores it, that
could be problematic. Of course, it's her business whether she
(19:27):
chooses to look the other way or not.
Speaker 6 (19:29):
Right.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Can you think of a time ever in your personal
life that ignoring a red flag was a good thing?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
More often than not, I've been the red flag and
I'm thankful that these other people have ignored them.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Oh wow, I have a wall full.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Of red flags, Chili, and I'm glad people ignore them
good And I'm sure there are people who are like
some of those who have come across my path as paramours,
who have ignored red flags. Has there been a relationship
red flag you are glad that you ignored? Oxen Hill,
Ricky what's up?
Speaker 6 (20:02):
You know, to say that the apple doesn't fall too
fall from the tree. The mom of a girl I
was dating.
Speaker 5 (20:09):
That was very aggressive and low and up said a lot.
Speaker 6 (20:13):
And if I had taken that rire flag and left
that person, I would have left the love of my
life at the time.
Speaker 4 (20:20):
Ricky, thank you this morning.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
That's good advice, because I would not want my son's
future spouse to judge him based on Mike crazy.
Speaker 4 (20:27):
You shouldn't judge another by the mother. That's right, that's right.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Eight sixty six, ninet two, seven forty three sixty one.
What was the relationship? Red flag?
Speaker 4 (20:38):
You ignore? To tell us all about it?
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Tap to talk back microphone if you want to jump
into the conversation and you're listening on your iHeart app
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Speaker 4 (20:47):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
If you're signed in taps, speak and send. We look
forward to hearing from you and we'll talk about This
is Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues, but first
the news Top stories at the top of the hour.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Coming up, Top story top of the hour.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
Three federal judges have temporarily blocked the Trump administration from
withholding funds from schools with DEI program saying the term
was not clearly defined. Meanwhile, federal judge block parts of
the president's election order, ruling that he cannot require proof
of citizenship for federal voters and that power lies with
Congress and states. A woman is facing charges in Prince
(21:24):
William County after allegedly making a bomb threat during an
argument at Potomac Middle School in Dumfries. Investigators say Candice
Logan was arguing with employees when she threatened to bomb
the school, then walked away. Montgomery County Executive Mark Elrich
has proposed raising the county's income tax rate from three
point two percent to three point three percent to fully
(21:46):
fund the three point six billion dollar budget for schools
in fiscal year twenty twenty six. This increase aims to
avoid a proposed property tax hike and prevent cuts to
essential services. Metro is shifting focus from costly rail expansions
to just enhancing their bus services. Plans include increasing bus frequency,
(22:10):
adding more bus only lanes, and also launching a redesigned
bus network in June. Open burning is going to be
banned in Loudon County starting May first to September thirtieth.
Now this ban applies to all open air fires, except
for small campfires and those portable outdoor fireplaces. And DC
(22:31):
police are urging residents to join National Prescription Drug take
Back Day taking place tomorrow. Thirteen. Drop off sites will
open from ten am to two pm for safe disposal
of unused medications. You can find details on the DEA's website.
Forecasts for today another lovely, mild, warm day, actually Parley sunny,
(22:55):
highs around eighty right now, fifty one in Bethesda.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
All right, coming up, Toby and Chilly in the morning, continues,
you need to stay with us.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
And why is that?
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Well, because we're going to talk about red flags that
you ignored, and everybody probably has a red flag that
they've ignored, So why don't you call us and join
the conversation eight sixty six ninet two, seven forty three
sixty one Talk Back Mike works too. If you're signed
into your iHeart app Tap Speaks, send us your message.
(23:24):
Tell us about that red flag. Your friends were calling
it out, but she said, nah, I got this. What
happened next? There ever been a time where you ignored
a relationship?
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Red flag?
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Toby and Chilly in the Morning, ninety seven point one
Wash FM thoughts eight six six nine two seven forty
three sixty one. You've been facing a dilima lately, Chilly.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
I met my friend's boyfriend for the first time. They've
been together for a few months, and I guess, to
simplify it, Toby, I didn't love the way he was
talking to her during our group date. M to me,
that's a red flag, and if she ignores it, that
could be problematic. Of course, it's her business whether she
(24:07):
chooses to look the other way or not.
Speaker 4 (24:10):
Right.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Can you think of a time ever in your personal
life that ignoring a red flag was a good thing?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
More often than not, I've been the red flag and
I'm thankful that these other people have ignored them.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
Oh wow, I have a wall full of.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Red flags, Chilli, and I'm glad people ignore them good
And I'm sure there are people who are like some
of those who have come across my path as paramours
who have ignored red flags. Has there been a relationship
red flag you are glad that you ignored in Oxen Hill, Ricky,
what's up? Well?
Speaker 6 (24:43):
You know to say that the app does fall too
far from the tree. The mom of the girl I
was dating.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
That was the aggressive and now and up said a lot.
Speaker 6 (24:54):
And if I had taken that red flag and left
that person, I would have left the love of my
life at the time.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
Ricky, thank you this morning.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
That's good advice because I would not want my son's
future spouse to judge him based on Mike crazy.
Speaker 4 (25:08):
You shouldn't judge another by the mother. That's right. That's right.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
Eight six six, ninet two, seven forty three sixty one.
What was the relationship red flag? You ignore? Tell us
all about a tap to talk back microphone if you
want to jump into the conversation and you're listening on
your iHeart app where you've got us as preset number one.
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Thank you.
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If you're signed in taps speak and send. We look
forward to hearing from you and we'll talk about this
is Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues, but first
the news top stories at the top of the.
Speaker 4 (25:39):
Hour coming up.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
What more, Toby and Jilly head over to washupn dot
com or the iHeartRadio app.
Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Why shout out, there's always a reason to feel good
on a Friday morning. Why because it's Friday and you've
made it this far, get through today, and the weekend
is here, And that's why I'm feeling good this morning, Chili.
But I think you're probably feeling good for other reasons altogether.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You know, in since nineteen ninety six, I've been driving
to this area from Tyson's Corner for work, and this
is the first time I have been part of a
beltway shut down, not for construction, but for a tractor
trailer accident. And I'm grateful that I was able to
make it in time to get ready for the show
this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
So, yeah, I saw your text this morning, and I
go I thought about responding with something quip and funny,
but then I said, no, let's just let that go,
Just just let her do her thing.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
I was giving a heads up to both producer Taylor
Shay and to Toby because I honestly didn't it are
even an hour and they were saying that they had
no eta on when they'd reopen the lanes, and I
was stuck. I couldn't go anywhere, and I was like, hey,
you may have to start without me. Yeah, I don't know.
I mean, it seems crazy that I would still be
here three or four hours, But you never know around
(01:15):
the DC area, no, you never know. No, but no,
I gotta know.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Between ninety five, the Beltway, the construction at the Legion Bridge,
the moving construction zones and whatnot, you could encounter anything
at any given time. And then you throw an accident
into the mix and it takes everything in mix. It
just go sideways. So I'm glad you're here too, because
it's Friday. You've made it, and yes, you know, we
would have carried on until you showed up, but you know,
(01:42):
it is what it is, and I'm glad that you've
made it through. And hopefully you're not stuck in anything
that's residual, because I did hear that. It's still a
situation and you're moving slow and it's probably gonna take
you about an hour. So if you've got to come
to the Moco side of the Legion Bridge from over Tyson's,
you might want to get going earlier rather than later,
(02:03):
you know. Yeah, anyway, there's always reason to feel good.
It's Friday. Why are you feeling all right today? Eight
sixty six nineteen seven forty three sixty one. That is
the number we've got. The news coming up. Top Stories
at the top of the hour, Tilly, what's working on?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
A DC Council bill proposes doubling the reward for tips
in homicide cases.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
All right, stay there for the news.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Top Stories presented by Celsius Energy Drinks. A federal judges
blocked parts of a Trump executive order on election rules,
ruling that he lacks the authority to require proof of
citizenship for federal voters. That's a power held by Congress
and the States. The FBI is investigating the discovery of
a white powder that was sent in a letter to
(02:51):
the Department of Homeland Security postal facility in Capitol Heights
yesterday morning. The facility was secured as multiple agencies were
or to identify that material. West Potomac High School in
Alexandria is now the latest Fairfax County high school to
see a new weapons detection system in action. The open
gate screeners are part of a pilot program, and yesterday
(03:13):
morning's installation at the school comes ahead of schedule just
a day after a stabbing incident there. A DC Council
bill proposes doubling the reward for tips and homicide cases.
It'll go from twenty five thousand dollars to fifty thousand dollars.
Both US Attorney's Office and the Mayor's Office, though oppose it.
They say that they have concerns over unreliable testimony and
(03:37):
potential budget cuts. Employees of a charter bus company in
Hyattsville officially went on strike yesterday after their union called
out the company for unfair labor practices and bad faith bargaining.
Mart's Goldline operates several commuter bus services in Maryland and
also charter buses, And finally, McDonald's revealed yesterday it's bringing
(03:58):
back its eagerly and it's a pated chicken strips after
a five year hiatus. Starting May fifth, the chain will
start selling make Crispy strips, which are all white chicken
tenders coated in crispy golden brown breading. Forecast today another
nice mild day, partly Sonny eighty. The high chance of
showers tonight right now, though it is fifty one in restin.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
If you're stuck in a Beltway traffic. Maybe you're having
some sort of a morning. It's been one of those
mornings for some people. We can help you, we think,
with a quote that'll get you into a better morning mindset.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Stay there.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
You might want to hear this, you might need to
hear this is on the way every weekday morning, right
around this time with Toby and Chilly in the morning
here in ninety seven point one Watch FM, we stop
and we talk about you and your headspace.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
We call this your morning mindset.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Is where we share a quote to get you into
a good mindset as you start your day.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
And since today starts a best of the eighties weekend,
we'll keep in that theme because there there's real power
and lyrics.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Everybody wants to rule the world. Tears for Fears. It's
a song from the eighties. You might have heard it before,
No doubt you'll hear it probably this weekend here on
ninety seven point one WASHFM. So what does that mean
to you? Well, it means that everyone wants to shape
the world around them right. But true strength comes from
mastering your own world. First, take charge of your choices today,
(05:25):
because the real power lies in how you respond to
life's challenges. Everybody wants to rule the world. Tears for Fears.
It's more than a song, it's a mantra for life.
How are you going to respond to what life brings
your way? Start by taking charge of what you choose
to do. That's your morning mindset for this Friday. If
(05:47):
it helped, you can find it and share it with
somebody who might need it. Till we get chilipage to
washfm dot com or just reach out directly to Chili
or myself and we'll be happy to send it your way.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
And you can find our emails online as well.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Day with Toby and Chilly in the morning because coming
up in just minutes yesterday was take your Kids to
Work Day chilling.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Yes and we were talking about how you know, what
you hope your kids learn from that experience, and Tara
in Waldorf is calling. It's called this this morning and
she wants to share.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Wait till you hear this story in just minute. What
did your kids learn during take your Kids to Work Day?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Yesterday?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's ninety seven point one watch FM Toby and Chilly
in the Morning. We were talking about this yesterday. Tara
from Waldorf I understand your daughter learned something pretty fascinating
about mom.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
This was years ago when my daughter was either in
eighth grade or freshman year of high school. I can't
remember exactly which, but I took her to work because
she begged me, and there wasn't a whole lot at
work that I could show her that because of safety
reasons or you know, other hazards. So I was taking
around to some of the things that I could, and
(06:54):
one was a sewage treatment plant. So she was interested
in science and chemistry, so I was like, okay. I
arranged for one of the plants engineers to walk her
through the whole process, what things, you know, what happened
and where, and I thought, oh, this is cool, she'll
really like it. But I also had a lot of
meetings that day that she ended up tagging along with
me too. And at the end of the day I
(07:15):
asked her, I said, so, what did you think it about?
Did you like the you know, going through the plant
and everything, And she goes, Mom, you talk a lot
at work.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
That's what you got out of My daughter is.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Stilled my job. Okay, I talk a lot.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Wow, that's all that And that's all she got from
it that mom talks a lot at work.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Yes, sounds like she had a very insightful day your daughter.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Now, when everybody asked me what do I do for
a living, I said, I talk.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Apparently ironically, that's exactly what Toby and I truly do
every day. We just talk. We just talk at work
and I love you guys.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Well, we love you too, Tara.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Thank you for calling this morning to tell us a
story about to take your kids to work day from
your own personal life.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
And for the record, we don't think that's all you
do at work.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Tarah, Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
It's ninety seven point one WASH FM, The News on
the Way in minutes, Top Stories at the top of
the hour.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Top Stories Top of the hour.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Federal judge blocked parts of President Trump's election order, ruling
he cannot require proof of citizenship for federal voters that
power lies with Congress and the States. However, a provision
threatening funding cuts over mail in ballot deadlines was allowed
to stand. Metro is shifting focus from costly rail expansions
(08:31):
to enhancing bus services. Plans include increasing bus frequency, adding
more bus only lanes, and also launching a redesigned bus
network in June. Open burning is going to be banned
in Loudon County from May first to September thirtieth. This
ban applies to all open fires, except for small campfires
(08:53):
and portable outdoor fireplaces. The owner of Westfield Wheaton Shopping
Center has defaulted on a two hundred and thirty five
million dollar loan that is tied to the property, and
if a refie deal is not struck well, then Westfield
will likely have to sell the property. The Washington Commanders
picked Oregon offensive tackle Josh Connery junior, twenty ninth overall
(09:18):
in the NFL draft last night. He is expected to
strengthen the line protecting QB Jaden Daniels. Now in the
state of Maryland, deadly crashes apparently are up more than
forty percent compared to this time last year. Officials say
that distracted driving is one of the biggest issues, and
Maryland has already seen one hundred sixty seven deadly accidents
(09:42):
since the beginning of the year. And according to a
recent survey, sixty four percent of Americans are more stressed
about running out of money in their golden years than
they are about dying. Sixty two percent admit they are
not saving as much for retirement as they'd like. Forecast
today partly sunny, sky highs around eighty, although there is
(10:02):
a chance with some rain tonight. Right now fifty in resting.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
All right, got Toby and Chilly in the morning. It's
ninety seven point one wash chef n. You get the
news top stories at the top of the hour. And
next we were talking yesterday about what you would want
your last meal to be. There's some study out I
guess they asked people in Virginia and in Maryland what
they would want for it to be. Well, we'll tell
you just in case you missed it. And then Nikki
(10:26):
wants to chime in, and she did on talkback. Well
hear what she has to say. And by the way,
if you want to send us some message via talkback,
just make sure you're signed into your iHeart app, tap
the microphone, speak and send and your voice note comes
right here in the studio. Can also call eight sixty
six nine two seven forty three sixty one if you
want to. In case you has said yesterday with Toby
(10:48):
and Chilly in the morning here on ninety seven point
one wash chefn, we were talking about what you would
want for your last meal?
Speaker 3 (10:55):
And it's because they did a study and folks in
Maryland the overwhelming answer, who has potatoes and in Virginia pasta?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Well, I mean, I guess Virginia is not that far away.
If I had to have a last meal, it wouldn't
be potatoes, although I do like potatoes, but not for
the last meal.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Interesting.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Well, Chili and I had a very robust conversation about it.
You can hear the conversation on the Toby and chilipage
at waschfm dot com when you check out our podcast.
But Nikki left us a talkback message. It's real easy
for you to use talkback if you have your iHeartRadio
app and you're signed in, it's free. You just tap
the microphone and you speak out. Here's what she had
to say about her last meal.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
My last meal would probably be a steak that's well done,
smothered in salt, haid, mushrooms and onions with shrimp scampy
on the side.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
That sounds really good right.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Now, smothered my well done goodness? Wow?
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Yeah, not even mooning. You want that steak cooked well? Nikki,
Thank you for a chiming in via talkback to let
us know what you would want your last meal to be.
And by the way, anything is better than potatoes.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Unless they're mashed. Well yeah, no, the potatoes would go
well with the stage.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Kelby and Kelly's nearly impossible.
Speaker 4 (12:10):
Question Question four Friday.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Is this occurs roughly four point seven billion times a
day around the world. What is it? And here's a hint.
You usually use your phone to do it. M Wow,
that's a good hint.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Well, considering that numbers four point seven billion times.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
Daily around the world. Wow. So the question again and
its entirety is this.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
Occurs roughly four point seven billion times a day around
the world. What is it?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
If you know the answer, call eight sixty six ninety
seven forty three sixty one right now. Tickets kids, Bob
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If you want the tickets, you've got the question. Give
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(13:05):
in case somebody might have missed it, would be.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
This occurs roughly four point seven billion times a day.
Around the world. What is it, Kids Bob coming to
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Thanks to Live Nation, we can get you and the
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Speaker 4 (13:20):
It would bind. Hello, Chanelle, how are you on this Friday?
Speaker 5 (13:24):
I am doing wonderful.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
How are you really good? Thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
I'm glad it's Friday, because God knows we all need
the break.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Hello, what is your guest?
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Take a picture?
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Take a picture?
Speaker 2 (13:37):
How many pictures would you say you take with your
mobile device?
Speaker 6 (13:40):
Oh my goodness, listen, I'm not putting my business out.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
There like probably half it in four point seven million.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
Oh so I means you you definitely do a lot
of snapping this and that and the other.
Speaker 4 (13:51):
Oh yeah, gotta capture the moment.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
You are quite the photographer, and you also have the
right answer. Congratulations, look it down on Friday. That's right,
tickets Kids Bop, You're going to the show? Congratulations.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
Wow, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
I'm here with my daughter.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
We're so excited.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Oh well, tell your daughter hi for us, and congratulations
to her too, because she's gonna go see Kids Mop
with you.
Speaker 5 (14:20):
It's thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
You're welcome and enjoy the show. Thank you for listening
to Toby and Chilly in the morning here at ninety
seven point one Wash FM. Now hang on that line
so we can get some information from you, and next
week make sure you listen to play and win with
your nearly impossible question.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
We've got tickets to Jerry Seinfeld at the haul It
Live for November First.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Did you say Jerry Seinfeld? Yeah, He's coming to down
Monday six twenty five, after the weekend.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
Be here. The news is on the way. Next Touch Stories.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Hop story top of the hour.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
The White House is asking the Supreme Court to reinstate
it's transgender military ban, arguing that a lower court's injunction
oversteps presidential authorities. Commander in Chief a Defense Secretary, Pete
Hegseth reportedly used the Signal messaging app on a personal
computer in his office to connect to the Internet on
(15:14):
an unsecured commercial line. Now, the line did not have
any firewall protection, which made it susceptible to being hacked
or monitored. The FBI is investigating the discovery of a
white powder in a letter that was sent to the
Department of Homeland Securities post a law facility in Capital
Heights yesterday morning. The facility was secured as multiple agencies
(15:36):
worked to identify that material. West Potomac High School in
Alexandria is the latest Fairfax County school to see a
new weapons detection system in action. The new open gate
screeners are part of a pilot program this year. Well
yesterday morning's installation of the screeners at West Potomac came
ahead of its schedule. It was just a day after
(15:58):
the stabbing incident there. A DC Council bill proposes doubling
the reward for tips and homicide cases from twenty five
thousand dollars to fifty thousand dollars. Both the US Attorney's
Office and the Mayor's office, though oppose it, citing concerns
over unreliable testimony and potential budget cuts. And according to
eight recent survey, sixty five percent of married Americans say
(16:21):
they're more romantic when they're on vacation, and eighty two
percent say that a trip with their partner can reignite
the spark. Forecast today Bartley sunny skies highs around eighty
right now fifty in Arlington coming.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Up in just minutes with Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Did you hear about this? Fairfax County Middle School. They're
having a ride up situation. Kids getting written up big
time for a great reason. The reason will make you
feel good on a Friday. We'll tell you this story
that'll bring you all the fields coming up in just minutes.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
Stay there, it's next. It's Friday morning, and.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Around here we feel like maybe you need to feel
all the fields. That's why we've got your feel good
Friday story right now from Kilmer Middle School in Vienna, Virginia,
home of Chiliam Arm.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
That's right. They've come up a very creative and impactful
way to celebrate students' good behaviors.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
It's ninety seven point one. Watch FM Toby and Chilia
in the morning. The kids are getting written up for
being positive. That's why they call it the Positive Referral Program.
They don't focus on bad ride ups. They focus on
the good ones, students who demonstrate kindness, who are helpful,
who are good citizens. At Kilmer Middle School, these positive
(17:36):
actions don't go unnoticed.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
So when a student receives one of these positive referrals,
their achievement is then written on a very colorful card
and it's displayed on the cafeteria windows for the entire
school to see it's a way to be publicly recognized
for their good behavior.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
And it's been a huge success. Over fourteen hundred positive
referrals have been handed out so far since the beginning
of the program.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Oh yeah, and here's what their principal, Stephen McFarlane has
to say. Words and actions matter.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
If we're able to take that time to just pat
someone on the back to say you're doing the right thing,
that's going to pay dividends more than we can ever quantify.
And those dividends are fabulous. Thank you, mister principal, and
thank you for this program that has made a difference
at the school. It's the kind of story that makes
us feel good on a Friday. That's why we wanted
to share.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
And you can find out more about that or share
your own feel good story with us on the Toby
and Chili page at waschefm dot com.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
On the Way with Toby and Chili in the morning,
we're talking about red flags and relationships, particularly the kind
of red flags you're glad you ignored age sixty six,
ninet two seven forty three sixty one. If you want
to get into the conversation we're talking about it coming up.
There ever been a time where you ignored a relationship?
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Red flag?
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Toby and Chile in the morning ninety seven point one
WASCHEFMS eight six six nine two seven forty three sixty one.
You've been facing it, Dilima lately, Chilli.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
I met my friend's boyfriend for the first time. They've
been together for a few months, and I guess, to
simplify it, Toby, I didn't love the way he was
talking to her during our group date, and to me,
that's a red flag, and if she ignores it, that
could be problematic. Of course, it's her business whether she
(19:27):
chooses to look the other way or not.
Speaker 6 (19:29):
Right.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Can you think of a time ever in your personal
life that ignoring a red flag was a good thing?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
More often than not, I've been the red flag and
I'm thankful that these other people have ignored them.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Oh wow, I have a wall full.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Of red flags, Chili, and I'm glad people ignore them
good And I'm sure there are people who are like
some of those who have come across my path as paramours,
who have ignored red flags. Has there been a relationship
red flag you are glad that you ignored? Oxen Hill,
Ricky what's up?
Speaker 6 (20:02):
You know, to say that the apple doesn't fall too
fall from the tree. The mom of a girl I
was dating.
Speaker 5 (20:09):
That was very aggressive and low and up said a lot.
Speaker 6 (20:13):
And if I had taken that rire flag and left
that person, I would have left the love of my
life at the time.
Speaker 4 (20:20):
Ricky, thank you this morning.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
That's good advice, because I would not want my son's
future spouse to judge him based on Mike crazy.
Speaker 4 (20:27):
You shouldn't judge another by the mother. That's right, that's right.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Eight sixty six, ninet two, seven forty three sixty one.
What was the relationship? Red flag?
Speaker 4 (20:38):
You ignore? To tell us all about it?
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Tap to talk back microphone if you want to jump
into the conversation and you're listening on your iHeart app
where you've got us as preset number one.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
If you're signed in taps, speak and send. We look
forward to hearing from you and we'll talk about This
is Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues, but first
the news Top stories at the top of the hour.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Coming up, Top story top of the hour.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
Three federal judges have temporarily blocked the Trump administration from
withholding funds from schools with DEI program saying the term
was not clearly defined. Meanwhile, federal judge block parts of
the president's election order, ruling that he cannot require proof
of citizenship for federal voters and that power lies with
Congress and states. A woman is facing charges in Prince
(21:24):
William County after allegedly making a bomb threat during an
argument at Potomac Middle School in Dumfries. Investigators say Candice
Logan was arguing with employees when she threatened to bomb
the school, then walked away. Montgomery County Executive Mark Elrich
has proposed raising the county's income tax rate from three
point two percent to three point three percent to fully
(21:46):
fund the three point six billion dollar budget for schools
in fiscal year twenty twenty six. This increase aims to
avoid a proposed property tax hike and prevent cuts to
essential services. Metro is shifting focus from costly rail expansions
to just enhancing their bus services. Plans include increasing bus frequency,
(22:10):
adding more bus only lanes, and also launching a redesigned
bus network in June. Open burning is going to be
banned in Loudon County starting May first to September thirtieth.
Now this ban applies to all open air fires, except
for small campfires and those portable outdoor fireplaces. And DC
(22:31):
police are urging residents to join National Prescription Drug take
Back Day taking place tomorrow. Thirteen. Drop off sites will
open from ten am to two pm for safe disposal
of unused medications. You can find details on the DEA's website.
Forecasts for today another lovely, mild, warm day, actually Parley sunny,
(22:55):
highs around eighty right now, fifty one in Bethesda.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
All right, coming up, Toby and Chilly in the morning, continues,
you need to stay with us.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
And why is that?
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Well, because we're going to talk about red flags that
you ignored, and everybody probably has a red flag that
they've ignored, So why don't you call us and join
the conversation eight sixty six ninet two, seven forty three
sixty one Talk Back Mike works too. If you're signed
into your iHeart app Tap Speaks, send us your message.
(23:24):
Tell us about that red flag. Your friends were calling
it out, but she said, nah, I got this. What
happened next? There ever been a time where you ignored
a relationship?
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Red flag?
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Toby and Chilly in the Morning, ninety seven point one
Wash FM thoughts eight six six nine two seven forty
three sixty one. You've been facing a dilima lately, Chilly.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
I met my friend's boyfriend for the first time. They've
been together for a few months, and I guess, to
simplify it, Toby, I didn't love the way he was
talking to her during our group date. M to me,
that's a red flag, and if she ignores it, that
could be problematic. Of course, it's her business whether she
(24:07):
chooses to look the other way or not.
Speaker 4 (24:10):
Right.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Can you think of a time ever in your personal
life that ignoring a red flag was a good thing?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
More often than not, I've been the red flag and
I'm thankful that these other people have ignored them.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
Oh wow, I have a wall full of.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Red flags, Chilli, and I'm glad people ignore them good
And I'm sure there are people who are like some
of those who have come across my path as paramours
who have ignored red flags. Has there been a relationship
red flag you are glad that you ignored in Oxen Hill, Ricky,
what's up? Well?
Speaker 6 (24:43):
You know to say that the app does fall too
far from the tree. The mom of the girl I
was dating.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
That was the aggressive and now and up said a lot.
Speaker 6 (24:54):
And if I had taken that red flag and left
that person, I would have left the love of my
life at the time.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
Ricky, thank you this morning.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
That's good advice because I would not want my son's
future spouse to judge him based on Mike crazy.
Speaker 4 (25:08):
You shouldn't judge another by the mother. That's right. That's right.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
Eight six six, ninet two, seven forty three sixty one.
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